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- 0:03Speaker 1: At eight fifty two in the morning on May twenty first,
- 0:07Speaker 1: twenty nineteen, a utility lineman named April Moore pushed open
- 0:12Speaker 1: the back door of a house on Fenwick Lane and
- 0:14Speaker 1: stopped moving. On the kitchen table an uncut birthday cake
- 0:19Speaker 1: with candles still in chellophane, a bouquet of dried carnations
- 0:23Speaker 1: shedding pedals onto an open laptop, and a single wineglass
- 0:27Speaker 1: with a dark red ring dried into its bottom. The
- 0:30Speaker 1: laptop screen showed a video call application frozen. On a
- 0:34Speaker 1: connection screen, the cursor was still blinking, the battery read
- 0:38Speaker 1: four percent. More called nine one one, she had been
- 0:43Speaker 1: dispatched for a routine non payment disconnect. What she found
- 0:48Speaker 1: instead was a table set for a celebration that never happened,
- 0:52Speaker 1: and a woman who had been waiting alone since six
- 0:55Speaker 1: o'clock the night before. The woman's name was Connie Ford.
- 0:59Speaker 1: She was forty four years old. She lived at the
- 1:03Speaker 1: end of a dead end gravel road four miles west
- 1:06Speaker 1: of Peller, Indiana, and for eight months she had been
- 1:10Speaker 1: building what she believed was the most genuine connection she
- 1:13Speaker 1: had found since her divorce. The person on the other
- 1:17Speaker 1: end of that connection did not exist. What makes this
- 1:20Speaker 1: case worth sitting with and what kept investigators unsettled long
- 1:24Speaker 1: after the verdict is not the fraud itself. It is
- 1:28Speaker 1: the precision. Someone had spent months learning exactly who Connie
- 1:32Speaker 1: Ford was, what she feared, what she needed, and when
- 1:36Speaker 1: she would be alone, and then they used every single
- 1:39Speaker 1: piece of that information with patients that is difficult to
- 1:42Speaker 1: describe as anything other than deliberate. By the time Connie
- 1:46Speaker 1: sat down at that table on the night of May twentieth,
- 1:49Speaker 1: she had no reason to suspect anything was wrong. That
- 1:53Speaker 1: is exactly how it was designed to work. Peller, Indiana
- 1:57Speaker 1: is the kind of town where a neighbor can tell
- 1:59Speaker 1: you without hesitation what time someone waters their garden. It
- 2:04Speaker 1: is small enough that a dead end gravel road feels
- 2:08Speaker 1: like privacy, and quiet enough that routine becomes identity. Connie
- 2:14Speaker 1: Ford had lived there long enough that her routines were
- 2:17Speaker 1: known facts. She worked as a billing coordinator. She was
- 2:21Speaker 1: organized in the particular way that people who manage other
- 2:24Speaker 1: people's numbers tend to be precise, methodical, attentive to small discrepancies.
- 2:30Speaker 1: On Thursday evenings, she drove to the Lutheran Church on
- 2:33Speaker 1: Maple Street to sing with the Pellar Community Charral. In
- 2:37Speaker 1: her garden, she kept two tomato beds, one pepper bed,
- 2:41Speaker 1: and a shared row of lettuce and herbs. She watered
- 2:44Speaker 1: on Tuesday and Friday mornings. She fertilized the first Saturday
- 2:48Speaker 1: of every month. Her neighbor al Steck, later told investigators
- 2:52Speaker 1: he could set a clock by her garden routine. She
- 2:55Speaker 1: had been divorced. The details of that chapter of her
- 2:58Speaker 1: life did not come out publicly, but the fact of
- 3:01Speaker 1: it mattered because it meant she was navigating something genuinely difficult.
- 3:06Speaker 1: When she joined an online dating platform called Heartline roughly
- 3:10Speaker 1: eight months before the night April More found that table.
