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- 0:00All right, hello everybody, and welcome to Honey Badger Radio. This is
- 0:05maintaining frame number seventy. My name is Brian. I'm joined by Allison,
- 0:09our boss, and we're gonna be talking about Rome, I guess, or
- 0:15we're gonna be talking about people's opinions on the fact that men think about Rome
- 0:20or other sort of similar, parallel things and apparently that is a problem.
- 0:26So before we get into the topic, I'm gonna hand the I'm gonna hand
- 0:32the microphone, I guess, the floor. I'm gonna hand the floor over
- 0:36to Allison. So Allison, you can do the things now. There once
- 0:40was a dream. There was one dream. It was a dream called Rome.
- 0:46Yeah, you could only whisper it. That's one of my favorite quotes
- 0:51from this movie. I always quote Gladiator and I do that with my friends,
- 0:55like you coulterally whisper it anything more than a whisper fetish. Uh.
- 1:03There's a there's a really totally, really great, hilarious and totally unbiased history
- 1:08of the Roman Empire on YouTube and I forget the channel name because I'm terrible
- 1:14for that, but it's great. It's great. You know, really hates
- 1:19the germs, though, okay, all right, So if you would like
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- 3:00Rome. Yeah, So shout out to the Rumble Gang really quick. Hello
- 3:05Rumble Gang, Please go and follow us over on Rumble because you never know,
- 3:08one day we might just be gone from YouTube. Also, just as
- 3:12a side note, because I am I am gonna kind of cape, I'm
- 3:16gonna simp for Rumble a little bit here. I don't know if you heard
- 3:20about this house and completely unrelated but sort of related. Russell Brand has been
- 3:25accused of you know, well basically the R word. But it's come out
- 3:31also that the BBC, because they want to distance themselves from him and also
- 3:37kind of unperson him, has gone and written letters requesting that or sort of
- 3:45applying some pressure to big tech sites like TikTok YouTube and Rumble suggesting that maybe
- 3:53they demonetize Russell Brand because he's spreading you know, dangerous ideas and he's bad
- 3:58for I guess their pursuit of controlling truth and the narrative. And Rumble told
- 4:03them to fund themselves in a very polite way. So I say, support
- 4:10us on Rumble, follow us over there, so you know it's yeah,
- 4:12it wasn't It's the UK government exactly, mister oh three oh three in the
- 4:15Rumble chat. What's up? So just put it out there. You know,
- 4:19maybe it's a good idea to have a Rumble so you can follow us
- 4:25there and watch our videos there. So anyway, okay, So it was
- 4:29it was the UK government that I yeah, because yeah, the UK government.
- 4:34Oh but yeah, BBC is a government thing, but the Parliament basically
- 4:40like contacted, Rumble, YouTube, TikTok at the very least. I don't
- 4:46know if there was other places. Yes, No, I really don't watch
- 4:49a lot of YouTube personalities. I know that's hilariously hypocritical, but I don't
- 4:55consider myself a YouTube personality regardless. Uh, but what is okay? So
- 5:02I listened to what Karen's summation in the last show that we did that basically
- 5:08what he's being alleged to have done was not actually anything approaching sexual assault.
- 5:15It was just basically being a promiscuous man who had multiple partners at the same
- 5:19time or something. Well, because he was a super famous guy and women
- 5:24wanted to have sex with him. I mean, that's ultimately what it is.
- 5:28I mean. And of course now that he's because when he was like,
- 5:31you know, on their side, he was a part of that machine.
- 5:35He was acting that way. Nobody had a problem with it, nobody
- 5:38said anything, nobody complained. And now that he's struck out on his own
- 5:41and he's essentially criticizing the establishment, now they're like, there's women coming out
- 5:46of the woodwear. It's being you know, it's it's what we've said for
- 5:49I don't know, since before Me Too started, was like, what,
- 5:53you're weaponizing women's victimhood to destroy people, and they're mainly aiming it at men
- 5:59that they don't like. Because if Russell brand had still been essentially on the
- 6:02side of you know, the UK government or the BBC, these allegations would
- 6:06not have come out. It's only coming out now, you know, So
- 6:11what exactly has he what is his great what is his real great offense?
- 6:15I mean, I actually I trust I trust Karen when she says she's looked
- 6:19at the allegations and she figures that they there's nothing really that actionable about it,
- 6:25which is why they're not going to apparently they're not bringing it into a
- 6:29legal arena. They're just going to keep it to the social lynching sphere.
- 6:33Yeah, but what is it that he's done specifically, like him that what
- 6:39is his real crime? Seducing women? No, no, no, no,
- 6:43no, I'm not looking about the bullshit. I'm talking about real crime.
- 6:46Well, you know, Yes, he's been outspoken against the Koup and
- 6:49the JAB, that's I think that's the primary thing he's been very critical of,
- 6:56and other kind of over extensions of various government institutions. But I think
- 7:00primarily it's that I don't really know because I don't watch Russell Brand's show,
- 7:04because I've seen like a couple of clips, and there's nothing that he's saying
- 7:09that other people who are probably less popular haven't already said. So I don't
- 7:14really you know, And this is not a criticism of Brand or anything like
- 7:16that, But I'm just saying that I don't watch him, so I don't
- 7:19know specifically, but I do know the general thrust of his content is essentially,
- 7:26you know, criticizing the establishment, criticizing the machine. So and that's
- 7:33you know, yeah, maybe some things about Ukraine, maybe some things about
- 7:38the JAB, maybe some things about money, money printing. I don't know,
- 7:42you know, but the point is he's going against the grain and that's
- 7:45not allowed. Yep. Tho, Okay, all right, fair enough.
- 7:48They've they've they've hit him with this series of yeah, allegations, according to
- 7:55Karen, of being promiscuous successful. It is basically the that's that's successful accused.
- 8:05He's accused of being a slut. He stands accused of being a slut.
- 8:07Okay, yeah, I didn't realize that was illegal. It is when
- 8:11you're a man and and you have the wrong opinions, it's okay when you're
- 8:16on the right side. Of course. Of course, we slut shame women
- 8:20more than men. Of course we do. It's all we do. You
- 8:22know. Ironically, you know, it used to be illegal to be a
- 8:26male slut, like literally illegal, like you could get charged and sent to
- 8:28jail for it if you had sex with a woman. Then she felt that
- 8:33you had deprived her of her rightful access to I don't know, matrimony,
- 8:41Like it's called breach of promise. And uh yeah, you could be sued
- 8:48or not even not even sued. You could be put into jail just for
- 8:52being a promiscuous man in the past. And I guess we're going back to
- 8:54that. I noticed that we seem to be going back to the old sexual
- 8:58morals of jail, promiscuous men, lynching men, that kind of thing.
- 9:03Boy, the we're gonna see some serious backlash to the whole free love thing.
- 9:07I guess nobody really wanted men to have sex if the babies didn't result,
- 9:15didn't result from that. It wasn't for men, it was for women.
- 9:18They were the ones oppressed anyway. Yeah, but the problem is that
- 9:22when you have free love, men have sex. Yeah, I know,
- 9:26but that's men might be enjoying themselves, right, and that shouldn't be allowed.
- 9:31That shouldn't be allowed. Yeah, basically, Okay, No, I
- 9:35mean, like, I'm not a particularly slutty person, but I don't think
- 9:39sluts should go to jail. No, I don't either. I mean,
- 9:41like, well, yeah, obviously, but we've seen we're seeing this,
- 9:46you know, it happens in in threes. Like, uh, we have
- 9:52Danny Masterson from that seventy show getting thirty years for like twenty year old allegations.
- 9:58We have Russell Brand who they can't like convict him for anything criminal,
- 10:03but they're just trying to destroy his reputation. Uh. And then we have
- 10:09I think there was David what is his name, David Iowade or something,
- 10:13the guy from humor that show I T Crowd. He was like the Kiwi
- 10:18guy on there. Yeah, he's been accused or he's being canceled for something
- 10:22too. He's even he doesn't even like, you know, he's not even
- 10:26a vocal like you know guy or whatever. So they're just they're just weaponizing
- 10:33women's victimhood on everybody. They don't care. Well. They get it to
- 10:37Tim Tim Ballard too, because you know, he goes on undercover to try
- 10:41and like rescue you know, trafficked children, and sometimes it means he has
- 10:46to go under an alias, and sometimes he has to like bring a woman
- 10:48along and they also have to operate under an alias, you know, for
- 10:52their own protection, and that is him coercing women as as as noted by
- 10:56the very reliable source known as Vice Magazine. Well this, I hate to
- 11:01tell everybody, but this, this particular insanity, Like what we're seeing now
- 11:09is a civilization in the grips of dementia. It's just it's just basically a
- 11:13civilization that's gone bonkers nuts either dementia or a deep, deep addiction to female
- 11:22victimhood. And it's just gonna it's just gonna go, Like our civilization is
- 11:26just gonna ride this until it hits the wall. And I don't mean like
- 11:31the well maybe the wall wall. I don't know. It just it just
- 11:33hits rock bottom. How about that? And uh, and that's the only
- 11:37point when our civilization hits rock bottom, that will be the point it might
- 11:43start to think about what it's, you know, like the overriding narrative that
- 11:48it's been been riding into the ground for for however long. But like it's
- 11:54it's best to just step back and realize that we are in a civilization in
- 12:00the grip of dementia or deep, deep addiction, and it's it's just going
- 12:07to get worse. No offense, guys. The only the only protection we
- 12:11have is to stop enabling it and to just protect ourselves as much as we
- 12:16can from it, and just frame it in such a way that we don't
- 12:20invest too much in it, you know, keep doing what we're doing,
- 12:22keep fighting the good fight, of course, but realize that there's no fixing
- 12:28this Like this is our civilization has chosen the face of its destroyer, of
- 12:35the destructor, and it is feminism. It is the absolute, unshakable belief
- 12:41that women are victims of society, while everything that you claim that women are
- 12:46victims of will eventually be destroyed. That's how it works. That's why when
- 12:52you want to go to war with Oceana, you say Oceana is a threat
- 12:58to our women. Oceanna is going to kidnap and rape and murder and torture
- 13:03them. Just imagine Oceanna's claws all over all over Eurasia's women, and then
- 13:11everybody's there. They're damnder's up and they go to war. And even better,
- 13:16Oceana hates its own women. Therefore we should bomb them all where when
- 13:20we kill those Oceana women, we're fraying them from the dread grasp of misogyny.
- 13:26These these are the narratives that that put a red flag on something to
- 13:30be destroyed, and we have literally said, well, what else can we
- 13:33put this red flag on to destroy? Like this? Are these are the
- 13:37coordinates to send the artillery folks, Oh well, let's do it to our
- 13:39entire society HERPERTRP. That'll work long term for us. And when you point
- 13:45this out, people just just turtle or they get really really really aggressive and
- 13:52defensive. And it's it's actually, you know, I sort of like the
- 14:00things that I enjoy. You know, I think I live a pretty modest
- 14:03life, but I'm fine with it. In you know, central heating,
- 14:07internal plumbing, electricity, the web, all great things. I'd like to
- 14:13keep them, but apparently we can't because women were women most affected. And
- 14:20to bring it back to the title, now, not only is it women
- 14:24most affected. Meteor hits Earth, women most affected. Stock market crashes,
- 14:28women most affected. Millions of men die, women most effective. Millions of
- 14:33men are raped, tortured, and thrown into a pit. Women women most
- 14:37affected. You know, a billion men die, women most affected. Not
- 14:41that now, it's men think of neutral past past, something neutral in the
- 14:46past, relatively neutral women most affected. Men do innocuous thing by themselves without
- 14:52any anything to do with women. Women most affected, Men exist, women
- 14:58most affected. Men breathe women most affective. Men have hair, women most
- 15:01affected. You know, men take walks down street in street parks. Women
- 15:05most affected. Like everything, even the most innocuous thing. And this is
- 15:11what I'm talking about, when we are looking at a society in the grip
- 15:13of dementia, even the most innocuous thing, women most affected. Like how
- 15:24at what point I'm at this point, I'm just like watching this, and
- 15:28I'm saying, at what point does the average person with any sense of sanity
- 15:33just step back and say, hmm, yeah, maybe not. You know,
- 15:39maybe maybe this isn't the case. You know, maybe women aren't being
- 15:45abused by men thinking about rome. Maybe not, you know, maybe that's
- 15:48just not not really happening. And yet how many, how many media outlets
- 15:54have now framed this in this way, like I think I sent you about
- 15:58six at least, m hm, And and it's in response to internet meme,
- 16:07and they're framing it as victimization of women, like we're really scraping.
- 16:11We're not even scraping the bot. We've scraped through the barrel and now we're
- 16:14scraping dirt. Now we're scraping like bedwalk Okay, So anyway, I recommend
- 16:23Rumble. That's what I was getting at, because they have stood up for
- 16:26a Russell brand, and Rumble is I think they're good guys over there,
- 16:30and I think they should be supported. So please, uh, you know,
- 16:33you don't have to use Rumble to wash the show, although I think
- 16:37that's helpful because maybe it'll do us some favors over on Rumble. Maybe we'll
- 16:40be able to track more people to watch. But I think it's so good.
- 16:44I it's it doesn't hurt, it's free, really follow us. I'm
- 16:48really surprised we've managed to last this log on on YouTube YouTube. I know
- 16:53what I think a lot of it is people just don't understand what we're talking
- 16:59about. I I can see the gears clicking over when I go on Twitter
- 17:03and I talk to somebody. They're trying to figure out where I fit in
- 17:07the binary, and they I'm just like, I'm just some weird you know,
- 17:12like, uh, what's the compositive and well the binary is uh conservative
- 17:22versus liberal? I guess yeah, and I don't know. So it's a
- 17:29really confused binary at this point because you know, where where do the turfs
- 17:32sit? Conservatives? Perhaps, I think that anyone who thinks that way is
- 17:37a moron. So you have I knew, but you know, there are
- 17:41conservatives who are caping for the turfs, the trans exclusionary radical but they are
- 17:47literally not They're allowing these women to be just like, yeah, we need
- 17:51your protection, the horrible trans women, and they're not pointing out, Yeah,
- 17:56you guys started the whole gender critical thing, like yeah, there was
- 18:00no maybe those turfs, those conservatives that you're talking about, they're just feminists
- 18:04from the nineties, that's all. They're still feminist, though, I mean,
- 18:08there's no I don't I don't know. I don't. I don't think
- 18:11there's very many actual conservatives left that's put it that way from what I've seen.
