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Challenging-Discussions-on-Late Marriage · Apostle Joshua Selman

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  Speaker 1: M in all you're getting get wisdom. Wisdom is the
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  Speaker 1: principal thing. Through wisdom is a house built.
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  Speaker 2: And by understanding, it is established.
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  Speaker 1: Just for a sermon of eternity networking international, as it
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  Speaker 1: takes you on a journey into the wisdom of God's Word.
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  Speaker 1: It's intacy, it's partnership, it's famiship, this is carimonia.
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  Speaker 3: Let's give you praise.
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  Speaker 4: Let's be the name of the Lord. That's his name
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  Speaker 4: for another opportunity.
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  Speaker 3: Everywhere you sign an outside. Let's let your handsome blessing
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  Speaker 3: very way, very way over the blood in some heaven.
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  Speaker 5: Very way, then.
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  Speaker 3: Even over the flood in say bad, very.
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  Speaker 5: Love bron.
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  Speaker 3: Fanny star in the then very very bog y.
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  Speaker 4: Ask the Lord to speak to you.
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  Speaker 6: To ask the Lord to speak to you tonight and
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  Speaker 6: very personal. Lord, speak to us by the power of
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  Speaker 6: your spot speak to us by their gods.
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  Speaker 3: Will you's feels. Allelujah, hallelujah, A welcome every.
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  Speaker 4: One of us.
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  Speaker 7: I know that the Lord will you as good tonight
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  Speaker 7: in the name of the Lord Chans Christ, allelujah. Hom
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  Speaker 7: I just pray from the depth of your heart and
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  Speaker 7: asks a Lord for wisdom and in icitation tonight, ask
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  Speaker 7: him for wisdom, like.
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  Speaker 3: You heard during the welcome notice, not enough to just
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  Speaker 3: have access to light. The price must be supply to
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  Speaker 3: be to us. Please pray.
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  Speaker 4: Give us a visitation tonight of God.
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  Speaker 3: But allelujah, allelujah, allelujah. I always want us to realize
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  Speaker 3: that when we come before God like this, we are
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  Speaker 3: coming to access wisdom. It says, by me kings reign
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  Speaker 3: and Princess great justice, by me King's reign. Allelujah. You
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  Speaker 3: only arise and shine to the accent to which your
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  Speaker 3: light comes, he says, And the glory of the Lord
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  Speaker 3: is reasonable.
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  Speaker 4: Allelujah.
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  Speaker 3: Every time.
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  Speaker 4: The Lord of God is about to come to you
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  Speaker 4: say time.
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  Speaker 3: To rejoice and open up your spirit, because truly speaking
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  Speaker 3: one word from God will change your ideology.
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  Speaker 4: And open you to a new dimension of this grace. Allelujah,
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  Speaker 4: God bless you place. Allelujah.
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  Speaker 8: Once again, You're welcome all those worshiping with us for
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  Speaker 8: the first time, You're most welcome all those outside your
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  Speaker 8: most welcome. I wanted to pay attention to tonight's teaching
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  Speaker 8: very carefully. Every spirit that wants to distract you this night,
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  Speaker 8: you most consciously cast it, because what I'm about to
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  Speaker 8: share for many of you, it will open you to
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  Speaker 8: a new dimension of wisdom and a new dimension of gracea.
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  Speaker 3: Amen.
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  Speaker 4: I've told us that time does not change anything.
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  Speaker 3: Time only reveals. It is light that brings the transformation
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  Speaker 3: and the changes that we need in our lives. So
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  Speaker 3: if you're waiting for time to change anything in your life,
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  Speaker 3: it will never change anything. Time will only reveal the
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  Speaker 3: truth about a thing or otherwise.
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  Speaker 4: But time in itself does not have the ability to
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  Speaker 4: change anything.
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  Speaker 3: Time is only relevant when there are other factors also
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  Speaker 3: in place.
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  Speaker 4: Allelujah, Holy Spirit, to.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you for your wisdom. There are number of issues
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  Speaker 3: that I'll be talking about today, Hallelujah.
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  Speaker 4: I like us to look very deeply into the subject
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  Speaker 4: of relationships and marriage tonight. Hallelujah.
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  Speaker 3: Praise the Lord. Not distracting people. Everybody came for business tonight,
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  Speaker 3: so you sit down and listen. I'll be discussing a
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  Speaker 3: few issues that I think will really challenge us. I
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  Speaker 3: went through a recent statistics about Christian homes and Christian marriages,
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  Speaker 3: and it really really broke my heart to see how
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  Speaker 3: that the number of failed marriages we have in the church.
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  Speaker 3: We're not talking of outside the church. The number of
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  Speaker 3: failed marriages in the church is becoming a learning that
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  Speaker 3: I'm talking about marriage does not mean that i will
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  Speaker 3: not talk about many other issues. As I'm teaching about marriage,
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  Speaker 3: some of you will hear revelations that will bring you
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  Speaker 3: into de part dimensions of intimacy with the Wooly story.
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  Speaker 3: There's so many things I.
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  Speaker 4: Want to talk about.
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  Speaker 3: There are corrections, major generational corrections that God is going
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  Speaker 3: to be bringing tonight. I'm going to be talking about
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  Speaker 3: a few issues that I think many men of God
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  Speaker 3: have shied away from or have not really sustained intelligence
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  Speaker 3: in the spirit to address very genuinely and truthfully.
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  Speaker 4: Allelujah, And so we'll be looking very closely.
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  Speaker 3: You would expect that the Church of the Lord Jesus Christ,
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  Speaker 3: being a church that is called after his name, we
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  Speaker 3: should excel in every area of our lives, most especially marriage,
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  Speaker 3: especially because the issue of relationships and marriage was God's idea.
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  Speaker 3: It was not man's prayer request to God and then
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  Speaker 3: his answer. So you'd wonder why two Christians can be
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  Speaker 3: born again, framed in tongues and then will not be
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  Speaker 3: able to have a very successful marriage.
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  Speaker 4: And the rate is alarming brothers and sisters.
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  Speaker 3: The rate is alarming. And then another closely related to
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  Speaker 3: that is another very interesting discovery, And it has been
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  Speaker 3: proven again that it is more difficult to get married
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  Speaker 3: in our generation, in fact, ten times more difficult to
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  Speaker 3: get married into this's world and into this's church than
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  Speaker 3: it was a few years ago. And we're going to
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  Speaker 3: be examining that. Why should that be so, Because as
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  Speaker 3: at the time of our parents and grandparents, they didn't
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  Speaker 3: have access to marriage seminars, they didn't have access to books,
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  Speaker 3: they didn't have access to resources. Is that true? But
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  Speaker 3: right now we have almost every man of God I
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  Speaker 3: know who has written books, has touched on the subject
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  Speaker 3: of marriage. Every church convention, women programs, there are all
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  Speaker 3: kinds of women's ministries that I've come up trying to
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  Speaker 3: address the issue of marriage. There are all kinds of articles.
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  Speaker 3: In fact, there are ministries that are founded dedicated towards
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  Speaker 3: the family life. At least we understand right now that
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  Speaker 3: the family is one of the mountains that God has
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  Speaker 3: set for influence. Yet the more these information is called,
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  Speaker 3: the more the graph of excellence in marriage and relationships
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  Speaker 3: generally detorial reate. And I've identified some reasons by the
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  Speaker 3: Spirit of God, and we're going to share on a
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  Speaker 3: number of things. The first area we're going to consider
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  Speaker 3: is we want to find out why it keeps getting
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  Speaker 3: difficult to get married in the church today. What exactly
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  Speaker 3: is the puzzle? What is wrong? Is it that God
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  Speaker 3: has changed his mind about marriage and relationships? Please pay
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  Speaker 3: attention marriage single This is from the spirit and this
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  Speaker 3: will bless us. Why many remain unmarried not willfully? And
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  Speaker 3: why many more Christians will remain unmarried in the day's
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  Speaker 3: succom Hallelujah number one. The first reason why many Christians
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  Speaker 3: or many in the Body of Christ, loving people, people
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  Speaker 3: who sincere in love God and fare the Lord, may
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  Speaker 3: remain unmarried for a very long time. The first reason
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  Speaker 3: here is misconceptions and confusion about the concept of the
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  Speaker 3: will of God or the perfect match. Write it down.
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  Speaker 3: The first reason is misconceptions and confusions about the concept
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  Speaker 3: of You can put in quote the will of God
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  Speaker 3: or the perfect match. Write it down, wet mos Li truly,
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  Speaker 3: most there is a widespread and listen carefully, there is
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  Speaker 3: a widespread confusion in the Body of Christ. Pentecostal circles,
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  Speaker 3: orthodog circles, Presbyterian circles. There is a widespread confusion, and
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  Speaker 3: that confusion keeps multiplying as to the concept of what
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  Speaker 3: we have come to know in the Body of Christ
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  Speaker 3: as the will of God in marriage, or as we
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  Speaker 3: call it in a secular society, the perfect match. This
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  Speaker 3: has been one of the major reasons why many believer
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  Speaker 3: us do not get married, and why many may not
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  Speaker 3: get married. It's a different thing if you are planning,
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  Speaker 3: you have your goals and so on and so forth.
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  Speaker 3: But there are so many people who truly desire to
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  Speaker 3: be married forty years, fifty years, fifty five years, sixty years.
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  Speaker 3: In the church, they tell you they are still trusting
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  Speaker 3: God for a life partner, or trusting God to settle down.
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  Speaker 3: And the number one reason is that there has been
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  Speaker 3: a misconception, of course, perpetuated by men of God and
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  Speaker 3: marriage counselors and Christian counselors and Christian books and relationship
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  Speaker 3: ministries about the concept of the will of God and
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  Speaker 3: the perfect match. Is that true? There are so many
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  Speaker 3: people today who may never get married because they listen
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  Speaker 3: to a message in a marriage seminar or your pastor
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  Speaker 3: or another man of God or somewhere, a convention, a
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  Speaker 3: friends you went to, and you had a woman of
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  Speaker 3: God or a man of God you respect and admire,
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  Speaker 3: communicate a thought about the will of God, about the
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  Speaker 3: perfect match and the danger of making a wrong decision
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  Speaker 3: in marriage. The great consequence of having someone who is
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  Speaker 3: not designed for you and that has put fear in
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  Speaker 3: the body of Christ is that true unbelievers don't have
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  Speaker 3: any problem because they can hop into any relationship and
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  Speaker 3: hop out they can get married. And then for unbelievers,
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  Speaker 3: marriage is a contrast, not a covenant, So there is
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  Speaker 3: no fear. I can step in and get married to
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  Speaker 3: this lady. After two years, if it does not work,
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  Speaker 3: I throw out and go my way. So because of that,
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  Speaker 3: that freedom that godlessness affords them, they have no fear.
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  Speaker 3: Is that true? One person can be in a relationship
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  Speaker 3: with twenty ladies, for instance, and then the person does
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  Speaker 3: not care frankly, because us he's at liberty at any
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  Speaker 3: time to let any of them go. But there seems
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  Speaker 3: to be this sacredness in the body of Christ which
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  Speaker 3: is very good, but if not balanced, it will mislead
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  Speaker 3: a lot of people. So the share of missing out
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  Speaker 3: on the will of God, the confusion as to how
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  Speaker 3: to really ascertain is there one person for a guy
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  Speaker 3: or a lady that has been destined when you were born,
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  Speaker 3: that one person was born and if you never find
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  Speaker 3: that person, you are in confusion. There's been all kinds
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  Speaker 3: of teaching like that, is that true? And many ladies
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  Speaker 3: are sincerely waiting? And then the icing of the cake
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  Speaker 3: has been the concept of prophetic revelation. Prophetic revelation has
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  Speaker 3: further complicated this point. Right when you identify a lady
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  Speaker 3: and you tell her, for instance, I'm seeing your husband
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  Speaker 3: in a vision. Your husband's name is John. He say,
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  Speaker 3: yellow guy Tall is a graduate of UNN and so
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  Speaker 3: on and so forth, and all through that lady's life
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  Speaker 3: ten years, twenty years, she convinces herself that she's enduring
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  Speaker 3: because of a prophetic word that was given. It doesn't
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  Speaker 3: matter how many Christian borers come around, because she's motivated
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  Speaker 3: by the sinceret desire. Now, it's not like she's trying
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  Speaker 3: to be difficult and is God speaking to you already?
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  Speaker 3: This teaching tonight will bring a very radical deliference to
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  Speaker 3: many people. Hallelujah. So she's waiting for the perfect match.
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  Speaker 3: Every guy that comes, she's looking at him based on
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  Speaker 3: the prophetic template, and she trusts the man of God
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  Speaker 3: who gave her that revelation. He may not be a
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  Speaker 3: fake man of God. And then for twenty years she's waiting,
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  Speaker 3: and you ask her, what exactly are you waiting for?
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  Speaker 3: And said, all the days of my appointed time, I
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  Speaker 3: will wait until my change comes. Now watch this, watch this.
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  Speaker 3: There are many people who waited like that, and their
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  Speaker 3: change truly came. Someone came exactly like that, and it
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  Speaker 3: was what's the wait? And there are others who have
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  Speaker 3: waited like that. And five years turn to ten, ten,
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  Speaker 3: turn to fifteen, fifteen turn to twenty five years when
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  Speaker 3: their colleagues, the children of your colleagues are graduating and
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  Speaker 3: getting married, they're still waiting for that promise. And they
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  Speaker 3: died in anger and bitterness. What exactly is the concept
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  Speaker 3: of the will of God in terms of marriage? What
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  Speaker 3: does the Bible teach not? What does a marriage counsel
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  Speaker 3: or teach not? What? Let me tell you something. Marriage
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  Speaker 3: is a mystery. No matter how long you are married,
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  Speaker 3: you cannot have enough audacity to talk about it so accurutely.
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  Speaker 3: You know, I truly believe. Listen, listen, I believe in
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  Speaker 3: the fact that experience can teach a lot of things.
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  Speaker 3: When a man has been married for thirty years thirty
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  Speaker 3: five years, I believe he has something to say. But
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  Speaker 3: the mysterious nature of marriage is such that there is
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  Speaker 3: no amount of time you stay in marriage that will
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  Speaker 3: afford you every information and knowledge you know as far
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  Speaker 3: as you are living in a mortal body. Hallelujah. Is
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  Speaker 3: that true. Paul the Apostle, for instance, was never married,
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  Speaker 3: yet he articulated a lot of things, and he guided
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  Speaker 3: the New Testament about marriage. Jesus himself was never married,
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  Speaker 3: yet he spoke about the issue of marriage and divorced.
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  Speaker 3: So I want to clarify something up front. There are
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  Speaker 3: many people who believe that because they are married, they
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  Speaker 3: convinced themselves that they have gained enough experience to tell
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  Speaker 3: everybody anything, and they create a doctrine out of their
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  Speaker 3: experience and they tell everybody shut off, what do you
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  Speaker 3: know about marriage? Marriage is a mystery. It's not revealed
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  Speaker 3: by your longevity. There is reviewed by the agency of
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  Speaker 3: the Holy Spirit. It's God helping us tonight because many
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  Speaker 3: erroneous books listen have comme as a result of people
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  Speaker 3: who claim they have experienced thirty years in marriage, forty
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  Speaker 3: years in marriage, and they market their template on what
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  Speaker 3: they think their experience has been as at the time
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  Speaker 3: they were getting married. There were social cultural differences. At
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  Speaker 3: that time, a woman was believed to only be defended.
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  Speaker 3: Women did not go to school. Then women did not
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  Speaker 3: do a lot of things. Then a woman never dreamt
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  Speaker 3: of owning a house, is that true? A woman never
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  Speaker 3: dreamt of getting a job. So that idea theology of
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  Speaker 3: marriage as part that time made a man absolutely responsible
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  Speaker 3: for everything. And so the woman stayed at home as
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  Speaker 3: a responsibility whether the man treated how well or not.
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  Speaker 3: She knew that living was never an option because the
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  Speaker 3: ideology giving to her was that if you leave the home,
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  Speaker 3: you have no reason to live again. So that man,
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  Speaker 3: who may have been punishing his wife for thirty years
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  Speaker 3: only because they are not divorced, convinces himself that he
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  Speaker 3: has been doing the right thing because they are together.
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  Speaker 3: And you get to the point now and he takes
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  Speaker 3: what he's supposed to be his experience and he starts
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  Speaker 3: to mentor younger generations and say, after all, my wife
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  Speaker 3: is here with me. We have been thirty years in marriage.
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  Speaker 3: That woman has gone through thirty years of hell. It's
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  Speaker 3: just that our ideology has kept that year. And because
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  Speaker 3: they are not divorced, the man convinces himself that he
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  Speaker 3: understands the formula for marriage wrong. In our contemporary society today,
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  Speaker 3: it is possible to come into a lady's life who
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  Speaker 3: already has a car, she already has a house. Is
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  Speaker 3: that true, probably has a very good job. And so
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  Speaker 3: when you come that dependency mindset. Maybe for instance, in
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  Speaker 3: time past, you know, women had to wait exclusively for
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  Speaker 3: a man. If he did not give her ten nights,
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  Speaker 3: she would not eat. Now a woman is the CEO
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  Speaker 3: of a bank and she's married to the man. So
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  Speaker 3: obviously things have changed. Are you getting the point now?
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  Speaker 3: And many of us are already on our way to
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  Speaker 3: a lot of confusion. In time past, for instance, when
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  Speaker 3: a guy wanted to ask a lady out, there's no
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  Speaker 3: Western diplomacy. You walk straight to her and say, I
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  Speaker 3: want you to be my wife. Pray about it. That
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  Speaker 3: was the end of it. You try that today and
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  Speaker 3: see how it will hurt you in a way you
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  Speaker 3: would never recover from. See that. Now, a man, listen, listen,
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  Speaker 3: he got his wife that way, and now he teaches you.
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  Speaker 3: He says, look, stand up and take steps, walk up
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  Speaker 3: to the lady and speak. The Bible says, open your
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  Speaker 3: mouth and I'll feel it. And you now get up.
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  Speaker 3: Take in nineteen seventy five or nineteen fifty four to
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  Speaker 3: twenty fifteen, and you got meet the lady and said
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  Speaker 3: I want to marry you. I hear you from my place.
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  Speaker 3: Pray about it, get back to me tomorrow. Because there
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  Speaker 3: was there was an arrow guance that men at that
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  Speaker 3: time had a man was a distinguished personality. And you
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  Speaker 3: get that or not. It was a privilege for a
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  Speaker 3: man to walk up to a lady. In fact, there
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  Speaker 3: were certain arrange three marriages that were done at that
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  Speaker 3: time that the first time the lady sees the man,
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  Speaker 3: that's when she's leaving the house. They didn't have any
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  Speaker 3: dating nonsense. They had no restaurant. They just called and said,
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  Speaker 3: how beiget, where are you? This is your husband. And
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  Speaker 3: she rejoiced. She rejoiced because for her was a privilege.
