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EP #048: Happy Mother’s Day From Some PT6 Moms! + A Dinnertime Dad Hack For The Ages | For The Dads · Bussin' With The Boys

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  Speaker 2: Afore the Dads Papa Team six, We're glad you're here.
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  Speaker 3: We hope that you took your trash out.
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  Speaker 2: We hope that your nuts are empty, your heart's are full.
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  Speaker 2: We hope you bought your Mother's Day merch. Because if
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  Speaker 2: you haven't bought your Mother's Day merch, it's.
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  Speaker 3: It's too late.
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  Speaker 1: No, don't arrive. Don't say that. There's still a lot
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  Speaker 1: of fathers out there right now that will still buy
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  Speaker 1: the week of it'll be you know, the shipment will
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  Speaker 1: get in a little bit later. But yeah, but.
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  Speaker 2: You know, blame it on us.
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  Speaker 3: Blame it on us, get your mate.
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  Speaker 2: If you haven't gotten your Mother's Day merch, Guys, this
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  Speaker 2: is the Mother Say episode. Welcome for the Dad's Podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Get that Mother's Day merch. We'll publicly get on social
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  Speaker 2: media if you're like, hey, my mother's day merch is late.
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  Speaker 2: What the heck? Boys, because you just ordered it today,
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  Speaker 2: will jump in and say that's all us. We're paid.
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  Speaker 3: You be the reason.
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  Speaker 4: Well.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, if you just comment and say, hey, please explain
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  Speaker 1: to my wife that.
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  Speaker 3: You guys messed up the shipment, it's all you have to.
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  Speaker 1: Say the comment to us say in the comments, decrrespond
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  Speaker 1: give you the proper message. Yeah, that shipman was delayed.
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  Speaker 2: We'll have an auto generated thing.
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  Speaker 1: There are also dads out there that will say the
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  Speaker 1: day of your gift is still coming in. Your gift
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  Speaker 1: is still coming in.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you could print off a picture of your gift
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  Speaker 2: that you ordered for online. That's always a good Why
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  Speaker 2: brin love that uh? For any first time listeners is
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  Speaker 2: a dad podcast hosted by two dads. My name is
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  Speaker 2: Sherman Young. I am a father to a ten month
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  Speaker 2: old daughter, Scarlet, and to the left of me is
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  Speaker 2: William Earl Compton. The third nice father.
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  Speaker 5: Ru is four.
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  Speaker 1: Scott Zilla is about see here, she's about to be
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  Speaker 1: eighteen months.
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  Speaker 2: She's about to be eighteen months And hey listen, we
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  Speaker 2: come onto the show. We like to laugh, we liked
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  Speaker 2: to bullshit we like to have a good time, talk
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  Speaker 2: a little shit. We also cry. There will probably be
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  Speaker 2: some tears on this episode. So if you're a first
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  Speaker 2: time listener and you're seeing two grum men cry and
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  Speaker 2: you're going, is this every episode? Not every episode, but
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  Speaker 2: a lot of them, several And.
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  Speaker 1: I love to you've tipped the audience off that you've
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  Speaker 1: you've taken a peek. I don't even know what you
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  Speaker 1: saw over there on a write up, But we have
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  Speaker 1: a couple interns with us this week, a couple of
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  Speaker 1: Michigan Wolverines and sure them they're kind of shadowing the
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  Speaker 1: entire operation for this week. And Surrean was asking them
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  Speaker 1: before the podcast started, like, hey, just be prepared. We
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  Speaker 1: might cry this episode. Yeah, so don't get uncomfortable, don't
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  Speaker 1: get a little weird. We all shed some tears. There's
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  Speaker 1: some dads that there's some some moms and dads that
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  Speaker 1: tears fill their eyes as they're listening to this episode
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  Speaker 1: during certain moments and right ends that people have forst
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  Speaker 1: because some of the right ends feels very undeserving, but uh,
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  Speaker 1: we get to read him and we all we all
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  Speaker 1: basically cry together. Yes, and everybody watching at home, right
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  Speaker 1: now I'm looking back at the interns. There's some broad
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  Speaker 1: there's some broad some boys.
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  Speaker 2: Boy, there some men for any big Blue Sickos, They're like, wait, wait,
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  Speaker 2: we got some Michigan players. We have Zach Marshall, who
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  Speaker 2: is a tight end for the Michigan Blue. And we
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  Speaker 2: have Trey Pierce, who is a defensive lineman. Are you
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  Speaker 2: an edgresh what?
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  Speaker 1: No, somebody I'm lining up behind over the a. Guys,
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  Speaker 1: you get the three technique going on, getting why motion?
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  Speaker 2: Why motion? Dude, I can see it and it gets
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  Speaker 2: to be so juice light on the hand, wash the poll.
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  Speaker 2: Try watch the pool here. Oh my god, God, I
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  Speaker 2: love that. So Michigan Sickos, get ready for that. Also,
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  Speaker 2: like getting on a computer and typing out a book.
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  Speaker 2: We have an email. We have an email six oh
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  Speaker 2: I got a lengthy one right here quite literally has chapters.
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  Speaker 1: Welcome to the show, Welcome to the show. Great show
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  Speaker 1: in store again. Mother's Day weekend. It's Mother's Day week.
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  Speaker 1: We have some videos that we'll be watching from a
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  Speaker 1: couple of moms sending in some videos. Answering some question
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  Speaker 1: about the boys. I truly forgot about that again. Well,
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  Speaker 1: we'll interns will have a moment to shout out their moms.
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  Speaker 1: It's a big it's just big Mom week, Big Mom Week.
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  Speaker 1: Mother of your children, mom, if you still have them
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  Speaker 1: on even if you don't have a mom, We're here
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  Speaker 1: to celebrate mothers. Yep, and it's gonna be a great
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  Speaker 1: It's gonna be a great. Sod we got dad wins.
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  Speaker 1: I'm looking at crack a cold one. Follow ups from
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  Speaker 1: last week, Buddy, so many people flooded, so many my
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  Speaker 1: Instagram dms.
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  Speaker 3: The blue collar stuff, the blue collar stuff.
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  Speaker 1: Oh dude, they got an HVAC guy, they got a handyman.
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  Speaker 1: Their dad would be perfect, like getting them on the SAD.
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  Speaker 1: I actually met my mail man yesterday. Oh finally, Yes. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: he was giving me some tips on change in the
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  Speaker 1: ad are chain engine male still goes to the old house.
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  Speaker 1: He's tipping me off. He's like, but my boy, I
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  Speaker 1: won't say the names my boy x he let he
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  Speaker 1: already knows the deal. He gives him to me, and
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  Speaker 1: so I get him to you. I'm just letting you
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  Speaker 1: know you can do that. You know you an easy step.
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  Speaker 2: You can solve that problem dot gov and make sure
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  Speaker 2: you go to dot gov and it's like two dollars
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  Speaker 2: that you can forward start forwarding your mail.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but great traction when it comes to Dad's being like, hey,
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  Speaker 1: my dad would be perfect. My dad. He's a handy man.
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  Speaker 1: My dad. He's a carpenter, h fat guy, electrician, he'll
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  Speaker 1: jump on your show. He'd be a perfect fit for
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  Speaker 1: for the dads. So we've been getting a lot of those.
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  Speaker 6: Yes, Deeke Shirrem said it last week. We've got a
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  Speaker 6: lot of comments to call it PT fix.
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  Speaker 2: Pd.
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  Speaker 3: T pt PUP, A team six can go with anything.
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  Speaker 2: The show rights itself, the show right, it rights itself.
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  Speaker 2: PT fix. That's an episode of PT fix, dude, and
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  Speaker 2: I got a ton of dms. I got it of comments,
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  Speaker 2: a ton of guys that are happy to put people
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  Speaker 2: on game, and there is there are a few things.
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  Speaker 2: We'll save it for another time because we're gonna get
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  Speaker 2: a blue collar guy.
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  Speaker 1: On the show.
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  Speaker 2: That that is going to happen. That is easy.
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  Speaker 3: We can do that.
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  Speaker 2: But if there's one thing that I love more and
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  Speaker 2: the entire world, it is sitting around a campfire. I
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  Speaker 2: grew up hunting and being around a little campfire with
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  Speaker 2: some blue collar types.
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  Speaker 3: The fingers look like.
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  Speaker 2: Sweet potatoes almost because it's just covered in callouses in
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  Speaker 2: these hands, dude, and they're just sitting there, just talking
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  Speaker 2: about whatever the hell they're fucking talking about. Fixing shit.
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  Speaker 2: This shit, bro, fuck that shit. I mean, there is
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  Speaker 2: nothing I love more in this entire.
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  Speaker 5: World arguments about who works the hardest.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, you don't. You don't work a fucking dating
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  Speaker 2: you don't.
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  Speaker 3: You don't know shit.
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  Speaker 1: I was talking to a buddy of mine yesterday and
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  Speaker 1: he called in former teammate of mine. We're bus the balls.
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  Speaker 1: He's one of the best. And I'll leave his name
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  Speaker 1: out of it because we're just catching up. He's a
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  Speaker 1: dad of three, and uh okay. I'm like, hey, what's new, bro.
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  Speaker 1: He's like, oh, jobless and we're laughing like he does.
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  Speaker 1: He's got like a side hustle of real estate. He
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  Speaker 1: had a W two and he was like, a jobless
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  Speaker 1: fucking got caught drinking beer, got caught drinking beer on
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  Speaker 1: site last week And he's like, well, I wasn't caught
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  Speaker 1: like drinking, and you know I had a beer and
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  Speaker 1: you know, this fucking rat rated me out and we're
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  Speaker 1: laughing like it's just like old times. He had an
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  Speaker 1: open in the corner, which I was like, so, did
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  Speaker 1: they like catch you drinking a beer or oh?
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  Speaker 3: He's like, well, I want in a beer. There was
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  Speaker 3: a I deleted a.
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  Speaker 1: Twelve rack and it was in the trash and like,
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  Speaker 1: I didn't think to like put it somewhere else.
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  Speaker 3: I had in the trash can like it was Friday and.
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  Speaker 7: Around.
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  Speaker 2: Man, I do, yeah for sure.
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  Speaker 3: But they assaulted the earth, dude. It's a's of.
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  Speaker 1: The earth, the tops of the earth, hops of the
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  Speaker 1: earth type of fellas out there.
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  Speaker 3: Man, it's trying to do their best.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Time of respect for the blue collar. Done respect for
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  Speaker 3: the blue collar.
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  Speaker 1: Anybody that's new out there to listening to us talking
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  Speaker 1: about community, I was talking about having dads on all
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  Speaker 1: this stuff that we're sitting here, calling back to write ins, voicemails, emails,
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  Speaker 1: all that stuff. We have a community. It's called Papa
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  Speaker 1: Team six or Milk Team six for the moms, or
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  Speaker 1: Seeman Team six with the young lads who aren't necessarily
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  Speaker 1: fathers yet you might be breeding until dad status. That's
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  Speaker 1: budge training right now where you are in the process
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  Speaker 1: of trying to get your little one. We have an
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  Speaker 1: incredible community. It is the best fatherhood community out there. Guys,
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  Speaker 1: they're they're everywhere. They're everywhere. You want to shout out
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  Speaker 1: all those with discord.
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  Speaker 6: No, I was gonna say, goo bereats wild cards?
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  Speaker 1: Those are you wild cards?
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  Speaker 2: Because they could be goombrets or they could be seeming
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  Speaker 2: Team six.
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  Speaker 1: The goom Brays are just catch up for whatever reason,
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  Speaker 1: enjoy listening to this podcast. Has nothing to do with
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  Speaker 1: their life, and they just love listen to a couple
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  Speaker 1: of kids.
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  Speaker 2: They're not trying anyone. Like they you look like five
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  Speaker 2: years into their future. It's like, I'm for sure not
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  Speaker 2: having kids in the next five years. Yeah, those are
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  Speaker 2: the goom break.
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  Speaker 1: They're they're dating nobody, or they're dating everybody, or they're
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  Speaker 1: dating everyone.
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  Speaker 2: They're just out there and they're like, Hey, I needed
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  Speaker 2: a pod on Wednesday to listen to you. Maybe this's
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  Speaker 2: for the good one.
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  Speaker 1: You know what, I'm going to delete a twelve wreck
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  Speaker 1: right now, only if you're over twenty one.
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  Speaker 2: Only if you're over twenty one.
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  Speaker 5: Shout out to goo Bray Matt Malone on his journey
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  Speaker 5: right now.
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  Speaker 1: Oh shout out, yeah for this.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, if you're not following on social media, you have
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  Speaker 2: to be on Busting with the Boys. That's Busting WTB
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  Speaker 2: And you can watch Matt Malone drive his new Volkswagen
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  Speaker 2: Uh Volkswagen Arrow.
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  Speaker 3: It's a convertible.
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  Speaker 2: Vulga Volkswagen Stick with the ball feed up convertible. He's
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  Speaker 2: driving from Phoenix, Arizona all the way to Nashville, Tennessee.
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  Speaker 2: And speaking of moms, he's gonna be staying at my
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  Speaker 2: mom's house in Fort Worth, Texas along the way.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Happy Mother's.
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  Speaker 3: Day, Happy mother.
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  Speaker 1: He had to call his mom to make sure this
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  Speaker 1: was okay, because he's still under his mom and dad's
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  Speaker 1: roof their house their rules.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, Matt had to call his spirit.
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  Speaker 1: Matt had to call his parents to make sure this
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  Speaker 1: was a go. Because Matt toltal of his car a
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  Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago. It wasn't When I say totaled,
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  Speaker 1: its not near as bad as it sounds. The whole
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  Speaker 1: entire front bumper fell off because he accidentally rear ended somebody.
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  Speaker 3: He was he was not texting and driving.
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  Speaker 1: He just bumped them, but apparently he was looking for
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  Speaker 1: oncoming traffic and bumped somebody.
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  Speaker 3: Front bumper all the way off total.
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  Speaker 1: Of the car. He's been driving a rental. He's been
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  Speaker 1: looking and in the market for a new car. We
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  Speaker 1: found this new car on cars dot cars dot com,
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  Speaker 1: cars dot Com and in Arizona. There's a bit that
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  Speaker 1: started through Taylor to He's got to pick up a
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  Speaker 1: car in Arizona. And go eat it zips which has
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  Speaker 1: phenomenal wings shout out three wings to shout out your
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  Speaker 1: boy and.
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  Speaker 3: Shout out your boy.
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  Speaker 2: You can shout him out when he's on.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, we can shout him out when he's on.
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  Speaker 1: But the deal is we will buy him the car,
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  Speaker 1: and all he has to do is the stipulation is
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  Speaker 1: he has to fly We fly him to Arizona, he
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  Speaker 1: has to pick up the car, he has to drive
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  Speaker 1: it all the way back. And he's got some side
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  Speaker 1: quests along the way, going through Texas, going through Albuquerque
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  Speaker 1: to where he's got to create content and essentially earn
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  Speaker 1: this free car that he's going to be getting.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, gosh. He called my mom and wisher a
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  Speaker 2: happy Mother's Day and say, oh, also, can you let
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  Speaker 2: three of my coworkers sleep at your house?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah? Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah. He's gonna be stopping through
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  Speaker 1: him Mitch Ryan Olan, Yeah yeah, They're all gonna be
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  Speaker 1: going through. So you can follow those at bustin WTB socials,
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  Speaker 1: all busting with the boy stuff. I got some here
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  Speaker 1: I'd love to kick off please instead of saving it
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  Speaker 1: for the lesson of the week and at the end,
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  Speaker 1: since it's a it's a Mother's Day theme. I have
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  Speaker 1: some here that I would like to share for everybody,
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  Speaker 1: whether you are somebody with a mom, whether you're somebody
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  Speaker 1: without a mom, whether somebody or you're somebody that has
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  Speaker 1: your wife who is the mother of your children.
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  Speaker 3: This is a Mother's Day message from for the dads.
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  Speaker 1: Most of us. And again I'm writing from a spot
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  Speaker 1: to where we're going to be listening to videos that
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  Speaker 1: Deeke's mom sent in, Chef's mom sent insures mom sent in.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody knows that your boys cried on this podcast many
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  Speaker 1: of times talking about my mother could because my mother
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  Speaker 1: suddenly passed away four or five years ago, four or
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  Speaker 1: five years ago, Ruse four, so it was when Charle
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  Speaker 1: was pregnant. But this message here, most of us will
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  Speaker 1: never know when the last time was, the last time
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  Speaker 1: your mom sent you a message, the last time she
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  Speaker 1: called just to check in, the last time she said
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  Speaker 1: I love you before you rushed off the phone.
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  Speaker 3: You didn't market nobody ever does.
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  Speaker 1: For the dads who still have their mom, you're in
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  Speaker 1: the middle of those last times right now and you
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  Speaker 1: don't even know it. My boys, listen up here, Zach
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  Speaker 1: and Trey listen to this. Call her this week, not
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  Speaker 1: because there's something wrong, but because nothing is wrong. Drive
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  Speaker 1: over there for no reason, let her talk too long
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  Speaker 1: about something you don't care about, and actually listen to.
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  Speaker 1: Let her be proud of you out loud, even if
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  Speaker 1: it does embarrass you, because some of us would give
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  Speaker 1: everything we have for one more of those ordinary moments.
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  Speaker 1: Doesn't have to be a holiday. Don't wait for it
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  Speaker 1: to be a holiday. Don't wait for it to be
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  Speaker 1: a birthday. How about just a regular Tuesday or a Wednesday.
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  Speaker 1: As you're listening to this episode and while we're here,
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  Speaker 1: look at the mother of your children. She's doing the
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  Speaker 1: same thing for you, are for your kids that your
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  Speaker 1: mom did for you. The invisible work, the worry that
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  Speaker 1: never clocks out, the mental load we have no idea
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  Speaker 1: about or even how to solve. Sometimes the love she
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  Speaker 1: gives you and the kids that doesn't even need a reason.
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  Speaker 1: Don't wait for her to tell you she's running on empty.
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  Speaker 1: Let me see that again. Don't wait for her to
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  Speaker 1: tell you she's running on empty. See it before she
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  Speaker 1: has to say it. This Mother's Day weekend, don't you
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  Speaker 1: buy the flowers and call it done. Tell her specifically,
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  Speaker 1: what she means to your kids, what she means to you.
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  Speaker 1: Make her feel like the most important person in the room,
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  Speaker 1: because she is. Your kids are going to grow up
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  Speaker 1: and feel exactly about her the way you feel about
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  Speaker 1: your mom right now. Make sure she knows that. And
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  Speaker 1: for the dads who have lost their mom, you carry
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  Speaker 1: her and how you parent in the things you catch
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  Speaker 1: yourself saying to your kids that she used to say
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: to you. You carry her in those fond memories and
• 15:27
  Speaker 1: thoughts about her that your kids will never fully understand,
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: but feel. She didn't leave, she just changed form. Love
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: your mom like you already know the date, Love the
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: mother of your children, like she's watching you become the
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: man your mom wanted you to be. That is the message,
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: oh that I would like to I wanted to kind
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: of start with that versus I don't know how long
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: people listen. I don't know if people listen for like
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: forty five minutes and then don't finish the rest of
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: the episode. I know there are a bunch of POPA
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: Team sikos out there. But again, before we dive into
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: all the mother stuff, I did want to I did
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: want to share that because it's stuff like that. It's like,
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: we know how precious life is and you truly, you
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: legitimately never know. Yeah, So love your mom's voice. Call
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: your mom's legit, call your mom your call your mom's.
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: There were two things that we'll see in my mom
• 16:20
  Speaker 2: interview or my mom's videos that I was embarrassed about.
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: That were those not the first words out of my
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: mouth when I came into the office. It was to
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: Chef and Derek about something. We'll see it later in
• 16:35
  Speaker 2: the pod. But you wrote so eloquently, you know, let
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: your mom brag about you and be embarrassed by it.
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: It's the worst, but that one, God damn it. Fellas
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: enjoy it.
• 16:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah that when there laughs, say mom, stop mom please.
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: Then when you let her know that she's embarrassing you
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: on the way out, just let her know that you
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: love her.
• 16:58
  Speaker 3: Well, I love you very much. You're a good man.
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: I love you too. Bro, Hey, Fellas, call your mom
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: call him s week that you a matter of fact,
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: it's got to be put on their It's got to
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: be put on their internship like action items.
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: Make sure you call your mom. Get I brag about
• 17:12
  Speaker 3: Zach really quick.
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: Will his Mother's Day gift is that the one you're
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: going That's what I'm going with. That's where you're going with.
• 17:20
  Speaker 8: Text her this morning to see uh when she has
• 17:23
  Speaker 8: availability Saturday, because obviously they're not open Sunday. But that's
• 17:27
  Speaker 8: what we're doing.
• 17:27
  Speaker 3: He got her a massage at the Four Seasons.
• 17:32
  Speaker 9: And so if.
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: Anybody's wondering if Zach loves his MoMA or not, he
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: told us he was getting that chefing on. You flipped over.
• 17:43
  Speaker 10: Yeah, dude, hell yeah, yeah.
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: Thank you. That Jill's idea. Jill's idea, but I'll take it.
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: We have maybe the best easiest segue of all time
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: because we have some callbacks from last episode, and I
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: thought that this would be a great one for our
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: Mother's Day episode.
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: I have one two. Autism Miller wrote in Oh good good,
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: the boys are back there to Autism Miller, you'll have
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: to watch them.
• 18:10
  Speaker 6: You'll have to watch the ty because he was helping
• 18:12
  Speaker 6: me cut calm okay kind of looked at it.
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: I was like, I got a story for that. This
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: guy's really autism kinda Kaida, He's a lighter off. Trevor
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: uh oh Elitt. Trevor Ewleitt wrote in Hey, Brandon, don't
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: do it you're gonna put a dent in that boy's head?
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: What is that in reference to? You'll have to watch
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: last episode. You have to check out last episode because
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: I don't know what that's a reference to.
• 18:41
  Speaker 6: We had a phone call about a gentleman who, uh,
• 18:44
  Speaker 6: who had a piss missile and he was scared to
• 18:46
  Speaker 6: have shockwave with his wonderful wife because she was pregnant.
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: And so people are be careful. Trevor was giving them
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: a hard time. Yeah, Brandon, you're fine, You're gonna be
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: all good, be all good.
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: I got one here from an autism miller. And again,
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: if you're laughing yourself of you're thinking, what the hell
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: are you saying? Will you see you're gonna have to
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: listen to some past episodes. Yea, yeah, fellas hope all
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: as well. Major update from the Autism Household. We welcome
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  Speaker 1: laws and Brooks Miller to the world on May second,
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  Speaker 1: twenty twenty six, at twelve forty one pm Central Time,
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: at seven pounds two ounces in nineteen point two five
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: inches long and the most precious, precious human I've ever seen,
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: perfectly healthy baby boy and no signs of autism running
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: in the family. Mama Bear was an absolute champion, is
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: recovering well and we are looking forward to going home today.
