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2091 - PART 1: 90 Day Fiance (s12e11) "Meeting the Family" with Kimberly · Pink Shade: Reality TV with Mary Payne

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  Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, welcome to Pink Shade. It's TLC Tuesday. I'm
• 0:17
  Speaker 1: here with Kimberly. She's back, she's better than ever. We're
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  Speaker 1: gonna talk ninety day fiance.
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  Speaker 2: I was ready to rock out to the music, and
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  Speaker 2: then there was no music because I get confused.
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  Speaker 1: No, we only rock out for Prime on Prime's Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and you know that last week because I forgot to
• 0:35
  Speaker 1: put the music up, and I was like, oh, I
• 0:36
  Speaker 1: forgot to put the music up, so I'm singing, and
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  Speaker 1: then I played it. Ingrid put the other music on
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  Speaker 1: top of it, so it's like double music. I reached
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  Speaker 1: out to her. I go, you put the music on
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  Speaker 1: and it's Prime and we don't put the music. She goes,
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  Speaker 1: I think you didn't do the music. I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I did it. It was just eight seconds late. Anyway,
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  Speaker 1: You're welcome, everybody. Double.
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  Speaker 2: She didn't listened to part to past eight seconds to
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  Speaker 2: see what's happening.
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  Speaker 1: She doesn't listen to shit.
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  Speaker 2: I know, I got Ingrid.
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  Speaker 1: I think she like searches for her name.
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  Speaker 2: Oh so if I call her the C word, then
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  Speaker 2: that will she'll that'll be triggered.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, she'll be like, who's talking about man.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but what if I just say she or I
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  Speaker 2: say Schminger it.
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  Speaker 1: Uh, Schwinger, it will still probably pop up if she
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  Speaker 1: searches for her own name.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, what's her what's her middle name?
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  Speaker 1: And okay Shmingered Schman. You guys, if you are on
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  Speaker 1: my Instagram, I am, it will be posted. I haven't
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  Speaker 1: when you and our recordings. I'm gonna post it right
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  Speaker 1: after I did the cringiest ad that you've ever seen
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  Speaker 1: I don't know how to do that.
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  Speaker 2: I really do.
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  Speaker 1: I really do want everybody to go look at it.
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  Speaker 1: cooler things are. And like I said, we've had that
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  Speaker 1: got to be such a situation with the cleaning of
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  Speaker 1: the water and the oh so the perfectly snug I'm
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  Speaker 1: telling you. Dave said this morning, he goes, I need
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  Speaker 1: to be able to control my own side of the
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  Speaker 1: bed because I go was freezing last night and I
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  Speaker 1: was like, well, you told me to put it on
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  Speaker 1: a negative seven. I was on like a negative three.
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  Speaker 1: He was on a negative seven, so like yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: So because he was just having me control it from
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  Speaker 1: my phone, I was like, why don't you control your
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  Speaker 1: own side of the bed. Why do I have to
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  Speaker 1: be in charge? And then we had a fight. But
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  Speaker 1: so anyway, that's it, guys, go check out the ad
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  Speaker 1: perfectly snug. It's going to change if you're a menopause
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  Speaker 1: a lady, I have a question about menopause, and then
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  Speaker 1: we will get into this recap.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I went got a massage recently and the lady there
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  Speaker 1: told me. The massage lady told me she's almost sixty
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  Speaker 1: and she was like, you know, Perry, menopause, menopause, the
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  Speaker 1: whole thing last twenty year. I was like, excuse me,
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  Speaker 1: excuse me. I don't think that's correct. I think it's ten.
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  Speaker 1: And I think it's like from like ten, like forty
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  Speaker 1: five to fifty five or forty eight to fifty eight
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  Speaker 1: or whatever, because I'm like, I feel like here, God,
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  Speaker 1: I like I'm on the other side of it. And
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  Speaker 1: she was like, no, I think it's like twenty. I
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  Speaker 1: was like, girl, we need to do some research because
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  Speaker 1: I don't think that's right. Yeah. I didn't like hearing that.
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  Speaker 2: No, that's the most horrible thing I've ever heard in
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  Speaker 2: my entire life.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, because I think I really all the hot and
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  Speaker 1: everything started like forty eight forty nine, like beings really
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  Speaker 1: hot all the time.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, well I've always been really hot. That's like a
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  Speaker 2: medication issue. But I have the brain fog, but my
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  Speaker 2: doctor doesn't think it's menopause. I just get very poor sleep.
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  Speaker 1: So guess what perfectly snug is there for you? Yep? Yeah, everybody, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: that dead. Enough chat about that. We've got so much.
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  Speaker 1: This was a great episode.
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  Speaker 2: Yes it was.
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  Speaker 1: It was jam packed and I gotta tell you love
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  Speaker 1: after lock up. This week also a great episode.
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  Speaker 2: Oh good, did I see this week's yet.
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  Speaker 1: We've got the new weirdo with the long red hair.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah, yeah. Who is an indigenous person?
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  Speaker 1: Or so he says, So he says, Akisha doesn't believe it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but I don't know if I do.
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  Speaker 1: Just because you're from Oklahoma doesn't mean you get to claim.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but let's get started, so we're gonna talk about it.
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  Speaker 2: There's a lot of tight pants like Meado though, I
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  Speaker 2: mean Meato can never. Where's me o never?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: No, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Okay. So ninety Fiance, Season twelve, episode eleven, Meeting the Family,
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  Speaker 1: that's what this is called. I do want you guys
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  Speaker 1: to check out Instagram because I will be putting up
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  Speaker 1: a reel that I'm gonna make myself, which means it'll
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  Speaker 1: take me hours. So everybody like it, appreciate it. Of
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  Speaker 1: there's so many great lines on this episode. Yeah, so
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  Speaker 1: we're gonna start with Mallory and Ross Sheet and so
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  Speaker 1: we're at Rin and Michaela's playing cornhole. Now, when they
• 5:11
  Speaker 1: were first playing cornhole and I was writing this down,
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  Speaker 1: my daughter walked in the room and I go they
• 5:15
  Speaker 1: were playing the game with the speaking of brainwalk and
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  Speaker 1: I was like, you know. She goes, are you having
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  Speaker 1: a seizure because I was just throwing my arm forward
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  Speaker 1: and I go the thing with the bean bag. She
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  Speaker 1: was like, I don't know. I don't do sports. So
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  Speaker 1: finally they said the words cornhole. I was like, thank god,
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  Speaker 1: I can't remember the name of it.