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  Speaker 3: But marriage in the twenty first century has changed. You
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  Speaker 3: take that template. I promise you you can pray all
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  Speaker 3: the tongues you want to pray. You will be in
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  Speaker 3: for a disaster A were ready to fly. Now it's
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  Speaker 3: an advertiser. Alle lujah.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, I have many things to talk about today, my goodness.
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  Speaker 3: So the misconception on the concept of the will of God,
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  Speaker 3: What exactly does the Bible teach about the will of God?
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  Speaker 3: What exactly does the Bible teach I've heard of different concepts.
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  Speaker 3: Concept number one is one man to one woman, right,
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  Speaker 3: what people will want to call the predeterminate counsel of God,
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  Speaker 3: meaning that before you are arrived, your wife had been there,
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  Speaker 3: she had been, she's somewhere around the earth. Your assignment
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  Speaker 3: is not to look for a woman. Your assignment is
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  Speaker 3: whatever channel and means you can afford find that one woman.
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  Speaker 3: And if you do not find out, you miss out
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  Speaker 3: on the will of God. And there have been testimonies
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  Speaker 3: both for or against that concept. The interesting thing about
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  Speaker 3: marriage is any point you raise, whether godly or godly,
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  Speaker 3: there are testimonies to prove its validity. Are you seeing
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  Speaker 3: the confusion now? Any point you raise about marriage, there
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  Speaker 3: are testimonies to prove its validity. That's what makes it very,
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  Speaker 3: very technical, because whatever perspective you look at it, there
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  Speaker 3: are people who will agree with it, and there are
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  Speaker 3: people who will disagree with it, the concept of one
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  Speaker 3: man and one woman. For instance, there are people who
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  Speaker 3: have given us stories that they were minding their business
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  Speaker 3: and they saw effision. That's where the concept of vision
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  Speaker 3: came from. Is that not true? They saw effision the
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  Speaker 3: name of the lady, address and everything, and it happened
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  Speaker 3: exactly as they saw. We have watched on TV and
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  Speaker 3: gone for many conferences. When a man of God can
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  Speaker 3: help a woman decipher certain things and tell her with
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  Speaker 3: accuracy the life partner for her, So that revelation now
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  Speaker 3: brings us to a point where there is even more
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  Speaker 3: confusion in the body of Christ. If a man of
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  Speaker 3: God can tell me exactly the name of my husband,
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  Speaker 3: why bat around the bush? Why not just pay the
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  Speaker 3: price and look for a man of God whose discernment
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  Speaker 3: has been proven to work well and just so into
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  Speaker 3: his life, and let this man please end the confusion
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  Speaker 3: in my life. Allelujah. Let me tell you the danger
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  Speaker 3: of this. It has brought more confusion, especially to singles. Ladies.
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  Speaker 3: Have you seen ten guys come to you and every
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  Speaker 3: one of them told you I had a dream, I
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  Speaker 3: saw a vision. And they're not lying. They're not telling
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  Speaker 3: a lie, are you getting me? I can't tell people
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  Speaker 3: all the time. And you can find multiple guys or
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  Speaker 3: multiple ladies or having a vision or a dream about
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  Speaker 3: the same person, and you may think you're just connie. No, no, no,
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  Speaker 3: no no. Some of them were minding your business. Some
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  Speaker 3: of them have agreepeated dreams and visions for others as
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  Speaker 3: much as fifty or one hundred about the same person.
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  Speaker 3: How do you are you? Am? I blessing you tonight?
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  Speaker 3: And now this innocent brother minding his business has seen
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  Speaker 3: all kinds of visions every time he sleeps. This is
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  Speaker 3: the sister he's seeing. And then the cisar is engaged
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  Speaker 3: and gege to somebody who is born again. And this
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  Speaker 3: guy's confused. He does not know what to call the
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  Speaker 3: name of his situation. Right now? Should I pray for
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  Speaker 3: that relationship to be broken? Should I disagree with my visions?
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  Speaker 3: That nobody is speaking about it on stage? There are
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  Speaker 3: many believers just jumping but carrying loads of confusion and
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  Speaker 3: guessing what they think their way around this relationship thing is.
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  Speaker 3: This is one of the reasons why there is no
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  Speaker 3: marriage in the church. Allelujah. To an extent that many
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  Speaker 3: people today do not even trust their dreams and visions
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  Speaker 3: or any experience. Again, because you had a dream about
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  Speaker 3: Brother A, he married in your very presence. Now the
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  Speaker 3: dream change Brother B. He's getting married next week, and
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  Speaker 3: you justa no, no, no, something is wrong. I know
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  Speaker 3: I'm not demonized, but I know something is wrong. How
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  Speaker 3: many brothers are patiently waiting for some sisters? Now do
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  Speaker 3: you know that some people have even trusted God to
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  Speaker 3: an extent that even when the guy is married, unconsciously
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  Speaker 3: they begin to wish the lady dead because they believe
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  Speaker 3: that that my what is my own is my own.
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  Speaker 3: You go to prophetic ministries and I don't say this
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  Speaker 3: in a critical way, and see the names of brothers
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  Speaker 3: and sisters that fly around the old towns, of men
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  Speaker 3: of God, engaging all kinds of mysteries of restoration, mysteries
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  Speaker 3: of replaining, mysteries of forcing what is your own to
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  Speaker 3: come to you. The Bible says that word is a
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  Speaker 3: like to my feet and a lamp to my part.
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  Speaker 3: Let me tell you something. If nobody talks about this,
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  Speaker 3: there will be more confusion in the body of Christ.
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  Speaker 3: You will find ladies in your tatis and your forties
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  Speaker 3: not getting married pretty lady rus lady, but the fear.
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  Speaker 3: Every time a lady wants to entire relationship, she remembers
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  Speaker 3: a prophecy she had. Every time a lady wants too
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  Speaker 3: entire relationships, she just thinks, am I so desperate that
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  Speaker 3: I'm giving up the better now to take the good?
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  Speaker 3: Let me be a little patient, Maybe my change will come.
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  Speaker 3: This has hurt the sisters more. You know why because
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  Speaker 3: the brothers are the ones who do the askking. The
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  Speaker 3: sisters do the positioning, and it's frustrating to position yourself
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  Speaker 3: on the factors that are very ambitious. As a guy,
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  Speaker 3: what's come towards you? Just say, Lord, stop me if
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  Speaker 3: I'm wrong. I'm on my way through it. There are
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  Speaker 3: two ways God can lead you start or stop it.
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  Speaker 3: Can initiate it, or you move and say Lord if
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  Speaker 3: it's against you, or will stop me. But for a lady,
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  Speaker 3: her job is to position herself. Brothers and sisters get
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  Speaker 3: frustrating when you position yourself and you keep position yourself
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  Speaker 3: days fron to weeks to months to years, two decades.
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  Speaker 3: Misconception on the confusion about the will of God and
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  Speaker 3: the perfect match Number two. Second reason why many Christians
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  Speaker 3: remain unmarried, ready on reasonable standards and expectations. On reasonable
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  Speaker 3: standards and expectations either from the guy or from the lady,
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  Speaker 3: or from both of them. The reason why many people
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  Speaker 3: in the body of Christ will remain unmarried for a
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  Speaker 3: long time is what I call a reasonable standards and expectations.
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  Speaker 3: Write it down, please look up now. We are not
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  Speaker 3: against compromising the scriptural standards that God has put. The
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  Speaker 3: Bible is very clear about certain standards that believers should
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  Speaker 3: not compromise. How when the standards become unreasonable, when the
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  Speaker 3: expectations become unreasonable? What are some of those expectations? Un
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  Speaker 3: Reasonable expectations on financial status, unreasonable expectations on levels of establishment,
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  Speaker 3: unreasonable expectation about physical appearances, physique, and etcetera. One of
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  Speaker 3: the reasons why our parents married first was that their
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  Speaker 3: standards were fair enough for anybody to just get married.
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  Speaker 3: But right now, believer us in our big to say, look,
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  Speaker 3: I'm excellent. I'm the head and not the tail. Even
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  Speaker 3: the neck I wouldn't take. I'm the head and not
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  Speaker 3: the tail. You see. So, those those motivational teachings, which
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  Speaker 3: are very important and very good, have brought us to
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  Speaker 3: a point where in a bit to have a discontent
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  Speaker 3: for average we have exaggerated it and lifted bars. Or
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  Speaker 3: There are ladies, for instance, who are fould that they
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  Speaker 3: must marry a millonnere they have sworn between them and
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  Speaker 3: their destiny. No matter what the man is doing, if
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  Speaker 3: he's not a millionnaire, I will not marry him. He
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  Speaker 3: must be born again, and he must be a millennire.
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  Speaker 3: There are guys who are fouled that he must be
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  Speaker 3: a fair lady, or exact lady, or a slim lady.
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  Speaker 3: Right it must be a lady that speaks Queen's English.
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  Speaker 3: It must be a lady that studied the faculty of Arts.
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  Speaker 3: I won't take science, I won't take medicine. People are
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  Speaker 3: that's meticulous? Right now, there are all reason level standards.
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  Speaker 3: The lady I must marry, must be a lady with
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  Speaker 3: an exceptional dress sense, must be a lady who is
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  Speaker 3: the chief, must be a lady who is a prophetess.
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  Speaker 3: Must be a lady who is this and that. And
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  Speaker 3: by the time you are ray all those standards, the
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  Speaker 3: only person who fits those standards is Jesus Christ, Allelujah.
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  Speaker 3: It is God's freaking was how many ladies have harassed
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  Speaker 3: brothers because of financial status. What are you doing this?
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  Speaker 3: How God is helping me? I'm starting Look, look, let
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  Speaker 3: me tell you up front. If God does not help
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  Speaker 3: you faster, I will be on my way. It should
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  Speaker 3: better help you. You need God to be your Beniza first,
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  Speaker 3: because I can't wait. There is a standard. I am
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  Speaker 3: a I am a high maintenance lady. I don't use
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  Speaker 3: we phone less than three thousand or five thousand. My
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  Speaker 3: clothes are designers. Are you willing? And the brother stands
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  Speaker 3: there provide and confused, not knowing what to do with himself.
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  Speaker 3: Now it's okay to love where I hope you're getting
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  Speaker 3: the message. So financial status one of the biggest barriers.
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  Speaker 3: How many brothers have gotten into things around godly because
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  Speaker 3: they are trying to match up his standard. It even
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  Speaker 3: gets worse when there are other friends involved in the
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  Speaker 3: relationship who want to tap their share of the national cake.
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  Speaker 3: They said, I helped you, I was part of the
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  Speaker 3: process for this relationship. My own share must come out.
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  Speaker 3: So if you are taking out to mister Biggs, you
• 34:41
  Speaker 3: are taking four people. Tells you this are my covenant
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  Speaker 3: friends who are church people. What you do to want
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  Speaker 3: you do to all, and you see the pressure financial status,
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  Speaker 3: and then the issue of establishment. Do you have a car?
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  Speaker 9: No?
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  Speaker 3: Do you? What kind of house? Do you have? Rented? All?
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  Speaker 3: Your personal house? Say well, I'm renting somewhere. How many
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  Speaker 3: one bedroom door? Self content?
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  Speaker 9: No?
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  Speaker 3: No, no, no, self content? What happens when my mother comes?
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  Speaker 3: What happens when my sisters come? What happen when look,
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  Speaker 3: I'm a notable person in church? Everybody knows me? What
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  Speaker 3: is all? These were? The extra rooms? Want to embarrass me?
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  Speaker 3: You want to drive us out to the parlor. And
• 35:21
  Speaker 3: there are all kinds of confusion, and the guy is
• 35:25
  Speaker 3: now wondering, well, I rented this house seventy thousand, but
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  Speaker 3: right now as it is to be able to get
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  Speaker 3: your three bedroom flat to be almost maybe seven hundred
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  Speaker 3: thousand or five hundred thousand. And the ladies said me, oh,
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  Speaker 3: I'm not ready for anything or reasonable standards. Make sure
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  Speaker 3: as I speak, you'll be looking at yourself in this message.
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  Speaker 3: Then physical appearance, brothers, brothers, physical appearance. There's no lady,
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  Speaker 3: does they No, she must be these, she must be that,
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  Speaker 3: her eyelashes must laugh. The coverage almost be meticulous. Oh,
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  Speaker 3: come on, I'm a young man. How old you think
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  Speaker 3: I am one hundred? Yes, she must be these, she
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  Speaker 3: go eight, she go whatever, and all of that. She's
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  Speaker 3: a lady. That where she's smiling. I want to sleep bracted.
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  Speaker 3: I don't see what what looks like my own I
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  Speaker 3: already have bad the addition, if I you see, let
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  Speaker 3: me tell you listen, listen. There's nothing wrong in desiring
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  Speaker 3: all these wonderful things, except that the Bible does not
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  Speaker 3: leave us in confusion as to the fact that these things,
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  Speaker 3: no matter how great, will say the time I do
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  Speaker 3: hear what I'm saying. So there are many brothers who
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  Speaker 3: will never get married to a lady because they think
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  Speaker 3: they have a reasonable stand. That's tim I have watched
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  Speaker 3: this with my own eyes. I've watched it fut threshold
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  Speaker 3: on ladies. I've seen ladies on the pressure because now
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  Speaker 3: that they are aware that many Christian brothers seem to
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  Speaker 3: have stepped the back to the sky. They are so
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  Speaker 3: physically conscious. Even in church opay your mountain pray, and
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  Speaker 3: you're talking about something a destiny out in prayer, and
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  Speaker 3: you watch the where the ladies' pray because somehow in
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  Speaker 3: her mind she is aware that somebody is looking at her.
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  Speaker 3: Once your face is rough, even if it's temporary, you're
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  Speaker 3: in a horny to adjust it. That player, your powder
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  Speaker 3: and all of that. You see that over consciousness of
• 37:35
  Speaker 3: the physical appearance has destroyed a lot of people. There
• 37:38
  Speaker 3: are people who cannot go to certain churches because they
• 37:42
  Speaker 3: think they do not fit to the physical mode. I
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  Speaker 3: don't have the clothes, I don't think I have this.
• 37:47
  Speaker 3: And that second reason why we don't marry un reasonable
• 37:54
  Speaker 3: standards and expectations. Let's hurry up number three, difficulty in
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  Speaker 3: early establishment. Write it down and I'll explain difficulty in
• 38:10
  Speaker 3: early establishment. This is an African predicament. Sadly, the continent
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  Speaker 3: of Africa has produced a lot of delay in marriage
• 38:23
  Speaker 3: because in Africa as a continent and Nigeria, there is difficulty.
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  Speaker 3: The average young man cannot guarantee that within the first
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  Speaker 3: twenty five years of his life he will be established.
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  Speaker 3: When there are strikes in an institution, somebody goes for
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  Speaker 3: a cause of four years and ends up spending five years,
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  Speaker 3: six years, seven years? Is that true? And then you're
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  Speaker 3: supposed to probably go for service, and then it is
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  Speaker 3: prolonged until layed. All of these institutional factors have contributed
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  Speaker 3: to making it difficult for young people to get established.
• 39:02
  Speaker 3: And then the high unemployment rates. Out of a set
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  Speaker 3: of graduates maybe one million, less than one hundred thousand
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  Speaker 3: of them are guaranteed to get very percent jobs within
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  Speaker 3: the first three years, and because the product is not
• 39:20
  Speaker 3: a te it becomes very difficult, very difficult to be established.
• 39:28
  Speaker 3: The fourth salary structure in Nigeria has accounted for the
• 39:33
  Speaker 3: late establishment of many people. It's God speaking towards tonight.
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  Speaker 3: An average graduate in Nigeria can be so humiliated to
• 39:44
  Speaker 3: an extent. There are master's people collecting salaries of less
• 39:49
  Speaker 3: than twenty thousand, fifteen thousand. There are master's olders doing
• 39:54
  Speaker 3: security works at the gates because they are desperate. They
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  Speaker 3: have to make ends meet Hallelujah, and so someone pays
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  Speaker 3: the price, goes to school, learns graduates to all the
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  Speaker 3: records of the six three three four system. Only for
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  Speaker 3: you to face a poor salary structure. Look at me
• 40:19
  Speaker 3: with twenty thousand. Let's use an average job. Let's say
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  Speaker 3: a teacher with twenty thousand. In how many years will
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  Speaker 3: you ever know what establishment is? Assuming you got a
• 40:34
  Speaker 3: job immediately. Twenty thousand times twelve is what help me
• 40:39
  Speaker 3: please two hundred and forty. Multiply that times ten years.
• 40:44
  Speaker 3: If nothing changes two point four million. What is the
• 40:50
  Speaker 3: average project for establishments? Do a little mathematics on your head.
• 40:57
  Speaker 3: If you get it self contented as a young man,
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  Speaker 3: or a single bedroom or two bedroom flats, and God
• 41:03
  Speaker 3: helps you, you are dreaming of getting a little car,
• 41:05
  Speaker 3: no matter how little, equipping the house with everything, you
• 41:09
  Speaker 3: find out that that money will barely feed you. And
• 41:12
  Speaker 3: in Africa, the average young man has some siblings depending
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  Speaker 3: on him. Right if it's a polygamous family, you still
• 41:20
  Speaker 3: have step brothers and stepsisters. May God help you that
• 41:23
  Speaker 3: you're not the first song. Add that responsibility. And then
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  Speaker 3: the lady you want to get married too, if she
• 41:30
  Speaker 3: comes from a family that are really trusting God for
• 41:32
  Speaker 3: a savior, and you come in before any talk of marriage,
• 41:36
  Speaker 3: it starts your response. You keep right away to your responsibility.
• 41:41
  Speaker 3: So add all these factors together. District culty in settling
• 41:46
  Speaker 3: down we have even for those who want to start businesses.
• 41:54
  Speaker 3: We have very strict business policies in Nigeria. For instance,
• 41:58
  Speaker 3: in London and England and every other part like that
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  Speaker 3: parts of Britain, you can register a company in ten minutes.
• 42:08
  Speaker 3: How many minutes ten minutes, you can naturally go online
• 42:12
  Speaker 3: and register a company in ten minutes. In Nigeria, you
• 42:16
  Speaker 3: try to register a company, you will first spend between
• 42:19
  Speaker 3: sixty to one hundred and fifty thousand right for an
• 42:23
  Speaker 3: average small size company, and it will take you at
• 42:26
  Speaker 3: least two to three months. Think about the difficulty. So
• 42:31
  Speaker 3: it is difficult for the average young man who wants
• 42:35
  Speaker 3: to work in the dignity of kingdom integrity to be established.
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  Speaker 3: So in Nigeria you find a young man thirty years,
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  Speaker 3: thirty five, even forty years still in his father's house,
• 42:47
  Speaker 3: not necessarily because he's not responsible and he went to school.
• 42:51
  Speaker 3: But the times, ah, it's God helping us tonight. The
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  Speaker 3: fourth reason why men in the body of Christ remain
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  Speaker 3: unmarried and may happen like that for a long time.