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: She deserves all the credit in the world. I couldn't
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: be more proud of her. Dad couch bads check. Oh
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: thanks fellas, keep doing the work. Yours truly Austin Autism
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: Miller PT six.
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: Shout out to Lawson aka Lautism Miller.
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we are very because you know the family's tuned
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: in right now. What we got?
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: Another one from Joel Torpie five eight three zero on YouTube.
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: He says taking notes of your wife's favorite meals is
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: not a dad act. That's just simping.
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: Say that again.
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: Joel Torpie five eight three zero Dad Extraordinaire says, taking
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: notes of your wife's favorite meals is not a dad act.
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: That's just simping. You're just being a simp.
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: No, simple, You're just caring about somebody else enough to
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: like take note of something that they enjoy that brings
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: happiness to them.
• 20:43
  Speaker 3: Dude, what a piece of shit.
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: Imagine la him sitting next to one of his boys
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: and he's like, what are you doing? And he's like
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: writing at his notes said, He's like, I'm just I'm
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: mapping out what my life, what my wife loves because
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: I don't want to mess up orders in the future
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: because I love her dearly like she's Yeah, I'm just
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: trying to do a solid buyer because I forget stuff.
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: Mother, my kids. You know yea love my life. Dude,
• 21:03
  Speaker 3: stop simping from you.
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: Sound like a bitch.
• 21:07
  Speaker 2: You're such a bitch. Oh my god, you actually love her?
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: He loves his wife. What an idiot. So that's some
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: That's some news you can use from Joel Torpy five
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: eight three zero.
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: Here's one from a Ted Casper on Spotify Love Spotify
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: comments fellows d m V area Ptsico here and I
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: physically winced at the Virginia side of d C.
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: Whole conversation was hilarious though. Oh no, and he's a
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: DC boy. Yeah, oh so it's not a thing.
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: Did you guys? Are you guys familiar with Washington the
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: district of Columbia? Tray says, no, been once.
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: He's been. Well, apparently there's not a Maryland side.
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: Are you Are you familiar like where it's at on
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: the map, like over in Maryland Virginia area.
• 22:03
  Speaker 3: Yeah, d m V our nation's capital.
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: Would you say that we're at lands, similar to like
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: Kansas City being on the side of Kansas and Missouri.
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: Are you familiar that there's a side of Maryland in Virginia. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: how about you.
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: There's no wrong answer here.
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: That's not true Maryland side in the Virginia side.
• 22:27
  Speaker 8: I'm pretty sure it's fully in Virginia. I think I
• 22:31
  Speaker 8: think just on a map. We've been trained from like
• 22:34
  Speaker 8: where the little big stars.
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: I'm with you, the way society has trained us, the
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: way society has trained us.
• 22:42
  Speaker 8: It's definitely that big circle, right you know you guys
• 22:45
  Speaker 8: ever had like the place mats as little kids, with
• 22:47
  Speaker 8: like the with like the map and stuff. Yeah, oh yeah,
• 22:51
  Speaker 8: yeah that conditioned us as children.
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: Well yeah, put the tinpole had on that bullshit, and
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: social studies conditioned this.
• 23:03
  Speaker 6: This side of the table would like to express that
• 23:05
  Speaker 6: it is not a circle. It's a square. I would
• 23:08
  Speaker 6: like everyone to know that he's wrong about the circle.
• 23:09
  Speaker 6: It's a square square.
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: Okay, So we're learning stuff right now, and my man said.
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: It's it's fully in Virginia.
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: Fully in Virginia. And they're trying to get you. He's
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: trying to get you. I'm asking questions, asking questions. I
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: will say this. I was thinking about it. Vatican City. Okay,
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: if I'm on a phone call in Vatican City, Trey
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: calls me up.
• 23:41
  Speaker 3: He says, yo, sure, what are you doing.
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: Where are you? Am I gonna tell him, Hey, I'm
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: in Vatican City? Or am I going to be like, hey,
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: I'm in Rome.
• 23:49
  Speaker 3: Vatican it's a country, so Vatican.
• 23:51
  Speaker 5: Yeah, if you walk into the Vatican, you're like, I'm
• 23:54
  Speaker 5: in the Vatican.
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: These dudes, man, you say.
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: Whatever you want.
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: I say whatever I want to say.
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: What the distrect of Columbia, it's its own entity, and
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: you're saying it's in Virginia.
• 24:08
  Speaker 8: It's true, it's a true entity, but it might be
• 24:11
  Speaker 8: encapsulated by Virginia.
• 24:13
  Speaker 5: A good answer, isn't it Maryland? No, it's neither. Let's
• 24:19
  Speaker 5: set the record.
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: I was.
• 24:20
  Speaker 5: I think I'm the only one that was right on this.
• 24:22
  Speaker 5: It's an independent district.
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: It is an independent district. But isn't it on the
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: side of it We're pissing, We're pissing.
• 24:32
  Speaker 6: Our boy does cross over the Potomac, but it like
• 24:35
  Speaker 6: bridges the bank of the Potomac, and there's kind of
• 24:38
  Speaker 6: some areas that kick into the Potomac. It is more
• 24:41
  Speaker 6: of a square than a circle, Zach, So I apologize there,
• 24:44
  Speaker 6: but it is. There is a part of it that
• 24:46
  Speaker 6: is on the Virginia side that you can.
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: See right here.
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: So there is a Virginia side.
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: I don't believe you were on the Virginia side. So
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: so most important part to take away from this is
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: essentially you were right. You were right.
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: The there's a there's an argument there.
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know, for all the Northeastern people like
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: Ted Casper, he's he's againt, pitched off. No, we're talking
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: about this. He's winning. He's wincing again right now.
• 25:12
  Speaker 2: Hopefully Stephen G twenty is on our side. This was
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: from Spotify. Please get some blue collar guys on here,
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: but make sure that they're union workers because those guys.
• 25:23
  Speaker 3: Have no filter.
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: I think he's right about that, Stephen Geek shout out
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: Stephen gee.
• 25:28
  Speaker 3: Uh callback from last week? Ac still down Oh.
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: Perfect in the upstairs where the kiddos are. Yeah that's great.
• 25:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah, still hot and muggy upstairs.
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: It's not good. And he's like, it needed some part
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: that had to be ordered and delivered, which gets in
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: I think today, yeah or yesterday maybe, Like hopefully it
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: gets fixed today.
• 25:55
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 25:56
  Speaker 3: Well we've been without AC upstairs for.
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: What week now?
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: Yes, and upstairs is ideal because heat rises, so the
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: heat's already going up there anyways, and then you just
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: you let the heat kind of ruminate. That's perfect.
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: We've been leaving Scott in it.
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: Oh God, I got a condition. Yeah, she's forged in
• 26:15
  Speaker 2: fire right now. She starts crying a little baby. Wait
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: you cry? Oh, you want your binkie? Yeah, just give
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: her the binkie. We go, no sleepsack, she's upstairs. We
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: get the fan on her. Wait, you want your lama
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: because I know you ain't hot.
• 26:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, this is how we had to learn.
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: Rue. She taps out.
• 26:33
  Speaker 3: She's got to go to the guest room downstairs.
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: Summer's in Bontaire. You told me they would just have
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: you go lay out in the driveway. Oh it's hot.
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: Go see how hot the driveway is.
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: Mom wouldn't let us put the thermostat under a certain degree.
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: Like we had to get fans blaring all the time,
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: small rooms sweating, and.
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: Get the windows open. Get some air in here, get
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: some air in here. Yeah, gotta keep the electric build down.
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: Oh dude, that's all AC still out good? Yeah, stuff everybody.
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: Good. Rue doesn't want to sleep upstairs. Good, oh God,
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: struggles struggles at bedtime.
• 27:05
  Speaker 10: Good.
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: I will say this about Scotty. I'll brag about Scotty.
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: She crushed it at the Clumps baby shower. Yeah, I
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: saw you at the Clumps baby shower.
• 27:14
  Speaker 3: Yeah, she's a great time. And again like.
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: Not that Rue's not a warrior. Scotty just is a warrior.
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: Does that make sense? Yeah, the parents out there with
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: the four year old Scotty, she's an eighteen month old.
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: She's a second born. She's got more grit to her,
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: she's got more fearlessness. Don't give a attitude to her,
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: Like you'll get done reading her stories. It should be
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: get done in the bottle and what you kind of
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: rock her and she's dozing, like I'll be putting her
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: in the crib, kiss her on the forehead and you
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: can you can sense the moisture on her forehead as
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: we're putting her in the crib.
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: And Scotty isn't talking like quite quite yet, but she
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: like she's talking. Yeah, she's gathering some words that she
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: pulled me aside at the baby shower. She told me
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: a warrior doesn't need a weapon. A warrior is the weapon. Yeah,
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: she told me.
• 28:01
  Speaker 6: You know what she told me sharing, which is super
• 28:03
  Speaker 6: weird that she had that one. She said that Rue
• 28:05
  Speaker 6: is a farmer in a war and Scotti is a
• 28:07
  Speaker 6: warrior in a farm.
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: I don't know where she's getting this, bro.
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: But Scotty said that she said that to me at
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: the party.
• 28:13
  Speaker 3: I was eating a cupcake Saturday night.
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: Saturday night, I walked upstairs and she's sitting on the couch.
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: God was looking everywhere in the house for and then
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: I just go in her room and I just see her.
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: She's just got the lamp on, sitting in the rocking chair.
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: She's got the book open, and she just looks up
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: and says that nobody's coming to save you. She said, yes,
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: brod close the book, climbing the crow, put the baking
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: about them one to sleep. She's like, I'll get the lights, all.
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: Right, just get the lights on your way on that.
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: Oh man. She well, and also, I don't know if this.
• 28:49
  Speaker 5: Is uh the.
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, look on the other end, she's our princess. Yeah,
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: she's ru'st I'm obsessed with Rue. We're all obsessed with her.
• 29:02
  Speaker 3: We love her, we love real.
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: Rue caught some uh some hand foot mouth hand mouth
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: foot hand foot mouth, hey, hey.
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: Hey good good twice in one year.
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, twice we got uh. We had a tip from
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: the school that it was kind of going around. We
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: thought Rue was all good, and then all of a sudden,
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: Sunday comes around. She wasn't feeling wells talks about her
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: throat hurting, got a couple of those little uh like
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: red dots in her throat. Yeah, and then she just starts.
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: It's like tantrum after tantrum. She's hard to reel in.
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: She's just she's tough, Bro, She's a feeler. She's our
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: emotional one.
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, she's our emotional one. But hand foot mouth
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: good again, it's like the end of the world when
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: her feet kind of itch and she's just like, you know,
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: and we can't really can't help you, Like there's nothing
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: we can do. We could put the creams on, we
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: could do this stuff. But Bro, I had to tell
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: her this morning and when we were we were at
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: breakfast because we're just not on fumes. But we're just like, Rue,
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: come on, Bro, you've got to figure this shit out.
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: I mean, Ruth's been draining us man joining us, like
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: last night, what's so funny.
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: I think it's funny. That's God figured the shit out?
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: Did you not hear, Scottie? No one's coming to save you.
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: Rue, Like yesterday, obviously we kept her home from school,
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: babysitter canceled today, she doesn't want to get sick. Good,
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: that's awesome, that's shark care. Yeah, so mom and I
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: just got to figure it. And Mom and I we've
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: been figuring it out. Rue last night, a lot of
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: trouble going to sleep again. Feed it. She comes up
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: with any different reason why she doesn't want to go
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: to bed, And this is typical on a regular day,
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: whether she wants to read more stories or just she
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: comes up with something that she has to do before
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: she gets in bed. So this just gives her a
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: bunch of ammo to like stay up and not go
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: to bed. Yeah, she's crying. She wants mom and dad
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: a lay with me, all the things to where it's
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: about eight thirty nine o'clock before we finally get downstairs,
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: and then then she's making her way to where she's
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: now starting to leave her room. She's figuring out she
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: can open the door and come outside of her room,
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: which I know is gonna be eventually. We're gonna have
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: to nip that in the ass. Yeah, she'll come down
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: and say I thought Mama was coming back up. And
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: I'm sitting there on the couch like I don't even
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: know what the conversations are with you, mom My. Mom
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: is getting ready for bed right now. I'm sure she's
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: gonna come up. But she says she was gonna come up.
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: She turns around and go back, goes back upstairs. I
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: just hear her start crying, and I'm just like, goly man,
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: we have got to figure this shit out. Bro. Charle
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: goes up there, calms her down. We're finally watching We're
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: watching the show, by the way, Secret Millionaire, great show
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: on Netflix right now. But we're getting ready for bed.
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: Heru's like too hot, can't sleep, for the love of God,
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: Gather all the stuff, Gather the sal machine, gather the
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: you moved her, gathered all the stuffed animals, the pillow.
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: We put her down in the guest bedroom on the
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: first floor. Yeah, sleep in the big bed. Yeah, gotta
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: essentially do. Mom's gotta do like a whole nother bedtime routine,
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: laying with her I'm doing it. At first, she wants
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: like a certain what.
• 32:02
  Speaker 3: Did I have to go get yet?
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: Last night? I can't even remember because I just feel
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: so beaten down by just one after another after another
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: with her in this. Then Mom's got to lay with
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: her good. Then we're getting ready for bed. She comes
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: in the room. We have to go back and kind
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: of her Mom has to like soothe her to get
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: back in bed. One in the morning, Bro, we finally
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: came back. It's like midnight, and then one in the
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: morning rolls around. I'm like dozing off, kind of in
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: like that where I'm starting to dream a little bit,
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: starting to hit maybe a little bit around where that
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: light sleep. Then all of a sudden, a white flashing
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: light comes on and I just hear a conversation. Charles
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: thinks something's like, what's Waffle doing right now? She turns
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: on the light. I kind of look around. Ruth's right
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: there at the end of our bed. Ru's in our
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: room at the end of the bed. I think I'm
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: in a horror movie. I kind of like, I'm kind
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: of startled. She's like she's crying because her feet and
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: this and that, and it's just like for the love.
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: I just look at my wife and I'm like, hey,
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: do you mind if I just go sleep with They're like,
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: I'm just gonna go sleep with her in that bed
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: and then so we can just get some sleep. Great, good,
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: let's go. As I'm walking, Hey, you've got to stop crying.
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: You've got to stop crying. It's it's all you've done
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: all day long.
• 33:17
  Speaker 2: And le Scotty's out like a.
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: She's just stolen her face down, just sleeping. I'm laying
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: in bed with the room and I'm like, I'm trying
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: to fall asleep. It's one p one thirty now, and
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: Rue's just like you know, when you're trying to make
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: it a point that something's wrong with you and you're
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: not trying to fall asleep and you're trying to. Ru's
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: trying to let me know she can't get comfortable, and
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: she's just like moving her feet, like moving around, and
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: I just, hey, Rue, stop moving. I haven't slept, Mom
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: and Dada, we haven't slept yet, Like we haven't got
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: to just wake up and we have to get up
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: early and do all the things. I need you to
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: lay there, stop moving so Dad, I can go to sleep.
• 34:01
  Speaker 2: How did that did that go?
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: She calmly just stops talking, freezes, doesn't do nothing. I'm
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: laying there now. I can't go to sleep because I
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: feel bad that I said that to her. And I'm like,
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: I'm laying in bed. I'm like, hey, sweetheart, would you
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: like to cuddle with dad? Dad? And she's like nods
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: her head, yes, I roll over and cuddle. We finally
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: go to sleep, wake up in the morning. Rue pissed
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: the bed, yahy yeah, yes, yes, man, I'm in it.
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: I thought I pissed the bed because I pissed it.
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: I pissed the bed consistently until I was about fourteen
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: years old. So at this point I don't even know
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: who what the bed. He's in bed yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: And then you know, morning time's a whole routine. The
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: babysitter canceled, so it's just us trying to do all
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: the things, figure all the things out.
• 34:48
  Speaker 3: I can tell. My wife is like she's in it.
• 34:51
  Speaker 3: All'm in whatever. We're all just in it.
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: Ruth's throat hurt.
• 34:53
  Speaker 3: She doesn't want to eat anything.
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, everything is too spicy going down or something like that.
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: She's knowing that her throat's hurting. Yeah, and Oh but hey,
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: like Scotty said, man, nobody's coming to say.
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: Nobody's coming to save you. And Happy Mother's Day and happy.
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: Yes yay, And dude, it's you know the parents out there, know,
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: like when you're in these fucking pockets, bro, it's just
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: you gotta I mean, you gotta be like Eli Manning
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: final drive oh seven, you do defenders hanging on your back.
• 35:25
  Speaker 3: You gotta deliver the football. Sometimes you're gonna have to
• 35:27
  Speaker 3: catch it.
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: On your head even when it looks like you are
• 35:30
  Speaker 2: truly down, like you are down and out, you are tackled,
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: there's no escape. You gotta Eli Manning stumble your way
• 35:38
  Speaker 2: out of it, pass first and just chuck it downfield.
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, cause you get so in your own internal rage.
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: No as a parent. Yeah. And then like as I'm
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: in my internal rage and I leave, I give the
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: wife a kiss. Do you do all the things that
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: I'm thinking, like, all right, Charles in it as well?
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: How can I like what things am I able to
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: do to know? Like, look, we're just in the trenches.
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: We're just gonna have to teamwork this day our way
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: out of it, trying to get rue and I'm just
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: trying to tell rue because she always does the hoot
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: kiss three squeezes and I'm like, hey, you know, don't
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: kiss that right now and wash your hands and then
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: don't let the bedbugs bit. Go be great. And I'm like, hey,
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: go be great today. Yeah, don't go be sad, Go
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: be great. Because I had to have like a come
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: to conversation. I'm like, I kind of I threw up
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: my hands and hit and I'm like, well, we're trying
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: to get her to eat her oatmeal and she wants
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: some more bananas and the oatmeal, and she does this
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: thing where she only she used only wanted to eat
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: the bananas and doesn't. She skives the bananas, but don't
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: eat the oatmeal. And she's talking about look at this,
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: she's going after another good good And I'm like, hey, sweetheart,
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: like I trust me. We've all been sick, we've all
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: had rashes, we've all been itchy. It's not going away.
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: I don't know what you want me to do. Nobody,
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: nobody's gonna be able to help you right now. The
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: rest of the day, gear up. You're gonna cry all
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: day long because this is not going away. Today.
• 36:58
  Speaker 3: What you're going through is not unique everybody's been through it.
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: And I'm having like this, like you know, this moment
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: with her, and I'm like, you're gonna have to figure
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: it out like that. That's it. Like, I know it sucks.
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: It's gonna suck all day long, but you can either
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: like be kinder to people. Like all this whining it
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: doesn't help anybody. Yeah, Mom's walking around stress, Dad ass stressed. Scottie,
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: she just she's just hitting herself in the head. Yesterday,
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: like as we're like relaxing and chilling and we're doing
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: some scrub, we're doing some TV time, Scotty's just all
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: over the place. Scotty goes to where she's just hitting Rue.
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: She's hitting Dad Dad like she's in this hitting phase
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: where I can't get we can't get her out of
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: this hitting phase right now. And she thinks it's hilarious.
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: And listen, parents, we don't laugh and smile while she's hitting.
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: I know that's like a no no. My wife caught
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: me a couple of times. She's like, hey, we can't
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: like that, like eggs are on when you're like smiling.
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: I'm like, dude, I can't help it, Like look at her.
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: She goes up and she swims, dude, and well, I'll
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: beg Scottie, stop hitting, and I'm like try not, trying
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: to look at her, and she just goes over and
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: was like like knowing that Scotty's gonna swing on her,
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: and I'll just grab Scotty's arm like a movie like
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: stopping some villain from swinging on the good guy.
• 38:11
  Speaker 3: And I'm like grabbing her.
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: I'm like gripping and I'm like, Scottie, we do not hit,
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: looking at her just like this, and she's just looking
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: at me, grinnin and thinks it's funny and then walks
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: over to me to swing and grab her hand again. Scotty,
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: we don't hit. We can't hit.
• 38:26
  Speaker 2: Hey, time out, Compton House, time out? What the fuck
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: is going on? Yeah? What's going on? Team time out?
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: Bring it in.
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we're gonna need to have one of those, like
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: for real, like whiteboard and all whistle hanging for my neck.
• 38:45
  Speaker 11: Bro.
• 38:45
  Speaker 3: I got with the towel hanging off of her shorts.
• 38:49
  Speaker 2: I gotta say, I'm Scotty, dude. Her resting face, like
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: her neutral face, she's got comedic timing, dude, Like I
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: think she knows that she's funny.
• 39:00
  Speaker 3: With those with those that she does because one time
• 39:03
  Speaker 3: I grabbed them.
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: She just goes her little like smiles that she does too.
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: When she looks out of the corner of her eye
• 39:12
  Speaker 2: like she had there's there's stuff going on.
• 39:16
  Speaker 3: She knows what's going on. Yeah, she crawled over.
• 39:20
  Speaker 2: I was playing at their house, or Scarlett was playing
• 39:23
  Speaker 2: with Scotty one day over at their house. We're in
• 39:25
  Speaker 2: their playroom, and in their playroom, the door is like
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: just four steps up of this little flight of stairs
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: and it's just out of reach.
• 39:36
  Speaker 3: Of Scotty, but like she can, she can get to it.
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: And Waffle is on the other side of the door,
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: just going ye, their bulldog. And we don't want Waffle
• 39:47
  Speaker 2: in the playroom because she was already in the playroom
• 39:49
  Speaker 2: and Will thought it was a little.
• 39:51
  Speaker 3: Much, so Will kicks Waffle out.
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: But Waffle's sitting there scratching, and Scotti is slowly making
• 39:57
  Speaker 2: her way over to the door, and Will like twice, hey, Scotty, Hey,
• 40:02
  Speaker 2: come back, what are you doing. And Scotty just the
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: slowest turn the ball to like evil villain, look at
• 40:08
  Speaker 2: you and smile crawls up the stairs against the door.
• 40:12
  Speaker 2: Scotty do not open that door, and she literally like
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: with her hand like kind of up on the doors,
• 40:18
  Speaker 2: like turning and looking back at Will.
• 40:20
  Speaker 3: She's just feeling hilarious. You'll just randomly hear Tiger give
• 40:24
  Speaker 3: me Tigy back.
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: And there, you know, rus like breaking down and now
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: I just like turned my head and you just see
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: Scotty like sprinting to the house like holding Tigy with
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: the big smile on her face.
• 40:33
  Speaker 2: Like god doing, Oh that's incredible. I got I have
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: some chaos at home. Not my chaos is so quickly
• 40:44
  Speaker 2: going to hit here the next week. We're moving on
• 40:47
  Speaker 2: the fourteenth, good good, so stay stay tuned for that.
• 40:51
  Speaker 2: Movers gonn't do it on the day that we originally
• 40:54
  Speaker 2: planned and that my parents are flying in for good,
• 40:58
  Speaker 2: so we moved move in day day early. So I'll
• 41:02
  Speaker 2: go ask for additional time off from Jeremy because I
• 41:06
  Speaker 2: told the wrong day to give me PTO on good.
