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S02Ep12 - What Really Happened at Houston Splash? The Truth About Our Experience · The Bull Brotherhood

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Let's go. Good evening, ladies and gentlemen,
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and welcome to another informative episode of
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the Bull Brotherhood podcast. I'm the one and
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only Sigma male, Brian Morgan, the lone wolf
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coming at you as one third of the podcast family,
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along with the beautiful couple of siren and
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Socrates. Ladies and gentlemen, how you doing?
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Doing good. Doing real good, real good, Unc.
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What's good with you and welcome back from what
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I hear, an exciting tour of Houston, Texas and
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this Splash Mocha, another Splash Mocha event.
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How was it, y 'all? Man, it was, you know, I
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always say, people ask me, what's your favorite
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one? I'm always like the last one I went to.
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But, you know, Houston is the favorite location
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for sure. You know, we always learn. We always
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go in there with some goals, like mental and
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emotional goals to achieve. We never go in there
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with numbers or anything like that. We're always
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in there, like, how can we improve ourselves?
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That kind of thing. And we got a lot. We have
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a lot. What is it about Houston that, like, makes
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it your favorite? Siren, you want to go first?
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I just already just have a special place in my
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heart for the Houston men. They always take real
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good care of me inside and outside of Splash.
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And then I think to in Fort Lauderdale, I just
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before I went there, I went there with three
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things that I wanted to make sure that I achieved.
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In the past, I really did focus on numbers. I
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wanted to get a lot of play going. And then,
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you know, once you kind of. get that craziness
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out of your system. You can slow down and really
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think about what you want, like you say, evolve.
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So I went in there with the mentality of making
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sure I was where I wanted to be, with who I wanted
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to be, doing what I wanted to be doing. So that
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really worked well in Fort Lauderdale. And I
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damn near nailed it. And then in Houston. I think
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I had it going, but then I wasn't feeling well.
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So I didn't get to, you know, execute according
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to like what I wanted, you know, perfectly. And
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there was, you know, little hiccups. But overall,
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I think that Houston is just a great place with
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great people. There's a lot of local people that
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are really great and a lot of local men, especially
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the ladies are very supportive that are from
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the area. A lot of them, I'm blessed to call
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friends. So that's really what makes Houston
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my favorite. And that was her first splash. That
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was her first and second splash. Oh really? Oh
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yeah, yeah. When we first came, that was the
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first time Houston was where we started. Back
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to the birthing of Splash Mocha. It's also where
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she got her name Siren. Yeah. Ah, okay. So that
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was like the... I was born in Houston. Go ahead,
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I'm sorry. I was also born in Houston. Oh, really?
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So that's home. Just keeps adding up. Okay. Okay.
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Okay. So, like, the baptism and the rebirth,
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huh? Right. All in one? Sounds like a winner.
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Sounds like a winner. Who did you meet, like,
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new or... I mean, just give me, like, a rundown
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of pretty much what you did, you know? from like
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the time you got there and to the time you started
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playing, et cetera, et cetera. Who'd you meet?
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Who'd you wish you would have met? Did you make
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some great connections, et cetera? Well, we did
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it a little bit differently this time. We had
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some business things going on. So Socrates came
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in on Wednesday. I came in on Tuesday and a gentleman
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from the area picked me up and brought me to
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the hotel and got me settled in and then You
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know, we did something that was new for us. We
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don't we haven't done a lot. We've each just
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done it once since we've meeting each other and
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we we have stayed overnight. So we made a, you
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know, a special occasion kind of thing out of
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it. I wasn't sure how I would feel about that,
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you know, because I I have sleep apnea, I have
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a CPAP, you know, just just different things.
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It was more about how I would if I would get
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my rest with someone that wasn't my husband in
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the room with me. Versus being nervous about
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the person, you know, I felt safe and comfortable
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with him. But just that process so so that went
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just fine And then the next day I just wasn't
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feel I started just like not feeling great like
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just lower energy Took in I think I played Around
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noon a guy came, you know on Wednesday from the
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area, but he was also going to be a part of splash
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and we played Then I took a nap and then about
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that time it was time to go get my husband So
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I you know rode to the airport with the gentleman
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that had picked me up and we got him got him
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to the hotel and You know got him settled in
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and then we just started mingling right away
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I finished out the evening with a couple more
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local guys from the area that you know, because
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it's Wednesday night, you know, anybody can come
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in the hotel. And I had met them previously at
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a party, so they didn't attend Splash, but they
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were there before that. And then by Thursday
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morning, I was really not feeling well. I had
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some definite, you know, exhaustion and emotions,
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you know, just worked through just from not feeling
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good. worked through those, decided that it was
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best for me to just go by what I was talking
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about. If I am not feeling well, I need to just
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go to the room and rest. I need to not try to
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push myself, not try to do a bunch. And Socrates
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consistently checked on me throughout the weekend.
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And I just kept saying, go play, go play. I'm
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going to bed at whatever time I need to go to
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bed. for my body, and I'll see you when I see
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you. We do a lockdown date every month, and that's
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coming up tomorrow, where we spend 24 hours just
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with each other. We don't talk to nobody else.
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We may or may not go anywhere. Usually, we just
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stay at home and just have some connection time.
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So I knew that was coming up. So I was like,
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here's the place where we can be with all these
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people. And when we get home, we'll have our
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connection time. So. He was great. He kept checking
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in on me, but I just kept encouraging him go
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play and go have a good time I did have He organized
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a gangbang for me and another gal that's from
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our area that was in attendance The tag team
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taters Um, so anyways, that was a good time.
