Latest / We Talk Back / Ep. 5 "Hoe'ing Doesn't Heal" feat KasFacts

Transcript

Ep. 5 "Hoe'ing Doesn't Heal" feat KasFacts · We Talk Back

0:03
Speaker 1: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion too
0:07
Speaker 1: talked Back. Thank you guys for tuning in for a
0:12
Speaker 1: new episode of We Talked Back. It's your girl a
0:15
Speaker 1: j Hey, y'alls, Tim Bam, I missed you. That's the
0:19
Speaker 1: voice you want to use. Hey, y'all, Hey y'all, Hey y'all.
0:27
Speaker 1: Do how y'all Valentine's davin? All right? We want to
0:30
Speaker 1: know email us tell me how you did that? Gone
0:33
Speaker 1: four thousand over the weekend for a teddy bear? How's
0:39
Speaker 1: your Valentine's? My Valentine's was good. I spent it in St. Thomas.
0:43
Speaker 1: That's the first time on to St. Thomas. Is a
0:45
Speaker 1: beautiful island. We smoked it like weed because it's damned illegal.
0:50
Speaker 1: Next is smoking weed at the airport. Bitch. He was
0:53
Speaker 1: looking all like sun kiss and stuff. Girl was all out.
0:58
Speaker 1: I was like, let this big. Ain't she's shaking them
1:04
Speaker 1: in the microphone y'all for y'all. Yeah, haven't got I
1:07
Speaker 1: ain't got no titties for that. He's gonna be stabbing
1:11
Speaker 1: me in my teeth in the summertime. You know, my
1:16
Speaker 1: titty is used to really stink, and they just don't
1:20
Speaker 1: know more like, so I ordering under these titties and
1:28
Speaker 1: between them and underneath them. That's how that's a sign
1:31
Speaker 1: you got a big because mine don't like cup under it.
1:38
Speaker 1: Tempoo's our black history batty for the week. Our Black
1:41
Speaker 1: history batty this week is Bessie string Field. She was
1:46
Speaker 1: a badass bit since rode her motorcycle all over the
1:50
Speaker 1: United States in the nineteen thirties, and since was only
1:53
Speaker 1: nineteen years old. Now this is during the time where
1:56
Speaker 1: streets weren't paved, there were dirt rolls, that there were
1:59
Speaker 1: rolls at all. She had to face oppression and prejudice
2:02
Speaker 1: based on being black and a woman. But she said,
2:05
Speaker 1: you know what funk that, I'm gonna do what I
2:07
Speaker 1: wanna do, and what I wanna do is robing my god,
2:10
Speaker 1: damn Harley. She lived by a simple credo. What I
2:13
Speaker 1: did was fun and I loved it. She would navigate
2:16
Speaker 1: through all these different challenges, like there wouldn't be places
2:19
Speaker 1: for her to stay at night, and she would sleep
2:22
Speaker 1: on the back of her bike and her jacket would
2:24
Speaker 1: be her pillow. She would sleep at gas stations because
2:26
Speaker 1: they wouldn't let her sleep in hotels or nothing. Since
2:28
Speaker 1: got married six times she was not playing like all right,
2:32
Speaker 1: thank you yes. And then she also eventually became like
2:39
Speaker 1: a dispatcher for the army, so she would use her
2:42
Speaker 1: bike and dispatched messages from base to base on her bike. So,
2:47
Speaker 1: Bessie string Field, you were a battie who talked back.
2:51
Speaker 1: We salute you and we celebrate you since. So let
2:55
Speaker 1: me tell y'all what happened without Nika. It was so
2:59
Speaker 1: cold and without I. But I, you know, I have
3:01
Speaker 1: to stick to my guns and do what I say
3:03
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do. So when outside my building, right across
3:07
Speaker 1: the street of some houses, and I went to the
3:09
Speaker 1: very first house, there was a white house, and I
3:13
Speaker 1: thought about Donald Trump in the White House, and I
3:16
Speaker 1: got angry. So I walked up to the house and
3:18
Speaker 1: I just and I took off, running fast as I could.
3:23
Speaker 1: And then this little agent lady right now, he's like,
3:25
Speaker 1: what the funny are you're doing? She had a knife.
3:29
Speaker 1: She started running behind me, and it was so crazy
3:32
Speaker 1: that like, so I ran through the gate. I know
3:37
Speaker 1: your mom used to beat your ask for line. What
3:39
Speaker 1: are you talking about? He may have that big collaborator
3:42
Speaker 1: story that quet that's good you up, because I was
3:48
Speaker 1: about to tell you red oh finished, finish, please finish.
3:50
Speaker 1: So she ran behind me. She had the knife like this,
3:52
Speaker 1: like you know, she had a pointing down so she
3:54
Speaker 1: was like running with it. Accident was moving fast. Yeah,
3:58
Speaker 1: I was gone. I was looking back, but I was running.
4:01
Speaker 1: She stabbed herself in the thigh and she's like, I
4:03
Speaker 1: don't know. So I came back because I felt bad
4:06
Speaker 1: for her because I started to shoot with her. So
4:08
Speaker 1: I came back and then I called. I was like,
4:11
Speaker 1: that went where I need help? This Asian lady stabbed herself,
4:13
Speaker 1: So ambulade came. The amblams came and picked her up.
4:19
Speaker 1: When we her to the hospital, her husband came met
4:21
Speaker 1: me there, gave me reward money for helping her. And
4:24
Speaker 1: that's how I bought the food that the spirits that
4:27
Speaker 1: we ate it. What the bitch da how she gave
4:35
Speaker 1: me likes. You are an amazing storyteller. That's quick off
4:43
Speaker 1: the dome with the lives. Yeah, I didn't go. Don't
4:46
Speaker 1: trust this bitch. That was too cold. I didn't go
4:49
Speaker 1: out there. I stayed in the house and watched Oh,
4:52
Speaker 1: I watched that movie Judas and the Black Messiah Girl.
4:57
Speaker 1: I was in here pacing the floor, mad as hell.
4:59
Speaker 1: What you want to do, We'll be a nigga knocking
5:01
Speaker 1: fights and white people. I want to fight some black people. Oh,
5:04
Speaker 1: I didn't see it, so I want to. Yeah, it
5:07
Speaker 1: was like this one nigga who just was always one nigga.
5:10
Speaker 1: I always want juice. There's always one nigga, you know.
5:12
Speaker 1: But then I wanted to fight white people today. The
5:14
Speaker 1: way they killed Fred Hampton, it's just they shot him up.
5:18
Speaker 1: They shot up his bedroom with him and his his baby. Mama.
5:22
Speaker 1: She know she she got shot though. She took she
5:26
Speaker 1: took it. You know. I can't watch movies like that,
5:28
Speaker 1: Like I gotta really brace myself and really like it
5:31
Speaker 1: stirs my soul and I feel like a lot of
5:34
Speaker 1: it is just like to get us riled up, and
5:36
Speaker 1: y'all niggas ain't gonna do it anyway. From I'm an
5:38
Speaker 1: organizer that I am. Yeah, I want to organize the
5:41
Speaker 1: real niggas, right, that's where real nigger. But you need
5:45
Speaker 1: soldiers and you need organizers, and you need people that
5:48
Speaker 1: just be on the back lines just doing making sure
5:51
Speaker 1: she is situated because I can't be in the front
5:54
Speaker 1: with the guns. I don't think I'm that woman. You
5:56
Speaker 1: come to my house now, I'm gonna be at the
5:58
Speaker 1: front with the guns. Yea, at your house. Yeah, but
6:00
Speaker 1: in the march down the street, I don't even know
6:02
Speaker 1: if marching is really like it. Don't do nothing with that.
6:06
Speaker 1: White people only respect, disrespect and money, nuns and if
6:14
Speaker 1: they feel slighted any type of way, this country will
6:16
Speaker 1: feel it. But for whatever reason, we can continuously, you know,
6:20
Speaker 1: just get spit in the face and we keep marching.
