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23. The Benefits of Living in the Gain · Burning Brightly

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  back
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  friends
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  today.
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  I'm
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  going
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  to
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  talk
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  about
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  an
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  amazing
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  book
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  that
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  I
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  read
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  last
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  year.
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  You
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  guys
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  book
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  readers.
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  If
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  you
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  want
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  to
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  join
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  me
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  on
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  good
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  reads,
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  come
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  find
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  me
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  over
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  there
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  because
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  I
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  love,
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  love
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  reading
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  books.
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  And
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  I
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  also
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  love
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  sharing.
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  My
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  favorite
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  books
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  with
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  people.
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  But
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  last
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  year
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  I
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  read
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  this
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  book
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  called
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  the
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  gap
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  and
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  the
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  gain.
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  And
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  if
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  you
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  haven't
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  read
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  it
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  yet,
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  I
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  highly
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  recommend
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  it.
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  It's
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  by
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  Dan
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  Sullivan
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  and
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  Benjamin
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  Hardy.
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  And
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  it
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  was
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  a
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  really
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  unique
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  look
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  at
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  gratitude,
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  living
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  in
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  gratitude
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  and
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  abundance,
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  instead
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  of
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  lack
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  and
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  scarcity,
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  which
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  I
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  think
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  is
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  really,
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  really
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  important.
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  And
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  we
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  talk
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  a
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  lot
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  about
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  in
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  our
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  life
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  coaching
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  sessions.
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  So
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  an
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  easy
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  way
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  to
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  explain
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  the
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  concept
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  of
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  the
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  gap
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  versus
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  the
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  gain
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  is
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  like
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  this.
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  Let's
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  say
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  that
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  where
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  we
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  currently
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  are
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  is
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  the
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  main
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  floor
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  of
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  a
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  home
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  or
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  a
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  building.
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  Where
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  we
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  were
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  in
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  the
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  past
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  is
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  like
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  the
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  basement
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  where
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  we've
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  come
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  from
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  and
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  where
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  we
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  want
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  to
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  go
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  is
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  the
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  second
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  floor.
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  But
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  how
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  so
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  many
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  of
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  us
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  live
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  our
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  lives
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  is
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  instead
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  of
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  rejoicing
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  at
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  how
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  far
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  we've
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  come
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  up
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  from
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  the
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  basement.
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  Most
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  of
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  us
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  spend
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  way
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  too
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  much
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  time
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  looking
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  upwards
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  at
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  the
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  second
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  floor
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  where
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  we
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  want
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  to
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  be.
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  But
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  there's
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  one
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  major
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  problem
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  with
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  this
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  aspect
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  of
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  living
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  life.
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  And
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  that
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  is
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  that
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  the
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  second
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  floor
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  keeps
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  moving.
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  Okay.
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  So
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  we
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  create
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  goals.
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  We
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  have,
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  um,
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  aspirations.
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  And
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  when
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  we
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  get
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  there,
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  it's
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  never
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  good
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  enough.
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  We
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  think
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  we
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  want
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  one
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  thing
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  we
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  want
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  to
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  reach
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  a
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  specific,
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  uh,
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  goal
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  outcome.
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  And
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  then
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  when
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  we
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  get
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  there,
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  we
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  haven't
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  moved
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  the
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  goal
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  without
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  spending
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  any
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  time
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  rejoicing
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  or
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  celebrating
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  and
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  how
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  far
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  we've
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  come.
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  So
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  that's
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  the
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  essential.
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  Idea
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  of
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  the
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  gap
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  and
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  the
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  gain,
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  the
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  author
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  say
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  that
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  the
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  gain
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  is
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  how
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  far
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  we've
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  come
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  up
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  from
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  the
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  basement.
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  And
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  the
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  gap
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  is
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  how
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  far
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  we
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  have
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  to
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  go
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  to
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  reach
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  our
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  goals,
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  but
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  the
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  gap
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  just
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  keeps
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  growing.
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  That's
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  the
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  problem,
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  right?
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  So
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  I
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  just
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  love
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  this
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  concept
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  so
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  much.
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  And
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  I
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  talked
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  about
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  it
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  to
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  anyone
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  who
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  had
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  listened
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  to
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  me
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  for
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  months
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  after
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  reading
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  the
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  book,
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  because
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  it
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  was
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  so
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  revolutionary
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  to
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  me,
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  maybe
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  just
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  the
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  way
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  they
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  explained
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  it
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  was
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  so
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  clear.
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  But
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  as
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  I
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  continued
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  to
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  grow
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  my
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  own
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  business,
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  I
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  have
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  realized
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  that
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  living
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  in
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  the
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  gain
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  instead
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  of
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  the
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  gap,
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  Especially
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  with
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  God
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  gives
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  us
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  three
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  main
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  benefits.
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  So
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  I'm
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  gonna
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  talk
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  about
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  why
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  we
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  want
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  to
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  live
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  in
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  that
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  gain
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  instead
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  of
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  the
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  gap.
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  So.
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  The
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  first
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  main
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  benefit
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  is
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  that
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  it
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  keeps
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  us
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  grateful.
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  I
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  mentioned
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  at
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  the
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  beginning,
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  right?
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  We
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  We
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  want
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  gratitude
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  and
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  abundance
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  versus
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  lack
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  and
• 2:36
  scarcity.
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  It
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  just
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  feels
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  so
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  much
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  better
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  and
• 2:38
  it
• 2:38
  keeps
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  us
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  happier.
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  Those
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  who
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  live
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  in
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  the
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  gain.
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  That
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  is
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  the
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  period
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  between
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  where
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  they've
• 2:44
  been
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  in
• 2:44
  the
• 2:44
  past
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  and
• 2:44
  where
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  they
• 2:45
  currently
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  are.
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  Right?
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  far
• 2:46
  they've
• 2:46
  come.
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  They
• 2:47
  realize
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  how
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  much
• 2:48
  they've
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  done,
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  but
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  more
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  importantly,
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  they
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  realize
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  that
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  God
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  is
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  the
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  one
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  who
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  has
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  gotten
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  them
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  this
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  far.
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  Pretty
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  cool.
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  Right.
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  If
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  we
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  are
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  going
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  to
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  be
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  Christians
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  living
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  in
• 2:57
  the
• 2:57
  game,
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  we
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  have
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  to
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  remember
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  that
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  God
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  helps
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  us
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  get
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  there.
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  We
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  are
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  conscious
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  when
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  we
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  live
• 3:02
  in
• 3:02
  this
• 3:03
  game
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  of
• 3:03
  how
• 3:03
  much
• 3:04
  we've
• 3:04
  been
• 3:04
  given.
• 3:05
  We're
• 3:05
  conscious
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  that
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  we
• 3:06
  have
• 3:06
  these
• 3:07
  physical
• 3:07
  blessings.
• 3:08
  We
• 3:08
  recognize
• 3:09
  opportunities
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  that
• 3:10
  have
• 3:10
  come
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  to
• 3:10
  us
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  and
• 3:11
  we
• 3:11
  are
• 3:11
  constantly
• 3:12
  thinking
• 3:12
  God
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  for
• 3:12
  them,
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  because
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  we
• 3:13
  know
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  that
• 3:14
  it's
• 3:14
  thanks
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  to
• 3:14
  him.
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  We
• 3:15
  have
• 3:15
  all
• 3:15
  these
• 3:15
  amazing
• 3:15
  things
• 3:16
  and
• 3:16
  opportunities.
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  It
• 3:17
  is
• 3:17
  really,
• 3:18
  really
• 3:18
  hard
• 3:18
  to
• 3:19
  be
• 3:19
  unhappy
• 3:20
  and
• 3:20
  dissatisfied
• 3:20
  with
• 3:21
  life
• 3:21
  and
• 3:21
  bitter.
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  When
• 3:23
  you
• 3:23
  are
• 3:23
  looking
• 3:23
  at
• 3:23
  everything
• 3:24
  you've
• 3:24
  been
• 3:24
  given
• 3:24
  and
• 3:25
  all
• 3:25
  the
• 3:25
  things
• 3:25
  you've
• 3:25
  been
• 3:26
  able
• 3:26
  to
• 3:26
  accomplish.
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  The
• 3:27
  trick,
• 3:27
  obviously
• 3:28
  here
• 3:28
  is
• 3:29
  acknowledging
• 3:29
  God's
• 3:30
  hand
• 3:30
  in
• 3:30
  all
• 3:30
  things.
