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BRINGING H.E.A.L.I.N.G. IN THE CITY IN H.E.E.L.S.Stomping Out Domestic Violence · DA CREW Podcast

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  Speaker 1: Are you a domestic violence survivor or advocate? We need
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  Speaker 1: your voice to bring awareness. Will you stand with us
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  Speaker 1: grab your hour to come and amplify your voice during
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  Speaker 1: the twenty four hour Virtual Takeover. Come, allow your brand
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  Speaker 1: to speak, get heard.
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  Speaker 2: Scream the next thing I know. I see your window.
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  Speaker 3: Ladies and gentlemen, I have your attention.
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  Speaker 4: Please.
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  Speaker 3: The show starts in line eight seven, six, five, four
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  Speaker 3: three two.
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  Speaker 1: One Google Hello, Hello, Hello, Hello, and welcome, Welcome, Welcome.
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  Speaker 1: I am, of course, I am the visionary of the
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  Speaker 1: Crew High and today I wanted to jump on and
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  Speaker 1: share with you guys about our upcoming twenty four hour
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  Speaker 1: virtual takeover. So I want to take a moment. I'm
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  Speaker 1: going to be sharing this out in some of our
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  Speaker 1: platforms because I want to get this information out, because
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  Speaker 1: we want those that can and will come and share
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  Speaker 1: their journey, their story that that has allowed them to
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  Speaker 1: get through to help somebody else. We want them to
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  Speaker 1: come be a part of this virtual take over so
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  Speaker 1: that they can share their message. Because now all the
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  Speaker 1: time we take the opportunity to share those things that
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  Speaker 1: we have been through, those tests, those trials, those tribulations,
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  Speaker 1: know that we just didn't they just didn't come upon us.
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  Speaker 1: They We went through them because first he knew we
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  Speaker 1: were able to handle them, so that we were able
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  Speaker 1: to get through them, so that we can use them
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  Speaker 1: as stepping stones. We can use them as tea blocks,
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  Speaker 1: We can use them as lessons and advancements to help
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  Speaker 1: others that may go through what we are enduring, what
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  Speaker 1: we have endured, and what we yet to endure. Because
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  Speaker 1: the Word tells us that we're going to go through
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  Speaker 1: some things, we know that we're going to go through
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  Speaker 1: some things, so we have to prepare ourselves, and we
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  Speaker 1: prepare ourselves by doing these things here, by coming together,
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  Speaker 1: allowing our voices to speak. If you have been through something,
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  Speaker 1: know that you are not alone on that journey. Know
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  Speaker 1: that you are not the only person that has endured
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  Speaker 1: that you are the only person that has been through that. Y'all.
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  Speaker 1: I want to take a moment. I want to pull
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  Speaker 1: up this other site so that I can stream through
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  Speaker 1: this other side. I've been using substack. It's an amazing platform.
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  Speaker 1: If you guys are not using substat it is an
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  Speaker 1: amazing platform for writers and creatives. If you are a
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  Speaker 1: writer and a creative, it's not about likes it's not
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  Speaker 1: about follows, it's not about all that over there. But
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  Speaker 1: there is opportunities for you if you are someone that
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  Speaker 1: knows how to take advance of those opportunities. There's opportunities
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  Speaker 1: for you to utilize for the advancement of your brand
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  Speaker 1: and to possibly create another scream of income. Y'all know,
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  Speaker 1: that's what we do out here in these social media streets,
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  Speaker 1: all of us entrepreneurs. This is what we do on
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  Speaker 1: a constant basis. This is what we are supposed to do,
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  Speaker 1: and when we come across things, it is our duty
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  Speaker 1: to share it with somebody, to share it with the
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  Speaker 1: next person so that they too can walk in these things. Y'all.
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  Speaker 1: So I first wanted to I want to talk about
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  Speaker 1: our suicide awareness book, and I want to talk about well,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not supposed to say suicide. So our Unliven book
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  Speaker 1: it is a thirty day devotional where you can share
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  Speaker 1: your testimony if you are a survivor of an attempt,
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  Speaker 1: or if you have endured the loss of someone to Unliven,
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  Speaker 1: this is an opportunity for you to share that story,
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  Speaker 1: to share that journey. I am an attempt survivor, I
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  Speaker 1: along with twenty other individuals. We shared inside of book
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  Speaker 1: number one. It was a twenty day devotional, well twenty
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  Speaker 1: one day devotional when we just shared our journey. We
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  Speaker 1: shared our story and we applied the word of God.