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He did a really good job with that. Um, usually
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he has a hard time not jumping in because he
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wants to be part of the fun and the beauty that's
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going around, but he did real good just facilitating
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the gangbang and letting the other guys have
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their fun with us and jumped in a little bit
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at the end, got some good videos and pictures
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for him, for me to have his memories. So that's
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nice. Um, and then I just, you know - That's
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what you're supposed to do. Yeah. Then I just
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made sure that I had - You know, good quiet connections.
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Room parties, I really have to gear up for those.
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They're not necessarily my jam. I know a lot
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of people love them. They're great. Socrates,
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he loves them. He went to a bunch. I didn't go
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to a single one, and I was perfectly happy with
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that. I love my one -on -one connections with
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guys. I love that chance to just slow down, talk.
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Like, my life is very busy outside of Splash.
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So I think for me to be able to slow down there
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and just relax and then really enjoy whatever
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moment I'm in with whoever I'm in it with is
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really important to me and really meets my needs
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for Splash. Whereas Socrates is a people person,
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he's an extrovert, being around people just charges
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his battery. So, you know, we just really both
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negated Splash in the way that was best for us.
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And we learned you know, how to navigate it a
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little bit better next time, you know, as a couple
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or, you know, run around separately. So we always
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learn something. We always talk before and after
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about what worked, what didn't work, and we just
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keep improving on it. So if I hadn't been feeling
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poorly throughout and just saving every little
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bit of energy for any playtime I could get, then
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I would have said it was damn near perfect. So.
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It's not like you had a good time, regardless
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of the situation. And it was very sweet. Right
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away on Wednesday, a lady ran up to me and she
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was like, Siren, Siren, I'm so sorry. I'm just,
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I'm fangirling. And I was like, oh, you're fine,
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you're fine. She's like, me and my husband, we
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listen to your podcast all the time in the car
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when we're driving together. And she was just
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really excited and... So I was like, oh, I met
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my first big fan. It was very sweet. Really nice
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lady. So it's just, you know, people are getting
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a lot of benefit from the podcast that we do.
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And that's really what we want is to help our
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community and to, you know, give them more knowledge,
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more encouragement and more resources. So if
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that's being accomplished, that's all I can ask
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for. You know, if you know my name or not, that's.
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You know irrelevant, but if you're getting what
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you need out of the podcast that we share then
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then that's a win for me. So soccer cheese, what
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about you? Well It was a lot like I say um But
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I do want to say first off. Thank you to all
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the listeners that did come up to me and share
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their thoughts and you know how much they are
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enjoying the podcast and I want to also encourage
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you guys, you know, email us. We're on telegram
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The Bull Brotherhood is on Telegram. I'll put
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that link on there. You know, but I really, really
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enjoyed that. I really enjoyed hearing, you know,
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all of it was positive, but I'm open to any kind
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of criticism you might have that we can get better.
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Or at least clarify, nah, that's how we gonna
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talk, because we're gonna be bold. We're gonna
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say what we believe in. We're gonna stand on
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business. But that was awesome. As far as me,
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I was out of sorts in the beginning because she
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was not feeling well because Here's the thing
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you guys like there was one time the second splash.
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I missed my Achilles trying to play basketball
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And I had to go in a boot and I was at the end
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towards the end of it Like I wasn't really in
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a bad shape, but there was a time where we were
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thinking about how I'm off I can make it she's
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like look food if I have to wheel you around
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In a wheelchair we go we going and I'm like,
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okay, you know, so this is the highlight of her
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year We do it three times a year. It's the highlight
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of our lifestyle, you know, and I'm ready to
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kind of expand but you know, it's something that
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she truly loves she doesn't get that kind of
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treat a lot of other places and I just really
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loved How well she handled it I didn't believe
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her, it should be she kept saying, I'm fine daddy,
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there's nothing the way you can do, go have fun.
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And. So you got a chance, go ahead, go ahead.
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No, go ahead. No, so you got a chance to actually
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get out there and maneuver. Of course she knows,
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you know, she knows that she's giving you the
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green light to go out there and just do your
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thing. So how did you approach? I mean, did you
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go out there and just be my typical nephew and
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get bug wild? Or did you take some of what Uncle's
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been telling you and, you know, go out there
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and play with it a little bit? Well, Siren would
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disagree with it in the way it's explained. So
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I would say it's kind of both. I took your advice
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in the sense that... I have ADHD and it's not
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an excuse. I'm working on it, but I really do.
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And so I am kind of a squirrel person. And I
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took your advice, Mr. Mocha, I mean all the entire
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squad, Pagan, it doesn't matter who you mention.
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And I slowed down a little bit. And I tried to
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sit in places and just chill and watch. And what
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started to happen is people started coming to
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me. And then I would... started getting the buzz
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and then I would get back into my ADHD a little
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bit and then I would stop myself, calm back down
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and chill. And another thing that I did was huge
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this time. I didn't do much at all in the playrooms
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besides the glory home. That's my spot. I'm always
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going to go there. But like the big playrooms
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and some of the other wife watching rooms and
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all those things, I'm usually in there and I
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didn't. I decided this time I wanted to really
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start chilling, hanging with the boys. talking
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to the squad, seeing how they're doing, catching
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up with them, and really getting to know couples,
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sitting down and talking to them for a long time.
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I speak Spanish, and I don't have an opportunity
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to practice my Spanish where I live. So I met
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a couple where the husband didn't speak English
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and the wife was bilingual. So I was able to
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kind of practice my Spanish and chill with them.
