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Two T’s Getting the Tea with MELISSA GORGA · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod with Teddy mellencamp at Tamra Judge. Hi, guys,
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Speaker 1: welcome to this week's to Tease and a Pod with
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Speaker 1: myself and Tamra Judge. And we have an exciting guest
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Speaker 1: on this week. Yes we do. I interviewed with Melissa
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Speaker 1: said Corga last week and now she's on our podcast
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Speaker 1: this week, and we are so excited to dive deep
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Speaker 1: into New Jersey. What's up, guys, Melissa? Welcome? Hi? How
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Speaker 1: are you guys? Too? Pretty blond? We're hanging in we
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Speaker 1: you know we've been Our motto on here is nothing's
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Speaker 1: off limits, so we're just warning you in advance. We
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Speaker 1: make lots of friends on our party. Well we called
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Speaker 1: hashtag making friends. We're called we're called twats. Twats heard
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Speaker 1: I heard tamer was like letting me know about the
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Speaker 1: twats situation. So I feel like I will become a
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Speaker 1: twat today. I'm very so you're one of the twats
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Speaker 1: and hopefully you won't think that we are a twat
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Speaker 1: after we go through our Instagram questions, because I'm totally
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Speaker 1: fine with it. Hit me with your best shot hit
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Speaker 1: before we started. I want I always like to ask
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Speaker 1: the question like when did you when you got casted,
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Speaker 1: Like how did you get casted? Did you have like
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Speaker 1: any do you have to audition? Um hesitation? Yeah, we did,
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Speaker 1: like a little pasting reel. They demed me on Facebook
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Speaker 1: and they were just obviously our show was all family,
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Speaker 1: so it was like a bunch of sister in laws
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Speaker 1: to begin with with Tina, Caroline, and Jacqueline. So Teresa
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Speaker 1: obviously didn't have her family on the show and they
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Speaker 1: wanted to get so they had that family, they had Teresa,
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Speaker 1: so they were like, Okay, we need to find more family.
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Speaker 1: I guess that's how they ended up d m ng
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Speaker 1: me on what At the time, there's no deal. It
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Speaker 1: was like you know, Facebook message and they just said
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Speaker 1: what they're basically still doing now to every I'm like, hey,
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Speaker 1: we're a casting agent. We love to talk to you. YadA, YadA, YadA.
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Speaker 1: So the casting agents love to slide into the Facebook
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Speaker 1: even to this day, Like I had friends like they're like, hey,
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Speaker 1: Orange County Casting just I had one just slide into
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Speaker 1: my Damn. The casting for Orange County just sent me
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Speaker 1: like that, I've never gotten one of these guys. Well,
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Speaker 1: you probably don't even look at your Facebook. I don't
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Speaker 1: exactly exactly, no, but that's that's pretty much how it
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Speaker 1: goes down. I feel like, for Jersey, it's still it's
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Speaker 1: still happening like that. And then you know, it went
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Speaker 1: on to talking to them, interviewing obviously, like you know,
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Speaker 1: we were perfect for the show for for many different reasons.
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Speaker 1: And then here we are eleven years later. Oh my god,
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Speaker 1: what season did you come in? Season two? Season one
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Speaker 1: for them was very small. It was only like six episodes.
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Speaker 1: It was almost just like a little like, hey, do
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Speaker 1: you guys like these girls a little taste? Yeah? And
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Speaker 1: then season two was like a regular season for them,
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Speaker 1: and then I came in on season three, and now
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Speaker 1: that's when the show started. Yeah yeah, I really cry cry,
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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. That's when it all got
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Speaker 1: That's when it all went down. So do you think
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Speaker 1: season one was like when they talk about Miami, Season
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Speaker 1: one wasn't actually a Housewives season. Do you think Jersey
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Speaker 1: was the same or than and they just switched it
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Speaker 1: into a Housewives or no, No, it was it was
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Speaker 1: a Housewives, but they just did like six episodes. It
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Speaker 1: was a short little season. I don't know why. I
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Speaker 1: guess they were just testing the waters and did you
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Speaker 1: have any hesitations or your husband have any hesitations because
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Speaker 1: Theresa was there and all of that. Yeah, it wasn't
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Speaker 1: just about Theresa though, there were so many other things.
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Speaker 1: It was opening our world up to this. It was just,
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Speaker 1: you know, it's it's hard. Like at the time, I
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Speaker 1: truly was a stay at home mom with like little kids.
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Speaker 1: I didn't even have Joey yet. I was like, possibly
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Speaker 1: pregnant or this. I think it was pregnant um or no, no,
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Speaker 1: I think I had just had Joey because Joey was
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Speaker 1: like two three months old at the first episode. I
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Speaker 1: was gonna say, I don't remember every seeing you're pregnant
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Speaker 1: on the show. No, no, no, I was never putting
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Speaker 1: on the show. No. So right, So I had just
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Speaker 1: had Joey. Um. It was just a big decision to make.