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  Speaker 2: I also forgot the name of cornhole the past twice
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  Speaker 2: in the past two weeks. Okay, yeah, me now, because
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  Speaker 2: they play it occasionally at my dad's retirement community and
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  Speaker 2: the noise of the bean bag hitting the wood scares
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  Speaker 2: Ralthie because Ralphie has some I don't know, he's mourning
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  Speaker 2: my mom or there's something going on emotionally, and he
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  Speaker 2: runs home and leaves my dad. He just bolts.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, no, cornwall is very hard. It's very hard to
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  Speaker 1: get one of those beanbags in.
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  Speaker 2: Well, not for Rush's rush.
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  Speaker 1: He's a natural. So everybody looks sweaty, it looks hot
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  Speaker 1: there and talking it together, she says, since the baseball
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  Speaker 1: game and Rashie really showed his ass, she's kept and
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  Speaker 1: locked up in the house. He's not allowed you around
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  Speaker 1: anybody else if he's going to be rude. Good for her,
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  Speaker 1: And he says, I don't feel bad about Mallory and
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  Speaker 1: Brandon Brandy, but I do feel bad for Wren and
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  Speaker 1: Mikayla because Wren is a good friend and I really
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  Speaker 1: like him.
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  Speaker 2: M hm, so they. I just wish he had a
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  Speaker 2: vowel in his name besides the sometimes why just.
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  Speaker 1: R y in? I usually write it r e n
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  Speaker 1: so that I say it correctly. But then I decided
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  Speaker 1: maybe I was being disrespectful in my notes, so I
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  Speaker 1: typed it r y in And I'm making myself say
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  Speaker 1: Wrenn even though it could be Ryan. Yeah. So they
• 7:02
  Speaker 1: tell Rosh that Katie and Brandon are coming. He goes Brandy,
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  Speaker 1: Brandy always with Brandy, and Rinn says, look, man, Brandon
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  Speaker 1: is my best friend. Makaya goes, you gotta get used
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  Speaker 1: to it, and Malory goes, just stop being an asshole
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  Speaker 1: and let it go. I'm going to lock you in
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  Speaker 1: the house again. So he says, okay, now.
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  Speaker 2: Not because Mallory said it, because wren said it. So
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  Speaker 2: he'll listen to a man. I really think that this
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  Speaker 2: part of Rush's culture is Mallory could say whatever and
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  Speaker 2: he won't listen to her. But if Rinn is telling
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  Speaker 2: he's like, okay, man to man.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, well you might be right. So the men are
• 7:40
  Speaker 1: set around eating venison and talking about various parts of
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  Speaker 1: deer meat, and Mallory sits at the table and talks
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  Speaker 1: to her friends and says, yeah, raw. She feels bad
• 7:50
  Speaker 1: because he can't work right now. You feel like he's
• 7:52
  Speaker 1: not contributing. So I decided to tell him that he
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  Speaker 1: can't have my money. And I brought up a conversation
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  Speaker 1: about a prenup and he thinks I'm bringing it up
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  Speaker 1: because I think we're not gonna last. And it's hard
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  Speaker 1: to explain with the language where because prenups don't exist
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  Speaker 1: in Turkey. So the guys are like, what are you
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  Speaker 1: talking about over there? You share it with the class,
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  Speaker 1: and she says she will.
• 8:16
  Speaker 2: This is when you say period diarrhea, we're talking about
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  Speaker 2: period poops. Then they'll just walk away.
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  Speaker 1: Oh oh oh. I was like, what are you talking about? Oh,
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  Speaker 1: because the guys are saying, what are you talking about? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and she explains, I am telling them how I want
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  Speaker 1: to prenup to protect my brokerage account and my house.
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  Speaker 1: And he's taking it the wrong way. But like, my
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  Speaker 1: thought is what if something happens and God forbid in
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  Speaker 1: ten to fifteen years And Brandon says, do you ever
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  Speaker 1: take into consideration He packed up his whole life to
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  Speaker 1: come here, and everybody's like, you're taking Russia's side. All
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  Speaker 1: of a sudden, you believe in love, like you're a
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  Speaker 1: hopeless romantic. He goes into the whole thing about being
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  Speaker 1: a whole was romantic. But Brandon says he moved halfway
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  Speaker 1: across the world and went all in on you, and
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  Speaker 1: Rosh goes, yeah, I do not sign this paper and
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  Speaker 1: I don't care about the stuff. And Michaela says, well,
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  Speaker 1: I'll tell you I'm the one that suggested it. And
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  Speaker 1: he goes, oh, it's because I'm Turkey, and she says, no,
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  Speaker 1: it's I'd say the same thing. Is she married a
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  Speaker 1: guy from Alabama? Now that I believe, because I think
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  Speaker 1: Mallory does have these two assets. Yeah, And I do
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  Speaker 1: think if she married a guy from Alabama that Michayla
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  Speaker 1: would say the same thing.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And Brandon says, look, this guy left.
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  Speaker 2: His ead unless it was a rich guy who had
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  Speaker 2: like a lot of money on his own and had
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  Speaker 2: a good job. But if it was a guy who
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  Speaker 2: didn't have a job, yes.
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  Speaker 1: A guy that's equal ish. So Brandon says he gave
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  Speaker 1: up everything and all he wants is love, and Michaela goes, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: that's great and everything. But she's worked her ass off
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  Speaker 1: to get that house and she almost died last year,
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  Speaker 1: and I don't want somebody to come in and take
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  Speaker 1: that from her. And Brandon's like, you can't weigh financial
• 10:02
  Speaker 1: asss over what he gave her. You can't even put
• 10:05
  Speaker 1: those on the same scale. I was like, well, kinda
• 10:08
  Speaker 1: you can.
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  Speaker 2: So you kind of can. Also, Brandon is saying a
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  Speaker 2: lot of like soundbites about society and culture, like where
• 10:15
  Speaker 2: are with people not valuing marriage like they used to
• 10:20
  Speaker 2: and in like the good old days? And I was
• 10:22
  Speaker 2: getting a little uncomfortable. I was like, well, you have
• 10:27
  Speaker 2: your sunglasses on your head, on top of your baseball head,
• 10:31
  Speaker 2: upside down, upside down.
• 10:32
  Speaker 1: I did notice they were upside down, y'all. I don't
• 10:36
  Speaker 1: know about you, but it's been so hot here, and
• 10:39
  Speaker 1: ninety five degrees outside feels like one hundred and twenty
• 10:42
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• 11:20
  Speaker 1: and I'm not a handy person. Remember how easy it
• 11:23
  Speaker 1: was for Rashii to install his new bidet at Mallory's house.
• 11:26
  Speaker 1: He was so excited about his clean buttthole, and he
• 11:28
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  Speaker 1: let me know how you like it. So then Rashie
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  Speaker 1: takes Brandon outside and says he's sorry for the way
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  Speaker 1: he's acted. And I think that's the only way he
• 13:11
  Speaker 1: was allowed to go to this cornhole party. He was
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  Speaker 1: gonna You're gonna apologize or you don't get to go
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  Speaker 1: to any more parties.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, treat him like a child if he's gonna behave
• 13:20
  Speaker 2: like a child at a baseball game.