• 43:09
  Speaker 3: Are you ready for a point number? What now? Four?
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  Speaker 3: Parental influences on godly parental influences. On godly parental influences.
• 43:25
  Speaker 3: There are godly parental influences. We're parents guide their children,
• 43:30
  Speaker 3: guide their children to make right decisions, guide their children
• 43:34
  Speaker 3: to be established. But it's unfortunate that in Africa and
• 43:38
  Speaker 3: especially in Nigeria, there are very very work and on
• 43:42
  Speaker 3: godly parental influences that have stopped people from getting married.
• 43:47
  Speaker 3: Influences ranging from cultural barriers to high and unreasonable marriage requirements,
• 43:56
  Speaker 3: and then the influences of parents and family even after married.
• 44:02
  Speaker 3: See that there are many parents who have stopped their children,
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  Speaker 3: for instance, from settling down because they have created certain standards.
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  Speaker 3: How many of you sit there here looking at me.
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  Speaker 3: Your parents have worn you directly or indirectly. Don't ever
• 44:24
  Speaker 3: bring a poor man in this house. There are some
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  Speaker 3: of you that carry the map of Nigeria and showed
• 44:29
  Speaker 3: you very clearly and said every state I'm matched x on,
• 44:33
  Speaker 3: don't bring any guy from there? Is that true? And
• 44:38
  Speaker 3: so the lady is there, and all she's doing is
• 44:41
  Speaker 3: looking for someone from her place, And twenty five rolls around,
• 44:45
  Speaker 3: fifty or thirty years thirty five and she's still searching
• 44:49
  Speaker 3: for a godly brother. Don't forget, she's not just searching
• 44:52
  Speaker 3: for anybody. There are parents who are so desperate about
• 44:56
  Speaker 3: marrying from their place, they don't care whether he's bonnykin
• 44:59
  Speaker 3: or not. You would rather marry a failure from your place.
• 45:03
  Speaker 3: So that those culture barriers in fact there are families
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  Speaker 3: where even from your place you don't marry, there is
• 45:10
  Speaker 3: a clan their drowning line for you. Is that true.
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  Speaker 3: The reason why it was very easy for many parents
• 45:20
  Speaker 3: is because during their time listen carefully. During their time,
• 45:25
  Speaker 3: we did not have the issue of migration and movement
• 45:28
  Speaker 3: from one place to the other. An average man can
• 45:31
  Speaker 3: be born and bred and grow up and die within
• 45:34
  Speaker 3: a locality like Sariah and never even visit a place
• 45:37
  Speaker 3: like a Butcher. Is that true? And so because of
• 45:40
  Speaker 3: that they live what we call a communion life. All
• 45:43
  Speaker 3: the ladies will go to the stream together to fresh water,
• 45:47
  Speaker 3: or go to bath together. And so it was easy.
• 45:49
  Speaker 3: The guys knew where to go and look for the ladies.
• 45:52
  Speaker 3: They knew that when it was evening, they had traditional dances.
• 45:55
  Speaker 3: They had all kinds of platforms that brought them together.
• 45:59
  Speaker 3: But the world in the twenty first century has changed.
• 46:02
  Speaker 3: Many of you have never been to your village. You
• 46:05
  Speaker 3: don't even know where it is. You only have had
• 46:07
  Speaker 3: the name of seeing it on TV. Some of us
• 46:10
  Speaker 3: have never gone to our village. And now they're amounting
• 46:14
  Speaker 3: pressure on you. Come home, will prepare lady for you?
• 46:17
  Speaker 3: And I say, what are you saying? They said, that's
• 46:19
  Speaker 3: that's how, that's how your father and I got married. Unfortunately,
• 46:24
  Speaker 3: this is very strong, especially among the mothers. It's God
• 46:29
  Speaker 3: helping us and so there are many Christians confused. How
• 46:32
  Speaker 3: many believers are in godly relationships, godly relationships by God's standards,
• 46:39
  Speaker 3: but do not have the courage to even talk to
• 46:41
  Speaker 3: your parents because the moment they say, mommy or daddy,
• 46:44
  Speaker 3: there's something I want to tell you, they say, what
• 46:46
  Speaker 3: is it? They say, I want to talk about marriage.
• 46:48
  Speaker 3: He say, he let me even before we heard it. Nonsense.
• 46:51
  Speaker 3: You have to tell me. Does the guy have the car? Yes?
• 46:54
  Speaker 3: Or no? No? Long story, not he's going to buy?
• 46:58
  Speaker 3: Don't see how the car? Yes? No. Parents have stopped
• 47:01
  Speaker 3: children from marrying because of car. Parents have stopped children
• 47:05
  Speaker 3: from marrying. How many parents have stopped children from marrying
• 47:09
  Speaker 3: because they say, if you must marry this guy, he
• 47:12
  Speaker 3: must be willing to come and live in Abuja or
• 47:14
  Speaker 3: live in Legos, or come and stay close towards Have
• 47:17
  Speaker 3: you seen people like that? Maybe he is a lecturer
• 47:22
  Speaker 3: in Yola or lecturer in Gombe State, or Inzaria or
• 47:25
  Speaker 3: in Cano. They say, I don't want to hear anything.
• 47:28
  Speaker 3: If you will come to Legos, or you will come
• 47:31
  Speaker 3: to Portacods and settle there, then I can allow him.
• 47:34
  Speaker 3: I consider that to be the height of self centeredness
• 47:38
  Speaker 3: and at extreme levels wickedness. Many parents, I'm sorry to
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  Speaker 3: say this, but I say this without apology, that there
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  Speaker 3: are so many parents who have not followed the part
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  Speaker 3: of success in their lives, and they have failed and
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  Speaker 3: are now using their children as a restoration tool. Many
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  Speaker 3: parents have yoke their ladies and said, look, you know
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  Speaker 3: we have suffered. You better go and bring them Mary
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  Speaker 3: the wipe hartis mommy. There are two guys who are
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  Speaker 3: standing saying, hey, the first guy loves God, and you
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  Speaker 3: find the mother not interested in what the daughter is saying.
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  Speaker 3: He loves God. He's very serious. In fact, the way
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  Speaker 3: he's going to looks like the ordain him, and the
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  Speaker 3: mother is looking that Dad ordain him just irritates her
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  Speaker 3: because now it means that he's going into ministry. There's
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  Speaker 3: one other one. He's not serious. It's non nice, but
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  Speaker 3: God he held me. He is working there around there,
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  Speaker 3: they say, a place where he's working. He's getting good salary.
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  Speaker 3: He says, So who are you choosing now? He honestly
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  Speaker 3: me and me Christian. He said, look, leave that. You
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  Speaker 3: know the world has changed. You better go to that brother.
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  Speaker 3: And then how many children cost their parents in their
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  Speaker 3: homes cost their parents. How many mothers and fathers carry
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  Speaker 3: kills all around because whenever the man beats up the
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  Speaker 3: woman because of nothing the Lord, they come back home
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  Speaker 3: and the parents say, just go back. It's like that
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  Speaker 3: and godly parental influences. Others have influenced their children because
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  Speaker 3: of their ego. They have a capattle of people and
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  Speaker 3: all their friends their children married wealthy people. Is that true?
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  Speaker 3: And so when you come this is especially for many
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  Speaker 3: of us, the ladies, they just feel uncle so so
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  Speaker 3: so his son married the senator's son and it is
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  Speaker 3: his son came from UK. I have watched with shock
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  Speaker 3: the way arrange has been done on the internet. Parents
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  Speaker 3: go all out of their way to make arrangements. They say,
• 49:46
  Speaker 3: there is a guy in France, as he's coming into Nigeria,
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  Speaker 3: he's coming to marry all these dowdy thing people shout about.
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  Speaker 3: That guy just knows dowdy was faith. He's not even
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  Speaker 3: aware of the basket. You has never seen the box
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  Speaker 3: that was given. But simply because he's in France. He
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  Speaker 3: came into Nigeria, carried the wife in two weeks to card.
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  Speaker 3: They never saw their daughter again, only to get to
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  Speaker 3: France and they found out that the guy was a
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  Speaker 3: drug baron. But he lied to them that was a CEO.
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  Speaker 3: How about on reasonable marriage requirements? You paid dowry in
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  Speaker 3: cash one hundred thousand in kind one million? Are you
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  Speaker 3: saying that kind of thing on reasonable requirements? Uncles and
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  Speaker 3: aunties and well wishers that never gave you ten nights
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  Speaker 3: when you were in school, Now that you have done,
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  Speaker 3: they're coming as stakeholders and they dominate everything. Say we
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  Speaker 3: allowed daughter married. Chie. You are going to bring a cow,
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  Speaker 3: and that cow is not just any kind of cow.
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  Speaker 3: The cow must be this and that. After that, you're
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  Speaker 3: going to bring two trucks of yam. After that you're
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  Speaker 3: going to bring ABC. And the guy's shaking dere. The
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  Speaker 3: guy's wondering, how much is the budget for an average
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  Speaker 3: marriage right now in Nigeria. I'm talking of it dissent marriage.
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  Speaker 3: You wouldn't imagine how much is to rent where forty
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  Speaker 3: or fifty people from your village are coming. How much
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  Speaker 3: is to rent that place? And feed them. And many
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  Speaker 3: come after the marriage. They will never go back. They'll
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  Speaker 3: say one to wait one week and see what is
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  Speaker 3: going on, and all through that one week you are paying.
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  Speaker 3: These are very real issues. So a young man saves
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  Speaker 3: money to start up life after marriage, that's his home
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  Speaker 3: with death, and then in anger he now starts beating
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  Speaker 3: the wife. I just see that now, because if the
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  Speaker 3: wife shouts at him, he said, I bought you. I
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  Speaker 3: didn't pay doubting for you. I literally purchased you. So
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  Speaker 3: don't I will open your mouth and shout. If I
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  Speaker 3: bring you a comcubine in this house, just go out quietly.
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  Speaker 3: Don't even tell me anything. Many issues were pretending in
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  Speaker 3: church that are not serious issues, and it's increasing increasing.
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  Speaker 3: There are many parents that put pressure on your children.
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  Speaker 3: Look this our marriage and ambassador is coming from UK,
• 52:39
  Speaker 3: a governor is coming from adam Awa State. Our uncle
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  Speaker 3: who is in Jerusalem is coming in. So make sure
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  Speaker 3: that you organize the marriage to the test of the
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  Speaker 3: dignities that are coming. And the young man is saying, look,
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  Speaker 3: I'm starting out small. He said, mister man, we are
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  Speaker 3: telling you now. He's not an advice. You either choose
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  Speaker 3: the lady or leave everything. But the Lord of Sabello
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  Speaker 3: is watching. Let me tell you because many of the
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  Speaker 3: parents who are talking like that, they could not buy
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  Speaker 3: one toba of yam when they married our mothers. Is
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  Speaker 3: that true? One to bow of yam? Yeah? The woman
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  Speaker 3: believed in them. She got up thirteen years, fifteen years,
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  Speaker 3: eighteen years, twenty years and naively followed that man. And
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  Speaker 3: for ten years of their marriage, who was in hell,
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  Speaker 3: she watched him go to school and become blessed. And
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  Speaker 3: today now he can stand and forget what God did
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  Speaker 3: for him. How many parents forget? One of our mothers
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  Speaker 3: in Legos. I remember one time she was talking to
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  Speaker 3: us who went for a program and then they're very
• 53:45
  Speaker 3: wealthy people, very comfortable and very wealthy. And she was
• 53:48
  Speaker 3: talking and she was saying, when it was time to
• 53:50
  Speaker 3: get married, there was one other man who seemed to
• 53:54
  Speaker 3: be more blessed than her husband, and they were influencing her,
• 53:57
  Speaker 3: and she said, no, this is the man she will married.
• 53:59
  Speaker 3: And she said she married the husband he had nothing,
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  Speaker 3: although he argued, I said he had a bicycle, but
• 54:05
  Speaker 3: she said he had nothing. Today they are blessed and
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  Speaker 3: their marriage is heaven. On that many of us ladies
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  Speaker 3: would have married since two thousand and five or six
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  Speaker 3: or seven till now. We are waiting because there are
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  Speaker 3: certain of godly parental influences. That's all real number number
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  Speaker 3: what number five? The fifth reasons why many Christians remain
• 54:42
  Speaker 3: unmarried is what I call increased breakdown in moral and
• 54:47
  Speaker 3: spiritual standards. Increased breakdown in moral and spiritual standards. In
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  Speaker 3: increased breakdown in moral and spiritual standards, standards that are
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  Speaker 3: being lowered. Look at me, there are because our generation
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  Speaker 3: are so down created the sacredness of marriage right and morality,
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  Speaker 3: things ranging from premarital affairs right now is okay to
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  Speaker 3: just sleep around. So all of the things that are
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  Speaker 3: supposed to be the blessings and the benefits that should
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  Speaker 3: only be enjoyed within the context of marriage have now
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  Speaker 3: been experienced by people after marriage. So there is no desire,
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  Speaker 3: there is no longing, there's nothing to look forward to
• 55:46
  Speaker 3: with marriage again, how many people do you know? A
• 55:49
  Speaker 3: man and a woman not married, Tauri has not been paid,
• 55:53
  Speaker 3: but they live together. Why should they marry? Are you
• 55:56
  Speaker 3: guys know what I'm saying? Now? Why should they lady
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  Speaker 3: marry when marriage to tie her to one man, and
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  Speaker 3: then she's permitted to have seven or eight men who
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  Speaker 3: can supply her finances, and now you want to tie
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  Speaker 3: her down to one man. She doesn't want that kind
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  Speaker 3: of thing because she wants liberty and she wants money
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  Speaker 3: to provide it all the time. Why will you want
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  Speaker 3: a man to tie himself to one wife when he
• 56:22
  Speaker 3: can fly around to any hotel and whoever is available there.
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  Speaker 3: He can have ten girlfriends, twenty girlfriends. So the degradation
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  Speaker 3: in the standard of morality and spirituality is the reason
• 56:35
  Speaker 3: why many people don't get married. For many people who
• 56:38
  Speaker 3: marriage is an inconvenience because they want their own guide
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  Speaker 3: dead life of loss. I want to be able to
• 56:46
  Speaker 3: sleep around anytime. I want to be able to be free.
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  Speaker 3: I don't want to sit down and then I think
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  Speaker 3: that I have a wife and children at home. Many
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  Speaker 3: men want that kind of thing. I don't want no responsibility.
• 57:00
  Speaker 3: I don't want to look at a lady and my
• 57:02
  Speaker 3: wife is stapping me and say who are you looking at? No?
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  Speaker 3: Are you seeing that now? So that take gradation in
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  Speaker 3: moral and spiritrust standards. Guys and ladies stay together, for instance, Unfortunately,
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  Speaker 3: sometimes the house belongs to the lady, and then the
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  Speaker 3: man comes as a squatter because she likes him, and
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  Speaker 3: he stays there, eats her food, drives a car, watches
• 57:31
  Speaker 3: her television, sleeps on her bed, enjoys her cushion, and
• 57:35
  Speaker 3: the man does not want to get married. Why should
• 57:38
  Speaker 3: I get married and try to be responsible for a
• 57:40
  Speaker 3: family when I've gotten a wolf. There is a lady
• 57:43
  Speaker 3: here who is working with federal godman. She can work
• 57:45
  Speaker 3: and bring everything. My own is just to be enjoying
• 57:49
  Speaker 3: the money, the credation in moral and spirit trust standards.
• 57:56
  Speaker 3: That's created irresponsibility, that's created kinds of things. And then
• 58:02
  Speaker 3: there have been balanced teachings in the Body of Christ
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  Speaker 3: that have encouraged this kind of living in a bit
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  Speaker 3: to bring the church into the revelation of who we
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  Speaker 3: are in Christ and what Christ has done for us,
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  Speaker 3: and the reality of the fact that were the righteousness
• 58:19
  Speaker 3: of God in Christ right now, and the concept of
• 58:22
  Speaker 3: sin and the concept of holiness and righteousness. In an
• 58:25
  Speaker 3: attempt to balance it properly, there are individuals that have
• 58:30
  Speaker 3: swung to the other side of the pendulum, and so
• 58:33
  Speaker 3: people are now authorized that conviction of the Holy Spirit
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  Speaker 3: towards on godliness is no longer there is that true.
• 58:40
  Speaker 3: So I can do anything I want to do so
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  Speaker 3: long as I run back to God and say, Lord,
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  Speaker 3: you know that I won't do it again. So we
• 58:48
  Speaker 3: keep playing all these games with ourselves. It's God helping us.
• 58:57
  Speaker 3: I have identified this as the top five reasons why
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  Speaker 3: many in the Body of Christ may not get married.
• 59:09
  Speaker 3: Confusion as to the concept of the will of God.
• 59:16
  Speaker 3: People have spiritualized that concept of the will of God
• 59:19
  Speaker 3: to their detriment, and then on reasonable standards, then difficulty
• 59:25
  Speaker 3: in early establishment, then on godly parental influences, and increase
• 59:31
  Speaker 3: breakdown in moral and spiritual standards. Now I want to
• 59:36
  Speaker 3: teach you something there. There has been confusion in the
• 59:48
  Speaker 3: subject of marriage, especially trying to learn what the Bible
• 59:52
  Speaker 3: says and what the pathway, the biblical pathway to marriage
• 59:57
  Speaker 3: should be. Questions like at w what age should a
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 3: guy get married or a lady get married? Right? Questions
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 3: like what are the dos and don't how do I
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  Speaker 3: know I am prepared for marriage? Is it when you
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  Speaker 3: graduate from an institution or is it when you see
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 3: bared on your face? Or ladies, is it when all
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 3: the friends around your circle of influence start getting married.
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 3: You now felishes signed. What exactly are some of the
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 3: provisions that the Bible puts for us to prepare us
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  Speaker 3: to know that we are prepared for marriage. Write it down,
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  Speaker 3: School of Ministry, Permit me to use a bit of
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 3: your lecture and teach tonight. I thought the School of
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  Speaker 3: Ministry yesterday, and I'll take a little extrap on what
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  Speaker 3: I taught them to be able to guide us. There
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 3: are three dimensions everyone, right. There are three dimensions that
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  Speaker 3: a man must find himself operating in to know he
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 3: is ready for marriage. And there are three dimensions that
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 3: a woman must find ourself operating in. If you are
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 3: not operating in these dimensions, you are simply not ready
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  Speaker 3: for marriage. Doesn't matter how old or young you are.
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  Speaker 3: Write this down and I'll explain it very quickly. The
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  Speaker 3: three dimensions in a man are number one as a husband,
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  Speaker 3: Number two as a father, open bracket, provider and protect or.
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  Speaker 3: Please write it down. The first dimension that a man
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 3: must train himself in to be prepared for marriage is
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 3: as a husband, second as a father, and then number
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  Speaker 3: three as the spiritual head or the priest of a home.
