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Buck Brief - Call Her “Not Proud” Daddy · The Clay Travis and Buck Sexton Show

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  Speaker 1: One of the biggest podcasts in the world, Call Her Daddy,
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  Speaker 1: consistently gives women really bad messaging and extremely destructive advice.
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  Speaker 1: And I understand that people like me, especially older white
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  Speaker 1: males who criticize this stuff, will immediately be labeled, well,
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  Speaker 1: either misogynistic or prudes or whatever, called some sort of names.
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  Speaker 1: But I generally leave this stuff. I don't, I don't,
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  Speaker 1: engage with audio smut because I think it's usually not
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  Speaker 1: worth my time. But when a podcast has this much
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  Speaker 1: influence over as many young women as it does, I
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  Speaker 1: do think there's some obligation for those of the rest
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  Speaker 1: of us who want people in general and women specifically
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  Speaker 1: to have happy, healthy lives to say something. And that
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  Speaker 1: brings me to the latest from the Call Her Daddy podcast.
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  Speaker 1: Earlier this week, she said, Uh, the, this was a quote. Well,
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  Speaker 1: here it is. And it's maybe you shouldn't leave this
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  Speaker 1: marriage because it's, can I even get better? The answer
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  Speaker 1: is always yes. That's one of the worst things. Uh,
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  Speaker 1: one of the worst lines of advice I've ever heard
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  Speaker 1: about a marriage from anyone. Um, because first of all,
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  Speaker 1: a marriage is not a car. It's not, I want
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  Speaker 1: the new model that has no problem. So I'm going to,
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to give in or trade in what I have.
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  Speaker 1: And that mentality, which people have embraced in this country,
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  Speaker 1: is extremely destructive, especially if there are children involved in
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  Speaker 1: a marriage that are now going to bear the brunt
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  Speaker 1: of the emotional degradation, the emotional turmoil that will result
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  Speaker 1: from that kind of a split. But also, people should...
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  Speaker 1: be espousing people with large platforms and positions of real influence,
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  Speaker 1: as the Call Her Daddy podcast certainly qualifies as that,
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  Speaker 1: they should be saying things to the people that are
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  Speaker 1: their listeners that will improve their lives, not make them worse.
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  Speaker 1: And I think it is just objectively and obviously true
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  Speaker 1: that encouraging people to break up their marriage because they
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  Speaker 1: think they could find somebody better is among the most
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  Speaker 1: insidious things bits of advice you could possibly give, and
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  Speaker 1: especially to young women who are unfortunately initiating, women in
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  Speaker 1: general are initiating a majority of all divorces. They initiate
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  Speaker 1: far too many divorces. I think that's clear, should be
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  Speaker 1: clear to anyone. And they, because there's too many divorces
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  Speaker 1: in general, and they've made this a, you go get yours,
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  Speaker 1: you go girl, eat, pray, love your way to the
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  Speaker 1: next marriage situation. It's all just terrible. It's awful for
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  Speaker 1: the kids. But this also comes against the background. First
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  Speaker 1: of all, Kamala sat down with this woman. Remember, Kamala
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  Speaker 1: did an interview with the Call Her Daddy podcast, which
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  Speaker 1: was absurd when she was running for president. But Kamala's
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  Speaker 1: a moron. The other things that have been said on
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  Speaker 1: this show, cheat or be cheated on, for example. That
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  Speaker 1: was advice that she apparently gave for college girls. Uh,
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  Speaker 1: she said it is applicable in certain situations. Um, that's
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  Speaker 1: a horrible thing to tell people. Even if you're in
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  Speaker 1: a dating relationship and you've given your word to somebody,
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  Speaker 1: I know you haven't had a vow at a marriage,
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  Speaker 1: but you've given your word to somebody that you're not
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  Speaker 1: actually going to be physically intimate with somebody else. Uh,
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  Speaker 1: while you have that understanding while you are dating, um,
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  Speaker 1: it's really hurtful and really destructive to a person's sense
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  Speaker 1: of self and ego to find out that you've lied
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  Speaker 1: to them in that way. You know, it's It's, I think,
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  Speaker 1: part of the carnage that you see out there from
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  Speaker 1: all the dating apps and all the rest of it
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  Speaker 1: is related to this. People have endless options and they
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  Speaker 1: think that they have to be exercising those options or
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  Speaker 1: else they're missing out on something in life. And one
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  Speaker 1: thing that I know, I'm only 44 years old, but
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  Speaker 1: I've been around for a bit. Everybody's got problems. Everybody
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  Speaker 1: has their challenges, their physical, mental shortcomings, their insecurities, their
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  Speaker 1: things that they need to get a better handle on
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  Speaker 1: or things that they're afraid of, that they should be
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  Speaker 1: more engaged in improving. And everyone's a human being, no
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  Speaker 1: matter how beautiful they are, how ugly they are, everyone's
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  Speaker 1: a human being. And that means that there's all the beautiful,
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  Speaker 1: wonderful things about their humanity. And there's also, of course,
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  Speaker 1: the things about them that are not exactly as you want.