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  Speaker 1: We applied scripture, We have applied affirmations, We applied those
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  Speaker 1: things that we utilize to get through that stage in
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  Speaker 1: our life. And these are things that we have to
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  Speaker 1: talk about because these are things that a lot of
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  Speaker 1: people do not like to talk about. These are things
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  Speaker 1: that we like to brush under the rug. These are
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  Speaker 1: things that you know, what happens in our homes, stay
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  Speaker 1: in our home type things that when we were little,
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  Speaker 1: Oh that's just Oh, that's just Uncle Johnny, that's just
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  Speaker 1: cousin Sally. That's just how they act, That's just how
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  Speaker 1: they are. No, those are mental issues. Those are things
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  Speaker 1: that need to be addressed so that we don't keep
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  Speaker 1: passing them down generation to generation to generation. And then
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  Speaker 1: a lot of us, we don't truly don't understand that
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  Speaker 1: a lot of the things, a lot of the trauma,
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  Speaker 1: a lot of the stuff that we endure, we we
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  Speaker 1: didn't we didn't physically indo it. We end it in
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  Speaker 1: the womb. We and we came into this world going
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  Speaker 1: through some stuff. You know, I've seen cases and I
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  Speaker 1: know someone personally that gave birth to a child and
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  Speaker 1: three days later that child was diagnosed as severe depression. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: a baby three days oh diagnosed as severe depressed. So
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  Speaker 1: this is very this happens. So when we are mothers
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  Speaker 1: and we are carrying these children, we have to understand
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  Speaker 1: that are environs and just like what we put in
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  Speaker 1: our bodies, that that reflects in our actions and what
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  Speaker 1: we put out that that reflects in how we look,
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  Speaker 1: how the energy that we have and all of that stuff.
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  Speaker 1: So just like that when we're putting into our body,
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  Speaker 1: you gotta think your baby's attached to you for nine months.
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  Speaker 1: So everything that you're ingesting, everything that you're taking in,
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  Speaker 1: everything that is coming over you, don't you think it
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  Speaker 1: has to affect the baby in some type of way.
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  Speaker 1: If our environment, if it affects if it affects us,
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  Speaker 1: then think about when you're carrying that baby and you
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  Speaker 1: as the environment, because you are the environment. You are
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  Speaker 1: the first contact that this child has to be outside world.
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  Speaker 1: So everything that affects you, everything that happens to you,
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  Speaker 1: it happens to the baby. So a lot of this
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  Speaker 1: stuff get pass on to our children, and we wonder
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  Speaker 1: why our babies act out, We wonder why our babies
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  Speaker 1: go through this, We wonder why this is happening, why
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  Speaker 1: this is happening, And as medical physicians and different people
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  Speaker 1: in the medical field, you know that they don't address
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  Speaker 1: it because it wasn't until what some years ago that
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  Speaker 1: they even started acknowledging that this was happening, that this
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  Speaker 1: was actually what was happening, and they began to really
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  Speaker 1: show different cases and different things where it was being proven.
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  Speaker 1: So I tell y'all again, I'm on live. I have
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  Speaker 1: my one of my co hosts. She's actually calling in,
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  Speaker 1: so y'all, let me see what she's talking about. We
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  Speaker 1: are on Hey, y'all, Hey, y'all, We're on TikTok, We're
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  Speaker 1: on Twitch YouTube. I was talking about our virtual conference.
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  Speaker 1: But y'all excuse me for a second, because I need
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  Speaker 1: to see how my host is doing. She actually, I
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  Speaker 1: think she traveled, so I needed to know. I actually
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  Speaker 1: text her and I didn't hear back from her, so
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  Speaker 1: I needed to know are you okay? Yes? Are you okay?
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  Speaker 4: Can you hear me?
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  Speaker 1: Yes? I can hear you, So tell everybody in video
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  Speaker 1: Land and TikTok Land, Facebook Land, YouTube Land, tell everybody Hello, Exploring.
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  Speaker 1: So we were just on here. I actually jumped on
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  Speaker 1: to talk about the twenty four hour Virtual Domestic Violence Conference. Well,
• 9:52
  Speaker 1: it's a takeover that we do. This is going to
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  Speaker 1: be the fifth year. I have been doing this since
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  Speaker 1: I think twenty twenty's when we first started. And I
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  Speaker 1: go live on the September thirtieth at eleven fifty nine,
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  Speaker 1: about twelve o'clock. I usually bring somebody on and they
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  Speaker 1: usually share, They usually do whatever they want to do.
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  Speaker 1: They get to take over for about forty five minutes
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  Speaker 1: because we always tell them to make sure we leave
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  Speaker 1: time in between for the next person to be able
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  Speaker 1: to come on at their start time. So for the
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  Speaker 1: whole day, that mean I'm gonna be up all day.
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  Speaker 1: That I mean I'm gonna have a lot of coffee
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  Speaker 1: going on, and we're just gonna be sharing our journeys.
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna be sharing our truth, We're gonna be sharing
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  Speaker 1: our stores, We're gonna be sharing some statistics. We're gonna
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  Speaker 1: be talking about different cases, We're gonna be talking about
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  Speaker 1: different stuff around the domestic violence and how we can
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  Speaker 1: be proactive. How we can you know, get some things going,
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  Speaker 1: how we can keep some things going and stuff like that.
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  Speaker 1: That's that's what we're gonna be doing that day. So
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to get some people invob trying to get
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  Speaker 1: some people signed up and attached to this project. So
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  Speaker 1: are you traveling?
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  Speaker 4: I am actually on my way home. I just got
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  Speaker 4: off work.
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  Speaker 1: Oh you worked?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's why I couldn't say that no prayer this
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  Speaker 4: morning since I was that how was at work?