• 3:31
  If
• 3:31
  we
• 3:31
  don't
• 3:32
  acknowledge
• 3:32
  God's
• 3:32
  hand,
• 3:33
  we
• 3:33
  run
• 3:33
  the
• 3:33
  risk
• 3:33
  of
• 3:34
  just
• 3:34
  becoming
• 3:34
  narcissists.
• 3:35
  I'm
• 3:35
  talking
• 3:36
  about
• 3:36
  how
• 3:36
  wonderful
• 3:36
  we
• 3:36
  are.
• 3:37
  We
• 3:37
  are
• 3:37
  all
• 3:37
  the
• 3:37
  time.
• 3:38
  We
• 3:38
  want
• 3:38
  to
• 3:38
  acknowledge
• 3:39
  that
• 3:39
  he
• 3:39
  is
• 3:39
  the
• 3:39
  reason
• 3:40
  we
• 3:40
  got
• 3:40
  here.
• 3:40
  So
• 3:40
  there,
• 3:41
  there
• 3:41
  are
• 3:41
  three
• 3:41
  main
• 3:42
  ways
• 3:42
  that
• 3:42
  I
• 3:42
  personally
• 3:43
  tried
• 3:43
  to
• 3:43
  do
• 3:43
  this.
• 3:44
  And
• 3:45
  I
• 3:45
  want
• 3:45
  to
• 3:45
  share
• 3:45
  them
• 3:45
  with
• 3:45
  you
• 3:45
  guys.
• 3:45
  Cause
• 3:45
  I
• 3:45
  think
• 3:46
  they're
• 3:46
  really
• 3:46
  important.
• 3:46
  One
• 3:46
  I've
• 3:46
  shared
• 3:47
  before,
• 3:47
  but
• 3:47
  these
• 3:47
  other
• 3:47
  ones
• 3:48
  are
• 3:48
  important
• 3:48
  to
• 3:48
  them.
• 3:49
  So
• 3:49
  when
• 3:49
  I
• 3:49
  see
• 3:50
  God
• 3:50
  intervening
• 3:50
  in
• 3:50
  my
• 3:51
  business
• 3:51
  in
• 3:51
  some
• 3:51
  way,
• 3:51
  so
• 3:52
  that
• 3:52
  could
• 3:52
  look
• 3:52
  like.
• 3:54
  Um,
• 3:54
  an
• 3:54
  opportunity
• 3:55
  that
• 3:55
  I
• 3:55
  didn't
• 3:55
  see
• 3:55
  coming,
• 3:56
  it
• 3:56
  could
• 3:56
  look
• 3:56
  like
• 3:57
  some
• 3:57
  unexpected
• 3:58
  income
• 3:58
  in
• 3:58
  my
• 3:58
  business.
• 3:59
  It
• 3:59
  could
• 3:59
  look
• 4:00
  like
• 4:00
  meeting
• 4:01
  just
• 4:01
  the
• 4:01
  right
• 4:01
  person
• 4:02
  at
• 4:02
  just
• 4:02
  the
• 4:02
  right
• 4:02
  time.
• 4:03
  The
• 4:03
  first
• 4:03
  thing
• 4:03
  I
• 4:03
  do
• 4:04
  is
• 4:04
  I
• 4:04
  say
• 4:04
  a
• 4:04
  prayer
• 4:04
  of
• 4:04
  gratitude,
• 4:05
  so
• 4:05
  acknowledge
• 4:06
  to
• 4:06
  God.
• 4:06
  Hey,
• 4:07
  I
• 4:07
  see
• 4:07
  your
• 4:07
  hand
• 4:07
  in
• 4:08
  this.
• 4:08
  And
• 4:08
  I'm
• 4:08
  so
• 4:08
  grateful
• 4:09
  for
• 4:09
  thank
• 4:09
  you.
• 4:10
  I,
• 4:10
  that
• 4:10
  did
• 4:10
  not
• 4:10
  go
• 4:10
  unnoticed
• 4:11
  by
• 4:11
  me.
• 4:11
  I
• 4:11
  think
• 4:12
  that's
• 4:12
  the
• 4:12
  most
• 4:12
  important
• 4:12
  thing.
• 4:13
  Dear
• 4:13
  God.
• 4:13
  I
• 4:13
  see
• 4:14
  you.
• 4:14
  I
• 4:14
  thank
• 4:14
  you.
• 4:14
  I
• 4:14
  needed
• 4:15
  that.
• 4:16
  And
• 4:16
  I
• 4:16
  promise
• 4:16
  not
• 4:17
  to
• 4:17
  squander
• 4:17
  that
• 4:17
  blessing.
• 4:18
  I
• 4:18
  will
• 4:18
  use
• 4:18
  it
• 4:18
  to
• 4:18
  the
• 4:19
  best
• 4:19
  of
• 4:19
  my
• 4:19
  ability.
• 4:19
  So
• 4:19
  that's
• 4:20
  the
• 4:20
  first
• 4:20
  thing
• 4:20
  I
• 4:20
  do
• 4:20
  is
• 4:20
  that
• 4:21
  prayer
• 4:21
  of
• 4:21
  gratitude.
• 4:22
  The
• 4:22
  second
• 4:23
  thing
• 4:23
  I
• 4:23
  do
• 4:24
  when
• 4:24
  I
• 4:24
  see
• 4:24
  God's
• 4:24
  hand
• 4:25
  in
• 4:25
  my
• 4:25
  life,
• 4:26
  especially
• 4:26
  in
• 4:26
  my
• 4:26
  business
• 4:27
  is
• 4:27
  I
• 4:27
  tell
• 4:27
  someone.
• 4:28
  Sometimes
• 4:29
  it's
• 4:29
  just,
• 4:29
  my
• 4:29
  husband
• 4:30
  will
• 4:30
  lay
• 4:30
  there
• 4:30
  in
• 4:30
  bed
• 4:30
  at
• 4:31
  night
• 4:31
  and
• 4:31
  I'll
• 4:31
  go.
• 4:31
  He
• 4:31
  don't
• 4:31
  happen
• 4:32
  today.
• 4:32
  I
• 4:32
  think
• 4:32
  this
• 4:32
  was
• 4:32
  really
• 4:32
  cool.
• 4:33
  This
• 4:33
  was
• 4:33
  definitely
• 4:33
  from
• 4:34
  God.
• 4:34
  And
• 4:34
  I
• 4:34
  really
• 4:34
  appreciate
• 4:35
  that.
• 4:35
  And
• 4:35
  I'm
• 4:35
  so
• 4:35
  grateful
• 4:35
  for
• 4:36
  it.
• 4:36
  Um,
• 4:37
  very
• 4:37
  often
• 4:37
  it's
• 4:37
  my
• 4:37
  business.
• 4:38
  Bestie.
• 4:38
  If
• 4:38
  you
• 4:38
  don't
• 4:38
  have
• 4:38
  a
• 4:38
  business
• 4:39
  bestie,
• 4:39
  you
• 4:39
  need
• 4:39
  one,
• 4:40
  go
• 4:40
  find
• 4:40
  somebody
• 4:40
  who's
• 4:40
  building
• 4:41
  a
• 4:41
  business
• 4:41
  and
• 4:42
  become
• 4:42
  best
• 4:42
  friends
• 4:42
  with
• 4:42
  them.
• 4:43
  Or
• 4:44
  another
• 4:44
  Christian
• 4:44
  friend
• 4:45
  and
• 4:45
  the
• 4:45
  reason
• 4:45
  it's
• 4:45
  going
• 4:46
  to
• 4:46
  be
• 4:46
  a
• 4:46
  believer.
• 4:47
  Is
• 4:47
  it
• 4:47
  because
• 4:47
  it
• 4:47
  has
• 4:48
  to
• 4:48
  be
• 4:48
  someone
• 4:48
  who's
• 4:48
  going
• 4:48
  to
• 4:48
  feel
• 4:49
  awe
• 4:49
  and
• 4:49
  gratitude
• 4:50
  along
• 4:50
  with
• 4:50
  you.
• 4:51
  You
• 4:51
  don't
• 4:52
  want
• 4:52
  to
• 4:52
  tell
• 4:53
  your
• 4:53
  neighbor
• 4:54
  who
• 4:54
  doesn't
• 4:54
  believe
• 4:55
  in
• 4:55
  anything.
• 4:55
  Because
• 4:56
  they're
• 4:56
  probably
• 4:56
  not
• 4:57
  going
• 4:57
  to
• 4:57
  appreciate
• 4:57
  it
• 4:57
  the
• 4:58
  way
• 4:58
  you
• 4:58
  appreciate
• 4:58
  it.
