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42. big sister chat.. entering a new era, moving in with your significant other + wedding updates · Hot Girl Energy Podcast

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Hello, you guys. Welcome back to another episode of the Hawk Ril Energy
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Podcast. I'm your host, Kaylee, and this is your weekly reminder that
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it's a new day, a new week, a new mindset, and another
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day for you to become the Hawk orl Energy you want to attract. Happy
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Tuesday, you guys. I just want to start off by saying story in
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advance, because apparently there's construction going on in my backyard today and this is
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the quietest area in my house that I could find to stay far away from
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it. But of course as soon as I start recording, they start cutting
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wood in my backyards, So I apologize for that in advance if you guys
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hear that in the background, But I feel like it's kind of been on
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and off, so we might be okay, but I won't know until after
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recording this episode and editing it if you guys can hear it in the background,
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So hopefully you can't and you can just hear my voice. But hello,
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you guys, how are you? I hope all is well? Today
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is June fourth. I'm obviously recording on a Monday, and you guys are
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listening to it on June fifth, But happy June guys. I'm very excited
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obviously to get into another month. May was so so good. I felt
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like I was just overall so much more positive in May verse the past few
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months before that. I think it was just because obviously it was the winter
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season throughout January and April, and I just like needed summer to come asap.
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And I'm feeling so much better going into warmer weather. It's been beautiful
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here in Ottawa, and yeah, May was just so so good. I
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can't explain how excited I am for the next few months. I think these
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next few months are going to go buy so quick, and I feel like
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that's always the case with summer. I always feel like it's just like you
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close your eyes and boom it, we're already in fall. So I'm hoping
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it doesn't go as fast as I think it's going to be. By every
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weekend I find in the summer is just chaotic. I don't know about you,
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guys, but I always feel like it's just so busy. And I
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think now going into you know, my late twenties, it's getting even more
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chaotic because there's more weddings being involved in baby showers and all that, and
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I'm just starting to realize now that like I'm officially entering a new era,
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like being twenty six. I felt like it was like moving into the new
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house, and you know, everybody's living on their own and all that,
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and now I feel like everybody's getting engaged. We're going to weddings, and
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now some of my friends are actually trying to get pregnant. And I felt
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like that was a huge wake up call to me hearing that, you know,
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like my friends were trying, and I'm like, oh my god,
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Like I'm officially entering a completely different era in my life, and it's honestly
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quite scary. Like I'm excited to obviously be in a new chapter in my
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life, but I'm scared, man, Like I'm scared to take on you
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know, I don't even know, I'm just scared to take on like new
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things. I definitely think it's hard to adapt a change. I think even
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moving into this house was a lot like you know, leaving my parents' place,
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living there for so long, being so comfortable with them, and then
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moving in with my boyfriend and moving in into this beautiful home that's ours,
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paying a mortgage, you know, splitting off chores, duties, all that,
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and yeah, it's just quite scary, but I'm so happy to adapt
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a change because adapting into this new environment of you know, living on our
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own and having our own space and all that has been so rewarding and I
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feel so blessed and grateful and I wouldn't trade it for the world. I
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love living with Zac. It's the best thing. I love, you know,
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just spending time with him and being able to do, you know,
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things around the house together and all that. So yeah, so I really
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wanted to make this episode about living with your significant other because I feel like
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that's definitely a topic that I get asked a lot about because Zach and I
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we have been together for ten years, but we didn't move in together into
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the last part of a relationship. And the reason being for that is because
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we started dating at such a young age. We started dating when we were
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sixteen, and from sixteen to twenty three we both lived at our parents' place.
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We never moved in together, and we talked about moving in together.