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Speaker 1: We we kind of didn't know if we want to
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Speaker 1: open our world up to that. But we always look
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Speaker 1: at it like we are true entrepreneurs, So I think
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Speaker 1: we look at it like a stepping stone. At the time,
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Speaker 1: we were like, listen, maybe we can grow a couple
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Speaker 1: of businesses on here. Maybe we can make this bigger
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Speaker 1: than it is I mean, you forget that the show
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Speaker 1: is centered, especially back in the day, not as much
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Speaker 1: as it is now. But I feel like back in
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Speaker 1: the day, the drama and the producer like bringing on
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Speaker 1: the drama thing was much more intense than it is now. Now,
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Speaker 1: I feel like we're on our own a little bit more.
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Speaker 1: I don't feel like the producers get in there as
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Speaker 1: much and tell you what to do, where before I
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Speaker 1: felt like in the very beginning, I felt very pressured.
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Speaker 1: The one thing I love about you, and you mentioned
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Speaker 1: earlier that you're an entrepreneur, and you went into it
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Speaker 1: looking as you know, what can I get out of
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Speaker 1: this and what kind of business can I start? All
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Speaker 1: three of us, which is very rare in the housewife
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Speaker 1: world have businesses outside of the actual show, and that
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Speaker 1: that will keep you going, because a lot of these
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Speaker 1: girls they ropped ten, you know, eight, ten, eleven, twelve
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Speaker 1: whatever years into it, and then when they're done, like
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Speaker 1: that money is gone, like it's cut right there, and
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Speaker 1: then you're like, what am I gonna do? I have
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Speaker 1: no career. I'm gonna go work at Nordstrom. Like it's well,
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Speaker 1: it's because a lot of what they don't talk about
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Speaker 1: on these shows. Is how much money you still end
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Speaker 1: up spending just being on the show. Yeah. Yeah, the parties,
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Speaker 1: we throw, the clothes, the outfits, the interviews, the flam,
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Speaker 1: the glare out, the photo shoots. Like a lot of
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Speaker 1: people don't realize that we don't get a budget for that.
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Speaker 1: Like when you see us in a promo dress, like
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Speaker 1: we that's our dress. Yeah, there's not stylists, like in fact,
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Speaker 1: like you can't call I mean, I know, we couldn't
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Speaker 1: in Beverly Hills. Apparently back in the day they could,
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Speaker 1: but then someone stole something, so now they want to out.
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Speaker 1: But it's not like you can call Louis Vuitton or
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Speaker 1: any high end you know brand and say we want
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Speaker 1: to listen. I don't know about you, but I can't know.
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Speaker 1: But they don't loan stuff. I mean, the only person
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Speaker 1: that ever loaned me anything was Michael Costello, and he
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Speaker 1: was like, everybody something my now since I'm not that special,
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Speaker 1: but I mean my first season he loaned me. He's
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Speaker 1: like selling stuff in my house. Here put this on.
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Speaker 1: He's great, He's great. Yeah, listen. This is why I
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Speaker 1: ended up opening up Envy to be honest with you guys,
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Speaker 1: because I was wearing a lot of clothes on the
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Speaker 1: show that boutiques in my area when they found out
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Speaker 1: I was a housewife. We're just contacting me constantly, wanting
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Speaker 1: to dress me, wanting to throw things at me, and
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Speaker 1: I'm wearing their clothes. And then I noticed when I
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Speaker 1: got on TV, it's like, where'd you get that dress?
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Speaker 1: Where'd you get that shirt? Where did this come from?
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Speaker 1: And I'm sending everyone to all of these different boutiques
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Speaker 1: because everybody wanted whatever I had on And finally, like
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Speaker 1: a light bulb pop and I'm like, what am I doing?
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Speaker 1: I need to have my own boutique and you can
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Speaker 1: shop right on and be by MG dot com for
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Speaker 1: the dress. Yea, I that's where you know, that's where
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Speaker 1: the business aspect comes in, and that you can utilize
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Speaker 1: the platform for so many other things. Um, and there's
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Speaker 1: so many things you can do. Like when I left
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Speaker 1: my ex husband, I had no money. I had just
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Speaker 1: started the show. I literally sold my forever twenty one
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Speaker 1: clothes on eBay and I'm not joking, like, and sometimes
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Speaker 1: I would get four hundred dollars for a shirt, so
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Speaker 1: I would literally pay my rent and it was crazy,
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Speaker 1: and that was way back when when the days of
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Speaker 1: eBay were huge, and anything I wore it would sell
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Speaker 1: for like fifteen times more than when I paid for
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Speaker 1: because I don't have fancy stuff. But yeah, just I
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Speaker 1: love a good entrepreneur. Beau wore in regards to being
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Speaker 1: a business owner, but also in regards to being on
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Speaker 1: the show. Do you have any regrets because anything you
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Speaker 1: would do differently? Um, honestly, no, I have to say no,
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Speaker 1: because it changed my personal life so much too. It
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Speaker 1: really did, like things change in my house, and I'm
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Speaker 1: not saying they were ever bad, but I definitely did
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Speaker 1: not realize how dependent I was and how much that.