• 13:23
  Speaker 1: I think that's right. So you're sorry, say you're saying
• 13:26
  Speaker 1: your seigns you don't get to go drink beer anymore.
• 13:30
  Speaker 1: So he apologizes, and Branda says, listen, I understand the
• 13:34
  Speaker 1: situation is awkward for you, but I appreciate you pulling
• 13:37
  Speaker 1: me aside to apologize. I appreciate that as a man, a.
• 13:43
  Speaker 2: Man like women, don't apologize as.
• 13:46
  Speaker 1: A man, don't sit on my tailgate as a man.
• 13:50
  Speaker 2: I noticed he arrived in an suv that did not
• 13:53
  Speaker 2: have a tailgate, and I was like, few, at least
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  Speaker 2: that's a crisis we won't be having at this cornhole party.
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  Speaker 1: And the talking head ra She says, you know, Brandon,
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  Speaker 1: he is from America and I am from Turkic. But
• 14:07
  Speaker 1: he doesn't think rash Muslim rash come for green card.
• 14:11
  Speaker 1: He don't think this. He care good person, So I
• 14:14
  Speaker 1: don't know if he means he cares I'm a good
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  Speaker 1: person or yes, yeah, yeah, I don't have a lot
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  Speaker 1: of support here, but Brandy support me, and I can
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  Speaker 1: see now he's a good guy. It's all.
• 14:26
  Speaker 2: It's all it took, that's all it Tuck could take
• 14:28
  Speaker 2: my side in a fight at the bitches.
• 14:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and so let's see duttad. We're gonna move on
• 14:35
  Speaker 1: to Marissa and Edward. Do we have to.
• 14:42
  Speaker 2: This lady?
• 14:42
  Speaker 1: Did you see she posted a whole thing like beforetnight's
• 14:45
  Speaker 1: episode comes out? Oh no, she knows, She's like before
• 14:49
  Speaker 1: tonight's episode comes out. I'd like to apologize in advance. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: she said she she wasn't herself. She's really sorry. Let's
• 14:59
  Speaker 1: see if I can find it. I was, because then
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: I was like, well, I can't wait to see the episode.
• 15:03
  Speaker 1: She must have said something terrible.
• 15:06
  Speaker 2: But the best part for her on this is that
• 15:11
  Speaker 2: while she was being such a bitch to Edward, she
• 15:13
  Speaker 2: wasn't wearing that giant cross around her neck, because that
• 15:17
  Speaker 2: would have been even that would have been perfect Okay,
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  Speaker 2: just perfection.
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  Speaker 1: Let's hearing sah.
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  Speaker 3: I just wanted to jump on really quick because a
• 15:25
  Speaker 3: new clip has just been released on the ninety day sites,
• 15:29
  Speaker 3: and it is a scene from this upcoming episode where
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  Speaker 3: I'm sitting with my girlfriends and I'm expressing my concerns
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  Speaker 3: on whether or not Edward and I are compatible on
• 15:39
  Speaker 3: an intellectual level.
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  Speaker 1: And I want to be really clear about this.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, I do not feel that Edward is stupid or
• 15:45
  Speaker 4: is an imbecile. I think the challenge that I was
• 15:48
  Speaker 4: facing was that we have a very big language barrier,
• 15:51
  Speaker 4: and we were unable to get into deep conversations because
• 15:55
  Speaker 4: I don't speak Spanish very well and you know, he's
• 15:58
  Speaker 4: still in the process of learning English to a level
• 16:02
  Speaker 4: of high fluency. So I want to publicly apologize to
• 16:06
  Speaker 4: him for, you know, saying things that made him look
• 16:09
  Speaker 4: like I didn't.
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  Speaker 2: Think that he was smart.
• 16:11
  Speaker 1: It's not the case.
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  Speaker 4: It's just that it was difficult communicating because of the language,
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  Speaker 4: which is why I got engaged with him.
• 16:21
  Speaker 2: That's why I decided to marry him and bring him
• 16:24
  Speaker 2: to my country to live with my children, because we've
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: never had a deep conversation because of a language fairy.
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: I think he's pretty fluent.
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: I think he I don't think that's the issue at all. Yeah.
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: I think she had some wine and said what she
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: was really thinking, which is he's not as smart as me, yes.
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: Yep, and as good as me because of money.
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Okay, so you uh.
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: She he comes out in an outfit, they're going to
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: a dinner party, and she's like, no, it's too monochromatic,
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: don't wear the bracelets. Change sends him away and he
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: just sighs, it's just really his life soul is being
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: sucked out of his body every time she speaks. And
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: then he comes out. She's like, much better. See how
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: we match better? We go look like we look good together.
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: And so they're going to a cocktail party in her
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: neighborhood with some friends. She hopes that he fits in.
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: She warns him in the car, I know you don't
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: drink much, but please don't get sloppy drunk and embarrass me.
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: So to clarify, she's never seen him sloppy drunk, but
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: she feels the need to tell him not to get
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: sloppy drunk.
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: Tonight might be the night.
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: To my I mean, I would become a drinker if
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: I had to live with this woman. So and then
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: they go to the house and she's like, so this
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: is not like a welcome to the World party. It's
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: not you know, it's just like a normal party that
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: I would go to with my friends. And he's like, okay,
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: it's not for me, Like nothing is for me, right,
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: I get it. I why under the other to say
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: that imperson going to be a welcome to the world
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: like a baby boy being born. Edward, he didn't think
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: this party was for him.
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: I think we don't know of earlier she said like, yeah,
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: it's a party for you to meet my friends. But
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: then she walk up and like, don't worry. People don't
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: really want to talk to you at all.
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: No, you're just arm candy for me to look good.
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: So I just want you to mingle. But you know,
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: don't make every conversation about baseball like you like to do.
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: Ask them questions to show that you're interested in them,
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: kind of like I never do with you. So the
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: way I converse with you do the opposite, show that
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: you care about the other person, like treating teaching him
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: how to have a conversation. This man works in hospitality, right,
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: he knows how to talk to people.
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: I think he does a great job at this party
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: blending in and just chatting with people as anybody would
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: at a cocktail party exactly.
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: So everyone welcomes Edward nicely. They ask him how it's
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: going in America. He says it's good. They ask him
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: who cooks, and he says she does, And I was like,
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: she doesn't let him touch the kitchen. Let's be real,
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: she's Worri's gonna burn down the house. And he had
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: to ask.
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: The correct way to cut up potato for fear exactly.
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, length wise, horizontal, vertical? Which way? Yeah? So
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: I did think a guy called him Edwin, but I
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: would Okay, I put.
