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Mel Robbins interview and more · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Morning. The morning I'm talking right, You're about to experience
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  Speaker 1: And Charlottagne the guy the breakfast club bitches. Good morning USA.
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  Speaker 1: Hey damn okay, all right, well guess what day it is.
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  Speaker 1: Guess what day it is? Hump Day. That's right, Today
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  Speaker 1: is Wednesday's hump Day. Good morning to you. Good morning.
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  Speaker 1: Are you feeling easy? I feel good. I got a
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  Speaker 1: little package in the mail. I'm trying to think it's
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  Speaker 1: a briefcase, trying to see what's in it. I already
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  Speaker 1: know because look, I had ordered these chocolates right from
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  Speaker 1: the owner, Philip Ashley, actually asked me what my favorite
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  Speaker 1: thank you. And I got some Hotti sauce. This is
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  Speaker 1: Game last night. Okay, I finished Squid Game this weekend.
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  Speaker 1: Did you like it? Um? It was cool. I thought
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  Speaker 1: the end should have been a little different, but I
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  Speaker 1: didn't like them to need it. That's the only that's
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  Speaker 1: my only great. I didn't like the ending too much.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't like the I didn't like the ending because
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  Speaker 1: I was like, man, you know what I'm mine, I'm
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  Speaker 1: about to tell the whole thing. Yeah. Now I figured
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  Speaker 1: it out. I figured it out on like the third episode.
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  Speaker 1: I figured it out. What did you figure out? What
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  Speaker 1: was it to figure out? I don't want to talk
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  Speaker 1: about it, but you know who was in charge and
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  Speaker 1: all that. I figured out the third episode, you figured
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  Speaker 1: out who was in charge? Who was in charge of?
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  Speaker 1: Then I figured that part out. You figured that out, Nick,
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  Speaker 1: I figured out who was in Jarde. Who's in Jearge.
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  Speaker 1: We'll tell us off the air. No, no, well, now
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  Speaker 1: you can watch You're not gonna watch you. Season three
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  Speaker 1: scret Game was really good. If you get a chance,
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  Speaker 1: definitely check it out. I really really enjoyed it, and
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  Speaker 1: I did up to watch Queens last night the first episode.
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  Speaker 1: Did you watch that? How was that? Yeah? It was good.
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  Speaker 1: I enjoyed it. And you know, my best friend is
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  Speaker 1: an artist named Santi Gold. They played one of her
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  Speaker 1: songs during the show. I would say, that sound like
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  Speaker 1: a sane song. So I didn't get to see Queens.
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  Speaker 1: I was on I had to do Stephen colbet show
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  Speaker 1: last night, dropping the Clues BOMX from my top killund
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  Speaker 1: night talking all things uh to Gods on This Truth,
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  Speaker 1: And last night, NBA season was back to I ain't
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  Speaker 1: get to see. No, I didn't see the nets nets
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  Speaker 1: lost for those in Lakers lost last night. Her day
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  Speaker 1: was getting heard the next gut washed last night. I
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  Speaker 1: wouldn't say it was a wash. I just saw saw
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  Speaker 1: twenty three points. That's pretty much a wash. Twenty three
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  Speaker 1: points if you lose by twenty three points, kind of
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  Speaker 1: a wash. Actually, you watch basketball, clearly you actually used
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  Speaker 1: twenty three, your coach would be very disappointed. They lost
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  Speaker 1: Y'all score twenty three. Sometimes high school goodness gracious, all right,
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  Speaker 1: All right, Well, we got a special guest joining us today, right, yes,
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  Speaker 1: Smel Robins. Smel Robbins is a you know, world renowned author,
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  Speaker 1: international best selling offer. You might have read her book
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  Speaker 1: The Five Second Rules. She's got a new book out
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  Speaker 1: now called the high five at it, and she's gonna
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  Speaker 1: talk to us about taking control of your life with
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  Speaker 1: one simple habit. Okay, m all right, we'll get into
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  Speaker 1: all that when we come back. It's the breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, Hey morning, everybody is dj envy exactly and
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  Speaker 1: talking about? Restless anal syndrome. Experts are saying that COVID
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  Speaker 1: nineteen infections may be causing a restless anal syndrome that
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  Speaker 1: restless anal something? All right? Well, a new case report
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  Speaker 1: saying is a gastro intestinal pain that's chronic, that's a
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  Speaker 1: constant urge to defecate. So they are trying to do
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  Speaker 1: some more research to determine that link between restless anal
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  Speaker 1: syndrome and COVID nineteen. But they're saying, this is a
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  Speaker 1: real symptom that's been happening, that's keep even after you go,
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  Speaker 1: you still feel like you have to go, and it's
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  Speaker 1: a deep anal discomfort. Isn't it a deep anal discomfort. No,
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  Speaker 1: they said that it was the urge to go to
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  Speaker 1: relief before the sensation rushed back later, according to people.
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  Speaker 1: So they did conduct colinoscopies and neurological tests for reflexes
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  Speaker 1: symptoms arose weeks after his infection and then they did
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  Speaker 1: always still feel like you have to say what you mean? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: don't hold, don't hang up, all right, get it off
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  Speaker 1: your chest. Eight undred five eight five one on five one.
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: Now we got rumors on the way. What we're talking about, Yes,
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: and let's talk about young boy. He has been involved
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: in a jail fight, according to reports, and that's why
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: he is going to be denied bond. We'll give you
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: more details, all right, We'll get into that next. Keep
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: a lock. This to Breakfast Club. God Morning, the Breakfast Club.
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: This is the rumor report with Angela. Ye, well, it
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: looks like Wendy Williams will not be returning to her
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: show until at least November. So yeah, so it looks
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: like she's still going through whatever sickness and I know
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: complications some graves disease a direct condition. So yeah, she's
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: not back until then. But they have announced some more
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: guest hosts. Sherry Shepherd is going to be a special
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: guest host from November first to the fifth, and Whitney
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: Cummings will be guest hosting October twenty fifth to the ninth. Now,
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: Whitney Cummings posted, nobody can ever replace Wendy, but we
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: will do whatever we can to fill in so she
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: can come back stronger than ever. She's gone so hard
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: for so long, and as much as I miss seeing
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: her every day, just imagine how hilarious she's going to
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: be after some time to take care of herself and
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: have some quiet time to think. Sherry Shepherd also posted
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: that she will be guest hosting too. Well, you gotta
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: continue to send a Wendy Williams healing energy. She might
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: will take the whole year off though, like, well you can't.
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: You can't rush your health, you know what I mean?
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: Not for no TV show, all right. Sherry Shepherd in
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: the press release state that I had such a great
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: time when I hosted the show in twenty nineteen, and
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: I'm flattered that and the producers put their trust in
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: me to fill in again. I'm sending my love and
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: well wishes to her. All right, Young boy never broke again.
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: He was allegedly involved in a fight while he was
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: in jail, and prosecutors are using that to deny him bond.
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: According to a recent report that regards his detailed post
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: release plan, they're using that one incident that reportedly happened
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: to justify keeping him locked up for such a long time.
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: They argued that he cannot stay out of fights. Prosecutor
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: Will Morris even said that his pattern of behavior is disturbing,
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: and it was confirmed that the Feds were using the
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: name Operation Never Free Again to describe the sting takedown
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: of Young Boy. I was think in jail though, like
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: you know, I mean, if somebody walked to be when
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: swings on you, you should be allowed to defend yourself. Now,
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: if you started the fight, that's different. But if you're
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: defending yourself, and I'm sure everybody's showing yeah, that's what
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: I'm saying, what are you supposed to do? Yeah? And
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: you know they're proposing when he gets released that he'll
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: relocate to Utah, and which I think that could be
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: really good for him, right, And what they are saying
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: is that there's a tutor, one of his childhood tutors
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: that lives there. He purchased a residence in North Utah recently.
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: He reportedly stayed with her extended family throughout the past
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: decade while remaining out of trouble whenever he's there. And
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: I think that could be a positive thing because sometimes
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: you got to take people out of the environment where
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: things can provoke you and put them someplace else. Because
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: such a young you really want to rehab somebody, right, Right,
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: he's such a young man. That's why you got to
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: give people the chance to grow, give people a chance
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: to evolve, Like, you know, how old is he? God?
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: Come on, you know I did have that chance to
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: really go like to his you know, grandparents' house and
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: talk to him and to have some off camera conversations.
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: And so I do feel particularly particularly empathetic to him
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: and what he's been through. So much love to nb
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: a young boy. And after he's held accountable for whatever
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: he's in jail for and he you know, pays that
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: to society, he should be allowed to, you know, come
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: out and go live a great life. What did a
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: man chance to grow? What is he in jail? Or
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: do we even know? I forgot weapons and drug charges?