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Speaker 1: You know, I knew what I was doing. I got
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Speaker 1: married out of college, and you know it was I
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Speaker 1: was living in you know, a mother. I was a wife,
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Speaker 1: but it was like if I needed anything, I had
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Speaker 1: to ask Joe for it, you know, and if I
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Speaker 1: wanted a hundred dollar bill or cash, I didn't have it.
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Speaker 1: I was home with three kids all day. So the
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Speaker 1: independence of that, I wouldn't change the independence and just
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Speaker 1: what it brought business wise, I've always been a worker.
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Speaker 1: When I met Joe, I had three jobs, so um,
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Speaker 1: it's just who I am. It's in my blood. I
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Speaker 1: raised my kids. I did my time for like the
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Speaker 1: first five years, and then I got on the show
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Speaker 1: five years after we got married, so it was like
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Speaker 1: it was just an off to like play house for
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Speaker 1: five years. But I was starting to get auntsy and
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Speaker 1: I wanted something that was for me. I wanted to
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Speaker 1: I watched Joe create his buildings and have his dream
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Speaker 1: and you know, be so proud of everything he's achieving,
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Speaker 1: and I was clapping for him, I was rooting for him.
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Speaker 1: But I wanted something that was mine, that like, I
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Speaker 1: didn't have to ask anyone for. And so I think,
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Speaker 1: even if you come for money, if your dad has money,
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Speaker 1: if your husband has money, whatever, it might be, like,
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Speaker 1: you want to have your own money, no matter what.
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Speaker 1: I think that's so important. How is the house coming along? Good?
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Speaker 1: It's got a lot good. It's a lot of work.
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Speaker 1: I'm like a savage because I want to do it
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Speaker 1: all myself. And obviously I can have a decorator come
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Speaker 1: in and just pick tile and pick this and pick that,
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Speaker 1: but I spend more time asking, like doing that with her.
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Speaker 1: I might as well just do it myself because I
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Speaker 1: end up just picking everything myself. So I'm basically designing
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Speaker 1: the whole house by myself. Um, it's it's going good.
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Speaker 1: COVID is obviously like keep everything on it. Whow like
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Speaker 1: everything's double the amount of time and also double the price, right,
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Speaker 1: So yeah, we could have built this house for like
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Speaker 1: half the price if we built it three years ago. Um,
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Speaker 1: but whatever, it is what it is at this point.
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Speaker 1: So we're just hopefully by this summer we'll be in
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Speaker 1: oh good. And then you are openly talking about and
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Speaker 1: something Tamer and I talked about a lot in regards
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Speaker 1: to our husbands and stuff like that, like just just
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Speaker 1: therapy work or what's the best, you know, plan of
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Speaker 1: attack if we're going through a rough patch. Last year
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Speaker 1: you talked a little bit about going through a rough
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Speaker 1: patch with with Joe. What advice would you give to
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Speaker 1: anybody listening if that's happening to you in your relationship?
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Speaker 1: Like is it communication? Is it therapy? Is that you know?
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Speaker 1: Like what was the thing that really shifted things for you? Guys?
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Speaker 1: We talked about therapy, which I always think therapy is great.
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Speaker 1: We've never actually done it, Joe and I, We've never
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Speaker 1: went down the road for for him and I it
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Speaker 1: was definitely communication, um like, and I know that sounds
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Speaker 1: so cliche, but it's true. Like just I think when
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Speaker 1: you get into a rut of just being like with
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Speaker 1: each other and just giving each other that attitude, and
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Speaker 1: it's it's it turns into like a pattern. And I'm
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Speaker 1: also very impulsive, and I feel like relationships are very impulsive.
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Speaker 1: So I really think, like when you're fighting with somebody,
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Speaker 1: you got to wait it out, like let it take
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Speaker 1: its course. Don't just jump ship right away, like give
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Speaker 1: it a chance to change. You know, marriage is a
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Speaker 1: lot of work. It's not easy. We all know this, right,
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Speaker 1: and it's just relationships in general are a lot of work.
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Speaker 1: But you can't jump ship because you're feelings. Give it
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Speaker 1: a month or two. You might fall back in love,
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Speaker 1: you might change your mind, you might have just been
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Speaker 1: going through something, you know, So it's like wait it out.
