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Larsa Pippen of RHOM · Untraditionally Lala

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Speaker 1: Hello, my love, it's me.
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Speaker 2: I've been wandering.
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Speaker 1: Oh general, it's just gonna I won't torture you guys.
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Speaker 1: I won't torture you guys. But today is gonna be
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Speaker 1: so flipped Jess, because I have we have Larza motherfucking
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Speaker 1: Pippin on the podcast.
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Speaker 3: That is exciting.
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Speaker 1: It's so exciting I die. Like most people know Larza
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Speaker 1: Pippen as like Kim K's best friend, blah blah blah blah.
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Speaker 1: Me like I knew Larsa Pippen because I'm obviously obsessed
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Speaker 1: with housewives and she's like a throw back housewife, right,
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Speaker 1: So I wasn't. I was familiar with her due to that.
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Speaker 1: And obviously she's fucking Larsa Pippen, so obviously you know
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Speaker 1: that name like everybody does. When she, like it was
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Speaker 1: announced Miami's coming back. We're giving the people what they want.
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Speaker 1: Larsa Pippen is back on Real Housewives of Miami. I
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Speaker 1: was freaking out. Really, yes, I just I find her
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Speaker 1: to be very like she's one of those people where
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Speaker 1: you want to know everything and she gives you just
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Speaker 1: enough to like want to know more, like give me more.
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Speaker 1: And now she's on Real Housewives, and Real Housewives is
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Speaker 1: all about like giving us exactly who these people are.
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Speaker 1: You know, it's about their lives.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I started watching Real Housewives of Miami because of
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Speaker 2: how much you were talking it up. Because I just
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Speaker 2: watched clips because I feel like I'm really busy and
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Speaker 2: like I catch up on stuff on the weekends. I don't,
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Speaker 2: but you are talking up Miami. It was you right, yes, yes,
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Speaker 2: And I'm obsessed, and so I started watching and I'm obsessed.
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Speaker 1: It's so good. I really think that the ladies had
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Speaker 1: a phenomenal season. And I say this all the time,
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Speaker 1: like I'm obviously a part of a reality show. I
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Speaker 1: know the drill. These are These are real friendships. These
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Speaker 1: are people who really hang out. It's really their life story.
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Speaker 1: And I watch it from two different perspectives, one being
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Speaker 1: because I've been in these situations where you have your confrontations,
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Speaker 1: but you also have like really beautiful moments with these
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Speaker 1: ladies and men when it comes to my show. But
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Speaker 1: I also view it from like an entertainment standpoint, like
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Speaker 1: as strictly a viewer. So when certain things happen, like
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Speaker 1: I'll sit there and talk to my mom while we watch,
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Speaker 1: like oh, that girl's a bitch. I would have never
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Speaker 1: done that. But I have like so much respect for
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Speaker 1: like the quote unquote, I sound like said an idiot. Now,
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Speaker 1: the art of making a reality TV show, Yes, because
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Speaker 1: it is not easy. And if everybody like when when
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Speaker 1: I hear people say like, oh, she's just a reality
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Speaker 1: TV star, it's like, okay, well I want you to
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Speaker 1: be interesting enough to have a camera crew follow you
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Speaker 1: in your life.
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Speaker 2: Well it shows yes, No, that's and look at all
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Speaker 2: the reality shows that have failed.
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Speaker 3: That's just a thing.
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Speaker 2: That's just like reality is so many good ones where
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Speaker 2: you're like, this is it. This is the perfect ingredient
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Speaker 2: for an amazing reality show, and then two seasons later
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Speaker 2: it's canceled.
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Speaker 3: Right, So no, you have to have respect for that.
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Speaker 3: For sure.
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Speaker 1: I have mad respect for anybody who is on a
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Speaker 1: reality TV show, and mad respect for a successful reality
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Speaker 1: TV show, which I think everything Andy Cohen touches turns
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Speaker 1: to gold. But we have to give credit where credit
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Speaker 1: is due, Like the Women of OC Jersey, Miami, like
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Speaker 1: doesn't matter you. We're talking about seasons that have been
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Speaker 1: going on for years and Miami people loved it so
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Speaker 1: much that when Andy was trying to figure out, like
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Speaker 1: where do we go next? It was like, well, why
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Speaker 1: don't we listen to the people, and the people are
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Speaker 1: telling us they want Miami. They've been wanting Miami, right, Yes,
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Speaker 1: so they killed it. I believe the last the last
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Speaker 1: episode of the season aired maybe a week or two ago.
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Speaker 1: It was a two part reunion fantastic. Larsa was a savage.
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Speaker 1: There's going to be a little part that I talked
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Speaker 1: to her about in this podcast about I think you
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Speaker 1: say her name. Adrianna brings up Kanye West and his
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Speaker 1: private parts and Larsa Goho's toes, and I have to
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Speaker 1: give her mad respect because I love a lo bitch
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Speaker 1: and she is that. So I don't want to make
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Speaker 1: her feel uncomfortable by bringing it up in a way
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Speaker 1: that is like too out there. So when I'm talking
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Speaker 1: to her and we're it may be a little bit cryptic.
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Speaker 1: Just know for my listeners we're talking about that moment. Okay, okay, yeah,
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Speaker 1: makes sense. Yeah, because I want to show respect. And again,
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Speaker 1: like this podcast is very different from going out and
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Speaker 1: filming a reality TV show. All of my guests that
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Speaker 1: I have on, like I tell them before we even
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Speaker 1: start if you say something and you get a little
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Speaker 1: too comfortable, because I've been there where I feel like
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Speaker 1: we're doing a podcast and I open up to whoever
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Speaker 1: I'm talking to and you're like, oh shit, this podcast
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Speaker 1: is not to out anybody. I'm not trying to have
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Speaker 1: people click on my episode because I've spilled some mad tea.
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Speaker 1: I want people to come on here, feel comfortable, share
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Speaker 1: what they feel comfortable sharing, and if they get a
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Speaker 1: little too comfortable and overshare, I tell them I will
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Speaker 1: remove it. Yeah, I'm not I'm not here to throw
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Speaker 1: anybody off, right. Yeah, So I tried to be respectful
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Speaker 1: and I did tell her if this makes you uncomfortable,
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Speaker 1: like I will take it out. So there's that. How
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Speaker 1: has your week been, Jess? Are you feeling good? There's
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Speaker 1: a sickness going around that everybody has.
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Speaker 2: Like a little it's a stomach bug. It seems to
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Speaker 2: be going at least going around La. I know a
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Speaker 2: lot of people.
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Speaker 3: Who have it. I'm feeling fine.
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Speaker 2: I felt like, uh oh, I might get it over
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Speaker 2: the weekend, and I think I just like chilled out,
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Speaker 2: drink a lot of water, didn't really do much, do much,
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Speaker 2: and I felt fine. I went and saw Batman. It's
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Speaker 2: is it Batman or the Batman? I don't like calling
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Speaker 2: it the ball like it feels like I'm saying like
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Speaker 2: the Netflix or like you know, like the Instagram.
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Speaker 3: It's like what moms and dad say. But I went
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Speaker 3: and saw The Batman. It was really good. Robert Pattinson's
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Speaker 3: in it.
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Speaker 1: Okay, So how funny is that I went to a
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Speaker 1: party a while ago and Robert Pattinson was there, right, Okay,
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Speaker 1: you were at that party, right, yeah?
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Speaker 3: You and I didn't see him.
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Speaker 1: Okay. So I'm sitting there though, and I like, know
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Speaker 1: who Robert Pattinson is, right, only from Twilight. Only from Twilight. Okay,
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Speaker 1: I couldn't tell you another movie that he's in, which
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Speaker 1: Twilight I didn't even see anyway, he's a household name.
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Speaker 1: But I'm sitting next to my friend and he's like,
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Speaker 1: how crazy is this? Like isn't this an amazing birthday?
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Speaker 1: Like Batman's here? And I was like, Batman's here where
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Speaker 1: he was like right in front of you. I was like,
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Speaker 1: that's Robert Pattinson. He goes, yeah, he's the new Batman.
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Speaker 3: I was like, oh a lot, Like you didn't know.
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Speaker 1: No, I live in I'm a ninety year old okay,
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Speaker 1: Like even Stassy will fill me in on things, like
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Speaker 1: I'll tell her I'll be like, oh my gosh, did
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Speaker 1: you hear about this? She's like that happened like four
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Speaker 1: weeks ago, la la, And I'm like just finding out
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Speaker 1: that's hilarious.
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Speaker 2: He this is the first time I've ever said it,
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Speaker 2: because I'll I mean, I'll admit it. I I'm like, oh,
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Speaker 2: Robert Pattinson's not my type.
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Speaker 3: And then I saw The Batman and I'm like, I
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Speaker 3: get it.