6:24
Speaker 1: Our leader has gone down. Anytime we like build super
6:28
Speaker 1: infrastructure like Tolsa, Oklahoma, they destroy it. Like it's just
6:32
Speaker 1: countless times where we've tried to rise up and it
6:35
Speaker 1: has just been completely destroyed. We have great leaders. They
6:38
Speaker 1: take them from us, but we helped them times oftentimes.
6:41
Speaker 1: Again there's a judas who helps take our great people down. Yeah,
6:47
Speaker 1: because a lot of times everybody wants to be the
6:49
Speaker 1: chief Indians. You have to be an Indian. Some people
6:53
Speaker 1: are born chief, some people are born leaders to be
6:57
Speaker 1: that way. Yes, everybody isn't born that way, and that's
6:59
Speaker 1: that's what creates a hater. They just can't be who
7:04
Speaker 1: that nigga is because I couldn't be a safe Thomas
7:07
Speaker 1: this weekend. Now she's bloting to see my fucking bracelet,
7:12
Speaker 1: and I sleep. She got this cute bracelet on, y'all,
7:15
Speaker 1: and she spending the night. I'm gonna get her drunk
7:18
Speaker 1: a little costume jewelry. It's so cute, though, Why you
7:21
Speaker 1: didn't buy me one when you bought it. I know
7:23
Speaker 1: I'm not that type of friend. I always I want
7:26
Speaker 1: to try to be that friend, y'all by just be
7:28
Speaker 1: so sweet, may just be so sweet. I'm just not
7:33
Speaker 1: that thoughtful. I don't even be thinking like maybe I
7:36
Speaker 1: am a little bit selfish. I'm gonna work on that.
7:38
Speaker 1: The next time you go into t J Max and
7:40
Speaker 1: you see a cute little bracelet like that, you got it, friends,
7:44
Speaker 1: I'm gonna work on that. Now. I got to send
7:47
Speaker 1: all my friends so cute ship, because I ship. Tammy
7:52
Speaker 1: always got like a light, a little cute, little thoughtful
7:55
Speaker 1: little book to write some And here's a grand book
7:58
Speaker 1: I bought for you. It right down everything you're grateful for.
8:04
Speaker 1: I did one time and never again, not again, because
8:07
Speaker 1: one day I just meditated and I just came to
8:10
Speaker 1: and I'm like, you know what the book was there?
8:12
Speaker 1: I wrote some stuff down and that was speaking of
8:15
Speaker 1: meditation session. Um well, not necessarily meditation manifestation. Did you
8:21
Speaker 1: see what's been going around VI Simone the video she
8:24
Speaker 1: made and went viral, and she was like, basically, be
8:27
Speaker 1: the nigga you want, Like if you asking for a
8:30
Speaker 1: man that has all these different qualities, you know, trying
8:33
Speaker 1: to fulfill those qualities in yourself. Absolutely, I don't even
8:38
Speaker 1: understand why, because it forces you to have self accountability.
8:42
Speaker 1: She didn't say anything wrong, you know what I'm saying. Well,
8:46
Speaker 1: and you talk to your mama and U right, you
8:49
Speaker 1: got other people in your life not that thing too,
8:51
Speaker 1: or you're not that thing to yourself. Most importantly, I
8:54
Speaker 1: agree with her. I want to talk to her about
8:57
Speaker 1: it because she got a new nigger. Right, Yeah, they're
9:00
Speaker 1: looking really good and happy and look they're just gett
9:03
Speaker 1: a new nigga. Now it's like different on the on
9:05
Speaker 1: the single Home Girls. That's why them just mad you
9:09
Speaker 1: you wait till you got a nigga. Now you telling
9:11
Speaker 1: us why we ain't got a nigga. That's what it is.
9:16
Speaker 1: That's but that I think that's an old video. It's
9:20
Speaker 1: just going it's recirculating. You are who you beat, so
9:25
Speaker 1: all right, there's a lot of women who would be like,
9:27
Speaker 1: I never had a good man. All these niggas ain't ship.
9:29
Speaker 1: It's just just not true. If every man you suck
9:32
Speaker 1: with ain't ship, chances are you probably ain't. Yes, you're attracting,
9:39
Speaker 1: and I feel like I mean, I've attracted plenty men
9:42
Speaker 1: that were shipped. I just didn't like them, and you know,
9:44
Speaker 1: and I struggled to struggle relationship with somebody else to
9:47
Speaker 1: get them to be like these people I had. I
9:50
Speaker 1: think my issue and I need to unpack and I
9:52
Speaker 1: need to discover what's wrong with me. Is I love
9:56
Speaker 1: men that are unattainable for whatever reason. I body's husband,
10:01
Speaker 1: so you' y'all beat you shut up, Hey, but your
10:03
Speaker 1: boyfriend and they married. But yeah, I just like things
10:12
Speaker 1: that I can't have for some reason. Or I like
10:15
Speaker 1: men that are emotionally unavailable because maybe I'm it's a challenge.
10:19
Speaker 1: That's why men women always want to try and fix
10:23
Speaker 1: and ship. We're nurturing, nurturing. Yes, you get this. You're
10:28
Speaker 1: in love with the thought of being in love or
10:31
Speaker 1: having this person love you the same way that you
10:33
Speaker 1: think you should be being loved. But you the problem
10:37
Speaker 1: is you have to find somebody that has the same
10:39
Speaker 1: definition of love as you do, because just because they
10:43
Speaker 1: have somebody else and you may feel like you like
10:45
Speaker 1: him because they're on the tentable. Maybe that's the type
10:48
Speaker 1: of person every woman is going to get. He's never
10:50
Speaker 1: going to be any different. That's he shows his love
10:53
Speaker 1: that way to many different women. It's very well possible.
10:57
Speaker 1: Excuse me, we'd be like just trying to get that
11:03
Speaker 1: person to act, like how do you want them to act?
11:05
Speaker 1: You're supposed to experience as soon as they act like that,
11:10
Speaker 1: do you really want that man once the woman leaves him?
11:15
Speaker 1: Like see friends, you meet a guy right and he
11:18
Speaker 1: somehow either he tells you up front or you find
11:20
Speaker 1: out later on, and he has an old lady, do
11:22
Speaker 1: you really want him as his old lady leaves his ass?
11:25
Speaker 1: Sometimes I know people that are in relationships that started
11:28
Speaker 1: that way, though got a whole family. Would haven that
11:31
Speaker 1: she took from another woman. I don't think he's taken
11:33
Speaker 1: because well, he left, he was ready to go, because
11:37
Speaker 1: the home record is the motherfucker's in the home. But
11:40
Speaker 1: at the same time, I don't know if I would
11:42
Speaker 1: like I'm like Olivia Polk, I like the unavailable. You fits,
11:46
Speaker 1: that's what she's so fit to remember. You didn't watch,
11:48
Speaker 1: But what is that? Maybe maybe that's something you may
11:51
Speaker 1: be able to find out in therapy. I need to
11:53
Speaker 1: see a therapist about that, because there's plenty of eligible
11:57
Speaker 1: men that which I want to talk about this. Why
12:03
Speaker 1: none of y'all nigga sent me no flowers? You love
12:08
Speaker 1: me so much with my d M, but you didn't
12:11
Speaker 1: send me no goddamn flowers? Did you? For some of them? Yes?
