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HOW TO TELL A BOY YOU LIKE HIM!! · Relatables

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Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables. What to do after a first
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Speaker 1: date that night when you're going to sleep, stalk their
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Speaker 1: profile for the one hundredth time. But this time it's
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Speaker 1: not risky because if you like a photo, they won't
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Speaker 1: think it's weird.
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Speaker 2: Oh you do do that and you just smile and smile.
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Speaker 1: I just want to I just want.
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Speaker 3: The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself, Oddie Clark aka
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Speaker 3: Mummy and my partner in crime, mister Jake Craig aka Daddy.
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Speaker 3: I want to ask you, Jake, what is the strongest
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Speaker 3: emotion in the world? Hate? Oh, you evil man? Have another?
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Speaker 1: Try cheer? Cheer.
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Speaker 3: That's an emotion live. That's what I'm looking for, mate.
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Speaker 1: Sorry, I just wanted to leave everybody in a bit
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Speaker 1: of a suspenseful feeling.
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Speaker 3: And what's the cliche sayings that everyone says you fall
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Speaker 3: in love when you least expect it, Okay, yep? And
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Speaker 3: I was thinking, like, surely you can't be like that
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Speaker 3: simple because everyone says that you're like that doesn't really
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Speaker 3: help me, Like do I just start forgetting about love? Yep?
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Speaker 3: So I thought, when did I fall in love? So
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Speaker 3: I'm here to help everyone who's single who might be
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Speaker 3: looking for a partner, and what was a factor that
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Speaker 3: maybe helped me get over line? And it was when
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Speaker 3: I changed my mindset from being a logical romantic person
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Speaker 3: to a hopeless romantic person. Why let me introduce you
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Speaker 3: to the theory, Jake.
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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, I'm here.
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Speaker 3: So we have hopeless romance and logical romance. Before I
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Speaker 3: so my girlfriend right now was like, is my first
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Speaker 3: girlfriend ever properly had, like a proper proper girl, yeah,
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Speaker 3: like in real life and shit. And before that, I
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Speaker 3: was all about being rational yeap logical thoughts. And I
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Speaker 3: was also like this could never work. I always overthought
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Speaker 3: in my head and overanalyzed situations. I was always cautious
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Speaker 3: about like my heart, and I was like I was
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Speaker 3: always kept my feelings to myself, being logical, like I
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Speaker 3: was trying to protect myself. Yeah. And I was always
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Speaker 3: a problem solver, like I was just trying to always
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Speaker 3: have the answers before the problems were even there. Okay,
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Speaker 3: But now, hopeless romance is being doolulu in yourself and
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Speaker 3: your partner and love. Okay, simple example being we always
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Speaker 3: get on the pot. Is can long distance work? If
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Speaker 3: you think it can? Work. It can work.
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Speaker 1: I met someone the other day, had I didn't meet
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Speaker 1: him that day, I had known them. Yeah, talking about
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Speaker 1: being with his partner, He's like, we've been to it
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Speaker 1: for nine years, did long distance for.
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Speaker 3: Seven, so you can make it work.
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Speaker 1: He was like, yeah, but it was hard.
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Speaker 3: But I would Audi logical. Addie would have been just
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Speaker 3: like a long distance man, like, no, it's not gonna work.
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Speaker 3: Same here of my life and I'm not gonna waste that.
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Speaker 3: But hopeless, Audie, it's like, if I love this woman,
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Speaker 3: I can make it work. When start listening to your heart.
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Speaker 1: One time, my cousin was going to see a boyfriend
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Speaker 1: that lived in It was like a five hour drive. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: And I remember saying because she wasn't at a family
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Speaker 1: dinner and I asked my aunty, I said where is she?
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Speaker 1: And she said, oh, she's on her way. She left early,
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Speaker 1: so she's like, she's on her way to this place.
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Speaker 1: I was like, fuck, that's a long way for a boy. Ah.
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Speaker 1: I was like, you wouldn't catch me driving a budgy
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Speaker 1: way for a girl, like an hour forty five minutes.
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Speaker 1: Matt Beth, Yeah, exactly, hopeless multiple times a week.
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Speaker 3: So rather than you fall in love when you least
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Speaker 3: expect it. You fall in love when you start to
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Speaker 3: listen to your heart, not your brainy.
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Speaker 1: Oh, that's fucking I'm trying to deep it. It's truely hilarious, hilarious.
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Speaker 3: I just think it's so like.
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Speaker 1: I'm trying to think what I am. Maybe I think
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Speaker 1: it might be a little bit of a hopeless roman.
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Speaker 3: I think I'm definitely still logical in certain aspects of
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Speaker 3: my relationship. Yeah, but to get over the line and
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Speaker 3: actually get my girlfriend, I think I had to start
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Speaker 3: listening to my heart and become a bit of a
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Speaker 3: hopeless romantic.
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Speaker 1: Yeah. Proof in the Pud, exactly, Proof in the Pud,
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Speaker 1: My guy, you spoke to her six weeks about meeting her?
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Speaker 3: Exactly.
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Speaker 1: I'm not that hopeless. Actually, who knows I could be?
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Speaker 1: You never know, because I mean I started talking best
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Speaker 1: with I think I didn't maybe it was two weeks
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Speaker 1: or something before I could meet her when I started
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Speaker 1: talking to her, and I was fine with that. And
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Speaker 1: I'm trying to think, like, if there was a six
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Speaker 1: week number on it, would I have even gone for it? Yeah,
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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's a good question. That's
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Speaker 1: a question you ask, But I mean I think I
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Speaker 1: would now.
