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#404: Scoopfest '25, Social Depression, Autistic Dehumanization · Pod Therapy

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  Speaker 1: This could be a bad show. It'll be bad.
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  Speaker 2: I did to do a show, but let's find out.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, from Las Vegas, Nevada, this is the Sherry Here Show.
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  Speaker 1: People real problems and real therapists. You can submit your
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  Speaker 1: questions anonymously at pod therapy dot net, email us at
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  Speaker 1: pod Therapy, guys at gmail dot com, and now broadcasting from.
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  Speaker 3: Cherry Here Studios. That's Jim, that's Whitney on Nick Sign.
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  Speaker 3: So I'm just hearing this for the first time. And
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  Speaker 3: this was not in the script that I saw.
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  Speaker 1: I assume Sherry Paige, you no, here's what happens.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know what's happens.
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  Speaker 1: I have no idea what amends it is.
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  Speaker 3: That's it because you can't be bribed, but you will
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  Speaker 3: do anything to make somebody as I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's one hundred percent what this is about. However,
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  Speaker 1: there's a twist to this. So if you remember this
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  Speaker 1: is this goes back almost since last scoop Fest, so
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  Speaker 1: eighteen months ago. She reached out to us and was
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  Speaker 1: really nice about it. Yes, she's always very nice. Hey,
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  Speaker 1: I just I noticed that my name doesn't You've been
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  Speaker 1: a supporter and you guys never say my name. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and then so I remember this and I was like,
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  Speaker 1: oh shit, I'm so sorry. We got it plugged back in. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: completely forgot about since then. Okay. So then I see
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  Speaker 1: her at scoop Fest and we're talking and she's like,
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  Speaker 1: motherfucker right in the neck. That would be acceptable.
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  Speaker 4: To your head to a Midwest boy.
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  Speaker 5: Oh.
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  Speaker 1: She was so sweet about it because she was blaming Patreon.
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  Speaker 1: She's like, you know, I just don't know what it is,
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  Speaker 1: something about my Patreon. It just doesn't seem to work. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: my name.
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  Speaker 2: But the bad thing is that does happen. Okay, So
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  Speaker 2: here's the twist.
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  Speaker 1: Because I was thinking, like, uh, Sherry, you know it's
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  Speaker 1: not patrioon. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you know we fucked up.
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  Speaker 1: Fu you, Tanjamin. I own one hundred percent I do
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  Speaker 1: wrong on this show. We have a division of labor
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  Speaker 1: that is your fucking department, write yourself up, goddamn shared business.
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  Speaker 1: So then I was like, oh my god, I feel
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  Speaker 1: so stupid. I will make this up to you, and
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  Speaker 1: so I said, I'm very sorry. I will fix this.
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  Speaker 1: And so then it is the first of the month
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  Speaker 1: as we're recording this. That's right, So I'm putting together
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  Speaker 1: all the names, and we read it at the end
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  Speaker 1: of the show and I search again. I read through
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  Speaker 1: that list and her name's not on that. So it
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  Speaker 1: is Patreon. It is Patreon. And then so then I
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  Speaker 1: went back again and I did it a different way,
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  Speaker 1: and then it did appear. Oh yeah, I know that
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  Speaker 1: thing is a bitch. It's okay.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, that's the thing, is like it can be because
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  Speaker 6: we have the same problem. Yeah, and you don't always
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  Speaker 6: know is this a Patreon problem or am I a
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  Speaker 6: dumb ass?
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  Speaker 1: Because they're both equally equas. Because here's what happens is
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  Speaker 1: if I go in there and I just click search
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  Speaker 1: by their pals, yeah, right, I get a list, but
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  Speaker 1: it's not on it. You get a list. Yeah. If
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  Speaker 1: I go in and I search by donation amounts, right
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  Speaker 1: in the amounts, that's get a different list. Yes, it's
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  Speaker 1: so fucking dumb. I don't know why. It sounds like
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  Speaker 1: something sucked up. Yeah, so I wanted to making this
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  Speaker 1: entire show about Sherry. Yeah, now I'm not going to.
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  Speaker 1: Did you just get the intro? That's I feel like
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  Speaker 1: I did my part. This was definitely a pat.
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  Speaker 3: You've got enough Sherry, Okay, we've gotten up to this,
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  Speaker 3: I do come to you about.
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  Speaker 6: I kind of like having a Patreon level where the
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  Speaker 6: studio just gets named after you for a session. Oh yeah,
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  Speaker 6: that's a great production beating on air right now.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we are.
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  Speaker 3: If you are at a certain level of giving, we
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  Speaker 3: will name the studio after you.
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  Speaker 1: For a month.
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  Speaker 2: I will say, well, name I would you say, I
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  Speaker 2: said an episode one episode?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, the episode session? Yeah great, and uh name
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  Speaker 1: it after your name or whatever you want, whatever you
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  Speaker 1: want to make. Which is the real.
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  Speaker 3: Opportunity because some people will stop, like sure called cherry hair,
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  Speaker 3: and some people are like, okay, great, I have a
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  Speaker 3: lot of ideas.
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  Speaker 6: Rac racial slurs, hate speech or anything like that, unless,
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  Speaker 6: of course.
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  Speaker 1: The Jeff Memoriam studios.
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  Speaker 6: You can say anything about Jim and Jerry Fallwell, that's right, Jesus,
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  Speaker 6: you could say this about Jim and Jerry.
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  Speaker 1: You can say anything you want.
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  Speaker 3: Studied under many Jerry's you know, many people called me
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  Speaker 3: Jerry's Jerry's Jeff's Jim.
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  Speaker 1: Many people call him Jerry's kid. That's right. It was
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  Speaker 1: well known in those circles.
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  Speaker 3: Well, we are post scoop fest, everybody, and we saved
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  Speaker 3: our recap of scoop Fest for the main show instead
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  Speaker 3: of talking it behind Patreon, because we just want to,
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  Speaker 3: you know, tell the tale. We had such a great time.
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  Speaker 3: Our voices are a little raspy. It is literally the
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  Speaker 3: Sunday of the weekend of Scoopfest and we are all
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  Speaker 3: in full blown recovery mode. It has been a wild
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  Speaker 3: several days. But I thought it'd be fun to to
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  Speaker 3: kind of tell our stories from scoop Fest and the
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  Speaker 3: the fun things. The biggest thing to me that caught
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  Speaker 3: me off guard this year about scoop Fest was the documentary,
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  Speaker 3: which I didn't see coming at all. You'd never brought
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  Speaker 3: it up. It just casually to me anyway, I don't
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  Speaker 3: know about it.
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  Speaker 6: It's not us, Oh it is uh scoop JD is
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  Speaker 6: uh kind of spearheading desks.
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  Speaker 2: Wow with some documentarians.
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  Speaker 1: Oh that's so cool.
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  Speaker 6: So they are they are the ones doing it. Oh
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  Speaker 6: h now I mean the they of course. Yeah, of
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  Speaker 6: course we gave it our blessing. Yeah, yeah, welcome, and
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  Speaker 6: we are participating wholeheartedly. Yeah, but yeah, it's it's so wild.
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  Speaker 6: It is simply like we had a I had one
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  Speaker 6: meeting with them.
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  Speaker 1: Wow.
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  Speaker 6: And and just you know, just to make sure that
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  Speaker 6: everybody was on the same page about what was going
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  Speaker 6: to happen. And we had space delegated for them in
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  Speaker 6: the rooms and all, and they had confessional booths and everything.
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  Speaker 6: So yeah, you know, obviously we worked with them, but
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  Speaker 6: they they did all of that. Uh, truly, prepping for
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  Speaker 6: them on my end was basically nothing.
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  Speaker 1: Wow, you know, sending audio feeds to them from from
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  Speaker 1: our stuff and that kind of that kind of thing.