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  Speaker 1: So wow, I don't know. I thought you was gone
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  Speaker 1: out of town. Don't know my days, it seemed like
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  Speaker 1: my days seemed to go by fast. They seem to
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  Speaker 1: have been getting sipping past me here lately, because you know,
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  Speaker 1: Wednsday slipped up on me really quick, and then Winsday
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  Speaker 1: went by so fast, and I'm like what, I'm like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: but yeah it these days have really been going by fast.
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  Speaker 1: So tell everybody who you are, because I am live.
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  Speaker 1: I am live here on on TikTok, YouTube, Twitch, and Facebook.
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  Speaker 1: So tell them who this mystery lady is that they
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  Speaker 1: don't see but they hear.
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  Speaker 4: Hello everyone again. My name is Janette Joathan. I am
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  Speaker 4: the w hote. I am the host of Let's Talk
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  Speaker 4: About It, where we talk about injustice, we bring and
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  Speaker 4: learnings to wrong for conviction over central thing, a lot
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  Speaker 4: of things that's going on into in our prison system.
• 12:34
  Speaker 4: How I started is my husband, Juan Johnson, is currently
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  Speaker 4: in prison wrongfully and I wanted to be a voice
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  Speaker 4: for him, and that gave me the perfect opportunity to
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  Speaker 4: start speaking out against against the uh the injustice that
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  Speaker 4: are men and women are experienced out of the prison system.
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  Speaker 4: I also have written in I believe six of Angela's
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  Speaker 4: anthology and I'm currently working or I just finished my
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  Speaker 4: first book about grief, about my journey through grief. I
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  Speaker 4: lost well, I don't like to use the word lost.
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  Speaker 4: My son transition eighteen months ago. So I went into
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  Speaker 4: a dark period and Angela was there to help me
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  Speaker 4: through it. You know, she was a listening here when
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  Speaker 4: I didn't have nobody that would listen, or when people
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  Speaker 4: got to the point where they didn't want me to
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  Speaker 4: mention or or talk about my son. So Angela was
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  Speaker 4: there for me, and a lot of other women's there
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  Speaker 4: for me that God had sent my way while I
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  Speaker 4: was in my joel Owen.
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  Speaker 1: So yeah, that's why.
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  Speaker 4: Am I all other up for a grandmother for and
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  Speaker 4: I'm just out here living my life, getting rebuilding my
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• 14:26
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• 14:51
  Speaker 4: drills inside of tv JC from here with mister Gate's
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  Speaker 4: gonna join us and get a lot of information, a
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  Speaker 1: shift because I truly believe that God is getting ready
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  Speaker 1: to open up some doors and we're getting ready to
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  Speaker 1: walk into some things. I'm excited because y'all, y'all been
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  Speaker 1: here in Cornell with Sanette on this show for what
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  Speaker 1: about a year now. Y'all been doing well, this is
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  Speaker 1: y'all first season. This is their first season actually doing
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  Speaker 1: the show together. So y'all been hearing them for about
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  Speaker 1: six months. Well, in a little while, y'all gonna be
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  Speaker 1: be able to see both of them inside the studio
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  Speaker 1: and talking live because Cornell is getting ready to transition.
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  Speaker 1: On this side, y'all, this man has been in prison
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  Speaker 1: for over thirty four years, wrongfully incarcerated, and he still
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  Speaker 1: have been fighting not just for himself, but fighting for others.
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  Speaker 1: If you just just listen to him, y'all, I'm telling y'all,
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  Speaker 1: y'all probably don't even really listen when he come on
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  Speaker 1: here and be talking. Y'all probably just think he's just
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  Speaker 1: somebody else that's on here which the net. But y'all,
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  Speaker 1: he's incarcerated. And this man has been incarcerated for thirty
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  Speaker 1: almost going on thirty five years now, wrongfully incarcerated, and
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  Speaker 1: the things that he has endured, but yet he still
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  Speaker 1: take the time to pour into others and to help
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  Speaker 1: others bring awareness to their case. Nothing that nobody told me,
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  Speaker 1: something that I have witnessed, I have witnessed, and I
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  Speaker 1: have assisted him in assisting others to even get back
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  Speaker 1: into court to get money that was old to them
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  Speaker 1: and all types of stuff. So this is what we
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  Speaker 1: do over here. Chanett is the person that you guys
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: need to get in contact with if you have a
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: loved one that is incarcerated and you want to share
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: their story, or if you just have if you have
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: a loved one that has been disenfranchised behind those prison walls.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: Definitely want you to connect with Shanette and see how
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: we can bring their stories to the light and how
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: we can help address those things. So definitely stay connected
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: with Shanette. Follow her. She's on every first and third Monday,
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: eight pm Eastern Center Time five pm forcific stend the time.
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: And who's the who? Who y'all say, Who's gonna Who's
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: gonna be on your show Monday? You have a show
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: this Monday coming up.
