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- 0:00Speaker 1: On the Bell Cast, the questions asked if movies have
- 0:04Speaker 1: women in um, are all their discussions just boyfriends and husbands,
- 0:08Speaker 1: or do they have individualism the patriarchy? Zef invest start
- 0:13Speaker 1: changing it with the Bedel Cast. Hello, and welcome to
- 0:17Speaker 1: the Bechdel Cast. My name is Caitlin Darante. My name
- 0:20Speaker 1: is Jamie Loftus, and this is our podcast where we
- 0:23Speaker 1: talk about UH movies from an intersectional feminist lens. Caitlin,
- 0:29Speaker 1: do you have a poem prepared for today? Is there
- 0:34Speaker 1: any anything you'd like to share with the class? Here's
- 0:40Speaker 1: the thing I did. Used to write poetry because I
- 0:44Speaker 1: was once a teenager and and uh, actually this is
- 0:51Speaker 1: something that probably you, Jamie don't know this about me,
- 0:53Speaker 1: nor does really anyone. There was a time where in
- 0:56Speaker 1: my comedy career, I was like, what if I start
- 1:00Speaker 1: writing comedy poetry and that's on to something and that's
- 1:05Speaker 1: what people know me as like I'm the poetry comedian
- 1:11Speaker 1: because I've written several like comedic poems that I'm honestly
- 1:15Speaker 1: very proud of. But I didn't follow through with my plan.
- 1:20Speaker 1: Bring it back. Post pandemic is the perfect time you
- 1:23Speaker 1: can rebrand your the comedy poet again that I feel
- 1:28Speaker 1: like that's been a thing in the pandemic to like
- 1:30Speaker 1: some comedians have like started writing poetry. I don't know.
- 1:34Speaker 1: I am not one of them. I last read poetry
- 1:37Speaker 1: in front of people when I was twelve, and the
- 1:40Speaker 1: reception was really not good. I was like, it was
- 1:44Speaker 1: a poem about like I was like trying to really
- 1:47Speaker 1: like mesh with like the emo trend that was going on.
- 1:50Speaker 1: And so I wrote a poem called not just Eyeliner,
- 1:53Speaker 1: which was really confusing because I did not wear eyeliner
- 1:57Speaker 1: and I never had I wasn't allowed to. And so
- 2:02Speaker 1: I read this whole poem about how I'm more than
- 2:04Speaker 1: just eyeliner, and then someone after classes was like, you
- 2:07Speaker 1: don't wear an eyeliner? And I never wrote another poem
- 2:10Speaker 1: the end, I think that and of itself was a poem.
- 2:16Speaker 1: That story was very poetics. I should have been more
- 2:19Speaker 1: I should have been more confident. I would be like,
- 2:21Speaker 1: clearly you misunderstood it was a metaphor. There's a metaphor.
- 2:26Speaker 1: But instead I was like, I'm sorry and never wrote
- 2:30Speaker 1: a poem again. The movie we're talking about today is
- 2:34Speaker 1: poetic justice, like so hard to not interject right now
- 2:38Speaker 1: because I haven't been interrupted or introduced, so great, please
- 2:44Speaker 1: I have. There's comedy, so there are comedy poems on
- 2:48Speaker 1: like albums of mine, poems in between. Had a friend,
- 2:53Speaker 1: comedian friend I went to college with, and I had
- 2:55Speaker 1: him do interludes for every record I did for like
- 2:57Speaker 1: the first four records, and two of them are poems
- 3:01Speaker 1: because the albums are half rap and half poetry. I
- 3:04Speaker 1: have not been introduced yet, but the poems are funny.
- 3:08Speaker 1: Trust me. I'll tell you who I am later. Let's
- 3:11Speaker 1: just formally introduce you now. The voice you just heard
- 3:17Speaker 1: is that of a poet. Okay, first of all hip
- 3:21Speaker 1: hop artists, activists, host of the podcast Hood Politics. He's
- 3:25Speaker 1: got a poetry book coming out entitled terror Form. It's
- 3:29Speaker 1: Jason Petty a k A propaganda, a k A prop
- 3:32Speaker 1: That's that's me. You just told everybody my government name. Okay,
- 3:36Speaker 1: word but uh yeah, yeah, so wonder poel wanted to
- 3:41Speaker 1: look my homeboy, Alfonso mcfons. He said on my record,
- 3:44Speaker 1: he goes, why did the crip cross the road? Because
- 3:49Speaker 1: that was the end of the poem. I was like,
- 3:52Speaker 1: it's brilliant, it's good, it's good when poetry is funny.
- 3:57Speaker 1: It truly. I was like, it transcends, so I don't know,
- 4:01Speaker 1: I like get really excited, and then I also get
- 4:05Speaker 1: jealous because I'm like, how the fuck right they do that?
- 4:09Speaker 1: There's a line, dude, because there's some poems that are
- 4:12Speaker 1: attempting to be serious, but this, it is hilarious, you
- 4:16Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, because it's like this it's the
- 4:18Speaker 1: fake deep and then you're presenting it as if you're
- 4:22Speaker 1: a character, you know, so it becomes where it's like
- 4:26Speaker 1: I'm not supposed to laugh, but this is super funny,
- 4:30Speaker 1: you know. It's like it's many as many years as
- 4:32Speaker 1: I spent in like open mic scenes and and stuff
- 4:35Speaker 1: like that, and just you know, it's just you. It's
- 4:37Speaker 1: like you're you're a character, and like you don't know it,
- 4:42Speaker 1: and I'm like, I don't I shouldn't be laughing, but
- 4:45Speaker 1: it's so funny. I can't imagine the amount of cringe
- 4:50Speaker 1: you had to sit through it Poetry open mix, because
- 4:52Speaker 1: it's like a stand up of a mix. It's I
- 4:54Speaker 1: feel like a similar like or maybe just a different
- 4:58Speaker 1: a different brand of cringe that you have to sit there. Yeah,
- 5:01Speaker 1: the cringes like So there's two types. Right. There's the like,
- 5:05Speaker 1: especially at open mics, and you know the scene I
- 5:07Speaker 1: came from, it's like we want people to be involved,
- 5:10Speaker 1: like you want people to love the craft, love poetry,
- 5:12Speaker 1: and nobody has any ill thoughts towards a person if
- 5:16Speaker 1: it's like, yo, this is my second poem they've ever written,
- 5:19Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, or like they're just trying.
- 5:21Speaker 1: So there's the air of humility. You know what I'm saying, Um,
- 5:24Speaker 1: that's understandable. It's cringe e. But it's like you know,
- 5:29Speaker 1: you know, you're learning. That's what open mics are for,
- 5:31Speaker 1: that's what you know for comedy, like the one am slot.
- 5:34Speaker 1: It's like this is you're working on something. So it's
- 5:37Speaker 1: like it's dope, Okay, come back next week. You're gonna
- 5:39Speaker 1: get better. Right. But then there's then there's the person
- 5:42Speaker 1: that's like in the name of God, all on the
- 5:44Speaker 1: Ancestors a sha like you know I had to that
- 5:47Speaker 1: walked up there holding sage and instance and you're just like,
- 5:51Speaker 1: what what do you what are you doing? What are
- 5:53Speaker 1: you doing? What are you doing? You know what I'm saying?
- 5:56Speaker 1: And so you're sitting through this like That's what I'm saying.
- 5:59Speaker 1: This like what I like to call the overwoke, Like
- 6:03Speaker 1: just you know, I can't play pool because the game
- 6:06Speaker 1: ain't over to the white ball hit the black ball
- 6:08Speaker 1: into the hole, Like, come on, man, bro, that's not
- 6:11Speaker 1: the that's not the fight dog, Like there's the there's
- 6:14Speaker 1: a fight, we gotta fight. I just don't think this
- 6:15Speaker 1: one's it, you know. So like there's a gang of
- 6:19Speaker 1: cringe you know, but it's the cringe of the one
- 6:22Speaker 1: that swears their brilliant. It's just that's the cringe. Yes,
- 6:25Speaker 1: you know that, But it does feel like kind of
- 6:30Speaker 1: a similar thing of like the cringe of a comedian
- 6:33Speaker 1: who's convinced they're hilarious when they are just demonstrably no
- 6:37Speaker 1: one is laughing. Yes, Like at the end there like
- 6:40Speaker 1: that audience was they didn't get it. I don't know
- 6:44Speaker 1: if they get it. I don't think any of us did. Man,
- 6:47Speaker 1: I'm people in there, not one person. Let's be extremely misunderstood. Goodness. Um,
- 7:00Speaker 1: so probly what's your relationship with the movie Poetic Justice?
- 7:05Speaker 1: Oh man? Where do I start? Um? The relationship? I
- 7:09Speaker 1: mean it may have to do it like my location
- 7:13Speaker 1: and my age group, like and who the director is.
- 7:16Speaker 1: I'm originally from South Central Los Angeles, so and at
- 7:20Speaker 1: the time, I'm in eighth grade, maybe somewhere around middle
- 7:25Speaker 1: school when this when this is happening, you know, I
- 7:28Speaker 1: mean maybe even probably younger than that. But like the
- 7:30Speaker 1: point is it was like black people didn't see ourselves
- 7:33Speaker 1: on camera like this, you know, the director from South Central,
- 7:37Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. The story takes place in
- 7:39Speaker 1: South Central, right, and this was like obviously a launch
- 7:43Speaker 1: of so many other like sort of this like black Hollywood.
- 7:45Speaker 1: It's like new school Black Hollywood that I got to
- 7:48Speaker 1: like really experience this at like, you know, my whole
- 7:52Speaker 1: coming of age. Like everything that came out after this
- 7:55Speaker 1: was with boys in the hood and all this stuff
- 7:57Speaker 1: that was like this takes place in l A. You know.
- 8:00Speaker 1: So there's a very like emotional tie and and I
- 8:05Speaker 1: don't know if it can be understated or overstated the
- 8:09Speaker 1: transcendent nature of Tupac in Janet Jackson to to a
- 8:16Speaker 1: black youth, you know, you know, venturing into you know,
- 8:22Speaker 1: the beginnings of like coming out of childhood into boyhood
- 8:26Speaker 1: that like I just I don't know if there were
- 8:30Speaker 1: bigger stars than that, you know, and at the time,
- 8:36Speaker 1: I mean, it's Janet Jackson Man like coming, it's She's
- 8:41Speaker 1: like I just wonder if I just think, I just
- 8:44Speaker 1: think her mythos would probably be just as legendary as
- 8:50Speaker 1: Tupac if she passed, you know what I'm saying. But
- 8:52Speaker 1: since she lived, you know, she's got to this level
- 8:56Speaker 1: of icon that just Tupac's death and the mystery around
- 8:59Speaker 1: it like created a lot of the mythology. But like
- 9:03Speaker 1: the reality is there were no to human beings more
- 9:07Speaker 1: physically gorgeous, you know what I'm saying. So the relationship
- 9:13Speaker 1: not not only that it's like star studded, It's like
- 9:15Speaker 1: there's like these like deep cuts, like hell q Tip
- 9:18Speaker 1: from a tribe called Quest dies in the first scene,
- 9:21Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So it's like these are
- 9:23Speaker 1: stars for like Black America. Like again, I can't overstate this.
- 9:30Speaker 1: This movie is star studded for like a preteen black kid,
- 9:34Speaker 1: you know. So, which was why doing this pot is
- 9:36Speaker 1: so it's gonna be so painful for me because you
- 9:39Speaker 1: just want to protect you know, the emotional tie I
- 9:43Speaker 1: have to it. Yeah, Yeah, I mean it's like the
- 9:46Speaker 1: the emotional tie is immortal, is Yeah, yeah, Jamie, what
- 9:52Speaker 1: about you? What's your history with it? UM? I've seen
- 9:56Speaker 1: this movie before. I hadn't seen it in a long time.
- 9:58Speaker 1: I remember watching this movie view with friends in high school.
- 10:03Speaker 1: I think this was the first John Singleton movie I
- 10:06Speaker 1: ever saw, which I don't know if that's like you,
- 10:09Speaker 1: But I saw this and then I saw Boys in
- 10:11Speaker 1: the Hood later, which I know is like chronologically out
- 10:14Speaker 1: of order. But I really liked the movie because any
- 10:19Speaker 1: movie where there was a girl as a protagonist, especially
- 10:22Speaker 1: if I knew who it was, I was like, oh,
- 10:24Speaker 1: Jedi Jackson, this is great, And I really I really
- 10:27Speaker 1: liked it UM. And then but I haven't, like, I
- 10:30Speaker 1: haven't gone back to it in in a long time,
- 10:32Speaker 1: and I mean, there's definitely stuff to talk about. And
- 10:37Speaker 1: I also that the history and the um the way
- 10:41Speaker 1: that this movie I just didn't really kind of I
- 10:44Speaker 1: didn't know like the chronology of John Singleton's UM like movies,
- 10:49Speaker 1: and how this movie was made kind of in reaction
- 10:53Speaker 1: to feedback he got from having made Boys in the Hood,
- 10:56Speaker 1: and just the conversation happening around the movie UM is
- 11:00Speaker 1: just as interesting as as the movie itself. So I'm
- 11:03Speaker 1: I'm excited to talk about it. Yeah, it's been I
- 11:06Speaker 1: think at least ten years since I've seen it. What
- 11:08Speaker 1: about you, Caitlin. This is one that I had never
- 11:11Speaker 1: seen before, so I was excited to watch it for
- 11:15Speaker 1: the first time. I was also very caught off guard
- 11:18Speaker 1: when the first face you see in the movie is
- 11:21Speaker 1: Billy Zanes, and I was like, I know, Billy Zane cameo.
- 11:25Speaker 1: You're just like it's going. It was a bit jarring.
- 11:32Speaker 1: I always love to see Billy's Ane, but it's Billy
- 11:34Speaker 1: Zane and Lori Petty right, It's pretty I remember seeing
- 11:38Speaker 1: it in the theaters being like, what are they going, Oh,
- 11:43Speaker 1: it's a movie within a movie. It's a good bait
- 11:46Speaker 1: and switch. I forgot. I completely forgot that it opens
- 11:49Speaker 1: that way and it starts with like, correct me if
- 11:53Speaker 1: I'm wrong. It felt like, uh, like kind of bizarre
- 11:56Speaker 1: Woody Allen reference at the beginning, because they're like playing
- 12:00Speaker 1: Rhapsody and Blue over like the city Escape, and you're like, oh,
- 12:03Speaker 1: this is huh what is happening? And then it's Billy
- 12:06Speaker 1: Zane And then the movie started and you see like
- 12:10Speaker 1: the marquis for the movie at like the drive in
- 12:14Speaker 1: that they're out and in the name of the movie
- 12:17Speaker 1: is Deadly Diva or something like that, which is a
- 12:22Speaker 1: play on Sem Fei Tao obviously, which is a is
- 12:25Speaker 1: the title of a movie that Billy Zane was in
- 12:28Speaker 1: a couple of years earlier. So I did not know
- 12:31Speaker 1: that quite an easter egg. I liked that, um, that Justice.
- 12:37Speaker 1: It's going to be so hard for me to not
- 12:38Speaker 1: just say Janet Jackson that Justice. Um in that first
- 12:43Speaker 1: scene is like, this movie is really good. I was like, Oh,
- 12:46Speaker 1: it isn't she's talking about But Billy Zane isn't it?
- 12:51Speaker 1: So it's amazing. So in a way, she's completely right.
- 12:56Speaker 1: But anyway, yeah, I hadn't seen this movie. I was
- 12:58Speaker 1: excited to see it, and I'm excited. Who talk about it?
- 13:02Speaker 1: So should we get into the recap and go from there? Yeah,
- 13:07Speaker 1: and prop jump in whenever for the recap. The recap
- 13:10Speaker 1: is open seasons. It is so we like I said,
- 13:15Speaker 1: see Billy Zane and Lori Petty. It's revealed that they
- 13:19Speaker 1: are characters in a movie that Justice. Janet Jackson and
- 13:24Speaker 1: her boyfriend Marquel are watching at a drive in movie
- 13:28Speaker 1: theater in South central l A. But during the movie,
- 13:32Speaker 1: Marquel is shot and killed by a couple of guys
- 13:35Speaker 1: he had had some conflict with a few days prior there.
- 13:39Speaker 1: Let me let me jump in here. Uh, there's there's
- 13:42Speaker 1: some there's some like hood Easter eggs in this too
- 13:45Speaker 1: is like so obviously it opens once upon a time
- 13:48Speaker 1: in South central l A. The drive ins in Compton. Though,
- 13:53Speaker 1: so there's like hood shit happening because if you at
- 13:59Speaker 1: the time, if you're from south central, we have no
- 14:02Speaker 1: business going down to content, you know what I'm saying,
- 14:05Speaker 1: because like unless you know somebody down there, you shouldn't
- 14:08Speaker 1: be down there, you know what I'm saying. So but look,
- 14:12Speaker 1: everybody on a date, you ain't worried about it. He
- 14:14Speaker 1: probably forgot about the thing, you know what I'm saying.
- 14:16Speaker 1: And you see him looking in the mirror. Like there
- 14:17Speaker 1: were scenes in that that were so triggering is not
- 14:21Speaker 1: the word, but very familiar, you know what I mean.
- 14:25Speaker 1: So like that's the type of stuff that like if
- 14:27Speaker 1: you from for us, why this part of this movie
- 14:29Speaker 1: was so iconic. It makes you know the directors from
- 14:32Speaker 1: here because those things are like, Okay, yeah, that's that,
- 14:37Speaker 1: that's what would happen, because he wouldn't get shot in
- 14:40Speaker 1: his own hood, like, nobody would do that, and from
- 14:42Speaker 1: South Central one would do that. In South Central you
- 14:44Speaker 1: are you are on the other side of town, you know,
- 14:46Speaker 1: you further south. So that's a it's a just an
- 14:49Speaker 1: interesting like moment. And then again it's cu Tip from
- 14:52Speaker 1: a tribe called quest Like and I'm going, I'm at
- 14:56Speaker 1: the age when this movie is coming out that I'm
- 14:58Speaker 1: like falling in of with turns out what I'm gonna
- 15:01Speaker 1: do for the rest of my life. So I'm falling
- 15:03Speaker 1: in love with hip hop, you know. So to see
- 15:06Speaker 1: Tip in a movie, I was like, wait, rappers, can
- 15:10Speaker 1: you can be in movies? And I knew Tupac was
- 15:13Speaker 1: the star, but he don't count Tupac already in the stratosphere.
- 15:18Speaker 1: He's gone. But like I was like, but this, but Tip, okay,
- 15:23Speaker 1: he got to kiss you Jackson, you know, yeah, and
- 15:29Speaker 1: and and there and everyone is good in this movie too.
- 15:31Speaker 1: It's like whenever that the musician to actor pipeline is
- 15:35Speaker 1: not effective, but in this movie, I feel like it
- 15:38Speaker 1: very much works. Yes for sure. Yeah. So after the
- 15:44Speaker 1: death of Marquel, some time passes, Justice writes poetry to
- 15:49Speaker 1: help her cope with her grief and to just generally
- 15:52Speaker 1: make sense of the world. But it's all Maya Angelou
- 15:56Speaker 1: poetry that is happening throughout the movie, and some of
- 16:00Speaker 1: it like I don't know. I was like, maybe I
- 16:02Speaker 1: just didn't know a lot of her poetry when I
- 16:06Speaker 1: saw this the first time, But now I was like,
- 16:07Speaker 1: oh wait, wait, that's it's a phenomenal woman. I know,
- 16:14Speaker 1: but it's so I mean, it weaves in so seamlessly.
