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How Do You Handle Your Child's Bullies? · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Dj Envy, Angeline Charlemagne, the guy. We are the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 1: Now if you just joined us, We're talking about this Louisville,
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  Speaker 1: Kentucky father who cursed out an entire elementary school bus
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  Speaker 1: because his daughter was reported being bullied. We're asking eight
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  Speaker 1: hundred five A five, one oh five one, how would
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  Speaker 1: you handle it? Here's the audio of the dad actually
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  Speaker 1: going off in the school bus. Now here's the dad
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  Speaker 1: apologizing for the things that he did. I'm hurt with
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  Speaker 1: myself for how I did that. I am hurting myself
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  Speaker 1: fire I did that. I want to apologize to everybody
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  Speaker 1: that was involved in the situation. So we're asking eight
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  Speaker 1: hundred and five eight five, one oh five one, how
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  Speaker 1: would you handle that situation. I've handled the situation, not
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  Speaker 1: as bad as the father, but I've been there before,
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  Speaker 1: especially when when Madison first started a school and Logan
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  Speaker 1: first to school, I felt like they were getting bullied
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  Speaker 1: and picked on, and I felt like the teachers weren't
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  Speaker 1: doing anything or weren't doing enough at the time. So
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  Speaker 1: you know, when I picked her up, I seen a
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  Speaker 1: little girl and a little boy that was I felt
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  Speaker 1: like bullying my daughter, and I told him a thing
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  Speaker 1: or two, and I told him if you touched yours,
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  Speaker 1: oh the little boy, oh the little boy. They were
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  Speaker 1: in I believe probably first grade. Yeah, because man, I'm
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  Speaker 1: not mad at it. You know, that's our kids. When
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  Speaker 1: it comes to our kids, there's nothing to talk about,
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  Speaker 1: you know. And anyone who doesn't understand that doesn't have kids.
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  Speaker 1: You know. Dude said he spoke to the school. They
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  Speaker 1: did nothing. You know, from what I've seen. The daughter
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  Speaker 1: came home. She had a lump on her head. She
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  Speaker 1: said she got jumped. That's the final scrawl. I'm trying
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  Speaker 1: to figure out what parent. You know, it's gonna be
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  Speaker 1: thinking logically in that moment, like I'm not above talking
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  Speaker 1: sternly to insurance, you know what I mean. And I'm
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  Speaker 1: definitely gonna threaten to beat somebody parents up. I actually
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  Speaker 1: would like to check the father first, but I love
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  Speaker 1: to threaten to I love to threaten to beat somebodyddy up.
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  Speaker 1: You know that little boy Ryan that played with them
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  Speaker 1: toys on TV. I tell my seven yeard all the time,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna beat his daddy. Ye I don't just because
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  Speaker 1: they're annoying. I'm tired of seeing them on my damn TV.
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  Speaker 1: You know, you know, we regulate the TV time, of course,
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  Speaker 1: but when they watch television, that's what they'd be wanting
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  Speaker 1: to watch YouTube and watch Ryan on YouTube. And I
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  Speaker 1: just want to beat his daddy up. I don't know why.
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  Speaker 1: I'll just be saying that for no reason. It's gracious,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, but I definitely would threaten to beat
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  Speaker 1: somebody that. I would rather check the parent though, especially
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  Speaker 1: depending on what kind of community it is, what kind
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  Speaker 1: of talent it is, like, you go to the parents,
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  Speaker 1: if the school ain't doing nothing about it, you go
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  Speaker 1: to the parents and be like, yo, man, you better
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  Speaker 1: tell your kids keep your hands off my child. I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna whip your ass, you know what I mean. Oh
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  Speaker 1: better yet, I'm gonna send my kid to school with this,
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  Speaker 1: this weapon, this bad or something bad, and they're gonna
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  Speaker 1: go upside your child. And I'm serious. But you know
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  Speaker 1: also too, That's that's why I also put my kids
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  Speaker 1: in you know, friend class boxing and um yeah, that's
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  Speaker 1: why they train. I'm not mad at that. They daddy
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  Speaker 1: is the type of hoole what Let's go to the
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  Speaker 1: full lids. Hello, who's this Hey? This is shri Sharine.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, what would you do if if you were
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  Speaker 1: in a similar situation. Um, I definitely think it could
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  Speaker 1: have been handled maybe between their parents, And y'all said
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  Speaker 1: they didn't even go to the school, so I don't
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  Speaker 1: know about the school, but definitely between their parents. Maybe
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  Speaker 1: wait at the bus stop or deal. Because I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: need I'm gonna definitely need to have an interaction with
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  Speaker 1: their parents. But I don't think that would handle that
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  Speaker 1: was not handled good at all. Yeah, I see both sides.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, you know, it's affected their elementary school kids,
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  Speaker 1: and it doesn't seem like he knew who actually did it,
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  Speaker 1: you know what I mean? So he just yelling at
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  Speaker 1: a whole bustle. You traumatize the whole bus, and now
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  Speaker 1: you got other parents mad at you. Because if my
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  Speaker 1: kids come home and say, man, this dude came out
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  Speaker 1: here and cursed all of us out, now you got
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  Speaker 1: to see all the parents. But so that's why you
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  Speaker 1: gotta measure twice to cut once. I need to know
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  Speaker 1: exactly who kid I'm talking to. Are I need you
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  Speaker 1: know exactly what parent I need to check. But I
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  Speaker 1: see a lot of these people that's calling their kids
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  Speaker 1: are the bullies. They just don't know their kids are
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  Speaker 1: the bullies. Yeah, they didn't see. They didn't seeing you
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  Speaker 1: argue with your girls at the crib, will argue with
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  Speaker 1: your hobby at the crib. And your kids is the bully.
