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Classics: Keyshia Cole, TD Jakes, Ask Yee and Ask C&E · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Fifty percent hit special heads a year. I love you
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  Speaker 1: fifty percent. Rats to sit down. Didn't come to the
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  Speaker 1: most prominent form it wait you as something early in
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  Speaker 1: the morning, but they tell me it was y'all. I say, oh,
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  Speaker 1: hell yeah, I'm getting the small stage, short, small shop,
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  Speaker 1: say three people's shott you maybe people. I can't believe
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  Speaker 1: you guys are the fast kid? Did we know that
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  Speaker 1: breakfast club petitions? Did your time to get it off
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  Speaker 1: your chest, whether you're mad or blessed, So we better
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  Speaker 1: have the same intry we want to hear from you
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  Speaker 1: on the breakfast club. I love this, John, Hey, John,
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  Speaker 1: get it up, chess bro. No, I'm not. I'm blessed.
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  Speaker 1: Actually didn't do the third birthday? Okay, you should have it.
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  Speaker 1: You show the baby. Yeah yeah, I'm sure. I haven't
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  Speaker 1: want my girl for ten years. Allow me just like you?
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  Speaker 1: True all right, ball name I got nineteen nineteen years
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  Speaker 1: or give you my nine? I got twenty four, I
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  Speaker 1: got ten, so I'm coming off. Damn. Why y'all making
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  Speaker 1: him feel bad? I was having sex with my beautiful
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  Speaker 1: wife last night, made her or six hounds. I felt
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  Speaker 1: like a champa yesterday. Well, she's a great faker. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: she's definitely great. Oh you should the gas agent pill. No,
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  Speaker 1: she's just that's how I know it was. It was popular. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: she definitely pete on you all right? Man? I still
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  Speaker 1: got in your mouth that too. That was the first Hello.
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  Speaker 1: Who's this? Yeah? This Donovan from Virginia, Donovan from the
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  Speaker 1: seven five, seven or eight h four. Get it off
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  Speaker 1: your chests, bro. Yeah, I'm just I'm blessed because I'm
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  Speaker 1: a twenty eight year old homeowner. I got a great,
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  Speaker 1: secure job, I got a beautiful wife, I got two
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  Speaker 1: beautiful children, and I woke up this morning. Not everybody
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  Speaker 1: woke up this morning. You right there, you go. That's
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  Speaker 1: the sound to me. Sound like you balling to me,
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  Speaker 1: my brother? Absolutely big things? Are there? Something from a
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  Speaker 1: rectile justs function at an early age? Are you double dub?
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  Speaker 1: What's up? Man? Why are you mad? Double d Listen? Man,
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  Speaker 1: I come to the wild last night. Somehow he's gonna
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  Speaker 1: play basketball. I see hold a line o'clock go to
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  Speaker 1: walk up in the house at twelve thirty fifteen years
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  Speaker 1: old and left that good smelling stuff on his clothes?
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  Speaker 1: What's up with that? Man? But did you bust his ass?
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  Speaker 1: A lot. That's why you goddamn right can't break one
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  Speaker 1: of his Yeah, I don't break his length, but he
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  Speaker 1: should be punished. He should do he can like the
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  Speaker 1: goodness too. Man, you should wake his ass up right now.
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  Speaker 1: He probably sleeping and asking. He probably got some last night.
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  Speaker 1: There's no way he should break curfew and be high.
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  Speaker 1: That's right. Please don't. I ain't riding her grandfather. Come on,
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  Speaker 1: what was you doing at fifteen? All right? Then go ahead,
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  Speaker 1: go to different man. You wake his ass up right now.
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  Speaker 1: I hope you call right now. Wake your ass up
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  Speaker 1: the dishes, Get it off your chest eight hundred five
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  Speaker 1: ain't five one o five one. If you're upset or
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  Speaker 1: you need to, then call us right now. Or maybe
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  Speaker 1: you feel blessed. Phone lines wide opens to breakfast club
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  Speaker 1: the morning. The breakfast club, it is your time to
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  Speaker 1: get it off your chests, whether you're mad or blessed.
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  Speaker 1: So so you better have the same industry we want
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  Speaker 1: to hear from you on the breakfast club. Hello. Who's this?
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  Speaker 1: It's Candra, Hey kid, get it off your chests. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: So I'm little blessed, but I all mad because yesterday
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  Speaker 1: when I was leaving work, I was on my way
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  Speaker 1: to court four traffic. It got about a week or
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  Speaker 1: so ago, and it was a truck that pulled up
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  Speaker 1: on the side of me, and so I rolled my
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  Speaker 1: window down me because I thought maybe they were trying
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  Speaker 1: to hurt me and something that was going on with
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  Speaker 1: my vehicle, And all of a sudden, she's like me,
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  Speaker 1: what's your problem? This is that in the third So
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  Speaker 1: after we rolled through the stop like they staid pasty,
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  Speaker 1: I get to stop. Done. They're standing out with bottles
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  Speaker 1: throwing them at my car. Really, yeah, I guess because
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  Speaker 1: I'm cute. I don't know you one of those God,
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  Speaker 1: I'm cute. Everybody hates me because i'mself positive. It's not
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  Speaker 1: her thought. She's cute. Thank you so many times for girls.
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  Speaker 1: Just random we started throwing a bottle that you had
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  Speaker 1: to read like a qute flee Like, I don't what
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  Speaker 1: did you do? Tell the true did you? Did you
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  Speaker 1: cut somebody off? No? They actually cut me off, So
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  Speaker 1: I was actually surprised. I'm like, what is the problem?
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  Speaker 1: But they seemed a very offense. But you just keep
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  Speaker 1: on being cute. There's nothing you can do about. What's
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  Speaker 1: your Instagram? Let me see if you were here with
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  Speaker 1: your cute self fighting no better? What's your Instagram? Lying two?
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  Speaker 1: Hold on, let me look at it? Hold on? What
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  Speaker 1: is it now? It's still e SSU or leo. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: your account is private and it just says I'm just
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  Speaker 1: gonna keep doing me. Oh yeah, you ain't even got
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  Speaker 1: you ain't even got a picture in your profile. Pick
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  Speaker 1: it's just a caption. I'm just gonna keep doing me.
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  Speaker 1: You ain't that cute, You ain't that cute. Ain't away
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  Speaker 1: you know a better effect. I just turned my pride
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  Speaker 1: to see all for you. Let me go back in then, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I see, okay, let me see. I'm looking all right.
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  Speaker 1: I can see the cuteness. You got a nice little
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  Speaker 1: birthmark on your face. What's side of the get something
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  Speaker 1: right side? That's that's what God chased you at. You
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  Speaker 1: know what I mean? Yes, and I got a special
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  Speaker 1: heart that the first market you chew. But I don't
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  Speaker 1: know if you're throwing bottles out for no reason. You
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  Speaker 1: did something in that track. I stopped believe you did
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  Speaker 1: something that traffic. You ain't telling us now, know albright,
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  Speaker 1: go you keep it cute? Okay, thank you, I'm going
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  Speaker 1: I see you have a little seafood condy day. You
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  Speaker 1: have a little krab leg on that man, Get out
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  Speaker 1: of baby. I'm just strolling. I'm just growing through. I'm
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  Speaker 1: a good one. Mama, all right, get it off your chest.
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  Speaker 1: Ain't dred five eight five one oh five. Wanting to
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  Speaker 1: breakfast club. Go morning the breakfast Club. Morning. Everybody is
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  Speaker 1: DJ en Vi, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are
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  Speaker 1: the breakfast Club. We got a special guests in the
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  Speaker 1: building who looks amazing this morning. I got dressed for
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  Speaker 1: you all. I walked in the bathroom, key was in there,
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  Speaker 1: but I ain't get to see nothing. Now, oh my god,
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  Speaker 1: you were you didn't know? The Yeah, the girls were
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  Speaker 1: helping me for my shirt is like you know, I
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  Speaker 1: have big You know sometimes if he walked in but
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  Speaker 1: he didn't see, I didn't seen. Damn a vibe. So
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  Speaker 1: eleven eleven reset is out now. Yes, thank you guys
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  Speaker 1: for being so supportive. And last time you were here,
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  Speaker 1: we were talking love and hip hop and that and
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  Speaker 1: then you really are on loving hip hop. She didn't
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  Speaker 1: really confirm that they weren't talk stuff. What made you
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  Speaker 1: do loveing hip hop? I'm want to cut the check. Well,
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  Speaker 1: not only that, but I felt that it was a
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  Speaker 1: great platform, um to showcase the music and you know,
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  Speaker 1: just be a good driver for the album. So Keisha,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I watched the Love and Hip Hop Reunion
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  Speaker 1: last night and I saw you perform incapable. Loved it.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you, and clearly you wrote that song about some
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  Speaker 1: real life situation. Of course, the whole album is pretty
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  Speaker 1: much Yeah, it's personal. How did Booby feel when he
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  Speaker 1: heard that song because he had to feel like she's
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  Speaker 1: talking about me. I don't know how to knaxs because
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  Speaker 1: you guys are so cool, Like, of course he lives
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  Speaker 1: in your house with you not anymore? Okay, yeah, how
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  Speaker 1: did that work? Because you're aren't together, but y'all living
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  Speaker 1: in the same house. He was going through some things,
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  Speaker 1: and um, it was worrying me that, you know, he
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  Speaker 1: wasn't gonna be able to spend as much time with
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  Speaker 1: DJ as was necessary to have spent with him and
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  Speaker 1: I and I just didn't agree with that. And I
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  Speaker 1: just like, dude, it's all good, you know what I'm saying,
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  Speaker 1: Like you you just mind your business and then we
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  Speaker 1: you know, we get along. That's very mature because it's
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  Speaker 1: hard for people to you know, you watch him date
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  Speaker 1: somebody else, yeah, and he comes to you for advice
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  Speaker 1: with Brooke Valentine yeah, and even me when I'm watching it,
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  Speaker 1: it feels awkward, like yeah, I mean, you know, thank
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  Speaker 1: God that um that all those emotions are going, like
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  Speaker 1: I don't feel anything. Um, So that's I mean, I
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  Speaker 1: pray for that, you know what I'm saying like, because
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  Speaker 1: I mean there was times that I would really wonder
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  Speaker 1: why and asked myself like, is it you what's going
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  Speaker 1: on here? You know? But then I just realized that,
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  Speaker 1: you know, with me or without me, you're still gonna
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  Speaker 1: be sluck it a sluck it no, you know. I
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  Speaker 1: mean that's jokingly but seriously joking. Um, you know, you
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  Speaker 1: just have to realize that it's like listen, man, it
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  Speaker 1: ain't no hard feelings. You know, it happened away, it happened.