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And converse and get really get to know them
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and then I spent a little bit more a lot more
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time in the in the in the room parties and It
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was much more of a vibe. It was much more of
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my vibe And so yeah, I listened to what you said
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I'd sit back a lot more than I normally do now
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I think this next one is gonna be people aren't
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even gonna recognize me because I see the vision
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now I see what especially you and mr. Mocha have
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been saying you guys were surely missed by the
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way You guys are really missed there. Everyone
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asked. Everyone asked about you guys. But the
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specific advice you guys gave me to sit back,
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chill, be observant, pay attention, and take
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a breather, watch what's going on, that worked
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tremendously. But I will say this, Siren, we
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used to get into it because... The way she wanted
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to manage The the women I played with especially
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if it's local was very very hands -on and I would
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say look I don't have a problem with that insecure
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jealous. They need to know our bond They need
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to know how much we love each other You know,
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but you're doing too much. The only thing I need
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you to do is Let them know one thing and it should
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be a hundred percent truth. We are solid Like
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me and Socrates over there That's sealed. There's
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nothing you can do to take that man away from
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me. The only the only person is gonna lose Socrates
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is siren That's it so she did that and she did
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it in her own way and I'll let her talk about
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it if she wants to talk about how but That I
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think made the difference. I didn't have to go
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out there chasing anything pursuing anything
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Follow up, you know, we're business people. So
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I had a story to tell and It was my first it
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was my first splash and There was this girl and
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to this day when I see her something in me just
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it just electrifies. She's She has this kind
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of southern Feminine swag. I don't know what
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you want to call it that just gets me going So
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she was one of the first women I said hey, you
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know if you're you know, if you're you know You're
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okay with it. I'd like to You know play with
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you. That's how I said it too nervous stuttering.
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She said oh, yeah be great. Yeah, let's catch
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up later We're business we're business people
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me and me and siren One of the biggest things
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we say to each other all time is fortune is in
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the follow -up Well that don't work at Splash
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Mocha gentlemen Not the way I did because I followed
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up yes, you know every time She said yeah Yeah,
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let's catch up later I Followed up two more times
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the third time when she was like Yeah, catch
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up. Let's catch up later. You know what she said
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it Sunday as we're leaving with our luggage I
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said I said I'll never ever doing that again
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now funny thing is I ended up in a room party
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and she the first thing she did was trip her
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clothes off and jumped on my dick, but That's
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not the point. Oh on this one. No the next one.
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Oh the one right after that Cuz I remember I
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was upset about it and everything I was like,
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oh, I'm never doing that again So I said all
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that to say I didn't have to. Because I was like,
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I am not doing that. I'm here. I know the value
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I bring. I'm one who masters my craft. I take
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pride in it. And I'm a lover of women. I am in
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love with my wife. But she knows I appreciate
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women's body, their femininity, their magic,
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their power, their ability to create life. She
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knows that. So that's valuable. That's something
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of value. I don't want to spend my energy chasing
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anybody but my wife. Now, I will pursue you,
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but I chase my wife all around here mentally,
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emotionally, well, not physically because I can't
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keep up with her sexually, but I just can't keep
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up with that. But I chase my wife. I ain't chasing
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a woman I might not ever see. I think you're
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scaring the guys away. You're scaring them away.
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It's not like that, guys. It's like that, guys.
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You'll be fine. You won't be fine. You'll be
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fine. I want to speak to the comfort part. So
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I think what really helped when he's referring
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to is not only what I did in the ladies chat,
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but also what we did in the vent chat. And I
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think more people that are coupled up would do
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well to... Present this in the event mingle.
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So I really want to push this and it's the idea
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that Especially if you're in an interracial relationship
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and you're going to splash that just creates
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a level of a Little bit of a barrier, you know
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people don't quite know how to approach you because
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it's very different a lot, you know is like you
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know, white couples are going there to seek a
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single black man, you know? So when an interracial
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couple goes, it's a little bit different. So
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what we did is, in the chat, I put a picture
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of Socrates. This is just in the event mingles,
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and I said, hey, we're Siren and Socrates. We
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play separately. Stamp of approval. Ladies go,
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you know, you don't have to ask my permission.
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If you see me, say hi. I'd love to meet you.
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And then in the ladies chat, I did that like
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a little closer to the event. Then he did the
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same thing. He posted pictures of me, you know,
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a couple of us as a couple says, hey, fellas,
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this is my wife. You know, be respectful, tell
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it's time to be disrespectful and, you know,
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go for it. So I think that really helped. Then
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I saw a few other couples follow suit. But it
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really, you know, the feedback I heard was it
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really helped the couples that did do that so
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that people knew like OK, this is how we can
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approach them. So there was one couple that was
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going to be, you know, a cuckold couple and they
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were going to be there with her boyfriend. And
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so she's like, hey, we play separately. We don't
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have to ask permission, you know, her and her
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boyfriend. So she's like, feel free to approach.
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So a few people did that. And I really would
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like that to catch on because I think it just
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helped people to be prepared so they didn't have
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to, you know, wonder so much like. So if you're
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a little on the shot, of course, you can just
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go up and ask, hey, what's your dynamic? You
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know, how is this? But it takes away a little
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bit of that nervousness when you just know up
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front. And a lot of the ladies said that that
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really they really appreciated that. And that
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gave them the confidence and they really admired
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that to be able for me to just say, hey, this
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is what's going on. You know, go for it. You
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don't have to find especially because they couldn't
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find me. I was in the room, you know, that would
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that able enabled him to. You know get a lot
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of playtime because you know if they would have
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been trying to find me I guess they could have
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just came to the room leave a note Sign up for
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soccer team I Don't know but you know they didn't
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need to ask permission so and in the past I had
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been kind of like hey I would at least like to
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be acknowledged first and now I'm just like,
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you know, if you see me say hi So was that a
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was that a big thing for you that you were able
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to? Feel comfortable enough to be just like baby
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go do your thing, you know No, no one has to
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like come to me and I kind of vet them or anything
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like that. Just do your thing I'm good with it.