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  Speaker 1: Marriage is about union of two souls and the creation
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  Speaker 1: of a family. And being there for the other person,
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  Speaker 1: no matter what. And anything that undermines that is undermining
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  Speaker 1: the marriage. And so making it about how sexy you
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  Speaker 1: think your partner is or how, uh, you know, what
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  Speaker 1: would the life they're providing for you? Is it what
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  Speaker 1: you deserve? Um, well they deserve, whether it's the man
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  Speaker 1: or the woman we're talking about here, a spouse who
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  Speaker 1: shows them the devotion of a spouse. And yeah, there
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  Speaker 1: are exceptions, of course, to if you're going to talk
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  Speaker 1: about somebody who's got an alcohol abuse or drug abuse problem,
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  Speaker 1: who's physically abusive, there are times at which a marriage
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  Speaker 1: has been effectively already destroyed. And it is very difficult
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  Speaker 1: to salvage, and it is not in the best interest
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  Speaker 1: of one party to salvage it. I think that is true,
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  Speaker 1: that is possible. Now, in the Catholic Church, you can't
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  Speaker 1: actually get divorced So you're really just separating from each
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  Speaker 1: other because you couldn't marry again in the church. Other
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  Speaker 1: churches have a different have a different interpretation, a different
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  Speaker 1: religious teaching. But the stuff that I'm seeing from this podcast,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, basically telling women to act like they are
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  Speaker 1: as promiscuous as possible. somehow making them feel better. I
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  Speaker 1: can tell you every woman that I have known, including
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  Speaker 1: people that I grew up with in New York City
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  Speaker 1: and people that I've now known in professional life, who
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  Speaker 1: has been clearly very promiscuous in their lives, they've paid
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  Speaker 1: a psychological and emotional toll for that, a pretty hefty
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  Speaker 1: one usually. And sometimes it doesn't really manifest itself until later,
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  Speaker 1: but there are psychological scars that come from being used
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  Speaker 1: and discarded in that way. It is not empowering for women. And, uh,
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  Speaker 1: to say things like cheater be cheated on, for example,
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  Speaker 1: I think is very, very destructive. Uh, another one here, um,
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  Speaker 1: for example, uh, was, I'm trying to find one that
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  Speaker 1: I can read to you that would be okay. She
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  Speaker 1: said on an episode, You're just a whole that's a
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  Speaker 1: quote speaking to women That's disgusting. It's not it's just
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  Speaker 1: it's as misogynistic actually if you're gonna take a Feminist
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  Speaker 1: position if you believe in feminism or female empowerment, I
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  Speaker 1: don't think there's anything that could be really more Degrading
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  Speaker 1: then you're then you're just a whole was a comment
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  Speaker 1: about a woman a human being And this degrading stuff
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  Speaker 1: in the culture, the fact that women go and listen
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  Speaker 1: to this podcast, which is all about just the most unaccountable, selfish, narcissistic,
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  Speaker 1: superficial hookup culture is really bad for this generation of
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  Speaker 1: young women who are growing up. And I've been on this,
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  Speaker 1: on this beat, so to speak for a long time.
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  Speaker 1: I'm somebody who said when it was extremely popular, that
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  Speaker 1: sex in the city was actually a very degrading show
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  Speaker 1: for women. And that really, it was a show about
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  Speaker 1: gay men, uh, not about women based on a lot
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  Speaker 1: of lifestyle choices and, and a lot of the presentation, uh,
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  Speaker 1: of decisions that were being made. And I think that's
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  Speaker 1: proven to be true. I was written by a gay man.
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  Speaker 1: The show was written by a gay guy. And, uh,
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  Speaker 1: there's just a lot about it that I found extremely, um,
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  Speaker 1: you know, bad advice for women, basically bad way to
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  Speaker 1: live your life, you know, put sex and career ahead
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  Speaker 1: of everything else. Anytime that you are going against what
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  Speaker 1: is natural, what is in the natural world, uh, there
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  Speaker 1: are going to be problems. There's going to be friction
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  Speaker 1: and trying to treat women as though they are men
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  Speaker 1: or tell them that they are men. I'm not even
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  Speaker 1: talking about the trans stuff. I'm just saying about life
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  Speaker 1: choices is one of the most destructive things that I
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  Speaker 1: think our society has embraced. The downplaying of motherhood, the
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  Speaker 1: undermining of gender roles to the point where, yeah, the
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  Speaker 1: people who say, well, shouldn't a woman be allowed to work?
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  Speaker 1: We're not talking about allowed. We're talking about prioritization. We're
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  Speaker 1: talking about encouraging of choices. You know, a lot of
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  Speaker 1: women should be encouraged and praised for putting their family first. Now,
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  Speaker 1: that's not something you hear in the media. That's certainly
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  Speaker 1: not something you hear on extremely popular kind of pop
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  Speaker 1: culture podcasts, but that's a shame because it should be.
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  Speaker 1: And so whether it's this call her daddy clip or
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  Speaker 1: other things like it that you're seeing out there, we
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  Speaker 1: really need to do a better job of reaching out
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  Speaker 1: to young women and women's empowerment. She made actually celebrating
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  Speaker 1: what is beautiful about women without degrading them and celebrating
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  Speaker 1: the incredible life giving life creation, uh, reality of motherhood
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  Speaker 1: and being a mom and all of these things, instead
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  Speaker 1: of just pushing the track. most you know lowbrow sex
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  Speaker 1: sex sex and all these different uh it's honestly it's
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  Speaker 1: it's appalling what is popular in a lot of the
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  Speaker 1: particularly the left-leaning and notice she's a kamala fan right
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  Speaker 1: i mean of course this is all pushed also by
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  Speaker 1: democrats all this really degrading disgusting stuff is far more
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  Speaker 1: prevalent and far more common on uh in left-leaning media
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  Speaker 1: than it is in the i'm not saying conservatives can't
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  Speaker 1: be sexists or what you know conservatives aren't excited by
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  Speaker 1: beautiful women i'm just saying that there are things uh
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  Speaker 1: things to look um things to look at here to
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