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Speaker 3: I think it's so relatable just to like shut yourself
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Speaker 3: off to everyone and be logical and focus on yourself,
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Speaker 3: which is completely fine. I'm not saying that's wrong by
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Speaker 3: any means. I needed that time in my life, like
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Speaker 3: eighteen to twenty three, just to be logical and concentrate
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Speaker 3: on myself. But as soon as I was ready to
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Speaker 3: open my body up to the emotions that don't make
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Speaker 3: sense behind science, that don't logic, don't make sense in
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Speaker 3: that's when I was ready to.
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Speaker 1: Fall in love. I think.
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Speaker 3: So.
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Speaker 1: For instance, I know one of our friends, we've spoken
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Speaker 1: about it before, one of our friends' parents, they got
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Speaker 1: engaged or married after three months. Now with that is
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Speaker 1: that hopeless romance?
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Speaker 3: Yeah? Like to me, like if you hear someone saying
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Speaker 3: getting engaged or married after a year or two, logically
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Speaker 3: you think that's stupid. Yeah, but sometimes you can't understand
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Speaker 3: the hopeless romance going on in that relationship, and I
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Speaker 3: see where they're coming from. Yeah, you got to be
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Speaker 3: delulu sometimes and some some reason it just can work.
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Speaker 1: Yea, yeah, yea yeah.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like the same with like easiest example being
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Speaker 3: a prenup if you got married, if if someone was
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Speaker 3: rich and the other person wasn't. Yep, Like, you just
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Speaker 3: have to be Delulu in this situation that it's going
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Speaker 3: to work and you should never think about the money
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Speaker 3: on the side of things.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, did I tell you about I've surely brought it up.
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Speaker 1: About that podcast I listened to with like the most
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Speaker 1: sought after, possibly the most maybe successful. He's a divorce
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Speaker 1: lawyer and he's a divorce layer like billionaires and like
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Speaker 1: professional athletes, and like he's expensive blah blah blah, and
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Speaker 1: all of his takes on like love and like pre
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Speaker 1: nups and all that stuff. Have you listened to it? Shit, bro,
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Speaker 1: you need to listen to that. A It's crazy. It
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Speaker 1: kind of makes me want a prenup. Oh really Yeah,
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Speaker 1: Like he has like he has good arguments to not
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Speaker 1: have them, but he also has like brilliant arguments to
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Speaker 1: just have it.
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Speaker 3: I just I've always thought, if I'm going to marry
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Speaker 3: this person, I'm not having that thought in my mind.
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Speaker 1: No, I know, it's such a scary thing. But also,
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Speaker 1: like you were talking about, there's like a law you
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Speaker 1: didn't you say what you're saying. There was a law
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Speaker 1: that if you live with someone for two years, then there's.
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Speaker 3: On It's like it's pretty much like being married and
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Speaker 3: they could take half of everything.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's like terrifying.
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Speaker 3: It is, yeah, one hundred percent. But it's like if
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Speaker 3: you just have to be Delulu in your relationship. But
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Speaker 3: that's when like you sort of play on the logical
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Speaker 3: side of things, and if I've been together with them
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Speaker 3: for five years, what's another fIF day and whatever? Fuck know,
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Speaker 3: it's interesting. But basically what I was trying to say
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Speaker 3: is it's okay to be Delulu.
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Speaker 1: Okay, that's that's there, Oh right, right right, And anyone
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Speaker 1: that's questioning like wait, like I guess, oh, do you reckon?
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Speaker 1: Do you reckon? When you were not being deluted? Like
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Speaker 1: super like logical? Logical? Do you reckon? Anything? Like the
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Speaker 1: thought of what your friends would think was a big
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Speaker 1: factor or was always about kind of what you.
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Speaker 3: One hundred percent I was thinking about what my growing up,
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Speaker 3: Your friends have too much of an impact on your
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Speaker 3: relationships around you, especially being a boy, and you just
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Speaker 3: give each other ship and you always used to think like, oh,
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Speaker 3: like I wonder if they care if I hang out
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Speaker 3: for tonight or someone that if they think I'm a simp.
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Speaker 1: Oh that's big.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so stupid looking back at it out, looking
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Speaker 3: back at it now that we're mature, but like back then,
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Speaker 3: being a young eight nine to twenty er our boy,
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Speaker 3: even we're both I'm guilty of giving shit to my
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Speaker 3: friends for being calling them sim so you're whipped.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, and like I was used to do it all
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Speaker 1: the time.
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Speaker 3: And looking back now, I was being toxic and making
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Speaker 3: that relationship probably worse because he was doubting himself and
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Speaker 3: his love towards us. Yeah yeah, yeah, Now he's trying
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Speaker 3: to thinking like maybe I'm a simp and I've spent
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Speaker 3: too much time with a yeah yeah, yeah, it's just silly.
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Speaker 3: But it's funny how like you just realize things the
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Speaker 3: older you get. It's so simple, but it's true.
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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. Oh okay, So when we
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Speaker 1: were younger, we I can't really remember, like let's say
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Speaker 1: one of our friends starts dating a girl that maybe
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Speaker 1: we're all and thinking, like, you know, we have an
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Speaker 1: opinion on it, okay, we I don't. I can't think
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Speaker 1: of a time we've ever maybe other than one time
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Speaker 1: like told the friend voice that opinion like voiced it.