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: It on the screen so you can see called him Edwin. Yes.
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: So they ask him what he's going to do for
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: a job, and he says, I've been thinking about ideas.
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: And they're like, like, what, just you know, pondering some ideas,
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: what such as? And he says, well, I like baseball,
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: Like I know all about baseball. It's the biggest sport
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: where I come from. And you think he's going to
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: launch into baseball. But then he asked them what they
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: do because she trained him well, and he's like, what
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: do you do for a living? They were in insurance
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: and finance, and he thinks, Wow, these are the people
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: I would serve in the hotel in my country, and
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: now I'm hanging out with them. This is crazy.
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: And I'm looking to see if blue Bell and Bluebell,
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: Pennsylvania has any kind of baseball team, like a minor
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: league team.
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: Right right?
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: The answer is no, no little Look, yeah, they've got
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: Little league and they've got you know, you know, community leagues,
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: but they don't think and maybe they have like a
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: farm team like the trash in Yeahnceville.
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: But no, okay, So there they say. She comes over,
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: she's she's talking to her friends, and she goes, I'm
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: gonna just sneak over and just make sure he's not
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: only talking about baseball, because he only talks about baseball.
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: And she goes over and they are talking about baseball,
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: but people seem to be enjoying the conversation. And they
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: She's like, what were you guys talking about? Did he
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: say anything embarrassing? And they're like, well, we were just
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: talking about cooking. He likes your meat. He likes your meat, Marissa,
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: And they keep making that joke. And he says he
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: might be interested in coaching baseball or opening a facility,
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: and you see her face get like really tense. She's like,
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: that's not happening. Did you see what he did to
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: my fence? So they're like reporting to a boss how
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: her employer talked about her in like an interview. It's
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: very much like the boss is coming over, how did
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: he do in his interview?
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Are you guys embarrassed that I'm with him? Are
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: you guys aided that he's speaking? Yes?
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: So then later on in the night, Edward is telling
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: a woman how nice everyone is being to him, and
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: he's enjoying himself. Marissa and her friends talk about the
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: next girl's trip and how Edward won't be allowed to go,
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: and and another woman, one of the women says, are
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: you anxious about him talking to the other guys here
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: who have like big professions, And Marissa says, yeah, I
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: worry what he's talking about. I don't want to say
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: he's naive or not cultured, bitch, but it just gets worse,
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: It gets so much worse. But I have a hard
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: time with him matching me intellectually, and like, will I
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: ever feel he's my intellectual match or will I be
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: intellectually stimulated? And will he be helping me grow? He's what?
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: I have no words, So she says, my friends are sophisticated,
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: and my relationship with Edward is not based on intellect.
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: It was based on a physical attraction, and I'm worried
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: that we aren't going to meet on an intellectual level. Bitch,
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: you sell wedding dresses you are not a physicist.
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: I'm just I'm literally just trying to think, like, okay,
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: like I've been married now almost twenty six years. I'm
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: trying to think about what intellectual conversations my husband and
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: I have now. We talk about things life and bills
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: and how we brace our children and the grateful dead,
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: and I mean, you know what I mean. But we're
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: not like sitting around going let's contemplate the meaning of life?
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: And who do you think you know? With the first
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: star when it bursts? What kind of galaxy did it form?
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: I mean, we're not having these kind of conversations.
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, what does she talk about philosophy, Let's talk about Nietzche,
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: Let's talk about politics, let's talk about No, they're going
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: to be talking about the kids and money, every day life,
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: every day life. So Marisa says, the one thing Edward has,
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: the one thing Edward has is that he's a nicer
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: person than I am, and I'm learning that from him.
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: And the friend says that's huge, that's great, and she's like, yeah,
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: I need to be reminded of that. He is the
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: nicest person. He worships me, and that's what most women want.
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: But I'm over here wanting something else that my mind
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: is craving.
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: She's just so full of shit. Join a book club,
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: nailed it. Join a book club where you're going to
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: read the latest Elan Hildebrand book and it's not going
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: to be that deep anyway.
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: Exactly. So the friend says, well, the grass is always greener.
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: If he did give you what you want, you might
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: be exhausted, Like seriously, Imagine you've just come home from
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: working in the city and your partner is like, Okay,
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: I have this new philosophical article I want you to
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: read and we can talk about the meaning of life. No, no,
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: I want to watch ninety Fiance any Chinese food. So
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: Marissa wonders, will he ever be the sophisticated person that
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: I can bring to a black tie event or like
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: a rodeo? What, ma'am, what what are you talking about? What?
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: I think he would be just fine at a black
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: tie event. He is perfectly able of having conversations with
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: all kinds of people. Yeah, So what has led her
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: to believe that when he gets in public he doesn't
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: know how to act?
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: Does she think he's going to rip off his shirt
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: and start fingering his belly button and asking the other
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: men to smell it. What do you think he's gonna do?
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: Gross? I don't know.
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: We haven't even seen him burp or fart or anything.
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: He's been perfectly fine.
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know what she's talking about.
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: Now at a rodeo, he might be a little confused,
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: but I don't think he'd embarrass himself.
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: He'd be fascinated probably, Yeah, yeah.
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: Also, what issticated about a rodeo? What is she talking
• 25:59
  Speaker 2: about that?
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: Does she know what sophisticated means? I don't think she
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: knows it intellectually or sophisticated means. So Marissa tells us
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: Edward hasn't been exposed to a lot of things that
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: I do in my normal life, so I'm a little
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: concerned about his ability to adapt to social standards again,
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: like he's going to hawk up a loogie and hand
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: it to a fellow man and say, will you sellow
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: you guys. I don't even know what she thinks he's
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: going to do. I can't even comprehend. Well, like she
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: has hostility.
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: She hasn't posted since that, She hasn't posted since the episodica.
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: Yes, she knows how she didn't realize how bad it
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: was because she was a little tipsy and she didn't realize.
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: I think so social standards. He again, works in hospitality,
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: he knows about social standards. Yeah, so she goes in
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: my friend group. There are a bunch of successful women
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: and men, and we talk about sophisticated things. And I
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: think Edward struggles with that sometimes, not because he's a
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: stupid person, but because he's not exposed to that because
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: people in the dr are dumb and they don't talk
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: about smart things. I guess. So the friend says, well,
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: he's very kind, but you're a driven person, and I
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: do wonder will he be good enough for you? And
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: that's where the friend lost me because I was like,
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: you just said he's kind. So for some people, the
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: definition of being good enough is like they're kind, they're
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: good like you would want your children to come home
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: with a partner that is kind, right, yes, So that
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: makes him good enough And for them it's all about
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: how much he MIxS essentially, so because she wouldn't worry
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: about sophistication if he was rich.
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: Like rich people can be the grossest at all.
