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Men and Their Exs - Do We Really Want To Hear That Our Partner is Still In Love with Their Ex? · DidiLawren

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  Hello and welcome back to another episode of bonds with
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  So for today's episode we're going to be talking about men
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  and their exes. Yes.
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  So this conversation started on Twitter when a Twitter user
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  until early or MOBA, he said, I also very much in love with the
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  last day by dated before marrying my wife, it should have
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  been her, but her mother was very mentally against her
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  marrying outside Catholic. She's everything I ever wanted
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  that my wife isn't. So, when people started coming
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  for him, he went on to say that these Streets can take men
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  sharing their stories. We are always expected to keep
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  quiet about them. My marriage is very much intact.
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  I love my wife children and mother more than anything else
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  in this world learning to live happily every day.
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  So this is the treat that has everybody talking that has a lot
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  of people sharing their stories, especially main because Women
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  are always in a very easy to share War Stories.
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  It's easy for a woman to say that she's still in love with
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  her. Ex most times, we attribute
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  women, Behavior to all. She still hung up on her eggs or
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  she's dick-notized, or she's this.
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  She's still in love with her first boyfriend, she's in love
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  with him because he this virgin happiness.
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  There are so many conversation in terms of women and their
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  feelings. But most times the main nobody
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  talk about these things. And but the reality is men are
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  even more. Hmm, a lot of people are coming
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  out now to see that there are so very much in love with your ex
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  the guys at the men are coming out especially married men.
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  They're coming out to say that they're still very much in love
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  with their exes and some of them give reasons why they were not
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  married. In fact, one of the guy came out
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  to say that he dated his eggs for over 10 years.
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  Years and they have, they terminated about seven different
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  pregnancies and he didn't give a reason why I didn't get married.
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  But he is saying that she is now married with Children.
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  He is married children that he knows that he's still very much
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  in love. The feelings are still there
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  regardless of distance, regardless of whether he's
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  married or not, that he's still in love with this eggs and she
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  basically gave birth. She called him to say that all
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  these child would I In yours. So these things are happening on
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  a daily basis. But do we really want to hear
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  these things? If you're in a relationship, do
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  you really want to hear that your husband or your partner is
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  still in love with your exes? Maybe they dated somebody that
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  knows how to cook very well and they are bombarding you on a
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  daily basis about your cooking skills telling you to improve
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  and all that or maybe their exes maybe feign compliance.
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  Passion and your bit dark talking mocking.
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  Oh by the way came out to say that she bleached her skin
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  because of how boyfriend had your Den husband at the time?
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  Because his ex was a bit fair and he was always he was always
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  going back to the extent. So she felt maybe because she
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  was a bit darker. That is why the husband
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  preferred the eggs. She said she went the extra mile
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  to bleach her skin so that you know the air The husband could
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  leave the eggs and follow her. Did it work?
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  No. What happened?
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  Was that the X when she was now fair enough when she was nine
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  yellow for for the, hold the husband, then proposed married
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  her, and it wasn't even up to two weeks after the marriage.
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  She realized that the husband had already impregnated the
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  eggs. We are they Had a son who child.
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  He had a whole child when he was planning, all this marriage.
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  The X was already pregnant with, you know, their child.
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  And he went ahead to marry talking my quinoa.
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  That was when the whole thing ended and then he went back to
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  the X. So it's sometimes we think it is
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  only women that sneak back. You know, most amount talk about
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  paternity test, it is always women going back to their end.
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  It is always we make going back to the X2, you know, have one
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  last final, goodbye stuff. And then they get pregnant and
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  then they give birth to their child in your husband's house.
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  But the reality is, these women are also sleeping with men who
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  are who are also in love with them.
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  So it's not like who you just sleeping with somebody that you
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  just met on. The street, that doesn't have
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  any feeling for you. I mean, for a man to sleep with
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  a married woman then he must like Like he has thrown caution
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  to the wind, he main men are, in fact, when a man is in love is
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  even more dangerous. When everyone is in low, is it
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  is even more dangerous because they, they don't get to buy it,
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  they don't get over it. And on the other hand, if a man
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  is happy to sit his wife, down to tell her well Ex used to do
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  this, to do that for me, I want you to do the same.
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  I want you to match that same energy from my eggs.
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  Are you expecting how to do that?
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  Knowing that when you married her, you left your eggs to
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  marry. This person who, you know, is
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  not your eggs, they obviously have differences, but you won't
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  have to to turn to you. And ask to, basically, embody
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  your eggs, for you to be happy now, Now, the reality is, this
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  woman also have an ex your girlfriend or your partner also
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  have an X. What if they wake up Monday, to
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  tell you? You know what, my ex had mm 6
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  inches cassava. And you only have a two inches
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  cassava. I want you to measure up to
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  that. I want is a measure of the that
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  for us to be happy. See we cannot all have what we
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  want. There are certain things that
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  you have to as long as you have an ex you know there's a reason
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  why their exes. There is a good reason why that
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  person is your X. So if you're meeting somebody
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  new regardless of how big the cassava is regardless of how you
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  do whatever she was doing to you at that point, In time and they
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  meet somebody new. You have to start all over
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  again. Clean slate, and start with that
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  person. Easy, easy.