• 4:59
  They're
• 4:59
  probably
• 4:59
  just
• 4:59
  going
• 4:59
  to
• 4:59
  write
• 5:00
  it
• 5:00
  off
• 5:00
  as
• 5:00
  coincidence
• 5:00
  or
• 5:01
  luck.
• 5:02
  You
• 5:02
  don't
• 5:02
  want
• 5:02
  that
• 5:03
  thought
• 5:03
  to
• 5:03
  permeate
• 5:04
  your
• 5:04
  brain.
• 5:04
  You
• 5:05
  want
• 5:05
  to
• 5:05
  acknowledge
• 5:06
  that
• 5:06
  it
• 5:06
  comes
• 5:06
  from
• 5:06
  God
• 5:06
  and
• 5:07
  be
• 5:07
  grateful.
• 5:07
  In
• 5:08
  the
• 5:08
  end.
• 5:08
  I
• 5:09
  believe
• 5:09
  that
• 5:09
  everything
• 5:09
  good
• 5:10
  that
• 5:10
  comes
• 5:10
  into
• 5:10
  our
• 5:10
  life
• 5:10
  comes
• 5:11
  from
• 5:11
  God.
• 5:11
  But
• 5:11
  even
• 5:12
  if
• 5:12
  it
• 5:12
  doesn't,
• 5:12
  even
• 5:13
  if
• 5:13
  it
• 5:13
  is
• 5:13
  coincidence,
• 5:13
  wouldn't
• 5:14
  you
• 5:14
  much
• 5:14
  rather
• 5:15
  be
• 5:15
  guilty
• 5:15
  of
• 5:16
  thanking
• 5:16
  God
• 5:16
  for
• 5:16
  too
• 5:17
  much
• 5:17
  than
• 5:17
  too
• 5:17
  little.
• 5:18
  I
• 5:18
  don't
• 5:18
  think
• 5:18
  that
• 5:19
  is
• 5:19
  a
• 5:19
  thing
• 5:19
  that
• 5:19
  we
• 5:19
  can
• 5:19
  thank
• 5:19
  God
• 5:20
  for
• 5:20
  too
• 5:20
  much.
• 5:20
  But
• 5:21
  I
• 5:21
  definitely
• 5:21
  want
• 5:21
  to
• 5:21
  share
• 5:22
  the
• 5:22
  news
• 5:22
  with
• 5:22
  someone
• 5:22
  else
• 5:22
  because
• 5:23
  I
• 5:23
  think
• 5:23
  not
• 5:23
  only
• 5:23
  does
• 5:24
  it
• 5:24
  strengthen
• 5:24
  my
• 5:24
  own
• 5:25
  faith
• 5:25
  and
• 5:25
  what
• 5:25
  just
• 5:25
  happened,
• 5:26
  it
• 5:26
  also
• 5:26
  helps
• 5:26
  strengthen
• 5:27
  my
• 5:27
  friend's
• 5:27
  faith
• 5:27
  by
• 5:28
  sharing
• 5:28
  it
• 5:28
  by
• 5:28
  acknowledging
• 5:29
  that
• 5:29
  something
• 5:29
  good
• 5:30
  happened
• 5:30
  in
• 5:30
  my
• 5:30
  life.
• 5:30
  Thanks
• 5:31
  to
• 5:31
  God.
• 5:31
  They
• 5:31
  can
• 5:31
  also
• 5:32
  start
• 5:32
  looking
• 5:32
  for
• 5:32
  in
• 5:33
  their
• 5:33
  life.
• 5:33
  So
• 5:33
  prayer
• 5:34
  of
• 5:34
  gratitude,
• 5:34
  sharing
• 5:35
  with
• 5:35
  somebody.
• 5:35
  And
• 5:35
  then
• 5:36
  finally
• 5:36
  I
• 5:36
  write
• 5:37
  it
• 5:37
  down.
• 5:37
  This
• 5:37
  is
• 5:37
  the
• 5:37
  thing
• 5:37
  that
• 5:37
  I've
• 5:38
  talked
• 5:38
  about
• 5:38
  in
• 5:38
  other
• 5:38
  episodes.
• 5:39
  One
• 5:40
  of
• 5:40
  my
• 5:40
  most
• 5:40
  prized
• 5:41
  possessions
• 5:41
  is
• 5:41
  my
• 5:41
  journal
• 5:42
  of
• 5:42
  God's
• 5:42
  dealings
• 5:43
  in
• 5:43
  my
• 5:43
  life.
• 5:43
  It's
• 5:43
  just
• 5:44
  a
• 5:44
  regular
• 5:44
  old
• 5:44
  journal.
• 5:45
  No
• 5:45
  book,
• 5:46
  whatever.
• 5:47
  And
• 5:47
  anytime
• 5:47
  I
• 5:48
  see
• 5:48
  tiny
• 5:48
  miracles
• 5:49
  or
• 5:49
  beautiful
• 5:50
  coincidences
• 5:51
  or
• 5:51
  other
• 5:51
  inspirational
• 5:52
  happenings.
• 5:53
  I
• 5:54
  write
• 5:54
  them
• 5:54
  down
• 5:54
  in
• 5:55
  this
• 5:55
  journal,
• 5:55
  so
• 5:56
  that.
• 5:57
  I
• 5:57
  can
• 5:57
  acknowledge
• 5:58
  that
• 5:58
  they
• 5:58
  happened.
• 5:59
  And
• 5:59
  I
• 5:59
  can
• 6:00
  look
• 6:00
  back
• 6:00
  at
• 6:00
  them
• 6:01
  when
• 6:01
  things
• 6:01
  get
• 6:01
  tough.
• 6:02
  This
• 6:03
  is
• 6:03
  one
• 6:03
  of
• 6:03
  my
• 6:03
  favorite
• 6:04
  ways
• 6:04
  to
• 6:04
  lean
• 6:04
  into
• 6:04
  gratitude.
• 6:05
  It's
• 6:05
  a
• 6:05
  written
• 6:06
  record
• 6:06
  that
• 6:06
  I
• 6:06
  can
• 6:06
  look
• 6:07
  at
• 6:07
  any
• 6:07
  time
• 6:07
  I
• 6:07
  need
• 6:08
  to,
• 6:08
  to
• 6:08
  get
• 6:09
  just
• 6:09
  a
• 6:09
  shot
• 6:09
  of
• 6:09
  inspiration
• 6:10
  or
• 6:10
  some
• 6:10
  of
• 6:10
  those
• 6:11
  warm
• 6:11
  fuzzies,
• 6:11
  right?
• 6:11
  Just
• 6:12
  that
• 6:12
  feeling
• 6:13
  that
• 6:13
  I
• 6:13
  need
• 6:14
  to
• 6:14
  remind
• 6:14
  myself
• 6:15
  that
• 6:16
  God
• 6:16
  is
• 6:16
  with
• 6:16
  me
• 6:16
  and
• 6:16
  that
• 6:16
  I'm
• 6:17
  on
• 6:17
  the
• 6:17
  right
• 6:17
  path.
• 6:17
  So
• 6:18
  prayer
• 6:18
  of
• 6:18
  gratitude,
• 6:19
  sharing
• 6:19
  with
• 6:19
  somebody
• 6:20
  who
• 6:20
  will
• 6:20
  appreciate
• 6:21
  it
• 6:21
  with
• 6:21
  you
• 6:21
  and
• 6:22
  then
• 6:22
  writing
• 6:22
  it
• 6:22
  down.
• 6:22
  I
• 6:22
  think
• 6:23
  those
• 6:23
  are
• 6:23
  really,
• 6:23
  really
• 6:23
  important
• 6:24
  ways
• 6:24
  to
• 6:24
  keep
• 6:24
  us
• 6:25
  grateful
• 6:25
  and
• 6:25
  living
• 6:26
  in
• 6:26
  the
• 6:26
  game.
• 6:27
  The
• 6:27
  second
• 6:28
  benefit
• 6:28
  to
• 6:28
  living
• 6:29
  in
• 6:29
  that
• 6:29
  gain,
• 6:29
  especially
• 6:30
  with
• 6:30
  God
• 6:30
  as
• 6:30
  our
• 6:30
  partner.
• 6:31
  Is
• 6:32
  that
• 6:32
  we
• 6:32
  acknowledge
• 6:33
  our
• 6:33
  infinite
• 6:34
  potential.
• 6:35
  And
• 6:35
  how
• 6:35
  far
• 6:36
  we
• 6:36
  can
• 6:36
  get
• 6:36
  with
• 6:36
  him
• 6:37
  by
• 6:37
  our
• 6:37
  side.