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  Speaker 3: Write down for the lady. The first dimension a wife,
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  Speaker 3: second dimension a mother putting bracket, a homemaker, and then
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  Speaker 3: the third dimension a minister. Please look up while I
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  Speaker 3: attempt to explain this point, let me have three guys, Please,
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  Speaker 3: three gentlemen, come, Sam, any two guys can come. Just
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  Speaker 3: stand here. It's in the character of God, Thank Jesus.
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 3: It's in the character of God. Look up to operate
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 3: in a multifaceted dimension. For instance, we see God operating
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 3: as rapha. We see God operating as sickn Now we
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 3: see God operating as Savello. Right. We also see him
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  Speaker 3: in redemption, operating us both the lion and the lamb.
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 3: So it's not unusual for God to be multifaceted in
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 3: his operation, and he created man in that image. And
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 3: so for any man to really know that he's prepared
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 3: and ready for marriage. Graduation is not enough reason for
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 3: you to think you are prepared for marriage. Advancement in
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 3: age is not enough reason for you to think you
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 3: are prepared in marriage. Now all the brothers look up,
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 3: and sisters also look up. There are three dimensions in
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 3: every man. Let's call the first dimension husband, call the
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  Speaker 3: second dimension the father, and call the third dimension the
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 3: spiritual head. Is that all right? The dimension of a
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 3: man as a husband defines the scope of his ministry
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 3: to his wife. It's important for every man to understand
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 3: that scripturally, you have a ministry that is exclusive to
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 3: your wife. And if you have not trained yourself to
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 3: be able to carry out that ministry to your wife effectively,
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 3: you will never be able to get married and you
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 3: will never enjoy your marriage. The dimension of a man
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 3: as a husband defines everything. His intimacy with his wife,
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 3: defines meeting her emotional needs, define meeting her psychological needs.
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 3: All of that together defines the role of that man
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 3: as a hosban man. Watch this. The danger with this
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 3: is that many in our society are not husbands. They
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 3: may be furthers, they may be men of God. And
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 3: I appreciate this with it by us to those in ministry.
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 3: Many pastors are poor husbands, Many leaders are poor husbands.
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 3: Because we are busy trying to fend for the family.
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 3: We are busy trying to do ministry and do this
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 3: and that, and we forget that there is an exclusive
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 3: role ordained by God that a man should play to
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 3: his wife. How many of our mothers are starved of
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 3: the love of the attention the togetherness, the emotional satisfaction
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 3: that should come on account of complete marriage. There are
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 3: many pastors, many businessmen, many church leaders, many entrepreneurs, many
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 3: public figures and celebrities who are staffing their wives of
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 3: this dimension. Every brother here, I want you to know
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  Speaker 3: that if you are preparing for marriage, you are also
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 3: preparing to be a husband or the brothers a husband. Yes,
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 3: you must. You are not a husband. When a wife
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 3: comes to you, you are a husband when you are
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 3: prepared to meet that need. Don't wait for marriage to
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 3: make you a husband. You are first their husband before marriage.
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 3: At the point where you are aware of the demands,
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 3: this dimension trains you to understand who a woman is.
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 3: Women are fragile, women are emotional people. The Bible says
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 3: to dwell with them according to knowledge. One of the
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 3: greatest ministry of a man at this point is to
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 3: be able to give his wife what I call emotional security.
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 3: Watch this, when a man begins to compare the lady
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 3: is going out with or his wife with another lady.
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 3: The lady you are going out with this standing there
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 3: and you turn and look at another lady and say,
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 3: my goodness, what in the world is this? What am
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 3: I looking at what you are simply telling your lady
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 3: is you are shot off his standard, and you begin
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 3: to mount pressure on that lady. Every lady wants to
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 3: come to the man God has given her and feel secured.
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 3: It is not a news again that both male and female,
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 3: we all have assets and liabilities. There is nobody, including myself,
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 3: who is free of assets and liabilities. There are weaknesses,
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 3: there are strengths, there's nothing embarrassing about it. Are you
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 3: getting the point now? So a husband is one who
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 3: has understood this dimension and will protect his wife emotionally,
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 3: will protect the lady they are going out with emotionally
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 3: because he understands that her love for me is a
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 3: response to the confidence that I give her. How many
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 3: ladies get angry the moment they begin to see another
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 3: lady coming around their man. They are angry, They are resentful,
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 3: They begin to feel insecure because they feel this decise
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 3: of yourusly final than me. This decise is obvious lydies
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 3: and that's than me. And because she knows that the
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 3: man has not created a track record of celebrating her
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 3: the way she is, she begins to feel insecure. That's
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 3: what has brought jealousy that's what has brought presumption between ladies,
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 3: same thing for guys. So, brothers, if you want to
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 3: be you want to go into marriage, you must realize
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 3: that you have a responsibility to your wife to protect
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 3: her emotionally. Protect her emotionally. Women are very vulnerable. The
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 3: prettiest of all ladies will still need reconfirmations. Forget all
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 3: that short ladies shad no, I don't need anything in
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 3: their life. They were designed to work on confirmations, real firmations.
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 3: How many people are in relationships and never for one.
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 3: He does not make seeing the lady look like a
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 3: big deal. He looks like, look, you are easily replaceable
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 3: at that point, Listen, brothers, if you ever carry any
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 3: man's daughter and give her an impression she's easily replaceable,
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 3: you are not being sincere to her. If you don't
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 3: love her, or you think she's not fine enough, leave
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 3: her alone. God bring somebody who loves her and will
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 3: passionately follow her. I hate seeing ladies chasing after guy's helplessly.
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 3: I said, hey, hey, if I shout, he will leave me,
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 3: or brother, don't leave me, don't leave me. If you live,
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 3: where will I go to? And the guy is happy.
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 3: He's taking advantage of your vulnerability. Brother said, must change
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 3: in the name of Jesus Christ, God's waking towards tonight.
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 3: How many of our fathers, How many of us I've
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 3: seen our parents, father and mother just take our time
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 3: from their business do to sit together and talk. When
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 3: was the last time you ever saw your father and
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 3: your mother thinking of not restaurant in the home there,
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  Speaker 3: just sitting down to eat and talk. If they are together,
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  Speaker 3: they're quarrely. He's rebuking her. He's lost the dimension of
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  Speaker 3: a husband. Many people think the dimension of a husband
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  Speaker 3: is only the three children dimension. So it's the dimension
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  Speaker 3: that a man shows a woman until the arrival of children.
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  Speaker 3: From the time the woman gets pregnant, the man feels
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  Speaker 3: I've graduated from being a husband from now sends forth.
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  Speaker 3: My work is to be father? Is that not true?
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  Speaker 3: And a spiritual head? And so they robbed the wife
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  Speaker 3: of that emotional dimension. Number two, You are preparing for marriage,
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  Speaker 3: It means you are preparing to be a father. Look up,
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  Speaker 3: let me tell you something. You are not a father
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  Speaker 3: when you have children. The word father is the Greek
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  Speaker 3: word abba, right. The Bible says it's giving his spirits,
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  Speaker 3: whereby we cry abba, father, father, father. The word abba
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  Speaker 3: means sauce and sustaina, not the one who reproduces children. Necessarily,
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  Speaker 3: you are a father when you are the originator of
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  Speaker 3: a thing, and you are the sustaina. Speaking in the
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  Speaker 3: context of marriage, you only become a father when you
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  Speaker 3: are a provider and protector. Write it down. Fatherhood has
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  Speaker 3: nothing to do necessarily with giving birth to children. This
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  Speaker 3: is where a lot of people get it wrong. The
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  Speaker 3: moment they have a bouncing baby boy or a bouncing
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  Speaker 3: baby Gil or some children, they convince themselves that they
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  Speaker 3: are father's nasa. In the Bible, the Bible's few of fatherhood. Listen,
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  Speaker 3: the Bible's view of fatherhood is not just reproduction alone,
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  Speaker 3: is the ability to provide and protect. Here's what the
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  Speaker 3: Bible says about being a father. First Demotit chapter five,
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  Speaker 3: verse eight. The Bible says, prophrashing that any man that
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  Speaker 3: cannot provide protect get up for his family. It says
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  Speaker 3: that he has lost the faith. He has given up
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  Speaker 3: the faith and is worse than an infidel or an unbeliever. Brothers,
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  Speaker 3: this is a very serious point, and I want you
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  Speaker 3: to pay attention whether you are married or you are
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  Speaker 3: preparing for marriage. As to yourself, am I a father?
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  Speaker 3: You don't become a father when you get married. You
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  Speaker 3: get married because you are a father. Many men are
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  Speaker 3: not fathers. The hallmark of fatherhood is responsibility, the ability
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  Speaker 3: to provide and protect. It says, but if any provide,
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  Speaker 3: not for his own So are you a father? Brothers,
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  Speaker 3: ask yourself, I want to marry. The question God is
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  Speaker 3: asking you is are you a father? It's not enough
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  Speaker 3: to be a husband, you must be a father. You
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  Speaker 3: will have to provide the conducive atmosphere. Provide love, Provide food,
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  Speaker 3: Provide shelter, Provide security, Provide the enabling environment for your
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  Speaker 3: wife and your children to find expression. Provide spiritual guidance,
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  Speaker 3: Provide mentor sheep. You have to protect your family right,
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  Speaker 3: protect them against the physical hazards, protect them against the
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  Speaker 3: emotional intrusions of society. That's what it means to be
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  Speaker 3: upper upper. So in our generation, when a man is
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  Speaker 3: married and does not have children, we say he's a husband,
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  Speaker 3: but not yet a father. The moment the wife gives
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  Speaker 3: bread with say finally, I'm now a father. Wrong. So
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  Speaker 3: siightally correct, but scripturally wrong fatherhood is about provision and protection.
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  Speaker 3: No gentleman should get into marriage when you are not
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  Speaker 3: a father. You are not a father by your age.
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  Speaker 3: You are not a father just by longevity of time.
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  Speaker 3: You're not a father by the appearance of many children.
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  Speaker 3: When are spiritual or physical. You are a father according
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  Speaker 3: to your ability to provide. Everybody as a gentleman close
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  Speaker 3: to you, Are you a father? Don't answer. I am mature,
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  Speaker 3: I'm not a small boy. Nobody's arguing. We know you
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  Speaker 3: are thirty five. Are you a father? That's what you
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  Speaker 3: want to know tonight. Are you a father? I was
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  Speaker 3: born nineties. Uh, we're not actively. Are you a father?
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  Speaker 3: You neglect fatherhood when you become irresponsible. All the brothers say,
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  Speaker 3: in the name of Jesus, I received grace to be
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  Speaker 3: a father. Indeed, said loud, in the name of Jesus,
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  Speaker 3: I received grace to provide for my family and to
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  Speaker 3: protect my family. Say it again, I received grace to
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  Speaker 3: provide for my family and to protect my family. And
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  Speaker 3: it starts with your relationship. Show me how you provide
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  Speaker 3: for her and show me how you protect her. I'm
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  Speaker 3: not just talking of finances. Necessarily, show me your attitude
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  Speaker 3: towards responsibility. I can't this learn your non challenge about life,
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  Speaker 3: non challenge about people. How many gentlemen do not have
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  Speaker 3: this fatherhood consciousness. Let me tell you. When a guy
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  Speaker 3: begins to have a fatherhood consciousness, he will travel and
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  Speaker 3: go on a trick. Every time he's returning, he's thinking,
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  Speaker 3: there are people in my house, or there are roommates
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  Speaker 3: that I have. What can I buy for them? Even
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  Speaker 3: if it's as little as she's balls. That's fatherhood, a
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  Speaker 3: sense of responsibility. Self centeredness is dying. You know that
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  Speaker 3: it's not about me alone. You are satisfied when people
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  Speaker 3: drink from your grace, drink from your finances, You are
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  Speaker 3: becoming a father. How many of us travel for for
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  Speaker 3: five months, five weeks, You come back and the only
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  Speaker 3: thing is the same box. You won't be guys? Are
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  Speaker 3: you there? I don't missing a guy? Now? Wow? Are
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  Speaker 3: you jet? Everybody? And you see all of them hungry?
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  Speaker 3: Say never job and you're just watching. You're not a father,
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  Speaker 3: you're a friend. When you call god father, you are
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  Speaker 3: not just calling god father because you are his son
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  Speaker 3: or his daughter. You are calling god Father because as
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  Speaker 3: your father, he has made it a point of duty
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  Speaker 3: to provide for you and to protect you. He provided salvation,
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  Speaker 3: He secure that salvation today. He has provided a platform
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  Speaker 3: for you to be a part take out his divine nature.
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  Speaker 3: He has provided a platform for you to enjoy the
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  Speaker 3: life that so away life here on earth. That's what
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  Speaker 3: makes him a father. Many men deceive themselves thinking because
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  Speaker 3: they have the ability to produce babies, or they have
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  Speaker 3: produced babies, they are fathers. Fatherhood is not just about reproduction.
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  Speaker 3: Father who is about responsibility. So, brothers, God is asking
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  Speaker 3: you tonight are you a father? You can train yourself
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  Speaker 3: into father. You can know that you are a father.
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  Speaker 3: You are not a father when you marry. You get
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  Speaker 3: married because you believe you are a father. Now, when
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  Speaker 3: you understand this, you will never go carry any man's
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  Speaker 3: daughter to get married to her. When you know that
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  Speaker 3: there is no means for you to eat, you are
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  Speaker 3: not a father. At that point, the lady does not
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  Speaker 3: have to start asking you where are we going to
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  Speaker 3: eat food? How is money going to come? Because if
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  Speaker 3: you are truo lear a father, you would have made
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  Speaker 3: that factor. You would have facted in as part of
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  Speaker 3: your marriage and relationship responsibilities that I am upper provider protector.
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  Speaker 3: God' speaking to us tonight. The third dimension for any
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  Speaker 3: gentleman preparing for marriage, the third dimension is as the priest.
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  Speaker 3: Every man is instituted by God to be the spiritual
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  Speaker 3: head of his home. Ladies, that's why it is important
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  Speaker 3: and paramount that you must not compromise on the issue
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  Speaker 3: of marrying somebody who loves God. Our parents made that mistake.
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  Speaker 3: Many young people who are not exposed to this truth
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  Speaker 3: have made the mistake. But now you have an opportunity.
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  Speaker 3: It matters because according to God is the spiritual head
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  Speaker 3: God bird Adam, and some must be responsible. It's his
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  Speaker 3: spiritual head. Ive came out of Adam. Everybody looks onto
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  Speaker 3: its source. According to God's or gandogram. For family, the
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  Speaker 3: woman and her children should look up to the man
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  Speaker 3: for spiritual support. The man should be the initiator of
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  Speaker 3: Bible studies. He should be the one to teach the
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  Speaker 3: children on Titan. He should enforce discipline, he should enforce love. Unfortunately,
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  Speaker 3: that's not what we have in many societies, is the
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  Speaker 3: woman who is trying to get the family to be spiritual.
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  Speaker 3: Because there are forces of darkness and they are real.
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  Speaker 3: Are you hearing what I'm saying children should be able
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  Speaker 3: to come to the parlor and see their father lie
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  Speaker 3: down and just worshiping and playing worship and just rolling
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  Speaker 3: on the floor and giving God praise. I was teaching
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  Speaker 3: the school of ministry students yesterday. Did you know that
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  Speaker 3: the moment you begin to carry out your pristly responsibility
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  Speaker 3: soon now later your son or daughter will start copying.
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  Speaker 3: Have you seen children do that? That you see a
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  Speaker 3: father kneel down, very soon you see the child too
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  Speaker 3: come and kneel down. How many men do you know
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  Speaker 3: have taken on your prisonly responsibility? That while everybody is
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  Speaker 3: slipping at home, you now hear the voice of the
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  Speaker 3: priest shake room, to whom laying hands on the wife
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  Speaker 3: and children. Manto, these are my children, this is my family.
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  Speaker 3: I bring them under the grace, under the prophetic company.
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  Speaker 3: Say tan, you have no hand over my wife, over
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  Speaker 3: my children. That's what it means to be a spiritual head.
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  Speaker 3: Not that they wake you by seven and say honey.
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  Speaker 3: Bible Store describes say the day you wake me, then
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  Speaker 3: I swear to God I will love you. Don't play
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  Speaker 3: with me, please were not mate. You are here eating.
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  Speaker 3: You don't know how I'm bringing the food, spiritual head,
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  Speaker 3: spiritual head. Every man must take position, and it starts
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  Speaker 3: from the relationship. Is that from the relationship? You must
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  Speaker 3: take position? Now, it's okay, let's be very since here.
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  Speaker 3: There are times when you can enter a relationship with
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  Speaker 3: the lady with more spiritual than you. Are you willing
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  Speaker 3: to catch up? Are you willing to grow? That seed
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  Speaker 3: of willingness is what we're looking for. You may not
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  Speaker 3: be like that as at the time you're in the
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  Speaker 3: relationship or even marriage, but do you stand the seed?
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  Speaker 3: Sweed Wiggle's word. When they got married, his wife was
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  Speaker 3: more spiritual than him. He was a coupler, but he
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  Speaker 3: was able to catch up and it became their partle
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  Speaker 3: of faith. How many people have allowed demons to drive
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  Speaker 3: their home sin to pieces. Your wife is pregnant, that's
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  Speaker 3: the time to lay hands on her womb and profess high.
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  Speaker 3: When she keeps beat in the hospital, you should be
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  Speaker 3: the first to hold the baby. Alie, anybody just come
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  Speaker 3: from anywhere and soil the destiny of your child. And
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  Speaker 3: then you just come too late and you are starting here.
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  Speaker 3: Why is the baby be? You should be there. You
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  Speaker 3: hold the baby and profess high like Anna the prophetess
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  Speaker 3: and see me on the prophet You hold your child
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  Speaker 3: and speaking to his destiny. Whenever evil is going on
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  Speaker 3: in the family, your life and your ministry is turning
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  Speaker 3: upside down, you take your regally of her husband and
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  Speaker 3: put it aside. You take your regally of your father
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  Speaker 3: and put it aside. And where your prophetic and apostolic group,
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  Speaker 3: and tell the devil, I'm not just a hosband, I'm
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  Speaker 3: not an earless man. And you tell all your children
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  Speaker 3: just leave me. I know this force is going and sleep,
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  Speaker 3: and they hear your voice. Shake, get take the kata
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  Speaker 3: manaa kata. That's man who brothers and sisters, that's been
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  Speaker 3: a man. You take the spiritual atmosphere. You move out
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  Speaker 3: with pockets of water oil and anointing oil around the
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  Speaker 3: land and breadth of your house, and you are prophesying,
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  Speaker 3: commanding the forces of darkness to vow your child brings
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  Speaker 3: the result. And you find out that the result is
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  Speaker 3: not motivating. You lay hands on him and say you
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  Speaker 3: are my son. Everyone looks like his sauce. I lay
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  Speaker 3: my hands on you not to get care and start
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  Speaker 3: frouding him and playing bold with your child because he's
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  Speaker 3: embarrassing you. Let me tell you the world that we
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  Speaker 3: live in is no longer the world of physical strength,
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  Speaker 3: is the world of spiritual capacity. He may be a bubble,
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  Speaker 3: or let him be a man of God. Are you
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  Speaker 3: garny what I'm saying? Because if they will concheens will
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  Speaker 3: not save you, for those sets will not drive demons.