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When I was in college, I stayed home. I didn't go away for
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school. I ended up just getting my degree here in Ottawa, and Zach
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ended up going to trade school. So we both financially were in the right
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space to rent somewhere. We were like, you know what, let's just
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save our money live at our parents' places and not you move in together just
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yet. And eventually, once we reached twenty four, I think that's when
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COVID happened. I'm trying to remember what age we were when COVID happened,
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but I'm going to say twenty four. And that was like a really rough
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patch in our relationship because my parents were very strict in the COVID world and
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didn't allow us to see each other. So we were almost two months in
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of not having any one on one into with each other in person, Like
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we obviously chat through FaceTime and text and all that, but we haven't seen
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each other in two months in person. And so eventually that's when I was
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like, Mom, what are we doing here? Like I can't be in
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a relationship with someone and not see them for any longer, Like how are
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we going to make this work? We don't know how long COVID's going to
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be whatever. So at that point, my mom and dad actually allowed Zach
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to move into my parents place, and that was kind of the start of
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us living together, which, honestly, it was actually a really good test
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in our relationship, I found, because you know, we weren't putting any
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money towards a property or anything like that. We were he was living at
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my parents place for free, and it gave us a good test in a
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relationship to see if we could actually live together. And obviously it worked out
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great. We were able to you know, split off duties, routines and
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chores and all that being at my parents place, and that allowed us to
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take the next step in our relationship and you know, actually find a place
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for ourselves to move into. So during COVID, we bought our first place.
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We bought a new build. We both saved our money and put it
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towards the house that we live in now. It took almost two years to
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build because of COVID. It was a huge delay, so it definitely took
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a long time for us to settle in. But the reason why I'm also
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kind of bringing this episode up into this week's episode is because Zach and I
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officially reached our one year mark this week for living in our new home,
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which is so crazy and it makes me kind of emotional because it's so crazy
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to see what we've done to the space, and I'm so grateful and I
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feel so blessed to live in such a beautiful home, and I love our
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homes so much. But I also feel like there's so much that I never
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got done, Like I promised myself to have, you know, all the
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bedrooms done and all that, and literally both bedrooms upstairs are not complete and
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my bedroom's not even complete either. So it's just funny how you know,
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I expected to have so much done by the year mark, and you know,
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there's still so much to work on. But also I feel like that
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kind of makes it exciting, because I feel like if I finished everything,
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I'd want to move on to the next place, you know what I mean.
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So at least it keeps things still exciting, being able to transform some
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spaces, like I really want to transform our backyard, I really want to
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still work on my glam room. I still haven't gotten like a makeup desk
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or anything. I still need to work on my office. So at least
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it keeps the house fun knowing that there's other projects coming up and that it's
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not completely finished. But yeah, so anyways, it's such just so real
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moment knowing that we've been here for a year and just seeing all the progress
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that we've made on our first home. But yeah, so that's kind of
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why I wanted to talk about living with your partner because we reached our one
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year mark. But there's things that I feel like a lot of people don't
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express about living together with your partner. Like, first off, we'll get
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into like how do you know in the relationship when you're ready to move in
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together? And kind of like what I said about Zach and I I felt
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like you almost just like know when it's the right time, And I feel
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like it has to be a mutual decision, Like it can't be one sided.
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At the end of the day, you guys are both putting your own
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cost towards the home, and you don't want it to be a one sided
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thing where one person wants to move in together and one person doesn't. I
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think you'll just like know when it's the right time in your relationship to take
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that next step, because obviously, like you need to be completely comfortable with
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each other and you need to take that responsibility of taking on that next step
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because there is a lot of work to owning a house or renting a house
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or anything like that. Like it's not easy, and it definitely, you
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know, opens people's eyes up in the relationship. It's almost like a make
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or break if like the relationship is going to work or not going to work,
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because some people move in together and realize that, you know, you're
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not meant to be together because you guys get in a lot of fights or
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anything like that. Like when you move in together, you're seeing each other
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way more than what you would just you know, hopping around to your parents'
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place, like you were fully committed into living together, seeing each other all
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the time. Splitting chores costs everything, and that could cause some arguments and
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cause some bumps and relationships. So you definitely just need to know when it's
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the right time for your relationship to make that decision. And as I said,
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you want to make sure that it's mutual. So once you've figured out
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if it's like the next step of your relationship to move into a news spout
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with your partner, you kind of have to talk about splitting costs up.