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  Speaker 1: Everything happens for a reason. I think that movie's a
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  Speaker 1: poor decision maker. I'm gonna be honest. When he came
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  Speaker 1: here last time and he told us he was quitting
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  Speaker 1: the NBA for RAP, I told me that was the
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  Speaker 1: worst thing that he could possibly came after I came
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  Speaker 1: that time. Now he was up here one time by himself.
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  Speaker 1: Let's flash back to that moment. I think a lot
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  Speaker 1: of people don't understand what I'm doing right now. Nobody
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  Speaker 1: would tell me, look, you got a million dollars over there,
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  Speaker 1: go do this because the headline sounds crazy. Booby Gibson
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  Speaker 1: leaves the NBA to start a rap career. You like what, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: So to me, that just shows you the love and
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  Speaker 1: the passion for me to be able to do that
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  Speaker 1: and be okay with what anybody got to say about
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  Speaker 1: me doing it and still pursue it. To me that
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  Speaker 1: I should tell you just how passionate I am about
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  Speaker 1: what I'm doing right now. I heard I heard that interview,
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  Speaker 1: and I was like, you know, you can't stop somebody's
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  Speaker 1: dreams of what they feel like they want to pursue
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  Speaker 1: in their lives. Like, you know, more power to you.
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  Speaker 1: But when God like gave you a platform to be
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  Speaker 1: able to do you know what you wanted to do.
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  Speaker 1: It's like, I mean, I think you're looking at it
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  Speaker 1: like you said to me, it's the same it is.
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  Speaker 1: And he could have promoted both. You see what Damian
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  Speaker 1: Lillard does. He could have been on the court and
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  Speaker 1: rapping at the same time. Yeah, yeah, I agree. She's
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  Speaker 1: like like that's his decision. Yeah, and I can't you know,
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  Speaker 1: like I always say he's always gonna be my family,
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  Speaker 1: So I mean, you know you won't growing up. I
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  Speaker 1: would never This is crazy seeing you happy, that's crazy.
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  Speaker 1: But I've been knowing like all y'all for like years,
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  Speaker 1: so I you know, like so I assume you guys
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  Speaker 1: could see it, but I'm like, really, everywhere I went,
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  Speaker 1: I was like, that is so amazing. Just think for that.
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  Speaker 1: Like I really did pray for that though, because really
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  Speaker 1: to be on that show with GiB and look at
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  Speaker 1: all the things that like you're doing and like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: it's just personal business. But like even you guys should
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  Speaker 1: check out the reunion because I think he said something like,
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  Speaker 1: oh yeah, I'm I'm single. Now I could do what
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  Speaker 1: I wanted. Was like a sir, you were doing all
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  Speaker 1: of this while you were married, right, man, different, Like
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  Speaker 1: this is no difference. And he really pursued you heavy,
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  Speaker 1: like why then was acting saying it was a God thing,
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  Speaker 1: and God said, and God is this and God and
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  Speaker 1: it was just to a play where I was like, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: you know what, you can't keep beautsing God right, this
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  Speaker 1: is how you're gonna go to hell if you keep
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  Speaker 1: But I've seen the exact opposite of my life. Like
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  Speaker 1: I think that when you do right by your wife
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  Speaker 1: and you do right by your family, greater things happen.
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  Speaker 1: Things happen. I mean there was times we went through
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  Speaker 1: that too, But you know, I'm just happy that we're
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  Speaker 1: finally going through with the divorce and everything is you know,
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  Speaker 1: it's just gonna be outcome. It's like, Okay, it's over,
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  Speaker 1: you know, like we you know it's over, and I'm
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  Speaker 1: happy to know that finally, you know, it's just now
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  Speaker 1: he can come to you right and talk about women.
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  Speaker 1: But when you go to him and talk about guys
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  Speaker 1: that you're dating, it seems wasn't that crazy? He still
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  Speaker 1: has an issue with that. You can give him advice
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  Speaker 1: and he has no problem. Absolutely not though, No, like no,
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  Speaker 1: that's hard because you know what I mean, I I
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  Speaker 1: understand that frame of mind because for a few years,
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  Speaker 1: like I would just run back to him, you know
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like it was just easy, you know
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But then after like I was like, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: this is gonna really seriously damage my son, because like
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  Speaker 1: every time I go back, I'm getting more upset. I'm
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  Speaker 1: crying in front of it. Got to the point I
• 11:38
  Speaker 1: was crying in front of DJ, and I was just like,
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  Speaker 1: you know what, No, no, no, no, no, it ain't
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  Speaker 1: the dame't worth it. I'm sorry, it's not. You know,
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  Speaker 1: It's like, come on, we got to grow up here,
• 11:49
  Speaker 1: you know, bottom line? Putting my foot down on that.
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  Speaker 1: All right, we got more with Kishi Kole when we
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  Speaker 1: come back. The breakfast Club morning, the breakfast Club morning,
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  Speaker 1: everybody is DJ En v Angela, Yee, Charlomagne, the guy
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  Speaker 1: we all the breakfast Club. Keisha Cole is here, Charlomagne.
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  Speaker 1: What have you been studying? What is it like? What
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  Speaker 1: book did you read? Like? The Meditation? What is it
• 12:15
  Speaker 1: spiritually grounded? No, I don't know. I don't know, Honestly,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. It's just it's just been in my spirit.
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  Speaker 1: I just I'm just over it. It's just like over it.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm happy to because you usually you're known for
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  Speaker 1: beating a bitch's ass. When I heard you was gonna
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  Speaker 1: be on Love and Hip Hop, I said, oh, myn
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  Speaker 1: known for beating up girls? Yeah, no, I don't think
• 12:38
  Speaker 1: that's what she's No, she wouldn't be I never seen
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  Speaker 1: I've never heard of keys actually physically putting hands on
• 12:45
  Speaker 1: something I'm doing wilding out on Wednesday. I think you
• 12:48
  Speaker 1: really good segue. Yeahs you know said is now super excited.
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  Speaker 1: I really appreciate you guys or you know, always having
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  Speaker 1: me and always been support. If it is moving on
• 13:01
  Speaker 1: your suport um for like me paying him or him
• 13:04
  Speaker 1: and him you gotta pay him. I don't know what's
• 13:08
  Speaker 1: happening these days. You gotta pay vous support. I don't
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  Speaker 1: know I'm gonna yet. Yeah, we we file for divorce,
• 13:16
  Speaker 1: but you're not divorced yet. Um know that it takes
• 13:19
  Speaker 1: sixty days, right then then and then it'll be is
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  Speaker 1: he trying to stop it? Ever? Like, let's not do it?
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  Speaker 1: Has he come back and been like, come on, can
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  Speaker 1: we work this out? Um? No, not this time. That's
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  Speaker 1: why I'm really excited, right yeah, this is a very
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  Speaker 1: exciting time. Um, and to be alive. You know, it's
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  Speaker 1: just like it's not even like it I'm trying to
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  Speaker 1: say it's a bad deal. Like I'm really excited that
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  Speaker 1: we're finally both of us able to like get over
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  Speaker 1: this and be like like, yo, let's just start afresh.
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  Speaker 1: Let's start a new It's different, but let's go for
• 13:52
  Speaker 1: it because it's not gonna work between us. Do you
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  Speaker 1: think having your biological father back helped like bring some
• 13:56
  Speaker 1: stability to your life mental, spiritually? Yes, yeah, he's he's
• 14:01
  Speaker 1: so like mentally like, I mean, he's just intelligent guy
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  Speaker 1: and he knows a lot about the Bible as well,
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  Speaker 1: and he's very grounded. And his house is amazing, and
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  Speaker 1: his cars is amazing. You know, his wife is amazing.
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  Speaker 1: You know, it's just like I can't believe what I
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  Speaker 1: just like, how this is happening, and I like, it's
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  Speaker 1: just crazy. Did you realize that you had missing something
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  Speaker 1: this whole time? Of course, I mean, you know, not
• 14:30
  Speaker 1: knowing what um that piece of you really is. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I was just gonna go on ancestors that I'm just
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  Speaker 1: going wrap. But then I was like, you know, I
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  Speaker 1: mean him being blessed, you know, me being blessed with
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  Speaker 1: him in my life. Finally I was able to look
• 14:43
  Speaker 1: at family members and actually identify finally with people that
• 14:48
  Speaker 1: I felt like, oh my god, we have the same eyes.