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  Speaker 3: It is on the strength of the understanding of mysteries.
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  Speaker 3: Have you seen families where sickness just breaks out mode, sick,
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  Speaker 3: broad eyes, sick fad I see, and you see the
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  Speaker 3: man running confused. He has not learned the mysteries. That's
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  Speaker 3: the time for him to get convenion and say, my wife,
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  Speaker 3: prepare convenion. Man takatata. And he lays hands on it
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  Speaker 3: and said, by this tree, the Bible says, the spirits,
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  Speaker 3: the water and the blood. And you minister covenion to
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  Speaker 3: your family. Brother, as I challenge you, make your home
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  Speaker 3: like this. It is within your power to make it so.
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  Speaker 3: It may not be so for ladies because they submit
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  Speaker 3: to a man. You are not submitting to anybody in
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  Speaker 3: the home. That means your home. It is a reflection
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  Speaker 3: of whether you pay attention to what I'm jeering tonight,
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  Speaker 3: I've made up my mind that my home will be
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  Speaker 3: exactly what I will tell you. I must take on
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  Speaker 3: my pristly position. Only men have allowed the devil to
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  Speaker 3: ride through their families and wreck and destroy their homes.
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  Speaker 3: The Bible says, occupy you occupy through dominion, dominion, dominion.
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  Speaker 3: Your wife gives birth to two or three children, and
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  Speaker 3: you're expecting more, and it looks like the devil has
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  Speaker 3: closed off her womb and all of that, and you
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  Speaker 3: are just You're just smiling and saying, don't worry, it
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  Speaker 3: will have for what are you saying? Get angry one
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  Speaker 3: night and while she's sleeping, you just come and sit
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  Speaker 3: by the side of her bed, and when she wakes up, No, no, no,
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  Speaker 3: you just continue sleeping. I know what I'm doing. I
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  Speaker 3: come in the spirit of Eli, and you're speaking and prophesying.
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  Speaker 3: Let me tell you there is no woman I know
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  Speaker 3: who will not want that kind of man by her side.
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  Speaker 3: A man, ladies, am I speaking to you? Guys? You
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  Speaker 3: think ladies just want money. Let me tell you the truth.
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  Speaker 3: Many ladies, especially those who are loving God, know sincerely
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  Speaker 3: that it takes more than money. You can have all
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  Speaker 3: the money in the whole world, and anything can go wrong.
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  Speaker 3: But a man of stature, not a physically mature man,
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  Speaker 3: necessarily a man with capacity in the spirit that any
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  Speaker 3: spirit that is shlying around the vicility of your family.
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  Speaker 3: When he gets you and said, hold on, I know
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  Speaker 3: this guy. We know the way he carries in the spirit.
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  Speaker 3: When the devil wants to touch your wife and he
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  Speaker 3: realizes that she's bearing your son name, he knows that
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  Speaker 3: that woman has been implicated. Brothers, when you become a husband,
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  Speaker 3: a father, and a minister, you're ready for marriage. Are
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  Speaker 3: you getting what I'm saying so right now? While you
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  Speaker 3: are sitting some of you are husband's congratlations. Are you
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  Speaker 3: a father? Some of you are only priests. Mister man,
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  Speaker 3: let me tell you you are not only going to
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  Speaker 3: be casting out spirits and devils. H You don't cast
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  Speaker 3: out devils every day. Right now, the atmosphere is okay,
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  Speaker 3: be a horse fan be Are you guessing what I'm
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  Speaker 3: saying now? Let's go to the ladies. Quickly listen now,
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  Speaker 3: three ladies, quickly? Oh ya ya yahyah, three ladies, what's
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  Speaker 3: your say? Allelujah? Are you enjoying to night's teaching? The
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  Speaker 3: first time mentioned sister, open your eyes, your ears and everything.
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  Speaker 3: And here the first dimension is as a wife. Don't
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  Speaker 3: assume you know what I'm saying. Let me explain. This
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  Speaker 3: is a mother, This again is a minister. Now watch this.
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  Speaker 3: What does it mean to be a wife? What does
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  Speaker 3: it mean to be a wife. Many ladies do not
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  Speaker 3: know what it means to be a wife. They think
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  Speaker 3: they know a wife just like the husband defines the
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  Speaker 3: entire scope of your ministree to your husband, not your
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  Speaker 3: husband and your father, not your husband and his family.
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  Speaker 3: Under dimension of your wife, your ministree is only to
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  Speaker 3: your husband. Let me use this opportunity and challenge many
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  Speaker 3: ladies who can keep your men a second place. You
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  Speaker 3: love your father, your mother, your brother, your uncle so much.
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  Speaker 3: Everything you do to your husband you do to everyone else.
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  Speaker 3: You are not a wife. You are not a wife.
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  Speaker 3: That dimension of being a wife is a dimension that
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  Speaker 3: creates an office for the man to feel like the
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  Speaker 3: man in your life. That is the dimension where you
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  Speaker 3: bring the king out of that man. That is the
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  Speaker 3: dimension where you let the man know that you are
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  Speaker 3: not like all other men. You are exclusive and I
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  Speaker 3: demonstrated in every way possible by meeting your emotional need
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  Speaker 3: by looking physically attractive for you. Oh yes, hello, by
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  Speaker 3: now I know you are aware. The physical attraction means
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  Speaker 3: a lot to men. If you are not aware, you
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  Speaker 3: are hearing it. Now, are you getting me? Don't think
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  Speaker 3: because you get married. I'm not talking of naughdity. Don't
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  Speaker 3: get me wrong. Are you getting a point? I'm not
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  Speaker 3: talking of naughdity? And said doc San no, no, But
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  Speaker 3: I've seen so many men depressed over their wife. They
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  Speaker 3: just get married, five years, ten years, and the woman
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  Speaker 3: is looking as if she's one hundred years old. She
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  Speaker 3: does not care. She has thrown away a wifehood because
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  Speaker 3: she thinks she's giving back to plenty children. And the
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  Speaker 3: man is frustrated. He looks at another lady who is
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  Speaker 3: ten times older than her, and she's looking like an angel,
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  Speaker 3: and his own wife is looking like whatever it is there.
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  Speaker 3: Please don't play games with men. Let me tell you.
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  Speaker 3: Any man, I don't care whether anointing or elie on
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  Speaker 3: top of his head. Jesus is written on top of
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  Speaker 3: his head. There is a dimension. And lady was wired
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  Speaker 3: by God to make a man's chill like a man.
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  Speaker 3: If you don't do it, it's because of negligence. Not
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  Speaker 3: because you have not been equipped and that has nothing
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  Speaker 3: to do with saiduction from your physical outlook. Let the
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  Speaker 3: man be proud of you, not a lady that you
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  Speaker 3: just got married. And the man says comment and has
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  Speaker 3: gout me somewhere, you just dress as if you're grate
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  Speaker 3: for I did you. And he's looking smart, looking like
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  Speaker 3: a young man. You're there and but asking him and
• 1:29:31
  Speaker 3: he said, honely, you can just see it at the car. Honestly,
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  Speaker 3: I'll be brief. I'll just come and said, no, no,
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  Speaker 3: I must come. I want to see what you are hiding.
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  Speaker 3: If nobody has told you, I'm telling you now in
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  Speaker 3: the name of the Lord. It matters. It matters, ladies,
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  Speaker 3: It matters, and it starts from relationship. Are you a wife?
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  Speaker 3: When was the last time you made the guy God
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  Speaker 3: sent to you feel like a king? Let me tell you,
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  Speaker 3: in every brother there is a king. It takes a
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  Speaker 3: wife to bring that king out. Are you getting me?
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  Speaker 3: When you find yourself shouting at a guy and taking
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  Speaker 3: advantage of his niceness. There are some brothers that are
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  Speaker 3: very cool headed. Even if you slap them, they won't
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  Speaker 3: do anything. And you perceive yourself to think that because
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  Speaker 3: they are cool headed, they are foolish. There is a
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  Speaker 3: lion in every brother. There is a lamb in every brother.
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  Speaker 3: Keep the lion in the cage. Don't let it come out.
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  Speaker 3: You won't like it. You must make every guy feel
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  Speaker 3: like a king. First see stop being a wife. As
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  Speaker 3: a result, she left the palace firstie, she stopped being
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  Speaker 3: a wife. When the king wanted to feel like a king,
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  Speaker 3: she was not available, and he sent her out, and
• 1:30:50
  Speaker 3: here came Esther Hadasa, Hadassa always made the king feel
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  Speaker 3: like a king. She prepared a fist for him, and
• 1:30:57
  Speaker 3: he said, what's the occasion for the fist? She said, nothing,
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  Speaker 3: just arousing your royalty. And the kid said, my goodness,
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  Speaker 3: please do it. The king and then by himself, he said,
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  Speaker 3: what do you want to half of my kingdom? A
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  Speaker 3: man will give you anything if you bring the king
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  Speaker 3: in him. Don't make requests until he becomes a king.
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  Speaker 3: How many ladies have strangled the king dimension in their men.
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  Speaker 3: You just come and say, do you know that that
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  Speaker 3: brother brought me a laptop? You said, how many months,
• 1:31:30
  Speaker 3: six months you have been trying to buy a laptop.
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  Speaker 3: One brother just came out just from Tojo, No strings attached.
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  Speaker 3: You are killing the king. When there is no king
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  Speaker 3: in your kingdom. Enemies will come. Keep the king alive, Ladies,
• 1:31:43
  Speaker 3: keep the king alive. There are some things ladies have
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  Speaker 3: been doing that a guy is tolerating. It does not
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  Speaker 3: mean that's how he was designed to leave. You. Shout
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  Speaker 3: at a guy anyhow and speak to him anyhow, supposed
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  Speaker 3: to see you by seven, he comes by eight. You
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  Speaker 3: don't give him room to explain himself. Let me tell you,
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  Speaker 3: and you are acting nagernant film. There there is a
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  Speaker 3: king in every guy. Don't take the generosity of any
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  Speaker 3: man for granted. I'm sorry to say this. Many married
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  Speaker 3: women have taken their hosbands for granted. They do not
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  Speaker 3: exolt that king dimension. When you got married to him,
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  Speaker 3: you used to bring food in a tree and be
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  Speaker 3: very respectful. Now you just carry a bottle of juice
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  Speaker 3: as if you are selling it. Just drop it on
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  Speaker 3: the table and say there's rice in you. Kissen and
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  Speaker 3: you will get up. You see, that's the thing with
• 1:32:35
  Speaker 3: many men that will get up quietly and want to
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  Speaker 3: serve themselves. But you are endangering your marriage. You are
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  Speaker 3: endangering your relationship. Many ladies are embarrassed to be wives,
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  Speaker 3: because it takes submission to be a wife. If you
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  Speaker 3: are still driven by ego and I don't want to
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  Speaker 3: look cheap, you will never be a wife. To be
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  Speaker 3: a wife, you must soil your hand and create a
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  Speaker 3: king out of that man. But if you come here
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  Speaker 3: stupid enough to make that man a king, he will
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  Speaker 3: be fool for you. That's his reworld. Ladies, self, I
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  Speaker 3: mean the name of Jesus, shouted in the name of Jesus,
• 1:33:12
  Speaker 3: I received grace to be a wife. Indeed, sisters, yar me,
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  Speaker 3: don't lend those jargons that you watch on TV. There
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  Speaker 3: is a difference between secular relationships and marriages and kingdom relationships.
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  Speaker 3: Please don't let anybody confuse you. If theretous woman who
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  Speaker 3: can't find the Bible says her husband will praise her
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  Speaker 3: at the gates, she will do him good all the
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  Speaker 3: days of her life. Can you honestly say, from the
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  Speaker 3: day you started going out with that guy you have
• 1:33:44
  Speaker 3: broad joy? Ask yourself have you brought joy? Don't lie.
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  Speaker 3: From the time you started going out with the guy,
• 1:33:52
  Speaker 3: have you brought joy to his life? Or heartbreak? His
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  Speaker 3: finances went down, his reputation went down, his spirit. It's
• 1:34:00
  Speaker 3: your life went down. His equal went down, his sense
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  Speaker 3: of purpose went down. You're not a wife. He that
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  Speaker 3: finds a wife. You must be a wife to be found.
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  Speaker 3: It's not marriage that makes you a wife. When a
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  Speaker 3: man comes to you, it's a sign that you have
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  Speaker 3: become a wife. He that finds a wife not a woman.
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  Speaker 3: There are many women. There are a few wives. He
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  Speaker 3: that finds a wife. Number two, Mother, Watch this mother
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  Speaker 3: In one word, a mother is the maker of the home.
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  Speaker 3: The key word on that mother who is sacrificed. There
• 1:34:43
  Speaker 3: are many ladies who have paid the price to be wives.
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  Speaker 3: They can't give any guy the kind of love he wants.
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  Speaker 3: They can't cook for the guy. They can do everything,
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  Speaker 3: but they are not mothers. Ladies, I challenge you to
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  Speaker 3: have an elderly woman in your life who will not
• 1:35:00
  Speaker 3: feel embarrassed to teach your motherhood. Ladies, I challenge you,
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  Speaker 3: in the name of the Lord, do not allow worsonization
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  Speaker 3: suck out the dimension of motherhood in you. Motherhood. A
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  Speaker 3: man can build a house, but it takes a woman
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  Speaker 3: to make it home. A man cannot make it home.
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  Speaker 3: A man can duild the house and put cheers in it.
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  Speaker 3: A home talks of the emotional climate creating the conducive
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  Speaker 3: atmosphere for love, the conducive atmosphere for unity, the conducive
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  Speaker 3: atmosphere for progress and peace is the responsibility of a woman.
• 1:35:38
  Speaker 3: I challenge the school of ministry, and I said, when
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  Speaker 3: I come to anybody's house, there are three things, ladies,
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  Speaker 3: I will look at in your house to prove to
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  Speaker 3: me whether you are a mother. Indeed. Number one, your kitchen.
• 1:35:50
  Speaker 3: Your kitchen is a reflection of your motherhood ability. Kitchen.
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  Speaker 3: That's where the meals are made right, That's where the
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  Speaker 3: health of the people is preserved. There are many people.
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  Speaker 3: Their kitchen is a mess. There are many young ladies.
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  Speaker 3: You dress well, you wear new clothes, but your kitchen
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  Speaker 3: is a mess. Five day old plates, one week old
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  Speaker 3: plates roaming around in the kitchen. Yeh, the think is dirty.
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  Speaker 3: You look at the cookahs, palm oil, everything on it.
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  Speaker 3: You see bread that has fung. Guy to carry it
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  Speaker 3: and troy it. You live it there The trushcan is
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  Speaker 3: filled with dead. They're not a mother. You may be
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  Speaker 3: a good wife or not a good mother. The Bible says,
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  Speaker 3: she wakes up in the morning talking about her mother,
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  Speaker 3: good dimension while it is yet early, and prepares something
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  Speaker 3: for the children proverbs that you want, and she comes
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  Speaker 3: to cover them to make sure they are warm in winter.
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  Speaker 3: That's a mother, a homemaker. Sisters are young mothers. Are
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  Speaker 3: you mothers? Indeed, that's a question. God is helping us
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  Speaker 3: understand the right. Many ladies are not mothers, but you
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  Speaker 3: can be mothers if you make that decision tonight. So
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  Speaker 3: your kitchen number two, your toilets. The toilets in many
• 1:37:14
  Speaker 3: rooms is a disaster, a disaster plus claus disaster. One
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  Speaker 3: universal toil used by everybody, including visitors. One universal sponge, right,
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  Speaker 3: a sponge that looks like a rat turn into pieces
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  Speaker 3: and the woman cannot buy another one. Listen, let me
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  Speaker 3: tell you, ladies, there are some responsibilities that are not
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  Speaker 3: for men. Don't let anyone fool you. If you see
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  Speaker 3: a man doing it, he's doing it out of love.
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  Speaker 3: He won't do it forever. You can't expect a man
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  Speaker 3: to go to the market and go and buy new
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  Speaker 3: buckets and bring it back home and say, I notice
• 1:37:52
  Speaker 3: buckets are empty. Please don't insult the man. There is
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  Speaker 3: a king in every man. I'm not saying men cannot
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  Speaker 3: do it, but what is your own room? A child
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  Speaker 3: is running out of the house. Mook us everywhere, turn trousers.
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  Speaker 3: You see you see children running out of homes no
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  Speaker 3: clothes and it runs the hogs. Somebody outside and the
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  Speaker 3: man is chilling and barrass and the wife is just looking.
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  Speaker 3: Won't you come in to come in and see the
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  Speaker 3: other things? Toilets? You look at the toilets and people,
• 1:38:27
  Speaker 3: it's not flushed, it's not clean. There is no water.
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  Speaker 3: People bath and they leave the remaining water there. The
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  Speaker 3: second person comes to add this water on it, and
• 1:38:36
  Speaker 3: now bath. All kinds of things happen. Come and let's
• 1:38:38
  Speaker 3: tell ourselves the truth. Many homes are dirty toilets, ladies,
• 1:38:43
  Speaker 3: make sure you are not praying for an award winning
• 1:38:45
  Speaker 3: man to keeping in that kind of atmosphere. Shout no where,
• 1:38:51
  Speaker 3: I hope, so, I really hope. So how many ladies
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  Speaker 3: are not through act? They get up and go to
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  Speaker 3: the market only to shop clothes and hair, and you
• 1:39:04
  Speaker 3: cannot buy soap. The man is rushing because he has
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  Speaker 3: to catch up with an appointment. Ah, soap is finished
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  Speaker 3: and wors it. Sorry, honey, and he now checks a
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  Speaker 3: the toil. There's no water. May words not come all
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  Speaker 3: kinds of domestic things. You want the man to do everything. No,
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  Speaker 3: that's the dimension of your mother. A man returns back
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  Speaker 3: from work tired and hungry, and that's when the woman
• 1:39:26
  Speaker 3: lazily trids herself trying to break pieces of eggs and
• 1:39:31
  Speaker 3: open up into me to make dinner. And yet when
• 1:39:35
  Speaker 3: they ask you, who do you want to marry, they say, hell,
• 1:39:37
  Speaker 3: you know what I want to marry. No, are you preparing.
• 1:39:40
  Speaker 3: God is not a wicked man to carry his son
• 1:39:44
  Speaker 3: that's been sweating in the vineyard and come and keep
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  Speaker 3: you and then you stungle him to death. There are
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  Speaker 3: many men that had broken as a result of the
• 1:39:54
  Speaker 3: way your wife treve your lies them. Please, ladies, listen.
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  Speaker 3: God is speaking to us, don't you If a man
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  Speaker 3: has not talk to you about it, I promise you
• 1:40:04
  Speaker 3: it's just because it's tolerating you. It's not because he's
• 1:40:07
  Speaker 3: enjoying it. There are men who can just take up
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  Speaker 3: with anything, but don't. Don't. Don't push men to the world.