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I feel like before you moved in together, like what's your overall budget,
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you know, what are you comfortable in spending verse your partner Because you know,
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if you're renting a place or if you're buying a place, you don't
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want someone to feel uncomfortable or can't afford the place that you're looking at.
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So definitely make sure to discuss about costs and all that before you find a
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place. Zack and eyes I said, like, we've never rented, We've
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never wanted to rent. That was both a mutual decision by him and I.
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We were just like, let's buy, let's just save our money,
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and so we both did that, and then we both decided to put a
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down payment on the house that we felt most comfortable that was like within our
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budget. So that's how we kind of discuss the cost at that point.
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And we also wanted to make sure, Okay, what do we feel comfortable
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paying on a monthly basis, right, because obviously there's monthly costs when it
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comes to rent, groceries, you know, other expenses. And then for
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us, it was obviously a mortgage, so we had to make sure that
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we were financially going to be, you know, okay to spend a fair
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amount of money on our mortgage. And Zach and I typically do split everything.
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I feel like now that we're getting married and all that. I feel
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like we're kind of understanding like who's in charge of what when it comes to
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the cost of things, and you know, there's obviously one person that makes
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more than the other. So yeah, I don't know, that's kind of
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like we make it work. But I know some people like split down the
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middle for everything, and that's totally fair, totally makes sense. I know
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some people have like spreadsheets and all that, and if that works for you,
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great, whereas for us, it's more so like someone's in charge of
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groceries, someone's in charge of you know, the internet bill all that.
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But Zach and I do strictly split the mortgage in half, just to make
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it fair, obviously because it's both of our house. So once you figure
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out your budget and how much you want to spend on a monthly basis and
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all that, I think once you finally get the house and you move in
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together, you can kind of talk about how you're going to split up duties
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in the house because obviously, living in a house it's a lot of freaking
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work. Like I literally feel like I'm doing chores like every day. I'm
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not even over exaggerating, Like I love living in a house, but it's
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definitely very big and very hard to maintain a clean home. I felt like
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when I was just in my room cleaning my bedroom. Obviously it's one space,
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it's easy to keep clean, you know, within a day whatever,
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But a home like I have three levels to maintain and keep clean and all
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that. So it's definitely a big shift and it's a lot of work just
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for one person. So Zach and I didn't really discuss chores or anything like
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that until we physically moved into the home together because I felt like that wasn't
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something really to discuss beforehand because we didn't really know who was going to enjoy.
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What I mean, chores are not always enjoyable, but there's always some
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things that I feel like your partner will gravitate towards more than the others.
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So, for example, Zach really takes on all the landscaping, he cleans
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the garage, he cleans the basement. He's also in charge of toilets because
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I hate cleaning toilets, so he's in charge of cleaning the bathrooms. I
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also help with the bathrooms when it comes to like the sinks, the mirrors,
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all that. But we've kind of split up our responsibilities and then like
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for me, I'm more like cleaning the floors, cleaning the kitchen, fully
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the laundry, cleaning our bedroom, all that. So we've definitely found things
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that certain people enjoy more than the other person. And I think that's really
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important to communicate to each other because I think if nothing's getting done at all
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and there's only one person doing all the chores, it could cause obviously some
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issues in the relationships. So you want to make sure that you're splitting up
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your duties that way it's fair for the relationship. So that's what Zach and
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I have done, and I find it's worked really really well for us being
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able to know what the other person's responsible for. Zach's also responsible for the
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garbage, for an example, so he knows every third day that he has
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to put the garbage out. Just things like that, and I feel like
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it makes our relationship easier living together knowing that people have certain responsibilities to take
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charge for. So when it comes to also living together, I feel like
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there's also a routine that sometimes you establish for yourself as a couple. I
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think one thing before you even get into the routine of like couple things is
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knowing and remembering that you need to make sure you have time for yourself because
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I feel like, you know, once couples move in together, I feel
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like there's this sense of you know, you feel more like connected and you
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want to be together all the time, and almost like you only want to
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spend time with each other and do everything together. And you need to realize
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that it's not healthy to always do everything together. You need to be able
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to do things on your own time and be able to separate and you have
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your alone time, have your me time. Like for me, I'm really
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big into my morning routines. Zach obviously works early in the morning, so
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he has his own thing when it comes to work. But for me,
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like even on the weekends, I really like to step aside do my morning
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routine still get a good workout in whether I'm going for a run a spin
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class. And I think that with my girlfriends or my sister. So it's
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good to have hobbies outside of living together and being able to get out,
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spend time with your friends, or even like being in your own home,
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like allowing yourself to go take a shower yourself and you know, go watch
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your Netflix show that you enjoy watching by yourself and allowing your partner to do
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the same with you know, maybe a hobby that he likes to do,
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whether it's playing video games, watching his own Netflix show, all that.