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: And all right, now let's talk about Cardi B. She
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: is pleading not guilty to assault charges and she could
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: face four years in prison. She had been offered the
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: chance to plead guilty the third degree assault that would
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: be in exchange for a conditional discharge, but she has
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: decided that she is going to plead not guilty. They
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: always tell us, a lot of lawyers have come up
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: here and told us, if you didn't do something, don't
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: just plead guilty to a lesser charge, because that will
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: that could potentially a conditional discharge lead to any little
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: thing that happens could land her behind bars. So I'm
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: sure she feels like she can fight this. Not only
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: that that opens up the civil case. So she pleads
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: guilty to that, then that civil case gets opened wide up,
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: and that's a lot easier than a court case. So
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: but if you're found not guilty to assault charges, somebody
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: can't still bring a Yeah, but it's a lot easier
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: if you plead guilty though. Okay, so she posted no
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: one ever notices when you're being provoked, just when you
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: reta ALLIHL supposed they want to see a bad bitch
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: do bad and a lot of people have been testing
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: her on social media as well. Now pushics is asking
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: a judge to stop Fedge from presenting evidence of past
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: crimes from when he was only eleven years old at
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: his trial. So the first is an assault case that
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: happened when he was fourteen, the other is a robbery
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: case that occurred when he was only eleven in the
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: sixth grade. And his team is saying that you shouldn't
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: show those things at the trial. All right. These actions
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: have no direct nexus to pushicsy other than in speculation.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: They're saying. You know, he was arrested in June for
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: his legend involvement in the shooting and robbery of two
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: men in October of twenty twenty in Miami. The federal
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: charges he's facing and clude discharging firearm during a violent crime, conspiracy,
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: and Hobbs Act robbery. If convicted, he's facing a possible
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: maximum sentence of life in prison. Damn. So what are
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: you trying to say he got a history of violence
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: or something later? Yeah, but I think, I mean, eleven
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: years old, and when you're a child, should you be
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: allowed to present that now the sixth grade something you
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: did in sixth grade? I don't know. I mean I
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: didn't my mind, no, But I don't know. I don't
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: know how the law works. It sounds to me like
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: they're just trying to paint a history of you know,
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: him being violent and saying that he I guess he
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: hasn't rehabilitated or change. I don't know, all right, And
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: that is all These kids be so nice when you
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: meet that. I called him a kid, but yeah, these
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: young men be so nice when you meet him, Like,
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: I don't that gets hard to I don't know, man,
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: I just know that, you know, we all start someplace,
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: and I couldn't even imagine being that young with that
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: kind of money in the minds that I had when
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: I was twenty something years though, correct, you know what
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: I mean? That's when you would hope your old g's
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: and your older family members can you know, put their
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: arm around you and try to guide you the right way. Hey,
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: we we all had that. It's not like we didn't
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: have that growing up. But you know, you still end
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: up doing stupid things. But I just know that you
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: know that man had a long life ahead of him.
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: Poosh its the NBA young boy, all of them. So
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: I would hate to see any of them have to
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: go to jail for life or twenty years or thirty years,
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: because you never know who the brothers are gonna turn
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: out to be. All right, now we got front page
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: news next, Yes, and let's talk about Halloween costumes. What
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: is the number one search? All right, we'll get into
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: that next. It's the Breakfast Club. Good Morning, So Breakfast Club,
• 23:11
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• 23:37
  Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Let's get some front page news that NBA
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: last night, the Bucks beat the Nets one twenty seven,
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: one on four, the Warriors beat the Lakers one twenty
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: one fourteen. Now what else we got? Easy? Well, Square
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: game Halloween costumes are topping internet searches, so everybody wants
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: to be a character from Square Game. I kind of
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: was thinking, I like to be the red light green
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: Light ones three dollars, Yeah, the dollar around and then
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: maybe you guys can come dress and jumpsues and I
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: can shoot y'all. We've been um, well some of the
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: A lot of those people survive. You you haven't seen
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: the show, but if I did, a lot of them died.
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: That was like the first episode. But we would be
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: the one to survive. Yes, we would. Yeah, we would
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: definitely want to survive easily. All right. Now let's talk
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: about Donald Trump. He made a statement about Colin Powell's passing.
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: Instead of just saying rest in peace or nothing at all,
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: he posted, wonderful to see Colin Powell, who made big
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: mistakes on Iraq and famously so called weapons of master
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: Chucks and be treated in death so beautifully by the
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: fake news media. Hope that happens to me someday. He
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: was a classic rhino, if even that, always being the
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: first to attack other Republicans. He made plenty of mistakes,
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: but anyway, may he rest in peace? What is wrong
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: with him? Nothing? He sounded like you sound like a
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: lot of rappers. I know. I've heard shut up and
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: don't say nothing. I've heard rappers say when you might
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: if you most my ap alive, you might op did
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: like you know. It's distasteful to me, but that's who
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: he all. Right now, there is early November approval expected
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: for the fives, a vaccine for children at age five
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: to eleven, and then New York officials are pushing forward
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: on planning to vaccinate children once they were approved, and
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: right now they want school to become alternate vaccination sites
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: due to fears of an impending rush on pediatrician So
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: they're saying about one point five million children in the
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: state will be eligible to get that vaccine, and the
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: governor is saying that with parental permission slip for parents,
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: they will encourage them to make appointments now for early
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: to mid November, so age five to eleven. I know
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: that scares y'all with your kids as far as that
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: vaccination being available in early November, right, it does, yeah, don't.
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: I just don't know how it affects the kids as yet.
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: I don't know if they tested enough kids and seeing
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: the results for kids as yet. I know they have
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: for adults. Oh yeah, it does definitely makes me nervous,
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: all right. And gang in Haiti won seventeen million dollars
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: in ransom for seventeen American and Canadian missionaries who have
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: been kidnapped. They're asking for a million dollars each for
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: their release. At sixteen American citizens and one Canadian. They
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: were actually they're visiting an orphanage. And that abduction is
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: part of a wave of indiscriminate kidnappings. It's become more brazen.
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: The country is suffering from political instability, civil unrest, lack
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: of quality healthcare, and severe poverty. So we are praying
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: for their safe return. The abductive group is made out
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: of five men, seven women, and five children. The kids
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: include an eight month old baby and kids aged three, six, thirteen,
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: and fifteen years old. The ages of the adults range
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: from eighteen to forty eight. All right, and that is
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: your front page news. All right, thank you, miss ye.
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: Now when we come back, who's joining us this morning?
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: Oh man. Mel Robbins international bestselling author. She had a
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: book called The Five Second Rules. Some of y'all own it,
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: I'm sure, And now she had a new book called
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: the High five habit. What she's that you can take
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: control of your life with one simple habit, and I
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: cannot wait for her to tell us what that habit is.
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: All right, we'll get into that when we come back,
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: so don't move. It's to Breakfast Club. Good morning. The
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• 27:23
  Speaker 1: mornings will never be the same morning. Everybody is DJ
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club.
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: We have a special guest in the building. Yes, indeed
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: we have author Mel Robbins. Welcome, Wow, thank you, a
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: motivational speaker and a host of others. Yes, a lot
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: of things. How are you doing this morning? And welcome
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: to the show. Well, I'm I'm super excited. We got
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: so much to talk about and I cannot wait to
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: just get into it all. Well, who is Mel Robbins?
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: For the folks that don't know, I'm somebody that's screwed
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: up a lot in life. Oh yeah, I tend to
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: come by wisdom the hard way, Okay, by either digging
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: a hole or falling into one and then needing a
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: ladder and having to build it myself. A kind of
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: people I like to listen to. I like to listen
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: to people who've actually had experiences that they can speak on,
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: whether those experiences a so called good or so called
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: back because I don't believe in either. I don't believe
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: life is a process. Yeah. I think life is like
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: the hardest and most incredible school you'll ever attend. Absolutely,
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: and everything is a lesson. And you know, I kind
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: of came into writing books and being a motivational speaker
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: because I have had so many struggles, just like everybody else. Like,
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: I don't think anybody gets to being an adult in
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: life and not experiencing some kind of trauma or abuse
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: or whatever. It's hot in here. We didn't pay to
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: a c build. I'm also fifty three. I could be
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: like everybody's mother, and so I'm having a lot, right. Yeah,
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: I don't know how old you think we are, but there, yeah,
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: you'd have been a very very young mother. My mom
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: was a very young mom too, but no. So I
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: have had a lifelong struggle with anxiety, which is one
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: of the reasons why I'm so excited to talk to
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: you guys. And I have these two books that became
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: instant best sellers because I just have this crazy knack
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: of taking really complicated stuff and coming up with really
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: almost simple, cheesy ways to explain things that are memorable
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: that anybody can use with any level of education or
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: no education at all, to attack issues like anxiety, depression, PTSD, procrastination.
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: And that's been my gift. Let's talk about the High
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: five habit. You know, take control of your life with
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: one simple what does that habit? Okay, so first I
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: gotta tell you, Okay, this is going to sound like
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: the stupidest thing you've ever heard. This is the most
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: powerful thing I have ever discovered in my entire life,
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: and it unpacked decades of research in psychology, in human behavior, inhabits.
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  Speaker 1: It's insane. Basically, you're going to stand in front of
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: the mirror every morning, right after you brush your teeth,
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: and I want you to do it after you brush
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: your teeth because we know, based on research, that your
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: brain learns new habits when you stack it with an
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: old habit. Now, I want to teach you, using science,
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: how to get all of the gunk out of your mind, body,
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: and spirit, spirit, and I'm talking generational here. Okay, So
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: as you stand in front of the mirror, you're going
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: to put your toothbrush down and you're gonna look in
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: the mirror. That's step one. Now, this is the hardest
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: part for most people. And I actually read the interview
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: that you said when you announced the Mental Wealth Alliance.