• 1:40:15
  Speaker 3: It's God helping us. And then number three, you're living room,
• 1:40:21
  Speaker 3: your parlor. You enter the parlor and everything is scattered,
• 1:40:27
  Speaker 3: water pours on the ground. The capect is thirty pieces
• 1:40:31
  Speaker 3: of paper around, children roaming around. Everything is unkept the
• 1:40:37
  Speaker 3: moment you own the phant. You see those all over
• 1:40:40
  Speaker 3: the parlor. And many mothers don't train your children. How
• 1:40:46
  Speaker 3: many ladies get up in the morning. I know that
• 1:40:49
  Speaker 3: part of your assignment is to make sure that your
• 1:40:52
  Speaker 3: rooms are clean. It starts with your own room. Now,
• 1:40:55
  Speaker 3: don't wait till you're in a bungalow. You want to
• 1:40:57
  Speaker 3: stay in a duplex of eight rooms? Are you ready
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  Speaker 3: to sweep it? Don't you say, Oh God, I'm tired
• 1:41:04
  Speaker 3: of poverty. Are you ready to sweep it? I want
• 1:41:10
  Speaker 3: a room with this. I want the next one room
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  Speaker 3: with an aquery of every honor, concrete responsibility. It's God's
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  Speaker 3: making to us tonight. If you listen to what I'm saying,
• 1:41:23
  Speaker 3: I promise you ten years, twenty years from now, you
• 1:41:26
  Speaker 3: will thank me for what I'm sharing. You're leaving room.
• 1:41:33
  Speaker 3: The key word on their motherhood is sacrificed. Sisters, look
• 1:41:38
  Speaker 3: at me very carefully. If you are unwilling to let
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  Speaker 3: good things right now, you are not a mother.
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  Speaker 4: I'm telling you this.
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  Speaker 3: They are not a mother. There are ladies who cannot
• 1:41:49
  Speaker 3: give up your food. They cannot share anything there are
• 1:41:55
  Speaker 3: ladies who even if you have one million narra and
• 1:41:58
  Speaker 3: a guy stands here with one house and nerror, you
• 1:42:01
  Speaker 3: want him to buy something? Your mind on the nerrah
• 1:42:03
  Speaker 3: for you and keep on the nerror. What sort of
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  Speaker 3: a personal you Once there is no heart of sacrifice,
• 1:42:11
  Speaker 3: you are not a mother because a good mother will
• 1:42:14
  Speaker 3: inconvenience herself. A good mother will protect the image of
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  Speaker 3: the father and the husband. Have you seen many of
• 1:42:22
  Speaker 3: our mothers do a lot of things and give the
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  Speaker 3: honor and the credit to the hosband. The man has
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  Speaker 3: no idea. Physitors are coming to the house, and they
• 1:42:30
  Speaker 3: come and they see all kinds of meals, different types,
• 1:42:33
  Speaker 3: and the friends of the man town and say, ah ah, promise, promise.
• 1:42:38
  Speaker 3: Your house is heaven on nettle. And you see him laughing.
• 1:42:40
  Speaker 3: He did not contribute anything to that table. But he's happy.
• 1:42:44
  Speaker 3: And the woman because she said good woman, she's happy.
• 1:42:48
  Speaker 3: They will ask God. They say, madam, you're really enjoying it.
• 1:42:51
  Speaker 3: That means your husband is taking care of you. And
• 1:42:52
  Speaker 3: she say, bless God, not that you call. The person said,
• 1:42:55
  Speaker 3: as you say, this is my initiate. I did it
• 1:42:57
  Speaker 3: because I hear God. If I'm to wait for this
• 1:42:59
  Speaker 3: is nothing will happen in this house. How many of
• 1:43:08
  Speaker 3: you right now can do good and give the credit
• 1:43:12
  Speaker 3: to the man God has given you and not be
• 1:43:14
  Speaker 3: a shamed That is how many of you can do that?
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  Speaker 3: That you're the one that dressed him well. And when
• 1:43:19
  Speaker 3: he comes out and people are saying you have an
• 1:43:21
  Speaker 3: excellent dress, sense, you keep quiet. You know that you
• 1:43:24
  Speaker 3: look as an excellent care dress. Sense. I was almost
• 1:43:28
  Speaker 3: passing the night that they tell us this, to make
• 1:43:30
  Speaker 3: sure they finish the clothes. Now you're giving the credit
• 1:43:32
  Speaker 3: to him. A mother does not want any glory for herself.
• 1:43:36
  Speaker 3: Her pride is that her husband and children are lifted,
• 1:43:41
  Speaker 3: even at her expense. That's why you say woman can
• 1:43:45
  Speaker 3: carry her food. When a visitor comes and the husband says,
• 1:43:49
  Speaker 3: is there anything to eat? She say ah, yes yes.
• 1:43:51
  Speaker 3: Whereas that food she's saying yes to is her nail,
• 1:43:53
  Speaker 3: and she will run to the kitchen, turn it in
• 1:43:55
  Speaker 3: another plate, warm it quickly and come. And the children
• 1:43:58
  Speaker 3: are saying, mommy, boy, you have not the boy. She's
• 1:44:01
  Speaker 3: protecting the image of the family. You must receive grace
• 1:44:09
  Speaker 3: to be a mother. Number three, every woman is a
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  Speaker 3: priest too. Every woman listen and this applies most especially
• 1:44:19
  Speaker 3: to single moms and women who maybe their husbands are believed,
• 1:44:23
  Speaker 3: and so on and so forth, that there is no
• 1:44:25
  Speaker 3: man in your life, whether technically or directly. If there
• 1:44:30
  Speaker 3: is no man in your life, you must still perform
• 1:44:33
  Speaker 3: that role of priesthood. I read a book some years ago,
• 1:44:38
  Speaker 3: The Power of a Praying Wife, and that book changed
• 1:44:42
  Speaker 3: my life. Every woman must be on her knees. This
• 1:44:45
  Speaker 3: is your all time in the home. Every woman must
• 1:44:48
  Speaker 3: create an all time, especially if you are marrying a
• 1:44:51
  Speaker 3: man of God. Don't wait until standards chilling man eat
• 1:44:54
  Speaker 3: of his ministry. Where will you be at the point
• 1:44:58
  Speaker 3: where josephel is chilling him? And strangest image, there is
• 1:45:01
  Speaker 3: a way you can know that your husband is getting busy.
• 1:45:04
  Speaker 3: He's getting busy and spiritually he's not intact. You can
• 1:45:08
  Speaker 3: discern that he's going down. That's the time to put
• 1:45:11
  Speaker 3: on your knees and im proceede for him. You see
• 1:45:14
  Speaker 3: him making foolish decisions, he said, leader over millions of people.
• 1:45:18
  Speaker 3: One decision can implicate him. There are syco fans, there
• 1:45:22
  Speaker 3: are newspapers waiting to discarded his grace. A true priest,
• 1:45:28
  Speaker 3: he is a woman who can pray him first and
• 1:45:32
  Speaker 3: standing and say, Lord, I'm praying for my husband and
• 1:45:34
  Speaker 3: praying for my friendly man. No matter how discerning we are,
• 1:45:41
  Speaker 3: most times we don't discern marital evil first till it
• 1:45:44
  Speaker 3: destroys us. I can hug thirty ladies right now as
• 1:45:49
  Speaker 3: generous as possible. A lady can sider and know the
• 1:45:52
  Speaker 3: one that hugged me from the spirit and the one
• 1:45:56
  Speaker 3: that hugged me from the flesh. A guy will not
• 1:45:58
  Speaker 3: know the guy, say man, very nice person, but a
• 1:46:01
  Speaker 3: lady would look as a guy now this one. I
• 1:46:05
  Speaker 3: felt something in me when when that lady or that brother,
• 1:46:09
  Speaker 3: my spirit told me that this is too generous for Joseph,
• 1:46:13
  Speaker 3: normal godly expression of love. That means God that's giving
• 1:46:18
  Speaker 3: you that spiritual equipping to save the man from danger.
• 1:46:22
  Speaker 3: How many women sit down and have dreams and you
• 1:46:25
  Speaker 3: see the life and the business and the ministry of
• 1:46:28
  Speaker 3: your husband crossing. God didn't just show you to keep it.
• 1:46:31
  Speaker 3: A man is going on a trip and you started
• 1:46:34
  Speaker 3: sensing in your spirit maybe accident. Why don't you discuss,
• 1:46:37
  Speaker 3: and said, honey, let's pray, say let him go, And
• 1:46:40
  Speaker 3: then something happens. He returned back on bike, and tells
• 1:46:43
  Speaker 3: you the car's damage. I said, oh I saw it too.
• 1:46:46
  Speaker 3: I saw it. What did you do about it? Remember
• 1:46:50
  Speaker 3: the wife of Herold. Let me prove this to you.
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  Speaker 3: Remember the wife of Herold. She had a dream and
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  Speaker 3: she saw the inno sense of Jesus. She got up
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  Speaker 3: and told her husband, this man is I know you
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  Speaker 3: people want to kill it. My spirit tells me is
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  Speaker 3: Inno said try away that tief Barabbas. Let them crucify him.
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  Speaker 3: Leave this innocent man. But they didn't listen to her.
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  Speaker 3: How many men have ignored the priestly rules of their
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  Speaker 3: wives to their detriment Rothers. Let me tell you, I
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  Speaker 3: shared with the School of Ministry students. There is a
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  Speaker 3: prophetic dimension in every woman. It's just that that prophetic
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  Speaker 3: dimension is fragile. You must love her and ll know
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  Speaker 3: how prophetic office, and then you will benefit from it. Men,
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  Speaker 3: because egotistic people every little thing you turn to a lady,
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  Speaker 3: I said, I beg She said, lady, I know that
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  Speaker 3: they're emotional. There are times that ladies can and do
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  Speaker 3: intelligent things emotionally. But let me tell you something. There
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  Speaker 3: are times that in the midst of their emotionality, they
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  Speaker 3: can speak for the counsel of God. There are times
• 1:47:52
  Speaker 3: he a man sits down and is trying to do
• 1:47:54
  Speaker 3: business with some friends, and you see his wife keeps quiet.
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  Speaker 3: She's not here in the conversation, but feel it as spirit,
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  Speaker 3: and she says, honey, I don't know what is going on,
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  Speaker 3: but I am sorry. I'm not disrespecting you, but this
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  Speaker 3: your oyalty you have been doing from the day you
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  Speaker 3: started it. Something in my spirit I sense God doesn't
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  Speaker 3: want you to be there, he said, God doesn't want
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  Speaker 3: you to there. Are you aware? Have you seen the
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  Speaker 3: last pity letter? Have you seen now? They have increased
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  Speaker 3: the schoolfies. It's now wounded on fifty thousand. Please don't
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  Speaker 3: annoy me. A woman says, I'm sorry until the day
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  Speaker 3: They now call and say, madam, are you missisters? So
• 1:48:31
  Speaker 3: please come and identify your husband in the prison. We
• 1:48:33
  Speaker 3: just locked him up. There is a priestly dimension to
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  Speaker 3: every lady. Brothers, please don't let the beauty of any
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  Speaker 3: sister fool you. Beuty without God is nonsense? Are you
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  Speaker 3: hearing me? I repeat, beauty without God is nonsense. The
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  Speaker 3: beauty of a lady can faith like a leave added
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  Speaker 3: to that beauty a spirituality, a spirituality at spirituality. One
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  Speaker 3: of my greatest joys is that, by the grace of God,
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  Speaker 3: some of the people who have risen from this ministry
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  Speaker 3: and have gotten married, Almost every one of them I
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  Speaker 3: know of that enjoying heaven on earth because of some
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  Speaker 3: of these principles. You never go to their homes and
• 1:49:24
  Speaker 3: see cat and dog. No, you never see that kind
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  Speaker 3: of thing. There is love. The homes may not be perfect,
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  Speaker 3: but I tell him there is God in that role.
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  Speaker 3: They love themselves. They're living by the principles of the
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  Speaker 3: childom So, ladies, there are three dimensions to you. The
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  Speaker 3: first dimension is what a wife, and your ministry as
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  Speaker 3: a wife is to your husband alone. Please don't think
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  Speaker 3: in lass I equal to your husband. Don't think children
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  Speaker 3: I equal to your husband. There is a way you
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  Speaker 3: concentrate on children and refuse your husband. You are not
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  Speaker 3: doing him good. There is a way you concentrate on
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  Speaker 3: in laws. There are ladies who will rather you are
• 1:50:10
  Speaker 3: in laws, be exalted than your husband. Every time you
• 1:50:14
  Speaker 3: seek how tail prepers soof in laws are coming. You
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  Speaker 3: have never prepared it for your husband. Garying the money,
• 1:50:22
  Speaker 3: the remaining in the evening, that's how the man leaves
• 1:50:25
  Speaker 3: you starve that man because he has found to be
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  Speaker 3: faithful to you. He has lived in a prison because
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  Speaker 3: of his commitment to be faithful. If I were a lady,
• 1:50:49
  Speaker 3: see there is what you do to a man, even
• 1:50:52
  Speaker 3: if a woman is walking naked. Here you are joking,
• 1:50:55
  Speaker 3: you know you are joking. Then this son goes he
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  Speaker 3: love me. That's a way, because there is absolutely no
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  Speaker 3: reason except the monic oppression. Why should look at another woman?
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  Speaker 3: What in the world, ladies, I challenge you, I want
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  Speaker 3: you to lock your husband's attention to you. It's as
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  Speaker 3: if you are programming him, keep him to look at
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  Speaker 3: you all the days of your life, and have no
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  Speaker 3: reason whatsoever to look at another woman. The power is
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  Speaker 3: within you. It's really every time Jezebel wants to come
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  Speaker 3: and destroy a home, they usually use the lapsis of
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  Speaker 3: the woman. There is usually something a woman is ignoring
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  Speaker 3: that somebody does. If you are not cooking well for
• 1:51:41
  Speaker 3: the man, and you have not paid attention to lend
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  Speaker 3: new meals, you only know how to cook six meals,
• 1:51:47
  Speaker 3: yam pills, to love your traditional food, and maybe any
• 1:51:53
  Speaker 3: other thing cheeps, how can the man? It's just that
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  Speaker 3: all the days of his life. During the midt in office,
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  Speaker 3: they try to give him some short meal. He rejects
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  Speaker 3: it because he wants to come and honor you. He
• 1:52:06
  Speaker 3: doesn't want to come back, statis right, and you start
• 1:52:08
  Speaker 3: suspecting him. And so he rejects a meal that would
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  Speaker 3: have really enjoyed all through that night and comes back
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  Speaker 3: home and meets a disaster and the pen is. He
• 1:52:17
  Speaker 3: knows that that disaster will be repeated again and again
• 1:52:21
  Speaker 3: and again, and so a woman now starts calling him
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  Speaker 3: by ten thirteen. Hello, sir, Sorry, please, don't be offended.
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  Speaker 3: I know that I don't deserve to be calling you.
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  Speaker 3: And the man, he said, and who is this trying
• 1:52:36
  Speaker 3: to bring the king out of me? What is all this?
• 1:52:38
  Speaker 3: I said, sorry, sir, don't don't be offended. I just
• 1:52:41
  Speaker 3: wanted to find out. Have you eat him? Sir? Who
• 1:52:43
  Speaker 3: is this? It's your secretary? Please? I'm sorry. I hope,
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  Speaker 3: I hope I'm not interrupting your mood. And the man
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  Speaker 3: said no, no, no, no, bye bye. He will aptly
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  Speaker 3: that's if he was courageous. What they said this means
• 1:52:54
  Speaker 3: and he's saying, I catt this? What is all that?
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  Speaker 3: The next day again sir, have you arrived home safely?
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  Speaker 3: And while he's doing that, the woman is watching. I
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  Speaker 3: didn't him and laughing. We can't get let him and
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  Speaker 3: punish you. Whereas your family, Your family is on fire.
• 1:53:09
  Speaker 3: Just fire on the mountain. Oh, I know he's coming
• 1:53:25
  Speaker 3: and there is fire on the mountain. You are about
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  Speaker 3: to face it, bitter experience. The woman is calling and
• 1:53:34
  Speaker 3: then the man now calls her back and says, what
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  Speaker 3: is this? Why are you disturbing me? He says, no, sir,
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  Speaker 3: I don't. As a secretary, I should really find out
• 1:53:41
  Speaker 3: about your your wealth day. I just wanted to you.
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  Speaker 3: Didn't look very nice in the office, and I says,
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  Speaker 3: you know, GMS, WoT my mind? I mean, what is
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  Speaker 3: all that? And you know, says and you don't need
• 1:53:52
  Speaker 3: to tell me. I know. I have always known that
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  Speaker 3: you're an exceptional man. I mean your file come to
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  Speaker 3: my table. The king and not that woman is bringing
• 1:54:01
  Speaker 3: the king out of that man, madam, fire on the mountain?
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  Speaker 3: Your home is that? Let me tell you. Don't think
• 1:54:09
  Speaker 3: because he's a person, it's not a human being. Don't
• 1:54:12
  Speaker 3: think because he's a reverend. We call on his neck.
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  Speaker 3: The moment stay and finds out that you are ignoring
• 1:54:19
  Speaker 3: your role, somebody will start playing the role. And we
• 1:54:22
  Speaker 3: live in a generation where there is an overage of
• 1:54:25
  Speaker 3: three to five lady for every available man, and so
• 1:54:28
  Speaker 3: there are people who are not desperate. They are not
• 1:54:31
  Speaker 3: as shamed to be as desperate as anything. He comes
• 1:54:36
  Speaker 3: up in the morning to the office and they say,
• 1:54:38
  Speaker 3: a hot cup of coffee. I saw your schedule for today,
• 1:54:41
  Speaker 3: and I saw that guy, your day is busy, and
• 1:54:44
  Speaker 3: I thought, you really need to be agile and walking.
• 1:54:46
  Speaker 3: And the man blocks the door and says, what is
• 1:54:48
  Speaker 3: this woman doing to me? Oh? God, you know I'm faithful.
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  Speaker 3: I am married to one woman and carries the picture
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  Speaker 3: of his wife and puts it on the table so
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  Speaker 3: that the woman will come and see. And when she comes,
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  Speaker 3: he says, what in love the woman? I can imagine
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  Speaker 3: the way you are doing well in your house with
• 1:55:03
  Speaker 3: this woman. Women are wise, they know exactly what you say. Says,
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  Speaker 3: I can imagine. I mean, no one die. If you
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  Speaker 3: have a pretty woman like this, you should be eating well.
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  Speaker 3: She's not an idiot. She knows exactly how to get
• 1:55:17
  Speaker 3: the man and keeps you in a position where you
• 1:55:20
  Speaker 3: now have to contemplate I'm eating well, Am I am I?
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  Speaker 9: No.