- 18:15But yeah, well I would have to agree, and I could go
- 18:21into some very esoteric places with that. But let's let's just get to the
- 18:26Yeah, let's get into the stuff. So do you want to start with
- 18:30the article? Do you want to see a couple of clips of men of
- 18:33men being asked by their girlfriends or significant others or wives about Roman Empire?
- 18:38Ooh, I would love to see such a thing. Let's look at a
- 18:41couple of these clips. Let's look at that. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 18:44this is We won't watch the whole thing, but watch a few clips.
- 18:48This is a compilation somebody put together or a supercut or whatever you want
- 18:52to call it. So here we go. How often do you think about
- 18:56the Roman Empire? Yesterday? But I probably don't think about it every day,
- 19:06like every other day? Maybe, well, if I was staying average,
- 19:11half of it is sometimes I think about it every days? But is
- 19:23it though? So basically there are women In case you guys don't know what
- 19:29this is, and I'm sure you probably do, but I thought i'd explain
- 19:32it anyway. So some this started on TikTok, so most of these are
- 19:36TikTok videos, but I don't go to TikTok because I don't want to get
- 19:40close to the Chinese like that. And one woman, I guess started this
- 19:45whole thing and she was like, I asked my boyfriend. I don't know
- 19:48where this came from, but it was like, I asked my boyfriend or
- 19:51my husband how often he thinks about the Roman Empire? And I can't believe
- 19:55it. He thinks about it a lot, okay, or at least more
- 19:57than than apparently women do, which I think there's it's this is a bit
- 20:04of an oversimplification, because I think the truth is is that men think about
- 20:07a lot of stuff. I know it's crazy, right, it's crazy.
- 20:11But you know when a woman asked a man, what are you thinking about?
- 20:15Because maybe he's like zoning out or whatever, and the man will say
- 20:18nothing, He's probably thinking about something like this, but he knows that she
- 20:22wouldn't understand if he told her Yeah, I was thinking about Carthage, you
- 20:26know, or I was thinking about something else, like I was telling Lindsay,
- 20:34you know once when we were talking about this, I was like,
- 20:37you know, sometimes I think about what I would do, Like I play
- 20:41scenario in my head of how I would react if like someone came to our
- 20:45house. I'm like asking myself, how fast can I get to the closet,
- 20:49get the double barrel shotgun, load it, and get to the front
- 20:52door. Like I'm thinking about shit like that. If there was a guy
- 20:55climbing up on our balcony trying to get in the house, how much time
- 20:57would it take? You know? Should I like, should I position stuff
- 21:03a little bit differently that I think that's the kind of stuff that that I
- 21:07think about. I don't know if this is normal for guys or whatever.
- 21:10Like the other day, I dropped Lindsay off at a at a parking lot
- 21:14because she was going in for a job interview because she's thinking about changing jobs.
- 21:18And there was a super sketchy guy like in the parking lot, and
- 21:22I mean, he looked really, really unwell and you don't see a lot
- 21:26of that around here. And I'm watching him go around and Jojo is in
- 21:29the backseat barking at this guy, and I'm like thinking, Okay, if
- 21:32he comes over here, because I had my windows down because it was hot,
- 21:36and I'm like thinking, let's say he like pulls a gun on me
- 21:40or a knife, Like how am I gonna react? What do I do?
- 21:42And I'm like playing these scenarios in my head, and like, you
- 21:45know, it's just I don't know, maybe women don't think about those things,
- 21:48but I feel like men generally have their head on a swivel and they're
- 21:52thinking about stuff like that. And when they're not thinking about that actively,
- 21:56they're thinking about historical like like situations like well, what what would have you
- 22:03know, what would a night have done? Or what would a Roman lesionaire
- 22:07have done? Or something like that. So I do think that there is
- 22:11like the idea of thinking about the Roman Empires. A little bit of it
- 22:14oversimplification because I don't think that's everything that men think about, but but that
- 22:19is what the meme is trying to present. Well, here's another way of
- 22:23looking at it. A lot almost all of our mottos are written in Latin.
- 22:29Yeah, if you are a man who is part of any kind of
- 22:34service like the fire service, police service, e MS, any kind of
- 22:40that, that kind of service, you are going to literally be exposed to
- 22:44Latin mottos every day that you go to work. And that's those are majority
- 22:49male pot uh, majority mail. Then there are you know, like men's
- 22:56clubs that have these kinds of mottos and for es, and I mean there's
- 23:02always like yeah, yeah, there's the influence of that on men that Yes,
- 23:10there's also the architecture in particular, I think the US architecture was going
- 23:15for that, that neoclassical style. So it's in the architecture, you know,
- 23:22it's and also you know, men have an interest in history. They
- 23:26consume a lot of non fiction historical novels, and honestly, like the sheer
- 23:34per capita badassery of Rome is pretty high. So I mean it's a very
- 23:41masculine. I'm not saying only, but it's there is a lot of like
- 23:45positive Yeah, there's a there's a lot of there's a lot of striving and
- 23:52not just not just being you know, like militarily awesome, but also a
- 23:57virtue. So they embodied a lot of virtues in a sort of a very
- 24:02muscular, masculine way, and I can see that appealing to men. I
- 24:06talk about Rome a lot. I think about Rome a lot because it is
- 24:11the civilization upon which we stand. Like in many ways, we are a
- 24:17product of Rome. We exist because Rome existed. We are a reflection and
- 24:22echo of Rome. And to forget that is to forget a lot of ourselves.
- 24:29And it's to me, I don't understand why women don't think of it.
- 24:33That's actually I think the more important thing about this is that the women
- 24:37not only do they obviously not think about at least not the ones in these
- 24:41videos, but but they think it's there's something weird about men thinking about it.
- 24:48They find it strange and yeah, it's well, no, go ahead,
- 24:53I want you to finish before I just I'm just saying that That's what
- 24:57the important to me anyway, The important distinction is is that man that women
- 25:03don't think about it, and they not only that, but they they find
- 25:06that men who do think about it are are there something like there's something wrong
- 25:10with them? Like why aren't you, I don't know, concerned with your
- 25:15fucking hair and makeup or something, your clothes and being murdered? Yeah?
- 25:19Yeah, right, women, men are not concidered about being murdered. Listen
- 25:23to how Brian was framing this, How do I protect lindsay, I'm guessing
- 25:29right, yeah, how do Yeah, that's why men aren't thinking about being
- 25:33murdered, because they're thinking about how to protect you from being murdered. Dumb
- 25:37ass. But the the But what I wanted to say is that this Honestly,
- 25:44women should be thinking about rome because understanding where we came from helps us
- 25:49understand where we are and where we're going. And if you don't have that
- 25:53kind of interest in social systems, why the hell do you have the vote?
- 25:59Yeah? It's like, honestly, if you have no interest in the
- 26:03history of politics, now, I'm a weird outlier. I you know,
- 26:07when I was like eleven, I was reading books on the history of political
- 26:11systems. So I'm one weird kid, I was a weird girl. Let
- 26:17me say, let me tell say that. But if you don't have an
- 26:19interest in that, if you don't have an interest in where politics comes from
- 26:23and how politics is affected not just by wars, but also by social factors,
- 26:30like, for example, the the issue with landowners in Rome, disenfranchising
- 26:37small farmers, leading to a large number of men who had no means to
- 26:44essentially feed their families. So there was an issue, There was a problem
- 26:47with family formation in the late Roman Republic and how that influenced politics. You
- 26:52have no interest in that, ladies, why do you have the vote?
- 26:56Yeah? Like, like, if you have no interest in his, you
- 27:00have no interest in politics, You have no interest in systems, You have
- 27:03no interest in how social pressures affect political systems. You have no interest in
- 27:08any of this. Why do you have the vote? Like? Why?
- 27:15Why is that a thing? And why is that so necessary? If you're
- 27:18going to be so pathologically ignorant about what the vote means, why do you
- 27:23deserve it? You know? Like, the vote isn't just about getting more
- 27:32stuff for yourself. It's about trying to maintain a system that serves everybody in
- 27:38it so that it can continue to exist, you know, and to devote
- 27:44in a way that represents civic responsibility. And if you have no interest in
- 27:48history and the foundations of our civilization, how can you be informed as a
- 27:53voter? You know? And I know that this is what well, I
- 28:02mean, this argument could also be like the the literacy tests and all of
- 28:07that. So as much as I say that this this is something that indicates
- 28:12you should really ask, like, what are we doing with this? I
- 28:17think this should just be a call for women to wake up to their civic
- 28:21responsibilities and think a bit more about Rome. Yeah, that would be nice.
- 28:26All right, let's go back and let's play some more of this video.
- 28:32Why do you think about it every day? That's a good enough answer
- 28:37for me. Okay, I'm gonna move on the next person because it's cool.
- 28:41Yeah, oh, maybe I'll go back because I think he does.
- 28:47I imagine, like, no, that was freak well, yeah, it's
- 28:56it's okay, I get it. It's a we we you know, they
- 29:00people like cross the streams on that all the time. And so I guess
- 29:10what he's saying is like, you know, it's like got these men working
- 29:14together. I mean, you can you can apply that to most of these
- 29:17kind of I don't want to say primitive but prehistorical you know military where the
- 29:23guys are all well yeah, no, Actually, the Greco Roman civilization,
- 29:30the military was pretty distinct, like the planic of the flanks. Look,
- 29:37look, guys, that's got too many complicated syllables from my woman tongue.
- 29:44But uh, you know, and and also the Roman formations, which I
- 29:48will not attempt to pronounce on the spot, but they did rely on a
- 29:55level of cooperation between men and coordination and discipline that was not actually that common
- 30:00in at least the armies of the time, but which is why they were
- 30:03so successful. Okay, let's keep going, all right, So here's another
- 30:08one. How often do you think about the Roman Empire? Awest at least
- 30:21three or four times a week. No, you don't dead serious either about
- 30:26their arms roads. You're making this up. Have you seen TikTok you legit?
- 30:37Do you think about the Roman Empire? Yeah? I mean the nice
- 30:41stuff on takeover? Yeah about it? What do you think about? I
- 30:47just told you I listened off a bunch of stuff. I love that.
- 30:52She's like, are you on TikTok and he's like, no, I'm thinking
- 30:55about Rome. What why. She's like, I can't believe you're not on
- 31:00TikTok and you don't know about this, so it's so like interesting, like
- 31:06how stark you know the male and female experience is, And yes, I
- 31:11know there are exceptions, and yes, I know there are men that don't
- 31:14think about it. Yeah, like, but but I'm not. I am
- 31:15probably one of the few exceptions. Though I'm not taking offensive list because I
- 31:19know I am one average man and say, yeah, what's your what's your
- 31:26most favorite Roman Senator? I'll get an answer. If I do that with
- 31:30a woman, they'll be like what, yeah, Roman Senator. Or do
- 31:34you mean like Joe Biden? I like Joe Biden, Yeah, exactly,
- 31:37exactly, or or no, or they don't even say that. They'll just
- 31:41be like, you know, women will just talk about a woman in power
- 31:45like that's like the end. Oh you know, like Ruth Bader Ginsburg and
- 31:49that'll be the extent of it, right well, because they I don't know,
- 31:53like I'm gonna I'm gonna have a pretty good guest on soon a woman
- 32:00and actually you're she's on your friend named Rachel Wilson. She wrote a great
- 32:09book about feminism, and she said she said in her book that women are
- 32:15much easier to propagandize, and so this is why, well that's her estimation
- 32:22is that this is why there is such a big gap. And I think
- 32:25part of it is, well, how do you propagandize people? You know,
- 32:29you get them involved in in a kind of like social trend and then
- 32:34they join in. Social media is extremely addictive, but particularly for women,
- 32:39and that's why this woman is like, are you on TikTok? And he's
- 32:43like, why would I be on TikTok? Like I'm thinking about Rome.
- 32:46Okay, I'm going to point something out. Yes, women are easy to
- 32:50propagandize, and men know better, but they still do what women want anyway.
- 32:55Yes, that's right, that's right. That's how you know, it's
- 32:58it's yeah, it's that's that's that is the issue. So women maybe more
- 33:02easily propagandas, but for whatever reason, you know, who's the bigger fool,
- 33:07the fool that is foolish or the fool that follows him. Yeah,
- 33:10that's a that's a Star Wars quote. And I know that sounds really anti.
- 33:15It's not it's just calling out men like sometimes you need to use sense,
- 33:20yeah when instead of just just doing what she wants, which I understand
- 33:25is very difficult. But that's what everybody's banking on. All right, Okay,
- 33:30I got a super rumble rand actually Nova Fan twenty one. He gives
- 33:37us two dollars and says, imagine telling and everything is political, lefty feminist,
- 33:43that everything comes from the Roman Empire. And watch them try to pull
- 33:45a confusing, convoluted it's only okay when I do it type of logic.
- 33:51Thank you for that. Well, they yeah, that's what they think.
- 33:53But maybe thinking of our room is political. Maybe these men are mining for
- 34:00another time, obviously a time they never lived in, but maybe there is
- 34:05I think that there there are what a lot of men are thinking about when
- 34:07they think about this, or anyone who thinks about Rome, is they're drawing
- 34:12parallels from Rome to our current you know, current day today, and they're
- 34:15like looking at what what what did Rome do wrong? What do they do
- 34:21right? What are we doing wrong? I think that's what men are doing.