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  Speaker 1: But really that's what that was about. That they did
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  Speaker 1: it just like a big professional team back in a
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  Speaker 1: in a I think they said, I don't know, a
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  Speaker 1: month or two something like that, okay, to do more
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  Speaker 1: in depth interviews with myself and and math.
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  Speaker 2: Wow, I think they want to get our wives in
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  Speaker 2: there as well.
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  Speaker 1: That's really cool.
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  Speaker 3: Well yeah, that was that was wild, like getting to
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  Speaker 3: the thing and being like, by the way, you sign
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  Speaker 3: a waiver and we're like what, so.
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  Speaker 6: Well that was the waivers were actually me because they
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  Speaker 6: wanted to and this turned out to be an absolutely
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  Speaker 6: nothing thing, but I wanted to make sure that it
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  Speaker 6: would be a nothing thing. What their initial plan was
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  Speaker 6: was to just put the signs up that say basically
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  Speaker 6: like if you come into this area, you're giving.
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  Speaker 2: Consent to being filmed.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, And I didn't feel right doing that because it's
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  Speaker 6: a ticketed event and we didn't say that as part
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  Speaker 6: of the.
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  Speaker 1: Ticket, right, And so I just said, you know, no, no.
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  Speaker 6: I I want to give everybody the opportunity to say no,
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  Speaker 6: and or if they have a question about it or whatever,
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  Speaker 6: to be able to ask their question good faith before
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  Speaker 6: saying yes or no to the question.
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  Speaker 2: I just wanted to give everybody the opportunity to say
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  Speaker 2: yester no to the question.
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  Speaker 6: So that and I knew that would slow the process
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  Speaker 6: down a little bit for everybody, but I figured that
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  Speaker 6: was worth it.
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  Speaker 1: The uh So, the funny thing about that was like
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  Speaker 1: I knew the documentary was happening, and then that I
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  Speaker 1: just kind of pushed out of my head. And then
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  Speaker 1: later on somebody said something about the waivers, which I
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  Speaker 1: first thought was a joke and then realized, oh, there
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  Speaker 1: are waivers. Yeah, And I realized this right before the
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  Speaker 1: mouth finger buttthole turned yes, and so I was like,
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  Speaker 1: how how rough is this? Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, like last year was just rock paper scissors.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's literal, it's.
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  Speaker 6: Full of contact. Yeah, it is mouth finger butthole. Yeah,
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  Speaker 6: it's in the name Cholas, in the name. Yeah, we've
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  Speaker 6: simulated enough years now we do. We've been practicing. Now
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  Speaker 6: we're doing it for.
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  Speaker 5: There was a scoop standing next to me at one
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  Speaker 5: point who said, I'm really glad I didn't win the
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  Speaker 5: mouth finger butthole tournament because.
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  Speaker 1: I got like a job and a career. I can't in.
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  Speaker 5: This documentary, like I can't mean but.
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  Speaker 1: Like that's a good pointing. That is crazy to me
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  Speaker 1: because like, and that's a real thing. But I'm like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: that is so outside of your thought.
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  Speaker 4: I thought process never crossed your mad at all.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, And like the idea that that somebody would be
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  Speaker 6: upset with someone for doing a mouth finger butthole tournament. Sure,
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  Speaker 6: it's such a ridiculous things delicately about it.
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  Speaker 1: There's delicate places in the world. Mouth figure as a
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  Speaker 1: but hole. That's right, those people are sensitive.
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  Speaker 3: I want to hear everybody's like special memories of this
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  Speaker 3: year and kind of like you know, high points, low points,
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  Speaker 3: one thing that that did happen, which was super cool,
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  Speaker 3: And I'm excited whenever this comes the past that we
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  Speaker 3: can put it out through our side too. But I
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  Speaker 3: had reached out to Great Night, and I was like, hey,
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  Speaker 3: you know, every single time we see guys at scoop Fest,
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  Speaker 3: we alway get along. So well, you've invited us to
• 9:21
  Speaker 3: come out to Austin and do a live thing with you. Obviously,
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  Speaker 3: traveling is always hard and you know, it's never come
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  Speaker 3: together right. And it was so funny how well they
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  Speaker 3: handle this because Nick and I went through a mini
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  Speaker 3: crisis with this, because like, poor Nick is like watching
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  Speaker 3: me try to shoot my shot and then like just
• 9:38
  Speaker 3: watching me fuck it up, you know, and then like
• 9:39
  Speaker 3: trying to like talk me down.
• 9:41
  Speaker 1: And here's a ledge, here's let me paint some different pictures. Okay, okay, Yeah,
• 9:45
  Speaker 1: here's how this works. If you want to see the
• 9:48
  Speaker 1: behind the scenes business what happens here at pod Therapy
• 9:52
  Speaker 1: as a business organization. Yeah. I am so excited to
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  Speaker 1: hear this be said out loud, this because I think
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  Speaker 1: I know exactly where Nick is going.
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  Speaker 2: Jim gets us into these.
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  Speaker 1: Crazy yeah Scooby Doo like adventures and then looks to me.
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  Speaker 2: We get in this situation and then he looks to
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  Speaker 2: me it's like what do we do?
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  Speaker 1: Now do we do? And I'm like, we got here
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  Speaker 1: in your mystery machine. Dude, I don't know what to
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  Speaker 1: tell you. The answer you give me that is, you're
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  Speaker 1: always very political about it. You're like, well, we could
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  Speaker 1: do this or this, But I just want to remind
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  Speaker 1: you that I support whatever your decision is because this
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  Speaker 1: is yours. You did this.
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  Speaker 6: That that is very close, but not exactly how it
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  Speaker 6: looks from the outside.
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  Speaker 1: From the outside, it's exactly like that. Everything you just
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  Speaker 1: said was what was one hundred thousand percent accurate? Uh huh,
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  Speaker 1: except for the what do we do now? Part? Yeah?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, because from the outside it sure looks like it's, well,
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  Speaker 6: why'd you put us here?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah? What are we doing now? What's up? Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: So I had reached out to Great Night and I
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  Speaker 3: was like, I would love to do a collaboration, but
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  Speaker 3: my pitch was and this was was upside down. I
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  Speaker 3: was like, uh, I'd like us to be guests on
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  Speaker 3: your show, right, you be in Las Vegas, so we'll
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  Speaker 3: get you a studio set up in the whole Rasmataz
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  Speaker 3: and then you can do it. And God bless them
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  Speaker 3: they I wrote three paragraphs in an email, and they're
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  Speaker 3: very busy guys who have a million Yeah, exactly, this
• 11:18
  Speaker 3: was way too much data, and so they just glanced
• 11:20
  Speaker 3: at it and said, oh, yeah, shimp from pot therapy something. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: we'll do a thing together yep, and say right back
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  Speaker 3: and They're like, yeah, man, let's do it. And I'm like, huh,
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  Speaker 3: that was easy, like hmm, and I tell I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: guess what We're gonna be guessed on great night.
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  Speaker 1: He goes, hey, reread that shit though. Make sure I'm like, well, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I said yes, I don't think you read it, dude.
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  Speaker 1: So fast forward.
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  Speaker 3: I end up making a huge fucking disaster out of
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  Speaker 3: all this, trying to book a studio and then backing
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  Speaker 3: out of that because I'm like, oh, I don't think
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  Speaker 3: that this is all going to get together, and I'm
• 11:48
  Speaker 3: stepping out of the things that they were super super generous. Ultimately,
• 11:52
  Speaker 3: i'd SYNCD up with Brian and he just he's like,
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  Speaker 3: he goes, so I was rooting your email. Walk me
• 11:57
  Speaker 3: through what you want to happen, man, Like, just tell
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  Speaker 3: me what you want. And I was like, hey, man,
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  Speaker 3: at this point, I will take any kind of interaction
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  Speaker 3: at all.
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  Speaker 1: It'd be fun.
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, like in a perfect world, it would have
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  Speaker 3: been really cool to just be on your show, but like,
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  Speaker 3: we can't make it to Austin.
