Latest / Reality with The King / VICKI'S HOUSE OF HORROR | RHOC Recap with Alexis Janssen
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- 0:03Speaker 1: Reality with the King is hosted by me, Carlos King.
- 0:06Speaker 1: I'm an executive producer who have produced some of your
- 0:10Speaker 1: favorite shows from the Real Housewives of Atlanta, New Jersey,
- 0:13Speaker 1: and my own creation, the Love and Marriage franchise and
- 0:17Speaker 1: Bell Collective. Every episode, we recap reality television from the
- 0:23Speaker 1: Real Housewives franchise to The Bachelor or Selling Sunset. in
- 0:27Speaker 1: addition to celebrity guests, whether in the unscripted space or
- 0:31Speaker 1: scripted as well.
- 0:36Speaker 2: Raindrops.
- 0:38Speaker 1: Alexis and I are back to talk about another episode.
- 0:41Speaker 1: Season 20 of The Real Housewives of Orange County. Listen,
- 0:45Speaker 1: go on YouTube. Again, subscribe to my YouTube channel. You
- 0:48Speaker 1: can see Alexis and.
- 0:49Speaker 2: I play it out.
- 0:50Speaker 1: Because we're actually, and this was not predicted, we're matching.
- 0:53Speaker 1: We're both wearing something sleeveless and black with bling.
- 0:56Speaker 3: It's the first time we haven't been Ebony and Ivory.
- 0:58Speaker 3: We're just Ebony. We're ebony with jewels, except my skin
- 1:03Speaker 3: is ivory. So, okay. Look at our getups. We did
- 1:09Speaker 3: not know this, Carlos.
- 1:10Speaker 2: It's so funny. Okay, you got.
- 1:13Speaker 3: Bigger, but see, I'm still waiting to arm wrestle you,
- 1:16Speaker 3: but yeah.
- 1:17Speaker 2: I know, listen, we definitely need to get an arm
- 1:19Speaker 2: wrestle going.
- 1:20Speaker 1: You look absolutely stunning as always.
- 1:23Speaker 4: You look good.
- 1:24Speaker 3: Your hair still looks very clean, like snatched like last week.
- 1:27Speaker 2: Yes, yes, I got a cut yesterday.
- 1:31Speaker 1: It's funny because the raindrops are like, Alexis looks like
- 1:35Speaker 1: a teenager.
- 1:38Speaker 3: Are they saying that?
- 1:39Speaker 2: Yes.
- 1:40Speaker 3: Okay, so then guess what? Everyone else can F off
- 1:43Speaker 3: that is like.
- 1:44Speaker 2: Why'd you pay the money for that facelift?
- 1:45Speaker 3: You didn't even look like you got anything done. I'm like, bitch,
- 1:48Speaker 3: you don't understand. That's what you want.
- 1:49Speaker 4: You want people to just think you got a really
- 1:52Speaker 4: good night's sleep. You don't want to look like you're
- 1:53Speaker 4: all like.
- 1:56Speaker 2: Oh, she beat her head. No, no, no, no, no.
- 1:59Speaker 1: You, it's funny because, and that's a good point. Your
- 2:03Speaker 1: face lived, I mean, but I will agree with them.
- 2:07Speaker 2: I will say this. You know me.
- 2:09Speaker 1: You were already like, stunning right which is how we
- 2:13Speaker 1: viewed you and obviously you're in your own skin so
- 2:16Speaker 1: you know listen when you're living your own skin you're
- 2:19Speaker 1: you know like this can lose a little whatever but
- 2:23Speaker 1: you do not look unrecognizable and i think that's the
- 2:27Speaker 1: the point like facelift should not make you look like
- 2:31Speaker 1: a different person it should really do what you.
- 2:34Speaker 2: Said which is let it look like i got a
- 2:36Speaker 2: good night's sleep.
- 2:37Speaker 3: Which we never do, Carlos. Let's be real.
- 2:42Speaker 4: In 365 days, there might be one night when I
- 2:44Speaker 4: wake up one morning and I'm like, oh my gosh,
- 2:45Speaker 4: I got the best night's.
- 2:46Speaker 3: Sleep of my life. Every other one, I'm like, okay.
- 2:49Speaker 4: No.
- 2:49Speaker 3: Shabby. I constantly have good sleep right now.
- 2:54Speaker 2: That's all. You look good, honey. We are awake because
- 2:56Speaker 2: guess what? This episode woke me up again. I feel like...
- 3:02Speaker 2: I don't know, Alexis. OC is back.
- 3:05Speaker 1: I am.
- 3:07Speaker 4: really loving it, but I do have some inside scoop about,
- 3:11Speaker 4: you know, I mean, so even though we have had
- 3:16Speaker 4: a very, you and.
- 3:16Speaker 3: I have felt it's been very boring.
- 3:18Speaker 4: Um, the ratings as you can, if you want to
- 3:20Speaker 4: Google or whatever, but you can find out the people
- 3:23Speaker 4: are still tuning in when I have been like, so
- 3:26Speaker 4: the ratings haven't dropped much.
- 3:27Speaker 3: However, now we're awake again. They got a facelift.
- 3:30Speaker 4: They're starting to, they're in the pre op mode of
- 3:34Speaker 4: a facelift.
- 3:35Speaker 2: Uh, And we're about to get there.
- 3:39Speaker 1: No, one thing I can say for sure is that
- 3:43Speaker 1: you called it. You said, Carlos, maybe it's a slow start.
- 3:48Speaker 1: You know, similar to Beverly Hills, things will pick up mid-season.
- 3:53Speaker 1: And I'm happy to say you were absolutely right. This
- 3:57Speaker 1: episode started off with the continuation of the girls at
- 4:01Speaker 1: Vicky's house look. I'm going to call it Vicky's House
- 4:06Speaker 1: of Horror. That's the episode title, right? Jamie, there you go.
- 4:10Speaker 1: Vicky's House of Horror. Because what ended last week was...
- 4:16Speaker 1: You know, Vicky's not happy. The girls are challenging her.
- 4:20Speaker 2: They're at her home, spending the night. Mike is not happy.
- 4:24Speaker 2: He comes out. You hear the Freddy Krueger, Blair Witch
- 4:27Speaker 2: Project music.
- 4:29Speaker 1: Then Vicky's yelling at Luke Nesledge, who's the showrunner of
- 4:33Speaker 1: the OC. You know, she's saying, get the fuck out
- 4:37Speaker 1: of my house. So apparently, Jen and Emily heard that.
- 4:45Speaker 1: So they're packing up their shit like she doesn't want
- 4:48Speaker 1: us here. Vicky comes in and she's like, what are
- 4:51Speaker 1: y'all doing? They're like, well, you're kicking us out, like
- 4:55Speaker 1: we're leaving. And she's like, no, I was talking.
- 5:00Speaker 2: About the crew. You guys can stay. And then they're
- 5:05Speaker 2: sort of like, huh?
- 5:07Speaker 1: But before we get to the kitchen moment, did you
- 5:12Speaker 1: take it like Vicky was talking about the crew?
- 5:16Speaker 3: In the moment, no, but I can believe that she
- 5:18Speaker 3: might have been.
- 5:19Speaker 4: But here's my question to you, and I know I'm
- 5:20Speaker 4: going to be the unpopular person right now, probably, which
- 5:23Speaker 4: I don't care. But I feel like the girls were–
- 5:28Speaker 4: Vicky kept giving several warnings, like, let's just put a
- 5:30Speaker 4: pin in this.
- 5:31Speaker 3: Let's just stop. You guys are on me. Like, let's
- 5:33Speaker 3: just stop and look.
- 5:34Speaker 2: It's over.
- 5:35Speaker 3: We're over it, you know?
- 5:36Speaker 2: Vicky, come here.
- 5:36Speaker 3: You want to be in the– you want to say hi? Okay,
- 5:38Speaker 3: everybody say hi to Vicky.
- 5:40Speaker 1: Hi, boo.
- 5:41Speaker 3: You started the podcast today, mom. I love it.
- 5:45Speaker 4: Okay. Anyway, I felt like I could understand why Vicky
- 5:51Speaker 4: is sitting there going, you know, guys, it's enough's enough.
- 5:55Speaker 4: It was kind of like picking. I felt like it
- 5:56Speaker 4: was picking. Although I can see where the girls are like,
- 5:59Speaker 4: we're just trying to have a conversation. So I see
- 6:00Speaker 4: both sides. But I also feel like everyone films.
- 6:04Speaker 3: They all know. So if it's like, okay, we had enough.
- 6:05Speaker 3: We beat this dead horse. Let's move on. Why didn't
- 6:08Speaker 3: they just move on?
- 6:09Speaker 2: Why didn't they just move on? Yeah. To your point, though.
- 6:12Speaker 2: And listen, I actually agree with you. I could see.
- 6:16Speaker 4: I thought it was going to be an unpopular vote.
- 6:19Speaker 2: No, hear me out. I do agree with you that look,
- 6:24Speaker 2: and this is me being a producer.
- 6:27Speaker 1: Housewives have definitely yelled to kick out the producers and
- 6:32Speaker 1: the production and the crew.
- 6:33Speaker 2: That is a true thing. When housewives say, get the
- 6:36Speaker 2: fuck out. Well, you're just done.
- 6:38Speaker 3: You're just done.
- 6:39Speaker 2: Yeah, but you.
- 6:41Speaker 1: Also have to realize, are you talking about the crew
- 6:44Speaker 1: or the cast or both? And that is the deciding
- 6:48Speaker 1: factor in all of this. So although Vicky said it
- 6:53Speaker 1: was the crew, I am inclined to give her the
- 6:57Speaker 1: benefit of the doubt because in that moment as they're packing,
- 7:03Speaker 1: you can tell that.
- 7:06Speaker 2: She did not want them to leave.
- 7:09Speaker 5: I agree.
- 7:10Speaker 2: You're now like, there could also be this Carlos.
- 7:13Speaker 4: It could also have been, she said it in the moment.
- 7:17Speaker 4: Vicky was just frustrated and they're picking on her. She
- 7:19Speaker 4: could have said it in the moment and then not
- 7:20Speaker 4: meant it and then blamed it on the crew. But
- 7:23Speaker 4: at the same time, I do think she really just
- 7:25Speaker 4: wanted everybody out of the house. She just wanted to
- 7:27Speaker 4: enjoy her pizza and move on. I don't think, I
- 7:30Speaker 4: honestly don't think Vicky had like malice in her heart
- 7:33Speaker 4: to be like, everybody get.
