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Does A Compliment From A Stranger Mean Flirting? · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: It's topic time called eight hundred five five five one
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  Speaker 1: to join it to the discussion with the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 2: Morning. Everybody's steej env.
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  Speaker 3: Charlamage to god. We are the Breakfast Club now if
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  Speaker 3: you're just joining us. We were talking about the topic.
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  Speaker 3: We were talking behind the scenes now behind the scenes
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  Speaker 3: just actually started from Charlamage.
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  Speaker 4: Donkey yesterday yes because during Donkey of the Day, a
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  Speaker 4: young man robbed a woman at gunpoint, and while he
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  Speaker 4: was robbing her, he made her follow him on Facebook
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  Speaker 4: and actually hit her up and they were going back
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  Speaker 4: and forward. Then he you know, wanted to go on
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  Speaker 4: a date with her and told her she he was
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  Speaker 4: He's sorry he had the robb her. She's too pretty
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  Speaker 4: to be robbed. And I'm sitting there thinking, like he's
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  Speaker 4: only thinking she likes him because she replied to him
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  Speaker 4: on Facebook.
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  Speaker 5: He's he's too stupid and clearly.
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  Speaker 4: Too arrogant to not realize he's getting lined up to
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  Speaker 4: get get arrested. But it made me think, like, why
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  Speaker 4: can't men, you know, why can't a woman give a
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  Speaker 4: man a compliment, just look in a man's direction without
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  Speaker 4: the man thinking, hey man, that woman wants me.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I just think that's how society is and
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  Speaker 3: how people see things. I feel like if a woman
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  Speaker 3: compliments a guy, goes out of her way to say
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  Speaker 3: something looks nice or something looks good, or I think
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  Speaker 3: that is you know, I think that leaves the door
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  Speaker 3: for you know, maybe a conversation.
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  Speaker 6: You know what. I think a compliment is. But a
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  Speaker 6: compliment like simple as that.
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  Speaker 4: If I tell y'all like your shirt, if I tell
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  Speaker 4: y'all like your sneakers, it's because I like your shirt
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  Speaker 4: and I like your sneakers, like simple as that, Like,
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  Speaker 4: it has nothing to do with anything else.
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  Speaker 6: And I don't know why men don't understand that.
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  Speaker 2: I disagree, And I think the same thing with men.
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  Speaker 3: I think if a man compliments a woman, it's not
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  Speaker 3: because he's just like, oh, that's a dope shirt. I
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  Speaker 3: think a lot of times it's because he wants to
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  Speaker 3: kind of just holler and see if the door's open.
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  Speaker 6: I remember that, mister married man.
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  Speaker 4: Remember that next time you tell a woman you like
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  Speaker 4: her sneakers.
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  Speaker 5: You know what I mean. You don't tell a woman
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  Speaker 5: you like her.
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  Speaker 3: I only if I compliment somebody, somebody that we all know,
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  Speaker 3: I don't. I don't I've never sat by playing Hey, ma,
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  Speaker 3: you got some dope kicks on.
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  Speaker 2: I don't do it.
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  Speaker 4: No, that's not true, because like sometimes you might see
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  Speaker 4: a girl with a nice hair, dude, like I love
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  Speaker 4: I love dreadlocks, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 6: I'm like y'all like your dreads.
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  Speaker 3: Now, I will say that if I do see a
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  Speaker 3: nice head, and I might say, hey, who did your head?
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  Speaker 3: Because I would love my my wife would probably love
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  Speaker 3: my daughter's head and look like that.
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  Speaker 2: It's the truth. It's the truth.
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  Speaker 5: It's just still a compliment.
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  Speaker 6: There's nothing wrong with giving people compliments.
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  Speaker 3: Man intention mad Brandon Brandon step to the mic for
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  Speaker 3: a second tention matter Brandon, Step to the mic.
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  Speaker 6: Brandon Brandon's organic connection.
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  Speaker 3: If a woman pays you a compliment, does that open
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  Speaker 3: the door?
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  Speaker 6: What I said was you better not pay me no
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  Speaker 6: compliment because I'm.