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  Speaker 1: Like I have a picture of all my aunts I
• 14:53
  Speaker 1: was looking at them. I know they probably thought I
• 14:55
  Speaker 1: was weird because I was just like staring at them
• 14:57
  Speaker 1: at the barbecue. I've never seen like people that I
• 15:00
  Speaker 1: look like ever, Like you know what I'm saying, like
• 15:02
  Speaker 1: me and they say my mom and I used to
• 15:04
  Speaker 1: look like when she was younger. But you know, to
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  Speaker 1: finally see that, I was just like so just in
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  Speaker 1: awe about it. So, I mean, all of it all
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  Speaker 1: coming together, it is so amazing. Um, it's been a
• 15:18
  Speaker 1: little while since I've spoken to her. She kind of
• 15:21
  Speaker 1: made me upset. She Um, it was like a whole
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  Speaker 1: big thing a while ago, and actually they were trying
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: to get her to get on love and hip hop,
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: but I was just like, you know, no, you know,
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: like it's just not that time, Like you know, I've
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  Speaker 1: done that before, and she promised she would get better
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: and it's not for people to see like that, Like
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like my whole thing was
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: like her getting better and actually changing, but like this time,
• 15:49
  Speaker 1: it's just like, no, I'm not doing that, you know.
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  Speaker 1: And I had her out there and I was actually
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: gonna try to like clean her up a bit, you know,
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: like get her all nice, get her dogged up and everything.
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  Speaker 1: She just ran off. Mother's Day just ran off. I
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: got me all in the streets looking for I'm all
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: in la. I'm like running through the streets like with
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: an uber to uber, like I've been through this dude,
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: like rolling off. So I'm like, you need to get
• 16:11
  Speaker 1: come on, like getting the car like literally like a drug. Though,
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: I mean I'm assuming. I mean I don't know, like
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: she was, you know there she was then skid row.
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: But my thing was it's more so like it just
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: hurt me. It was Mother's Day, you know what I'm
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: saying that you disappeared when my my child was looking.
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: And then on top of that, it just was like
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: I was climbing to her. I said, ma, I feel
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: like one day I'm gonna come looking for you and
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: I ain't gonna find you. Then she was like, oh
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: you would be all right. I'm just like yeah, I'm
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: um yea, I need a break. Do you have resentment
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: towards like, I know your father's back in your life now,
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: but did you have resentment for him not being there
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: all the years? And you have like resentment to your
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: mom Paul? Oh no no, no, no, no no, And
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: that was so scary, I think for my father because
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: he was like he was looking at me like what
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: is she gonna say? Like has she gonna react? And
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: I was just like, I'm so blessed to have you, Like,
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: you know, whatever happened before is not we don't worry
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: about today. What we can do about today and how
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: much we can grow and learn each other and you know,
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: start with today, like we're not gonna worry about yesterday.
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: Don't worry about that. Like the only thing that like
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: you need to worry about is the fact that God
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: had me this whole entire time. Trust me. You know.
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: What's amazing is that I feel like people could relate
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: to the feeling and your music so much more because
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: we know you, Like we know a lot of really
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: personal things about you that I'm sure it's hard for
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: you to put out there. You know it's not okay,
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: it's a blessing, but I feel like we know you.
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: That's how you can listen to the music and be like, Okay,
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: I feel what she's talking about and I know she
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: went through this and that's what she's saying. This is
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: a lot more. It's honesty and trust with my Yeah,
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: because you like, I feel that too, actually, and it's
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: a blessing to be able to be something that somebody
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: can say, Okay, you know I can do this. I
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: can do this and go the backlash and everything could
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: never equate to somebody walking to me and saying, yo,
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: you helped me. You helped me change my life like
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: you didn't saying like, but I can deal with all
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: the hate and the back lash behind it. Honestly, you think, y'all,
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: how do you feel about love now and opening up?
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: Do you think that it's gonna be damn there impossible
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: for another man to come along and sweep you off
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: your feet? Or is there another man? Um last night? No? No, no,
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: not that soon. Um, yeah, I mean sort of, yeah,
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: there's somebody, but you know it's a slow like kind
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: of like you know, se like with the whole getting
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: to know each other thing and just like you know,
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: it takes time. Now does he do people like, Okay,
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: you're dating somebody new now right, it's in the beginning stages.
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: Do they get mad if they see you like hanging
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: out with Floyd Mayweather and they're like, what's this about?
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: I don't want you around you? No, I don't think
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: so because you know me and Floyd are not together, Um,
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: that's a friend of mine, and um, the guys still
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: get insecure about Well that's not cool, especially if you're
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: just friends, because you know, guys have friends. Yeah, but
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: everybody's friend have not generated over a billion jobs. Okay,
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: it's not Floyd give up gifts like burking back. Yeah. Yeah,
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: well he doesn't give me birking backs. And there's no
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: need to thread over that he's giving you a gift,
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: I'm sure, though, of course, what is he giving you?
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: Floyd got crazy, some jewelry made something that cranks up,
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: cranks up. That's exactly why you don't want your woman
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: hanging around Floyd goddamn made. Well I'm not anyone's woman
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: though they're just talking. But if you're dating someone he's
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: like you have, Floy, I give you a game. I wouldn't.
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't do that. No, I wouldn't do that. I wouldn't. Yeah,
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: I mean you know, no, that's I don't you know
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: if I was Floyd, I test that. I'll wait till
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: you start dating somebody and see your boot. Yeah you
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: wouldn't do that. No, he wouldn't. That's nothing. That's not
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: how it is. That's another keeps your call. It's the
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: Breakfast Cloak, Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee,
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: Charlomagne and God. We are the Breakfast Club. We got
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: a special guest in the building, Bishop T. D. Jakes.
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: Thank you. It's a pleasure to be Here's a new
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: book out called sor Yes, Sir. This book is very
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: timely because it's about entrepreneurship, which leads the economic empowerment.
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: And you say that you don't have to be an
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: entrepreneur to think like one and take flight with your dreams.
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: Explain that more for those you know. I really wrote
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: the book because I really wanted to talk to people
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: who are trying to launch your careers, get their dreams up,
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: accomplish your goals. Most people would have accomplished something to
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: never take the time to teach other people how they
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: did it. There are some basic principles that go across
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: the board, regardless of what type of business you're trying
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: to build or what type of career brand you want.
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: And I wrote the book Sword to show you how
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: to build from the ground up. If you don't have
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: all the capital, and you don't have all the support.
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: That still doesn't mean you can't fly. Now. What's interesting
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: about you is that both of your parents were entrepreneurs.
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: And I know, I was actually just talking to some
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: kids yesterday that are thinking about getting into being an
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: entrepreneur and trying to figure out those steps, and I
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: was saying, my parents never really instilled that in me.
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: And so fortunately for you you were kind of raised
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: with that mindset, and for your brothers and sisters. It
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: makes a big difference if you come up in an
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: environment where people are talking business all the time. And
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: I mean this was low impact business. My father started
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: a business with the mumpet a bucket, that's it, and
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: ended up with fifty two employees and ten trucks back
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: in the sixties. But I grew up in the house
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: of good days of bad days. I know what it's
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: like when it's going good and then it's going bad.
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: Most people get out of business because they hit a
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: bad spot. But it's like turbulence on a plane. If
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: you just stay seated, everything's gonna be all right. Things
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: laying on their feet again, and you have to withstand
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: those struggles, those hard times, and you have to be
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: on top of your business. You have to focus, you
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: have to do what you have to do. In the book,
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: the book was written based on the Right Brothers because
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: these guys built a airplane that nobody had ever heard,
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: didn't even know what to call it, and they built
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: it in a bicycle shop. And I wrote it to say,
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: you don't have to have everything that you need to
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: build your dream. Take what you got, use what you
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: got to start where you are and build from there.
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: And it's amazing what you can accomplish with your life. Now,
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: let's go back a little bit, if you don't mind,
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: let's start. How did you get into the church? What
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: got you in a church so heavy? It's kind of
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: hard to remember a time that I wasn't. I grew
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: up in that environment. I grew up around it, so
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: I was exposed to it. So on one hand, I
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: grew up playing the pan on the church. In the
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: other hand, I ended up helping my father run a
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: buffer at night. So I had a work ethic of
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: a spiritual life almost all of my life, and it's
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: always been a part of my life. You gotta like
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: a little nose garden. I know, I know, but it's
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: fake news, bro, It's fake news. I inherited these shoulders.
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: I didn't learn my daddy gave me. Thank you, daddy.
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: But the reality is I didn't do that. I really
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: grew up in that kind of environment. And that's not
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: to say it was any goody two shoes. Don't think
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: that by any stretch of the imagination. But I did
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: grow up in that environment where there was faith on
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: one hand, there was work on the other, and that's
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: kind of who I became. Well made you take it
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: so serious because you know every black family, most black
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: families put their children in church, and it's they get
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: to a certain age and then they just kind of
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: wheeze aloud. Everybody on our name. Not everybody stays for
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: that's a great question. Nobody ever asked me that. That's amazing.
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: Nobody ever asked me. I think what made me take
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: it so seriously, it's my father got sick when I
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: was ten. I grew up in a house with dialysis.
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: I grew up in a house where we were juggling
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: between life and death on a day. Early basis, dialysis
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: was nearly as as advanced as it is today. He
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: died when I was sixteen, and I think it was
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: a choice between blowing my brains out and coming to God.