- 7:34Speaker 3: The fuck out.
- 7:34Speaker 4: I think what she said, everybody could just get the
- 7:35Speaker 4: fuck out. I think she kind of, in my mind,
- 7:38Speaker 4: was meaning more of the crew.
- 7:40Speaker 2: I do too.
- 7:41Speaker 3: I really do.
- 7:42Speaker 2: I do too. I will say that. I will say that.
- 7:44Speaker 1: Which led Emily and Jen to then go in the kitchen. Shannon,
- 7:49Speaker 1: under her breath, whispers to Emily, like, if you have
- 7:54Speaker 1: to go, I understand. I have to stay. and talk
- 7:59Speaker 1: to her about this and I can't do it.
- 8:02Speaker 4: And Shannon didn't want to leave Vicki high and dry
- 8:05Speaker 4: with everybody leaving. She, but Shannon, I think could understand like, yeah,
- 8:09Speaker 4: it's uncomfortable. And I don't, I don't think we're going
- 8:11Speaker 4: to get back on track from this. So I, I
- 8:14Speaker 4: understand I wouldn't leave my best friend either. I wouldn't,
- 8:17Speaker 4: I would, I would be the one that would stay
- 8:19Speaker 4: right there and be, you know, the, the one that
- 8:20Speaker 4: would stay.
- 8:22Speaker 1: Especially after last week, Vicky called her out and said,
- 8:25Speaker 1: I felt like you did not have my back the
- 8:28Speaker 1: way I would have had yours or had have yours.
- 8:31Speaker 2: On the show.
- 8:32Speaker 1: Shannon knew not to leave Vicky. She's like, I'm not
- 8:37Speaker 1: leaving her. She's already mad at me.
- 8:39Speaker 2: Me leaving? Oh, forget about it. Like, we're done.
- 8:42Speaker 3: We're done.
- 8:43Speaker 2: So she knew she had to stay.
- 8:46Speaker 1: Jen was the one, to me, Alexis, that really encouraged
- 8:50Speaker 1: Emily to be like, let's just go. Like, why are
- 8:53Speaker 1: we sitting here talking about it? Like, Vicky doesn't want
- 8:56Speaker 1: to dress it. She wants us to eat, right? The
- 9:00Speaker 1: crew is here still filming us. And I understood Jen, too,
- 9:04Speaker 1: because the last thing you want to do is spend
- 9:07Speaker 1: the night over someone's house.
- 9:09Speaker 2: Feeling uncomfortable being there. It's not a good feeling.
- 9:12Speaker 3: I know.
- 9:13Speaker 2: It's not. I know.
- 9:15Speaker 4: And I think if I, I try to put myself
- 9:17Speaker 4: in the situation and say what, what I've done, I
- 9:20Speaker 4: think I probably would have left too. Honestly, even the differences,
- 9:23Speaker 4: the difference is I'm closer to Vicki than Emily and
- 9:25Speaker 4: Gina are. So I probably, I would have been able
- 9:27Speaker 4: to stay and figured it out with Gina, with, with Vicki.
- 9:30Speaker 4: But I, if I were Gina and Emily, I probably
- 9:34Speaker 4: would have.
- 9:35Speaker 2: Jen and Emily.
- 9:36Speaker 3: Oh yeah.
- 9:37Speaker 5: Jen and Emily.
- 9:38Speaker 2: Sorry.
- 9:38Speaker 3: Jen and Emily.
- 9:39Speaker 5: You're right.
- 9:39Speaker 3: I would have. I would have left.
- 9:41Speaker 4: I would have said, you know what, let's just let
- 9:43Speaker 4: Shannon and Vicki figure it out.
- 9:45Speaker 3: And yeah, I don't know. It's very sticky, but you
- 9:49Speaker 3: know what? It made good TV.
- 9:51Speaker 4: I like when it's real and authentic, not something that
- 9:54Speaker 4: is kind of like they're trying to make something happen
- 9:56Speaker 4: for the camera, you know?
- 9:58Speaker 3: And this was definitely like, real.
- 10:00Speaker 5: It was a real thing.
- 10:02Speaker 2: No, it was a real moment. And I'm with you.
- 10:05Speaker 2: I would have also look, I am 99% sure Emily
- 10:09Speaker 2: and Jen did not pay $ 500 for the Uber. production paid.
- 10:17Speaker 3: No, production took them home.
- 10:18Speaker 2: Yes, okay.
- 10:19Speaker 4: You know what production might have even done is even
- 10:20Speaker 4: take them to a hotel because a hotel would have
- 10:22Speaker 4: cost more money.
- 10:23Speaker 3: Yeah, they took their asses home.
- 10:25Speaker 2: They took... Production said, we got you, we'll.
- 10:26Speaker 5: Get you home.
- 10:27Speaker 2: Go home.
- 10:28Speaker 3: And production was probably like, thank you, we wanted to.
- 10:30Speaker 2: Go home too. We ain't got to stay overnight? Perfect.
- 10:35Speaker 2: Let's go. Let's all go home. So, I would have
- 10:39Speaker 2: done the same thing, especially because of this. And we....
- 10:46Speaker 1: We'll get more into this towards the end, but if
- 10:51Speaker 1: I'm a woman in this house and there's one guy
- 10:55Speaker 1: in it and that guy comes across a little scary and.
- 11:01Speaker 2: I don't know. Go ahead.
- 11:10Speaker 4: First of all, I don't like when all the girls
- 11:12Speaker 4: were saying Mike was so mad. I saw no evidence
- 11:14Speaker 4: of that. Mike walked in his house and went straight
- 11:16Speaker 4: to his bedroom trying to stay out of filming and production.
- 11:19Speaker 3: I did not see or get where any of them
- 11:21Speaker 3: are saying.
- 11:22Speaker 2: Oh, he was so mad.
- 11:24Speaker 4: Guarantee you, the boom would have been on that door
- 11:27Speaker 4: with production if Mike was going off in that bedroom
- 11:29Speaker 4: and they.
- 11:29Speaker 3: Would have been listening to that. So I don't believe.
- 11:32Speaker 4: Mike was going off. I think the girls felt uncomfortable
- 11:35Speaker 4: because he was there. I think the girls felt uncomfortable
- 11:37Speaker 4: because Vicky was having an episode. But I'm not going
- 11:41Speaker 4: to let Mike take any of the downfall on this.
- 11:43Speaker 4: I do not think he was angry. I do not
- 11:44Speaker 4: think he had one thing. He was just trying to
- 11:47Speaker 4: stay out of everyone's way and figure it out. He
- 11:49Speaker 4: probably did say to Vicky when she said after that,
- 11:51Speaker 4: she goes, yeah, but you know, he just said, you're
- 11:53Speaker 4: such a nice person.
- 11:54Speaker 3: Why is this happening?
- 11:55Speaker 4: He doesn't really get the whole filming thing yet. He
- 11:57Speaker 4: doesn't understand a wraparound that we have to talk things out.
- 11:59Speaker 4: We have to be on when the cameras are there,
- 12:01Speaker 4: we have to be on. So he doesn't get all that,
- 12:04Speaker 4: but I don't think he was there.
- 12:06Speaker 3: Going, what the hell is happening? Why are these girls
- 12:08Speaker 3: in my house?
- 12:09Speaker 4: He knew they were going to be there. He knew
- 12:10Speaker 4: the team was going to, the production was going to
- 12:12Speaker 4: be there. He just simply scurried out of the way.
- 12:14Speaker 4: So I don't agree with what everyone.
- 12:16Speaker 3: When the girls are like, oh, Mike was there and
- 12:18Speaker 3: he was mad. Well, we would have seen evidence of
- 12:20Speaker 3: that because the production's not going to let that die.
- 12:25Speaker 2: Listen, this is very strange, once again. I agree with you.
- 12:30Speaker 5: Wow.
- 12:31Speaker 2: I agree.
- 12:31Speaker 3: We have to wear black and bling every week.
- 12:33Speaker 4: Because this is- Right.
- 12:34Speaker 1: Oh, wow.
- 12:36Speaker 3: When we match, you agree with me.
- 12:38Speaker 4: And when I don't- if I don't telepathically know what
- 12:41Speaker 4: Carlos is going to wear, he's going to disagree with me.
- 12:43Speaker 4: But if we dress the same on a podcast, okay,
- 12:45Speaker 4: got it.
- 12:46Speaker 3: I've got it.
- 12:46Speaker 2: There you go. There you go.
- 12:48Speaker 1: So to your point though, I, as a producer, I
- 12:53Speaker 1: agree that if he was acting out, we would have
- 12:56Speaker 1: shown it. How many times have you seen a, a,
- 13:00Speaker 1: a shot of a closed door and, and, and, and subtitles?
- 13:05Speaker 3: No, they're, they have the bone. They can hear it.
- 13:07Speaker 1: So then they're, yeah, they'll put it in there. So,
- 13:10Speaker 1: to your point, no. We, in Mike's defense, there was
- 13:15Speaker 1: no evidence of him being angry. Now, there's a thing
- 13:19Speaker 1: called energy. Now, could he have appeared to be a
- 13:26Speaker 1: little upset, whatever?
- 13:28Speaker 5: Sure, but....
- 13:30Speaker 1: I think as women, I do understand that this house
- 13:35Speaker 1: isn't just a girl's, you know, night out. There is
- 13:39Speaker 1: a guy there and, you know, they're hearing things about
- 13:45Speaker 1: him popping up out of nowhere on trips and everything.
- 13:49Speaker 1: So I'm just saying I do understand.
- 13:52Speaker 2: Why they felt uncomfortable. And you and I both agree,
- 13:55Speaker 2: we would have left. And I would have. Yeah.
- 13:58Speaker 4: A guy being at a girl's retreat does kind of
- 14:02Speaker 4: change the– not that it could even be negative, but
- 14:04Speaker 4: it does change the energy. It is kind of like, okay,
- 14:07Speaker 4: this isn't girl's time. We can't just have girl talk
- 14:08Speaker 4: now because what if he does hear one of the
- 14:10Speaker 4: things we say and we want to talk about something
- 14:12Speaker 4: that we don't really want a guy to hear?
- 14:13Speaker 3: Like, it's girl time.
- 14:15Speaker 4: It's just like with guys. Guys want to be with
- 14:16Speaker 4: guys sometimes and girls want to be with girls sometimes.
