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Yoreh De’ah 214:1-2. Vows: On Customs, Chumras, Fasting, Community Minhag, Kitnios · SHULCHAN ARUCH YOMI: Own the Halacha in 25 minutes a day!

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  OK, good morning. We are starting Reish Yudhalid
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  in Yardea lavar al minhag Sarikhatara person accepts upon
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  himself a minhag that he needs to do ataris nadarim if he wants
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  to undo it. We're going to get to this in
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  one SEC. I just wanted to share 1 halakha
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  from the Benishai just as an example.
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  We were talked about before about making nadarim to do a
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  mitzvah, so he writes hano de la Dor, but erezizara, the person
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  makes a neder to live or move to Erezizara nowadays.
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  So then that's also called a neder mitzvah and then one
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  cannot go back unless they do hattaris nadaram.
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  So we learned for to give sedaka and to do a mitzvah.
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  Seen pashtas from the Gomorrah and all the postscript
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  rishonium. Whatever Gomorrah that I've seen
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  so far, it seems to be to me Pasha, it's a dinder isa and you
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  don't even need to have a mat piece or the word Isa.
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  It's we have it by Yaakov. We have the Gumara says it's in
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  the dharim. We have a Ted vaab and het and
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  Rosh Hashanah Dhava. It talks about Zo Fiqa and it
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  says that's Tadaka, and it looks like it's a Dasha Gomorrah
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  regarding or also uses the plastic Leah Caldevaro, and
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  there's another plastic that's also brought.
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  So it just seems to be that. I haven't seen anyone who says
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  otherwise by a min hug. OK, so then we're going to see
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  by the cohog of a min hug keeping a a Kumra to be no
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  Hague, the Kumra. So then that seems to be minder
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  Abana that you about OK, but the the concept of not undoing that
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  is a min hug. But OK, so let's Mendarabana.
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  So let's anyways, I don't want to get confusing.
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  He also says going to if you say you're going to go visit Kivrate
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  Kivrate Siddiqi, That's also he says it's also a complete nether
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  and one has to has to keep it or they have to do Ataris in the
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  darn the and that's OK and you just have to have Karata when
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  you do Hataris Nadarin. You know what?
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  I'll share a question. Interesting question.
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  I saw in you'll be in Khavidas person was learning he decided
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  to learn Dafyomi. If a person decides on his own,
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  he wants to learn Dafyomi. So if he accepts upon himself to
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  go to Dafyomi Shir and he instead he wants to learn
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  halacha. Can you you know, in Shamatsu
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  you have Das Vav Nunbes. You can look it up and he just
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  got he brings out the postgame. Basically it seems like from
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  everything that we've learned and we're going to see today,
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  that you have to keep your word. If a person says I'm going to
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  learn something, then he has to stick to it.
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  Certainly if you said it the ferush or you did it and you had
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  in mind to do it and to keep on doing it.
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  At the end, though, he basically says you would do have to do an
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  Ataris Nadaram if you don't want to learn, but he says because
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  halakha is Mali Makaidis. Therefore, if you want to change
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  from learning Dafiyomi to learn halakha, which he strongly
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  recommends for anyone to learn halakha over Gemara.
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  If you only have a limited time, if you're learning all day or
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  you want to be, you know, divide your time three ways, that's one
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  thing. But he we all know that shrinas
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  only Shahra, the Daladamas Shahalakha and we're going to
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  see this more when you learn halakhas Tamatara.
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  Really there's no Mahakhas, but everyone says to halakhah
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  learning Halakhah is the Ekar and it's maybe Lidimaisa and
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  it's a higher level. And therefore, if if you wanted
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  to do that, he says that is mutter and it's not violating
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  your nether. That's a little bit of a
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  Hiddish, but I'm just putting that out there for interest.
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  And I mean it's also that's a stock.
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  I'm just saying probably someone argues, but the point is it's
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  important to keep. Now the question is, if a person
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  does it, you know, I'll just I'll just say it out.
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  And then we're going to learn inside.
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  What happens if a person is knowing to do something three
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  times or one time, but doesn't say befario she's doing it as
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  another. So that's a Mahlokis.
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  If you do something and you have Kavana to do it that that you're
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  accepting it upon yourself, even if you don't say it, even if you
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  do it once, the pastas everyone says as far as I've seen, then
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  you have to keep it unless you you make a hitaras nadari.