12:15
Speaker 1: I did, But let me tell you that the flowers
12:18
Speaker 1: didn't come neither, will you, nigga? Keep it moving? You
12:25
Speaker 1: know I'm fumbled the pussy and that's not Mary had
12:28
Speaker 1: a little lambage because that's so small flowers. What sixty
12:32
Speaker 1: dollars at the most that's a small gesture to flowers
12:37
Speaker 1: is more than sixty dollars girls a nice ones. So now,
12:40
Speaker 1: amongst celebrities, especially, gifting has become like a war. They
12:44
Speaker 1: get on social media and they try to outdo each
12:47
Speaker 1: other when it comes to gifts. I don't even know
12:49
Speaker 1: if it's about the person anymore. It's about making it
12:52
Speaker 1: look good for the ground, that's all it is. Because
12:54
Speaker 1: y'all gonna get that same dick. You don't get that
12:57
Speaker 1: same pussy tonight. Y'all keep buying each other stuff, Yeah,
13:01
Speaker 1: big stuff. Did you see Like there's the R and
13:04
Speaker 1: the Future had like the matching uh necklaces. I didn't
13:07
Speaker 1: see that, just that. I mean it's cute. I try
13:10
Speaker 1: Future trying to be a better man. No, he didn't
13:12
Speaker 1: do that for all. I hope Laurie ran his ass
13:16
Speaker 1: to death, and I hope she really about it. And
13:19
Speaker 1: I was like, now, yeah, let me go get me
13:21
Speaker 1: a nice whole movie star. And then with rap stars,
13:25
Speaker 1: why athletes, I'm just gonna get this movie star. Yeah,
13:28
Speaker 1: because Michael B. Jordan he hadn't really been with that
13:30
Speaker 1: many people that we know. I don't remember anybody he's girls.
13:35
Speaker 1: He was, you know, always around a lot of white women.
13:39
Speaker 1: So she probably got his ass all the way together.
13:42
Speaker 1: Bring him all home, Laurie. That seasons vagina on him. Laurie. So,
13:51
Speaker 1: speaking of therapy, so I posted hoeing doesn't heal, and
13:55
Speaker 1: there were a lot of women that banks are different
13:58
Speaker 1: sexual healing. Babe. It's a real thing, this is, but
14:04
Speaker 1: it doesn't. You can't detain away. I don't feel like
14:07
Speaker 1: you can. I try so like if you're single and
14:10
Speaker 1: I don't even want to stay single, Like let's stay
14:12
Speaker 1: For instance, you're in a relationship and your man cheats
14:15
Speaker 1: on you, Do you go out and cheat? Do you
14:17
Speaker 1: go cheat back as for get back or do you
14:19
Speaker 1: just leave? What should a woman do? Because that would
14:22
Speaker 1: be one reason the wing howing doesn't heal. So you're
14:26
Speaker 1: healing from or trying to heal from a heartbreak, right
14:29
Speaker 1: and you got this nigg in the pocket somewhere in
14:31
Speaker 1: the back pocket you're ready for me to get in
14:38
Speaker 1: a game, Like do you let him jump in the
14:41
Speaker 1: game just because your man cheated on you? Are you
14:44
Speaker 1: gonna be fulfilled after just letting somebody else use your
14:47
Speaker 1: pussy or you just be like now you feed it
14:50
Speaker 1: for new dick. After that, you might be opening up
14:53
Speaker 1: the floodgates, the dick gates. Women, hoeing does not hell
15:00
Speaker 1: because at the end of the day, you're just letting
15:03
Speaker 1: somebody else use your vagina. No, so you got to
15:06
Speaker 1: stop thinking about your vagina in terms of someone using it.
15:10
Speaker 1: You it's yours, so you use it how you want to.
15:12
Speaker 1: You don't let them use it. You use their dick,
15:15
Speaker 1: not use your vagina. But you literally letting somebody go
15:19
Speaker 1: inside your body. Right, so because you choose it. Though,
15:23
Speaker 1: because you choose it, you take you when you say
15:26
Speaker 1: that giving them power over your vagina. No, your vagina
15:30
Speaker 1: has the power and you're using it how you want
15:32
Speaker 1: to use it. But would you use that dick if
15:34
Speaker 1: we want to put it that way, what you use
15:37
Speaker 1: that dick? If the dick you want? Would you be
15:41
Speaker 1: using that dick? Carently not exactly, but sometimes it's important
15:46
Speaker 1: to you know, Let's say you're going through a breakup
15:49
Speaker 1: and it's over. Sometimes that a b dick is like
15:53
Speaker 1: good to get through and what if you're just what
15:55
Speaker 1: if you just sucking a bunch of different people after
15:57
Speaker 1: this breakup? As long as you're doing it was possibly
16:00
Speaker 1: and safe. You know, you're a grown woman. I don't
16:03
Speaker 1: agree with transferrent energy like that with so many people.
16:07
Speaker 1: But if you decide to do that, that's your parogative.
16:09
Speaker 1: You wrong, Like, I'm not mad, but it's not going
16:12
Speaker 1: to heal you from the pain. I feel it's gonna
16:15
Speaker 1: cause it may cause more turmoil because just like you
16:19
Speaker 1: just said, all these different energies, if you're already in
16:22
Speaker 1: a down place, you don't know what these other people
16:25
Speaker 1: doing in life for real everything they may be going
16:27
Speaker 1: through it. So hopefully you're using a condom if you
16:29
Speaker 1: just on a fucking whole rampage right quick, because all
16:33
Speaker 1: you're doing is letting these people ejaculate that energy off
16:37
Speaker 1: into your room. So now you're really trying to figure
16:39
Speaker 1: out why the fun you feel just so discombobulated. It's
16:42
Speaker 1: because you got all the stressed and men want to
16:45
Speaker 1: beat the pussy up. They're relieving their stress onto you.
16:48
Speaker 1: So there's no way you can heal from just having
16:51
Speaker 1: fribulous sex. I hadn't learn that they're like one consistent
16:56
Speaker 1: dick in my life. Now. I was a situation where
16:58
Speaker 1: I distressed. Right, you're a single, single, you got like
17:02
Speaker 1: two you might be fucking around with okay, but just
17:05
Speaker 1: going going on a whole rampage, like really real life holing.
17:10
Speaker 1: Unless that's what you do for a money, Yes, unless
17:14
Speaker 1: that's what you're doing for a living, What are you
17:15
Speaker 1: doing it for? You're hurting you? Like you know, women
17:18
Speaker 1: will like let's say, so when they love dies, they
17:20
Speaker 1: start sucking everybody. They're going through a breakup or they're
17:24
Speaker 1: dealing with some type of trauma that has it's a
17:27
Speaker 1: release for some women. They just want to feel good,
17:31
Speaker 1: but it's only momentarily. Then then after you come then
17:35
Speaker 1: all whatever you're suffering, do you really want to dick
17:38
Speaker 1: or do you want somebody to be there for you?
17:40
Speaker 1: Because after these men have sex with you and then
17:42
Speaker 1: they leave will and like and they fuck you through
17:47
Speaker 1: the jeans, they pass, they do anything. You don't kiss you,
17:54
Speaker 1: you know, rubbing you, He don't love on you, and
17:56
Speaker 1: you just get dick. I don't want that. I like
18:00
Speaker 1: affection moding dick me too. I love like that type
18:04
Speaker 1: of intimacy, like rubbing, kissing me for nothing, just to
18:07
Speaker 1: rob me your dick cross mask while I'm cooking. I
18:09
Speaker 1: like it like that and spitting my mouth and ship
18:11
Speaker 1: excuse me, but nigga, like grab you body, nick and
18:16
Speaker 1: choke the ship out of you and call your dirty
18:18
Speaker 1: bitch and then spin your mouth. No, not your name.
18:22
Speaker 1: I saw it on a video. I don't know, so no,
18:26
Speaker 1: I got a home world. That's her specialty. She liked
18:30
Speaker 1: the choke. I like choking. It just made me feel
18:34
Speaker 1: like so dominant, Like shut the fuck? What the that's
18:39
Speaker 1: that wrong? Man? Energy? You got hold on before we
18:42
Speaker 1: get into anything else let's pay some bills real quick.
18:50
Speaker 1: Back to the topic at hand. Does holy actually makes
18:54
Speaker 1: you feel good momentarily? It was brief. After you come,
18:58
Speaker 1: you come to your sense. Well, my niece first became
19:01
Speaker 1: sexually active. I bought her a vibrator to try and
19:05
Speaker 1: save her from some of the heartache that you you're
19:08
Speaker 1: going through, all these different people just sucking. I'm trying
19:10
Speaker 1: to find somebody who actually loves you, just to save
19:13
Speaker 1: you some of that heartache. Bitch. Come and go to
19:15
Speaker 1: sleep by yourself. Yes, have no orgasm. Go to sleep, earl.
