Latest / The D.L. Hughley Show / DLHS Hour 2 | Is Twelve too young for makeup
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- 0:00Speaker 1: It is the deal. You could show your twenty twenty
- 0:02Speaker 1: six edition Baker's Field you up neck. Baker's Field is
- 0:04Speaker 1: the Texas of California. So a young girl is punished
- 0:09Speaker 1: her father mother punished her for wearing makeup. You think
- 0:13Speaker 1: twelve is too young? And if so, what do you
- 0:15Speaker 1: think the appropriate age would be? Lena speaking to the microphone.
- 0:20Speaker 1: We're gonna give you another chance because you never seem
- 0:22Speaker 1: to get it right, so I'm gonna give it a shot.
- 0:24Speaker 1: What do you think it's twelve too young to wear makeup?
- 0:28Speaker 1: And if twelve is too young, what is the appropriate age?
- 0:31Speaker 2: I mean, I do think twelve is a little too
- 0:33Speaker 2: young to wear makeup, But you know that's just my
- 0:37Speaker 2: preference somebody else.
- 0:38Speaker 1: That's why I asked you for your preference. I asked
- 0:40Speaker 1: you to explain what somebody else might have. Just tell
- 0:43Speaker 1: me what you think. Yeah, I think twelve is sweet.
- 0:47Speaker 1: There you go. I think the appropriate age is probably
- 0:50Speaker 1: like sixteen. Okay, there you go see it?
- 0:52Speaker 3: Yeah?
- 0:52Speaker 1: Okay, all right, there you go see. See. There you
- 0:54Speaker 1: go a Kingsnetta right. When you can wear that, when
- 0:57Speaker 1: you can wear a prom dress and soccer shoes, then
- 0:59Speaker 1: it's time exactly exactly. That's what we're talking.
- 1:06Speaker 3: Man.
- 1:06Speaker 1: If I see one work so Jasmine, what do you
- 1:13Speaker 1: think twelve? Is that too young? And if so, what
- 1:16Speaker 1: would be the appropriate.
- 1:17Speaker 2: I don't mind a little something at twelve if you
- 1:20Speaker 2: want to, like I take my knees to get her
- 1:22Speaker 2: nails done, A little lip gloss is fine by me.
- 1:26Speaker 2: But if you're going to do the whole contour of
- 1:28Speaker 2: the face and you know, you know, eyeshadow and all
- 1:32Speaker 2: of that, that's when they what you don't like the
- 1:34Speaker 2: heavy makeup where it's dark here and it's the whole thing.
- 1:36Speaker 1: Now, not to say if you're going back to an
- 1:38Speaker 1: event well at twelve, yeah, but I'm saying when you
- 1:41Speaker 1: were speaking about I just think that that you're right.
- 1:45Speaker 1: I think there is a lot of I think that
- 1:47Speaker 1: a lot of that came from social media, but a
- 1:50Speaker 1: lot of that came from the way that these reality
- 1:52Speaker 1: show stars look to people.
- 1:54Speaker 2: Oh for sure, without question, because they they all think
- 1:57Speaker 2: that that's.
- 1:58Speaker 1: But they influence that.
- 2:00Speaker 2: They are called influencers, and so other people want to
- 2:02Speaker 2: look like that. And so you watched your talk and
- 2:05Speaker 2: Instagram and all these things, and you think, okay, well
- 2:08Speaker 2: this I could make this better.
- 2:09Speaker 1: That's the whole purpose of makeup.
- 2:11Speaker 2: Not always to look older, because people who are older
- 2:14Speaker 2: wear makeup, but you do it to look better.
- 2:15Speaker 1: You do it for various reasons.
- 2:17Speaker 2: If you want to hide a pimple, or if you
- 2:19Speaker 2: want to carve out your cheekbones, you conjure your face,
- 2:22Speaker 2: you want your lips to stand.
- 2:23Speaker 4: Down to you.