• 6:38
  Like
• 6:38
  I
• 6:38
  mentioned
• 6:38
  before,
• 6:39
  if
• 6:39
  we
• 6:39
  rely
• 6:39
  just
• 6:39
  on
• 6:39
  our
• 6:39
  own
• 6:40
  merits,
• 6:40
  our
• 6:40
  own
• 6:40
  efforts.
• 6:41
  In
• 6:42
  looking
• 6:42
  back
• 6:42
  at
• 6:42
  how
• 6:42
  far
• 6:42
  we
• 6:42
  come,
• 6:43
  we
• 6:43
  run
• 6:43
  the
• 6:43
  risk
• 6:43
  of
• 6:43
  becoming
• 6:44
  egotistical
• 6:45
  narcissists,
• 6:46
  where
• 6:46
  we
• 6:46
  just
• 6:46
  think
• 6:46
  we're
• 6:46
  so
• 6:47
  great.
• 6:47
  But
• 6:48
  if
• 6:48
  you've
• 6:48
  noticed
• 6:49
  we,
• 6:49
  Christian
• 6:50
  women
• 6:50
  do
• 6:50
  not
• 6:51
  usually
• 6:51
  swing
• 6:52
  that
• 6:52
  direction
• 6:52
  of
• 6:53
  the
• 6:53
  pendulum,
• 6:53
  right?
• 6:53
  The
• 6:53
  pendulum
• 6:54
  swings
• 6:54
  in
• 6:54
  the
• 6:54
  opposite
• 6:55
  direction,
• 6:55
  where
• 6:55
  we
• 6:56
  are,
• 6:56
  self-deprecating
• 6:57
  berating
• 6:57
  ourselves,
• 6:58
  beating
• 6:58
  ourselves
• 6:59
  up.
• 6:59
  We
• 7:00
  downplay
• 7:00
  our
• 7:00
  efforts
• 7:01
  and
• 7:01
  talents
• 7:02
  and
• 7:02
  pretend
• 7:02
  that
• 7:02
  we
• 7:02
  didn't
• 7:02
  do
• 7:03
  any
• 7:03
  of
• 7:03
  it
• 7:03
  ourselves.
• 7:04
  We
• 7:04
  Christian
• 7:05
  women
• 7:05
  love
• 7:06
  to
• 7:07
  put
• 7:07
  our
• 7:07
  own
• 7:07
  abilities.
• 7:08
  Just
• 7:08
  really
• 7:08
  downsize
• 7:09
  our
• 7:09
  own
• 7:09
  abilities.
• 7:10
  And
• 7:10
  our
• 7:10
  gifts
• 7:11
  and
• 7:11
  our
• 7:11
  accomplishments.
• 7:12
  And
• 7:12
  we
• 7:12
  think
• 7:12
  that
• 7:12
  we're
• 7:13
  doing
• 7:13
  that
• 7:13
  to
• 7:13
  make
• 7:13
  us
• 7:13
  humble.
• 7:14
  In
• 7:14
  fact,
• 7:14
  I
• 7:14
  have
• 7:14
  an
• 7:14
  entire
• 7:15
  episode,
• 7:15
  that's
• 7:15
  going
• 7:15
  to
• 7:15
  be
• 7:16
  all
• 7:16
  about
• 7:16
  this
• 7:16
  concept.
• 7:17
  So
• 7:17
  just,
• 7:17
  just
• 7:17
  wait
• 7:18
  and
• 7:18
  watch
• 7:18
  for
• 7:18
  that
• 7:19
  one,
• 7:19
  because
• 7:19
  I
• 7:19
  think
• 7:19
  it's
• 7:19
  really
• 7:19
  important.
• 7:20
  But
• 7:21
  instead
• 7:21
  of
• 7:21
  becoming
• 7:21
  narcissists
• 7:22
  and,
• 7:22
  you
• 7:22
  know,
• 7:23
  egotists,
• 7:24
  we
• 7:24
  instead
• 7:24
  think,
• 7:24
  well,
• 7:25
  I
• 7:25
  didn't
• 7:25
  really
• 7:25
  do
• 7:25
  that
• 7:26
  much.
• 7:26
  I
• 7:26
  mean,
• 7:27
  God
• 7:27
  put
• 7:27
  this
• 7:28
  in
• 7:28
  my
• 7:28
  way.
• 7:28
  And
• 7:28
  somebody
• 7:29
  did
• 7:29
  this
• 7:29
  part
• 7:29
  and
• 7:29
  it
• 7:29
  just,
• 7:30
  it
• 7:30
  wasn't
• 7:30
  really
• 7:30
  a
• 7:30
  big
• 7:30
  deal.
• 7:31
  We
• 7:31
  need
• 7:31
  to
• 7:31
  stop
• 7:31
  that
• 7:32
  immediately.
• 7:33
  I'm
• 7:33
  not
• 7:33
  saying
• 7:33
  we
• 7:33
  have
• 7:34
  to
• 7:34
  think
• 7:34
  that
• 7:34
  it's
• 7:34
  all
• 7:34
  about
• 7:35
  us,
• 7:35
  but
• 7:35
  if
• 7:35
  we
• 7:35
  do
• 7:35
  not
• 7:36
  acknowledge
• 7:36
  our
• 7:36
  own
• 7:36
  potential,
• 7:37
  we
• 7:37
  will
• 7:37
  never
• 7:38
  get
• 7:38
  anywhere.
• 7:38
  We
• 7:39
  will
• 7:39
  just
• 7:39
  sit
• 7:39
  there
• 7:40
  and
• 7:40
  just.
• 7:41
  I
• 7:41
  think
• 7:41
  it's
• 7:41
  all
• 7:41
  coincidence
• 7:42
  in
• 7:42
  all
• 7:42
  luck.
• 7:42
  It's
• 7:42
  not
• 7:43
  luck.
• 7:43
  How
• 7:44
  far
• 7:44
  you've
• 7:44
  come
• 7:44
  so
• 7:44
  far.
• 7:46
  Is
• 7:46
  a
• 7:46
  combination
• 7:47
  of
• 7:48
  God's
• 7:48
  help
• 7:49
  your
• 7:49
  own
• 7:49
  unique
• 7:50
  talents
• 7:50
  and
• 7:50
  abilities
• 7:50
  and
• 7:51
  your
• 7:51
  own
• 7:51
  hard
• 7:51
  work,
• 7:51
  acknowledge
• 7:52
  that
• 7:52
  and
• 7:53
  embrace
• 7:53
  it.
• 7:53
  And
• 7:53
  if
• 7:53
  you
• 7:54
  can,
• 7:54
  there's
• 7:55
  no
• 7:55
  stopping
• 7:55
  you
• 7:56
  in
• 7:56
  the
• 7:56
  future.
• 7:56
  Okay.
• 7:57
  this
• 7:58
  does
• 7:58
  downplaying
• 7:59
  our
• 7:59
  own
• 7:59
  abilities
• 7:59
  and
• 7:59
  talents
• 8:00
  as
• 8:00
  keeps
• 8:00
  us
• 8:00
  safe.
• 8:02
  And
• 8:03
  God
• 8:03
  doesn't
• 8:03
  want
• 8:03
  us
• 8:03
  to
• 8:03
  stay
• 8:04
  safe.
• 8:04
  He
• 8:04
  wants
• 8:04
  us
• 8:04
  to
• 8:05
  do
• 8:05
  scary
• 8:05
  things.
• 8:05
  I
• 8:05
  know
• 8:06
  I
• 8:06
  know
• 8:06
  that
• 8:06
  is
• 8:06
  hard
• 8:06
  to
• 8:06
  hear,
• 8:07
  but.
• 8:08
  Please
• 8:08
  do
• 8:08
  not
• 8:08
  deny
• 8:09
  the
• 8:09
  gifts
• 8:09
  that
• 8:09
  God
• 8:09
  has
• 8:10
  given
• 8:10
  you
• 8:10
  and
• 8:10
  the
• 8:10
  growth
• 8:11
  that
• 8:11
  he
• 8:11
  has
• 8:11
  helped
• 8:11
  you
• 8:12
  acquire.
• 8:12
  Both
• 8:13
  of
• 8:13
  those
• 8:13
  things
• 8:13
  are
• 8:13
  so
• 8:13
  important
• 8:14
  to
• 8:14
  acknowledge
• 8:15
  if
• 8:16
  you
• 8:16
  struggle.