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: And that was kind of where my head was at
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: at that time, in a really, really bad spot. And
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: I knew that there was something missing out of my
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: life for it related to fathering that I desperately needed,
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: and I was trying to fill that hole in my life.
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: And I think that has all the world to do
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: with how I became who I am. And it's interesting
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: because you do talk about your father with his business.
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: Even though he did grow his business to have fifty
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: two employees, you always felt like he could have really
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: taken it to the next level if he would have
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: had that mindset. Yeah. Well, the thing I noticed about
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: my dad, my dad, my dad was hard to describe
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: because he did everything he saw fish, He did everything imaginable.
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: He was like the ultimate hustler. And then he got
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: this business going and he was doing a good but
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: he brought a hustling attitude into a business opportunity. And
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: I noticed something that he was so busy doing it
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: he didn't have time to grow it. And so in
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: the book, I talk about the danger of keeping your
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: hands on things so long that it deteriorates from what
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: it could have been. Because You can hire somebody to
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: do it, but you can't hire anybody to think it.
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: You have to be able to market that, you have
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: to be able to manage it. It's just because you
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: have a talent that means you need to go into
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: business doing that thing. Because business is not about doing it,
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: it's about thinking it. How did you have the mindset
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: to be in the church and have all these other
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: businesses that you do, because I'm sure the congregation looks
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: at you, and you know it's always been looking at you,
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: say well, when is he getting that money from? How's
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: he making is? How is that like? It's almost ridicule
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: of what they do. So how did you have that
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: mind for him to continue to go and still do
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: those business The funny thing about that is I had
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: my business before I had my church. Tdj's Enterprises existed
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: before I had the publish house, so the church didn't
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: have to get used to it. I came with it.
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: Like Margaret Winners can sing and he brings a gift
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: in the presence wore. Also, being a preacher, all you
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: can give is who you are. It's not because I'm
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: a preacher that I'm successful. I'm successful if I didn't preach.
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: I've done enough movies. I've done enough films that if
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: I didn't preach at all, which puts me in a
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: position where I don't have to do it for the money.
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: I can do it because I love it. So being
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: by vocational is a blessing. I mean, Jesus was a carpenter,
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: Paul was a tentmaker, and I've been bussed to make
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: films and started out doing plays, got a door and
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: an opportunity to do something with Sony Pictures. I wasn't
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: gonna give up the ministry because I became more successful,
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: and I wasn't gonna give up the opportunity because I
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: was a preacher. What do you think? What do you
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: say to people who call gods like yourself pulpit pimps
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: because they feel like y'all have turned church into a business. Well,
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: most of guys who say that are standing outside, and
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: it's like standing outside of your business calling you names.
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: People who stand outside of something never really understand it.
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: They make assumptions about things they make they don't understand.
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: And every ministry is different. I'm not vouching for everybody.
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: We're not monolithic, We're not all alike, but in our
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: particular case, people who know our ministry know that rehabilitate
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: ten thousand inmates and help them to reduce ray to
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: ASTI visible. We have a year long program that we
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: take them through to get them back out in life.
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: People who know our ministry know that we were boots
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: on the ground in Katrina. We were there when they
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: were snatching bodies out of there. We were there for
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: the current hurricanes that we have all the way to
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: Puerto Rico. People who know our ministry know the work
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: that we do all over the world digging wells and whatnot.
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: And then we have three hundred people on staff. It's
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: not just me. But when you come on TV, they
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: see you. They see you, and they see money, and
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: they don't see three hundred other families who eat every
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: day because of what we do. So if you're sitting
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: around the barbershop and you're making assumptions, assumptions have a
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: root word as Bishop TD Jakes that said, how are
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: you gonna hit from the outside of the church. You
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: can't even We got more with TD Jakes when we
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: come back, So don't move. It's a breakfast club. Good morning,
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: the breakfast club Morning everybody is dj Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne,
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: the God, we all the breakfast club. We have the
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: Bishop TD Jakes in the building. Charlomagne. You relate all
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: entrepreneurship to flying in this book. You mentioned the Right
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: Brothers White flying well, because it is a bit like
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: being suspended to start a business. You don't feel like
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: you have anything under you. It is a scary situation.
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: You're starting out on the ground, you end up in
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: the air. And what I'm really saying about a business,
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: the Right Brothers looked up in the air and thought
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: the audacious thought, I belong up there at a time
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: when that was totally ridiculous. They built something to take
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: them there. People who build businesses must build the business
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: to take them toward your dream. The business is not
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: the dream, It is the transportation to the dream. If
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: you don't get that straight in the embryotic stages of
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: building a business, you won't succeed. And the reason it's
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: important that we have this conversation right now is women
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: of color are going into business more readily than any
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: other people group in the country. They are going into
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: business that fast. Bad news is they're not standing in
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: the business because they doesn't like access to capital and
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: they don't have anybody to mentor them. And what I'm
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: saying in the book, I don't care how talented you are,
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: how gifted you are, You're better if you have a
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: coach right. And you talk about the research of where
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: the Right Brothers went, they said, Okay, this is where
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: the wind is going to be right for us to
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: be able to take off, and then once you do
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: take off, having the wind beneath you so that you
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: can That's one of my favorite points. I'm glad you
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: brought that up. My experiences. I've done a lot of things.
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: I've done talk shows, I've done various types of businesses.
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: No matter how good you build, whatever it is you're building,
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: if you don't get it in the right wind at
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: the right time, then you won't accelerate the way you
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: need to. The Right Brothers built the first plane in Dayton,
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: but they launched it in Kitty Hawk, North Carolina. And
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: the main reason they went to Kitty Hawk is because
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: the wind is right. And in the book, I use
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: that as a metaphor to say you might be doing
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: the right thing in the wrong place or at the
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: wrong time. If you get the right winds up under you,
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: you've become a lot more successful. Colonel Sanders built his
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: business at a time that women had gone the work
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: and families were used to home cooked meals. The timing
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: was right, the wind was right, and in spite of
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: the fact that he was sixty some years old, he
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: launched a business that I lived him out, grew him,
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: and became a brand that's still here today. And money
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: is a motivation too. We discussed that because a lot
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: of people who are motivated to be successful being finance
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: is but define success. But that can't be the only
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: thing that you're aiming for. Well, it doesn't work. In fact,
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: stats say that people who go into business because they
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: need money are more apt to go out of business
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: than anybody else. To success rate is deplorable. However, people
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: who start a business to meet other people's needs are
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: much more successful. You don't have to market as hard.
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: You don't have to talk me into supplying something that
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: I haven't need for so so it's really about purpose driven,
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: not profit driven. If you are purpose driven, the profits
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: will follow you. If your profit driven, you're always going
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: to be hustling before the church. I've always been involved
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: in the church, but I managed clothing. I was a
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: buyer for a clothing store, for men's fashion. I worked
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: for Union curvebad Processing gases and the Sutherlines, and just
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: for a number of year. I've done just about everything else.
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: And my mother ran I was a little boy. My
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: mother later I was a little boy helping her said,
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: I was hustling all of my life. All of my life,
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: I've always been doing something productive. I was actually a
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: short order cooking later a chef for a restaurant. So
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: I've done just I can throw down, I can hurt
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: you real bad. You won't be able to wear nothing.
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: That A lot of people always talk about. You know,
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: I have money or I have an idea, I want
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: to start a business. What should I do? There's a
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: lot of listeners that have money to hit me and
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: you all the time about what should I do? What?
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: What would you tell somebody that that wants to create
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: a business, to start a business that have no idea,
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: don't know where to start, or just clueless. Study everything
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: you can about the business, Get every kind of magazine,
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: get around anybody who's doing what you want to do,
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  Speaker 1: any kind of way before you start the business, not
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: after before you start, because in every the fact that
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: you want to start a business in an era, every
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: business has a culture, unspoken rules, and so in order
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: to really find out how to do that, you have
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: to get around people who are doing that. Don't be
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: afraid to enter in at ground level zero to get
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: the information. Once you've gathered all the information, to second step,
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: put your team together. You can do it without the
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: right team. It's very important that you get the right team.
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: If you're going to build a team, don't build a
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: team which is submits to take. Most people make associating
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: with people who do what you do, because if you
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: surround yourself with people who do what you do, they're
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: gonna compete with you. You want people who are good
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: at what you're not good at, so they complete you.
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: Once you have your team together, and they should be
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: completing you in that they accessorize your limitations. So you
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: have to be good enough at what you do to
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: know what you're not good at. Most people are too
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: egotistical to admit they're not good at anything, so they
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: don't build the right team. Because you want to be
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: the master of everything, you want to come up with
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: the concept, develop the concept, share it with people, get
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: a nondisclosure agreement before you do so, put together your team,
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: and from your team you launch your dream. Another good
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: piece of advice you're given the book, SOISO is waiting patients,
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: waiting patients and wanting it now. And you touch on
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: how these millennials don't really realize success as a process.
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: It is definitely a process. And I do training camps
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: for millennials. I'm passionate about them. I love them. When
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: I'm standing over the corner looking at me, who is
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: my son? So when I see millennials, I see my sons.
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: I want them to win, but I also want them
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: to understand the amount of people who are gonna put
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: something on YouTube and make them rich is minuscule. And
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: so you can't wait thirty years to luck about something
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: because you saw a few people get in that door,
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: you missed a huge opportunity. Number two, if you saw
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: somebody older than you that you admired and saw them
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: doing something that you want to do, you didn't see
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: the struggle they went through before they got to the success.
