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Manifesting Espresso Martini: Small Wins, Big Dreams · D-constructing Topics

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  What's going on everybody and welcome to the legendary Deconstructing Top A podcast. Let's go.
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  We call it another podcast here in my beautiful, beautiful island of Puerto Rico. Let's go.
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  I want to be a little bit loud. I'm outside kind of taking a little straw in the morning.
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  You're going to hear the birds chirping, everything that's chirping,
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  every damn sound that you can listen to.
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  And I'm trying not to be loud To respect of the neighbors The people that are living in this area,
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  Here in Bayamon, Puerto Rico But we got another good one We got,
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  you know Being here in the island For this past week or so It's kind of like,
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  Have helped me embrace And kind of got me,
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  Thinking here, reset button You know, things in life That makes something out
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  of us And lo and behold Oh, it's funny how life is that the other day I'm having
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  a, how can I say a nice dinner, dinner,
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  think in the, an event that I was participating.
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  And, you know, we had about 20, 30 people, whatever, in a big table.
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  And I was sitting with a little sister there and we was having a conversation.
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  And as a matter of fact, this episode, it's that little conversation is the
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  inspiration for this episode of this wonderful episode.
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  My name is David once again, and
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  I'm your host, your beautiful host of the Deconstructing Topic podcast.
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  Don't mind me if I'm trying to catch some air. I'm kind of like walking here
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  in the heat with a little sweatsuit.
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  Because, hey, listen, last night I had a good time.
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  A couple of beers, a couple of drinks here. went to
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  a festival there going on in umacao and
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  you know i gotta sweat out those uh toxins away
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  so don't mind me but you know what when you're
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  listening to the deconstructing type of podcast it's always a good beautiful
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  thing because it's like wow this dude
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  is just straight up genuine like you know what i'm saying you don't need no
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  sometimes you don't need no sparkling stuff or anything oh ah you know some
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  of those special sound effect because i am the sound effect And I am David And
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  this is the Deconstructing Topic Podcast And let's get on with the show Because you know what?
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  It's just so funny how having that conversation with the little sister there.
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  Basically, she was like, how can I say? So she was drinking an espresso martini, right?
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  And I don't think I ever had an espresso martini. I had martinis.
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  Let me tell you something.
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  My history with martinis, I used to be like, damn, that's that fancy stuff.
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  You know, give me some bourbon on the rocks, double, cognac.
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  But let me tell you something. When I started drinking martinis years ago.
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  Very underrated, good stuff.
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  So props to the bartenders, props to the places out there that serve a good
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  martini. Because sometimes you need it. It's going to kick. It might look fancy.
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  Don't let that cup fool you, you know? But anyways, as I'll be drinking the
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  espresso martini, she started talking about the conversation,
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  started talking about manifest and all that.
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  It's just like yeah well a few hours ago
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  i was i needed coffee and i needed a
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  drink and boom espresso martinez and we were like laughing and all that good
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  stuff it's like well i guess that is manifestation and it's up right you know
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  and it's like i started to kind of think and you know as i'm telling little
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  stories about my life because hey listen everybody that i come across,
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  I gave them my deconstructing topic
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  podcast cards so they could listen and I was giving them a little story and
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  this I start to realize that a lot of these stories that I have in my life There
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  was a source of manifestation and as I'm talking with the little sister we Laughing
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  good thing. She said She was laughing.
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  She's like, oh my god, you're so funny.
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  I'm like, you know what? Thank you I appreciate that. You know what I mean?
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  Of course, I'm funny Of course, I'm whatever But you know, that's what makes
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  this podcast so cool Because I was laughing too Oh, I'm funny?
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  I'm funny, good thing I didn't do that good fella thing You know what I mean?
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  If you know what I mean For those people who watch Goodfellas Was it Goodfellas?
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  Yo Pesci? You think I'm funny? You think I'm funny?
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  My God But anyway, just the fact that Just that conversation Just the fact that
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  she mentioned those things You start to think What is manifest? You feel me?