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Speaker 3: No, we don't do that.
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Speaker 1: But here's a question I have is do girls like
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Speaker 1: voice stuff.
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Speaker 3: Like that or what they think?
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Speaker 1: I don't know why, but I feel like they do.
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Speaker 1: I think they do.
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Speaker 3: Like if they if one of your friends brings back
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Speaker 3: a gla says I'm saying, Jake, Yeah, like if.
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Speaker 1: They thought I was ugly? Do girls kind of be
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Speaker 1: like ugly? Like it's I feel like for some reason,
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Speaker 1: I feel they do, but I could be so wrong.
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Speaker 1: I don't know.
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Speaker 3: I feel like they talk more about like like their
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Speaker 3: rep in like the community, or he's a fuck boy, yes,
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Speaker 3: or like he's known for fucking girls ever, Yeah, they know,
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Speaker 3: known for being emotionally unavailable.
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Speaker 1: What yourself.
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Speaker 3: I feel like they don't comment on appearance. They comment
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Speaker 3: on like demeanor of the person. Yeah, because they think
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Speaker 3: they're they're a bit nice with the appearance.
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Speaker 1: True. Yeah, I actually no, girls are way less judgmental
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Speaker 1: of appearance of guys. I'd say, yeah.
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Speaker 3: But then when it gets the gritty stuff, like emotions
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Speaker 3: get involved, that's when they start going he's.
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Speaker 1: A and then oh yea yea yeah yah yeah, and
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Speaker 1: when and when like someone breaks up with I mean
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Speaker 1: guys do it too, you know, like say, let's say
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Speaker 1: one of our friends gets I broke my Yeah, you
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Speaker 1: can do better anyway. I always tell them, yeah, you
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Speaker 1: can do better anyway. Last episode it is not the
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Speaker 1: best that I've broken up. But like last episode, how
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Speaker 1: we were comparing my mostach to her ex boyfriend when
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Speaker 1: we turn the cameras off because he couldn't see his
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Speaker 1: full face, I was like, get that, shoves the screen.
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Speaker 1: He goes, not that you want to know, but you're
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Speaker 1: better than him anyway.
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Speaker 3: It's kind of like it's a peace of mind.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, alright, guys. So I don't think we label ourselves
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Speaker 1: as a dating podcast, but we do seem to talk
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Speaker 1: about it a bit. A lot of dilemmas about dating.
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Speaker 3: That's what everybody cares about.
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Speaker 1: That everyone cares about. So we thought we might come
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Speaker 1: to the table today with a couple some tips, tips
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Speaker 1: and or tricks, yeah, both for how to tell a
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Speaker 1: guy you'd like him without actually saying the words I
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Speaker 1: like you, because the answer is fucking obviously telling me
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Speaker 1: you like him. Yes, But we thought, if you need
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Speaker 1: some help, here's some help. And this is a guy
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Speaker 1: would take these things as oh she likes me.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, she likes.
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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah.
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Speaker 3: Yeah. And although we don't advocate these things, sometimes it's
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Speaker 3: fun just to play around and see what he does.
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Speaker 1: I think, yeah sometimes yeah, But like you said, these
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Speaker 1: ones are going to come across as like, oh, she
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Speaker 1: likes me. I don't think these very much games. Yeah, true,
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Speaker 1: these ones aren't games to me. You go first, How
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Speaker 1: to tell a guy you like him without actually telling
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Speaker 1: him you like him? Your arms scream, I go to
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Speaker 1: the gym. Really, to be fair, think about it.
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Speaker 3: I would be like, she's whipped.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, she loves me.
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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah. You'd be like yeah, and give us a
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Speaker 3: little bit of like a little perking our step, don't
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Speaker 3: I tell you? Oh you feel good? Yeah? How to
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Speaker 3: tell a guy you like him without actually telling him
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Speaker 3: you like him when he's driving legs or oh fack
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Speaker 3: towards him twenty four to seven, Oh.
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Speaker 1: And kind of just look at him. Yeah, because when
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Speaker 1: we're driving all they were folks on the road. I
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Speaker 1: can tell you're looking at me. I can tell, and
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Speaker 1: I'm just do that little stair were just like just
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Speaker 1: little chiky grin.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, legs there you know, she likes you.
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Speaker 1: And then he'll be like, no, shift gears.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's why guys gonna drive manual. When the first
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Speaker 3: couple of dates like, oh, you want shift gears for me,
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Speaker 3: and then you touch each other's.
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Speaker 1: Hands, He's like, you put your hand here, I'll do
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Speaker 1: it and tell you.
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Speaker 3: Every guy who drives manual has done that. Okay.
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Speaker 1: How to tell a guy you like him without actually
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Speaker 1: telling him you like him? Just like maybe first date
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Speaker 1: or something like that. You're at dinner and he makes
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Speaker 1: you giggle and you can't do a little cute little
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Speaker 1: girl giggle, and then you just kind of go, you're
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Speaker 1: actually so funny.
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Speaker 3: I said the name, You're so funny.
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Speaker 1: Ah.
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Speaker 3: Okay, if he's like a guy, I start using his
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Speaker 3: name all the time, like, ohie, you're so funny, like
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Speaker 3: Jake is so yeah, Jake's so hot, like's big Yeah, okay,
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Speaker 3: this is actually like my best one I reckon. Okay,
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Speaker 3: How to tell a guy you like him without actually
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Speaker 3: telling him you like him. I feel like I can
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Speaker 3: talk about anything and just be myself around you.