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: We tend to advertise our advertise our success, but not
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: our struggle. So millennials have bought Some of them have
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: bought into the notion. That's easy. I can do that many,
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: many times. The worst thing anybody, any age can do
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: is to underestimate your opponent. And when you get into business,
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: and when you get into life, and when you get
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: into marriage, or when you get into church, or when
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: you get into a club, or when you get into anything,
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: you have an opponent to fight. Never underestimate your opponent. Hi,
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: we got more with Bishop td Jakes. When we come
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: back on, everybody is dj envi Angela yee Schalomine to God.
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: We are the breakfast Club. Bishop td Jakes is here, Chaloman.
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: What about the people who come to you and say, Bishop,
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: I've been praying, and I've been praying for a blessing,
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: and I've been praying for something to break through. I'm
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: praying with his job, but nothing, nothing's falling through. What
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: do you say to those things? That's one of them.
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: That's really my audience, that's really my And that's primarily
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: why I wrote the book, because faith without works is dead,
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: and I spent a lot of times talking about faith.
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: I wrote this book because now I want to talk
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: about work. Because if you have all of that faith.
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: You're asking God to do stuff that you gotta do,
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: you know, and if you don't do what you have
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: to do, he can't do what he's going to do.
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: And somebody's gonna say, how can you say God can?
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: The Bible said that whatsoever he doth, whatsoever you do,
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: God will prosper. If you don't do anything, he doesn't
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: have anything to prosper. And so I'm not one of
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: these guys. You know, it's magic. It's quick as easy,
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: giving offer and spend around, shout three times and you
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: got it. It's not like that. If that would have worked,
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: I would have done it. There's a lot of work
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: that goes into doing anything that becomes successful. And anybody
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: who stands outside of it and says that it's a
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: scam or it's a game, they only do that because
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: they don't understand the work ethic that it takes to
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: build buildings, hire people, do what you do. There's a
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: lot of work in being successful in any industry. It
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: doesn't matter what it is. Now. Also, you know, you
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: talk about praying, and you know, when we had these
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: cantastrophes and you say, pray for Houston or pray for Vegas.
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: A lot of times under the comments you'll say, see
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: people to say, you know, why would I pray to
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: the same person that is destroying us or hurting us,
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: or causing these hurricanes or causing these shootings. What do
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: you say to some of those people that don't believe. Well,
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: you know, first of all, thankfully we live in a
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: country that you can believe whatever you want to believe
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: without affecting the way I believe. I am resoluted in
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: the fact that God is not nature. Yes, he could
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: control nature, he could let us live forever. But God
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: is not nature. He stands outside of nature. And when
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: I say pray for Houston, or pray for Florida, or
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: pray for so and so, I have the same mindset
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: that I do about this book. We're gonna pray. On
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: one hand, we're gonna load up them trucks and get
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: some help down there. On the other we need to
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: do both. Amen. So when you start talking about prayer,
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: I leave in prayer, but I also believe in work.
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: As to trying to explain God, that's not my job. Well,
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: people who get Satan got a kingdom too, like these
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: people are still has a kingdom. There's that role to
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: play in it. But here's the reality. If my grandmama's
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: up on the roof, I don't have time to discern
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: whether this is a God or the devil. I want
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: to get her off of the rule. You understand what
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: I'm saying, just straightforward and simple. Yet I believe in prayer.
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: I believe in the power of prayer. But if I'm
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: hanging on the roof, I appreciate your prayer, But would
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: you hand me a rope? You know I'm just being real,
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: You know, pray? Why you told me the rope? Okay,
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: I'm a very practical guy. I want you to pray,
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: but I want you to throw a brother a rope
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: and a good heavy road because I'm a pretty big guy. Okay.
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: So that my mom told and my frame set in
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: ministry is we pray with one hand, we work with
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: the other. We have an organization called Megacare that has
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: been renowned around the world for its ability to be
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: first responders in times of crisis. So just because you
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: see a logo that says pray doesn't mean that there's
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: not activity going on. Sometimes that activity is going on
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: without anything being said, and other times we're very public
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: about it. But again, faith without works is dead. And
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: so you got some lines I love you say you
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: have to look ahead to your ultimate destination with one
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: eye and keep the other focused on your next step.
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: And remember that graduation is rooted in the word gradual,
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: and you explain that a little. You know. The thing
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: that gets me about that is that so many people
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: have respect for the future and no respect for the present.
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: They've got the eye on the prize, but they don't
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: have their eyes on the next step. If you don't
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: honor the next step, you won't make it to the prize.
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: And this is important for people to understand. They are
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: so excited about where they're going that they don't have
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: respect for where they are. If you don't have respect
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: for where you are, you don't get to where you're going.
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: And that's something we don't tell people about. We tell me,
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: you don't believe in your dream and vision where you're
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: going to get around people who are don't want you to.
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: All that's good, but only with one eye, because if
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: you don't respect where you are, you won't live to
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: play on the field of where you want to go. Now,
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: as people who are gonna read sore and they're gonna
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: be like, oh, I want to be an entrepreneur. How
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: you know I'm gonna quit my job? How do you
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: know when to leave a certain job that doesn't fulfill you?
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: In learning to head in the direction that God maybe
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: want you in common sense goes a long ways, and
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: the process or understanding the material that you're exposed to.
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: There are people who leap off a job and land
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: on a career and it explodes, But more times than not,
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: it's a gradual process. You know, if you're if you're
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: out there in the ocean, you're holding onto a raft
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: and I reach out my hand to get you, You're
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: not gonna grab my hand all at once. You're gonna
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: grab my hand gradually as you let go of the raft,
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: because you can't afford to let go of both things
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: at the same time. And that's same thing true with
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: most people in a job. There are some rare cases
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: that you have enough funding behind you and you've built
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: enough team behind you that you can walk straight away
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: into your dream. But never step off of something that's
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: substantive for nothing but hope. That's what I tell these
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: kids who in the pursuit of your dreams, there reality man. Absolutely,
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: it's critical. And the reason that I think it's important,
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: we as a people can't lose another fight. We cannot
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: lose another fight. We cannot afford to be fighting with
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: each other, castigating, destroying each other. We have so many
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: enemies coming against us like I have not seen since
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: I was a child. This community has to learn how
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: to rally. We have to learn how to rally. We
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: have to get away from destroying each other and being
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: cannibals eating each other because we already got people hunting us.
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: And if we don't use all of our information to
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: come together, everything you know and everything I know, and
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: everything Sean Combs knows, and everything Hellocool Jay knows, and
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: everything President Obama notes, we need everybody because if we don't,
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: we're not going to survive. That's a great point you
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: bringing about. Often wonder what role does the church play
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: in this current climate that we're in right now. The
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: church plays and can play a tremendous role. But when
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: you say the church, it's like saying hip hop. It's
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: not all monolithic, it's not all the same. There is
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: no headquarters that controls the church. Okay, so where do
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: we sit in a letter to the church. The church
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: is made of the people. So we are the church, okay,
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: And the church is us and you have to understand that.
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: And the church has a unique role. Many of them
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: are playing it in different ways. In the civil rights movement,
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: the church was oppressed. It was where we disseminated information.
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: It was where we let people know where the march
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: was going to be. It was where you galvanize support,
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: you put your little nickels in, We fought together. It
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: was the first schools we had when we weren't allowed
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: in public school and we weren't taught how to read.
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: So the church has to be ampidextrious enough to morph
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: into what the times need. We don't necessarily need to
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: be a school right now. We don't necessarily need to
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: be the press right now. We don't necessarily need to
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: do what we did in the sixties. We got congressmen
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: and senators and legislation and things we didn't have back then.
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: But we still have a significant role to be And
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: that role depends on whether the church is in South
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: Chicago or Beverly Hills. They're not the same thing. It
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: depends on who the congregation is. The church should meet
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: the needs first of its parishioners. You have a responsibility
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: to make sure the people who gave the money got
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: something back. You cannot reach to the community and not
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: take care of the people who gave the resources, because
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: you're accountable to those people. Once you have taken care
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: of their needs, their facilities, their funerals, their weddings, their emergencies,
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: their crisis is being their facility buildings big enough to
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: handle them, then you reach to the community. I think
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: that one of the greatest things that the church can
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: be right now is a voice for those who cannot
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: be heard to use our platform to speak out when
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: there's time to speak to an issue. Whether it's speaking
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: out is in a march, or it's a an our
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: paid letter like I recently wrote, or whether it's going
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: to Washington or speaking in Washington. I think that's a
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: tremendous role to play. All right, keep a lock We
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: have more with Bishop td Jakes. I know usually most
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: people have to leave by now, but we're getting a
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: good words this morning to keep a lock. More with
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: Bishop td Jakes is the breakfast Club. Good morning, the
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: breakfast club. We are the breakfast club. We have Bishop
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: td Jakes in the building. Now. Recently, you know, Jerry
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: Jones said that if any none of his players will
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: kneel for the national anthem, that's not something he has
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: to work with it. I'm sure a bunch of cowboys
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: probably go to your church. What do you think about that.
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: I would have to sit down with Jerry and talk
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: to him about the parts of this that you don't see,
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: to understand why he made that move, which it was
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: a ricocheted move from where he started from he was
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: with the players, then he kind of switched in his perspective.
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: If I were gonna end investigate it, apart from talking
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: to him, I would follow the money because it's always
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: got something to do with the choices. From a moral perspective,
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: I would prefer that he support the players in their decision.