• 41:09
  Speaker 2: That'll be fun. I am, however, very excited. I'm looking
• 41:14
  Speaker 2: forward to the movie. I'm actually very stoked on that.
• 41:18
  Speaker 2: The other thing that's really fun, Scarlett is becoming an
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: absolute menace within herself.
• 41:25
  Speaker 3: She is beginning to stand.
• 41:27
  Speaker 2: Now, she just she just figured out crawling, and she's
• 41:31
  Speaker 2: kind of like, hey, I want to stip, like skip
• 41:34
  Speaker 2: this crawling step. I really just kind of want to
• 41:36
  Speaker 2: walk now. So we got some bruises on our forehead
• 41:39
  Speaker 2: because we're feeling very confident on standing by herself. I
• 41:44
  Speaker 2: came to wake her up this way, good, good good.
• 41:46
  Speaker 2: I came to wake her up this morning, full on,
• 41:48
  Speaker 2: just standing in her crib with her eyes just barely
• 41:51
  Speaker 2: over the crib.
• 41:52
  Speaker 3: Just how adorable is that, dude?
• 41:55
  Speaker 5: Real? Surem? I got to throw in the pictures of
• 41:58
  Speaker 5: I told Jill, I said, hey, my girlfriend really wants
• 42:01
  Speaker 5: me to get a picture with Scarlet. And uh so
• 42:04
  Speaker 5: Jill like, hands over Scarlet. Maybe the cutest photos ever.
• 42:08
  Speaker 5: She started grabbing because I had the beard grown out.
• 42:10
  Speaker 5: She started like grabbing the face and stuff. Just calm
• 42:14
  Speaker 5: as could be, like she is. Scarlet might be the
• 42:17
  Speaker 5: most well behaved toddler I've ever seen in my life.
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: She's a sweetheart. When we were at the baby maybe
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: you just give her a ball, Oh, just give her
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: a ball.
• 42:25
  Speaker 3: She's just beating the ball. She's smiling, having a good time.
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: She does Scotty, you guys want to do a high five,
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: and you know, Scotty's like walking over trying to give
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: her high five, and Scarletes just doesn't know what's going on.
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: She just keeps beating the ball. Scotty's like reaching and
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: try and give her a high five. Scotty is like
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: giving her like five seconds. That's it, like figuring out
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: with these five seconds or the high five.
• 42:47
  Speaker 2: Baby.
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And now I'm trying to.
• 42:48
  Speaker 3: Tell Scotty like, Scotty, she's just a baby.
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: And then as I'm saying, and I'm like, I know,
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: you're a baby too, and you don't even really get
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying or understand what I'm saying.
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: Scotty, Scotty, She's just a baby. Scotty just looks at
• 42:58
  Speaker 2: you and goes.
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: Don't know, gentle, and she'll get like close to my
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: head and then tap it a gentle gentle and she'll
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: reach back.
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: Ah wait, wait, Scarlett's Scarlett is taking easy.
• 43:14
  Speaker 5: Honest.
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: I appreciate you saying that. She is a very sweet,
• 43:19
  Speaker 2: very sweet girl. She loves new faces. Daycare has really
• 43:23
  Speaker 2: helped with that. However, I got our first She didn't
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: get in trouble, in trouble, but I got our first daycare.
• 43:31
  Speaker 2: APR Report daycare APR report Scarlet has been stealing passes
• 43:37
  Speaker 2: out of her classmates mouths and then putting the passy
• 43:41
  Speaker 2: in her own mouth and crawling away from them and
• 43:44
  Speaker 2: smiles as she does it. She knows what she's doing.
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: Hell yeah, man, hell yeah.
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: Great way to get him foot mouthed by, great way
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: to get sick.
• 43:52
  Speaker 3: And that's where it happens in the schools.
• 43:55
  Speaker 2: Good. So then when she's kissing me, I'm like, oh,
• 43:57
  Speaker 2: so then I'm kissing four others with this one. Yes,
• 44:02
  Speaker 2: the way that you've been stealing passes. Yeah, edit, don't
• 44:05
  Speaker 2: edit around that, or do edit around that, you know
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: what I mean?
• 44:10
  Speaker 3: If they clip.
• 44:13
  Speaker 2: Sherman kiss infants four? Were you gonna say something?
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: But I do like that.
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: She's in a teeth touching phase.
• 44:22
  Speaker 6: She cat had her for a second and Scarlett kept
• 44:25
  Speaker 6: poking teeth.
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: So she's just it's a mouth phase. Maybe with the
• 44:28
  Speaker 2: passy it is a it's.
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: A big mouthface just learning to touch and do all
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: this stuff. Like Sky loves booping like that's right, worre
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: scarlets heady like they're just fascinated with like just touching everything.
• 44:38
  Speaker 3: Uh huh.
• 44:39
  Speaker 2: And she's big on the Jill calls it the pincer,
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: figuring out the pincer motion of like precisely picking things up.
• 44:47
  Speaker 2: And so she's big on people's faces. She loves doing
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: the pincer on your nose or on your chin and
• 44:54
  Speaker 2: grabbing some hair right there.
• 44:56
  Speaker 3: Yep, she's loving that. Developing with the food food, picking
• 44:59
  Speaker 3: up your food.
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: Bro.
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: She destroyed some turkey and these little frozen little dat
• 45:04
  Speaker 2: hack for you. They have these star shaped frozen pizza
• 45:10
  Speaker 2: little dinner bites and you microwave it for like twenty seconds.
• 45:14
  Speaker 3: She went to town on.
• 45:15
  Speaker 2: That, grabbing the little cuts of turkey and the little
• 45:19
  Speaker 2: cuts of the pizza bites.
• 45:20
  Speaker 3: Yeah, she's eating eating, that's good.
• 45:23
  Speaker 2: I'm just sitting there watching her. I wasn't even having
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: to do a thing.
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you, man, dinner time. That's a That is
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: a crack of cold one of mine, My krack of
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: cold one this week brought to us by always the
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: greatest of all time, Ollipop. My crack a cold one
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: is the peaceful sound of nothing ooh, while you're at
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: the dinner table and just hearing eating take place. That
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: might sound disgusting to some people out there. Yeah, but Charo,
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: she made spaghetti the other night. Kids love pasta spaghetti.
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: The sausage that's in there, were slicing it all up,
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: and the kids we sat down and they're just eating
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: away and it was just one of the best moments
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: in recent memory. Just look over my wife and I'm like, hey,
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: how about this. She's like, yes, nobody's arguing. Scotty's not
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: screaming for berries, Rue's not asking questions, delaying, negotiating her
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: way out of eating dinner. And it was h that's
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: my cracker cole one, the beeatful sound of nothing at
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: dinner time.
• 46:31
  Speaker 2: I'll take another sip of this BlackBerry vanilla, which is
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: honestly very good in raspberry Sherbert, Oh, come on, in
• 46:39
  Speaker 2: accordance with your cracker cold one. I'm very lucky because
• 46:44
  Speaker 2: my brother was four years older than me in school wise,
• 46:48
  Speaker 2: he was four years older as well, so I got
• 46:51
  Speaker 2: really good at monkey see Monkey do of like learning
• 46:56
  Speaker 2: from someone four years ahead. You are also basically you're
• 46:59
  Speaker 2: the exact same age as my brother. I think he's
• 47:01
  Speaker 2: a month older than you, but you're four years ahead
• 47:04
  Speaker 2: also with your kids. And I love being able to
• 47:10
  Speaker 2: sit there and listen to you tell stories. Because in
• 47:15
  Speaker 2: the back of my mind, dinner time is a battlefield.
• 47:19
  Speaker 2: Like I know that dinner time is a battlefield. So
• 47:22
  Speaker 2: everything that we're doing right now with Scarlet is in
• 47:26
  Speaker 2: preparation of those Yeah, I'm not eating this.
• 47:29
  Speaker 3: I want a cookie exactly.
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: Man like it because it's like throwing us back, like
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: when we have whether it's a curry or something that
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: has a little bit of spice in it, because Rue
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: hates spicy food now and it blows her mind because
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: back when Ru was younger, she enjoyed anything you kind
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: of put in front of her. Yeah, and she would
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: just go to town on all this stuff to where
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: we're trying to tell Rue, like, dude, you love tomatoes.
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: You used to love tomatoes, like all of a sudden,
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: now you just don't like tomatoes, or all of a
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: sudden you don't like curry, or just it's a little
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: bit of spice. We have a Mexican Monday and we're
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: having tacos. Yeah, and it's too spicy or this, or
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: like you know, if like a small hint of a
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: green onion, anything green on something, it has to be
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: like picked off.
• 48:13
  Speaker 3: They're like, bro, what are we doing? That's what I'm
• 48:16
  Speaker 3: saying I'm bring the team up.
• 48:17
  Speaker 2: Yes, hey, bring the team up. Cal tea cal tea
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: I But truly I look ahead to those situations. I'm like,
• 48:27
  Speaker 2: I need to I need to stay locked in and
• 48:31
  Speaker 2: keep the healthy habits going and keep the environment going
• 48:35
  Speaker 2: so that when it gets to those times of my
• 48:38
  Speaker 2: krackical one being a quiet meal where everybody's enjoying their food,
• 48:44
  Speaker 2: that I can be locked in and ready to go
• 48:46
  Speaker 2: for those like the battle of dinner time. Because we
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: read comments too from other people. This isn't just your plight,
• 48:53
  Speaker 2: like kids just don't want to eat. Some dad wins
• 48:57
  Speaker 2: will be like my kid ate a slice of pizza, Yeah,
• 49:00
  Speaker 2: and celebrate he buddy, we get it.
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: Just then you learn like then there's like lapses as
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: parents were you look at, okay, how much they eat
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: throughout the day, and then you realize they might be
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: snacking too much to where they don't eat their meals.
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: So then you got to tighten up snack windows or
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: just say hey, snack is for just this time and
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: this time only, or it's an hour, thirty minutes, twenty
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: minutes before dinner time, we're not eating, We're not eating
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: anything else because you got to eat your dinner. Yeah,
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: to where then you gotta throw a consequence in thereof like, okay,
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: look you, I'll just tell Ruthe straight up, sweetheart, you
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: don't have to eat your dinner. But everything else you're
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: talking about you're too tired or she's just doing things
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: to delay eating food. Yeah, it's like, hey, sweetheart, look,
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: you don't have to eat dinner. You don't have to
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: eat any dinner at all. Just know that there's no
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: snacks after. Just know that there's no cookie on the
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: other side. Whatever it is.
• 49:49
  Speaker 3: That's like her TV.
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, no TV. If she's alluded to TV before dinner time,
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: there's gonna be no TV. If she's alluding to being tired, Hey, look,
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: we don't have to eat dinner. We can go upstairs
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: right now and get you ready for bed. Yeah, we're
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: not forcing you to eat dinner. We just know that
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: this is You're gonna be cranky, you're gonna be tired,
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: you're gonna be hungry eventually, and then when you are hungry,
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: we're not gonna be able to help you because we
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: have to stand firm and knowing that you know, if
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: you're gonna eat, you gotta eat in this window to
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: get them in that routine. So you'll be you'll be
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: you'll be seeing these things like as they as they
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: come about. Whenever she doesn't start eating dinner. Then it's
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: almost like you have to audit yourself of like, Okay,
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: how many snacks have they had throughout the afternoon or
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: leading up to dinner to where I'm giving them too
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: much leeway to argue with me at dinner time because
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: I know I give them as many pouches or as
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: many little snacks or what are they called, what are
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: they called not not cereal pieces? Dad brain? Right now,
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: dad brain puffs, puff puffs, puffs, little breakfast puffs. Yeah,
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: whatever you whatever, parents feed snack wise. Yeah, it's like
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: then you audit your you're auditing yourself to be like,
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: all right, we gotta show down, we gotta shut down
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: the window leading up to this, even if they're pissed
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: off about not one to wait for dinner or they
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: want the banana now or whatever it is. Yeah, they'll
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: tighten up your ship.
• 51:06
  Speaker 2: Little spoon puffs, dude, or such a dad hack by
• 51:09
  Speaker 2: the way, for any dad's out there, Oh my god,
• 51:12
  Speaker 2: and the little cereal puffs too, that little spoon makes
• 51:15
  Speaker 2: shout out, no free shout out.
• 51:16
  Speaker 3: Also final final dad hack on dinner time.
• 51:20
  Speaker 2: Something that I remembered from my childhood that Jill and
• 51:23
  Speaker 2: I have started doing a little bit is my mom
• 51:26
  Speaker 2: would always have a rotation of CDs that she would
• 51:31
  Speaker 2: play when she was cooking and the music would keep on.
• 51:34
  Speaker 2: She would turn it down softly when we would then
• 51:37
  Speaker 2: sit down to eat, and it was like.
• 51:39
  Speaker 3: Dixie Chicks nor Jeon like that. Oh yeah, dude, have
• 51:44
  Speaker 3: the mood.
• 51:46
  Speaker 2: Yes, And we've started doing some soft jazz real like
• 51:51
  Speaker 2: you know Alexa volume three. And sorry for any listeners
• 51:54
  Speaker 2: if I just activated your life like with the.
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: Dog digging the bell and their mouth starts salivating because
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: they know it's dinner time. Yeah, and them in the
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: if you've been getting this condition their brains. Yes, dude,
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: it's something more as something more important on your phone
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: right now? Will Okay, it's.
• 52:14
  Speaker 2: She gave me.
• 52:14
  Speaker 8: She gave me the exact time she wanted her massage.
• 52:17
  Speaker 2: Okay, let's go, let's go.
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: Oh, I got to hit him with the coaches.
• 52:23
  Speaker 2: And it's about to say, as soon as I saw
• 52:27
  Speaker 2: Sack on the phone, I can get that hack back
• 52:29
  Speaker 2: to us. Yeah, it's bad hack repeat it back.
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to hit them with a callback, conditioning our brains.
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: I look over, I just see the bright screen going
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: on Tuesday, some more important on your phone on this buddy,
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: you don't have to do the smile on will space.
• 52:43
  Speaker 2: I was like, no, it's like your mean teacher in
• 52:47
  Speaker 2: high school and got to somebody chewing gum. You're just like, oh,
• 52:50
  Speaker 2: here we fucking go. My my crack a cold one.
• 52:57
  Speaker 2: I did the last spring class of for the golf
• 53:00
  Speaker 2: coaching which I'm going to sign up for the summer
• 53:05
  Speaker 2: classes that are coming up here like in June. But
• 53:09
  Speaker 2: I was part.
• 53:10
  Speaker 3: I was put into the twelve year old group.
• 53:12
  Speaker 2: Dude. For any parents at home that have these preteens,
• 53:17
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's just a whole other ballgame, dude.
• 53:21
  Speaker 2: Like we're sitting here talking about Baba's and Banky's and
• 53:25
  Speaker 2: nap times and hamfoot mouth. We got kid saying some
• 53:30
  Speaker 2: the wildest shit of all time, where I'm like, Yo,
• 53:34
  Speaker 2: this is the Internet age. Like these twelve year olds
• 53:37
  Speaker 2: are built different. They know everything that's going.
• 53:41
  Speaker 3: On in the world. Oh yeah, okay, Steve.
• 53:46
  Speaker 2: Was doing six seven, Zach was doing six to seven.
• 53:48
  Speaker 6: Zach.
• 53:49
  Speaker 2: I got frame mocked by a twelve year old at
• 53:52
  Speaker 2: this first tea.
• 53:53
  Speaker 3: It was bad, dude.
• 53:55
  Speaker 2: He had a junior set of clubs, and the junior
• 53:59
  Speaker 2: set sometimes will like two clubs on one club, so
• 54:03
  Speaker 2: it's like an in betweener. So I'll say two three iron,
• 54:06
  Speaker 2: four five iron, five six iron, six seven iron.
• 54:11
  Speaker 3: Okay, this kid, I'll make up a name for him.
• 54:15
  Speaker 2: Brad was like Coach Sherman, Coach Sherman, should I hit
• 54:19
  Speaker 2: my hybrid or my six seven iron? And I looked
• 54:23
  Speaker 2: at Brad and I go, Brad, I think there's only
• 54:25
  Speaker 2: one answer, dude. Go And he looks at me so
• 54:31
  Speaker 2: disgusted and goes Coach Sherman. That's so immature, dude, and
• 54:37
  Speaker 2: grabs the six seven iron out of his back. Does
• 54:39
  Speaker 2: not lap at all at my six seven joke. I
• 54:43
  Speaker 2: then overhear him with another kid, like thirty yards away,
• 54:47
  Speaker 2: and this is like way later in the day, and
• 54:49
  Speaker 2: he goes Coach Sherman, did the six seven mean to me?
• 54:53
  Speaker 2: I told him that memes been dead for like months now.
• 54:56
  Speaker 5: Oh they're brutal, shrem They're brutal, dude. I was telling you.
• 55:04
  Speaker 3: About You're like the boomer phase.
• 55:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, I'm unk. Now I'm officially hunk.
• 55:11
  Speaker 3: You did this and he goes, oh god, he doesn't
• 55:13
  Speaker 3: get it.
• 55:14
  Speaker 2: No, he was like truly disgusted by It was like
• 55:16
  Speaker 2: Coach Sherman's a really nice guy, like he needs to
• 55:19
  Speaker 2: know that that behavior is like that's not good, Like
• 55:24
  Speaker 2: what you just did is truly disgusting.
• 55:28
  Speaker 3: Will These twelve year olds are different.
• 55:31
  Speaker 5: They're mean, dude. I did after school program and there
• 55:34
  Speaker 5: was a very nice girl I'll call her like Isabelle.
• 55:37
  Speaker 5: One day it was like, hey, why do you have
• 55:39
  Speaker 5: a gap in the middle of your teeth? This is
• 55:42
  Speaker 5: like a fourth grader. I was like, I don't know,
• 55:45
  Speaker 5: Isabelle why. She was like it was the right for
• 55:47
  Speaker 5: Halloween and she was like Belle or like some proud
• 55:49
  Speaker 5: I was like, why are you that princess and not
• 55:51
  Speaker 5: like the cool one? And set off like in a
• 55:53
  Speaker 5: big motion. She started like tear it up.
• 56:00
  Speaker 2: It hurts.
• 56:00
  Speaker 5: They're like, why do you.
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: Why are you four to seven?
• 56:06
  Speaker 2: Well, I'd probably gonna grow to be like six five,
• 56:09
  Speaker 2: so it'll could be taller than you. And then you
• 56:11
  Speaker 2: can't really say anything on that because it's you have
• 56:13
  Speaker 2: to be proven so you're like, fat.
• 56:14
  Speaker 3: Chance, But dude, they are hilarious.
• 56:19
  Speaker 2: They're all sitting around. I'm trying to get.
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: This all though, like yeah, yeah he mogged you, big
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: boyd right there. It feels like he's putting you on game.
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: He put me on game. He put me on game.
• 56:28
  Speaker 2: Because they were all doing the scuba like the Scuba's
• 56:31
  Speaker 2: like the new things was scuba ward.
• 56:36
  Speaker 3: Well there's the camp ward, but then.
• 56:37
  Speaker 2: There's scuba Yeah that's what and they go side to
• 56:42
  Speaker 2: side with it, and then there's this other one where
• 56:44
  Speaker 2: they're like doing this, bro, I don't even know. I
• 56:49
  Speaker 2: stayed in my lane after the failed six to seven
• 56:52
  Speaker 2: attempt because then they're they're talking about Minecraft and then
• 56:55
  Speaker 2: this other new video game and coach Sherman, do you
• 56:58
  Speaker 2: play video games? I'm like, I have a because I'm
• 57:03
  Speaker 2: trying to keep a PG with them. I don't want
• 57:05
  Speaker 2: to be like, yeah, I'm doing PUBG and Call of Duty.
• 57:07
  Speaker 2: So I was like, oh, I do Mario Kart World
• 57:10
  Speaker 2: with my wife on uh on switch to and they're like,
• 57:16
  Speaker 2: oh Mario, yeah, Mario Kart World's yeah, that's cool. I'll
• 57:22
  Speaker 2: get over with each other and probably start making fun
• 57:24
  Speaker 2: of me for playing Mario Kart World and you're.
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: Just in your head the rest of the round, driving home,
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: looking at yourself in the mirror, no music on, just
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: the sound of the road.
• 57:33
  Speaker 2: This one, the only kid that's like being nice to me,
• 57:35
  Speaker 2: is like the one kid that's not talking about all
• 57:37
  Speaker 2: the memes and he's just talking about animal facts, being
• 57:41
  Speaker 2: so sweet about it. But he's my only friend. He's like,
• 57:45
  Speaker 2: you know, the North American Robin actually eats this because
• 57:47
  Speaker 2: blah blah blah. Do you know that octopus has eight stomachs.
• 57:50
  Speaker 2: I'm just in there. I'm like, yeah, dude, I think
• 57:52
  Speaker 2: you need your wedge and not a putter. I don't
• 57:54
  Speaker 2: know if you're on the green or not. He's like,
• 57:56
  Speaker 2: oh yeah, yeah, getting his clubs. I'm just trying to
• 57:58
  Speaker 2: keep them golfing.
• 58:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah, trying to keep them golf the while trying to
• 58:02
  Speaker 3: be cool. While trying to be cool.
• 58:04
  Speaker 2: I tried to jump in on another conversation they were
• 58:06
  Speaker 2: talking about.
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: It's the button.
• 58:08
  Speaker 2: You just start going, yeah you hit that, bro Co
• 58:15
  Speaker 2: Surman up.
• 58:18
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 58:18
  Speaker 2: So I'm gonna stay in my lane with the twelve
• 58:21
  Speaker 2: year olds next time. I'm learning is the good that's
• 58:24
  Speaker 2: a good part.
• 58:25
  Speaker 5: We talked about you like the all the like the
• 58:27
  Speaker 5: clav and a lot of the modern means on Twitter.
• 58:30
  Speaker 5: Me and Matt taught you then, have you not Have
• 58:32
  Speaker 5: you not used any of that game?
• 58:34
  Speaker 2: I did, okay for like the sake of the pod,
• 58:38
  Speaker 2: Like I did have my unk moment, but there were
• 58:41
  Speaker 2: some lanes where I.
• 58:42
  Speaker 5: Like Cortisol Spike mentioned stuff like that, you'll probably get
• 58:46
  Speaker 5: a couple kids be like.
• 58:48
  Speaker 2: Oh, Mogging. Mogging and Aura were like talked about a lot.
• 58:53
  Speaker 2: They were talking about thankfully, Jared plays Minecraft here.
• 59:00
  Speaker 3: And like talks about Minecraft a lot.
• 59:02
  Speaker 2: And I'd seen the Minecraft movie and I hit them
• 59:04
  Speaker 2: with the Chicken Jockey because they were talking about the
• 59:06
  Speaker 2: Minecraft movie and that got a laugh ye, And then
• 59:09
  Speaker 2: they all started making up stories of like different stuff
• 59:12
  Speaker 2: that happened in the theater with the chicken jockey, and
• 59:14
  Speaker 2: like all of them were like obviously not true and
• 59:18
  Speaker 2: it was hilarious.