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Speaker 1: You can't be impulsive when it comes to like your
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Speaker 1: deep relationships, especially when there's children involved and there's real
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Speaker 1: love there, but people are getting jealous or you know,
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Speaker 1: there's selfish or whatever. It maybe I just feel like
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Speaker 1: wait it out, like really work through your feelings. I
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Speaker 1: hate when people just jump ship quick because it's like
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Speaker 1: it might you might change your mind in a couple
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Speaker 1: of months, and it might not even have anything to
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Speaker 1: do with your partner. Sometime I realized, like when Edwin
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Speaker 1: and I are like in a rough like in a
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Speaker 1: rough stage, it's like something's going on with work with
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Speaker 1: one of us or and then you're taking it out
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Speaker 1: on each other because it's comfortable. And that's where you know,
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Speaker 1: you're like, oh, you're an easy scapegoat. I can just
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Speaker 1: pretend that this is what the situation is when really
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Speaker 1: you're just not wanting to deal with something in another
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Speaker 1: aspect of your life. It's true. And when men are
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Speaker 1: when are like stressed out over money or work or
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Speaker 1: they change, they do they don't want to have sex.
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Speaker 1: They're getting up monsters like you're like, why are you
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Speaker 1: touching me? Like are you cheating up? Why isn't that
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Speaker 1: thing working? Like we use it all day long without me? No,
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Speaker 1: they're just stressed out. And and I'm speaking from and
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Speaker 1: I wish that was the case from my husband ever,
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Speaker 1: to be honest with you, but I'm talking for a
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Speaker 1: lot of my girlfriends too, Like for real, it's just
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Speaker 1: that's a real thing. It's a real thing. It's a
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Speaker 1: real thing. Stressed out and doesn't you know, everything is
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Speaker 1: just they're they're they're in their feelings, they're in their
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Speaker 1: head and they're not that into you at the moment,
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Speaker 1: and girls bug out sometimes. Um, well, speaking of marriages,
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Speaker 1: so you're gonna go there, I have to go there.
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Speaker 1: I mean, um, what is your thoughts on no prenup
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Speaker 1: with Louis? I mean, listens, Louisa, Louis. Why did I
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Speaker 1: just mess this up? Louis? I think it's sorry. I
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Speaker 1: read Louis too, so that's I'm like, I'm calming. I
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Speaker 1: think we just can't read tam. Yeah it's Louis. Um
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Speaker 1: it's spelt like Louis. So in all honesty, listen, I
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Speaker 1: think where we come from, it's weird. She actually did
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Speaker 1: have a pre nump with Joe judaicce um, but I
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Speaker 1: don't know. I I don't have a pre nump as well,
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Speaker 1: and either you know, Joe and I don't have pre ums.
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Speaker 1: But do you think if you got married right now,
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Speaker 1: if you and Joe Ja, do you think you would
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Speaker 1: have a pre nup? Yes? I think right now as
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Speaker 1: a full blown adult, yes, you know, when I is
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Speaker 1: getting married at twenty four, and I think tersa the
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Speaker 1: first time was like seven or something. Maybe you don't
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Speaker 1: think that way, but right now what I yes? Will
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Speaker 1: you tell her? Has anybody said anything to her? Would
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Speaker 1: anybody like confront Teresa and say like maybe you should
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Speaker 1: rethink this? Yeah? I feel like we definitely give our opinion,
14:23
Speaker 1: but sometimes it's better to just say, you're also a
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Speaker 1: grown adult, you as you wish. Um, I've learned even
14:29
Speaker 1: though you're making a mistake. Yeah, but like through the years,
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Speaker 1: I've learned to keep my mouth shut. Um, she's a
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Speaker 1: grown adult at this point. And so whenever they decide
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Speaker 1: and whatever works for her, I want her to stay
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Speaker 1: happy in her little love bubble. Yeah, and sometimes you
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Speaker 1: gotta step back, Yes, like you really do. It's none
14:48
Speaker 1: of my business at this point. Yes, we care and
14:51
Speaker 1: we worry, and um, she you know, ultimately gets up
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Speaker 1: to them whatever they decide. Now, the video, the drund
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Speaker 1: In video that one's talking about, Um, I don't think
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Speaker 1: it's that bad. Am I missing something? No? I think
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Speaker 1: he's just he's apologizing to someone. Obviously, do we know
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Speaker 1: that what year the video happened? That I don't know.
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Speaker 1: I have no idea because to me, that's what annoyed
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Speaker 1: me versus like this is recent. I believe it was
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Speaker 1: like a year or six months before he had met her.
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Speaker 1: I honestly, I'm not confirmed, but I believe it was
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Speaker 1: like right before. Ye get it. Okay, well, let's take
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Speaker 1: a little bit a little break and we'll come back
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Speaker 1: and do some of our Instagram questions. Those were just
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Speaker 1: our so sorry, we'll be quick. Okay, Um back with
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Speaker 1: Melissa Gorga, my girl Tam. We are getting to your
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Speaker 1: Instagram questions on the twats Um we already covered one.
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Speaker 1: I guess we couldn't have ourselves. That's everybody's questions. Everybody
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Speaker 1: wanted to know about the prenup. That was the most
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Speaker 1: asked question. The second most asked question was did you
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Speaker 1: go to Milannia's Sweet sixteen? No, it was for kids
16:22
Speaker 1: only there you go. It was just she just had
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Speaker 1: like like her close, you know, the sixteen year olds
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Speaker 1: were there. Yeah. This one, I don't know if you
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Speaker 1: can even answer this because it's on your current season,
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Speaker 1: but have things gotten better between Joe and Gia? Answer? Yeah,
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Speaker 1: I figured you know how to go stay. Yeah, you can't.