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Speaker 2: Really, Yeah, he's got this like darkness about him in
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Speaker 2: the New Batman. No spoilers, but it's definitely more like
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Speaker 2: realistic and darker than the other ones I've seen, or at
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Speaker 2: least so I so I think.
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Speaker 3: And he is like I was like, I was sitting
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Speaker 3: next to Kyle and I was like, whoa, Okay.
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Speaker 2: When I saw like a real he kind of it
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Speaker 2: was like a slow reveal and then you see his
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Speaker 2: face and it's just like, oh, yeah, you you should
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Speaker 2: watch it.
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Speaker 1: Okay.
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Speaker 2: Have you ever seen any of the other Batman's or no,
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Speaker 2: you're not a Batman? Yeah, no, I've seen friends.
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Speaker 3: Close.
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Speaker 1: I actually started watching a lot of like dabbling into
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Speaker 1: new shows. Like right now, I'm watching the first season
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Speaker 1: of Succession on HBO Max. What do you think it's fantastic?
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Speaker 1: I watched the first season. I think it was like
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Speaker 1: when it first came out, which was pre pandemic or
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Speaker 1: during So the second season was delayed a long time
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Speaker 1: due to COVID, So I'm rewatching that. It's incredible. But
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Speaker 1: I'm just trying to like venture out of my day
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Speaker 1: to day friends in real house.
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Speaker 2: So that addition, it's like the comfort, like when you
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Speaker 2: don't want to think about it, you probably go to
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Speaker 2: friends or will, but I love that.
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Speaker 1: Yeah for you, Yeah, good for you.
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Speaker 3: How is your weekend?
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Speaker 1: Hell us? My weekend was good.
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Speaker 3: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: I was talking to this new guy.
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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, what have not? Literally first time hearing about it?
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Speaker 3: Give me the tea.
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Speaker 1: So the first the first time we start talking, we
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Speaker 1: he's like, I would love to link up with you
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Speaker 1: at some point and I was like, great, me too.
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Speaker 1: I fall asleep because it's like late for me at least,
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Speaker 1: it's like eleven o'clock at night, So I go to bed,
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Speaker 1: I wake up and I have a text that came
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Speaker 1: in at like eleven thirty. He's like I was thinking
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Speaker 1: of coming over right now, and I was like, bro,
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Speaker 1: you got me real twisted.
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Speaker 3: Wait have you met him yet?
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Speaker 1: I haven't met him yet? Oh wow, No, we know bold.
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Speaker 1: This is twenty twenty two. People don't meet in person
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Speaker 1: anymore apparently.
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Speaker 3: So wait, all on, So what did you think about that?
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Speaker 1: Well? I thought it was weird. And then I was like,
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Speaker 1: how old are you? And he tells me how old
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Speaker 1: he is. He's young, and I was like, okay, makes sense.
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Speaker 1: We're gonna let that slide. Okay, So then he asks
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Speaker 1: if I want to meet up another day. That doesn't
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Speaker 1: work out because of me. I just wasn't feeling a hundred.
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Speaker 1: Then the next day he's like, are we still good
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Speaker 1: for tonight? Said yes, perfect, this is where I'm going. No,
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Speaker 1: he asks where I'm going okay, okay, wants to link up?
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Speaker 1: I tell him. He then responds, I'm not feeling like
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Speaker 1: going out tonight. Maybe another night, but I'll be up
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Speaker 1: when you're finished if you want to come by.
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Speaker 3: Like hit me up.
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Speaker 1: After I said, lol, you're crazy, have a great night.
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Speaker 1: You delete the contact. Yes, I'm a thirty one year
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Speaker 1: old woman, right, I have no interest, no time in
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Speaker 1: coming to your apartment to bang it out. And here's
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Speaker 1: where I'm at, Jess. Yes, he's young.
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Speaker 2: Whatever, go go do your thing. Wait how young are
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Speaker 2: we talking? Are you allowed to say? Because this matters.
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Speaker 1: He's like mid twenties Okay, Okay, yeah, which is young
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Speaker 1: for men most men.
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Speaker 3: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: And I was just like, I'm like, I'm not looking
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Speaker 1: for anything serious at all, like at this stage of
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Speaker 1: my life. I and I was transparent with him, like
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Speaker 1: before this happened, Like during one of our conversations, I
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Speaker 1: have nothing to offer you. I don't looking for good company,
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Speaker 1: and like that was great, Like we had great conversation. Whatever,
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Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not in a hope phase anymore. Okay,
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Speaker 1: I've been been there, I've done that. I don't judge
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Speaker 1: anyone who is in their home phase or their male
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Speaker 1: ho phase whatever it may be, Like, go do you.
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Speaker 1: But if you're looking at me to like participate in
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Speaker 1: that phase, I'm not in it, Okay, not in it
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Speaker 1: at all.
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Speaker 3: Okay.
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Speaker 1: And I look at sex differently for me at this
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Speaker 1: stage of my life and what I've been through. I've
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Speaker 1: told you, Jess, sex number one. I'm gonna have to
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Speaker 1: do a lot of work on this sex is tainted
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Speaker 1: for me. It's dirty, it's gross, it represents something that
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Speaker 1: that that it shouldn't represent. But because I'm just dealing
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Speaker 1: with a lot of emotions, sex just it freaks me out.
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Speaker 1: I don't want any part of it, and I'm gonna
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Speaker 1: have to probably go and have therapy to like reconnect
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Speaker 1: with like the me of sex. And also at this
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Speaker 1: stage in my life as a thirty one year old
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Speaker 1: woman building something amazing when it comes to my business
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Speaker 1: being a mother to my daughter. I am not going
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Speaker 1: to exchange all of twelve text messages to you and
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Speaker 1: then allow you to do the most intimate thing you
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Speaker 1: can possibly.
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Speaker 3: Do with me, right, Okay, it makes sense.
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Speaker 1: No, No, I don't know you. You're not gonna see me
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Speaker 1: naked in my most vulnerable state. You don't get that
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Speaker 1: from me.
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Speaker 2: It's also dangerous if you I'm like, that's like to
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Speaker 2: you know, it doesn't matter, But I'm gonna play Devil's
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Speaker 2: advocate for a second, play it.
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Speaker 1: Okay, So.
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Speaker 2: First things first, do you think somehow things can get misconstrued?
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Speaker 2: If you say because you are, that's like huge credit
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Speaker 2: to you. You're so upfront, Like I've seen it with
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Speaker 2: people I've seen it, I've heard it, You've told me
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Speaker 2: about it. Do you think things could get miss construed
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Speaker 2: if you say, hey, I'm not looking for a relationship
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Speaker 2: number one, Yes, then that's kind of like, oh sweet, Okay,
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Speaker 2: I know what she You know, maybe.
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Speaker 1: One hundred percent because I went through that in my mind.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, because to me, that's like the next step, Oh cool,
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Speaker 2: she's just looking to have fun here I am.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just looking to parade you around like eye candy, right, okay,
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Speaker 1: one hundred percent.
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Speaker 3: And I get it.
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Speaker 2: But I'm thinking from someone who doesn't maybe doesn't fully
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Speaker 2: know you.
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Speaker 3: You say, well, they don't.
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Speaker 1: By the way, the people that I the men i'm
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Speaker 1: talking to number one, they ain't watching Bravo, right, Okay,
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Speaker 1: they have no idea who I am. If they google,
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Speaker 1: they may see the tiniest little grain of sand of
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Speaker 1: what has gone on in my world. But even men
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Speaker 1: that I've been talking to for a few months now,
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Speaker 1: I don't tell them at what place I am in
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Speaker 1: my life. I don't tell them what I've been through
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Speaker 1: where I'm at like, I keep it surface level because
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Speaker 1: because I have nothing to offer, what's the point of
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Speaker 1: me filling you in on my life story if I
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Speaker 1: know this isn't going anywhere.
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Speaker 2: And is it because you don't want a relationship or
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Speaker 2: is it like because you keep saying you have nothing
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Speaker 2: to offer? In my mind's like, well, you have so
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Speaker 2: much to offer, but what do you mean by that?
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Speaker 1: I mean I have nothing to offer a man, Okay,
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Speaker 1: I am so deep into everything else in my life
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Speaker 1: that I have nothing else to give someone else.
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Speaker 2: Okay.
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Speaker 1: I have enough to put into my existing friendships, into
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Speaker 1: my family, into my business. I don't have any other
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Speaker 1: energy to give right now, a man, right now, I.
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Speaker 3: Love positivity like that's just your life.
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Speaker 1: I don't have it.
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Speaker 4: Okay.
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Speaker 1: If I have extra to give, it ain't going to you.
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Speaker 1: Rights to the people who exist in my life right now? Yeah,
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Speaker 1: I mean my daughter?
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Speaker 2: Yeah okay, So then next Devil's Advocate. Do you think
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Speaker 2: and this is probably just my Lily Lily Man Hi,
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Speaker 2: Lily and Gigi iconic. She's looking gorgeous, she is iconic.