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: Exactly, you know, So Marisa says, I'm told because he
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: treats me better than anyone ever could. So I'm torn
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: to pieces. You just said he will treat me better
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: than anyone ever will, and I'm torn.
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: Later, she says she loves him more than she's ever
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: loved anyone.
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: What the why are you torn? Then? So her friend
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: says she's so successful and business minded and sure he's nice,
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: but will he live up to her expectations?
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: Like that?
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: I was like, god, I was really rooting for that friend.
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: And then it was like, sure he's nice, Like that
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: doesn't mean anything. And Marisa says, I'm just being so
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: harsh with him every day. And her friend says, You're
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: not this mean. This is not you. You're being very degrading
• 28:47
  Speaker 2: to yourself right now. Marissa, it's hard to listen to
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: you are so real. You're so real. We love that
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: about you. It's like, what about Marissa is so real? Okay,
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: that was weird.
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: That was weird.
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: They were all like kiss up to her, and She's like,
• 29:01
  Speaker 2: I'm losing who I am. I'm so frustrated and impatient
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: and angry every day. Why am I being so mean
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: to a person who is so kind to me? It
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: makes me feel evil, and I don't want to feel
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: this way. And she says, you will your partner bring
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: out your best, that's what you think about. And right
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: now I'm not my best. And he used to bring
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: out my best when we were on vacation together, but
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: now I'm the opposite. And am I always going to
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: be this way around him? I don't want to be
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: mean for the rest of my life. I don't want
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: to be in a relationship that makes me be not
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: who I am. So get way to shift the blame
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: to it's his fault.
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: Yep, yep.
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: That she is being a bitch. I know we say
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: no woman ever drew herself crazy per Ronnie on WATCHO Crappen's.
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: But she is the reason. She's being a bitch.
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: She's trying herself crazy. She is driving, she is got
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: herself spun up into this cycle of and I think
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: when her friend says here, her friend says, you're so
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: worried about what people think, I think that's the issue.
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: The issue is she is worried about what other people think.
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: So she's worried at this party. Her neighborhood friends will think, like,
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: what has she done? She's with this guy that's lesser
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: than that's the issue. She worries about what all of them.
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: Think and it's making her spiral. And then she lashes
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: out at him. Yeah he's not doing anything to warrant
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: this behavior.
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: He's acting normal a lot of cocktail parties.
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, so she says, I everyone questioned this relationship,
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: and I don't want to have to say they were right.
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: And that's another she doesn't want people say I told
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: you so. And the friends are like, you shouldn't be
• 30:43
  Speaker 2: worried what other people think except all of us, because
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: that's what we do here.
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: So yeah, that when the friend said, you're I think
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: you're worried about what other people think, I was like,
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: I think that's the root of the point here, is
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: that she is trying to like make sure her neighbors
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: all think she's a certain level. Yeah, and that is
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: she bringing herself down by the way she currently like
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: owns a bar three studio and yeah, all's all together.
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean she's it's all her self consciousness and
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: her values of what she thinks matters, and it's all
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: about what people think, which is like, she's in her forties,
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: stop caring what people think. In your like weird neighborhood
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: that it's like, it's so it's like keeping up with
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: the Joneses.
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: Right, but the ft but the guys seemed all completely like, hey, bro,
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: what's up? You want to talk about it?
• 31:36
  Speaker 2: All?
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: They all seemed to judging him for.
• 31:39
  Speaker 2: What, you know, they were perfectly fine.
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: They knew he just got there and didn't have a
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: job yet. So I mean, yeah, yeah.
• 31:45
  Speaker 2: And I and I just really don't like how she
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: keeps being like, well, he the relationship is not bringing
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: out the best He used to bring out the best
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: of me, Like, it's his job to make you a
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: grown woman, be a better person, And how are you
• 31:59
  Speaker 2: making him better? She never worries about that. That's like
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: she just assumes by bringing him here she is making
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: him better and letting him live in a big house.
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: But it's his job to make her a better person.
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: When yeah, okay, Asha and Maxwell six days to wed
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: The wedding is the past day, so Asha goes in
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: to talk to her future mother in law Maria. She
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: gives her a purse they bought at the market and
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: some caftans that she said she brought from home, and
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: in her talking to her, she says, my age should
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: not matter, and we have less than a week to
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: get on one accord before the wedding day. Now I
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: looked that up because I was like, is that the
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: correct usage of that of one accord? Either way, it
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: was not a phrase that I have not heard. I've
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: never heard this phrase, so I looked it up. I
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: was like, you're gonna get into your record like the car,
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: she doesn't drive it a cord. Not absolutely not. So
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: Asha talks to Maria and the Maria says, listen, I
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: was concerned because you need to be happy with Maxwell
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: and the way he looks because God created Maxwell. You
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: want to change his eyeball, you want to fix his face,
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: and when he comes back from the United States, I
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: won't recognize him. And you have no right to change
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: him because God made his body. His body in his face,
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: or the temple that God made. And then she goes
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: mm hmm. Now if there are cracks in the step
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: at the temple, you have to fix those steps.
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: That was good.
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: That was good, And she goes no, and she goes,
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: now something brakes in your house, like the air conditioner.
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: Something you have to fix it. And she goes, no,
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: it's not the same. And she goes, now, what if
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: you sometimes you get a new furniture in your house,
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: or like a new rug, And.
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: She's like you to switch to a different tech. Go
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: switch to a person. Do you dwe your hair, Mama? Yeah,
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: because you want to change your hair color?
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And and she goes, now, you know those skin
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: treatments have helped him. Now you know it has helped
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: with his acne. And Maria says, my husband used to
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: have this. He used to have the skin pimples all over.
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: But once I started having children, all his acne went away.
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: And she goes and she goes, Okay, so I'm going
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: about this all wrong. It's all about me having children.
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: Me having children clear up his skin is so funny
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: and her, she says, this woman has lost her mind.
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: She is true, and she said anything having children will
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: make your skin break out more. And Maria says, well,
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: and I have to tell you I didn't think he
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: should marry someone so old, but I've decided to love
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: his love. And I'm backing you in prayer, and I
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: know you will be blessed with four children, two boys,
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: two girls. And every time she says two boys, two
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: girls as she goes a one girl it one girl,
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: and she talks over her and they go back and
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: forth on it. It was pretty funny. Yeah, it was
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: pretty funny. And Asia says, his mother is cuckoo. Do
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: think I'm pushing out four children? You know? So does
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: she know my age?
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: Does she know? I am the age of Dame Judy
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: Dench over here and I cannot have that many children.
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: Judy did still with us?
• 35:23
  Speaker 2: I don't know, Okay, So I'm going to look it up. Okay.
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: So Asha and Maxwell talk about the wedding and they're like,
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: the way Judy did, she's still with us.
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: Okay, ninety one years old, God bless.