- 34:22I think that's why you know this is coming to mind. So I
- 34:30have a question for you. How often do you think of the Roman Empire.
- 34:35Roman Empire, like in general, I haven't thought of them today,
- 34:39I don't know, twice a month. I haven't thought of the Roman Empire
- 34:44ever. I just think about it. Why from the Bible. It's just
- 34:50history. Okay, So she's like, I never thought about it ever.
- 34:57Really, that's what the woman said, Yeah, I could you know what?
- 35:00I get it? I do. I think that I think that that
- 35:05women's world. I mean, like, well, there was this this uh
- 35:10this screen shot. I think this is a tweet by Lizzie Logan and the
- 35:14Tijuana Brass Okay, says I always wondered what men do with the extra brain
- 35:17space they are don't have to devote to calories and hair care and monitoring their
- 35:22serrontings or murderers. I guess the Roman Empire is as good an answer as
- 35:25any. I think that maybe like women are in such a state of constant
- 35:30fear, like obviously paranoia, that there's no like basis in reality, that
- 35:37maybe they don't think they can enjoy anything. I don't know, can I
- 35:42just bring a sane response to that. Let's go back to that quote.
- 35:45I want to go back to this, yeah this okay, all right,
- 35:47all right? So yes, I think about calories when I'm in putting them
- 35:54into my fitbit after I eat. That takes all of like two minutes.
- 35:59And I also think of about hair care when I'm brushing my hair in the
- 36:01fricking morning, which takes about five minutes. And monitoring their surroundings from murders.
- 36:07Why don't you go live somewhere safer if you are surrounded by murders,
- 36:12like, get out of get out of I don't know, get out of
- 36:15the Ukraine. She's probably in a very safe place, to be honest,
- 36:21you maybe maybe leave leave the active war war theater that you're apparently living in.
- 36:29Go someone or a little more peaceful, such as the United States or
- 36:35Canada or any Western country or Japan if really, although they may not like
- 36:38you wearing your short shorts. Yeah, but first of all, this she's
- 36:46full of crap. I think that men monitor their surroundings from murderers more than
- 36:51women do. And just from what you said about yeah, yeah, what
- 36:58you said about thinking about how fast it would take you to pick out the
- 37:02the the gun from your closet, get it ready, something happened the closet,
- 37:12load it and get to the door, or get to. They're thinking
- 37:15about threats significantly more than women, Lizzy. They think about threats every time
- 37:22they prepare themselves to face one, for example, going into gun range,
- 37:28picking out a gun, making making thinking about how to protect their homes and
- 37:32their families. What do you think they're thinking about all right? And what
- 37:37do you think they're monitoring their surroundings for potential ways that murderers can get in.
- 37:42What do you think they're buying guns for or other forms of self defense
- 37:46for. Yeah, they're thinking about that. They're just not thinking about themselves
- 37:52as being a victim. And it's not because they don't worry of necessarily about
- 37:57being a victim. They probably do. It's because they're worries about their families
- 38:00being victims are bigger than their worries about themselves being victims. So they're monitoring
- 38:07the surroundings for potential threats to their families and the people that they love.
- 38:12This is my experience. You're monitoring it for threats to yourself because you're still
- 38:17lopsistic and selfish and you're a weenie. Ye. So, but you know,
- 38:23like this, if we want, like like I've said multiple times,
- 38:29if women want to be equal, then they need to take equal responsibility for
- 38:34society and equals responsibility for the defense of society. Maybe they can't be as
- 38:37strong, but they can be more alert. They can be aware of their
- 38:43surroundings. They can take note of things that look sketchy, not just things
- 38:45that look misogynists war, but actually sketchy, you know. And honestly,
- 38:52like, I don't know where she's getting off with this. Who spends most
- 38:57time worrying about, thinking about and preparing for self defense men or women?
- 39:01There you go, there's your answer, Lizzie. And I think that this
- 39:07is something that I don't know. It might even be an eight to the
- 39:12beast for men. So I remember, like a couple of weeks ago,
- 39:15me and Jonathan, we walked to the Badger Cave and we play with Skippy
- 39:19in the yard beside the Badger Cave. Scipio is our German shepherd. He's
- 39:24quite a big boy now. And there was some sort of weird guy who
- 39:30went the wrong way down the road and he just for for had every reason.
- 39:37He was throwing up some kind of red flag, and I swear like
- 39:42Jonathan was watching him. Yeah, and the expression on his face I'd never
- 39:46seen it before, But it was one of intense predatory focus, Like this
- 39:52guy, I am paying attention to him, and if he steps a hair
- 40:00a line, you know, I'm thinking about how to neutralize him as quickly
- 40:02as possible. And it's hard to describe that kind of expression until you've seen
- 40:07it. And you don't see it on women's faces. No, it's it's
- 40:13the expression of preparing yourself to do uh, necessary violence or something like that.
- 40:20And I don't think women understand that. And it's it's I don't know,
- 40:28it's something that doesn't come as natural. I think it's an evolved thing
- 40:31for men. I think so think that it was necessary. So, and
- 40:36it's not just violence, it's also resume violence. Yeah, you're preparing your
- 40:42body for potential pain too, exactly because I was thinking like that sketchy guy
- 40:46in the parking lot. I mean, I didn't know what the likelihood of
- 40:51anything was, but I was thinking, like, well, if he does
- 40:53have a knife and I get stabbed, like where would it be best?
- 40:57You know, Like I'm thinking about shit like that. It's not good to
- 41:00think about. Fortunately, nothing happened. He came over and asked me for
- 41:02some change, and Jojo just drove him away because he was just like out
- 41:07of his mind, And the fact that Jojo was reacting that way made me
- 41:09think, yeah, there's something up, because you know, my dog knows
- 41:13when people are being like he barks at sketchy people. I remember one time
- 41:17I brought Jojo up to Canada. Do you remember we were in Saskatoon,
- 41:21Saskatoon, and there was this, uh, drunk indigenous guy. He looked
- 41:29like he was homeless. He approached us, Jojo barked his head off,
- 41:32and that guy just had to walk away. He doesn't bark at anybody unless
- 41:37they give him the hebe gebis or he's trying to like, you know,
- 41:39for some reason. Yeah, does not like white women. Oh yeah,
- 41:46I don't know what it is. You know, he's just extremely leery of
- 41:51them. That's funny. I guess I've I've I've I've influenced him, I've
- 41:55turned him into a misogyn war dog. But no, he doesn't like No,
- 42:00I'm just kidding. It's it's because women are the ones who just sort
- 42:05of press it, you know. Sometimes they're like, I can I touch
- 42:08your dog and it's like, well, I don't know, he might be
- 42:13okay with it, but uh, he doesn't like a lot. Yeah,
- 42:17of like, I don't. I don't know how Joejoe is, but Scipio
- 42:22does. He likes maybe a brief pat and then move along, not even
- 42:29like it wants all the pats, but like, yeah again if if he
- 42:34you know, if he gets a like a vibe from you that he doesn't
- 42:37like. He's never bitten anyone, but he will try to drive them away
- 42:40with barbs. Anyway, let's get back to the video. I'll play one
- 42:45more clip from this and then we'll go into some articles. But how often
- 42:50do you think about the Roman Empire? The Roman Empire? Yeah? I
- 42:55just how often do you think about it? Holy? Every other day?
- 43:00You see? Oh? Never? Why a little frea? How often one
- 43:07more time do you think about the Roman Empire? I don't. You don't
- 43:13think of the Roman Empire? I never saw? You never saw? Can
- 43:17you apply a time to something that is a turtle? The Roman Empires a
- 43:22turtle, Laurie, it's forever. These are the ideas that man man follow
- 43:29up question, is it the same as the holy Roman Empire? You will
- 43:36not mention that accurson thing in this household? Oh men are funny by Rolling
- 43:52Stone. Oh God, I fucking hate you. Yeah, God came out
- 43:59of flamed a little bit. Okay, let's let's doings sent. This guy's
- 44:05wearing a Sabotan T shirt. So it's a dumb question to ask every I
- 44:08know dreams and in SPQR. Yes, so I got. I got.
- 44:23Like these two articles that kind of like jumped out at me. One is
- 44:29from Rolling Stone entitled why are so many men obsessed with the Roman Empire?
- 44:35A new meme shows men are the way more into ancient history than we realize.
- 44:39Mike Duncan, hosts of the popular podcast The History of Roman, explains
- 44:43why, well, what did you think men like, to what degree did
- 44:47you think men were interested in ancient history? Like? What? Why are
- 44:51you surprised? Like men have generally always been interested in in history, especially
- 44:58like you know, the the histories involving conquering and exploration and science and warfare
- 45:07and all of that stuff you know from Can I just add something here?
- 45:10Yeah? Oh no, no, shit, I interrupted you again. I'm
- 45:15sorry. No, it's fine, go ahead. Uh. Honestly, like
- 45:21when you look at the history of the Roman no, I don't want to
- 45:23say the Roman Republic. Maybe it was more in Rome didn't really go out
- 45:30to conquer anything. They just sort of ended fights that other people started.
- 45:37Yeah, you know, and it was like, so this is there's this
- 45:42picture of Rome as being very militaristic, but usually it just wanted to be
- 45:45like, yeah, leave us alone. And they wanted to have buffer states
- 45:49that kept the barbarians further away from their borders. Yeah, and then the
- 45:53you know, they make these arrangement with these buffer states, another buffers,
- 45:58another state would invade the buffer state, and then they would be drawn into
- 46:00the fight, the ensuing fight, and then they would take and it would
- 46:04just kept going like that. They were just really good at ending fights.
- 46:07So it's not like they basically yeah, there's not like they set out to
- 46:14be a gigantic empire. It was just they were the most functional social system
- 46:16at the time, and everybody else was just a void of chaos and not
- 46:22even like chaos and self defeat really, so yeah, I just wanted to
- 46:29I wanted to decape for Rome. There for a moment, I think we've
- 46:31discovered like I don't think we see it as a like again, I think
- 46:37that Rolling Stone and CNN, which is the other article I have, I
- 46:40think they're going to try to paint Rome as some kind of oppressive patriarchal force,
- 46:45and it's fine that you are being clear about what it is. And
- 46:49I think when people say the Roman Empire, they're not I don't think they're
- 46:52really focused on the empire part. They just think that those two words sound
- 46:55good together. It could be the Roman Republic as well, or whatever structure
- 47:00because again the United States Finding Fathers, they based not just the architecture but
- 47:05the actual like structure of the republic itself on the Roman model, or with
- 47:12you know, with the Senate and everything. So I think that there is
- 47:16a lot of parallels to think about. So anyway, so that that's this
- 47:24article, they oh, yeah, yeah, do some do some? Okay,
- 47:29no, look, let's look look at both of them. Yeah,
- 47:30okay, Well the other one is just I'm just gonna give the title CNN
- 47:36opinion men, and the Roman Empire is more than a meme. Friends,
- 47:43Yeah, brace yourself. Right. So I think the Rolling Stone one is
- 47:49a good one to start off with, so I put it first. Did
- 47:53you want do you have any thank yous? Or oh I don't guys,
- 47:58please please just anybody anybody out there listening, Just five bucks, get this
- 48:02started, get the ball rolling. We've got a completely empty field here,
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- 48:38right, tell us about tell us about what when was the last time you
- 48:42thought about Rome and what you thought about Yeah, okay, all right.
- 48:49Honestly, I'm actually really interested in looking at that video because well, it
- 48:54gives you a sense of what these men are actually thinking about Row. Yeah,
- 48:59yeah, talk one. We could play more of it if you want
- 49:00to. Yeah, let's just play more of it, because it's good to
- 49:04have the context of what these guys are saying about what they're thinking about Rome.
- 49:07And then we'll look at what these these ideological uh, these these people
- 49:12who are engaged in ideological dementia think about what men think about Rome? Okay,
- 49:17yeah, what they think about men who think about It's taken face,
- 49:24my psychopath. How often do you think about the Roman Empire? At least
- 49:32twice a day? Are you serious? Twice a day? In what?
- 49:40Like? In what context? I just feel bad for people's civilization. Oh,
- 49:51that doesn't happen again. Oh that's pretty heroic, isn't it. It's
- 49:57like I'm gonna make sure do my part to make sure doesn't happen again.
- 50:00I think the men see what's going on, guys. I think the men
- 50:04around us can see tapping. Yeah, but they're still doing what women want.
- 50:07Well, yeah, but I mean I think that there's there, there
- 50:12are, there are more and more men calling this shit out. So in
- 50:15women you ask, okay, people ask what happened to the Romans and the
- 50:21Roman Empire? We're right here. I got a super child from Ergo Proxy.
- 50:34Thank you, Ergo Proxy. I'm not gonna play a badger chand for
- 50:37you. I'm gonna give you this I am. And he gives us five
- 50:43dollars and says the only thing cooler than Rome is Jojo, which Brian will
- 50:50stream tomorrow at nine thirty Eastern time in the Badger of Discort and also my
- 50:53dog Jojo is pretty cool nine thirty am. Eight Yeah, nine thirty am
- 50:59Eastern time. I'm in the discord tomorrow. Uh. I think you can
- 51:02get into the Dire Hawk the screening room if you are a free user,
- 51:08if you're on Vagination down online. I don't know, Alison, I Bagination
- 51:13down online. The screening room, it's free. It's you can come and
- 51:17watch our selections for movies and such, because we do. We have movies
- 51:22usually Saturdays and Sundays. Have been doing a nonlinear movie night in honor of
- 51:30editing my story for the past week, and we're probably going to continue it
- 51:34for a couple more weeks. So there's there's lots of stuff happening. If
- 51:37you are already in there, like you should should check out the screening room
- 51:40because you can. If you want to join us and chat about movies and
- 51:47watch movies, then we can do that. Yeah, definitely get Vagination butt
- 51:52online. So there's Jojo at nine thirty, but then we stop at noon
- 51:55and then there's a movie. What's the movie tomorrow? You know? Okay,
- 51:59let me see the movie. Nope, I don't I can yet.