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: Next time, you just pull out like a little face
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: hammer face Maxing or it looks Maxing.
• 59:27
  Speaker 2: Just sitting off to the side of the Green co Truman,
• 59:29
  Speaker 2: what are you doing? Uh looks Maxing Douglas.
• 59:32
  Speaker 3: But you guys don't have one of you guys, Eve
• 59:33
  Speaker 3: one you forget it at home.
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: That's what you kids do now.
• 59:38
  Speaker 2: And guys, a great tip is actually you use your
• 59:40
  Speaker 2: putter for this too. Butters are great for this. But
• 59:44
  Speaker 2: that was my crack, A cool one. I did have
• 59:46
  Speaker 2: a lot of fun with those twelve year olds. Another
• 59:50
  Speaker 2: great quote that we can cut around, Uh dad as.
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: You have any dad acts, I am not. I got
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: a dad win. I have a dad win on the weekend.
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: My dad win on the weekend is uh getting the
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: kids up on Sunday morning before mom woke up. Oh yeah, yeah,
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: give mom a little extra sleep, get the kids up
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: and rolling. I gave rue a mission on Sunday morning
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: because the minute I came in the bedroom morning time,
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: where's mama? Oh no, big pan, Dad's up in your room. Mama.
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, sweetheart, we're letting mama sleep. Like she's
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: still sleeping right now, but I have a mission for us.
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: And she got her eyes get big, and I'm like,
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: we're gonna let mama sleep. We're gonna sneak out of
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: the house. We're gonna go get coffee. We're gonna get
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: mama's favorite latte, one of mama's favorite lattes and we're
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 1: gonna bring it back home because Mama said she was
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: gonna do pancakes Sunday in the morning. She's oh yeah,
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, but we gotta be quiet getting out
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: of the house. Ru is ready. You give her a mission,
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: She's ready to rock.
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 2: We gotta we got them dressed good with the missions
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 2: because you give for those. And she locks in.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she dials in to the point where you know,
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: scott Zilla is being Scott' Zilla and might be a
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: little loud, Like if we get downstairs.
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 3: And we's like, Scottie, we gotta be quiet.
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: We got to sneak out of the house. Mom's already
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: like up in the back of the closet. I'm like, hey,
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to keep the kids away. You're gonna go
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: out and your coffee, resist my pancakes. You can get pancakes,
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: rock and we'll come home.
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 3: Uh huh.
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: Keep them out for about twenty minutes.
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 3: Uh huh.
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: Came back.
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 3: Had a great pancakes Sunday morning.
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: But Dad win getting up before mom, getting the kids
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: out of the house low the mom to kind of
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: do her thing in the morning.
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 3: God, I love that I have a dad loss here.
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: It's here.
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 2: Daniel Saboleuski Daniel Sableuski emailed us what's up boys, longtime
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 2: petsico here and wanted to share a recent dad loss.
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 3: Just this past week, I picked.
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 2: My almost two year old daughter from the babysitter after
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 2: work and was on a normal drive home. She has
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 2: recently been a whiner in the car, so when it
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 2: was a quiet ride home, I didn't want to question it,
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 2: nor did I want to turn around and make eye
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 2: contact or remind her she was quiet and not whining.
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 2: Big mistake. Ten minutes into thirty into my thirty minute
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 2: drive home, I hear her lips smacking. I turn around
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 2: wondering what she was doing, and I found out that
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 2: there was a piece of chocolate left in the cup
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 2: holder in the car seat. Good. My sweet little angel
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 2: decided not only to eat the chocolate, but it was
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 2: slightly melted, so it went everywhere. Good good chocolate smeared
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 2: all over her face and hair, Good in every crevice
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 2: of the car seat and clothes too. Good. Worst part
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 2: was I couldn't even be mad because when I turned
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 2: and saw what had happened, she just gave me the
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 2: messiest cue to smile. And when I got home, I
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 2: locked in, took her right into bat time, and aggressively
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 2: scrubbed chocolate out of every nook and cranny. Best part
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 2: is my wife, the chocolate culprit. But he's not gonna
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 2: blame it on the wife.
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 3: No, I can't do that.
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 2: Not on a Mother's Day episode, thought this was the
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 2: best thing since slice bread. Just bruce to the show,
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 2: as all my fellow Peatsticker sixers know. Too much silence
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 2: can sometimes be a bad thing. Thanks boys for all
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 2: you do and bringing all us petsikos together. Dan from
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 2: Jersey Hole, my god, Oh my god, bro, that is everywhere. Yeah,
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 2: that will throw the image up. I mean that is
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 2: she looks like William Wallace.
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you get home. That's which that's Operation Chocolate.
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, get home.
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 1: I feel him though on the tantrums, like against Scotty.
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: You can't be in a car with her over ten
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: to fifteen minutes before she starts losing her mind. There's
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: gotta be something out there, like a net or something
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: that catches them throwing, like you know, Scotty will throw
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 1: her lama or her or binkie like on the ground. Yeah,
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: and so here for example, when we're going to the
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: baby shower at Clumps over the weekend, it was just
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: me and Scotti. We're going to divide and conquer. Rue
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 1: and Mom went to ballet. Me and Scotty were going
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: out to the baby shower. We were going to rendezvous
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: back at home so that way then we can all
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: go to this festival that Rue had going on with
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: her classmates. But on the way to the baby shower,
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: it's just me and Scotti. It was probably a thirty
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 1: five minute drive forty minute drive to get to Clumps
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: from where I was at, and I had to pull
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: over three different times, one time being on the side
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: of the highway. I was under a bridge on the
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: side of the highway because Scotty is screaming bloody murder
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: because she wants Lama. And by the time I pull
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: over and get all this stuff, she's still like in
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: a bad mood because again is a car right over
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: fifteen minutes. Yeah, and it is.
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 3: You're in hell, card, dude.
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: She hates it. That's her body, bro.
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 12: Yeah.
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: She loves to move, She loves to be free.
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 2: She loves to be Zilla, even if she had stuff
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 2: on the window or stuff to look at like she
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 2: they most parents I'm saying, would be like, oh, does
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 2: well have cutesy little stuff and that think scott Zilla
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 2: wants to zilla.
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: Maybe I do need to give her stuff to mess with.
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: That's over because we're just we're no gear, you know
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: what I mean, We're all we're no gear. She's got
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: you know, if you need a snack, you give it
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: back to her. But what she's done with the snack whatever,
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: she'll throw that to the side. It's when she loses lama.
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 2: Oh okay, I didn't know that. She didn't, So you're
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 2: she's has no gear back there, right.
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 1: No gear. She's just got the little mirror in front
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: of her to where she can look at that in
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: the passenger seat.
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 2: Oh okay, so that's yeah, yeah, that.
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 3: That that could be a bad learn right there, could
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 3: dad hack.
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: But it's like she'll throw the lama her webbing up
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: and it'll be stuck at the bottom, like in between
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: the door and the seat, so I can't reach it.
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: There's nowhere where I can reach back and grab it
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 1: and give it back to her. It's always in the
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: hardest places in front of her car seat, down into
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: the seat on the side, like I just said, in
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: between the door and the seat. The bet she'll lose
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: it like under her arm or under her back, and
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 1: she just can't you know, she can't reach it. How
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: does it get under their butt?
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 2: That's like an actual thing that I'm like, I pick
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 2: Scarlet up out of the seat and all the stuff that's.
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 3: Under her butt, I'm like, how's it getting underneath you?
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: I had to drive off on a side road, park
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 1: it in a driveway you get out under or on
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: the highway underneath the bridge. Had to get out, pulled
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: one where I was by a gas station, thank god,
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: pulled in the gas station.
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 3: McDonald's. Ended up getting these breakfasts.
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 2: Hey, come on, man, Hey, Jill got this little fidget
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 2: book for Scarlet. One of my favorite parts of your
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 2: baby being in a car seat is you can only
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 2: see the top of their head when you like turn
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 2: around and look back at him if you don't have
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 2: a mirror. And Jill has this whole fidget book for
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 2: Scarlet that she just bought and she's very proud of it.
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 2: And we're driving to dinner two nights ago, and we
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 2: hear the book drop and Jill goes, oh, she.
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 3: Dropped her fidget book. She loves her fidget book. We
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 3: get her fidget book.
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 2: I go, yeah, and I pick up the fidget book.
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 2: I can't see Scarlet's face, so I'm just reaching over
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 2: here and I place it there and I here oh,
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 2: and I'm like, oh, she does love her fidget book.
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 2: Fidget book. Then all of a sudden truly goes boom
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 2: and flies. I've grown up the car. Jill was like,
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 2: what was that? I just go, I don't think she
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 2: wants her.
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 1: That's with the pigeon. But you'll be unbuckled, like you
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 1: all be driving up fully unbuckling. I'm like climbing in
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 1: the back, like reaching over down into the bottom where
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 1: the door and everything is looking as gotty.
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 10: You have to hold this, yeah, quick throwing it if
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 10: they don't want something you want, you like you like
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 10: take a peek back and you just kind of see
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 10: their car set and you just see their little arm
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 10: like throw something on the side.
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 5: Bro.
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 2: It's so funny, dude, not being able to see their
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 2: face but see their arms just like throwing something. Unreal.
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 3: Do do we want to dive in?
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 2: I know we're like over an hour, got to keep
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 2: it under it, and we have to keep it under
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 2: an hour. So do we want to dive into. We
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 2: could do emails and call ins here.
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 6: And then we have a segment of Mother's Day shout
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 6: outs and Mother's Day shout outs and Deeke, you tell me,
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 6: do we want to save Mothers Day shout outs for
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 6: when we're on the bus listening to our moms talking, move,
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 6: be smooth, do that.
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 1: We'll do that.
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 2: So we'll just do emails and call ins here and
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 2: then we're gonna move it over to the bus because surprise, surprise,
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 2: we got some moms coming on the show.
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: Yes, we we we you Okay, cool? Uh, let's dive
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: into some call ins and against six on one the Dads.
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: You want to call in, leave a voicemail and literally
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 1: say whatever you want vent to the boys talk about
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: Winn's losses. So happy Mother's it doesn't matter whatever your
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: little heart desire. Six and one the Dads is the
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 1: number you call.
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 2: Hey, while we're pulling this up, we've yet to interview
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 2: our interns.
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 3: Do we want to do that on the bus? I
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 3: say on the bus? Okay, say on the bus.
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 2: We do have a lot of cameras on the bus
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 2: and a lot of mics, so that works perfect. That's great.
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 2: I'm just thinking.
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 6: It went from me telling them they could be on
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 6: like we'll bother you for ten minutes tomorrow to now
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 6: they're on the four episode, which I love, which we love.
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 6: I feel like they love and if they don't love it,
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 6: they do love it.
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 1: So I'm excited.
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 2: A couple of goombrets st sixers. Hey, it's just gonna
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 2: be like five minutes, man, I would these guys are professionals.
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 2: They keep bick the shout out at the top.
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 6: The idea was they were going to shout out at
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 6: the top and then they were gonna go they.
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 2: Were gonna go do intern things.
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 6: But also, I don't again, if I don't really care
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 6: what they say, they love being here, they love it that.
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: That's on me. That's on me. No, Like I'm thinking,
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: get them shout outs, but in my brain, I'm thinking
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: they're hanging out for the whole episode.
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 6: The goal was to make them fall in love with
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 6: the show so much that they would hang out for
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 6: the full episode. But it was supposed to start with
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 6: intros because we know their names and we know they
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 6: kind of know DC, and that's it.
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 2: This is all this is Nick how it's fault because
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 2: Nick Alletts said, oh Shurm did the intro. Will was
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 2: then like, oh Shurm do the intro, and then sharm
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 2: forgot to ask the interns about their moms.
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: Are the voicemails pulled up?
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 3: They're pulled out and let's do it. This was Texas
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 3: wipey shout.
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 2: Well then you led you just calling in to shout
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 2: out the wife.
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 13: Catherine Gabriel from Fort Hood, Texas. I just wanted to
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 13: give the wife he a shout out for sticking by
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 13: my side through all the military bs and taking care
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 13: of our beautiful seven seven month old daughter, Tatum was
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 13: just thriving and growing at a rate that I cannot
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 13: even comprehend. Love with listening to the podcast, you guys
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 13: make my week great, trying to catch up me and
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 13: the wife. He listening every night usually y'all take it easy.
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 1: If that's a transcript, great shout out. But as far
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: as enthusiasm, it sounds like my guy's in it right now.
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 2: Oh he's at well, he's at for it. He's stationed
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 2: at Fort Hoods. Yeah, in military wise and in it
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 2: obviously as a dad as well.
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because when he threw the military bs. But he's
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: just he's got a lot on his plate right now.
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: He does, but he's taking the time to call it
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 1: dad Pod, no doubt. I love that, which I love. Yeah,
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 1: but I agree the man he's dealing with a lot.
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 1: You can hear it. You can hear it, you can
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: hear it in his voice. Yeah, but shout up Mom,
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 1: Shout out Tatum.
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 3: Shout out mom. Happy Mother's Day.
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 1: Yes, Happy Mother's Day.
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 2: We also a big shout out to him as well.
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 2: We said, if you had a Mother's Day, call in
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 2: to make sure to start your voicemail with Mother's Day.
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 2: He did a great job, did a great job. We'll
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 2: see if this next one does as well.
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 1: Mother's Day.
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 14: What's the PT six Ers, MT six ers, ST six ers,
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 14: New listeners? All you said goes out there, God, Stephen
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 14: here Tier one from right down the road.
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 15: I just want to give a huge shout out to
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 15: my beautiful and amazing wife, Denny Rose. Honey, I know
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 15: you're right there beside me watching this newisode. You are
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 15: the heart and soul to our family. You're the best mama.
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 15: You're my ride or die, you're my best friend, You're
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 15: an answered prayer.
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 16: May Walter and I we love you so much and
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 16: we're so thankful for all that you do for us.
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 16: Happy Mother's Day baby, and PS, hopefully this will get
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 16: me a season pass on the shock waves.
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 1: And now.
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 3: What a great voicemail you want?
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 2: How to leave a voicemail on for the dad spot
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 2: and you want to earn a seasonal pass?
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 3: A season pass?
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 1: Sitting right next to your wife as you watch this
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 1: on YouTube right now on your TV.
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 2: Trades grinning right now. Oh yeah, Trade just wrote the
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 2: bug that was incredibly well done.
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 1: And Tracey's thinking, how do we get past the gratitude
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: that you're about to give for that wonderful shout out?
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: What is the answer for the season pass? Where we at?
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 2: How good of a job did I do? I also
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 2: have a Mother's Day hack and I have a video
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 2: of Dalton Shields loaded up here.
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 6: The Dalton Shields video is from the crack of cold
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 6: one in your notes so we can side or whatever
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 6: you want.
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 2: The hack is a voicemail hack is a voicemail don
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 2: don don't dum And for some reasons, I'll play.
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 11: By I'm calling him with a little dad hack from
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 11: Mother's Day. We're gonna be real quick with it, all right, First,
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 11: off for Mother's Day. If you haven't gotten the MT
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 11: six gear, you're wrong, You're fucking wrong. I've got already
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 11: got two shirts coming In're going to be here on
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 11: Friday before Mother's Day. I'll be back from out of town.
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 1: Don't even check the mailbox.
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 5: I got that.
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 11: Now it's Mother's Day morning. Make sure you follow these
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 11: steps and you're gonna have a fantastic Mother's Day. Everything's
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 11: gonna go right. First off, make sure all the laundry
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 11: is done. Nothing's ready for the weekend. No, you got
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 11: nothing to do. Make sure you have the favorite meal
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 11: prepared for Sunday night. Also, when before they wake up
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 11: Sunday morning, you go over to Starbucks, you're dunkin whichever
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 11: one they like. You get their favorite drink, you get
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 11: the flowers, you get the MT six gear. You have
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 11: it laid out as a nice little layout. And then
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 11: and only then you go upstairs and how you wake
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 11: them up? How the boys get a ride on Shockwaves?
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 11: You boys? A lot of somebody should know this. Everybody
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 11: should know this. Actually, you take her and you give
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 11: her that admission to the Wet and Wild Water Park,
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 11: and if you ride the ride correctly, everyone should get splashed.
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 11: If you pick up what I'm putting down.
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 12: Then and only then when you have, they will have
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 12: the best Mother's dry and you will walk out like
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 12: a king. And you anytime you need anything, babe, remember
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 12: that Mother's Day. Don't even need to bring it up.
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 12: You go do whatever you want to do. Golf trip,
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 12: boys trip, go do it because you have succeeded on
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 12: Mother's Day. Don't forget the MT six gear. Y'all have
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 12: a hell a good one. My name is Hayden, dad
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 12: of two girls. PT sick oh out.
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: That's a sick o.
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 2: You go in there.
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 1: Everybody gets a win.
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 2: You go.
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 3: If you pick up when I'm putting down, you go
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 3: in there.
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 2: You go earn that golf trip, you go earn it.
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 2: Absolute demon dad, he's on demon time.
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he's crushing it. He's ready to go. When do
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 1: you leave that voicemail? Yeah? Do you know when?
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 3: Have any idea like like when do you check them?
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 3: What do you mean last week?
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 2: It sounds like he left it early last week because
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 2: he said it's getting in on Friday.
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 3: This dude has he's got dates circled on the calendar.
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 2: He's so dial.
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 3: We're confirming when the voicemail came in.
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 6: It doesn't in between, and so I believe this one
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 6: came in.
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 2: I want to say this one came in around Thursday.
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, look he's this guy's dials. If he's the
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 1: guy you see, you don't.
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 2: Have to worry about if you haven't gotten the gear,
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 2: You're fucking wrong. Chef, you were going to say something.
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 2: What were you going to say?
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: Oh?
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 5: I was just gonna say if we had dead space again,
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 5: I could fill.
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 2: We want to kick it over to chef. No, this
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 2: other AI video, I could watch it.
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 1: That was one of my That moment at the met
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 1: galla a AI a Tennessee staffer.
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 3: Wearing a dress.
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 1: That ain't no Tennessee volunteer, Katy Perry, ain't Dayton, no
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 1: Tennessee staffer. I can promise you that people kept saying
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 1: Sam Smith was josh Iipel.
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 2: They did not.
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: Look at the dress.
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 5: You know, it's more like your boy, Travis Kelsey is
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 5: what I saw.
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 2: Taylor tweeted it too, five words. You know, my coach,
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 2: you'll put hip on the dress, and chef, do not
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 2: put the picture of m in that dress with Joshipel's
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 2: face on it.
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 1: For the pod. Don't do that. Saw the look in
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 1: Chef's eyes like he had. Travis Kelcey just ammoed up.
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 1: Was just gonna that's gonna hurt him. That's you can't boys,
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 1: Travis kelce That's who people thought it was.
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 8: Ain't well.
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 1: I didn't see anything about hip.
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 2: We were boy wears dresses. My ball comes up, you kid, mate,
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 2: that's some bullshit dude. Emails Yeah, yeah, emails filler. I
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 2: have Chris Venetian or Chris Vanessillon. Chris says, hey, guys,
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 2: I wanted to reach out and give you a big
• 1:18:19
  Speaker 2: thank you for the podcast and the incredible community that
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 2: you're building. As a dad of two, a three year
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 2: old son and a one year old daughter, it's made
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 2: a huge impact on my life. It's also helped my
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 2: wife and myself as we navigate the ups and downs
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 2: of raising two little ones. Growing up, my dad was
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 2: an extremely hard worker who carried a lot of stress
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 2: from providing for our family. He always made sure that
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 2: we had what we needed, but he was often overwhelmed
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 2: and could always enjoy time at home. Becoming a dad
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 2: has always been a dream of mine because I wanted
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 2: to give my kids a better experience. I've taken my
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 2: dad's work ethic with me, but I've also needed guidance,
• 1:18:59
  Speaker 2: especially an under standing that the stress I feel is
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 2: normal and just a part of being a dad.
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 3: Your podcast has become.
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 2: My go to on Walks with Dog, and I've been
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  Speaker 1: You've showed up every single day with patients, love and
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  Speaker 1: Three day.
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  Speaker 2: As Mother's Day is around, As Mother's Day is around
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  Speaker 2: the corner, I was wondering if you guys could help
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  Speaker 2: about the single mama's out here raising little voice to men.
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  Speaker 3: Any advice of any sorts.
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  Speaker 2: Is greatly appreciated.
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  Speaker 3: Absolutely love the show.
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  Speaker 2: Wendy Glasgow and other single mothers like that make the
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  Speaker 2: any mothers that are listening. Single moms, Happy Mother's.
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  Speaker 3: Day, Happy Mother's Day. You gotta wear a lot of
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  Speaker 3: different hats too.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, man, And what a tall order of any advice
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  Speaker 2: for her for her big Bolcaide.
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  Speaker 3: I got a quick one here by Dalton Shields. Guys,
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  Speaker 1: My daughter Blake is for and I've been taking her
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  Speaker 1: she danced amazingly. Definitely got a little misty in there,
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  Speaker 1: in attendants, mom, dad, dance, uncles, and she shined. The
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  Speaker 1: peak was absolutely. The peak was absolutely when the teachers
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  Speaker 1: pulled all the dads into the back room and asked
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  Speaker 1: us you would do anything for your daughters right then
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  Speaker 1: had us put on two two's and due a performance
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  Speaker 1: we're on the right track with raising her, and it
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  Speaker 1: was like a reward to know the little woman we
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  Speaker 1: are raising and we are raising is making such an
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  Speaker 1: impact on people. Seeing your confidence and love for something
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  Speaker 1: like dance has made me so proud as a dad.
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  Speaker 1: I am so grateful for her and my family. It
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  Speaker 1: has been a blessing raising her, and I can't wait
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  Speaker 1: for more memories and moments like these in the future.
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  Speaker 1: of his little daughter crushing it in ballet class. I
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  Speaker 1: also have a video of Dalton Shields Will in the
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  Speaker 1: ballet class. Well, we'll pull this up on screen. I'm
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  Speaker 1: just turning it for Will.
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  Speaker 2: Here.
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  Speaker 3: Did do do do do do? It's loading, it's loading. Oh,
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  Speaker 3: he's crushing it.
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  Speaker 1: Look at it.
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  Speaker 2: Come on, Dalton, come on, Dalton, there you go, Dalton.
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  Speaker 1: Good job, Dalton. We are going to now kick it
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  Speaker 1: over to the bus. If you have stayed with the
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  Speaker 1: boys this long and you're in this part of the episode,
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  Speaker 2: because she was asking any advice for her son. I
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  Speaker 2: would say, you have all the power in the world
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  Speaker 2: and the choice to surround Kate with people in his
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  Speaker 2: life that he can look up to, including yourself. Sounds
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  Speaker 2: with incredible people and be picky people that he will
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  Speaker 2: want to look up to to model himself after. And
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  Speaker 2: I don't think you can go wrong. In Wendy, it
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  Speaker 1: Good words man as well said thank you. All right,
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  Speaker 5: Yeah? I think that's all.
