THE VICTIM MINDSET: WHY THE UNFAITHFUL WHINES, BLAMES, AND ISN'T EMPATHETIC
What if the biggest obstacle to your recovery isn't shame, defensiveness, or even your affair - but believing you're the victim?
Many unfaithful partners experience real grief, shame, fear, and emotional pain after discovery.
But when that pain becomes the organizing principle of their recovery, it shifts the focus away from healing and toward emotional self-protection.
In this episode of Ask the Unfaithful, James and Sam explore one of the most overlooked barriers to genuine recovery: the victim stance.
You'll learn why the victim stance often develops long before an affair begins, how…
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