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  Speaker 5: Gonna go for it. Brandon.
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  Speaker 6: How old are you, Brandon? I'm twenty seven years Brandon.
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  Speaker 4: It is twenty seven years old. He don't know no
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  Speaker 4: better yet. Okay, he's young, he's hot, he's.
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  Speaker 6: Horny at all time. No woman can look his way,
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  Speaker 6: and he think the woman want him. You know what
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  Speaker 6: I mean?
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  Speaker 4: Every woman that be coming in this building ain't paying
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  Speaker 4: Brandon no attention.
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  Speaker 5: And he'd be like, I think I got a shine,
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  Speaker 5: rubbing his chest. I think I got a shot. I
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  Speaker 5: think I got a shot.
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  Speaker 4: He really said he had a shot with Redink.
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  Speaker 2: I got a shot. I think I got a shot
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  Speaker 2: with your cousin, cousin.
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  Speaker 3: But now, Brandon, if you give a woman a compliment,
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  Speaker 3: are you opening the door for maybe trying.
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  Speaker 2: To holler as well? Yeah, if they're not a friend
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  Speaker 2: of the worker.
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  Speaker 3: If you see a woman in the street and you're like,
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  Speaker 3: nice shirt, you're not saying nice shirt because.
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  Speaker 6: If it's a stranger.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, yes, twenty seven.
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  Speaker 6: You don't know no better.
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  Speaker 4: You can give people compliments and nothing be behind it.
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  Speaker 4: Take it from somebody who's a sex symbol. Bro, I've
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  Speaker 4: been unbelievably handsome my whole life, ever since I.
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  Speaker 5: Was a little kid. Older women women my.
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  Speaker 6: Age, Oh you're so handsome, you're so cute.
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  Speaker 5: Is that you never thought about it. It's never been
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  Speaker 5: anything other than.
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  Speaker 2: Anything you say.
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  Speaker 5: That's a goddamn lie.
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  Speaker 2: Hello, who's this hey, geechee?
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  Speaker 5: Good morning, good morning, good morning.
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  Speaker 6: Now geechee, what.
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  Speaker 3: Do you think if a woman pays you a compliment?
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  Speaker 3: Is that opening the door to have a conversation?
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  Speaker 7: At least now we all know nowadays these women are
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  Speaker 7: they don't want to talk to nobody, woman up them
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  Speaker 7: with an outfit or your appearance periods opened.
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  Speaker 5: Up a line? Man if y'all.
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  Speaker 8: So, yeah, yeah, he can't really even speak on this.
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  Speaker 5: Very out the game too, he should be.
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  Speaker 2: I am out, I am out the game.
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  Speaker 4: I just think y'all sound ridiculous thinking that just because
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  Speaker 4: a woman says you gives you a compliment, that she
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  Speaker 4: wants you, she.
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  Speaker 2: Wants you, but she's opening the door for a conversation
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  Speaker 2: a minimum. No she's not, Yes she is.
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  Speaker 8: Man, you go to the club these days, women aren't
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  Speaker 8: even trying.
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  Speaker 5: To say two words to you.
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  Speaker 7: So if they look at you a compliment, I think
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  Speaker 7: that's opening the door conversation.
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  Speaker 4: You know, I'm going a mistake y'all making right now
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  Speaker 4: talking Nick, But go to the women.
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  Speaker 5: If we're gonna go to women, go to some women.
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  Speaker 5: That's the women. How we how we talking about what women?
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  Speaker 5: But I'm ast meeting you?
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  Speaker 2: What what guys feel like?
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  Speaker 4: When you I know guys feel that way, but we
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  Speaker 4: stupid right, go to the women.
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  Speaker 3: Eight hundred and five eight five, one oh five. When
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  Speaker 3: Breakfast Club the morning.
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  Speaker 2: It's topic time.
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  Speaker 1: Called eight hundred and five five one to join into
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  Speaker 1: the discussion with the breakfast club.
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  Speaker 5: Talk about it.