• 8:17
  To
• 8:17
  acknowledge
• 8:18
  this
• 8:18
  potential
• 8:18
  for
• 8:19
  greatness,
• 8:19
  because
• 8:19
  I
• 8:19
  know
• 8:19
  we
• 8:19
  all
• 8:20
  do.
• 8:21
  Remember
• 8:21
  that
• 8:21
  that's
• 8:22
  not
• 8:22
  God's
• 8:22
  influence
• 8:22
  on
• 8:23
  you.
• 8:23
  That
• 8:23
  is
• 8:23
  somebody
• 8:24
  else
• 8:24
  is
• 8:24
  influenced
• 8:25
  telling
• 8:25
  you
• 8:25
  that
• 8:26
  you're
• 8:26
  not
• 8:26
  talented
• 8:26
  and
• 8:27
  you're
• 8:27
  not
• 8:27
  great.
• 8:27
  And
• 8:27
  you
• 8:27
  don't
• 8:28
  know
• 8:28
  how
• 8:28
  to
• 8:28
  work
• 8:28
  and
• 8:28
  you
• 8:28
  don't
• 8:28
  know
• 8:28
  how
• 8:28
  to
• 8:29
  do
• 8:29
  anything.
• 8:29
  Good.
• 8:30
  That
• 8:30
  is
• 8:30
  Satan's
• 8:30
  influence.
• 8:31
  So
• 8:31
  please
• 8:31
  pay
• 8:31
  attention
• 8:32
  to
• 8:32
  that
• 8:32
  and
• 8:32
  kick
• 8:33
  it
• 8:33
  to
• 8:33
  the
• 8:33
  curb.
• 8:34
  is
• 8:34
  one
• 8:34
  way.
• 8:35
  That
• 8:35
  Satan
• 8:36
  can
• 8:36
  keep
• 8:36
  God's
• 8:36
  people
• 8:37
  from
• 8:37
  changing
• 8:37
  the
• 8:37
  world
• 8:38
  it's
• 8:38
  by
• 8:38
  telling
• 8:38
  them,
• 8:38
  well,
• 8:39
  you're
• 8:39
  just
• 8:39
  not
• 8:39
  good
• 8:39
  enough.
• 8:40
  Sure.
• 8:40
  You
• 8:40
  could
• 8:40
  start
• 8:41
  that
• 8:41
  business.
• 8:41
  Like
• 8:41
  so-and-so
• 8:42
  over
• 8:42
  there,
• 8:42
  but
• 8:42
  you
• 8:43
  as
• 8:43
  pretty
• 8:43
  as
• 8:43
  her
• 8:43
  and
• 8:43
  you
• 8:43
  don't
• 8:44
  have
• 8:44
  the
• 8:44
  talents
• 8:44
  that
• 8:44
  she
• 8:44
  has
• 8:45
  and
• 8:45
  you
• 8:45
  don't
• 8:45
  have
• 8:45
  the
• 8:45
  abilities
• 8:46
  and
• 8:46
  you're
• 8:46
  not
• 8:46
  rich
• 8:46
  enough
• 8:46
  and
• 8:47
  you're
• 8:47
  not
• 8:47
  young
• 8:47
  enough.
• 8:48
  It's
• 8:48
  all
• 8:48
  nonsense.
• 8:49
  It's
• 8:49
  all
• 8:49
  his
• 8:50
  way
• 8:50
  of
• 8:50
  keeping
• 8:50
  you
• 8:51
  stuck.
• 8:51
  And
• 8:52
  save.
• 8:52
  So
• 8:52
  please
• 8:52
  do
• 8:52
  not
• 8:53
  buy
• 8:53
  into
• 8:53
  any
• 8:53
  of
• 8:53
  that.
• 8:54
  Do
• 8:54
  not
• 8:54
  believe
• 8:54
  that
• 8:55
  downplaying
• 8:55
  your
• 8:55
  abilities
• 8:56
  and
• 8:56
  talents
• 8:56
  is
• 8:56
  making
• 8:57
  you
• 8:57
  humble.
• 8:57
  That's
• 8:58
  not
• 8:58
  humility.
• 8:59
  It
• 9:00
  is
• 9:00
  just
• 9:00
  hiding.
• 9:01
  Okay.
• 9:01
  are,
• 9:01
  there's
• 9:02
  my
• 9:02
  tough
• 9:02
  love
• 9:02
  for
• 9:02
  today.
• 9:03
  Okay.
• 9:03
  So
• 9:03
  step
• 9:04
  into
• 9:04
  the
• 9:04
  game
• 9:05
  of
• 9:05
  your
• 9:05
  life.
• 9:05
  How
• 9:06
  far
• 9:06
  you've
• 9:06
  come.
• 9:07
  Regularly
• 9:07
  look
• 9:08
  at
• 9:08
  what
• 9:08
  you've
• 9:08
  built
• 9:08
  and
• 9:08
  if
• 9:09
  you're
• 9:09
  just
• 9:09
  at
• 9:09
  the
• 9:09
  beginning
• 9:09
  of
• 9:09
  your
• 9:09
  business,
• 9:10
  that's
• 9:10
  great.
• 9:11
  Look
• 9:11
  at
• 9:11
  who
• 9:12
  you've
• 9:12
  been
• 9:12
  able
• 9:12
  to
• 9:12
  help
• 9:13
  in
• 9:13
  your
• 9:13
  life
• 9:13
  outside
• 9:14
  of
• 9:14
  things,
• 9:14
  maybe
• 9:14
  through
• 9:14
  church
• 9:15
  or
• 9:15
  your
• 9:15
  family
• 9:15
  or
• 9:15
  your
• 9:16
  community.
• 9:17
  This
• 9:17
  is
• 9:17
  not
• 9:17
  bragging.
• 9:18
  It
• 9:18
  is
• 9:18
  celebrating
• 9:19
  goodness,
• 9:19
  because
• 9:20
  without
• 9:20
  him,
• 9:20
  we
• 9:20
  are
• 9:21
  nothing.
• 9:22
  And
• 9:22
  so
• 9:22
  when
• 9:22
  we
• 9:22
  celebrate
• 9:23
  all
• 9:23
  the
• 9:23
  things
• 9:23
  we've
• 9:23
  been
• 9:23
  able
• 9:24
  to
• 9:24
  accomplish,
• 9:24
  we're
• 9:24
  also
• 9:25
  celebrating
• 9:25
  him
• 9:26
  and
• 9:27
  we're
• 9:27
  acknowledging
• 9:27
  that
• 9:27
  we
• 9:27
  have
• 9:28
  so
• 9:28
  much
• 9:28
  more
• 9:28
  to
• 9:28
  give.
• 9:29
  I'll
• 9:29
  get
• 9:29
  off
• 9:29
  my
• 9:29
  soapbox
• 9:29
  now,
• 9:30
  but
• 9:30
  that
• 9:30
  part
• 9:30
  is
• 9:30
  really
• 9:30
  important
• 9:31
  for
• 9:31
  me.
• 9:31
  Please
• 9:32
  acknowledge
• 9:32
  your
• 9:32
  potential
• 9:33
  with
• 9:33
  God's
• 9:33
  help.
• 9:34
  third
• 9:35
  way
• 9:35
  that
• 9:35
  living
• 9:36
  in
• 9:36
  the
• 9:36
  gain
• 9:36
  helps
• 9:36
  us
• 9:37
  is
• 9:37
  that
• 9:37
  it
• 9:37
  fights
• 9:38
  imposter
• 9:39
  syndrome.
• 9:39
  Okay.
• 9:40
  ties
• 9:40
  a
• 9:40
  little
• 9:40
  bit
• 9:40
  in
• 9:40
  with
• 9:41
  number
• 9:41
  two.