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Speaker 1: I fucking love that. Yeah. I had one that was
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Speaker 1: kind of real as well, and it was you make
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Speaker 1: me feel good. Heell a guy, Okay, he sort of
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Speaker 1: like you make me feel safe. Yeah, like he needs
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Speaker 1: to make me feel good obviously, but like, don't lie.
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Speaker 3: I thought of another one. Yeah, you make me feel
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Speaker 3: like home.
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Speaker 1: Home is where you are.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, well I saw a thing that like described I
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Speaker 3: reckon love in the most the best but also the
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Speaker 3: worst way. Everyone was like, you make me feel like
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Speaker 3: all four seasons at once? What don't you reckon? That
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Speaker 3: describes love in the most terrible but also best way possible?
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Speaker 1: Can you elaborate? Is there room to re elaborate? Is like?
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Speaker 3: To me, that means that all emotions at once, like love, obsession, hate, everything.
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Speaker 3: That's what it means to me. Like because winter, cold, hot, windy,
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Speaker 3: overcast everything, you just feel everything when you're with him,
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Speaker 3: all four seasons.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm I need to spread the word on that one.
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Speaker 1: If I heard it, I'd be.
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Speaker 3: Like me, it's open to interpretation obviously.
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Speaker 1: How to tell a guy you like him without actually
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Speaker 1: telling him you like him? You don't say anything, You
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Speaker 1: just rub your leg on his leg under the table.
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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you know a date's going really well? Yeah,
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Speaker 3: when mid date you just feel a leg make sure
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Speaker 3: it's hurst.
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Speaker 1: Shit, Nah, good feeling.
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Speaker 3: My last one, How to tell a guy you like
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Speaker 3: him with actually s saying you like him, tease the
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Speaker 3: fuck out of him. Oh yeah, banter, I don't let
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Speaker 3: him tease you back the Yeah yeah yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Speaker 1: Yeah.
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Speaker 3: It's like I tolerate you more than most people. I
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Speaker 3: can't stand everyone else.
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Speaker 1: Fuck.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just like I can't hate you, but like
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Speaker 3: less than everyone else.
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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, you're tolerable. Yeah, I wouldn't say
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Speaker 1: you're good. Yeah, you're tolerable.
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Speaker 3: This banter, Yeah, like, that's a good one.
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Speaker 1: How to tell a guy you like him without actually
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Speaker 1: telling him you like him. Not to come on too strong,
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Speaker 1: but babies with you would go hard.
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Speaker 3: As soon as they mentioned like kids or anything like that. Yeah,
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Speaker 3: like o kids would look hot.
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Speaker 1: Yeah. When the girl says like our babies would be
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Speaker 1: fucking cy you yeah.
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Speaker 3: Oh, or like something about we shoul get a dog
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Speaker 3: together or something like that, that's when you yeah. Wow, yeah,
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Speaker 3: that's dabbling and love.
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Speaker 1: I got one more. How to tell a guy you
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Speaker 1: like him without actually telling him you like him, Look
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Speaker 1: him in the eye and say you better kiss me
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Speaker 1: when this date is over.
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Speaker 3: I would be like, I think I'll kiss her right now.
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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, wait, actually, when do you when she says
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Speaker 1: that I think I would you listen to her? And
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Speaker 1: do you wait till the day time or do you
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Speaker 1: just go come here right now?
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Speaker 3: Confidences? Okay, yeah, you don't even say anything, you don't
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Speaker 3: kiss up, then say come here, just lean in and
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Speaker 3: kiss I reckon, you got it?
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Speaker 1: She got yeah, I said when the day's over, buddy.
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Speaker 1: She starts kind of starts calling you buddy and champ,
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Speaker 1: and you're just like, okay, well this is done, just
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Speaker 1: ruined it. You can pay for the meal, oh ship?
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Speaker 1: Is there anything like? Actually, like how for real gy
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Speaker 1: you like him? Because obviously the easiest thing to say
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Speaker 1: is tell him that I like you.
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Speaker 3: Wh should do this against some time. That's not good.
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Speaker 3: That's not good. That's like the cop out on a
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Speaker 3: bad day.
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Speaker 1: Which even even saying let's just say, I don't know,
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Speaker 1: maybe you've been on a few days and like you
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Speaker 1: do really like him, and you know, not like you
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Speaker 1: should kind of know if he likes you back by now,
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Speaker 1: but I don't know.
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Speaker 3: You just want to simple, simplistic approach is the best. Yeah,
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Speaker 3: Like say I've loved spending time with you, I really
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Speaker 3: like you. Yeah, simple, I don't know if this is like.
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Speaker 1: I liked it. I think I've said it before. When
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Speaker 1: when when my girlfriend did it to me, she didn't
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Speaker 1: she didn't say the words I like you, but she
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Speaker 1: she I've said it before. She said. She was like,
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Speaker 1: are you sleeping with anyone else?
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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I don't know if I like that.
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Speaker 1: One though, And I was like, oh no, She's like yeah,
17:52
Speaker 1: because like because I'm not, and in my and in
17:56
Speaker 1: my head, I was like, oh that's like yeah, like that's.