19:20
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. I'm a firm believer, and
19:22
Speaker 1: come by yourself. Yes, I kind of, let's listen. So,
19:27
Speaker 1: but sometimes the vibrator will suck you up for other
19:29
Speaker 1: people though, because the machine can do ship that can't do.
19:33
Speaker 1: No man in five minutes quick, hey, look, no sweat,
19:37
Speaker 1: no hassle, no breathing on you. I like to take
19:41
Speaker 1: like for like fifteen minutes and then masturbate and see
19:45
Speaker 1: if I like, if I fall straight to sleep like
19:47
Speaker 1: well melatonin, wait till I get like real tired and
19:51
Speaker 1: masturbating smoke. I feel like when I when I masturbate, Hi,
19:54
Speaker 1: you take me a long time to come. Really, Yes,
19:57
Speaker 1: it's like my brain because i'd be thinking about all
19:59
Speaker 1: type ship when I'm high, like bitches the earth talking
20:02
Speaker 1: around the flat I'm thinking about Listen, let me tell
20:05
Speaker 1: you what I was thinking about last night. Ht Why
20:07
Speaker 1: do they call it stainless steel? Like water went on
20:10
Speaker 1: my refrigerator, it's stainless. Why is it called stainless steel?
20:14
Speaker 1: Like it stays so easy? They should call it stainy stick.
20:21
Speaker 1: Everything stay that even a little water can't get that.
20:25
Speaker 1: You're supposed to use those still cleaner, like I had
20:28
Speaker 1: to go buy actual statements, still cleaner, stainless that's bullshit. Yeah,
20:34
Speaker 1: so I had hell on my car when I'm thinking
20:36
Speaker 1: about dumb ship like that. Yeah so, I mean, I
20:41
Speaker 1: want to think about all the times where I had
20:44
Speaker 1: the most sets and what I was going through at
20:46
Speaker 1: that time, like what made me just extra promiscuous or
20:51
Speaker 1: I like to call it friendly pussy. I've never been
20:53
Speaker 1: a home and I had some friendly pussy. It's a
20:57
Speaker 1: little happy pussy, little smiley plant way when I go
21:00
Speaker 1: said I've never been a hole. Because we already discussed
21:02
Speaker 1: the two different types of uh sexually liberated women, there
21:06
Speaker 1: are sluts and there are holes. Let's just do ship
21:10
Speaker 1: for no reason and hose get paid. So if I
21:13
Speaker 1: had to categorize myself, I'd definitely be a hope. I
21:17
Speaker 1: was just a child of God. I don't know where
21:19
Speaker 1: a j is talking about. Yeah, so I think about
21:23
Speaker 1: I mean, you're going through different you meet in different people,
21:27
Speaker 1: and maybe you have some insecurities about yourself and maybe
21:31
Speaker 1: you're acting out via sex, which is not a healthy thing.
21:35
Speaker 1: So you need to find out what those things are
21:38
Speaker 1: and maybe tweak them, fix them too, where you're more
21:40
Speaker 1: comfortable and you're not having to use your body or
21:43
Speaker 1: somebody else's body is not let So what about that
21:46
Speaker 1: song on Hotels is the intro with the young lady
21:51
Speaker 1: and she's just talking about like she felt like that
21:55
Speaker 1: was the one thing that validated her, was her sexual prowess.
22:00
Speaker 1: She said she felt like like sex with her superpower,
22:03
Speaker 1: and that was her only superpower. That was a problem though,
22:06
Speaker 1: Like you're using your pussy is the only way you
22:09
Speaker 1: feel strong and you feel validated relationship in life, then
22:15
Speaker 1: that's unhealthy. But if you're busting it open for a
22:19
Speaker 1: real nigga, because you're real nigga and you feel like
22:21
Speaker 1: empowering yourself and you're doing it in a healthy way.
22:25
Speaker 1: I don't see nothing wrong with that. I feel like
22:27
Speaker 1: maybe only it's a problem when you don't have you
22:30
Speaker 1: are trying to still figure out who you are, or
22:33
Speaker 1: if you're using it to cope, if you're sucking the
22:35
Speaker 1: cope with coronavirus. You know, it's not like there's some
22:41
Speaker 1: women out there hold on corona. Now, that sounds like
22:45
Speaker 1: a drug, like people with drug addiction addictions using expect
22:49
Speaker 1: Anything is an excuse to drink, anything's an excuse to smoke.
22:53
Speaker 1: So anything could be going on, whether it's good or bad,
22:56
Speaker 1: and it's excuse for you to just go pop that
22:58
Speaker 1: pussy for a real nigga. No no, So a lot
23:03
Speaker 1: of times we need to find like the root cause,
23:06
Speaker 1: what's the root cause to me dropping all these bodies?
23:10
Speaker 1: Why am I doing this to myself? Because you don't
23:12
Speaker 1: really feel good. I mean, something's going on and you
23:17
Speaker 1: have to identify that something and then you may have
23:21
Speaker 1: more confidence, you may feel better about yourself to where
23:24
Speaker 1: you don't even want niggas when you like that, like
23:27
Speaker 1: you're too good for that ship. That's how I feel
23:29
Speaker 1: non rather myself bust the said myself, Okay, it was
23:42
Speaker 1: just as content kind of a J. I feel like
23:48
Speaker 1: we should get a nigga's perspective on it. It's like,
23:51
Speaker 1: let's talk to a nigga, A man a mind. All right.
23:57
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna call my great, great friend and cors
24:01
Speaker 1: cos facts. Do you follow him on Instagram? It's dope?
24:05
Speaker 1: All right, I'm gonna hit him out real quick. Hey, co,
24:13
Speaker 1: what's good? How you doing great? You know, I just
24:18
Speaker 1: wanted to hit you out real quick because it's me
24:21
Speaker 1: and a J we're on We talked back right now,
24:24
Speaker 1: and we wanted to ask you a question and see
24:26
Speaker 1: what you thought and give us the male perspective, or
24:29
Speaker 1: at least your male perspective. Cool, all yeah? That so
24:34
Speaker 1: we posted a meme on our page, hold and Don't
24:37
Speaker 1: heal Right. We were talking about how women sometimes fun
24:41
Speaker 1: to cope with ship going on in their life, and
24:44
Speaker 1: we wanted to know do men hold to heal or
24:47
Speaker 1: do you'll just hold for life? I think men hold
24:50
Speaker 1: for recreations, but I've heard of men fucking girls after
24:57
Speaker 1: a breakup to get over the girl. Heard that that's possible.
25:02
Speaker 1: So have you ever hold to him? I don't I
25:06
Speaker 1: don't know if I didn't intentionally, but you like I didn't,
25:10
Speaker 1: I didn't plan to be like, no, I'm hurt, I'm
25:12
Speaker 1: gonna gon that just because I'm hurt. I don't think
25:16
Speaker 1: I did that. I think men hold naturally, So is
25:19
Speaker 1: it not natural for women to hold them? Do you
25:22
Speaker 1: think I can't? I can't say that. I'm not a woman,
25:25
Speaker 1: so I can't really say that. But I think I've
25:27
Speaker 1: heard women say that they be like heart broken and
25:30
Speaker 1: then they go through a fuck may this shaise? And
25:33
Speaker 1: they used because its object. Yeah, help cope with them,
25:37
Speaker 1: cope with the pain. But for ship, yeah, for sure,
25:40
Speaker 1: ships and giggles like men like this, men like to
25:44
Speaker 1: take of the captain. So how do men heal? Men
25:48
Speaker 1: don't heal up from And then like you said, sixty yeah,
25:55
Speaker 1: and it gives me sixty eight no more. Because men
25:59
Speaker 1: don't believe and been a lot of a lot of
26:01
Speaker 1: black our conds. Don't believe in therapy. They don't believe
26:04
Speaker 1: in opening up to the women. You know, they might
26:08
Speaker 1: open up to their mother, like they they don't open
26:11
Speaker 1: up to people that's going to help them get better.