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  Speaker 3: Good morning, everybody is dej nv Charlomagne the god we
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  Speaker 3: are the breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 2: Now if he's just joining us.
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  Speaker 3: We're talking about compliments, and we were having this conversation
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  Speaker 3: behind the scenes, saying if a woman compliments a guy,
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  Speaker 3: does that mean she's opening the door for at least
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  Speaker 3: a conversation.
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  Speaker 4: Such a ridiculous train of thought that men have, And
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  Speaker 4: this whole conversation is just confirming what I already knew.
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  Speaker 4: A woman can't even look in a man's direction without
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  Speaker 4: the man thinking she wants me, you know, one.
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  Speaker 6: Of the stupidest things men say. But I'm gonna her?
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  Speaker 6: How you know you know what me like?
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  Speaker 5: How do you know this? Like? How you could just
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  Speaker 5: look at a woman down whatever? How do you know? Hello?
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  Speaker 2: Who's this? Christy? Hey, Christy the bus driver?
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  Speaker 3: Good morning, how you doing, Charlomagne, Thank you, queen, appreciate
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  Speaker 3: you now, Christy, if you compliment a guy. Right, the
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  Speaker 3: compliment of guy's outfit, clothes, sneakers, kicks? Are you opening
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  Speaker 3: the door for at least the conversation?
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  Speaker 6: No, thank you.
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  Speaker 8: I'm a bunch driver and exact for people all day
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  Speaker 8: and I'll make compliment woman.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not gay, true indeed, But if you compliment a guy,
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  Speaker 4: Let's say you see a nice, handsome guy trying to
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  Speaker 4: convince her walking on the bus and you say, hey,
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  Speaker 4: that's a nice shirt.
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  Speaker 2: You don't think that?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, that's opening the door for at least the conversation.
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  Speaker 8: It might open. He might come back to Marvel and
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  Speaker 8: be like, oh, you was the one that said I
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  Speaker 8: had a nice thirty one, So he's gonna be an.
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  Speaker 6: He might wear the same shirt.
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  Speaker 9: But but you're.
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  Speaker 2: Complimenting him because you you know, you think he's handsome.
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  Speaker 5: Right, Why are you trying to sway to jewry to
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  Speaker 5: take any of this? Thank you? Christy?
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  Speaker 8: All right, Tabitha, Hello, how are you?
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  Speaker 2: How are you feeling this morning?
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  Speaker 5: Tabitha?
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  Speaker 8: I am so all right.
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  Speaker 3: Now we're talking about if you compliment a man, right,
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  Speaker 3: does that open the door for a conversation?
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  Speaker 8: I don't believe so. I'm a real estate booker, and
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  Speaker 8: I was complimenting a builder on his work. We went
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  Speaker 8: and we purchased the property from the dirt, and then
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  Speaker 8: he build a property in three months. And I complimented
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  Speaker 8: to his wife, who was the other agent on the
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  Speaker 8: other side, and so the product was sold. And then
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  Speaker 8: I needed her again and she's like not responding to
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  Speaker 8: me because I complimented her husband and I said, he
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  Speaker 8: did such a good job. He's so awesome, he's great,
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  Speaker 8: and I really would mean it, you know, in no way,
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  Speaker 8: just complimenting his product, and he won't call me back.
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  Speaker 5: I'll tell you exactly what happened in that situation.
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  Speaker 4: That man went to his wife and said, you were
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  Speaker 4: flirting with I.
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  Speaker 5: I guarantee it, yo. Man that yo, she was flirting
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  Speaker 5: with me. Yo.
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  Speaker 6: All you did was compliment him on his work.
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  Speaker 4: But he took it as, oh, she want me, and
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  Speaker 4: so he wanted to look like the man and his
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  Speaker 4: wife when he went to his wife and told his wife,
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  Speaker 4: you were flirting with him, guaranteed.
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  Speaker 8: Oh man, I mean that is totally not it. And
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  Speaker 8: I really need him for another client.
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  Speaker 5: See what I'm saying. Men gotta stop leaving with the ego.
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  Speaker 6: This is ridiculous.