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  Speaker 2: My mom sent hers in at one o'clock in the morning.
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  Speaker 2: she was a little tardy, but she got am in.
• 1:36:34
  Speaker 2: She got love you, Love you Mom, Love you, Mama Shirham. First,
• 1:36:38
  Speaker 2: before we get rolling, we got our interns in here.
• 1:36:41
  Speaker 1: We're gonna let the boys. We're gonna give them a floor,
• 1:36:43
  Speaker 1: a moment to shout out their moms. Yes, shout out
• 1:36:46
  Speaker 1: their moms.
• 1:36:48
  Speaker 8: My mom is amazing, complete badass.
• 1:36:51
  Speaker 1: There and again, just to remind it, remind everybody, make
• 1:36:53
  Speaker 1: sure you see your name in your position.
• 1:36:55
  Speaker 5: We got it.
• 1:36:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah, signing bonus. We got to remind people over and
• 1:36:57
  Speaker 3: over who they're listening to.
• 1:36:59
  Speaker 8: Zach Marshall, tight end for University of Michigan football. I'm
• 1:37:03
  Speaker 8: a senior, and I mean I have the best mom ever.
• 1:37:08
  Speaker 1: Oh no, Zach Zack Zax sect we gotta you gotta
• 1:37:12
  Speaker 1: dive in. Yeah, you gotta dive in. Goa.
• 1:37:14
  Speaker 8: I was gonna let let Tray set the stage for
• 1:37:22
  Speaker 8: My mom's a complete badass. She's she's done it all.
• 1:37:25
  Speaker 8: She's been a single mom now her and my dad
• 1:37:28
  Speaker 8: has raised me and my my sister. She raised my
• 1:37:31
  Speaker 8: oldest sister alone and was an amazing mom to her.
• 1:37:34
  Speaker 8: Has has done it all. So she's the spiritual head
• 1:37:37
  Speaker 8: of our household, like real just has. We'll do anything
• 1:37:42
  Speaker 8: through a wall.
• 1:37:43
  Speaker 1: What do you say, how old are you?
• 1:37:44
  Speaker 8: I'm twenty.
• 1:37:45
  Speaker 1: You're twenty, so you're still young in the game. Yeah,
• 1:37:49
  Speaker 1: if you can think about it, what would you say
• 1:37:52
  Speaker 1: that you look back on and appreciate a lot more
• 1:37:56
  Speaker 1: now that you're I mean you're not older, but now
• 1:37:59
  Speaker 1: that you're twenty years old that maybe pissed you off
• 1:38:03
  Speaker 1: back in the day. So if you get outside yourself,
• 1:38:05
  Speaker 1: you've been listening to the for the dads pot as
• 1:38:07
  Speaker 1: we've recorded all day to day, Like what's something you
• 1:38:10
  Speaker 1: think that you're noticing now that you didn't notice back
• 1:38:13
  Speaker 1: in the day.
• 1:38:14
  Speaker 8: Like you said, the the bragging, the embarrassment you sit there,
• 1:38:18
  Speaker 8: You're like, ah, come on, mom, stop it. Stop it.
• 1:38:22
  Speaker 8: Now I look back on that and I'm like, wow,
• 1:38:24
  Speaker 8: she she was, she is was so proud of me. Yeah,
• 1:38:28
  Speaker 8: she still is the team mom for Michigan football, Like
• 1:38:30
  Speaker 8: she's she she lives with me during the fall.
• 1:38:33
  Speaker 1: Like oh yeah, so she the laundry done.
• 1:38:37
  Speaker 8: We have a house in ann Arbor so that she
• 1:38:39
  Speaker 8: can live with me during the fall. And it's like,
• 1:38:43
  Speaker 8: in the moment you sit there, you go, oh my gosh,
• 1:38:46
  Speaker 8: there's no way blah blah blah blah. Now you're just like, man,
• 1:38:49
  Speaker 8: so grateful. Yeah, the gratitude, the gratitude never happens. I know.
• 1:38:54
  Speaker 8: There's there's a joke like you wish you're in the
• 1:38:56
  Speaker 8: you knew when you would be in the good old times. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:39:00
  Speaker 8: sometimes you wish like in the in the times when
• 1:39:03
  Speaker 8: your mom's like embarrassing you, or or you just like,
• 1:39:06
  Speaker 8: oh my gosh, you're too much. Sometimes, yeah, those are
• 1:39:10
  Speaker 8: the moments you remember.
• 1:39:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I remember.
• 1:39:12
  Speaker 8: I mean she was my best friend, Like I can,
• 1:39:14
  Speaker 8: I can genuinely say that my mom's like my closest friend,
• 1:39:19
  Speaker 8: like text her every day, call her every day. I
• 1:39:21
  Speaker 8: know she was texting during the pod earlier and you
• 1:39:23
  Speaker 8: got on me. But I'm always taking my mom over
• 1:39:26
  Speaker 8: for the boys.
• 1:39:27
  Speaker 1: There you go for the dads.
• 1:39:29
  Speaker 8: For the dads, I mean he could be both. I
• 1:39:31
  Speaker 8: mean the young the young ones who aren't dads. Yeah,
• 1:39:33
  Speaker 8: it's still for the boys.
• 1:39:34
  Speaker 1: But yeah, my mom, I feel you that you get
• 1:39:36
  Speaker 1: frustrated in those moments where they're just you know, whether
• 1:39:38
  Speaker 1: they're around the boys and they're bringing up memories or
• 1:39:40
  Speaker 1: moments or you're like, god, please just shut up. Yes,
• 1:39:43
  Speaker 1: but now you know it's dude, appreciate him as much
• 1:39:46
  Speaker 1: because it's it does more like they are just so proud,
• 1:39:49
  Speaker 1: like I'm gonna be that dad, Like you're gonna have
• 1:39:51
  Speaker 1: a kid one day and you're just gonna that's when
• 1:39:53
  Speaker 1: things are just gonna click, Like you just kind of
• 1:39:55
  Speaker 1: get the stuff that your parents used to do.
• 1:39:57
  Speaker 8: You're just so proud of the so the so little.
• 1:39:59
  Speaker 8: It's like you in the moment, you're like, oh, it
• 1:40:02
  Speaker 8: wasn't a big deal to you, but it is to them.
• 1:40:05
  Speaker 8: Like the steps that you take, whether it's as a
• 1:40:08
  Speaker 8: as a young like you say, the preteens are crazy,
• 1:40:11
  Speaker 8: those preteens. Yeah, I mean you see your your kid
• 1:40:15
  Speaker 8: go from being like a preteen to like a real
• 1:40:17
  Speaker 8: a real man, and they're like, I can only imagine
• 1:40:20
  Speaker 8: what it is from their view. Yeah, because in your
• 1:40:23
  Speaker 8: in your life, it's like, dude, it's it's whatever, it's
• 1:40:25
  Speaker 8: just my life. It's just what's happened. I just changed
• 1:40:28
  Speaker 8: a couple of ideas. That big a deal, really it is.
• 1:40:33
  Speaker 1: It's everything to see.
• 1:40:35
  Speaker 8: I mean I can't say it from experience, obviously, but
• 1:40:38
  Speaker 8: probably seeing your kid become the person that everyone's parents
• 1:40:44
  Speaker 8: want them to be better than what they were at
• 1:40:47
  Speaker 8: that age, or better than them as they grow up. Man,
• 1:40:51
  Speaker 8: I've moved this too much, so I'm gonna have to
• 1:40:53
  Speaker 8: tighten this up. But like, just to become better than
• 1:40:57
  Speaker 8: your parents is the only wish that your parents should
• 1:40:59
  Speaker 8: have for you. And I know that's probably exactly what
• 1:41:02
  Speaker 8: you have for scott Zilla and Row, like, yeah, to
• 1:41:07
  Speaker 8: have your kids become better than you.
• 1:41:09
  Speaker 1: And they're always going to see you the way we
• 1:41:11
  Speaker 1: see Scarlett Rue scott Zilla like your little toddler version
• 1:41:16
  Speaker 1: is how they're just always going to see you.
• 1:41:18
  Speaker 2: Oh dude, I was about to say I know nothing
• 1:41:20
  Speaker 2: about either one of y'all's moms, but the only thing
• 1:41:24
  Speaker 2: I do know is how much truly they love you,
• 1:41:27
  Speaker 2: just from the little experience I have of every single
• 1:41:30
  Speaker 2: diaper change, every single teaching all how to crawl, teaching
• 1:41:34
  Speaker 2: you how to walk, making sure you have enough food
• 1:41:36
  Speaker 2: in your belly, like.
• 1:41:37
  Speaker 1: Trying to get you to stop whining.
• 1:41:39
  Speaker 2: Oh dude, your moms just love you.
• 1:41:43
  Speaker 9: Dude.
• 1:41:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, oh Trey, Oh yeah.
• 1:41:49
  Speaker 9: Trey Fears defensive tackle in RISS and Michigan shout out
• 1:41:53
  Speaker 9: my mom. It's been, like I think, growing up, you
• 1:41:58
  Speaker 9: don't realize it, but she is orchestrated in my life
• 1:42:00
  Speaker 9: and set my life up in a way to where
• 1:42:02
  Speaker 9: if I failed, it would have it would have been
• 1:42:05
  Speaker 9: because of me. She's she's done everything for me, Like
• 1:42:11
  Speaker 9: and I grew up and now I think I think
• 1:42:13
  Speaker 9: I'm realizing now is that I'm even more impressed with
• 1:42:17
  Speaker 9: how my parents kind of raised me, because like I'm
• 1:42:20
  Speaker 9: kind of I'm going into that adult phase and I
• 1:42:22
  Speaker 9: couldn't imagine taking care of somebody else right now. Like
• 1:42:26
  Speaker 9: I was in my mom was going to school and
• 1:42:28
  Speaker 9: I was like in kindergarten and stuff like that. So
• 1:42:31
  Speaker 9: I'm doing my work, I'm doing football, and I'm doing this.
• 1:42:33
  Speaker 9: She was doing that, and she was raising a child.
• 1:42:36
  Speaker 9: So I'm just like, shout out, shout out, Kelly.
• 1:42:38
  Speaker 1: Shut out. You know.
• 1:42:42
  Speaker 9: Growing up, I just think my mom's kind of laying.
• 1:42:46
  Speaker 5: Like we all do.
• 1:42:48
  Speaker 1: It's like it's kind of natural.
• 1:42:50
  Speaker 9: Yeah, she I was like, But now I'm in college.
• 1:42:53
  Speaker 9: Now I'm just like talking to my mom when I'm
• 1:42:55
  Speaker 9: not living with her, like, you know what, I'll go,
• 1:42:57
  Speaker 9: I'll go get a drink of my mom. You know,
• 1:42:59
  Speaker 9: got my mom.
• 1:43:00
  Speaker 1: You know stuff. Haven't done that, but I would do it. Yeah,
• 1:43:05
  Speaker 1: shout out Kelly, Kelly.
• 1:43:09
  Speaker 3: Yeah, fellas, that's awesome. Love to hear that stuff. I
• 1:43:13
  Speaker 3: loved that.
• 1:43:14
  Speaker 2: That was so fun, dude. And they did. I know,
• 1:43:17
  Speaker 2: I'm saying it again, but their their moms love them,
• 1:43:20
  Speaker 2: Their moms love them. We are very, very lucky to
• 1:43:23
  Speaker 2: have people in our lives that are spending all those
• 1:43:27
  Speaker 2: little moments. It's the unseen moments. It's the moments that
• 1:43:30
  Speaker 2: I can't even remember about my mom, that you can't
• 1:43:33
  Speaker 2: remember about your mom, that they were doing the right thing,
• 1:43:37
  Speaker 2: taking care of you, making sure you have every single
• 1:43:40
  Speaker 2: thing was set up for success. It's unreal.
• 1:43:43
  Speaker 1: And you also just we know because we're going through
• 1:43:46
  Speaker 1: right now. But you realize how hard like parenting and
• 1:43:50
  Speaker 1: all of it, marriage, parenting, teamwork, all that stuff is
• 1:43:53
  Speaker 1: when you're also doing when you're also chasing the things
• 1:43:56
  Speaker 1: that you want to chase, and know that there is
• 1:43:58
  Speaker 1: no It's like I was listening to Ryan Nolan talk
• 1:44:00
  Speaker 1: about how he crushed a four hour nap on Saturday
• 1:44:04
  Speaker 1: or Sunday, and I sit back, I'm like, my god,
• 1:44:08
  Speaker 1: there's just I do miss those times. Yeah, And you're like, Okay,
• 1:44:11
  Speaker 1: I had a long Friday night or a Saturday and
• 1:44:15
  Speaker 1: you get to kind of vegi out, you have pockets
• 1:44:17
  Speaker 1: to veg out, and there's just there's not that anymore
• 1:44:20
  Speaker 1: because you have to like all of your attention has
• 1:44:24
  Speaker 1: to be on things at home that also juggle and
• 1:44:27
  Speaker 1: balance around everything you want to chase in your careers
• 1:44:30
  Speaker 1: and your ambitions. And then that there's like a sacrifice
• 1:44:33
  Speaker 1: that does take place that you can't necessarily articulate or
• 1:44:37
  Speaker 1: like quantify, yeah, until you're like until you're basically just
• 1:44:41
  Speaker 1: in it.
• 1:44:42
  Speaker 2: Yes, And that was the only part that I can
• 1:44:44
  Speaker 2: truly speak to you because I don't have an eight
• 1:44:47
  Speaker 2: year old, a twelve year old, a grown ass man,
• 1:44:49
  Speaker 2: a grown ass honor I'm so new to it, but
• 1:44:53
  Speaker 2: like there is the just like every moment counts. I
• 1:44:56
  Speaker 2: feel like in parenting, every little moment, and somebody had
• 1:45:02
  Speaker 2: to make sure that every single one of those moments
• 1:45:04
  Speaker 2: counted for you guys to be able to take advantage
• 1:45:08
  Speaker 2: of those moments and be where you are here today.
• 1:45:10
  Speaker 1: In the mental load we always talk about with moms
• 1:45:13
  Speaker 1: or with parents, where there's a mental load taking place,
• 1:45:16
  Speaker 1: like as they're growing up to where we're gonna do it.
• 1:45:19
  Speaker 1: We all do it with our kids, Like you're thinking
• 1:45:21
  Speaker 1: about their future. They might think they're thinking about their future,
• 1:45:25
  Speaker 1: but we as parents are were like, I'm viewing it
• 1:45:27
  Speaker 1: in a way that's different than the bullshit, the six seven,
• 1:45:30
  Speaker 1: all this stuff that you guys are dancing around with
• 1:45:32
  Speaker 1: right now, in a different way that's like, you know,
• 1:45:35
  Speaker 1: this is longer term thinking that they try to invest
• 1:45:39
  Speaker 1: in you and pour into you and imprint on you.
• 1:45:41
  Speaker 1: So that way, they're hopeful that you think about it
• 1:45:43
  Speaker 1: as much as them. Yeah, but more than your kid
• 1:45:46
  Speaker 1: can really understand or realize. Boys, that was great. You
• 1:45:50
  Speaker 1: guys can go hang. You guys can go do your thing.
• 1:45:53
  Speaker 3: The end, I don't know what's in store for you
• 1:45:55
  Speaker 3: guys today.
• 1:45:56
  Speaker 1: Intern.
• 1:45:56
  Speaker 3: Oh, demon's got something cooked up?
• 1:45:58
  Speaker 1: I'm sure.
• 1:45:58
  Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, more coffee, orders more, you know, yeah, turn
• 1:46:01
  Speaker 8: in right, yeah, more intern. That's the point.
• 1:46:04
  Speaker 1: Yes, trash, be taking your trash.
• 1:46:08
  Speaker 8: Luckily there's no lawn here. I mean you guys would
• 1:46:10
  Speaker 8: have a cutting that says.
• 1:46:14
  Speaker 1: Even just a little patch we have by the mel box. Hey,
• 1:46:16
  Speaker 1: let's find a z turnout there like Zach Tray.
• 1:46:21
  Speaker 2: Thank you guys, Thank you guys, well done.
• 1:46:26
  Speaker 1: Good work fellas.
• 1:46:28
  Speaker 2: What's your mother name?
• 1:46:29
  Speaker 8: Ever?
• 1:46:30
  Speaker 1: Ever? Ever? Eva Marshall?
• 1:46:32
  Speaker 8: If you want to try, it's a real name.
• 1:46:35
  Speaker 1: We'll go with Eva.
• 1:46:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeahva Kelly. We love you.
• 1:46:37
  Speaker 1: Shout out to you guys. Happy Mother's Day to you both.
• 1:46:40
  Speaker 1: We have some Mother's Day shout outs here before we
• 1:46:41
  Speaker 1: get into the videos. I got one here from Scott Froud.
• 1:46:46
  Speaker 1: I just wanted to give a shout out to my
• 1:46:47
  Speaker 1: amazing wife, Megan. This is our first Mother's Day after
• 1:46:50
  Speaker 1: having a forty nine.
• 1:46:51
  Speaker 3: Hour labor with our awesome little dude Saw. You're back
• 1:46:53
  Speaker 3: in October.
• 1:46:54
  Speaker 1: Oh my Megan. It is an amazing state o mom
• 1:46:58
  Speaker 1: and keeps everything running seamlessly in our home. She became
• 1:47:01
  Speaker 1: an empty sicco not long after having our boy and
• 1:47:04
  Speaker 1: fully embodies the good mentality. She handles nighttime wake ups,
• 1:47:09
  Speaker 1: pumping diapers, and a million other things and doesn't complain
• 1:47:12
  Speaker 1: about it at all. She makes my fatherhood experience so
• 1:47:15
  Speaker 1: much more enjoyable and I couldn't imagine my or Sawyer's
• 1:47:18
  Speaker 1: life without her. Megan, I love you more than you'll
• 1:47:20
  Speaker 1: ever know. Thank you for all that you do in
• 1:47:22
  Speaker 1: Happy Mother's Day, Love, Scott and Sawyer, Megan, Happy Mother's Day.
• 1:47:27
  Speaker 1: Happy Mother's Day, Megan. I have one from Dylan Metcalf.
• 1:47:31
  Speaker 1: Dylan says, what's up, fellas?
• 1:47:33
  Speaker 2: Not sure who reads these shout out Chef and Deek,
• 1:47:36
  Speaker 2: but hoping that you guys can help me with a
• 1:47:38
  Speaker 2: wifey shout out. My wife, Bessie Rose and I welcomed
• 1:47:42
  Speaker 2: our first child, a baby girl named Campbell, this past December.
• 1:47:45
  Speaker 2: As of last week May, first Wifey is back to
• 1:47:48
  Speaker 2: work in our girls off to daycare a few days
• 1:47:51
  Speaker 2: a week. Everyone goes through it, but this transition marks
• 1:47:54
  Speaker 2: the start of a huge new chapter in our lives.
• 1:47:57
  Speaker 2: Bessie Rose has been a rock for our family, adapting
• 1:48:01
  Speaker 2: to motherhood and being the type of mother that we
• 1:48:03
  Speaker 2: all dream Our empty sixers will be when the day comes.
• 1:48:07
  Speaker 2: All that said, I was hoping you can give her
• 1:48:09
  Speaker 2: this shout out.
• 1:48:10
  Speaker 3: Bessie Rose.
• 1:48:11
  Speaker 2: I am in awe of the way that you have
• 1:48:13
  Speaker 2: navigated life, from the day that we found out you
• 1:48:16
  Speaker 2: were pregnant through this very moment. You embrace pregnancy with
• 1:48:20
  Speaker 2: grace and crush delivery with courage, confidence and strength. Your
• 1:48:24
  Speaker 2: selflessness and dedication to our family is inspiring, and the
• 1:48:27
  Speaker 2: glow of motherhood has never looked better.
• 1:48:30
  Speaker 3: Than it does on you.
• 1:48:31
  Speaker 2: Campbell is lucky to have you as her mom, and
• 1:48:34
  Speaker 2: I cannot wait to watch or learn from the amazing
• 1:48:37
  Speaker 2: example that you are setting for her. It goes without saying,
• 1:48:39
  Speaker 2: but returning to work and spending time away from Bug
• 1:48:43
  Speaker 2: isn't easy. However, you are once again proving that the
• 1:48:47
  Speaker 2: way you do anything is the way you do everything
• 1:48:50
  Speaker 2: with unrelenting tenacity. I love you and I am so
• 1:48:54
  Speaker 2: so proud and inspired by you. Dylan.
• 1:48:58
  Speaker 1: That is beautiful.
• 1:49:00
  Speaker 3: And here is Dylan and Bessie revs.
• 1:49:04
  Speaker 1: Bessie. Happy Mother's Day.
• 1:49:05
  Speaker 3: Happy Mother's Day, dude. That's so electric.
• 1:49:09
  Speaker 1: That is great photo too great backdrop? Oh, I got
• 1:49:13
  Speaker 1: one here from Dakota Pat. Sorry for the long email. Dakota.
• 1:49:16
  Speaker 1: Do not apologize fully were I'm sending this probably too
• 1:49:19
  Speaker 1: late for Mother's Day. Spoiler alert, You're not, but I
• 1:49:22
  Speaker 1: made sure to get her Mother's Day merch that will
• 1:49:24
  Speaker 1: arrive on Mother's Day. Sub Boys Dakota from Polden County, Georgia.
• 1:49:29
  Speaker 1: My wife Chelsea and I found the Boys a few
• 1:49:32
  Speaker 1: years ago, laid up on laid up in the bed
• 1:49:35
  Speaker 1: sick from COVID, and have been a Tier one ever since.
• 1:49:38
  Speaker 1: She's an absolute rock star, truly the engine that keeps
• 1:49:40
  Speaker 1: our household moving. Without her, my son jud I would
• 1:49:43
  Speaker 1: be an absolute mess. We got married October eighteenth, twenty
• 1:49:46
  Speaker 1: twenty five, but she's been the love of my life
• 1:49:48
  Speaker 1: since day one, since the day I met her way
• 1:49:50
  Speaker 1: back in twenty fourteen. Thank you, guys so much for
• 1:49:53
  Speaker 1: the pot and everything y'all do. Love you guys. I'm
• 1:49:56
  Speaker 1: attack some pictures from our wedding day. PS proud dad moment.
• 1:50:00
  Speaker 1: My son Judd is sixty five pounds forty four inches tall,
• 1:50:04
  Speaker 1: three years old. It was built specifically for the a
• 1:50:08
  Speaker 1: gap sixty five pounds.
• 1:50:10
  Speaker 2: It's a He's a pump over three year old. He's
• 1:50:13
  Speaker 2: a pumpkin.
• 1:50:15
  Speaker 1: There there they are oh my god.
• 1:50:18
  Speaker 2: Oh look at him, dude.
• 1:50:20
  Speaker 1: Rue's like, uh low forties pounds wise, she's four, She's
• 1:50:25
  Speaker 1: in like ninety fifth percentile in height. Yeah, average weight. Yeah,
• 1:50:31
  Speaker 1: but knowing that this three year old is pushing sixty.