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  How can we make manifest fun? Sometimes people sit down and they go into this
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  deep rabbit hole of manifesting.
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  And I get it. And I'm with you.
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  So the fact is that as I'm, you know, we kind of joking around in a good sense,
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  having a good time. I'm like, wait a minute.
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  I just told her this story about how I got to the workplace that I'm working.
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  And the fact that I sat down just about in front of the building that was the
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  building where I consider my home in terms of my job.
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  And we are talking about 10 years before as a young kid.
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  You start to think how powerful the mind can be if you really put yourself into
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  that manifest kind of bubble kind of thing and again you know we could have
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  fun here because sometimes we don't know you know sometimes we could say coincidence
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  absolutely coincidence it is a thing you know,
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  but uh but the fact that is how can i say as we laugh and joking you know that
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  you know she had a long day on her, how can I say, profession.
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  It's something where she was having a good time. One minute,
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  she's doing something crazy.
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  The next minute, she's like, damn, I'm tired.
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  I wouldn't mind going for a drink. I wouldn't mind going for a coffee. Paquiti.
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  Espresso martini. And again, that's the name of the episode,
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  Manifesting Espresso Martini.
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  But what I want people to kind of understand, is have you ever sometimes said
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  to yourself, you want to manifest big things by all means.
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  Hey, listen, we want to manifest where we have a house of 30 rooms.
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  That's great. We want that. But you know what?
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  As I'm walking right now in the streets here in my beautiful Puerto Rico,
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  I noticed that these streets were, you know, done not too long ago.
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  I could see that This right here, these streets The pavement,
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  whatever it is These streets here As I'm looking at the streets They were done not too long ago.
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  So in other words, in order for you to manifest, you have to pave the way,
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  you have to start building that road to where you want to be at.
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  Now, yes, we want to build this, let's say, house, dirty rooms.
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  That's what I'm trying to manifest.
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  You know, success comes in many different ways. Remember, success for somebody could be wealth.
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  Success for somebody could be health. Success for somebody could be something
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  other different. We have our own ways of, you know, what success is.
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  Remember, they don't tell us what's in the TV. They don't tell us what it is,
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  what is success. No, success, you determine that.
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  But you know what? You got to start paving that wave, start building that road.
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  Again, you manifest that you want to live in a house with 30 rooms.
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  But what is it? Maybe something as simple as start manifesting a big house with just one room.
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  You'll be like, well, David, why would I have a big house in just one room?
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  You know, that's kind of a little funny, odd. Well, the whole house is the whole
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  damn move. You know what I mean?
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  But the whole point is that sometimes when we do these manifest things,
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  and I'm paid, you can count me on that situation, is that sometimes we forget the little things.
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  Remember, manifestation, it comes in different sizes, different shapes. You know what I mean?
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  Different colors, different actions, different outcomes.
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  Different things. And you know, I always emphasize to people.
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  Now, some people, you know, are believers of the law of attraction.
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  I say, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. You know what I mean?
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  There's no way you could sit down in a chair and just be like,
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  ah, you know, I'm here trying to add law of attraction. I'm trying to attract money.
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  I'm trying to attract that. And you are sitting down. Okay, great.
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  Nice. I wish the world lived, you know, I wish the universe kind of worked in
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  that little kind of concept where you could just sit down, not do anything,
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  and just close your eyes and say, hey, I want to manifest that right now.
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  It's going to be a million dollars in my bank account. Let's close my eyes.
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  Let me open it. Can I check my bank account? It's not going to work that way.
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  It's going to work that I'm telling you I got to get up But sometimes We get too,
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  How can I say Not riled up But sometimes We
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  get too wrapped up And so that When we manifest
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  Big Like the 30 rooms And we
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  get one Then we get disappointed Then who Who is to
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  say Right That you wasn't Manifesting just that one Big room You see what I'm
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  saying That's the whole thing Over here behind That little story Of the espresso
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  martini I'm pretty sure the young little sister wants to have her own business and do something crazy.
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  You know what I'm saying? Like have a business of something,
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  something, something, maybe a restaurant, maybe a bar, who knows?