• 23:08
  Speaker 4: Yes, we got James Gate out of Texas is gonna
• 23:13
  Speaker 4: join us this money and he's gonna be talking about
• 23:17
  Speaker 4: the the drugs that you know, what's going on inside
• 23:23
  Speaker 4: the prison, how Wanna is actually doing the CEO's job. Listen,
• 23:30
  Speaker 4: Leigate has a lot to talk about. Liter Legate is
• 23:33
  Speaker 4: also at prison. Wrong really. If you guys haven't seen
• 23:40
  Speaker 4: his documentary, please go over to YouTube and look at
• 23:46
  Speaker 4: the I believe it's the.
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: Bingo King Murderer. That's what it's called, The Bingo King Murderer.
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: It is a six part documentary, y'all. I'm telling you,
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: if you look at the documentary, you gonnamando, Well, how
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: is this man still in prison? But yet he still
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: sit in prison, but yet he still has a positive attitude, Shannette.
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: He actually called me on yesterday, had a chance to
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: talk to him on yesterday. So definitely, he's definitely encouraged.
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: He's definitely happy about being able to come on the
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: show we talked about. I think it's somebody else that
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: I think y'all had talked about that's coming on as well.
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: Oh yes, somebody. I think he used to be on
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: tak Nation or something. Yeah, So I'm excited about that.
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: I'm excited about that because people don't understand that if
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: they just speak up, that they can make a difference
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: behind these prison walls. It's just just speaking up and
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: letting these people know that you love your loved ones
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: and you're not gonna settle. You're not gonna just allow
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: these things to happen, and that you on action like you.
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: They may say, they may keep saying, and you keep going,
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: and you keep going, and you keep going, and you
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: keep pressing, and you keep pressing, and you keep writing,
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: and you keep writing and you keep writing. Eventually, these
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: people are gonna be like, Okay, she's not playing, and
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: they're gonna start acting on the things that you are
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: asking them to do because this is their job, this
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: is what they're supposed to do. And when you bring
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: this to their to their faces, and you put it
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: in their faces and their livelihood is at jeopardy, guess
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: what they begin to move, They begin to do the
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: things that they should have been doing all along. But
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: guess what This is what Chanette, myself and some of
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: these other individuals are out here doing, bringing all of
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: this stuff to light so that individuals can see what
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: is really going on behind this trillion dollar industry. Because
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: this is a trillion dollar industry. A lot of people
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: don't believe or understand what is going on from a
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: prison system. But what they are doing is they pipeline
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: in our kids from school to prison system. And it's
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: our kids are the ones that look like me, our
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: black and brown kids. Let the truth be told, y'all,
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: and we ask a a generation, as a as a race,
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: as a whatever you want to call it, ethnic group,
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: or whatever you want to labor, however you want to labor, y'all.
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: We got to do better. We gotta do something, and
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: we gotta stop it before. We gotta stop it. We
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: gotta stop it before. We got to be the forefront
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: before these kids go to school. We got to put
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: something in them before they go to school so that
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: they can't be deterred because a lot of this stuff
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: is coming from these teachers, because they don't care nothing
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: about our kids, and they putting this stuff in our
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: kids' heads that they don't matter that they come from slaves,
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: they ain't gonna be nothing, and they putting it in
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: their heads because all the stuff that I'm seeing across
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: the media, I'm I'm, I'm I'm, and I know how
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: when I came up, I know how they always wanted
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: to stick all the black kids in the B classes.
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: But yeah, we was always on the honor roll. We
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: was always on the Beaty club. We was always doing this,
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: We was always doing that, We was always doing this.
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: Graduated in the top ten percent of my class, So
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: you tell me why I should have been in a
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: B class, And they stuck me in the B class
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: all the way through school. But then they wonder why
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: I acted out. You know why I acted out. I
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: acted out because you didn't want to stimulate my mind.
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: You didn't want to You didn't want to fill me
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: with education. You just wanted to stick me in a corner.
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: They told me I read too fast, so they wanted
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: to slow me down. You want to know why I
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: have this this, this, this speech impediment now because they
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: said I was reading too fast, so they wanted to
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: slow me down, so they made me pause after every
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: every sentence. I had to pause, And I had an
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: attitude because I felt like I should been able to
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: read how I wanted to read. I should have been
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: able to flow how I wanted to flow, because that
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: was me. So I developed these different things. So I
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: had to go to speech I had. Oh yeah, they
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: tried to distract me and deter me all my life.
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: They stuck me in all kind of classes. They stuck
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: me in this, and they stuck me in that. But
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: guess what. Eventually I ended up getting my associate degree,
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: my bachelor's degree and my master's degree, and I guess what,
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: I graduated with distinction and all of them. I got
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: sum coom lighted for my associate and my bachelor's degree,
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: and then I got a grad of distinction for my
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: master's degree. So I think I did pretty good. What
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: you think snet for somebody that's on the President's list
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: right now? Huh? And she's doing great too. She's on
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: the President's list and she decided to go back to
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: school at over fifty. And that's what we're doing. Ain't
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: sitting out here waiting for nothing to fall out the sky.
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: We are making things happen, you know, where people have
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: told us we can't and they've put limits on this
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: and put limits on this. Okay, Well, when people look
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: at me, they don't even think I am my age,
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: And I want everybody because y'all a lot of y'all
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: don't even know me. Y'all just just jumping on and
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: jumping out. But how old do you think I am?