- 2:24Speaker 1: You should stay. I shouldn't do. You should stay at
- 2:26Speaker 1: Captain D's and people should stay. You want to call
- 2:29Speaker 1: it to your face? Want you keep it out of
- 2:33Speaker 1: waffle house?
- 2:36Speaker 2: You know everybody it's not blessed with beautiful skin, so
- 2:41Speaker 2: you know, or features, so they want to, you know,
- 2:43Speaker 2: judge it up a little bit.
- 2:44Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, But you don't want to put spackle
- 2:47Speaker 1: on your face. You want sometimes you got to, man,
- 2:52Speaker 1: you need a head transplant. Those are not available yet.
- 2:57Speaker 1: So the question we're asking ladies and gentlemen, uh, let
- 2:59Speaker 1: me that is audio. But I feel like I'm mature
- 3:02Speaker 1: enough to wear makeup.
- 3:03Speaker 5: You're not mature enough to on no make up. You're
- 3:06Speaker 5: twelve twelve, when you're fifteen sixteen, you could make up,
- 3:10Speaker 5: but you're not going to be doing it at them
- 3:11Speaker 5: twelve years old and I've told you stop trying to
- 3:14Speaker 5: follow behind.
- 3:15Speaker 1: The dele feet skip. You have a beautiful daughter, you
- 3:18Speaker 1: have two beautiful daughters. Yes, yes, I should say, when
- 3:21Speaker 1: do you think it's twelve to young? And well, it's
- 3:23Speaker 1: definitely too young, and what will be inappropriate age? And
- 3:25Speaker 1: you know what, sixteen? Fifteen, sixteen, and think about it.
- 3:29Speaker 1: It's not just uh, social media that influences them. It's
- 3:32Speaker 1: a natural thing.
- 3:33Speaker 6: Kids look at their parents, their mothers, and if they
- 3:35Speaker 6: see their mom putting on lipstick, then you know that's
- 3:37Speaker 6: why they put on their mama shoes and walk around
- 3:39Speaker 6: the house. They want to be like that, But you,
- 3:41Speaker 6: as a parent have to keep a major appropriate to
- 3:43Speaker 6: keep them predators up.
- 3:44Speaker 1: Don't wait too long though.
- 3:45Speaker 2: I got to push back a little bit because I
- 3:47Speaker 2: know a lot of people don't wear like my mama
- 3:49Speaker 2: never wore makeup for everybody.
- 3:51Speaker 1: But right, that's what I was gonna say.
- 3:52Speaker 2: I think most of the time you do what your
- 3:55Speaker 2: friends do because you don't want to be like your mama,
- 3:57Speaker 2: So you do what your friends do. If your friends
- 3:59Speaker 2: are wearing shorts, you want to wear a short short skirt.
- 4:01Speaker 1: If they're wearing makeup, you want to your friends get pregnant,
- 4:04Speaker 1: you know you want to get bread.
- 4:05Speaker 7: Exactly.
- 4:06Speaker 1: That's one correct. They used to have a pregnancy packed
- 4:10Speaker 1: in school. I'm telling you it's true. You want to
- 4:14Speaker 1: do what your friends do.
- 4:15Speaker 2: That's why your mama when she would reprimand you, she say, so,
- 4:17Speaker 2: if your friend's gonna jump off a.
- 4:18Speaker 1: Bridge, you are to. I ain't one of your little
- 4:20Speaker 1: friends jump off.
- 4:22Speaker 2: You want to follow behind your friends, You want to
- 4:25Speaker 2: do it.
- 4:26Speaker 8: Yep.
- 4:26Speaker 1: Now they try to be your friend on Facebook. You
- 4:28Speaker 1: ain't want my little friends right exactly. I just think
- 4:33Speaker 1: to your point, it has always existed, but it just
- 4:36Speaker 1: didn't have this level of mechanism where it did. You know,
- 4:39Speaker 1: it's so and I think that, but everything twelve is
- 4:43Speaker 1: too young. But don't wait too long. Because I waited
- 4:45Speaker 1: too long and then one of my daughters just let
- 4:47Speaker 1: me so I think, wow, that's so stupid. I should
- 4:54Speaker 1: have I should have let her put on some bluffs
- 4:56Speaker 1: before she started digging cheeks. That's what I should have done.