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: There was an article that you that was written about
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: you in Forbes, and there was a quote there that
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: I loved because this is what the high five habit
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: is all about. You were talking about the fact, you know,
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: about how the black community had been impacted by the pandemic,
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: and you said, I've never had more people call me,
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: FaceTime me or text me saying yo, bro, I'm ready
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: to talk to somebody. Everybody's sitting at home and having
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: to deal with themselves all the time, and there's a
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: lot of people who are just seeing themselves for the
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: first time, and they may not necessarily like what they see.
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: The fact of the matter is fifty percent or more
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: of men and women can't even look at themselves in
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: the mirror right because they do not like the person
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: that they see. And the reason why they don't like
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: themselves is so sad. They either like every morning in
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: the mirror, when you simply stand there and you look
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: at yourself in the mirror, you're not alone, and that's
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: not your reflection. I believe you're in that bathroom with
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: another human being, and that human being needs you. They
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: are trying their best. They have been trying so hard.
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: They are so sick and tired of being picked apart.
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: They're tired of your negativity. They are tired of yourself doubt.
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: They're tired of being beaten down by you. And the
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: reason why most people cannot even look at themselves in
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: the mirror is because if you're a human being, you
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: have a past that is filled with all kinds of crep.
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: There's not a human being that hasn't experienced some level
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: of trauma. I know in Grand Rapids, Michigan. I'm from Moskeegan, Michigan.
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: They just the officials, they're just actually said that racism
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: is the leading mental health crisis. Thankfully, people are starting
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: to talk about this. And so you've either experienced trauma
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: or abuse, or neglect or abandonment or and you drag
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: that into the bathroom every morning, and it stands between
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: you and the human being in the mirror. And there's
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: so many people that think that they are not worthy,
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: or that they are damaged or not lovable because of
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: what they've survived, or if you're a human, you've done
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: a lot of stuff that you regret. You've cheated, you've lied,
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: you've you've hurt other people, you've hurt yourself, you've squandered opportunity,
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: you've stolen stuff. I mean, everybody has stuff they've regret,
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: stuff that they would forgive all of us for. But
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: you stand in judgment of the human being in the mirror.
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: And so number one, you may find it super challenging
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: just to do the part where you look in the mirror.
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: But what I want you to do is I want
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: you to then raise your hand, as cheesy as it sounds,
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: I want you to high five the human being you see.
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: And what's incredible about this simple habit is that number one,
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: you have high five to other people your whole life. So, Charlemagne,
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: when you high five somebody, what does the gesture itself mean?
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: I'm greeting them, want them to be seen, want them
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: to feel seen, want them to know that I recognize them.
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: What are you thinking? When you high five me, I
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: recognize them, I respect them, I would a love for them. Yeah, yeah,
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: anderations on something. Yeah, to accomplicate. They've accomplice and you're
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: acknowledging that. Yeah. Now here's this. This is where the
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: high five habit gets bananas. Since you have been high
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: fiving and receiving high fives from tons of people your
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: whole life, your mind, body, and spirit is already programmed
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: with the messaging of a high five. There is neural
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: association with the physical trigger of doing this. So when
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: you go to high five yourself, no matter how weird
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: it feels or resistant you are to it, your brain
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: turns all that judgment off and it picks up the
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: neural association with a lifetime of high five and receiving
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: high fives. You have never once thought envy. I hate
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: you as you high five somebody. You've never once thought
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: you loser. I hope you lose. Today is gonna be too.
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: You've never ever ever done it unless you like you
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: got to be one of the most facus backstabbing people
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: in the world to do something, I don't even think
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: anybody can do it. Somebody. Yeah, Because here's the thing,
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: Like you literally eat. Like if you and I high
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: five right now, if we high five right now, right,
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: if we have five right now? Yes, like I said,
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: receive something, Yes, you have to just one. Your brain
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: doesn't know the difference between me high five envy or
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: angel or you or me high five myself. So that
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: that feeling that you just got, that's dopamine. Your brain
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: gives you a drip of dopamine every morning when you
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: high five yourself, that celebratory yeah, yeah, yeah, that's your
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: nervous system programming. Your nervous system remembers celebratory gestures of
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: waving hello, of hugging. There is so much freaking research
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: about the high five. So they studied NBA teams. Okay,
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: there's this huge article in the Wall Street Journal in
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: twenty eleven where they studied NBA teams and researchers were
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: able to predict who were going to be the best
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: performing teams at the end of the season by looking
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: at one habit during the preseason. And the habit they
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: studied was how many times did the team give each
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: other pats on the back or fist bomps or high
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: fives during the preseason. But oh, sure that works till
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: after that feels really good. And so what happens is
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: when you give somebody a high five, verus fist bomp
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: or a pat on the butt. These build trust and partnership,
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: and so the teams that do that the most in
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: the preseason go on to have the winning as seasons.
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: The teams that do it the least actually do the worst.
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: Because you've got a bunch of players that are in
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: it for themselves. We should do it more as a community, yes,
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: and you should do it. You should start by doing
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: it to yourself. I'll tell you why, because we are
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: all looking outside ourselves for the validation, love, respect, support
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: that we need and we need for ourselves for our children.
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: To teach ourselves to be able to stand in front
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: of the mirror and give that same validation, support, self
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: worth and love to ourselves. Because if you learn how
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: to like, respect, forgive support yourself. Yeah, it sucks when
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: somebody else doesn't like you, but it won't change the
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: fact that you like yourself. We have more with Mel
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: Robbins when we come back. Don't Move is to breakfast Club,
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy angela ye Shalma guy.
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club was still kicking it with
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: Mel Robbins, author, motivational speaker. How did you learn all
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: it is? How did you learn to give yourself a
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: high five? How do you learn to talk to yourself? Like?
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: You know, how did you get to that point your credit?
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: From what you said earlier, you've been through a lot, like, yes,
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: well everybody's everybody, So you know some people, I mean,
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: bankruptcy is a really difficult thing. Yes, and finances can
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: be crushing person. Yes, So I'll tell you the story
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: about what I call the five second rule and being
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: almost a million dollars in debt and about to lose
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: everything in two thousand and eight. But how I discovered
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: the high five habit was? You know, I used to
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: be a daytime syndicated talk show host, and I lost
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: that dream job on March tenth in twenty twenty, when
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: they found COVID at CBS Broadcast Center and they walked
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: in and said, shows over, you're fired. Five minutes to
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: evacuate the building. Wow. And so I find my self
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: back home just like everybody else. My whole life turned
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: upside down in an instant. The kids have their college
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: experience imploded. We're now all quarantining back at home. Every
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: single speech I have for a year cancels, and I
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: find myself in a free fall. And this is before
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: the PPP loans come out, and you know, we're all
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: in quarantines. Kids are in breakdown, anxieties coming back, and
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: I'm having flashbacks to two thousand and eight where my
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: husband and I were losing everything. And I wake up
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: one morning with a very familiar feeling. I'm just feeling
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: overwhelmed by my life and feeling the anxiety pinning me
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: down in that bed like a gravity blanket. And I
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: know not to lay in that bed. And I'll tell
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: you the story about the five second roll in a minute,
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: because you definitely want to know this when it comes
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: to mental health. So I count backwards five four, three
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: two one. I get out of bed, I drag myself
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: to the bathroom and I'm standing there in the bathroom
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: and I literally catch a glimpse of my reflection. I think,
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: oh my god, you look like hell. And then I
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: start picking apart the woman I see in the mirror.
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: The dark circles under my eye, one boob hanging lower
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: than the other. I start thinking about my day and
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: it's negative. You got eight minutes to get on zoom.
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: You know how you get you didn't return that call.
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: How are you going to get out of this? Met
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: the beat? Down? The beat? This is how most people
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: start their day. Yeah, even though you should have gave
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: yourself so much grace. Yeah no, nope, just that it's
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: a habit. Like That's what folks don't understand is that
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: you're not broken. You have patterns of thinking and patterns
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: of behavior that make you feel broken. And the good
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: news is if you understand it's a pattern, you can
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: catch it and break it. And so, I don't know
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: what came over me, envy, because I'm not a cheesy person,
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: and it sounds pathetic. You're standing there and you're underwearing
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: your bathroom, you know, And if you had walked into
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: the bathroom that morning, or you had walked into the
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: bathroom that morning, I would have been able to spin
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: on a dime and pick you up. I would have
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: been able to say, Angela, I know this is not fair,
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: but if anybody can handle this, it's you. I don't
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: if you'd have done that with random screen is just
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: walking in your bathroom. I don't think that would have
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: been your mind. Yeah, and so, uh, I don't know what. Okay,
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: I actually think it was divine intervention. I really do,
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: because I literally just raised my hand without even thinking
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: about it and high five the woman in the mirror
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: because she needed it. And I laughed the second my
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: hand hit the mirror because it's so cheesy, and I
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: felt like, all right, come on, you got a roof
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: over your head, it's not that bad. Get your ass
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: out there. Like that was kind of the mood it
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: was the second morning. The second morning is when it
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: hit me. You know, you know that feeling when you're
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: about to walk into a bar or cafe and you're
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: going to see somebody you really like, what do you
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: feel in that moment right before you're about to walk in? Excited?
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: But if that yeah, I felt that about the idea
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: of seeing myself. Wow, what just hit you? Um? I
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: guess gratitude, you know, like I always try to have
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: a mean Worthiness is a tricky thing, right, Yeah, but
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: I think the first step to worthiness is just having gratitude.
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: And you know, Bishop TDJS told me something one time.