- 52:04No, they usually have. I just need to go find it. Okay,
- 52:07Okay, well it should it should be like ben Her or something.
- 52:10I think, uh, because it might be pect I'm trying to find because
- 52:19it's the schedule is put together by one of the patrons, and I have
- 52:25to actually locate it. It might be pinned. Oh yeah, here we
- 52:30go. So September twenty twenty three, that would be the twenty third ye
- 52:37okay, Evangelin Evangeline. Oh, Evangelian, Evangeli Evangelian. And then tomorrow
- 52:45on Sunday it's fear and trembling. Fear and trembling. Yes. And then
- 52:51and then the October is apparently a zombie month. Oh you gotta have yeah,
- 52:55October, you gotta have spooky movies. And then night tonight in the
- 53:00discord, we will be screening another a non linear film by uh, let
- 53:07me do it. This is this is something put on by the writing chat,
- 53:10the writing group. It is let me find it. Sorry, guys
- 53:20prescient, I think let me just Prestige by Peter Nolan or Christopher Nolan.
- 53:30Sorry, Prestige by Christopher Nolan. So that's what we'll be watching tonight.
- 53:35Okay, shall we get back to it? Yeah, let's get back to
- 53:37it. So, next person being asked, how often do you think about
- 53:42the Roman Empire? How often do you think about the Roman Empire? Roman
- 53:46Empire daily? How Alston do you think about the Roman Empire? Just now
- 53:51because you brought it in? How Alton do you think about the Roman Empire?
- 53:54How often do you think about the Roman Empire? How often do you
- 53:58think about the Roman Empire? I haven't thought about the Roman Empire since I
- 54:01was forced to in like high school. How often do you think about the
- 54:04Roman Empire? Not very often? But how often do you think about the
- 54:08Roman Empire? How often do you think about the Roman Empire? Constantly?
- 54:14Really Constantinopoli? This isn't a school, so I don't know. Maybe those
- 54:22guys are. Maybe this guy's a teacher. How often do you think about
- 54:23the Roman Empire? I think all the time for real, because they remind
- 54:29me of sports. Often do you think about the Roman Empire? Ye?
- 54:32See what I'm saying. Yeah, there's a different thing to take away from
- 54:36it, for sure. No, but there's the he's into sports, therefore
- 54:39he's thinking a lot because they're you know, the letters and the stuff,
- 54:43right, Yeah, for sure, for sure. Yeah, okay, let's
- 54:46keep going. Let's keep going. Roman Empire. How often do you think
- 54:52about the Roman Empire? Probably more than people would think. How often do
- 54:55you think about the Roman Empire? No, who, I'm gonna ask you
- 55:01again? How often do you think about the Roman Empire? At least two
- 55:10to three times a day? What do you think about? Well, when
- 55:17I'm driving on the road, I think, man, we went from cobblestone's
- 55:21to asphalt. So smooth, so much smooth. What were you telling me
- 55:25about a cave? Oh? Yeah, in the Dead Sea caves they found
- 55:30four very well preserved Roman swords. It's pretty cool. I'm just pausing for
- 55:37the banana bation. Yeah. That's although I think that the copyright won't be
- 55:43because it's a compilation. It's yeah, it's a super cut, but I
- 55:46mean, like I you know, I don't want to roll the dice on
- 55:49that anyway. So anyway, Yeah, let's they built durable roads. Yes,
- 55:57I was all exciting, and you just think about this all day?
- 56:00Yeah, every day? Why does she? I mean, it's so weird
- 56:07to me that she finds it so like funny that we think about this stuff.
- 56:13Maybe, you know, it's almost like it's almost like it's the first
- 56:15time that women got to look into what kind of things men think about,
- 56:20and they don't know how to handle it, because if you'd asked them about
- 56:23something like I don't just think about the Roman Empire. I think about feudal
- 56:28Japan. I think about the romance of the three kingdoms in ancient China,
- 56:32the king dynasty, you know, I think about King Arthur. I think
- 56:36about like the Civil War, World War two, World War One, like,
- 56:42you know, all these things. I mean a lot of war stuff,
- 56:45for sure, But but I think about that though, because it's like
- 56:49this, the conflict is the same everywhere in the world at all points in
- 56:52history. So it's interesting whatever you do, you really what do you think
- 57:12about? So like, what do you think about? What about it?
- 57:19This is kind of loud, I'm sorry, but he says all the roads
- 57:22lead there, and he says he thinks about Caesar. So yeah, it's
- 57:27still this is this This sound is awful. Yeah, I'm gonna skip this
- 57:30one. That's your question, Okay, how often do you think about the
- 57:37Roman Empire? How often do I think about the Roman Empire. Yeah,
- 57:44pretty consistently. You're kidding, like, how many? Because I'm big into
- 57:50martial arts, like seeing it's a different thing. How often? How often?
- 57:54Yeah, do you think about the Roman Empire? Like a number weekly?
- 58:00Thinking about it weekly? Think about like walking into the colisseum. It's
- 58:10like a fight to the death and people are around and cheering, like I
- 58:15have to win. I think about it constantly. Is that the only way
- 58:17that you think about it? Already? Think about like other things Now,
- 58:21I think about society and politics and like how corrupt, aren't you know the
- 58:25upper portion of our society is and how the lower portion is always kind of
- 58:30picking up the pieces. I think about that a lot. Guy's kind of
- 58:37based basically what I was talking about too. Yeah. Yeah, They're thinking
- 58:43about infrastructure, They're thinking about social political systems, they think about social pressures,
- 58:47thinking about cool uniforms, I suppose, and sports bad ass man.
- 58:55It's like, okay, that's one thing that Romans got over the Vikings is
- 59:00the Romans have the armor and the weapons. But anyway, I'm sorry,
- 59:06and they had the tactics, but uh, the Vikings would never have really,
- 59:14I know, no, I mean there was an overlapping like during the
- 59:21uh, the the the Eastern Empire, like, uh, there would have
- 59:25been some the Virgin very very very Indian, I don't know how to pronounce
- 59:30that. A guard would have come from a lot of I guess Scandinavian stock.
- 59:35So, but then the Vikings would be fighting for the Eastern Roman Empire
- 59:40as opposed to against it. So yeah, yeah, and at the time
- 59:45there wasn't There wasn't a lot of they sort of abandoned their the whole legion
- 59:51that kind of extremely disciplined uh uh drilling, like creating extremely disciplined, coordinated
- 59:58organized army. There. It was one Eastern Empire emperor who went back to
- 1:00:05that and had a lot of success, but that was close to the end.
- 1:00:07I think of that of the Eastern Empire. I'd have to look it
- 1:00:10up again, but anyway, go ahead. No, I was gonna say,
- 1:00:14have you seen that meme? Like it's like how society wants men to
- 1:00:17dress, how men actually want to dress, And it's like it's like a
- 1:00:22man in a suit for the first one and the other one he's got he's
- 1:00:25wearing armor. I'm just it's it's so true, Like I mean, it's
- 1:00:31not practical. But I'm you know, a suit of armor in my house
- 1:00:36would be fucking cool as shit. So yeah, yeah, I would totally
- 1:00:43like in like yeah, I mean, unfortunately, I can't be like authentic
- 1:00:46because Tino, like Indians, they they didn't wear armor. They had like
- 1:00:52I would be wearing like banana leaves and shit, I'm not gonna do that.
- 1:00:55But but yeah, like like whatever, I don't care if it's crusader
- 1:01:00shit or if it's Viking shit or Samurai shit. I think armor is looking
- 1:01:05cool. So anyway, let's uh, let's let's keep going. I'm shocked.
- 1:01:10I don't I haven't thought about the Roman Empire and never what kind of
- 1:01:15what kind of trick is this? This is not a trick, I'm shocked
- 1:01:19a trick nix Small. They're like, there's this trend of all these women
- 1:01:25asking their boyfriends husbands how much you think about the Roman Empire? And I
- 1:01:30just thought, like this hat wasn't real. No, like men, I
- 1:01:34think to our court were warriors. We have to be ready for battle at
- 1:01:37all times, and the Roman Empire is all about battle common sense. I
- 1:01:44am shook. That's a big simplification. They were. They were actually very
- 1:01:50successful, but much more successful because when they pacified a region, they actually
- 1:01:54brought benefit to it. So what was happening is that these regions wouldn't necessarily
- 1:02:02if another force invaded, they wouldn't rebel against the Roman Empire or the Roman
- 1:02:07Republic because they they had infrastructure built by Romans and they were settled by Romans.
- 1:02:15So it is more complicated than oh, yeah, they were just fighters.
- 1:02:19They were really they were really good at being statesman as well, and
- 1:02:23the idea that for sure for them the first step in conquering, conquering,
- 1:02:30even though it was more like they ended up getting sucked into other people's conflicts.
- 1:02:35The first step was to pacify the people, but then to build up
- 1:02:40the region with infrastructure, with you know, aqueducts, roads, you know,
- 1:02:45it's like that scene and from the Monty Pythons The Life of Brian.
- 1:02:51What's the Roman Empire? What's the Roman? What are the Romans ever done
- 1:02:54for us? And then they list a whole bunch of things that was actually
- 1:03:00true, and it was why they could hold land. They could hold together
- 1:03:06a wide swath sloth swath swap swash swap, wide swap. It's like a
- 1:03:19swath, but with paths like rote, they could hold that together and resist
- 1:03:28invasion because they didn't just like previously, other states, and I don't even
- 1:03:32know if you call them states, other royal lineages would basically go into another
- 1:03:39place, you know, subjugate the people and then demand tribute and offer nothing
- 1:03:45in return, because the idea was that you know you were subjugated, therefore
- 1:03:51you now owed. It was sort of like protection money. You now owed
- 1:03:54the person who'd subjugated you money in order for them to not go back and
- 1:03:59beat the shit out to you again. Right, But that wasn't really the
- 1:04:02more Roman philosophy. It was more about the first step was to passify militarily
- 1:04:09and then to build up the region, which also helped to keep it within
- 1:04:14control because now they had roads to bring their legions back. It's necessary.
- 1:04:18But again, when you're starting to use those roads and those then you're you're
- 1:04:23calling it quote unquote colonizers are actually bringing significant benefit. Then you know you're
- 1:04:29less inclined to want to throw off the yoke. When some asshole rolls over
- 1:04:32the hills and says, ah, yeah, you help us go, you
- 1:04:36know, defeat the Romans, and you're like, well, but does that
- 1:04:40mean we have to give up our our aqueducts, you know, So that
- 1:04:45that's that's it's a little bit of a simplification because they were more than just
- 1:04:49Roman warriors. There were statesmen, you know, and that was a big
- 1:04:54part of their success. Okay, let's continue keep going. Yeah, sure,
- 1:05:00Babet, how often do you think about the Roman Empire more than you
- 1:05:12believe? Like? How often my logic, I think about Nero and Caligula
- 1:05:23oath? Like how often like daily or weekly? No, I'm asking you
- 1:05:30are interesting choices like how often at least once a week? For real,
- 1:05:36at least once a week. That was pretty dope, I tell you,
- 1:05:45I can't say it. He is Collegula. I mean I saw the movie.
- 1:05:54Unfortunately, I was just aligulent roma on your Oh those are some very
- 1:06:00interesting choices. Yeah, talk about it from the kid in front of the
- 1:06:06kids. Okay, I think we know. All right, let's keep going.
- 1:06:13You want to linger on this one? Well, it does give you
- 1:06:15a peek in the you know that some male psychology. I mean, with
- 1:06:20all of these, like when you take them all to consideration together, often
- 1:06:26do you think about the Roman Empire about? Yeah? Every day? Yeah,
- 1:06:40Hey, Dade. You know what I want to point out. Yeah,
- 1:06:44okay, so the one the guys who have women in their lives,
- 1:06:47and a lot of them are obviously fathers, and in their long term relationships,
- 1:06:51they're the ones who think about Rome. And that woman just sort of
- 1:06:54went and talked to her co workers and they some of them were like no
- 1:06:59or never her. Yeah. Yeah, So it's interesting that there's this bit
- 1:07:02a bit of a contrast here. You know, maybe they don't feel comfortable
- 1:07:06revealing that kind of stuff with her, or alternatively, maybe they're men who
- 1:07:14think about Rome are more likely to be in long term relationships. Yeah,
- 1:07:18who knows. Well, it's true maybe, like you know, these men
- 1:07:24that are in the workplace with that woman, I think it was a school
- 1:07:28they didn't really feel like close enough to her to tell her what they really
- 1:07:30think. But it's it is also another way you could and I'm you know,
- 1:07:35speculating here, I don't know, but if maybe, if you are
- 1:07:39a father, you are thinking about more than just like the right now,
- 1:07:44right You're thinking about your children and and what was what you're gonna leave for
- 1:07:48them, and you're gonna be looking at it in the in the sense of
- 1:07:51legacy. And then that means you're also going to look backwards, you know,
- 1:07:56at other previous legacies to see, like what would you like, you
- 1:08:00know, your kids to be I sort of like the minimum, you know,
- 1:08:05because obviously the standards of living are much higher now than they were in
- 1:08:10Rome. But the there's still a lot from that. Yeah, but there's
- 1:08:15still a lot from that period that we're taking for granted that we could have
- 1:08:20well, let me let mere social stuff though, go ahead. Rome would
- 1:08:25probably be much more recognizable to us than the qualid rest of the world.
- 1:08:30Yeah, Like just like people with who are about with about the intellect of
- 1:08:38a of a of a dog, and you know, and all around the
- 1:08:43world they don't have they aren't much more than animals, you know. And
- 1:08:48uh, and then you have Rome, and the people in Rome would have
- 1:08:51been a lot more recognizable to us mentally than anybody else in that world at
- 1:08:58that time. Yeah. Yeah, okay, let's keep going, all right,
- 1:09:01let's keep going. I get a question, huh, A question for
- 1:09:06you? Give me one thing? I hold that up? Boys could be
- 1:09:09called that. Yeah, sorry, how often do you think about the Roman
- 1:09:15Empire, like specifically or an abstract just just that's a good point, Like,
- 1:09:27well, I mean we learned a lot of lessons from the Roman Empire.