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Speaker 1: We don't want you to blow anything. We don't probably
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Speaker 1: you are season I'm not really able to speak of. Yeah, no,
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Speaker 1: I I totally understand that. Alright, alright, let's see find Yeah,
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Speaker 1: let's see if we can find a question. Because can
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Speaker 1: I ask you, brother? Were you so? Are you so
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Speaker 1: happy to be back home? I can tell you this much.
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Speaker 1: Real Housewives of Beverly Hills was five million times easier
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Speaker 1: than big brother Melissa? Would you do it? I don't know.
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Speaker 1: I feel anxiety just like thinking about it. Have you
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Speaker 1: watched it? I mean I really have never sat down
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Speaker 1: and watched a full season. So it's like everyone is
17:30
Speaker 1: trying to be the last person in the house. Is
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Speaker 1: that how it goes? Yeah? I mean but here's the thing.
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Speaker 1: So the part that was really hard for me, and
17:37
Speaker 1: I know it would be hard for you as well.
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Speaker 1: Is everything in my life, Like if you work really
17:42
Speaker 1: hard and you're good at something, you're gonna be rewarded
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Speaker 1: for it, right right, Like you know you you have
17:49
Speaker 1: a great music video, people are going to download it,
17:51
Speaker 1: like any of those types of things. Um, you are
17:55
Speaker 1: punished for doing well. So like I did well in
17:58
Speaker 1: the first competition and then I became the biggest threat
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Speaker 1: and then they decide they don't want to keep you on. However,
18:05
Speaker 1: how can you knowing your because it's a family show.
18:08
Speaker 1: It's not like Housewives where your kids don't watch it.
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Speaker 1: How can you go in and be like, wow, I'm
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Speaker 1: gonna throw it? Yeah, like it was, I couldn't do that.
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Speaker 1: Well you yeah, Well, here's the thing. If it's all
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Speaker 1: about getting out the highest, it's almost like survivor, right,
18:23
Speaker 1: you want to get out whoever you think is gonna win. No. Yes,
18:28
Speaker 1: but there's a social game and there's a physical game.
18:30
Speaker 1: But you are a threat, Teddy. I think you're a
18:33
Speaker 1: complete threat. But I mean it definitely was went up
18:36
Speaker 1: against the UFC fighter chick. Yeah, I mean it was. No,
18:41
Speaker 1: we haven't. Oh no, you hold onto champagne bottles and
18:44
Speaker 1: hanging spended and then you're in stirrups and then they
18:49
Speaker 1: throw first it's gold caviar, then it's cheetos, then it's glitter.
18:54
Speaker 1: Then they move it around like it is complete insanity.
18:58
Speaker 1: Then you go into the else. You have no phone,
19:02
Speaker 1: no nothing, no contact with your family. The only thing
19:04
Speaker 1: that you're told is if something goes wrong in your life,
19:07
Speaker 1: that's like will ruin your life, will let you know.
19:10
Speaker 1: But that doesn't that it's it, so hold on. You
19:12
Speaker 1: literally have to put the phone like there's zero phone
19:16
Speaker 1: for how long well I was in Well, I was
19:18
Speaker 1: in quarantine for seven days where I was allowed to
19:20
Speaker 1: have the phone in quarantine. That's not that big. But
19:23
Speaker 1: that's before I knew who was on Big Brother. But
19:25
Speaker 1: I was in the Big Brother house. I left on
19:27
Speaker 1: my eleventh night with no phone. No no, no, no, no,
19:31
Speaker 1: no no. So eleven days you did not speak to
19:34
Speaker 1: one human outside of that house. Correct asked me again
19:37
Speaker 1: if I would ever do this time at the freaking
19:43
Speaker 1: not unless they paid you five mil right, And he's like,
19:48
Speaker 1: there's no way you're doing that. Ever. You have a
19:50
Speaker 1: favorite in the house, Carson Presley is so hilarious like him,
19:55
Speaker 1: I love him, crying laughing. Cynthia Bailey was you know,
19:59
Speaker 1: I hold her directly. I'm like, when I watched you
20:01
Speaker 1: on Girls Trip, I was a little worried when I
20:03
Speaker 1: saw you when I first walked in. But she was
20:05
Speaker 1: really great because here's a little Debbie Downer. For some
20:09
Speaker 1: reason on the Girl's Trip, she was just not in
20:12
Speaker 1: her elements. Something like must have struck her the wrong
20:15
Speaker 1: way when we got there, like she wasn't feeling comfortable
20:19
Speaker 1: or she felt everyone else was kind of like grouping up.