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Yeah, you love me that's taken that's definitely
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been an evolution for me over the last three
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years because You know it like we didn't even
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play separately at all until we went to our first
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splash about eight months into the lifestyle
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and then it was probably at least another six
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months before we played separately back at home,
24:38
and now that's pretty much our go -to most of
24:40
the time, unless we're having parties. No, it
24:42
was more like a year. It was more like a year.
24:43
Another year? There was, yeah, because there
24:46
was three, or at least three, splashes where
24:48
you were like, you know, I feel comfortable at
24:52
Splash because it's this and it's that, but not
24:54
out there. Yeah, not at home. Yeah. Yeah. I think
24:59
it was just the, yeah, there was just multiple
25:02
levels of, you know, my own insecurities that
25:05
I had to work through myself. Had nothing to
25:07
do with our relationship, but it just had to
25:10
do with me overcoming those. And that's where
25:12
it's like, you know, Socrates has referred to
25:15
it before, is that the lifestyle has been my
25:17
dojo. You know, he's like, do you want to get
25:19
out? Do you want to take a break? He offers that
25:21
any time that I come upon a mountain that I need
25:24
to conquer. And I just say, what do I mostly
25:27
say? to you when you offer that. No, I need to
25:30
learn. I need to figure this out anyway. So I
25:34
might as well do it now. Yeah, and if it's not
25:38
coming up in the lifestyle, if we shook the lifestyle
25:39
away, it's just going to come out somewhere else.
25:41
You know, if I have if I have an area of opportunity,
25:45
an area that I need to grow in, it's going to
25:48
come out regardless of what I'm involved in in
25:51
my life. It's going to come out in my work. It's
25:52
going to come out my friendship somewhere. So
25:55
I might as well deal with it head on together
25:57
as a team than to just try to eliminate things.
26:02
You know, you can't wrap me in bubble wrap forever.
26:06
So, yeah, it was to answer your question, you
26:09
know, it was a big. jump for me to do that but
26:11
I really felt from Fort Lauderdale to Houston
26:15
like bridging that gap that you know and and
26:18
also with me just making sure that I was getting
26:21
my own needs met and making sure instead of worrying
26:25
about what he's doing like why am I not making
26:28
sure that I'm having fun and doing what I want
26:30
to be doing. So when I focused it sounds selfish,
26:33
but when I actually focused on myself a little
26:36
bit more on like what I wanted then I didn't
26:39
have time or space to be Jealous or insecure
26:44
or worried about anything else, you know So yeah,
26:49
it's just been a good good growth. So and it
26:51
went great had lots of ladies come and send me
26:55
messages and say how well he took care of them.
26:59
And, you know, I thank them for giving them a
27:00
fun time and yeah, it was great. Good deal. So
27:06
I can tell you how long did it take you once
27:09
you ventured out to feel like totally comfortable
27:12
doing, you know, being able to go out and just
27:15
handle business, knowing that mom was good, you
27:19
know, she gave you the green light. Oh no, I
27:22
never felt comfortable. That didn't happen until
27:24
maybe two days after we got back. I benefited
27:27
from the fact a little bit, maybe having the
27:29
podcast. I've been there, this is my eighth time.
27:32
I've got friends in the lifestyle. I'm a halfway
27:36
decent looking guy. I think what happened is
27:40
some things are compounding. A lot of things
27:42
I learned from you guys, my own personal journey.
27:45
So the fact that she put that message out, that
27:48
allowed a lot to come to me. But I was out of
27:51
sorts the whole time, because that's my wife.
27:55
At the end of the day, I enjoy these women. Some
27:58
of these people are my friends. Some of these
28:00
people work with us. We've stayed at their homes.
28:06
This is more than just a little vacation. But
28:09
if my wife's not okay, I'm not okay. And like
28:13
she said, I kept checking on her. It's more of
28:15
like, I'll stay in, you want to stay in? I have
28:17
other things planned." She took it like I was
28:19
throwing it in her face, but I was like, I have
28:21
things planned, I need to cancel, give me a second,
28:24
but I'll stay. She's like, no, there's nothing
28:27
you can do. You're just gonna sit here on your
28:30
phone while I'm sleeping. Yeah, it didn't make
28:33
any sense. Why would both of us? Well, and the
28:35
same was when you had that Fort Lauderdale experience
28:38
where... You know, we had a little medication
28:40
mix -up and it was making things not go so well
28:44
for Socrates and a number of areas and You know,
28:48
she can just say it my dick wouldn't work. Yeah
28:51
You need to take Cialis not tramadol Pro tip
28:55
and then you were also having digestive issues
28:57
too. So, you know and you didn't Hold me back.
29:02
You know, I came into the room early a couple
29:04
of different times, spent time with you, put
29:06
you to bed, then go back out. You know, I made
29:08
sure and take care of you as much as you wanted
29:11
to be taken care of. But you didn't say, oh,
29:14
just stay in the room with me the whole time.