- 1:09:30Like a lot of our military strategy comes from the Roman Empire. A
- 1:09:32lot of our like modern plumbing comes round an oract like I guess in that
- 1:09:35case, like I don't know as as as often as like maybe once a
- 1:09:42week, once a week, like an abstract yeah, like how often am
- 1:09:48I specifically thinking about like the Roman Empire? Like I don't know, maybe
- 1:09:53more like once a month, but like, I mean, we learned a
- 1:09:57lot from the Romans. Yeah, we live often. Yeah, I don't
- 1:10:00even remember what the empire was in school? Your husband, I think about
- 1:10:10the Roman Empire? Did I give an answer that is like stereotypically guy?
- 1:10:14So good? You do me? I mean, it's but I think she
- 1:10:23thinks this is really funny. But I think that what's sad is that these
- 1:10:27women none of them get it. They don't get it. Like I'm like,
- 1:10:31what what are you thinking about? Like what like if you know,
- 1:10:35if you find out what I'm thinking about is shocking? What are you thinking
- 1:10:39about? That's why? I like, do you think about like potentially becoming
- 1:10:44a concubine and some like you know under Genghis Khan, Like, is that
- 1:10:48is that what you think about? I don't know. I don't know.
- 1:10:54It's just funny and it's like you you know, I learned about it in
- 1:10:58high school, but that's not what I took like I was getting in and
- 1:11:01all of my other media. You know, I mentioned ben Her and Spartacus
- 1:11:08the movie, not the show. That's just like a bunch of dick.
- 1:11:13I didn't watch the show because I didn't have cable. But or there was
- 1:11:15an HBO show called Rome. I never saw that either, So, I
- 1:11:18mean, though obviously there was always a market, there was always interest.
- 1:11:21But it's weird that these women find it shocking that men are thinking about history.
- 1:11:27Essentially, it's history we're talking about, right, Well, I mean
- 1:11:30I'll like, yeah, Roma's but also what about you know, Renaissance Italy.
- 1:11:38Yeah, how about the French monarchy all this stuff leading up to the
- 1:11:42French Revolution, but the American Revolution, like British history, all of this
- 1:11:45stuff is fascinating. Yeah, let's let's let's do it. Let's sit here
- 1:11:49with this guy. How depends on what the books I read, But generally,
- 1:12:10if I'm not reading any like books that had some kind of historical.
- 1:12:13I don't know. It's like probably the ones every other week or more often,
- 1:12:17depend on the book. If a book references it that I'm I thinking
- 1:12:20about a Look, we're not recording. It's a topic that comes up on
- 1:12:30history books because it catches all the things. So if it's in a book,
- 1:12:35how do you about it? What are you thinking about that's in the
- 1:12:39book. If it's about technological innovation, and then it could be acroducts or
- 1:12:46something. If it's a book about how Europe to keep a thing, it
- 1:12:53could be warm. Or if it's a good book about government. A lot
- 1:12:56of governments rooted in the Uh. These guys are so adorable. I want
- 1:13:10to hug them. Oh oh, I want plushies of them. They're so
- 1:13:15cute. Their responses are so adorable. Like and now I've discovered the secret
- 1:13:23appeal to HBr. It's the fact that I'm obsessed with Rome. And yeah,
- 1:13:29apparently I never understood it until today. Yay, Oh, I have
- 1:13:38a purpose. Okay, let's let's let's find out what. Yeah, let's
- 1:13:45run out. Let's hear what the people in the dementia wing of the of
- 1:13:51the of the Old Old Civilian civilizations homes have to say before we do.
- 1:13:59I don't know if you want to see if there's any thank yous, or
- 1:14:01if you're under any arm twisting or whatever. Yeah, it's it's been sort
- 1:14:04of quiet today. You guys are not it's not an interesting topic. Yeah,
- 1:14:10I mean, does this topic not interest you? Guys? You're not
- 1:14:13getting your mom You're not entertain Oh man, okay, all right, well
- 1:14:23whatever. We might be having something coming through as a super child, but
- 1:14:26it seems to be it's in the pipe. I don't think it's gone through
- 1:14:30yet. It's in the pipe. We'll see if it's we'll see if it
- 1:14:32succeeds, and if it isn't, I'll give me. Yeah, I guess
- 1:14:35whoever. We just started this, so I'm not expecting you know much today.
- 1:14:40So all right, so let's look at this rolling stone thing. So
- 1:14:44there are very few people who know more about the history of ancient Rome than
- 1:14:46Mike Duncan, the creator and hosts of the tremendously popular History of Rome podcast,
- 1:14:50which first aired between two thousand and seven and twenty twelve. Duncan has
- 1:14:55essentially devoted his career to studying the inner workings of the Roman Empire, also
- 1:14:59writing a book, The Storm Before the Storm, which appeared on the New
- 1:15:01York Times Best seller list on the topic. And I got a super child
- 1:15:09from Hothead Studios. Let's sit it, and he gives us five dollars,
- 1:15:14but he does not attach a comment. So Hothead Studios, if you meant
- 1:15:19to say something, just make a post in whatever live chat you're in and
- 1:15:28tag at badge of live streams. I will be on the lookout for your
- 1:15:31comment and I'll read it if you meant to attach a message. Otherwise,
- 1:15:34thank you so much for the support. Appreciate it. Okay. So,
- 1:15:40when a trend started circulating on TikTok of women asking their husbands and boyfriends how
- 1:15:45often they think about the Roman Empire, only for them to immediately respond that
- 1:15:48they think about it on a daily basis, Duncan seemed like the perfect person
- 1:15:51away in, As he told Rolling Stone on Friday, quote, the trend
- 1:15:56is so potent it pulled me back on a Twitter for the first time in
- 1:15:59months. I'm getting tagged by everyone about everything. End quote. Rolling Stone
- 1:16:04spoke with Duncan by phone to discuss ancient rome, why men love it so
- 1:16:09much, and which celebrities think about it on a daily basis. Mark Zuckerberg,
- 1:16:13Yes, Beyonce not so much. Well yeah, okay, prepare yourselves
- 1:16:16for some serious one good man spam from Duncan, who incidutely does not have
- 1:16:23any expertise in male psychology despite being a man. That means he's only talking
- 1:16:29about himself when he speaks in this. So, all of the one good
- 1:16:32men who think that you're you're I don't know what you think you're doing by
- 1:16:36dumping on other men. You're talking about yourselves when you talk about men.
- 1:16:42You're not talking about men, You're talking about yourselves. So let's find out
- 1:16:45what Duncan. Why Duncan thinks about the Roman Empire? All right, Okay,
- 1:16:49unless I'm being I'm pre pre judging him. I don't know. I
- 1:16:54was going to jump to a specific question because they haven't they haven't laid out
- 1:16:58in a Q and A fashion, and some of this stuff is like whatever,
- 1:17:02you mentioned that the woman in the TikTok was flabbergascid that her husband thought
- 1:17:08about the history of ancient Rome that much. Were you flabbergascid by how quickly
- 1:17:12he responded to that question? No, I laughed, of course, because
- 1:17:15it's great stuff. The fact that you know just without even missing a beat.
- 1:17:19The only thing that is surprising about it is that usually when guys think
- 1:17:23about something like the Roman Empire once per day, they often feel compelled to
- 1:17:27share the fact that they were thinking about the Roman Empire. So it's a
- 1:17:30little funny to me that the women and their wives didn't know that they were
- 1:17:33thinking about the Roman Empire. Actually, I don't think that they are.
- 1:17:38Also, all of these women were surprised by the response of their men.
- 1:17:42Yes, okay, So what you are saying, Duncan is what happens in
- 1:17:46your life to your wife, not any other men like this is this is
- 1:17:51Duncan saying his wife knows that he thinks about Rome. What a surprise if
- 1:17:56he's married, that the person who produced a five year podcast on Rome,
- 1:18:00his wife knows that he thinks about Rome. Shocking, Like the salopsism is
- 1:18:05strong with this individual. All right, let's keep going, all right,
- 1:18:12let's see. Uh, that's what's so funny to me about it. It's
- 1:18:17not even so much the answer as it is the fact that none of these
- 1:18:20men are surprised by the question at all. They've been waiting for their entire
- 1:18:25lives to be asked this question. Well, actually they were surprised, but
- 1:18:29they were I didn't I didn't what I Well, first of all, some
- 1:18:35of them were aware of TikTok trends with husbands, so they weren't surprised by
- 1:18:43strange questions by from their wife. But I didn't really get the sense that
- 1:18:47they felt much in any particular way, like surprised or not surprised. It
- 1:18:54was just like their wife asked them a freaking question, as wives, do
- 1:18:58you know? Yeah, Hotshead Studios attached to comment to his super child.
- 1:19:05He put it in The Life Child. He says, I did leave a
- 1:19:09comment saying I don't think about Roman the Roman Empire often, but I have
- 1:19:12been reading Stoic philosophy to help with some difficulty I've had over the past year.
- 1:19:17Well there, I think there is a relationship there. No, you
- 1:19:21know, because the Romans did take a lot from the Greeks, and that's
- 1:19:27probably where the parallels are. That's the thing, like, you know,
- 1:19:30you can think about these things indirectly, and I think a lot of a
- 1:19:35lot of the men in this video when they answer that, they were essentially
- 1:19:40saying they look around them and they see stuff that links back to that,
- 1:19:45you know, I mean the West comes from Rome essentially, right, So
- 1:19:50yeah, yeah, when you're basically squatting in the ruins of another another civilization,
- 1:19:58or alternatively, we really we are that civilization. We are Roman civilization.
- 1:20:02We are what remains of it. That guy was right, you know
- 1:20:05when you put it, put his tactics heart, that we are we are
- 1:20:10it. He's right, we are it. And the big lesson to take
- 1:20:15from the fall of the Western Empire is that you got to fix the issue
- 1:20:23of young men not being connected to your society. And the Eastern Empire continued
- 1:20:30because it had fixed that issue, and that that's an important lesson to take
- 1:20:35that you need to fix the process of family formation. And that's what the
- 1:20:41Eastern Empire was Christian Yeah, and Christianity fixed that problem in Rome the end.
- 1:20:48YE think that in a way Christianity could only have come about. It
- 1:20:54was like a perfect storm of like Hebrew and Roman stuff coming together. I
- 1:21:01think that's why. I think that's that was like the fertile ground for Christianity
- 1:21:08to come about. But that's just my theory. I mean, oh yeah,
- 1:21:13so I guess you want to finish that question. Yeah, so let
- 1:21:16me see. Oh yeah, I mean I've joked with friends of mine that
- 1:21:20the words that every man wants to hear is what does SPQR mean? And
- 1:21:27and then the person interviewer says what does it mean? And the guy says,
- 1:21:30the Senate and the people of Rome, And it's kind of a thing.
- 1:21:32It's the kind of thing that would be emblazoned on armor and helmets,
- 1:21:35and the Romans are carrying around. You still see it every place in Italy.
- 1:21:40Actually, you see it around here too. I see the SPQR everywhere
- 1:21:45actually, so yeah, you're kind of surrounded by it. All right,
- 1:21:48So I'm gonna go down to there's another question. Yeah, here we go.
- 1:21:54Well, I guess the million dollar question here is why do men obsess
- 1:21:58over the ancient Roman Empire? All Right? He just said, didn't he
- 1:22:02just say that men? This whole line of questioning. I'm actually warming to
- 1:22:08dunk in here because he basically said, this whole line of questioning suggests men
- 1:22:12obsess over the Roman Empire, but they don't. And now this idiot who's
- 1:22:17interviewer, the literally leading rolling Stone income poop, is leading him with this
- 1:22:25question. Because if you go back up, go back up, and I'll
- 1:22:29just I'll quickly read this. What is your general reaction to the trend?
- 1:22:32A couple of things. One is that I think people can conflate the idea
- 1:22:34that somebody would think about the Roman Empire once per day with the idea that
- 1:22:38men in their lives are only thinking about the Roman Empire every day, that
- 1:22:41we're sort of obsessively thinking about it NonStop. I think the Roman Empire is
- 1:22:45a historical topic, a hobby or an interest, and we all think about,
- 1:22:48like various other little hobbies and interest we have in our lives, at
- 1:22:51least once per day. Okay, So he's basically saying, no, it's
- 1:22:54doesn't indicate men are obsessed, right, But this guy's trying to suggest that
- 1:22:59they are obsessed, as he says, why do men obsess over the ancient
- 1:23:02Roman Empire? Okay? So his answer is, well, I think this
- 1:23:08is true of the demographics of the people who listen to my show and the
- 1:23:12people who buy my books, is that it does tend to be more male
- 1:23:15heavy, and I think a lot of it probably can come back to Roman
- 1:23:18history becoming equivalent to military history, and military history is definitely something that is
- 1:23:24always going to be more of interest to men than women. Just on a
- 1:23:28practical level. It's a lot of stuff about battles and armies and generals.
- 1:23:32It's for the same reasons that we see a lot of dads getting super into
- 1:23:35World War two or the Civil War or the Napoleonic era. There is something
- 1:23:40that draws men to these kinds of those kinds of military stuff. The Roman
- 1:23:44Empire was also an incredibly patriarchal society. Okay, let us let us let
- 1:23:50us unpack this a bit. Well, first of all, what's really fascinating
- 1:23:56to me, what really is fascinating to me about in history is not just
- 1:24:01the fact that they were a military superpower of their time, and they did
- 1:24:04so without much technological uh advantage over their opponents. In fact, a lot
- 1:24:11of the Germanic or that the peoples that they fought against had better better metallurgy
- 1:24:15than they did. They did it solely through social organization. And what's fascinating
- 1:24:21to me about that is how that mentality changed, how Rome somehow changed men's
- 1:24:30mentality towards war. So prior to Rome, I mean not so much.