17:59
Speaker 3: Exclusive if it's a good gesture, like exclusive, Yeah, yeah,
18:03
Speaker 3: definitely a good gesture, but also like I reckon, you
18:06
Speaker 3: can do like war romantic to sound like you Oh yeah, no, look,
18:09
Speaker 3: I'm sure there was definitely other things.
18:11
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I don't know why that one stood out
18:14
Speaker 1: to me, Like I remember where we were when she
18:18
Speaker 1: asked it. Maybe because no one asked me that before.
18:20
Speaker 3: Keep part of the sure, I.
18:22
Speaker 1: Was like, you don't know me. I don't I don't
18:24
Speaker 1: do that.
18:25
Speaker 3: You don't know me. Yeah, yeah, you don't even know
18:28
Speaker 3: me yet.
18:29
Speaker 1: You should have said that, you know what I mean,
18:31
Speaker 1: like you don't know me. I don't mean it like that.
18:34
Speaker 1: I don't mean like I don't mean like you're not
18:36
Speaker 1: allowed to know that information. I mean, like you don't
18:38
Speaker 1: know me and you don't know like my past, like
18:41
Speaker 1: you were my first I can count my body count
18:44
Speaker 1: on one hand.
18:45
Speaker 3: Yeah, you broke a year out.
18:48
Speaker 1: Yeah okay, guys, we're going to follow it up with
19:00
Speaker 1: what to do after a first date.
19:03
Speaker 3: I loot confusion going on there.
19:04
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say, assuming it went well, yeah, okay, smile
19:10
Speaker 1: like an idiot and say to yourself, oh, I'm in trouble.
19:15
Speaker 3: It's always in like some cute little voice, or you
19:18
Speaker 3: say it in your head like ah.
19:20
Speaker 1: Also, let's just say that you drop someone home and
19:23
Speaker 1: drop a girl home from first date, and then there's
19:25
Speaker 1: nothing more main character vibe than driving home from dropping
19:29
Speaker 1: and go home for the first date that went well,
19:31
Speaker 1: when you're like, oh, oh, I'm fucked here, but then
19:33
Speaker 1: you chuck some music on. That's main character is fuck.
19:36
Speaker 3: Do you ever think when you say something like cringe,
19:38
Speaker 3: is fucking the card to yourself that like someone's secretly
19:41
Speaker 3: recording you. I always think that, really yeah yeah yeah
19:44
Speaker 3: all the time. If I do something cringe or something,
19:46
Speaker 3: I'm like someone like recording me that.
19:48
Speaker 1: Nah, I'm I'm way too confident, Like in my own
19:53
Speaker 1: car to think that, Like I've said before that I
19:56
Speaker 1: got caught by the fucking trading that you and I
19:58
Speaker 1: was like, look at my arms.
19:59
Speaker 3: I was like, to be confident to drive your car.
20:03
Speaker 1: And so I actually don't think I've ever thought that.
20:06
Speaker 3: I always think, you know, it's just weird.
20:08
Speaker 1: When I actually know. What I do think is imagine
20:12
Speaker 1: if I say something out loud to myself that I
20:14
Speaker 1: think is like super cringe. I'll think what if I
20:17
Speaker 1: imagine if I accidentally phoned someone and they were just listening.
20:20
Speaker 1: Yeah is what I think. But I don't think like
20:24
Speaker 1: a fuck like.
20:27
Speaker 3: A couple of it just did that.
20:29
Speaker 1: Yeah, what do you do after a first date? Be
20:32
Speaker 1: the first one to say thank you had the best time? Yeah?
20:35
Speaker 3: So initiated, I say, do it? Yeah, confidence is key.
20:38
Speaker 3: We keep saying that.
20:40
Speaker 1: I also have the thing where I reckon Okay, so
20:44
Speaker 1: it's going to be like majority of the time a
20:46
Speaker 1: guy's asking a girl on a date, right, but it
20:48
Speaker 1: goes both ways. I just think, whoever asked the other
20:52
Speaker 1: person on the date is like, so, so I asked
20:58
Speaker 1: my girlfriend on a date, take her on a date?
21:01
Speaker 1: I leave, So I think she should say so she's
21:05
Speaker 1: not that she should, but just think like she'll say
21:08
Speaker 1: thank you too much. I had the best time. But
21:09
Speaker 1: then I think it's up to me to say we're
21:13
Speaker 1: doing this again. Oh, I actually think it's up to
21:15
Speaker 1: me to organize.
21:18
Speaker 3: I do like that.
21:18
Speaker 1: Actually, I don't know why. It's such a feeling of mine.
21:22
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's correct. I wish there was
21:23
Speaker 1: a rule book which everyone lived by. Should be right one.
21:27
Speaker 3: Yeah, the rule Book of.
21:28
Speaker 1: Dating the relatables bad, his rule book of dating.
21:31
Speaker 3: It was bad, his real book of dating.
21:33
Speaker 1: I think we should write a rule book of dating.
21:35
Speaker 3: I think so because there's so much confusing and you're like,
21:37
Speaker 3: oh should I text first? Or like you always get
21:39
Speaker 3: to take the best. The simp approach is you both
21:42
Speaker 3: say by you don't admit your feelings, and then when
21:45
Speaker 3: right before you leave, you text her saying I had
21:46
Speaker 3: the best time ever. Well, I actually remember one time
21:50
Speaker 3: we spoke about saying, so on the first date, you
21:57
Speaker 3: know you're in a good place if you organize this
22:00
Speaker 3: second date on it while on the first, Like I've
22:04
Speaker 3: always thought that's just like kind of it's like so good.