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: If you don't know my age? And if you know
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: my age, don't say nothing, But how old do you
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: think I am? Because a lot of people don't even
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: think i'm the age that I am, And then that wonder. Okay,
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: but she doing all this at that age? Why she
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: doing all that now? Yeah, because I still got a
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: long time to go. I ain't going nowhere soon, That's why.
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: And I plan on making a difference in the little
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: time I got. And even if I don't get to
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: enjoy you, guess what I got. I got nephews. I
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: got great nephews. They gotta grow up and then I'm
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: sure they gonna have some babies and they Blabor's gotta
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: grow up. And guess what they gonna know who they untie?
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: They gonna know they auntie because I'm gonna leave a
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: lot of evidence and it ain't gonna be nothing that nobody
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: told them, but it's gonna be something that I did,
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: something that I left for them to see. And that's
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: why I keep telling people. You gotta create your own legacy.
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: You can't allow people to tell you what your story is.
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: And you can't let people tell your story because people
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: are trying to tell it, but it ain't gonna be
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: with you. It ain't gonna be your way. You got
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: to put your own special, unique touch on Because he
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: said he made us all fearfully and wonderfully made in
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: his image that even the twins ain't the same, the
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: triplets ain't the same. They all got their own unique
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: thing about them. So y'all you gotta embrace it, embrace
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: your uniqueness. Are you ready to shift? Y'all? We've been
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: talking about shift on the Monday Morning motivation and y'all
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: know I be all over the place, but this bare
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: with me. But are you ready to shift? How do
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: you shift?
• 31:05
  Speaker 4: You?
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: First, you got to be self aware, So know who
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: you are? What are your morals? What are your values?
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: What are the things that mean something to you? What
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: is your beliefs? Is the self awareness that is the
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: first part of being able to shift. The h and
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: shift is heal or are are you healed? Or are
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: you allowed? And when I say heal, I mean hinderance.
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: Stop allowing people to hinder you. Stop having an ego. Yeah,
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: I'm spelling out the word heal. Stop having an ego.
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: And we have these egos because we walk around with attitudes?
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: Why because we don't love when we know that love
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: covers a multitude of sin. Love draws love love love
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: love love love love love is action. Yeah, and I'm glad.
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: I'm glad. I started talking about that, y'all, because y'all
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: know what I jumped on here and guess what we
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: were supposed to be doing today. And I've been trying
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: to keep up. I've been really trying to keep up.
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: I've been trying to keep up with the flow. We
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: didn't do our devotion for today. We didn't do our
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: devotion for the day. So we're gonna do our devotion
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: for the day really really quick. We are with day
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: five and we are on a thirty one day trip,
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: so we're on day five, so y'all, we still got
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: some more days to go. So today's scripture is oh
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: and we might need this one too, y'all. Okay, So
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: today's stripture, Day five is John twenty and twenty nine.
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: It's say Blessed are those who have not seen and
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: yet have believed. And guess what that that goes right
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: in with our scripture from this morning, that goes with
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: our faith scripture from this morning that we shared on
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: the prayer call, that goes with our faith scripture from
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: this morning that we've shared on a prayer call, and
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: the one that we shared on yesterday. He bruis eleven
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: and one, So y'all it's aligning. It's aligning, it says again,
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: blessed are those who have not yet seen but yet believe.
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: Faith without works is dead. You gotta believe, he says,
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: Trust his word, know that his word is true. The
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: affirmation for today is Blessed am I believing beyond what
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: is visible? Blessed am I believing beyond what is visible?
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: I'm blessed. And I believe that even what I can't see,
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: even past what I can't see now in the natural,
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: I believe that I'm blessed. Even if I can't see it,
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: I believe it. Huh. And you gotta speak that over
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: your life. That is the affirmation for today. Again, Blessed
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: am I believe in beyond what is visible? Huh. I'm
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: gonna read the poem for today, and then we're gonna
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: move on. We're gonna get back. I'm gonna I'm gonna
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: recap the the virtual domestic violence takeover. I'm gonna go
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: over it, and then I'm gonna get on off, and
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: then I may share a little bit more about the
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: unlive In Book if you guys want to be a
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: part of the Unliveing Book. Again, we can't say the
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: word but y'all know what I'm talking about. It is
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: going to be a thirty one day devotional just like
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: book number one Unliving Awareness book, Because of course I
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: am a unliving attempt survivor, so I definitely am an
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: advocate and set Timber is the month that we celebrate.
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: September is the month that we bring awareness to that.
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: I have family members that was not as fortunate to
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: survive their attempt and they transitioned, so I definitely want
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: to bring awareness to that, and also share statistics and
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: share if you need help, know that you do not
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: have to hurt alone. Know that there's help out there.
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: Just that you can pick up and call nine one one.
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: You can pick up and down nine eight eight. If
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: you feel like you may want to unalive yourself or
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: you may want to bring harm to yourself, please pick
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: up that phone, call get you some help, Get someone
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: that can assist you on the other side of that phone,
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: because there is someone on the other side of that
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: line that is certified and they carry credentials that can
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: help you. So don't hurt in silence, y'all, don' hurt inside.