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  If you have in mind, if you only do it one time and you don't
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  have a mind, everyone agrees that's nothing.
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  If you do it three times or more and you but you don't have a
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  mind to do it forever. So there the Araka Shulkhan says
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  it's nothing and the Shulkhan Arakara says that is a definite
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  that's accepting upon yourself once you do something three
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  times, even if you don't have kavana.
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  So that's definitely I'm a hocus acronium regarding a yard site.
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  We're going to see this also, if you accept upon yourself a yard
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  site, let's say the first year to fast for someone's a parent
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  who passes away. So if you do it the first year,
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  the kids are Shulkhan Arak rights.
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  I'm just sharing ideas, the Kitzer Shokanarek writes Stama.
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  If you did it the first time, you had in mind to accept it
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  upon yourself forever. So therefore, if you do it once,
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  we assume you had a mind forever and that has the power that you
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  have to keep doing it. So really not everything's 100%
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  clear, but no one, definitely no one has to fast for your site
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  unless you accept it upon yourself to do it.
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  That's the only time high unless you do a Taras Nadarin.
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  But you know what, we're going to just see a little bit more
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  inside. Is it a mitzvah to go to
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  Kavarin? It's a good question.
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  It's a good question. That's a very good question.
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  Kyri Siddiquim, is that a mitzvah?
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  So the vanish Kai says it has at least for the din of a neder, at
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  least it does. Let's see if that, I guess.
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  Let's see if you think that fits more with ratio Gimmel or ratio
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  Dalid. So let's let's start reading
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  inside olive Dvarimar mutareim, vayodi mahem shahem mutareim.
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  There's things that are mutter and you know it's mutter, but
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  now gubahem isser. But you decided to behave with
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  it as it's aser. How?
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  In other words, you want to be mahimar.
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  You don't want to mix yourself up.
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  So you say I'm always going to make this aser so I won't come
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  to do something else by mistake. You make your own SIAG
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  protection safeguard. So then have Ki idu kiblu alehem
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  benede. So by by behaving like it's a
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  like it's aser and you accept it upon yourself, at least for you,
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  Simply put, you are accept. You know you're doing it
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  forever. You're accepting upon yourself,
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  not just a one time thing. So then when you accept it
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  forever, even though you didn't use verbally the lushan of
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  another, that counts as another, right?
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  You learned that by a mitzvah. You don't have to use the proper
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  lushan of another, OK, the asur, and that's zeroskasa, the asur
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  lehatir on Baham. And it's asur to to to not do
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  it. OK, hilcach me shiragil we hit
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  anot taniyot sholifene Rosh Hashanah.
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  So sometimes people accept upon themselves or are accustomed.
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  Let's let's read it. Let's see what it says.
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  They're accustomed to fast. Let's say era Rosh Hashanah, the
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  shebeen Rosh Hashanah Yom Kippurian more than 710 days
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  slash 10 days sesame chuva between right?
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  It might be 6. Whatever it is between Rosh
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  Hashanah, Yom Kippur, me, me Shiragil Shiloh Lechho basar,
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  the Shiloh Lishto Yin or a person says I'm not going to eat
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  meat anymore or I'm not going to have wine anymore.
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  Me Rosh Kodesh AB. Starting from Rosh Kodesh AB on
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  Meshiva Sarba Tamos or on the 17th of Tamos Hiroze Lac Serbo
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  Mahmoud Shaina Bari. And then now he realizes he's
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  not so healthy. He wants to go back and eat.
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  He wants to eat whatever he if it's fasting, he wants to eat.
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  If it's Buster, he wants to have Buster.
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  So that's so that's let's keep reading.
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  So he wants to so it depends if it's a one off or permanent.
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  OK Rd. Celux or Bomachmache Nobari
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  right now he's not healthy, so he wants to stop.
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  So if he wants to stop permanently, so then Sarik Shlo
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  Shah Shatirullo. So then he needs to do a
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  tyrosine because he accepted upon himself forever.
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  If right. This is the araka shalkhan.
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  It's reads well into the shalkhanar.
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  If you accepted upon yourself to to fast or to keep this minhag
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  forever, Vinah came afilu palmachas.
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  Even if you just do a a mice and minhag one time and you had
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  qabana to do it forever. So then sari khatara, the yifta,
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  the kharata. You don't.
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  All you have to do is just have kharata.
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  You don't have to look for a whole separate pet talk.