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: And I think it is far more constitutional to allow
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: me to express myself. You didn't hire me to salute
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: or not salute the flag. You hired me to play
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: the game, And as long as I play the game,
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: I think I'm living up to the contract. For us.
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: To allow sports to become embargoed by politics, I think
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: it's detrimental to both issues because what we are really
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: dealing with is far more important than touchdowns and passes
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: and games and tickets, because he's doing tweeting about the
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: NFL and damselves to ANSP. I am worried about North Korea.
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: I am worried about job opportunities. I am worried about
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: equal access to healthcare. That's a simple question. If Donald
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: Trump to antichrists, you would have more insight than us.
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: I don't think so. I don't think so. I don't
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: think so. Over the years, not just with the Trump administration,
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: back to the Obama administration, all the way back to
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: the Clinton administration, there's been a deterioration of the office
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: and the respect for the office. And I think that
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: when we lose respect for the office, we think anybody
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: can do it, and then when we think anybody can
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: do it, we elected anybody to have it. It used
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: to be that it meant something to be the president
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: of the United States. It meant something, right, But the
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: dumbing down of America has been gradual, but continual, and
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: we are paying a price for that. It's safe to
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: say not a Trump supporter, No, I'm not. But the
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: greater issue is this, he is now ourn't president. It's
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: being a Trump supporter means that I vote for him.
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: I did not, But he is our president, and no
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: matter what you think about him, he's got his hands
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: on the switch. He's got his hands on your grandmama's healthcare,
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: he's got his hands on your kids' education. And we
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: got to work with who's there, and we gotta find
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: a way to make this work, because four years is
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: a long time to just be mad. I guess my
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: final questions. You know, you look around at the climate
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: of the world, and you see the natural disasters and
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: everything that's going on. Do you think we're in our
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: last days? Because everybody likes to say, look at the
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: Book of Revelations, we're living through it right now. I'm
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: not sure. It certainly has some similarities. I laughed, but
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: because not over what you said. I laughed over what
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: I thought. When you said, do you think we're in
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: our last days? I thought, I think I'm in mind.
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: So you gotta figure you out for yourself. I landed
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: him on here. But whether we're in our last days
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: collectively or individually, we headed to World War three, that's scary,
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: and that's possible. I don't think you understand. Nine eleven
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: was horrible. I mean it touched every human being that
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: had any sense. But nine eleven is a walk in
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: the park compared to what a nuclear bomb would be
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: on in this country. And I'm telling you right now,
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: you have never this country has never seen the devastation
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: a one bomb that got through nuclear attack on this
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: country is going to change everything. Damage is what we're
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: talking about in a flippant way. It's so serious. The
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: meshing of these different machines between politics and television and
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: social media have created a mushrooming of some distorted, mutated thing.
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: Donald Trump is the executive producer of America right now.
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: If we don't if we don't redignify the office and
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: understand what's at stake that this is not about ratings
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: for Fox or seeing the end. But if these bombs
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: start dropping, nobody's gonna be able to bury them as
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: fast as they're gonna fall, and we don't know whose
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: bodies they're gonna be. So this is a serious office.
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: This is a time that we really need to be
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: having relationships with each other. This is a time that
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: we need to have relationships with our elected officials, no
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: matter who they are, because one wrong move in the
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: under bed rustling that I'm seeing globally, the world that
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: we know it could not be, the country that we
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: know could not be. That's pretty serious for me. I
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: have grandkids. I kind of like to grow up and
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  Speaker 1: and live and laugh and and see things that are
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: important grandkids. I kind of like that's true to Sometimes
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: it depends on what I stepped on in the middle
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: of the night when I'm trying to get to the bathroom.
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: That's true. But the reality do you hear? Do you hear?
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: What I'm saying is And I don't want to leave
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: on a sour note, but but I am telling you
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: the things we fight about, and you're talking about this
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: and that and other than the Democratic Republicans and Trump
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: and Trump's in Trump's had no bombs, enough bombs out,
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: what you think the church had to do, what we
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: think black last night to do? All of those are
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: luxury items to debate because we have not been bombed.
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: If we are bombed, you don't care whose political party,
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: who's who's the pastor, and whatever you think about that
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: those are the first world problems. We get bombed, we're
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: gonna have third world problems. That's what I'm trying to
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: speak to you. And we're not that far from it.
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: So whether it is uh askeatology, the theological understanding of
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: the end of the world, or the end of the
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: world as we knew it because of evil men, uh,
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: I don't know. But I do know that what is
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: being discussed is something that all of us need to
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: be paying attention to at all ages and stages, because
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: if you value life at all, is none but your
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: own we should be paying close attention. Please gotta leave
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: it a prayer. Lord, I thank you for the privilege
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  Speaker 1: of being in this place, in this moment, with this people,
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: at this time. This is a gift from you. For
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: whatever reason, you allowed my voice to be heard through
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: this vehicle. And I pray for every person listening, every
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: person in this room. I pray for our country. I
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: pray for our president. I pray for our nation. I
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: pray for the nations of the world. I don't just
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: want America to do well. I want the world to
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  Speaker 1: do well, because when the world does well, and when
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: there is no injustice, and when there is no poverty
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: and no wickedness and debauchery, then people can walk the
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: streets of Vegas and be safe, and then people can
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: move about their lives and be free. I pray for
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: those that mourn. I pray for all of those kids
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: whose daddy's didn't come home. Daddy and mamma went away
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: to Vegas and what didn't come back. I pray for
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: families who are clutching the scarfs of their daughters who
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: will never come back again. I pray for all of
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: the chaos in Puerto Rico, and all of the families
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: who are still displaced in Houston, and all throughout the
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: lower parts of Texas and all throughout Florida, and all
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: of the tragedies all over the world. We need your grace,
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: your love, your peace, your power, and above all, because
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: we are flawed and human and vulnerable and sometimes wicked,
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: we need your mercy in Jesus name. Amen. Amen. Alright,
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: T J you have a Bishop T. D. Jakes. It's
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Good morning, Charla Mayne say the game.
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: Don't get shape man. You are donkey today. Just not discriminate.
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: I might not have the song of today, but I
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: got to Donkey that if you ever feel I need
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: to be a donkey man, hit it with the Breakfast
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: Club bitches. He just don't give today Today donkey today
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: goes to John Robert Hill. I guess what John Robert
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: Hill is from, Ladies and gentlemen, Where did your uncle
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: Charlot tell you that all the craziest people in America
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: exists South Carolina. Man, shut up the bronx and all
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: of Florida. Okay, and John Robert Hill is from South Florida.
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: Now you may know John Robert Hill by his ig
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: name bunk Ig. All right. He's twenty years old, and
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: you may have seen him doing social media stunts like
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: well can get the fast food restaurants and helping himself.
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: I've seen him walking to a gas station and take
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: all the solda. I've seen him walking the little seasons
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: and just take a picture. I've seen him walking the
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: subway and take all the cookies. I've seen him get
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: tattoos and places and didn't run out on the tattoo artists.
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: I've seen him try on the watches and run out
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: on the jeweler. I've seen him crash your funeral, okay,
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: our church service or something. I don't know what it was.
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: I've seen him smoke a blunt in the library, and
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: I honestly thought a lot of this was fake okay,
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: stage just another clown who didn't get enough attention from
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: his parents, so he tries to supplement it with attention
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: from social media. Well, it turns out it wasn't fake,
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: because John Robert Hill was arrested and charged with burglary
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: and petty theft after he jumped the counter at a
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: Dunkin Donuts into an employee area and grab thirty eight
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: dollars worth of doughnuts. Now he's done this a couple
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: of times. Let's hear it. Remember that I watch you
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: with doughnuts. I like first, I take as they didn't
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: even know I was coming. I take an. He actually
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: got arrested for that. He went back to dunkin Donuts
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: and did it again. Let's listen. They damned me from
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: dunkin Donuts, but I wouldn't give up. You know what
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: I'm saying that I'm a lot of money. I don't
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: worry about. Oh all right, why it got a little
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: Frinch Montana Jungle rules longing for the donuts. Can't damn it,
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: I'm saying. Did he say download French Montana Jungle Rules?
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: So this guy was already banned from Dunkin Donuts, all right.
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: He was arrested for stealing from Dunkin Donuts, but he
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: decided to go back and still steal the donuts again.
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: So he is making a conscious decision to go to
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: jail for lights and RTIs young people listen, man, I
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: like young guys like this. Confused the hell out of
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: me because when I was twenty, it was all about
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: the money. I ran cash rules everything around me. When
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: I was growing up, it was about less attention, more cash,
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: and the whole point of doing the crime was to
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: not get caught. Nowadays, these dudes get on social media
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: and shining a big ass bat signal in the sky
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: to alert the authorities to the bus they're doing. Now
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: he got charged with stealing from dunkin Donuts. Was herem
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: in court, Good morning, mister Hill requested for burglary to
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: an occupied structure and petty theft. I will appoint the
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: public defendive service for you. How long have you lived
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: here for? Says august I Bucus. Are you in school? No,
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: I'm not in school. What do you do all day?