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: You said, even if you don't feel like you're worthy,
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: God knows you're worthy. So waking up in the morning
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: and just know that I'm still here, still alive. God
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: has some type of plan for me. Yeah, and you
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: know you asked the question about, you know, the five
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: second rule. I should explain this really quickly because this
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: is what helped me actually interrupt all the patterns that
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: caused anxiety, stop taking medication, get control of my mindset,
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: and literally I have situational anxiety. I never have general
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: anxiety anymore ever, because I understand it now. So I
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: invented something called the five second rule in two thousand
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: and eight. And at the time, my husband had gone
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: into the restaurant business. He had a little pizza pizza
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: joint outside of Boston, Massachusetts, with his best friend, and
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: the first one did really, really well. So, like complete idiots,
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: we cashed out our entire life savings, the kid's college fund.
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: We took out a home equity line because that's free money, right.
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: What could possibly go wrong in the restaurant business, And
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: what went wrong is the second location was a total disaster,
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: and all of a sudden we found ourselves eight hundred
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: thousand dollars in debt, three kids under the age of ten,
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: credit cards maxed out. I lost my job, lean's hit
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: the house. I of course, faced these problems like a
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: high functioning adult, and that is by drinking myself into
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: the ground and screaming at my husband when you say that,
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: give me just a little anglio investments. Yeah. And so
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: I was waking up every morning pinned to bed with anxiety,
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: and I became a person I didn't recognize, like I
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: was drunk by five o'clock in the afternoon. I was
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: angry all the time. I would lie in bed in
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: the morning and stare at the ceiling, just pinned with anxiety.
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: I felt like the world's worst mom, the worst wife,
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: a huge fail. The kids were missing the bus every day.
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: So I invented this crazy thing in desperation. There is
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: a five second window that defines your whole life. It's
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: a moment of hesitation. Inside this window is the difference
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: between confidence and doubt, courage and fear, inspiration and procrastination.
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: If you can teach yourself to move within this five
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: second window, you win. And in this moment, this rock
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: bottom moment, God, I swear to God help me create
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: I get so like just when you guys hear what
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: has happened with the five second rule, and now the
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: high five habit. There's no other explanation for this. I remembered, mel,
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: you got to launch yourself out of bed, and then
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: I started thinking about doing it, and I started thinking,
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: what goods it going to do? I don't care, I
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: don't feel like it. It's dark, it's cold, I'm made
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: hundred grand in dead. How's this going to help? And
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: then I just started counting five four three two one,
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: and all of a sudden I stood up and I
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: used it the next morning five four three two one,
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: and the next morning and the next morning, and then
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: I started using at any moment. I knew what I
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: should do, but I didn't feel like doing it. I
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: counted backwards five four three two one. When you count
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: backwards five four three two one, it's what researchers call
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: a starting ritual. It interrupts all the habits stored in
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: your basil ganglia. Habit loops like procrastination, anxiety, worry, self doubt,
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: and the counting backwards five four three two one requires focus.
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: So as you start to focus on the counting five
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: four three two one, your prefrontal cortex engages on the counting.
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: This is the part of the brain that gives you
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: immediate control over what you think and do next. This
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: is the part of the brain that you're using when
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: you're doing any kind of strategic thinking, when you're learning
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: new behavior. This is the part of the brain that
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: helps you change. So when you count backwards five four, three,
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: two one, by the time you get to one, you've
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: got a moment where you can take control. This is
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: what actually led me into the business of writing books
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: and being a mode ovational speaker. It was literally not
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: something I set out to do, but I believe God
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: was like, this crazy lady is the one that's going
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: to get this out in the world. This amazingly normal lady.
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: That's true, but I meant like in a good way. Yes,
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: And so I first mentioned it in a TEDx talk
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: in twenty eleven. It's now got twenty eight million views.
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: That's what started the speaking career, and so many people
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: started writing about the five second rule. I, despite my dyslexia,
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: and ADHD wrote a book about it self published it.
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: It went on to sell two million copies, be translated
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: into thirty six languages and thank you. But here's the
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: most important part. The five second rule is now being
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: used by pediatricians around the world to help kids with anxiety.
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: It's being used by veterans organizations to help people program
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: triggers associated with PTSD. And we know of more than
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: one hundred and eleven people who have stopped themselves from
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: attempting suicide by counting backwards five four, three, two one
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: and asking for help. All right, well, no move. We
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: got more with Mel Robins when we come back is
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club? Good morning, good morning. Everybody is DJ
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: Envy Angela Yee. Chalomagne, the guy we are to Breakfast
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: Club was still kicking it with Mel Robbin's author motivational Speaking. No, Chalomie,
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: correct me if I'm wrong, But you think having a
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: comfort zone is problematic. I think that your comfort zone
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: is problematic if you stay in it because you're afraid
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: to grow. I think human beings are designed to grow
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: their entire life. Your cells regenerate every seven years. Your
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: brain's constantly changing. Heck, we just talked about how the
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: filter in your mind can change. And if you are
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: comfortable and not If you're comfortable and happy, fabulous, But
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: if you're comfortable and you're not satisfied or you're not
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: happy that's a problem. Yes. One thing I will say
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: that I related to is wanting something really bad is terrifying. Yes,
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: when you really really want something sometimes scary to even
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: just admit it. Well, one of the things that I
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: like to do. Everybody has a morning routine. Mine obviously
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: involves the five second rule five four three two one
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: get out of bed. I also don't look at my
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: phone for the first thirty minutes of the day because
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: us I well, I'll tell you why. You don't want
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: to do that, because how many like, let's take you
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: know how many people like let's say you've got I
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: don't know a million people on Facebook? Okay that follow you?
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: Would you want all of them to walk into your bedroom?
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: Do you want a strength? You know that's what you're
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: doing when you look at your phone. Oh, wake up,
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: and I pray because I have to make sure ideas
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: no changes in the schedule at work. I'm like, let
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: me just make sure I would not do that, and
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: let me tell you why, because you're putting all of
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: that before what matters to you. And so if you
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: were to literally try it tonight, take your phone and
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: plug it in in your bathroom or your closet, do
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: not even have it next to your bed. And if
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: you need to be reached in the middle of the night,
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: tell people to call you and not text you. Because
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: what's interesting about work and what's interesting about family is
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: people will text you all night long. They will not
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: call you unless it's an emergency. That way you're reachable.
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: Then when the alarm goes off, presumably it's on your phone,
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: you're now can't lay in bed. You gotta get up
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: to go to the phone to turn it off. So
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: you sort of set yourself up to have to get
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: out of bed and not lay there and think about
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: things and worry, which is where a lot of people
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: have anxiety. Cortisol levels are very high in the morning,
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: you turn off your phone, then put it face over
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: and walk away from it. Take the first thirty minutes
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: for you, your dreams. You you deserve thirty minutes, even
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: five minutes. I did it on a weekend. I don't
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: know about daring the week. But I also don't wake
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: up from my phone, like if anybody texts me or
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: it calls me, I will not wake up until my
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: alarm goes off in the morning or right before my
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: alarm goes up, so I never know it's something like
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: important happened. I just want you to try it. Give
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: me five minutes, five minutes yourself first before the world
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: comes out. I can't do that. I'll do five. So
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: what happens is is I wake up. First of all,
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: I don't need it along to wake up anymore. My
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: body wakes me up at four thirty eight m. But
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: you know what I do is I have five kids.
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: So my daughter who goes to n y U, I
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: make sure she texts me if she's arriving back at
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: her apartment or she's going somewhere. So that's the first
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: thing I check to make sure that she's safe. The
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: first thing poop, I text Dad, I made it back safe.
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: I do the same thing. Then I can go on
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: with my day. Then I can go take my shower,
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: I do my prayer, I kiss my wife, I go
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: kiss my kids. Then. But the first thing I have
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: to do, and this is I learned from my dad,
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: is the first thing I have to make sure my
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: family safe. That's the first thing I do, regardless check
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: that text. Then, So how do you go to sleext messages?
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: What do you mean? How do you go to sleep.
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: If she hadn't take me back, if I sent the
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: text of my daughter she wasn't in yet, it would
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: be hard for me to sleep. I wouldn't be able
• 49:47
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• 50:00
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• 50:03
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• 50:04
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• 50:07
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• 50:09
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• 50:11
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• 50:14
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• 50:17
  Speaker 1: That means I'm broadcasting from home. That means, you know what,
• 50:19
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• 50:22
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• 50:24
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• 50:28
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• 50:31
  Speaker 1: I give gratitude and I meditate, and that gives my family.
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: I don't talk to them to like five thirty, when
• 50:36
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• 50:40
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• 50:43
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• 50:47
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  Speaker 1: Let's get to the rules to still doctor Dre. It's
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: about this report Angela the breakfast club all right. Well,
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: A source with direct knowledge told TMZ that doctor Dre
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: was at a cemetery in La on Monday. He was
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: actually his grandmother passed away. He was laying her to
• 53:12
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• 53:17
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• 53:20
  Speaker 1: anger wouldn't take the documents in hand. The process server
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: then dropped the documents by the grave site and they said, uh,
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: they were dropped in the parking lot. Though, that's with mama,
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: because behind the scene said that. I thought you said
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: doctor j And in my mind I was like, well,
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: how old is doctor Jay's grandma? Oh boy, yeah, but
• 53:38
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• 53:39
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• 53:41
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• 53:42
  Speaker 1: It's not like you wanna catch him in there, so
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: I mean, the only place with it and that's sad
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: that a burial for his grandmother. I don't know business
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: I would be terrible having to do that. Yeah, I mean,
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: I'm not saying the person didn't feel terrible, but they
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: still got a job to do. She pays the service.