- 16:17Speaker 1: It's yeah, And I feel like that's a really good
- 16:19Speaker 1: choice by John Singleton to to just like go to
- 16:23Speaker 1: the master and not be like, let's see how this goes,
- 16:27Speaker 1: because yeah, and it's like it's almost like it's like
- 16:31Speaker 1: feminism for his time, because I don't know who's more
- 16:35Speaker 1: who's more iconic than my Angelo, like you know what
- 16:38Speaker 1: I'm saying. And to say that that's the driving voice
- 16:40Speaker 1: of this film, I guess in ninety one you could
- 16:43Speaker 1: be like this is feminism, you know what I mean
- 16:45Speaker 1: I mean by yeah, by by just like including women's
- 16:50Speaker 1: voices at all as a male writer write about women.
- 16:52Speaker 1: It's like the bar is low, but that's not nothing.
- 16:55Speaker 1: And her poetry, and I was also just like so
- 17:00Speaker 1: psyched at her at her cameo later in the aunt
- 17:07Speaker 1: June and then so we hear this poetry as voiceover
- 17:11Speaker 1: throughout the entire movie. It kind of comes in and out.
- 17:15Speaker 1: Um professionally, Justice is a hairstylist. Aisha played by Regina
- 17:21Speaker 1: King is one of Justice's clients and best friend. The
- 17:26Speaker 1: salon owner, Jesse played by Tyra Farrell, asks Justice when
- 17:31Speaker 1: she's gonna get over Marquel and find herself a good
- 17:34Speaker 1: man as if on cue a postman. Lucky that's Tupac
- 17:40Speaker 1: enters the salon, flirts with Justice, but she kind of
- 17:45Speaker 1: works with him and he's like, never mind. And then
- 17:49Speaker 1: Lucky's friend Chicago played by Joe Torrey, asks him to
- 17:55Speaker 1: come along on a drive to Oakland. He's bringing his girlfriend,
- 18:00Speaker 1: so Lucky asks if he can hook him up with
- 18:02Speaker 1: one of Chicago's girlfriend's friends. Right here, real quick. Again,
- 18:06Speaker 1: another like uh thing that the rest of us are
- 18:10Speaker 1: catching is like again, okay, obviously, Regina King becomes the
- 18:16Speaker 1: Regina King we all know now, but at the time,
- 18:19Speaker 1: at least for our community. Again, she's already a star,
- 18:23Speaker 1: you know, so she was, you know, she had the
- 18:26Speaker 1: two to seven, a little sitcom when she was she
- 18:29Speaker 1: was a little girl. And then Joe Torre was like
- 18:31Speaker 1: the host of Comic View and like deaf comedy jam.
- 18:34Speaker 1: So these dudes, Like again, it was like this movie
- 18:39Speaker 1: is so stacked, you know, and like and I can't
- 18:43Speaker 1: get over. Like that was one thing that like, now
- 18:46Speaker 1: as an adult looking back at it, I was like, dang, John,
- 18:49Speaker 1: he broke the bank for this thing, man, because this
- 18:51Speaker 1: this mug is stacked, right. And then the second thing
- 18:54Speaker 1: I was thinking about two is like, now looking back,
- 18:58Speaker 1: I'm like, Pockets supposed used to be our Lucky's character
- 19:02Speaker 1: is supposed to be he's one of the good ones.
- 19:05Speaker 1: And I'm like, and that's the juxtaposition because again the
- 19:08Speaker 1: bars low he's got a job, you know what I'm saying,
- 19:12Speaker 1: He wants to take care of his kids. He sees
- 19:15Speaker 1: the gangster dudes doing the thing, he's choosing to do
- 19:17Speaker 1: something else, you know what I'm saying. So you're supposed
- 19:20Speaker 1: to see him as not as toxic as all the
- 19:25Speaker 1: other Now I'm just like I look at him now
- 19:27Speaker 1: and I'm just like this the bare minimum bat like.
- 19:30Speaker 1: But but at the time I was like, yeah, man, Luck,
- 19:33Speaker 1: you're good dude, you know. Yeah, well, I mean he
- 19:38Speaker 1: that that comes up pretty early in the movie too,
- 19:41Speaker 1: that like he's he's a father and he takes his
- 19:44Speaker 1: kid out of like a really toxic situation at home
- 19:48Speaker 1: and goes home with his mom. Yeah, yeah, that's what
- 19:51Speaker 1: happens next. But he negs women every step of the
- 19:55Speaker 1: way the whole time, like every you got something to say.
- 20:03Speaker 1: We also learned about his musical aspirations. He one of
- 20:07Speaker 1: the reasons he wants to go to Oakland. They're on
- 20:10Speaker 1: like a postal service run. But he also intends to
- 20:15Speaker 1: meet up with his cousin Khalil, because they're both aspiring
- 20:19Speaker 1: musicians who like collaborate on different things. Meanwhile, it turns
- 20:25Speaker 1: out that Aisha is the one who is dating Chicago
- 20:30Speaker 1: So and when he asks if she knows anyone who
- 20:35Speaker 1: like she can hook Lucky up with, she's like, oh yeah,
- 20:38Speaker 1: my friend Justice. Hey, Justice, take this drive with us.
- 20:43Speaker 1: And she's like no thanks, But she ends up going
- 20:46Speaker 1: anyway because she and Jesse have a hair show in
- 20:51Speaker 1: Oakland and her car won't start, so she's like, well,
- 20:54Speaker 1: I guess I'll get a ride in this mail truck.
- 20:56Speaker 1: So when she shows up, she's like, wait a minute,
- 20:58Speaker 1: I recognize this guy, and so she and lucky. You're
- 21:03Speaker 1: both kind of like yea, you know, they have this
- 21:05Speaker 1: little history of like her him hitting on her, her
- 21:09Speaker 1: rejecting him, so they're like and then it turns into
- 21:12Speaker 1: this fun road movie. My sister is uh, quite a
- 21:18Speaker 1: few years outer than me, so she's actually at the time,
- 21:21Speaker 1: she's like the age of the characters, and so like
- 21:25Speaker 1: there's not one outfit that Justice is wearing that my
- 21:29Speaker 1: sister didn't have, you know what I mean, almost like
- 21:31Speaker 1: like this girl looks like my sister, you know, all
- 21:33Speaker 1: of the burning the edges of her braids, Like it's
- 21:35Speaker 1: like this is the way we lived, you know. And um,
- 21:37Speaker 1: but I remember asking my sister. I used to always
- 21:40Speaker 1: ask because like she always had these quick comebacks when
- 21:45Speaker 1: you know, guys were hitting on her. Since I was
- 21:47Speaker 1: so much younger, I was always her alibi. So I
- 21:49Speaker 1: went to so many things that I probably shouldn't have
- 21:51Speaker 1: gone to you because I was the alibi for her
- 21:55Speaker 1: to tell our parents, you know what I'm saying, Like,
- 21:57Speaker 1: you know, tell my mom where she was. Yeah, she
- 22:00Speaker 1: was just like oh, you know, like she would pick
- 22:02Speaker 1: me up from school and I'd be like, oh, thanks
- 22:04Speaker 1: for the right home. We'd end up somewhere in Burbank.
- 22:08Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, at like some dude's house.
- 22:11Speaker 1: You know, they're breaking up bricks. You know what I'm saying,
- 22:13Speaker 1: Because she's hollering at the boy. You know, So I
- 22:16Speaker 1: was just her alibi, right, So anyway, UM like, hey,
- 22:19Speaker 1: you want to go get Jack in the box and
- 22:21Speaker 1: on jacket. But we'd stopped by seven other houses were jack.
- 22:24Speaker 1: The point is I was always in these like adult situations.
- 22:28Speaker 1: I probably shouldn't have been it, but I used to
- 22:30Speaker 1: always witness her shoot dudes down, and she would get
- 22:33Speaker 1: creative after a while and and like little things like
- 22:37Speaker 1: it was like hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, you got
- 22:39Speaker 1: a name? And she'd be like don't everybody? Or so
- 22:44Speaker 1: can I get your number? It's like you gotta get
- 22:46Speaker 1: your own. So she would like she was just super creative,
- 22:49Speaker 1: and I just remember thinking like, why are you so mean?
- 22:52Speaker 1: And that was because you know, I'm a little boy.
- 22:54Speaker 1: So I was just like, and I'm still nervous to
- 22:56Speaker 1: like walk up to like Yalanda Zalez and ask her
- 23:00Speaker 1: to dance, you know what I'm saying, Like, I'm still
- 23:02Speaker 1: just a nerd kids, So I'm just like, why are
- 23:05Speaker 1: you that would kill me if Yolanda said that to me,
- 23:09Speaker 1: Like I would never ask anyone ever, like why are
- 23:12Speaker 1: you so mean? You know? And she was just trying
- 23:15Speaker 1: to explain to me, like Jason, this happens every day
- 23:19Speaker 1: all the time. Every day She's like, fools, don't understand no,
- 23:23Speaker 1: like you just you And after a while it just
- 23:25Speaker 1: gets boring. So You're like, I'm just gonna entertain myself.
- 23:28Speaker 1: But at the time, I was like, Okay, dang, my
- 23:31Speaker 1: sister's mean, you know, so the way so the way
- 23:35Speaker 1: that she the way Justice just kept shutting his food down,
- 23:38Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. I was like, no, wonder
- 23:41Speaker 1: he's so mad, you know what I'm saying. She just mean,
- 23:43Speaker 1: why are you so mean? You know? Not like I mean,
- 23:47Speaker 1: here had two sisters, I had another sister, same way.
- 23:49Speaker 1: But she used to just stare my other My other
- 23:51Speaker 1: sisters passed away. She was just staring dudes. They would
- 23:54Speaker 1: say stuff, she would just look at them, just silent.
- 23:56Speaker 1: That's the ultimate punishment too. I wish I had I
- 23:59Speaker 1: wish I had the Constitution to do any of this.
- 24:01Speaker 1: This sounds amazing. Dog, my sid they were cold, my sisters,
- 24:06Speaker 1: they were cold, say but like, and I honestly it
- 24:11Speaker 1: wasn't until adulthood that I really understood like you, oh
- 24:17Speaker 1: oh you just because I was like, dog, I would
- 24:20Speaker 1: be crushed. I mean if I said this to me,
- 24:23Speaker 1: you know. But I'm also not going like, I'm not
- 24:26Speaker 1: doing that either. I'm saying so probably why nobody's saying
- 24:29Speaker 1: it to me makes a difference. Yes, oh yeah, she's
- 24:35Speaker 1: just reacting to being constantly harassed basically. Um So that's
- 24:44Speaker 1: what happens. For the first chunk of this trip where
- 24:48Speaker 1: they set off on this drive to Oakland, Justice and
- 24:51Speaker 1: Lucky do not get along. He's like, why are you
- 24:54Speaker 1: so quiet? Why are you so mean? You're so stuck up?
- 24:56Speaker 1: And then he calls her a bit several times. They
- 24:59Speaker 1: get into a screaming match, which results in Justice getting
- 25:03Speaker 1: out of the mail truck in the middle of nowhere.
- 25:05Speaker 1: Lucky drives off, but Aisha is like, do you have
- 25:08Speaker 1: to stop and go back and pick up my friends?
- 25:10Speaker 1: What are you gonna do? They're like hours away, and
- 25:12Speaker 1: I was like, oh no, that was clearly the grape vine.
- 25:14Speaker 1: If you're from l A, You're like, that's the grape
- 25:19Speaker 1: There's nothing there. Don't get out the car there and
- 25:21Speaker 1: no one's gonna no one's gonna drive by for a while,
- 25:24Speaker 1: no one's gonna see Yeah, So they go back and
- 25:28Speaker 1: get her. Justice eventually gets back in. They make a
- 25:31Speaker 1: stop where Chicago and Lucky talk about women in relationships,
- 25:37Speaker 1: Justice and Asia talk about men. This is what again.
- 25:40Speaker 1: John Singleton's brilliance is like he sneaks in an amazing
- 25:45Speaker 1: socio cultural lesson in the same way Boys in the
- 25:49Speaker 1: Hood has this like one moment about gentrification that's like
- 25:53Speaker 1: so iconic where Lawrence Fishburn is teaching them about ownership
- 25:56Speaker 1: and like gentrification and stuff like that. In this moment,
- 25:59Speaker 1: they're just at this your store and she's like, yo,
- 26:01Speaker 1: where the oldie that's like old English like malt liquor.
- 26:04Speaker 1: Justice is like, oh, they don't sell that outside the hood,
- 26:08Speaker 1: And it's like that just quick, like you know what
- 26:10Speaker 1: I'm saying that quick like ha, like this just he
- 26:14Speaker 1: he just sneaks these like singers in, you know what
- 26:18Speaker 1: I'm saying that are a part of the story. So
- 26:20Speaker 1: you don't feel like you're being preached at you know, yeah,
- 26:24Speaker 1: totally yeah. And then they leave from that little rest
- 26:29Speaker 1: stop or whatever, and then they're driving again, they smell
- 26:32Speaker 1: some barbecue. They realize it's coming from the Johnson family
- 26:37Speaker 1: reunion and they're like, oh, let's stop and see if
- 26:41Speaker 1: we can get some food. Um, which works. They mistake
- 26:46Speaker 1: them for being part of this family and then beat
- 26:52Speaker 1: This is my favorite scene in the movie by far.
- 26:55Speaker 1: I loved this family reunion. UM. During this time, also
- 27:00Speaker 1: Justice and Lucky chat a bit. They start to find
- 27:04Speaker 1: some common ground. Then Aisha and Chicago get in a
- 27:09Speaker 1: huge fight. They have to leave the family reunion and
- 27:13Speaker 1: get back on the road. Justice calls Aisha out for
- 27:16Speaker 1: her alcohol abuse. They then make another stop at an
- 27:21Speaker 1: African cultural fair. Justice and Lucky keep warming up to
- 27:27Speaker 1: each other. Meanwhile, Aisha and Chicago's relationship is falling apart.
- 27:32Speaker 1: I think it really like speaks to the pacing that
- 27:36Speaker 1: John Singleton is able to achieve here, where like by
- 27:40Speaker 1: the time they got to the fair, I was like,
- 27:41Speaker 1: this is all happening in one day day, like, which
- 27:46Speaker 1: makes sense for that drive, but I was like, it's
- 27:49Speaker 1: just paste so like methodically of like whatever you can
- 27:53Speaker 1: tell kind of early it's like, Oh, Janet Jackson is
- 27:55Speaker 1: going to she's going to fix him, She's going to
- 27:58Speaker 1: change him to it too, or that's where it seems
- 28:00Speaker 1: like it's going and it happens in the day and
- 28:03Speaker 1: it's like again, it's it's stupid. I just I just
- 28:07Speaker 1: bleed Los Angeles or California. So I just noticed this
- 28:10Speaker 1: type stuff that they chose to take pH rather than
- 28:13Speaker 1: the five. Yeah, and it's like three hours longer to
- 28:17Speaker 1: go a pH. So it's like, this is the worst
- 28:20Speaker 1: way to go, you know, in your mail carriers. Don't
- 28:22Speaker 1: you know that? You know? But how you going to
- 28:25Speaker 1: have like the iconic like beach scenes because you're definitely
- 28:28Speaker 1: not going to get like a Pan African festival, you
- 28:31Speaker 1: know what I'm saying going through Fresno. Yeah, you know
- 28:35Speaker 1: it's dairy farms, you know. So I get it that
- 28:39Speaker 1: you had to do that for the look, but yeah,
- 28:41Speaker 1: like you don't hit you until, like you said that,
- 28:43Speaker 1: you're like, wait, this was a day, you know, like
- 28:47Speaker 1: a lesser writer could have really made it feel like
- 28:50Speaker 1: a day. But it just like everyone does go through
- 28:53Speaker 1: like some manner of an arc in the space of
- 28:56Speaker 1: like whatever ten am to eight at night. I also
- 29:01Speaker 1: love how Lucky keeps being like we have a schedule
- 29:04Speaker 1: to stick to, we have to like we gotta get
- 29:06Speaker 1: there at a certain time, so let's take the PC
- 29:09Speaker 1: and three hours to the drive. Yes, it's ridiculous goodness.
- 29:17Speaker 1: So these relationships are these dynamics are changing Chicago and
- 29:22Speaker 1: Aisha's relationship is falling apart. Chicago hits Aisha and there's
- 29:29Speaker 1: some violence there. So they leave Chicago behind. They're like,
- 29:33Speaker 1: fuck you dude. He lenges a justice as well, doesn't he. Yeah, yeah,
- 29:38Speaker 1: that's what said Lucky off to be like all right,
- 29:40Speaker 1: because at first he was like, it has none of
- 29:41Speaker 1: my business, you know, and it's like just when you're
- 29:44Speaker 1: ready to like like Lucky, yeah, and then he's like,
- 29:47Speaker 1: I'm not gonna jump, not gonna intervene when a woman
- 29:50Speaker 1: is being by your friends. Yeah. It's so crazy because
- 29:54Speaker 1: it's like and then now I'm being generous here, but
- 29:58Speaker 1: it's like in something just he's like that fool's my coworker.
- 30:03Speaker 1: We just get along like we're not wait really homies,
- 30:06Speaker 1: Like this is funny? Is my friend freeds a work friend?
- 30:10Speaker 1: You know? And again I'm obviously I don't feel like this,
- 30:14Speaker 1: but he's like, I Usha is mouthy. She is kind
- 30:17Speaker 1: of like berating him at a level. Well, I probably
- 30:21Speaker 1: obviously I wouldn't date somebody that toxic or be in
- 30:23Speaker 1: a relationship that toxic already. But the point is is like,
- 30:27Speaker 1: rather than crying, which is what any other well processed
- 30:31Speaker 1: human would do, at that moment, he decides to hit her,
- 30:34Speaker 1: you know, and then when he lunches at justice is
- 30:37Speaker 1: when yeah, he jumps in. But I I I remember
- 30:41Speaker 1: feeling like Regina King is the most familiar character in
- 30:47Speaker 1: this in the way that she's playing it, because again,
- 30:50Speaker 1: it's one of those things where you're like, oh, you're
- 30:52Speaker 1: really from here, like you're really from Los Angeles, and
- 30:55Speaker 1: I can tell you know, Janet, it's kind of hard
- 30:59Speaker 1: to suspend really because we're like, well, you're a Jackson, right,
- 31:02Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, yeah, you know you
- 31:06Speaker 1: were Michael Jackson's little sister, Like how I can't you
- 31:11Speaker 1: didn't go to Crunshaw High, Like I know you didn't,
- 31:14Speaker 1: So it's kind of hard. You played the hell out
- 31:16Speaker 1: of that role. But it's kind of hard like Regina,
- 31:18Speaker 1: you like naht and vernth like I know you from here,
- 31:23Speaker 1: you know, I'm saying. So the way that she was
- 31:26Speaker 1: just like got dog, the way she was tearing that
- 31:29Speaker 1: food down, you know what I'm saying, and uh it
- 31:32Speaker 1: to me, it just it's just highlighted, like to get bigger,
- 31:37Speaker 1: to get like more meta. Here, just highlighted just how
- 31:40Speaker 1: you guys talk about intersectional like what interlocking systems of
- 31:43Speaker 1: injustice does, how institutionalized racism, how it eventually trickles down
- 31:51Speaker 1: to us hating each other, you know what I'm saying,
- 31:55Speaker 1: and never having the space to process that hate, and
- 31:59Speaker 1: it turns into clear and evident domestic violence, you know
- 32:04Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So much so that again within our community,
- 32:08Speaker 1: there's one thing, there's one thing that black people learn,
- 32:11Speaker 1: especially when you grow up the way I grow up
- 32:13Speaker 1: is mind your fucking business, Joe saying, like you look,
- 32:17Speaker 1: I hear what's going on over there. We don't call
- 32:19Speaker 1: the police. Where I'm from, police mess around, shoot me.
- 32:22Speaker 1: I'm the one that called. They go, so we don't
- 32:24Speaker 1: call it. You stay out of their business. They stay
- 32:26Speaker 1: out of mind. We don't know what they got going on,
- 32:28Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And most of the time
- 32:29Speaker 1: it's for better or for worse, you know, but like look,
- 32:32Speaker 1: they just now they're crazy. You just stay out of that, Like,
- 32:35Speaker 1: don't worry don't get in the middle of that. You
- 32:36Speaker 1: don't know, you don't know which one of them connected.