- 1:24:34With the planis in please say the word pleaselinked in great times, which used
- 1:24:43which was the previous like the Spartan military. Yeah, well not all of
- 1:24:47the Greeks did that, but that was the previous military. Uh, like
- 1:24:53super weapon was the organization of that. But they the role managed to take
- 1:25:00this idea of military discipline and organization and cooperation and perfected to such a degree
- 1:25:06that that itself became a military superweapon. And one of the things that really
- 1:25:12fascinates me in it, it sort of encapsulates what makes it fascinating is during
- 1:25:16the First Punic War against Carthage, the Romans were completely trounced in terms of
- 1:25:24their navy, like Carthage was a naval power, like the pre eminent naval
- 1:25:28power of the Mediterranean of the time, and the Romans did not stand a
- 1:25:31chance because they were landlocked farmers. And yet somehow they managed to win.
- 1:25:40And they did it. And though it's the way that they did it which
- 1:25:43was so fascinating. They didn't just reverse engineer a win out of their naval
- 1:25:48losses. They created a system of learning naval warfare. So while they were
- 1:25:57learning naval warfare, they created a system to turn evil warfare into infantry warfare.
- 1:26:01Using the Corvus which was like a beaked plank, which they would they'd
- 1:26:06bring their their their vessels up to the Carthaginian vessels, throw down this plank,
- 1:26:13and then just turn everything into an infantry mela. But that was just
- 1:26:16the first step. That was just to keep Carthage off their back. As
- 1:26:20they developed, they used directed learning like conscious learning to develop their naval their
- 1:26:27abilities in terms of naval power. And then they beat Carthage, and they
- 1:26:30did it with such a self aware system of steps. It's utterly astounding,
- 1:26:36like this is this is this should people should look at the Punic the first
- 1:26:41Punic War and be like how did this happen? Because this represents a completely
- 1:26:46different mentality than men have had prior. I mean, during the Iron Age,
- 1:26:50it seems like civilization would sort of squat on its own little technological expertise,
- 1:26:57and then you know, it would be like a game of rock paper
- 1:27:00scissors. You know, they would have the Carthaginians would be really good at
- 1:27:04using iron works to make it to build a really powerful navy. This other
- 1:27:10culture might be really good at making crossbows or whatever, and they would neutralize
- 1:27:15each other so they would there would be this whole patchwork of states, each
- 1:27:18with their own particular technological expertise and form, and that's how they maintain their
- 1:27:24boundaries. And then Rome just blew that all out of the water because they
- 1:27:30could reverse engineer victory from defeat. They could take a horrendous loss and then
- 1:27:38sit back and say, well, we don't want to do that again,
- 1:27:41and just get back up and do it. Whereas other cultures at the time,
- 1:27:44the men and the cultures at the time, if they endured that horrendous
- 1:27:47loss, the shame paralyzed them and they surrendered to be castrated or turn into
- 1:27:53slaves, right, But not Roman men. They were just like, yes,
- 1:27:56defeat is just the beginning. You know, that is a complete change
- 1:28:00in psychology for men, complete change. Before then you could have conquerors like
- 1:28:05Alexander the Great going around and conquering other cultures by simply hitting that shame button
- 1:28:12over and over again. Big defeat men are in shame, they can't fight
- 1:28:15back. Is done. Not Rome. You know that I said, the
- 1:28:18feat is just the beginning for us, because they had this means of overcoming
- 1:28:23that shame. And if you look at it, if you look at their
- 1:28:27mythology, you can see the means the genesis of that means in the mythology
- 1:28:32of the Sabine Women. So at the very heart of the so called fucking
- 1:28:36patriarchal system is this completely new way of seeing the relationship between men and women
- 1:28:43as described in the Myth of the Sabine Women. Okay, and before then,
- 1:28:48if you look at Herodontus or all the other they talked about how women's
- 1:28:54sexuality. Men had to be able to protect women's sexuality, so they had
- 1:28:59to have that military power or they were nothing. Okay, So that's why
- 1:29:04they would suffer one big defeat and that would be it. They would be
- 1:29:08subject to paralyzing shame because that was where their identity lay, right, They
- 1:29:15had to have that military power. And yes, Rome was very much about
- 1:29:19having military power, but it had a more self aware approach to it.
- 1:29:26So when they had that defeat, it was just the beginning, because they
- 1:29:30didn't seem to invest their identity as much in being able to protect the women
- 1:29:36sexually, if that makes sense, and the Sabine women by saying, you
- 1:29:41know, kill us instead of fighting over our sexuality like that. Okay,
- 1:29:45So the myth of the Sabine Women. I don't know if anybody knows it.
- 1:29:47Essentially, the Roman men realized they had no women, and they went
- 1:29:51over to the Sabine tribe courted the women. The Sabine fathers were like,
- 1:29:56yeah, no, there, they're skezzy, and but then they went back
- 1:30:00and kidnapped the women, brought them to Rome. For seven years, the
- 1:30:02save By men did nothing for I don't know, maybe maybe traffic was bad.
- 1:30:06And then they came back and they started fighting, and that the two
- 1:30:11groups of men were fighting over the Sabine women, because in that time,
- 1:30:15if you could not defend your women, you were nothing, nothing right.
- 1:30:20But at some point during the fight, when it looks like the Romans were
- 1:30:25gonna win and the Sabine men were gonna lose, the save Mine women rushed
- 1:30:29the battlefield, which is incredibly dangerous by the way, and they said,
- 1:30:31kill us. If the fight is over us, kill us instead of each
- 1:30:36other. And that changed everything. And I think that is the source of
- 1:30:43why the Romans won the Punic War, the first Punic War, why they
- 1:30:46were able to reverse engineered defeat from victory because they no longer invested their identity
- 1:30:53that kind of shame in being able to check their women's sexuality. The shame
- 1:31:00was gone and it was replaced by guilt. Because there's a difference here.
- 1:31:06Shame is paralyzing, but when you think, okay, well I've lost,
- 1:31:12but Rome still stands, so there's a chance, there's a chance to protect
- 1:31:16Rome, that's guilt. It gets you the buck back up and fighting on,
- 1:31:21whereas shame is like, I have nothing left to fight with because this
- 1:31:27victory reflects on who I am as a man, or this loss reflects on
- 1:31:30who I am as a man. Well, doesn't matter if it reflects on
- 1:31:32who you are as a man. If Rome is still there and standing,
- 1:31:35then you get the fuck up and you keep fighting. Yeah, that's the
- 1:31:40difference, and that came from a revolution in the relationship between men and women,
- 1:31:47and that is fascinating to me. So you can yap about how much
- 1:31:51oh it's all patriarchy, patriarchy war. No, it's deeper than that.
- 1:31:56It's also deeply about the psychology of men and women and our relationship to each
- 1:32:00other and what can happen if we just change it, change how they relate,
- 1:32:06and what is possible. Like, can't emphasize this enough that what they
- 1:32:12did during the First Punic War was unbelievable, insane, and then the Second
- 1:32:15Punic Warp hold, he crap. They were doing things that were that at
- 1:32:20the time were superpowers. Like people there were other cultures were just in awe
- 1:32:29of these men. They were terrified of them because of what they could do
- 1:32:32mentally and what they could endure mentally. And I mean on the one general
- 1:32:42that that made during the Second Punic War, it was it was Hannibal that
- 1:32:46invaded Italy. The one general that terrified him, it wasn't necessarily the one
- 1:32:51that ended up defeating him was named Fabius, and he Fabian, and he
- 1:32:58there's a strategy of delaying guerilla warfare that's named after him. He refused to
- 1:33:02engage Hannibal and pitched battle and simply used the countryside to essentially just keep him
- 1:33:16harried and keep him wasting his energy and dissipating his military power. That's how
- 1:33:24and we used that now that was called guerrilla warfare. It's also called Fabian
- 1:33:28strategy. And Hannibal was terrified of him because he Fabian could walk away from
- 1:33:34a fight he did not have. He knew how to control himself enough not
- 1:33:40to be baited into big set piece battles, and that was scary. That
- 1:33:44was a man who Hannibal couldn't control using the means that he understood, that
- 1:33:50were understandable to him, because with at the time the Bronze Age or the
- 1:33:57what we inherited after the Bronze Age, you didn't come to the fight,
- 1:34:00then you weren't a man. The Fabian was like, yeah, I don't
- 1:34:02give a fuck. I'm going to protect Rome. You can be a man
- 1:34:05all you want, you know, but my purpose is to protect Rome.
- 1:34:11And that's a completely it's radical change, it's fascinating. So to say that
- 1:34:15Rome is only about patriarch, he's no nonsense anyway. Yeah, obviously,
- 1:34:20and again he didn't even like he doesn't really know the trend, because we
- 1:34:24just watched the video, the super cut, and there were all kinds of
- 1:34:28different reasons. Yes, some of them were about like the armies and the
- 1:34:30military and all that, but a lot of were about other things aqueducts,
- 1:34:34rhoades, you know, sports, like all kinds of stuff, society,
- 1:34:40the politics, the architecture. So obviously this guy doesn't he doesn't didn't really
- 1:34:45pay a lot of attention or he doesn't understand men. Well, he doesn't
- 1:34:49understand me. He understands Rome, but he doesn't understand men. Yeah,
- 1:34:53he doesn't understand men. But anyway, I'll finish reading this, but first
- 1:34:57I got another super another super channel from Richard Bier and his name is John
- 1:35:06six, and he says for five dollars, these women are shocked that their
- 1:35:15partners aren't thinking about important things, such as the Kardashians or I am Jazz.
- 1:35:19Women will tend to hyper focus on what to them appears to be a
- 1:35:24danger to the extent that other less obvious dangers get ignored or not noticed.
- 1:35:29Consider how many people didn't get any vibes around Ted Bundy. Yes, there
- 1:35:32are accounts circulating about some people, usually anonymized, meeting someone who gave them
- 1:35:38a certain feeling and staying away or getting away from him, and later finding
- 1:35:41out that he was Ted Bundy. Of course these are dated to a time
- 1:35:45before he was the prime suspect. Well, I think that there is another.
- 1:35:50I think that women are concerned with the social like the social benefit of
- 1:35:58knowing something like if you are if you're keeping up with whatever the latest reality
- 1:36:02TV show is, then you have something to talk about with friends. And
- 1:36:08then it's sort of like, you know, increases your social cohesion with those
- 1:36:12people. But men don't prioritize that generally. I think they have hobbies and
- 1:36:17stuff, and that's where that comes in. But yeah, history is not
- 1:36:23like something, it's it's obviously the opposite of whatever is current. So so
- 1:36:29I mean that's my thinking. But thank you Richard, and I got a
- 1:36:31super chat from Albatross for five dollars and he says, is it an obsession
- 1:36:36with the Roman Empire or is it just the fact that recent and ancient history
- 1:36:41is interesting to learn about? Well, yeah, it's I think again we
- 1:36:45were s same that fascinating. Yeah, it's fascinating. And again you see,
- 1:36:48it's probably a good idea to know it because it tends to rhyme.
- 1:36:54So okay, so I think the next paragraph is going to have a lot
- 1:36:58to do with what I just said. So I haven't finished this one yet,
- 1:37:00so yeah, let me let's read the next part of the part of
- 1:37:03this all right. So it's for the same reasons that we see a lot
- 1:37:08of Dad's getting super into world. Okay, the Roman Empire was also an
- 1:37:13incredibly patriarchal society. If you dive into those sources and you start reading about
- 1:37:17it, it can be fascinating, But everywhere you're looking, you're just talking
- 1:37:20about men doing this and men doing that. We're not, okay, I
- 1:37:26want to address the patriarchal society. What the hell are you comparing this too?
- 1:37:30Like when people use the term patriarchal society, I'm like, well,
- 1:37:34all right, let's let's look at that. I think patriarch just means recognizing
- 1:37:39men's contribution. Well, it's not even that. It's like every single society
- 1:37:43on Earth, men lead. Yeah, they lead militarily and they generally lead
- 1:37:46politically. They lead. That's because men have lower risk assessment, like they
- 1:37:51have high risk tolerance, so they tend to be in positions of more risk.
- 1:37:57Okay, that's it, And it's not humans our nearest relatives. Male's
- 1:38:02lead. Most social mammals, males lead our nearest biological model, which is
- 1:38:10actually wolves, not chimps. Male's lead. They lead the hunt generally.
- 1:38:16Okay, But what's interesting is that females. For example, in chimps society,
- 1:38:24the male's lead, but if the females don't like the leader, he's
- 1:38:28gone. In wolf society, male's lead, but the female still wins the
- 1:38:35food contests a lot of the time during pregnancy or lactation, so there's still
- 1:38:41this kind of protective urge towards the female, the desire to provide and protect
- 1:38:45for the female. The main female wolf, like all of the other wolves,
- 1:38:50are there to provide and protect for her when she's pregnant and lactating and
- 1:38:56feeding the pups, and then they provide for the pups when she's able to
- 1:39:00hunt for herself. Okay, that's how wolves do. That's so how humans
- 1:39:03do, because wolves in many ways are our nearest model. I mean,
- 1:39:06they're even finding that wolves might have a form of culture, all right,
- 1:39:10and in what a surprise that our nearest model is also our nearest companion.
- 1:39:14Okay, I'm going to point this out. What is in comparing this too
- 1:39:20all social mammals, The male's lead, our nearest relatives, the male's lead,
- 1:39:28our nearest model social model of animal, social model, the male's lead.
- 1:39:32Every civilization the male's lead. Okay, this is a given. He
- 1:39:39might as well say the Roman emperor was also an incredibly society. Yeah well,
- 1:39:45okay, it's an incredibly society. Okay, it's an incredibly sociant.
- 1:39:49Oh well, that's great. What what do you mean what what is incredibly
- 1:39:54society? Okay, that's as adding nothing, it's nothing. Word pai.