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: I was thinking about the other dame that died that
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: was in Dunton Abbey.
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: Oh yes, Maggie Smith.
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: Maggie Smith. So they say the wedding will be small
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: and then they'll have a bigger one in the United States.
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: But they got to get everybody over here for the wedding.
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: I was like, then, it's not going to be small
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: if you're flying all these people over here.
• 35:58
  Speaker 2: No, just have them wait for the in the United States.
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: She's gonna get her sisters and of course her godbrother Rod.
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: You know she's gonna call Rod to get Rod to help,
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: and I was like, six days to fly to Africa.
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: You're not giving them much heads up and for to.
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: Believe do these people not have jobs?
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: Do they have current passports?
• 36:18
  Speaker 3: Like?
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a pretty long way to go. So she
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: calls Rod and says, Rod, guess what we've decided. Since
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: I'm here, we're gonna go ahead and do the spouse
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: of visa. And he goes, what does that mean? She goes,
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna go ahead and get married while I'm here.
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: It didn't make this to go all the way back
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: home and come all the way back. And he says, bitch,
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: you crazy, And I love that because he didn't. He
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: like took all his glasses and he was like, he says,
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: you lost it. This is some scamming going on. This
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: is not what you signed up for. You practiced abstinence
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: all these years. Now what are we really are we
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: to believe she's a virgin or she's just been abstinent
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: for X amount of years?
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I remember Maxwell trying to get it
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: in mean second that she landed interesting.
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: He said, you practice absence for all these years for
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: someone who is not even your caliber. And she says
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: that's disrespectful. And he says, are you pregnant or something?
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: Fake out? Fake out again, and she goes, now, you
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: know I'm not pregnant. So she goes, now, you're gonna
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: have to help my sisters get over here because they're
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: not used to flying, especially they've got now five days
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: notice to get Africa. And Rod is like, I cannot
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: believe you were doing this. This man has nothing.
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: He has nothing, Okay, rude.
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: Now she did a post saying that he has two
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: master's degrees and everybody in his family has at least
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: a master's and some have doctorates. Okay, he comes from
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: a very well established family according to the post she did.
• 37:53
  Speaker 2: M So does Rod just not have the four to
• 37:57
  Speaker 2: one one on what's happening?
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: I think that's right.
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: I think she's Yeah, he's making a lot of assumptions.
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: I think he is, and we don't want to know.
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: Now we're going to go on to another pretty tragic story.
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: This is a really good episode, which is Katie and
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: Josh and oh God. A listener Chris, who sends me
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: so much information, sent me a picture of a comparison
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: between Katie's mother and Melissa McCarthy from Brice Mains and
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: I died. I died.
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: She was like, does that not look like oh yeah
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: in that picture?
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: Yes, I mean I was laughing so hard. I was like,
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: because I took pictures of her too. I mean, she's
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: not wrong, she's not wrong. Similar, hilarious.
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: Okay, continue, Okay, So there, this is just this is
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: the episode we learned that Katie's entire family hates her.
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: And it's not just us, it's not as folks. We're
• 39:01
  Speaker 2: in this together with this old family.
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: This was hard. Hard.
• 39:06
  Speaker 2: My dad wasn't seeing it, and I was like, read
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: between the lines of what the mom is saying. This
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: is what the mom is saying on TV about her
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: own daughter. Yeah, and Chad, her church going lady.
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: It's bad.
• 39:19
  Speaker 2: Although they can be the most judgy, but so they
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: Katie and Josh are going to Easter with her family
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: in California. She's telling him about how they had how
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: they celebrated Easter and how they also had chickens and
• 39:33
  Speaker 2: they had a bad chicken who would attack them, and
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: then her dad would kill the chicken who was attacking them,
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: and the other chickens somewhere Breakingne was just sobbing. Yeah,
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: I guess you got to weed out and start over.
• 39:48
  Speaker 2: Renee horror. Renee is sobbing in the corner.
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: I hated the show. So he's going to.
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: Cook some British stuff for her family and he's like,
• 39:58
  Speaker 2: I am going to cook sausage. I have to practice
• 40:01
  Speaker 2: how to say it sausage. How do you say it,
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: sausage roll? He sounds like a robot, sausage roll, sausage rolls,
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: I say it?
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: Why does he have to learn to say it? What?
• 40:12
  Speaker 2: Just say it normally they can understand you. So he says,
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: I'm still trying to understand religion in America and I
• 40:20
  Speaker 2: don't want to say the wrong thing in front of
• 40:22
  Speaker 2: her family. And she's like, well, we're Lutheran and he says, yeah,
• 40:26
  Speaker 2: I guess I'm not religious at all. So and she says,
• 40:29
  Speaker 2: so you'd never want to go to church with me?
• 40:32
  Speaker 2: And he said, well, if I don't, is that a
• 40:34
  Speaker 2: deal breaker? And she says, yeah, it is a deal breaker.
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: And I was like, bitch, does your church know what
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: you're doing with your tongue? Every day? But Sunday probably
• 40:43
  Speaker 2: after church on Sunday as well.
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: Has he ever seen or go to church or known
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: that this was a huge bona contention for her?
• 40:51
  Speaker 2: Has she mentioned it even once ever? Right? So he
• 40:55
  Speaker 2: says he's more agnostic, and she's like, well, my mom
• 40:58
  Speaker 2: read the whole Bible. He goes, wow, and I was like,
• 41:02
  Speaker 2: I thought a lot of people have. I think if
• 41:04
  Speaker 2: you've gone to church your whole life, you've eventually read
• 41:06
  Speaker 2: the whole Bible. So the mom would want her if
• 41:11
  Speaker 2: they have children, Dear God help us, all the grandchildren
• 41:17
  Speaker 2: should be raised Lutheran. And Josh says, well, what if
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: I didn't want that to be And Katie says, well,
• 41:24
  Speaker 2: that would be bad. I think it might be a
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: deal breaker. And he says, well, it's like, you don't
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: go to church, so I don't really know what it
• 41:31
  Speaker 2: means for you to be religion religious because yeah, exactly.
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: And he says, I would not want my children to
• 41:40
  Speaker 2: be indoctrinated into something and have something pushed on them
• 41:44
  Speaker 2: so that they can make up their own minds. And
• 41:46
  Speaker 2: she's like, well, I think it's important for them to
• 41:49
  Speaker 2: be baptized in the Lutheran Church and to have the
• 41:51
  Speaker 2: Lutheran Church pushed on them, which is the exact opposite
• 41:55
  Speaker 2: of what he said.
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: And alway, if she doesn't go to church now, she's
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: not gonna sudden become a churchgoer. So he doesn't need
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: to worry about this. Yeah, just get to baptize. She's
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: never going to try to go to church. She's going
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: to be too hungover.