- 32:38Speaker 1: You mess around, they mess around, called their cousin. You
- 32:40Speaker 1: catch a spray bullet for standing up in the middle
- 32:42Speaker 1: of this. Stay out of it, you know what I'm saying.
- 32:44Speaker 1: And all of that toxicity just sits in our like
- 32:48Speaker 1: just in our community, so that like the obvious answer
- 32:52Speaker 1: right now is to funk out the car and stop this,
- 32:55Speaker 1: like you know what I'm saying, or not even don't
- 32:57Speaker 1: even let it get there, like the minute they start,
- 32:59Speaker 1: like Okay, y'all, you know what I'm saying, Like you
- 33:02Speaker 1: stopped that before even gets to that. But you just
- 33:04Speaker 1: learned from being in such a like just growing up
- 33:08Speaker 1: with such toxicity to like, no, let me stay out
- 33:10Speaker 1: of that. You all know, you know what I mean? Yeah, Yeah,
- 33:13Speaker 1: That's part of what I'm really interested to talk about
- 33:17Speaker 1: Lucky in general, because it seems like he is like
- 33:20Speaker 1: on a kind of path towards like altering some of
- 33:23Speaker 1: those But but I feel like the movie does kind
- 33:25Speaker 1: of give you the context of why he feels that way,
- 33:28Speaker 1: even when you're like I completely disagree with what he's
- 33:32Speaker 1: either tolerated or how he's acting. I feel like John
- 33:35Speaker 1: Singleton does do a good job of giving you the
- 33:37Speaker 1: context of like this is not a vacuum. Yeah. Yeah,
- 33:41Speaker 1: because when you think of Lucky's character, you juxtaposed that
- 33:44Speaker 1: to tone Loke, which was the other baby daddy who's
- 33:49Speaker 1: also remarkably famous at the time, you know what I'm saying.
- 33:52Speaker 1: So you you juxtaposed it to him, to the dude
- 33:56Speaker 1: that you know, his baby mama was sleeping with, to
- 33:59Speaker 1: the hood that the you know, the project building that
- 34:01Speaker 1: they live in, and then the homies that drive up
- 34:04Speaker 1: that got guns in the car. You're like, you juxtapose
- 34:07Speaker 1: who Lucky is in relation to what he's around all
- 34:10Speaker 1: the time. You're like, I understand you. I understand that
- 34:14Speaker 1: you believe you are making the better choices, you know,
- 34:18Speaker 1: And that's like that's the part that like again, it's
- 34:21Speaker 1: like if I could put that like on that emotion
- 34:25Speaker 1: on billboards, especially when we start talking about police brutality
- 34:29Speaker 1: and George Floyd and stuff like that, when you move
- 34:31Speaker 1: into things like please understand the context here, you know
- 34:34Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like, there's a lot of hurdles were
- 34:36Speaker 1: jumping over, you know, and it's not it's not an excuse,
- 34:39Speaker 1: but again it's context, right, and you even see police
- 34:43Speaker 1: hassling people in the neighborhood. Yeah, the movie is not
- 34:47Speaker 1: about that, but it's something that you get a glimpse
- 34:50Speaker 1: of because like this is their reality. It's another like
- 34:54Speaker 1: very yeah, really smooth John Singleton, like the like you're
- 34:57Speaker 1: saying prop with like the convenience start a scene where
- 35:00Speaker 1: it's just like something that happens, and then they keep
- 35:03Speaker 1: moving through the world. But it's like, oh yeah, that
- 35:06Speaker 1: is like a very intentionally done for sure. So let's
- 35:11Speaker 1: see they've let they've left Chicago behind. Justice and Lucky
- 35:16Speaker 1: get even closer. He talks more about his musical aspirations.
- 35:21Speaker 1: She tells him about her family history. They finally kiss,
- 35:26Speaker 1: and I believe it's implied they have sex. If I'm
- 35:29Speaker 1: not mistaken that we cut a chat with a blanket.
- 35:33Speaker 1: You're just like maybe, I don't know. It's like it's
- 35:36Speaker 1: sunset there. Well, the main indication is shortly after that
- 35:41Speaker 1: they're back in the car and Lucky he's like, I
- 35:44Speaker 1: have to tell you something and she's like, oh no,
- 35:47Speaker 1: you're not gonna tell me that you have something as
- 35:49Speaker 1: in like an s T I I was like no, no, no,
- 35:53Speaker 1: nothing like that. I have a daughter. And she's like, well,
- 35:57Speaker 1: why didn't you tell me that? Sooner? The ultimate sexually
- 36:01Speaker 1: transmitted um right yo. I was actually pretty taken back
- 36:08Speaker 1: as to like why she reacted so largely about him
- 36:12Speaker 1: having a child, because I was like, wait, why, like
- 36:16Speaker 1: why is she furious about this like that? I I
- 36:20Speaker 1: guess again like product of my time, Like I wouldn't
- 36:23Speaker 1: I would have been relieved if somebody would have been like,
- 36:25Speaker 1: I have something to tell you that I would be nervous.
- 36:27Speaker 1: And she was like, yo, did you just give me something?
- 36:30Speaker 1: And then he's like no, I have a daughter. Oh
- 36:33Speaker 1: all right, cool? How old is she? You know what
- 36:35Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, tell me about her? Do you have
- 36:36Speaker 1: any pictures? Like? You know, Like I feel like that
- 36:38Speaker 1: would have been such a relief rather than like outraged,
- 36:42Speaker 1: you know, I was kind of I mean, there's like
- 36:44Speaker 1: a few points in how Justice has written that I'm
- 36:47Speaker 1: a little kind of confused on like the choices that
- 36:50Speaker 1: were made that is like set up, and I think
- 36:54Speaker 1: is it's at the family reunion scene where Justice says
- 36:57Speaker 1: something like or maybe it's in that scene where it's
- 36:59Speaker 1: just their thoughts are being voiceovered while they're at the beach,
- 37:04Speaker 1: where she's like, oh, he looks like he has a kid,
- 37:07Speaker 1: or like I I feel like it was implied that
- 37:09Speaker 1: maybe she was like that's too much work, that's too
- 37:12Speaker 1: much like, yeah, I don't really know. It was kind
- 37:15Speaker 1: of unclear um why. Yeah, she does ask him about
- 37:21Speaker 1: it at the family reunion. She's like, oh, you seem
- 37:23Speaker 1: like the type who would have a kid, and rather
- 37:26Speaker 1: than confirming that at the time, he's just like he
- 37:29Speaker 1: says like, ha ha, anyway, I'll never tell Oh yeah, yeah,
- 37:34Speaker 1: I forgot about that part because she was kind of like, yeah,
- 37:37Speaker 1: like dragging him as if like you got baby stashed
- 37:40Speaker 1: everywhere you don't even take it care of, you know
- 37:41Speaker 1: what I mean. He's like, yeah, you don't even know,
- 37:43Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Yeah, because he's a good dad, yeah,
- 37:48Speaker 1: relatively stomping out of somebody yeah yeah, and then leaving
- 37:56Speaker 1: her for the weekend with his mom, which she told
- 38:00Speaker 1: him not to do. She's like, I'm raising this using
- 38:03Speaker 1: this baby. Take it back back anyway. So right as
- 38:09Speaker 1: this is all happening, they have arrived in Oakland, only
- 38:13Speaker 1: to discover that Lucky's cousin Khalil has just been shot
- 38:16Speaker 1: and killed, and Lucky is devastated and he tells Justice like, oh,
- 38:24Speaker 1: if we had gotten here sooner, this would have never happened.
- 38:27Speaker 1: And he blames Justice and the time they spent together
- 38:31Speaker 1: for like not allowing him to prevent this from happening
- 38:34Speaker 1: to Khalil, and he storms off. Justice is very hurt.
- 38:39Speaker 1: She This is when we get the voice over poem
- 38:43Speaker 1: Phenomenal Woman Lucky. We see him dealing with his grief,
- 38:48Speaker 1: and then sometime later back in l A, Lucky brings
- 38:51Speaker 1: his daughter Kesha into the salon where Justice works. He apologizes,
- 38:56Speaker 1: they kiss and make up, and the movie ends with
- 39:00Speaker 1: Justice doing Keisha's hair. So that's the story. Let's take
- 39:05Speaker 1: a quick break and we will come back to discuss,
- 39:16Speaker 1: and we're back where to the beginning here. There's there's
- 39:19Speaker 1: so much to talk about. Is there anything that jumps
- 39:23Speaker 1: out to you right away? Prop? I mean, it's hard
- 39:26Speaker 1: to not think about it in terms of like when
- 39:29Speaker 1: I first saw it versus you know, a married man
- 39:34Speaker 1: with two children. Now you know what I'm saying, Like
- 39:36Speaker 1: it's kind of like there's like two mes you know
- 39:40Speaker 1: watching it? Now you know what I'm saying um, and
- 39:43Speaker 1: the me when I first saw it again as like
- 39:47Speaker 1: a preteen just mesmerized with the posters on my wall
- 39:51Speaker 1: just came to life in this movie. You know what
- 39:53Speaker 1: I'm saying, Um in the city that I grew up in.
- 39:57Speaker 1: You know. So there's so much like black star power
- 40:01Speaker 1: in there that that like emotions kind of like override
- 40:05Speaker 1: a lot of the like clear problematic. You know what
- 40:09Speaker 1: I'm saying things now as a father that I'm just like,
- 40:12Speaker 1: damn man um. So yeah, So I think that like
- 40:15Speaker 1: the idea of like at one time I saw the
- 40:19Speaker 1: women in this film as strong as leads. As Like
- 40:25Speaker 1: I'm like, no, this is a great depiction of women,
- 40:28Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, you know, like what
- 40:30Speaker 1: do you mean? Like she's a business owner. She's telling
- 40:33Speaker 1: her men ain't ship, you know, and you know she like,
- 40:36Speaker 1: you know, she doing her thing, and that was in
- 40:38Speaker 1: a bad relationship, but you know that happens, you know,
- 40:41Speaker 1: and and Justice went through some serious trauma, and you
- 40:45Speaker 1: know she had up walls and she knew doing her things.
- 40:48Speaker 1: She in that big house by herself, and you know,
- 40:50Speaker 1: she's got a very cute cat. She's got the cute
- 40:52Speaker 1: cat and now she's fine happiness. That's dope. Yeah, she
- 40:55Speaker 1: writes my Angelo poems like I mean, come on, dude,
- 40:58Speaker 1: like how is where's the problem? You know what I'm saying.
- 41:01Speaker 1: So I think it's it's like it left me interrogating
- 41:04Speaker 1: kind of doing some like revisionist history with my own
- 41:07Speaker 1: sort of opinions and understanding. Um So I think that
- 41:12Speaker 1: like that's the that's the main thing that like in
- 41:15Speaker 1: relation to like I don't know if bect illness is
- 41:19Speaker 1: a word in relation to that where I'm just like heang, dude,
- 41:22Speaker 1: like wow, you know, uh, you just walk away going yeah,
- 41:29Speaker 1: because you're so used to I'm so used to seeing
- 41:32Speaker 1: bad depictions of black men that I forget to notice
- 41:37Speaker 1: everything else, you know what I mean. It's like your
- 41:40Speaker 1: triag ng and this sitting down for this really made
- 41:43Speaker 1: me notice more. Yeah. And I mean especially when you
- 41:48Speaker 1: you know, you see a movie like this in your
- 41:50Speaker 1: formative years and like how influential it was, and when
- 41:55Speaker 1: you read like interviews and stuff from John Singleton, who
- 42:00Speaker 1: who says with this movie, he wanted to show South
- 42:04Speaker 1: Central in a different light than had been depicted before
- 42:07Speaker 1: in movies. He wanted to focus on the women in
- 42:11Speaker 1: his community. He wanted to tell a story specifically about
- 42:16Speaker 1: black people in South Central falling in love. Like that's
- 42:19Speaker 1: that was his inspiration. And because there were so few
- 42:23Speaker 1: movies of that nature, especially during this time, that's a
- 42:27Speaker 1: very strong, powerful thing. That doesn't Lucky being a problematic
- 42:34Speaker 1: figure and a toxic person in different areas of his
- 42:38Speaker 1: life doesn't negate all of this, all of that stuff,
- 42:42Speaker 1: all of like the power that comes with that representation.
- 42:47Speaker 1: So yeah, like I totally understand like kind of being
- 42:50Speaker 1: of two minds about it. You can't like there's no that.
- 42:56Speaker 1: The thing about like the again, the mythology around Tupac
- 42:59Speaker 1: is like in all the movies he's in, you know,
- 43:03Speaker 1: he's Bishop and Juice, you know what I'm saying, He's
- 43:05Speaker 1: Striker in like you know, Above the Rim, all these
- 43:07Speaker 1: like iconic like movies that part of build his his
- 43:11Speaker 1: his mythology. It's hard to see a film and only
- 43:16Speaker 1: see him at that as that character, Like I still
- 43:20Speaker 1: see Tupac, you know what I'm saying, And all that
- 43:24Speaker 1: Tupac was and stood for as far as like in
- 43:29Speaker 1: a lot of ways reimagining of black masculinity. You know,
- 43:34Speaker 1: he was actually very well read. You know, he's my
- 43:37Speaker 1: My father was a black panther. You know, his mother
- 43:39Speaker 1: was a black panther. So it's like there's this like
- 43:42Speaker 1: this rage against the machine attitude about him, you know
- 43:46Speaker 1: what I'm saying, And that like he represents in a
- 43:50Speaker 1: lot of ways. You know, if you think about like
- 43:52Speaker 1: active gang membership, it's really a small percentage of humans
- 43:57Speaker 1: in South Central, you know what I'm saying. So, like
- 44:00Speaker 1: it's cool to see a movie that's not about the
- 44:02Speaker 1: four kids in the back of the room, you know
- 44:04Speaker 1: what I mean. That's more about the other twenty five
- 44:07Speaker 1: of us trying to just finish high school, you know,
- 44:10Speaker 1: but having to intersect with this all the time. You know,
- 44:13Speaker 1: it's hard to separate even now the character Lucky from Tupac. Yeah,
- 44:21Speaker 1: and it sounds like this movie. I didn't know this
- 44:24Speaker 1: for sure when I first saw this movie, but that
- 44:26Speaker 1: it's in it's partially based on an experience that Tupac
- 44:31Speaker 1: had between So I read that on the scholarly journal
- 44:37Speaker 1: Wikipedia that here it is that the like the seed
- 44:43Speaker 1: of this movie was about a like brief relationship Tupac
- 44:47Speaker 1: had with a poet named Anne Marie rose Um who
- 44:52Speaker 1: he met between takes of Juice. That's crazy that so,
- 44:59Speaker 1: I I don't know exactly I wasn't able to find
- 45:01Speaker 1: the exact like did he bring this to John Singleton,
- 45:04Speaker 1: I don't really know, but it sounds like he had
- 45:06Speaker 1: had a similar um a similar experience to this, at
- 45:10Speaker 1: least in the abstract, to the point where like this
- 45:13Speaker 1: poet Emery Rose had box braids and that was the
- 45:16Speaker 1: reason that Janet Jackson like had her hair the way
- 45:20Speaker 1: she did in this point. And so it is like
- 45:23Speaker 1: Lucky and Tupac, I guess that they're kind of like
- 45:27Speaker 1: connected in this this really personal way, which yeah, I
- 45:31Speaker 1: had no idea that that was a thing. And I
- 45:34Speaker 1: think that, like I have some stuff that that John
- 45:39Speaker 1: Singleton R. I. P. Has Has said over the years
- 45:43Speaker 1: about this movie. It's really interesting because it's like I
- 45:46Speaker 1: think that it's it's not necessarily the most important thing
- 45:49Speaker 1: to know, but I just think it's like, I don't know,
- 45:52Speaker 1: I'm like, holy shit, he was only twenty five when
- 45:55Speaker 1: he made this movie. That is like, so didn't know that,
- 45:59Speaker 1: which means he was even younger when he did Boys
- 46:01Speaker 1: in the Hood. Yeah, he was. He is like a
- 46:04Speaker 1: huge history making Artists. He was the youngest person ever
- 46:09Speaker 1: to be nominated for Best Director at the Academy Awards.
- 46:11Speaker 1: He was twenty four when Boys in the Hood was nominated.
- 46:15Speaker 1: This was his first movie after that. He's only when
- 46:21Speaker 1: it's so wild and I mean it's even with the
- 46:26Speaker 1: like issues I do have with this movie, it's like
- 46:29Speaker 1: you can't not respect the ship out of like the
- 46:33Speaker 1: creative risk this is to take coming off of like
- 46:36Speaker 1: Boys in the Hood was this gigantic success. It was,
- 46:39Speaker 1: it was huge, it was iconic. And then he I
- 46:43Speaker 1: was going through kind of the interviews he was doing
- 46:44Speaker 1: in for Poetic Justice, and he just talked about how he, like,
- 46:50Speaker 1: I just wanted to do something else and was like
- 46:52Speaker 1: not afraid to try something else. And even though this movie,
- 46:56Speaker 1: I guess that this movie was not as like critically
- 46:59Speaker 1: a claim him as Boys in the Hood, but it was,
- 47:02Speaker 1: you know, he did what he wanted to do, and
- 47:05Speaker 1: I don't know, there's a lot of kind of dissonance.
- 47:08Speaker 1: There's some stuff that he says that I'm like, oh,
- 47:09Speaker 1: this is so cool and insightful, and then there's other
- 47:12Speaker 1: stuff that feels very of its time. Um, So I'll
- 47:16Speaker 1: just I guess, uh, some of some of the stuff
- 47:18Speaker 1: that really that really I thought was really cool, he Kaitly,
- 47:22Speaker 1: and you've alluded to a lot of it already. Was
- 47:24Speaker 1: he wanted to show like love in the Hood, He
- 47:27Speaker 1: wanted to do a road movie. He wanted to have
- 47:30Speaker 1: a black female protagonist at a time where that was
- 47:33Speaker 1: not a choice that most directors were going to make
- 47:37Speaker 1: it all and he did that very intentionally. And then
- 47:41Speaker 1: on the other end, something that I thought was really
- 47:44Speaker 1: interesting and feels like, oh, the nineties really were a
- 47:48Speaker 1: very different time. Was he was kind of asked, um,
- 47:53Speaker 1: I'm I'm pulling from a Village Voice interview here from
- 47:57Speaker 1: but he's asked, like, so, you've made this like woman's movie,
- 48:01Speaker 1: and he is, really, he really does not want that
- 48:05Speaker 1: label put on the movie. And I think the quote
- 48:07Speaker 1: is interesting. He says, uh, this is not a woman's movie.
- 48:11Speaker 1: Don't say that, or you'll have every feminist in town
- 48:13Speaker 1: coming out for attack. It's a film with a black
- 48:16Speaker 1: woman as a central character, directed by a black man,
- 48:19Speaker 1: which is like all true, but I think it's it's
- 48:24Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of this is not the first
- 48:26Speaker 1: time I've heard a quote similar to that from a
- 48:29Speaker 1: male director of Like in the nineties, you know, it's
- 48:32Speaker 1: like men were not considering themselves feminists and like labeling
- 48:36Speaker 1: yourself a feminist if you were a man, there was
- 48:39Speaker 1: this stigma attached to it. And that comes across in
- 48:42Speaker 1: Lucky's character too when he talks about like you're not
- 48:44Speaker 1: one of those feminists, right, and then immediately it's like, oh, yeah,
- 48:48Speaker 1: he does not think kylie of feminists. Um, and it's
- 48:52Speaker 1: I don't know, I just I thought that that was
- 48:55Speaker 1: that was such a like interesting of the time thing
- 48:57Speaker 1: to say of like the idea of label in your
- 49:00Speaker 1: movie as feminist made it less marketable, where it's like,
- 49:04Speaker 1: now that's not really the case at all. You know.