- 14:18Speaker 4: I don't fault Mike for being there.
- 14:19Speaker 3: It is his house.
- 14:21Speaker 4: It is odd that he's been at all the girls' things, though.
- 14:24Speaker 4: That's kind of awkward or weird.
- 14:25Speaker 3: But– But I don't fault him for wanting to be at.
- 14:28Speaker 4: His house when he's coming back from working. I mean,
- 14:30Speaker 4: he's not going to stop his life for production.
- 14:31Speaker 3: He's just not. He's not getting paid. Vicky is.
- 14:34Speaker 4: Vicky has to do her job. But I think Mike
- 14:36Speaker 4: should be able to do what he wants. But I
- 14:38Speaker 4: do think that whether he was in a bad mood,
- 14:41Speaker 4: a happy mood, or whatever mood, I think they took
- 14:45Speaker 4: his walking into the room and trying to get out
- 14:47Speaker 4: of everybody's way.
- 14:48Speaker 3: As a bad mood.
- 14:49Speaker 4: And I think he was in a definite no-win situation
- 14:52Speaker 4: because it didn't change the girl's minds on how they
- 14:54Speaker 4: were going to start, like, film the rest of the scene.
- 14:57Speaker 2: Yes. Yes. Yes.
- 14:59Speaker 5: Yes.
- 14:59Speaker 1: And that's the reason why I totally understand why they
- 15:02Speaker 1: felt the need to leave.
- 15:03Speaker 2: And they left. And they left.
- 15:05Speaker 1: So then, after that, the girls are meeting separately. You
- 15:10Speaker 1: have Tamara meeting with Jen. And then you have Shannon, Emily, Carmella.
- 15:18Speaker 2: Was Jen at... No, no, no. Jen was with Tamara.
- 15:21Speaker 3: It was Shannon, Emily, Carmella... Who was the fourth one?
- 15:25Speaker 4: No.
- 15:25Speaker 2: I wasn't the fourth one.
- 15:26Speaker 3: Well, there was four seats. We wouldn't both forget the fourth.
- 15:30Speaker 2: It was only three. Three of them.
- 15:32Speaker 5: It was three, right?
- 15:32Speaker 2: I'm like, because Gina wasn't. Jamie, are we confused? Text me.
- 15:38Speaker 2: Gina wasn't there. Nope. And Heather wasn't there.
- 15:42Speaker 3: It was the three of them.
- 15:43Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 15:43Speaker 3: The fourth seat was empty.
- 15:44Speaker 2: Okay. Thank you. We are so confused by the fourth seat.
- 15:50Speaker 1: This is Reality with the King.
- 15:52Speaker 5: And I'm Carlos King.
- 15:54Speaker 2: Let's get back into the show.
- 15:56Speaker 1: Okay. So, Tamara obviously wants to hear what happened with Jen.
- 16:05Speaker 1: And then Emily, Shannon, and Carmella are talking about what happened.
- 16:11Speaker 1: In this moment, Gina, not Gina, Emily is talking to
- 16:16Speaker 1: Carmella about, like, Vickie. and what Vicky said about her
- 16:20Speaker 1: in the car. And they flash back to it, where
- 16:24Speaker 1: Vicky pretty much is telling Shannon that when it comes
- 16:28Speaker 1: to Danny having an affair, she needs to get over.
- 16:33Speaker 2: It, pretty much. That putting your.
- 16:38Speaker 1: Dick in someone else is bad, but, you know, what else?
- 16:44Speaker 1: Pretty much there's other things that's worse.
- 16:46Speaker 2: So... Before we get to the breaking news that happened
- 16:49Speaker 2: over 24 hours ago.
- 16:51Speaker 5: Yes.
- 16:52Speaker 3: I knew you were going to go there.
- 16:54Speaker 2: Let's go there, girl. So, Carmella's offended by it. Rightfully so.
- 17:01Speaker 5: Yes.
- 17:02Speaker 1: I thought it was rich of Vicky to say that
- 17:05Speaker 1: to Shannon because I always felt that Shannon, it took
- 17:12Speaker 1: Shannon a long time to get past what David Bedore
- 17:19Speaker 1: did to her, which is cheated on her.
- 17:23Speaker 2: And it took years for Shannon to get over that.
- 17:28Speaker 1: And I'm not saying there's an expiration date for any
- 17:32Speaker 1: woman to get past cheating, especially when you're married, right,
- 17:35Speaker 1: and have children together.
- 17:36Speaker 4: Right.
- 17:37Speaker 1: But for Vicky to say that to Shannon, I did think, like,
- 17:45Speaker 1: how rich... Because Shannon is what was, was actually worse
- 17:50Speaker 1: to me.
- 17:51Speaker 4: Well, what I don't, what I'm trying, what I've tried
- 17:54Speaker 4: to do with Carmela or even with, so I've never
- 17:57Speaker 4: been cheated on.
- 17:58Speaker 3: So it's hard to knock on wood, you know, like,
- 18:02Speaker 3: like Jesus for this.
- 18:03Speaker 5: Right.
- 18:03Speaker 4: But, but if you put yourself in someone's shoes like that,
- 18:08Speaker 4: I have often done that because you feel for your
- 18:11Speaker 4: friends or you feel for someone that you hear that
- 18:13Speaker 4: has had it happen.
- 18:14Speaker 3: It's like, no one knows how you would react when
- 18:17Speaker 3: you have, if.
- 18:18Speaker 4: You've been with someone for 10 years, I think Carmela
- 18:20Speaker 4: is justified for how she's trying to handle it, trying
- 18:22Speaker 4: to get over it. Although we now know it's ended,
- 18:24Speaker 4: which is what you were talking about happened in the
- 18:26Speaker 4: last 24 hours, which we will get to, but she's
- 18:29Speaker 4: justified in the fact that it's like, I'm going to
- 18:30Speaker 4: keep trying until I know I just can't anymore.
- 18:32Speaker 3: And I cannot get over it.
- 18:34Speaker 4: And, but I also don't like other people judging how
- 18:36Speaker 4: someone is behaving when they've had it happen to them,
- 18:39Speaker 4: unless they've had it happen to them.
- 18:40Speaker 3: So like, there could be no judging on mine and
- 18:42Speaker 3: your part. Well, you have been cheated on. You have.
- 18:44Speaker 2: Okay.
- 18:44Speaker 3: So, but, but, For me, I can't. I can't.
- 18:47Speaker 4: I cannot really judge on anybody's reactions because I've never...
- 18:51Speaker 4: I can just say I can feel for them. And,
- 18:55Speaker 4: you know, I think Vicky was a little bit harsh.
- 18:58Speaker 4: And I think you're right to say how rich for
- 19:00Speaker 4: that situation. But has Vicky been cheated on?
- 19:03Speaker 3: I'm trying to think. She's had some pretty.
- 19:06Speaker 2: She said... She did say Steve cheated on her.
- 19:10Speaker 5: Oh, Steve.
- 19:10Speaker 2: Okay. It was Steve.
- 19:11Speaker 4: Because I was like, I know Brooks did it, even
- 19:12Speaker 4: though he did something kind of worse.
- 19:15Speaker 3: Um, and, and then I know Don didn't.
- 19:17Speaker 1: So, okay.
- 19:18Speaker 3: It was Steve.
- 19:18Speaker 2: Yeah. Steve, Steve cheated on her. Allegedly. I want to,
- 19:22Speaker 2: cause he hasn't come on set.
- 19:23Speaker 5: Right.
- 19:24Speaker 2: Oh, well, our friend said, um.
- 19:28Speaker 1: He did see Steve and Porta Velote with another woman.
- 19:33Speaker 2: Hmm.
- 19:36Speaker 3: So yeah, that's that.
- 19:39Speaker 4: I feel sorry for any woman that's next to John
- 19:42Speaker 4: Jansen because that woman's going to have a problem.
- 19:46Speaker 3: Well, John, but the girl's going to.
- 19:49Speaker 5: No.
- 19:50Speaker 2: I'm like Kyle Richards. Get off my husband. If I
- 19:53Speaker 2: see anybody... When.
- 19:54Speaker 1: Kyle said, what are you doing? Get off of my
- 19:57Speaker 1: husband and kick off the party. That's the type of
- 19:59Speaker 1: shit that I would do. Get the fuck off my man.
- 20:04Speaker 1: But yeah, so breaking news is the fact that Carmella
- 20:08Speaker 1: and Dani have called it quits. She mentioned it on
- 20:12Speaker 1: page six is virtual reality. Shout out to my friends
- 20:16Speaker 1: over there who host the show.
- 20:19Speaker 3: And Watch What Happens.
- 20:20Speaker 4: Live last night. She divulged also there. And she was
- 20:24Speaker 4: great on Watch What Happens Live, Carlos. You know, we
- 20:26Speaker 4: love her. And it just made me love her even
- 20:28Speaker 4: more on Watch What Happens Live.
- 20:30Speaker 3: So, yeah.
- 20:30Speaker 2: Love her.
- 20:32Speaker 1: She said that I feel a range of emotions. The
- 20:37Speaker 1: breakup happened months ago. She said, I feel sad. It
- 20:41Speaker 1: was a 10-year relationship. It was somebody that was around
- 20:46Speaker 1: my children, but at the end of the day, I
- 20:49Speaker 1: needed to put myself first.
- 20:53Speaker 2: Go ahead.
- 20:54Speaker 1: No, no, go.
- 20:55Speaker 3: No, go.
- 20:57Speaker 1: She said it was difficult because she did love him deeply,
- 21:01Speaker 1: but oftentimes she ignored her intuition and there was just
- 21:05Speaker 1: something deep down That felt like she just couldn't trust it.
- 21:11Speaker 1: And the dishonesty just continued.
- 21:16Speaker 3: That's what I was going to say.
- 21:17Speaker 2: Yeah, go ahead.
- 21:18Speaker 3: She brought that up at Watch What Happens Live.
- 21:19Speaker 4: It was about the fact that she's very careful with
- 21:21Speaker 4: her words. You can tell she loved him and probably
- 21:24Speaker 4: still loves him. And you don't just get over it
- 21:25Speaker 4: like that 10 years later. 10 years.
- 21:28Speaker 3: In years.