26:14
Speaker 1: So men would just put a little rubbing alcohol and
26:17
Speaker 1: I said, keep moving. They just they don't want to
26:20
Speaker 1: go to the doctor. They just for a little alcohol. Yeah.
26:26
Speaker 1: Push up, yeah, ginger, push up. So man, that's been problems.
26:32
Speaker 1: And then when you fifty, you got mad problems, you
26:34
Speaker 1: got mental problems, got physical problems like way before fifty
26:38
Speaker 1: year before. If you're lucky, you're right, that's true. But
26:45
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think men potentially have sex with
26:47
Speaker 1: women to get over pains. I think men now, I
26:52
Speaker 1: think the opposite. I think if if nickeluses bitch, he'll
26:56
Speaker 1: be hurt for like two and a half weeks. He
26:59
Speaker 1: might the bead, he might crying the bed to like
27:02
Speaker 1: you know, Joe songs and ship genuine, and then after that,
27:07
Speaker 1: I think could be to it. He going to the
27:09
Speaker 1: next girl alive. He's gonna start a new slate. She
27:11
Speaker 1: don't know, myn She don't know the bullshit that he did.
27:14
Speaker 1: He could, like you know, like his under his act
27:17
Speaker 1: was crazy, thank you and look let all the ship
27:23
Speaker 1: out crazy. He did this. But he's not gonna tell
27:26
Speaker 1: the eighty five things that he did to lose the bit.
27:29
Speaker 1: He's just gonna tell like crazy. So Nigga's just do
27:32
Speaker 1: that and then it's like it's like a cold thing
27:34
Speaker 1: because I've been there with like you lose your girl
27:37
Speaker 1: and you know what, you know that you deserve to
27:38
Speaker 1: lose your girl, but you still be mad for like
27:40
Speaker 1: two or three weeks, like I said, and then he
27:43
Speaker 1: just come to like I'm just finding another girl to
27:45
Speaker 1: just thought over with. Right, So Colling, that's crazy. We
27:48
Speaker 1: can agree, then, thank you. We can agree that calling
27:51
Speaker 1: women crazy is like a cop out where is of
27:55
Speaker 1: course the girls whom we're doing too, who were nigga
28:00
Speaker 1: is really be crazy. So if I say, nigga, you crazy,
28:02
Speaker 1: you're really crazy. Yeah, a woman don't tell their home
28:05
Speaker 1: girls everything they did to make a nigga or leave
28:09
Speaker 1: him alone, and then you said you do. Talking is
28:16
Speaker 1: my therapy. Whoever to funk on, Listen, I'm gonna telling
28:19
Speaker 1: what the hell happened. I'm gonna tell all of them
28:20
Speaker 1: ship I did. I'm gonna tell you, definitely tell you
28:23
Speaker 1: all this the nigga did. Talking is why niggas leave
28:25
Speaker 1: me alone. But you think you think that y'all can
28:31
Speaker 1: honestly admit that y'all take a good man away before that.
28:35
Speaker 1: I don't like that. I don't like to chase. I
28:37
Speaker 1: don't feel like I've never chased a good man. Yeah,
28:40
Speaker 1: not take my chase. That's the wrong word. You think
28:42
Speaker 1: you think you, your your personality or your actions scared
28:46
Speaker 1: a good man away before. Absolutely. I can say absolutely
28:51
Speaker 1: for me because sometimes I like my personality is a
28:54
Speaker 1: lot and everybody can't handle it. I can't say you
28:56
Speaker 1: a good man either, because I have talked to people
28:59
Speaker 1: who later aron they want to tell me, oh, I
29:01
Speaker 1: should have chose you this in the third all waiting
29:03
Speaker 1: now married with kids and ship. Are you really a
29:06
Speaker 1: good man? Professing your fucking love to me? Does that
29:09
Speaker 1: make him not a good man though? Don't Yeah, because
29:16
Speaker 1: of a listen, I'm saving their relationship, but not busting
29:19
Speaker 1: the wide open for a nigger. That's a fact. Yeah.
29:22
Speaker 1: So is he really about because he's ready to smash
29:24
Speaker 1: if I allowed to? Sometimes people saying relationship about getting him?
29:28
Speaker 1: How so explained? Please? Because the SoC because you have
29:33
Speaker 1: sex with two where he realized how much he loves girl. Damn,
29:36
Speaker 1: my pussy is not that wack, sir, I don't know
29:38
Speaker 1: who you play. First of all, I'm breaking out. Let's
29:46
Speaker 1: supposed to be breaking up home. No, it's a little
29:53
Speaker 1: and look whack now, but she doesn't give good hits.
29:57
Speaker 1: She didn't listen. Oh and you got a good It
30:01
Speaker 1: could be every day. Okay, I've heard that. I've heard
30:06
Speaker 1: that I gotta leave through alone because I kind of
30:09
Speaker 1: like you better than my girl. And you don't even
30:11
Speaker 1: like me like that because you know I've got a girl.
30:13
Speaker 1: You're not gonna take tribute. No, I'm not funking nobody
30:17
Speaker 1: who got a girl like that now, But guys who
30:19
Speaker 1: may be single at the time, and I'm talking to
30:21
Speaker 1: them like my personality may scare them off because I'm
30:25
Speaker 1: like a wild card. I feel like men a lot
30:28
Speaker 1: of times they find more comfort and knowing exactly who
30:31
Speaker 1: you've been with throughout life. So like, you don't know me,
30:34
Speaker 1: like I may not even be from the city, so
30:35
Speaker 1: you can't go ask somebody about me. So that gives
30:39
Speaker 1: them a little and might scare them off a little bit.
30:42
Speaker 1: But the only thing that running is off from me
30:45
Speaker 1: is my mouthpiece. That's it. Then love everything else about
30:50
Speaker 1: me and then be like, yo, you don't know how
30:52
Speaker 1: to shut the funk up. That's the truth. I'm working out.
30:57
Speaker 1: I'm good. Everybody needs to work on shining some men
31:00
Speaker 1: don't hold to heal, but women don't ye him, but
31:07
Speaker 1: they don't they hold it get in trouble, and that's
31:09
Speaker 1: why they need to heal, because they hold in the
31:13
Speaker 1: first place they hold to have a good night. But
31:17
Speaker 1: what I've heard from men who are now like married,
31:19
Speaker 1: stuff like that, it's like once they get to a
31:21
Speaker 1: point where they no longer need to be out here
31:24
Speaker 1: in the streets, like everything else in their life falling together.
31:27
Speaker 1: Like if you have a family, or maybe you might
31:29
Speaker 1: be married, right and you stopped working around on your
31:33
Speaker 1: wife or the girl that you really you you're in
31:35
Speaker 1: love with, but you keep working on these holes out here.
31:38
Speaker 1: Once they stop that dumb ship and do right by
31:40
Speaker 1: the woman in their life, everything else just starts going
31:43
Speaker 1: well for them. Now I agree with that. I had that,
31:46
Speaker 1: but yeah I had that. But a lot of guys
31:49
Speaker 1: that I know that's very miserable. They like they don't
31:51
Speaker 1: get coucie. They get couchie two tons of mind. They
31:55
Speaker 1: gotta pay all the bills. They don't got money to
31:58
Speaker 1: go out no more that they gotta pay everything, you know,
32:02
Speaker 1: like they gotta be a Provada provider man. No, No,
32:14
Speaker 1: it's not it's not gonna when they got to be
32:17
Speaker 1: Provada and they're not getting before they getting tired of
32:20
Speaker 1: the same opus. But let's talk about that. I know
32:23
Speaker 1: this is going in a whole another conversation. How many
32:26
Speaker 1: times if you if you got a girl, right, how
32:28
Speaker 1: many times a week are you expecting sex? Um? Three?