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: So I'm going to read the poem, and these are
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: affirmation poems that is included in the devotion for the
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to show y'all the book, but it won't.
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: It don't want to come on the screen, like it
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: don't like to come on the screen. He always want
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: to show. But this is the book. It's called Beyond Sight.
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: It is a thirty one day of empowering faith and
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: affirmation along with poetry, y'all. So the poem for today,
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: it says, blessed believed, unseen yet true, a path of
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: faith refreshed a new and every step beyond deveil his
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: promises shine where doubts are could tell again. That's that piece,
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: and that's just a poem. It is just a short
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: affirmation poem, y'all, and y'all can read it and speak
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: of your life. It said, blessed believed, unseen yet true.
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: You gotta believe, even if you can't see, you gotta believe.
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: You gotta believe and know that it's blessed, a path
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: of faith refreshed a new y'all. Every day he extending
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: his grace in his mercy, his grace in his mercy.
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: Speak it over your life, and every step be undeveailed
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: his promises shine where doubts or could tell y'all, doubts
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: are gonna come. But guess what, you got the power
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: to overcome it. You can speak life to every situation
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: and you can overcome every situation. So know that. Okay,
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: y'all be encouraged on today. And I want to thank
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: my friend Schanet, my co host, my my ride or die, y'all,
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: shee my buddy. I don't I thank God for it
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: because she was definitely God sent because I was looking
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: for someone that could do what she does here on
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: the network. Even though I am advocate, I do so
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: much more that I could not devote the time that
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: I wanted or thought that what she does needed. So
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: I'm so glad that God saw fit to allow us
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: to connect and we connected because she was looking to
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: assist her husband and to bring light to her husband's case.
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: So now she's not only able to bring light to
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: her husband's case, but she's able to assist other people,
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: their families and those that don't have family, because y'all,
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: there's a lot of people that go to prison, and
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: when they go to prison, they lose their family, their family,
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: They just wash them away. They figured that they got
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: these long sentences, and some of them have these ridiculous
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: sentences that you think that they're probably never gonna get
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: out when you're looking at ninety nine years and one
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: hundred and fifty years that looked like something that's impossible.
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: And then families begin to push you to the backside.
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: They begin to push you to the back burner, and
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: some of them lose hope. Some of it them lose
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: they have doubts, and they lose that sense of family,
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: that lose that sense of the loneliness. So we just
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: launched another book. We did Kings You Are Not Forgotten,
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: Book number two. Sanette was a part of that book
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: along with Milibro Romero. She's one of the one hundred
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: authors that's a part of the movement, and Apostle Lee
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: Thomas Jr. He decided to share in this book. So
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: all four of us came together and did this book.
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: It's not just a devotional and it has some tools
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: and it has it really breaks down some things and
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: gives them it's like a work book. You want to
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: kind of say. It makes them think, and it makes
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: them reflect and it makes them put things in perspective.
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: So I'm excited about that I'm excited about that. Shanette,
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: are you still there.
• 40:01
  Speaker 4: Here?
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: Before we leave, I want you to tell them about
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: your book, because you have a new book that's supposed
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: to be coming out. If you would share with them
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: when you are planning and hopefully to have this book
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: out and how they can follow support you like outside
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: of the podcast, because you do so much more outside
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: of the podcast. She is also one of the hosts
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: that's a part of the suicide or not suicide Awear,
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: but our grief podcast Healing Voices when she can make it.
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: Sometime she is working because she works different hours, so
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: sometimes she may be working, but she is a part
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: of that podcast that we have. It comes on every
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: fifth Sunday, So whenever there's a fifth Sunday in the month, y'all,
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: we was on. I think we're coming on next month
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: in June. We'll be on the twenty ninth. I think
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: that Sunday, the twenty ninth, or the whatever that Sunday is,
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: we will be on, and we're actually gonna have one
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: of our co hosts on as a guest. She's also
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: a host here on the Crew podcast, but she's also
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: a co host over on the Healing Voices Navigating through
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: Grief podcasts, and that is Trevida. She's gonna be on
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: and sharing because she's actually getting ready to celebrate her
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: mom's sixty sixth birthday in July, and this is gonna
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: be her second year without her mom, so she's gonna
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: get an opportunity to share about that during that podcast
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: and about her new book that's coming out. So I'm
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: excited about that, and I'm excited about you being able
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: to share what you're doing. And definitely I want I
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: know people are going to be able to benefit from
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: your book because we all experience grief, and we all
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: experiences in different ways, one way or another, but if
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: we go through it, So please share with them when
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: they can expect your book out, how they can follow you,
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: how they can support you outside of the podcast, how
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  Speaker 1: can they connect with you.
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  Speaker 4: But they can connect with me on Facebook at chet Johnson.
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  Speaker 4: That's my page, or you can look me up at
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  Speaker 4: Let's talk about it on Facebook. I'm also on Instagram
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  Speaker 4: and let's talk about it TikTok, I forgot the name
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  Speaker 4: that I'm using out here. It's probably let's talk about
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  Speaker 4: it as well.