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  Speaker 1: It's really hard to do it. He goes, Okay, I'll
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  Speaker 1: tell you what we're gonna do.
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  Speaker 3: We're gonna make good on a promise from two years
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  Speaker 3: ago that you guys would be on our show.
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna fucking do it. And so he goes and
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  Speaker 1: gets Justin.
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  Speaker 3: He drags in the room Justin, who I believe became
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  Speaker 3: annoyed with me starting right then. I think before that, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I don't think I existed in Justin's brain at all.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think he knew that I existed. It like
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  Speaker 3: all that therapy show that's Friends with Jacob Great, you
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  Speaker 3: know that's about it. And from that moment on, I
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  Speaker 3: remember he walked in the room. He's so disappointed because he's.
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  Speaker 1: Like, what are we doing? And like, and Brian left
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  Speaker 1: to go use the bathroom. So here I am sitting
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  Speaker 1: in Brian's room, Justin getting summoned into the room and
• 12:42
  Speaker 1: he's like, hey, who are you. Like, my name is Jim,
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  Speaker 1: I'm a therapist. Like you're gonna do a show? Goes okay, Jim,
• 12:52
  Speaker 1: I have a question for you that just occurred to me. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: when you meet just a new person.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, not not a new person as a client or
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  Speaker 6: anything else, Yeah, but just a new person. Say, uh,
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  Speaker 6: your wife introduces you to a friend.
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  Speaker 1: Of all colleague. Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: Uh, do you introduce yourself and say Hi, I'm Jim,
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  Speaker 6: I'm a therapist.
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  Speaker 1: Every time?
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  Speaker 3: Oh oh yeah, it's pretty pretty common.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I like throw on Colonel as well. Yeah, like
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  Speaker 1: Colonel Colonel surprise me at all? Yeh yeah yeah.
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  Speaker 3: So he is just bewildered and uh, and I'm just
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  Speaker 3: sitting there like waiting for Brian to come back. So
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  Speaker 3: Brian comes back and uh, and he ends up saying,
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  Speaker 3: hey man, we're just gonna we're gonna do a episode
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  Speaker 3: of Great Night.
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  Speaker 1: This is Jim, he's from pod Therapy.
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  Speaker 3: Uh, let's just go and and so like great, they
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  Speaker 3: need no preptice, jump in, have a great time with it.
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  Speaker 3: So we ended up doing this whole set from their
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  Speaker 3: hotel room. They have it video and stuff, so they're
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  Speaker 3: gonna release that at some point. I'll get a hold
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  Speaker 3: of it and pump it through our stuff as well
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  Speaker 3: as people can find it. But it was super super cool.
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  Speaker 3: That was like this really big high moment where I
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  Speaker 3: was like, wow, that was really fun, and like it
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  Speaker 3: was neat to see them do their craft and be
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  Speaker 3: on somebody else's show, and like that was super sweet
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  Speaker 3: of them to do this and put up with my
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  Speaker 3: bullshit and all my neurotic shit.
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  Speaker 1: I was super happy. Then we go do our trivia
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  Speaker 1: battle against I see us another great high point where
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  Speaker 1: we won. We were glorious and victorious.
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  Speaker 3: And I'm gonna tell you why we won because Paul
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  Speaker 3: maddingly does not understand what gainsmanship means. Because at the
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  Speaker 3: end he's like, I have an idea, let's duplicate their answer.
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  Speaker 3: And it was like, Paul, this is your one chance
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  Speaker 3: to get more points than us, Like we have one
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  Speaker 3: over you if you duplicate our answer. You heard conceding
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  Speaker 3: the match, and and so thank you Paul for just
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  Speaker 3: you know, giving it away there at the end.
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  Speaker 4: You mean it wasn't Jacob sabotaging Jacob.
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  Speaker 1: I did successfully sabotage you guys. True, Yeah, which.
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  Speaker 2: That only cost you one point.
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  Speaker 1: It was not enough to remember the last time we
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  Speaker 1: tagged Jacobin and he got us a right answer.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think I don't think it's ever happened. I mean,
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  Speaker 3: the bit is good. We keep doing it likes the
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  Speaker 3: stop anytime. So that was a pretty cool high point.
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  Speaker 3: All you have to do is call the Brady Cunt.
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  Speaker 3: That's right dot com slash therapy. You can find out that.
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  Speaker 4: Been trying to do it and we just.
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  Speaker 1: So that was pretty cool.
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  Speaker 3: But then whenever the big title fight trivia happened, where
• 15:10
  Speaker 3: great night versus I C. S. That's going on and
• 15:13
  Speaker 3: I'm so I'm just having a great day this day.
• 15:14
  Speaker 3: There's nothing required of me.
• 15:16
  Speaker 1: All of my.
• 15:16
  Speaker 3: Performance stuff with I C. S and and scoopass is
• 15:18
  Speaker 3: now complete. We did our trivia, we had our fun.
• 15:21
  Speaker 3: Great I am just a spectator now I'm enjoying it. It
• 15:24
  Speaker 3: was a killer day. And then uh and then great night.
• 15:26
  Speaker 3: Out of nowhere, Brian just fucking calls me up to
• 15:30
  Speaker 3: the table and like.
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: You didn't know he was gonna do that, not a
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: clue at all. This is this is new information. You
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: played the music immediately, you did not job quick. Yeah,
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: I'm good at what I so like, I'm just this
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: is about to leave this room. This is literally what
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: I do.
• 15:57
  Speaker 4: That's his job is listening for timed things.
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: And they're in the middle of the game and all
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: of a sudden they get like a science question. Brian
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: like has this whole like thing where was like.
• 16:05
  Speaker 3: We're calling up Jim from pot There Bay and then
• 16:08
  Speaker 3: like the music starts playing. I'm like what the ship
• 16:10
  Speaker 3: And I'm in the back getting a beer and I'm
• 16:12
  Speaker 3: like what, Like I turn around and I'm.
• 16:14
  Speaker 6: Like that not what it looked like from from the stage.
• 16:17
  Speaker 6: It looked like you were aware that you were going
• 16:19
  Speaker 6: to get called up.
• 16:19
  Speaker 4: I'm so glad he stood up.
• 16:21
  Speaker 5: I was like, oh, that's why he stood up because
• 16:23
  Speaker 5: they thought that I was on get up.
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you played it well then, because you look like
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: you're in you and I felt like there's only one
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: move now right, like there is no b bewildered like
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: you you know, the assignment go and so like run
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: up there, get fired up.
• 16:40
  Speaker 5: Go.
• 16:40
  Speaker 3: So then he gives me a T shirt and he's
• 16:42
  Speaker 3: like you're on the team and I'm like okay, and
• 16:44
  Speaker 3: like then I'm at this point where I'm like like
• 16:45
  Speaker 3: put it on, yeah, and waving it around and it's like, buddy,
• 16:49
  Speaker 3: i am not a this is not gonna fit me
• 16:53
  Speaker 3: like and I'm like fuck it, I'm a squeeze my
• 16:55
  Speaker 3: fat ascid of the ship for the bit, but then
• 16:58
  Speaker 3: I didn't know what to do because I'm like, can't
• 17:00
  Speaker 3: say when we tagged Jacob and he does one question
• 17:02
  Speaker 3: and then he goes wherever he was at, and so
• 17:04
  Speaker 3: I don't know if I'm doing the one bit or
• 17:06
  Speaker 3: if I'm supposed to stay, and so I'm trying to
• 17:08
  Speaker 3: read the moment, and like, I assume everybody else knows
• 17:11
  Speaker 3: the Fu's going on, and so I'm like trying to
• 17:13
  Speaker 3: answer the question. And then Jacob comes running over with
• 17:15
  Speaker 3: a microphone, and I think you and I we were
• 17:18
  Speaker 3: trying to read the other guy, because I think you're
• 17:20
  Speaker 3: seeing that I'm standing there long enough that you're like,
• 17:22
  Speaker 3: all right, give him a mic, right, and so like
• 17:23
  Speaker 3: this is your chance because you're not on mic right now.