22:06
Speaker 3: I got to know where the next one is.
22:07
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, like when am I seeing you again?
22:10
Speaker 1: I have to know right here, right now. And also
22:13
Speaker 1: I'm like I'm thinking every single time I've been on
22:15
Speaker 1: one date and another one hadn't happened, not not, none
22:18
Speaker 1: of them was like when can we do this again? Yeah?
22:24
Speaker 1: So I say, yeah, I don't know. That's my feeling.
22:27
Speaker 1: What to do after a first date? Far the stomach
22:30
Speaker 1: ache away.
22:33
Speaker 3: Do girls feel that too? Surely not, surely they do
22:37
Speaker 3: just something, But I think it's even nerves combined with
22:39
Speaker 3: like you obviously can't fight in front of them, you're
22:41
Speaker 3: just gassy in your stomach grumbling.
22:44
Speaker 1: Yeah. I was gonna say another one as well. Thing
22:46
Speaker 1: to do after a first date is go get a
22:49
Speaker 1: second dinner because you obviously didn't eat all.
22:53
Speaker 3: You get home and snack. For some reason, you're always
22:58
Speaker 3: starving on a date, but you don't care.
23:00
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, you don't.
23:01
Speaker 3: Actually, first couple, then you're busy, Yeah, you're busy doing activity, talking.
23:06
Speaker 1: At what point do you because we've said actually what
23:10
Speaker 1: we said on on Maddie's podcast, we were like a
23:12
Speaker 1: green flag to us, is you know, on a first date,
23:15
Speaker 1: if you're hungry, order that fucking burger and eat it.
23:18
Speaker 1: I want to see it. Yeah, but like if you're
23:20
Speaker 1: nervous and not hungry, obviously don't don't force it down.
23:23
Speaker 1: But at what point in time is like how many
23:26
Speaker 1: dates in do you think it's like, all right, let's
23:28
Speaker 1: fucking hook in together. Three? Three dates?
23:31
Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, I'm all obliged for one. Yeah, but
23:35
Speaker 3: like if you want to be like cautious, yeah, three Okay,
23:39
Speaker 3: I hear you. I'm dialed in.
23:41
Speaker 1: If I if I've got a more than three, like
23:44
Speaker 1: we're going somewhere over this.
23:46
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, I think it takes two to really get
23:48
Speaker 3: to know someone. Obviously it takes months and months, but
23:50
Speaker 3: like two to get to know if you're like this
23:51
Speaker 3: is gone forever or not.
23:53
Speaker 1: Yeah. I remember going on one of the first dates
23:58
Speaker 1: with my ex. I don't like remember the date, but
24:01
Speaker 1: I remember something sticking with me, and it was we
24:03
Speaker 1: went to get burgers and she just picked it apart. Yeah,
24:07
Speaker 1: And I was like, what a waste of money. You
24:10
Speaker 1: fucking didn't need it. It's just a spread apart bun
24:13
Speaker 1: with some meat.
24:14
Speaker 3: Now, first couple, I feel like it's I get nervous too,
24:19
Speaker 3: and I just possibly I can't eat. Yeah, you know
24:21
Speaker 3: I want to and I'm like, I'm not trying to
24:22
Speaker 3: like make myself look good. I just get nervous in
24:24
Speaker 3: my stomach. He's like, oh no, no food here. No,
24:26
Speaker 3: that's fucking relatable. And another thing, let me know this
24:29
Speaker 3: is relatable. Is one of the reasons that you don't
24:32
Speaker 3: finish a meal is because you guys are just too
24:37
Speaker 3: much and the food gets cold and you're like, well,
24:40
Speaker 3: this is gross, this soggy. Yeah, yeah, this is gross
24:43
Speaker 3: now like this used to be a hard shell target,
24:45
Speaker 3: this is now a fucking wrap, like disgusting.
24:48
Speaker 1: And so you go and that's when you go for
24:50
Speaker 1: a walk and get dessert and literally relatable. All right,
24:54
Speaker 1: what to do after a first date that night when
24:58
Speaker 1: you're going to sleep stalk there profile for the one
25:01
Speaker 1: hundredth time, But this time it's not risky because if
25:05
Speaker 1: you like a photo, they won't think it's weird. Oh
25:11
Speaker 1: you do do that and you just.
25:13
Speaker 3: Smile and her smile.
25:14
Speaker 1: I just want to I just want to say, I
25:20
Speaker 1: wonder if girls do that. Surely, surely, please, I want
25:24
Speaker 1: to know. What I want to know is like when
25:26
Speaker 1: you're geting for the first day, you just have all
25:28
Speaker 1: that fuck you just have that and you know what
25:30
Speaker 1: it is, You know that feeling and you get home
25:32
Speaker 1: and everyone's just like, oh, you're in a good moon
25:34
Speaker 1: and you're just like you get out of my way.
25:36
Speaker 1: I'm in a good mood. Is the girl feeling the same? Yes,
25:39
Speaker 1: it has to be.
25:40
Speaker 3: Yeah, bro.
25:42
Speaker 1: Has to be. I got two more. What do you
25:47
Speaker 1: do after a first date? Change your Facebook status? Are taken?
25:53
Speaker 3: Do people still do that? I occasionally see like the
25:56
Speaker 3: random like someone got engaged. I'm like, who's changing their
25:58
Speaker 3: Facebook stas?