• 1:50:35
  Speaker 2: Five and look at him tossing out the flowers.
• 1:50:39
  Speaker 1: Dude, Yeah, just being a little flower boy. Rue's got
• 1:50:42
  Speaker 1: her flower girl.
• 1:50:43
  Speaker 3: Debut this weekend for my brother Cody's wedding.
• 1:50:46
  Speaker 2: Oh wow, oh wow, congratulations Cody.
• 1:50:48
  Speaker 1: Yes, thank you, thank you.
• 1:50:49
  Speaker 2: That's huge.
• 1:50:50
  Speaker 1: I'll say thank you for him. Yeah yeah, yeah, oh
• 1:50:53
  Speaker 1: but that'll be fun.
• 1:50:53
  Speaker 3: But what a tank dude built for the AG That's
• 1:50:56
  Speaker 3: a three technique in the making.
• 1:50:57
  Speaker 2: Yes, sir, Yes, sir. I do have one last Mother's
• 1:51:00
  Speaker 2: Day shout out. This comes from Garrett Youth of Vin
• 1:51:04
  Speaker 2: Garrett youth Ovin. Garrett says big g here reporting from
• 1:51:08
  Speaker 2: the North Missouri PT.
• 1:51:12
  Speaker 3: Sicko Division.
• 1:51:13
  Speaker 2: I want to give my wife, Chelsea a huge Mother's
• 1:51:15
  Speaker 2: Sake shout out for being an incredible mom to our
• 1:51:17
  Speaker 2: two year old Charlie. She turns three in August. Chelsea
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  Speaker 2: has stayed at home with char since she was born
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  Speaker 2: and has helped shape her into the sweetest cutest, smartest
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  Speaker 2: little girl that I've ever been around. Chelsea has helped
• 1:51:30
  Speaker 2: her learn to regulate her emotions and help around the house.
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  Speaker 2: I try to tell her all the time how great
• 1:51:35
  Speaker 2: of a job she's doing raising our daughter. I'm so
• 1:51:38
  Speaker 2: impressed and so thankful for all the work she does,
• 1:51:41
  Speaker 2: all while taking care of her own needs. At the
• 1:51:43
  Speaker 2: same time, it's amazing to be able to go to
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  Speaker 2: work every day and know I've got such a smart,
• 1:51:49
  Speaker 2: strong woman as my wife helping shape our daughter into
• 1:51:52
  Speaker 2: an incredible girl.
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  Speaker 3: I'm so proud of both of them.
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  Speaker 2: PT Siko out, Let's go, Garrett.
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  Speaker 5: Let's go.
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  Speaker 9: Gee.
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  Speaker 1: Should we get into the videos?
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  Speaker 2: Good?
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  Speaker 4: Now?
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  Speaker 1: How do we roll these out? Or just we watch
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  Speaker 1: the video? Yeah?
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  Speaker 6: I think the dream way to work it is that
• 1:52:09
  Speaker 6: you guys will watch the video and you can react
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  Speaker 6: and you know, say pause. I won't have headphones on.
• 1:52:13
  Speaker 6: Che will help me out with it, but the video
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  Speaker 6: will play on screen. You can put you guys below
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  Speaker 6: it or something of that fashion. IM not gonna speak
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  Speaker 6: for the editory, but watch it, enjoy it, commentate about it.
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  Speaker 6: After all three of our moms answering ten questions that
• 1:52:25
  Speaker 6: we send them.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, let's go.
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  Speaker 2: You sure, do you guys hear that?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah? Yepay.
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  Speaker 5: Question number one, did your son ever show early signs
• 1:52:35
  Speaker 5: that he'd end up on a podcast or in front
• 1:52:37
  Speaker 5: of an audience someday?
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  Speaker 8: Well, I think so.
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  Speaker 7: You love to talk.
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  Speaker 17: You talked all the time, very verbal, and then as
• 1:52:49
  Speaker 17: you got older, you love.
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  Speaker 7: To watch movies and you would just sit.
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  Speaker 17: And watch like three hour movies, the whole process and
• 1:53:01
  Speaker 17: loved it so absolutely.
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  Speaker 2: But you loved to talk.
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  Speaker 6: I remember that you were very verbal.
• 1:53:07
  Speaker 7: You loved books and you love movies.
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  Speaker 1: So yeah, sounds verbal. Sounds about right.
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  Speaker 18: I didn't know what a podcast was. Derek love being
• 1:53:16
  Speaker 18: on stages at a young age. He loved acting, singing,
• 1:53:20
  Speaker 18: and entertaining from the time he started talking. My first
• 1:53:24
  Speaker 18: experience with a podcast was Derek's podcast Thoughts from the Bench.
• 1:53:28
  Speaker 18: I was impressed with his creativity and how fun the
• 1:53:31
  Speaker 18: show was was obvious he and the guys had a
• 1:53:34
  Speaker 18: great deal of joy from doing the show.
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  Speaker 4: It's absolutely yes. Sherman was an entertainer from the very beginning,
• 1:53:41
  Speaker 4: and even his birth was.
• 1:53:43
  Speaker 1: Like one am now of the Coen Brothers.
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  Speaker 4: Films, and he was in every play and every production
• 1:53:50
  Speaker 4: and improv and high school. He wrote and directed a
• 1:53:54
  Speaker 4: movie that was shot at our home, which was basically
• 1:53:57
  Speaker 4: like a film studio.
• 1:54:00
  Speaker 7: Everything in his life has been creative.
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  Speaker 1: Pause.
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  Speaker 5: That's that's question number one, Question number one.
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  Speaker 1: I thought your mom's guys did a phenomenal job breaking
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  Speaker 1: you guys down.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I like if it was just me sitting with your
• 1:54:14
  Speaker 1: guys's moms asking this first question and they were just
• 1:54:16
  Speaker 1: answering to me, I feel like every answer that they
• 1:54:20
  Speaker 1: had I feel like articulates you guys, like in that fashion,
• 1:54:25
  Speaker 1: like you with starting off with chef just a talker,
• 1:54:28
  Speaker 1: Like you get caught in a corner with chef, you
• 1:54:31
  Speaker 1: talking Tennessee balls, fill in the space, it's spot on,
• 1:54:35
  Speaker 1: oh d to where as you continue to talk, there's
• 1:54:39
  Speaker 1: a smile that comes on my face because I just
• 1:54:42
  Speaker 1: now know that it's happening, and I know it's you
• 1:54:45
  Speaker 1: with Deeke like creativity, the way that you are able.
• 1:54:50
  Speaker 1: I've used the word articulate a lot already, but the
• 1:54:52
  Speaker 1: way like Derek is able to articulate, whether in like
• 1:54:55
  Speaker 1: a blog writing talking about film. When we were in Pittsburgh,
• 1:54:59
  Speaker 1: in your taking us around, what was the area called
• 1:55:03
  Speaker 1: where you were showing us, Hey, this is where I
• 1:55:04
  Speaker 1: did the podcast, is where we do this, you know, Yeah,
• 1:55:07
  Speaker 1: you're talking about Monday through Friday, like your grind each
• 1:55:10
  Speaker 1: day of the week. I feel like your mom was
• 1:55:12
  Speaker 1: able to like encapsulate that to where again, if I'm
• 1:55:15
  Speaker 1: just sitting with your mom, it's like this warm smiles
• 1:55:17
  Speaker 1: on my face because I'm like, yeah, like this has
• 1:55:20
  Speaker 1: been you guys, like from the jump, like you having
• 1:55:22
  Speaker 1: a film studio and your creativity and production and wanting
• 1:55:25
  Speaker 1: to be in film and being in front of cameras
• 1:55:28
  Speaker 1: and being part of the play. I feel like that
• 1:55:30
  Speaker 1: is Sherman young, Like I am not surprised to hear
• 1:55:34
  Speaker 1: these things from your mom like at a young age. Dude.
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  Speaker 2: The also the added note of Chef's setup of like
• 1:55:42
  Speaker 2: him being at.
• 1:55:43
  Speaker 3: Were you there for the recording?
• 1:55:45
  Speaker 5: Eye, So I did the interview.
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  Speaker 2: I love that so much, dude. His mom is so
• 1:55:50
  Speaker 2: cute and sweet.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 1:55:51
  Speaker 5: Video, it was like Lisa was slightly nervous for it,
• 1:55:54
  Speaker 5: which like I guess we're all numb to like the
• 1:55:56
  Speaker 5: fact that we were on a podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah talk to people.
• 1:55:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: I had to remind myself, hey, this is gonna go
• 1:56:01
  Speaker 5: out in front of a lot of people. So I
• 1:56:02
  Speaker 5: was like, hey, I'll walk you through it. We'll do
• 1:56:04
  Speaker 5: it together. I'm excited for you guys to see some
• 1:56:06
  Speaker 5: of the other.
• 1:56:07
  Speaker 1: Okay, question number two.
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  Speaker 18: What's the most trouble he ever got into as a
• 1:56:18
  Speaker 18: kid and did you think he got away with it
• 1:56:21
  Speaker 18: as a preschooler? Derek and his best friend called nine
• 1:56:24
  Speaker 18: one one and they came art paid fun.
• 1:56:27
  Speaker 7: I thought, as well as.
• 1:56:28
  Speaker 18: I didn't put money in it, it wouldn't call.
• 1:56:30
  Speaker 15: He was to say.
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  Speaker 18: The police showed up and talked on the lesson.
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  Speaker 17: Oh, let's see which one I can. Oh, gosh, I
• 1:56:42
  Speaker 17: think the most teenager. I think the most trouble you
• 1:56:45
  Speaker 17: got as a teenager that I recall is when we
• 1:56:52
  Speaker 17: had to take your little brother to a soccer tournament
• 1:56:55
  Speaker 17: you were in high school. We let you stay by
• 1:56:57
  Speaker 17: yourself for the very first time, and I said, under
• 1:57:01
  Speaker 17: no circumstances, you're allowed to have your buddies over, no parties,
• 1:57:05
  Speaker 17: no risky business.
• 1:57:08
  Speaker 7: I don't know if you remember this, but you were
• 1:57:10
  Speaker 7: probably sixteen, maybe.
• 1:57:13
  Speaker 17: Fifteen or sixteen, and we let you say, and we said,
• 1:57:16
  Speaker 17: your grandma's going to check on you. The neighbors are
• 1:57:18
  Speaker 17: going to don't know if you have people over and
• 1:57:21
  Speaker 17: you're like, I got it, mom, No, no, my friends
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  Speaker 17: aren't going to come over. And then we came home
• 1:57:26
  Speaker 17: that Sunday walked in the garage and like our shoes
• 1:57:31
  Speaker 17: were sticking.
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  Speaker 7: You. I'm like, oh, he totally had people over, So
• 1:57:38
  Speaker 7: you got busted.
• 1:57:41
  Speaker 1: Some beard. Paul went down in their garage.
• 1:57:44
  Speaker 4: Most trouble that Sherman ever got into with me was
• 1:57:48
  Speaker 4: that he made an a B C D in F
• 1:57:52
  Speaker 4: one semester in college and I told him he had
• 1:57:57
  Speaker 4: to come home and work construction and that He said, well,
• 1:58:02
  Speaker 4: you know that's a C average, right, I mean, people
• 1:58:05
  Speaker 4: don't send their kid home for a CEA average.
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  Speaker 7: And I was like, yeah, I know, you're coming home.
• 1:58:09
  Speaker 7: So he did, and several of them, you know, I
• 1:58:13
  Speaker 7: never go back to college, and I was like, no,
• 1:58:15
  Speaker 7: he's going back to college.
• 1:58:16
  Speaker 4: He's going to get a college degree, but he's going
• 1:58:18
  Speaker 4: to come home and work and appreciate it. And so
• 1:58:20
  Speaker 4: he did, and it ended up being like one of
• 1:58:22
  Speaker 4: the most wonderful experience and all the people he worked with,
• 1:58:26
  Speaker 4: it was really really a cool experience.
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  Speaker 1: Oh that was all three Yeah, that's all. There's the
• 1:58:34
  Speaker 1: routine in my head an and F and you're saying that.
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  Speaker 2: C average, but also it was a it was a
• 1:58:45
  Speaker 2: point eight average. So that's just a bold face lie
• 1:58:51
  Speaker 2: of saying it was a cea average. I was trying
• 1:58:53
  Speaker 2: to pull one over on my mom.
• 1:58:54
  Speaker 1: How ruda was the construction.
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  Speaker 3: I mean it was very hard because my dad's friend.
• 1:59:02
  Speaker 2: Owned a remodeling business, basically said, Hey, my wife is
• 1:59:09
  Speaker 2: wanting to put my son in construction. I know you
• 1:59:11
  Speaker 2: own this remodeling business, blah blah. He was like, I
• 1:59:14
  Speaker 2: got a crew I could put him on tomorrow, And
• 1:59:18
  Speaker 2: my dad basically told him kick his ass, like fully
• 1:59:21
  Speaker 2: kick his ass. And my very, my very first day,
• 1:59:27
  Speaker 2: the Keith Horton, who has since passed, but I truly
• 1:59:32
  Speaker 2: Keith Horton is like up there with my dad and
• 1:59:35
  Speaker 2: some other men that I like, highly regard of, like
• 1:59:38
  Speaker 2: huge life lessons learned, shakes my hand when I show up,
• 1:59:44
  Speaker 2: gives me this whole rundown, which I find out later
• 1:59:46
  Speaker 2: is complete bullshit of about something in the yard that
• 1:59:50
  Speaker 2: they got to redo. Yeah, and he says, I need
• 1:59:52
  Speaker 2: you to dig up this entire trench and we're talking
• 1:59:55
  Speaker 2: like thirty feet of like at least seven feet into
• 1:59:59
  Speaker 2: the ground. I need you to dig it all up.
• 2:00:02
  Speaker 2: And it took me two days to do that. And
• 2:00:05
  Speaker 2: once I was done, Keith was like, hey, homeowners, they
• 2:00:08
  Speaker 2: changed their mind, so we actually we need all that
• 2:00:11
  Speaker 2: back back in that trench of kind of like letting
• 2:00:14
  Speaker 2: me know, like, hey, you ain't this ain't summer camp,
• 2:00:19
  Speaker 2: like welcome, welcome to the ship. Yeah, we just gave
• 2:00:22
  Speaker 2: you a job that didn't even exist to like really
• 2:00:25
  Speaker 2: kick your oh, dude. And it was like that for
• 2:00:28
  Speaker 2: the first three weeks. And then once I like was
• 2:00:30
  Speaker 2: showing them a attitude of like, hey, I'm not going
• 2:00:33
  Speaker 2: to quit, I'm happy to be here and I'm going
• 2:00:35
  Speaker 2: to have a good attitude about it and stuff, they
• 2:00:37
  Speaker 2: quickly started putting me on more and more jobs and
• 2:00:40
  Speaker 2: giving me more and more like actual responsibility. And it
• 2:00:45
  Speaker 2: ended up being so sick, and it made me appreciate
• 2:00:48
  Speaker 2: college that much more. Like I went back, I didn't
• 2:00:50
  Speaker 2: make a blow of b average after construction. GPA was
• 2:00:54
  Speaker 2: already screwed from the point eight that brought home. But
• 2:00:58
  Speaker 2: this was but the lesson was good, lesson was learned,
• 2:01:01
  Speaker 2: lesson was awesome, and that all came from Miss Amy.
• 2:01:03
  Speaker 2: She was like my dad was trying to think of
• 2:01:06
  Speaker 2: some kind of way to kind of, you know, teach
• 2:01:08
  Speaker 2: me a lesson. Blah blah blah. Miss Amy was like,
• 2:01:10
  Speaker 2: you pull his ass out of school right now. He's
• 2:01:14
  Speaker 2: not getting away with this shit and that thank you mom.
• 2:01:17
  Speaker 1: Dude, Shout out your mom. Shout out your mom. I
• 2:01:19
  Speaker 1: remember one time I was like, in uh, fifth or
• 2:01:22
  Speaker 1: sixth grade, and I what do they call progress reports?
• 2:01:26
  Speaker 1: Like the midterm report card whatever it was?
• 2:01:28
  Speaker 5: Ya ruh.
• 2:01:29
  Speaker 1: This was like a progress report, so not the full
• 2:01:31
  Speaker 1: report card? Yes, And I had gotten I believe a
• 2:01:35
  Speaker 1: D in AR reading. So in AR reading, you would
• 2:01:38
  Speaker 1: have to read you know, books around like your whatever
• 2:01:41
  Speaker 1: grade level you were at, yep. And then you after
• 2:01:43
  Speaker 1: you read the AR book, you would go and take
• 2:01:45
  Speaker 1: an AR test.
• 2:01:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 2:01:46
  Speaker 1: And if you test it well, like you pass whatever
• 2:01:48
  Speaker 1: it is, get over a seven out of ten or
• 2:01:50
  Speaker 1: something like that. And I was doing very poorly in
• 2:01:54
  Speaker 1: ARI because I hated reading growing up, Like I was
• 2:01:56
  Speaker 1: not a big reader. I hated English. I hated reading.
• 2:02:00
  Speaker 1: And I remember being in the middle of a football
• 2:02:02
  Speaker 1: practice played for the Panthers. But my mom came in
• 2:02:06
  Speaker 1: the middle during football practice and pulled me from practice
• 2:02:11
  Speaker 1: and then told my coach, and make sure to say
• 2:02:13
  Speaker 1: it in front of me, if he's going to fail
• 2:02:14
  Speaker 1: in school, like, he's not going to play football, because
• 2:02:17
  Speaker 1: I know he loves like I know he loves football.
• 2:02:19
  Speaker 1: I know this is what he has the most fun doing. Yeah,
• 2:02:22
  Speaker 1: if he doesn't make good grades, like, he's not going
• 2:02:24
  Speaker 1: to play football. And she took my ass home and
• 2:02:26
  Speaker 1: I was basically was like, if you don't get your
• 2:02:28
  Speaker 1: shit turned around or go to your teacher and ask
• 2:02:30
  Speaker 1: questions about how you can lift it up, knowing that
• 2:02:32
  Speaker 1: it was a progress report.
• 2:02:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that you're.
• 2:02:35
  Speaker 1: Listening, you're not playing football. If you're not going to
• 2:02:37
  Speaker 1: take school serious, you're not going to take this other
• 2:02:38
  Speaker 1: stuff serious. God damn, it's like those little lessons like
• 2:02:42
  Speaker 1: I enjoy hearing that.
• 2:02:44
  Speaker 2: It's gonna be hard for us to do that one day.
• 2:02:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah you know what I mean, Like I think about
• 2:02:49
  Speaker 2: that with Scarlett already. I'm like, I have to keep
• 2:02:53
  Speaker 2: that mentality that my mom did not budge on punishments.
• 2:02:57
  Speaker 2: Once it came out of her mouth, that was God
• 2:03:00
  Speaker 2: might as well have said it. God might as well
• 2:03:03
  Speaker 2: have said it, because that that's what was gonna happen
• 2:03:05
  Speaker 2: The nine on one call is so funny.
• 2:03:08
  Speaker 6: I remember at vividly because it was my childhood buddy
• 2:03:10
  Speaker 6: and we were at a kmart and our moms were
• 2:03:12
  Speaker 6: in there. I forget why, but they were taking forever
• 2:03:13
  Speaker 6: and so we were dialing like fake numbers on the
• 2:03:16
  Speaker 6: payphone because you obviously got to put money in it.
• 2:03:19
  Speaker 6: And I was so young that I used. I was
• 2:03:20
  Speaker 6: still going to like Safety Town at this point, and
• 2:03:23
  Speaker 6: so I called in and we would just be like,
• 2:03:24
  Speaker 6: oh my gosh, god Zilla has attacking this kmart and
• 2:03:26
  Speaker 6: hang up. And then cops came and they're like, is
• 2:03:29
  Speaker 6: there an emergency? And I was like, no, no, my
• 2:03:34
  Speaker 6: mom's like oh, officerly like and told him and the
• 2:03:36
  Speaker 6: cops like we could take you to jail, kid, and
• 2:03:39
  Speaker 6: like obviously handed it up for the next year. At
• 2:03:44
  Speaker 6: Safety Town, which I used to go, and you learn
• 2:03:46
  Speaker 6: about crossing the street and like they have these little
• 2:03:48
  Speaker 6: cars you can pedal in these bikes, Like it was
• 2:03:50
  Speaker 6: so much fun. I had to sit there and explain
• 2:03:52
  Speaker 6: to the whole class the safety terribleness of what I've
• 2:03:56
  Speaker 6: done basically. Oh, and so I had to explain to
• 2:03:59
  Speaker 6: the whole class that I called nine on one and
• 2:04:00
  Speaker 6: they can come. And I basically said to the class,
• 2:04:03
  Speaker 6: you don't got to put money in those phones. They
• 2:04:05
  Speaker 6: work like those phones work, and do not put money
• 2:04:08
  Speaker 6: on them. You call whatever you want to call, and
• 2:04:09
  Speaker 6: call the cops. And I was like I left it
• 2:04:11
  Speaker 6: being like that's not exactly the message I wanted to say, yeah, yeah,
• 2:04:14
  Speaker 6: yeah at that.
• 2:04:15
  Speaker 1: Point, Yeah, that's so fun. I remember pulling a prank
• 2:04:18
  Speaker 1: on my mom. I saw a cop like driving by,
• 2:04:22
  Speaker 1: or we were around a cop, like when we were
• 2:04:24
  Speaker 1: driving home, and I remember pulling a prank of like
• 2:04:28
  Speaker 1: I was like leaning out the window and I was.
• 2:04:29
  Speaker 6: Like help, yeah, well yeah, get you taken away.
• 2:04:38
  Speaker 1: And so we get pulled over whatever. Like my mom
• 2:04:42
  Speaker 1: was hitting me, but I'm I'm joking.
• 2:04:45
  Speaker 2: Once the cop came, you were still going.
• 2:04:48
  Speaker 1: Well, and like the cop was aware of what was
• 2:04:51
  Speaker 1: going on, and you know, my mom was like trying
• 2:04:54
  Speaker 1: to handle it, and like you know when the cop
• 2:04:56
  Speaker 1: when the cop left, she's give me a very stern
• 2:04:58
  Speaker 1: talking to you about like not that way, and I didn't, like,
• 2:05:01
  Speaker 1: I'm just trying to be like funny.
• 2:05:02
  Speaker 2: How old are you?
• 2:05:04
  Speaker 1: Uh, probably like ten or eleven? Too young? Just young?
• 2:05:09
  Speaker 2: Hey, don't sleep on the fact that chef had the
• 2:05:12
  Speaker 2: boys over for a little for a little booze hour.
• 2:05:15
  Speaker 5: And yes, bro, it was full risky business the next
• 2:05:20
  Speaker 5: day and I was like, I'm so fucked too. It's
• 2:05:24
  Speaker 5: just maybe it took mom and dad maybe twenty minutes
• 2:05:26
  Speaker 5: before my dad was like, I know, I know what happened.