• 9:42
  Everyone
• 9:42
  has
• 9:42
  talents
• 9:43
  and
• 9:43
  expertise
• 9:43
  but
• 9:44
  when
• 9:44
  we
• 9:44
  are
• 9:44
  constantly
• 9:45
  Really
• 9:45
  looking
• 9:46
  Uh,
• 9:46
  Upwards
• 9:47
  Towards
• 9:47
  those
• 9:47
  impossible
• 9:48
  goals
• 9:48
  That
• 9:48
  we've
• 9:48
  made
• 9:49
  for
• 9:49
  ourselves
• 9:49
  Selves
• 9:49
  we
• 9:50
  very
• 9:50
  often
• 9:50
  feel
• 9:50
  like
• 9:50
  an
• 9:51
  impostor
• 9:51
  especially
• 9:52
  when
• 9:52
  we
• 9:52
  start
• 9:53
  comparing
• 9:53
  ourselves
• 9:54
  with
• 9:54
  others
• 9:54
  who
• 9:54
  may
• 9:55
  be
• 9:55
  a
• 9:55
  little
• 9:55
  bit
• 9:56
  farther
• 9:56
  ahead
• 9:57
  if
• 9:57
  you
• 9:57
  want
• 9:57
  to
• 9:57
  call
• 9:57
  it
• 9:57
  that
• 9:58
  in
• 9:58
  their
• 9:58
  entrepreneurial
• 9:58
  journey
• 9:59
  so
• 9:59
  let
• 9:59
  me
• 9:59
  just
• 10:00
  tell
• 10:00
  you
• 10:00
  about
• 10:00
  myself
• 10:01
  for
• 10:01
  a
• 10:01
  second
• 10:01
  I
• 10:02
  have
• 10:02
  built
• 10:02
  a
• 10:02
  business
• 10:03
  of
• 10:03
  one
• 10:03
  kind
• 10:03
  or
• 10:03
  another
• 10:04
  for
• 10:04
  over
• 10:04
  10
• 10:05
  years
• 10:05
  i've
• 10:05
  been
• 10:05
  an
• 10:05
  entrepreneur
• 10:06
  for
• 10:06
  over
• 10:06
  10
• 10:06
  years
• 10:07
  i
• 10:07
  learned
• 10:08
  so
• 10:08
  much
• 10:08
  i've
• 10:08
  learned
• 10:09
  how
• 10:09
  to
• 10:09
  use
• 10:09
  software
• 10:10
  and
• 10:11
  done
• 10:11
  marketing
• 10:12
  and
• 10:12
  sales
• 10:13
  and
• 10:13
  so
• 10:14
  many
• 10:14
  amazing
• 10:14
  talents
• 10:15
  And
• 10:16
  I've
• 10:16
  made
• 10:16
  thousands
• 10:16
  of
• 10:16
  dollars
• 10:17
  and
• 10:17
  i've
• 10:17
  been
• 10:17
  able
• 10:17
  to
• 10:18
  figure
• 10:18
  out
• 10:18
  how
• 10:18
  to
• 10:18
  build
• 10:18
  businesses
• 10:19
  while
• 10:19
  having
• 10:19
  a
• 10:19
  ton
• 10:20
  of
• 10:20
  babies
• 10:20
  and
• 10:20
  homeschooling
• 10:21
  them
• 10:21
  all
• 10:21
  at
• 10:21
  the
• 10:21
  same
• 10:22
  time
• 10:23
  But
• 10:23
  i
• 10:23
  still
• 10:24
  feel
• 10:24
  like
• 10:24
  an
• 10:25
  imposter
• 10:25
  all
• 10:26
  the
• 10:26
  time
• 10:27
  Like
• 10:27
  i
• 10:27
  said
• 10:27
  especially
• 10:28
  when
• 10:28
  i
• 10:28
  look
• 10:28
  at
• 10:28
  others
• 10:29
  who
• 10:29
  may
• 10:29
  be
• 10:30
  Look
• 10:31
  like
• 10:31
  they're
• 10:31
  a
• 10:31
  little
• 10:31
  bit
• 10:31
  farther
• 10:31
  ahead
• 10:32
  On
• 10:32
  then
• 10:33
  me
• 10:33
  on
• 10:33
  this
• 10:33
  success
• 10:34
  path
• 10:34
  or
• 10:35
  where
• 10:35
  i
• 10:35
  measure
• 10:35
  myself
• 10:35
  against
• 10:36
  impossible
• 10:36
  standards
• 10:37
  My
• 10:37
  goals
• 10:37
  are
• 10:37
  always
• 10:38
  moving
• 10:38
  i
• 10:38
  reach
• 10:39
  them
• 10:39
  and
• 10:39
  then
• 10:39
  i
• 10:39
  make
• 10:40
  another
• 10:40
  One
• 10:40
  that's
• 10:40
  farther
• 10:41
  along
• 10:41
  and
• 10:41
  what
• 10:42
  that
• 10:42
  Very
• 10:42
  often
• 10:43
  does
• 10:43
  is
• 10:43
  just
• 10:43
  keeps
• 10:44
  me
• 10:44
  dissatisfied
• 10:45
  and
• 10:45
  that
• 10:46
  is
• 10:46
  not
• 10:46
  Godly
• 10:47
  Okay.
• 10:47
  Measuring
• 10:47
  backwards
• 10:48
  they
• 10:48
  say
• 10:48
  this
• 10:48
  a
• 10:48
  lot
• 10:48
  in
• 10:48
  the
• 10:48
  gap
• 10:49
  in
• 10:49
  the
• 10:49
  game
• 10:49
  book
• 10:49
  measuring
• 10:50
  backwards.
• 10:51
  Has
• 10:51
  me
• 10:51
  realized
• 10:52
  that
• 10:52
  i
• 10:52
  do
• 10:52
  know
• 10:52
  stuff
• 10:53
  And
• 10:53
  i
• 10:54
  know
• 10:54
  how
• 10:54
  to
• 10:54
  learn
• 10:55
  and
• 10:55
  i
• 10:55
  belong
• 10:56
  in
• 10:56
  the
• 10:56
  entrepreneurial
• 10:56
  space
• 10:57
  just
• 10:57
  like
• 10:57
  you
• 10:57
  do
• 10:58
  Anyone
• 10:58
  who
• 10:58
  has
• 10:59
  that
• 10:59
  spark
• 10:59
  to
• 10:59
  go
• 10:59
  build
• 11:00
  something
• 11:00
  of
• 11:00
  their
• 11:00
  own
• 11:00
  belongs
• 11:01
  in
• 11:01
  that
• 11:01
  space
• 11:02
  i'll
• 11:02
  tell
• 11:02
  you
• 11:03
  a
• 11:03
  quick
• 11:03
  little
• 11:03
  story
• 11:03
  a
• 11:04
  couple
• 11:04
  of
• 11:04
  weeks
• 11:04
  ago
• 11:05
  i
• 11:05
  signed
• 11:06
  up
• 11:06
  to
• 11:06
  do
• 11:06
  a
• 11:06
  presentation
• 11:07
  at
• 11:07
  a
• 11:07
  coworking
• 11:07
  space
• 11:08
  so
• 11:08
  that's
• 11:08
  one
• 11:08
  of
• 11:08
  those,
• 11:08
  these
• 11:08
  offices
• 11:09
  where
• 11:09
  people
• 11:09
  can
• 11:09
  just
• 11:09
  rent
• 11:10
  a
• 11:10
  space
• 11:10
  to
• 11:10
  come
• 11:10
  work
• 11:11
  um
• 11:11
  from
• 11:11
  their
• 11:11
  computer
• 11:12
  and
• 11:12
  um
• 11:13
  you
• 11:13
  know
• 11:13
  get
• 11:13
  a
• 11:13
  little
• 11:13
  bit
• 11:13
  of
• 11:13
  networking
• 11:14
  meet
• 11:14
  some
• 11:14
  people
• 11:14
  and
• 11:15
  also
• 11:15
  have
• 11:15
  a
• 11:15
  quiet
• 11:15
  office
• 11:15
  space
• 11:16
  if
• 11:16
  you
• 11:16
  don't
• 11:16
  have
• 11:16
  that
• 11:16
  at
• 11:16
  home
• 11:17
  And
• 11:17
  i
• 11:17
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• 11:18
  up
• 11:18
  And
• 11:18
  i
• 11:18
  had
• 11:18
  imposter
• 11:19
  syndrome
• 11:20
  Major
• 11:21
  lee
• 11:21
  because
• 11:22
  i
• 11:22
  just
• 11:22
  haven't
• 11:23
  Uh,
• 11:23
  Been
• 11:23
  around
• 11:23
  a
• 11:23
  lot
• 11:23
  of
• 11:24
  people
• 11:25
  working
• 11:25
  regular
• 11:25
  jobs
• 11:26
  i've
• 11:26
  been
• 11:26
  around
• 11:26
  a
• 11:26
  lot
• 11:26
  of
• 11:26
  moms
• 11:27
  Right.