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Speaker 2: Do you think and this is me probably being naive
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Speaker 2: and listeners are gonna be like, oh my god, but
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Speaker 2: this is just how I was.
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Speaker 3: He could have been like, you know, I want to
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Speaker 3: get to know you. One on one come over. It's late.
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Speaker 3: I know you're busy. I'm busy, but yeah, eleven pm.
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Speaker 3: We can chill, we can watch a movie, let's talk.
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Speaker 2: Do you think that was because I'm like, what if
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Speaker 2: that was his vibet me? No, you don't think if
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Speaker 2: you responded, okay, sure, I'll come over after I go out,
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Speaker 2: but nothing's happening. We'll just get to know each other.
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Speaker 2: You don't think that or are you like that's not No,
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Speaker 2: I'm not He wants to jump to the come over
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Speaker 2: at eleven pm.
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Speaker 1: No I don't. First of all, it's eleven pm. You
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Speaker 1: should be going to bed. Okay, yeah, all right, I
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Speaker 1: don't care if it's a weekend, go to bed, all right.
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Speaker 2: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: The other thing is, yes, I'll come over to your place,
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Speaker 1: or you can come over. Actually, you can't come over
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Speaker 1: to mine. I don't want people coming over here this No,
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Speaker 1: this is a safe space. No. Yeah, I'll come over
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Speaker 1: to your place, but not first time meeting you. Everyone
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Speaker 1: i'm talking to right now, they're they're known people by
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Speaker 1: the public. Correct, Okay, So safety wise, like that's not
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Speaker 1: the first thing I go to is like my safeties
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Speaker 1: at risk? It definitely obviously always comes into play. I
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Speaker 1: always want to be safe. I don't care who you are.
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Speaker 1: You people are still capable of anything yet they're well known.
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Speaker 1: But for me, it's like, let I may not even
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Speaker 1: like you, so what now I'm stuck at your place,
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Speaker 1: and I have to I have to be the honest
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Speaker 1: person to be Like, by the way, I'm not really
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Speaker 1: enjoying myself, so I think I'm going to take off.
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Speaker 1: That's awkward and uncomfortable. Exactly, Let's go out to a
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Speaker 1: public place with other friends and let's just see if
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Speaker 1: like I'm even like texting. Great, you're great at that.
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Speaker 1: You pass that game. But there's a lot of other
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Speaker 1: things that like if I'm looking for good company, yeah,
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Speaker 1: like I want to find that out in a public
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Speaker 1: place and then we can decide if you're interesting enough
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Speaker 1: for me to spend one on one time with you.
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Speaker 3: That's a great point. That's a great point.
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Speaker 2: Who may have just won me over because it's like
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Speaker 2: it gives it's respectful, and it gives both of you.
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Speaker 2: And out you meet in a public place and you're
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Speaker 2: out with friends, it gives you the option to say, Okay, cool,
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Speaker 2: well i'll text you later.
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Speaker 3: I'm headed home and.
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Speaker 2: It also gives him the option to say that if
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Speaker 2: he's not feeling you all right, it was nice to
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Speaker 2: meet you.
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Speaker 1: I'm out right because he may not think I'm very
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Speaker 1: interesting even though I'm very interesting.
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Speaker 3: That'll even though that will never happen.
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Speaker 1: But yeah, that will never ever happen. So who knows.
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Speaker 1: I deleted the contact, so then.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, what'd you leave it at?
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Speaker 1: I told him he was crazy? Oh that's and I
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Speaker 1: have a great night.
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Speaker 3: And what do he saying?
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Speaker 1: Nothing? Nothing wild?
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Speaker 4: You know what?
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Speaker 3: Then then goodbye, move exchange.
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Speaker 1: Maybe twelve types messages in total, maybe more than that,
19:10
Speaker 1: maybe like twelve each. But it was like, it's not
19:12
Speaker 1: like I suffered a great loss, right or not getting
19:16
Speaker 1: a response? Right? Who reached out to? Who? First? Oh?
19:19
Speaker 1: I do you do? Oh? Yeah, I'm in it.
19:21
Speaker 3: I love that, you know, it's great.
19:23
Speaker 1: I've reached out to three people in total through the DM,
19:27
Speaker 1: and I'm horrific at it. You are, I don't what
19:29
Speaker 1: do you say to someone in a DM?
19:31
Speaker 2: I mean you're asking me who's like the most awkward
19:34
Speaker 2: person ever? And I'm I praise everything every day that
19:38
Speaker 2: I missed the dating apps, I like missed them by
19:41
Speaker 2: like a few months.
19:42
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I even back when I was like a
19:45
Speaker 1: single person and young, I was never into like the DMS.
19:51
Speaker 2: Well, because you're also about energy, you say about energy,
19:54
Speaker 2: so it's hard to do that. It's like, yeah, you
19:57
Speaker 2: could do it for fun, but is it really it's
19:59
Speaker 2: kind of a waste my time because unless I'm in
20:01
Speaker 2: front of you and I can like feel your energy
20:03
Speaker 2: and meet you, it's like, what what do we do?
20:05
Speaker 1: Right? But we're in a different like day and age
20:08
Speaker 1: right now.
20:08
Speaker 2: Everyone does yes, dms, everyone does, like, so I don't know. Yeah,
20:16
Speaker 2: So you said though that you reached out to a
20:18
Speaker 2: guy over DM and I thought it was cute.
20:20
Speaker 3: It was like you you sent like three emojis or something.
20:23
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the one that's going the best.
20:25
Speaker 3: Really, So there you go.
20:28
Speaker 1: So it's all in the emoji.
20:29
Speaker 2: It's all the emoji, even though I've been told, well
20:32
Speaker 2: I was told when I was working on Idol from
20:34
Speaker 2: the contestants that I would like text them and be like,
20:38
Speaker 2: here's a good caption to like post and they would
20:40
Speaker 2: be like, emojis are so for old people, and.
20:43
Speaker 1: I'm like, emojis are not for old people.
20:45
Speaker 3: That's what I said.
20:46
Speaker 1: No, they're not at all. They're so cute and so fun.
20:49
Speaker 2: Cute and fun and like, I don't sometimes have the words,
20:51
Speaker 2: So I'm going to send you an emoji?
20:54
Speaker 1: Yes, because I and it's kind of like elusive, Yeah,
20:59
Speaker 1: like what do they? What are they?
21:02
Speaker 5: You know?
21:03
Speaker 3: Yeah.
21:03
Speaker 1: It was so funny though, because I was doing that
21:05
Speaker 1: podcast with the Stallone sisters, yeah, and I was telling
21:09
Speaker 1: them I was bad at Dans and they go, what
21:10
Speaker 1: did you do use emojis? And I was like, yes,
21:13
Speaker 1: that's exactly what I did. And she goes, oh my god.
21:16
Speaker 1: You did not send a flame, did you? And I
21:17
Speaker 1: was like, yes, I did, and a little.
21:21
Speaker 3: Like schef hand, I think that's are they Are they younger?
21:26
Speaker 3: Are they like?
21:26
Speaker 1: Yes? No, I think I think like maybe twenty two
21:31
Speaker 1: to twenty four. Oh they're young young, Yeah, they're younger.
21:34
Speaker 3: See. I don't think they know.
21:35
Speaker 2: When people use emojis, and if they do, I think
21:38
Speaker 2: it's ironically.
21:40
Speaker 3: Ironically, I think I don't know.
21:42
Speaker 1: We'll shoot Okay, if you're what is it gen Z?
21:45
Speaker 3: I would if you're gen Z, if you're like anyone.
21:49
Speaker 2: Who's between the age of eighteen and let's say twenty five.
21:52
Speaker 1: Yes, I need you to call my phone number and
21:57
Speaker 1: tell me give me like your person respective on emojis. Yeah,
22:01
Speaker 1: is it old to use emojis?
22:03
Speaker 2: Like because yeah, because remember hashtags were in, and then
22:08
Speaker 2: people took hashtags out like a option. Yeah, like if
22:12
Speaker 2: you use a hashtag, it was like so lame and
22:14
Speaker 2: then yeah, I don't know.
22:16
Speaker 3: I usually great.
22:17
Speaker 1: I have hashtags on give them la la beauty. Do
22:19
Speaker 1: I need to take it off? No?
22:20
Speaker 3: Because for a business and company, it's different.
22:22
Speaker 2: And like, for instance, the crying laughing faces were in,
22:26
Speaker 2: as in like I'm dying laughing, and then it was like, no,
22:29
Speaker 2: you don't use those anymore.
22:30
Speaker 3: If you're like dying laughing.
22:32
Speaker 2: You use the the skull because it means like I'm dead.
22:36
Speaker 3: I am not, Okay, I'm an eighteen year old brother.
22:40
Speaker 1: So this is like, well I think that I that
22:42
Speaker 1: we get a pass right because you want to sit
22:45
Speaker 1: here and be like, oh, people aren't using that anymore.