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: In the service, they do what they gotta do to
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: make sure that they get, you know, get those documents.
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: When he has to grab do he has to take
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: those documents. And if you don't take him in your hand.
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: You know what's so funny? It does baby think I
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: saw somebody getting served outside the building one day, Wax, Yes,
• 54:12
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• 54:18
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  Speaker 1: you need to pick those off the floor has your
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: personal information on him. You can't just leave him there
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: like that. Would you drop him at the grave site
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: if you was the person. No, because if you drop
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: it on the floor, then you're not served. Right. If
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: they touch your hands, you are. If they touch your hands, yes,
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: it's like the paperwork. If they give you the paperwork
• 54:37
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• 54:40
  Speaker 1: haven't been served at all. It's just a terrible feeling.
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: They have to go through that. But yeah, all right now,
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: little Yadi. Congratulations to him. According to sources, he is
• 54:50
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• 54:55
  Speaker 1: of weeks in New York City, so congratulating. Congrats to
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  Speaker 1: him all right now. According to more sources, Buster Rhymes,
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: five rappers turned down offers to battle him on versus
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: Crazy Legs from Rocksteady Crew wrote it on Instagram. He said,
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  Speaker 1: I had to let Buster Rhymes know that no one
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: is worthy enough to battle him. Then he told me
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: that five people already turned it down. Some things are
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: just what they are. He has the unfortunate pleasure of
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: being a god in the rap game. Shot out to
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: Swiz who could battle Buster Run? What I would say
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: is is Missy having both go back video. I was
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: thinking about this yesterday when I saw that story. Definitely
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: Missy would be dope, but they would have to play
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: videos and musicos and music. I think L would LLL
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: would be a good one too, would Buster them. I
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: wanted to see LLL and cares one, but Hello Cooj
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: versus Buster Romes would be damn good. What about Buster Rhymes?
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: What about versus Q tip No, I mean just catalog
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: like no let he got trip cold questions. Yeah, that's
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: two different Now that's and they all they from the
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: same family. So ray Kuon and ghost Face did it.
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah that's true, But now I don't not not cute
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: tip Buster. That's two totally different styles of music. Huh.
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: All right, I think Hello Hello and Buster would be
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: damn sure got enough callop. I gotta keep thinking about that.
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: I want to know who turned him down? Everybody? Five
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: people want to know who the five people are though
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: that he says turned them down? Well, you know t
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: I said, no, m all right. Now, Kanye has been
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: spotted out and about wearing these weird masks. I don't
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: know if you guys have seen it, but it's a
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: prosthetic mask, and so I don't know. I can't wait
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: to see what he's gonna do for Halloween. But I
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: guess that's just the way and people know it's him.
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: But I guess I don't know why he's trying to
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: make the mains popular too. I've seen the head cut.
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: What's that about? I don't know what that is, but
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: they said the masks from an old French movie villain
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: called phantomas Kanye does what he wants. Manta what that's
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: his name officially, he's changing name. Don't call him Kanye.
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: It's gonna be hard to do. Yay, all right, Yay
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: has also a broken a record he has because of
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: Little nas xis Industry Baby. He has produced five hot
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: one hundred number one hip hop songs, the most of
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: all hip hop producers. You know who's done four? Did
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: he so? Now because of Industry Baby he has five,
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: So congratulations to Yay Kanye. He didn't produce Industry Baby,
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: did he? Jetson made it. Produce the Industry Baby. Well,
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: according to this, Kanye has broken all kinds of records
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: and is his fifth. Maybe got production credit, maybe he's
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: sampled something. Jetson made it, made us all with Jack
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: Hallow and Little Knot that just one number one. I
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: mean Legga just says South Carolina's own Jetson made it. Well.
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: Sometimes people don't do things alone either, They collaborate and
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: produced together. You never heard about Kanye being on part
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: of that record ever. All right, well, it's on the
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: phone that's their Industry Baby is the first track YEA
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: he has produced to go number one since Stronger in
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: two thousand and seven, Get Drama on the phone. He
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: might have did the Drums Owner or something like that
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: co produced all right. Now, speaking of music, Kawhi Leonard
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: has shared a video for his Culture Jam project and
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: he was actually uh talking to n Ellie Choppa on FaceTime.
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: Here's what he said, was good and what's goody man
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: much in the studio over here, trying to be like
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: y'alls and something hurt. Nah No, thank you you know
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: what I mean? Thank you be a part of it
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: for real. That's funny. Well. Kawhi has revealed Culture Jam
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: Volume one will be released in two parts. The first
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: part is coming out this Friday, and there's appearances from
• 58:47
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• 58:52
  Speaker 1: Wile and Only, Choppa, Young Blue Gun, Apolo G and Moore.
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: And here is a snippet of a boogie. Uh oh no,
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: that's something all right. And then the next thing, since
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: we're talking about music, um, we have a snippet of
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: a song a boogie featuring Capella Gray and it is
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: called Bestie. It ain't on talking she wan my God,
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: Bob Baby don't want enough even though I got money
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: and the counter back and send. Then we spend it
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: on wagers to ask you. So that's a single from
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: that culture jam Value oneting the first single. What do
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: y'all think? Is that phone ring in it? Or is
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: that what you was? That? Your phone rings? Not a
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: phone ring, it's an alarm. No, I had no idea. Kanye,
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: what's did industry? Baby? Yeah? Still yeah? And his name
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: is Yeah. Whatever he did intry, I thought, I swear
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: I thought Jenson made it up every day? You really do? Like? Wow?
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: All right, and that is your room of report. Did
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: you look it up? Yeah? I'm looking at it now,
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: I'm looking at it. On titles with man Jason definitely
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: says Kanye. It says Kanye was producer. I had no idea.
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: He could have did drums. He could have They could
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: have sampled something from it. I know it says producer,
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: says Kanye weston take a Day Trip. Wow. Okay, it's
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: a dope record too. That'd beat its crazy? All right,
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: Well you give me your donkey too, man oh Man.
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: Four after the hour, we need to talk about home invaders. Okay,
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 1: this is a home invader that I don't want to say,
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: God lucky, but we'll talk about it four after the hour.
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: All right, we'll get into that next. It's the breakfast Club.
• 1:00:19
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• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: We were talking about a quick game behind the scenes,
• 1:01:06
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• 1:01:08
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• 1:01:12
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• 1:01:14
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• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: already spoiled it. That's right. Anyway, dark Here to Day
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  Speaker 1: for Wednesday, October twentieth goes to a forty three year
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: old man named Kevin William t Okay. Kevin is from
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: the Michigan area, and I swear in my old age,
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: I just be feeling sorry for people. I'm serious. I
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: used to come in here and just want to give
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: people to credit they deserve for being stupid. But when
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: I hear certain stories like this one of to Day,
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: I feel bad for Kevin because clearly, clearly something is wrong.
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 1: All right. We have to recognize when mentally someone is
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: not what they need to be. And I have empathy
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: for those people. I just do because I think something
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: that just out of their control. Some things are above them,
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 1: and I feel, I truly feel like this is one
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: of those situations. Now, was that said Kevin is a
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: home invader? Okay? If you wake up in the middle
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 1: of the night and a stranger is in your house,
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: does it matter what his or her mental or emotional
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: state is, they probably getting shot. Okay, well, at least
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: in my house. All right, now, I will send him
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: in his family healing energy after the fact. But hey,
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: that person made a choice to break it into him.
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: My house. I don't have time to figure out if
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: you know, if they're mentally unwell. Now, that has nothing
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: to do with the story I'm about to tell you,
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: Because Kevin broke into someone's house and he lived to
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: tell about it. In fact, he didn't just live to
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: tell about it. He lived to ask the police for help.
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: Uncle Shla, brother lend. What are you talking about? He
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: lived to ask the police for help after breaking into
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: someone's house. Well, let's go to news net for the report.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: Police a Michigan State Police trooper from the Cadillac Post
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: respondent to a breaking and entering complaint at a home
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: on west Ridge Drive in Williamsburg. The homeowner reported she
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: was watching television in the living room when she saw
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: a man enter the room. She originally thought it was
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: her husband, However, when she realized it wasn't, she screamed.
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: Her husband came downstairs and told the man to leave.
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: The troopers searched the area and located the suspect, forty
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: three year old Kevin william Tegue from Williamsburg, in the
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: backyard of his parents home nearby. When the trooper attempted
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: to speak with Tigue, he fled into the woods. Later
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: that evening, Tigue called nine one one to report he
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 1: was lost. When troopers arrived, Tigue flagged them down, and
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: he was taken into custody and lodged in the Grand
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: Traverse County Jail. Tigue was arraigned for one count breaking
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: and entering without permission and one count resisting and obstructing police.
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: He was given a one thousand dollars bond and his
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: next scheduled court appearances on October twenty sixth. There's a
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 1: phrase God watches over babies and fools babies. Maybe it's possible. Okay,
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: God is in a babysitter per se, but he will
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: give the mother to scrimp to hold it down. But
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: watches over and not watches. It's a difference, all right.