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So remember that it's just important to have your own separate lives and do things
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alone. I know there's obviously the temptation of wanting to spend all your hours
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together, especially when you first move in together. It's so exciting and you
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just always want to be together, But it's just important to maintain your own
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sense of individuality and just being able to do things yourself. So for us,
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I feel like when it comes to routine, like Sunday mornings is honestly
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the only morning I find we really like kind of do together. We both
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always have slow mornings. We don't really work out on Sunday. We always
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just like to make breakfast together, sit down, have breakfast together, and
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watch Netflix show together. That's something that I enjoy because during the week,
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obviously he wakes up at like four thirty in the morning to go to work
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and I don't see him at all in the morning, which is like typical
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in a relationship. And Saturday, I like to do my own thing he
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likes to do his own things, so I feel like Sunday is really the
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only time where we get to sit down and actually enjoy some time together.
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So we make it a priority on Sunday morning to make breakfast together and just
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enjoy our time together on the weekend, and then our evening routine throughout the
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week is a lot of it is together. I mean again, we do
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have our own hobbies. I play soccer, Zach plays ball. He goes
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to baseball probably two times a week during the evening. So sometimes we'll have
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dinner together and then he'll be gone for the rest of the night, or
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vice versa. He'll be gone and I'll make dinner myself and I'll see him
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later, whatever the case. Maybe, but if we're both home together in
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the evening, we do have a little routine for ourselves. We make dinner
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together, we clean up together. We love cooking together. And I think
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a lot of you guys, if you do follow me on Instagram and TikTok,
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you guys know that I feel like they get some hate from that from
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a lot of followers, just saying like there's always a one sided person in
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the relationship that does all look cooking like that's just leading to arguments and all
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that, and I'm like, I don't really see that. In zachonized relationship,
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we really do enjoy cooking together and like, you know, catching up
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on how his day was all that, and cleaning up together just kind of
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like with the chores, if that makes sense. Like I feel like we're
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splitting up the responsibilities in a fair way. And we both like love cooking
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and we love doing it together. So that is something that we both enjoy
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doing in our evening routine. I don't know if that's for everyone. You
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know, there's some people that like the girlfriend cooks more than the boyfriend or
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whatever. But Zach's a good cook. I'm a good cook. We decide
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to do it together and we kind of make it a fun evening out of
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it. So we like to cook together. We like to clean together.
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Again, it's fair in the relationship knowing that you know, he does the
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dishes, I do the counters. I do you know, I clean the
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stove, the floors or whatever. So we typically do that. And then
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another thing we like to do is we like to go on an evening walk
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with our dog. You know, I walk my dog, like three times
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a day, So we like to do that together, just like get a
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bit of fresh air outside, and then you know, sometimes we'll have downtime
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together or sometimes you know, we'll do our own thing. I'll go do
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some work upstairs, watch a Netflix show, he'll play video games, or
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like I said, he'll go to ball or something like that. So that's
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kind of like our like daily evening routine every single night. Again, that's
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something I feel like you just establish over time once you've been living together for
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a long time. But that's something that we've been doing and I enjoy it.