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  You just have to have karate say I feel bad, I regret it shameid
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  Karachi and not I came with shame nether that I accepted
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  upon myself with shame nether right.
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  If they say the post game don't have karata for doing the good
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  thing while you did it, you know for the days that you did fast,
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  you don't want to have karata on doing something good.
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  You want to have just karata for not using the words blee nether.
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  Anytime you want to do a minog a good thing, you should do it,
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  but you should say bleeder. I wrote the leanog mikhsat
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  dvarima mutarium was siagu pre shoot.
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  So a person who wants to accept upon himself a minog of dvarim
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  mutarium and order as a siagan pre shoot Yomar bathilat and
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  hago sheno merkaba alavkain beneder.
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  He should accept upon himself that he's he's not doing it with
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  a nether. But yeah, you should say so.
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  The Gam Yomar Shaheen Medito Luna can help the pal Mahu.
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  And you should say I only have any time to do it.
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  You know, this time I might do it again.
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  But right now I'm just doing it for now or whatever a certain
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  number of times. But not that you want to do it
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  forever. I'll just throw out the question
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  I'm not going to answer. What if you say I want to be a
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  vegetarian or pescatarian or vegan, whatever it is?
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  Does that have any? Is that binding at all?
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  OK, we finish. So now what happens if you think
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  something is usser? It's really much.
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  You think it's usser, so there you tell.
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  So you tell yourself it's usser and you keep the esser 3 times
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  or you keep on doing it forever. You, you acted in a way as if
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  it's usser because you believe it's usser right one second.
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  So then it's it's nothing. It's not a nether.
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  It's called Hila nether Aminat battalos.
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  Whatever it is, it's sometimes it's mentioned anytime you do
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  something that you think you need to do, that's never going
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  to be another. It must be that you knew it was
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  mutter and alpha picchain. You were more Mahmer.
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  Otherwise, any of those cases, like if a person thought, for
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  example, he needs to fast for a yard site for a parent, then as
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  far as I know, it doesn't count. You never have.
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  You can, it doesn't count and you can always eat going
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  forward. Viesh Misha Omer.
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  Now this is a different opinion. It's a little bit long, so I'm
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  just going to tell you the Haggah at the end, we'll say the
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  Amena Kiswara Rishona. This is the second opinion.
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  It's not lahalacha and it it's it's a, it's a pretty big
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  difference. So let's see.
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  Viesha Misha omershi intoeva noek ESRB davaramoto nisha
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  Alomatirian lobishlocha KN Ataris Nandarian.
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  The other opinion learns the Silvia is that if you accepted
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  battalos, then it is Khal and you need Ataris Nadarian to undo
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  it. Which is right.
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  Which is definitely not what we hold here.
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  He had in mind thinking it's asur, but it's 100% mutter.
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  You know, is that what you I don't know if that's far it
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  plays in it might be it kind of fits, but I don't think that's
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  the driving OK, the EM Yudaya Shuhu mutter, But what if you
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  know that it's mutter Vinagabo be is be isur.
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  This is what you know we started out to see if it's saying you
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  did a minhag, that's that's good for the shame Shamayam for a
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  siyah capricious and you knew as Mather, but you're you're a
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  Mahmar and you treated it as isser.
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  So it becomes another. Now you did it forever aim
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  material lo afilo ke anatarasundarian.
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  So this personal Homer that he accepted.
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  Now it becomes binding forever and there's no attarasundarian
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  for him. The habei Ki ilu kibu al atsma
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  kiisurim SAR tantara because you accept it upon yourself like an
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  Issa dar isa sheinlam haitter la olam.
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  There's a Tara right of the mitzvahs and sodium natara.
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  We can never undo them. They're not changing.
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  So here it becomes binding. OK, so that's that second
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  opinion. In the shock, he points out, OK,
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  so there's a Mahlokis over here. Mahlokis Ahronian.
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  Exactly. I'd understand if you want us
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  take a break one time. So we did.
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  We rewrite it one way and it's the Dago, Nirvaba, Khazzan,
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  Ovadia and other many others. I, I think that's the majority.
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  I don't want to quote without saying for sure, but there are
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  many who say that if it's a one off, then you don't need to, you
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  don't have to do a tarasadarian. The case is that's why over here
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  the Makharvar says he's not healthy this one time, but he's
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  going to go back and be strict the next time.