20:22
Speaker 1: I don't know what it was, but something she got
20:25
Speaker 1: in her head, something she got, you know, she and
20:28
Speaker 1: she didn't see herself. I meant back, I think, I
20:31
Speaker 1: mean I wasn't there, but like watching it, it looked
20:34
Speaker 1: like she thought she was going to go in and
20:36
Speaker 1: be best friends with Kenya. And then Kenya like got
20:38
Speaker 1: along really well with you and Kyle, and then you
20:41
Speaker 1: could tell she got in her head about it. And
20:42
Speaker 1: then once you get in your head and there's cameras there,
20:44
Speaker 1: it's really hard to get out of it. It is.
20:47
Speaker 1: It is because you're in that funk and you're in
20:49
Speaker 1: that mode and you feel like everyone's against you, and
20:52
Speaker 1: like did the producers do this? Are they making her
20:54
Speaker 1: do that? Like you overthink it and I think that's
20:57
Speaker 1: like totally what happened to her on the Girl's Trip.
20:59
Speaker 1: But she was I mean, she came in and she
21:01
Speaker 1: was really like like I took care of all of us,
21:04
Speaker 1: Like she cooked for us every day, Like she was
21:08
Speaker 1: really nice, and like I was like waiting for her
21:10
Speaker 1: to like throw it in her face after what I want,
21:12
Speaker 1: and she never did. Like she was funny, she was nice.
21:15
Speaker 1: She didn't like any time that I actually got to
21:18
Speaker 1: like have my makeup on, she would do my eyelashes
21:21
Speaker 1: like she was really, Oh, is that why your eyelashes
21:24
Speaker 1: look good on the way out? Yeah, so she was
21:29
Speaker 1: she can't put her own eyelashes on. Well, it would
21:31
Speaker 1: stress me out to be in that house and know
21:35
Speaker 1: that I wanted to do good. But doing good would
21:38
Speaker 1: I would be pretty would be really stressful for me,
21:41
Speaker 1: Like I wouldn't know how to handle that. I also
21:43
Speaker 1: want you to you guys, to imagine housewife confessional, but
21:48
Speaker 1: at three in the morning, after you've already been asleep
21:50
Speaker 1: for two hours, just they're gonna go, uh, there's because
21:54
Speaker 1: also it's not a human that talks to you. It's
21:56
Speaker 1: a button that's like celebrity big brother button that was
21:58
Speaker 1: like a trip dud d. I need you to go
22:02
Speaker 1: to the diary room downstairs, and I'd feel like huh
22:07
Speaker 1: and the three in the time for your interview and
22:10
Speaker 1: you like go up, like there's one interview that's everywhere.
22:12
Speaker 1: I have my hair on my head, no bra and
22:14
Speaker 1: a wife beater, and I'm like this, I don't know that.
22:18
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm not gonna The Girl's Trip for
22:22
Speaker 1: me was like dramatic because it was twenty four seven
22:26
Speaker 1: mics and cameras. You couldn't get away from them like
22:29
Speaker 1: you can ask Kyle. We felt violated, like in every
22:33
Speaker 1: aspect they were there in the shower, they were there
22:35
Speaker 1: like constantly, So we definitely felt like, holy crap, like
22:41
Speaker 1: I couldn't even imagine. I found a couple of questions
22:53
Speaker 1: that you might be able to answer. Okay, Um, who
22:57
Speaker 1: do you have the most fun with out of the
22:59
Speaker 1: cast the most fun with? I would say, Um, it's
23:08
Speaker 1: a tough one. I mean, would be nobody shade, Um, No,
23:14
Speaker 1: I you know what, I do A lot of events
23:15
Speaker 1: with Margaret, I would say, Margaret and I had have
23:18
Speaker 1: had a lot of fun like girls nights, and we've
23:21
Speaker 1: definitely had I would say, Margaret. Well, that brings us
23:24
Speaker 1: to the next listener question, why are you so loyal
23:27
Speaker 1: to Margaret? It's not about being loyal, it's just about listen.
23:32
Speaker 1: She hasn't done anything to hurt me. He is not
23:35
Speaker 1: an evil person. She's a good person. A lot of
23:37
Speaker 1: the things that she does says a lot of the
23:40
Speaker 1: questions that she has is truly out of concern. I
23:44
Speaker 1: feel like she's a little bit more experienced than the
23:46
Speaker 1: rest of us. She's been married a couple of times.
23:49
Speaker 1: She's a little older than the rest of us. Like,
23:51
Speaker 1: I feel like she is truly Um you know, I
23:54
Speaker 1: call her dynasty because she's the world's perfect housewife. She's like, ah,
24:00
Speaker 1: like she inserts her evil laugh and she you know,
24:03
Speaker 1: but she's Chattie Cathy. She's that woman that's like she
24:07
Speaker 1: wakes up in the morning, she has her coffee and
24:08
Speaker 1: she's ready to chat. Do you know what I mean?