- 21:29Speaker 4: You don't get over it. You don't just say, oh,
- 21:30Speaker 4: my God, I don't love him anymore. I think she's
- 21:32Speaker 4: been falling out of love the past year from what
- 21:35Speaker 4: I've been viewing on the TV show, which I know
- 21:37Speaker 4: it's just a show. But I think that she definitely
- 21:41Speaker 4: still cares about him because she chose her words very carefully,
- 21:44Speaker 4: but yet she was very honest, which I respect. And
- 21:47Speaker 4: she just said, you know, the lies just didn't stop.
- 21:51Speaker 4: They just, they were still like, and.
- 21:52Speaker 3: You can pick up on, and the little lies would
- 21:54Speaker 3: make me even more mad than the big lies.
- 21:55Speaker 4: It's like the little lies are like, why are you
- 21:57Speaker 4: lying about what color your underwear or what?
- 22:00Speaker 2: It's scary.
- 22:01Speaker 3: It's weird. What did you have eggs for breakfast? No,
- 22:04Speaker 3: I had avocado toast. Well, I saw the eggs that
- 22:06Speaker 3: you had in the frying pan.
- 22:07Speaker 4: It's like, why would you lie about that?
- 22:11Speaker 5: I get it.
- 22:12Speaker 4: You're with a woman and you're trying to cover up your,
- 22:14Speaker 4: your tracks, but like, gosh, you know.
- 22:18Speaker 1: No, listen, and even when you saw them at dinner, right?
- 22:25Speaker 2: Like, their one-on-one scene, Carmella and.
- 22:28Speaker 1: Danny, and that scene, it's funny because if they weren't
- 22:34Speaker 1: broken up, that scene let me know that they needed to.
- 22:39Speaker 2: And I said this to you, remember, weeks ago? Yes. Right, Alexis?
- 22:43Speaker 3: You are so right.
- 22:46Speaker 2: Yes.
- 22:47Speaker 4: It was awkward it was uncomfortable I was like I
- 22:50Speaker 4: didn't even want to watch it because I'm like they
- 22:51Speaker 4: both just need to go home and like go to
- 22:53Speaker 4: separate bedrooms like like it's like they were it was
- 22:56Speaker 4: it was it was obvious he was trying and it
- 22:59Speaker 4: was obvious she was just kind of checked out.
- 23:03Speaker 1: Here's what I'm gonna say that may be controversial because
- 23:07Speaker 1: we're only basing their situation off of what we're.
- 23:11Speaker 3: Being shown thank you that's actually very fair to say.
- 23:14Speaker 1: And I want to be very clear I'm only basing
- 23:16Speaker 1: this off of what we're being shown You know, we know.
- 23:20Speaker 2: There's hours of footage. We see five minutes of it.
- 23:23Speaker 1: So based on that one scene, and I already said
- 23:27Speaker 1: this weeks ago, I said, Carmela, just leave him.
- 23:30Speaker 2: Like, it's evident you're not over it. I'm not saying
- 23:34Speaker 2: you should be over it.
- 23:35Speaker 1: I'm just saying you're making matters worse for yourself staying
- 23:38Speaker 1: in this situation and you're not over it. I am
- 23:43Speaker 1: curious what the dishonesty is. Because she keeps saying it
- 23:49Speaker 1: without providing real examples.
- 23:52Speaker 3: Well, I watched Watch What Happened last night.
- 23:54Speaker 2: So that's the thing.
- 23:55Speaker 3: I have a little bit more to give to you.
- 23:58Speaker 3: But this is what I'm saying. She chose her words carefully.
- 24:01Speaker 4: It does have something to do with another female. From
- 24:06Speaker 4: what I gathered from, it's okay. Do you hear my
- 24:10Speaker 4: dog barking?
- 24:11Speaker 2: I heard him a little bit, but it's fine.
- 24:13Speaker 4: Well, we can, I don't know, sweetie. There's something under
- 24:15Speaker 4: the bed or something. She loves, we're babysitting our granddaughter, Rue.
- 24:20Speaker 4: And so there's something, she finds a bone. I swear
- 24:22Speaker 4: to God, it could be hidden five feet deep in
- 24:25Speaker 4: my underwear drawer and she'll find the bone.
- 24:27Speaker 2: She's barking because there's one.
- 24:28Speaker 4: Way under the bed that one of the dogs probably lost.
- 24:33Speaker 4: She's like, I'm not going to stop barking until someone
- 24:35Speaker 4: gets me that damn bone. She's so cute.
- 24:38Speaker 3: Anyway, we have four dogs in the house right now.
- 24:41Speaker 3: It's kind of chaos. It's like we have two blackies
- 24:44Speaker 3: and it's like, we are, it is like, hello.
- 24:46Speaker 1: Okay.
- 24:46Speaker 4: Um, anyway, so she said something about he, it was
- 24:51Speaker 4: something about a realist or someone he was working with.
- 24:53Speaker 3: And so she goes, well, did you date? And then he,
- 24:56Speaker 3: and then, or was this on the show? I don't
- 24:58Speaker 3: know if it.
- 24:58Speaker 2: Was on the show.
- 24:59Speaker 3: So then I'm watching what happens live.
- 25:01Speaker 4: She just made him another innuendo to the fact that
- 25:04Speaker 4: it had to do with the fact that there was,
- 25:08Speaker 4: she didn't use the word infidelity, but in my mind,
- 25:10Speaker 4: that's where she was kind of, what she was saying
- 25:12Speaker 4: was taking you to there. She felt unsafe with some
- 25:15Speaker 4: things he had some choices he had made.
- 25:17Speaker 3: Oh, so yeah. And I, and I respect that.
- 25:21Speaker 4: And I, you know, what I respect the most is
- 25:23Speaker 4: that she's not just throwing out his dirty laundry.
- 25:26Speaker 3: You know, she's, she's kind of keeping it close to
- 25:28Speaker 3: the chest.
- 25:28Speaker 4: She is kind of saying enough to let people understand
- 25:30Speaker 4: what's happening, but she's not bashing him. She's not giving details.
- 25:34Speaker 4: She's just saying, I finally, I finally figured out it
- 25:37Speaker 4: was just time for me to let go.
- 25:41Speaker 1: It's interesting because, like you said, at the dinner table,
- 25:45Speaker 1: she did mention that there was this real estate agent.
- 25:48Speaker 1: He was working a female. And she did ask him, like,
- 25:52Speaker 1: do you have history?
- 25:53Speaker 2: He goes, no. He denied it.
- 25:55Speaker 4: And he goes, oh, I took her on one. But
- 25:57Speaker 4: I did take her on one date. And so then
- 25:58Speaker 4: Carmel's like, oh, you do have history then. See, that's
- 26:00Speaker 4: where it would mess your psyche as a female. Or
- 26:03Speaker 4: maybe even a male, you can tell me. That would
- 26:05Speaker 4: mess with my mind.
- 26:06Speaker 3: That would mess with my mind. Because you're like, I
- 26:08Speaker 3: just asked you.
- 26:09Speaker 4: Taking someone on a date is history. Is a step
- 26:12Speaker 4: above being friends? No. Taking someone on a date is
- 26:16Speaker 4: moving in a direction or having some kind of a
- 26:18Speaker 4: past with someone.
- 26:21Speaker 2: It's tough. It's tough. It's tough. I get it.
- 26:25Speaker 1: And I do believe that one of the main reasons
- 26:32Speaker 1: she wanted it to work out was because of the
- 26:34Speaker 1: relationship he had with her kids.
- 26:37Speaker 3: Uh-huh. I got that too.
- 26:39Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 26:39Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 26:40Speaker 3: I got that too.
- 26:41Speaker 1: And I think for her, she did not want her
- 26:47Speaker 1: kids to be without, in her mind, to me, a
- 26:53Speaker 1: father figure of someone they like. Because one thing she
- 26:57Speaker 1: said about Danny, and that's why, listen, you can tell
- 27:01Speaker 1: she still loves him and respects him because she said,
- 27:06Speaker 1: my kids love him. And I think when your kids
- 27:09Speaker 1: love somebody, It does. First of all, it's a great thing.
- 27:14Speaker 1: But when you are falling out of love based on
- 27:18Speaker 1: not trusting him, it's hard to leave him because your
- 27:21Speaker 1: kids love him so much. And what man is okay, right,
- 27:27Speaker 1: with being like, go do your thing. I'll stay home
- 27:29Speaker 1: with the kids and watch them. So I understood why
- 27:33Speaker 1: she was conflicted.
- 27:34Speaker 4: You know, my engagement before John, my ex was my kids.
- 27:40Speaker 4: It was really hard when I left him because two
- 27:43Speaker 4: of my three were very distraught and upset. And it
- 27:46Speaker 4: made it so much harder for me because they did
- 27:49Speaker 4: look at him as a true father figure. Like he
- 27:52Speaker 4: taught them how to ski. His dad, their dad didn't.
- 27:54Speaker 4: He taught them how to do water sports. We went
- 27:58Speaker 4: to the winter. He really invested his time with my
- 28:02Speaker 4: kids and vice versa. So it's really hard when it
- 28:05Speaker 4: makes it five times harder to end a relationship when
- 28:08Speaker 4: you know you're like damaging or hurting your children also.
- 28:12Speaker 3: Because I didn't just.
- 28:13Speaker 4: Bring any man around, you know, like a lot of
- 28:15Speaker 4: people recycle girls and boys through the door with their kids.
- 28:18Speaker 4: I met two guys I ever talked to in my
- 28:21Speaker 4: entire life since my divorce. So, and it was because
- 28:23Speaker 4: I thought I was going to marry the first one
- 28:25Speaker 4: and then didn't. And then, you know, I married the
- 28:26Speaker 4: second one. So it's like only when it was going
- 28:28Speaker 4: to be a legitimate, true relationship that I knew was
- 28:32Speaker 4: going to go far. So for Carmela, a 10-year, I
- 28:35Speaker 4: feel like you're already almost married. And so those poor
- 28:37Speaker 4: kids are in love with him also as a father figure,
- 28:41Speaker 4: you know? So hopefully they don't– like my kids still
- 28:44Speaker 4: know they can text Drew if they wanted to or
- 28:46Speaker 4: vice versa, you know, whatever. It's like you don't just
- 28:49Speaker 4: lose that– I mean it kind of– you know, now
- 28:50Speaker 4: they've kind of outgrown it because it's been– six years
- 28:53Speaker 4: or five years or whatever.
- 28:54Speaker 1: Yeah, but the good thing is they have the option
- 28:58Speaker 1: if they wanted to.
- 28:59Speaker 4: That's what I hope Carmella and Danny have done with
- 29:03Speaker 4: her kids because they were so invested with him.