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  What's the naf Kamina? The Shah, because he brings in a
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  case of brisvila from Oracheim. It's actually mentioned in the
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  Rama that let's say a person fasts on a serasimi chuva on any
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  of these days. Yard site.
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  Well, yeah, any of these days. We're not talking about the
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  Dalit somos, any of these other fasts that a person accepts upon
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  himself with another. And what happens if there's a
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  bris that day for the whole community?
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  So the Rama writes, the whole community is allowed to eat.
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  Even if one of them made it another for himself.
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  You're still right or serious to meet you whatever anyone who's
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  Mahmar, he's still allowed to eat at the Bressmila, the no,
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  the three Bali bris like the father, the Moel, the Sandak.
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  They can even eat that whole day from the morning, even before
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  the pseudos mitzvah of the bris. But everybody else has to wait
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  for the suddas mitzvah and they can only eat right if they're in
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  that, that in that if they're part of that Suda.
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  So what does the Shah point out that there he says over there,
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  you don't have to do Hatara. There's no atarasundarium over
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  there or the Rama says that. So the Shah says there you don't
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  have to do atarasundarium. But he says, but here there you
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  don't have to do atarasudarium because it's just one off and a
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  person didn't accept upon himself in the case of a
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  brissimila. But here Anaf Kamina is if he's
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  sick and he wants to go back. But if you have to, it could be
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  you don't you do have to do Hetaris Nadarian if you're sick
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  according to the Shah, I am Shah.
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  But I think generally saying, generally speaking, we, we don't
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  need to ask your bass Kabbalah's rabim Khala Alayhim, the AL
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  Zaram left. OK, if the seabor makes a
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  Kabbalah, we're going to accept that for no, the whole seaboard
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  is going to be Mahmir on something.
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  Let's say they won't take any garium.
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  The whole community won't won't accept any garium in this
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  generation or the whole community.
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  I don't know, maybe kidneyists that could be a good example.
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  And they accepted upon themselves and the whole
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  community for all their kids going forward.
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  Well, if you would be Devarim Chilochi, blue LA and Binaya
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  Irbas comma a la Shinagu, even if you didn't have all the
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  rabbis and all the binaya year and all the, you know, mayors or
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  whatever get involved, but the whole community accepted upon
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  itself as a menock. They took it upon themselves and
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  you you see that? That's what they're doing.
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  Keep looking at my ass, man. Last said get got there.
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  The siad latara. The purpose was as it got there
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  and the siad latara. So that's so then it becomes
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  binding. Vechena bahimi khutsa irla
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  Dorsham and anyone else who moves into that city must take
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  upon that home. They can't be a paretskader sham
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  harehem K I'm shahir. They become anyone who moves
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  into that city becomes like that city and and they must keep the
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  takana others. Piscachuba discusses children.
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  Just because a father accepts A minhag for himself, that is not
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  binding on the children unless the children also do that same
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  minhag and on their own accept it and make a binding.
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  The AF with varim shahyu Assurian baham, the iram ipne
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  minhagam, the EIN minhag shabala durabala.
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  So who threw baham in? And here's the exact opposite.
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  That could be akula. Let's say you live in a city
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  where they are Mahmer. You can use the previous two
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  examples or whatever example you want to throw the whole and you
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  come from a city and everyone's mahmir, and now you move to a
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  new city. I don't know, maybe you moved to
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  a asphartic town and you want to change your minibokinius.
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  So the halacha is that you're allowed to drop all your kumras
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  when you move to the new town and follow.
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  Really, it goes both ways. Whenever you go to the new
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  place, you, you, you take on, you know, the Kumras and the
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  Kulas and you lose your previous Kumras and Kulas, right?
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  I mean, you could retake them, but then you can always undo
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  them with a Taurus. And darn, that's unprovided that
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  you're not moving back. If you move, it's a permanent
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  move, then that's where you are. And you can, you can change
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  permanently, right? So it is a Machlocus if a person
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  is sick, if he needs to fast on a Bersmila, if he has to go out
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  the Taurus in the darn to eat out of Bersmila.
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  But yeah, I think most are Mako Khaza Novaja.
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  If a person is sick, Khaza Novaja writes that you're
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  allowed to you, you don't have to make it.
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  You don't have to do a Tarasidane because and that's a
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  Dago Marvava on an Akuda. The Shah is Mahmir, but it's
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  it's as long as it's not permanent.
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  I think the Arafa Shahkans also may collect the Dago Marva and
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  that's the no Dabi Huda.