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  Speaker 3: Very soon you start coming home with her, You start
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  Speaker 3: coming home with her, and the non challenge wife is
• 1:55:34
  Speaker 3: insensitive and she does not recognize that. Before you know it,
• 1:55:37
  Speaker 3: one day the woman will find out that whether she
• 1:55:40
  Speaker 3: meets her husband emotionally or not, he doesn't care whether
• 1:55:44
  Speaker 3: she cooks for him or not. He has stopped quaring her.
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  Speaker 3: Let me assure you somebody has sat down on the
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  Speaker 3: throne of your office comfortably and is enjoying your husband.
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  Speaker 3: You can keep the name while she keeps the experience.
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  Speaker 3: She may not want to marry him. Keep the name clear,
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  Speaker 3: Miss is whatever, while she keeps the experience. Every time
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  Speaker 3: we hear that a man fell or a man is
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  Speaker 3: sleeping around, people are so quick to call the man eats.
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  Speaker 3: You're stupid, you claim you're born again. The question I
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  Speaker 3: want to ask is where was the woman? Where was
• 1:56:23
  Speaker 3: the woman when that was happening. It is not good.
• 1:56:26
  Speaker 3: The Bible never said it is not good for a
• 1:56:28
  Speaker 3: woman to be a lord. A woman can be a lord,
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  Speaker 3: but it is not good. God knows why he said
• 1:56:33
  Speaker 3: it is not good. In other words, it is dangerous.
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  Speaker 3: It's better for the man to be a celibate, supernatural
• 1:56:40
  Speaker 3: grace comes upon him. But when he is married, madam,
• 1:56:44
  Speaker 3: don't play games with your husband. God bless you one
• 1:56:49
  Speaker 3: more thing and we're done today. Are you blessed so far?
• 1:56:54
  Speaker 3: I want to share on what I call the big
• 1:56:56
  Speaker 3: Black Cloud pathway to finding a life partner, and there
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  Speaker 3: bring tongue for one minute. Thank you Jesus. I believe
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  Speaker 3: that this will heal relationships and heal homes. Just give
• 1:57:18
  Speaker 3: me a few minutes and let me say what I'm
• 1:57:20
  Speaker 3: about to say, very seriously, Thank you Jesus. The Biblical
• 1:57:27
  Speaker 3: pathway to finding a life partner. Please look up everyone.
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  Speaker 3: Is there a method or a formul life you want
• 1:57:37
  Speaker 3: to say to finding a like partner? Because it looks
• 1:57:41
  Speaker 3: like the church is largely confused, I shared between a
• 1:57:45
  Speaker 3: few things from prophetic confusion to here and there. The
• 1:57:51
  Speaker 3: interesting thing, when I was doing a little research for
• 1:57:54
  Speaker 3: this message, I found something that shocked me. There were
• 1:57:58
  Speaker 3: all kinds of ways that people married in the Bible.
• 1:58:01
  Speaker 3: Let me give you a shoe, all kinds of ways, good, bad, ugly.
• 1:58:07
  Speaker 3: For instance, Boss here finds and marries a prostitute. Was
• 1:58:13
  Speaker 3: there Chapter one, verse one to three. You don't need
• 1:58:15
  Speaker 3: to write it. Just listen. Moses finds a man with
• 1:58:20
  Speaker 3: seven daughters. He waters the flog and carries a wife
• 1:58:24
  Speaker 3: free of churche. Exodus two, verse sixteen to twenty one.
• 1:58:29
  Speaker 3: Bos buys a land, and with that property he finds
• 1:58:33
  Speaker 3: a poor lady and she becomes his wife. What a coincidence?
• 1:58:37
  Speaker 3: Rout Chapter four from verse five to ten. Are you blessed?
• 1:58:43
  Speaker 3: The Benjamin nights in June twenty one, verse nineteen to
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  Speaker 3: twenty five. They stole women and ran away with them.
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  Speaker 3: That's how the women, That's how they married. So just
• 1:58:52
  Speaker 3: go to a camp still a woman disappear with her Chekob.
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  Speaker 3: He lay for seven years times two Genesis twenty nine,
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  Speaker 3: verse fifteen to thirty, seven years of toilet and labor,
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  Speaker 3: got the wrong wife, labored for another seven years god
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  Speaker 3: the one he wanted fourteen years labor to get a wife.
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  Speaker 3: Twenty nine, verse fifteen to thirty of Genesis Delvy. He
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  Speaker 3: kills Golard, gets rich, marries the king's daughter, and frees
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  Speaker 3: his house from pain tax. That's how he got his wife.
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  Speaker 3: First Samwhere seventeen, verse twenty five. The king swore that
• 1:59:30
  Speaker 3: whoever defis go Liard, he will give him his wife.
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  Speaker 3: He will make him rich and the family will no
• 1:59:37
  Speaker 3: longer pay tax. As was ritten off to organize a
• 1:59:42
  Speaker 3: beauty contest where all the virgins in the land were
• 1:59:45
  Speaker 3: brought and he got a wife. Es suchapter two from
• 1:59:48
  Speaker 3: verse three to four. Derv kills you Uriah and marries
• 1:59:53
  Speaker 3: his wife. So in the Bible people kill people and
• 1:59:56
  Speaker 3: married their wife. Second somewhere eleven, Solomon found out that
• 2:00:02
  Speaker 3: marine one or two is not the way, so he
• 2:00:04
  Speaker 3: had seven hundred wives and three hundred concubines. Second kings eleven,
• 2:00:07
  Speaker 3: verse one to three. These are different skills and strategies.
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  Speaker 3: People explore this marriage thing in the Bible. One thousand
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  Speaker 3: women in his life so that he can be faithful.
• 2:00:28
  Speaker 3: And then Paul in first Corrangia seven two to thirty
• 2:00:31
  Speaker 3: five just said, look all this thing is a mess.
• 2:00:34
  Speaker 3: Let me just serve God and leave. And so he
• 2:00:36
  Speaker 3: refused to get married. Now you see I trusted a
• 2:00:39
  Speaker 3: little run down. There were times when there are more
• 2:00:43
  Speaker 3: like capturing slaves. You capture a slave and turn her
• 2:00:47
  Speaker 3: into your wife. So if you read the Bible without
• 2:00:53
  Speaker 3: the wisdom of the state, you will be deceaved. Which
• 2:00:56
  Speaker 3: of the method will you choose chill a man's wife,
• 2:01:00
  Speaker 3: kill a man's husband a woman's husband and marries and
• 2:01:03
  Speaker 3: marry her. Or go to a vineyard and by real
• 2:01:07
  Speaker 3: estate and everything in it, plus the woman is a
• 2:01:10
  Speaker 3: signed that is your wife. Or organize a beauty contest
• 2:01:15
  Speaker 3: and then do it like the bachelor and then the
• 2:01:19
  Speaker 3: finance becomes your wife. Or marry one thousand women, or
• 2:01:27
  Speaker 3: defeat ask for government what they will give you if
• 2:01:31
  Speaker 3: you will fight terrorism, whether you marry president's daughter. Anyway,
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  Speaker 3: the point here is this, there are many examples the Bible. Interestingly,
• 2:01:43
  Speaker 3: now I don't know why exactly, but the Bible does
• 2:01:45
  Speaker 3: not exactly give us a direct formula like salvation. You know,
• 2:01:50
  Speaker 3: when it comes to salvation, there's a formula. Is that true?
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  Speaker 3: There is a way you know you are not safe.
• 2:01:55
  Speaker 3: There is a way you know you are safe. But
• 2:01:57
  Speaker 3: from marriage, it seemed as though there was no exact formula.
• 2:02:04
  Speaker 3: And I believe the reason is because we are dealing
• 2:02:06
  Speaker 3: with human beings here. Hallelujah. But then I've been able
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  Speaker 3: to bring up a few things that I want us
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  Speaker 3: to look at. We may not have the time to consider.
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  Speaker 3: Two incidentss in the Bible. Adam the first marriage in
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  Speaker 3: Genesis to twenty one. Let's us look at it if
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  Speaker 3: you can help us. Okay, Genesis two twenty one. Let's
• 2:02:27
  Speaker 3: just turn here, so that will hurry up and pray.
• 2:02:29
  Speaker 3: Genesis to twenty one. I want to bring out a
• 2:02:31
  Speaker 3: few points that will bless us. Genesis to twenty one,
• 2:02:50
  Speaker 3: Genesis to twenty one. If you are esay, amen, and
• 2:02:53
  Speaker 3: the ripe listen, and the ripe which the Lord God
• 2:02:56
  Speaker 3: had taken from the man made he a woman and
• 2:03:00
  Speaker 3: onto the man. Now the point here, the key verse
• 2:03:03
  Speaker 3: is verse twenty three. And Adams said, this is now
• 2:03:09
  Speaker 3: what borne off my bones and flesh. Of my flesh,
• 2:03:15
  Speaker 3: she shall be called woman. Why because she was taken
• 2:03:20
  Speaker 3: out of man. Watch this. So the wife that Adam
• 2:03:25
  Speaker 3: married was made of the same material, the same substance,
• 2:03:30
  Speaker 3: the same ideology, the same conviction. I will get you
• 2:03:34
  Speaker 3: some points there now. So Adam married a woman who
• 2:03:37
  Speaker 3: was made of the same substance. If she was a lion,
• 2:03:41
  Speaker 3: the substance will not be compatible. So we see compatibility
• 2:03:45
  Speaker 3: as a key here. It had to be a woman
• 2:03:47
  Speaker 3: who was taken out of him had the same composition
• 2:03:51
  Speaker 3: with him, spiritual composition, psychological composition, biological composition. You will
• 2:03:58
  Speaker 3: never marry a man or a woman that does not
• 2:04:00
  Speaker 3: sustain the same composition with you. There will be big trouble.
• 2:04:07
  Speaker 3: I wanted to talk on Genesis twenty four, the story
• 2:04:10
  Speaker 3: of Isaac. That's the first show in the Bible where
• 2:04:13
  Speaker 3: a man goes to look for a wife for another
• 2:04:15
  Speaker 3: person both. Let's just jump that points to note there
• 2:04:22
  Speaker 3: is no physical formula provided for finding a wife, but
• 2:04:26
  Speaker 3: there are scriptural guidelines. There is no physical formula in
• 2:04:33
  Speaker 3: the Bible. The Bible scatters guidelines, and I've been able
• 2:04:38
  Speaker 3: to bring five scriptures that if you use, they will
• 2:04:43
  Speaker 3: guide you to make a very godly decision. Ready number
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  Speaker 3: one Provabs eighteen twenty two Prohabs eighteen twenty two. If
• 2:04:51
  Speaker 3: you can help us, media, let's just hurry up Proverabs
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  Speaker 3: twenty two, Prohaps eighteen verse twenty two. Okay, look, God,
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  Speaker 3: please read with me inside and outside. Want to read
• 2:05:07
  Speaker 3: Who saw what? Find that a wife? Find that a
• 2:05:13
  Speaker 3: good thing and obtains favor. So automatically, the Bible shows
• 2:05:19
  Speaker 3: us that the process of getting a wife will demand
• 2:05:23
  Speaker 3: responsibility on the part of the man. There will be action,
• 2:05:28
  Speaker 3: It will involve you. The word find whosoever picks a wife,
• 2:05:33
  Speaker 3: or whosoever prays a wife to come, whosoever finds a wife.
• 2:05:39
  Speaker 3: It gives an idea of searching. It gives an idea
• 2:05:43
  Speaker 3: of desire. That means there will be commitments. If you
• 2:05:46
  Speaker 3: want to get married, action will be required on your
• 2:05:50
  Speaker 3: own part. The Bible says, whosoever finds a wife, You're
• 2:05:57
  Speaker 3: not going to sit down where you are and want
• 2:05:59
  Speaker 3: a lady to come and meet you. It's not going
• 2:06:01
  Speaker 3: to happen that way. Regardless of whether you saw efficient
• 2:06:04
  Speaker 3: or not. There will be an initiation. There will be
• 2:06:07
  Speaker 3: a staph. You most take number two MS. Chapter three,
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  Speaker 3: verse three. It brotresses on Genesis chapter two, Amos three,
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  Speaker 3: verse three, Very quickly, please Amos three, verse three. This
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  Speaker 3: is the grand key I believe to a successful marriage
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  Speaker 3: and relationship. The key to a successful marriage is not love.
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  Speaker 3: It has been proven again and again that love is
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  Speaker 3: not enough to keep marriage. Can two walk together except
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  Speaker 3: the word be agreed? The word we agreed is the
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  Speaker 3: word compatible. Compatible. Compatible measures your degree of agreeableness, spiritual agreeableness,
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  Speaker 3: psychological agreeableness, similarity in ideologies about God, about money, about life,
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  Speaker 3: about parenting. Two will work together. If they are compatible?
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  Speaker 3: Are you getting what I'm saying now? Very important? That
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  Speaker 3: means come. That means it doesn't matter whether I saw
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  Speaker 3: her in advision or in a dream, whether I saw
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  Speaker 3: myself wearing a boat tie and she was wearing a
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  Speaker 3: white wedding gown and a flower came from heaven. I said,
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  Speaker 3: this flower is your marriage flower. I don't care what
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  Speaker 3: you saw or did not see. If there is no compatibility,
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  Speaker 3: imagine for instance, that this is my wife. I get
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  Speaker 3: married to this young lady right and I'm praying tongues
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  Speaker 3: or she is praying tongues and I'm turning. I said,
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  Speaker 3: what is that? I don't believe in praying tongues. Two
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  Speaker 3: are not working together. I believe in spending and wastage.
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  Speaker 3: I believe in my ego rather let children die to
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  Speaker 3: be given donations to church. And that's not her mindset.
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  Speaker 3: You see that there is friction. So what is your
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  Speaker 3: ideology about God?
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  Speaker 4: Bless you?
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  Speaker 3: What is your ideology about God? What is your ideology
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  Speaker 3: about money? What is your ideology about caul chuaw cal
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  Speaker 3: chaw call chaw? What's your ideology about ministry? A man
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  Speaker 3: of God? For instance, go to get a lady because
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  Speaker 3: she's fine. Have you seen whether what is a passion
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  Speaker 3: about ministry? Otherwise she will be fine for nothing and
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  Speaker 3: destroy your church. When she's supposed to be a model.
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  Speaker 3: She cannot sacrifice. She can lay down her life to
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  Speaker 3: be the mother figure for the church. God's wreaking to us.
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  Speaker 3: I want you to write this down and tie it. Never.
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  Speaker 3: I don't care what you see in the spirit. Never, Brothers,
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  Speaker 3: ask a lady out who you are not compatible with.
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  Speaker 3: You're going to destroy her or she will destroy you,
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  Speaker 3: even if she does not have every ideology straightened out?
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  Speaker 3: Does she have the teachability? Sisters? Does he have the teachability?
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  Speaker 3: It's not just that he's in a jeep. What is
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  Speaker 3: his ideology about managing challenges? Otherwise you are Christian? You
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  Speaker 3: will get married to him. He tells you. He said Christian.
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  Speaker 3: And the next thing, he brings the tale of an
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  Speaker 3: antelope or the tail of any animal and hands it
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  Speaker 3: as a jazz and says, see, I know I'm a Christian,
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  Speaker 3: but let me tell you my great grandfather has this thing.
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  Speaker 3: It's like that in our culture. Everybody brings it. If
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  Speaker 3: you don't understand, just keep it here. That's supposed to
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  Speaker 3: be a Christian. He wakes up in the morning and
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  Speaker 3: is making incantations on that tale. And you are saying,
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  Speaker 3: my goodness, what did I get married to? And you
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  Speaker 3: know by spiritual intelligence that you're in trouble, but you
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  Speaker 3: claim you were marrying a rich man. Now you've married disaster.
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  Speaker 3: Even if you never see one vision, even if you
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  Speaker 3: never hear anybody's name, By the time you find a
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  Speaker 3: lady that is compatible in ideology, I guarantee you accept
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  Speaker 3: the world of God is a life, you will have
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  Speaker 3: an exceptional marriage. That is the reason why unbelievers, although
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  Speaker 3: when they're married they were not born again because they
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  Speaker 3: had compatibility, they still are together. And Christians who are
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  Speaker 3: born again because they think born again will solve compatibility.
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  Speaker 3: The Bible says it's better to sit at the roof
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  Speaker 3: of your house than to be with a contentious and
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  Speaker 3: angry woman. You're a man of God. You know where
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  Speaker 3: God is taking you to. Now you're going to carry
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  Speaker 3: a lady that is lazy. You carry a lady that
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  Speaker 3: is weak, crying over every day. Let me tell you
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  Speaker 3: two of you are bonnigay. But just know that that
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  Speaker 3: that family is on his way to crash down. I
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  Speaker 3: tell you the truth, don't stone unnecessarily, don't rereal it
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  Speaker 3: to our life things and say no, I know my
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  Speaker 3: God is April this girl the way she praised mister man,
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  Speaker 3: can is she going to be able to cook for you?
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  Speaker 3: That's the reason why I encourage people the moment you
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  Speaker 3: start a relationship. Part of the many responsibilities of the
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  Speaker 3: man is take the lady to your whether your church
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  Speaker 3: or your meeting place wherever it's your primary place of
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  Speaker 3: spiritual fitting. Do you know what? Let me tell you.
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  Speaker 3: If a brother in Coynonia ask a lady out in
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  Speaker 3: coin Onia, the probability of them have been an exceptional
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  Speaker 3: marriage is even above ninety percent. Why because they're ideal?
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  Speaker 3: Is a similar They're hearing the same thing and they
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  Speaker 3: delete the same thing. Are you get to know what
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  Speaker 3: I'm saying now? Not that we say okay, we're fasting
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  Speaker 3: for ten days and the wife is pulling her mouthful
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  Speaker 3: around and angry and saying this, this, this similar. I
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  Speaker 3: don't like all these kind of thing, So what kind
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  Speaker 3: of ten days? First? What is all that? And the
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  Speaker 3: man is saying, look, look we're going far. We're going far.
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  Speaker 3: Or a woman who hates excellence and is ready to
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  Speaker 3: manage anything. But the man is ready to stay first.
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  Speaker 3: Number three Proverbs chapter nineteen, verse fourteen. Very interesting scripture.
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  Speaker 3: When I stumbled across this, it blessed me no small way.
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  Speaker 3: Proverbs chapter nineteen, verse fourteen. Everyone read one to read.
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  Speaker 3: It says houses and meaning your father and mother, your parents.
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  Speaker 3: You can inherit houses and riches, but when it has
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  Speaker 3: to do with a woman, you must involve God. Are
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  Speaker 3: you hearing now? He says, a full ten wife is
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  Speaker 3: from the Lord, meaning if you if not God, you
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  Speaker 3: throw God out of the question because you believe that
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  Speaker 3: this God. Every time God comes in, he messes my
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  Speaker 3: relationship and makes me to take a decision. Many people
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  Speaker 3: hate God until the entire relationship. They now go to
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  Speaker 3: God and say, Lord, this is here by introducing my
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  Speaker 3: life partner and God to say you choose it. Go ahead.