- 29:06Speaker 3: I hope that they do still reach out.
- 29:08Speaker 4: I mean, Carmella said last night on Watch What Happens,
- 29:11Speaker 4: she hasn't talked to him in months. So in my mind,
- 29:14Speaker 4: I'm hoping that that doesn't stand true for the kids.
- 29:16Speaker 4: If they want to go get ice cream with Danny,
- 29:17Speaker 4: I hope that they can.
- 29:18Speaker 2: I hope so too.
- 29:20Speaker 1: And based on what we've seen, so far on the
- 29:23Speaker 1: show of Carmella being a mother, I think she will
- 29:26Speaker 1: encourage that.
- 29:27Speaker 2: I think she'll be fine with it.
- 29:28Speaker 1: Like, and again, she hasn't said he cheated on her, but- But- They.
- 29:35Speaker 4: Knew the windows last night though. I'm letting you know
- 29:37Speaker 4: a little bit. Maybe not to the cheating, but to
- 29:40Speaker 4: the fact that she did not trust some things. He,
- 29:43Speaker 4: some choices he was making is what, so I don't
- 29:45Speaker 4: want to speak for her and I'm very respectful of
- 29:47Speaker 4: the fact that she's keeping things close to the chest,
- 29:49Speaker 4: but she did leave lead on it. Watch what happens
- 29:51Speaker 4: last night that it was something towards the fact of
- 29:55Speaker 4: just not trusting some of the decisions he had made. Yeah.
- 29:59Speaker 2: And look, it could have been some inappropriate stuff.
- 30:01Speaker 1: And I, texting, certain language, texting or photos, like, I
- 30:08Speaker 1: think that's just as bad.
- 30:10Speaker 4: I just think anytime you're in a relationship, if your
- 30:15Speaker 4: significant other does not know, like, if I was going
- 30:18Speaker 4: to text anyone, even my ex-husband, if I even text
- 30:21Speaker 4: Jim or talk to Jim, I let John know.
- 30:23Speaker 3: It's just like, why not? And it's just in lighthearted, like, hey,
- 30:27Speaker 3: I just, you know, we were talking about this or that.
- 30:28Speaker 2: It's a courtesy.
- 30:30Speaker 3: Why not be an open book?
- 30:31Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 30:32Speaker 3: And if you don't have anything to hide, then just
- 30:34Speaker 3: talk about it. It's called communication. It makes you feel
- 30:36Speaker 3: closer to your spouse. It makes your spouse feel closer
- 30:39Speaker 3: to you or partner.
- 30:40Speaker 4: So yeah, I think that if things are left out,
- 30:44Speaker 4: it definitely leaves room for distrust to start to creep in.
- 30:51Speaker 1: Do you think he meant it when he told Carmela
- 30:56Speaker 1: he wanted to marry her?
- 30:57Speaker 2: I do. I do.
- 30:58Speaker 5: Me too.
- 30:59Speaker 2: Me too.
- 31:01Speaker 4: I think Danny was all in and it was trying
- 31:03Speaker 4: his hardest to move. I just think he couldn't, he
- 31:06Speaker 4: can't meet it. He's not, I get the feeling and
- 31:10Speaker 4: I'm not sure. I hate talking about this because I
- 31:12Speaker 4: know it's just five snippets, you know, five minutes of
- 31:14Speaker 4: hours of filming that we get to see. My feeling
- 31:17Speaker 4: is Danny's just not ready to really commit to one woman,
- 31:21Speaker 4: even though he wants to.
- 31:23Speaker 3: I just feel that he's just not ready.
- 31:25Speaker 4: He's just not that, maybe he's never going to be this,
- 31:28Speaker 4: the monogamous, like one woman, man, or, I mean, cause
- 31:31Speaker 4: if you want to, if you want to tell little
- 31:33Speaker 4: white lies about little things and you're not really devoted
- 31:35Speaker 4: to that human, you know.
- 31:38Speaker 1: And it's also a situation to where I understand why
- 31:42Speaker 1: I would have concern. And again, that scene, she was
- 31:46Speaker 1: so over him. She kept making digs. She, she was
- 31:50Speaker 1: so did pan and, And I'm happy for her that
- 31:55Speaker 1: she's away from him because I do feel like the
- 31:58Speaker 1: healing starts now.
- 31:59Speaker 3: Right.
- 32:01Speaker 1: Speaking of healing, though, Travis and Gina are talking about
- 32:05Speaker 1: their future together, buying a house together, $ 3 million of
- 32:13Speaker 1: a house.
- 32:19Speaker 5: What?
- 32:20Speaker 4: I don't know where you're going with this. You're looking
- 32:22Speaker 4: at me like I'm supposed to read your mind on
- 32:23Speaker 4: this one.
- 32:24Speaker 3: I can't read your mind.
- 32:24Speaker 2: I'm just saying.
- 32:25Speaker 1: It was interesting because they're like, oh, let's move it together.
- 32:30Speaker 1: And by her being a real estate agent and the
- 32:32Speaker 1: house is $ 3 million and she's like, look, we can
- 32:34Speaker 1: do it, but it may hurt us. And I just
- 32:37Speaker 1: don't want, listen, this is my hope for Gina because
- 32:39Speaker 1: I really do like Gina. I really like her. I
- 32:43Speaker 1: don't want Gina to be that housewife that lives beyond
- 32:49Speaker 1: her means just because you're on TV.
- 32:53Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 32:53Speaker 4: Because I was kind of what, what kind of turned
- 32:55Speaker 4: my ears like to go perk a little.
- 32:57Speaker 3: Why can't you afford a house and a wedding? I
- 33:00Speaker 3: don't get it.
- 33:00Speaker 4: Like if you, if you have enough to afford a
- 33:01Speaker 4: $ 3 million home, then you have enough to put a couple,
- 33:04Speaker 4: you know, 30, 50, a hundred grand on a wedding.
- 33:07Speaker 3: Like I don't get, I don't get that. I was,
- 33:09Speaker 3: I was a little bit like, I don't know.
- 33:12Speaker 2: I don't know.
- 33:13Speaker 4: You're right. So don't leave behind your, maybe they need
- 33:15Speaker 4: to be in the $ 1. 5 million home, which you can't.
- 33:17Speaker 2: That's my point.
- 33:18Speaker 3: You can only get an apartment over here in OC, Carlos.
- 33:20Speaker 3: I don't know what it's like.
- 33:21Speaker 4: Where you live, but you can only get a little
- 33:22Speaker 4: bitty shindig apartment for 1.5 right now in OC.
- 33:26Speaker 2: Move to Atlanta.
- 33:28Speaker 3: Honey, I might be packing my bags.
- 33:30Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 33:31Speaker 2: I'm kidding.
- 33:31Speaker 4: Because I'd have to bring, you know, all six kids
- 33:33Speaker 4: plus their significance.
- 33:36Speaker 2: 14 of us moving to Atlanta. And the four dogs
- 33:38Speaker 2: at the house right now. Oh, good God.
- 33:40Speaker 4: No, between the dogs, we have like eight dogs between
- 33:42Speaker 4: our whole family. Eight dogs and 14 humans. We're not
- 33:45Speaker 4: moving to Atlanta.
- 33:45Speaker 5: Not doing it.
- 33:50Speaker 1: But I think to your point, listen, the state of California, expensive.
- 33:55Speaker 1: Orange County, to find a decent home, it is at
- 33:58Speaker 1: least $ 3 million. Yes, Gina has been on the show
- 34:02Speaker 1: for seven years.
- 34:03Speaker 2: I just.
- 34:05Speaker 1: And listen, obviously when it comes to Travis, we don't
- 34:09Speaker 1: know exactly what that looks like in terms of financial.
- 34:13Speaker 1: But I was like you. It was very confusing because...
- 34:18Speaker 1: I like her so much that I want her to
- 34:22Speaker 1: choose one thing over the other first. Like the house
- 34:28Speaker 1: you're in now, just stay there and get married and
- 34:32Speaker 1: then maybe move.
- 34:33Speaker 2: Or, you know, get the house first.
- 34:36Speaker 1: But I just think it's one of those things where
- 34:40Speaker 1: If you can't afford it, don't do it. When she
- 34:42Speaker 1: talked about like your first wedding, your parents paid for it.
- 34:45Speaker 1: Your second wedding is all on you. Then get married
- 34:48Speaker 1: at the justice of the peace.
- 34:50Speaker 3: That's the other thing I was going to say.
- 34:51Speaker 5: Exactly.
- 34:52Speaker 3: Why can't they just go get hitched? I mean, because
- 34:54Speaker 3: if you want to be married, you're going to find
- 34:56Speaker 3: a way to do it. That's the thing. It's like,
- 34:57Speaker 3: what is your priority? What is your top priority? If
- 34:59Speaker 3: you want to be married, you're going to get married.
- 35:01Speaker 4: Whether it's a quick wedding at the justice of the
- 35:03Speaker 4: peace and then you throw a little party. If you
- 35:05Speaker 4: don't do the whole wedding, you could throw a very
- 35:08Speaker 4: fabulous party. for a lot less if you don't do
- 35:12Speaker 4: the whole ceremony and do all the wedding gown and all,
- 35:14Speaker 4: I mean, your wedding gowns are, you know.
- 35:15Speaker 3: $ 5, 000.
- 35:16Speaker 4: To $ 10, 000. So it's like, you can do a lot.
- 35:21Speaker 3: Without all that.
- 35:21Speaker 4: So that would be where my first mindset would go
- 35:25Speaker 4: if I were in her shoes.
- 35:27Speaker 3: And then I would get the house. Then you can
- 35:28Speaker 3: have both.
- 35:29Speaker 2: You can have both. You can have both. You can
- 35:31Speaker 2: have both.
- 35:32Speaker 1: It was just for me, a bunch of red flags.
- 35:35Speaker 2: I'm like, Gina, don't do it. You're not having the bro.
- 35:38Speaker 2: Emily Simpson, her husband's a lawyer.
- 35:41Speaker 1: Not only that, his family has so much money that
- 35:47Speaker 1: they're good. Gina, you just bounced back on your feet.
- 35:51Speaker 1: I'm proud of you. You got your license. You're learning
- 35:54Speaker 1: how to grow your real estate business.
- 35:57Speaker 2: Do not fucking do it.
- 35:59Speaker 4: Do you think there's any part of you that feels
- 36:05Speaker 4: that They just are trying to find reasons not to
- 36:10Speaker 4: get married and just to stay engaged.