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  But just the fact that if in her path that she was building,
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  in her career that she has been building,
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  where she put that work to be in that situation where she says,
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  wow, I'm working hard, man. I'm tired.
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  What can I cure my tiredness with? You know what I mean?
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  You could go to a spa. You could do this. You could do a lot.
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  But the little sister said, you know what? I need a drink.
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  Amen. If those people out there who have had a tough day or just productive, even if it's not tough.
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  But have we not, you know, how many times, and you know, listen,
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  I don't know how many times I could count, but how many times you have said,
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  hey, wow, I need a drink, right? So you apply that to that.
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  Then the little bit of tiredness, the little bit of thing, you know what,
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  I need some coffee. Then I'll go to the bar and get a drink.
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  Guess what? Why not do both, right? Why not get this expressive martini?
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  Because you need it, because you manifest it.
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  Guess where you're going to get that at? Exactly my point. Exactly my point.
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  You see, in order to get there, you got to move. You got to do something.
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  Regardless of how you're tired, you're going to always feel tired. Because guess what?
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  For the most part, even someone who has millions of dollars,
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  I don't care if you say, well, that person got millions of dollars and they
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  could do anything they want.
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  Listen, for the most part, that person worked hard. They worked hard for their
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  money. You don't think that they're tired?
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  They're probably more tired than you are. But what did they do? They work hard.
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  And that's one of the things you got to work. You got to work.
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  And then what's your reward?
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  Hey, listen, your reward for working hard can mean, you know, so many things.
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  But your reward could also be manifested by saying, you know what,
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  let me start doing those little things. Let me just start getting up.
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  Let me set a discipline where I'm going to get up at 4 o'clock in the morning.
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  Like I'm over here on the getaway, seeing my family, a little bit of what all I'm doing.
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  But guess what? I'm waking up at 5 in the morning, sometimes a little bit early.
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  And I'm saying to myself in these past few weeks, I mean past few days, I'm having a good time.
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  I'm going to sleep under the influence of, you know, some adult beverages,
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  some good beers from the island, straight from the island.
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  But you see, that's the reward.
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  But you see, instead of waking up and saying, oh, man, you know, I can't.
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  You see, I work the next day. I wake up the next day. That's why I'm doing this
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  podcast. I'm putting in work.
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  See, the reward is that I could just be tired, right? Going back to that espresso martini.
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  I think I might want. I think I might need one after this one. Thank you.
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  But the fact is that there's a reward for something, and the reward will get you tired.
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  You know, I know people that their rewards would be that, hey, I work hard.
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  Let me go on vacation. I know a couple of people went on vacation recently,
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  and they came back tired. But guess what?
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  You work yourself again so you could go on another vacation and treat yourself
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  to do whatever it is that you want. You manifest it. You ask for it.
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  You ask for it. You manifest it. You got it. I guarantee it's going to work
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  in that cycle. And I want people to feel discouraged That they're,
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  hey, nah, you know, I can't You know, I'm tired You know what?
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  If you're a drinker, non-drinker If you're a coffee drinker If you're a non-coffee
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  drinker Next time You look at a menu when you go to a restaurant.
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  Even if it's not there Just tell the waiter Can I have an espresso martinis, please?
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  And that's basically my podcast Because once again,
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  Think about the reward Think about what you can manifest Even
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  the smallest thing You always have to think Listen to your mind Listen to your
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  body Listen to your soul And feed them Give them what you think that they need
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  Even if it's something as small As an espresso martini Anyways,
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  I'm out of here Much love We're making it happen You already know Deconstructing
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  Topic Podcast Shout out to the little sister Shout out to anybody Little brothers
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  out there As well I got so many stories to tell Great people, good people The energy,
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  the vibe in the island Giving me that reset button All that good stuff The Deconstructed
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  Podcast here Hit that like,
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  hit that share Comment, let's talk about everything Let's talk about you and
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  me And let's talk about espresso martinis I definitely will be drinking one
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  Tonight, I'm out of here Much love, peace.