• 11:27
  So
• 11:27
  i
• 11:27
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• 11:28
  like
• 11:28
  i
• 11:28
  fit
• 11:28
  in
• 11:28
  with
• 11:28
  the
• 11:28
  moms
• 11:28
  i
• 11:28
  feel
• 11:29
  like
• 11:29
  i
• 11:29
  don't
• 11:29
  always
• 11:30
  fit
• 11:30
  in
• 11:30
  with
• 11:30
  the
• 11:30
  people
• 11:30
  who
• 11:30
  have
• 11:30
  full
• 11:31
  time
• 11:31
  gigs,
• 11:32
  especially
• 11:32
  if
• 11:32
  they
• 11:32
  work
• 11:33
  for
• 11:33
  a
• 11:33
  corporation
• 11:33
  that
• 11:33
  is
• 11:34
  not
• 11:34
  their
• 11:34
  own
• 11:34
  okay
• 11:35
  so
• 11:35
  i
• 11:35
  was
• 11:35
  feeling
• 11:35
  some
• 11:35
  major
• 11:35
  imposter
• 11:36
  syndrome
• 11:36
  i've
• 11:36
  since
• 11:37
  been
• 11:37
  back
• 11:37
  to
• 11:37
  this
• 11:37
  coworking
• 11:38
  space
• 11:38
  and
• 11:38
  have
• 11:39
  met
• 11:39
  a
• 11:39
  bunch
• 11:39
  of
• 11:39
  people
• 11:39
  and
• 11:39
  love
• 11:40
  it
• 11:40
  and
• 11:40
  realize
• 11:40
  i
• 11:41
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• 11:41
  belong
• 11:41
  here
• 11:41
  i'm
• 11:42
  an
• 11:42
  entrepreneur
• 11:42
  building
• 11:42
  something
• 11:43
  amazing
• 11:43
  But
• 11:44
  it
• 11:44
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• 11:44
  comes
• 11:44
  up
• 11:44
  a
• 11:44
  little
• 11:44
  bit
• 11:45
  for
• 11:45
  me
• 11:45
  especially
• 11:45
  when
• 11:45
  i
• 11:45
  share
• 11:45
  what
• 11:46
  i
• 11:46
  do
• 11:46
  or
• 11:46
  my
• 11:46
  history
• 11:47
  or
• 11:47
  the
• 11:47
  fact
• 11:47
  that
• 11:47
  i've
• 11:48
  spent
• 11:48
  most
• 11:48
  of
• 11:48
  the
• 11:48
  last
• 11:49
  18
• 11:49
  years
• 11:49
  just
• 11:50
  Wiping
• 11:51
  baby
• 11:51
  bones
• 11:51
  and
• 11:52
  not
• 11:52
  necessarily
• 11:52
  being
• 11:53
  in
• 11:54
  a
• 11:54
  work
• 11:54
  space
• 11:54
  right
• 11:55
  so
• 11:55
  just
• 11:55
  acknowledge
• 11:56
  when
• 11:56
  that
• 11:56
  comes
• 11:56
  up
• 11:56
  for
• 11:56
  you
• 11:57
  Realize
• 11:58
  that
• 11:58
  you
• 11:58
  have
• 11:58
  things
• 11:59
  to
• 11:59
  give
• 11:59
  to
• 11:59
  the
• 11:59
  world
• 12:00
  and
• 12:00
  you
• 12:00
  have
• 12:00
  already
• 12:01
  made
• 12:01
  it
• 12:01
  a
• 12:01
  better
• 12:01
  place
• 12:02
  in
• 12:02
  so
• 12:02
  many
• 12:02
  ways
• 12:03
  that
• 12:03
  is
• 12:03
  true
• 12:04
  of
• 12:04
  every
• 12:04
  one
• 12:04
  of
• 12:05
  us
• 12:05
  unless
• 12:05
  you've
• 12:05
  lived
• 12:05
  in
• 12:06
  a
• 12:06
  cave
• 12:06
  and
• 12:06
  haven't
• 12:06
  interacted
• 12:07
  with
• 12:07
  anyone
• 12:07
  you
• 12:07
  have
• 12:08
  made
• 12:08
  the
• 12:08
  world
• 12:08
  a
• 12:08
  better
• 12:08
  place
• 12:09
  so
• 12:09
  acknowledge
• 12:09
  that
• 12:10
  write
• 12:10
  it
• 12:10
  down
• 12:10
  if
• 12:10
  you
• 12:11
  need
• 12:11
  to
• 12:11
  and
• 12:11
  come
• 12:11
  back
• 12:12
  to
• 12:12
  that
• 12:12
  remind
• 12:12
  yourself
• 12:13
  every
• 12:13
  time
• 12:13
  you
• 12:13
  start
• 12:13
  feeling
• 12:13
  like
• 12:14
  an
• 12:14
  Foster
• 12:15
  You
• 12:15
  have
• 12:15
  so
• 12:15
  many
• 12:16
  experiences
• 12:16
  and
• 12:16
  opportunities
• 12:17
  that
• 12:17
  have
• 12:17
  made
• 12:17
  you
• 12:18
  who
• 12:18
  you
• 12:18
  are
• 12:18
  today
• 12:19
  Well
• 12:19
  another
• 12:20
  exercise
• 12:20
  I'd
• 12:20
  love
• 12:20
  doing
• 12:21
  is
• 12:21
  uh
• 12:21
  thinking
• 12:22
  about
• 12:22
  myself
• 12:22
  as
• 12:23
  a
• 12:23
  17
• 12:23
  or
• 12:23
  18
• 12:23
  year
• 12:24
  old
• 12:24
  and
• 12:24
  looking
• 12:24
  at
• 12:24
  myself
• 12:24
  today
• 12:25
  as
• 12:25
  a
• 12:25
  43
• 12:26
  year
• 12:26
  old
• 12:27
  I
• 12:27
  think
• 12:27
  i
• 12:27
  would
• 12:27
  be
• 12:27
  amazed
• 12:28
  i
• 12:28
  would
• 12:28
  think
• 12:28
  wow
• 12:29
  look
• 12:29
  at
• 12:29
  all
• 12:29
  the
• 12:29
  things
• 12:30
  you've
• 12:30
  accomplished
• 12:30
  look
• 12:30
  at
• 12:30
  all
• 12:30
  the
• 12:31
  talents
• 12:31
  you've
• 12:31
  created
• 12:31
  look
• 12:31
  at
• 12:31
  all
• 12:32
  the
• 12:32
  things
• 12:32
  that
• 12:32
  you've
• 12:32
  done
• 12:33
  Sometimes
• 12:34
  it's
• 12:34
  fun
• 12:34
  for
• 12:34
  me
• 12:34
  to
• 12:34
  just
• 12:35
  think
• 12:35
  back
• 12:35
  at
• 12:35
  that
• 12:35
  teenage
• 12:36
  self
• 12:36
  and
• 12:36
  how
• 12:36
  amazed
• 12:36
  she'd
• 12:37
  be
• 12:37
  at
• 12:37
  all
• 12:37
  the
• 12:37
  opportunities
• 12:38
  i've
• 12:38
  had
• 12:38
  to
• 12:39
  enjoy
• 12:39
  and
• 12:39
  to
• 12:39
  learn
• 12:40
  in
• 12:40
  my
• 12:40
  life
• 12:40
  so
• 12:41
  do
• 12:41
  the
• 12:41
  same
• 12:41
  exercise
• 12:42
  for
• 12:42
  you
• 12:42
  if
• 12:42
  you
• 12:42
  need
• 12:42
  to
• 12:43
  um
• 12:43
  you
• 12:43
  think
• 12:44
  if
• 12:44
  you
• 12:44
  truly
• 12:45
  think
• 12:45
  that
• 12:45
  a
• 12:45
  younger
• 12:46
  you
• 12:46
  would
• 12:46
  be
• 12:46
  disappointed
• 12:46
  in
• 12:46
  you
• 12:47
  today
• 12:47
  then
• 12:47
  don't
• 12:47
  do
• 12:47
  this
• 12:47
  exercise
• 12:48
  You
• 12:48
  need
• 12:48
  to
• 12:49
  work
• 12:49
  on
• 12:49
  some
• 12:49
  thoughts
• 12:49
  first
• 12:50
  Um
• 12:50
  just
• 12:51
  acknowledge
• 12:51
  how
• 12:51
  much
• 12:51
  you
• 12:52
  have
• 12:52
  done
• 12:52
  because.