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I look forward to it, and you know, sometimes I'll you know
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make it a priority, knowing that we like to have that you know,
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little hour two an hour and a half ourselves just to get those things done
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after work. And yeah, it's nice to just like catch up on his
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day and enjoy that him and I time, but also being able to you
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know, enjoy our time ourselves or with our friends or something like that.
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So just creating that balance in the relationship. So I definitely feel like us
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living together has definitely bettered our relationship. But I will express obviously like there's
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no perfect relationship. There's obviously going to be bumps and all that, because
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I feel like some people, you know, say like, oh, your
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life seems so perfect and all that, and it's like it definitely isn't.
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There's no life that's perfect. In my opinion, I'm definitely grateful for my
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life and I feel blessed to you know, be able to live in this
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home with Zach and all that. But you definitely discover things over time once
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you live together of you know, habits or just things that you didn't expect
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from your partner when you live with them, Like Zach's quite messy, and
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you know what it is, what it is. I'm like OCD when it
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comes to cleaning, Like I love a clean space. So I feel like
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I take on a lot of leadership in my own personal life when it comes
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to like my job, when it comes to like team environments with sports,
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I've always been a leader. I've always liked to delegate things. So for
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Zach, I feel like he, you know, cleans when I tell him
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to clean, like, I'm like, you need to do this, you
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need to take ten minutes out of your day just to like organize this space,
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and then he does it. I felt like if you didn't have me,
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he would probably be a slob. But that's pretty typical for boys.
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But that was something that I learned in the relationship that I was like,
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Okay, he's kind of messy. Is it going to make or break a
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relationship? Absolutely not, Like that's not something that's worth you know, having
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arguments about or fighting about it or anything like that. Like all I have
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to do is really just say you need to take you know, twenty minutes
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out of your day to actually get this done, and he does it.
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So it's good to have communication in your relationship when it comes to living together,
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having a good communication, you need to express things that could be bothering
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you in the living circumstance because obviously, as I said, when you're together
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like twenty four seven, you're definitely going to learn things about your spouse that
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you didn't even realize before moving in with him, because you know, living
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together is just a different situation compared to you know, living in separate homes.
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So you definitely need to make sure you have good communication skills and you
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express how you feel about certain situations. And yeah, if you just don't
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communicate about your problems, it's really not going to work out for the relationship.
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So just know that no relationship is perfect. There's gonna be bumps,
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and know that it's okay. If you're willing to adapt the change and figure
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out a solution to the problem, that's all that matters. So that's a
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bit about just like living with your spouse and how like Zach and I personally
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deal with it when it comes to, you know, splitting costs and responsibilities
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and all that. But I did want to give you guys a bit of
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a personal update because I feel like I have not caught up with you guys
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in a while, and you guys know I love chatting about things that are
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happening in my life. And I've had a lot of you guys message me
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about wedding stuff because I feel like I haven't really shared too much wedding stuff.
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But I'm also in the very beginning stages of everything, so I don't
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have too much to share. But I do want to give a bit of
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a rundown of my engagement party because I've had a few messages saying like killy,
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like why are you renting a venue for your engagement party? Like oh,
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like why is it so big? Like why are you making it such
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a big deal? Blah blah blah, because it's true. Typically engagement parties
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are not like at a venue. Typically it's at someone's house and or your
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house, and it's usually like, you know, small amount of people,
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not like a small amount of people, but like you know, forty to
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sixty people whatever, close family and friends all that, and we're basically shooting.
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I'm laughing because obviously it's getting expensive and it could be an actual wedding.