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  Speaker 1: My book.
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  Speaker 4: These Last eighteen months has been a struggle for many
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  Speaker 4: likes I said, I found my son unresponsible in his room.
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  Speaker 4: He was thirty one years old. He had congested heart failure.
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  Speaker 4: And you know, you never think that when you're talking
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  Speaker 4: to somebody that you're gonna wake up the next day
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  Speaker 4: and that person's gonna be gone.
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  Speaker 1: Well I didn't.
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  Speaker 4: Think that, and I went in there and I found
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  Speaker 4: my son unresponsible, and it took.
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  Speaker 1: Me through.
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  Speaker 4: A dark place and I literally had to fight, and
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  Speaker 4: Angela is my witness. I had to fight to get
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  Speaker 4: back to where I was at. I stopped working, I
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  Speaker 4: wanted to that everything because of that, because I just
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  Speaker 4: couldn't let go of my son. I couldn't let him.
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  Speaker 4: I couldn't let him go. I wanted him with me.
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  Speaker 4: And you know, I just went through it. So my
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  Speaker 4: book is basically I'm telling you what's how I got
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  Speaker 4: through it. I give you a little background on the
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  Speaker 4: day that I went into grief, the day it started
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  Speaker 4: for me, that my dark that darkness started. And once
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  Speaker 4: we all got to realize that a lot of people
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  Speaker 4: will say Bach is saying no, it's not. When you
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  Speaker 4: breathe a parent, that's a different breed. When you breath,
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  Speaker 4: But when you a grandparent or a sibling or something
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  Speaker 4: like that, that's different. But when your child had it's like
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  Speaker 4: you've been sucked in the stomach and you can't breathe.
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  Speaker 4: You know, you try to catch your breath, but you cain't.
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  Speaker 4: That's how I was. I was stuck. I was stuck
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  Speaker 4: on November tenth, twenty twenty three or sixteen. I was
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  Speaker 4: stuck there. I was trapped there, and it was my
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  Speaker 4: own fault because I wouldn't let go. I kept myself there.
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  Speaker 4: So when I met Angela and she would let me,
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  Speaker 4: I will call her, and she knew what was wrong
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  Speaker 4: with me. She would just let me talk. And the
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  Speaker 4: more she allowed me to share bits and pieces of
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  Speaker 4: my son with her when people, when other people would
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  Speaker 4: close me down, they wouldn't talk, let me talk about
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  Speaker 4: talk about the pain that I was going from. But
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  Speaker 4: Angela did, and then she helped me find solutions. She
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  Speaker 4: told me to start writing, So that's how I began
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  Speaker 4: to write form and I write to him. That's where
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  Speaker 4: my petrait come in. I'll write to him, and.
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  Speaker 1: She had me.
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  Speaker 4: She was like, well do something to honor him. I procrastinated.
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  Speaker 4: He wanted to go to college. He was like, Mama,
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  Speaker 4: can you help me get in? Mama, can you do this?
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  Speaker 4: And you know he was a mama's boy, and.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't help them.
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  Speaker 4: So that's I went back to college and I majoring
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  Speaker 4: in business and with a minn Criminal Justice because I
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  Speaker 4: can't get away from that. But it's hard. It was
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  Speaker 4: hard these eighteen months, and I just want to tell
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  Speaker 4: the parents or even if you lost a mother or siblings,
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  Speaker 4: don't isolate yourself from no one. That's the wrong thing
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  Speaker 4: you can do. You let family members that's there for you,
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  Speaker 4: friends that's there for you. You let them love on you.
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  Speaker 4: Instead of us going into a dark place, we should
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  Speaker 4: be rejoicing that our family members are in the bosom
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  Speaker 4: of their heaving his father, that there are rests that
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  Speaker 4: they don't have to deal with, no more sicknesses and stuff.
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  Speaker 4: My son was on over thirty medications for his heart.
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  Speaker 4: We should be rejoiced and living our life. And so
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  Speaker 4: that's what I chose to do. I chose to get
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  Speaker 4: on stuff from November tenth and I wrote about it
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  Speaker 4: and his birthday would be June eleven. I was hoping
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  Speaker 4: to release it on his birthday, but we want to
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  Speaker 4: do a soft release, So I'm gonna give what Angela
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  Speaker 4: and We're gonna do a soft release because when I
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  Speaker 4: released it, I want Angela here to share with me
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  Speaker 4: because she helped me through this everyone that helped me
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  Speaker 4: through this time, I want them around me so I
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  Speaker 4: can just hug on them and give them back to
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  Speaker 4: love that.
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  Speaker 1: They gave me. And you know, just be strong.
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  Speaker 4: We're gonna have our moments, but don't stay there. And
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  Speaker 4: that's what I had to learn, not to stay there.
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  Speaker 4: But you guys just follow me and definitely don't forget
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  Speaker 4: to come check me in Cornelle out on this Monday.
