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DLHS Hour 2 | Should ex-wife get more money from the new wife · The D.L. Hughley Show

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  Speaker 1: So a wife, an ex wife, wants more money from
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  Speaker 1: her ex husband because he found out her ex husband's
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  Speaker 1: new wife is getting paid, so she wants some of
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  Speaker 1: that too.
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  Speaker 2: You think that she should be entitled to a skip?
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  Speaker 2: What do you think?
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  Speaker 3: No, No, I don't. I don't think so.
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  Speaker 4: Like you said that you made the agreement with him,
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  Speaker 4: and y'all had a settlement and on his income, and
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  Speaker 4: because he happened to meet somebody who makes you know,
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  Speaker 4: more money than him, and hey, man, I ain't got
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  Speaker 4: nothing to do with you. He gonna take cares like
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  Speaker 4: he promised.
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  Speaker 2: Well, like like was okay with you.
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  Speaker 1: You was okay with the settlement when you maybe even
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  Speaker 1: if you want okay, you had it on you.
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  Speaker 2: It's already more lied. You got it.
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  Speaker 1: And you know it would be a different story even
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  Speaker 1: if he got to raise and was coming up, you know,
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  Speaker 1: even if well I guess he technically.
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  Speaker 3: Got to raise from your work, not because you.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, then then maybe even then.
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  Speaker 4: His current wife. Maybe we're gonna file separately. We found separately.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, Now, I will say I was looking at the
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  Speaker 5: legality of it, and they say that typically child support
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  Speaker 5: of I mean, the income of the new spouse is
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  Speaker 5: not included in calculating the support. However, if the new
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  Speaker 5: spouse's income is considered part of the household income, therefore
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  Speaker 5: decreasing the out of pocket expense for the paying parent,
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  Speaker 5: then the court will increase the amount.
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  Speaker 1: Of Chuck wrote that bill. You know, we file separate,
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  Speaker 1: just we have your own bank account.
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  Speaker 6: You pay.
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  Speaker 2: That's either you pay your bills. I pay mine.
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  Speaker 5: That's what that is according to how you file. That's
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  Speaker 5: what they look at separately. And yeah and you you okay,
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  Speaker 5: I make less.
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  Speaker 3: But we're going how much for a hit?
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  Speaker 2: I'm just kidding.
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  Speaker 4: We're gonna use the same budget, all right, you do
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  Speaker 4: you pay this bill, this build this bill so it
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  Speaker 4: looks like you.
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  Speaker 1: Well, let me let's be clear if if a woman
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  Speaker 1: is getting paid like that and she's married again, I'm
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  Speaker 1: sure she took pains to protect her assets. Yeah, I'm
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  Speaker 1: sure she took pains to protect her assets.
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  Speaker 3: You're going to get that stadmen money. You ain't getting
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  Speaker 3: no open.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, man, ain't come on now.
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  Speaker 1: I love you like like when and that Bobby they
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  Speaker 1: tried to come after Bobby for Whitney for Bobby.
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  Speaker 6: I'm not.
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  Speaker 2: That's your prerogative.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not doing that, you must think I'm a tender roony.
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  Speaker 2: Every little step you take better be out my face.
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  Speaker 2: I know that.
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  Speaker 3: Don't be cruel. Don't be cruel.
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  Speaker 2: A heartbreak, hotel man, you must be out your damn mind.
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  Speaker 7: I'll give you some more juicy tidbits about this story
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  Speaker 7: on the next one.
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  Speaker 2: We got something in common. I know that.
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  Speaker 1: What do you think so ex ex wife wants more
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  Speaker 1: than a lot of child support? She said it ain't
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  Speaker 1: enough since you done married this woman, and now y'all
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  Speaker 1: make it more money.
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  Speaker 2: Should I should? Should I be entitled? Should she be
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  Speaker 2: entitled to? You think so? Junius?
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  Speaker 3: No, I don't. I mean, unless you can.
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  Speaker 2: Prove that's the answer. We got four hours a show to.
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  Speaker 1: Do, but I said no, unless you can prove that
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  Speaker 1: you know she had something to do with making that child.
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  Speaker 3: Now you're out of luck.
