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The Hidden Agenda in Conflict and How It Keeps You Stuck

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A tough truth about relationship conflict is that we often walk into “the talk” with a hidden agenda: we want the other person to change. I unpack why that hope can keep you stuck, especially when you’re dealing with chronic behavior patterns that have already hurt you more than once. The turning point is a question that sounds almost too simple: what outcome do I want for my life? When you start there, boundary setting stops being a debate and starts becoming a plan you can actually follow.

I also get specific about communication and why it’s so hard to…

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