• 42:07
  Speaker 2: Exactly. Also, she had the Lutheran church pushed on her.
• 42:11
  Speaker 2: It worked out so great. She is not a ringing
• 42:15
  Speaker 2: endorsement for religion, let's just put it that way. So
• 42:20
  Speaker 2: she tells him, well, if you change your mind and
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: you won't do it, Lutherans do believe in divorce, and
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: he's like, okay, Like that's a threat, You're God, get
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: me out of this. She wants him to leave. She
• 42:35
  Speaker 2: keeps throwing up all these roadblocks because she doesn't want
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: to get married, but she doesn't want to be the
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: one to end it. She wants him to break up
• 42:42
  Speaker 2: with her, so she keeps being as difficult as possible.
• 42:46
  Speaker 2: So then they're running late for the airport. He really
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: wants to be on time. He's a very nervous flyer.
• 42:51
  Speaker 2: He wants to get there like six hours early to
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: the airport, and she is taking her sweet time, and
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: he says, she keeps promising she'll be better, but she
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: isn't improving her behavior. So it's like, why am I here?
• 43:04
  Speaker 2: If we all are wondering that, did.
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: We get how early he was trying to be to
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: the airport?
• 43:10
  Speaker 2: Honestly, she said it was an hour earlier than she
• 43:13
  Speaker 2: would have liked to be there. She said, we're going
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: to have to be there like two hours waiting or something.
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: So it was just a couple hours, okay, so it
• 43:21
  Speaker 2: seemed fairly reasonable. It wasn't like, you know, five am
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: for a five pm flight, It didn't seem like that.
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: It just seemed like they tell you get their X
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: amount of time. And he's trying to really follow that
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: rule and she's like, yeah, sometimes I just wing it.
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: And exactly because that's how she lives her life. So
• 43:41
  Speaker 2: she so finally he just leaves. He's like, I'll meet
• 43:44
  Speaker 2: you at the train station because I can't. I'm nervous.
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: I'm going to get a donut and I'm leaving, and
• 43:51
  Speaker 2: she tells us Josh is being so annoying about timing,
• 43:54
  Speaker 2: like we're super early? Why is he rushing me? And
• 43:57
  Speaker 2: I'm being bitchy today? But it's my own. And he's
• 44:02
  Speaker 2: being bitchy too though, so we're both being bitchy. So
• 44:07
  Speaker 2: at the airport, she tells him, I was really annoyed
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: with you for rushing me, and he said, you know
• 44:12
  Speaker 2: what today has been all about you. You decided when
• 44:15
  Speaker 2: you woke up you were in a mood today, and
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: then I just have to follow your emotions all day
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: and it's not fair. And why can't you understand that
• 44:24
  Speaker 2: there needs to be space for me in a relationship
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: there's two people. And also he looks terrible, like how
• 44:33
  Speaker 2: I said she looked when she was hungover going on
• 44:36
  Speaker 2: that run last time. He has bags under his eyes.
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: It is like she is a sucubist who is sucking
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: the life and joy out of his body like a
• 44:46
  Speaker 2: dementor from Harry Potter. Give the man some chocolate. It
• 44:50
  Speaker 2: is he has never looked rougher.
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: I think. Also he really hates travel and flying, and
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: so probably he's worked himself into a frenzy and didn't
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: sleep well. We don't know if they've gotten a double
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: bed yet or if they're still sleeping in that stained twin.
• 45:05
  Speaker 2: Did they get a sound machine to cover the sound
• 45:07
  Speaker 2: of that garage? Oh god. So she apologizes and he
• 45:13
  Speaker 2: thinks she's just apologizing to shut him up, which yes,
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: and he's like, I don't want to plan a wedding
• 45:19
  Speaker 2: when we're dealing with this dumb shit. That's like dumb,
• 45:23
  Speaker 2: these dumb issues like her not respecting me. He didn't
• 45:28
  Speaker 2: say that, but I'm saying that, So it's not dumb stuff.
• 45:32
  Speaker 2: It's very big stuff. So they arrive and they're both
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: in better moods when they land, and they apologize to
• 45:40
  Speaker 2: each other, and she tells him, you know you're gonna
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: see my family home. As a kid, I was really bossy. Shocker.
• 45:49
  Speaker 2: Everyone in my family is really chill and I'm the
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: wild one. They're rule followers. It's horrible. And he says
• 45:56
  Speaker 2: it sounds great.
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: Do we think that he's met her family before?
• 46:00
  Speaker 2: It did? Yes, because he had met before, right. He
• 46:04
  Speaker 2: says like, good to see you, yeah, but that could
• 46:06
  Speaker 2: be just britishy and not good. He didn't say good
• 46:09
  Speaker 2: to meet you, so I don't know.
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: It didn't seem uncomfortable, like because the dad was like,
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: I'll put you in your regular room, right, So it
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: seems like he's definitely met them before, maybe just not
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: at that house. Yeah, maybe they think that's it over
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: there or something.
• 46:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. So they go to the parents. She gives
• 46:28
  Speaker 2: the most awkward hug to her dad. It was like
• 46:30
  Speaker 2: a it's very strange. Josh gave him a better hug.
• 46:38
  Speaker 2: I felt like. So they the parents say, we've missed
• 46:41
  Speaker 2: seeing her while she was, you know, traveling around Europe.
• 46:44
  Speaker 2: We love having her here. For the first two or
• 46:48
  Speaker 2: three days, then you get tired and you just want
• 46:52
  Speaker 2: to sit and watch TV.
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: But that's any guess right, I.
• 46:57
  Speaker 2: Guess fair enough. I don't know. My parents would probably
• 47:02
  Speaker 2: say we would want you to stay forever, Like even
• 47:05
  Speaker 2: if I'm being a bitch. Not my parents, you know,
• 47:09
  Speaker 2: they're always like five days is it's enough time?
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: You can go. But I'll tell you interesting that my
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: friend Mary had both of her daughters and one lives
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: there once in college, and both of their boyfriends were
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: in town for like the fourth of July, and so
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: she was like, so I had like two extra people
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: in my house, like these two guys sleeping in the
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: guest room, and it was all like and so the
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: one boyfriend that lives in New York City, like his
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: train got canceled and then like his flight got canceled
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: because we were having that heat wave and all that stuff.
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: And Mary says she finally looked at a daughter and goes,
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: you're gonna have to drive him there, like he's got
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: to get out of the house. He's like he's been
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: here six days, like we're out of food, Like you
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: got to go. Yeah, so she did. She goes, I said,
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: here's my credit card, drive him back to New York.
• 47:58
  Speaker 2: That's hilarious. Okay, I get it. Uh So the parents
• 48:04
  Speaker 2: let them share a room, so they're not like that religious.