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: So you ran over, did it? Well? That gave me
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: the impression that this was all pre rehearsed and that
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: I was supposed to sit down.
• 17:33
  Speaker 3: So I was just now I'm up there, and now
• 17:35
  Speaker 3: I'm trapped, and now I'm part of it, and you
• 17:36
  Speaker 3: know who really didn't want that to happen, justin it
• 17:40
  Speaker 3: was pretty.
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: Really couldn't tell me that was the best. I haven't
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: gotten all the audio of it. Yet. But y'all are
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: going to release that on your on your patron. Is
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: that your plan? I actually posted a straight to your
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: twitch the link video. Yeah, so it's already up there,
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: the audio from it. I don't think we do. Some
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: people say that the twitch expires, though, and so I
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: don't know how that works, because it seems like an archive.
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: It's just up there for I think it expires for
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: a short period of time afterwards and then opens up again. Okay,
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: I couldn't the magic bit, Yeah you went up there
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: for Yeah, I couldn't open that right away.
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: Okay, but I tried today and I could.
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: Okay. Oh yeah, I think there is a like a
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: It sounds familiar. I haven't really dealt with Twitch in
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: so long. Yeah, there's probably that aspect of it, because
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: I think we just have our set now and so
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: I don't have to think about it.
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, attention to it.
• 18:29
  Speaker 3: So here we are. I'm trying to contribute my little bits.
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: I'm also trying to like keep in mind, you are
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: not You don't need to carry this. These guys are
• 18:37
  Speaker 3: all pros. You just don't don't try to film the
• 18:39
  Speaker 3: silence you got. This just added a little bit of
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: banter and then shut the fuck up. So I'm doing
• 18:43
  Speaker 3: a mostly pretty good job on the gym scale of
• 18:45
  Speaker 3: shutting the fuck up. I was on the lower end
• 18:48
  Speaker 3: of being a good shut the fuck up guy.
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: I thought you were doing just fine.
• 18:51
  Speaker 6: It was, but I'm thinking this was also five of
• 18:54
  Speaker 6: us can also run over anybody.
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: You guys are You're not going to always down.
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: So like, I'm thinking that this is all planned, this
• 19:01
  Speaker 3: is all a good thing, and then the moment I
• 19:02
  Speaker 3: realize it is not is whenever Justin basically just says
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: it'd be really great if you shut the fuck up,
• 19:09
  Speaker 3: and I'm like, and that's the moment in horror that
• 19:11
  Speaker 3: my brain goes, oh, no, he didn't want this.
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: I shouldn't be here. Brian was trying to just do
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: a quick, clever thing, and I've swallowed the hook. Well
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: here's the.
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: Thing, and I don't know this, but I know this.
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: There's no way that Brian and Justin talked about that beforehand.
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: I would also be very, very surprised if Brian had
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: a thought of how long you were going to stay
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: on stage once you came on stage.
• 19:41
  Speaker 6: Yeah, well I tell you what we're used to.
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: Here's exactly what we're used to. Here's show biz lesson
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: number one for Jim.
• 19:48
  Speaker 6: Okay, what we're used to is like when you call
• 19:52
  Speaker 6: me up for the quiz. Yeah, I don't stick around
• 19:56
  Speaker 6: until you release me, right, all me up, I do
• 20:01
  Speaker 6: what I do, and then I leave when I'm ready
• 20:03
  Speaker 6: to leave, right. That's the thing is so always you
• 20:09
  Speaker 6: got to keep a little bit of your main character
• 20:11
  Speaker 6: energy going all the time and go like yes, fuck yeah,
• 20:14
  Speaker 6: I'm gonna go up here and I'm gonna answer a
• 20:16
  Speaker 6: question and then i'm gonna book, or I'm gonna go
• 20:20
  Speaker 6: up there and I'm gonna make myself comfortable, and uh,
• 20:23
  Speaker 6: don't worry about me because I'm gonna be fine until
• 20:26
  Speaker 6: I'm ready to book. I was, but you can't.
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: You can't do.
• 20:30
  Speaker 6: These thing because we're not we're not writing a show,
• 20:34
  Speaker 6: we're not planning, we're not planning any of that.
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: We're just going with it. And so like you come
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: up on stage, I'm fine with it.
• 20:41
  Speaker 6: I assume that Brian had a conversation with you. But
• 20:45
  Speaker 6: either way, if I gotta go get water, water in
• 20:48
  Speaker 6: a second. Either way, like he had an idea, I
• 20:55
  Speaker 6: think be fine.
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: I knew you'd be fine. I wouldn't worried about you.
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: And so I'm like, I'm gonna facilitate this.
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: And make it easy to go whatever. I'm gonna.
• 21:05
  Speaker 6: Right and and it's gonna be fine, and then we're
• 21:08
  Speaker 6: all just gonna roll with it and whatever happens happened.
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah, somebody laugh of the entire trivia was justin shipping
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: on Jim. I was glad I did my part. Also
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: I delivered. I will point out that that was the
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: second time over the weekend that somebody on stage told
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: you to shut the funk up? Oh was it? What
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: was the first one?
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: Shut shut?
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: You know what is not getting the stop bringing me
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: on stage, assholes.
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: I have a very specific part, So that was Yeah,
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: that caught me off. It turned into a great.
• 21:47
  Speaker 3: Bit where like the ICs guys are just having a
• 21:50
  Speaker 3: fun time with that, like, yeah, you just closeline your
• 21:52
  Speaker 3: own tea mabee.
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Oh yeah, No. We started it because well, we
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: can't pile up on you. That's not fun for anybody.
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: It's not fun if we make you cry.
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: No, we have to now make fun of Justice.
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Also it's easy to make fun of Justice's.
• 22:08
  Speaker 3: Funny though, because afterward he pulls aside to me, this
• 22:11
  Speaker 3: is on stage. I think it was off mic though,
• 22:13
  Speaker 3: and he goes, hey, man, I'm sorry, but that fucking killed.
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: That's good fun. I understand the assignment. I'm here to help.
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: So that was pretty cool. And after that I was like,
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: it would be great to just not be on stage anymore.
• 22:25
  Speaker 4: Yes, Jim doesn't want to perform weddings.
• 22:29
  Speaker 3: Wedding Jim is tapped out with all you have to do. Yeah,
• 22:33
  Speaker 3: call him a cunt just one time. So those are
• 22:36
  Speaker 3: some of my high points from scoop Fest. And then
• 22:39
  Speaker 3: of course, uh, the costume contest Scoop or the Jock
• 22:43
  Speaker 3: versus Nerd Ball Scott fucking showing up as a human
• 22:47
  Speaker 3: issued map that I have drawn that has been fished
• 22:50
  Speaker 3: out of a trash can and meticulously recreated into an
• 22:54
  Speaker 3: entire full body costume. Ye, that was glorious and it
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: was water painted and it was so good. And then yeah,
• 23:00
  Speaker 3: water color. And then he actually went to like a
• 23:03
  Speaker 3: map making company. It was like randall to figure out
• 23:06
  Speaker 3: how do they disperse colors on a map, Like what.
• 23:08
  Speaker 4: Is what is the theory of the right color?
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: And those colors to the states I had regardless of
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: where those states exist, Like, but if Nebraska was orange,
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: it's orange on his map, and like even if the
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: same color running into each other and it's just an
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: absolute mess. So tip of the cap.
• 23:25
  Speaker 3: That was my favorite costume, and those are some of
• 23:28
  Speaker 3: my highlights, But I'm curious what some of the bright
• 23:31
  Speaker 3: moments for y'all were.
• 23:33
  Speaker 5: I think probably my favorite was towards the end. We
• 23:38
  Speaker 5: were all at McMullen's having a good time last night,
• 23:42
  Speaker 5: and there was I went to talk to Sammy, scu
• 23:44
  Speaker 5: and Cody, and there was a guy Mike there who asked,
• 23:50
  Speaker 5: I had a best buy uh oh yeah, magnet name tag.