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  Speaker 1: Your kids are the problem man. You bully, ask kids, bully?
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  Speaker 1: Ask kids? Hello? Who's this? Hello? All right, good morning?
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  Speaker 1: How are you guys? Hey? What's your name? Hey? D
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  Speaker 1: what's your thoughts? Listening? You have to leave people kids alone. Listen.
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  Speaker 1: Nothing made me more proud than walking around my head
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  Speaker 1: hell high last year for being banned off my kids'
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  Speaker 1: school property for running up on one of the chicks
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  Speaker 1: trying to fight my daughter. You gotta leave people's kids alone.
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  Speaker 1: My kids are not bullies. I don't tolerate bullying. My
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  Speaker 1: kids are not going to start anything. Lead people kids alone.
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  Speaker 1: I have no problems blacking out. How old? How old
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  Speaker 1: was the little girl you ran up on? She was fourteen.
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  Speaker 1: It was a group of Spanish children trying to drop
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  Speaker 1: my daughter and my daughter doesn't even bother anybody children
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  Speaker 1: out letting us know what the time it was it was.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just listening. I'm just telling you what it was.
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  Speaker 1: That's who you ran what you said you ran down
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  Speaker 1: on them and say vaminos, stay away from my Charren.
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  Speaker 1: It's vominos. Man. Listen, I am proud I will black
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  Speaker 1: out at any given time about my children. Leave people
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  Speaker 1: kids alone. People have to talk to their kids because
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  Speaker 1: you know, it gets serious. There are um there are
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  Speaker 1: kids that are committing suicide behind billion. This is serious.
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  Speaker 1: And before I let one of mine go out like that,
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  Speaker 1: I'm about to beat some ass. I'm with you. I'm
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  Speaker 1: not bad at you. I'm with you. I don't want
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  Speaker 1: the parents. I heard Charlomagne said that you will run
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  Speaker 1: up on the parents. Or listen, I want the children
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  Speaker 1: with you. Now. You gotta threaten to beat You gotta
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  Speaker 1: threaten to beat the mom up. In a situation like
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  Speaker 1: that too, you gotta both. You gotta threaten both. Kid.
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  Speaker 1: What's wrong with you from I'm from Miami, Oho. The
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  Speaker 1: craziest people in America come from the Bronx and all
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  Speaker 1: the Florida. See what I'm talking about. That's right, and
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  Speaker 1: we crowed that too. That's gracious. At listen, I'm not
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  Speaker 1: you can't beat up the kids. I ain't say beat
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  Speaker 1: up the kids, she said. She She says she checked
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  Speaker 1: the kids. She says she wanted the kids. I don't
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  Speaker 1: know what that means. I'm not mad at any of it,
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  Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Because once again you're talking
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  Speaker 1: about our churn. Bro, Hello, who's this? Just love me
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  Speaker 1: from the Bronx, Living Heart and CT. Now, what's up?
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  Speaker 1: Everything up? The God? Peace? King? What's up? Love you?
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  Speaker 1: What would you do in that situation? Love you? Being
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  Speaker 1: a single father, I've been putting this predicam so I
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  Speaker 1: have like this dude, like I have empathy for King. Respectfully,
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  Speaker 1: I have empathy for him, but I don't respect what
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  Speaker 1: he did because as a as a single father, as
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  Speaker 1: my son was one of that bus. You got smoke
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  Speaker 1: with me too. It's just it's the way we go
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  Speaker 1: about it. It's just because when I was putting that predicament,
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  Speaker 1: I did exactly what Charlemagne and God said, like I'm gonna,
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  Speaker 1: like yo, down on our parents, sorry, ran down on
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  Speaker 1: our parents, like yeah, we're your mom with your father.
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  Speaker 1: Bloh booh boy. I come, I pull up in a
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  Speaker 1: in a radio station, hum like, bro, just's love you?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah you know me, we're not doing it. Yeah, we're
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  Speaker 1: not doing it. Bro. I feel you. I don't care
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  Speaker 1: like I would lose all of mine. I will put
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  Speaker 1: everything because our first job. You gotta realize King's instinct
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  Speaker 1: kicked in. Our first job as a man is a protector,
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  Speaker 1: provide and to provide right, so so our instincts kick
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  Speaker 1: in and like like like you said, if I might
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  Speaker 1: have um, you know, I ain't gonna I ain't gonna
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  Speaker 1: curse your kids out, but I'm gonna tell you, like bro,
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  Speaker 1: how I have the whole borrow at your staff like
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  Speaker 1: we not. You know what I mean, you can't. We
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  Speaker 1: gotta be the Bronx at the Stoop, the whole South
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  Speaker 1: bron But but we're gonna be mindful because our kids
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  Speaker 1: watch our actions to now love you. I ain't gonna lie.
