When a highly sensitive man is seen but not known (INFJ / INFP)

Lightbearer's Library · Sep 15, 2026 · 15m · transcript

Have you ever had the experience of feeling like a ghost?

You can be there, listening, participating, being kind, and somehow still feel like they don't really see you.

I've been thinking about what it means to be seen, and how different it can feel when someone is actually curious about what's underneath the part of us they can see. I think of myself as an iceberg in this way. There is the part of me that I can easily share with the world, and then there are all these values, ideas, feelings, and ways of seeing things that I sometimes keep close to my chest, especially when I'm afraid they…