29:16
I mean, there's no reason that we should both
29:18
miss out. You know, what are you going to do
29:21
while I'm sleeping? So. It was good for me to
29:24
just get some rest. And we had just gone on another
29:26
trip right before, so it all kind of just added
29:29
up for me. What really helped, too, is, you know,
29:31
my boys, man. Michael C. was just, you know,
29:34
how you do. He was doing his thing, and I was
29:35
able to hang out with Pagan, and I was able to
29:37
hang out and meet some other cats. I don't know
29:39
if they want me mentioning their names, but I
29:42
can mention Raven because he's going to be on
29:43
the podcast. You know, you're going to get to
29:45
meet him. He's super cool. So, you know, those
29:49
are the things that kind of got me through. Worried
29:53
about her being and I was able to enjoy myself
29:55
and honestly I think Probably about 80 % of the
29:59
people I played with were people I already played
30:01
with like people I'm comfortable with so, you
30:04
know those people and then after a while I played
30:07
with some new people I haven't met some people
30:09
I've had my eye on and some things like that
30:12
that Then I was more comfortable because all
30:17
of I knew that my friends were checking on her
30:20
I had other people checking on her She had a
30:22
bunch of she has plenty of friends because again,
30:25
she's we know a lot of people here I mean there
30:27
in Houston. We have a great great French friend
30:30
group there Houston and Dallas actually a Lot
30:34
of people from Dallas that we now know and we're
30:36
good friends with so That kind of got me through,
30:39
but I'm out of sorts seeing my wife, because
30:42
she is the most jovial and energetic at Splash
30:46
than anything. So, yeah. Yeah, it was weird too,
30:51
because I just kept getting up and leaving situations,
30:54
and then he would like, I would be like, I'm
30:55
going to the room, and he would come after me.
30:57
He's like, are you mad at me? Is everything okay?
30:59
And I was like, I just don't feel good. And it
31:02
was actually starting to irritate me that he
31:04
wouldn't believe me. because I was like, babe,
31:07
you're not doing anything wrong. And usually
31:09
you don't get sick until the end. Like, we'll
31:11
get swingers flu. We've done it. We've been there
31:14
eight times. We've had it like six out of eight
31:17
or five out of eight times. Right. But remember,
31:19
we had usually you're cool through it. Right.
31:21
But we had gone on a trip for five days with
31:23
our family. Then I was only home for one day
31:26
and then I left again. And so I was just worn
31:29
out. So yeah, I usually but you know what? I
31:32
didn't get full -blown sick because I did take
31:35
that time But yeah, I was almost getting pissed
31:37
at him for not believing me that like I just
31:40
don't feel good I love you. I just don't feel
31:42
good any energy that I have I'm saving to like
31:46
get a few play dates in while I'm here we can
31:48
connect when we get home like But he was always
31:52
you know, making sure I was out of sorts Well,
31:56
I tell you what I absolutely love that soccer
31:58
cheese that lets the listeners and the followers
32:01
know that, especially the bulls that may have
32:05
wives or girlfriends or significant others or
32:07
whatever, that mama comes first. I don't give
32:11
a damn where we are. She comes first. If she
32:15
doesn't feel well, I don't feel well. So that's
32:19
what makes what you guys have extra special.
32:26
It really does. So I commend you. I commend you
32:30
for staying by her side, making sure that she
32:31
was absolutely 100 % okay, you know, before you
32:34
went out and did what you did. So, that's all
32:38
to you, brother. Yeah, I tell her, look, I said,
32:40
I don't care if I'm doing the nastiest, dirtiest,
32:43
craziest thing away from you. You know what makes
32:45
it amazing? Is I have this amazing woman at home.
32:48
Because people don't understand about me. I had
32:51
a hard time translating vanilla life to lifestyle,
32:55
believe it or not. Being the philosopher that
32:57
I am. I had a lot of problems because, trust
33:01
me, I have been a backup dancer for a rap group.
33:04
I have been every kind of thing in a nightclub.
33:08
I've owned my own club. Salsa dancers. Listen,
33:12
I can go to a bar, salsa club, grocery store,
33:15
and pick up a woman anytime. I'm not bragging.
33:18
I'm just saying, like, that's my past. I have
33:21
a gigolo, pick up artist, Manosphere past. You
33:26
know, I was reading books about picking up women.
33:28
when I was 19 years old. So this is nothing new
33:32
to me. The thing, what new to me is the new world
33:34
of lifestyle. My wife is what makes this sexy
33:40
and fun and crazy because about 80 % of it I
33:44
did already before I even knew what lifestyle
33:46
was on my single years in between relationships
33:49
or before, you know, it's like when you were,
33:52
when you were part of a rap group back in the
33:54
nineties, you know, I wasn't but like 17. and
33:57
I was a backup dancer, they didn't go anywhere,
34:00
but you're in Vegas performing, and there's 30
34:03
-year -old, damn near model -looking women jumping
34:06
on you, that makes an impression on you. So it's
34:10
not like I'm not used to that. I'm not used to
34:12
it with a beautiful woman that loves me and that
34:16
has had my back when I was broke, when I met
34:19
her. I pay 90 % of the bills now, but when I
34:23
met her, she was making way more money than I
34:26
was. and all I have is my own place and my own
34:28
stuff. But, and just got out of a divorce and
34:33
just all this stuff and she's built me here.