- 4:58Speaker 1: I mean, I'm just saying maybe, yeah, I'm saying, what
- 5:01Speaker 1: are you talking about?
- 5:02Speaker 2: But the times have changed now even now you have
- 5:04Speaker 2: people like companies like Sophora that have twelve year old
- 5:08Speaker 2: makeup influences, right, Like, so it's a lot to do
- 5:11Speaker 2: with social media. You see other people who were doing it.
- 5:14Speaker 2: I just googled it on Ai to ask is twelve
- 5:16Speaker 2: too young? They said, no, twelve is not inherently too
- 5:19Speaker 2: old for makeup, as many children started experimenting in middle
- 5:21Speaker 2: school between the ages of twelve and fifteen. But the
- 5:24Speaker 2: decision depends on family values and the child's ready.
- 5:27Speaker 1: Actually, absolutely so. Even Laana said between twelve to young
- 5:31Speaker 1: and fifteen, right, okay, even in the dominic Kando, Yeah, yeah,
- 5:35Speaker 1: you got it.
- 5:35Speaker 6: You gotta know how to talk to the kids. Like
- 5:37Speaker 6: I remember when Taylor she was playing coming off with
- 5:39Speaker 6: soccer field. She was little, and she saw a cheerleader
- 5:41Speaker 6: go by, and you know, to kids, or a little
- 5:43Speaker 6: girl cheerleader kind of look like a princess. The girl
- 5:45Speaker 6: was all made up, had a little pompong and she
- 5:47Speaker 6: looked at me and said.
- 5:48Speaker 1: Dad, I want to be a cheerleader.
- 5:50Speaker 6: I said, okay, baby, you can be a cheerleader and
- 5:52Speaker 6: cheer for other people. You can keep playing soccer and
- 5:55Speaker 6: Neil cheer for you. She looked at me and said,
- 5:57Speaker 6: I'll keep playing soccer. You never had that conversation again.
- 5:59Speaker 1: Yeah, everybody's different. Yeah, all right, so we're gonna ask
- 6:03Speaker 1: you that we're gonna finally get into you because he
- 6:05Speaker 1: is the most important in this thing. I don't care
- 6:06Speaker 1: what these people say. Who did what you guys think? Yeah,
- 6:11Speaker 1: so who do you think is twelve too younger? Here
- 6:14Speaker 1: is the ideam you need.
- 6:15Speaker 5: To stop being a farther, but be a legal. I
- 6:18Speaker 5: was never like that when I was in school. I
- 6:20Speaker 5: followed myself. I ain't following nobody else. Now'm simple. You
- 6:24Speaker 5: think that you're grown, you want to one of those shorts.
- 6:27Speaker 5: You're gonna do everything that peoplebody else do. Be a legal,
- 6:30Speaker 5: not a fallow, because you're gonna follow the role, follow
- 6:33Speaker 5: them in the road direction, and be headed down a
- 6:36Speaker 5: road road because you want to.
- 6:38Speaker 9: Be like everybody else.
- 6:40Speaker 1: You do not have the well play because you're.
- 6:41Speaker 9: Beautiful with diving.
- 6:43Speaker 1: If twelve is to young, when do you think they
- 6:45Speaker 1: are properly ages? We're gonna write to the farms.
- 6:47Speaker 10: So I just want to say, when we're talking about
- 6:49Speaker 10: different cultures, right, black families, black mothers, we did not
- 6:54Speaker 10: play when makeup at a young age.
- 6:58Speaker 8: We didn't even our.