32:33
Speaker 1: Three times? That's it? Every other day? Yeah, I gotta
32:39
Speaker 1: nigt complaining about not getting some pussy. Like literally, were
32:42
Speaker 1: together for fourteen days, right, and three out of three month? No,
32:49
Speaker 1: no, no no, three out of three out of the fourteen
32:52
Speaker 1: days we didn't have sex. And he's looking at me like,
32:54
Speaker 1: we fucking three years and something. So you get him three,
32:59
Speaker 1: you get him pus three every two nine, nigger, what's
33:02
Speaker 1: what's three months? Fourteen? No? He eleven times year? So no,
33:08
Speaker 1: we had sex eleven times but not and then the
33:10
Speaker 1: three times three days out out the fourteen days we
33:13
Speaker 1: did not have sex. He was uh oh yeah, he
33:18
Speaker 1: he shot all right, And I'm like, you're because you
33:28
Speaker 1: keep feeding him at sea moss girl. Take him off
33:30
Speaker 1: for that, like, I know I've been fucking like you
33:35
Speaker 1: ain't a fucking what happened? Yeah, he was, he was
33:41
Speaker 1: a little breedy three times a week. I'm gonna take
33:44
Speaker 1: that name. You said about mattery though, like I'm used
33:50
Speaker 1: to like already. What what makes you think women don't
33:54
Speaker 1: get used to the dick. I'm not saying y'all don't.
33:58
Speaker 1: I'm saying that it costs. Like I think a man got,
34:02
Speaker 1: he got a many many expect more because they got
34:04
Speaker 1: to spend more. So that's how niggas think, whether it's
34:07
Speaker 1: right or wrong, and they can like, yo, I'm paying
34:10
Speaker 1: seven thousand dollars in bills I want, I should get
34:12
Speaker 1: pussy whenever I want. Because I think if a woman
34:15
Speaker 1: was paying seven thousand dollars a month in bills and
34:18
Speaker 1: they lived with it, and they're laying next to a
34:20
Speaker 1: stink foot nigga every every day, you're gonna want some
34:24
Speaker 1: head and some dick. You want your actlete every day
34:26
Speaker 1: because we're like nigger. So I'm not here laying that
34:31
Speaker 1: to a like you know, like that's that's how men think,
34:36
Speaker 1: Like yo, she's taking a lot of my brand. And
34:38
Speaker 1: I think you know pussy and you don't want me
34:40
Speaker 1: to cheat, You're gonna sunk me up about cheat too.
34:42
Speaker 1: So it's like what I'm gonna do yeah, but a
34:45
Speaker 1: lot of that's why a lot of married men are visible.
34:48
Speaker 1: That's why they go to dr three times and years.
34:50
Speaker 1: You know you're during gonna know yo, Yeah seven dollar hollars,
35:01
Speaker 1: but y'all shows dope. I'm gonna keep it going. Thank
35:05
Speaker 1: you so much, thank you for joining us today. We
35:08
Speaker 1: appreciate it all right. Just hut me up. I got
35:11
Speaker 1: to do it in person soon and we let a okay,
35:16
Speaker 1: I so again. So women just be hoing to he
35:21
Speaker 1: intentionally and nigga's just hosed by nature, so we'd literally
35:28
Speaker 1: be laying the bad things about me. I'm gonna go
35:31
Speaker 1: like they don't do the same ship, Like why why,
35:34
Speaker 1: why the funk are we so different? Because women are
35:37
Speaker 1: from Mars and men are from Venus? What was that
35:39
Speaker 1: bitch up from Charleston, South Carolina? Got mafia bit? Hold on.
35:50
Speaker 1: Before we get into anything else, let's pay some bills
35:52
Speaker 1: real quick. So I went to find some healthy ways
36:01
Speaker 1: to not fuck to heal, so healthy ways to heal.
36:07
Speaker 1: So um, there was a list that I found. Yoga
36:11
Speaker 1: was on it. So you can do your downward dog
36:14
Speaker 1: without dick behind you, just good by yourself. Um journaling,
36:19
Speaker 1: so you can list the things, list your strengths right
36:22
Speaker 1: down your feelings, and don't draw no dicks, no draw,
36:26
Speaker 1: no scribble um. Forgiveness, that's very important. Forgive yourself for
36:31
Speaker 1: whatever you're going through, and forgive others, and don't forgive
36:34
Speaker 1: them for them, forgive them for you. Mirror work, now,
36:38
Speaker 1: this is the one that I do by myself when
36:40
Speaker 1: I'm high, and it's fun. I'll be cracking up. It's
36:43
Speaker 1: where you talk to yourself in the mirror and tell yourself,
36:46
Speaker 1: how you a boss bitch? Are you a bad bitch?
36:50
Speaker 1: How you the ship? And can't nobody funk with you?
36:53
Speaker 1: So look in the mirror right now, a j tell yourself,
36:56
Speaker 1: who are you saying that? The mic though, so they
36:57
Speaker 1: can what else? Who are you looking at mirror to?
37:03
Speaker 1: No is serious as it see, Mirror work is. It's
37:08
Speaker 1: kind of hard, right, It's hard to look at yourself
37:10
Speaker 1: in the mirror and talk to yourself. Okay, well, when
37:16
Speaker 1: we push it off here, we're gonna stay it in
37:18
Speaker 1: the mirror together. And I am pride, I am power,
37:22
Speaker 1: my badass mother who don't take no crap for nobody.
37:26
Speaker 1: You don't know what the movie that is? You don't
37:28
Speaker 1: watch movies then you watched too much. Want that girl,
37:32
Speaker 1: get your life, all right. The next one is breath
37:36
Speaker 1: work for healing. And there's this thing called harmonic breathing
37:39
Speaker 1: and it's the ancient form of breathing that has you
37:43
Speaker 1: utilize two breaths and one x hell for at least
37:46
Speaker 1: seven minutes. So it's kind of like that kind of situation, right,
37:51
Speaker 1: and um, it's kind of like a form of meditation.
37:54
Speaker 1: So that's meditating for a breath work for healing. Uh.
37:59
Speaker 1: One big one that we all can use in our
38:02
Speaker 1: lives and we need it's friendship. Friendship, spending time with
38:06
Speaker 1: your girls, getting to have you know, having fun with
38:10
Speaker 1: your girls. That's a way to cope with and heal
38:14
Speaker 1: without fucking. Okay unless you sucking your home girls, and
38:18
Speaker 1: some of y'all be doing that, but don't fuck them.
38:23
Speaker 1: Counseling and therapy that is a very important one, that
38:27
Speaker 1: big one that we all really need to utilize. We
38:30
Speaker 1: as African Americans, we are really just starting to talk
38:34
Speaker 1: about mental health in a way that we haven't. You know,
38:37
Speaker 1: I don't remember growing up talking about our our mental health.
38:41
Speaker 1: Getting the therapist is a real big thing. And your
38:44
Speaker 1: friends cannot always be a therapist. Like, like I said,
38:47
Speaker 1: I like to talk, and that's an outlet for me
38:49
Speaker 1: to be able to just have a conversation with the
38:51
Speaker 1: people I know that love to care about me. But
38:54
Speaker 1: they can always the blind leading the blind sometimes because
38:59
Speaker 1: I have something for is that will be like, bit
39:01
Speaker 1: you sucking up? Or that'll make sense? Or why are
39:03
Speaker 1: you doing that? I have some friends like that, so
39:06
Speaker 1: it's important to have those type of friends. But so
39:08
Speaker 1: you want somebody outside of your life, a professional I
39:11
Speaker 1: can give you real lives guidance, you know, even adults.