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  Speaker 2: Hello, who's this?
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  Speaker 5: Ronnie turn eight four three was having to my mother.
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  Speaker 2: Ronnie talked to.
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  Speaker 9: Us, I don't feel like a woman. She give me
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  Speaker 9: a compliment on my shirt off like she's actually flirting.
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  Speaker 9: I just feel like my style. I come in, but
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  Speaker 9: I do feel like him. I come back with a
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  Speaker 9: compliment and she kind of give me that flap, that smirk.
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  Speaker 8: I can kind of get in the door man like.
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  Speaker 4: Opening this he took he took it somewhere else like
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  Speaker 4: meaning that she complimented your shirt, and then you replay
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  Speaker 4: right back with something probably flirty.
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  Speaker 5: And then when she.
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  Speaker 9: Roll you know, uckdown mantle.
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  Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying. But you replied back with something flirty.
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  Speaker 5: That's right. When she when she replied to that energy,
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  Speaker 5: that's different.
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  Speaker 9: Just give me a compliment. I get that all the
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  Speaker 9: time in LA. I mean I appreciate I give it back,
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  Speaker 9: you know from the South compliment.
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  Speaker 4: Listen, man, you know that you know the most handsome
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  Speaker 4: men in the world is just from come from the
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  Speaker 4: low country. This is a fact, Cat, This is a
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  Speaker 4: This is a scientific fact.
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  Speaker 5: The most handsome men in the.
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  Speaker 4: World are born in the A four three Lulu, Yes,
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  Speaker 4: good morning, Good morning, Lulu.
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  Speaker 3: It's how you doing, how you feel and talk to us.
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  Speaker 3: So if if you see a cansome young man and
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  Speaker 3: you like his shirt, right and you say, hey, brother,
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  Speaker 3: that's a that's a nice shirt that you're wearing. It
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  Speaker 3: fits well, is that opening the door for conversation, Lulu,
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  Speaker 3: Let's be.
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  Speaker 8: Honest, Yes it is. It depends on the environment. But
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  Speaker 8: it could be flirting, it could be breaking the eyes,
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  Speaker 8: being approachable towards a person.
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  Speaker 2: See, thank you, Janna.
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  Speaker 8: I want to say happy birthday to you a big
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  Speaker 8: time from Miami. And you're right, everybody.
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  Speaker 4: From Florida's everybody is for Florida is crazy and you
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  Speaker 4: crazy for thinking that every man, whether you like the
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  Speaker 4: person were just talking about random walking down the street, Lulu,
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  Speaker 4: you got on something from Lululemon.
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  Speaker 6: Hey, I like what you wearing, Bong. That don't mean
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  Speaker 6: I want to hollow.
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  Speaker 8: Thank you, thank you.
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  Speaker 5: That's it simple as that.
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  Speaker 3: Now, if he's handsome, then you go back and double
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  Speaker 3: back and be like, thank you so much, lord, and
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  Speaker 3: then you start talking about him.
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  Speaker 2: Yes see, yes, thank you.
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  Speaker 3: He's not handsome, so he don't get that, he don't
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  Speaker 3: understand that.
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  Speaker 4: That's all I've been getting my whole is cat I
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  Speaker 4: came out of the womb handsome man. I got that
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  Speaker 4: look bro, Okay, I'm a handsome individual.
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  Speaker 2: Now, what's what's the moral of the story, man, Marell?
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  Speaker 4: Of the story is you stupid ass men. Women don't
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  Speaker 4: want y'all just because they compliment your shirt. Women don't
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  Speaker 4: want y'all just because they tell you nice sneakers.
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  Speaker 5: All right, stop it.
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  Speaker 6: Knock it off.
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  Speaker 5: Jesus.
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  Speaker 3: All right, when we come back, we got your room
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  Speaker 3: and report. We got to discuss Castanova. He was sentenced
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  Speaker 3: to fifteen years in present and Casanova's girlfriend says she's
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  Speaker 3: gonna ride promised to hold him down the whole fifteen years.
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  Speaker 6: Let's dicuss. It's the breakfast Coustan