- 6:59Speaker 10: Grandmother didn't even play with us playing in red lipstick,
- 7:03Speaker 10: old red nail pots. You know, they said that was
- 7:06Speaker 10: a horse. So with her being twelve years old, I
- 7:09Speaker 10: get what the mama saying. That's right. Don't let that
- 7:12Speaker 10: little girl put no makeup on at no dad on
- 7:15Speaker 10: twelve Because if you look at the generations today, these kids'
- 7:19Speaker 10: bodies are developing early. So if you put the twelve
- 7:23Speaker 10: year old in makeup and she already got like a
- 7:25Speaker 10: sixteen year old body, then when a man eighteen or
- 7:28Speaker 10: twenty one's try to get at her, you know, then
- 7:30Speaker 10: everybody want to be going crazy and going to hell off.
- 7:33Speaker 8: I have heard a parent do that since I was young.
- 7:37Speaker 8: True story, My oldest sister left the school and pretty
- 7:42Speaker 8: much at school clothes. When she got there, she changed
- 7:45Speaker 8: out into a halter top and a mini skirt. My
- 7:49Speaker 8: grandmother came up there because I got sick, and she
- 7:53Speaker 8: ran into my sister into in the hallway and right
- 7:57Speaker 8: in front of everybody. I didn't knew to school with that.
- 8:00Speaker 8: When she got hold she got toe up. Because it's
- 8:03Speaker 8: about the parents. A young girl should stay any young
- 8:07Speaker 8: girl's place, they don't need to be out there trying
- 8:12Speaker 8: to dress up and look like they are older than
- 8:15Speaker 8: what they are because that's doing nothing. But in Tyson pedophile,
- 8:21Speaker 8: in Tyson perverse. So yeah, grandma was right or mom
- 8:25Speaker 8: was right, that child should stay in the child's place.
- 8:29Speaker 3: I think that the proper age to wear makeup is
- 8:32Speaker 3: at least sixteen years old. That's if they have some
- 8:36Speaker 3: type of skin problem. And then even at sixteen, as
- 8:39Speaker 3: long as you're still living at home. If your parents
- 8:43Speaker 3: say no makeup, then I feel like the child should
- 8:46Speaker 3: honor that until they are at least eighteen years of age.
- 8:52Speaker 11: I think to answer this question, I think twelve is
- 8:55Speaker 11: too young if that's what the parents are set. This
- 8:59Speaker 11: is about parents, and no child is gonna do exactly
- 9:02Speaker 11: and they're gonna challenge you. But just by the dialogue
- 9:05Speaker 11: and that exert the daughter knew it was wrong because
- 9:10Speaker 11: she's nothing did it after the parent had told her.
- 9:13Speaker 11: But you know, it varies from situation. Can you imagine Blue,
- 9:18Speaker 11: Ivy Carter or Northwest being under the twelve year old
- 9:22Speaker 11: makeup rule in the family that they're in. So it varies.
- 9:26Speaker 11: But when you want to instill something in your child morally,
- 9:29Speaker 11: you're going to teach them and you're going to stand
- 9:31Speaker 11: firm on it. The young girl said, but my friends,
- 9:34Speaker 11: we've all said that, but we already know what our
- 9:37Speaker 11: parents have said. So it's a teaching thing. Jamaica King
- 9:41Speaker 11: kid is an Arthur. She wrote an essay, a short
- 9:44Speaker 11: read called Girl, an Islander Woman and her daughter, and
- 9:48Speaker 11: she gave her a series of directions to ward her
- 9:51Speaker 11: off against the sciutal norms of today. Please read that,
- 9:54Speaker 11: Jamaica King Kate's girl, just to keep her daughter straight.
- 9:58Speaker 11: But I enjoy your show and I definitely think the
- 10:02Speaker 11: answer yes is too young. Basically, if the parents said it,
- 10:06Speaker 11: whatever the parents said.
- 10:07Speaker 4: Well, twelve year olds is definitely too young. They should
- 10:11Speaker 4: just be wearing lift gloves. Little girls need to say
- 10:14Speaker 4: little girls.
- 10:15Speaker 3: As long as they can.