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At this point. We're inviting like one hundred to one hundred and forty
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people, and we rented a venue and we got a band. We're doing
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it full open bar, appetizers all night, all that. And the reason
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being is Zach and I have always wanted a destination wedding. We've always wanted
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to get married somewhere else, and we always saw like doing an engagement party
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bigger verse the destination wedding and making it more intimate was more of our thing
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because I didn't want people to feel obligated to spend all that money to come
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celebrate our wedding. I felt like, if you can come to our wedding,
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great, If you can't, please, at least come celebrate our engagement
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at our engagement party. So, for example, our grandparents, I know
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they're not going to want to fly to our destination wedding. They're going to
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want to stay local and they're going to want to be with us on our
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special days. So the way I saw it was, if I can't have
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everybody at my destination wedding, why don't I have a big engagement party here
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in Ottawa where everybody can come and feel included and feel a part of celebrating
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our love basically, So that's why I decided to do such a big engagement
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party. I don't regret it at all. I'm actually very excited about doing
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it, and I think it's something to look forward to and I think a
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lot of people are looking forward to it. When it comes to our destination
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wedding, I just like I said, I've always wanted to do a destination
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wedding. I didn't want to have to stay home and get married just to
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make other people happy. I feel like, at the end of the day,
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you need to do what you want to do for yourself and your partner,
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and Zach and I have just always wanted to go elsewhere for our wedding.
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So I'm not going to share the destination yet. But guys, I've
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changed it probably three times, and I'm officially securing a spot. I don't
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want to share it yet because you guys are going to see it probably in
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August. I'm going to share a hole. Oh my god, I almost
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just said the location. I'm going to create a whole like travel series on
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Instagram and TikTok where you guys will be able to follow along, and you
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guys will know the location as soon as I get there, because, like
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it's quite obvious, I can't really hide the location once I get there,
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but I do want to keep a bit of a secret just because I think
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it'll be fun once you guys see it. I feel like some of you
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guys already guessed it, but I'm beyond excited about it and I just can't
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wait to start sharing more details. But like I said, right now,
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my focus has been totally on this engagement party since we're making it such a
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big thing. But we will be traveling to our wedding destination before the engagement
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party. I know that for a fact because we are looking to get married
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in September of twenty twenty four, so it's gonna come quick, so I
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need to be proactive and get a venue secured asap. Right now, I'm
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in the process of finding a wedding planner. I've already contacted six wedding planners
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that I have I'm meeting with this week. So once to secure a wedding
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planner, then she'll be able to help me figure out times in August that
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we can meet and go to our venues and all that insecure venues. So
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anyways, I'm not going to share any more information just because that's all I
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have for now. But right now, I'm still in the process of securing
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stuff for the engagement party, and I'm also trying to create my bridal proposal
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boxes, which I'm going to be filming a whole TikTok and Instagram video on
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of how I decorated and all that, and the whole proposal of giving it
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to my bridesmaids. I'm so excited about that. The whole theme for my
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proposal boxes is going to be travel since the wedding is a destination wedding,
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so I'm like so excited for you guys to see it. I feel like
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I need to make one for myself because they're so cute. So anyways,
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that's been really fun and exciting. I've always enjoyed like planning and doing stuff
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like this, and obviously you guys know that I love decorating and just finding
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cute things and all that. So I'm very excited to pamper my friends and
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just spoil them with amazing proposal boxes. So that's a bit of a wedding
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update. Nothing too crazy yet. I think I'll definitely be able to share
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more information once I get an actual wedding venue and just share more detail in
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the whole like experience of finding a venue and all that, especially in a
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destination wedding. It's not easy doing a destination wedding yourself. So that's why
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I am hiring a wedding planner, especially with the language barrier and everything.
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I need to be able to make sure that someone knows what they're doing and
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finding everything at the location when it comes to like Floris furniture rentals all So,
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I'm just very excited to start sharing more wedding content with you guys.
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So i think I'm gonna end this little Big Sister chit chat episode. Let
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me know if you guys like episodes like this, I would also love to
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do like a Q and A next time of maybe answering some of the questions
26:12
you guys might have through a chit chat episode like this. I just like
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to you know, express some things that are happening currently and being able to
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give you guys advice on for an example, moving in with your significant other
26:25
and just talking about, you know, things going on in my personal life.
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So let me know if you guys want to do a Q in A
26:32
next time. I think that could be fun, just answering any questions you
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guys might have and sharing it here on the pod. But thank you guys
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so so much for listening to another episode. I love you all so so
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I love you all so so much, and I will see you guys next week.