• 2:05:29
  Speaker 5: He I got a shitload of trouble for that.
• 2:05:31
  Speaker 2: How many guys do you have over?
• 2:05:32
  Speaker 5: I think it was like ten to twelve people.
• 2:05:34
  Speaker 2: That's a pretty good party.
• 2:05:36
  Speaker 1: He's a pretty good party.
• 2:05:37
  Speaker 2: That's a pretty good party.
• 2:05:38
  Speaker 1: So funny that we all have those stories like that.
• 2:05:41
  Speaker 1: Coddy was at a wrestling tournament and I threw a
• 2:05:43
  Speaker 1: party back home because I was wrestling JV at the time,
• 2:05:46
  Speaker 1: like I was doing JV first because it was like
• 2:05:48
  Speaker 1: the year where I was either grounded or I had
• 2:05:50
  Speaker 1: to wrestle.
• 2:05:52
  Speaker 3: So first tournament, varsity's going varsity.
• 2:05:54
  Speaker 1: They're gonna like make an example, Like I have to
• 2:05:56
  Speaker 1: earn my way to VARs to be on the varsity roster.
• 2:06:00
  Speaker 1: So I had to be on the bus the next
• 2:06:01
  Speaker 1: morning at like five or six am to do like
• 2:06:03
  Speaker 1: this three hour bus ride to jeff City. Oh god,
• 2:06:06
  Speaker 1: And I threw a party at the house where I
• 2:06:08
  Speaker 1: had like ten twelve people over and we got so hammered.
• 2:06:13
  Speaker 1: Bro oh god to where like somebody gets like taking home,
• 2:06:17
  Speaker 1: they're like puking in the side. They're like dropping me
• 2:06:19
  Speaker 1: off of the thing, and I'm just hung over and
• 2:06:22
  Speaker 1: I'm just hoping that my boys logan John oh, they
• 2:06:26
  Speaker 1: have to clean up, yeah, cleaning up my house and
• 2:06:29
  Speaker 1: making sure stuff's in order. But my parents come home
• 2:06:32
  Speaker 1: and there's like a we were fucking. This is when
• 2:06:34
  Speaker 1: forty year old virgin was hot, and so somebody had
• 2:06:39
  Speaker 1: a condom like on their hand doing like I am
• 2:06:41
  Speaker 1: Aquaman and it was just out and that's what got us, Logan,
• 2:06:47
  Speaker 1: we got that's what got us. When I got back
• 2:06:50
  Speaker 1: from that JV wrestling tournament. By the way, I won
• 2:06:52
  Speaker 1: the wrestling tournament. Didn't get scored on at the JV
• 2:06:55
  Speaker 1: wrestling tournament. We'll come back and then like we're getting
• 2:06:59
  Speaker 1: you know, you know, yeah, yeah, it was not good.
• 2:07:03
  Speaker 1: It was not good. In another prank, like the nine
• 2:07:08
  Speaker 1: one one, a car was gonna pull out. We were
• 2:07:10
  Speaker 1: on a stop sign. I was like myudd look out
• 2:07:12
  Speaker 1: and she like slams on the brakes and there was
• 2:07:14
  Speaker 1: no car I was like, I'm just kidding, dude. She
• 2:07:17
  Speaker 1: fucking I was like, mo b look god no, I
• 2:07:20
  Speaker 1: started laughing. I'm like, oh, there's no car. She reaches
• 2:07:23
  Speaker 1: backhands with me.
• 2:07:23
  Speaker 7: Bro.
• 2:07:25
  Speaker 1: I'm bleeding mouth. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you know, because I'm
• 2:07:31
  Speaker 1: I was like a little like a middle a little
• 2:07:34
  Speaker 1: menace in my own right.
• 2:07:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm shocked at My mom also didn't tell this
• 2:07:39
  Speaker 2: story because this is the most match she's ever been
• 2:07:41
  Speaker 2: at me. One of my little movies that I was
• 2:07:44
  Speaker 2: standing was a Russian terrorist uh film where we had
• 2:07:48
  Speaker 2: I got my three friends that were the only three
• 2:07:50
  Speaker 2: friends with black like SUVs, and we had people standing
• 2:07:55
  Speaker 2: out of windows and stuff on this back road in Alito,
• 2:07:59
  Speaker 2: Texas and a train is coming because there's a train
• 2:08:03
  Speaker 2: tracks that go through the city of Aledo. And I
• 2:08:06
  Speaker 2: tell everybody, we have speakerphones going through all three vehicles,
• 2:08:10
  Speaker 2: and I'm directing it from the front vehicle and I'm
• 2:08:13
  Speaker 2: shooting the whole thing, and I say, production value, we
• 2:08:15
  Speaker 2: got a train come in. You guys act like you're
• 2:08:17
  Speaker 2: shooting at the train. Union Pacific gets on the phone
• 2:08:22
  Speaker 2: because the guy driving the train calls it in because
• 2:08:25
  Speaker 2: all he sees is guys in ski masks with huge
• 2:08:30
  Speaker 2: fake airsoft guns that we spray painted like assault type weapons,
• 2:08:34
  Speaker 2: and we're driving this way, trains coming this way and
• 2:08:37
  Speaker 2: they're going to the train. So that guy's probably like
• 2:08:41
  Speaker 2: what the fuck? And Bro and I didn't even know
• 2:08:45
  Speaker 2: they exist. It is a f five point fifty and
• 2:08:49
  Speaker 2: it's just a massive pickup truck with train wheels there
• 2:08:52
  Speaker 2: inside of the street wheels so it can drive on
• 2:08:54
  Speaker 2: the tracks. Is flying down the railroad with lights on
• 2:08:58
  Speaker 2: because we stopped there and we're like shooting something like
• 2:09:02
  Speaker 2: eight police cards end up coming. Dude, it was a
• 2:09:05
  Speaker 2: whole thing. I do not know how we didn't go
• 2:09:07
  Speaker 2: to jail, I truly don't. But we had the camera
• 2:09:11
  Speaker 2: and we're like, we're shooting this movie blah blah blah.
• 2:09:13
  Speaker 2: But my mom I wasn't allowed to do anything for
• 2:09:16
  Speaker 2: like three months, Like I was grounded, grounded for three months.
• 2:09:20
  Speaker 6: Oh, saying it's an indie film had to be so embarrassing.
• 2:09:24
  Speaker 6: There's this train robbery coming and the cops get there.
• 2:09:27
  Speaker 2: You with an indie film, just a bunch of sixteen
• 2:09:30
  Speaker 2: and seventeen year olds, crazy, shut up moms.
• 2:09:34
  Speaker 5: Question, Shut up moms.
• 2:09:35
  Speaker 1: Question three. I said the twenty minute time.
• 2:09:38
  Speaker 3: That was just going off two questions at okay.
• 2:09:47
  Speaker 1: Time out go we can't, we can't well, no audio,
• 2:09:50
  Speaker 1: are you saying the question?
• 2:09:51
  Speaker 8: No?
• 2:09:53
  Speaker 7: What was the moment raising him that he did not
• 2:09:55
  Speaker 7: appreciate at the time.
• 2:09:58
  Speaker 4: It's just tragic flaw Sherman is a mess and it
• 2:10:04
  Speaker 4: was not funny then, and it's.
• 2:10:06
  Speaker 7: Not funny now, and you can ask Jill and she
• 2:10:09
  Speaker 7: will bat me up on this.
• 2:10:11
  Speaker 8: It's bad.
• 2:10:12
  Speaker 18: We had an old recliner with a broken armress that
• 2:10:15
  Speaker 18: the end could be removed. Inside there was a very
• 2:10:18
  Speaker 18: large Can we.
• 2:10:19
  Speaker 3: Go back, Let's just start the whole clip over because
• 2:10:23
  Speaker 3: it's like delayed.
• 2:10:30
  Speaker 7: What was a moment raising him that you did not
• 2:10:33
  Speaker 7: appreciate at the time.
• 2:10:36
  Speaker 4: It's his tragic faw Sherman is a mess and it
• 2:10:41
  Speaker 4: was not funny then, and it's.
• 2:10:44
  Speaker 7: Not funny now. And you can ask Jill and she
• 2:10:46
  Speaker 7: will bat me up on this. It's bad.
• 2:10:50
  Speaker 18: We had an old recliner with a broken armrest that
• 2:10:53
  Speaker 18: the end could be removed inside there was a very
• 2:10:56
  Speaker 18: large now it stuck straight out if you pulled off
• 2:11:00
  Speaker 18: the end of the arm One day, Derek's brother Nica,
• 2:11:02
  Speaker 18: made him mad and he grabbed that arm with the
• 2:11:05
  Speaker 18: large nail sticking out, and ran through the house after
• 2:11:07
  Speaker 18: his brother. Luckily we were able to stop him before
• 2:11:11
  Speaker 18: he inflicted it.
• 2:11:13
  Speaker 6: I think when I.
• 2:11:14
  Speaker 17: Look back, when you were younger, you were very inquisitive.
• 2:11:18
  Speaker 7: You were you talked a lot, all right, was good?
• 2:11:27
  Speaker 17: Been a little stubborn and bullheaded because you like to
• 2:11:30
  Speaker 17: debate with people.
• 2:11:34
  Speaker 7: That's was probably a good thing. That's a good thing.
• 2:11:38
  Speaker 4: One.
• 2:11:43
  Speaker 7: Did you get that from your uncle John?
• 2:11:46
  Speaker 1: From your uncle John, you're stubborn. Get that from your
• 2:11:50
  Speaker 1: uncle John.
• 2:11:50
  Speaker 2: I believe he talked a lot, all right.
• 2:11:55
  Speaker 1: I think that's a good thing. Was gonna laugh at day,
• 2:11:57
  Speaker 1: stubborn and bullet you're gonna get you get that from
• 2:11:59
  Speaker 1: your uncle John.
• 2:12:00
  Speaker 5: Oh my god, I do get that from uncle John.
• 2:12:02
  Speaker 1: We know we heard hey, we heard.
• 2:12:06
  Speaker 2: Sorry. That made me laugh so hard I farted And
• 2:12:08
  Speaker 2: it does not smell that God, that was funny. Should
• 2:12:12
  Speaker 2: we should we just do you swell it?
• 2:12:15
  Speaker 3: Okay?
• 2:12:15
  Speaker 1: Good?
• 2:12:16
  Speaker 2: Do we want to just keep on ripping through.
• 2:12:18
  Speaker 1: Let's let's just rip.
• 2:12:21
  Speaker 6: I don't get hurt.
• 2:12:22
  Speaker 1: Didn't hurt anyone. You were you're looking at my dad's
• 2:12:25
  Speaker 1: like Michael Myers running around with the nail.
• 2:12:27
  Speaker 6: I was chasing my brother with the nail arm and
• 2:12:30
  Speaker 6: he just goes Marsha and she was following third behind.
• 2:12:35
  Speaker 6: Oh my god, what's something he did as a little
• 2:12:40
  Speaker 6: kid that he'd probably be embarrassed you talk about on
• 2:12:43
  Speaker 6: a podcast.
• 2:12:43
  Speaker 19: Oh boy, oh gosh, as a little boy embarrassed.
• 2:12:52
  Speaker 7: Oh. The one thing that comes to my mind is
• 2:12:55
  Speaker 7: when we were at Mass on Sunday we all went
• 2:12:59
  Speaker 7: to Mass. Grant was a baby.
• 2:13:01
  Speaker 17: We had just moved back from Dallas, so you were
• 2:13:04
  Speaker 17: probably three, and that you were three and a half.
• 2:13:06
  Speaker 7: It was before you turned four.
• 2:13:08
  Speaker 5: We were in Mass.
• 2:13:09
  Speaker 7: You were a little rambunctious.
• 2:13:11
  Speaker 20: Your dad took you outside.
• 2:13:15
  Speaker 17: And the way that our lady of the lake do
• 2:13:17
  Speaker 17: you I don't know if you remember this, that the
• 2:13:19
  Speaker 17: wind there was just glass windows.
• 2:13:22
  Speaker 7: And the priest can see out.
• 2:13:25
  Speaker 17: And apparently your dad turned around for just a few seconds.
• 2:13:29
  Speaker 7: You had to go to the bathroom and didn't.
• 2:13:31
  Speaker 17: Tell your dad, and you started to pee in the
• 2:13:36
  Speaker 17: floor bed and and well the priest could see you.
• 2:13:45
  Speaker 17: We were a little mortified.
• 2:13:46
  Speaker 7: That.
• 2:13:48
  Speaker 1: That's a good funny one. Yeah, it's a good funny one.
• 2:13:52
  Speaker 18: It is literally impossible to embarrass Derek. He won't be
• 2:13:56
  Speaker 18: embarrassed at all by this. But once Derek and Niko
• 2:13:59
  Speaker 18: were playing with the two little girls across the street
• 2:14:01
  Speaker 18: when they all were preschool aged, they all pulled their
• 2:14:05
  Speaker 18: pants down around their ankles and peede in the yard together.
• 2:14:08
  Speaker 1: Nice.
• 2:14:09
  Speaker 2: My mom skipped this one, by the way. I don't
• 2:14:12
  Speaker 2: know if that was intentral or not.
• 2:14:14
  Speaker 1: Who knows, man, I know.
• 2:14:15
  Speaker 3: I mean, at least you guys have some fun peace stories.
• 2:14:18
  Speaker 1: Like my mom was talking, she just soiled me on
• 2:14:21
  Speaker 1: how I went the bed, like very consistently. I was
• 2:14:25
  Speaker 1: gonna endo my teenage years.
• 2:14:26
  Speaker 2: I've told you that it was a big, big bed
• 2:14:28
  Speaker 2: weather as well, right big, not as long, but I'm
• 2:14:32
  Speaker 2: probably six years old, but I was a lightly Yeah
• 2:14:36
  Speaker 2: that's light work, but I just wanted to, like be
• 2:14:38
  Speaker 2: verse four, she just.
• 2:14:39
  Speaker 1: Beat the bed, but like six, it's I'm not. I
• 2:14:42
  Speaker 1: wouldn't think nothing of that. You try again, you beat
• 2:14:45
  Speaker 1: your at your buddy's house and with anxiety going to sleep,
• 2:14:49
  Speaker 1: like god, I hope I don't piss.
• 2:14:51
  Speaker 2: The bed, breaking into their washer and dryer room to
• 2:14:55
  Speaker 2: go to pre clean before anybody wakes up.
• 2:14:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I was. I was up early, trying to well
• 2:15:02
  Speaker 1: get rid of the evidence sleeping on your buddy's floor
• 2:15:05
  Speaker 1: and you just piss on the floor like bro oh.
• 2:15:09
  Speaker 3: And then when you when you know they know that
• 2:15:11
  Speaker 3: you pissed the bed, and it's like, you know, god,
• 2:15:20
  Speaker 3: oh my gosh.
• 2:15:22
  Speaker 4: Question number five, what was a moment raising him where
• 2:15:25
  Speaker 4: you thought, Okay, he's gonna be all right. I knew
• 2:15:29
  Speaker 4: he was going to be more than all right from
• 2:15:31
  Speaker 4: the get go. He was just always been the biggest
• 2:15:34
  Speaker 4: blessing in my life and.
• 2:15:36
  Speaker 7: Just full of joy.
• 2:15:37
  Speaker 4: And it was just a blessing to raise him and
• 2:15:42
  Speaker 4: to see him become such a sweet, fun, consistent, loving
• 2:15:46
  Speaker 4: dad to Scarlet and making her belly laugh and just
• 2:15:51
  Speaker 4: planning fun things to her all the time.
• 2:15:55
  Speaker 7: It just blows me away to see the dad that
• 2:15:57
  Speaker 7: he has become.
• 2:16:00
  Speaker 1: Not a moment time out.
• 2:16:04
  Speaker 4: So question number five, what was the moment raising him
• 2:16:07
  Speaker 4: where you thought, Okay, he's gonna be all right.
• 2:16:10
  Speaker 7: I knew he was going to be more than all right.
• 2:16:15
  Speaker 1: So your mom knew you were going to be more
• 2:16:18
  Speaker 1: than al right from the get go. Then at the
• 2:16:21
  Speaker 1: very end, I don't know if you guys heard it,
• 2:16:23
  Speaker 1: it blows her mind of.
• 2:16:26
  Speaker 2: What a what an incredible dad.
• 2:16:28
  Speaker 1: I beg yeah, yeah, yeah, blows her mind.
• 2:16:31
  Speaker 2: Surprised, That's what I'm saying.
• 2:16:33
  Speaker 1: She kind of go away. I'm surprised.
• 2:16:38
  Speaker 2: Blows my mom.
• 2:16:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. Your mom loves you.
• 2:16:42
  Speaker 6: She does.
• 2:16:43
  Speaker 1: Your mama loves you, she does, all right, keep going.
• 2:16:48
  Speaker 7: Question number five.
• 2:16:53
  Speaker 14: Not a moment.
• 2:16:54
  Speaker 18: There were many moments Derry going off and discuss things
• 2:16:57
  Speaker 18: with me, and we were fortunate to be able to mess.
• 2:17:00
  Speaker 18: We let him make decisions for himself. He discussed things
• 2:17:03
  Speaker 18: with us, but usually came to decisions on his own.
• 2:17:06
  Speaker 18: We learned pretty early he was thoughtful in his decisions,
• 2:17:09
  Speaker 18: and we felt confident in letting him do.
• 2:17:11
  Speaker 7: That well in college.
• 2:17:13
  Speaker 1: Thoughtful keyword.
• 2:17:15
  Speaker 7: You had a sophomore year in college and.
• 2:17:20
  Speaker 6: You turned it around.
• 2:17:21
  Speaker 17: We had to come to Jesus meeting at the end
• 2:17:23
  Speaker 17: of that sophomore.
• 2:17:24
  Speaker 7: Year, and you turned it around your junior year.
• 2:17:27
  Speaker 1: And I'll never forget few years ago.
• 2:17:30
  Speaker 17: On a trip I was going with him, like on
• 2:17:34
  Speaker 17: a business trip, and we were in the airplane getting
• 2:17:36
  Speaker 17: ready to take off, and there was a.
• 2:17:37
  Speaker 20: Notification from UT and you had made the Dean's list
• 2:17:44
  Speaker 20: and that we had a rough winter. If you recall,
• 2:17:47
  Speaker 20: that was a rough venture we had a lot of
• 2:17:50
  Speaker 20: things going on, and I just remember I saw that
• 2:17:54
  Speaker 20: and I.
• 2:17:54
  Speaker 17: Looked at your dad and I said, I think he's
• 2:17:55
  Speaker 17: going to be Okay, he's going to be.
• 2:18:00
  Speaker 2: Four years you changed.
• 2:18:02
  Speaker 7: It was a It was a great thing when you change.
• 2:18:04
  Speaker 2: The chef's mob is undefeated.
• 2:18:06
  Speaker 1: Yes, broad defeated, dude making the Deans lists. I think
• 2:18:12
  Speaker 1: he's gonna be all right.
• 2:18:15
  Speaker 5: If that me during that time, you probably it's actually
• 2:18:19
  Speaker 5: it would make a lot more sense.
• 2:18:20
  Speaker 1: Oh, I believe. I believe your mom. Dude.
• 2:18:22
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yes, solid for you. I said it in there too,
• 2:18:25
  Speaker 5: I said, yeah, solid four years ago.
• 2:18:27
  Speaker 2: There's one coming up with my mom that I alluded
• 2:18:31
  Speaker 2: to earlier in the show. Yeah, I will be very
• 2:18:35
  Speaker 2: embarrassed by.
• 2:18:36
  Speaker 6: Yeah, what's the one piece of advice you gave him
• 2:18:40
  Speaker 6: that you actually think stuck?
• 2:18:46
  Speaker 17: I think I instilled in you and your brother from
• 2:18:50
  Speaker 17: an early age of education.
• 2:18:52
  Speaker 19: Was very important and just to keep pushing through that
• 2:18:58
  Speaker 19: there's gonna be Yeah, it's gonna be peaks and valleys, it's.
• 2:19:02
  Speaker 1: Gonna be winters, it's gonna be hard times, but you
• 2:19:05
  Speaker 1: just push through and work hard.
• 2:19:09
  Speaker 6: But nothing can beat that.
• 2:19:10
  Speaker 2: Having that education you did always harp that one.
• 2:19:14
  Speaker 18: Yeah, I love here and four oh one K and
• 2:19:19
  Speaker 18: put money in it.
• 2:19:23
  Speaker 1: Smooth, smooth, smooth.
• 2:19:24
  Speaker 3: I love Derek Zerk has zero motion on his face.
• 2:19:27
  Speaker 3: He just nod said, I don't.
• 2:19:29
  Speaker 6: Have headphones on.
• 2:19:31
  Speaker 1: Oh that's right, Oh, ship, that makes much more sense.
• 2:19:35
  Speaker 1: I've watched them all this morning, but like, yeah, she's
• 2:19:38
  Speaker 1: got just like a three second answer put money in
• 2:19:39
  Speaker 1: the four one K And I just look back at
• 2:19:41
  Speaker 1: you and you're just still looking down at the computer.
• 2:19:56
  Speaker 18: How would you describe him as a dad? And does
• 2:19:58
  Speaker 18: it surprise you?
• 2:19:58
  Speaker 1: Time out? Time out? Time out? Did your mom have
• 2:20:01
  Speaker 1: a video on that one?
• 2:20:02
  Speaker 7: No?
• 2:20:03
  Speaker 1: Did she not do one for that one?
• 2:20:04
  Speaker 2: I guess not.
• 2:20:04
  Speaker 1: Well one in the morning at the again.
• 2:20:06
  Speaker 2: I was about to say, because I saw how long
• 2:20:09
  Speaker 2: that video was the last one. Yeah, this is how
• 2:20:12
  Speaker 2: like she sent them through so in her self, reception
• 2:20:16
  Speaker 2: at her okay, got your house is terrible. So now
• 2:20:19
  Speaker 2: I'm thinking through and I'm like, ah, shit, like maybe
• 2:20:23
  Speaker 2: it's all good. Do you remember the advice I actually wrote?
• 2:20:27
  Speaker 1: How about you? You could answer that?
• 2:20:28
  Speaker 2: Okay, I wrote a little thing that I can read
• 2:20:33
  Speaker 2: at the end that's like a quick little letter to
• 2:20:36
  Speaker 2: my mom and Jill and the one thing that my
• 2:20:39
  Speaker 2: mom always hammered into me is never ever quit. She
• 2:20:44
  Speaker 2: was big on that, like, do not put your head down,
• 2:20:49
  Speaker 2: do not sulk, do not quit, You power through. If
• 2:20:52
  Speaker 2: you say you're going to do something, you stick to it.
• 2:20:55
  Speaker 2: And she was just huge on that, dude, And I
• 2:20:59
  Speaker 2: like that is one lesson that's still to this day
• 2:21:01
  Speaker 2: at thirty two years old, I can be like my
• 2:21:04
  Speaker 2: mom was always saying, no, you told those people that
• 2:21:07
  Speaker 2: you were going to be at that thing, you go
• 2:21:09
  Speaker 2: to that thing if you told them that, Mike, And
• 2:21:13
  Speaker 2: still to this day, Yeah, love it.