25:59
Speaker 1: Some people? I okay, I'm never doing that. Such a
26:03
Speaker 1: crazy thing to say from me. Okay, not bullying in
26:08
Speaker 1: any the sense, all right, any senses in any sense
26:12
Speaker 1: of the word. I mean, but some people, it's like
26:18
Speaker 1: they don't It's like they get left behind in the
26:21
Speaker 1: social media.
26:23
Speaker 3: Oh yeah yeah yeah.
26:24
Speaker 1: Because there's people in our school in our year that
26:27
Speaker 1: are like changing their Facebook status to like marry by
26:32
Speaker 1: all my congratulations, I say, congrats, But like also, I mean,
26:38
Speaker 1: I guess it's a thing though, Like can you judge
26:40
Speaker 1: them for it? Not really? Maybe I'm just being mad judgy, Oh.
26:43
Speaker 3: Maybe a little bit. You're entied to your opinion. But
26:45
Speaker 3: I also just think it's like for old people like
26:48
Speaker 3: I think, maybe it's a thing to like, so boys
26:50
Speaker 3: don't send them friend requests, maybe to show they're taken.
26:53
Speaker 3: That's my only thought. But as crazy Facebook does that,
26:57
Speaker 3: Yeah weird. Do you remember when Facebook came out of
26:59
Speaker 3: like hoax and Pokes was flirting, Pokes.
27:02
Speaker 1: Was liking an Instagram story.
27:04
Speaker 3: Yes, that's what it was, and you'd like, have a
27:06
Speaker 3: three hundred polk streak with girls, dude.
27:08
Speaker 1: No, Pokes was streaks back in the day. I never okay,
27:11
Speaker 1: I got left behind in the snapchat streaks thing. Right.
27:14
Speaker 1: The first time I ever discovered what streaks was was
27:17
Speaker 1: ex girlfriend bring her up a lot, fuck it part
27:19
Speaker 1: of my life. Ex girlfriend first started talking and she like,
27:24
Speaker 1: I was like driving the car, she's on Snapchat. I'm
27:27
Speaker 1: like turning glance over. She got like fucking like fifty people.
27:30
Speaker 1: I was like, why did girl? How many people he
27:32
Speaker 1: tak you on Snapchat?
27:32
Speaker 3: Why of the girls already have always have so many streaks?
27:34
Speaker 1: Yeah, how many people?
27:36
Speaker 3: She's like, yeah, I got fifty streets.
27:37
Speaker 1: And I was like, what's a street? Yeah, I have
27:39
Speaker 1: a streak with.
27:39
Speaker 2: Fucking JJ Yeah what And she's like, look, I got
27:45
Speaker 2: fucking and I was like, you send a message to
27:48
Speaker 2: that mean and I girl, you're white.
27:50
Speaker 1: Mate of them would do.
27:52
Speaker 3: Every girl in high school had so many streaks, and
27:55
Speaker 3: every dude just had one girl. That's what it was.
27:59
Speaker 1: Every dude had one girl and they were like, that's
28:02
Speaker 1: my girl.
28:02
Speaker 3: Yeah fuck, but that is the number.
28:05
Speaker 1: That's the thing though, Actually I that was just a number.
28:08
Speaker 1: I I don't because I feel like I've also seen
28:12
Speaker 1: like there was some guys with so many yeah and
28:17
Speaker 1: the player yeah yeah, so like it was like the
28:19
Speaker 1: guy had just like ninety percent girls and their streaks.
28:22
Speaker 3: I remember it was weird when like someone from your
28:24
Speaker 3: school had a streak with someone from another school, like
28:26
Speaker 3: how did you meet?
28:26
Speaker 1: Man?
28:26
Speaker 3: Like, and you're like, what's going on?
28:28
Speaker 1: Like are you guys?
28:29
Speaker 3: Thank god?
28:30
Speaker 1: I want to know. So when I was young, one
28:38
Speaker 1: of our friends, I was in the car with two friends.
28:40
Speaker 1: One of them was talking about a girl that went
28:41
Speaker 1: a different school. Yeah, and he couldn't stop smiling. Right,
28:45
Speaker 1: we were like, you're in love. He's like, I've never
28:47
Speaker 1: even met her. He's like, but she added me back
28:51
Speaker 1: on snapchat. Yeah, you have to message, you have to messenger.
28:55
Speaker 1: And so he's like doo do it. And we were like, Okay,
28:57
Speaker 1: if you say her name and you can hold your
29:00
Speaker 1: straight face for ten seconds without smiling, you don't have
29:02
Speaker 1: to do it. But if you say her name, oh no, no, sorry.
29:06
Speaker 1: If we say her name and you and you don't
29:08
Speaker 1: hold a straight face, you have to message. But if
29:11
Speaker 1: you do hold a straight face, you don't have to message.
29:13
Speaker 1: So we said her name, gave him like ten chances.
29:17
Speaker 1: We're like name and he's like, and I'm like, you're
29:21
Speaker 1: fucking smile and a purpose out his messager and then
29:23
Speaker 1: he does it, and we'd like little fucking kids, like like,
29:26
Speaker 1: oh my god, I don't know if girls did that.
29:29
Speaker 3: And then he got ghost.
29:31
Speaker 1: True story, he did get ghost. Dude, Okay, my last one.