- 36:12Speaker 1: Well, it's funny because when she said that me and
- 36:17Speaker 1: Travis will get married before Jen and Ryan. So I
- 36:22Speaker 1: don't think, I think that, you know, I love Jen,
- 36:26Speaker 1: but I got to be honest. I think that more
- 36:28Speaker 1: about Jen and Ryan.
- 36:31Speaker 2: I don't, I don't.
- 36:31Speaker 3: No, but you know what?
- 36:32Speaker 4: They made a date because she was on, she was
- 36:34Speaker 4: on an interview somewhere or watch what happens.
- 36:36Speaker 5: I don't know, maybe.
- 36:37Speaker 4: So she said, we made a date. They have a date.
- 36:40Speaker 4: They're getting married on a boat coming up soon on
- 36:43Speaker 4: a boat for supposedly.
- 36:44Speaker 1: Yes.
- 36:44Speaker 2: This year or next year.
- 36:47Speaker 3: That was not disclosed.
- 36:48Speaker 2: Okay.
- 36:49Speaker 3: It was, it must've been on watch what happens. Cause
- 36:50Speaker 3: you don't watch those. And I do.
- 36:51Speaker 4: Cause otherwise you would have recollected this from the show. Um,
- 36:55Speaker 4: It must have been on Watch What Happens. And she said, well,
- 36:57Speaker 4: we did set a date.
- 36:58Speaker 2: And we did.
- 36:58Speaker 3: And Andy did not push, which I was kind of like,
- 37:01Speaker 3: I almost texted Andy. I'd be like, well, get the date.
- 37:03Speaker 2: Like, hello, Andy.
- 37:04Speaker 4: You know, because sometimes he sees his phone, his text.
- 37:06Speaker 4: But I didn't act quick enough. And then that was over. But, oh,
- 37:10Speaker 4: I also watched it recorded.
- 37:12Speaker 3: It wouldn't have mattered.
- 37:12Speaker 4: I watched it recorded, not live. But anyway, she did
- 37:16Speaker 4: say we did set a date.
- 37:17Speaker 3: We have a date. So Jen and Ryan are going
- 37:19Speaker 3: to beat them to the.
- 37:20Speaker 4: Altar, it sounds like.
- 37:21Speaker 1: Okay, well, I'm going to turn the tables on you.
- 37:24Speaker 1: Do you think Travis and Gina are doing all of
- 37:29Speaker 1: this because maybe subconsciously they don't want to marry each other?
- 37:36Speaker 3: Well, I'll say it like this.
- 37:38Speaker 4: I feel like, okay, remember only a couple seasons ago
- 37:44Speaker 4: they broke up and she kicked him out and they
- 37:46Speaker 4: moved out and the next season they were getting engaged.
- 37:50Speaker 3: So to me, it's like.
- 37:53Speaker 4: How much is produced and like what they're trying to
- 37:54Speaker 4: do to stay on the show and how much is real.
- 37:56Speaker 3: That is kind of, I'm being honest now. I'm being
- 37:58Speaker 3: really honest. I do like that.
- 37:59Speaker 2: I love it.
- 38:00Speaker 3: I do hope that they, I do hope that they
- 38:03Speaker 3: do move forward with that.
- 38:03Speaker 4: But in my mind, I'm kind of like, I just
- 38:06Speaker 4: don't know because I just feel like there's always a
- 38:09Speaker 4: reason or an excuse or they've got this going.
- 38:11Speaker 3: Or they're, you know, I don't know. I really don't know.
- 38:15Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah.
- 38:19Speaker 1: Um, uh, This is, I gotta be honest, fuck. I
- 38:25Speaker 1: do feel this way too. When I see Travis and Gina,
- 38:29Speaker 1: I don't see sparks.
- 38:31Speaker 2: I don't. And I never have. More of like a
- 38:34Speaker 2: best friendship.
- 38:35Speaker 3: More of like a best friendship.
- 38:36Speaker 2: Oh, you took the word.
- 38:38Speaker 4: And we're doing this on the show because it's keeping us,
- 38:41Speaker 4: we have, you know, because.
- 38:43Speaker 3: Here's my deal.
- 38:44Speaker 4: Who would, who would, I don't know a man that
- 38:48Speaker 4: would allow his, girlfriend to kick him out and, and say,
- 38:53Speaker 4: I need space.
- 38:54Speaker 3: I don't want to live together. I don't like that.
- 38:56Speaker 4: I can pay this for my kids and I can't
- 38:57Speaker 4: pay it for yours too. But then six months later
- 39:00Speaker 4: or less, they're filming again.
- 39:02Speaker 3: And then all of a.
- 39:03Speaker 4: Sudden they're getting engaged. I just, none of it makes,
- 39:06Speaker 4: none of it makes like realistic sense to me, but
- 39:11Speaker 4: I'm here for it because it doesn't.
- 39:11Speaker 3: Make good TV. So I'm here for it.
- 39:14Speaker 2: What did you think about the ring?
- 39:17Speaker 4: I mean, I like, I always told you, I have
- 39:19Speaker 4: no problem with someone making a prototype when you're trying
- 39:21Speaker 4: to surprise the wife.
- 39:22Speaker 3: Like John and I picked out my ring together.
- 39:24Speaker 4: If he was going to provide me with a ring,
- 39:26Speaker 4: I would hope he would have done a prototype first
- 39:28Speaker 4: to make sure that I loved it. Because if I didn't,
- 39:30Speaker 4: I'm stuck with it. And then I'd be like, okay,
- 39:32Speaker 4: but I love you and I'll take it. But I
- 39:34Speaker 4: have no problem with a prototype. And then I liked
- 39:37Speaker 4: the six diamonds in honor of the six kids. So
- 39:39Speaker 4: I thought it was great.
- 39:42Speaker 3: What did you think?
- 39:44Speaker 2: Same thing.
- 39:45Speaker 1: I thought it was a cute gesture. It gave best
- 39:47Speaker 1: friend tease. I think they're best friends. I think they're
- 39:51Speaker 1: best friends.
- 39:53Speaker 3: In all honesty, you want to be best friends with
- 39:55Speaker 3: your partner. I'm best friends with John.
- 39:56Speaker 2: For sure. They just don't.
- 39:59Speaker 3: You mean the spark.
- 40:00Speaker 5: The spark. There's no spark.
- 40:02Speaker 1: I know that you and John are doing it under
- 40:04Speaker 1: the table. You know, like, I know you guys are.
- 40:08Speaker 2: I know when you walk past John, he's grabbing. When
- 40:10Speaker 2: you walk past John, he's grabbing your ass.
- 40:13Speaker 3: This is true.
- 40:14Speaker 2: You know, and you're like, oh, oh, oh.
- 40:18Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 40:19Speaker 2: Honey, stop. The kids are around, right?
- 40:20Speaker 3: No, I'm like, ooh, okay, honey. And I'm like, turn
- 40:23Speaker 3: your head the other way.
- 40:25Speaker 1: Okay.
- 40:26Speaker 2: I love you. I know that you are. Ryan and
- 40:29Speaker 2: Jen are getting it in. I know they're like... I
- 40:33Speaker 2: know they are getting it in.
- 40:35Speaker 5: True.
- 40:36Speaker 2: Heather and Terry, I don't see it.
- 40:39Speaker 1: But I think they've been together for so long that
- 40:42Speaker 1: they are comfortable. And it works for them. I think
- 40:47Speaker 1: they're just like, we're They're soulmates.
- 40:50Speaker 2: They're soulmates. Emily and Shane.
- 40:56Speaker 4: It's just so awkward to even think about.
- 41:02Speaker 2: Emily and Shane. I don't want to think about it.
- 41:05Speaker 5: No.
- 41:06Speaker 2: Travis and Gina give me... Best friends. And the prototype
- 41:17Speaker 2: of the ring... Hold on. Hold on.
- 41:19Speaker 3: You didn't do Eddie and Tamara and you didn't do
- 41:21Speaker 3: Vicky and Mike.
- 41:23Speaker 5: Okay.
- 41:23Speaker 2: Tamara and Eddie... Okay, listen. That's why I love the
- 41:27Speaker 2: scene when they were... The lingerie and stuff. And she
- 41:30Speaker 2: admitted like, I gotta get my libido back. Yes.
- 41:33Speaker 3: That's on her though.
- 41:34Speaker 4: This season, that's on her and she knows it. It's
- 41:36Speaker 4: chemically something going on with her hormones.
- 41:38Speaker 2: Exactly.
- 41:39Speaker 4: I'm telling you, they are fine in their sex life
- 41:41Speaker 4: other than what she's doing.
- 41:43Speaker 2: But the thing is, they've always had chemistry. Always.
- 41:46Speaker 4: 100%.
- 41:46Speaker 1: Vicky and Mike, they're definitely doing it.
- 41:54Speaker 3: 100%.
- 41:55Speaker 2: 100% doing it. Like, Vicky, I think Vicky's like, you
- 42:01Speaker 2: want it now? And he's like, why not? You know?
- 42:06Speaker 4: It's so funny because she's such an anomaly because she's
- 42:08Speaker 4: so like type A with her business, like.
- 42:10Speaker 3: Typing in the, you know, did it. And then she's
- 42:13Speaker 3: probably like bedroom now, bedroom now.
- 42:16Speaker 2: Like, he's like, okay. He puts down the newspaper.
- 42:19Speaker 4: I think I'll go back, go back to the ring
- 42:25Speaker 4: and what you were saying before I interrupted.
- 42:27Speaker 2: I picked her mic like this and his newspaper. And
- 42:33Speaker 2: I think Vicky's like, ready? Yep. Pick up his glasses
- 42:38Speaker 2: and go. Pop a little.
- 42:40Speaker 4: Does he really fold the glasses that neat before he?
- 42:43Speaker 2: Yes. Not that neat. He's like, he has his drugstore readers. Okay.
- 42:48Speaker 3: Put some Listerine in. Be right there, honey. What's his
- 42:53Speaker 3: armpits little?
- 42:55Speaker 1: Yes.
- 42:56Speaker 2: Vicky's like, come on.
- 42:57Speaker 5: Come on.
- 42:58Speaker 2: I have a break.
- 42:59Speaker 3: I have two and a half minutes. We got to go, bud.
- 43:01Speaker 4: I got to call and Zoom in two and a
- 43:03Speaker 4: half minutes.