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  Speaker 4: If you guys have family members that's incarcerated, please do
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  Speaker 4: not give up on them no matter what, because you
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  Speaker 4: guys don't really know what their experience behind the wall.
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  Speaker 4: You don't really know until you actually sit down and
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  Speaker 4: you hear it from them. Please don't give up on them.
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  Speaker 4: Reach out to them. Just say that you love them.
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  Speaker 4: You ain't got to go write a five page novel
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  Speaker 4: or something. Just let them know that you love them.
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  Speaker 4: Just let them know. And I'm very you know, boisterous
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  Speaker 4: about that. You know, just just just love on your
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  Speaker 4: the men and the women. We all fall sharp. That's
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  Speaker 4: what the Bible says, we all fall sharp, and we
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  Speaker 4: cannot judge one another. We cannot judge. So love on them,
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  Speaker 4: pray for them that they get through it, because I
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  Speaker 4: don't seen people are talked to men that's serving double life.
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  Speaker 4: Sentisis and they're gonna tag on an extra sixty mm hmmm.
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  Speaker 1: And that's what they do over sentence our people and
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  Speaker 1: then try to keep them silent. But this is what
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  Speaker 1: what we do. And Shannetta's been trying to bring light
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  Speaker 1: to it. She's been trying to bring a voice to it,
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  Speaker 1: so y'all can check her out every first and third
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  Speaker 1: Monday her and her co host Cornell, and soon Cornell
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  Speaker 1: will be on this side so that he can be
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  Speaker 1: here to help her out more so again, I thank
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  Speaker 1: you guys. Before I jump off, we have Milli Gross
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  Speaker 1: for Marrows and Michelle Paget that's going to be a
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  Speaker 1: part of the Virtual Domestic Violence Tour. They've already signed up, y'all,
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  Speaker 1: do not miss the opportunity to grab your spot. Y'all.
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  Speaker 1: We got twenty two more spots available because everybody get
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  Speaker 1: an hour, and we have twenty four hours in a
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  Speaker 1: day and we're going live for that whole twenty four hours,
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  Speaker 1: so we need to fill those spots. If you're out
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  Speaker 1: there and you have a story that you need amplified
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  Speaker 1: and shared around the world, you may have a service
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  Speaker 1: that can help on one that is going through domestic
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  Speaker 1: violence or have been through domestic violence that they may
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  Speaker 1: not know about. So if you have a service, you
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  Speaker 1: have a podcast, whatever you have, if you want to
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  Speaker 1: advertise it, if you want to come on and talk
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  Speaker 1: about it, this is the perfect day to do it.
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna be streaming all day long. Afterwards, we're gonna
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  Speaker 1: be sending out clips, clips, clips, clips, clips to all
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  Speaker 1: of our platforms. So do not miss this opportunity to
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  Speaker 1: allow your brand to be heard and seen. If you
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  Speaker 1: are attached to domestic violence in any type of way,
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  Speaker 1: as in a survivor as an advocate, however, you operate
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  Speaker 1: and share your expertise on domestic violence. Because we know
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  Speaker 1: that there are different levels of domestic violence, We know
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  Speaker 1: that are different stages, and we know that it comes
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  Speaker 1: in different ways. Men, women, all can be affected by
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  Speaker 1: domestic violence. Black, white, green, purple, all can be affected
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  Speaker 1: by domestic violence, y'all. So it does not have a size,
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  Speaker 1: it does not have a shape. It can happen to anyone.
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  Speaker 1: So we want to bring awareness to everyone. So if
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  Speaker 1: you have a story, come share your story and allow
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  Speaker 1: it to speak to someone because you never know what
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  Speaker 1: the next person may be in need of. Again, I
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  Speaker 1: want to thank everyone that has been supporting the Crew podcast. Y'all.
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  Speaker 1: We've been over here on TikTok, y'all, we've been over
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  Speaker 1: here on TikTok. If you are on TikTok, y'all, make
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  Speaker 1: sure y'all follow us, subscrive to us, and make sure
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  Speaker 1: you like share some of those videos and some of
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  Speaker 1: those clips so we can get in that actmarhithm, so
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  Speaker 1: we can get fluing, so we can get in the mix.
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  Speaker 1: Because I'm telling you, these queens they got something to share,
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  Speaker 1: they got something to talk about. They got something that
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  Speaker 1: need to be heard, y'all. So we need them circulating
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  Speaker 1: and we need them to go viral. So y'all help
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  Speaker 1: the Crew go viral. Help the Crew go viral and
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  Speaker 1: win them kings. Step in the wing, y'all. It's gonna
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  Speaker 1: be on and popping, and I can't wait till July.
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  Speaker 1: So market calendars and get ready because it's seven o'clock hour, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna have it on lock seven and eight o'clock y'all.
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  Speaker 1: I'm telling you it's going down the Crew Podcast. I
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  Speaker 1: am the Visionary Queen Angela. I love y'all. I appreciate
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  Speaker 1: y'all for all y'all do so, keep sharing us, Keep
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  Speaker 1: being that light, y'all, be blessed. Be that change that
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  Speaker 1: you want to see in this world, y'all. Change starts
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  Speaker 1: and end with you.