- 49:08Speaker 1: It's in in Black Twitter. Uh there's this other podcast
- 49:14Speaker 1: with Joe Button's and and these other you know men.
- 49:17Speaker 1: They were discussing, um, post New Deal, just like breakdown
- 49:23Speaker 1: of the black family, you know, um, some of the
- 49:25Speaker 1: sort of clear and obvious like disenfranchisement and like just
- 49:30Speaker 1: the psi op that like the nation did on the
- 49:33Speaker 1: psyche of black men, right, you know. Um, and you
- 49:38Speaker 1: know after the war effort offering things to you know,
- 49:41Speaker 1: black mothers, the you know who were now the head
- 49:43Speaker 1: of the house because either men were at war or
- 49:46Speaker 1: whatever the case. Maybe he was trying to make this
- 49:48Speaker 1: argument that like part of what even deeper deeply destroyed
- 49:54Speaker 1: the black male psyche was. This is his argument was that, uh,
- 50:00Speaker 1: it's like, let me make this clear, Okay. This is
- 50:02Speaker 1: his argument was that, um, when we came back, you know,
- 50:08Speaker 1: finally got on our feet after the war efforts and
- 50:10Speaker 1: stuff like that, and you know, after dealing with all
- 50:13Speaker 1: it took to try to finally get rights and you know,
- 50:16Speaker 1: get jobs as black men, that our women chose the
- 50:21Speaker 1: money over us, so they kept getting government subsidies and
- 50:27Speaker 1: kind of being like, oh, we actually don't need husbands.
- 50:30Speaker 1: They chose to go to work, they chose to go
- 50:33Speaker 1: do their own things. So he said, in our psyches,
- 50:36Speaker 1: we started feeling like, dang, this was supposed to be temporary,
- 50:40Speaker 1: Like this was supposed to be until we can get
- 50:42Speaker 1: ourselves together. But you're choosing the money over us, and
- 50:46Speaker 1: that choice he's he says, like, you know, travel through
- 50:51Speaker 1: the rest of our sort of like collective traumas if
- 50:55Speaker 1: you will. So when you move forward into this black
- 50:57Speaker 1: feminist movement, his argument is that even that movement has
- 51:04Speaker 1: helped to destroy the confidence of black men, and why
- 51:09Speaker 1: why can't whack y'all can't get your ship together. He's like, well,
- 51:12Speaker 1: here's why, you know, or here's part of why. It's
- 51:15Speaker 1: his argument, he's saying, Black families were always strong pro
- 51:19Speaker 1: pre Jim Crow, pre artists. You had, we had all
- 51:21Speaker 1: kinds of support, whether it was through our churches or
- 51:24Speaker 1: in double a CP, like the family unit was. We
- 51:28Speaker 1: had a very tight nuclear family in the black community
- 51:30Speaker 1: historically because we had to survive, you know what I'm saying.
- 51:33Speaker 1: So his argument is like this destroyed us, to which
- 51:38Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, far be it for me to like,
- 51:41Speaker 1: you know, disagree with my elders, you know what I'm saying.
- 51:44Speaker 1: Like I'm not gonna you know, like I'm not gonna
- 51:46Speaker 1: do that, but I am gonna say it's like we
- 51:49Speaker 1: had this unit. But it's like I feel like we
- 51:51Speaker 1: have yet to like be honest with ourselves about how
- 51:56Speaker 1: bad patriarchy existed in Black families, Like I feel like
- 52:00Speaker 1: we don't want to admit misogyny in our homes and
- 52:04Speaker 1: because we're like, well, let's be real, prop our families
- 52:09Speaker 1: are led by we already know women are in charge
- 52:11Speaker 1: and our college is very different. Were not liked in
- 52:13Speaker 1: white people, you know what I'm saying, Like that's like,
- 52:16Speaker 1: that's like the argument among among the black community is
- 52:19Speaker 1: like or at least this this argument is like, well
- 52:21Speaker 1: at least we're not bad as them, you know what
- 52:24Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like we treat our women differently than everybody else.
- 52:27Speaker 1: And I'm like, okay, okay, I mean my grandma ran
- 52:33Speaker 1: ran the house, you know. I mean I understand that, right,
- 52:36Speaker 1: but let's not let's not lie to ourselves fellas, you
- 52:40Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. And I feel like this statement,
- 52:42Speaker 1: like again with Lucky talking about you know what in feminists?
- 52:45Speaker 1: Are you or or him saying no, this ain't no
- 52:47Speaker 1: feminist movie. I think in a lot of ways again,
- 52:50Speaker 1: if we talk about like the triaging of like okay,
- 52:53Speaker 1: well we all black, so we all suffering, you know
- 52:55Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So I don't understand why you're parsing
- 52:57Speaker 1: this particular thing out. You know, you feel me like
- 53:00Speaker 1: it's like that's the attitude, and it's like, actually, we
- 53:02Speaker 1: treat your a hell of different, you know what I'm saying. Then,
- 53:06Speaker 1: Tyler and Tanner, do you know what I'm saying? Like
- 53:09Speaker 1: we don't talk to our women the way that they
- 53:11Speaker 1: talk to them white ladies. We don't. We don't talk
- 53:13Speaker 1: like you know what I'm saying. So you have this
- 53:14Speaker 1: attitude about it. So when you talk about feminists like
- 53:17Speaker 1: hold on dog, like, nah, is that is that you
- 53:19Speaker 1: hanging from them lynch and trees? No, that's us hanging
- 53:21Speaker 1: you know, So you have this defense. I feel like
- 53:25Speaker 1: that we are still I'm saying. It's like to my shame,
- 53:29Speaker 1: like we're still reckoning with the reality of like, na,
- 53:32Speaker 1: we got blood on our hands, Like Claretta Scott King
- 53:36Speaker 1: was not allowed to talk, Like that's Martin Luther King's wife, yourself,
- 53:41Speaker 1: I'm saying, like he didn't let her talk because women
- 53:44Speaker 1: don't belong in the pulpit, Like what did you talking about, bro? Like,
- 53:47Speaker 1: let's be honest, you know what I'm saying. And I
- 53:49Speaker 1: feel like this, uh, this moment that you're bringing up
- 53:53Speaker 1: is like again like connected to where we're at now,
- 53:57Speaker 1: which is obviously very different where like it's like, yo, no,
- 54:00Speaker 1: we're all about like nah, lead black women, black women, voices,
- 54:02Speaker 1: black women, you know what I'm saying. So it's like
- 54:04Speaker 1: it's interesting to see I feel like if we still
- 54:08Speaker 1: have what I know we do, we still have a
- 54:10Speaker 1: lot of reckoning we need to do with like our
- 54:13Speaker 1: roles as black men with misogyny and patriarchy, you know,
- 54:18Speaker 1: because they because the rap stuff is easy. You know
- 54:20Speaker 1: what I'm saying, I need a gangster bitch like he was.
- 54:22Speaker 1: He was singing out in the cars like Okay, that's obvious.
- 54:25Speaker 1: All right, that's easy. We know that stuff. You know
- 54:28Speaker 1: what I'm saying, I'm talking about life for real, for real,
- 54:30Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Thank you for for kind
- 54:33Speaker 1: of like like breaking that down and unpacking that because
- 54:36Speaker 1: it that does like give such a clearer context to
- 54:41Speaker 1: where John Singleton is coming from there and then like regardless,
- 54:45Speaker 1: he does center a black woman and this yeah, and
- 54:49Speaker 1: a young black woman where you know, well we'll we'll
- 54:52Speaker 1: talk about justice his storyline more. But it's you know it,
- 54:56Speaker 1: it was I get not surprising, but always just like
- 54:59Speaker 1: holy ship like discouraging to go back and see how
- 55:04Speaker 1: few black women were directing movies at all, much less
- 55:09Speaker 1: directing stories that reflected their own experience back in the nineties.
- 55:13Speaker 1: It's extremely low number. There was, I think, most notably
- 55:17Speaker 1: in terms of wide release. There was Julie Dashes Daughters
- 55:19Speaker 1: of the Dust, and then Cheryl Dounier is the Watermelon Woman.
- 55:24Speaker 1: But outside of that, it was so it's like, you know,
- 55:27Speaker 1: set it off, Stella got a groove Back, but those
- 55:31Speaker 1: were both directed by men, you know, and exactly, yeah,
- 55:34Speaker 1: that's what I was gonna say. And I was like,
- 55:35Speaker 1: and they're still as relates to men, especially how Stella
- 55:39Speaker 1: gotta groove back, you know what I'm saying right right, absolutely,
- 55:42Speaker 1: And it's so it's it's like, ultimately, it's I think,
- 55:46Speaker 1: like a worthwhile creative risk that John Singleton like tried
- 55:51Speaker 1: to tell this story even though it's like, you know,
- 55:53Speaker 1: we'll we'll talk through it. But the fact that it
- 55:57Speaker 1: but it's also equally frustrating that it's like, you know,
- 56:00Speaker 1: would a black woman have written this story a little
- 56:03Speaker 1: more cogently, a little clearer probably, but it wasn't it
- 56:08Speaker 1: just the money and the movement was not um, you know,
- 56:13Speaker 1: giving them the resources they needed. It. It's it's never
- 56:16Speaker 1: you know, a lack of talented directors or writers. It's
- 56:20Speaker 1: it's the fact that it's. Yeah, seeing how few wide
- 56:24Speaker 1: releases from black women came out in the nineties is
- 56:27Speaker 1: just incredibly discouraging. Yeah, let's take another quick break and
- 56:34Speaker 1: then we'll be right back. Should we talk about the
- 56:44Speaker 1: relationship between Justice and Lucky the problems there in the
- 56:53Speaker 1: put it off long enough, I mean, you know, the
- 56:58Speaker 1: foundation of the bay sis of this relationship. He comes
- 57:02Speaker 1: into the salon, he tries to flirt with her and
- 57:07Speaker 1: ask her out, which to me that was like like
- 57:10Speaker 1: he'd at least in the context of the way that
- 57:13Speaker 1: he did it, it was like fine, like whatever, But
- 57:16Speaker 1: then he does not take being rejected well. So that's
- 57:20Speaker 1: kind of where we're starting off. Then at the beginning
- 57:22Speaker 1: of their road trip, we talked about this a little
- 57:25Speaker 1: bit already, but he calls her mean, he calls her
- 57:28Speaker 1: stuck up, He calls her an angry bitch, a feminist,
- 57:32Speaker 1: and it's all because she's just like quiet and not
- 57:36Speaker 1: responding to him talking about like wanting a quote gangster bitch,
- 57:42Speaker 1: and like I do like that. That's made out to
- 57:45Speaker 1: seem a little embarrassing for him because he's like mumbling,
- 57:48Speaker 1: and it was like, you look, so why do yeah? Uh?
- 57:53Speaker 1: I used to once upon a time, like I taught
- 57:56Speaker 1: high school and I had a section where I had
- 57:59Speaker 1: to tea like beginning level of psychology, right, and the
- 58:03Speaker 1: kids loved it inner city school and um, so we
- 58:06Speaker 1: got to like all the like post Freudian stuff like
- 58:09Speaker 1: reaction formations and like projection and stuff like that. Like, um,
- 58:13Speaker 1: it was like the most effortless and endless source of
- 58:17Speaker 1: examples I could give these like ninth graders as to
- 58:21Speaker 1: like what this is? You know what I'm saying. So
- 58:24Speaker 1: this this was a perfect example like of reaction formation
- 58:27Speaker 1: where it's like, hey, you want to go out with me? No,
- 58:29Speaker 1: that's because you're ugly, Like what like you know what
- 58:33Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, bro, you just got look take it
- 58:36Speaker 1: on the chin. Everybody takes else, you know, everyone takes else, bro,
- 58:41Speaker 1: And you just take it on the chin. Live to
- 58:44Speaker 1: fight another day, you know. But just that perfect example
- 58:48Speaker 1: of like I tease, I tease my, UM, I tease
- 58:52Speaker 1: my wife and my my my my older daughter. Um.
- 58:56Speaker 1: About like how as a little boy you start learning
- 59:00Speaker 1: how to process rejection somewhere around fifth grade, you know,
- 59:05Speaker 1: because like because of how big the reaction is, of
- 59:08Speaker 1: how gross boys are, when you finally felt enough courage,
- 59:13Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying to like you know, and
- 59:16Speaker 1: and poor kid don't let the kid be queer, you
- 59:18Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like, you know, when you first
- 59:20Speaker 1: have to start figuring out what it means to get
- 59:23Speaker 1: a know, you know, and like and having to like
- 59:26Speaker 1: by That's why I'm like, by the time you get
- 59:29Speaker 1: to high school or get outside of high school and
- 59:31Speaker 1: you see like the clearly this guy's a douche bag
- 59:34Speaker 1: get more yes is than you, You're like, well, I
- 59:37Speaker 1: guess is that the way to Is that how you
- 59:40Speaker 1: do it? Like you know, or you're just like whatever,
- 59:44Speaker 1: you whatever, bit you're stupid, you know, it's like okay, man,
- 59:48Speaker 1: like you have to learn how to process. No, you know,
- 59:51Speaker 1: I wish that that was like that there, Yeah, I mean,
- 59:54Speaker 1: I mean, but it's like so few kids are taught
- 59:58Speaker 1: how to deal with rejection. I feel like that's that. Yeah,
- 1:00:02Speaker 1: Like when you're growing up, I feel like there's almost
- 1:00:05Speaker 1: I guess, unless you're really lucky or you have like
- 1:00:08Speaker 1: parents who are fucking on it, like which almost nobody does.
- 1:00:13Speaker 1: Uh right, Like no, Like I I don't know a
- 1:00:16Speaker 1: kid in the world that grew up and then you know,
- 1:00:18Speaker 1: around fifth grade, it's like they were told regardless of gender,
- 1:00:21Speaker 1: like hey, if you're you know, here is like a
- 1:00:24Speaker 1: way that you can ask someone something that is respectful
- 1:00:28Speaker 1: and like here's how to judge boundaries, and here's how
- 1:00:32Speaker 1: to deal with rejection that isn't just lashing out. And
- 1:00:35Speaker 1: but it's like, I feel like those conversations are really
- 1:00:39Speaker 1: rare with with kids and and would make a huge
- 1:00:43Speaker 1: fucking difference. Yes, I'm so impressed with Like I hate
- 1:00:48Speaker 1: to use the term gen z, but that's where my
- 1:00:50Speaker 1: daughter refers to herself as so like the amount of
- 1:00:53Speaker 1: like we during when the pandemic started, you know, we
- 1:00:56Speaker 1: we totally got on this, like all right, we're gonna
- 1:00:58Speaker 1: show you all of the movies from from our childhood,
- 1:01:00Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Like so and she's like,
- 1:01:02Speaker 1: I mean, my my other daughter is dope, like totally
- 1:01:05Speaker 1: an anime. She's like a Star Wars nerd. Like like
- 1:01:08Speaker 1: she's dope, you know what I'm saying. Like, you know,
- 1:01:10Speaker 1: she got like a little fake slitherin tattoo on her arm,
- 1:01:14Speaker 1: like she's cool, you know what I'm saying. Um, So,
- 1:01:17Speaker 1: at some point we was like, all right, Breakfast Club,
- 1:01:19Speaker 1: weird Science, Like, let's show her all these flicks, right,
- 1:01:22Speaker 1: And as we're showing them, specifically, what gave us pause
- 1:01:25Speaker 1: was like when we got to Weird Science and you know,
- 1:01:29Speaker 1: they're making this woman, you know what I'm saying, and
- 1:01:32Speaker 1: so like, my my daughter's like, what the funk is this?
- 1:01:36Speaker 1: Like just like you know, she's like cussing at us
- 1:01:39Speaker 1: because she's like, this is y'all gotta nah, hony, like
- 1:01:44Speaker 1: this don't ride you know what I'm saying. It's like
- 1:01:46Speaker 1: so proud of her, you know what I mean, for
- 1:01:48Speaker 1: her already knowing like no no no no no no
- 1:01:51Speaker 1: no no no no no no no no no no,
- 1:01:53Speaker 1: we're not She's like, y'all watch this. This is a movie.
- 1:01:57Speaker 1: He thought this was good good. Yeah, it's just and
- 1:02:00Speaker 1: it's like all these different moments. She was like the
- 1:02:03Speaker 1: breakfast Club she rocked with, you know what I mean.
- 1:02:04Speaker 1: She was like, Okay, this you know obviously because it's
- 1:02:07Speaker 1: about it's a coming age is much different movie. But
- 1:02:10Speaker 1: like some of the other stuff he was trying to
- 1:02:12Speaker 1: show her, she was just like nah or not, this
- 1:02:17Speaker 1: is horrible. Yeah. I was like you know what I'm
- 1:02:20Speaker 1: me and my wife are like, yo, I'm super proud
- 1:02:22Speaker 1: of this little girl. Just nah. She's like no, just no, no,
- 1:02:26Speaker 1: and I was like, okay, future future Bectel cast guests, Yeah,
- 1:02:30Speaker 1: the sounds of it, yeah, oh gosh, yeah, this the
- 1:02:34Speaker 1: basis of this relationship. And then that that argument that
- 1:02:37Speaker 1: having the in the truck ends with him screaming at
- 1:02:41Speaker 1: her saying like fuck you bitch, get out of here,
- 1:02:43Speaker 1: like all this stuff, and then again not a great
- 1:02:48Speaker 1: foundation on which to build a romance. And yet I'd
- 1:02:51Speaker 1: argue she he doesn't necessarily deserve a second chance after
- 1:02:55Speaker 1: the way he treats her like in that first conversation,
- 1:02:58Speaker 1: and and the way she stands up for herself is
- 1:03:01Speaker 1: like again it's it's like it's interesting to watch with
- 1:03:05Speaker 1: like I was trying to put on goggles with like
- 1:03:09Speaker 1: mixed results, but like the way that she's standing up
- 1:03:12Speaker 1: for herself I think is like pretty cool and like
- 1:03:15Speaker 1: very like direct. And but he interprets this as like,
- 1:03:19Speaker 1: you know, you're being aggressive, you're being cold, you know.
- 1:03:22Speaker 1: But she she says like, don't call me a bit.
- 1:03:25Speaker 1: You don't know anything about me. I'm a black woman.
- 1:03:28Speaker 1: I deserve respect. Don't call me a bit. If I'm
- 1:03:30Speaker 1: a bit, your mother's a bit. And just like all
- 1:03:32Speaker 1: this stuff that is like you know, she has like
- 1:03:35Speaker 1: the top of mind comebacks that anyone would want to have,
- 1:03:40Speaker 1: but he just takes it all, you know, at the beginning.