- 3:14Speaker 1: She joined in late September of twenty eighteen. The first
- 3:18Speaker 1: message she received from a profile called Daniel Marsh was
- 3:21Speaker 1: not like other first messages. It was a detailed, literary observation,
- 3:26Speaker 1: the kind of thing that suggests someone has been paying
- 3:28Speaker 1: attention to the same things you have. Connie printed it
- 3:32Speaker 1: out and put it in a folder. That detail the
- 3:35Speaker 1: printing the folder says something important about how this felt
- 3:39Speaker 1: to her. It was not casual, It was worth keeping.
- 3:43Speaker 1: Daniel Marsh's profile described a civil engineer based in Indianapolis.
- 3:48Speaker 1: His photograph showed a trim, dark haired man in his
- 3:51Speaker 1: early fifties standing on a boat dock. He appeared thoughtful,
- 3:56Speaker 1: He appeared real. The photograph had been taken from a
- 3:59Speaker 1: public linked profile belonging to a man in Ohio who
- 4:03Speaker 1: had no idea his image was being used. The man
- 4:06Speaker 1: writing as Daniel Marsh was Harvey Weaver, fifty one years old,
- 4:10Speaker 1: renting a room in Anderson, Indiana, roughly forty miles from Peller.
- 4:15Speaker 1: He was not a civil engineer. He did not own
- 4:19Speaker 1: a boat. He had intermittent work as a project estimator.
- 4:22Speaker 1: What he did have, according to evidence later presented a trial,
- 4:26Speaker 1: was a system. In December of two thousand eighteen, about
- 4:30Speaker 1: three months into the correspondence, Connie received a physical card
- 4:34Speaker 1: in the mail. It had been sent from an Indianapolis
- 4:37Speaker 1: zip code. The handwriting said he had not felt this
- 4:40Speaker 1: way in a long time. It said he was aware
- 4:43Speaker 1: it was too early to say so. It said he
- 4:46Speaker 1: was saying it anyway. She kept that too. What Connie
- 4:50Speaker 1: did not know was that the card had never passed
- 4:53Speaker 1: through Weaver's hands directly. He had sent a seal to
- 4:57Speaker 1: a woman named Sandra an Indianapolis contact who forwarded it
- 5:03Speaker 1: as a small favor. According to investigators, Sandra Polque had
- 5:08Speaker 1: no knowledge of what she was participating in. By spring
- 5:12Speaker 1: of twenty nineteen, Connie Ford had been talking to Daniel
- 5:16Speaker 1: Marsh for the better part of a year. She had
- 5:19Speaker 1: told him about choir, about her garden, about her mother,
- 5:24Speaker 1: about the bank that kept updating its mobile app in
- 5:27Speaker 1: ways she found frustrating, about the street where she learned
- 5:31Speaker 1: to ride a bike. She told him these things the
- 5:34Speaker 1: way anyone tells someone they trust, not all at once,
- 5:37Speaker 1: not as a list, but woven through ordinary conversation, over
- 5:41Speaker 1: ordinary months. Every word was being written down. The first
- 5:46Speaker 1: sign that something was wrong came in March of twenty nineteen,
- 5:51Speaker 1: not a dramatic sign, a small one, easy to dismiss.
- 5:55Speaker 1: Connie had offered to text Daniel her home address so
- 5:58Speaker 1: he could send her something. Declined. He said he was
- 6:01Speaker 1: old fashioned about privacy. She found that charming. Two days
- 6:05Speaker 1: later he called her while she was driving home from
- 6:08Speaker 1: choir practice. The conversation was easy, warm until he said
- 6:13Speaker 1: it you must be on your way home from singing.
- 6:16Speaker 1: He named Maple Street, the street where the Lutheran Church stood.
- 6:20Speaker 1: The street she had never given him. Connie, let it pass.
- 6:24Speaker 1: People remember things. He was attentive. She had probably mentioned
- 6:29Speaker 1: the church at some point, she told herself, and simply forgot.
- 6:34Speaker 1: That is exactly the kind of explanation a person reaches
- 6:37Speaker 1: for when someone they trust says something they shouldn't know.