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  No, it's not easy. It's not easy because if she's
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  enjoying 6 inches cassava and now you have two inches, she has
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  to manage it to have to manage it.
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  So whatever you were enjoying with your ex, talking to the
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  man. Now, whatever you are enjoying
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  with your eggs and now you're with a new partner.
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  Stop, don't even try to To change that person to behave
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  like your eggs. If it's for the better, I mean,
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  you can make suggestion in terms of how your partner can improve,
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  but if we don't do it just because you want to change, hats
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  be like somebody that she is not.
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  If we're going to be completely open and talk about these
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  things. You know comparing her ex with
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  our new partners. Maybe you just come and you tell
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  me, well your eggs used to do much.
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  So Judas way, that way I have to massage you the same way and I'm
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  telling you, listen my ex has six inches.
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  You have to, you have to look for ways to measure.
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  So that man will not survive. It, he will die of the pressure.
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  He will have high blood pressure, he will be
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  hospitalized. In fact, he will go mad, he will
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  come. And so, why do you want to do
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  that to? Your partner or why do you want
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  to do that to your wife? When you know that in this woman
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  open up and tell you about her own eggs?
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  You know? Take it definitely.
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  You will not take it. I mean we're not saying it is
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  good at me now coming out to actually open up because most
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  times these are the reasons. Why some men have girlfriends.
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  These are some of the reason why men have side chicks.
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  I mean, it's just like the chicken and egg.
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  Kind of conversation where a man is actually been open to say
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  that for me, not to cheat for me, not to have a girlfriend
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  outside. This is what, or this was what
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  my ex was doing to me, or for me that I like, and I want you to
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  continue doing those things to me, or for me.
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  Now, if the woman says no. Yeah, all gets angry that.
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  Why would you even compare me with your ex?
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  Why would you tell me where your ex is doing to you or doing was
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  doing to you then the man probably may go out to get a
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  girlfriend or a side chick is going to do those things to him
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  or for him. I think it just depends on how
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  you're delivering that information.
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  If you're saying it with love. Like okay, I like this.
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  I like that. And don't even put your eggs in
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  that. Cleveland.
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  Don't put your X in the equation.
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  Let's just remove the word eggs. Don't bring your eggs into it,
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  you can sit down and talk to you.
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  Why? For sit down, talk to your
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  partner. You can say these are the things
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  that I like and I would like to, I would like us to try these new
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  things and if she really hmm, maybe he did, maybe he tried
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  having that conversation and she was not having it.
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  And a lot of men are on this table.
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  In lot of men, have a Axes, that they cannot leave a look.
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  In fact, some x's are saving marriages, so X's are saving
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  marriages. If they open their mouth to see,
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  okay, half of married, people will no longer be married.
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  So let us just be. Yes, it is good for men to open
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  up and talk about their feelings.
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  Talk about their wands, talk Buddy.
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  I need instead of going out there to get a girlfriend, get a
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  side chick or the same time. You have to be mindful of your
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  delivery, you Muslim, making you Muslim packages in such a way
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  that it will hurt the person that you're trying to talk to.
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  So communication, I mean Communications on as one of the
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  biggest problems that we have but we just have to find ways
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  put yourself in that person's shoes.
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  You if you are happy for that person to walk up to you and
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  tell you that they are X have six inches and you having four
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  inches. She wants you to measure up to
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  that six inches. If you will, be happy to hear
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  that kind of conversation. If you be happy to to hear that
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  how X is better in certain ways than you are and she's wanting
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  you to do exactly what. It was doing too high.
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  Then if you're happy with that then I think have the
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  conversation. Tell her about your ex tell her
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  everything that your ex was doing to you or for you.
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  And you know. Hmm, let's see how the house
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  survive. So thank you very much for
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  watching today's episode. I let me hear your comments in
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  the comment section. Are you still Attached to your
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  ex. Do you have a new partner that
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  you wish would change to be your ex or do you have an ex that you
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  see to fear Aqua? Hey, go for it.
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  I would never matter what I will, never, regardless of
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  whatever this person is doing, I can never compare that with my
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  new partner. If you're the type that want
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  your ex back, or if you decide, I want to change your new love
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  to your ex. Let me hear your comments in the
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  comment. Let me hear your views, I'd like
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  to know that. So please give this video a
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  whenever I come by but why? Let me hear your views, I'd like
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