34:36
No, none of this is worth her being upset or
34:38
not feeling well or us not working out. None
34:41
of that is worth that. So I can get that before
34:44
I've had it. This is not new to me. It took me
34:47
a while to translate the little things from vanilla
34:50
life to swinger. It took me longer than it should
34:53
have, but. People think oh, he's so insecure
34:56
and I am insecure I was because I was like trying
35:00
to figure out how to translate it now I'm like
35:03
put me in a salsa club put me in a salsa club
35:07
And you guys will start writing taking notes
35:11
right put me in a hip -hop club as the as the
35:14
MC Then you'll see As far as couples that were
35:22
there, did you guys meet some interesting, like
35:25
couples talking about interesting, played with
35:28
anyone interesting or somebody that's a couple
35:31
that just like just stood out? Oh, the couple,
35:35
the husband looked like Joe Biden. You don't
35:37
have to say names or anything, of course. They
35:39
were sweet. Well, I said, babe, there's Joe Biden.
35:43
So we just went over that was that was a good
35:46
icebreaker. You know, I said hello president
35:48
Biden You know an older couple but they had been
35:53
there the whole time they said it was kind of
35:55
made me a little sad because they said this is
35:58
the most Friendliest interaction that we had
36:00
had and that was a Saturday night So I was like,
36:06
oh that sucks. But also I challenged some of
36:10
the new couples. It's like You also can't just
36:12
sit in the corner and expect people to just come
36:15
up to you. Like, to get biblical on some people,
36:19
there's a verse in the Bible that says, if you
36:21
want to have friends, you have to show yourself
36:23
friendly. And so, you know, sitting in the corner
36:26
with your arms crossed, you know, with your face
36:28
all mean, I know Socrates made it a special challenge
36:31
to go up and talk to some men that were mean
36:33
-mugging everybody, so he can talk about that.
36:37
But... Don't know I just I you know as much as
36:40
I could with my mental brain power being you
36:43
know on 10 % I just really tried to just go around
36:47
and and just talk to whoever you know give hugs
36:50
give smiles I Can't really remember any super
36:56
meaningful You know conversations with new people
37:01
Just floating around because I again during the
37:05
kind of the mingle time my brain was really Not
37:08
on on all out. So if anyone's listening, please
37:11
forgive me if I you know I did I did say in the
37:14
ladies chat if I my face was saying something
37:16
I said I was just not feeling good and sometimes
37:18
I get overstimulated and I'm just better one
37:20
-on -one There's a lady that's been trying to
37:22
get to know me. I said next splash Let's just
37:25
go have coffee one of the mornings just you and
37:27
me away from everybody because it's just, you
37:31
know, not flowing as well as I want to. And I
37:33
said, I just think I need one on one time with
37:35
you. So sometimes that for me in a crowded area,
37:39
I'm not so good. Even though I do love people,
37:43
it's better for me. Like I have a whole bunch
37:45
of friends and we're all, you know, just independent,
37:50
strong women, but we don't necessarily get together
37:52
in a group. We just get together a lot on one
37:54
on one and we have great times together. So sometimes
37:58
for me, that's that's just what I need versus
38:01
managing being a part of a crowd. So so you want
38:05
to talk about one on one time. You want to talk
38:08
about the mean mugging men, mean mugging men,
38:10
the M &M's. Yeah, I can. I know. But didn't you
38:18
you were about to say something? No, I was agreeing
38:21
with Siren. I was like, I when I attend an event.
38:24
I much would rather have the one -on -one time
38:29
myself and the couple, you know, when we just
38:32
get a chance to sit down somewhere and talk,
38:34
whether it be breakfast in the morning or just,
38:37
you know, going up to the room and just sit down
38:38
and just have a nice conversation away from the
38:41
group. You know, I don't care about being around
38:44
the whole crowd scene, as you know, nephew, you
38:48
know, down where I am when I get there. So I'm
38:53
with you on that one, Sire. I get a lot out of
38:55
talking to someone one -on -one. I can really,
38:58
I can feel you then when I'm talking to you.
39:01
You know, when I can look at you in the eye,
39:03
when I can get close to you and really get to
39:06
know, know you. You know, I can tell then, okay,
39:10
yeah, they're newcomers, but they really, there's
39:12
something in them that wants to, that wants and
39:14
needs to be brought out. So that's how I am too.
39:20
But now, yeah, tell me about the meme mugging.
39:22
Mean Muggin Men. Well, yeah, you wanted me to
39:25
speak on the couples thing. So I just want to
39:28
say before I talk about Mean Muggin, I had interactions
39:34
with several couples that I just want to say
39:36
thank you. They were both, what I noticed is
39:42
how locked in they were, how encouraging each
39:47
ones were. how the husbands were there and they
39:50
were the smiles on their faces because there's
39:54
three couples I did some very unique things with
39:57
in the play parties in the play room and the
40:01
room parties and the way the husbands reacted
40:06
just really warmed my heart as a stag I love
40:09
that so but the mean mugging guy so let me get
40:12
back to the beginning so I never said it like
40:15
this before and it kind of made sense to me where
40:17
I'm from. When I first went to Splash and Sire
40:22
was like, look, we were going to all kind of
40:24
white gang bangs because where we live, if you're
40:26
going to go to a gang bang, it's going to be
40:28
all vanilla, all white people. And it was great.
40:31
That's no problem. But not vanilla. White folks.
40:35
which is great. And I've got some good friends.
40:38
Maybe a couple of Latina guys. Right. Some of
40:42
them are going to be coming to some of our parties.
40:44
They're great people. Nothing wrong with that.