22:47
Speaker 1: It's like, okay, well what people like the younger generation? Okay,
22:51
Speaker 1: well I'm not the Yes, I'm a millennial, right and
22:56
Speaker 1: I use this stuff just like if you're ninety, you're
23:00
Speaker 1: not going to try to do what gen Z is doing,
23:02
Speaker 1: right because you just don't know how you can't keep up.
23:04
Speaker 2: And also if you're reaching out or communicating with someone
23:07
Speaker 2: who actually cares, then they're really not worth your time.
23:11
Speaker 1: About Oh, if someone emojis, I'd be like, I'm going
23:15
Speaker 1: to go feed my daughter now. I well, I actually
23:18
Speaker 1: have to get to baby sensory class, so like have
23:20
Speaker 1: a good one, you know.
23:23
Speaker 3: Yeah, No, it's it's wild. I have no time, no time.
23:26
Speaker 3: Well that that's interesting.
23:28
Speaker 2: I'm glad you deleted his contact because at first I
23:31
Speaker 2: was on a like the side of like, okay, wait
23:34
Speaker 2: a second, let's give this guy a moment.
23:36
Speaker 3: But you convinced me like you.
23:39
Speaker 1: Don't have If I'm not looking for anything and you're
23:43
Speaker 1: not offering me the tiniest bit of what I need
23:46
Speaker 1: to like fuel that part of my life, then goodbye.
23:51
Speaker 1: I don't need you.
23:53
Speaker 2: Yeah, do you think there's anything you can do or
23:55
Speaker 2: say that would make it more clear? Like, yeah, no,
23:59
Speaker 2: I'm not looking for a relationship. But also I'm not
24:01
Speaker 2: just hitting you up to like hook up.
24:03
Speaker 1: I don't even have time to do that.
24:05
Speaker 6: While it's like literally I'm saying everything you have to
24:09
Speaker 6: come so correct from the jump that there's no trying,
24:13
Speaker 6: like I don't need to have open communication with you.
24:17
Speaker 1: I don't need to like vocalize my feelings well because
24:19
Speaker 1: they have to earn that I'm sure at yes, And
24:22
Speaker 1: because if I'm sitting here telling you that I have
24:24
Speaker 1: nothing to offer that includes my vagina, Yeah, okay, yeah,
24:30
Speaker 1: you dumb fuck like, Yeah, I have nothing to offer
24:35
Speaker 1: except for the most perfect part of me, which is
24:38
Speaker 1: the puss.
24:39
Speaker 3: Yeah, get the fuck out of here. Yeah right, what
24:44
Speaker 3: are you looking for?
24:45
Speaker 1: Then?
24:45
Speaker 2: Can we just like friendship with a little flirtation and
24:49
Speaker 2: if you guys connect then eventually something sexual.
24:52
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm certainly not going to exchange six text
24:56
Speaker 1: messages and then come over and let you hit karate
24:59
Speaker 1: your damn.
25:00
Speaker 2: It's like you say about ocean, but in a way
25:04
Speaker 2: different context. You're a luxury, She's a luxury.
25:07
Speaker 1: Yes, And I'm not knocking anyone who would go over
25:10
Speaker 1: and let him hit after six text message. Hey, I'm
25:14
Speaker 1: not there at this point in my life. Read my
25:17
Speaker 1: freaking book. Yeah, I talk about my whole phase like,
25:20
Speaker 1: if you're there mentally, go do it. I'm not there anymore, right,
25:27
Speaker 1: And I'm not saying that I will never have another
25:29
Speaker 1: whole phase in my life. I very well might right now,
25:33
Speaker 1: I don't have an interest, right, okay, I have an
25:36
Speaker 1: interest in taking you around my group of friends. You
25:39
Speaker 1: can take me around your group of friends. We can talk,
25:42
Speaker 1: we can do whatever. I'm not looking to, like unload
25:44
Speaker 1: my life story on you. Let's just enjoy each other's
25:47
Speaker 1: company and if we can do that, and then we
25:49
Speaker 1: start making out and my hand touches your pep and
25:51
Speaker 1: we ended up having sex then like amazing.
25:54
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay you hear that, boys, you hear that men?
25:59
Speaker 1: Right?
26:00
Speaker 2: Yeah, that makes sense. Also, I heard that new like
26:04
Speaker 2: ho phase age for single women is forties hot. Well,
26:10
Speaker 2: I mean forties is like the new twenties. Forties is
26:14
Speaker 2: the new twenties or the new thirties. I used to
26:15
Speaker 2: hear thirties with people's like women's sexual prime.
26:19
Speaker 1: Yeah, is it forties?
26:20
Speaker 3: I think now.
26:21
Speaker 2: It's probably still thirties or like mid thirties, but I
26:24
Speaker 2: think it's probably also forties now too.
26:26
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, Larsa Pippen is in her forties. Stop,
26:30
Speaker 1: I know, are you sure? I'm positive?
26:33
Speaker 3: Look it up?
26:34
Speaker 1: Look it up right now on your line.
26:35
Speaker 2: That's amazing, I'm going to I mean, do you know
26:38
Speaker 2: what sign she is no, but we're gonna find out.
26:40
Speaker 2: Guess your birthday now, because I want to see how.
26:42
Speaker 3: Close you are.
26:43
Speaker 1: I kind of am seeing her as like maybe a Gemini, okay.
26:47
Speaker 3: Let's see, or a Taurus.
26:50
Speaker 1: I could be way off.
26:51
Speaker 3: And birthday okay, July sixth?
26:57
Speaker 1: What is that?
26:58
Speaker 3: Is that Leo?
26:59
Speaker 1: July sixth is a Leo?
27:00
Speaker 3: Is it it?
27:00
Speaker 2: No?
27:01
Speaker 3: I think it's too early. July sixth, nineteenth, you guys,
27:06
Speaker 3: LARSA Pippen is forty seven years old. I'm actually shoshed.
27:10
Speaker 1: Right, like, what if that is forty seven? I can't wait.
27:18
Speaker 1: She's a cancer, a cancer. I was way off that
27:21
Speaker 1: was gonna be my actually third choice.
27:23
Speaker 3: Really yeah? Wow, good for.
27:27
Speaker 1: I think Leo starts mid July into August or end
27:32
Speaker 1: mid or end.
27:32
Speaker 3: I just know that I'm leone.
27:33
Speaker 2: It's August fifth, so yeah, yeah, I love a good Leo,
27:39
Speaker 2: So do I?
27:40
Speaker 1: So do I? I connect with Leo's and Pisces. Really yeah.
27:43
Speaker 2: Do you know what I read the other day that
27:46
Speaker 2: virgos in a work relationship, virgos teach Leo's patience.
27:52
Speaker 3: Is that interesting? Really? Yeah?
27:54
Speaker 1: That's strange because I'm having my psychic teach me patients.
27:58
Speaker 3: Really I love that I do.
28:03
Speaker 1: Every time I talk to my psychic medium, I'm like,
28:05
Speaker 1: what the fuck And he's like, la, la, you have
28:09
Speaker 1: to let time catch up. And I'm like doing like
28:14
Speaker 1: twenty seven breath workouts, trying not to like throw shit
28:18
Speaker 1: across the apartment.
28:19
Speaker 3: Patients is hard.
28:21
Speaker 1: Stassy and Hartford and Bo got Ocean a book of
28:25
Speaker 1: her signs, like her entire house and where all of
28:29
Speaker 1: her and we share. We share three signs and Ocean's
28:34
Speaker 1: a triple water sign she has in three of her
28:37
Speaker 1: houses pisces.
28:39
Speaker 2: See.
28:39
Speaker 1: I'm reading up on her right now.
28:41
Speaker 3: That's amazing.
28:42
Speaker 2: Maybe get maybe we should get a like a real
28:45
Speaker 2: I know you've had a guest on the podcast before
28:48
Speaker 2: who's really into I think zodiac and stuff. But maybe
28:51
Speaker 2: getting someone else to do like your and oceans and
28:56
Speaker 2: like what I'm gonna going to have to battle, yes,
29:00
Speaker 2: because that's so interesting to me. I just don't know.
29:02
Speaker 2: I have like the furthest I'm like, I have the
29:05
Speaker 2: what's it called the co Star app?
29:07
Speaker 1: That's what I have. Yeah, that's what I have. The
29:09
Speaker 1: co Star app is bomb. But I was so yesterday
29:12
Speaker 1: I had the gusbands over and I was reading Ocean. Chart,
29:15
Speaker 1: and in one of them it said things to look
29:17
Speaker 1: out for with where her you know, signs are placed
29:21
Speaker 1: for me, and it was like, watch out for their
29:27
Speaker 1: their addictions for drugs and alcohol. And I was like,
29:29
Speaker 1: my mom and I looked at each other and we
29:31
Speaker 1: were like, we'll just have to keep an eye on it.