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: I just kind of stopped to take a break on
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  Speaker 1: my lad job. I was working out my downtown Miami
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: and at the airport. This is, so he jumped the
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  Speaker 1: counter the Dunkin Donuts to the employee only area. I
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: guess that's the burglary, and he stole the entire portrayal
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: donuts and then gave them back the employee asked for them,
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: and then apparently he gave them back, and the entire
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: time the coldefendants filming it. So it sounds like this
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: is one of those like do it for the vine exactly,
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: inter that type of like funny, It's not that funny,
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: not that smart. But ultimately he did give him back
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: to his stare and the Dunkin Donuts at one eight
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  Speaker 1: eight o one Northwest Second Avenue in Miami Gardens, Tampa.
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: Alternip on Count one is a thousand in count two
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  Speaker 1: will be fine fund All right, let's break this down.
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: John Robert Hill, boom Gang, whatever you call him, was
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: referred to a court program with an alternate bond of
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: fifteen hundred dollars in the Dunkin Donuts case. He played
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: not guilty and was sentenced to sixty days of probation.
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: And I'm telling you right now that's not enough. I
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: would like to see authorities go to every video he's
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: ever posted on his Instagram when he has committed a
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: crime from smoking weed in the library, that's stealing from
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: little seasons and running out on tattoos. I would like
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: for the police to go back watch all those videos
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: and charge him for every same gold crime. All right,
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: This little slap on the wrist this boy got not
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: gonna help him change his life. He lives for the attention,
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: so he's probably just eating it up. And more importantly,
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: other kids won't learn from his mistakes because they're like, oh,
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: that's all he got. There's some of these digital d
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: heads to retweets and lights from social media far outweigh
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: the consequences of these crimes, especially when it's just sixty
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: days probation and a court order program. He has to
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: a ten. Okay. Sometimes someone must die in order for
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: others to live, all right, Sometimes literally, they have to die,
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: sometimes figuratively, and John Robert Hill needs to die figuratively. Okay.
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: He needs to get the book thrown at him. Law
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: enforcement needs to make an example out of him so
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: these kids can learn that this is not the way
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: I write. The judge asked a very important question to
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: this young man. Can you play that little question? She asked,
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: are you in school. Answer is nothing, all right, and
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: that's the problem. These kids have nothing to do. I
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: don't mind. Is the devil's playground. Instead of boot Gang,
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: it should be book gang. Read a book. I don't
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: just go to the library and smoke. We go to
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: the library and actually read something in there. Go learn
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: a trade or something. Make yourself smarter, Stop looking for
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: love from social media and start loving yourself. Please give
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: John Robert hill A ka boot Gang the biggest he hall.
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you what's gonna happen if they don't throw
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: the book at him and you know, make him change
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: his ways. That way, somebody's gonna shoot that litle boy.
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: All right. I'm waiting on him to get shot, and
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: I hope they do it live on I The Breakfast Club,
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: The Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee,
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: Scharlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. It's time
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: to ask ye eight hundred five A five one oh
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: five one. If you got a question for you, you
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: could call her at any time. Hello, who's that Hello?
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: Calling on my name? Mark? Mark? What's your question for you? Okay, listen,
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: all right, it's just the relationships question. To setting the third.
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: I just want to know, all right, I have When
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: I was twenty years old, I was dating our girl
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: who I met at the club, who I thought it
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: was eighteen to set the third. She was sixteen. We
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: had a child together. He'm mobled. She had fig ideas.
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: It wasn't you know what I mean. It wasn't like
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: I was dropping off at the school to set the third.
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: But I got a charge with sexual assault. I got
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: locked up. Wait, so how did you end up getting
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: charged at all? Like? Who? Well? Because when when her
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: brother came home, I decided not to be with her anymore,
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: so I left her and she wasn't having us, so
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: she called the police and she lied. She's made a
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: whole rape story up. They dropped the rage for the
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: actual rape charge because she was from the age that
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: I had a child. Was it that's how I got charged? Yeah?
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: For real? But you know what, I ain't want to
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: say her first chalk. She did the twenty three or
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: four other guys, one guy doing ten years for her
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: crazy y better lawyers or something, But go ahead, but
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: now you know I'm you know, with my present girl.
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: Now you know we're telling we just sat in the third,
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: I want to tell her, but I don't know. You
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: better tell that, just like you told us. That sounds crazy.
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie, bro No, I mean, listen, you
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: have to tell her something like that. First of all,
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: the girl was sixteen, you were twenty. Y'all have a
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: child together. She knows you have a child, right yeah.
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: Now does she know you don't get along with the mother.
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but she doesn't know why. Well, you know what,
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: You better go on ahead and tell her. I don't
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: think that's any reason if somebody told me that and
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: explained to me what happened. I didn't know her age,
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: dada dada, day, she had me arrested, and I would
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: I don't think it would make me not want to
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: be with them. But what make you not want to
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: be with you is that you knew and didn't tell me.
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 1: Oh boy, she said she no, no, no, no, no,
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: hell no. The girls are don't win. She and she
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: she's like very like opinionated. That's great. Were having a
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: conversation one time. She was very opinied about people with
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: sex charges. Okay, but listen, this is a little bit different.
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: It's not like you really sexually assaulted someone. She had
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: a relationship with you that was consensual. She lied to
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: you about her age. She got upset that you left her,
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: and she had you sent to jail. Whose fust is that? Oh?
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: Of course it's her, But I was just nervous. I mean,
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: I'll do it, I'll do it. I'll you would have
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: to tell her. I would be more mad that you
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: didn't tell me this if I was her than what
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: actually happened. So gotta tell Yeah, good luck, bro. Let
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: us know how that conversation goes. Ask eight hundred five
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: eight five one oh five one. If you got a question,
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: you could call it right now. It's the Breakfast Club.
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela, Yee, Charlomagne
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Asked c any
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: you got a question? You need some advice? Eight hundred
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: five eighty five one, call your uncle Sharlo and your
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: cousin Envy and Hello, what's happening? Hey? What's your name? Mama? Nicole?
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: What's your problem? So I'm living with my parents, that
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: I'm living with my man? How old are you? Twenty six? Parents?
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: And you man? Yeah, but the situation is that I
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: pay the bills. In the house, right, That's what everybody
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: who's look at their parents says. I'm curious, go ahead, yeah,
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: all right. So um, I've been with my man for
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: like seven years, and now he moved out out of nowhere.
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: That's not out of nowhere. You don't want to live
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: with your parents no more. I congratulate him for being
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: a grown ass man who don't want to live with
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: somebody's parents. Girl, you need to get your own apartment
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 1: and pay your own bills. Why did he say he lay?
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: He left because he say he's tired of this. He
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: live with your parents. Yeah, he can't knock you off
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 1: like he wants to, because you can't scream. He doesn't
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: want to live with your parents, Mama, I want to
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: feel like a man. I can't feel like a man
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: living with your parents and you're paying all the bills.
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: But what is my family gonna do? You mean, what
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: is your family gonna do? Won't you both move out
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: and get your own place? But I'm the one that
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: supports my family. Lord, have mercy. You Mexican? What are
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: you Spanish? You're Spanish? Right? Why is always a Mexican thing?
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: Would you Latino? Right? Yes? All right? Listen, man, it
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: comes to point in time with Latino families got to
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: stop depending on one paycheck. All right. That's just all
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 1: the balls down to trying to get into an apartment
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: with him. And I mean, he just doesn't want to
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: be an under your parents. You can't be mad at
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: that man. If you want to be a man, I
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: don't want to live with your parents while you paying
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 1: all the bills. Hello, who's this? Hey? Sh what's your question? Mama?
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: So my question is all right, I'm not a football
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: a friend though, so if your friend, if you're man right,
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: he wanted to crush his nipples like you don't mind that?
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: But you don't really like that? Going on extra It
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: is because I feel like I'm treating my mother. You
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 1: know that man want his nipples, carress, caress his nipples
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 1: with a little caressing the nipples, and you should lick
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: it too, will you listen? When you want your butt eating?
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: Does he complain? Does he eat the butt? All right?
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: You right? All right? What's wrong with you? Grey? And
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: you might want your eating his butt? You might like that.
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: You how old are you? Oh? Come on now, y'all
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: way past the stage and learning now, y'all should be grown.
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: Carress that man nipples everything. Now, come on, you are
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: you're right, but you should lick his nipples, caress his
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: nipples and lick his butt. I wish it would. I
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: wish a woman would complain about me wanting my nipples
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: carrest when I'm eating her butt. I want you Hello,
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: who's this lick out of Florida? You may turn your
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 1: radio down? Man, what's your question for Charlotte? And so
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: my girl has a man best friend. But I don't
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: know how I sells? Is he? Yay? No? Alright, then
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: now you should shut that down. She shut that down immediately.
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 1: Unless all y'all friends are all of your friends. I
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: mean we all went to school together. I ain't ask
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: you that. I said, all of y'all friends, y'all head
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: hang out, do y'all kick it? Huh? Hello? He hung out?
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 1: Oh he wanted to go get his gun. Yeah, I
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: ain't wanted to go that phone. He's definitely hating on
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: him on the low, so you should definitely give it
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: to that situation. Unless he's gay. No, you can't have
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: any male friends. There's no such thing. Listen, the only
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 1: when you got friends of the opposite sex. All of
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: y'all got to be friends. All my close female friends
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: my wife is close with do they call all cool together? Right?
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: All right, that's that's the way it works. Hello, who's this?
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: Good morning? This is Marie has Charlomagne had good morning.
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  Speaker 1: What's your question, mamma? So basically, I know everyone does music,
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  Speaker 1: everybody in a great art. Job. I do have a job. Job?
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  Speaker 1: Are you a rapper? Um? I do everything? God? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: get a job? No, let her explain? Go ahead, mama.