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  Speaker 1: That's why this is. This is a cautionary tale. This
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  Speaker 1: things like this are why when you you wonder why
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  Speaker 1: Doude won't adopt your kids or to take legal matters
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  Speaker 1: and to do all this this kind of stuff. Somebody
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  Speaker 1: afraid to get jammed up like this, so you can
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  Speaker 1: blame this bride. It's greedy ass bride for your kids.
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  Speaker 2: Not getting it.
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  Speaker 7: I'm not gonna with that part. She is greedy and
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  Speaker 7: she's she's pretty, you.
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  Speaker 2: Know, let me see to tell me about how ridiculous
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  Speaker 2: she is.
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  Speaker 7: So she had a.
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  Speaker 5: Job working at CBS as a pharmacy tech basically the
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  Speaker 5: pharmacy text they do. But she quit that job when
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  Speaker 5: she found out how her ex husband got married. Now
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  Speaker 5: she works part time as a waitress.
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  Speaker 7: Now here's the here's more.
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  Speaker 2: You better bring some of that food home through them kids.
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  Speaker 5: The new Now, first of all, we're talking about a
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  Speaker 5: disabled vet. He's got two kids from this previous marriage.
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  Speaker 5: He is now newly married and they have a child together.
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  Speaker 5: So the wife is like, you know, the money that
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  Speaker 5: we make in this house takes care of our baby,
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  Speaker 5: the one that we had.
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  Speaker 8: Right.
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  Speaker 7: The mother two kids, first of all, one is sixteen
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  Speaker 7: and one is eighteen.
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  Speaker 4: So that's what she's looking their way on the door.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what it is.
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  Speaker 1: Now, I'm gonna tell you some people, that's that's why
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  Speaker 1: people are reticent to to sign legal paperwork that further
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  Speaker 1: entangles them things.
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  Speaker 7: Well, you have to sign legal paperwork to get married.
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  Speaker 2: I'm talking about like adopted.
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  Speaker 5: And the well, adoption has nothing to do with this
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  Speaker 5: particular case because these children are not up for adoption,
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  Speaker 5: So it's a.
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  Speaker 2: Total They will she failed. They will be able.
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  Speaker 5: To know they're they're not up for adoption. She's not
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  Speaker 5: trying well. First of all, one of them is eighteen,
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  Speaker 5: so it's not a lot she could do with him, ayway,
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  Speaker 5: because he's about to be here.
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  Speaker 7: He's sixteen year old.
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  Speaker 2: Her debit card just walked out, is gone.
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  Speaker 7: It's not a for adoption. That's her kid.
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  Speaker 5: And I don't know what would make her quit a
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  Speaker 5: full time job, go to a part time job knowing
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  Speaker 5: she's got to take care of the sixteen.
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  Speaker 2: But she's gonna claim hardship and try to get bread
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  Speaker 2: from him.
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  Speaker 7: Well, it's not gonna work.
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  Speaker 1: You better, man, let me tell you you better SLINKs
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  Speaker 1: of the rib Blizzard, apple Bee. I don't care what
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  Speaker 1: you did. And if the kid is sixteen years old,
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  Speaker 1: hey look at you don't want to live with your
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  Speaker 1: brocass MoMA, no more?
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  Speaker 2: Come with us. We got a good You could have
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  Speaker 2: your own room for two years. Yeah that's what you are. Sixteen?
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  Speaker 2: You could decide to go live with Joe Man.
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  Speaker 5: Well, I will say this in this particular case, she's
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  Speaker 5: not looking to go to court. She wants to just
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  Speaker 5: come to a mutualment in court.
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  Speaker 7: I just want more money.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah we did. We came to one.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah we did that when we got divorced.
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  Speaker 2: Right and no.
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  Speaker 1: You know why she don't want to go to court
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  Speaker 1: because you gotta fair a lawyer, and it would be
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  Speaker 1: hard pressed to get pretend to know where they are.
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  Speaker 5: And she's already paying other legal fees from the first
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  Speaker 5: You better, you better, she knows the answer is gonna
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  Speaker 5: be no.
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  Speaker 1: If I was you, If I was you, I'll get
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  Speaker 1: my job back at CBS, get a pharmacy tech and
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  Speaker 1: get one of them pills that make me dream. That's
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  Speaker 1: what I would do. You need to grab you some
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  Speaker 1: ambience so you can sleep this.
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  Speaker 7: Off, because you wouldn't be able to work.
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  Speaker 2: She ain't working.
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  Speaker 6: Now.