29:32
Speaker 1: And Logan looks at me and he goes, better check
29:34
Speaker 1: her into rehab. Now she's one.
29:37
Speaker 3: She she could in high school.
29:39
Speaker 1: We need to get her into rehab immediately, like because
29:42
Speaker 1: I'm so like I think a million miles ahead, like,
29:45
Speaker 1: oh my god.
29:46
Speaker 3: Yeah, drugs and out Oh fuck, oh.
29:51
Speaker 1: It freaks me out.
29:53
Speaker 2: Well, good news on that is that both sides of
29:57
Speaker 2: my my family come from some addiction. Not like directly
30:02
Speaker 2: my parents my mom and my dad, but but each.
30:05
Speaker 3: Side of the family.
30:06
Speaker 2: And the doctors had told my parents that like, oh
30:10
Speaker 2: your kids, watch out for addiction. Yeah, and none of us,
30:14
Speaker 2: there's five of us, Yeah, have ever, as far as
30:17
Speaker 2: I know, struggled with any sort of addiction.
30:20
Speaker 1: Okay, well that's big.
30:21
Speaker 3: Yeah, I like to have like one drink a month,
30:23
Speaker 3: Like I just.
30:24
Speaker 1: Never never, I never, even when we've been out with
30:27
Speaker 1: each other. Yeah, you're like not a drinker.
30:31
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I'll go out and I'll have like one
30:34
Speaker 2: three cocktails is my max. I know my limits like to.
30:38
Speaker 3: Drive to and it's always three cocktails.
30:40
Speaker 2: And then I always have to make sure from my
30:42
Speaker 2: last cocktail I have the amount of hours before I
30:45
Speaker 2: leave of.
30:46
Speaker 3: Drinks that I've had.
30:48
Speaker 2: Oh shit, oh my my, would you like to say something?
30:54
Speaker 3: Let's see me there.
30:56
Speaker 1: Hi, she's got a big bogger on her face.
31:02
Speaker 3: Get it?
31:07
Speaker 1: Oh ken, you sweet little soul.
31:11
Speaker 3: She's just staring over she's shoulder right now.
31:14
Speaker 1: Anyway, So we've spoken about ocean, Yeah, possibly having addiction issues.
31:19
Speaker 3: She won't, she won't.
31:21
Speaker 1: She will, But I feel like every parent, maybe not
31:23
Speaker 1: every parent, but I'm hyper sensitive, and I always think.
31:26
Speaker 1: I'm like, she's gonna date and there's gonna who is
31:29
Speaker 1: that little fucker that's gonna break her heart and snap
31:32
Speaker 1: him like a little stick.
31:33
Speaker 3: Right, But you had to learn from that. Think of
31:36
Speaker 3: how much you learned from your first heartbreak.
31:38
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm calling his parents, doesn't like in kindergarten.
31:43
Speaker 3: She's on the phone, She's like, what listen.
31:46
Speaker 1: I know it makes me nervous that I'm going to
31:47
Speaker 1: be that mom that like rolls up to the five
31:49
Speaker 1: year old. If he pushes my kid, listen, here you
31:51
Speaker 1: a little fuck her?
31:52
Speaker 3: Yeah, that was on. You would my baby?
32:00
Speaker 5: You push my kid and we're going totally bro like
32:04
Speaker 5: you ain't safe? Sorry, all right, Yeah, to act like
32:07
Speaker 5: a grown kid pushing my beautiful child, I'll throw you
32:10
Speaker 5: across the yard. Go call the duty anyway.
32:17
Speaker 1: Okay, before we cut to a break, before we have
32:20
Speaker 1: the beautiful and incredible Larsa Pippin on, I want to
32:23
Speaker 1: remind you guys that I am going on tour. That
32:26
Speaker 1: is right, give them laala. The brand new tour is
32:29
Speaker 1: coming to a city near you. We're kicking off in Irvine,
32:35
Speaker 1: but we're sold out, you guys. That is what's up.
32:38
Speaker 1: That's our first stop. Then we're hitting Fort Lauderdale, Clearwater, Orlando, Florida, Atlanta, Georgia, Nashville,
32:46
Speaker 1: New Orleans, Houston, Texas, Austin.
32:48
Speaker 3: Texas, Dallas, Texas.
32:51
Speaker 1: I cannot wait. And you guys, I already spoiled Nashville.
32:55
Speaker 1: Who my guests are, Shena and Brock will be in Nashville,
32:58
Speaker 1: Tennessee with me. You are welcome. We have the most
33:02
Speaker 1: incredible segment that actually Shena came up with because she's
33:06
Speaker 1: a freaking genius. But I kind of I like the
33:10
Speaker 1: idea of having the surprise element, like surprise guests on
33:15
Speaker 1: each you know, each stop in each city. So I'm
33:20
Speaker 1: going to keep the rest of the guests under wraps.
33:23
Speaker 1: But because I already talked about Brock and Shina and Nashville, okay,
33:26
Speaker 1: I write like, y'all already know they're coming, But if
33:31
Speaker 1: you're in any of the other cities, get ready because
33:33
Speaker 1: I am having surprise guests pop up left and right.
33:36
Speaker 3: I know, I heard her talking to some of them
33:38
Speaker 3: and I was like, stop.
33:39
Speaker 1: I know, it's such a vibe. I cannot wait. All right,
33:42
Speaker 1: We're gonna cut to a break and we will be
33:44
Speaker 1: right back with Larsa Pippin. All right, my loves, we
33:50
Speaker 1: are back with Larsa Pippen. Oh my god, you're so
33:53
Speaker 1: gorge Oh you're so gorge good God, I want to
33:57
Speaker 1: be you always. First of all, I have to say
34:00
Speaker 1: so I'm a Real Housewives fanatic. I really was deep
34:04
Speaker 1: diving into you after I found out like Real Housewives
34:07
Speaker 1: of Miami is returning, we have Larsa Pippen on and
34:10
Speaker 1: I just went balls deep into like all things, Larsa Pippen,
34:15
Speaker 1: how's this season? Like, what are you hating? What are
34:18
Speaker 1: you loving? I mean you look amazing, like you're fun
34:21
Speaker 1: to watch and level headed at the same time, which
34:23
Speaker 1: is hard to do.
34:24
Speaker 4: You know what's funny. I feel like I like my
34:26
Speaker 4: tone is always so calm. I never really like get loud.
34:29
Speaker 4: And I feel like when I did the reunion, I
34:31
Speaker 4: was a psychopath. Like it was almost like an out
34:33
Speaker 4: of body experience, Like I was just yelling, like like
34:36
Speaker 4: I had Chrurette's. I just was like yelling at them
34:38
Speaker 4: and I'm not even like that, but I was just
34:40
Speaker 4: like I think when you do the reunion, it's like
34:43
Speaker 4: you have a lot of emotions. I feel like there's
34:46
Speaker 4: things that are like you wanted to say that you
34:47
Speaker 4: didn't have a chance to say so, Like we just
34:49
Speaker 4: shot the reunion and I was like I left the reunion,
34:52
Speaker 4: I was like, oh my god, Larsa, like you should
34:54
Speaker 4: have toned it.
34:54
Speaker 1: Down, Like no, I get it. And then you you
34:56
Speaker 1: do the reunion and it's you see everything that everyone
35:00
Speaker 1: else has been saying behind your back all season. Yeah,
35:03
Speaker 1: I totally get it. There's girl, But like I don't
35:06
Speaker 1: even like that.
35:06
Speaker 4: I don't even go for anyone. I'm never like I
35:09
Speaker 4: have like the best vibes. I never like talk about anyone.
35:12
Speaker 4: Like literally, I'm like, someone could be talking about the
35:15
Speaker 4: person and I'm like, you know, I don't know, like
35:17
Speaker 4: I personally don't know her enough to talk about her
35:19
Speaker 4: like that's normally how I am.
35:20
Speaker 1: Have you always been that way?
35:22
Speaker 4: Yeah? I feel like my like I've never in life
35:25
Speaker 4: had a problem with anyone. You gotta remember, I was
35:28
Speaker 4: married for like twenty one years, like I have four kids.
35:30
Speaker 4: Like I never was, like, you know, in a position
35:33
Speaker 4: where I had to like defend my character, my you
35:35
Speaker 4: know who I am. It's like, and I'm sure you're
35:37
Speaker 4: probably gonna be dealing with this too, Like now that
35:40
Speaker 4: you're like single or like, it's like a different it's
35:43
Speaker 4: a different world when you're single as opposed to when
35:45
Speaker 4: you're with someone.
35:46
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Completely, I feel like I'm a brand
35:48
Speaker 1: new human being and all of the things that I
35:51
Speaker 1: thought I knew about life have completely changed. And just
35:56
Speaker 1: my outlook and view on what I want, what are
35:59
Speaker 1: my and hopes and how do I want to raise
36:02
Speaker 1: my child to go out into the world. And be
36:04
Speaker 1: like a productive human in society. I know exactly what
36:08
Speaker 1: you're talking about. Do you feel like you enjoyed filming
36:10
Speaker 1: enough to go back for another season?