• 48:07
  Speaker 2: They did let them share a room obviously, right, Yes,
• 48:10
  Speaker 2: I was a little surprised. Why So Josh says, I'm
• 48:14
  Speaker 2: gonna unpack and then I'm gonna make the sausage rolls.
• 48:17
  Speaker 2: And she says, okay, I'm gonna go talk to my family.
• 48:22
  Speaker 2: But then she says she kind of stops and she says,
• 48:25
  Speaker 2: do you need anything from me?
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: I was shocked.
• 48:28
  Speaker 2: I was like, wow, that's growth good for her.
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: How crazy that we were both shocking those shot.
• 48:37
  Speaker 2: Shocked that she offered to help with something.
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that she thought of him, Uh huh, exactly, you alone,
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: can I help you?
• 48:44
  Speaker 3: Yes?
• 48:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, all right, that's.
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: Just that's just.
• 48:50
  Speaker 2: Uh huh. And he says a kiss would be nice
• 48:52
  Speaker 2: and she says, oh yeah, and she gives them a kiss.
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: You want one of these?
• 48:58
  Speaker 2: Uh So, such a weird couple. So Katie goes to
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: talk to her mom. She tells her mom about the
• 49:07
  Speaker 2: fight this morning, and unlike most mothers who would have
• 49:11
  Speaker 2: their daughters back, the mom immediately places all the blame
• 49:14
  Speaker 2: on Katie and she says, oh, well, you apologized, and
• 49:21
  Speaker 2: Katie's like, yeah, I apologize. She goes, Okay, that's good
• 49:23
  Speaker 2: because you should be nice to Josh. He deserves that.
• 49:27
  Speaker 2: He's a good guy and you're terrible. And the mom
• 49:32
  Speaker 2: tells us I hope they can make this work. Josh
• 49:34
  Speaker 2: is really good for her. He makes her think less
• 49:37
  Speaker 2: about herself and more about others, and that's a character
• 49:42
  Speaker 2: flaw she's had all her life.
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: She's a narcissist and.
• 49:49
  Speaker 2: See you next Tuesday.
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: Lig knows narcissists when we got that OCD.
• 49:54
  Speaker 2: Yep, I just never told her about that, but the
• 49:57
  Speaker 2: doctor slipped me a note as I was leaving the
• 50:00
  Speaker 2: office and said she's also a raging narcissist. So the
• 50:04
  Speaker 2: mom goes, she was super bossy as a kid and
• 50:07
  Speaker 2: it was annoying. She hates her child.
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: She is this is so rough. It's so rough. It's
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: it's continued.
• 50:18
  Speaker 2: She just called her child an annoying child on TV.
• 50:24
  Speaker 2: She's like, you can think that she's a lot. She goes, yeah,
• 50:29
  Speaker 2: she's super bossy. It was annoying, and then she says.
• 50:33
  Speaker 2: Katie says, I was bad at my birthday. I drank
• 50:37
  Speaker 2: a lot of tequila. I tried to kiss everyone, and
• 50:41
  Speaker 2: the mom says that makes me sad, and Katie says,
• 50:45
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry.
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: Katie.
• 50:47
  Speaker 2: She just have I'm sorry tattooed across her forehead. The
• 50:49
  Speaker 2: amount of time she has to apologize to people.
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: Her mom has been dealing with this, and her mom
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: obviously knows that she does this, get drunk and gets
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: drunk and trustics. She's obviously talked to her mom about this.
• 51:02
  Speaker 2: Yes, which is good. I'm glad that she has someone
• 51:05
  Speaker 2: to talk to.
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: But he didn't go what, you're engaged and you were
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: trying to kiss people.
• 51:12
  Speaker 2: Not surprised.
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: She was like, that makes me sad that you did that.
• 51:15
  Speaker 2: You know that you're still doing this ship So mom says,
• 51:19
  Speaker 2: you know you drink and your behavior gets obnoxious and
• 51:23
  Speaker 2: you're going to hurt someone some day, And Katie says, like.
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: Murder, kimberly, what's wrong with her? The fact that that's
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: the first thing she thought, That.
• 51:38
  Speaker 2: Is the first thing you thought of that you meant homicide.
• 51:42
  Speaker 2: That she didn't smile, She didn't She is that her
• 51:46
  Speaker 2: o c D like thinking that that's what her mom means, or.
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: Maybe maybe maybe she went to the worst thing.
• 51:53
  Speaker 2: How bad does your behavior have to be that you
• 51:56
  Speaker 2: think when your mom says hurt someone, you think she
• 51:59
  Speaker 2: means murder.
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: It could be the OCD just going to the worst
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: thing that you don't but wow, that was.
• 52:08
  Speaker 2: And the mom no, spiritually, like emotionally, And the mom
• 52:16
  Speaker 2: tells us I don't want to blame all her behavior
• 52:18
  Speaker 2: on OCD, but because there's many other things happening here.
• 52:22
  Speaker 2: But she does have these voices in her head that
• 52:25
  Speaker 2: are telling her to do all these bad things and
• 52:27
  Speaker 2: she tries not to listen to them. And then she's
• 52:30
  Speaker 2: also an alcoholic, she is a sex addict maybe yeah,
• 52:36
  Speaker 2: and a narcissist and just so many other things. So
• 52:41
  Speaker 2: the mom says she's burned relationships in the past because
• 52:45
  Speaker 2: she's a lot and people get tired of it.
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  Speaker 1: Oh that just breaks my heart.
• 52:51
  Speaker 2: That is so sim You're gonna Katie's gonna watch this
• 52:55
  Speaker 2: and like hear how her mom truly feels about her.
• 52:59
  Speaker 2: I know it's bad, but maybe she needs it. Because again,
• 53:04
  Speaker 2: Josh never firmly puts his foot down. He does this, like,
• 53:08
  Speaker 2: why did you feel like you had to do this?
• 53:10
  Speaker 2: Why did you feel like you had to cheat on
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  Speaker 2: me in front of me? Like it's very Let's talk
• 53:16
  Speaker 2: about your emotions, Katie, of why you felt that way.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I can't keep doing this forever, but I'm
• 53:22
  Speaker 2: probably gonna keep doing this forever. So she needs someone
• 53:26
  Speaker 2: to slap her across the face and say, snap out
• 53:29
  Speaker 2: of it. Yeah, what the fuck are you doing? You
• 53:32
  Speaker 2: need some consequences for your behavior.
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: She needs she needs like weekly therapy, that's what she
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: needs at least once.
• 53:38
  Speaker 2: Why she needs medication and therapy. She needs an inpatient
• 53:42
  Speaker 2: treatment facility too. Like yes, hey, bunkies, it's producer ingrid here.
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  Speaker 2: This is the end of part one. Part two is
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  Speaker 2: already in your feed. Enjoy the show.