- 1:03:43Speaker 1: And again it's like, you know, she heals his misogyny
- 1:03:46Speaker 1: in a day, um, but at the beginning, I mean
- 1:03:50Speaker 1: he he, you know, is not receptive to it at all. Yeah,
- 1:03:55Speaker 1: I think the journey of like of Lucky in some ways,
- 1:03:58Speaker 1: obviously everybody a different scale. I think I relate to
- 1:04:02Speaker 1: in the sense that like it depending on how trash
- 1:04:06Speaker 1: you actually are, like most, well I'll not say mostly,
- 1:04:10Speaker 1: but I'll say like homies I'll run with like we
- 1:04:13Speaker 1: never saw ourselves as problematic because we knew problematic dudes,
- 1:04:18Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So we're like, no, that
- 1:04:21Speaker 1: food is a problem. You don't stand what I'm saying,
- 1:04:23Speaker 1: Like he trash, Like that's a scumbag, douchebag, that food's trash,
- 1:04:29Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So I think in his head,
- 1:04:32Speaker 1: it's like that's what I'm saying, Like she heals his
- 1:04:34Speaker 1: misogyny because I feel like in a lot of ways,
- 1:04:37Speaker 1: obviously I was never there, but I know in a
- 1:04:40Speaker 1: lot of ways, like I've had, you know, corrective moments,
- 1:04:44Speaker 1: you know, what I'm saying in the sense to where
- 1:04:46Speaker 1: you like you don't come in, you come in thinking
- 1:04:49Speaker 1: you're different, you know what I mean. And so for
- 1:04:52Speaker 1: him to be like why are you so quiet? What
- 1:04:54Speaker 1: you right? And it's like in his head he's like, no,
- 1:04:56Speaker 1: I'm being approachable, like I'm tring. I'm trying to have
- 1:04:59Speaker 1: a conversation with you, like you feel me like dang,
- 1:05:02Speaker 1: I'm you riding in the car like you know, I
- 1:05:05Speaker 1: don't understand what I'm doing wrong, you know. Uh, but
- 1:05:09Speaker 1: having that arc you know, again, this ain't to defend him,
- 1:05:12Speaker 1: but what I'm saying is like that's the part that's like,
- 1:05:14Speaker 1: in my mind in some ways relatable, you know, little
- 1:05:18Speaker 1: stuff like I thought when I got married, like, yo,
- 1:05:22Speaker 1: it's my job to take care of I'm gonna take
- 1:05:24Speaker 1: care of all the household bills, you spend your money on,
- 1:05:26Speaker 1: what you want to spend your money on, because I'm
- 1:05:28Speaker 1: a real man, you know what I'm saying, I take
- 1:05:29Speaker 1: care of out you feel me, It's like, well, you
- 1:05:32Speaker 1: know we can have a conversation about it. To ask
- 1:05:34Speaker 1: and I was like, oh yeah, you know, like so
- 1:05:39Speaker 1: like that type of like you know what, I don't
- 1:05:41Speaker 1: know where I got Where did I get that from?
- 1:05:43Speaker 1: But then you started questioning like you know, absolutely correct,
- 1:05:47Speaker 1: you know? Or like when we were dating, Hey, you
- 1:05:49Speaker 1: want to go out? And I would feel weird about
- 1:05:51Speaker 1: saying like I don't have the money to go out today,
- 1:05:54Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, but I didn't know
- 1:05:56Speaker 1: how to say that, so I would try to come
- 1:05:58Speaker 1: up with like a million other things and she'd be like,
- 1:06:02Speaker 1: I got it, And I'm like you sure, like, well
- 1:06:06Speaker 1: I gotta go nowhere, you know, and she's like what
- 1:06:07Speaker 1: the man? Like, I'm telling you it's cool, you know?
- 1:06:11Speaker 1: So not that For me, it was like that sort
- 1:06:14Speaker 1: of evolution to where it was more like obviously knew better,
- 1:06:18Speaker 1: Like again, I just wasn't that much trash to know
- 1:06:21Speaker 1: that ppposed to talk to nobody like this, but but
- 1:06:23Speaker 1: you don't. But there's there's levels to this ship, you
- 1:06:26Speaker 1: feel me Like if you don't, you don't realize it
- 1:06:28Speaker 1: until somebody pointed out you know what I'm saying, um
- 1:06:31Speaker 1: and and and and I think like anybody like you
- 1:06:35Speaker 1: get defensive when you already see yourself as not what
- 1:06:40Speaker 1: someone's calling you, you know what I mean? I always
- 1:06:42Speaker 1: I feel like the best example of this is just
- 1:06:44Speaker 1: like talking to white men about racism. It's scary. It's
- 1:06:49Speaker 1: scary for them to think that they're guilty. You know
- 1:06:52Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So when you start going, na, bro,
- 1:06:55Speaker 1: now you too, do you know what I'm saying? Like
- 1:06:57Speaker 1: that's hard, you know, um, but if you if you
- 1:07:00Speaker 1: down like and like I said, I'm down, So I'm like, nah,
- 1:07:03Speaker 1: show me, you know what i mean? Like, all that
- 1:07:06Speaker 1: to say is delpas. She stood up to him and
- 1:07:09Speaker 1: as as hood as she did, you know what I'm saying,
- 1:07:12Speaker 1: and as like you know, fuck you, fuck you fuck
- 1:07:15Speaker 1: you know I'm saying like whatever it was she met
- 1:07:18Speaker 1: him there. You know what I'm saying is like it's
- 1:07:21Speaker 1: just it's crazy. It's not crazy. I'm not supposed to
- 1:07:24Speaker 1: say that one, but it's it's it's a trip. I
- 1:07:26Speaker 1: think I'm actually glad. Y'all added that to the email.
- 1:07:29Speaker 1: I don't know if it's gonna make this in there,
- 1:07:30Speaker 1: but like that's what I'm saying, that's akin, that's growth,
- 1:07:34Speaker 1: you know what I mean. That's so I was like,
- 1:07:35Speaker 1: you know what, I never I never thought about that.
- 1:07:38Speaker 1: We didn't either, ye bring it up to us. Yeah,
- 1:07:41Speaker 1: it's just been the past couple of years. Yeah, we're
- 1:07:44Speaker 1: all on a journey and in many arenas to unlearned
- 1:07:50Speaker 1: things grow as people. We're all on our own little
- 1:07:54Speaker 1: mail truck to Oakland in a way, making stop taking
- 1:08:01Speaker 1: the long route, the male truck of life man. And
- 1:08:08Speaker 1: then so then they, you know, they do start to
- 1:08:10Speaker 1: find common ground in this like connection. You know, they're
- 1:08:14Speaker 1: they both have like artistic aspirations that are similar. Like
- 1:08:18Speaker 1: she writes poetry, he writes hip hop music. Um or
- 1:08:23Speaker 1: I guess do we even learn that that's what he does?
- 1:08:25Speaker 1: I'm unclear. You hear when you hear the real to reels,
- 1:08:28Speaker 1: when you hear the recordings of his cousin Win the Base,
- 1:08:30Speaker 1: which fun fact, was Coolio. I don't know if you know,
- 1:08:33Speaker 1: did you recognize a voice as soon as he started playing,
- 1:08:36Speaker 1: I was like, that's Coolio. Yeah, so John second thing
- 1:08:41Speaker 1: out everybody, everybody? Yeah, so uh so in what he
- 1:08:46Speaker 1: was saying, yeah that pop was like or Lucky was
- 1:08:49Speaker 1: like I help him with ideas, but it's like it's
- 1:08:51Speaker 1: his So it sounds like he's like I'm more of
- 1:08:53Speaker 1: a producer, you know, got it, got it, got it? Yeah.
- 1:08:56Speaker 1: So even so they have you know similar aspirations, so
- 1:08:59Speaker 1: that you know, they find areas to connect, and then
- 1:09:03Speaker 1: things fall apart again when he does that thing that
- 1:09:05Speaker 1: he keeps doing is like projecting. He blames the time
- 1:09:10Speaker 1: he spent with her for not being able to prevent
- 1:09:13Speaker 1: the death of his cousin, and you know, sabotage is
- 1:09:17Speaker 1: this relationship, and then comes back and apologizes a little,
- 1:09:22Speaker 1: you know, some time later, and she forgives him. I
- 1:09:26Speaker 1: do like the women in the salon. They don't I
- 1:09:29Speaker 1: don't think they even know what the context was, but
- 1:09:32Speaker 1: they were just like I wouldn't have forgiven him. I
- 1:09:35Speaker 1: wouldn't forgive him. They were the best dude and the way.
- 1:09:39Speaker 1: And then before that happened, when I was looking at
- 1:09:41Speaker 1: the cheating girl and she was just like she didn't
- 1:09:44Speaker 1: think I know who that is, I was like, dog,
- 1:09:46Speaker 1: this is the realist right now. So I guess what
- 1:09:51Speaker 1: I'm saying is it was very hard for me to
- 1:09:53Speaker 1: root for this romantic relationship because of how horribly Lucky
- 1:09:58Speaker 1: treats Justice throughout the whole story, and especially at the beginning.
- 1:10:03Speaker 1: And I was far more interested in the friendship between
- 1:10:07Speaker 1: Justice and Aisha than Justice and Lucky. Yeah, I I liked.
- 1:10:12Speaker 1: I mean, I guess the last thing I'll say about
- 1:10:16Speaker 1: Justice and Lucky is again it's like I also was
- 1:10:19Speaker 1: not rooting for their romantic relationship, but I do appreciate
- 1:10:24Speaker 1: how John Singleton kind of gives like context in depth
- 1:10:29Speaker 1: where you need it, where it's like sometimes when a
- 1:10:32Speaker 1: character acts out and lashes out against someone and you
- 1:10:35Speaker 1: have no contact for it whatsoever, you're like, oh, funk
- 1:10:37Speaker 1: that person, Like that's awful. That's not how you treat people.
- 1:10:41Speaker 1: But especially with that, with that sort of last beat
- 1:10:44Speaker 1: where it's like, I mean when when they when they
- 1:10:47Speaker 1: get to Oakland and immediately like something awful happens and
- 1:10:52Speaker 1: Lucky is like reeling and doesn't know what to do,
- 1:10:55Speaker 1: and it's it just felt like, yeah, he was like
- 1:10:58Speaker 1: projecting his anger like frustration at at someone he could
- 1:11:04Speaker 1: hurt in that moment because he was so hurt, and
- 1:11:08Speaker 1: you know, it's like not right and it's not like
- 1:11:10Speaker 1: Justice is deserving of that anger in any way, but
- 1:11:13Speaker 1: in that moment, you're like, oh, he just this anger
- 1:11:15Speaker 1: is just gonna hit someone. The first person that's there
- 1:11:18Speaker 1: is who it's going to hit. And I appreciate it
- 1:11:21Speaker 1: that they took that moment with him in the basement
- 1:11:23Speaker 1: when he's listening back to to Coolio, but that like
- 1:11:28Speaker 1: they give you that moment of vulnerability and he finally
- 1:11:31Speaker 1: does like he's able to cry, but it's only by himself.
- 1:11:35Speaker 1: And just like moments like that, I was like, Oh,
- 1:11:37Speaker 1: that's like I'm still not rooting for them to end
- 1:11:41Speaker 1: up together, but I appreciated the kind of like depth
- 1:11:44Speaker 1: of the storytelling there. I wish we honestly, I wish
- 1:11:47Speaker 1: we got more, you know, more of that with with
- 1:11:50Speaker 1: Justice in general. I yeah, there's I like Justice a lot.
- 1:11:57Speaker 1: I liked and I don't even mind at the movie
- 1:12:01Speaker 1: kind of takes this time and letting you know what
- 1:12:03Speaker 1: her background is, Like I think that could be like
- 1:12:06Speaker 1: a really cool storytelling approach of like you find out
- 1:12:10Speaker 1: something kind of late in the game, you're like, oh,
- 1:12:12Speaker 1: that kind of makes sense for why you are the
- 1:12:14Speaker 1: way you are and why you react the way you do.
- 1:12:16Speaker 1: But I just like, I don't know, Yeah, I wish
- 1:12:19Speaker 1: that we just got to see more of of her
- 1:12:23Speaker 1: outside of the Lucky dynamic, like you were saying, Caitlin
- 1:12:26Speaker 1: like with Ayesha and yeah, yeah, and that like I
- 1:12:31Speaker 1: love how important her poetry is to her, but it's
- 1:12:34Speaker 1: like you don't really get that. It doesn't really come
- 1:12:36Speaker 1: into the story that much where I don't know, Like
- 1:12:40Speaker 1: I like how it's woven in, but there's just I
- 1:12:42Speaker 1: thought there was more opportunities to like dig into that,
- 1:12:45Speaker 1: because it's like you're presented the movie like this is
- 1:12:47Speaker 1: going to be all about her, and then it's kind
- 1:12:51Speaker 1: of it's kind of more it becomes more ensembly, yeah,
- 1:12:54Speaker 1: because then you cut away after the first few minutes
- 1:12:57Speaker 1: of like setting up her exposition and stuff, you cut
- 1:13:01Speaker 1: away from her and you get a bunch of backstory
- 1:13:04Speaker 1: on Lucky and like his job and his daughter and
- 1:13:10Speaker 1: stuff like that. And I was like, oh, we're kind
- 1:13:12Speaker 1: of we're not seeing justice for like many many minutes
- 1:13:18Speaker 1: in a row, which is kind of a weird choice
- 1:13:20Speaker 1: considering she's like poised as being the protagonist of this movie.
- 1:13:23Speaker 1: But I don't know. I I agree that I would
- 1:13:26Speaker 1: have liked to see a little bit more of her
- 1:13:29Speaker 1: interior life. It's the same amount that Lucky gets, because
- 1:13:33Speaker 1: I feel like you get a lot of Lucky's home
- 1:13:35Speaker 1: life and you get a lot of his work life,
- 1:13:37Speaker 1: and you, I guess you do get justice his work life,
- 1:13:39Speaker 1: and you see her at the salon and talking with
- 1:13:41Speaker 1: their coworkers, but you don't like her home life is
- 1:13:44Speaker 1: so solitary, which makes sense later, but you just it
- 1:13:48Speaker 1: just feels like there's a piece of her story that
- 1:13:50Speaker 1: is like I just, yeah, I guess I can't like
- 1:13:52Speaker 1: describe it, right, But no, I never I Yeah, it's
- 1:13:56Speaker 1: it's great. I always I did think that, like the
- 1:14:00Speaker 1: scene when he goes picks up his daughter, and I said,
- 1:14:01Speaker 1: I was like, it's kind of long, like you know,
- 1:14:04Speaker 1: and because I get it that you're he's developing the
- 1:14:07Speaker 1: plot here, but like, yeah, I was like, it's good.
- 1:14:10Speaker 1: It probably could have been shorter, you know. And then
- 1:14:12Speaker 1: the yeah, the glimpse into whatever is going on under
- 1:14:16Speaker 1: the surface with with Justice is just that one scene
- 1:14:19Speaker 1: at home when she's taking care of herself, making the
- 1:14:21Speaker 1: faces and the mirror and stuff like that. We're like
- 1:14:23Speaker 1: where I'm like, oh my gosh, she's depressed, you know
- 1:14:25Speaker 1: what I mean, But I don't know why she's depressed,
- 1:14:28Speaker 1: and maybe you're trying to hold that for the reveal
- 1:14:30Speaker 1: to the end. But uh, yeah, like I I when
- 1:14:34Speaker 1: you said you were interested in her friendship with Aisha
- 1:14:36Speaker 1: a little more that, like, Yeah, that really got my
- 1:14:39Speaker 1: wheel spinning, because that's definitely left unresolved and as we
- 1:14:45Speaker 1: far as we know, Chicago still somewhere on the northern
- 1:14:47Speaker 1: coast Chicago or hooever, still wandering fifteen miles outside of
- 1:14:55Speaker 1: to this day, he'd have lost his job. You know
- 1:14:59Speaker 1: what I'm saying. They where our truck yet delivering a
- 1:15:02Speaker 1: Michael Ravenport. They're really in the middle of nowhere by
- 1:15:05Speaker 1: the time he gets kicked off. Yeah. I think one
- 1:15:09Speaker 1: of the reasons too that I felt like there was
- 1:15:11Speaker 1: something missing with Justices characterization is that a lot of
- 1:15:15Speaker 1: the conversations she has early on with people are her
- 1:15:20Speaker 1: and her boss Jesse, like the owner of the salon,
- 1:15:23Speaker 1: and her and Nisha, but they're the conversations are about
- 1:15:26Speaker 1: you need a man. When are you going to find
- 1:15:28Speaker 1: yourself a good man? Um, which is you know, I
- 1:15:31Speaker 1: guess the very nineties movie thing to do, especially for
- 1:15:36Speaker 1: this genre, but like also I think a very like
- 1:15:38Speaker 1: men writing women thing to do. Yeah, yeah, which I
- 1:15:42Speaker 1: can't meet. I can't argue there. I thought though, like
- 1:15:49Speaker 1: the age of the owner or the person saying that
- 1:15:51Speaker 1: to me is like that's where you get away with it.
- 1:15:54Speaker 1: Because that is something that our aunties would say to us,
- 1:15:59Speaker 1: you know what I'm and so when I so even
- 1:16:01Speaker 1: then when I think back to myself, like they say,
- 1:16:03Speaker 1: when you wat your little girlfriend, you got to a
- 1:16:05Speaker 1: little you keep God, Jay's keep him a little girlfriend,
- 1:16:07Speaker 1: a little pretty little thing, don't you know what I mean?
- 1:16:09Speaker 1: So that's so are are like elders would say stuff,
- 1:16:12Speaker 1: say stuff like that to us. But as a movie choice,
- 1:16:17Speaker 1: I think it's, yeah, that's that's a trip. It's you know,
- 1:16:21Speaker 1: next to a woman who owns her own business, like
- 1:16:24Speaker 1: you know, clearly fine, like she doing her thing, you
- 1:16:27Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Like, so it's interesting that that
- 1:16:29Speaker 1: would be your responses. And to me, she come off
- 1:16:32Speaker 1: as somebody that like, men are toys. To me, I
- 1:16:35Speaker 1: used them when I feel like them. You know, yeah,
- 1:16:37Speaker 1: I wrote down what she said. She said, a man
- 1:16:39Speaker 1: ain't nothing but a tool. You have to know when
- 1:16:43Speaker 1: to take them out of the box and when to
- 1:16:44Speaker 1: put him back in. And if you lose one, you
- 1:16:46Speaker 1: just go out and get yourself another one. So for
- 1:16:48Speaker 1: that for her to be this like, yeah, just you know,
- 1:16:52Speaker 1: use men whenever you want, which is like also not
- 1:16:54Speaker 1: the best advice, but for her to also be like,
- 1:16:59Speaker 1: but you're never We're gonna find happiness until you find
- 1:17:02Speaker 1: yourself a man who loves you and who you love
- 1:17:05Speaker 1: forever and ever. I was like, mm, there's a little
- 1:17:07Speaker 1: bit of dissonance there. That was where I was just
- 1:17:10Speaker 1: like like I And John Singleton does say in interviews
- 1:17:14Speaker 1: that he he spoke to a lot of the women
- 1:17:16Speaker 1: in his life and women he knew from South Central
- 1:17:19Speaker 1: to build out this world. But I feel like, yeah,
- 1:17:21Speaker 1: it's in those moments where you kind of feel like
- 1:17:24Speaker 1: the male author is is showing a little bit where
- 1:17:27Speaker 1: I like that, Like the three women we get to know,
- 1:17:31Speaker 1: I guess Jesse, Ayisha, and Justice, like they're all very
- 1:17:34Speaker 1: different people and they have really different approaches to life.
- 1:17:38Speaker 1: They have really different outlooks, but you really only get
- 1:17:41Speaker 1: to see those outlooks like either in like quick flashes
- 1:17:44Speaker 1: of friendship, like you get kind of a tease with
- 1:17:47Speaker 1: Justice and Ayisha, but mostly you see how these like
- 1:17:49Speaker 1: really distinct personalities react to relationships with men only. And
- 1:17:54Speaker 1: I would have liked to see these, like I thought,
- 1:17:56Speaker 1: pretty like well crafted characters of like you have a
- 1:18:00Speaker 1: woman who's a little older and owns her own business,
- 1:18:02Speaker 1: and like just men are tools to her. And then
- 1:18:05Speaker 1: you have Ayisha, who's like young and like exploring herself
- 1:18:10Speaker 1: and she's like struggling with alcoholism. And then Justice is
- 1:18:13Speaker 1: so introverted and it's like, you know, let's let's talk
- 1:18:16Speaker 1: about some other stuff too. Like there, those are so different.
- 1:18:21Speaker 1: I also found a ton of joy in the hint
- 1:18:24Speaker 1: of like the the gay relationship between the two male
- 1:18:29Speaker 1: hair stylists. Okay, unclear about what exactly was. So the
- 1:18:35Speaker 1: call was, I don't know if you caught this. The
- 1:18:37Speaker 1: call was when he's on the colonies, he's got aids. Oh,
- 1:18:43Speaker 1: that was the call. That's why he was freaking out
- 1:18:45Speaker 1: and he's fighting with this other stylists. Yeah. Yeah, so
- 1:18:50Speaker 1: that's it's this whole other story happening because again, a
- 1:18:54Speaker 1: very well known trope in inner city living is your
- 1:18:59Speaker 1: male hair stylists is most likely gay, you know, and
- 1:19:03Speaker 1: uh so it's a trope, but it comes from something,
- 1:19:06Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So like that moment, to me,
- 1:19:10Speaker 1: I was like, again, this is John Singleton sneaking, sneaking
- 1:19:14Speaker 1: the things in you know what I'm saying, and them
- 1:19:17Speaker 1: kind of dealing with that. I kind of wished, And
- 1:19:20Speaker 1: I mean, I know it's like such a side story.
