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Have You Heard of the '3-to-5' Message Rule for Successful Dating? · On Air with Ryan Seacrest

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  Speaker 1: It's concept. Haven't got a quote of the day here
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  Speaker 1: and now? If you are sort of having a hard
• 0:06
  Speaker 1: time getting from online matches into real life matches, have
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  Speaker 1: you heard of the three to five message rule? They say,
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  Speaker 1: if you're single and having a hard time transitioning from
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  Speaker 1: online conversation to actual dates, they suggest this is there
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  Speaker 1: chemistry after three to five messages. If there's chemistry after
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  Speaker 1: three to five messages, then you should meet. If there's not,
• 0:29
  Speaker 1: move on, stop wasting your time. Just move on. This
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  Speaker 1: is risky.
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  Speaker 2: Why is it risky? What's risky about it?
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  Speaker 1: It's risky because some people are not good texters. Hi,
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  Speaker 1: I am a bad texture. I'm bad.
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  Speaker 2: I'm a bad texter.
• 0:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't pat myself on the back, but I'm
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  Speaker 1: a better in person person than text person.
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  Speaker 2: Text just get lost for me, Like I don't see
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  Speaker 2: something the time.
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  Speaker 1: I'm certainly not chat GPT cutpace guy. I'm not that,
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  Speaker 1: and so I'm not saying the time for that. I'm
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  Speaker 1: not saying the time to be so clever Like sometimes
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  Speaker 1: I literally will be okay, let's you know you should
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  Speaker 1: do Ryan? What text back? Something cute and clever? Well,
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  Speaker 1: then I'm in the dot dot dot on the other
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  Speaker 1: side for like three minutes first, because then it's ak
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  Speaker 1: you three minutes to come up with that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you just go with what your first instinct is
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  Speaker 2: because that's the real you.
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  Speaker 1: Who knows who is the real everyone today's quote, The
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  Speaker 1: moment you stop apologizing for being ambitious is the moment
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  Speaker 1: everything shifts. Hey,