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: The fool's part. I don't know about that, because Kevin,
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: I don't know if that was God watching over him
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 1: or just the luck of the draw. Okay, it's great
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 1: Kevin didn't get shot in these people's house. But why
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: would God be involved in this? Why would God have
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 1: sent this fool all right to do the breaking into
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: someone's house and didn't have him run off into the
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: woods and get lost. And then this man felt like
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: he could just call the police because he was lost,
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: never mind the fact he just committed a whole crime,
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: never mind the fact he was in the woods hiding
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: because of a crime he just committed. I'm gonna call
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 1: the police and tell them I'm lost. You don't think
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 1: they're gonna have questions on why you just randomly in
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: the woods at this time of night. What you're gonna
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: tell them? You're camping? Huh, you're hunting, just taking a walk? Y'all?
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: Do realize narcissism is considered a mental disorder, correct, Because
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: there's no way you commit a crime and didn't think
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: you are able to call the police because you're lost
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: if you're not a narcissist. All right, I honestly, I
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: can't even continue this story until we play a game
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: of guess what. Raising Maybe this will give us a
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: better understanding of this situation. Okay, Kevin william T, forty
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: three years old, broken into someone's house, lived to tell
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: about it, fled into the woods, then had the audacity
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: the unmitigated gaul to call nine one one to report
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: that he was lost. ANGELA, Ye, yes, what race he is? Well,
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to say he is Caucasian. What makes
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: you say Caucasian? ANGELA, Well, you know, we don't call
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: nine one one like that, And then he probably said,
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: I didn't know you couldn't do that. In the words
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: of Dave Chappelle, all right, Kevin william T, forty three
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  Speaker 1: what's going on? Man? I gotta I got some small problems? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: all right, So I got a four year old daughter,
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  Speaker 1: I mean four my old daughters and baby. Three months ago, man,
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  Speaker 1: her father got into an altercation where in terms big
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  Speaker 1: and she caught the police one me and you know
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Now, I'm dealing with all the legal
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  Speaker 1: stuff going on the deck really but we ended up
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  Speaker 1: like getting back together making everything good. Well legally, I've
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: been coming different from a life every time the legal
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  Speaker 1: stuff come up and I think about causing our law.
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  Speaker 1: You go through all this over an argument that we
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  Speaker 1: got over maybe an hour or two later and everything
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  Speaker 1: and calmed out. So I just want to know life.
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  Speaker 1: Am I being stubborn by life? Not trying to work everything?
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  Speaker 1: Y'all wanted to get asking or what did I do?
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  Speaker 1: Because right now I'm just gonna cross old because I
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  Speaker 1: want to be at my daughter life. I just don't
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  Speaker 1: really know him. I want to be with her mother. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: Well a couple of things here. You said that the
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  Speaker 1: argument got physical, so and in all honesty, did you
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  Speaker 1: put your hands on her? I'll push them, Okay, So
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  Speaker 1: you understand that that's wrong, and I know that you're
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  Speaker 1: going through some legal things. It really does suck when
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  Speaker 1: when these situations turn physical, she put her hands on you,
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  Speaker 1: you put your hands on her. That has to be
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  Speaker 1: really difficult for her as well, right, And so the
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  Speaker 1: reason why you're going through the legal things that you're
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  Speaker 1: going through and you have to own up to it,
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  Speaker 1: is that you did put your hands on her. And
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  Speaker 1: so that's that's something that's not easy for her and
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  Speaker 1: I'm sure people who love her to have to deal
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  Speaker 1: with two. As a man, you want, you're a woman
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  Speaker 1: to feel protective and when things get physical, you have
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  Speaker 1: to try to do, you know, diffuse a situation and
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  Speaker 1: not do things like that. It sounds like you both
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  Speaker 1: need to get some professional help to be able to
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  Speaker 1: move forward because some people might say, you know, that
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  Speaker 1: happened and she shouldn't be with you anymore, and I'm
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: sure sometimes she thinks that to herself as well. Now,
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  Speaker 1: as far as whether or not you feel like you
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  Speaker 1: want to be with her, those are some things that
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: you know, you guys are fresh out of this trying
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: to work through things. You're still dealing with legal issues,
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  Speaker 1: but you got to take ownership of the reason that
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 1: you're dealing with It is your fault as well, right, Right,
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  Speaker 1: It does feel as wallowing. You know, I don't she
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  Speaker 1: called it and listen, and I know in our households
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  Speaker 1: the worst thing you can do to a man is
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  Speaker 1: called the cops on him, right, and then the system
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  Speaker 1: takes over. But she might really have felt threatened in
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  Speaker 1: that moment. Yeah, I mean, I understanding the moment. The
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  Speaker 1: moment could have been been. It's never been to theres
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  Speaker 1: a well, the police had to be called over that,
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  Speaker 1: even if I don't really feel like the police had
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  Speaker 1: to be involved, because like in a lot of states,
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  Speaker 1: It don't matter if y'all the made off kids to
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  Speaker 1: make all that state feel like they want to do
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  Speaker 1: something something about it, then I gotta do it. I
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  Speaker 1: gotta deal with that, even though we straight at home,
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  Speaker 1: you know, and as a woman, Cam, I have to
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  Speaker 1: say that she wasn't wrong for that. You really did
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  Speaker 1: put your hands on her. So unfortunately, you know, that
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 1: is the consequences of the actions that took place, and
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  Speaker 1: I'm hoping that this is something that will never happen again,
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  Speaker 1: and that you got whether or not you're together, can
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  Speaker 1: raise your daughter because you you know, you have a
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  Speaker 1: child whose four months old. You would hate to see
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  Speaker 1: something like that happened to your child as you have
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  Speaker 1: a girl, right yea, yeah, and you know you should
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  Speaker 1: be very protective of that and understand that as a woman,
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  Speaker 1: maybe she felt like at the moment, I'm scared, I
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  Speaker 1: gotta just call the cops because I want to make
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  Speaker 1: sure nothing happens to me, because you don't know what
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  Speaker 1: was going on in her head or what type of
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  Speaker 1: trauma she's suffering from. After that as well, it sounds
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  Speaker 1: like y'all both need to get some professional help to
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  Speaker 1: be able to first and foremost tie priority take care
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  Speaker 1: of your child together, and then for you to make
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  Speaker 1: sure that nothing like this happens again. And I'm sure
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  Speaker 1: that on her end there's work that she needs to
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  Speaker 1: do as well so that these arguments. Y'all, as a
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 1: couple or even as parents, you're not going to agree
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  Speaker 1: on everything, and you have to learn how to be
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  Speaker 1: able to disagree but in a productive manner. And as parents,
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  Speaker 1: y'all need to be able to figure out those two
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  Speaker 1: You have a four month old, so there's a long
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  Speaker 1: road ahead for the two of you to be able
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  Speaker 1: to at least at the minimum co parent well, so
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  Speaker 1: I think what would be great for you right now
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  Speaker 1: is to show that you are stepping up to the plate.
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  Speaker 1: You acknowledge the fact that you did something that felt
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  Speaker 1: threatening to her. You are now paying the consequences for that.
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  Speaker 1: You know that you'll never do that again, and take
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  Speaker 1: every step you can to make sure that it can
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  Speaker 1: be positive moving forward from a little better. Thank thank
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  Speaker 1: you so much. Hey, by the way, I love you more,
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  Speaker 1: ask ye morning. Everybody is dj Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomne
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  Speaker 1: the guy we are the breakfast club with in the
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  Speaker 1: middle of ask ye Hello, who's this? Hi? My name
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  Speaker 1: is Nora. Hey, Nora, Hi, I'm so excited. I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just super nervous, tous, like really wanted to talk
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  Speaker 1: to you guys for so long about this. Okay, now
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  Speaker 1: we're ready to We're listening, Nora, Okay. My question is
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 1: pertaining to a situation about my dad. Um my mom
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  Speaker 1: and dad. They have been married for forty years and
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 1: they're from a different country. However, of course they go
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  Speaker 1: and visit sometimes. My dad just recently visited their country
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  Speaker 1: and when he came back, he started acting pretty weird.
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  Speaker 1: He is an older man, so he always asked me
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  Speaker 1: to like help with things on his phone because he
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  Speaker 1: doesn't know how to do it that well. But then
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 1: now after he came back from his trip, he was
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 1: acting weirdlys and testing his phone. He was hovering over me.
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  Speaker 1: I just thought it was just old people, you know,
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 1: things that they do, so I was didn't think about it. However,
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: when I got alone with his soul and I went
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  Speaker 1: through his text messages, I saw that he was entertaining
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: and sending money to another female that he met in
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: this country during his trips. He now right, So I
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 1: instantly got upset by it, because not only are you
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  Speaker 1: cheating on my mom, but you're sending money to this
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  Speaker 1: woman that we don't even know. My mom she does
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  Speaker 1: have dementia. So I was even more upset by that
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  Speaker 1: because I wasn't sure if I should even like bring
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  Speaker 1: this up to my mom or if I should bring
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  Speaker 1: it up to him. But I didn't want to bring
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  Speaker 1: it up to him, and he gets mad at me
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  Speaker 1: for like going through his phone, being that I'm his
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  Speaker 1: child and not his wife. He's sixty by it. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: So you want to know what should you do? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Should I even say anything to my mom about this,
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  Speaker 1: you know? Or if I should just go ahead and
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  Speaker 1: keep it to myself, or should I bring it up
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  Speaker 1: to him. I don't even know what to do with
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 1: this situation, because you know they've been married. For you,
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  Speaker 1: I've never experienced this, my god, you know, I'm gonna
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 1: say a few things here, right, and everybody's situation is different.