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  Speaker 3: By the time you see perpend in the relationship or
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  Speaker 3: the marriage, you now trying to say, God, where were you?
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  Speaker 3: God says I was here all the while. Behold, I
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  Speaker 3: stand at the door and knock. If you opener, will
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  Speaker 3: come in if you give me entrance. Let me tell
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  Speaker 3: you something. Brothers and sisters, A pood wife, and by extension,
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  Speaker 3: a prudent husband is from the Lord. You cannot use
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  Speaker 3: the scene of the eye to know that a man
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  Speaker 3: who still be faithful after ten years. Men can change
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  Speaker 3: as at the time you meet the man, he doesn't
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  Speaker 3: have money. You don't know what his tendencies are. You
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  Speaker 3: cannot use the beauty and the physic of a lady
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  Speaker 3: just to believe that this is my wife. Oh God,
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  Speaker 3: no matter what you say, m Krigia, a prudent wife
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  Speaker 3: is from the Lord. A pull dented wife is from
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  Speaker 3: the Lord. So involve God. These are the guidelines that
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  Speaker 3: the Bible gives us. So number one, there is a finding.
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  Speaker 3: You will take action, and for ladies, you will position yourself. Brothers,
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  Speaker 3: if you ever want a wife, stop sitting there and
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  Speaker 3: just saying visions and visions and visions. I will round
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  Speaker 3: up with the issue of visions. A prudent wife is
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  Speaker 3: from the Lord. Number four Isaiah Tati verse twenty one.
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  Speaker 3: It's another guideline that the Bible gives us Isaiah Tatty
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  Speaker 3: twenty one, Very very powerful. Isaiah third as I thirty
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  Speaker 3: twenty one, Media thirty twenty one. Please Isaiah thirty okay,
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  Speaker 3: and I yes, shall what hear a voice behind it
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  Speaker 3: saying this is the way what you need. When you
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  Speaker 3: turn to the right hand, when you turn to the left,
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  Speaker 3: it says you will hear voice. In other words, expect
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  Speaker 3: the leadership of the Holy Spirit in helping you choose
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  Speaker 3: a life partner. Expect it. The Bible gives you a
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  Speaker 3: guarantee that you will hear a voice leading you my ship.
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  Speaker 3: Here my voice, my sheep, hear my voice, my sheep,
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  Speaker 3: hear my voice. And then lastly looks Chapter fourteen, verse
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  Speaker 3: twenty eight, everybody read this is the cost dimension of
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  Speaker 3: marriage and relationships? Ready want to read? Sit dead, not
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  Speaker 3: down first and count the cost? Whether he has what
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  Speaker 3: soufsition to what finish? Not start the building, not start
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  Speaker 3: the marriage. Which of you intending to build a marital
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  Speaker 3: power will not first sit down and start counting the cost?
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  Speaker 3: Am I ready to pay the schoolfies of children? Am
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  Speaker 3: I ready to be responsible over a woman and a family?
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  Speaker 3: Am I ready to live with one woman up the
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  Speaker 3: death of my life and be faithful? Am I ready
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  Speaker 3: to grow all with this man and grow all with
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  Speaker 3: this woman? Am I ready to love her like my life?
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  Speaker 3: Am I ready to protect her. Am I ready to
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  Speaker 3: die for my family. This is a guideline. No matter
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  Speaker 3: what vision you see, no matter what dream you have,
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  Speaker 3: God will not count the cost for you. This is
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  Speaker 3: where we miss it. God can show you that shall
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  Speaker 3: hormice your wife, but if you don't count the cost,
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  Speaker 3: it will still fail. It does not mean God live
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  Speaker 3: five scriptures that if any man uses sincerely as a guideline,
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  Speaker 3: you will make a good relationship, will make an exceptional relationship.
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  Speaker 3: Now let me round up by saying this, According to scripture,
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  Speaker 3: the prophetic is not the doctrine or the primary channel
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  Speaker 3: through which God reveals life partners. No, while it is
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  Speaker 3: true that at least in two places in Scripture we
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  Speaker 3: see God directly involved in bringing revelation and confirmation about
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  Speaker 3: a life a man's life partner. Number one is the
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  Speaker 3: prophet whosereh we see God himself asking him to go
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  Speaker 3: and marry a prostitute. But we understand that that was
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  Speaker 3: a prophetic message. Prophets those people were. They were actors.
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  Speaker 3: God will literally use their life to act out a
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  Speaker 3: script and explain the halotry of Israel to that to her.
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  Speaker 3: So he told Josea to go and marry a prophet
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  Speaker 3: called Goma, and so that's with a halo. Three she
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  Speaker 3: will lead him. And then you say, the pain you
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  Speaker 3: feel is the pain I always feel when Israel goes
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  Speaker 3: to bow to other gods. Number one. Number two we
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  Speaker 3: see yourself being afraid knowing that Mary was with child.
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  Speaker 3: He wanted to divorce her quietly, and the Angel appears
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  Speaker 3: and gives it divine confirmation. Don't be afraid to take
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  Speaker 3: her as your wife. Are you getting the point? Now?
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  Speaker 3: Know the place I know in scripture where you find
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  Speaker 3: God giving direct revelations. No, there are guidelines, there are principles.
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  Speaker 3: Now does God refuse pouses to people, Yes, he does.
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  Speaker 3: But I believe strongly that there are two conditions for that.
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  Speaker 3: Number one is based on your personal degree of intimacy
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  Speaker 3: and relationship with God and your level of yieldedness to him.
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  Speaker 3: There is a way I can work with God and
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  Speaker 3: end certain privileges on the strength of my intimacy with him.
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  Speaker 3: I am so given all to God that he knows
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  Speaker 3: that whatever choice He makes for me, I am that
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  Speaker 3: dead to say yes to him. Based on that, God
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  Speaker 3: is able to open you up and give you the
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  Speaker 3: privilege of using visions and revelations. It is rather a
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  Speaker 3: unique case, or use a prophet to speak to you. Another.
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  Speaker 3: She that justifies prophetic revelation is the nature and the
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  Speaker 3: kind of assignment. There are certain kinds of assignment that
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  Speaker 3: will necessarily involve you marrying certain kinds of women or men.
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  Speaker 3: For instance, being in ministry as a man of God.
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  Speaker 3: Because of the nature of your call, God will not
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  Speaker 3: allow you to just marry anybody. You will find out
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  Speaker 3: that there are probings and there are dealings. God will
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  Speaker 3: be exceptionally meticulous. Aside from these two instances, every other
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  Speaker 3: means of marriage in the Bible. It's simply not just
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  Speaker 3: waiting for what you call God's tiny. Are you seeing
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  Speaker 3: the mistake now? God's tiny is when you become a husband,
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  Speaker 3: when you become a father, when you become what when
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  Speaker 3: you become that it is time for marriage because male
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  Speaker 3: and female He created them, and God already gave the
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  Speaker 3: command be fruitful and multiplier and replenish it. When woman
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  Speaker 3: was brought into the sea, God saw that it is good.
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  Speaker 3: So waiting forever to say God wants me to marry
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  Speaker 3: in two thousand and and twenty, or God wants me
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  Speaker 3: to marry. I've fifty That's why I'm forty five. I'm
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  Speaker 3: not married. No, no, no, no, no, no no. It
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  Speaker 3: is absolutely up to you. If you delay marriage because
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  Speaker 3: you are trying to be a husband, a father, and
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  Speaker 3: a priest, I salute you. Don't let anybody push your
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  Speaker 3: pressure and say marriage, or I say, lady, if you
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  Speaker 3: feel that you need some space to become a wife,
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  Speaker 3: a mother and a priest, I also salute you, because
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  Speaker 3: it is a sign of honor to both your husband
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  Speaker 3: and your wife respective. So the Church has been caught
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  Speaker 3: up in all these illusions because there has not been
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  Speaker 3: a very we have complicated the issue of marriage, whereas
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  Speaker 3: it is a very very simple thing. Look at me,
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  Speaker 3: any brother here that believes that you have trained yourself
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  Speaker 3: to be a husband, a father, and a priest, I
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  Speaker 3: guarantee you the gates are open for you for marriage,
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  Speaker 3: and no demon in hell will stop you. And any
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  Speaker 3: lady that truly you can know you are prepared. Some
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  Speaker 3: of you right now, at once, you will stop praying,
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  Speaker 3: Oh God, when will they come? Right now you are
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  Speaker 3: seeing that, truly, truly, you are not prepared, especially for
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  Speaker 3: the kind of person you want. Let me balance this
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  Speaker 3: if you have a vision and a dream of a
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  Speaker 3: man or a lady, keep it to yourself and keep
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  Speaker 3: moving on. And again, what I'm saying this advice is
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  Speaker 3: a blessed advice that will honor you. The Bible says,
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  Speaker 3: and Mary kept these things to herself. Whether it comes
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  Speaker 3: to pass, it should not ruin your life. Whether there
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  Speaker 3: is vision or not. We see in parts, and we
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  Speaker 3: prophesy in part. Whether there be tongues, they will go away.
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  Speaker 3: Whether there be prophecy, they will end. But thy word,
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  Speaker 3: oh Lord, is settled in heaven. Prophecy and visions should
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  Speaker 3: never be exalted above the world. That will become the
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  Speaker 3: secret to disappointment. So if God shows you a guide,
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  Speaker 3: thank God for it. If God shows you a lady,
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  Speaker 3: thank God for it. Keep those visuals, oh, not them,
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  Speaker 3: but keep preparing to follow the truths of the written world.
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  Speaker 3: If it so happens that God brings the person and
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  Speaker 3: confirms his word, glorine to God, and be giving praise.
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  Speaker 3: If it so happens that things did not work exactly
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  Speaker 3: as shown in the vision, Lord, I give you praise.
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  Speaker 3: I am growing. Are you getting that this is a
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  Speaker 3: recipe for freedom? Or the wise? They will keep being
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  Speaker 3: repeated circles of heart breaks and disappointment in the church.
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  Speaker 3: Right now, when brothers and sisters are getting married, there
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  Speaker 3: are people who come for weddings with heart shattering pain.
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  Speaker 3: They sit down and it's almost like a nightmare as
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  Speaker 3: they watch the man they have always desired been giving
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  Speaker 3: to another woman, or they watch the lady they've seen
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  Speaker 3: all their lives in a dream. Listen, we exholt the
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  Speaker 3: world of God above any dream, above any vision. That's
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  Speaker 3: the reason why you can dream and see five different
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  Speaker 3: ladies at five different times. Do not allow yourself to
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  Speaker 3: be discouraged because not everything may be a lie, it
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  Speaker 3: may be true. However, make up your mind that this
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  Speaker 3: world that abides forever will become your key. So, my brother,
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  Speaker 3: the key to your marriage is in your hands. My sister,
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  Speaker 3: the key to your marriage is in your hands. It's
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  Speaker 3: not in the hands of a dream, it's not in
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  Speaker 3: the hands of a prophet, it's not even in the
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  Speaker 3: hands of God. He has given it to you. When
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  Speaker 3: you become a host fand when you become a wife,
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  Speaker 3: when you become a father, when you become a mother,
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  Speaker 3: and when you become priests, you are ready for marriage.
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  Speaker 3: When you are ready to end prophetic and spiritual confusion.
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  Speaker 3: When you are ready to make your standards reasonable for
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  Speaker 3: a man to come into your life, or your standard
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  Speaker 3: reasonable to get it godly wife, when you are ready
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  Speaker 3: to refuse on godly parental influences destroying your life, when
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  Speaker 3: you are ready to make alternatives for your finance and
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  Speaker 3: your establishment, and when you are finally ready to involve
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  Speaker 3: God in your life, then you are ready for marriage.
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  Speaker 3: Rise up on your feet, lift your hands, and begin
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  Speaker 3: to bless the Lord for tonight Sha lada bash the
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  Speaker 3: entrance of your world, give it light and understanding to
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  Speaker 3: the simple La da bah going on you, lift your
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  Speaker 3: voice and pray. Thank the Lord for this freedom. Many
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  Speaker 3: of us have been free from captivities that have held
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  Speaker 3: us down, mindset that have stopped us from moving forward.
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  Speaker 3: Shot because of brendel lah dah blah brand those cause
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  Speaker 3: of prey they get franpread sah blah Ali Lujah. Three
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  Speaker 3: prayer points Number one, Lift your voice and pray and
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  Speaker 3: say Father. In any way I have been the reason
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  Speaker 3: for lack of relationship or marriage, or lack of joy
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  Speaker 3: in my marriage, I repent right now. I ask you
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  Speaker 3: to help me lift your voice and pray all the
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  Speaker 3: five things we have written. In any way, Oh God,
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  Speaker 3: please pray from your heart very quickly shows In any
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  Speaker 3: way I have allowed the Miston snapshot, the Pertact match
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  Speaker 3: to stop me from entering a godly relationship. Thank you
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  Speaker 3: for opening my eyes. In any way, hey, I have
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  Speaker 3: raised on reasonable standards and expectations, financially, in terms of establishment,
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  Speaker 3: in terms of physical outlook. I change my mind right now.
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  Speaker 3: In any way godly parental influences. I'm trying to destroy
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  Speaker 3: my marital destiny. In any way I have profused my
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  Speaker 3: standard of spirituality and morality.
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  Speaker 9: I receive grace. I receive grace. I receive grace. I
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  Speaker 9: received grace.
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  Speaker 3: Prayer point number two. I like you to pray every
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  Speaker 3: one of us those three dimensions into your life, especially
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  Speaker 3: the one you know is not at work. You're a
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  Speaker 3: guy prayed for your husband, father, and priest. You are
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  Speaker 3: letting pray for a wife, a mother, and a priest.
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  Speaker 3: Lift your voice and try to go. Lord. I'm a husband,
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  Speaker 3: but I'm not yet a provider and a protector. I'm
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  Speaker 3: an exceptional husband in the name of Jesus, a blessing
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  Speaker 3: to my wife. I'm an exceptional Father. I don't do
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  Speaker 3: yea for those of us trusting God for a very
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  Speaker 3: sound and a godly relationship. Lift your voice and cry
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  Speaker 3: to God. The Bible says, he that finds a wife
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  Speaker 3: finds a good thing. A lady that positions herself to
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  Speaker 3: be found has also done a good thing. Lift your
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  Speaker 3: voice and pray Lord, I will not make a mistake
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  Speaker 3: in my marriage. I will not just charge by the eyes.
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  Speaker 3: And whose ideology is similar with me concerning God, he's
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  Speaker 3: submissive lady, A lady who loves God, Hey, God, who
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  Speaker 3: she has the love? A man who is faithful, The
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  Speaker 3: Bible says, a prudent wife is from the Speak to me,
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  Speaker 3: Speak to me concerning the person that you're will for me.
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  Speaker 3: Speak to me concerning the person that is appropriate for me.
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  Speaker 3: Allan Lujah, listen. Make up your mind that's your home
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  Speaker 3: will be an exceptional hope. Make up your mind that
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  Speaker 3: your relationship will be an exceptional relationship. Make up your
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  Speaker 3: mind that everything about your life will be exceptional. An
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  Speaker 3: exceptional father, an exceptional husband, an exceptional priest, an exceptional wife,
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  Speaker 3: an exceptional mother, exceptional priest. Father. In the name of Jesus,
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  Speaker 3: I pray may there be miracles of marriages in Coinnonia.
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  Speaker 3: In the name of Jesus Christ, I pray that all
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  Speaker 3: the marriages that will happen in Coynonia, that all through
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  Speaker 3: the life span of that marriage, the couple will never
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  Speaker 3: have a cause to regret. In the name of Jesus Christ, Father,
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  Speaker 3: I pray that you supernaturally connect our brothers to our sisters.
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  Speaker 3: May they not become sources of heart pain for them.
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  Speaker 3: In the name of Jesus Christ, I thank you because
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  Speaker 3: you are challenging us and working on our mindsets. My God,
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  Speaker 3: I pray in the name of Jesus that every brother
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  Speaker 3: here that is not fit to be a good house
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  Speaker 3: fand good father and a good priest, Lord begins to
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  Speaker 3: work on them. And every sister that is not yet
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  Speaker 3: fit to be a wife, a good wife, a good mother,
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  Speaker 3: and a good priest, Lord begin to work on them.
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  Speaker 3: In the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, I pray
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  Speaker 3: that we will have exceptional homes from this place. In
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  Speaker 3: the name of Jesus Christ, that everyone will look at
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  Speaker 3: your relationship and look at your home and desire your
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  Speaker 3: kind of relationship. In the name of Jesus Christ, I
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  Speaker 3: pray a man and amen, now listen, look up. The
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  Speaker 3: greatest marriage is not the marriage between a man and
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  Speaker 3: a woman. The greatest marriage, as he said in the
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  Speaker 3: Book of z Yeah think chapter six, I have be
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  Speaker 3: throtted you. I have tell you this is God's speaking.
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  Speaker 3: The greatest marriage is the marriage between the lamb and
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  Speaker 3: the church. It says I speak of Christ and his church.
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  Speaker 3: There are people here who have not experienced that spiritual marriage,
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  Speaker 3: that reconnection to the God of your salvation. You have
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  Speaker 3: not made your like a faithful pride. You have not
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  Speaker 3: come back to your hustband to repent and to be reconnected.
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  Speaker 3: There are others who have given their lives to Jesus Christ.
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  Speaker 3: But for some reason you found yourself derailing tonight. This
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  Speaker 3: is home for you. There are many people outside at
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  Speaker 3: the sound of my voice, and some inside. I want
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  Speaker 3: to guide you in the next one minute to make
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  Speaker 3: it right with Jesus. This is the greatest marriage. Wherever
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  Speaker 3: you are, please leave your seat and make your way
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  Speaker 3: to the front right now, going only celebrate them as
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  Speaker 3: say crop, those who are making their ways right. Please
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  Speaker 3: don't let anybody come before you make your way and
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  Speaker 3: come to the front. Don't let anybody stop you. God
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  Speaker 3: bless you. They're coming. They're coming from inside and outside.
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  Speaker 3: God bless you. Don't be ashamed. Jesus is calling you.
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  Speaker 3: God bless you. Keep coming. God bless you. Keep coming
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  Speaker 3: inside and outside. God bless you. God bless you, keep coming.
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  Speaker 3: Keep coming. If you are more people, please make your
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  Speaker 3: way to the front. Hallelujah, prays the Lord. Lift your
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  Speaker 3: hands and self. Tell me, Lord Jesus, I believe in you.
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  Speaker 3: I believe you die for me. You shed your blood
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  Speaker 3: for me. Tonight I make up my mind and I
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  Speaker 3: make you Lord of my life. I repent of my sins,
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  Speaker 3: wash me with your precious blood, and in the name
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  Speaker 3: of Jesus, my life will never be the same. In
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  Speaker 3: the name of Jesus. Now, thank you for making this
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  Speaker 3: great decision. I like you to follow the chance. The
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