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: On somebody gave you a best buy name tag.
• 23:59
  Speaker 4: Lots of common tory on it.
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: I was like, okay, but creepy was a legit creepy casto,
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: so uh chetos.
• 24:13
  Speaker 4: I think it was.
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: A single cheeto. Oh god.
• 24:19
  Speaker 5: But I think it was his wife who was like, oh, hey,
• 24:22
  Speaker 5: I see you have the name tag. Do you want
• 24:23
  Speaker 5: another one, just to like give to someone this the
• 24:26
  Speaker 5: last one. I was like, sure, I'm sure someone will
• 24:29
  Speaker 5: want this, like people have commented on it. So literally,
• 24:32
  Speaker 5: like five minutes later, I'm talking to Sammy Scoop and
• 24:34
  Speaker 5: this guy a dressed as Starbucks Matt's first job Starbucks.
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Matt Donaldy the Starbucks barista.
• 24:41
  Speaker 4: Yes, yes, with the pause, yes. He starts chatting.
• 24:46
  Speaker 5: He's like, oh, I haven't ever you know, I haven't
• 24:48
  Speaker 5: listened to your podcast or whatever. And I was like,
• 24:51
  Speaker 5: that's okay, you should if you're interested whatever, like Sammy's
• 24:53
  Speaker 5: hyping it up and we're He looks at me, he goes, oh,
• 24:58
  Speaker 5: my gosh, creepy best By guy.
• 25:00
  Speaker 4: I was like, yes.
• 25:01
  Speaker 5: He's like, I where did you get that? I was like,
• 25:03
  Speaker 5: and I reached in my pocket and pull out the
• 25:05
  Speaker 5: best Buy me.
• 25:06
  Speaker 4: He's like yes, like he's like, my night is made.
• 25:09
  Speaker 4: This is amazing.
• 25:10
  Speaker 5: Like he's from Canada. Oh, it was actually the guy
• 25:13
  Speaker 5: who came up on stage.
• 25:16
  Speaker 4: His name is Mike. I think so.
• 25:19
  Speaker 5: Mike's chatting with me and we bring up Nightmare before
• 25:22
  Speaker 5: Christmas because I love Nightmare before Christmas and this is
• 25:25
  Speaker 5: my tired, tired brain math.
• 25:27
  Speaker 6: I was it's technical schooport and I don't remember if
• 25:29
  Speaker 6: his name I don't remember, yes, if his name is
• 25:31
  Speaker 6: Mike or not.
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: I think it is Mike. Mike.
• 25:34
  Speaker 6: If you're if you're listening or technical Schooport, because I
• 25:36
  Speaker 6: know that's your name. Yeah, if you're listening to your
• 25:39
  Speaker 6: name is not Mike. Sorry, I remember your.
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: Your scoop name.
• 25:41
  Speaker 4: No, I'm pretty sure it was Mike, but I could
• 25:43
  Speaker 4: be wrong.
• 25:43
  Speaker 5: So so technical scoop Port.
• 25:48
  Speaker 4: He's like, uh.
• 25:49
  Speaker 5: So we started talking about Nightmare before Christmas, and I
• 25:52
  Speaker 5: was like, I'm I'm a betting woman now I hate
• 25:55
  Speaker 5: I never gamble, I never bet, and I'm like, Nightmare
• 25:58
  Speaker 5: before Christmas was made and I ninety seven.
• 26:00
  Speaker 4: He's like, I think it's ninety three. I was like, yeah,
• 26:03
  Speaker 4: I will bet on it. Like, so, here's my thing.
• 26:06
  Speaker 5: I was seven when I saw it, so in my
• 26:09
  Speaker 5: mind I was like, no, it was ninety seven. But no,
• 26:12
  Speaker 5: I was seven when it came out, so if that
• 26:15
  Speaker 5: would be ninety three. So anyway, I was like so
• 26:17
  Speaker 5: dead set that it was ninety seven. I was like,
• 26:19
  Speaker 5: I'm gonna do that math.
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: So I was like, you bet your masters?
• 26:25
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I bet five bucks, so you know almost my master.
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: Wouldn't you start small? Okay? I started small to but.
• 26:34
  Speaker 4: It starts you guys.
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: Start the attic a dark place by Christmas.
• 26:44
  Speaker 4: Fingertopp and over there.
• 26:47
  Speaker 5: So the best part was that I get I lose obviously.
• 26:51
  Speaker 5: I give him the five dollars and he turns around
• 26:55
  Speaker 5: and goes, will you sign this? I was like, yes,
• 27:01
  Speaker 5: standing behind me, woa wo. I've been on this podcast
• 27:05
  Speaker 5: for eight years and nobody's asked me to sign anything.
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: I'm like, this does not I thought Nick was going
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: to be like defacing currencies a crime and I will
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: not stand here and Thetory or during the scoop Fest, No, no, no,
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: and the very first scoop Fest. He's the one that
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: that we first did that was a show creators.
• 27:30
  Speaker 3: Okay, oh that one, yeah, yeah, yeah, oh yeah, I
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: remember that. I only signed autographs that one time because
• 27:37
  Speaker 3: Jake had giant posters motivational posters made out of that
• 27:42
  Speaker 3: was really funny. And so then they piled them upon
• 27:44
  Speaker 3: a table and gave me a SHARPI.
• 27:45
  Speaker 5: And okay, sign these, but no, like Sammy went and
• 27:49
  Speaker 5: grabbed a pen. I was like, oh my god, this
• 27:50
  Speaker 5: is silly. He's like, no, I'm not going to spend this.
• 27:53
  Speaker 5: I'm going to say this is like a treasure. And
• 27:55
  Speaker 5: he's like and I'm going to start listening.
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: I was like, that's so cool. That's really cool. Now
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: he can forge your signature.
• 28:01
  Speaker 5: There you go, like this is better, Prince print your
• 28:06
  Speaker 5: name underneath the signature.
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: Low point was it the Irish nachos? What do you
• 28:10
  Speaker 3: think of those? I never had them.
• 28:12
  Speaker 4: I like them. I feel like they were overhyped.
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: You know.
• 28:15
  Speaker 5: What I did was sausage rolls.
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: Leg that's going to get those this time too.
• 28:23
  Speaker 4: They're so good.
• 28:24
  Speaker 6: It's like a nice breakfast sausage, like a legit nice sausage.
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: That has like a like a mustard based dipping sauce.
• 28:34
  Speaker 4: The mustard.
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: The sauce is real good too.
• 28:36
  Speaker 4: It was so good.
• 28:37
  Speaker 5: So my opinion was the corn beef was really good
• 28:40
  Speaker 5: on the notch. Those potato chips are like they're legit,
• 28:43
  Speaker 5: but they're over cooks.
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah.
• 28:46
  Speaker 4: Just I don't don't they weren't they weren't making the potatoes.
• 28:49
  Speaker 4: I don't like that.
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: Eat the people of Ireland now, I guess that's where
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: the show's turned.
• 28:53
  Speaker 4: Everyone's hype of the Irish welly.
• 28:56
  Speaker 6: In Whitney's defense, one way to avoid another potato famine
• 28:59
  Speaker 6: is not eat the potatoes that you have.
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, yeah that's right, So just serving potatoes. I
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: like that.
• 29:07
  Speaker 6: She saw a problem happen one time, and now she's
• 29:09
  Speaker 6: she's making sure to not repeat the same mistakes of
• 29:12
  Speaker 6: the past.
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 29:13
  Speaker 5: My low point was not being able to be there
• 29:16
  Speaker 5: Friday to see Hazels performing or guys. Yeah no, but
• 29:24
  Speaker 5: I really was, I'm not going to know anything going on.