- 6:40Speaker 1: But she had not mentioned the church, not once. That
- 6:44Speaker 1: phone call was the first thread to pull, and it
- 6:47Speaker 1: would take another two months before anyone pulled it. In
- 6:50Speaker 1: April of twenty nineteen, Connie's debit card was declined at
- 6:55Speaker 1: a gas station on Route nine. She checked her balance
- 6:58Speaker 1: and found two transfers had not made. Each one was
- 7:02Speaker 1: under two hundred dollars. Six days separated them. Together, they
- 7:06Speaker 1: came to three hundred twelve dollars, moved to an account
- 7:10Speaker 1: she did not recognize from a device she did not own.
- 7:13Speaker 1: She called her bank. She called Daniel. He was concerned,
- 7:18Speaker 1: He was careful. He told her she needed to be
- 7:21Speaker 1: more vigilant about where she used her card. He asked
- 7:25Speaker 1: whether she had done any banking on public Wi Fi recently.
- 7:29Speaker 1: She had not, but she appreciated that he was thinking
- 7:32Speaker 1: of her safety. She appreciated that he cared enough to
- 7:35Speaker 1: ask the bank reversed both charges within the week. No
- 7:39Speaker 1: permanent loss. The account was flagged, and that flag eventually
- 7:44Speaker 1: reached a fraud unit, and that fraud unit eventually reached
- 7:48Speaker 1: Peller PD. What the bank's investigative notes would later show
- 7:52Speaker 1: was this, The access had not come through any technical breach.
- 7:56Speaker 1: No one had cracked a firewall, no one had installed anything.
- 8:01Speaker 1: The answers to Kanie's security questions, her bank's name, her
- 8:04Speaker 1: mother's maiden name, the street where she learned to ride
- 8:07Speaker 1: a bike had been provided correctly from the outside by
- 8:12Speaker 1: someone who already knew them. Every one of those answers
- 8:15Speaker 1: had surfaced in conversation with Daniel marsh The bank's name
- 8:19Speaker 1: came up when she complained about the mobile app update.
- 8:23Speaker 1: Her mother's maiden name came up during a discussion about
- 8:26Speaker 1: family history. The childhood street came up during a memory
- 8:30Speaker 1: about learning to ride a bike one summer afternoon. Not
- 8:34Speaker 1: a list, not an interrogation, months of ordinary conversation, and
- 8:39Speaker 1: Weaver had been logging each answer as it arrived. Detective
- 8:43Speaker 1: Eric Zimmerman of Peller PD had been on the force
- 8:46Speaker 1: for nineteen years. When the fraud flag crossed his desk.
- 8:50Speaker 1: He pulled the account records, traced the device and found
- 8:54Speaker 1: something that changed the shape of the case entirely. Harvey
- 8:57Speaker 1: Weaver's laptop contained a shared document for Inside that folder
- 9:01Speaker 1: were three tabs. Each tab was color coded. Each tab
- 9:06Speaker 1: represented a woman. Connie Ford was the blue tab. Her
- 9:09Speaker 1: tab contained a contact timeline, a log of every detail
- 9:14Speaker 1: she had disclosed, a column for what she wanted, a
- 9:17Speaker 1: column for what she feared, and a column labeled in
- 9:20Speaker 1: Weaver's own formatting leverage. The leverage column for the blue
- 9:24Speaker 1: tab listed her ex husband's name, her mother's name, her bank,
- 9:29Speaker 1: and one more entry, garden schedule alone. Two's fry. A. M.
- 9:37Speaker 1: Zimmerman would later label what he found on that laptop
- 9:40Speaker 1: as evidence of two operational phases. The first he called
- 9:44Speaker 1: the foundation phase, the months of building trust, accumulating detail,
- 9:49Speaker 1: constructing a person Connie would believe incompletely. The second he
- 9:54Speaker 1: called the minimization phase, the moment Weaver began to test
- 9:58Speaker 1: the edges of what he had built, charding with those
- 10:00Speaker 1: two small transfers, each under the reporting threshold six days apart.
