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Afrocandy - From Christian Mother to Only Fans · DidiLawren

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  Hello. Welcome back to another episode
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  of Vantage Lawrence have. For today's episode, I want to
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  talk about former Nollywood actress a fruit candy.
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  Now, our country recently released pictures of what she
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  used to look like when she was married and it was like, you
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  know, how your She was this proper Nigeria by read Kristen
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  model and put it away. She was proper.
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  Christian mother Africa, and the Mary Daly.
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  Actually she met her husband after University, they got
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  married, and she was leaving that Nigerian wife, you know,
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  the Christian model going to church going to meetings,
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  according to the story, she decided to go into acting just
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  like our duty of the married, her first husband, and you say,
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  You know what, let me district is calling me.
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  African decided to go into Hollywood, she's a she's
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  reacting and she did I mean she acted with Jay-Z Tom West my
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  Rooney like a whole lot of them. She was she was really doing
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  well and that point in time. So but high in those hey do you
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  know having it it's an African bee once we going you want to
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  live Christian mother and then that streets now.
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  Now, why would you want to do that now?
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  Why won't you just, you know, be a married woman being married,
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  you know, as a married woman, you're not even supposed to be
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  thinking about any of these things African.
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  He said, I know that she must say, it wasn't a street, so she
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  had two daughters, but the Murray did not work.
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  At the end of the day, she left her husband, and relocated to
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  the US. She said, she actually tried
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  according to the story, he should.
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  Really hard to raise her daughter's.
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  She did everything possible for them to give them a better life
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  and some of their graduates at this point.
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  But she said at that point, when they were settled African
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  discover the internet's, hey the wildness in Hakeem out African
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  was posting. She was he was, he was basically
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  hoid on line. I would do I would know if this
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  worked with that, she was posting Bond cheap.
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  Pictures videos. In fact, before only fans, there
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  was a frewcandy African decided, she created a website where she
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  was charging people or men, it was so happy with African DD
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  paid. They subscribe to see exclusive
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  content from Africa. And in fact, African did an
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  adult video or adult movie, then it was a she was she was born
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  in, he was bawling. So she has In on social media,
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  shall never change. She's just kind of person that
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  what you see is what you get based on what she's posting.
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  So African dear recently, released pictures of what you
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  used to look like when she was, you know, married, when she was
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  a Christian mother. When she was leaving, the
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  Nigerian married woman lifestyle, she was basically
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  thanking God for my life and Where she is now and the whole
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  thing. Now, looking at this picture,
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  the only thing I could take away from it is actually a very
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  positive thing because most Angela women, they think that
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  the the end goal is just to go to school, graduates, get
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  married. And leave the mother wife life.
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  Nobody wants to think outside the box.
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  Nobody wants to do anything. I mean, I mean so I'm not saying
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  Africans, An exotic good example, but I'm just saying
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  that there is life after marriage.
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  There is life after kids there is life.
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  Even after retirement, I mean people are retiring.
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  You know, people are living 80, 90 years and you're retiring in
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  seven. This is why you see people once
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  they retire in the next two years.
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  If you see them, you know, recognize them because they aged
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  10 years into in two Years of age 10 years because there's no
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  plan. I mean maybe they were thinking
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  okay before they get to 60 maybe they retire within a couple of
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  years, they will just die but that is no longer happening.
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  There is life. After retirement, there is life
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  after marriage, there is life. After kids the scene and when I
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  saw what African reposted and the things that she wrote about,
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  you can see People of her generation or people of our age,
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  meet that did not have much resources to work with those
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  ones. Now are just sitting there
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  waiting for their kids to give them money, you know, for Africa
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  and is just getting started. I mean it's not like I won't
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  forget about for candy but the lesson here is that just because
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  you're married those, no mean. Your dreams are not valid just
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  because you have children, does not mean you cannot whore if you
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  want. Yeah, I broke and is giving is
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  give it a lot of people run for their money if you want
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  internet. Even at that point, you know
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  about Mejia? Mahira?
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  Also, my Heda, she, if you look at her story, she came from a
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  very humble background. She got pregnant at the teenage
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  age when she was very young. So after she got pregnant, she
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  was now living from one, you know.
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  Squatting from one place to the other before she meets her
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  husband. So her husband is think German.
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  He came to Nigeria. She met him as one of these
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  joints. He married her and took her to
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  Germany, but my Heda because what she was doing in Nigeria
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  before she traveled, allegedly was runs.
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  So when she goes to Germany, although she's married.
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  So she couldn't express it all pages.
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  Especially, nobody knows. But she took to social media.
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  My heeda heeda bleach from White from black to white.
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  She was, and she was very fit, so, you can't even look at our
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  pictures. Are you be, like I was, is this
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  on like Africa? Did I be like, cover my heater?
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  You want to see my dad? I want to see, and this is
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  somebody here. You could argue.
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  That's okay. She married a white man who is
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  open to these things. She was living a best life
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  regardless. Of the situation that she was
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  dealt with. Even the daughter right now is
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  in her early 20s. She is a graduate.
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  She's living her life. And my heater is also living a
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  life, so many Nigerian women who get married, or who has
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  children. And because they think, okay,
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  this is it is the end of the road for me.
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  I can't do anything else. I can't even like my husband and
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  my children are now my, my life, my existence, so, they don't
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  even want to do anything. Thing that would disrupt that.
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  And if you have to disrupt that cycle to get to where you want
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  to be, I will not lie. I will shatter.
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  Its I will because these are the people that you see your age, Me
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  Taiwan dream, it will age 20 years older than you and you're
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  thinking, ah, this person just because they found them Elves in
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  situations, or they got married early, because then is like a
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  fin of a pride. Ah, I remember then after
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  Secondary School, some of them were getting married.
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  Secondary school. Like you see some of them now?
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  I will like, wow. Wow, like life life happens.
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  But even when life happens, try to find.
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  Try to break out of it. I'm not saying one whole, like
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  my idea, I'm not saying one whole like Africa, and d-bots,
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  you can do something even when Lee when you have lived, our
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  Christian model life when you have lived for your husband or
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  your children or your family, you can still do something for
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  yourself this life. Not be long.
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  Some people live 90 years, are you retire at 70?
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  So what are you going to do? For the next 20 years?
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  You're just going to sit down. And be using walking stick even
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  if you've made certain decisions or certain choices that does not
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  mean your life needs to just continue.
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  In that direction, you can always change.
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  You can always change your destiny.
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  You can always change your path, not in Africa, and you're my
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  HideAway, but it just shows that you can get to do something for
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  yourself by yourself. Anyway, I just wanted to talk
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  about this because these are the people that On the streets of
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  Instagram in 2014. 2015 anyway, that is allowed to say for today
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  about African D and my de, we wish them all the best we shall
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  probably happiness. As long as you're happy doing
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  what you're doing and it's bringing you fulfillments, keep
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  it going, keep it going. So thank you very much.
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  Please like like, like and share.
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  Thank you very much. Bye, bye.