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  Speaker 1: You're an educated woman, You all of a sudden took
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  Speaker 1: a job, a menial job, so you could just get
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  Speaker 1: some bread.
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  Speaker 2: Not a human What kind of example is that?
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  Speaker 1: So the question that we're asking ladies and gentlemen, a
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  Speaker 1: woman she wants more than the ex. She wants more
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  Speaker 1: than child support from her ex because he got married and.
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  Speaker 2: His wife makes more than him, so she's trying to
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  Speaker 2: get both of them. She's trying to hit him off.
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  Speaker 1: She quit her jobs as a as a pharmacy tech
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  Speaker 1: to get a job at Yeah, she's gonna be waiting
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  Speaker 1: on life things unless it's the rock Zilla from Red Lobster.
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  Speaker 1: I can't even talk to Well, we're gonna go to
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  Speaker 1: the phones.
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  Speaker 2: What do you think?
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  Speaker 9: No, I don't think she should be able to get
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  Speaker 9: that money. But I think people need to be careful about.
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  Speaker 10: Who they're married, because when you marry somebody, you take
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  Speaker 10: on their debt.
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  Speaker 5: That is part of it.
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  Speaker 1: So she should have been.
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  Speaker 9: Careful about who she married. And well, he should have
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  Speaker 9: been careful about who he married, and that's their problem.
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  Speaker 6: Man.
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  Speaker 9: My first thought is that the woman should go out
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  Speaker 9: and get another job if she wants more money, Number one.
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  Speaker 9: Number two, if she married someone else, she marries up
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  Speaker 9: and she's gonna get some of the money back.
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  Speaker 6: You don't know, I say, no, heck no, she He
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  Speaker 6: shouldn't pay her more.
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  Speaker 9: That's not her child, that's his child. Why should she
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  Speaker 9: have to contribute to anything? Well, I think possibly yes,
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  Speaker 9: because we don't know what he's already paid. It does
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  Speaker 9: go by it should go by the house old income.
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  Speaker 9: I know my personal experience, I married a lady who
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  Speaker 9: had two kids and the father's income. They were made
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  Speaker 9: double what we did, but you know, they didn't want
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  Speaker 9: to pay what they should and so sometimes they can
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  Speaker 9: need case like that where they should step up and
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  Speaker 9: you know, give a little more.
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  Speaker 1: It ain't even a full time uh wait, it's part
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  Speaker 1: time job, part time game. But there are there are
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  Speaker 1: restaurants you can work at. Like it's a restaurant here
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  Speaker 1: called Bestia. I know that dude. We had a waiter
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  Speaker 1: that was for He didn't even have a front too,
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  Speaker 1: but he was such a dope waiter. And you know,
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  Speaker 1: at restaurants like that they got micheline stars. He's probably
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  Speaker 1: making a thousand dollars a night.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: But even then, though, I think you still have to
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  Speaker 7: work full time.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, wow, it ain't just work part Yeah, a pharmacy
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  Speaker 5: to she, She's not gonna get a job at a
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  Speaker 5: restaurant like that. You gotta know what you're doing. If
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  Speaker 5: the table claws are white, you know what you're doing.
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  Speaker 2: But he did have no to you.
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  Speaker 1: You know, it was a great service, but you couldn't
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  Speaker 1: help a look at this too, and my line Tyler,
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  Speaker 1: and it was the front one. What's the name of
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  Speaker 1: this restaurant again, it's called Best Step, but it's an
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  Speaker 1: excellent restaurant. He was an excellent server. But you could
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  Speaker 1: not take your eyes off that mistic like get a cap.
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  Speaker 7: That is terrible. When you know somebody has you know something,
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  Speaker 7: you can't stop looking at it.
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  Speaker 2: Then come on, he can come. I didn't order.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't order none with any want to spaghet it? No, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: you want to swim no no, no, gall no, give
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  Speaker 1: me another way of s or f.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want none of that, especial. I don't want
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  Speaker 2: none of that.
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  Speaker 1: The question we're asking a wife ex wife wants more money.
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  Speaker 1: Then she wants more than the child support that she's
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  Speaker 1: getting from her ex husband because he married.
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  Speaker 2: Somebody, and then she'd make more money than.
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  Speaker 1: And even if it's what if it's not significant anymore?
