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Telling #1161 · From Chad

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  What am I telling myself right now?
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  There's a story behind that. This is your daily message from
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  Chad #1161 to upgrade your mental game today by telling
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  yourself a better story. Because the most important story
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  you hear is the story you tell yourself.
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  This message is dedicated to Jaden Francis on his birthday.
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  You can get a free copy of my book, The Most Powerful Story in
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  the World by going to from chad.gumroad.com.
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  The transcript of this message and hundreds of others are
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  always available at www.fromchad.com.
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  Here's the upgrade. You think self talk is just
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  noise in your head. Upgraded thinking knows it's the
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  most powerful drug you take all day and you get to write the
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  prescription. Here's the story.
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  Andre Agassi won 869 professional tennis matches in
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  his career, and he'll tell you he won a good number of them in
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  the shower. He calls tennis the closest
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  thing to solitary confinement. There is no coach, no teammate,
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  no timeout, Just you and the voice in your head.
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  So in the afternoons before a match, he'd stand in the shower
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  and say crazy things to himself over and over.
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  He'd say them until he believed them, And he credits the winds
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  to that ritual. Then he tells you the other
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  side. One day he read a columnist who
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  declared flatly that Agassi simply wasn't a champion.
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  And he nearly cracked under it, because Agassi handed his story
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  to a stranger sitting behind a keyboard whom he didn't know and
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  who didn't know him, and let that man narrate who he was.
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  You are talking to yourself all day, whether you plan to or not.
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  You might be thinking, Chad, I don't talk to myself.
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  That's what crazy people do. Well, that thought you just had
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  is what I'm talking about. The only question is who's
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  holding the pin? You or some voice you picked up
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  from someone who doesn't know you, love you, or have your best
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  interest at heart. Brad Jacobs has built eight
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  companies with more than a billion dollars of revenue each,
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  and he believes mindset is the most important tool in all of
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  his companies. He opens his book not with
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  strategy, but with one question to run all day long.
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  What am I telling myself right now?
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  Most of us never once stopped to check.
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  This podcast started as audio text I sent to all the kids each
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  morning. The most important story you
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  hear is the one you tell yourself is the maxim I shared
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  on that first voice message. All we have is story.
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  You can't change the past, but you can change the story you
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  tell yourself about it. You can't control anyone around
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  you, but you can control the story of how you respond.
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  You can't foresee the future, but you can write the story of
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  what to expect. Rick Rubin says doubting your
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  work makes you better. You can say this isn't as good
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  as it can be and it will sharpen you, but doubting yourself by
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  saying I'm not a champion only leads to hopelessness.
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  You can talk yourself all the way to excellence, but only
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  through one of those two doors. So get in the shower today, ask
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  the question, and when you catch the voice running away with the
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  story, take the pin back. The better story to tell
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  yourself is today I will focus on telling myself the story I
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  need to hear. Tell me the story you tell
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  yourself to from chadsmith@gmail.com.
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  Send someone a text and ask them what's the most important story
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  you'll ever hear.