39:16
Speaker 1: Adults see guidance too. For me, I feel like it's
39:20
Speaker 1: sometimes it's hard for my friends to tell me the
39:22
Speaker 1: truth about myself because I get like combative with my
39:25
Speaker 1: friends when they tell me the truth. Sometimes I know,
39:28
Speaker 1: you know, luckily I like to argue. Sometimes I'd be like,
39:31
Speaker 1: you know what, why I don't see like that because
39:32
Speaker 1: I'm not getting my point in class. Okay, let's just
39:33
Speaker 1: start again tomorrow. So I know I need to like
39:36
Speaker 1: seek professional help when it comes to that, because a
39:39
Speaker 1: bit to tell me about myself and I'll be ready
39:41
Speaker 1: to fight. And then I get instead of receiving the information,
39:48
Speaker 1: I started telling them about their ship. They ain't even
39:50
Speaker 1: got nothing to do with the right girl. You know,
39:55
Speaker 1: I started bringing up the ship like, so yeah, counseling
39:58
Speaker 1: is a very good one. Um. Another way is to
40:01
Speaker 1: help someone help someone, regardless of their gender. A lot
40:05
Speaker 1: of women will help a nigga before they help their
40:08
Speaker 1: own friends. Help your friends. And if one of your
40:10
Speaker 1: friends happens to be a man and he needs to
40:12
Speaker 1: help help him, did um it says. Another one was
40:19
Speaker 1: to laugh, so you know, spend time watching something or
40:24
Speaker 1: doing something that makes you feel joyous inside. And then
40:28
Speaker 1: it also offers to cry. So a lot, especially Black people,
40:32
Speaker 1: we hold our cry. Oh not me. I look at
40:36
Speaker 1: myself in the mirror like you were like, ugly bitch,
40:38
Speaker 1: stop crying. So you can tell yourself that in the mirror.
40:43
Speaker 1: But you can't say nice things see yourself. I know,
40:45
Speaker 1: I gotta work on that. This is therapy right now.
40:49
Speaker 1: But you get all right, So when we get after
40:51
Speaker 1: we hate this ship up, we're gonna stand in weird.
40:53
Speaker 1: I'm standing behind you and hold your shoulders and I'm
40:56
Speaker 1: encourage you to say nice things to yourself. But okay,
40:59
Speaker 1: so right when you need to cry, let it out,
41:01
Speaker 1: like y'all be holding that ball in your throat so tight,
41:04
Speaker 1: like holding that ship and let it go, bitch, let
41:09
Speaker 1: it out. If you're feeling stut right now, are you
41:11
Speaker 1: listening to this? Let that ship out, release it to
41:15
Speaker 1: the universe so it can be done, and apologize to
41:18
Speaker 1: yourself yourself, sorry, right, but give yourself. It's okay, bitch.
41:23
Speaker 1: We all playing suck up. Okay. And then another one
41:27
Speaker 1: is to work out. Exercise releases endorphins, and endorphins make
41:33
Speaker 1: you happy, so when you're taking care of yourself, you're
41:35
Speaker 1: gonna feel good. And go get some real workout clothes.
41:38
Speaker 1: Don't be in there with the big stretched out white
41:40
Speaker 1: tea like. Go get some real workout clothes, maybe some
41:42
Speaker 1: sneakers and match fit. It's gonna motivate you because you
41:45
Speaker 1: are look cute. You look here, and you're working on
41:47
Speaker 1: making yourself even look look even better. And the last
41:52
Speaker 1: one that I found a good line, it's a hug.
41:57
Speaker 1: Come here, girl, let me get your hug right now.
42:00
Speaker 1: M hugs heal, hugs feel good. AJ has big titties,
42:06
Speaker 1: so her hugs feel even better. I'm gonna charge this,
42:10
Speaker 1: bitch man. We havena DEVI car that bitch, because I'm
42:13
Speaker 1: not gonna take all the sexual harassment for for their
42:16
Speaker 1: free I'm sorry, well bad, I'll see you, but i'm
42:22
Speaker 1: seeing your invoice. I'll see you forty. That's the going rate.
42:26
Speaker 1: That was good, So try to implement those. They're called
42:31
Speaker 1: fourteen ways to heal without fuckings. That's what I said,
42:36
Speaker 1: on said fourteen ways to heal emotionally. Yeah, that's a
42:43
Speaker 1: good list. I think we should all look within. Don't
42:46
Speaker 1: go looking outside of yourself for healing, because it starts
42:50
Speaker 1: with the because the better you feel about yourself, the
42:53
Speaker 1: less access these outside entities will have to right. And
42:57
Speaker 1: you know we we allowed the world around us stuff
43:00
Speaker 1: beat us up all the time. I know I do it.
43:03
Speaker 1: I'm watching social media and looking at these bitches on here.
43:06
Speaker 1: I love to see black women being spoiled because I
43:09
Speaker 1: don't feel like we're spoiled enough. But to have you
43:11
Speaker 1: feeling less than like ship images that you see, what
43:14
Speaker 1: have you feeling? But you have to remind yourself and
43:16
Speaker 1: speak goodness of yourself and love of yourself all the time,
43:20
Speaker 1: and remind yourself, like listen, if you hear the sound
43:23
Speaker 1: of my voice right now, bait, you are that bitch, bitch,
43:27
Speaker 1: you hear me. You are bad you. There's no one
43:30
Speaker 1: else on this earth created like you, not one soul,
43:34
Speaker 1: and where you're going, there's no more you. So don't
43:37
Speaker 1: let nobody tell you that you're not that ship, because
43:40
Speaker 1: you are so. Stop using your pussy. Stop letting them
43:43
Speaker 1: use it, only you use it. But if you're using it,
43:47
Speaker 1: I am a firm believer. If you are using your vagina,
43:50
Speaker 1: please assured that you are being compensated. Please make sure
43:59
Speaker 1: that you are being compensated. You're not just out here
44:02
Speaker 1: frivilously using your vagina and your rent is past. You
44:07
Speaker 1: do what makes you happy, so you cannot be happy
44:10
Speaker 1: when your tires is bald and you know all change
44:13
Speaker 1: you mean? I agree, I agree, but don't be a prostitute.
44:16
Speaker 1: Don't listen to it like man, girl is the oldest profession.
44:21
Speaker 1: You can have sex with someone just because you want
44:24
Speaker 1: to have sex and not be financially compensated for it. Right,
44:29
Speaker 1: how many times though this it's like a three pack
44:32
Speaker 1: or four pack? I just like you should do what
44:35
Speaker 1: makes you happy. As long as you're happy and fulfilling it,
44:38
Speaker 1: then do that. But if you are unhappy and you
44:42
Speaker 1: fucking that's a problem. Absolutely, this is a great conversation.
44:46
Speaker 1: This was. Are we gonna get in the mirror. I'm
44:51
Speaker 1: gonna get in that mirror. Let me tell you the
44:53
Speaker 1: hardest part from me. When I get in that mirror,
44:55
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take my wig off before I do. I
44:58
Speaker 1: don't like my no problem, I don't like these meek
45:01
Speaker 1: wheel raised without doing it when she had the white bower,
45:04
Speaker 1: took her lashes off, took a wig off. You're looking
45:07
Speaker 1: at your real self. It's different, different, but I'm gonna
45:13
Speaker 1: do it. We're about to do it right now as
45:15
Speaker 1: the kid take her whef wig off, because let's sleep
45:18
Speaker 1: that little shopping partners and always glue down tight. I'm
45:26
Speaker 1: gonna take mine off though, So do we have Oh
45:30
Speaker 1: I do have a good random sex back for today,
45:34
Speaker 1: let's hear it. So this random sex back. There's a
45:38
Speaker 1: bird out there and it's called the bower birds. So
45:41
Speaker 1: there are a couple of different species of this bird,
45:44
Speaker 1: but they all kind of do the same kind of thing.
45:47
Speaker 1: So the most notable characteristic of a bower bird is
45:51
Speaker 1: there extraordinarily complex courtship and mating behavior where males build
45:57
Speaker 1: a bower, which is like an attractive dwelling or like
46:00
Speaker 1: a retreat to attract mates. So they build these beautiful
46:03
Speaker 1: bower nest type things to attract the female bower bird.