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  Speaker 1: So from my point of view, you don't even know
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 1: what your parents' situation is with each other. A lot
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  Speaker 1: of times we're unaware right of things that may have
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  Speaker 1: happened in the past, understanding that they might have with
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  Speaker 1: each other. You don't know if this is something he's
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  Speaker 1: done before she ever, you don't know any of that, right,
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  Speaker 1: And so this is really just something right now that
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  Speaker 1: you need to deal with with him, because I'm never
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  Speaker 1: a fan of keeping things to myself, because I can
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  Speaker 1: imagine how that would make you feel about him. You
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 1: already have a feeling about you know, obviously your mom
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 1: is suffering from dementia. That's not easy. You feel like
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 1: he's betraying her and the family. And on top of that,
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: he's sending money to some woman that is most likely
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 1: just taking advantage of him and his generosity. But clearly
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 1: he's also yeah, and clearly he's also lonely, and it's
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  Speaker 1: not easy to have been with somebody as long as
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 1: your parents have been together to watch her suffer from dementia.
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  Speaker 1: We already know how hard that is on families, and
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 1: I'm sure for him, it's really difficult, but I would
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  Speaker 1: say that for both you and your father it's worth
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  Speaker 1: a conversation. It might be something that would benefit him
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  Speaker 1: as well. But you cannot keep that to yourself. And
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  Speaker 1: you guys have to have that whole conversation because there's
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  Speaker 1: things at play here that you may not even know about.
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  Speaker 1: You know, as far as the faculty that he's having,
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 1: as far as maybe things about your parents' relationship that
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  Speaker 1: you're not aware of. And like you said, your mama
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  Speaker 1: is suffering from dementia. I don't know that something like
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  Speaker 1: this would be beneficial for you to bring up to
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  Speaker 1: her at this point. But I think with your father,
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  Speaker 1: you definitely because you don't want to have these feelings
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  Speaker 1: of animosity toward him. It's something that you should talk
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 1: to him about, but go into it with an open mind,
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  Speaker 1: knowing that they might have things going on that you're
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 1: not even aware of, and he might have his own
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 1: struggles that he's dealing with and it's not going to
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 1: be an easy conversation for him to have. But you
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  Speaker 1: also don't want to say your father getting taken advantage
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 1: of right at the same time. All right, he is
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 1: too old to be acting this way, and I just
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: so as they if you know, end that he's with
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 1: someone for as he's been without some forty years. He
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 1: has you know, pity issues, and she took care of
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  Speaker 1: come through all of that, you know, regardless of her
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  Speaker 1: mental propowerty, our capabilities. I just felt like he owes
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 1: her a lot more loyalty. And the only reason why
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 1: I was fully upset about him sending money for her
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 1: was because my dad definitely asked me for money time
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  Speaker 1: and time again, and I'm the one that is actually
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 1: setting the bill about he is sending right, and you know,
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 1: for me moving forward, I wouldn't give him money, but
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 1: what he needs it for I would take care of.
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  Speaker 1: So if he's like I need to get this, okay,
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 1: no problem that I got it, I'll send it to you.
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna order it for you online. I'm gonna take
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 1: care of that bill for you, because you don't want
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 1: to be sending him money for him to be sending
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 1: to somebody else. And truthfully, if that was me, I
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 1: would text the girl and be like, this is his daughter,
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 1: you know, leave my dad alone and you're not gonna
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  Speaker 1: take it. Yeah, I would. I always that was just
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  Speaker 1: how I am. I would do that, but you should
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 1: definitely have that conversation just with your father, and it
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 1: wouldn't hurt for you guys to actually talk to someone together,
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 1: a professional that can help him work through his feelings
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  Speaker 1: and understand it, and for you as well, because I
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  Speaker 1: would hate for anything to happen to your here ends
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  Speaker 1: like they're older, and you don't want to have these
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 1: feelings of animosity, of regret of whatever you might feel resentment,
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  Speaker 1: you know, later on. So I would love to see
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  Speaker 1: you deal with that now, yeah, because I definitely do.
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  Speaker 1: I love and appreciate my dad. He has been there
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 1: for me since day one, who does anything for me,
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 1: and I is the last thing I would want is
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 1: to have any negativity forward him, you know, throwing his
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  Speaker 1: last few years that I may have with him. But
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 1: that really chocked me and it definitely didn't hurt me.
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  Speaker 1: And I don't like, I appreciate the advice to give
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  Speaker 1: because I honestly didn't know how to go about our approaches.
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  Speaker 1: All right, Nora, Well, I wish you so much luck
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 1: and were sending you so much love because I can't
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 1: even fathom what that's like. But it is complicated, thank
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 1: you ye, and thank you guys for answering my paul. Thanks,
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 1: good luck, thank you all right, ask ye eight hundred
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  Speaker 1: This is the Rumor Report with Angela Ye on the
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  Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. So Magic Johnson was on CBS News and
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  Speaker 1: one thing that he discussed was the vaccination controversy and
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  Speaker 1: whether NBA players should tell the public to get vaccinated.
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  Speaker 1: Here's what he said, Oh for sure. You know, that's
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  Speaker 1: why I got my two shots and made sure I
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  Speaker 1: put it out on social media. I wanted especially my
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  Speaker 1: community to know that first of all, is safe. And
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  Speaker 1: the players, again, people listen to them, they follow them.
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  Speaker 1: That's very important. Plus the last thing is this, you
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  Speaker 1: have said to your teammates, I'm gonna be there for you. Well,
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  Speaker 1: you can't be there if you don't get vaccinated. You're
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  Speaker 1: letting them down and then that hurts our chances of
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  Speaker 1: winning the championship. I would never do that to my teammates.
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  Speaker 1: What was the question again, now, whether or not NBA
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  Speaker 1: players should have the responsibility of telling the public to
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  Speaker 1: get vaccinated? Yeah, I say I believe players getting the
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  Speaker 1: vaccine is promotion enough. All those athletes who have huge
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  Speaker 1: endorsement deals won't even take pictures next to certain products
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  Speaker 1: because they know them being seen with those products are
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  Speaker 1: an endorsement. So what's the better endorsement than NBA players
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  Speaker 1: saying they have the vaccine? Like, why do they got
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  Speaker 1: to go out there and do commercials and everything else?
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  Speaker 1: Like ninety five percent of the NBA is vaccinated? Is
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  Speaker 1: that not enough? Yeah? I think it's ninety percent. Is
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  Speaker 1: that not enough to, you know, go out there and
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  Speaker 1: encourage people to get the vaccine? All right? Well yeah
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  Speaker 1: he was just asked about it, So that was his
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  Speaker 1: answer to that question. All right. Now. Snoop Dogg has
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  Speaker 1: and as a new algorithm LP and it has a
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  Speaker 1: new Mount Westmore single on their featuring ice Cube too
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  Speaker 1: Short any forty. Of course they're collectively known as Mount Westmore.
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  Speaker 1: So here is Big Subwaffer frames, Big Sub with a
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  Speaker 1: bouncing like a tramp for lane glass shake, going to
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  Speaker 1: roll past the same candy apple paint, dripping glass of
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  Speaker 1: green everybody eating. You can ask the team fast to me,
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  Speaker 1: Speaker's bumping, taxes clean, keep me something to smoke on,
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  Speaker 1: bad to poke hole base hitting like an earthquake, because
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  Speaker 1: hold on, I hit the block and roll home. All right?
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  Speaker 1: I heard that big sub with for that sounds good.
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  Speaker 1: Fifty today? Right? You said, what snoop is fifty today? Right? Oh?
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  Speaker 1: Is he? Okay? Number dropping? It's a lot of birthday
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  Speaker 1: today day is also NBA Young Boy's birthday. I think,
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  Speaker 1: how was it you today? Twenty two? Now? Yes, it
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  Speaker 1: was fifty today, Okay. I feel like is Vice President
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  Speaker 1: Harris's birthday? Yes, Kamala Harris's birthday. It's a big day,
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  Speaker 1: all right. Money bag Yo has also announced Against his
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  Speaker 1: Pain and reloaded seven new songs. There's gonna be some
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  Speaker 1: new songs on it and we'll be getting that this Friday.
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  Speaker 1: So some of the new songs. Dj Khalett another one
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  Speaker 1: Waukeisha remix featuring Little Wayne, Switches and Drake speak to
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  Speaker 1: You a Little Dirk EStG and Pooh chicsty So make
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  Speaker 1: sure y'all check that out. I know you went to
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  Speaker 1: It's asap Ferg's birthday too. Shout the Ferg. It's a
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  Speaker 1: lot of birthdays happening movies all right. Now. Netflix is
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  Speaker 1: Ted Serrandos, he is the co CEO, is speaking out.
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  Speaker 1: He had gotten criticism for the Dave Chappelle comedy special
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  Speaker 1: The Closer, and he made a lot of comments about it.