- 10:06Speaker 1: There is something about that Garden's schedule entry that sits
- 10:09Speaker 1: differently from the rest the financial data. The bank name,
- 10:14Speaker 1: the security answers. Those fit a clear pattern. They unlock accounts,
- 10:19Speaker 1: but a woman's schedule the hours she is alone in
- 10:23Speaker 1: her yard four miles down a dead end gravel rope.
- 10:28Speaker 1: Zimmerman declined to specify in public case notes what Weaver
- 10:31Speaker 1: intended to do with that information. He never answered that
- 10:34Speaker 1: question publicly. The record does not answer it either. Connie
- 10:39Speaker 1: was not the only one. When Zimmerman's team pulled the
- 10:42Speaker 1: full scope of Weaver's activity, The shape of what they
- 10:46Speaker 1: found was not a single relationship. It was an operation
- 10:50Speaker 1: running across three cities simultaneously. In Kokomo, forty seven miles
- 10:55Speaker 1: from Peller, a woman named Brenda Sutton had matched a
- 10:59Speaker 1: profile called Kevin Aldrich. Brenda was thirty nine. In February
- 11:04Speaker 1: of twenty nineteen, two months before Connie's card was declined,
- 11:08Speaker 1: an unauthorized charge appeared on Brenda's credit card. She reported it.
- 11:13Speaker 1: In Lafayette, sixty miles in the other direction, a woman
- 11:17Speaker 1: named Pam Novak had matched a profile called Warren Slade.
- 11:22Speaker 1: Pam was fifty. In March of two thy nineteen, she
- 11:25Speaker 1: transferred six hundred dollars to a fraudulent account after Slade
- 11:29Speaker 1: provided her with what appeared to be legitimate routing information.
- 11:33Speaker 1: On the night of May twenty first, twenty nineteen. The
- 11:37Speaker 1: same night April More found an uncut birthday cake and
- 11:41Speaker 1: a dying laptop on a kitchen table in Pellar, Weaver's
- 11:44Speaker 1: device logs showed three simultaneous active sessions Daniel marsh Kevin Aldrich,
- 11:52Speaker 1: Warren Slade, all open at once. The last session on
- 11:56Speaker 1: Connie's laptop was logged at eleven forty one seven pm.
- 12:01Speaker 1: Three windows open on one screen, Three women in three cities,
- 12:06Speaker 1: each one believing she had found someone who saw her clearly.
- 12:10Speaker 1: There had been a fourth in twenty fifteen, four years
- 12:14Speaker 1: before any of this reached a court room, A woman
- 12:17Speaker 1: named Cheryl Vance in Elwood had matched the Warren Slade
- 12:20Speaker 1: profile on Heartline. She corresponded with Slade for three months.
- 12:25Speaker 1: Then something shifted. She could not name it precisely. She
- 12:29Speaker 1: described it later as hearing a word mispronounced in a
- 12:32Speaker 1: way the speaker thought was correct, a tone that didn't
- 12:36Speaker 1: match the sentence in ease with her, details that felt
- 12:39Speaker 1: less like attention and more like inventory. She stopped. She
- 12:44Speaker 1: blocked the profile. She did not go to police. She
- 12:48Speaker 1: had no financial loss. She had no crime to report.
- 12:52Speaker 1: She moved on. Four years later, when Weaver's arrest appeared
- 12:55Speaker 1: in the Anderson Paper, Cheryl Vance called Peller p d.
- 12:59Speaker 1: Within six days, she identified Weaver from his photograph without hesitation.
- 13:05Speaker 1: The message logs she had saved became People's Exhibit forty
- 13:08Speaker 1: one at trial. Her instinct had been correct the whole time.