- 10:16Speaker 4: I think the age appropriate age for a daughter to
- 10:19Speaker 4: start wearing make up at the age of eighteen. Need
- 10:23Speaker 4: to teach your young ladies that you have a pretty
- 10:26Speaker 4: fast and you're pretty built. Theyself for Seamus, makeup. It's
- 10:29Speaker 4: not the answer.
- 10:30Speaker 1: So here's the.
- 10:31Speaker 7: Audio, and when you get older you can wait.
- 10:34Speaker 5: But from now you better I wasn't gonna make up
- 10:36Speaker 5: or you're gonna get to the high tour. Do you
- 10:38Speaker 5: understand what's the same. I can't hear you. Yes, now
- 10:44Speaker 5: you need to write that. You say, your brother's already
- 10:47Speaker 5: told me, and I'm glad they told me, like something,
- 10:48Speaker 5: Wait so you get home from school because you don't
- 10:51Speaker 5: do that. It ain't how we rolled in this house.
- 10:54Speaker 1: Do you think twelve is too young? And if so,
- 10:56Speaker 1: we see provilege you're going write to the phones.
- 10:58Speaker 12: I think twel it's too young. When my daughter was twelve,
- 11:02Speaker 12: her girlfriends were wearing makeup and with her, I told her,
- 11:05Speaker 12: when you turned sixteen, we can talk about were you
- 11:08Speaker 12: wearing makeup with twelve years old? Definitely not?
- 11:12Speaker 8: Uh yeah.
- 11:13Speaker 13: As a single father who raised my daughter pretty much
- 11:15Speaker 13: from birth, we got to dollar these young ladies back in.
- 11:19Speaker 13: Twelve is definitely too young to make up. My family
- 11:24Speaker 13: told me that eighteen was too old, So I'm gonna
- 11:26Speaker 13: say maybe sixteen seventeen mild. But I mean, you know,
- 11:30Speaker 13: let's keep our young women little girls and tell everybody
- 11:33Speaker 13: to blossoming and young women. You know, we shouldn't over
- 11:36Speaker 13: sexualize them and things like that. So yeah, I think
- 11:39Speaker 13: definitely twelve is way too young.
- 11:41Speaker 14: Brothers, I don't think that she should have been punished.
- 11:44Speaker 14: I just think her mother should have talked to her because,
- 11:47Speaker 14: like IDLL usually said, we are living in a different society.
- 11:52Speaker 14: Talk who are instead of punishing her? Yes, talk to
- 11:55Speaker 14: are instead of punishing her. That's what I think. I
- 11:58Speaker 14: don't think, you know, the punishment is the little bit,
- 12:01Speaker 14: you know extreme.
- 12:02Speaker 1: That's my opinion.
- 12:03Speaker 15: No, hell, no, twelve year old shouldn't be wearing no makeup.
- 12:07Speaker 15: They should be at least and I figured that I'll give.
- 12:10Speaker 16: Them at least twenty twenty one, twenty two years old
- 12:13Speaker 16: or older, because even and these young ladies, they don't
- 12:16Speaker 16: even know they selfiet at that age, at twelve years old,
- 12:20Speaker 16: and a lot of the parents they just let these
- 12:21Speaker 16: kids do what they want.
- 12:22Speaker 15: But not at my house. I'm a grandpa and I'll
- 12:25Speaker 15: be on. I'd be right my granddaughters about certain things
- 12:28Speaker 15: they should do and things they shouldn't wear. And I
- 12:30Speaker 15: like when they was getting me graduation pictures, I say,
- 12:33Speaker 15: why y'all putting all that makeup on your felps? Y'all,
- 12:35Speaker 15: y'all look like mannigins. You can't see the beauty of
- 12:38Speaker 15: their faces. You know you're coming, They're just coming up
- 12:41Speaker 15: all their beauty. You know what I'm saying?
- 12:43Speaker 9: So no, I don't think they should wear makeup at
- 12:47Speaker 9: such a young age. Let's your skin breathe. We're already
- 12:51Speaker 9: naturally beautiful. So I agree with the mother.
- 12:54Speaker 3: No.
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