• 29:30
  Speaker 3: Yeah, man, there's so much that happens in such I mean,
• 29:33
  Speaker 3: I didn't get to go to uh the Bucket show.
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: Then I had wedding on Thursday, so I missed all
• 29:39
  Speaker 3: that fun stuff. Got there all day Friday, all day Saturday,
• 29:42
  Speaker 3: which was really great. Another high point as Shan and
• 29:45
  Speaker 3: the Ruckus.
• 29:46
  Speaker 4: Jesus, you're mediographer for the night, I know.
• 29:50
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I always try to get a few like good
• 29:52
  Speaker 3: ones that I can put them online because I mean,
• 29:54
  Speaker 3: they're up there, they're fucking crushing and they're so good
• 29:56
  Speaker 3: and so professional. They don't walk around with an entire
• 29:59
  Speaker 3: like social media team that can help grab some content
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: for them. So anytime I see her out in the
• 30:03
  Speaker 3: wild and like, hey, let me just try to help
• 30:05
  Speaker 3: you know my part, But no, they they are so
• 30:08
  Speaker 3: much fun, Like I love that.
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they're a great party band, is such a good
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: time and they just play along with the audience. And
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: that is always a really good one. They love the Scoops. Yeah,
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: and I told the I told the Scoops.
• 30:18
  Speaker 6: I said on ice Cream Social they had an offer
• 30:21
  Speaker 6: for another gig that was going to pay him more
• 30:23
  Speaker 6: than than we were paying them.
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: And the band voted and they all wanted to play
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: Scoop Fest. That was really odd.
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: I did also like that Irish band that you guys,
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: that was so cool. Those are the guys cruise ship
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: that's met them. He met them on the cruise ship.
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: It was a three piece band, a violinist, a guitarist
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: and a flutistut thank you. And they also I don't
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: jim okay, is it flu? What's their name?
• 30:57
  Speaker 6: I mean they they were put together by a music agent.
• 31:01
  Speaker 6: They did not know each other. They were put together
• 31:04
  Speaker 6: by a music agent to work on cruise ships. And
• 31:07
  Speaker 6: then they really liked playing together, so they formed a
• 31:10
  Speaker 6: band and now they now they work together, you know,
• 31:13
  Speaker 6: on purpose.
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: That was a great act that man. I love.
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: They performed at the barbecue as well.
• 31:19
  Speaker 3: And you know, we should speak about the Magician because
• 31:21
  Speaker 3: we tipped I was on this magician like Gabriella, so
• 31:25
  Speaker 3: we see her in the green room because we had
• 31:27
  Speaker 3: just done trivia. She's back there and so she's a sweetheart.
• 31:29
  Speaker 3: She's like, oh yeah, you know a magician. I'ma be
• 31:31
  Speaker 3: prowing after you were like great, and I said, hey,
• 31:33
  Speaker 3: if you need any volunteers or anything at that, like
• 31:35
  Speaker 3: I love that kind of ship, and you know, like
• 31:37
  Speaker 3: I'll do it. You were asking, yeah, yeah, I had
• 31:41
  Speaker 3: not gotten enough. This is the part where I was
• 31:44
  Speaker 3: comfortable with it. That was good at that part wanting
• 31:48
  Speaker 3: attention and he changed later on to not wanting to enough.
• 31:52
  Speaker 3: This is my theory about Jim.
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: Okay, here it is here.
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: It is Jim needs attention. Yes, this is not this,
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: This is not not there. This is the fact he
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: just he craves it. He's got to have it. It's
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: his lifeblood. The problem is the bucket he has to put.
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: The attention into. It was so small it has to.
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: Be but can't be over times.
• 32:19
  Speaker 3: Guys, you have nailed me to a wall like fu
• 32:26
  Speaker 3: you just diagnosed all.
• 32:28
  Speaker 4: Of its next analogies.
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: And then once the bucket's over, full of like oh no,
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: run run away.
• 32:40
  Speaker 4: Now one gonna go hide in the room next just
• 32:44
  Speaker 4: I roll this way.
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: Gym is on stage and Nick's like gems like, what
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: should I do? Nick? No, No, I don't know. You're
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: the one who got yourself on stage. My wallet.
• 32:57
  Speaker 3: So that was really good. She was she crushed, She
• 32:59
  Speaker 3: was really really entertaining. She let me be up there.
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: For a couple of has dealt with you as effectively
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: she was? She had you nailed.
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: There was nothing like damn.
• 33:14
  Speaker 4: That so fast?
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: She just I mean it was she established.
• 33:19
  Speaker 4: Dominance very effectively.
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: She's really funny. Man.
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: She offered me a sticker.
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: It was like watching it was like watching Who's the
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: Who's the dog whispers? It was exactly like one that's
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: running around everywhere.
• 33:41
  Speaker 4: Just a sudden you need a stick or you need
• 33:47
  Speaker 4: she's the boss down.
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: That was the one.
• 33:51
  Speaker 3: Two sprays of cold water to my face and I
• 33:53
  Speaker 3: was like, okay, oh that was not water. It was
• 33:56
  Speaker 3: not cold and it was body tip. That's right. So
• 34:00
  Speaker 3: those are my highs. Another one there too. But it
• 34:02
  Speaker 3: sounds like you had a good time, Whitney, and this
• 34:04
  Speaker 3: is your second scoop fest.
• 34:05
  Speaker 5: It is, And that's really the main thing I wanted
• 34:08
  Speaker 5: to share too, is just the people are so amazing.
• 34:12
  Speaker 5: They're so amazing, Like I can't get over how authentic
• 34:17
  Speaker 5: and genuine everyone is and just kind and supportive and
• 34:21
  Speaker 5: they give you ship sometimes too, but I love it.
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: They know then it'll get enough credit for that because
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: like I think it's a very hard balance when and
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: this is I think a little bit meta. It's a
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: little bit theory of shows.
• 34:32
  Speaker 3: So like the three or four of us, like you
• 34:34
  Speaker 3: guys will tease me, it's part of the bid. If
• 34:36
  Speaker 3: you treated me that way all the time, our friendships
• 34:39
  Speaker 3: would be strained. It would be difficult. You know, we
• 34:41
  Speaker 3: can't always go through life with kick Jim and the balls.
• 34:43
  Speaker 3: You know, there's a time and the place we could
• 34:45
  Speaker 3: you could. You know, it happens more often than I
• 34:47
  Speaker 3: wish it would.
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: I think it'd be a lot harder for you than us,
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: hurt more than my foot, that's right.
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: And like people pick up on the bid and they'll
• 34:58
  Speaker 3: they'll play along, and it's so hard to get that
• 35:01
  Speaker 3: right right, everybody does.
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: It's hard. It's tough to pick up somebody else's bit
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: and do it in the first place.
• 35:08
  Speaker 6: Yeah, especially when it's at somebody else's expense.
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: It's a hard needle to thread.
• 35:13
  Speaker 3: But people are really sweet about it, and like they'll
• 35:15
  Speaker 3: do just the basic teasy, you know.
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: Ribbons, they'll imply the imply the meanness exactly.
• 35:21
  Speaker 3: They'll come up and change my name tag like somebody
• 35:24
  Speaker 3: camp and put you know, doctor Jim geography scoop. And
• 35:29
  Speaker 3: then somebody else saw that and comes over and goes, oh, Jim,
• 35:32
  Speaker 3: I'm sorry they did that to you.
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh, I'm used to it. He goes, no,
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: I'll fix it, pulls out a marker, crosses off doctor. Yeah.
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: He just walks away.
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, that is truly the perfect amount. Yeah, that
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: was exactly it is. I'm going to allude to being
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: mean to Jim. Yeah, I know the bit. I don't
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: even have to do it. It's just Jim mean thing
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: number three.
• 35:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that thing they tease you about. Indeed they do
• 35:57
  Speaker 3: tease me about that.
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: All right, have fun.
• 35:59
  Speaker 3: Everybody's that's a sweetheart, like just really really cool energy.