29:40
Speaker 1: What to do after a first date? Imagine the rest
29:43
Speaker 1: of your life together?
29:44
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you do go into just this dreamer land.
29:47
Speaker 1: Well that's what you're doing to drive home, the main
29:49
Speaker 1: character drive home for the first date.
29:50
Speaker 3: After you're like, you're like, I'm fucked White picket fans, Yeah, retriever, Yeah,
29:55
Speaker 3: three kids on a farm.
29:57
Speaker 1: To midsummer's night, the windows down, living near the beach.
30:02
Speaker 3: Music's playing. You're like, man, I can't wait for my lifetime.
30:05
Speaker 1: Oh my god. You get up, you're drinking you coffee
30:07
Speaker 1: on the back, and you have your beach house and
30:09
Speaker 1: she's out on the beach with the kids, and you're
30:10
Speaker 1: just like O, life's great, go on retrievers, just like
30:14
Speaker 1: running the water.
30:20
Speaker 3: What why the fuck do we do that? Bro? And
30:23
Speaker 3: then you get home and then she never she never
30:25
Speaker 3: text you again.
30:26
Speaker 1: Yeah, like it was.
30:28
Speaker 3: It was nice to think about her like that.
30:30
Speaker 1: Oh ten minutes of pure joy. Do you reckon?
30:34
Speaker 3: You got left behind in like social media and friends
30:37
Speaker 3: and keeping up with things a little bit when you
30:39
Speaker 3: dropped out of school. Yes, I feel like that's a
30:44
Speaker 3: tough thing that guys especially also some girls you gotta
30:46
Speaker 3: tape in hairdressing and anything like that. Drop out of
30:49
Speaker 3: school for apprenticeships even trades, and like no one talks
30:52
Speaker 3: about how much they hit left behind because that two
30:54
Speaker 3: years in school is so different to the first.
30:57
Speaker 1: However, many there you start drinking and ship.
30:59
Speaker 3: You sent me treated like an adult in school, like
31:01
Speaker 3: you teachers start to show your respect and shit, Oh yeah.
31:03
Speaker 1: True, I never got I never got that at school. Yeah,
31:06
Speaker 1: until I went to sign out, like I'm leaving because
31:08
Speaker 1: I'm doing apprenticeship and like, oh wow, congratulations, like blah
31:10
Speaker 1: blah blah. I'm like, yeah, you didn't care about the
31:12
Speaker 1: fuck you're a human seriously. And then so I remember
31:20
Speaker 1: because I was working full time and then everyone started,
31:24
Speaker 1: like school started slowing down, and I remember like or
31:27
Speaker 1: everyone started just like drinking during the week I had
31:30
Speaker 1: to fucking wake up at five thirty eight. Yeah, I
31:33
Speaker 1: was like what, And you don't get invited to stuff.
31:36
Speaker 1: And then it's like because you don't start, you know,
31:38
Speaker 1: you're not getting invited that, you don't get invited to
31:40
Speaker 1: the weekend thing because you don't exist anymore.
31:42
Speaker 3: Because and one does forget about you. And I feel
31:45
Speaker 3: like no one talks about that. And it's like just
31:46
Speaker 3: like the harsh reality of getting an apprenticeship or dropping.
31:50
Speaker 1: Out of school interesting. I don't know, it's weird though,
31:53
Speaker 1: because like I feel like some people are lucky and
31:54
Speaker 1: keep in touch. Yeah, I feel like it. Like two
31:57
Speaker 1: years into my apprenticeship, I was probably not doing much,
32:00
Speaker 1: but then I do. I think I remember end up
32:02
Speaker 1: ended up. Yeah, that's why I like joined our.
32:05
Speaker 3: Group that's our group name. I gotta beat that.
32:09
Speaker 1: I want to actually will end it here, all right,
32:13
Speaker 1: guys group names. Yeah, okay, guys have group names for
32:16
Speaker 1: their group and it's what you call your group chat houses.
32:19
Speaker 3: Called I'm gonna beet that again.
32:21
Speaker 1: Sorry, I won't, I won't say it again, but I
32:25
Speaker 1: want to know what's what everyone's group chat name was
32:28
Speaker 1: called girls and guys. Girls and guys. Yeah, girls and guys. Also, yeah,
32:32
Speaker 1: I want to go. I think has showed me a
32:34
Speaker 1: couple of hers. They're pretty funny.
32:35
Speaker 3: Ours go derogatory, and girls go creative. I swear they're
32:39
Speaker 3: like yeppoholics and stuff.
32:40
Speaker 1: Send us your creative group chat names, yeah, okay, or
32:43
Speaker 1: your derogatory read them out orgatories now derogatory on Patreon,
32:50
Speaker 1: all of it.
32:50
Speaker 3: Yeah, and creative on Spotify.
32:52
Speaker 1: Yeah.
32:52
Speaker 3: Ok, that's that's funny.
32:53
Speaker 1: That's good.
32:54
Speaker 3: We got drunkie poos too.
32:55
Speaker 1: Yeah, one's called drunky poos and that was because one
32:57
Speaker 1: time someone said into a group chat that didn't have
32:59
Speaker 1: a name at does everyone want to go get drunkie poos?
33:02
Speaker 1: And he never lived it down, so we named a
33:04
Speaker 1: drunkie poos. I could tell you what we probably got
33:06
Speaker 1: DRUNKI poozy.
33:11
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33:13
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33:16
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33:18
Speaker 3: I'm scared