- 1:19:22Speaker 1: It would have been such a derailment, but I kind
- 1:19:23Speaker 1: of wish they would have liked finished that one a
- 1:19:26Speaker 1: little bit more, you know what I'm saying. But I
- 1:19:31Speaker 1: was like, what is going on here? Yeah, we're looking
- 1:19:35Speaker 1: at it with like post stigma, Like at the time
- 1:19:39Speaker 1: there was still such a stigma, so you know, you
- 1:19:41Speaker 1: can only hand at it, you know again back to
- 1:19:43Speaker 1: like the black male persona of themselves and like things
- 1:19:48Speaker 1: that we're still not ready to admit. You know what
- 1:19:50Speaker 1: I'm saying. I think I think it kind of goes
- 1:19:53Speaker 1: back to that, but I had now, like again looking back,
- 1:19:58Speaker 1: like I appreciate him doing that. You know what I'm saying.
- 1:20:00Speaker 1: I'm glad you like at least started down that road,
- 1:20:04Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, to like have a little
- 1:20:05Speaker 1: more inclusive understanding of like all that it means to
- 1:20:08Speaker 1: be you know what we are, because it's not like
- 1:20:11Speaker 1: it's not like there wasn't l G B t Q
- 1:20:13Speaker 1: in the nineties, you know what I'm saying, Like it
- 1:20:16Speaker 1: didn't just appear like you know, I've always been here,
- 1:20:18Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Yeah, Yeah, I'd be curious
- 1:20:21Speaker 1: what our queer listeners think of that, because I honestly,
- 1:20:24Speaker 1: I'm like, this is blowing my mind because I did
- 1:20:26Speaker 1: not know how to read that scene at all. I
- 1:20:30Speaker 1: could be wrong, I could be absolutely wrong, but like
- 1:20:33Speaker 1: the way that she was patting his back, the way
- 1:20:35Speaker 1: that he was looking, the way that the character was,
- 1:20:38Speaker 1: I was like, this is the type of stuff again,
- 1:20:39Speaker 1: going back to the South Central stuff. This is the
- 1:20:41Speaker 1: type of stuff that in my mind, I'm like, that
- 1:20:43Speaker 1: looks real familiar to me, you know what I mean.
- 1:20:45Speaker 1: And I'd be really interested to hear what your queer
- 1:20:47Speaker 1: audience says too, because again, this was like I'm coming
- 1:20:51Speaker 1: at it from a black lens, you know, and I'm like,
- 1:20:54Speaker 1: that's what it would look like to me, you know
- 1:20:56Speaker 1: what i mean, Like at least then, you know, I'm
- 1:21:00Speaker 1: that's what it was looked like then, you know, especially
- 1:21:02Speaker 1: at a time where queerness and and the like, you know,
- 1:21:05Speaker 1: aids panic was so widely just cooked into media. That's yeah,
- 1:21:12Speaker 1: that's why. That's why it's like I drew that conclusion too,
- 1:21:14Speaker 1: because we was still we're still like I mean, at
- 1:21:16Speaker 1: there was so we was only a few years out
- 1:21:20Speaker 1: of thinking that it only happened to queer people, you
- 1:21:22Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like, at the end of the eighties,
- 1:21:24Speaker 1: that's we actually thought that it was only this community,
- 1:21:27Speaker 1: you feel me. So I think that there's like that moment,
- 1:21:31Speaker 1: in my mind, was his attempt to humanize in the
- 1:21:34Speaker 1: way that he knew how you know, I mean, obviously
- 1:21:37Speaker 1: it's you know what I'm saying. It definitely, I'm sure
- 1:21:42Speaker 1: like opened the door, if only by a small crack
- 1:21:46Speaker 1: as far as representation goes, because so many movies of
- 1:21:50Speaker 1: that era, if there was an inclusion of any queer characters,
- 1:21:54Speaker 1: it was they were the butt of a joke, coated tropes. Yeah,
- 1:21:58Speaker 1: all the all the stuff. Yeah, and yeah, so it's like, yo,
- 1:22:02Speaker 1: he's still a trope, you know what I'm saying. So like,
- 1:22:05Speaker 1: but like you said, like I felt as though this
- 1:22:10Speaker 1: was much now. Granted, when I was a preteen, I
- 1:22:12Speaker 1: didn't catch this, Like I felt like I caught it
- 1:22:14Speaker 1: in this in watching it this weekend, you know what
- 1:22:17Speaker 1: I'm saying. Um, And I actually thought, like, that's actually
- 1:22:21Speaker 1: a much more powerful moment than I would have guessed,
- 1:22:25Speaker 1: you know. And and again giving John Singleton his propers
- 1:22:28Speaker 1: as to like how he processes and sneaks in political
- 1:22:32Speaker 1: issues into his movies. I was like, this is probably
- 1:22:34Speaker 1: one of those moments. It's tricky because during that time
- 1:22:39Speaker 1: it was seen as a big risk for filmmakers to
- 1:22:42Speaker 1: include queer characters at all. So yeah, and it might
- 1:22:47Speaker 1: have been that reason that like the fact that we
- 1:22:50Speaker 1: don't even know what that phone call was about because
- 1:22:53Speaker 1: we can only just sort of like speculate and fill
- 1:22:55Speaker 1: in the gaps, just speaks to the fact that like
- 1:22:59Speaker 1: so little time time is dedicated to these characters. That again,
- 1:23:04Speaker 1: was it's like just a very nineties thing. So while
- 1:23:08Speaker 1: I appreciate like the the attempt at inclusion, it's all
- 1:23:13Speaker 1: it's like very much still like a product of its
- 1:23:15Speaker 1: time in terms of like we get so little, it's
- 1:23:19Speaker 1: not that meaningful. Yeah, yeah, Like I would just be
- 1:23:26Speaker 1: curious to know what our listeners think, yea, because it
- 1:23:28Speaker 1: wasn't even reading for me. Maybe it did in the time.
- 1:23:30Speaker 1: And again it's it's like, you know, the frustrating thing
- 1:23:34Speaker 1: here is ultimately like there should have been more projects
- 1:23:39Speaker 1: by queer directors that were championed and and and there
- 1:23:43Speaker 1: were in the nineties, but but certainly not to the
- 1:23:45Speaker 1: extent that was needed, and so it's like, you know,
- 1:23:47Speaker 1: it's not all on John Singleton to do every single thing,
- 1:23:51Speaker 1: but it's but that said, it's like it's yeah, it's
- 1:23:55Speaker 1: that feels kind of like an incremental thing that even
- 1:23:58Speaker 1: like to him. And because at this time, it's like
- 1:24:01Speaker 1: having a black female central character was perceived as a
- 1:24:05Speaker 1: creative risk, and including queer people in any way was
- 1:24:10Speaker 1: perceived as a risk. And so you know, none of
- 1:24:13Speaker 1: it is perfectly done, but most directors wouldn't even touch it.
- 1:24:19Speaker 1: So it's yeah, it's very very complicated. I hope this
- 1:24:24Speaker 1: isn't a derailment, but it might. Well if you ever
- 1:24:26Speaker 1: you start something like that, it probably is right, but
- 1:24:32Speaker 1: take it away. Yeah, in the way that you're saying, like, hey,
- 1:24:35Speaker 1: having a queer main character, having a black female, or
- 1:24:40Speaker 1: just a female lead in general being a risk, Like
- 1:24:43Speaker 1: I wonder sometimes I just I get into these like
- 1:24:47Speaker 1: thought bubbles of like why was why and how did
- 1:24:52Speaker 1: that become a belief? It just seems like of all
- 1:24:59Speaker 1: the places for a prejudice or patriarchy to like put
- 1:25:04Speaker 1: their flag in the sand at like why why this?
- 1:25:08Speaker 1: This seems like you know what what reminded me of
- 1:25:11Speaker 1: this thing. Like I watched um Hysterical on f X
- 1:25:16Speaker 1: about like female comics, and they were talking about this
- 1:25:19Speaker 1: thing like this women aren't funny thing and that like
- 1:25:24Speaker 1: a lot of female comics face and I just feel
- 1:25:26Speaker 1: like this is the most that's impossible to defend, like
- 1:25:31Speaker 1: that trope, like why would you put your flag of
- 1:25:34Speaker 1: all the things to put your flag on you know
- 1:25:37Speaker 1: what I'm saying, So the whole So I felt like
- 1:25:38Speaker 1: that with like female comics not beyond like what is
- 1:25:41Speaker 1: you talking about? Like you can't defend that, Like that's
- 1:25:45Speaker 1: an improvable and why would funny be gendered? Like this
- 1:25:49Speaker 1: is stupid? Like why that one? So to me? So
- 1:25:52Speaker 1: to me when I think about like well, what's the
- 1:25:55Speaker 1: risk to have a gaycare why? Like what like show
- 1:25:59Speaker 1: me the film that failed, Like do you know what
- 1:26:02Speaker 1: I'm saying? That had a woman living, Like what is
- 1:26:05Speaker 1: you talking about? Just so that's what it makes me.
- 1:26:08Speaker 1: That's what it makes me think when you're like, well
- 1:26:09Speaker 1: it was a risk, Like what Like why is that
- 1:26:13Speaker 1: a risk? Like I mean? And what is like that mental?
- 1:26:18Speaker 1: I mean? And what it boils down to is that
- 1:26:20Speaker 1: the people in charge of the film industry are still
- 1:26:23Speaker 1: a majority old, straight white, So it's like, it's it's
- 1:26:26Speaker 1: it's not I think that it's presented as a risk.
- 1:26:29Speaker 1: But we I mean, we've talked about this a zillion
- 1:26:31Speaker 1: times on the show. When there are women centered in stories,
- 1:26:35Speaker 1: when there are black women centers in stories, where there
- 1:26:37Speaker 1: are queer people centered in stories, most of those movies
- 1:26:40Speaker 1: do extraordinarily well. Because that's like, so it's it's it's
- 1:26:46Speaker 1: frustrating to have it presented as like, well, this is
- 1:26:49Speaker 1: a creative risk and you're like, but what about like
- 1:26:51Speaker 1: all five brillion examples, you know, and here are billions
- 1:26:56Speaker 1: of dollars in revenues. That's what I mean. Yeah, what
- 1:27:00Speaker 1: I mean, it's an indefensible position. So I'm like, if
- 1:27:03Speaker 1: you run the studio and you're telling me that's a risk,
- 1:27:05Speaker 1: and then I show you seventeen home runs, then I'm like,
- 1:27:09Speaker 1: what the where are you getting this from? Like that
- 1:27:12Speaker 1: don't why don't you just say what it really is?
- 1:27:14Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. And so that's the part
- 1:27:16Speaker 1: that like, that's the part that I just go, God,
- 1:27:18Speaker 1: this just blows my mind. Yeah, a derailment was a derailment? No, Well,
- 1:27:24Speaker 1: I mean it's it's it's very relevant to like our
- 1:27:28Speaker 1: our show because it is because, like like you said, Jamie,
- 1:27:32Speaker 1: the people who historically have run the studios run the industry,
- 1:27:37Speaker 1: which is yeah, and still mostly do. This is Hollywood
- 1:27:41Speaker 1: is and always has been, and probably always will be,
- 1:27:45Speaker 1: only concerned about profit margins and the very specific demographic
- 1:27:51Speaker 1: of people who are making the business and creative decisions
- 1:27:57Speaker 1: regarding movies perceive certain stories to be a risk, even
- 1:28:02Speaker 1: though again there's so much evidence to the contrary, verifiably false.
- 1:28:08Speaker 1: But then what will happen is like someone else comes to,
- 1:28:11Speaker 1: you know, the studio and says, Okay, I have an
- 1:28:14Speaker 1: idea for another black superhero movie, for example, and they'll say, well,
- 1:28:19Speaker 1: we already have one of those. We don't right when
- 1:28:22Speaker 1: it's like, can you give a second of thought to this? Yeah, yeah,
- 1:28:28Speaker 1: you already have forty seven thousand white superhero I'm just like,
- 1:28:32Speaker 1: have we seen the Marvel Universe? Like, what is you
- 1:28:36Speaker 1: talking about? There's plenty of space. Yeah, it's not a
- 1:28:39Speaker 1: defensible vision, but I feel like it is, especially in
- 1:28:42Speaker 1: in the nineties. I mean up until pretty recently, it
- 1:28:46Speaker 1: was like not a position that most Hollywood people would question.
- 1:28:52Speaker 1: They're like, oh yeah, totally, yeah, no, there can only
- 1:28:54Speaker 1: be one movie with black women as a protagonist. Totally
- 1:28:58Speaker 1: makes sense, you know, yeah, yeah, It's just like I
- 1:29:02Speaker 1: just I get meta on those things where I'm just
- 1:29:04Speaker 1: like why this, Like why is that the thing? Like
- 1:29:08Speaker 1: there's of all that, like you can't because again, you
- 1:29:11Speaker 1: can't defend this, that's there's clear evidence otherwise I just
- 1:29:16Speaker 1: don't understand why that's the thing. Well, it's the infuriating
- 1:29:19Speaker 1: thing too, because it reaches the point with those kinds
- 1:29:21Speaker 1: of executives where they are like their own prejudices and
- 1:29:26Speaker 1: like discomfort with stories that do not reflect them directly,
- 1:29:30Speaker 1: reaches the point where they're leaving money on the table
- 1:29:33Speaker 1: for kind of reason. Yes, it's yeah, ridiculous. It's very frustrating,
- 1:29:39Speaker 1: and I think both of you are hilarious. Women are funny.
- 1:29:45Speaker 1: Did it we myth busted? Busted? I just feel like,
- 1:29:51Speaker 1: I mean, we're not talking about I know this is
- 1:29:53Speaker 1: not what this episode is about, but it's just it's
- 1:29:55Speaker 1: front of mind because I'm just like, where did y'all
- 1:29:58Speaker 1: even get that? Like? Who? I'm like you, where did you? Like?
- 1:30:02Speaker 1: I feel like y'all y'all just pulled that one out
- 1:30:03Speaker 1: your gask like, there's no you have there's no reason,
- 1:30:07Speaker 1: there was no way you could have ever drawn that
- 1:30:09Speaker 1: conclusion by living on earth, Like, that's just not how
- 1:30:14Speaker 1: you why. I had a guy that I was very
- 1:30:18Speaker 1: briefly dating and not dating after this comment from him
- 1:30:22Speaker 1: say to me specifically, pretty women can't be funny. Um,
- 1:30:28Speaker 1: and I said, number one, thank you for calling me pretty.
- 1:30:31Speaker 1: Number two funk off forever. Yeah, essentially, Yeah, that's ridiculous. Yeah, anyway,
- 1:30:43Speaker 1: poetic justice, any other any other uh one thing I
- 1:30:48Speaker 1: wanted to bring up. Aisha does this thing again. Regina
- 1:30:54Speaker 1: king Is is amazing. She's only twenty two in this movie,
- 1:30:57Speaker 1: I'm like, so good. Her performance is incredible. She's she's
- 1:31:02Speaker 1: so she brings the comedy and humor I mean speaking
- 1:31:06Speaker 1: of women being hilarious. The humor that she brings to
- 1:31:09Speaker 1: every role I've ever seen her in is just like staggering.
- 1:31:13Speaker 1: I love her character. She does do this thing though
- 1:31:16Speaker 1: that that bothered me and it felt, you know, of
- 1:31:19Speaker 1: the of the time, and it's still a thing that
- 1:31:20Speaker 1: that happens today. Where one of the reasons that her
- 1:31:24Speaker 1: relationship with Chicago is is not is not great is
- 1:31:30Speaker 1: that she is constantly be rating him for his inability
- 1:31:34Speaker 1: to maintain an erection and his premature ejaculation. Yeah, which
- 1:31:39Speaker 1: we've talked about on this show pretty recently. Yeah, yeah,
- 1:31:43Speaker 1: we talked about penis size specifically and like how problematic
- 1:31:47Speaker 1: it is to shame people for having a small penis.
- 1:31:51Speaker 1: And then like with Aisha, she's insulting Chicago's like quote
- 1:31:56Speaker 1: manhood and like deliberately trying to emasculate to him for
- 1:32:01Speaker 1: the things that he's experiencing, which is similarly problematic. But
- 1:32:05Speaker 1: that's a complicated issue though, because it's like that in
- 1:32:09Speaker 1: the fact that that is not how you should talk
- 1:32:10Speaker 1: to your partner in no way justifies the way he
- 1:32:13Speaker 1: reacts to it, which is absolutely you know, yeah, totally. Yeah. Yeah,
- 1:32:18Speaker 1: that's the interlocking thing that like it's still like her
- 1:32:22Speaker 1: character is. I mean, it's spot on, like that's that's
- 1:32:26Speaker 1: a hood girl, you know what I'm saying, who in
- 1:32:29Speaker 1: her brain is doing the right thing? Because man at ship,
- 1:32:34Speaker 1: so they only want me for this, So I'm gonna
- 1:32:37Speaker 1: get what I need from him, you know what I'm saying.
- 1:32:39Speaker 1: And it's like it's almost like you know, yeah, it's
- 1:32:43Speaker 1: using the tools of the oppressor against them. Like so
- 1:32:45Speaker 1: this it's that's what she's doing. It's like this is
- 1:32:48Speaker 1: this is what it means to be a boss is
- 1:32:52Speaker 1: you rerate the people up under you. So it's like
- 1:32:55Speaker 1: she's just doing what toxic masculine culture taught you to do.
- 1:33:00Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, you'd be a person into submission,
- 1:33:03Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And I think that that's
- 1:33:05Speaker 1: again that's the part that like, I mean, I grieve now,
- 1:33:09Speaker 1: you know seeing that image. You know what I'm saying.
- 1:33:12Speaker 1: I know it's a movie, but it's like, yeah, you
- 1:33:16Speaker 1: I just I see my childhood, you know what I'm saying.
- 1:33:18Speaker 1: I see I see the girls I grew up with,
- 1:33:20Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, And uh, I grew up
- 1:33:22Speaker 1: in a mixed black and Latino community, so like like
- 1:33:26Speaker 1: I know this exact version in the Latino world, you
- 1:33:29Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. And it's just coming from this
- 1:33:33Speaker 1: environment that you you this is all you know, Like
- 1:33:36Speaker 1: all you know is like a boss runs things, don't
- 1:33:39Speaker 1: take no ship from nobody. You know, you ain't got
- 1:33:42Speaker 1: no love for house, you know what I'm saying. You
- 1:33:44Speaker 1: just have this like attitude where it's like it's no love.
- 1:33:46Speaker 1: It's pimping out here. I'm getting what I got. You
- 1:33:48Speaker 1: feel me rather than and why should the men get
- 1:33:51Speaker 1: it all? You feel me like I'm gonna do my
- 1:33:53Speaker 1: pimp into you know, and m and I always say,
- 1:33:58Speaker 1: like from a male perspect active, I use the term
- 1:34:01Speaker 1: pimping on purpose because it's like, and we have a
- 1:34:04Speaker 1: whole episode on the Top Politics about it where I'm
- 1:34:06Speaker 1: like something about your soul has to crumble and die
- 1:34:09Speaker 1: to be a good pimp, like you have like you
- 1:34:13Speaker 1: have to be dead inside because of like what you
- 1:34:17Speaker 1: have to do to another human being to be a
- 1:34:20Speaker 1: successful one is like you can't do that and have
- 1:34:23Speaker 1: a soul, Like it's just the two don't work, you know.