- 13:12Speaker 1: She simply had no framework in twenty fifteen for what
- 13:17Speaker 1: she was sensing. Now, picture what that instinct had to
- 13:20Speaker 1: work against. Picture a man who declined to receive Connie's
- 13:24Speaker 1: home address, performing privacy, performing restraint, while simultaneously logging that
- 13:30Speaker 1: her garden was unattended on Tuesday and Friday mornings. A
- 13:34Speaker 1: man who expressed concern about her online security while using
- 13:38Speaker 1: her own disclosed answers to access her account. A man
- 13:41Speaker 1: who sent a handwritten card confessing feelings he was aware
- 13:45Speaker 1: it was too early to share using an intermediary, so
- 13:48Speaker 1: the postmark would read Indianapolis. Every gesture of intimacy was constructed,
- 13:55Speaker 1: every expression of care was operational. But here is the
- 13:58Speaker 1: thing that recontextualizes everything that came before it. The detail
- 14:03Speaker 1: that looks different once you know what Weaver's laptop contained.
- 14:06Speaker 1: When Connie printed that first message from Daniel Marsh and
- 14:10Speaker 1: put it in a folder. She was doing what a
- 14:12Speaker 1: person does when something feels worth keeping. She was marking
- 14:15Speaker 1: the beginning of something. She was treating the correspondence as
- 14:19Speaker 1: a record of a real relationship forming in real time.
- 14:23Speaker 1: Weaver was doing exactly the same thing for exactly the
- 14:27Speaker 1: opposite reason. She was building a memory. He was building
- 14:33Speaker 1: a file. The trial lasted several days. The jury deliberated
- 14:38Speaker 1: six hours. They returned guilty verdicts on all counts, three
- 14:43Speaker 1: charges of wire fraud, three charges of identity fact one
- 14:47Speaker 1: charge of computer fraud. Harvey Weaver was arraigned in Fulton
- 14:51Speaker 1: County in the fall of twenty nineteen. Sentencing was scheduled
- 14:56Speaker 1: for January of twenty twenty. The defense had character the
- 15:00Speaker 1: transfers as misunderstandings. The jury did not agree. The second
- 15:05Speaker 1: bottle of wine was never opened. Detective Eric Zimmerman noted
- 15:09Speaker 1: that detail in his case file without elaboration. Connie Ford
- 15:13Speaker 1: had bought two bottles for the evening. She expected Daniel
- 15:16Speaker 1: Marsh to appear on her screen. She opened one. She
- 15:20Speaker 1: sat at the kitchen table through the night, waiting. By morning,
- 15:23Speaker 1: she was gone and the second bottle stood exactly where
- 15:27Speaker 1: she had placed it. Zimmerman located her at work the
- 15:30Speaker 1: following day. She had not called anyone. She had simply
- 15:34Speaker 1: gotten up from the table, gotten dressed, and gone. In.
- 15:38Speaker 1: The charges filed against Harvey Weaver covered what the evidence
- 15:42Speaker 1: could prove, three counts of wire fraud, three counts of
- 15:46Speaker 1: identity theft, one count of computer fraud. The wire fraud
- 15:50Speaker 1: counts corresponded to the three women whose financial information he
- 15:54Speaker 1: had accessed or whose accounts he had touched. Brenda Sutton
- 15:59Speaker 1: in Kocomo, whose credit card showed an unauthorized charge in
- 16:03Speaker 1: February of two thousand nineteen, Pam Novak in Lafayette, who
- 16:08Speaker 1: transferred six hundred dollars to a fraudulent account in March
- 16:12Speaker 1: of two thousand nineteen. And Connie Ford in Peller, whose
- 16:16Speaker 1: bank reversed two transfers totaling three hundred twelve dollars test
- 16:20Speaker 1: amounts each under two hundred spaced six days apart, drawn
- 16:26Speaker 1: from a device she did not own. Connie's bank made
- 16:30Speaker 1: her hold the money came back. What the charges could
- 16:33Speaker 1: not quantify was the eight months of careful, methodical dismantling
- 16:38Speaker 1: that preceded the fraud, The foundation phase, as Zimmermann labeled it,
- 16:43Speaker 1: the phase in which Weaver had done nothing technically illegal.
- 16:46Speaker 1: He had asked questions, he had listened, he had logged.
- 16:50Speaker 1: The laptop contained a shared document folder organized into three
- 16:54Speaker 1: color coded tabs, one per woman. Each tab carried a
- 16:58Speaker 1: contact time line, a log of disclosed details, a column
- 17:03Speaker 1: for what she wanted, and a column for what she feared.