40:46
But she's like, look, and I just said one, two
40:49
or one day I said, look, you just need to admit
40:52
that you are, you know, Queen of Spades. Queen
40:55
of Spades. So long story short, she said, she
40:59
admitted it. We went out to a bunch of clubs
41:01
everywhere and she's just like, I need to find
41:03
a place specifically with black men. So I found
41:06
Splash and I was thinking, okay, this is for
41:09
her, right? I've done some stuff. I've done all
41:12
kinds of crazy stuff. This is for her. And so
41:16
I found it and I was preparing myself and my
41:20
mind, I was thinking, I'm gonna go in there with
41:23
a bunch of Crips and Bloods. Like, I don't know
41:26
why I was, I just thought it was gonna be some...
41:28
really, and I don't even put down Crips and Bloods,
41:32
but I mean, just really disrespectful, uneducated,
41:38
unsophisticated, don't know how to approach men.
41:44
And I was horribly wrong, but when I went in
41:46
there, I went in there mean mugging. I had my
41:49
arms folded, and I was looking around, ready
41:51
to fight. And I was blown away at the men's meeting.
41:57
and then I was later blown away how the man treated
42:01
Siren and how well they all treated each other
42:04
and how they lifted each other up. So I said
42:06
all of that to say I was talking to a fan that
42:09
came up to us and he was telling us how much
42:11
he liked the podcast and everything and something
42:13
about Mean Mugging came up. Oh, I was talking
42:17
about Uncle Work because he was there. I was
42:20
talking about Uncle Work and if you listen to
42:22
the podcast, you guys, I've talked about Uncle
42:24
Work before, but I can talk about it again. I
42:28
was talking to my uncle work. He was like, yeah,
42:29
man, that's what you did the first splash. And
42:33
I said, what? What? What do you mean? He said,
42:37
man, when you got in there, dude, you looked
42:38
like you was ready to fight the first person
42:40
that came up to you. And I said, the way I describe
42:45
how I felt, I can't deny that. I never felt that.
42:48
And Siren never said that. But I said, I probably
42:52
was. I didn't even notice what you were looking
42:55
like. Yeah, because your jaw was dropped looking
42:57
at all the other beautiful black men in there.
43:01
Yeah, I was so nervous. Nervous -sided. Yeah,
43:03
so that's all you kept saying is to all these
43:04
beautiful black men. Never seen so many. So what
43:09
I decided to do right after he said that was
43:12
there was about three of them. There was one
43:16
dude, man, I swear. He was sitting down. His
43:19
wife is beautiful. I kid you not, he's buff,
43:23
he's real buff. He is a body builder. You can
43:27
just tell. He ain't got no neck. Like he's big.
43:33
And he mean mugged the worst I've ever seen in
43:37
Splash. Like I mean, this guy was, and I said,
43:40
I'm going up to him. So I went up to him, sat
43:43
on the table, and I started talking to both of
43:45
them. I talked to this dude for five minutes
43:48
and asked him direct questions. And he answered
43:51
with shoulder shrugs and looks and eye movements.
43:56
And his wife would have to answer for him. And
43:58
I just kept talking to him. And then I just said,
44:00
hey, you're my challenge. I just said straight
44:03
up, because he wouldn't crack. And that's when
44:05
he said, what do you mean? And I said, my boy
44:10
over here told me when I first started coming,
44:11
I used to mean mug people. And I told him, yeah,
44:14
because I just really felt like I was running
44:17
too slow, because I had bad experiences in the
44:20
past. So, and you know, this and this and that.
44:24
And I said, you know what, man, you owe her a
44:25
mean mugging. And his wife said, yes, thank you.
44:31
She's like, I'm trying to get some dick and you're
44:33
scaring everyone away. Yeah, his wife said, yes.
44:36
And he just looked down like I know. And then
44:41
I was like, hey man, I came up to you because
44:43
I don't care. Yeah, well let me say this though.
44:48
Think about it. Put yourself in his shoes. You're
44:53
a bodybuilder, so I'm assuming the physique looked
44:56
like that of the pros that I see all the time
45:01
when I go to shows, okay? Probably a big dude,
45:04
muscles everywhere, vascular, veiny, et cetera,
45:08
et cetera, cut up. and you are sitting at an
45:12
event where you are going to watch your wife
45:15
get beat down by these black guys and you're
45:20
probably feeling some kind of way. You know what
45:23
I mean? Big time. So I can kind of see maybe
45:29
a couple going to one or two events and the husband
45:31
be, you know, he's mean lugging, but underneath
45:36
he's scared as fuck. He's scared as hell because
45:41
he does he doesn't he's fit. He's really feeling
45:44
some kind of way like you know, um Am I enough
45:49
for her? You know me? She's gonna you know, she's
45:52
gonna get some good dick. She's gonna open up
45:55
I'm probably gonna see her in another light and
45:58
it's fucking with me. So that's what a mean mugging
46:01
come from You know, so for you to go up to him
46:04
like that and be able to I'm not gonna say break
46:07
him but you were able to make him feel comfortable,
46:09
correct? In some way, shape, or form, you were
46:13
able to make him feel comfortable. That's good.
46:15
I got him talking. He was like, hey, why are
46:17
we here? Eventually, he still didn't talk a lot,
46:20
but he was like, hey, why are we here but not
46:22
to do that? He's like, that's why we're here.
46:26
Bodybuilding guys, unless they're talking to
46:28
personal trainers or other cats that lift, they
46:32
really are. They live in their own world, all
46:34
right? I mean, you know, I'm, I'm, I'm not a
46:37
bodybuilder or anything like that, but I'm an
46:39
avid weightlifter who lifts like a bodybuilder.
46:42
So I know it. I know, I know how they live. I
46:45
know they live very, very, um, um, very, very
46:49
extrovert. So, you know, for you to, for you
46:52
to get them to do that. Good job. Good job, brother.