- 1:34:27Speaker 1: So to me, it's like that PERSONA is the worst
- 1:34:32Speaker 1: of us, you know what I mean, but it's presented
- 1:34:35Speaker 1: as the most successful of us, the most alluring of us,
- 1:34:38Speaker 1: because it's the most flashy, it's the most you know
- 1:34:41Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like nobody can hurt you, you know,
- 1:34:44Speaker 1: because we spend so much time hurt all the damn
- 1:34:48Speaker 1: time we heard, you know what I'm saying, So you
- 1:34:50Speaker 1: just take on that that person And and then again,
- 1:34:54Speaker 1: why scho the dudes have all the fun. So rather
- 1:34:56Speaker 1: than like, you know, having this like a little boy,
- 1:35:01Speaker 1: your soul is broke, you know. And I'm not gonna
- 1:35:04Speaker 1: repeat that. It's like you you learned from the worst
- 1:35:08Speaker 1: of us, you know, and and it's it's and you
- 1:35:10Speaker 1: know and and be honest, like you know, lucky for me,
- 1:35:13Speaker 1: Thank thank my lucky stars. Like even though my parents split,
- 1:35:17Speaker 1: you know, my father was around, you know what I mean,
- 1:35:19Speaker 1: so like and I was around a lot of like
- 1:35:22Speaker 1: I knew a lot of dads, you know what I'm saying.
- 1:35:24Speaker 1: And I was able to navigate away from a lot
- 1:35:27Speaker 1: of those choices. But but don't get me wrong, him
- 1:35:31Speaker 1: coming home with like bruised knuckles from working, you know,
- 1:35:34Speaker 1: laying concrete all day, you know what I'm saying to
- 1:35:37Speaker 1: an honest date's pay was very different than that sixty
- 1:35:40Speaker 1: four and Paula, you feel me, came bouncing down the
- 1:35:42Speaker 1: road with all these bad girls on his arms. You
- 1:35:45Speaker 1: feel me, Um, it was very hard, you know what
- 1:35:48Speaker 1: I'm saying. It's why why would you not desire that?
- 1:35:51Speaker 1: You know? Um? So her character all that to say,
- 1:35:54Speaker 1: her character actually kind of grieve me in a lot
- 1:35:56Speaker 1: of ways. Because it just it reminds it reminded me
- 1:35:59Speaker 1: of like just the like the allure you know what
- 1:36:03Speaker 1: I'm saying, of taking on that persona and how it's
- 1:36:07Speaker 1: like it's it's destroying her and it's destroying them, you
- 1:36:12Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, and her alcohol like her, she's hurt,
- 1:36:17Speaker 1: she's in pain. Yeah, I'm saying, So that's why you're
- 1:36:20Speaker 1: doing this. Yeah, that's why I wish that there and
- 1:36:22Speaker 1: this this does seem to be I haven't seen a
- 1:36:26Speaker 1: few titles in like John Singleton's later work, but it's
- 1:36:28Speaker 1: like I know that he's not generally like he doesn't
- 1:36:31Speaker 1: want to spell out the moral for you, like clearly
- 1:36:34Speaker 1: at the end of the movie, and I like totally
- 1:36:36Speaker 1: respect that approach. I do wish that, like you you
- 1:36:38Speaker 1: got like some sort of button for her character because
- 1:36:43Speaker 1: I think that, you know what you're saying, prop makes
- 1:36:45Speaker 1: total sense of like she is using the tools of
- 1:36:47Speaker 1: the oppressor to survive. She's clearly and a lot of pain,
- 1:36:52Speaker 1: and you don't really get a feeling for where she lands,
- 1:36:56Speaker 1: even though it's so clear that she's like really hurting,
- 1:37:00Speaker 1: and it's I think that that expands to what you
- 1:37:03Speaker 1: were saying earlier, Caitlin is like, I think that just
- 1:37:06Speaker 1: by exploring the Justice Aysha friendship and history would have
- 1:37:11Speaker 1: served the movie overall because you just would have gotten
- 1:37:14Speaker 1: more from both of them. Because with Justice, I mean,
- 1:37:16Speaker 1: I think you the outside of that like conversation before
- 1:37:21Speaker 1: she and Lucky Um hook up, the most of what
- 1:37:25Speaker 1: we learned about her is like her telling us, and
- 1:37:28Speaker 1: it's very internal, and she's so withdrawn from the people
- 1:37:31Speaker 1: in her life, and it would have been Yeah, like
- 1:37:34Speaker 1: I would have I like that you have so many
- 1:37:38Speaker 1: different kinds of flawed people in this narrative. But yeah,
- 1:37:42Speaker 1: like with with Ayisha and Justice specifically, I just would
- 1:37:45Speaker 1: have liked to see those those flaws and those sources
- 1:37:48Speaker 1: of hurt and like justices, grief and just like explore
- 1:37:52Speaker 1: them a little more together and and not just see
- 1:37:56Speaker 1: there her manifest through their relationships with men Um, because
- 1:38:00Speaker 1: that's I mean, that scene on the side of the
- 1:38:02Speaker 1: road with Justice and Aisha, that's such a powerful scene
- 1:38:05Speaker 1: and like where you know, Aisha throws up justices like this,
- 1:38:10Speaker 1: you're hurting me and you're hurting yourself and this brings
- 1:38:14Speaker 1: me pain from my life because my mom did this
- 1:38:17Speaker 1: and just all this stuff that you're just like, oh,
- 1:38:20Speaker 1: more of that, Like I just I don't know, because yeah,
- 1:38:26Speaker 1: that that Aisha Chicago storyline. I mean, it's it's so
- 1:38:29Speaker 1: fucked up on on, you know, and and there's different
- 1:38:33Speaker 1: levels of fault at play here, and nothing justifies how
- 1:38:38Speaker 1: he physically abused her. And seeing someone set off by
- 1:38:42Speaker 1: being masculated and responding with violence. Unfortunately, it's like you know,
- 1:38:46Speaker 1: that's that's that doesn't come from nowhere, Like that happens
- 1:38:50Speaker 1: all the time. And yeah, I just I wish that
- 1:38:53Speaker 1: was still shocking. It was. Yeah, I didn't see it coming.
- 1:38:58Speaker 1: I knew it was coming, and I still and I
- 1:39:00Speaker 1: still was like like it's still like shook me. You know,
- 1:39:05Speaker 1: like I know it's a movie and I've seen the movie,
- 1:39:09Speaker 1: and I still can't believe he did that. You know,
- 1:39:11Speaker 1: I do think that that it was like because we
- 1:39:13Speaker 1: talked about on the show a lot of a lot
- 1:39:15Speaker 1: of like because Chicago is kind of just like a guy,
- 1:39:18Speaker 1: you know, he's like a pretty like he's just a guy.
- 1:39:22Speaker 1: He loves his hairbrush. He's not in the union. He's
- 1:39:27Speaker 1: not in the union. That's unfortunately most people. Yeah, but
- 1:39:32Speaker 1: but like I always think it is like an interesting
- 1:39:37Speaker 1: and often effective storytelling mechanism to like have a really common,
- 1:39:44Speaker 1: you know, abuse tactic like Chicago physically lashing out at
- 1:39:48Speaker 1: his partner like attributed to a normal guy, because that
- 1:39:51Speaker 1: is more often than not, you know, like it's not
- 1:39:54Speaker 1: generally supervillains walking through that. It's it's normal people. That
- 1:39:58Speaker 1: it comes from this like very dark place of hurt
- 1:40:02Speaker 1: and in his case, feeling emasculated, and that that that's
- 1:40:07Speaker 1: coming from I don't know, Yeah, not having the like tools,
- 1:40:13Speaker 1: you know, to just first of all, to not be
- 1:40:15Speaker 1: in a relationship in the first place, because like there
- 1:40:17Speaker 1: was y'all should have both known this, like this ain't
- 1:40:20Speaker 1: gonna work. But like horrible humans, I'll say it toxically right,
- 1:40:26Speaker 1: but like to have the tools to just kind of
- 1:40:29Speaker 1: like stop a fight, which is something I feel like,
- 1:40:32Speaker 1: you know, after so many years of marriage, it's we
- 1:40:34Speaker 1: still I still have to catch myself too to be
- 1:40:36Speaker 1: figure out how to stop a fight and go, okay, listen,
- 1:40:39Speaker 1: here's here's what's coming up with me. Here's what it
- 1:40:42Speaker 1: reminds me of. And we will never get any further,
- 1:40:45Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying until this and this is
- 1:40:48Speaker 1: dealt with because that's your your purposefully trying. That's one
- 1:40:52Speaker 1: thing we made a real a big deal about, like
- 1:40:55Speaker 1: was to be like, let's assume that no one's trying
- 1:40:58Speaker 1: to hurt the other, Like I'm not trying to. I'm
- 1:41:02Speaker 1: going to, but like assume that I'm not trying to,
- 1:41:07Speaker 1: you know. But whenever like that feeling feels up where
- 1:41:10Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, I feel like you're trying to hurt
- 1:41:13Speaker 1: me or you're trying to one up me, like to
- 1:41:16Speaker 1: have that like stop, stop the moment, step out of
- 1:41:19Speaker 1: it for a second and just be like, I'm getting
- 1:41:23Speaker 1: too much in the weeds. The point I'm trying to
- 1:41:24Speaker 1: make is like black men need to go to therapy.
- 1:41:28Speaker 1: It's the point I'm trying to make go to therapy.
- 1:41:32Speaker 1: Fellas Like I would extend that to oh man, and
- 1:41:36Speaker 1: I would extend that to all people. I was like,
- 1:41:39Speaker 1: how about literally everybody? Yes, could God go to therapy?
- 1:41:44Speaker 1: What I tell you dig like, oh, oh man, I'm
- 1:41:49Speaker 1: just like if you just go to fam, you just
- 1:41:51Speaker 1: need to go to therapy. You know what I'm saying, Like,
- 1:41:53Speaker 1: just go to therapy, go to therapy. Just go to therapy. Okay,
- 1:41:59Speaker 1: that's a ship. Would this whole movie would have been
- 1:42:01Speaker 1: so much shorter, just wit the therapy that comes up
- 1:42:07Speaker 1: a lot too on the show. We're like, this plot
- 1:42:09Speaker 1: of this movie wouldn't have even happened if every of
- 1:42:12Speaker 1: all these characters were just in therapy. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 1:42:17Speaker 1: I wish. And there's like a part there. I liked
- 1:42:20Speaker 1: that there was early in the movie so clear of
- 1:42:22Speaker 1: an out for justice where her car doesn't start. I
- 1:42:25Speaker 1: was like, oh, I just don't just don't get in
- 1:42:26Speaker 1: the mail truck. Boom problem solved done. Yeah, you could
- 1:42:30Speaker 1: just not go, can't make it. She had to go
- 1:42:34Speaker 1: to her hair show though I know, yeah she did
- 1:42:36Speaker 1: have she did have to get to the hair show. Yeah,
- 1:42:39Speaker 1: she could have called her boss. She could car. Did
- 1:42:42Speaker 1: I get a ride of Yeah, the car won't start?
- 1:42:44Speaker 1: A girl? Can I go with you? Like easy? You
- 1:42:46Speaker 1: wanted to go? But then the whole time and been
- 1:42:51Speaker 1: like why are you? Why are you an old single?
- 1:42:54Speaker 1: Twenty three? Like yeah, actually yeah, see a matter of fact,
- 1:43:03Speaker 1: I guess she did kind of make the most logical
- 1:43:06Speaker 1: choice given the information she had at that moment, you know,
- 1:43:09Speaker 1: which is like look, I'll just I'll just sit here,
- 1:43:12Speaker 1: I'll just write I don't know who the other guy is,
- 1:43:15Speaker 1: plus her best friends. There my best friend. It's only
- 1:43:19Speaker 1: a few hours that she was going to like, there's
- 1:43:24Speaker 1: just a lot of things. No, rus three hours longer,
- 1:43:30Speaker 1: Like why are you going that way? Lucky? Come on? Yeah? Uh?
- 1:43:37Speaker 1: Does anyone have any other thoughts about the movie? Um?
- 1:43:42Speaker 1: I wanted to share this quote from writer named Michelle
- 1:43:47Speaker 1: Wallace who originally reviewed this movie uh in Entertainment Weekly.
- 1:43:53Speaker 1: I was looking scrambling, one could say, to find, um,
- 1:43:58Speaker 1: just just an in site from a black feminist of
- 1:44:01Speaker 1: how this movie was received at the time, and I
- 1:44:04Speaker 1: thought her writing was really interesting. So I just wanted
- 1:44:06Speaker 1: to share this quote from her. She says, quote as
- 1:44:11Speaker 1: a consequence of his unwillingness to take this work or
- 1:44:14Speaker 1: indeed black female thought seriously, his poet has no voice,
- 1:44:18Speaker 1: meaning John Singleton. He invents Injustice a character who seems
- 1:44:22Speaker 1: capable of morality and intelligence, but then he gags her unquote.
- 1:44:26Speaker 1: Um yeah, I mean the more I think about this movie,
- 1:44:30Speaker 1: the more I'm like, how much of this is Justice's
- 1:44:35Speaker 1: story and how much of it is it Lucky's still
- 1:44:40Speaker 1: like it doesn't feel Yeah, I don't know, it's it
- 1:44:42Speaker 1: centers around this this romantic relationship where we as we've
- 1:44:45Speaker 1: talked about like don't get to know Justice all that well,
- 1:44:49Speaker 1: I'm not even sure we can call her the protagonists.
- 1:44:52Speaker 1: I think there's like a dual protagonist situation happening. Like
- 1:44:55Speaker 1: I mean, it's it's unsurprising that like a man directing
- 1:45:00Speaker 1: would like gravitate more towards the male character that he
- 1:45:04Speaker 1: had created in terms of like having the audience experienced
- 1:45:07Speaker 1: the story through a man's lens. But they're just felt
- 1:45:11Speaker 1: like a bit of dissonance throughout the story For me,
- 1:45:16Speaker 1: I agree, And I think that that's like the last
- 1:45:19Speaker 1: thought that I had that Again, it's like, I'm very
- 1:45:23Speaker 1: glad that this movie exists. I think that it was,
- 1:45:26Speaker 1: you know, like a valiant effort and iconic in many ways,
- 1:45:29Speaker 1: but particularly because John Singleton literally has the work of
- 1:45:35Speaker 1: Maya Angelou here, who speaks to the black female experience
- 1:45:41Speaker 1: so like eloquently, like most maybe most iconically ever in
- 1:45:46Speaker 1: the US, um, I feel like it almost makes it
- 1:45:49Speaker 1: stick out a little more how we don't know that
- 1:45:51Speaker 1: much about Justice, particularly in the moment where she's reading
- 1:45:53Speaker 1: Phenomenal Woman, one of the most famous poems of all
- 1:45:57Speaker 1: time by anybody that is a about womanhood and about
- 1:46:03Speaker 1: processing your own experiences. And during that sequence, I was like,
- 1:46:07Speaker 1: I just felt like a little unearned because it's such
- 1:46:10Speaker 1: a beautiful poem. And I was like, but I don't
- 1:46:12Speaker 1: understand how this is about justice. I don't understand how
- 1:46:15Speaker 1: Justice would write this poem about everything that just happened,
- 1:46:19Speaker 1: you know what I mean, based right, based on the
- 1:46:21Speaker 1: events of the story up until that point, like Okay,
- 1:46:24Speaker 1: you were screamed at by a man to sex with
- 1:46:29Speaker 1: a few hours later, like in that like, I don't
- 1:46:33Speaker 1: is that like a men's idea of what is empowering
- 1:46:36Speaker 1: for women? I just don't. I mean, and this is
- 1:46:38Speaker 1: like not even a severe like burn to John Singleton's work,
- 1:46:43Speaker 1: but it's because it's you know, it's hard to rise
- 1:46:46Speaker 1: to Maya Angel's level. But I just felt like the
- 1:46:49Speaker 1: story didn't rise to her poetry totally. Yeah, the last
- 1:46:56Speaker 1: thing I wanted to because we've like referenced this earlier,
- 1:46:58Speaker 1: but um Janet act and uh, you know, she grew
- 1:47:01Speaker 1: up very rich, and I was like, oh, how did
- 1:47:03Speaker 1: she prepare for this role? How how did she do it?
- 1:47:07Speaker 1: She hung out with a hairdresser and three women from
- 1:47:10Speaker 1: South Central and eight waffles for three weeks. That's how
- 1:47:13Speaker 1: she prepared. It was just it was such a simple.
- 1:47:18Speaker 1: And then she said, I grew up black and proud,
- 1:47:21Speaker 1: and because I become from a wealthy family doesn't mean
- 1:47:24Speaker 1: I can't relate to a working girl's pain. I was like,
- 1:47:27Speaker 1: I don't know. She she hung out in ate waffles
- 1:47:29Speaker 1: for three weeks and that was her friend. I know.
- 1:47:30Speaker 1: I was just like, you know, there's this feelings of
- 1:47:34Speaker 1: privilege jumping out there. Yeah, cool to not know that. Sorry, no,
- 1:47:39Speaker 1: I'm saying for her, like for her it cool. She
- 1:47:41Speaker 1: had just kept that to herself. Nothing. Yeah, I just
- 1:47:45Speaker 1: say nothing. Oh, you know, it's acting. You know what
- 1:47:47Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like we came from this, but it's not
- 1:47:49Speaker 1: like we were always this, you know, right, Well, you know,
- 1:47:52Speaker 1: I just want to go stay with the fan. I
- 1:47:55Speaker 1: ate waffles for three weeks? What this Crossford? Yes, I
- 1:48:00Speaker 1: canna tell you a funny story. Okay, I know for
- 1:48:04Speaker 1: a fact, because would nobody that was at this thing
- 1:48:07Speaker 1: would ever listen to this. So this is great. Um.
- 1:48:11Speaker 1: Early on in the career, I was on this tour,
- 1:48:13Speaker 1: uh two thousand and twelve, a bunch of us um
- 1:48:17Speaker 1: and uh It just remind me of the Waffles thing. Uh.
- 1:48:20Speaker 1: And I'm the only one on the tour that's from
- 1:48:23Speaker 1: l A. Everybody else is there off from the south, right,
- 1:48:26Speaker 1: give or take a couple of dudes from New York.
- 1:48:28Speaker 1: So it's like our big tour bus tour first, like
- 1:48:32Speaker 1: major thing. We're playing the Palladium. It's incredible, right, So
- 1:48:35Speaker 1: it's like um again, l A boy, I can't believe
- 1:48:39Speaker 1: I get to play the Palladium. This is like bucket list.
- 1:48:41Speaker 1: Oh my god. Right, so we get there. The promoters like, hey, man, okay,
- 1:48:48Speaker 1: it's twelve black men, right, twelve black men and our
- 1:48:54Speaker 1: DJ who's Puerto Rican from New York and the homie
- 1:48:58Speaker 1: Andy from syrac just like just Andy, like just lacrosse
- 1:49:04Speaker 1: playing like Boston strong white boy. Right, But and Andy
- 1:49:09Speaker 1: can wrap his ass off like he wanted those rappers.
- 1:49:12Speaker 1: I know, just white boy from upstate New York. You
- 1:49:15Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So just so you know him,
- 1:49:18Speaker 1: you already know him, right, So anyway, the promoter walks
- 1:49:22Speaker 1: and he grows, man, I just want to congratulate you guys.
- 1:49:23Speaker 1: You're playing the Palladium. You sold it out, guys, So like, hey,
- 1:49:26Speaker 1: has a gift. You know, I'm gonna give you something
- 1:49:28Speaker 1: just from l A to remember your thing. Right now again,
- 1:49:31Speaker 1: I'm the native, right, everybody else not from l A.
- 1:49:34Speaker 1: So the guy breaks out. He's got stacks of Roscoe's
- 1:49:38Speaker 1: Chicken and Waffles T shirts, right, and he's passing him out.