36:13
Speaker 4: I mean, I had a good experience. It was fun
36:15
Speaker 4: for me. Like when I shot Housewives ten years ago,
36:18
Speaker 4: i was married, it was different, my kids were so little,
36:20
Speaker 4: Like it was just different for me this time around,
36:22
Speaker 4: being single, my kids being older and me asking them, Hey,
36:26
Speaker 4: do you guys want to film with me today? And
36:27
Speaker 4: they were like yeah, or they'd say no, So it
36:30
Speaker 4: was different. It was better this time around for me
36:32
Speaker 4: as far as like just being more open to sharing
36:35
Speaker 4: my life.
36:36
Speaker 1: You know.
36:36
Speaker 4: I think when you're like married to someone, especially someone
36:39
Speaker 4: that's like, you know, like in the Spotlight, you want
36:41
Speaker 4: to protect them. And I always wanted to protect Scotty.
36:43
Speaker 4: I didn't want to make him look a certain way
36:45
Speaker 4: or have his character be you know, compromised because a
36:48
Speaker 4: girl didn't like what I was wearing, you.
36:50
Speaker 1: Know, just like dumping right.
36:52
Speaker 4: So I feel like this time around, I wasn't worried
36:54
Speaker 4: about that. I just had fun. It was a good
36:57
Speaker 4: experience for me. Other than me looking like a lunatic.
37:00
Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't think you looked like a lunatic.
37:02
Speaker 1: I think like everything you say makes so much sense.
37:08
Speaker 1: The thing about you is when I'm watching you, you
37:11
Speaker 1: keep it real, calm, cool and collected until someone won't
37:15
Speaker 1: let shit go, and then you have to take it
37:17
Speaker 1: to one hundred, which I think is valid. But you're
37:19
Speaker 1: also talking to someone who takes it from zero to
37:22
Speaker 1: one hundred like that. You know what?
37:25
Speaker 4: For me, I just feel like I'm big on boundaries,
37:27
Speaker 4: you know, Like if I knew there was a subject
37:29
Speaker 4: that you were sensitive about, I would never bring it up.
37:32
Speaker 4: I would never bring it up to kind of like
37:33
Speaker 4: you to have to, like, you know, just to put
37:36
Speaker 4: you in a position where you're not going to be
37:38
Speaker 4: happy with me. I would never do that.
37:40
Speaker 1: Do you feel like when you're filming and people do that,
37:43
Speaker 1: that they're doing it because they know they're on TV
37:46
Speaker 1: or do you think that that's who they really are?
37:48
Speaker 1: Like they would cross those boundaries even if a camera
37:50
Speaker 1: wasn't on.
37:51
Speaker 4: It's only for cameras, Like it's not like she would
37:53
Speaker 4: never say that to me in real life, Like it's cameras.
37:56
Speaker 1: Like I know, it was a little crazy. It was
37:58
Speaker 1: kind of like shut the fuck up, Like enough already
38:00
Speaker 1: what it was.
38:01
Speaker 4: It was kind of like I don't know. I just
38:03
Speaker 4: couldn't imagine, like you're this like grown ass woman. Do
38:07
Speaker 4: you really want to act like this? Do you really
38:09
Speaker 4: want to like be this person? Because like for me,
38:12
Speaker 4: I couldn't. I was like so calm, and I was like, hey,
38:14
Speaker 4: there's boundaries for me. I don't want to talk about,
38:16
Speaker 4: you know, someone's husband. I don't want to like I
38:18
Speaker 4: don't like to have these conversations. It's just not my thing.
38:21
Speaker 4: I don't leave my kids to go spend time with
38:24
Speaker 4: women that literally are talking about nonsense. It's just not
38:26
Speaker 4: my thing. I have way too much going on for
38:29
Speaker 4: me to like spend time on nonsense.
38:31
Speaker 1: You know. No, I think you handled yourself like a
38:34
Speaker 1: class act. Honestly.
38:35
Speaker 4: I literally I was so upset. I cried, Like there
38:38
Speaker 4: were I think I cried like twice. I was like,
38:41
Speaker 4: you know, when you're so upset that you can either
38:42
Speaker 4: go one of two ways. So either I'm going to
38:44
Speaker 4: get up and like flip the table it's going to
38:46
Speaker 4: get really crazy, or I'm just going to leave and
38:49
Speaker 4: sob Yeah, like control it, Like I'm not used to
38:52
Speaker 4: having to control like how I feel you know.
38:55
Speaker 1: Yes, there were so many times this past season that
38:58
Speaker 1: we filmed that I was like, I'm either going to
39:01
Speaker 1: break all of Lisa vander Pump's china over all these motherfuckers' heads,
39:05
Speaker 1: or I'm gonna go collect myself and just sob my
39:09
Speaker 1: eyes out. And I think the sobbing was the way
39:12
Speaker 1: to go.
39:13
Speaker 4: I just feel like you can come back from a
39:15
Speaker 4: good cry, you know what I mean, right, and this
39:17
Speaker 4: like crazy person and it's like hard to come back
39:19
Speaker 4: from me, you know.
39:20
Speaker 1: I totally know. And by the way, I was loving
39:23
Speaker 1: the only fans thing. You're hot obviously, and people are
39:27
Speaker 1: gonna pay a lot of money to see your kneecap.
39:30
Speaker 1: That's just what it is. No one could grasp that.
39:34
Speaker 4: Well, you know what it is a lot of the
39:35
Speaker 4: girls on the show are not really like up to date,
39:37
Speaker 4: like on current platforms like social media platforms. So for them,
39:41
Speaker 4: they didn't even know that snapchats started off sending nudes.
39:44
Speaker 1: That's kind of what's right.
39:45
Speaker 4: Let's started out as and now it's so mainstream. My
39:48
Speaker 4: kids are on Snapchat. You know, everyone's on Snapchat. So
39:51
Speaker 4: I feel like, you know, OnlyFans started out a certain way,
39:53
Speaker 4: but they've definitely broadened, you know, their audience, They've broadened
39:57
Speaker 4: the creators. It's like everyone's on there, chefs, trainers, like
40:01
Speaker 4: everyone's on there, right, and my subscription's free. So the
40:04
Speaker 4: fact that I was being like attacked for my only fans,
40:08
Speaker 4: it's kind of like reasoning with like someone that just
40:11
Speaker 4: doesn't like use their ring.
40:12
Speaker 1: It's just not right. And I also feel like if
40:15
Speaker 1: you were on there showing some ass, what the hell
40:18
Speaker 1: is it to you anyway?
40:19
Speaker 4: You know, listen, Like, as long as I'm happy, I
40:22
Speaker 4: feel good about myself. My kids are happy. That's all
40:25
Speaker 4: I care about. I don't care about anything else.
40:26
Speaker 1: Do you feel happy?
40:28
Speaker 4: I'm so happy. I feel like I'm in such a
40:30
Speaker 4: good place. I think, like when you go through a divorce.
40:33
Speaker 4: I just feel like for me, I dealt with like guilt.
40:35
Speaker 4: I don't know if you like dealt with that, like
40:38
Speaker 4: having kids. I just feel like you feel like you
40:40
Speaker 4: let your kids down?
40:41
Speaker 1: You know, yeah I do?
40:43
Speaker 4: Yeah, so, and it's hard. It's hard on everyone. So
40:45
Speaker 4: I feel like for me, I dealt with like a
40:47
Speaker 4: lot of that, like I should try to make it work.
40:50
Speaker 4: And that's kind of why we kept working things out,
40:52
Speaker 4: Like I would go back because I felt so bad.
40:55
Speaker 4: But then I just like I had to, you know,
40:57
Speaker 4: come to Jesus moment where I was just like, it's
40:59
Speaker 4: never I'm never going to be happy. I'm just never
41:01
Speaker 4: going to be happy, and either I'm going to get
41:03
Speaker 4: like you know, I have to deal with depression or
41:06
Speaker 4: just move on and kind of like work it out.
41:08
Speaker 4: And we've been really lucky. You know, we're best friends.
41:11
Speaker 4: We do everything together, We respect each other. I don't
41:14
Speaker 4: know what yours, like your situation is like, but it's
41:16
Speaker 4: like you have to really dig deep at times to
41:19
Speaker 4: like basically be the best version of yourself and only
41:22
Speaker 4: do it for your daughter, you know what I mean,
41:24
Speaker 4: Like just just for your family. Like that's kind of
41:26
Speaker 4: how I view things now. I handle things. It's not
41:28
Speaker 4: always great, it's not always perfect, but I always try
41:31
Speaker 4: to like look at, like, you know, the blessings that
41:34
Speaker 4: I had from being with Scotty, Right, That's kind of
41:36
Speaker 4: how I like navigate like dealing with him at times.