24:10
Speaker 1: She knows everything, so she phone calls, not texts. Yes,
24:16
Speaker 1: she must be old. She knows me by now. She
24:23
Speaker 1: knows Like with me, it's like I don't talk on
24:25
Speaker 1: the phone as much as you do. I love you
24:27
Speaker 1: to death, but like, don't call me. Don't call me
24:30
Speaker 1: unless somebody, unless you've got really good but it just
24:34
Speaker 1: text me there. So does anybody talk to Caroline anymore?
24:39
Speaker 1: Man's how Yeah? Um, not really. I I just filmed
24:43
Speaker 1: I found a small little TV thing with her not
24:46
Speaker 1: long ago. Yeah. She's doing great. She's doing great. I
24:50
Speaker 1: love her, I love her family. I think she's awesome.
24:53
Speaker 1: And then uh, I just saw Jennifer's post. But there's
24:58
Speaker 1: a lot of talk about the nose job. Jennifer has
25:02
Speaker 1: it settled. I know you can't talk about this season,
25:05
Speaker 1: but what are your thoughts on it? And what if
25:07
Speaker 1: your husband was a plastic surgeon, would you ever not
25:10
Speaker 1: go to him? I don't think she should have went
25:12
Speaker 1: to Turkey. I mean, first of all, I thought it
25:13
Speaker 1: was a little duh. I mean, your husband's a plastic surgeon,
25:17
Speaker 1: So even if you don't want him, okay to do
25:20
Speaker 1: your nose. I am sure he has some great plastic
25:24
Speaker 1: surgeon friends that he knows that are highly recommended, that
25:30
Speaker 1: are in his circle of surgeons, Like, why are we
25:34
Speaker 1: flying to Turkey? And I've I've said this to her.
25:36
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't think that was the best decision obviously.
25:40
Speaker 1: They kind of like, you know, they scooped it out
25:42
Speaker 1: too much on her and and you can't repair that, right,
25:45
Speaker 1: You can't. You can't go back forwards, can you. She
25:48
Speaker 1: did the chin thing too, which didn't work out for her.
25:52
Speaker 1: It's just you know, she had it just didn't work out. Whatever.
25:55
Speaker 1: She went to go here, he knows it was perfect
25:57
Speaker 1: before I thought, no, she's a beautiful and I personally
26:01
Speaker 1: liked how she looked, you know before. But it is
26:04
Speaker 1: getting it's getting better. I guess it's like maybe the
26:07
Speaker 1: swelling is going down. It takes you know, nose jobs
26:09
Speaker 1: don't fully come full circle for like a full year too,
26:13
Speaker 1: so it's getting a little better. When I saw her
26:16
Speaker 1: last it wasn't as dramatic. I think when she was
26:18
Speaker 1: filming it was like the first month. I don't care
26:21
Speaker 1: how long it's gonna take. It's never gonna look good.
26:23
Speaker 1: I said it. Sorry, I'm putting out there. I mean,
26:26
Speaker 1: I suggest you for a little filler filler. Yeah, she's
26:29
Speaker 1: gonna have to She's gonna have to build that bridge
26:31
Speaker 1: back up because it looks like exact from what I heard.
26:35
Speaker 1: She wanted to go um to one of my doctors
26:38
Speaker 1: that I used and checked to have her have her
26:42
Speaker 1: maybe fix it supposedly. So let me I think that
26:47
Speaker 1: she was she was great before and she really didn't
26:49
Speaker 1: need it. It's unfortunate. Okay, do you next question? Do
26:55
Speaker 1: you watch Beverly Hills and OC or have you I
26:59
Speaker 1: watched my Really Hills? Um? I watched last season? Yes,
27:03
Speaker 1: oh see, I'm guilty. I do not okay, So I'll
27:07
Speaker 1: only ask you in regards to Beverly Hills, Um, who
27:11
Speaker 1: other than Kyle, who do you think you'd get along
27:14
Speaker 1: best with on Beverly Hills Um on Beverly Hills currently, Like,
27:21
Speaker 1: if I were on the show, who do I feel
27:23
Speaker 1: like would be like my girl? Besides, but you can't
27:25
Speaker 1: do Kyle, Yeah, believe it or not. I feel like, well,
27:31
Speaker 1: I'm also friends with Erica, so I feel like I
27:33
Speaker 1: want to say Erica, but I also want to say
27:35
Speaker 1: Lisa Rerenna and I would just be like the party
27:37
Speaker 1: chicks and we would have so much fun and we
27:39
Speaker 1: would be so goofy together. So I think I'm gonna
27:43
Speaker 1: say Lisa Wrenna or possibly Erica. Erica has a chill though,
27:46
Speaker 1: so like Eric and I. Eric and I love each other,
27:48
Speaker 1: like I love her, bunch of events with her. She's
27:50
Speaker 1: super cool, love her, but she's very chill. So I
27:53
Speaker 1: think a lot of people would meet Erica or like
27:56
Speaker 1: see her persona on Instagram and like the show, Like
28:00
Speaker 1: you know, she's a queen, right, She's like a queen
28:02
Speaker 1: be type things. So laid back. He is so laid
28:07
Speaker 1: back like she has She talks chill, she talks like
28:11
Speaker 1: she's very late back. She is not a party girl
28:14
Speaker 1: at all. So do I think I'd probably end up
28:17
Speaker 1: party with Lisa Renna? That's what I think would happen
28:19
Speaker 1: to me. And who do you think would do the
28:21
Speaker 1: best on if they were to come to Jersey? Oh? Um,
28:28
Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean I want to say Lisa again,
28:31
Speaker 1: because she's loud and says it like it is and
28:33
Speaker 1: like she could totally hang with us, because you know,
28:37
Speaker 1: I think she could totally do it. Yeah, And I
28:41
Speaker 1: feel like it's our one of our last questions. But
28:44
Speaker 1: are you going to do any more songs? Everybody wants
28:47
Speaker 1: to know when the next when the next one's coming out?