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  Speaker 5: I mean, who cares? At this point? You got one
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  Speaker 5: kid who's out the door because he's eighteen.
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  Speaker 7: You got one, and you got two more years and
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  Speaker 7: then it's just you.
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  Speaker 2: Do you remember that?
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  Speaker 7: Keep your job?
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  Speaker 2: We did that story and then she quit her Did
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  Speaker 2: you read that story?
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  Speaker 1: About the lady who married somebody else than her kids
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  Speaker 1: from her previous marriage moved in and they didn't none
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  Speaker 1: of them wanted to work. Remember that they should all
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  Speaker 1: get an apartment together. All these worth the last trifle
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  Speaker 1: and people shoul get a job Together's daddy.
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  Speaker 2: In there, and.
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  Speaker 1: And Ken Due who was married to Mary J Bli.
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  Speaker 1: They can all get an apartment together.
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  Speaker 3: Well, you know friends when they go spend time with
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  Speaker 3: their daddy and they in that new house, the big,
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  Speaker 3: big new house. You know, they bragging on that when
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  Speaker 3: they come back.
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  Speaker 1: Come on, now, you retire you to a state with
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  Speaker 1: no taxes. You're on disability. You know you from the service.
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  Speaker 1: You got this disability. You could still work because it
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  Speaker 1: could be eighty twenty ten. You know what level of disability.
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  Speaker 7: Who wants to be a waitress. You are a CBS
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  Speaker 7: pharmacy tax and you want to get would you like
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  Speaker 7: a straw?
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  Speaker 10: All right, we're going to the phar Well, there's a
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  Speaker 10: lot of us guys that have been through that. I
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  Speaker 10: was disabled and I had my kids, was drown and
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  Speaker 10: when I got my settlement, his mom thought that I
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  Speaker 10: was supposed to go back to court and give up
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  Speaker 10: more money. And we went to court and she lost big. No,
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  Speaker 10: that woman is not responsible for if he's paying his
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  Speaker 10: child support, that's all she should get. And sometime the
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  Speaker 10: courts is crooked, just like you said while ago. If
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  Speaker 10: a certain amount of mind, but that's why you foul
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  Speaker 10: separate and you separate your bills in the house that
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  Speaker 10: covers everything.
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  Speaker 6: I felt that they should not have to pay for that.
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  Speaker 6: Your water was already place prior to them getting married.
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  Speaker 6: And that's a woman who's been on both sides. That's
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  Speaker 6: the stepmom and mom. You have to say, with enough enough,
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  Speaker 6: not being greeting, get what you can because some men
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  Speaker 6: are not even paying child.
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  Speaker 8: Support in the state of Maryland, they could definitely if
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  Speaker 8: you marry someone else, yes you have to pay child support.
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  Speaker 8: That person can go after you for child support. Yes,
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  Speaker 8: yes they can. Let's say you married someone else and
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  Speaker 8: you owe child support to a sibling. Oh you every
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  Speaker 8: bit of they could go in your pay Yes they can, Yes, they.
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  Speaker 6: Can, absolutely not.
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  Speaker 10: I mean, if you and I have child together and
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  Speaker 10: you marry somebody else and your wife needs more money
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  Speaker 10: than you, why should I go.
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  Speaker 6: After your new wife or more money with child support?
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  Speaker 6: The agreement is with him. That's it. This with him.
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  Speaker 6: It's not his fault that his new wife is making vain.
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  Speaker 6: But the agreement is with him. The judges are gonna say, sorry,
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  Speaker 6: but your agreement is with this man. He's the father
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  Speaker 6: of the child. That's what your that's what your decree
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  Speaker 6: is for. Does he say that he couldn't get married.
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  Speaker 6: Didn't say that, you know, anything like that. All that said,
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  Speaker 6: just what he pays the child support.
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  Speaker 2: That's it. A dominicano, my little dominicano. What's up? What
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  Speaker 2: do you think?
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  Speaker 7: It's very simple?
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  Speaker 3: Nope?
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  Speaker 2: Why he breathed so hard to tell me? He's very
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  Speaker 2: very simple.
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  Speaker 4: You know.
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  Speaker 2: That's funny, I say, I hear, hear. We got a
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  Speaker 2: respiratory therap. It's online too. I think that's unnecessary.
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  Speaker 7: Did you take that back and breathe again?
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  Speaker 2: This is our next time it's going out there. Breathe again,