- 1:49:43Speaker 1: He's like, uh, Waffles roscars right. So we're all looking
- 1:49:50Speaker 1: at each other like did he just give us chicken
- 1:49:53Speaker 1: and waffle T shirts? Did this? Did this promoter just
- 1:49:57Speaker 1: give us that? Right? And and he's like this is awesome,
- 1:50:01Speaker 1: Like oh my god, like what are you guys? Problems?
- 1:50:06Speaker 1: You love Roscoe's, right? Didn't we go there for lunch? Guys? Right?
- 1:50:11Speaker 1: So it's just like this promoter just gave twelve black
- 1:50:15Speaker 1: men a waffle T shirt for selling out his venue.
- 1:50:23Speaker 1: I wasn't mad as much as I was like, this
- 1:50:26Speaker 1: is hilarious. He really like again because I'm from here.
- 1:50:29Speaker 1: So I'm like, Bro, Bro, all the of all the
- 1:50:33Speaker 1: gifts you could have given us, this man gave us.
- 1:50:36Speaker 1: And I get it. It's next door to the padium.
- 1:50:37Speaker 1: There's a Roscoe's next door to I understand, right, I understand,
- 1:50:41Speaker 1: But at Samet, I was just like, Bro Waffles So
- 1:50:44Speaker 1: I hadn't thought about that until you told me Janet
- 1:50:46Speaker 1: Jackson and trep for this show winning eight waffles for
- 1:50:50Speaker 1: three weeks. That's really what y'all think of us, chrazy.
- 1:50:58Speaker 1: Oh my god, I wonder if John Ingleton new that
- 1:51:01Speaker 1: was I don't know, that is hilarious. I just I
- 1:51:06Speaker 1: haven't told that story a year. I'm sorry for resurfacing that. No,
- 1:51:12Speaker 1: it's so good. And me and Hommie Andy, we still
- 1:51:15Speaker 1: laugh at that story because he was just like that
- 1:51:17Speaker 1: was He's like, this was my first lesson, Like because
- 1:51:19Speaker 1: I was like, I don't understand the problem. Like, we
- 1:51:23Speaker 1: love waffles, don't we. I was like, yes, Andy, waffles
- 1:51:28Speaker 1: are delicious, They're amazing. I had some this morning. Yes,
- 1:51:35Speaker 1: and now I'm hungry for waffles. We bought a new
- 1:51:39Speaker 1: waffle iron two. You know what I'm saying, I might
- 1:51:42Speaker 1: actually actually make waffles. Night waffles are special. Seriously, dude,
- 1:51:48Speaker 1: night waffles breakfast for dinner is still a treat my favorite. Well,
- 1:51:56Speaker 1: what's the Bechtel score? The movie does pass the Bechdel
- 1:52:01Speaker 1: tests by our standards, which we forgot to talk about
- 1:52:08Speaker 1: at the top of the show, but considering the like
- 1:52:11Speaker 1: meaningful conversation between two people, two named characters of any
- 1:52:16Speaker 1: marginalized gender. The because Justice and you should talk about hair.
- 1:52:22Speaker 1: They talk about Asia's drinking problem. They do talk about
- 1:52:25Speaker 1: men a lot, Yeah, as do Justice and Jesse. I
- 1:52:30Speaker 1: think they exclusively talk about No, there's a scene where
- 1:52:34Speaker 1: they talk about receipts. Yeah, they talk about receipts and
- 1:52:38Speaker 1: like a rogue line about poetry. And I was like, okay,
- 1:52:42Speaker 1: we got an exchange, but yeah, it wasn't that right.
- 1:52:47Speaker 1: Oh and and and Jesse says something like why are
- 1:52:49Speaker 1: you wearing that hat all the time? And that makes
- 1:52:54Speaker 1: you thinks it's a lot of conversations about men. And then,
- 1:52:59Speaker 1: in terms of our nipple scale zero to five nipples
- 1:53:03Speaker 1: based on an examination of intersectional feminism as it applies
- 1:53:08Speaker 1: to the movie, I feel like this one might get
- 1:53:14Speaker 1: kind of a split down the middle. I feel like,
- 1:53:16Speaker 1: maybe like a two point five where two point five
- 1:53:20Speaker 1: nipples Yes, I'm so sorry to be bisecting a nipple
- 1:53:24Speaker 1: and half harsh yeah to it and a half because yeah,
- 1:53:33Speaker 1: I mean, I like Justice as a character, I love Aisha,
- 1:53:39Speaker 1: I love their friendship. I just think there was opportunities
- 1:53:42Speaker 1: to explore more about these women in the movie. I
- 1:53:47Speaker 1: don't like that there are so many people telling Justice, Oh,
- 1:53:51Speaker 1: you just need a man and then you'll be happy.
- 1:53:55Speaker 1: I also cannot get behind the Justice Lucky relationship, especially
- 1:54:00Speaker 1: after how we see him treating her early on. But
- 1:54:04Speaker 1: I appreciate the general idea of wanting to center a
- 1:54:09Speaker 1: story around black joy and black people falling in love
- 1:54:13Speaker 1: while also showing these characters in their world and their
- 1:54:18Speaker 1: circumstances and providing the context in a nuanced way. So
- 1:54:24Speaker 1: two and a half nipples. I'll give one to Janet Jackson,
- 1:54:28Speaker 1: I'll give one to Regina King, and I'll give one
- 1:54:32Speaker 1: to cousin Pete my half nipple. And we all know
- 1:54:37Speaker 1: Janet's nipple is pretty iconic. Man, it's it's a super
- 1:54:41Speaker 1: Bowl nipple. I would I would recommend there's a really
- 1:54:44Speaker 1: good episode of You're Wrong about about the super Bowl,
- 1:54:49Speaker 1: the Super Bowl nip slip, and how demonized Janet Jackson
- 1:54:54Speaker 1: was after that for no fucking reason. Fortunately, history is
- 1:54:58Speaker 1: now correctly targeting Justin because I was just you know what, yes,
- 1:55:05Speaker 1: because there's he is the villain. Even back then, yeah,
- 1:55:10Speaker 1: even back then, I was like, oh, he digged in
- 1:55:12Speaker 1: a bullet because you you physically did the act, Like
- 1:55:17Speaker 1: what did you? How is this? I don't understand how
- 1:55:20Speaker 1: you getting away with this? Like, yeah, that was I
- 1:55:24Speaker 1: will pride myself being like something about this. How is
- 1:55:30Speaker 1: how is this because she had a jewel on it?
- 1:55:36Speaker 1: That's because it's certain she could put what she wanted
- 1:55:40Speaker 1: and she didn't expected just because you I'm wearing underwear
- 1:55:44Speaker 1: right now that on me, and I expected to be seen.
- 1:55:47Speaker 1: It's clean. I like my underwear, but I don't think
- 1:55:50Speaker 1: it's gonna be on camera. So leave that lady alone,
- 1:55:54Speaker 1: you know it, don't really ill. We'll link that episode
- 1:55:58Speaker 1: in the in the description because it's it's a it's
- 1:56:01Speaker 1: a good one. They go in, uh like they do
- 1:56:05Speaker 1: the deep lore for that story. I'll do, I'll do.
- 1:56:08Speaker 1: I'll do a two point five as well. I think
- 1:56:11Speaker 1: like there, We've talked a lot about it. I'm really
- 1:56:14Speaker 1: glad that this movie exists. I'm glad that justice is
- 1:56:20Speaker 1: centered in the way she is. I appreciate I just
- 1:56:24Speaker 1: generally appreciate John Singleton's work and how he did, like
- 1:56:28Speaker 1: from being a very young artist, like push himself to
- 1:56:32Speaker 1: include more voices in his work. However, imperfectly it was
- 1:56:36Speaker 1: done UM, which I think we've talked a lot about
- 1:56:39Speaker 1: ways that it could have definitely been improved on UM
- 1:56:43Speaker 1: because it's like there there was more to Justice than
- 1:56:46Speaker 1: we got to see. And I feel like by trimming
- 1:56:48Speaker 1: out some of the like excess talk about men and
- 1:56:52Speaker 1: we could have, you know, more effectively explored her story.
- 1:56:56Speaker 1: You could have explored the friendship with her and Aisha,
- 1:56:58Speaker 1: and there was just like a lot left on the table.
- 1:57:01Speaker 1: I felt like that it would have been really interesting
- 1:57:03Speaker 1: to explore. And I also think that, you know, I
- 1:57:06Speaker 1: would imagine and even though you know, John Singleton spoke
- 1:57:10Speaker 1: with a number of black women to put this story together,
- 1:57:13Speaker 1: you know, having black women in creative roles certainly would
- 1:57:16Speaker 1: have served to fix some of these problems as well,
- 1:57:19Speaker 1: I would imagine. But for for its time, I think
- 1:57:23Speaker 1: it's doing a lot. I'm it was. It was really
- 1:57:26Speaker 1: interesting to revisit. I'm not rooting for this relationship, but
- 1:57:30Speaker 1: I'm rooting for the individuals involved. So I'll give it
- 1:57:35Speaker 1: two point five one of justice, one of Ayesha, and
- 1:57:39Speaker 1: then I'll give I'll give the half to the mail
- 1:57:43Speaker 1: truck uh sacred vessel. Uh. Yeah, I actually I have
- 1:57:51Speaker 1: no disagreements with your your assessment. Every time you keep
- 1:57:56Speaker 1: saying you're not rooting for Justice and Lucky. In my brain,
- 1:58:02Speaker 1: I keep going, Janet Jackson in Tupac, which is what
- 1:58:06Speaker 1: I'm rooting for, you know what I'm saying, Because I'm like,
- 1:58:09Speaker 1: I'm actually am rooting for Janet Jackson in Tupacs. And
- 1:58:11Speaker 1: then I'm like, oh, which means I'm not rooting for
- 1:58:16Speaker 1: Justice and Lucky, you know what I'm saying. So like
- 1:58:18Speaker 1: I think that, So yeah, I think that. I guess
- 1:58:22Speaker 1: I'll go to two point five too, because um, I
- 1:58:26Speaker 1: feel like it's the best attempt of a man telling
- 1:58:32Speaker 1: a woman's story. And do you understand I'm trying to
- 1:58:35Speaker 1: say here, like if you if you're gonna do it,
- 1:58:38Speaker 1: this is probably as good as it's gonna get, you know,
- 1:58:41Speaker 1: because because it's not your story, you know what I'm saying. So,
- 1:58:44Speaker 1: because I'm looking at myself going, I probably would have
- 1:58:47Speaker 1: made a lot of the same decisions too, because I
- 1:58:49Speaker 1: just I only know this from observing y'all, you know,
- 1:58:52Speaker 1: from like that's that's what I see you guys talk
- 1:58:54Speaker 1: about at the hair salon. You know what I'm saying,
- 1:58:57Speaker 1: you know, And yeah, that's was like my auntie. You
- 1:59:01Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, I know a girl like this,
- 1:59:03Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. I think it's because of that.
- 1:59:05Speaker 1: So because I'm not them, you know what I mean,
- 1:59:07Speaker 1: So I would if I were to tell the story,
- 1:59:08Speaker 1: it would be that. So so I feel like, yeah,
- 1:59:12Speaker 1: it's like this is the best any a man could get,
- 1:59:15Speaker 1: you know, short of just saying handing the reins over
- 1:59:18Speaker 1: to being like, hey can you write this? Can you
- 1:59:20Speaker 1: write these characters? You know what I'm saying, uh, which
- 1:59:23Speaker 1: would probably you know, obviously push it over the half
- 1:59:27Speaker 1: mark at least, right, Yeah, I think the uh, the
- 1:59:31Speaker 1: sort of the sage kind of Obi wan kenobi, you know,
- 1:59:35Speaker 1: tone of the shop owner is at least worth a nipple.
- 1:59:41Speaker 1: You know, she's a mentor, you know, maybe not the
- 1:59:44Speaker 1: best one, but she is one, you know. You know.
- 1:59:47Speaker 1: I think that that what pushes it over the top
- 1:59:51Speaker 1: is Maya Angelo. And then yeah, so so I feel
- 1:59:58Speaker 1: like I was gonna say I might that might give
- 1:59:59Speaker 1: me a two point seven five because of because of
- 2:00:03Speaker 1: the three mamas sitting at the table basically calling the
- 2:00:06Speaker 1: girls out on their ship. You know what I'm saying,
- 2:00:08Speaker 1: That was just like that girl ain't mo married than
- 2:00:10Speaker 1: the man on the moon, like you was not married,
- 2:00:13Speaker 1: look at her for you know what I'm saying, Like,
- 2:00:14Speaker 1: so the mama's the mama's doing it. But then the
- 2:00:17Speaker 1: mama's being as old school is like my man would
- 2:00:19Speaker 1: never let me walk around here with you know what
- 2:00:21Speaker 1: I mean. So it's like that's why you don't get
- 2:00:23Speaker 1: a full nip, you know what I'm saying, because you're
- 2:00:24Speaker 1: still perpetuating you know what I'm saying, stuff we're trying
- 2:00:27Speaker 1: to get away from. But that moment of those you know,
- 2:00:33Speaker 1: mother's again is like the authenticity of that to me
- 2:00:40Speaker 1: is something that's so important, you know. But again it's
- 2:00:44Speaker 1: like I could still see how that's a boy talking
- 2:00:49Speaker 1: about his grandmother's you know what I mean, it's not
- 2:00:52Speaker 1: necessarily a daughter talking about her grandmother's. You feel me
- 2:00:56Speaker 1: so Like so I could still so I think that
- 2:00:58Speaker 1: at the end of the day, it's a two five
- 2:01:00Speaker 1: so or two point seven five, I think. So I'm
- 2:01:03Speaker 1: gonna go nipple for Janet. Uh, it's gonna get hard here,
- 2:01:09Speaker 1: so I'm gonna have to go nipple for um Aisha.
- 2:01:17Speaker 1: I think half a nip goes to the store owner.
- 2:01:22Speaker 1: I keep forgetting her name, Jesse, Jesse, half a nip
- 2:01:26Speaker 1: goes to Jesse, and then the three four goes to
- 2:01:28Speaker 1: Maya Angelo. Yeah, well probably, thank you so much. God,
- 2:01:36Speaker 1: I have so much respect for you guys. I've been
- 2:01:38Speaker 1: fan boying all week, telling my wife, like, dude, I
- 2:01:40Speaker 1: get to be on this show. I'm so nervous they're
- 2:01:42Speaker 1: gonna like this is gonna be so bad. I'm gonna
- 2:01:44Speaker 1: put my foot in my mouth. So I thought about thinking.
- 2:01:47Speaker 1: I thought about it at first. I was like, what
- 2:01:49Speaker 1: is the most out of pocket horrible things. I'm just
- 2:01:53Speaker 1: gonna open with it. Just get it out of the way,
- 2:01:55Speaker 1: say something so wrong out the box, and just be done.
- 2:01:59Speaker 1: I think you did absolutely fantastic. Oh my god, thank
- 2:02:04Speaker 1: you so much. And tell us about your stuff, your
- 2:02:10Speaker 1: social media, your book, your podcast. Yeah. The book goes
- 2:02:14Speaker 1: along with like a series of eat like music EPs
- 2:02:17Speaker 1: I've been dropping. They're all called terraform. It's um some
- 2:02:20Speaker 1: of the stuff we're talking about here kind of like
- 2:02:22Speaker 1: in a metaway kind of goes with the terraform is
- 2:02:25Speaker 1: just you know, science fiction nerd word. When you find
- 2:02:29Speaker 1: a distant planet, what you gotta do to make it livable.
- 2:02:32Speaker 1: So the poetry and the music is around like, well,
- 2:02:35Speaker 1: what if we did that here? Because Earth is becoming
- 2:02:38Speaker 1: less and less livable, whether it's physical, uh like geologically
- 2:02:43Speaker 1: or just socio culturally and interpersonally, just all these things
- 2:02:47Speaker 1: and just really thinking, Okay, what if we could just
- 2:02:50Speaker 1: start over and build this, build our civilization from scratch?
- 2:02:53Speaker 1: Like what will we keep? What do we need to
- 2:02:55Speaker 1: throw away? What? What are we not imagining? You know,
- 2:02:59Speaker 1: like if we limited ourselves, Like for example, in the
- 2:03:03Speaker 1: last in the last chapter of this poetry book, I
- 2:03:05Speaker 1: asked the question that kind of like I feel like
- 2:03:07Speaker 1: this this year podcast asked is like, imagine a world
- 2:03:11Speaker 1: without patriarchy? And so somebody asked me that and I
- 2:03:15Speaker 1: was like I can't, yeah, And it's just like I
- 2:03:19Speaker 1: was like, I honestly can't because I might say, imagine
- 2:03:21Speaker 1: where without misogyny, patriarchy, racism, imagine it? What what would
- 2:03:24Speaker 1: it look like? And I was like, I was like,
- 2:03:27Speaker 1: jazz came from racism because like because you segregated, you segregated.
- 2:03:31Speaker 1: I was like, that's we came from. So I was like, dang,
- 2:03:33Speaker 1: like I have a limited imagination, you know, so so
- 2:03:36Speaker 1: so like, but what if we could, what is the
- 2:03:38Speaker 1: world without patriarchy? What would have never happened? Where would
- 2:03:41Speaker 1: we have gotten to? You know what I'm saying? So
- 2:03:43Speaker 1: like so that so that a lot of ways, the
- 2:03:45Speaker 1: book is like it's a challenge, you know, um, and
- 2:03:47Speaker 1: the music is a challenge to like, yeah, just like
- 2:03:49Speaker 1: imagine a better future, build a livable world. So that's
- 2:03:53Speaker 1: the that's the poetry in the book, the music in
- 2:03:57Speaker 1: the podcast, Uh, hood politics. I just believe like if
- 2:04:01Speaker 1: you understand gang life, you understand geo politics. And even
- 2:04:07Speaker 1: if it's even not even just gang life, if you
- 2:04:09Speaker 1: survived eighth grade, you know, if you like figured out
- 2:04:13Speaker 1: which like if you want if you knew how to
- 2:04:15Speaker 1: navigate mean girls, or like just which table to sit
- 2:04:19Speaker 1: at at lunch when you were a freshman, you know,
- 2:04:22Speaker 1: you have to figure out which table to sit at,
- 2:04:24Speaker 1: Like you actually understand geo politics. So I'm essentially like
- 2:04:29Speaker 1: it's like thirty minutes of whatever like conversation during the
- 2:04:33Speaker 1: zigeist that like you kind of feel like maybe I
- 2:04:36Speaker 1: know what this is, but maybe I don't. I'm like,
- 2:04:40Speaker 1: you know what it is, and I'm just gonna like
- 2:04:42Speaker 1: lay it out in like kind of hood terms. You know,
- 2:04:46Speaker 1: that's fun amazing, it's great. Thank you again so much
- 2:04:49Speaker 1: for being here. What a treat it's been. Come back
- 2:04:54Speaker 1: any time. Don't even play with me like that, because
- 2:04:57Speaker 1: I will absolutely come back. I think you guys are like,
- 2:05:01Speaker 1: I'm this is no gas Like. I think y'all are brilliant,
- 2:05:04Speaker 1: and I think you're so fucking funny. But and the
- 2:05:09Speaker 1: funny is is like it's smart, Like that's the I'm
- 2:05:13Speaker 1: just like, god, these girls are it's just so funny.
- 2:05:16Speaker 1: So yeah, so I appreciate you all. Man. Oh my goodness,
- 2:05:19Speaker 1: I'm blessing you're not shut up. I can see you.
- 2:05:26Speaker 1: I'm taking screenshots kin tote. Well, thank you. You're amazing.
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- 2:06:01Speaker 1: t public dot com slash the pectel Cast. We just
- 2:06:04Speaker 1: did bored at two on the Matreon. If that's something
- 2:06:07Speaker 1: that intrigues you, oh my god, I don't think I
- 2:06:11Speaker 1: can handle that one um and let's all go write
- 2:06:16Speaker 1: some poetry. Let's do it. Bye bye,