41:39
Speaker 1: What age were you when you got married.
41:41
Speaker 4: I met him when I was twenty one. I turned
41:44
Speaker 4: twenty two, like fourteen days after we got married.
41:48
Speaker 1: You were a baby. Yeah, what's the age difference between
41:52
Speaker 1: you and Scotty.
41:53
Speaker 4: I think we're ten years apart.
41:55
Speaker 1: Ten years And what was that like being I'm sure
41:58
Speaker 1: you were mature for your aid age at that point
42:00
Speaker 1: in time, but nevertheless you were a young girl. What
42:04
Speaker 1: was that like being in cause he was like Scottie
42:07
Speaker 1: Pippen at that time, Like, what was it like being
42:11
Speaker 1: the wife of a superstar like that? Did you feel
42:15
Speaker 1: like you got lost in the shadows a little bit?
42:18
Speaker 4: We don't know. We had like a great relationship. He's
42:20
Speaker 4: very like he's from the South. He's very normal, he's
42:23
Speaker 4: very quiet. Like you know, I was happy. I was
42:25
Speaker 4: happy for a long time. I just think, like you know,
42:28
Speaker 4: how you grow and you can either grow together you
42:30
Speaker 4: can grow apart. And I feel like I was so young.
42:33
Speaker 4: I was twenty one years old, Like I never had
42:35
Speaker 4: a job before, Like I literally was. I met him
42:37
Speaker 4: the summer before my senior year in college. I went
42:39
Speaker 4: back for my senior year in college, and then I
42:42
Speaker 4: got married. Like everything that I had was basically from Scotti.
42:46
Speaker 1: Okay, at what point in time did you realize like,
42:50
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I'm living because you said something that
42:53
Speaker 1: struck me on the show that you looked around and
42:56
Speaker 1: realized that you were living someone else's dream.
42:59
Speaker 4: It was everyone. It was like my kids, Scotty, so
43:01
Speaker 4: it was like, you got to remember, I have four kids,
43:03
Speaker 4: so imagine like it was Scotty came first his career basketball,
43:07
Speaker 4: and as soon as things started to slow down, it
43:09
Speaker 4: was like I had four kids, So this one wants
43:11
Speaker 4: to play basketball, and this one wants to play football,
43:13
Speaker 4: and this one. So I always put myself last, and
43:15
Speaker 4: by the time it was time for me, I was like,
43:17
Speaker 4: oh my god, Like.
43:18
Speaker 1: Who the fuck am I right?
43:21
Speaker 4: What do I like to do? What do you know?
43:23
Speaker 4: I never used to go out without Scotti ever, Like
43:25
Speaker 4: I was so like committed, like traveled with him ever,
43:28
Speaker 4: you know, every two days. We never spend any time apart.
43:32
Speaker 4: We were like together all the time. So literally, like
43:34
Speaker 4: I was the girl that was in the gym shooting
43:36
Speaker 4: with him, Like that was me.
43:38
Speaker 1: Wow. Yeah, And I love that you guys still have
43:41
Speaker 1: maintained an incredible relationship. I can't say the same for
43:45
Speaker 1: me and my situation, and I don't think we'll ever
43:49
Speaker 1: get to that point.
43:50
Speaker 4: You never know, because I feel like sometimes like when
43:52
Speaker 4: you're hurt, you handle things different than when you're just
43:54
Speaker 4: over it, do you know what I mean?
43:56
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like I'm not I'm not suffering. Yes,
44:02
Speaker 1: there was a lot of betrayal. What he was doing
44:05
Speaker 1: behind the scenes was not the same as the life
44:10
Speaker 1: he was portraying when we were around each other. So
44:12
Speaker 1: it's hard for me to come from a place of
44:14
Speaker 1: like mourning a loss when there was there was no
44:19
Speaker 1: loss because it wasn't ever real. Does that make sense?
44:22
Speaker 4: Yeah, No, I get what you're saying. Yeah, you're looking
44:25
Speaker 4: at it like that, And I promise you when we talk,
44:26
Speaker 4: like in two years, you're going to be looking at.
44:28
Speaker 1: It differently, I hope. So. I mean, just the fact
44:31
Speaker 1: that you were married for twenty one years, I feel
44:33
Speaker 1: is absolutely incredible. Something was working. But like you say,
44:37
Speaker 1: people grow, and you can grow together, you can grow apart.
44:41
Speaker 1: So how old was your youngest when you felt like
44:45
Speaker 1: I need to kind of reclaim my identity because you
44:48
Speaker 1: had been living for other people for so long, which
44:52
Speaker 1: is great. You're a mother, that's like the epitome of
44:54
Speaker 1: a mother's love and a wife's love. Like you did
44:56
Speaker 1: all the things right.
44:58
Speaker 4: I think like when my daughter was like like six
45:01
Speaker 4: or seven, I felt like I just was like, you know,
45:03
Speaker 4: it's just not going to work when they're young. It's
45:06
Speaker 4: so hard. It's hard to go back and forth different homes.
45:09
Speaker 4: You know, it's just hard on the kids. So I
45:10
Speaker 4: kind of feel like I am happy that, like I
45:13
Speaker 4: did go back, Like we broke up at one time,
45:15
Speaker 4: then I did go back, and then I spent like
45:17
Speaker 4: a couple more like another year or so, because I
45:19
Speaker 4: felt like it was good for my kids not to
45:21
Speaker 4: feel like we were still together. We still travel together.
45:25
Speaker 4: You almost have to do everything. Every move that you make,
45:29
Speaker 4: you really should just think about your kids.
45:31
Speaker 1: And now that you are, you know, divorce has been finalized.
45:36
Speaker 1: How old is your daughter, because she's your baby, she's twelve.
45:40
Speaker 1: She's twelve. And what was that like when she was like,
45:42
Speaker 1: did she have a choice because I know your boys
45:44
Speaker 1: live with Scottie.
45:45
Speaker 4: Oh no, they don't know Botty. They go back and forth.
45:48
Speaker 1: Oh, they go back and forth because they're older.
45:51
Speaker 4: Well, I have one at Vanderbilt. He's twenty one. I
45:53
Speaker 4: have nineteen, I have sixteen, and I have twelve. Sophia
45:56
Speaker 4: is twelve.
45:57
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.
45:58
Speaker 4: When I shot Housewives, they started school in LA so
46:00
Speaker 4: they had to go to La so they spend a
46:02
Speaker 4: month without me.
46:03
Speaker 1: You're in La now.
46:04
Speaker 4: Yeah, But in a month, I'm going back to Miami.
46:08
Speaker 4: They'll be here for a month and then they'll come
46:10
Speaker 4: to me. So they really are with me ninety nine
46:12
Speaker 4: point percent of the time.
46:13
Speaker 1: They love their mamas.
46:15
Speaker 4: I would do anything for my kids, Like I remember
46:18
Speaker 4: my son when he was probably like it was Preston,
46:21
Speaker 4: when he was probably like six years old. He came
46:23
Speaker 4: home when he was crying because he forgot his book
46:26
Speaker 4: at school, and so I jumped in the Ferrari blew
46:29
Speaker 4: every light. I was like, don't cry. I was like, Preston,
46:31
Speaker 4: I promised if I can't, if this like the school
46:34
Speaker 4: guards or the school security is gone, I will break
46:37
Speaker 4: into school and get your books. Don't worry. You will
46:39
Speaker 4: not get in trouble. So I get there and they
46:41
Speaker 4: were like, oh, the school's closed, and I was like,
46:42
Speaker 4: there's got to be somebody. We ran around the whole
46:45
Speaker 4: entire school and there was one door that was unlocked. Girl,
46:48
Speaker 4: I got in that room. I got my son's book.
46:50
Speaker 1: You're such a badass.
46:52
Speaker 4: I was like, I'm never going to let my kids down.
46:54
Speaker 4: I was like, oh no, I'll break into that school
46:56
Speaker 4: I'll go to jail, but you will have a book.
46:58
Speaker 1: But you're you're going to have your book. That is badass. Yeah,
47:02
Speaker 1: blew every light for the book. I know that that
47:05
Speaker 1: is because I don't think people really realize what that
47:09
Speaker 1: type of love is for a child until you. No
47:12
Speaker 1: matter how your child got here by the way adoption,
47:15
Speaker 1: you had it on your own surrogacy. When your child
47:18
Speaker 1: is in front of you and you see that little baby,
47:20
Speaker 1: You're like, I will fuck shit up for you any
47:23
Speaker 1: day of the week.
47:24
Speaker 4: Yeah, totally totally.
47:26
Speaker 1: So what is it that you when you were not
47:29
Speaker 1: in the relationship anymore, you were living for Larsa? What
47:32
Speaker 1: was the first thing that you were like, this is
47:34
Speaker 1: what I want to do and this is what I've
47:35
Speaker 1: always wanted to do. Was it your jewelry line or
47:37
Speaker 1: did you have that before?