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  Speaker 1: But he does say that he screwed up and the
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  Speaker 1: handling of employee concerns, and he's not taking down the special,
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  Speaker 1: but he does say that he should have basically said
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  Speaker 1: that he was sorry for people's feeling pain and hurt
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  Speaker 1: from a decision that they made, instead of kind of
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  Speaker 1: dismissing that. And so he said, storytelling has a real
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  Speaker 1: impact in the real world. I reiterate that because it's that,
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  Speaker 1: because it's why I work. Here's why we do what
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  Speaker 1: we do. That impact can be hugely positive and it
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  Speaker 1: can be quite negative. So I would have been better
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  Speaker 1: in that communication. They were joining a conversation already in
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  Speaker 1: progress but out of context. But that happens. Internal emails
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  Speaker 1: go out in all my communications, I should lean into
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  Speaker 1: the humanity upfront and not make a blanket statement that
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  Speaker 1: could land very differently than it was intended. So he
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  Speaker 1: said he made some blanket and matter of fact statements
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  Speaker 1: that are not all accurate, and he said that it
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  Speaker 1: was uncharacteristic for him. He was moving fast and trying
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  Speaker 1: to answer really specific questions, but there were a group
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  Speaker 1: of employees who were definitely feeling pain and hurt, and
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  Speaker 1: he should have led with a lot more humanity. Nothing
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  Speaker 1: wrong with that. I don't want to know what content
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  Speaker 1: are you going to create that everyone is going to
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  Speaker 1: agree with, though, Like it doesn't matter what it is comedy,
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  Speaker 1: news radio, someone is going to be the topic of
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  Speaker 1: said discussion. Or even when you're presenting a certain you know,
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  Speaker 1: lifestyle or something somebody's not going to agree with. It
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  Speaker 1: doesn't matter what it is, right, And I guess when
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  Speaker 1: you have employees who have concerns, you just lead with
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  Speaker 1: humanity and understanding of that, because he does. He is
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  Speaker 1: aware that everybody's not going to like everything, and so
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  Speaker 1: you can't make blanket statements. You just kind of have
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  Speaker 1: to lean into that humanity. I hear people who complain
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  Speaker 1: about poles, I hear people who complain about sisters. I
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  Speaker 1: hear people who complain about spells, specials, like everybody's gonna
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  Speaker 1: always have something to say. Some people even complain about
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  Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club, believe it or not. Really, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: that's not true. Nobody ever complaint about the Breakfast Club
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  Speaker 1: and eleven years we've never had no complaints. Stop. But
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  Speaker 1: we lean into humanity. And Charlomagne was on Stephen Colbert
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  Speaker 1: last night, and well know, I meant to say, Lenard
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  Speaker 1: mckelby was on. I go to my therapist a lot,
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  Speaker 1: and I talk to her about getting caught up in
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  Speaker 1: the charcterature of yourself. And it's like for me, you know,
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  Speaker 1: the name Lenard Mantelby grounds me because when I hear it,
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  Speaker 1: I hear my grandma, I hear my mom, I hear
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  Speaker 1: my wife. Like nobody calls me Charlotmagne at the house,
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  Speaker 1: you know me? And I remember we had Will Smith
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  Speaker 1: on the Breakfast Club like last year. He said, you know,
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  Speaker 1: he had read in my book and he was talking
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  Speaker 1: to me and he was like, I'm seeing the real
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  Speaker 1: you poke out and he was like, I just want
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  Speaker 1: you to know that you don't have to wear the
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  Speaker 1: mask anymore. You are enough. And I was like, are
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  Speaker 1: you tapping my phone. It's my therapist giving you notes
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  Speaker 1: on me, like how do you know that? So I
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  Speaker 1: just felt like that was God talking through him in
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  Speaker 1: that moment to let me know, you know what, You're
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  Speaker 1: on the right path. You don't need to wear to
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  Speaker 1: mask him. We don't have to be the character of
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  Speaker 1: Charlotta Magne. You can be Leonard. Leonard is enough, that's right,
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  Speaker 1: dropping a clues bombs for Will Smith, that's right, drop
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  Speaker 1: a bond first. Charlotta ain't poking out. Leonard is poking out.
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  Speaker 1: Also for legacy. Also for legacy, because I got four
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  Speaker 1: daughters and I want all of them to keep our
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  Speaker 1: last name. When you know, they get older, if they
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  Speaker 1: get married, you know, do the hyphen thing, but keep
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  Speaker 1: the mckelvy, keep the legacy going. I'm not out here
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  Speaker 1: breaking these generational curses for nothing. All right, Well that
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  Speaker 1: is your reports. Proud of you, bro, and I do
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  Speaker 1: see tomorrow. Everybody else is Rashawn Casey. Poking through is
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  Speaker 1: actually sounds very mature. Stop, you're married man who is
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  Speaker 1: flirting with you just like you want to poke coming through?
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  Speaker 1: Slash Breakfast Club First Club. Your morning's will never you
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  Speaker 1: the say boy. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela, Ye, Charlomagne
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  Speaker 1: the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Now, Charlotte, I've
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  Speaker 1: been watching you a lot. Bro bro bro Bro' married
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  Speaker 1: knock it Off. I was about to say I've been
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  Speaker 1: watching you on TikTok. You haven't because I'm not on TikTok.
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  Speaker 1: Yes you are. That's a damn lot. How am I
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  Speaker 1: on TikTok? For one, we have our breakfast club, TikTok
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  Speaker 1: got you blowing off. We got people taking out clips
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  Speaker 1: and making their old clips about them. So people are
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  Speaker 1: taking our clips and putting their own like spin on it. Exactly.
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  Speaker 1: You also got other shows talking about you. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: you're not even on here, and I think you've got
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  Speaker 1: like thirty eight million views. That's not true. Yeah, it's true.
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  Speaker 1: Brilliant idiots. You're doing all types of wild things. You
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  Speaker 1: gotta go check it out. Are they talking about my
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  Speaker 1: talk show on Comedy Central every Friday night called The
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  Speaker 1: Guys on the Truth? No, they're talking about you blowing Well,
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  Speaker 1: you got my attention, all right, salute to everybody who's
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  Speaker 1: been showing me love on TikTok. You have excellent taste.
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  Speaker 1: And for all of you that's planning on posting content
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  Speaker 1: on me, please get my name rights. Charlomagne the God,
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  Speaker 1: not Mars chestnut O, chast me bro. Nobody's making a mistake. Well,
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  Speaker 1: you say, TikTok is where the conversation is in the
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  Speaker 1: place to catch great content. That's right. You don't even
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  Speaker 1: have to post, just joined to watch and then you
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  Speaker 1: can post if you want. All right, TikTok. You have
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  Speaker 1: to see it. Yes, that shell hoarding everybody as DJ Envy,
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  Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy we are the breakfast club. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: you have to show out to Mel Robins for joining
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  Speaker 1: us this morning and had a great Mel Robbins man
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  Speaker 1: go get her new book, The High Five Habit. Take
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  Speaker 1: control of your life with one simple habit. I do
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  Speaker 1: the mirror technique, though I've been doing. I don't high
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  Speaker 1: five myself. I just I'm on some like DJ Kallis
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  Speaker 1: stuff like you know you are great, you are special.
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  Speaker 1: You know what I mean. I tell myself I forgive
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  Speaker 1: you you know, Mike, Yeah you do. I do. I
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  Speaker 1: give affirmation to myself in the mirror. I've never done
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  Speaker 1: the high five thing, but that makes a lot to
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  Speaker 1: try it. I am. I did that. I don't look
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  Speaker 1: at my phone now for five minutes in the morning,
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  Speaker 1: I don't look at it for an hour. I've been
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  Speaker 1: doing that. Brush my teeth, then I look, she was
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  Speaker 1: just here yesterday. I did that. I did that the
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  Speaker 1: other day, and then I look at my phone. Charlomagne
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  Speaker 1: hits me, I'm not coming to work. See if I
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  Speaker 1: had knewn that thirty minute beforehand, I wouldn't quit to work.
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  Speaker 1: Even that's right, that means that now, doesn't that mean?
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  Speaker 1: Show the main looked at his phone? No, I was up?
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  Speaker 1: How did you send the text? Twenty? I get up
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  Speaker 1: four twenty every morning. I don't. I don't touch my phone.
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  Speaker 1: Mor No, I get up at four twenty. I pray,
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  Speaker 1: take a shower, I meditate, I read out of my
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  Speaker 1: daily affirmation books, kiss my family, and then I'm out.
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  Speaker 1: And I literally do not look at my phone TOI
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  Speaker 1: like five thirty six o'clock. I tried. Didn't I even
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  Speaker 1: know that you wasn't coming in until I already got here? See,
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  Speaker 1: I should should have checked my phone earlier. M all right.
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  Speaker 1: got the positive notice to Breakfast Club. Good morning morning.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee. Charlomagne the guy. We
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  Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club. Now, Charlomagne, you got a positive note.
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  Speaker 1: I do have a positive note, man, And I want
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  Speaker 1: to quote Mel Robbins because I think that Mel Robbins
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  Speaker 1: is dope and she says a lot of great things,
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  Speaker 1: so I'm gonna quote her. I really don't even know
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  Speaker 1: what quote I don't want to go with from Mel Robbins,
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  Speaker 1: but I do enjoy this one a lot. There is
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  Speaker 1: only one you, and there will never be another one.
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  Speaker 1: That's your power, and I give you one more. Knowing
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  Speaker 1: what you need to do to improve your life takes wisdom,
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  Speaker 1: pushing yourself to do it takes courage. Mel Robbins, Breakfast Club,
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  Speaker 1: you don't finish a y'all dumb