• 36:02
  Speaker 3: So you're right that the people are the easiest the
• 36:05
  Speaker 3: best part, so much fun hang out with and then
• 36:07
  Speaker 3: going year after year after year and getting to just
• 36:09
  Speaker 3: so casually hang out with people and it's just becoming
• 36:12
  Speaker 3: so much more natural, like it's just every you remember folks,
• 36:15
  Speaker 3: And that's always funny to me too. Because I'll see
• 36:17
  Speaker 3: somebody be like, oh, Brian, you know it's Brian Layman.
• 36:18
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, and he'll be like, hey man, you
• 36:20
  Speaker 3: remember my name. I'm like, Brian, you have been sponsoring
• 36:22
  Speaker 3: the show for a very long time. Like I have
• 36:24
  Speaker 3: seen you many many times. You were in my fantasy
• 36:26
  Speaker 3: football league. Brother, I remember you. I know who you are.
• 36:30
  Speaker 3: So it's it's just really cool to like forge those
• 36:32
  Speaker 3: real friendships where you do meet people and you spend
• 36:34
  Speaker 3: time with them. So the scoops are wonderful. Thank you
• 36:36
  Speaker 3: for sharing your audiences. When we were doing the documentary thing,
• 36:39
  Speaker 3: they asked us after we whipped your ass in trivia,
• 36:42
  Speaker 3: they were like, so, what does your audience have in
• 36:45
  Speaker 3: common with ice cream social How did this happen?
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: And we basically told the history story of No, we
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: were just absorbed into this black hole, like our moon
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: passed too close to Jupiter. Yeah, and we were just
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: taking in on the orbit. And now there is no
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: vendor diagram. It's a circle, right, their their fans are
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: just our people and we don't have other people.
• 37:05
  Speaker 2: That part's not true.
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we brought certainly. Yeah, I believe that was true
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: at a time there was, but that I don't believe
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: that is true.
• 37:12
  Speaker 5: Now there's at least one or two people I can
• 37:14
  Speaker 5: think of that said they found ice Cream Social through us.
• 37:18
  Speaker 4: That's kind of cool, but it still makes the circle.
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: But it's like cool, I rememberest.
• 37:23
  Speaker 3: Kevin Chamberlain and his wife had come out and longtime
• 37:26
  Speaker 3: their producers, and we saw them at a tiki place
• 37:28
  Speaker 3: and I was hanging out with them and I was
• 37:30
  Speaker 3: like so so telling me about how you found ice
• 37:32
  Speaker 3: Cream Social and like, did you find us? And he goes, no,
• 37:34
  Speaker 3: the other way around, man. We I was looking up
• 37:36
  Speaker 3: organically search words for different mental health podcasts, found one
• 37:39
  Speaker 3: of the episodes loved It Loved Jacob started went down
• 37:43
  Speaker 3: a rabbit hole into that Loved It you guys pitch
• 37:45
  Speaker 3: scoop Fest, and now we're here and we are having
• 37:48
  Speaker 3: a last and it's like that was like the first
• 37:50
  Speaker 3: time ever that I was like, oh, this shit, that
• 37:51
  Speaker 3: that is so cool that it's.
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: Organically that way. But yeah, it is awesome. What were
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: your high points and low points here? I would say my, uh,
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: my high point is just seeing the same people and
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: just being able to go back and we just pick
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: up right where we left off, just pick up a
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: conversation just like, hey, so, how are you doing since
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: last time we talked?
• 38:14
  Speaker 4: You're following for so long?
• 38:16
  Speaker 2: I feel like, yeah, well, and it's I think when
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: you meet people in person, like I always feel like,
• 38:21
  Speaker 2: and we kind of talked about this ahead of time, like, hey,
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: if I don't remember your name or whatever, you know,
• 38:26
  Speaker 2: it's I don't.
• 38:27
  Speaker 4: I do like that.
• 38:28
  Speaker 5: There were a few people I did remember the name
• 38:30
  Speaker 5: that they still clarified or like.
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I know, I know, which I appreciated, but I.
• 38:33
  Speaker 4: Told them I was like, thank you for clarifying.
• 38:35
  Speaker 3: If you met two dozen people tomorrow and you liked
• 38:38
  Speaker 3: all of them, and then you know a year later
• 38:41
  Speaker 3: you saw them again, you're gonna look at them and go,
• 38:43
  Speaker 3: I know we've hung out. I remember you, and I
• 38:45
  Speaker 3: remember thinking like I enjoy you, but I don't remember
• 38:47
  Speaker 3: if your name is Stephanier.
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: Seas Surprisingly for me, though, that it didn't happen okay,
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: Like everybody I met, I like, yeah, I remember you,
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: and and I I remember what we talked about it
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: last time.
• 39:00
  Speaker 4: I'm choking.
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And so I remembered all of that stuff, and
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: so getting to meet a few new people too. But
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: it's it's always fun to just have some place where
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: we you know, we don't necessarily have to keep in
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: touch throughout the year, but we know what everybody, we
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: know where we're going to be in eighteen months.
• 39:20
  Speaker 2: We're all going to be right back here.
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 39:26
  Speaker 4: A studio.
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: It's nice. Yeah. What's your low point when Justin clotheslined
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: me during trivia? All of our low points, honestly, the
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: low point a little protective of you, I did. Oh
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: that's cool. I was a little upset. I was like,
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: I can kick him in the balls. Yeh, war.
• 39:53
  Speaker 4: Next job, Jacob, Oh, thank you.
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: It's very flattering. You don't punch him in the face.
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: Uh No.
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: My low point I think was when it was over.
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's always rap up. Yeah, yeah, the good byes.
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: They're always so hard.
• 40:13
  Speaker 6: After I got home last night, because we we you know,
• 40:16
  Speaker 6: after the whole thing is over, we have we have
• 40:18
  Speaker 6: to load everything up. Oh yeah we got Yeah. It's
• 40:21
  Speaker 6: truly not and it went swimmingly well this year. Uhy
• 40:26
  Speaker 6: like shout out to our safety cones.
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: Uh.
• 40:30
  Speaker 6: They just do a remarkably good job. They do, and
• 40:33
  Speaker 6: they've and they've all done it now a couple of
• 40:35
  Speaker 6: years we had one. We had one guy Colton this year.
• 40:38
  Speaker 6: This was his first year. But then everybody else they'd
• 40:41
  Speaker 6: at least done it one one time before, which means
• 40:44
  Speaker 6: that I have to explain a whole lot less. Yes,
• 40:46
  Speaker 6: I just get to say, hey, remember we set that
• 40:48
  Speaker 6: up last time, do that again, and they go, oh, yeah, great,
• 40:52
  Speaker 6: everything they do they.
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: Do, Yeah, they're fantastic. Oh excuse me. I also forgot
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: where I was going with the story.
• 41:01
  Speaker 4: Oh, then.
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: End of scoop est we were we were.
• 41:04
  Speaker 6: Loading out, Uh, we got everything packed up, we got
• 41:06
  Speaker 6: it all down to the truck, and then we we
• 41:11
  Speaker 6: brought the truck back to my house. We unloaded everything,
• 41:13
  Speaker 6: uh into my shop, which right over here I'll start
• 41:17
  Speaker 6: going through stuff tomorrow and getting stuff stored away and everything.
• 41:23
  Speaker 6: But after that we went to see this is what's
• 41:26
  Speaker 6: happening in my brain right now, just take upping. After that,
• 41:29
  Speaker 6: we went back to mcmullins, whereverybody was. So we went
• 41:32
  Speaker 6: we went and dropped the truck off actually in return
• 41:34
  Speaker 6: that and then and then came to mcmullins. And I
• 41:37
  Speaker 6: got home from mcmullins at probably two thirty or three,
• 41:41
  Speaker 6: and I went and sat in my backyard for a
• 41:43
  Speaker 6: little while, and I hadn't taken a shower yet or anything.