• 12:53
  i
• 12:53
  guarantee
• 12:53
  it's
• 12:53
  more
• 12:54
  than
• 12:54
  you
• 12:54
  are
• 12:54
  realizing
• 12:55
  Finally
• 12:55
  i
• 12:56
  want
• 12:56
  to
• 12:56
  talk
• 12:56
  for
• 12:56
  a
• 12:56
  second
• 12:56
  about
• 12:57
  goals
• 12:57
  cause
• 12:57
  you
• 12:57
  might
• 12:58
  be
• 12:58
  wondering
• 12:58
  well
• 12:58
  how
• 12:58
  do
• 12:59
  i
• 12:59
  make
• 12:59
  goals
• 13:00
  and
• 13:00
  look
• 13:00
  forward
• 13:00
  to
• 13:00
  them
• 13:01
  if
• 13:01
  i'm
• 13:01
  always
• 13:01
  measuring
• 13:02
  backwards
• 13:02
  if
• 13:02
  i'm
• 13:02
  always
• 13:02
  looking
• 13:03
  at
• 13:03
  how
• 13:03
  far
• 13:03
  i've
• 13:03
  come
• 13:04
  goals
• 13:04
  are
• 13:04
  still
• 13:05
  important
• 13:05
  right
• 13:05
  and
• 13:06
  the
• 13:06
  only
• 13:06
  way
• 13:06
  to
• 13:06
  move
• 13:07
  forward
• 13:07
  yes
• 13:07
  absolutely
• 13:08
  So
• 13:09
  important
• 13:09
  So
• 13:09
  keep
• 13:09
  a
• 13:10
  few
• 13:10
  things
• 13:10
  in
• 13:10
  mind
• 13:11
  when
• 13:11
  making
• 13:12
  these
• 13:12
  goals
• 13:13
  In
• 13:13
  order
• 13:14
  to
• 13:14
  still
• 13:14
  live
• 13:15
  in
• 13:15
  the
• 13:15
  game
• 13:15
  okay
• 13:15
  The
• 13:15
  first
• 13:16
  one
• 13:16
  celebrate
• 13:17
  old
• 13:17
  goals
• 13:17
  first
• 13:18
  before
• 13:19
  you
• 13:19
  make
• 13:19
  new
• 13:19
  ones
• 13:20
  we
• 13:20
  love
• 13:21
  to
• 13:21
  hit
• 13:21
  goals
• 13:22
  Smile
• 13:22
  for
• 13:22
  five
• 13:23
  seconds
• 13:23
  and
• 13:23
  then
• 13:24
  start
• 13:24
  thinking
• 13:24
  of
• 13:24
  the
• 13:24
  next
• 13:24
  one
• 13:25
  oh
• 13:25
  i'm
• 13:25
  so
• 13:25
  glad
• 13:26
  i
• 13:26
  got
• 13:26
  my
• 13:26
  website
• 13:26
  up
• 13:27
  and
• 13:27
  running
• 13:27
  yami
• 13:28
  Oh,
• 13:28
  But
• 13:28
  i
• 13:28
  still
• 13:28
  have
• 13:29
  to
• 13:29
  do
• 13:29
  the
• 13:29
  email
• 13:29
  list
• 13:29
  oh
• 13:30
  but
• 13:30
  i
• 13:30
  still
• 13:30
  have
• 13:30
  to
• 13:30
  figure
• 13:30
  this
• 13:30
  out
• 13:31
  oh
• 13:31
  stop
• 13:32
  that
• 13:32
  Celebrate
• 13:33
  like
• 13:33
  truly
• 13:34
  celebrate
• 13:35
  One
• 13:35
  time
• 13:35
  a
• 13:35
  friend
• 13:36
  and
• 13:36
  i
• 13:36
  business
• 13:36
  friend
• 13:37
  and
• 13:37
  i
• 13:38
  did
• 13:38
  a
• 13:39
  online
• 13:39
  webinar
• 13:39
  together
• 13:40
  and
• 13:40
  we
• 13:40
  live
• 13:40
  in
• 13:40
  separate
• 13:41
  states
• 13:41
  And
• 13:42
  after
• 13:42
  the
• 13:42
  webinar
• 13:42
  we
• 13:42
  decided
• 13:43
  to
• 13:43
  both
• 13:43
  drive
• 13:44
  to
• 13:44
  dairy
• 13:44
  queen
• 13:44
  with
• 13:45
  each
• 13:45
  other
• 13:45
  on
• 13:45
  The
• 13:45
  phone
• 13:45
  and
• 13:45
  get
• 13:46
  an
• 13:46
  ice
• 13:46
  Cream
• 13:46
  come
• 13:46
  together
• 13:47
  and
• 13:47
  that
• 13:47
  It
• 13:47
  Was
• 13:47
  so
• 13:48
  fun
• 13:48
  It
• 13:48
  was
• 13:49
  a
• 13:49
  real
• 13:49
  physical
• 13:50
  manifestation.
• 13:50
  A
• 13:50
  Station
• 13:50
  of
• 13:51
  our
• 13:51
  celebration
• 13:51
  of
• 13:51
  After
• 13:52
  putting
• 13:52
  countless
• 13:52
  hours
• 13:53
  into
• 13:53
  this
• 13:53
  webinar
• 13:53
  and
• 13:53
  making
• 13:54
  It
• 13:54
  happen
• 13:54
  I
• 13:54
  think
• 13:54
  that
• 13:54
  was
• 13:55
  kind
• 13:55
  of
• 13:55
  scary
• 13:55
  and
• 13:55
  overwhelming
• 13:55
  for
• 13:56
  us.
• 13:56
  So
• 13:56
  please
• 13:57
  Create
• 13:57
  a
• 13:57
  celebration
• 13:58
  It
• 13:58
  doesn't
• 13:58
  have
• 13:58
  to
• 13:58
  be
• 13:58
  sugar
• 13:58
  but
• 13:59
  that's
• 13:59
  fun
• 13:59
  sometimes
• 14:00
  Stop
• 14:01
  take
• 14:01
  time.
• 14:02
  time
• 14:02
  to
• 14:02
  celebrate
• 14:02
  Great
• 14:03
  take
• 14:03
  time
• 14:03
  to
• 14:03
  lean
• 14:04
  into
• 14:04
  that
• 14:04
  accomplishment
• 14:06
  And
• 14:06
  remember
• 14:07
  our
• 14:07
  gratitude
• 14:08
  practice
• 14:08
  On
• 14:08
  step
• 14:08
  one.
• 14:09
  one
• 14:09
  right.
• 14:09
  that
• 14:09
  Prayer
• 14:09
  of
• 14:09
  gratitude
• 14:10
  Thank
• 14:10
  you
• 14:10
  god
• 14:11
  for
• 14:11
  letting
• 14:11
  me
• 14:12
  helping
• 14:12
  me
• 14:13
  reach
• 14:13
  the
• 14:13
  school
• 14:14
  and
• 14:14
  then
• 14:14
  tell
• 14:15
  a
• 14:15
  friend
• 14:15
  or
• 14:15
  five
• 14:16
  or
• 14:16
  the
• 14:16
  internet
• 14:16
  I
• 14:16
  Put
• 14:16
  it
• 14:16
  on
• 14:16
  facebook
• 14:17
  tell
• 14:17
  a
• 14:17
  lot
• 14:17
  of
• 14:17
  people
• 14:18
  and
• 14:18
  write
• 14:18
  it
• 14:18
  down
• 14:18
  in
• 14:19
  your
• 14:19
  journal
• 14:19
  so
• 14:19
  that
• 14:19
  you
• 14:19
  can
• 14:20
  celebrate
• 14:20
  both
• 14:20
  you
• 14:21
  and
• 14:21
  god's
• 14:21
  hand
• 14:22
  in
• 14:22
  this
• 14:22
  thing
• 14:22
  okay
• 14:22
  Okay.
• 14:23
  So
• 14:23
  Celebrate
• 14:24
  the
• 14:24
  old
• 14:24
  goals
• 14:25
  Another
• 14:26
  idea
• 14:26
  is.
• 14:26
  This
• 14:26
  is
• 14:27
  something
• 14:27
  that
• 14:27
  i
• 14:27
  tried
• 14:28
  A
• 14:28
  little
• 14:28
  while
• 14:28
  ago
• 14:28
  a
• 14:28
  few
• 14:28
  years
• 14:28
  ago
• 14:29
  when
• 14:29
  i
• 14:29
  made
• 14:29
  my
• 14:29
  last
• 14:30
  dream
• 14:30
  board
• 14:30
  which
• 14:30
  i
• 14:31
  highly
• 14:31
  recommend
• 14:31
  doing
• 14:31
  it
• 14:31
  So.
• 14:31
  so
• 14:32
  fun
• 14:32
  it's
• 14:32
  like
• 14:32
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• 14:33
  You
• 14:33
  get
• 14:33
  A
• 14:33
  big
• 14:34
  poster
• 14:34
  board
• 14:34
  cut
• 14:35
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• 14:35
  some
• 14:35
  magazine