46:55
You, uh, both, both of y 'all sound like you
46:57
had a, um, a very limited, how do I say it? A
47:03
very uplifting experience this time? At this
47:07
event? Yeah. Very, very uplifting. I just kept
47:10
checking in with myself too because, you know,
47:13
I will not lie and say, you know, every time
47:16
that he's playing that I've been like 100 % overjoyed,
47:21
you know, because I get FOMO or jealous or whatever,
47:23
but this time I really just kept checking in
47:25
myself and being like, okay, I don't feel well.
47:28
Am I truly like wanting him to go? Like, how
47:32
am I feeling about it? And I just felt good that
47:35
he could go. And then the experiences that I
47:39
did have were so meaningful. I played with one
47:42
guy that several ladies were turning up their
47:45
nose to because he was a little bit... He was
47:50
a colorful individual. He was a little bit maybe
47:55
flamboyant. And so some of the women, you know,
47:59
they're like, that's not my cup of tea. And I
48:01
thought, Why not? Let me let me just see what's
48:04
what this guy's all about and it ended up being
48:06
one of the best play experiences we we laid on
48:10
the bed fully clothed for 45 minutes and Just
48:15
talked and I could tell he was kind of nervous
48:18
to start and then I could tell we both had creative
48:21
minds and just the way we were speaking just
48:23
started flowing together and it was just very
48:27
uplifting and encouraging and positive conversation
48:29
and Then when we got to the actual play, you
48:34
know, he was talking a lot about he likes to
48:36
please. And sometimes when guys say that, I go,
48:39
OK, yeah, we'll see. In my mind, you know, because
48:43
I'm like, sometimes they're just talking, you
48:45
know, but he truly the way he spoke really was
48:50
the way he played. And it just flowed so well
48:53
and it was a great time. And I just went back
48:56
to a couple of those ladies and I said. That
48:59
may not be everybody's cup of tea, but damn,
49:01
it was a good cup of tea for me. So I, you know,
49:05
I really enjoy that. And I love finding those
49:08
gold nuggets, you know, those guys that are just
49:11
like, you know, a diamond in the rough, you know,
49:16
maybe maybe other people don't see it. But when
49:20
you get them in that place where you can discover
49:23
what they're really about one on one. then you
49:27
just really meet some cool people that have some
49:29
cool things to offer. Well, those are your friends,
49:32
Mommy, because, trust me, he got it in. Not all
49:37
the women are like that. I didn't say that. No,
49:39
I'm just being funny. I'm just being funny. Yeah,
49:41
yeah, yeah. No, I didn't, because he was bold.
49:43
He was bold, and he would just be like, you're
49:46
hot, and I would like some time with you. And
49:48
he said it in such, like, not a cocky way, like,
49:51
I'm going to get you. You know, but just like
49:54
in a very complimentary and just like a very
49:57
complimented way. Yeah, and a fun way. Like it
49:59
was it was a very different vibe. Like some of
50:02
the guys are just super confident. Some kind
50:03
of come off a little cocky. And then he just
50:06
said it in such a fun like, hey, I'm here to
50:08
have a good time. You know, he showed up late
50:11
for our gangbang. He was invited to that. And,
50:15
you know, he just he was otherwise occupied.
50:18
And by the time he got there, we were, you know,
50:20
we were all done. So he said, well, You guys
50:23
are hot and beautiful, and I hope that I get
50:25
some time with you later." And then he just walked
50:27
away, and then he followed up a couple more times,
50:29
and it finally worked out. So, you know, I just
50:32
encourage the ladies, you know, sometimes when
50:34
someone's just a little bit different than what
50:37
you're used to, just, you know, give them a try.
50:40
Give them a try. It's like trying a new food.
50:42
You know, you just might like it. You might find
50:44
something there that you weren't expecting, so.
50:48
That's good. That's good. some good knowledge
50:51
and wisdom there for the ladies listening. Very
50:54
good. Anything else that needs to be brought
50:57
out from this after action report, ladies and
51:00
gentlemen? Actually, I think we just need to
51:03
do a part two because we haven't even hit the
51:06
scratch the surface. There are so many other
51:09
things that we discovered together that happened
51:13
that we learned that we wanna share. um, so I
51:19
think that what we should probably do because
51:22
um We could probably go another hour and a half.
51:26
So I we probably just end it there if you want
51:29
and then do a part two Yeah, or maybe we can
51:32
wrap it into the podcast that we're gonna do
51:34
with raven. Yeah. Yeah, I think it's yeah, we
51:37
could do that That's kind of that way you're
51:38
looting a little bit. There's more. No, no more.
51:42
Okay, but either way you can do that one we can
51:44
you know, there's there's lots of time that we
51:46
can create more so That'll work, that'll work.
51:52
Well, then, if there's nothing more to be said,
51:56
ladies and gentlemen, you've heard it from Siren
51:59
and Socrates. Sounds like Splash Mocha Houston
52:02
was an absolute blast and also a very, very uplifting
52:07
event for them as a couple. I'm so proud of them.
52:11
Again, ladies and gentlemen, well, thank you
52:14
for joining us tonight. I am the Sigma male himself,
52:17
the lone wolf Brian Morgan, along with the family,
52:20
Siren and Socrates, until we talk again. To all
52:24
the bulls out there, to my brothers, I bid you
52:27
good night, and to all my sexy hot wives, you
52:30
know the deal. Good morning. Until we meet again,
52:34
y 'all, good night.