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  Speaker 1: How old are you on Starlomene? I love you for that,
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  Speaker 1: for being yourself like. But you know, my question is
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  Speaker 1: just like, how do I market myself? Like? I understand
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  Speaker 1: everybody out there does it. I'm twenty one, she got
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  Speaker 1: a little time. I think you should get a job
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  Speaker 1: and you should pass out mixtapes at your job. I
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  Speaker 1: do I have a job. I'm a college student, so
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  Speaker 1: definitely being on campus help. But it's just what's your major? Um,
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  Speaker 1: it's human services. I graduate in May and I'm transferring
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  Speaker 1: to do my backtors and social work. So I'm doing
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  Speaker 1: things to make sure if certain things don't work out,
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  Speaker 1: you know what I mean, I can fall back on
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  Speaker 1: human services. But like what do you rap the smoth?
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  Speaker 1: Let me hear something right fast. Here's something right now? Okay, Um,
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  Speaker 1: so they want me to keep it PG. They want
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  Speaker 1: me to keep it PC policitally correct. They probably want
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  Speaker 1: to try to control about this Plan A. Right about
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  Speaker 1: this plan are you're in school? Plan all? Right? You're
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  Speaker 1: in school, you got a job? No, keep playing A.
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  Speaker 1: Don't worry about playing BC. This is the thing that
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  Speaker 1: Plan A was her rap career. No. Plan A is
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  Speaker 1: not your rap career, is it. No? It isn't. Okay, good,
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  Speaker 1: So about this Plan A. Listen, stick to your Plan A. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: your Plan B is not going to really work out.
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  Speaker 1: It's good that you're in school. It's good that you
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  Speaker 1: have a job. Now you can do all of that
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  Speaker 1: rap stuff as a hobby. Maybe you know what I'm saying,
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  Speaker 1: because in the pursuit of your dreams, you have to
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  Speaker 1: deal with your reality. You're dealing with your reality about
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  Speaker 1: going to school, and you know you'll eventually have a job.
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  Speaker 1: But you know, if I was you, I wouldn't focus
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  Speaker 1: on that plan being. Let's it's appeal that you pop
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  Speaker 1: because somebody then you at school one D there you go, go, okay,
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  Speaker 1: thank you I think it's pretty honest with him. The
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  Speaker 1: breakfast club. All right, we are doing asking and we
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  Speaker 1: have Odario on the line. What's up, Odario? Good morning,
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  Speaker 1: how you're doing? Good morning? How are you? I had
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  Speaker 1: a question for you. Okay. So I've been doting this
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  Speaker 1: NFL player since high school before I even got to
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  Speaker 1: the NFL. And then we went to college together and everything.
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  Speaker 1: But then I had to leave to go to Harvard
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  Speaker 1: because I got accepted ato Harvard. So I graduated from
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  Speaker 1: Harvard high school, law school, and then I called, I
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  Speaker 1: came back, so we was together all this time. BECAUU,
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  Speaker 1: we'll go back and forth or whatever. Right, it's been long,
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  Speaker 1: so for like twelve thirteen years, you've been dating this
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  Speaker 1: NFL player for twelve or thirteen years? Okay? Yeah. So
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  Speaker 1: I got our job offer in Washington last year to
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  Speaker 1: work at the prosecutor was out there, and he made
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  Speaker 1: me turn the offer down because he was like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: So we got engaged. So basically we got engage, I'll
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  Speaker 1: say that. So he took a week ago, I'm sorry,
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  Speaker 1: he took a knee. Never mind, bad jokes, go ahead,
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  Speaker 1: So a couple of weeks ago, I wouldn't everybody stops
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  Speaker 1: to get his um clothes, takes to quinns. I always
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  Speaker 1: do and this, but this girl was in the house.
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  Speaker 1: I paid it because we always say that, you know,
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  Speaker 1: we're best friends. We never put up. He wasn't he
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  Speaker 1: wasn't openly gay, he wasn't out. No, still not out
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  Speaker 1: to that. I would never, you know, put him my
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  Speaker 1: own blast like that. Right, he takes two knees, but
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  Speaker 1: he doesn't want anyone to know exactly. So I said,
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  Speaker 1: that's cool. So I go here and then she tells
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  Speaker 1: me that, you know, they just got engaged, and this
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  Speaker 1: pregned it and she pregged it. Well, he's playing both sides,
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  Speaker 1: so he's engaged to you and he's engaged to her. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: so I said, I said, you know, I'm nosy. So
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, so, how long, um, you know you've been engaged.
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  Speaker 1: She said it's been like five months. I say five
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  Speaker 1: so so um. So I called him up because he
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  Speaker 1: had he had the road for this game our return,
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  Speaker 1: so I said, I called him. I was like, come
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  Speaker 1: over to my house when you get Homestley came over
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  Speaker 1: like two o'clock in the morning. So I said, it's
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  Speaker 1: something that you um need to tell me or whatever
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  Speaker 1: men have you And he was like no, so of
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  Speaker 1: course I lost my tip room lights. Well I met.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say her name. I'll just call it Kelly.
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  Speaker 1: I look Kelly over your house a couple of weeks ago,
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  Speaker 1: and she told me that you got engaged and she pregnant.
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  Speaker 1: So then the dock. You want to tell the truth now,
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  Speaker 1: he said, He say he loves me, but so she's pregnant,
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  Speaker 1: he has to marry. So this whole time he's been
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  Speaker 1: cheating on you and having sex with this woman exactly.
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  Speaker 1: So I got another job offer out of state in
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  Speaker 1: New York, actually at a propercunity office, and I said
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  Speaker 1: the job so talking about so this is where I
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  Speaker 1: just sound a tricky right. So a few days a well, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: a few days ago he came over with this like
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  Speaker 1: bad attitude and I will say, yeah, g grayed by
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  Speaker 1: myself and pick me up, get up? Not really does
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  Speaker 1: he play for the giants and Jets? I can't say.
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  Speaker 1: I won't say, but what I will say is that
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  Speaker 1: you know he bought this house granted, which IRON really
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  Speaker 1: needed to because I work, can I make money? So um,
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  Speaker 1: I call like the movers or whatever may have you.
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  Speaker 1: And I got all my stuff up out of there,
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  Speaker 1: as you should, because he put his hands on you, exactly.
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  Speaker 1: So he filed and tracked me down at my mother's house,
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  Speaker 1: right and then he's sitting here begging and pleading and
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  Speaker 1: telling me not to leave and not to go because
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  Speaker 1: we're gonna get married. And I don't believe nothing he said.
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  Speaker 1: He's getting married to somebody else? Has he gonna marry you? Exactly?
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  Speaker 1: So what should I do? Should I just believe here?
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  Speaker 1: Because I'm Dario as smart as you are. You went
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  Speaker 1: to Harvard. This man lied to you all this time,
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  Speaker 1: lie to this woman. He's having a baby with someone,
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  Speaker 1: and he put his hands on you from Harvard get
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  Speaker 1: turned out by the D two and you don't know
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  Speaker 1: what to do. It's just, oh, Daryo, come on, I
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  Speaker 1: know this man. Don't know what position you want to
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  Speaker 1: play on this? I oh, you know what to do?
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  Speaker 1: You cannot rate that you are way too First of all,
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  Speaker 1: he's not even openly gay. Yeah, he's not even letting
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  Speaker 1: people know about your relationship. It's been thirteen years. Will
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  Speaker 1: you tell me who he is? Off the air? No?
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  Speaker 1: I can't tell you because I wouldn't never put him
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  Speaker 1: off life there because it's not right. It's not my place. Well,
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  Speaker 1: it looks like he has no intention of and you're
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  Speaker 1: openly gay, right, No, I'm not. Neither one of you are. No. Well,
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  Speaker 1: how do you guys intend to get married at all?
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  Speaker 1: That's what I said, And he told me, he was like, well,
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  Speaker 1: you know what we're doing now, we've been together since
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  Speaker 1: high school. We should go ahead. And do you know
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  Speaker 1: dar yah, I don't want you to marry somebody that
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  Speaker 1: choked you, threw you up against the wall by your throat,
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  Speaker 1: and lie to you when it's having a baby with
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  Speaker 1: somebody else. That's what I said, because I mean it
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  Speaker 1: was the first time it happened. But I but you
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  Speaker 1: need to figure out what you need to do because
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  Speaker 1: it seems like maybe you haven't come at the closet
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  Speaker 1: because he hasn't. Ye, don't live your life according to
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  Speaker 1: what this man is doing. Live your life for you.
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  Speaker 1: Then when see you in New York, are you moving
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  Speaker 1: in New yor have to be close to him because
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 1: that's what he plays. Now he's leaving, leaving to New York,
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  Speaker 1: leaving you will say this, he plays for the Lions.
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 1: I will say that, but that's all shout out to
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  Speaker 1: the d the Lions and lying about the whole day too.
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  Speaker 1: All right, well, darry'all hear us up. When you come
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  Speaker 1: out here, we're gonna party. We're gonna party, I mean
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  Speaker 1: the party. Okay. I appreciate you so much as you guys,
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  Speaker 1: y'all have a great day. Thank clear my mind. All right,
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  Speaker 1: I'm glad to hear that. Sometimes it's hard, even as
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  Speaker 1: smart as you are, to make the right decision. When
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 1: you're in love, you get clouded. Yeah you're doing fortunately. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: I appreciate you. Thank you, miss you have a day,
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  Speaker 1: you guys to the breakfast Club.