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  Speaker 1: I'd probably be more scared if you said you had
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  Speaker 1: the whole South Bronx kind of my stoop than you
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  Speaker 1: saying you're gonna flip the bus over. I ain't messing
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  Speaker 1: with South Bronx. I just want y'all to hear how
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  Speaker 1: the Bronx in Florida would respond to this situation. D
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  Speaker 1: D you wanted the kids love you want to bring
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  Speaker 1: the whole bird the Bronx to the person stoop. Lord,
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  Speaker 1: have mercy. Hello, who's this some from good? Was good
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  Speaker 1: from door? K oh boy? So what what you doing
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  Speaker 1: some mod ah time right now? Man? What I'm saying
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  Speaker 1: that work now, I'm talking about the kids. Man, I'm
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  Speaker 1: talking in that situations. In that situation. Oh no, Now
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  Speaker 1: I happened to my daughter. And what I'm saying, I
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  Speaker 1: want to my strength up is what it is? You
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  Speaker 1: went to the school and told who what it is?
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  Speaker 1: Who the kids are, the faculty, the kid you got,
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  Speaker 1: you gottamp with me? You kill me up? How always
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  Speaker 1: the kid six fourteen? Now? But she was thirteen at
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  Speaker 1: the time last hit. Okay, thank you. That's my age.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not mad at any of you. See this trending
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  Speaker 1: right you see Miami, you see the South Bronx, you
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  Speaker 1: see North Yeah yeah yeah, let's let's go to one. Hello.
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  Speaker 1: Who's this Hi? What you're calling from? I'm calling from
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  Speaker 1: her South Carolina? Eight o three? What was happening? Now?
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  Speaker 1: What would you do in this situation, mama? And this situation,
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  Speaker 1: I would get on that bus. I would come from
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  Speaker 1: every child that dropped my child and hope for them
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  Speaker 1: to go get their parents to come to me. Well,
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  Speaker 1: you gotta tell the kids you gotta say and tell
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  Speaker 1: your parents I'm looking for them. Okay, yes, tell your
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  Speaker 1: punk ass parents, I'm looking for them. Oh yeah, because
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  Speaker 1: they raised a bunch of little punks, bullies. Whatever happened
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  Speaker 1: to the let's check it out. Maybe you're going through
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  Speaker 1: something in your life. There's maybe some there's some issues
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  Speaker 1: at home that we need to discuss. Whatever happened to that?
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  Speaker 1: Why y'all going to violence? I didn't say violence. Listen,
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  Speaker 1: here's the thing. When when when your kid gets jumped,
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  Speaker 1: I got a mine. Yes, your kid got jumped. Bro,
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  Speaker 1: your kid got jumped. After we even the scot and
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  Speaker 1: we can talk about after even the school, we could
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  Speaker 1: bring it back down to a level of peaceful resolution. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: The moral of the story is man, leave people's churning alone. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: you're messing with someone's kids. No telling how they're gonna react.
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  Speaker 1: But that's why I wouldn't have cursed the kids out
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  Speaker 1: on the bus. But I would tell the kids sternly
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  Speaker 1: leave my children alone. And when I see the parents,
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  Speaker 1: I'm definitely pressing the parents. And the reason I wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: have pressed the kids out on the bus because now
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  Speaker 1: I'm just as bad as you know, the kids that yeah,
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  Speaker 1: because I don't want abody messing with my kids. So
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  Speaker 1: now I'm going to traumatize somebody else kids, but I
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  Speaker 1: will let them. Kids know, don't you put your hands
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  Speaker 1: on my my churn and tell your punk as daddy,
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  Speaker 1: I'm looking for him. And when I catch your daddy,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna beat him up. That's what you do. You
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  Speaker 1: make it all the smoke for the parents. For now,
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  Speaker 1: that kid gotta go home and you know, deliver that
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  Speaker 1: message to daddy, and the daddy come back around, and
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  Speaker 1: Daddy looked like deebo here like six six x football
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  Speaker 1: or ex marine. No, we'll get them taken out. And
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  Speaker 1: here's the thing. When you beat up somebody's parents, right,
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  Speaker 1: not a parent really mad at home with a black eye,
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  Speaker 1: telling nature and leading people can alone. Remember remember on
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  Speaker 1: Friday when rand Daddy said, you're dad here bothering this
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  Speaker 1: man about your bike leading man. Hello, Hello, that's right,
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  Speaker 1: that's right, that's right. Oh my goodness. All right, Well
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