47:39
Speaker 4: No, it was my jewelry line. You know. I wanted
47:41
Speaker 4: it to think that I was Scottie, but it was
47:43
Speaker 4: like he was more like, when do you have time?
47:45
Speaker 4: You don't have time between me and the kids, you
47:47
Speaker 4: don't have time. So I was like, okay, so next
47:49
Speaker 4: year I'll do it. So the following year I'll do
47:50
Speaker 4: and I just like I just never had the opportunity
47:53
Speaker 4: just because I was so consumed in their lives. But
47:56
Speaker 4: I did my jewelry line.
47:57
Speaker 1: Yeah, Larce Marie, and is that what you're just like,
48:00
Speaker 1: go's your baby right now besides your other kids.
48:02
Speaker 4: I love it. Yeah. I only want the things that
48:05
Speaker 4: I love doing. You know, I feel like at this
48:07
Speaker 4: point I don't want to do things that I don't
48:08
Speaker 4: love or believe in. And I feel like for me
48:11
Speaker 4: like that was like I love jewelry. I'm the kind
48:13
Speaker 4: of person I wear earrings and that goes to the gym,
48:15
Speaker 4: so I'm not like, you know where it with sweats,
48:17
Speaker 4: I'll wear it out.
48:18
Speaker 1: So right, love it? You love it? And you have
48:21
Speaker 1: to have something that you're passionate about and that you
48:23
Speaker 1: can pour your heart and soul into. And your stuff
48:26
Speaker 1: is beautiful. Where can people purchase if they're living under
48:29
Speaker 1: a rock, they don't know where to purchase Larza Marie jewelry.
48:33
Speaker 1: Where do they go?
48:34
Speaker 4: They go to sax or. I have a website Larson
48:37
Speaker 4: Marie dot com.
48:38
Speaker 1: When did you start this jewelry line that you're like
48:40
Speaker 1: already in.
48:41
Speaker 4: Sacks two years ago?
48:43
Speaker 1: Fuck? Bitch, good for you, thank you?
48:47
Speaker 4: I goes you are to one hundred. I feel like
48:48
Speaker 4: you're like that too.
48:49
Speaker 1: I mean, I try, but it's exhausting with a one
48:53
Speaker 1: year old? Are we dating anybody?
48:56
Speaker 4: No?
48:57
Speaker 1: No time, No, I have time.
48:59
Speaker 4: I just feel like I got to like figure out
49:01
Speaker 4: what I like. I got to change what I like.
49:03
Speaker 1: No more athletes.
49:05
Speaker 4: I'm not saying no more athletes. I know that people
49:07
Speaker 4: are like. I'm like, it's not like I just am
49:09
Speaker 4: in that pool of friends or that hang, right. I
49:12
Speaker 4: just feel like I was very comfortable in that temperature
49:14
Speaker 4: of that pond, right. I'm used to the schedule, I'm
49:18
Speaker 4: used to the conversations. But I do feel like I
49:21
Speaker 4: should take my talents to the Mediterranean are like other
49:25
Speaker 4: seas and just kind of see, you know.
49:27
Speaker 1: See what's out there, all right?
49:28
Speaker 4: See how well I swim? I don't know.
49:30
Speaker 1: I love that I'm in this boat where like, I
49:33
Speaker 1: don't even know if you were to place a dude
49:35
Speaker 1: in front of me, I wouldn't know how to communicate
49:37
Speaker 1: with him. I wouldn't know how to flirt. I'm like, granted,
49:40
Speaker 1: I only got out of this like four months ago,
49:42
Speaker 1: but I'm like, what do I do with this? Who?
49:44
Speaker 2: Ha?
49:44
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know, I'm like, I've been putting
49:47
Speaker 1: a time capsule and just arrived on planet Earth yesterday.
49:50
Speaker 1: Is how I'm feeling.
49:51
Speaker 4: How long were you guys together?
49:53
Speaker 1: Six years?
49:54
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that's so long.
49:55
Speaker 1: Yeah it's a long time and the same person. And
49:58
Speaker 1: then during that time period is when I got sober.
50:01
Speaker 1: So not only am I diving into new territory, I
50:04
Speaker 1: have no lubrication to kind of make me loose, you know, Yeah,
50:09
Speaker 1: I feel you it's rough out there.
50:11
Speaker 4: I mean, I feel like timing is really important, you know.
50:15
Speaker 1: Yeah, like when you go searching for it, it's probably
50:16
Speaker 1: not going to happen.
50:18
Speaker 4: I feel like you just have to like lay low
50:20
Speaker 4: and be selective, be like the you know, like the stars.
50:23
Speaker 4: You don't come out all the time.
50:24
Speaker 1: Ooh, if you come out all the.
50:26
Speaker 4: Time, you kind of lose your stock. Because I feel
50:28
Speaker 4: like I used to do that. I still like, like
50:30
Speaker 4: as soon as Gut and I broke up, I felt
50:32
Speaker 4: like I had to go to like every event. I
50:33
Speaker 4: had to go to every party. And now I feel
50:36
Speaker 4: like I'm at a place where I'm like I really
50:38
Speaker 4: don't care, Like I'm so good, I don't even care.
50:41
Speaker 1: Oh, I need to get on that I mean, I
50:43
Speaker 1: think I'm a little bit too much on that train
50:45
Speaker 1: where I'm like home sounds much better than going out
50:47
Speaker 1: and like talking to people that I really don't give
50:50
Speaker 1: a shit about.
50:51
Speaker 4: Last year, if you would have called me and you
50:52
Speaker 4: were like, hey, let's go to like Dave and Busters
50:55
Speaker 4: and then let's go, if you asked me to do
50:57
Speaker 4: something twice, like I probably'll do it. The first time,
51:00
Speaker 4: I'll be like I shouldn't, and then like the second time,
51:03
Speaker 4: I'll be like, Okay, if you really want to go,
51:05
Speaker 4: let's go. Like I'm like that person, so I didn't
51:07
Speaker 4: know how to say no.
51:09
Speaker 1: Yeah.
51:09
Speaker 4: Yeah, I have five billion friends, so every time someone
51:11
Speaker 4: calls me, I'd be like okay, okay, okay, and then
51:14
Speaker 4: like I was like, I'm exhausted for making everyone happy.
51:17
Speaker 1: Yeah, you were out every night of the week.
51:19
Speaker 4: Yeah, just like day night, like lunch, breakfast, coffee, snack.
51:24
Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, and the place is that you know, you
51:27
Speaker 1: and I live in or travel to, there's something happening
51:30
Speaker 1: twenty four seven. You can always find a reason to
51:33
Speaker 1: go do something.
51:34
Speaker 4: Yeah, totally, and.
51:34
Speaker 1: It is exhausting. So before I let you go, I
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Speaker 1: have one question. Do you have any age range that
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Speaker 1: is like your minimum and maximum.
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Speaker 4: I don't know. I hate to put age on someone
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Speaker 4: because I feel like when I was twenty one, I
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Speaker 4: could have easily been with like a forty year old
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Speaker 4: man because I was so mature at twenty.
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Speaker 1: One, Right, do you feel like you know, I feel
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Speaker 1: like I was because my ex was twenty years older
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Speaker 1: than me.
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Speaker 4: Oh so yeah, so you know what I'm talking. I
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Speaker 4: just feel like sometimes you can can't really put age
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Speaker 4: on it. Like my parents are ten years apart. My
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Speaker 4: uncle and his wife were like twenty five years apart.
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Speaker 4: So for me, I don't like, I don't think of
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Speaker 4: age like that. You know. I see girls that are
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Speaker 4: at twenty five that are like so old, and then
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Speaker 4: I see people that are forty five They're so young, right,
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Speaker 4: I don't know. I think like if I had to
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Speaker 4: put an age on it, I would say, maybe like
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Speaker 4: I should date guys that are twenty eight.
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Speaker 1: Okay to like fifty five. That's great. That leaves a
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Speaker 1: lot of men to pick from. Yeah, I'm kind of
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Speaker 1: on that, not the fifty five. I think like twenty
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Speaker 1: eight should be the for me, the youngest. I don't
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Speaker 1: think I could go back to the twenty years.
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Speaker 4: Girl, Well, twenty years is a lot.
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Speaker 1: That's a lot.
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Speaker 4: It probably like like what you needed when you were younger,
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Speaker 4: you didn't need when you like right now, it was
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Speaker 4: like what you needed was different.
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Speaker 1: Damn, you've given me a lot to think about. You've
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Speaker 1: been dropping mad knowledge and you don't even realize it.
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Speaker 1: Do you realize it?
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Speaker 4: I mean I feel like I'm good at relationships.
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Speaker 1: All right, Well, I'm going to hitch you up more often.
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Speaker 4: Speed dial. I got you.
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Speaker 1: I love it. Thank you so much for coming on
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Speaker 1: my podcast, Lars. I appreciate it. I'll say bye bye, baby,