- 1:40:00I feel like it's a problem that it's a patriarchal society. Where was your
- 1:40:04series on Lesbos? Okay, it's not like every single society is patriot you
- 1:40:11might as well. It's an incredibly society size society. Like you can replace
- 1:40:16the word patriarchy with society. You can replace the word patriarchy with social group.
- 1:40:21Okay, it was an incredibly social group. The Roman Empire was an
- 1:40:26incredibly social group. Like, this is adding nothing, it's nothing, adds
- 1:40:31nothing. Why what do you this is why? I say, what are
- 1:40:34you comparing it to other societies At the time, the the belonging of the
- 1:40:41society was embodied by the king, by the guy with who could who could
- 1:40:46enforce the most power, you know, basically the mafia boss. That was
- 1:40:51who everybody belonged to. In Roman society, everybody belonged to. Rome are
- 1:41:00soonified by Roma, which was a female personification of the Roman identity. It's
- 1:41:05the same as we have like Columbia, the female personification of Columbias, I
- 1:41:13think the female personification of the US, and it's you know, how countries
- 1:41:16are personified by women in our time, Like, we have these national identities
- 1:41:21and you have the female that embodies them, that was started with Rome.
- 1:41:27So they belonged to this kind of a female concept and you are calling that
- 1:41:32patriarchal. Okay, that's like calling the church patriarchal. And everybody worships God,
- 1:41:39damn Mother Mary, Like, think about that. Everybody feels like they
- 1:41:44belong to this mythic image of the feminine. Is it really? Is it
- 1:41:49really? If what is holding their idea of belonging is a feminine concept?
- 1:41:58And again is that is that a patriarchal society when you compare it to those
- 1:42:02societies in which everybody belonged to the king? Is this concept? Is this
- 1:42:12Roman concept of a national identity embodied by a feminine, a feminine personification patriarchal
- 1:42:19relative to everybody being owned by a freaking king? Like delusional bullshit. Here
- 1:42:28Again, saying a society as patriarchal is adding nothing, because every society is
- 1:42:32led by men. But there's a difference between a society in which the belonging
- 1:42:36is embodied by a king and the society which the belonging is embodied by the
- 1:42:40female personification of a nation. Do you see a difference there? Yeah,
- 1:42:45fucking moron. He does nothing about what's worth knowing about Rome, and yet
- 1:42:50he wrote this podcast. Great kid, Sorry, I'm just getting a little
- 1:42:55place, all right. We're not really ever talking about what the women were
- 1:43:00doing or how women were living. If you're sort of glancing around looking for
- 1:43:04something to get into, it's like, well, the Roman Empire is a
- 1:43:08lot of men doing war, and if that's not your jam, then the
- 1:43:10Roman Empire is not going to be of interest for you. Why aren't you
- 1:43:13talking about that? Yeah? Why aren't you talking about the women? But
- 1:43:15also, like again, I just went through a video, like some of
- 1:43:19the men were talking about the war and the tactics, but a lot of
- 1:43:23them were not. So you know, it's it's a little unfair. Or
- 1:43:26this guy clearly thinks he thinks he knows what men take from something because he
- 1:43:30thinks he knows men, but he doesn't, And of course he thinks he's
- 1:43:33not like those men. Right, But if he also didn't really talk about
- 1:43:38what the women were doing, well, I mean, but he's also saying
- 1:43:41exactly what he did. Okay, you did a whole podcast on Roman history,
- 1:43:45and apparently you decided that it wasn't important to talk about women. Okay,
- 1:43:48congratulations, like you did that. That's great, this is what you
- 1:43:54did. You don't have to do that. When you look at Rome.
- 1:43:58You can also incorporate the influence of women if you stop seeing them as victims
- 1:44:02of that society. It's really hard to incorporate the influence of a woman and
- 1:44:06women in society if you're constantly seeing them a victims of it. Well,
- 1:44:12I just think that. I think this is only in here because Rolling Stone
- 1:44:15needed to get the word patriarchy in the into this article somehow. Now I
- 1:44:19know, I said this guy's a buffoon and various other things like but but
- 1:44:24he's being led by this No, I think the interview, I think he
- 1:44:29believes it too. I think that it's normal to think that, you know
- 1:44:33that, oh, we're better, we're better people now because it's the modern
- 1:44:36times and the and the current day is better than previous days, and previous
- 1:44:41days were bad because men were bad. I mean that's that. I think
- 1:44:44that's you don't even have to be like next in this I know I'm to
- 1:44:49take it. I take it back the next paragraph. This guy deserves being
- 1:44:54called a fucking buffoon. Yeah, so next question from the interviewer. There
- 1:44:58was another TikTok I saw around the same time that I saw this trend surfacing.
- 1:45:01That was this woman talking about how if you want to compliment a straight
- 1:45:05man in your life why, I don't know why we need to say straight,
- 1:45:09but okay, you tell him that you think he would have done great
- 1:45:12during the invasion of Normandy. Is there a similar thing going on with the
- 1:45:15obsession with ancient Rome? Oh? Yes, there's really strong tendency to associate
- 1:45:23yourself mentally with the senatorial aristocracy of Rome, which was this incredibly small population
- 1:45:29inside the fuck are you even talking about? Who they think you? Who
- 1:45:32the hell do you think? Who the hell do you think storm the beaches
- 1:45:39of Normandy? Like you think it was the senatorial aristoc think it was the
- 1:45:46Senate? The Senate? What god damn fucking I'm sorry, guys, I'm
- 1:45:56getting a little bit feisty here, but this guy's I was thinking of listening
- 1:46:00to his his podcast on Rome. I probably still will. It will definitely
- 1:46:04be tainted by this bullshit though, Like there this, Okay, this had
- 1:46:10nothing to do with his question. The people, the men who stormed the
- 1:46:15beaches of Normandy were not the aristocracy. There may have been some guys who
- 1:46:18are aristocrats, I mean in the officer class of the British, but for
- 1:46:23the most part they were just dudes who had been conscripted or volunteered. Like
- 1:46:29there were just random average dudes. Yep. And also, what the hell
- 1:46:33are these women thinking saying? If you want to compliment a straight man in
- 1:46:36your life, you tell them that you think you would have done great during
- 1:46:40the invasion. Is yeah, you would maybe come back in one piece,
- 1:46:45you wouldn't have lost a limb, Like I think you would have done great
- 1:46:48completely by accident because you didn't catch some matillery. Like what the what is
- 1:46:54this? Are the men more delusional than the women of doing this? M
- 1:47:00Maybe they're just taking it as a compliment, like to their I don't know,
- 1:47:04I don't know. Yeah, maybe maybe they're Maybe these men are so
- 1:47:08starved for compliments. They're like, girl, if you were thrown into a
- 1:47:12hail of bullets as cannon father, I bet you would have been accidentally spared.
- 1:47:20Maybe they're just yeah, they're probably just taking it. They're just taking
- 1:47:24what they can get. I'm like, I think this is a backhanded compliment,
- 1:47:27but I'll take it. Wait, this guy's compounding it. Yeah,
- 1:47:32all right, all right, anyway, it says, he goes on,
- 1:47:36I mean, you're talking about a couple of dozens of families who are doing
- 1:47:41very very well. Everybody else has an incredibly short lifespan. You're dying of
- 1:47:45various diseases. There's no help compared to what there is healthcare the modern day.
- 1:47:49I think he means you're doing subsistence. Are you know you're substance?
- 1:47:55What do you understand what substanstence agricultural labor means? You fucking It means you
- 1:48:00can't actually sustain a goddamn empire like subsistence agriculture is literally just they can only
- 1:48:08make enough to survive. Are you fucking Okay? Where'd the empire come from?
- 1:48:13Then? Huh? How did it manage to field an army if everybody's
- 1:48:16doing subsistence agricultural labor? Okay, there has to be a surplus somewhere.
- 1:48:25And so a lot of the people who try to romanticize what the Roman Empire
- 1:48:29was and putting themselves into the Roman Empire imagine themselves being you know, the
- 1:48:32Senator in a fine toga laying on his side being hand fed grapes. I
- 1:48:39don't think that doesn't actually, I don't think so. That's a funny thing.
- 1:48:45Also, that senator probably did a turn in battle, like yeah,
- 1:48:48probably, whereas more likely than not they would have died at the age of
- 1:48:53twenty eight because of an undiagnosed kidney stone while they were lying trying to plow
- 1:48:59their lands. We would have all been the common people. Yeah, that's
- 1:49:03yeah, like the common people who stormed the beaches of Normandy like this.
- 1:49:11How it's like, oh, yeah, you said, it's it's just trying
- 1:49:15to knock these guys, like these imagined men, yes, that have these
- 1:49:20imagined ideas at Rome. He's taking what he assumes they believe, and then
- 1:49:26he's knocking that down a peg. So he's like just attacking a straw man
- 1:49:31of me, of men, think of yeah, of men in general.
- 1:49:34Right, all right, So okay, first of all, these men are
- 1:49:40thinking about themselves in Rome. I think, well maybe they are. Some
- 1:49:45of them don't know about that, and maybe they fantasize a little bit.
- 1:49:48Sure, there's nothing you want we're romanticizing. I mean, he's got Rome.
- 1:49:51I don't think anyone was any one of them said, Oh, I
- 1:49:55think about being a senator laying on a couch. They thought about infrastructure,
- 1:50:00they thought about political systems, they fought, thought about ambires crumbling, you
- 1:50:03know, they thought about being a warrior. Like, none of this is
- 1:50:09reflected in what these men actually said. We went through. What did the
- 1:50:12men actually say? Nothing Like, nothing is being reflected in this. None
- 1:50:15of them said, oh, I would be like laying on my side,
- 1:50:19getting fed grapes and being fanned by slave girls. None none of them said
- 1:50:27that. And most what they were saying, you know, and he's he's
- 1:50:30immediately casting other men as as thinking about Rome because it's about privilege. What
- 1:50:36a bunch of nons. It wasn't about privilege as far as I can tell.
- 1:50:41It was about responsibility, and much more about responsibility than it was about
- 1:50:45privilege. And also, what the hell are you comparing Rome to? Like,
- 1:50:49you can't compare Rome to today, You have to compare Rome to the
- 1:50:53squalid conditions of the rest of the world at the time. Okay, okay,
- 1:51:01So I got a I got a super chow, and I got a
- 1:51:08rumble rant. So I'm gonna read the super Chow really quick from anonymous for
- 1:51:12twenty five dollars on us an anonymous for twenty five dollars, and they says,
- 1:51:18I just wanted to mention men thinking men know what other men think.
- 1:51:23Yeah, basically, well this guy, I don't know what his issue is,
- 1:51:26but I guess this is his way of competing. And then I got
- 1:51:30a rumble rant from Nova fan twenty one. Thank you Nova fan twenty one,
- 1:51:33and he says, for one dollar, whenever I hear a feminists used
- 1:51:36the word patriarchy, I often think of how they quit holding women accountable just
- 1:51:42like men as oppressive and think holding women women accountable is a good thing.
- 1:51:45It's a good thing, all right, And thank you for that. And
- 1:51:50that's it for the super chow. So oh, the interviewer is a woman,
- 1:51:58Alice that that sort of puts things in perspective a little bit. Do
- 1:52:04you want me to read more or because we're almost at two hours, wrap
- 1:52:10it up? Okay, yeah, sure you're what? Uh? This is?
- 1:52:15So this is? Can I read the female part? This is so
- 1:52:16fascinating to me because as a woman, I can tell you I would never
- 1:52:19once thought about what my life would have been like in any period of history.
- 1:52:26Oh my God, you could have been Catherine the Great. Meanwhile,
- 1:52:32he's like, well, these men are thinking of themselves as senators, and
- 1:52:35what are the odds of that is a very small percentage of the population.
- 1:52:39But you might have been one woman, one woman, Catherine the Great.
- 1:52:45It wouldn't have been terrible. She hasn't knows nothing about Rome. It wouldn't
- 1:52:53have been terrible. But he's got a podcast. Woman. Women actually had
- 1:52:56it pretty well. They had a lot more property rights other women at the
- 1:53:00time, and they often they had a lot of ability to excel at business,
- 1:53:08like they ran a lot of the businesses of Rome. And for whatever
- 1:53:12reason why they didn't really contest, like they had the ability to protest things
- 1:53:17and get things changed in the Senate, like the there was a bunch of
- 1:53:25they were like sumptuary laws passed during the i think the Second Punic War and
- 1:53:30the Roman Matrons. They protested it by marching in the streets and got the
- 1:53:33law repealed, so they could actually influence directly influence the political process through protests.
- 1:53:42For whatever reason, they wanted to be able to wear lots of gold.
- 1:53:45They didn't care as much about supposedly being considered property of their of their
- 1:53:49fathers or their their husbands, that they didn't seem to be as concerned about
- 1:53:55changing for whatever reason, probably because they felt very differently about it at the
- 1:54:00time than we do now. If if they could march and successfully change a
- 1:54:05law and that law was put in place because they were in existential terror at
- 1:54:12the time about what was going on and they wanted to keep society together.
- 1:54:16If at that moment they could say, now we're going to continue to assert
- 1:54:20our interests as women and have that hold, I think they could have changed
- 1:54:26pretty much any law they wanted. And yet they didn't. Okay, So
- 1:54:30women in Rome had power and they exercised their power. They had agency and
- 1:54:35they exercised their agency. They had businesses and they managed their businesses. They
- 1:54:41had wealth. In fact, wealthy Roman widows is why Christianity got up the
- 1:54:45ground initially. So this is it wouldn't have been terrible now, It wouldn't
- 1:54:50have been as cool it is in now, because we got a lot of
- 1:54:55things that they didn't have back then. All Right, we don't have sent
- 1:54:59well in the United they did have central heating. It's just a little bit
- 1:55:01more arduous to create. And you know, they did have plumbing to a
- 1:55:04degree that other peak places didn't have. I mean it was pretty I mean
- 1:55:09compared to now. It wasn't as pleasant, we'll say, but it's not
- 1:55:14as bad as you think it would have been. Lady, And you you
- 1:55:16have no idea because you've never thought about it, you've never learned about it.