- 43:04Speaker 5: Yes.
- 43:05Speaker 1: One trillion percent. I definitely think that's the case. Speaking
- 43:10Speaker 1: of Vicky, listen. Bravo, pun intended. That, listen, the world,
- 43:22Speaker 1: me included. have been very hard on Vicky. And I'm
- 43:26Speaker 1: not saying we weren't justified. I think, again, I'm only
- 43:32Speaker 1: recapping what I watch. I don't know what you're doing
- 43:35Speaker 1: at home. I'm only recapping what I've watched. We've been
- 43:39Speaker 1: hard on Vicky, rightfully so, based on what we're being shown.
- 43:43Speaker 3: I have not, and I have always stuck up for her.
- 43:45Speaker 2: No. You haven't.
- 43:48Speaker 4: I have stuck up for her, and it's because I
- 43:50Speaker 4: do know her heart. And I know she's not in
- 43:53Speaker 4: a good place. And I love her.
- 43:55Speaker 3: And I think that you love people through what they are.
- 43:58Speaker 4: And the reason I love her so much for TV,
- 44:00Speaker 4: when everyone's saying they want her off the screen, I
- 44:01Speaker 4: do not agree.
- 44:02Speaker 3: I will stand by this till the day. I don't
- 44:04Speaker 3: stand by it anymore.
- 44:05Speaker 4: But I stand by the fact that I think she
- 44:10Speaker 4: is so authentic on camera, sometimes to her detriment, that
- 44:14Speaker 4: she does not produce herself. She does not try to
- 44:17Speaker 4: make a scene a scene.
- 44:18Speaker 3: She's just herself. And I, that's what I love about her.
- 44:22Speaker 4: And I could read from the beginning of this season
- 44:26Speaker 4: that she was in a tough place and had bit
- 44:28Speaker 4: off more than she can chew. And I stand by that.
- 44:32Speaker 4: And by the way, she's still going through it. They're
- 44:34Speaker 4: done filming right now. They're going to do the reunion
- 44:35Speaker 4: obviously in October, but she's still going through the ringer
- 44:39Speaker 4: with her knee and with her pain. And I don't
- 44:41Speaker 4: know what it's like to film when you're in that
- 44:42Speaker 4: much pain all the time.
- 44:44Speaker 3: But like, I know that that played in her psyche.
- 44:47Speaker 4: The fact that Production has evolutionized to such a level
- 44:50Speaker 4: that it's not the same when she was before. I
- 44:52Speaker 4: think all of it played into the and she's now
- 44:54Speaker 4: we find out she's lonely. She's very honest about the
- 44:57Speaker 4: fact that even though she has a full time boyfriend
- 44:58Speaker 4: that loves her and adores her and they've got a
- 45:00Speaker 4: great relationship, it seems like she's lonely because he travels
- 45:02Speaker 4: a lot and her kids are gone. I think she
- 45:04Speaker 4: misses her kids. And I think if she could have
- 45:06Speaker 4: it her way, she would have all of her kids
- 45:08Speaker 4: back home. you know, in the same, like, I can't
- 45:10Speaker 4: imagine if my kids move away. I told John, I'm sorry,
- 45:13Speaker 4: but we're going to be in one of those little
- 45:15Speaker 4: Winnebago vans going to all visit all our kids. Cause
- 45:18Speaker 4: I'm going to have to get my fix of each
- 45:19Speaker 4: kid once a week. So we're going to be busy
- 45:22Speaker 4: traveling to each wherever they go, but we're trying to
- 45:24Speaker 4: keep them all here.
- 45:25Speaker 3: Kind of bribing.
- 45:27Speaker 2: I agree with you.
- 45:29Speaker 1: I applaud Vicky for being so transparent when it comes
- 45:32Speaker 1: to this. The beauty of this conversation is she wasn't
- 45:35Speaker 1: having this based on social media backlash and, You know,
- 45:39Speaker 1: if this was a scene that, let's say she came
- 45:41Speaker 1: back next season and this scene happened, I would have
- 45:44Speaker 1: been like, girl, you're trying to feed off of our
- 45:50Speaker 1: thoughts with you because you want us to feel sorry
- 45:52Speaker 1: for you, right? As a producer, I will say I
- 45:56Speaker 1: applaud her for being vulnerable. I applaud her for her transparency.
- 46:05Speaker 1: I know what it's like to be a workhorse. And
- 46:08Speaker 1: the one thing that I always try to do that
- 46:10Speaker 1: I'm not saying I've conquered, but I'm much better, is
- 46:14Speaker 1: not make my identity work.
- 46:17Speaker 2: Because when you love what you do, it feels like breathing.
- 46:23Speaker 1: And I can relate to Vicky in the sense of
- 46:27Speaker 1: that's her livelihood and she loves it. And when she
- 46:32Speaker 1: was honest about the fact that And I.
- 46:35Speaker 2: Never looked at it that way.
- 46:36Speaker 1: Like when they're like, get off your laptop and whatever insurance,
- 46:39Speaker 1: she takes that as y'all poking fun at my work.
- 46:42Speaker 1: And I never looked at it that way, but I,
- 46:46Speaker 1: and I also don't have friends who say that to me.
- 46:48Speaker 2: So I don't know what it feels like. My friends
- 46:50Speaker 2: be like, no bitch, we get it.
- 46:52Speaker 1: Like, like when you talk about your friendship with Tamara,
- 46:56Speaker 1: she's like, Hey, I'm on the pod.
- 46:58Speaker 2: I'm doing the pod, the pod, the pod, the pod.
- 47:01Speaker 1: Yeah. And, She loves what she does. And it's like
- 47:04Speaker 1: breathing for her. But you also know that that's what
- 47:07Speaker 1: she does full time. But you're not poking fun at
- 47:10Speaker 1: her for that. So I thought that moment, honestly, and
- 47:13Speaker 1: I'm being very honest. I look back and said, hmm.
- 47:20Speaker 1: I now have a better understanding of Vicky.
- 47:24Speaker 3: And I see why. Some of Vicki and you.
- 47:27Speaker 4: I do see your, you know, I've known you a
- 47:29Speaker 4: few years now, so it's not like you're a new friend,
- 47:31Speaker 4: but I do see how you put your social life
- 47:35Speaker 4: a little bit more on pause and your work is
- 47:38Speaker 4: kind of your number one. And I feel like any
- 47:40Speaker 4: boyfriend you have has to understand that, and either they
- 47:43Speaker 4: get it or they don't. And I think that's what's
- 47:47Speaker 4: hard for America to be viewing with Vicki right now.
- 47:49Speaker 3: She's always been this way. She has not changed. It
- 47:51Speaker 3: was this way back when we were filming seasons five
- 47:53Speaker 3: through eight. Did she... Did she get on her laptop
- 47:56Speaker 3: on the car rides?
- 47:57Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 47:58Speaker 3: Did she make phone calls for work on the car rides?
- 48:00Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 48:00Speaker 4: One of the scenes she even, like my phone was
- 48:03Speaker 4: ringing loud, like was actually ringing. And she's like, girl,
- 48:06Speaker 4: turn your ringer off because we're all working here. And
- 48:09Speaker 4: you have to turn your ringer off when you're in
- 48:10Speaker 4: the van and we're all going somewhere.
- 48:11Speaker 3: And I'm like, oh, okay, sorry.
- 48:13Speaker 4: Didn't know that tip, but okay, got it. She's working
- 48:16Speaker 4: as we're getting from point A to point B. And
- 48:18Speaker 4: I don't blame her for that. Do I think it
- 48:19Speaker 4: is part of her identity?
- 48:20Speaker 1: Yes.
- 48:21Speaker 3: And this is, I'm not talking bad about her. This
- 48:22Speaker 3: is the things I would say to her face. And
- 48:24Speaker 3: she knows this. I do think she's a workaholic.
- 48:26Speaker 4: I don't think there's anything wrong with that as long
- 48:28Speaker 4: as the people around her who love her know that.
- 48:31Speaker 3: Do I think the girls are right that they wish
- 48:32Speaker 3: she would find a little bit of balance?
- 48:34Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 48:35Speaker 4: But if you're like right now for you, Carlos, you're
- 48:37Speaker 4: in the height of your career. You haven't decided you
- 48:40Speaker 4: want to settle down and take a.
- 48:41Speaker 3: Step back yet. You are just like full throttle. Let's go.
- 48:44Speaker 3: I think for the women, because Vicky is what, 20
- 48:46Speaker 3: years older than you.
- 48:47Speaker 4: I think the women are kind of saying, babe, pull
- 48:50Speaker 4: back a little and, and enjoy, kind of start to
- 48:52Speaker 4: enjoy life a little bit and put your, you know,
- 48:54Speaker 4: find the balance where for you, I don't think you're
- 48:56Speaker 4: there yet because you're, you do have 20 more years
- 48:58Speaker 4: of just like go.
- 48:59Speaker 3: And then you're going to be like, put a fork
- 49:01Speaker 3: in me.
- 49:01Speaker 2: I'm done.
- 49:01Speaker 4: I want to now go retire and be on the
- 49:03Speaker 4: beach with my, my boat, you know? So I don't
- 49:06Speaker 4: think anything's wrong. And I didn't take it that way
- 49:08Speaker 4: either that they're poking at her. I think they were
- 49:09Speaker 4: just looking like, let's try to get her to put
- 49:12Speaker 4: her computer down for one minute.
- 49:15Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I, and again, it's how she feels and
- 49:19Speaker 1: I understand that because if I have friends saying, it's funny,
- 49:23Speaker 1: I have friends in the business, like you have friends
- 49:26Speaker 1: who are reality stars. And one of the tough things
- 49:30Speaker 1: about doing these recaps is separating the two, right? And
- 49:36Speaker 1: I used to have friends say to me, well, I
- 49:41Speaker 1: don't want to talk about it with you because, you know,
- 49:43Speaker 1: you made me.
- 49:44Speaker 2: And I'm like, what are you talking about?
- 49:47Speaker 1: Like, I would never disclose anything you talk about me
- 49:51Speaker 1: in private. And I usually get offended by that, like,
- 49:54Speaker 1: but we're friends and we're talking as friends.
- 50:00Speaker 2: I will never repeat it.
- 50:00Speaker 1: But So that's my only way of relating to her
- 50:03Speaker 1: in the sense of, not that they poked fun at it,
- 50:06Speaker 1: but they took my job as a way of saying, well,
- 50:10Speaker 1: you know, it does interfere with our friendship. Like Vicky's
- 50:14Speaker 1: laptop interferes with her making friends with these women.