28:49
Speaker 1: Are you going to do another one? What's planning? No?
28:52
Speaker 1: I don't think so, I mean, never say never. But
28:55
Speaker 1: and if I did, it would be for fun. I
28:56
Speaker 1: always said if I ever did another song, I would
28:59
Speaker 1: want it to be like like a fun which I
29:01
Speaker 1: think Luanne just did this, but like a fun like
29:03
Speaker 1: Christmas song or like something fun like. I don't take
29:06
Speaker 1: it seriously, guys, it was, I will say at the time.
29:10
Speaker 1: I still think the songs are really good. Every time
29:12
Speaker 1: I listen I'm like, my ship is good, like they're good.
29:18
Speaker 1: But like you know, that's such a hard, hard business,
29:21
Speaker 1: especially coming from a housewife. Nobody wants to hear. Hey,
29:24
Speaker 1: I'm a housewife and I can sing. It's now actually,
29:27
Speaker 1: like you know, it's a it's like a funny thing obviously, Um,
29:31
Speaker 1: but Jennifer Lope has asked you to do a song
29:33
Speaker 1: with her. I don't know. If the Queen herself asked
29:39
Speaker 1: me for something, then she shall receive. Let me consider
29:43
Speaker 1: it much? How much? Um? It was funny. I actually
29:49
Speaker 1: was out to dinner with Christina Aguilera once and she
29:51
Speaker 1: was like, I love your music. You need to make
29:55
Speaker 1: another song, you need to sing more like you are great.
29:57
Speaker 1: And she was like just looking at me, and I'm
29:59
Speaker 1: like maybe serious, Like I just kept looking at her
30:04
Speaker 1: in her eyes, but like she's like, I'm serious, Like
30:07
Speaker 1: why are you stopping. I'm like, girl, when you get
30:09
Speaker 1: on a track with me, that's when you are you
30:13
Speaker 1: ready for I'm like, no, how serious are you about
30:16
Speaker 1: what you're saying? So you know, the rumor is gonna
30:19
Speaker 1: be Melissa Gorga says she's doing a track with Christina
30:22
Speaker 1: Aguilera that's will be the backup dancer. Yeah, and Tamers
30:28
Speaker 1: the backup dancer exactly like our Fiber one commercial. That
30:33
Speaker 1: was one of the great guys, That was one of
30:34
Speaker 1: the great Well, Melissa, we appreciate you doing on so much.
30:40
Speaker 1: You guys have to listen to her podcast, Melissa Gorga
30:44
Speaker 1: on Display. We we appreciate you, we love you, and
30:47
Speaker 1: we cannot wait for this season. It's already so good. Yes,
30:51
Speaker 1: it's good. It's good, So keep watching. It's so good
30:54
Speaker 1: to see you guys. Can you tease anything for us?
30:56
Speaker 1: Is there anything like you want to give us? Alert
30:59
Speaker 1: us on too so that we keep watching? Yeah, definitely.
31:02
Speaker 1: I just feel like it's it's definitely one of those
31:05
Speaker 1: seasons that's going to remind you of the beginning. We
31:07
Speaker 1: definitely throw a lot. There's a lot of violence there,
31:10
Speaker 1: which no, I don't like that as much. But it's
31:14
Speaker 1: definitely one of those crazy, like knockdown type seasons. We
31:19
Speaker 1: have some of those and sometimes we don't, but this
31:21
Speaker 1: is definitely one of those. And it's huge on like relationships,
31:25
Speaker 1: huge relationships season. They dig into everyone's relationships. So it's
31:30
Speaker 1: great season. More family coming at you from Jersey, So
31:34
Speaker 1: we love it. Thanks for us entertained. Of course, thank
31:38
Speaker 1: you guys. It's so good, Thank god to see you. Okay,
31:41
Speaker 1: bye bye, She's so sweet. That was so fun with Melissa.
31:46
Speaker 1: Don't forget jerseys on Tuesdays.