- 17:07Speaker 1: The column at the far right was labeled leverage. Connie
- 17:10Speaker 1: Ford was the blue tab. Her leverage column listed her
- 17:14Speaker 1: ex husband's name, her mother's name, her bank, and her
- 17:17Speaker 1: gardens schedule, specifically that she was alone at the house
- 17:22Speaker 1: on Tuesday and Friday mornings. Zimmermann declined to specify in
- 17:26Speaker 1: public case notes what Weaver intended to do with that
- 17:29Speaker 1: last entry. The record does not say the entry is there.
- 17:33Speaker 1: Sheryl Vance had encountered Warren Slade, one of Weaver's profiles,
- 17:38Speaker 1: four years earlier. In two thousand fifteen, she stopped communicating
- 17:42Speaker 1: after three months. She blocked the profile. She told no
- 17:46Speaker 1: one because she had nothing concrete to report, only a
- 17:49Speaker 1: feeling she could not name at the time, something like
- 17:52Speaker 1: hearing a word mispronounced in a way the speaker believed
- 17:56Speaker 1: was correct. She had simply walked away. When Weaver's or
- 18:00Speaker 1: rest appeared in the Anderson Paper six days after he
- 18:03Speaker 1: was taken in, Cheryl Vance called Peller p D. She
- 18:07Speaker 1: identified him from the photograph without hesitation. Her message logs
- 18:11Speaker 1: from two thy fifteen became People's Exhibit forty one at trial.
- 18:16Speaker 1: Her instinct had been right the whole time. She had
- 18:19Speaker 1: simply had no language for what she was sensing. That
- 18:23Speaker 1: is perhaps the most difficult thing this case leaves behind.
- 18:26Speaker 1: Means not the fraud, not the logistics of how one
- 18:30Speaker 1: man maintained three simultaneous relationships across three cities while logging
- 18:36Speaker 1: leverage in a color coded spreadsheet. The most difficult thing
- 18:39Speaker 1: is the gap between what Connie and Brenda and Pam
- 18:42Speaker 1: and Cheryl each experienced a specific private feeling that something
- 18:47Speaker 1: was slightly wrong, but and the moment any of them
- 18:50Speaker 1: would have had enough to act on it. Weaver was
- 18:53Speaker 1: arraigned in Fulton County in the fall of two thousand nineteen.
- 18:58Speaker 1: The jury deliberated six hours. They returned guilty verdicts on
- 19:03Speaker 1: all counts. Sentencing was scheduled for January of twenty twenty.
- 19:09Speaker 1: No sentencing result is part of the public record reviewed here.
- 19:13Speaker 1: There were three confirmed victims and one woman who got
- 19:16Speaker 1: out early enough that the law could not count her
- 19:19Speaker 1: as one. All four of them had felt something, All
- 19:23Speaker 1: four of them had been right. Connie Ford still lives
- 19:26Speaker 1: in Pellar. According to public records available at the time
- 19:29Speaker 1: of this reporting, she sang with the Pellar community Churale
- 19:33Speaker 1: on Thursday nights. She kept her garden on Fenwick Lane,
- 19:37Speaker 1: two tomato beds, one pepper bed, one for lettuce and herbs.
- 19:41Speaker 1: She watered on Tuesday and Friday mornings. She kept the routine,
- 19:46Speaker 1: She kept the life. The birthday cake was never cut,
- 19:50Speaker 1: the laptop battery finally died, the flowers went dry. But
- 19:54Speaker 1: the second bottle of wine, the one she never opened,
- 19:57Speaker 1: is the image that stays. It was not pessimism, It
- 20:01Speaker 1: was not defeat. It was a woman who had prepared
- 20:04Speaker 1: for something real, who had held herself ready for it,
- 20:08Speaker 1: and who, when it did not come, simply got up
- 20:11Speaker 1: the next morning and went to work. That kind of
- 20:15Speaker 1: steadiness is not a small thing. This show is made
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