- 50:18Speaker 3: Such a good analogy. Keep going.
- 50:20Speaker 1: So I do get it. And I appreciated that Vicky... Oh,
- 50:27Speaker 1: this made me so sad for her. When she said
- 50:29Speaker 1: she felt less than.
- 50:30Speaker 2: Uh-huh.
- 50:33Speaker 1: As a woman, because, you know, she feels like if
- 50:39Speaker 1: her and Don, her first husband, ex-husband, did not leave Chicago,
- 50:45Speaker 1: they would still be together. And how she, and again,
- 50:49Speaker 1: the honesty of, and you know this, being a part
- 50:53Speaker 1: of Bravo and part of Housewives, how unfortunately it does
- 50:58Speaker 1: happen to the best of them. This machine does create
- 51:05Speaker 1: this identity for yourself. And you're sometimes chasing that, but
- 51:11Speaker 1: abandoning home. Mm-hmm.
- 51:15Speaker 2: That was, that honesty, I was like, I have no notes. Like, Vicky, in.
- 51:20Speaker 1: This episode, again, me and Alexis go per episode. I,
- 51:25Speaker 1: Carlos King, was saying this episode, I have never felt
- 51:29Speaker 1: so sad for Vicky ever.
- 51:32Speaker 2: Thank you.
- 51:33Speaker 4: And another aspect that I want the viewers to think
- 51:35Speaker 4: about that I don't think anyone even really thought about
- 51:37Speaker 4: is Vicki said she's lonely and that Mike travels five
- 51:43Speaker 4: days a week. OK, he's got to be getting close
- 51:46Speaker 4: to retirement also. Maybe not, because I mean, they do
- 51:48Speaker 4: say that the minute anyone retires, it kind of, you know,
- 51:51Speaker 4: unless they have a big hobby or something that they're
- 51:52Speaker 4: really into gardening or Bible studies or whatever. you know, volunteering, whatever,
- 51:57Speaker 4: that you kind of are slowly going to die then
- 51:59Speaker 4: because you don't have something to get up for in
- 52:00Speaker 4: the morning.
- 52:01Speaker 3: So I don't know about retiring ever either.
- 52:03Speaker 4: But what people aren't thinking about is the fact that
- 52:06Speaker 4: she said she's so lonely.
- 52:07Speaker 3: Mike travels five days a week.
- 52:09Speaker 4: I feel like if her partner didn't travel and she
- 52:12Speaker 4: had Dawn, she wouldn't dive so much into work.
- 52:15Speaker 3: I think work keeps her from being lonely.
- 52:17Speaker 4: So it's kind of like a double-edged sword for her
- 52:19Speaker 4: because it's like, okay, if I stop working, then I'm
- 52:21Speaker 4: going to sit around.
- 52:21Speaker 3: I'm going to be even more lonely.
- 52:23Speaker 4: Work is what keeps me fulfilled when my husband, my
- 52:25Speaker 4: boyfriend's traveling, you know, my kids are gone. So I
- 52:28Speaker 4: feel like she just doesn't have things to fill her day,
- 52:30Speaker 4: except her work. So it is her identity in some ways.
- 52:32Speaker 4: And it's sad, but I loved her vulnerability that she's.
- 52:35Speaker 5: Honest about it.
- 52:36Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 52:37Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 52:38Speaker 4: And I think of her and her boyfriend both stopped
- 52:42Speaker 4: working so much and just really started finding hobbies together.
- 52:44Speaker 3: Like today, we're going to do a bike ride tomorrow.
- 52:46Speaker 4: We're going to do this, but they're both, they both
- 52:47Speaker 4: seem very invested in their work. And then the relationship
- 52:51Speaker 4: is second priority.
- 52:52Speaker 1: And that's why the best relationships, in my opinion, to me,
- 52:55Speaker 1: based on what I've seen being a producer, I think
- 52:59Speaker 1: relationships are hard when both parties are full-time, 24-7. So
- 53:05Speaker 1: you need.
- 53:08Speaker 3: One workhorse and one that can be like there, you know.
- 53:11Speaker 2: Yeah, there needs to be a balance.
- 53:13Speaker 1: I don't think relationships work where both are like, working.
- 53:20Speaker 2: 50 hours a week. You're not going to see each other.
- 53:23Speaker 1: So it makes sense. I think Vicky needs somebody. I
- 53:28Speaker 1: think Vicky's man needs to be retired.
- 53:33Speaker 2: You know?
- 53:33Speaker 1: And she's at that age where she's able to meet
- 53:37Speaker 1: somebody around her age, over 65, that's retired, live a
- 53:40Speaker 1: great life.
- 53:41Speaker 2: One of my girlfriends, you know, she's dating this guy, well,
- 53:44Speaker 2: lots of guys, but one of the guys she's dating.
- 53:48Speaker 2: I love my girl.
- 53:49Speaker 1: She's he's in his fifties, I think. And he's retired.
- 53:53Speaker 1: And he's like, let's just, he's always like, you want
- 53:56Speaker 1: to go up to Europe? She's like, okay.
- 54:01Speaker 2: And he's like, come with me. I have to go
- 54:03Speaker 2: to like Connecticut to see my sister. And she's like,
- 54:07Speaker 2: all right.
- 54:08Speaker 1: You know, like you, you, I think at that age group,
- 54:13Speaker 1: you can't have both of you guys work very much. And,
- 54:18Speaker 1: I feel bad for Vicky with that situation. Tamara did
- 54:21Speaker 1: such a great job opening up. I'm sorry, having Vicky
- 54:26Speaker 1: feel comfortable opening up. When she says she believes Vicky
- 54:30Speaker 1: is still healing from what she.
- 54:32Speaker 2: Went through with Brooks.
- 54:34Speaker 1: And that explains why she walks around on eggshells with Mike.
- 54:39Speaker 1: I agree 100%. I think Vicky, listen, I don't know
- 54:44Speaker 1: what it's like to be in my 60s. and trying
- 54:48Speaker 1: to get it right with a man. I think it's
- 54:50Speaker 1: like we've talked about with Carmella and Danny. When you
- 54:52Speaker 1: meet somebody, you do weigh at a certain age, you're
- 54:56Speaker 1: sort of like pros and cons. And I think Vicky's like,
- 55:00Speaker 1: I just don't want another breakup at this age.
- 55:04Speaker 2: I get it. I get it. I get that too.
- 55:06Speaker 4: But at the same time, it's like, but if a
- 55:09Speaker 4: relationship is so much struggle, Like it should just be
- 55:13Speaker 4: easy when you meet the person you're supposed to be with.
- 55:15Speaker 4: It should just be easy. It shouldn't be like there's
- 55:19Speaker 4: this strain. So I just that's what I wish for her.
- 55:23Speaker 4: And Mike, I do think that they're good together. I
- 55:26Speaker 4: haven't got to meet him, but I've watched I've heard
- 55:28Speaker 4: the other women who are when we're actually talking in front,
- 55:31Speaker 4: not in front of a television camera, like we're just real,
- 55:34Speaker 4: like living your life, that they do have a good relationship.
- 55:37Speaker 3: They are very much in love.
- 55:39Speaker 4: So I do think that the show is putting a
- 55:41Speaker 4: stress on their relationship because I think he's more private
- 55:44Speaker 4: from what I'm gathering from watching and also from what
- 55:46Speaker 4: I'm hearing.
- 55:48Speaker 3: But I also think that they can get over that hurdle.
- 55:50Speaker 4: I just wish that their relationship didn't seem so stressed.
- 55:55Speaker 4: And I do think that her knee plays a lot
- 55:56Speaker 4: of this because she's in agony right now, even now.
- 55:59Speaker 4: And she just had that nanosurgery, you know, and all that.
- 56:03Speaker 4: I'm not speaking anything I shouldn't speak about. But, you know,
- 56:06Speaker 4: she's still in a lot of pain.
- 56:07Speaker 3: It's not. I just feel for her. And that's why
- 56:10Speaker 3: I'm glad.
- 56:11Speaker 4: I'm really glad, like you said, that they had that scene.
- 56:13Speaker 4: Tamara and her had a really authentic, vulnerable, real scene.
- 56:18Speaker 4: Not something produced because she felt that she was reading
- 56:21Speaker 4: all the comments.
- 56:22Speaker 3: No, you're right.
- 56:23Speaker 2: This was real.
- 56:24Speaker 3: There were no comments out yet because the show hadn't
- 56:26Speaker 3: aired yet.
- 56:27Speaker 2: No, it was real.
- 56:29Speaker 3: I agree with you.
- 56:31Speaker 2: It was real and I appreciate it. Great episode. I.
- 56:37Speaker 2: I really enjoyed it.
- 56:38Speaker 1: I don't know if it was because it was an
- 56:41Speaker 1: opportunity to see a different side of Vicky. But another
- 56:46Speaker 1: great episode that I really, really, really did enjoy. And
- 56:50Speaker 1: I'm looking forward to seeing more of this. So Alexis,
- 56:52Speaker 1: I feel like we're going to be entertained.
- 56:55Speaker 3: The rest of the season?
- 56:58Speaker 2: Especially when you pop up.
- 57:00Speaker 3: Oh, good God. who knows what that scene's even going
- 57:02Speaker 3: to be. I just can't wait.
- 57:03Speaker 4: I can't wait to be able to just.
- 57:07Speaker 3: Say the reality. So, well, yeah, stay tuned for that.
- 57:15Speaker 3: I might come with like sunglasses and a hat. So
- 57:17Speaker 3: I'm incognito on that, on that.
- 57:19Speaker 2: You're like, hold on, hold on, hold on. No, I'm
- 57:23Speaker 2: looking forward to that. Raindrops, let us know what you
- 57:26Speaker 2: thought about this episode on the comments. And we will
- 57:31Speaker 2: see you guys next Friday. Love you, Alexis. Have a
- 57:35Speaker 2: great weekend.
- 57:36Speaker 1: Bye. Bye, boo. Reality with the King is executive produced
- 57:43Speaker 1: by me, Carlos King, produced by Jamie Schaefer in partnership.
- 57:48Speaker 5: With the Black Effect Podcast Network.
- 57:50Speaker 1: You can also find us at our YouTube channel at
- 57:53Speaker 1: thecarlosking underscore.
- 57:55Speaker 5: I'm also dropping tons.
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