46:08
Speaker 1: So in and around the bower, the male places a
46:11
Speaker 1: variety of brightly colored objects he has collected. So these objects,
46:16
Speaker 1: usually different among each species, may include hundreds of shells,
46:21
Speaker 1: these flowers, feathers, stones, berries, and even discarded plastic items coins, nails,
46:27
Speaker 1: right for shells, or pieces of glass. The males spend
46:30
Speaker 1: hours arranged in these collections. Several studies of different species
46:35
Speaker 1: have shown that colors of decorations males use on their
46:38
Speaker 1: bowers match the preferences of the female bower bird. In
46:43
Speaker 1: addition to the bower instruction ornamentation, male birds perform involved
46:48
Speaker 1: courtship displays to attract the female. Research suggests that the
46:52
Speaker 1: male adjustice performance based on success and female response. Uh
46:56
Speaker 1: mate searching females commonly visit multiple bowers, often returning to
47:01
Speaker 1: preferred bowers several times and watching males elaborate courtship displays
47:05
Speaker 1: and inspecting the quality of the bower. To this process,
47:08
Speaker 1: the female reduces the set of potential mates. Many females
47:12
Speaker 1: end up selecting the same male, and many underperforming males
47:15
Speaker 1: are less without copulation. Females made it with top mating
47:19
Speaker 1: males tend to return to the male the next year
47:23
Speaker 1: and search less during you sell you read the size project, bitch.
47:28
Speaker 1: So basically what they're saying is nicky, you gotta have
47:32
Speaker 1: a house. The bat bird have a bomb mass that's
47:35
Speaker 1: his ap, bitch. You got an ap and the chain
47:38
Speaker 1: o the bout birds to attract a bird to track
47:42
Speaker 1: his bird his bottom got If we're supposed to be
47:46
Speaker 1: to sophisticated animals, why do these female bower birds no
47:52
Speaker 1: to select the highest value male and he then they
47:57
Speaker 1: come back year after year to make at that same
48:00
Speaker 1: Now a lot of them come back for the same bird,
48:03
Speaker 1: don't you know that right? That's what I'm saying, Yeah,
48:06
Speaker 1: they sold about bird, were having all the bitches with
48:09
Speaker 1: the nicest a PM. Don't sound like I don't never
48:13
Speaker 1: forget what we are doing though, So why don't we
48:18
Speaker 1: just act like we know what the fun is up?
48:19
Speaker 1: Because the animals, some of this is just a straight
48:23
Speaker 1: old chicken bottom of a bowl, bird, pigeon. So that's
48:31
Speaker 1: how right now, section for the day. You don't have
48:34
Speaker 1: to be a pigeon of me about Burger. Yeah, Sonny,
48:37
Speaker 1: get you a nigger with a house at least to
48:41
Speaker 1: fuck you in, or maybe just a headboard. Let's start there.
48:45
Speaker 1: The one time I had this and it was a
48:51
Speaker 1: mattress on the floor with a nice comfort on it. No,
48:56
Speaker 1: and the problems. But the problem is that woman let
49:00
Speaker 1: him fuck them on that mattress, and that's why he
49:03
Speaker 1: think it's okay. So if all women were on the
49:06
Speaker 1: same page, like, listen, nigga, you got at least have
49:08
Speaker 1: a house, car, job, and a headboard and we in there.
49:13
Speaker 1: Niggas would not get pussy if they didn't have that
49:15
Speaker 1: bare minimum. But here's the thing. I've seen too homeless
49:18
Speaker 1: people fucking l a. So it's they deserve each other.
49:23
Speaker 1: But you have homeless niggas think they deserve attend. I
49:26
Speaker 1: had a niggers stopped me and asked me for some money,
49:29
Speaker 1: and I gave it to him and then asked me
49:32
Speaker 1: where was it that this Carolina bitch? That night I
49:35
Speaker 1: went to the Walgreens. Is that stups down the street
49:39
Speaker 1: by Harris Ceater. First a dude to ask me for
49:41
Speaker 1: a ride, Then he asked me for a place to
49:44
Speaker 1: stay and then he asked me if I had a boyfriend,
49:48
Speaker 1: at what point do you think you could do anything
49:50
Speaker 1: to me? And I just looked like, I need a
49:52
Speaker 1: homeless nigga, But listen, you do be taking homeless people,
49:55
Speaker 1: which I'm not taking a home has grown man. And
49:57
Speaker 1: I can't even give a man who looks my age
50:00
Speaker 1: asking for money, and I have a hard time giving
50:03
Speaker 1: the money. I listen, I met this right down on
50:07
Speaker 1: UH Central in Charlotte. I meant this finest homeless nigger right,
50:14
Speaker 1: And I was like, what you doing out here? Like baby,
50:18
Speaker 1: damn baby, Like listen, he made this. He gave me
50:21
Speaker 1: this elaborate story why he needed money, and it was
50:24
Speaker 1: sounded like something that he rehearsed. You know. It's like
50:27
Speaker 1: my daughter has in masks and she wants to rights
50:29
Speaker 1: betree cereal and I want to go pick it up her.
50:31
Speaker 1: So if you could, like really elaborate story. And I
50:35
Speaker 1: was like, listening, cut the ship. I'm gonna give you
50:38
Speaker 1: some money, but keeping one hunting with me. You're not
50:40
Speaker 1: about to go buy no cereal for your daughter with
50:43
Speaker 1: a mask. He's like no. I was like, listen, don't
50:46
Speaker 1: do that. Don't use your daughters to feed your addiction.
50:49
Speaker 1: And he probably even seen his daughter in years. Right,
50:52
Speaker 1: his daughter was in Raleigh. She wasn't even in Charlotte.
50:54
Speaker 1: He told me. I was like, listen, I got in mess.
50:57
Speaker 1: Don't use that. That's not funny, that's not cool. Don't
51:00
Speaker 1: do that. I was like, you're very young. You're still young,
51:03
Speaker 1: and you're a good looking man. Maybe have a mental illness,
51:05
Speaker 1: and then when you don't have support, you don't have
51:07
Speaker 1: family to help you, you end up on the streets.
51:10
Speaker 1: It was so sad. I almost took him home, but
51:13
Speaker 1: I've changed my mind. I gave him the five dollars
51:21
Speaker 1: and I kept on going to you, you might have
51:25
Speaker 1: got to fight out of football. He's fine. To was sad.
51:30
Speaker 1: I hated to see him out there like that before
51:34
Speaker 1: we go. Did you see Beyonce with her ass out
51:41
Speaker 1: like she's scared? She's scared to talk about Beyonce for
51:43
Speaker 1: the bee Hive? Come sorry, girl, what the fund is
51:48
Speaker 1: Beyonce doing her ass out? Girl? She met she feels
51:51
Speaker 1: like she was missing out or something. M hmmm, girl,
51:54
Speaker 1: if you don't talk about this, I don't want to
51:56
Speaker 1: talk about this. Is crazy out here saying nothing about
52:00
Speaker 1: Beyonce's certain motherfucker's ain't gonna say nothing about Beyonce say
52:05
Speaker 1: gay people, Jesus that it knows about three people ain't
52:11
Speaker 1: got no problems with Alright, But if you guys like
52:15
Speaker 1: the conversation, hey, that's up on Instagram at We Talk
52:23
Speaker 1: Bad podcast. Also, we would like to hear your stories.
52:26
Speaker 1: You watch all your dumb bitch stories. Ask a black
52:30
Speaker 1: friend for any questions you guys may have that you've
52:34
Speaker 1: always wanted to ask a black person. Um hit us
52:38
Speaker 1: up at We Talked Back, p O d at gmail
52:42
Speaker 1: dot com. And wait, you forgot about for the love
52:46
Speaker 1: of tam Band, because for me, go go who's next?
52:55
Speaker 1: We're looking for all the hip hop Harry's to come
52:58
Speaker 1: out and it's just a killer fight for my love,
53:03
Speaker 1: not physically. Just really set that up. No, I really
53:06
Speaker 1: wanted to do that. Maybe I want I need a man.
53:09
Speaker 1: This is the year for me. God said I'm gonna
53:13
Speaker 1: find love this year. He a j Tella, y you
53:17
Speaker 1: that special man for me? All right? We out by