- 1:55:20All you do is just apply this lens of oh my god, women
- 1:55:25were oppressed, oh throughout all of human history, and you don't know any
- 1:55:30detail. Okay, let's skip the all right, the joke the Catherine's is
- 1:55:36a pretty joke, all right. Why do you think this is so male
- 1:55:41specific? The tendency to project yourself into these eras and see whether you don't
- 1:55:45you can prove your metal. I mean, I think it probably comes down
- 1:55:48to a bit of the representation matters thing. No, it doesn't. As
- 1:55:53men, we can always look past and see men who were poor men,
- 1:55:57who were middle aged men, who were smart men, who were dumb men,
- 1:55:59who were emperors in war. Yeah, every available option is available to
- 1:56:05us if we're doing historical fantasizing, and if you want to get into it,
- 1:56:11you probably were reading about those great people because they're the ones who left,
- 1:56:15who left records, and they're the ones that we know about, And
- 1:56:17so you get into a mindset and you can imagine yourself in that role like
- 1:56:21quote, if I wanted to, Yeah, I could definitely sit down and
- 1:56:25imagine what would I do if I was a Roman emperor and quote, which
- 1:56:29is impossible for a woman to do. A woman who was studying in Roman
- 1:56:31history could see herself in Livia or Agrippina or some of the other sort of
- 1:56:36great women who are wives and mothers of the sort of great Yeah, and
- 1:56:41the great generals in the great statesmen of the Roman Empire. But it's always
- 1:56:45going to be behind the scenes. You know, I'm going to work by
- 1:56:47powerful magic, but in ways that are not readily apparent to anybody and that
- 1:56:54yeah, and that's that's not what women do now. Yeah, But also
- 1:56:58like that's not cool. I'm gonna actually use my influence behind the scenes to
- 1:57:03be a kingmaker. That's not cool, huh, Because I think Merlin's pretty
- 1:57:09freaking cool. But apparently this man doesn't. Like this is just contempt for
- 1:57:14the feminine. Honestly, Yeah, they're women are either men or they're nothing.
- 1:57:18Is that basically? Yeah, they either have to be like men.
- 1:57:21Or they're nothing. There were lots of powerful women alive in the Roman Empire,
- 1:57:26but then the Roman sources and the Greek sources that wind up writing about
- 1:57:30those women are incredibly mean spirited. Really, yeah, you know, what
- 1:57:38do you like? Julius Caesar got called a faggot? Like they didn't they
- 1:57:44didn't like anyone, like the history was written. But freaking ward Wardolph and
- 1:57:49Stadler from the Muffets, Yeah, they don't like anyone. What hell is
- 1:57:57this guy's problem? Because to be an ambitious woman, so open yourself up
- 1:58:00to all kinds of attacks. She's a shrewd ambitious anything. Yeah, she's
- 1:58:06a monster. She's sexually rapacious. Yeah, but what if she is sexually
- 1:58:11rapaciously, Well, you're not allowed to have an opinion on that. I'm
- 1:58:15surprised I brought up the Catherine the great thing. This is what gets said
- 1:58:18about people like Livia and Agrippina. If you do a plane surface reading of
- 1:58:24the text, the women that were depicted in Roman sources often come off in
- 1:58:28very unappealing ways because the men who are running about them are very free by
- 1:58:31the idea that these women of these women, Okay, powerful, all right.
- 1:58:36I have read the biographies from that time of some of the men,
- 1:58:42they also come across as an unappealing ways because the biographers we're definitely not writing
- 1:58:49in a way that was intended to flatter anyone. Okay, so get off
- 1:58:55your high horse. Women weren't weren't single. This was just something that was
- 1:58:59done people who were powerful. Okay, there's there. I don't. There's
- 1:59:03a very few emperors or even powerful men in Rome who historians presented as flawless.
- 1:59:14They all got some kind of draft. If you had any kind of
- 1:59:17power, you got pushedback. You had people who had opinions. That's human
- 1:59:23nature. So don't lie, mister. Okay. So it does, I
- 1:59:30think become very difficult to cross that fantasy divide of putting yourself in this time
- 1:59:34and space in place. I don't. Again, you know, when men
- 1:59:39think about people or places or times or points in history or other like there
- 1:59:46whatever they disappear in the world, they don't they don't really try to like
- 1:59:51see themselves and stuff. This representation matters thing. It does not generally apply
- 1:59:57to men like men men admire. You know, it's like out of if
- 2:00:00you've seen the meme, and I brought this up before there'll be a picture
- 2:00:04of uh, you know, like Shira, and they'll be a wojack,
- 2:00:10a female wojack, and should be like, oh, what, you know
- 2:00:13what, I can't look like her? Why can't you know what? These
- 2:00:15are unfair body standards or whatever. And then there'll be a picture of heman
- 2:00:18and the men will be like, I gotta go to the gym so I
- 2:00:19can look like that. If it's just a different way that we perceive this
- 2:00:24shit. So when men look at great points in history, they look at
- 2:00:29it with the intention of being inspired, not the intention of like, oh,
- 2:00:32I want to be that guy. So I'm gonna I'm gonna feel bad
- 2:00:35because I'm not, or I'm gonna pretend like I am. It's not it's
- 2:00:38not about looking for this. I don't know representation. I don't. I
- 2:00:43don't think that men are. It's different with us. We want, we
- 2:00:46want to look at something and try to be like it. But that doesn't
- 2:00:50mean that we're jealous or you know, feel like it is us like we're
- 2:00:56narcissistic. I mean maybe some are, sure, but I don't do I
- 2:01:00don't do that. I'm losing interest in this. We can we can stop.
- 2:01:06I can read this last thing right here, and what's amazing to me
- 2:01:12is how unbelievably nasty this person is, like just really negative. Okay,
- 2:01:24no, go ahead and read this one paragraph. All right, do you
- 2:01:28think there's do you think there's an element of life this is the time where
- 2:01:31men could really be men that's appealing to men? About this? I think
- 2:01:35that's probably too true to some extent. And I certainly feel like there are
- 2:01:39people in my own fan base who listen to my shows and read my books
- 2:01:43and are in that right wing and anti woke at Jason crowd who probably feel
- 2:01:47like, quote I feel stifled by this contemporary life where men are the only
- 2:01:51people that can be attacked and women have all the advantages in the world,
- 2:01:55and quote straw manning that position, this is the Yeah, there's no real
- 2:02:01lie there, But I think he's trying to like exaggerate the sentiment. So
- 2:02:05they retreat to what they think of as the ancient world and it's a complete
- 2:02:10fantasy land. But I know many many more Roman history fans where it's not
- 2:02:15about that stuff at all. It's it's not about trying to retreat from an
- 2:02:18egalitarian society, and that's something that is far more aggressively patriarchal. But I
- 2:02:23thought that we didn't live in an egalitarian I thought we lived in a patriarchy.
- 2:02:28Now you gotta give your history straight. We're still at a patriot It's
- 2:02:30worse than ever, Glorious Tidem said. So most of our culture today comes
- 2:02:36from Roman origins, or at least had a Roman phase. If you're talking
- 2:02:40about the history of Syria or Britain or Morocco or Spain. Laws, the
- 2:02:44politics, the structures, all of these things that inform Roman society now presently
- 2:02:47inform our own society. And if we want to understand the world that we're
- 2:02:51living in right now, the Roman Empire is something we should that should be
- 2:02:55studied. Okay, who are these men who are like, oh, I
- 2:02:59want to live in this? Incidentally, all the men who a yeah,
- 2:03:03is that you're just making that up? Yeah? Yeah? Maybe maybe there
- 2:03:09are some men who want to live in a world where they're not constantly attacked,
- 2:03:14which you're attacking men, Like literally, this guy's attacking men, and
- 2:03:17it's like men where men are the only ones that you can meet, you're
- 2:03:20attacking them. This is the most disingenuous shit. You are attacking men and
- 2:03:28the men who talked about why they think about Rome don't resemble this at all.
- 2:03:32And incidentally, they were all like fathers and husbands. Maybe they're thinking
- 2:03:36about Rome because of the sense of civic duty to understand how systems work so
- 2:03:43that you can protect your family from a potential future in which they might fail,
- 2:03:49or protect them protect the system that supports them. And he and again,
- 2:03:56just the worst possible interpretation. But of course his you know, the
- 2:04:00majority of his fans aren't like that. And let's see what his appeal like
- 2:04:04the next paragraph. Let's do what's the appeal for you? Why are you
- 2:04:08so obsessed with ancient Roman history? I got into it because I started reading
- 2:04:12the ancient sources after I got out of college. I was reading Livy and
- 2:04:15I was reading Plutarch. And what I discovered, more than anything else,
- 2:04:18because I'm fundamentally a storyteller at heart, is that the stories about these people,
- 2:04:24the things that they did, the things that happen to them, the
- 2:04:26ways that they interacted with each other, are as fascinating, as entertaining,
- 2:04:30and as entertaining as anything that I've seen in the movie or on a TV
- 2:04:32show. Take the Late Roman Republic for example, and those battles between people
- 2:04:38like Cicero and Mark Anthony and Caesar. You read speeches from somebody like Cicero
- 2:04:43who's attacking Mark Anthony, and the speeches are funny, they're hilarious. You're
- 2:04:46like, oh, these are just human beings trying to catch up, to
- 2:04:49get up on each other. And the whole thing is incredibly dramatic. The
- 2:04:54deeper, richer cultural and personal lives of all these people. That's the thing
- 2:04:57they grabbed me from the get go. I thought that male politicians weren't insulted,
- 2:05:03Like yeah, Cicero had a go at them, and historians had a
- 2:05:08go at most of them. Like I mentioned Fabian or Fabius. Okay,
- 2:05:14when he's talked about in I think it's Plutarch the lives, he's not he,
- 2:05:20although he's he's what he did positive was recognized. He's also condemned in
- 2:05:27certain part aspects of his baby behavior person and condemned by Plutarch. I think
- 2:05:31it was. And like so, yes, the male politicians also got in
- 2:05:38for for condemnation, Like everybody who wielded, everybody who wields power, you're
- 2:05:44gonna wield power, you're gonna be condemned by somebody because you're gonna be pissing
- 2:05:49off someone. So that's as true for women as it is men. So
- 2:05:54stop making women out to be unique victims, or at the very least admit
- 2:05:59that this is your gender role for women, a victim. Okay, so
- 2:06:04it appears we can we do I keep going? Or should we wrap it
- 2:06:09up? I mean it doesn't really talking about America and the Musk Yeah,
- 2:06:15and Beyonce and I'll read this last bit. Okay, what about you?
- 2:06:19How often do you think about ancient Rome? I think about the Roman Empire
- 2:06:23every single day. There's no getting away from it. I'm coming up on
- 2:06:26twenty years now that I've definitely thought about it every day, and then for
- 2:06:30lots of time, it's one of the only things I'm thinking about. My
- 2:06:32next book will be another Roman history book, so I'm already back in.
- 2:06:36You know, if I look back if my bookshelf right now, it's mostly
- 2:06:40Roman history books that I'm pulling down and reading. So I'm even further gone
- 2:06:44than once per day. I'm like several hours every single day. Well,
- 2:06:46then I guess you're basically trying to bring patriarchy. What a misogynist yeah,
- 2:06:55I guess, I guess you want to oppress women. And yeah, once
- 2:07:03more another another, another peek into the dementia wing of dying civilizations. Yep,
- 2:07:12we have chosen the face of our destructor friends, and it is miss
- 2:07:15Andrey, miss injury. Well, all right, at least a lot of
- 2:07:20normal men, get it. I wouldn't let these guys control that narrative.
- 2:07:26So yeah, I remain optimistic. Okay, I think that no more super
- 2:07:33chats or super chows. So do you have any thank yous or anything?
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- 2:08:07the dream alive, the dream of Rome. You could only whisper about it.
- 2:08:13Anything more than a whisper and it will vanish. It is so fresh
- 2:08:16anything more than a whisper that enforcers of the matriarchy will slap you down and
- 2:08:22say, no, that's patriarchal, ye oh good lord. Like and again,
- 2:08:28I don't know what what the hell is he comparing when he says Rome
- 2:08:33is patriarchal? What is he comparing it to? I feel like he's just
- 2:08:35like trying to tell her what she wants to hear. Yeah, like trying
- 2:08:39to tell her what she wants to hear. That's what I think. It's
- 2:08:43intense cowardice and an ugly competition between men. It's like, isn't it.
- 2:08:48It's old, so that means it's oppressive. I'm I'm gonna throw the these
- 2:08:54random men I made up under the bus so so that I can feel good
- 2:08:58about myself. Can you believe these children? They wish they were centurions?
- 2:09:05Like, I don't even understand how he got Oh, men want to be
- 2:09:09senators from Yeah, you know, men men think about storming the beaches of
- 2:09:13Normandy and wanting to do well, which I didn't even know what that means.
- 2:09:18Like, what is wanting to do as an individual man? What is
- 2:09:22doing well on Normandy? On the beaches of Normandy, like not getting your
- 2:09:26arm blown off, Jesus Christ. But anyway, But then to conflate the
- 2:09:33average soldier, the who's an average citizen storming the beaches of Normandy with Romans
- 2:09:39the aristocracy? What is what was in his brain pan? Like, I
- 2:09:48mean that was that was quite a leap. I don't know how he did
- 2:09:54that leap. So he was definitely raring to go. I mean, he
- 2:09:56she was leading, but he was. He was definitely bucking his tracers and
- 2:10:01saying, let's go faster into the missentry, faster, deeper, harder.
- 2:10:07I hate men, I hate men. There you go. I've done my
- 2:10:11tithe for the day. Let's have our five minutes of hate. Okay,
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- 2:11:03ice perfect absolutely perfect. Yeah, so thank you Richard again. Like,
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