• 2:21:17
  Speaker 1: Now it's seven.
• 2:21:20
  Speaker 18: How would you describe him as a dad and does
• 2:21:22
  Speaker 18: it surprise you at all? He expects good behavior from
• 2:21:26
  Speaker 18: his dog being, but is also loving with him, so
• 2:21:29
  Speaker 18: that's promising. Great uncle. The kids always loves saying around him.
• 2:21:34
  Speaker 18: He was always has always loved kids, so it's not
• 2:21:36
  Speaker 18: surprising at all.
• 2:21:39
  Speaker 4: The next question about how I see him as a
• 2:21:42
  Speaker 4: dad and does it surprise me, No, it doesn't surprise
• 2:21:46
  Speaker 4: me at all that he is an amazing dad and
• 2:21:49
  Speaker 4: so loving and fun and funny and consistent and keeps
• 2:21:55
  Speaker 4: her on schedule and Jill is leading the ship.
• 2:21:59
  Speaker 7: On that is the most amazing mom. But it's so
• 2:22:02
  Speaker 7: sweet to see them. I'm gonna cry. It's so sweet
• 2:22:06
  Speaker 7: to see them as a team raising her with so
• 2:22:09
  Speaker 7: much luck.
• 2:22:11
  Speaker 1: Thank you mom.
• 2:22:13
  Speaker 3: Oh, I would have loved to hear Chef's mom break down.
• 2:22:18
  Speaker 2: What kind of dad?
• 2:22:20
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I didn't know the way the question was worded.
• 2:22:23
  Speaker 5: I just assumed that one was for you, Sherm, So
• 2:22:25
  Speaker 5: I just said, hey, we'll just move past.
• 2:22:27
  Speaker 6: This improper wording on my part.
• 2:22:30
  Speaker 2: No, this is something that I would.
• 2:22:37
  Speaker 7: Want y'all to know about Sherman. And Sherman is just
• 2:22:41
  Speaker 7: like the most badass athlete. He is excelled in sports
• 2:22:47
  Speaker 7: his whole life, and he just had all these His life.
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  Speaker 4: Has kind of been like Forrest Gump, where all these
• 2:22:58
  Speaker 4: things happen that just don't happen to other people. But
• 2:23:02
  Speaker 4: he was asked in high school to on the Dallas
• 2:23:06
  Speaker 4: Cowboy field to come kick a field goal. He never.
• 2:23:12
  Speaker 7: Practice kicking a filg.
• 2:23:13
  Speaker 4: On his life, and he had on Van Tenny shoes
• 2:23:17
  Speaker 4: and he nailed it and won a big check for
• 2:23:20
  Speaker 4: his high school.
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  Speaker 7: So anything, he's like, maham, I'm gonna do a standing
• 2:23:25
  Speaker 7: back flip at the beach in the thick sand and
• 2:23:28
  Speaker 7: just nailed it first time. So anything, he always has
• 2:23:33
  Speaker 7: excelled at sports.
• 2:23:37
  Speaker 18: On the podcast, he's funny, creative and takes responsibility for
• 2:23:41
  Speaker 18: his work. But as chill as he seems, you'd never
• 2:23:44
  Speaker 18: guess he is deathly afraid of spiders.
• 2:23:47
  Speaker 1: Oh spiders.
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  Speaker 17: Know if your colleagues know that your grandfather was a
• 2:23:52
  Speaker 17: football coach, was a high school football coach for years,
• 2:23:56
  Speaker 17: very passionate about football. And I know that he's looking
• 2:24:00
  Speaker 17: down right now and smiling and so happy for you
• 2:24:05
  Speaker 17: and so exciting because he was just.
• 2:24:10
  Speaker 7: Passionate about football. This high school, college professional, a Notre Dame,
• 2:24:18
  Speaker 7: Notre Dame.
• 2:24:19
  Speaker 1: What kind of football coach was he? You can get
• 2:24:24
  Speaker 1: the real answer.
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  Speaker 7: Oh, he was tough. He was tough.
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  Speaker 17: Grabow gym, Midwesterner, Irish Catholic background.
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  Speaker 12: I mean I was.
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  Speaker 7: I mean, that was my daddy And I was like,
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  Speaker 7: he was tough. He was tough. You just did not
• 2:24:41
  Speaker 7: but he was. But the kids loved him, do you know?
• 2:24:45
  Speaker 2: He was mean and ship the kids loved him.
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  Speaker 17: His pastings came to his funeral and we're like, we
• 2:24:51
  Speaker 17: loved your dad.
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  Speaker 7: He was so hard, he was so tough, but he
• 2:24:54
  Speaker 7: was just he was kind of like a big teddy
• 2:24:56
  Speaker 7: bear too.
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  Speaker 1: They loved you.
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  Speaker 7: I know he's looking Jet, Bro.
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  Speaker 2: We need a camera in the handing household. Borrow, dude.
• 2:25:09
  Speaker 1: Oh, I know he's looking down on Jet.
• 2:25:13
  Speaker 2: I was so bad that we had all been in
• 2:25:15
  Speaker 2: person deep for these interviews with our moms. Their little
• 2:25:19
  Speaker 2: energy is unbelievable.
• 2:25:23
  Speaker 6: I my entire childhood up until I moved to Nashville,
• 2:25:26
  Speaker 6: was in a rachnophobe to like a like a bad degree,
• 2:25:30
  Speaker 6: like a very bad like couldn't be like if I
• 2:25:32
  Speaker 6: knew they were there, but like it touched me, feel
• 2:25:34
  Speaker 6: me insects. Anything's like to a degree where I would
• 2:25:37
  Speaker 6: fight people for trying to put spiders. Oh, oh shit,
• 2:25:40
  Speaker 6: bad bro, I've gotten. It's funny to see my mom
• 2:25:42
  Speaker 6: like have these things. Because she brought up something to
• 2:25:45
  Speaker 6: Kat the other day. She's like, oh, he's a snooper
• 2:25:46
  Speaker 6: because she's hid in her wedding dress. I'm like, honestly, Mom,
• 2:25:49
  Speaker 6: I've changed a little bit, which is fun to like
• 2:25:51
  Speaker 6: explain to her who I am now, because like, spiders
• 2:25:53
  Speaker 6: don't freak me out as much. I ain't gonna touch them,
• 2:25:55
  Speaker 6: like they're not there.
• 2:25:56
  Speaker 1: We can't let we can't let Taylor know these things.
• 2:25:59
  Speaker 6: No, how him flat out because I'm again, I'm overcoming
• 2:26:03
  Speaker 6: these fears. But if you guys could not tell him.
• 2:26:04
  Speaker 1: That'd be cool.
• 2:26:07
  Speaker 2: I loved her answer too, because of something that I
• 2:26:11
  Speaker 2: would never imagine of Deeke, truly, a fear of insects,
• 2:26:15
  Speaker 2: a fear of something like that. I would never think that,
• 2:26:17
  Speaker 2: for you, Will has stepped off someone.
• 2:26:23
  Speaker 6: Ever leave this set of a show due to the
• 2:26:25
  Speaker 6: fact that I don't know what he's gonna bring back.
• 2:26:27
  Speaker 2: Oh, he's got something good, He's got something very good.
• 2:26:30
  Speaker 2: But I would never imagine.
• 2:26:35
  Speaker 6: Okay, well I thought you were going to get you
• 2:26:37
  Speaker 6: Just look.
• 2:26:39
  Speaker 2: Where's going to little eight legged freaks?
• 2:26:42
  Speaker 6: All right? Two more boys? If you can go back
• 2:26:48
  Speaker 6: and tell yourself one due at the very beginning of motherhood,
• 2:26:50
  Speaker 6: what would it be.
• 2:26:51
  Speaker 19: Don't sweat the small stuff, like, don't get anxious and
• 2:26:56
  Speaker 19: uptight at the little things.
• 2:26:58
  Speaker 7: Just take it all in and.
• 2:27:02
  Speaker 17: Don't get so tight at the small things, is what
• 2:27:05
  Speaker 17: I would.
• 2:27:06
  Speaker 7: Probably have to say.
• 2:27:10
  Speaker 1: It's really good advice.
• 2:27:12
  Speaker 4: Yes, If I could go back and tell myself one thing,
• 2:27:16
  Speaker 4: it would be to document more and write down. I
• 2:27:19
  Speaker 4: did write down a lot of funny things they said
• 2:27:21
  Speaker 4: and did, and kept a record of things that happened.
• 2:27:26
  Speaker 7: But I wish that I had done more.
• 2:27:28
  Speaker 4: I wish that I had journaled every single day things
• 2:27:31
  Speaker 4: that were happening, because they were.
• 2:27:33
  Speaker 7: Those moments are just so precious.
• 2:27:36
  Speaker 18: If you could go back and tell yourself one thing
• 2:27:38
  Speaker 18: at the very beginning of motherhood, what would it be?
• 2:27:42
  Speaker 18: Everyone always said time flies, and I believe them, but
• 2:27:45
  Speaker 18: boy does it fly. I try to be present with
• 2:27:48
  Speaker 18: my kids as much as possible. I would probably say,
• 2:27:51
  Speaker 18: don't worry so much. They're going to be great human beings.
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  Speaker 1: Damn, that's awesome. I love that.
• 2:28:00
  Speaker 3: And last time, the moms are ripping, they are, they're cooking.
• 2:28:06
  Speaker 18: What does being a mom actually mean to you? Not
• 2:28:08
  Speaker 18: the highlight, real version, the real answer. I always knew
• 2:28:12
  Speaker 18: my mom was here for me no matter what. I
• 2:28:15
  Speaker 18: want my sons to know, I am here for them always,
• 2:28:19
  Speaker 18: every day. Anytime.
• 2:28:21
  Speaker 7: I love you, Derek, it means everything. It was the
• 2:28:26
  Speaker 7: thing I declared the first week of college. You know,
• 2:28:29
  Speaker 7: that's what I want to be. I want to be
• 2:28:31
  Speaker 7: a mom. I wanted to be the kind of mom
• 2:28:37
  Speaker 7: that I had, and I think that's what.
• 2:28:42
  Speaker 4: Inspired me just to she was a teacher and she
• 2:28:45
  Speaker 4: was so patient and kind and fun and funny, and
• 2:28:50
  Speaker 4: I wanted to pass that down to my sons. And
• 2:28:54
  Speaker 4: I don't have any regrets when it comes to that
• 2:28:57
  Speaker 4: department of my life.
• 2:28:58
  Speaker 7: And I just enjoyed every minute of it. And it's
• 2:29:03
  Speaker 7: so rewarding to.
• 2:29:05
  Speaker 4: See it now Sherman being the dad that he is,
• 2:29:09
  Speaker 4: that those the little things that we did, that he's
• 2:29:12
  Speaker 4: passing them down and.
• 2:29:15
  Speaker 7: It's just really sweet. So thank y'all for letting me
• 2:29:18
  Speaker 7: share with y'all, and Happy Mother's Day everybody.
• 2:29:22
  Speaker 19: I think unconditional love, having unconditional love, and just trying
• 2:29:28
  Speaker 19: to be their biggest supporter through the good times and
• 2:29:30
  Speaker 19: the bad times, especially through the hard times and bad times,
• 2:29:34
  Speaker 19: and just try to be the.
• 2:29:36
  Speaker 7: Best support person for.
• 2:29:41
  Speaker 6: Your your child.
• 2:29:43
  Speaker 7: And unconditional love. I think that's the best advice.
• 2:29:50
  Speaker 1: M Bravo, gentlemen, and shut out the moms. Shout out,
• 2:29:55
  Speaker 1: shut out the moms. Listen to this stuff makes me
• 2:29:58
  Speaker 1: miss mine a lot, but it's very cool to hear
• 2:30:03
  Speaker 1: your guys' mom talking, your guys' moms talk about you.
• 2:30:06
  Speaker 1: Guys a lot of similarities, just you know, highs and lows,
• 2:30:13
  Speaker 1: being there for you when you fall the unconditional part,
• 2:30:18
  Speaker 1: you can tell you, guys. His parents are like just
• 2:30:22
  Speaker 1: like fiercely like love you guys. They're obviously very proud
• 2:30:26
  Speaker 1: and yeah, man, Happy Mother's Day. Happy, happy Mother's Day,
• 2:30:31
  Speaker 1: big time.
• 2:30:33
  Speaker 2: Call your mom's Call your moms.
• 2:30:35
  Speaker 3: Call your moms, dude, yeah, call your moms.
• 2:30:37
  Speaker 1: What are you about to pull up?
• 2:30:39
  Speaker 2: I have a very quick little letter thing. It was
• 2:30:42
  Speaker 2: like my lesson of the week, and then we're good.
• 2:30:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we give a shout at another again. It's all
• 2:30:49
  Speaker 1: mother's day, bro.
• 2:30:50
  Speaker 3: It's all Mother's Day.
• 2:30:52
  Speaker 1: Let's and shout out the pet sikos, empty sickos, everybody
• 2:30:55
  Speaker 1: who's been sticking around for this entire episode. Obviously you're
• 2:30:57
  Speaker 1: gonna have some work on the editing side, chef, but
• 2:31:01
  Speaker 1: shout out everybody.
• 2:31:02
  Speaker 5: Yeah, for sure, shout out.
• 2:31:04
  Speaker 1: Great week for.
• 2:31:04
  Speaker 2: Moms, Great week for moms. Thank you moms. This is
• 2:31:09
  Speaker 2: a letter to my mom, and in the same vein
• 2:31:12
  Speaker 2: of what will said at the top of the show,
• 2:31:14
  Speaker 2: when we'll just touch it on again, call your mom,
• 2:31:18
  Speaker 2: tell her happy Mother's Day, or tell your wife how
• 2:31:21
  Speaker 2: much you appreciate her.
• 2:31:24
  Speaker 3: I wanted to write a little something to my mom.
• 2:31:26
  Speaker 2: And to my Wifey. Dear Mom, thank you for absolutely everything.
• 2:31:32
  Speaker 2: Thank you for all the packed lunches, the backscratches, and
• 2:31:35
  Speaker 2: the no video games for a month punishments that you
• 2:31:38
  Speaker 2: didn't budget intron you etched in stone a never ever
• 2:31:42
  Speaker 2: quit mentality for me that shapes me to this day.
• 2:31:45
  Speaker 2: Thank you for pouring into me, shoving a camera in
• 2:31:47
  Speaker 2: my hands and telling me at eight that I could
• 2:31:49
  Speaker 2: go make a movie in the backyard if I set
• 2:31:51
  Speaker 2: my mind to it. Thank you for always being my props,
• 2:31:54
  Speaker 2: wardrobe and locations manager and director on every little thing
• 2:31:57
  Speaker 2: that I shot at the house. Most importantly, thank you,
• 2:32:00
  Speaker 2: Thank you for showing me what an incredible woman slash
• 2:32:03
  Speaker 2: mother looks like. Thank you for showing the same love
• 2:32:07
  Speaker 2: you have for me to my wife and now my
• 2:32:09
  Speaker 2: child Scarlet. The whole world could think that I'll fail,
• 2:32:15
  Speaker 2: and I know that my day, one cheerleader will be
• 2:32:17
  Speaker 2: in my corner with a rousing speech and it don't
• 2:32:21
  Speaker 2: quit attitude. I love you, Mom. Dear Jilly Bean, it's
• 2:32:26
  Speaker 2: your first official mother today. Happy Mother's to Day, Jilly Bean.
• 2:32:31
  Speaker 2: Your mom set a path in a standard with how
• 2:32:36
  Speaker 2: she raised you that I know feels daunting at times,
• 2:32:39
  Speaker 2: but you answer the bell every day when I'm too tired.
• 2:32:43
  Speaker 2: You're a spark plug. When I want to quit, you
• 2:32:46
  Speaker 2: urge me to keep pushing, and when I half ask
• 2:32:49
  Speaker 2: it at home, you call me out. And every bit
• 2:32:51
  Speaker 2: of that has set me now on a path of
• 2:32:54
  Speaker 2: fatherhood that I can look back on and forward to
• 2:32:57
  Speaker 2: and be proud of. I have zero worries of the
• 2:32:59
  Speaker 2: woman and our darling daughter will grow to be. She
• 2:33:02
  Speaker 2: now has an amazing mother just like you did, that
• 2:33:04
  Speaker 2: will hold a standard and show her a path that
• 2:33:06
  Speaker 2: one day will seem daunting to her. But I know,
• 2:33:10
  Speaker 2: just like you, that she will answer the bell. I
• 2:33:13
  Speaker 2: love you.
• 2:33:13
  Speaker 3: Happy Mother's Day.
• 2:33:15
  Speaker 1: Beautifully said bro. Thank you well written.
• 2:33:18
  Speaker 8: Thank you.
• 2:33:20
  Speaker 1: Gentlemen.
• 2:33:20
  Speaker 5: Any Yeah, I'll be quick to Mom.
• 2:33:26
  Speaker 1: I know you're listening to this.
• 2:33:27
  Speaker 5: I love you so much. I loved what you said
• 2:33:30
  Speaker 5: about the unconditional part. I've put you through all there's
• 2:33:33
  Speaker 5: so much hell, and you've been there every single step
• 2:33:36
  Speaker 5: of the way, through all the really really bad and
• 2:33:38
  Speaker 5: all the really really good, and so just know it
• 2:33:41
  Speaker 5: means a lot. Love you so much.
• 2:33:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 2:33:45
  Speaker 6: I mean, my mom's awesome. She's my best friend. I
• 2:33:48
  Speaker 6: miss her every day. I call her every day, thank
• 2:33:50
  Speaker 6: you for everything. It's been so hard down here without family,
• 2:33:55
  Speaker 6: and at the same time like talking to her and
• 2:33:57
  Speaker 6: being chill with her. It's such a beautiful relationship. Through
• 2:34:00
  Speaker 6: Trace said like he loves to get a drink with
• 2:34:02
  Speaker 6: his to get a drink with his mom. Like drink
• 2:34:03
  Speaker 6: with my mom is the best thing ever. I get
• 2:34:05
  Speaker 6: ripped so hard cracking a bottle of wine. I love
• 2:34:10
  Speaker 6: them and I wouldn't be here without you. And if
• 2:34:13
  Speaker 6: the world had our moms, it'd be a better place.
• 2:34:15
  Speaker 6: It's really cool to be on the show with moms
• 2:34:17
  Speaker 6: that rip as hard as the kids do.
• 2:34:19
  Speaker 1: So love you. Yeah, Happy Mother's Day.
• 2:34:25
  Speaker 13: To my mom.
• 2:34:26
  Speaker 1: I the way that you parented me growing up helped
• 2:34:35
  Speaker 1: me articulate and kind of curate the type of parent
• 2:34:40
  Speaker 1: and dad that I want to be with my daughters.
• 2:34:43
  Speaker 1: And just again like it wasn't always easy in our household,
• 2:34:50
  Speaker 1: but the toughness, resilience, intentionality, being fierce and just fucking
• 2:34:57
  Speaker 1: doing the work at all times running on e I
• 2:35:00
  Speaker 1: realized that now way more than I did when it
• 2:35:03
  Speaker 1: was happening. I miss you dearly, and you would have
• 2:35:09
  Speaker 1: been a You would have been an incredible grandmother. I
• 2:35:12
  Speaker 1: know you were so excited. I miss all the ship
• 2:35:16
  Speaker 1: man and happy Mother's Day. I always had this running
• 2:35:20
  Speaker 1: joke like it would be Mother's Day, we'd go out
• 2:35:22
  Speaker 1: to eat, and I would just always make the joke
• 2:35:24
  Speaker 1: when the time comes, I'm going to put you in
• 2:35:26
  Speaker 1: the home.
• 2:35:28
  Speaker 13: And uh.
• 2:35:29
  Speaker 3: I wish I could still say those things to you,
• 2:35:31
  Speaker 3: and UH to my wife.
• 2:35:33
  Speaker 1: Charle, you are You're everything. Adventure, communication are areas where
• 2:35:42
  Speaker 1: I feel like I have uncomfortably grown in because of you.
• 2:35:48
  Speaker 1: Because you love to see the world, you love to travel.
• 2:35:50
  Speaker 1: You were the first one to get me to do
• 2:35:52
  Speaker 1: a vacation longer than four days, and to plan and
• 2:35:57
  Speaker 1: to think ahead. And you teach me so many things
• 2:36:01
  Speaker 1: that in the moment are very hard for myself because
• 2:36:05
  Speaker 1: of how I've been, how I've been conditioned in my
• 2:36:09
  Speaker 1: own right, just as a as a man, and even communication,
• 2:36:13
  Speaker 1: like hard conversations, the highs and lows, being there when
• 2:36:18
  Speaker 1: I fall, sitting and shit with me, teaching me how
• 2:36:23
  Speaker 1: to communicate. It's helped me. The way that you have
• 2:36:26
  Speaker 1: loved me resembles that it's been the most love I've
• 2:36:32
  Speaker 1: ever really felt since my mom, and it's helped me
• 2:36:37
  Speaker 1: love other people because I see the way you love me,
• 2:36:40
  Speaker 1: the way you love our girls, the way you love
• 2:36:43
  Speaker 1: the people in your life has helped me become a
• 2:36:46
  Speaker 1: much better version of myself. And I know I am
• 2:36:50
  Speaker 1: far from perfect and feel very undeserving at times for
• 2:36:54
  Speaker 1: your love, but everything that both of these women have
• 2:36:58
  Speaker 1: collectively taught me, I love you, guys, and Happy Mother's Day,
• 2:37:06
  Speaker 1: and I promise I will find a way to get
• 2:37:10
  Speaker 1: us this picnic because charl loves going on picnics during
• 2:37:13
  Speaker 1: Mother's Day. We don't get to because we were driving
• 2:37:15
  Speaker 1: back from Missouri this weekend. But yeah, man, Happy Mother's
• 2:37:20
  Speaker 1: Day to all of the moms. The work that goes unseen,
• 2:37:24
  Speaker 1: that is invisible, that has not felt in the moment,
• 2:37:27
  Speaker 1: and when perspective hits us all, we all realize how
• 2:37:29
  Speaker 1: much you guys all mean to us and how grateful
• 2:37:32
  Speaker 1: we all we all are for you guys.
• 2:37:35
  Speaker 3: And I hope you guys have a tremendous Mother's Day.
• 2:37:37
  Speaker 3: Papa Team six man, roll out the red.
• 2:37:41
  Speaker 2: Carpet, Roll it out man. Earn that golf trip.
• 2:37:44
  Speaker 3: Earn the golf trip, Earn all the fun stuff we're
• 2:37:46
  Speaker 3: talking about.
• 2:37:48
  Speaker 1: Earn all the fun stuff we talk about.
• 2:37:51
  Speaker 2: Love you fellas, love you guys, love you moms.
• 2:37:57
  Speaker 1: Take out the trash. See you guys next week.