• 41:46
  Speaker 6: It's like, I'm just gonna sit here decompressed for a
• 41:48
  Speaker 6: little bit. Sat out there for probably half an hour
• 41:51
  Speaker 6: forty five minutes, and uh stood up. I was like, okay,
• 41:54
  Speaker 6: I've I've sat long enough. Now I'm gonna take a
• 41:58
  Speaker 6: shower and get in bed. And uh so I stood
• 42:01
  Speaker 6: up go to walk inside. And I walked about halfway
• 42:04
  Speaker 6: to the door, and this has never happened to me before.
• 42:08
  Speaker 6: It just ran out of energy.
• 42:10
  Speaker 4: And just stopped a literal wall.
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 42:12
  Speaker 6: I was like, oh, I'm just gonna take a break.
• 42:16
  Speaker 6: I'm just gonna stand here. I just got stood for
• 42:19
  Speaker 6: a minute and then I finished walking.
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: To the house. Oh and it's not like it's you know,
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: it's thirty feet Yeah.
• 42:26
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 42:26
  Speaker 5: I feel like that's such a good example of when
• 42:29
  Speaker 5: our bodies need to push through something like we humans
• 42:32
  Speaker 5: can push through Oh yeah, big like huge challenges. We
• 42:35
  Speaker 5: know that, but I think that's just such a vivid example.
• 42:39
  Speaker 5: So thanks for sharing, Jacob. Like you have to push
• 42:41
  Speaker 5: like there's there's no one else, like you are the
• 42:43
  Speaker 5: glue holding this together. And it's like you pushed through
• 42:46
  Speaker 5: until it's like, once you realize I don't have to,
• 42:49
  Speaker 5: your body's like catching up.
• 42:50
  Speaker 4: It's like, yeah, okay.
• 42:52
  Speaker 6: Yeah, my brain is starting to hic up now more,
• 42:55
  Speaker 6: uh that it can very honestly, because I know once
• 42:58
  Speaker 6: this show is over, Uh, my day is over finally,
• 43:03
  Speaker 6: and I'm just gonna go.
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: Because we had that.
• 43:04
  Speaker 6: We had the safety cones over for Thank You Barbecue today.
• 43:07
  Speaker 6: You guys came over today and uh, now we're finishing
• 43:10
  Speaker 6: this up.
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, great, I'm I'm gonna finish this up.
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 43:13
  Speaker 6: I have to do a little bit of work and
• 43:16
  Speaker 6: get ice cream social from yesterday edited and uh post
• 43:21
  Speaker 6: it up because that has to go out tomorrow.
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: But that'll take me, you know, ten minutes, not a
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: big deal. And then I'm just done finally. For like
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: three days, I was.
• 43:32
  Speaker 4: Just gonna say, when's the next thing?
• 43:33
  Speaker 6: You have to do something on Tuesday evening, but I
• 43:37
  Speaker 6: won't even run the show. I'll watch somebody else run
• 43:39
  Speaker 6: the show. I'll run a show on Wednesday. That'll be
• 43:43
  Speaker 6: the next time I really do something. Okay, yeah, yeah,
• 43:47
  Speaker 6: So I'm just gonna go, when's Wednesday is my first
• 43:49
  Speaker 6: real day back? We'll do an ice cream social that day,
• 43:51
  Speaker 6: and then I'll do do absinthe that day and your.
• 43:55
  Speaker 4: Schedule like that, Like.
• 43:59
  Speaker 6: I give myself a window, Yeah, I give myself a
• 44:02
  Speaker 6: bigger window at the front because I know that more
• 44:04
  Speaker 6: work is gonna pop up than I can think of.
• 44:06
  Speaker 4: Uh huh uh.
• 44:07
  Speaker 6: And then I give myself a few days on the
• 44:09
  Speaker 6: on the back end because I couldn't have gone back
• 44:12
  Speaker 6: to work today or something.
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's a lot. It is definitely you need
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: a recovery day.
• 44:18
  Speaker 2: And my brain is starting to shut down right now.
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, well on that point, we could take a quick
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: break and when we come back, we actually have a
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: question from somebody who just attended scoop Fest about something
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: that happened at scoop Fest.
• 44:30
  Speaker 4: Cool.
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: You are listening to pod Therapy. Today's episode was brought
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: to you by Jake Schneider, Leah Or Richard and Macy
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: Sonny Boyce, Falcon, Scoop Sip, Motherfucker, Sandra CKOs, Elena.
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: Guybriella, dom Adam Warren and be Gay, Be Crime.
• 44:45
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• 44:47
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• 44:51
  Speaker 1: trivia or should we just push right through. Oh no, no,
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: do trivia. All right?
• 44:55
  Speaker 2: So sorry that that speech was not let's sorry the
• 44:58
  Speaker 2: show up. Oh no, I was thinking for all of us. Okay,
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: I'll be honest.
• 45:02
  Speaker 4: You're you're definitely the worst off of.
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: Us, Jacob, I wasn't listening. Don't change it for me? Okay, good? Whatever?
• 45:14
  Speaker 2: All right you do if you want skip skipping.
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: Uh, we'll just do a few here. Some strange and
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: unusual celebrations, festivals or.
• 45:23
  Speaker 4: Events fest very strange.
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: Every August.
• 45:29
  Speaker 2: Oh, let's start with Whitney. Yea, every August. The people
• 45:32
  Speaker 2: of a Spanish town of I think it's pronounced base.
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: I think that's it correct at each other during the
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: festival of laf only we speak Spanish. I think I
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: know this one.
• 45:50
  Speaker 4: Do I have options?
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: Do you need them?
• 45:55
  Speaker 2: Or can you spell?
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: Oh? That's it, that's you're going to correct.
• 46:03
  Speaker 4: You aren't saying it right now?
• 46:05
  Speaker 5: Yeah?
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: Come on? That does that change what the word is?
• 46:14
  Speaker 4: You looked like you need like, well, I don't think
• 46:16
  Speaker 4: you're saying the right word if you're looking at me like.
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: Early lead to two points well from the hip for
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: sweet all right, Jacob. The Mexican city of Oaka, which
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: I believe is how it's pronounced.
• 46:34
  Speaker 2: X A celebrates a festival each December featuring sculptures carved
• 46:41
  Speaker 2: from what vegetable?
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: Oh, in December, I'll give you my favorite vegetable. That
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: would be.
• 46:51
  Speaker 2: That's not a vegetable. Let's see, Oh does it.
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: Have seeds in it? No? Okay, but one of the
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: options does Oh funny, do you want options?
• 47:05
  Speaker 2: Tell me what that option is, because I'm not going
• 47:06
  Speaker 2: to take that one.
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: Pumpkins. I was thinking gords. Yeah, that's why I was like, oh, no,
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: gords have seeds. So I'll give you a one of three. Yeah,
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: I will No, I want to guess from the hip.
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: I'll guess broccoli. Oh would be cool, but no, okay,
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: would be cool. Passes the gym, and I will take
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: those options.
• 47:25
  Speaker 2: My man, potatoes, radishes, turn ups.
• 47:30
  Speaker 3: Geeze, dude, I mean I could see a pretty cool
• 47:33
  Speaker 3: carving contest that of potatoes.
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm gonna go with potatoes, no, which are
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: basically potatoes.
• 47:43
  Speaker 3: I should get the point. I think Jacob and I
• 47:45
  Speaker 3: are an agreement. I was robbed, all right, Jim in
• 47:49
  Speaker 3: Loop Burry Thailand. I believe Burry l O p b
• 47:53
  Speaker 3: U r I Thailand th.
• 47:57
  Speaker 2: H A yeah yeah yeah, Jim.
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah yeah.
• 48:01
  Speaker 2: Uh not America.
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: A lavish buffet is laid out every year for which
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: guests of honor. I'll take options. Elephants, monkeys, peacocks or dogs.
• 48:15
  Speaker 3: I'll bet it's elephants. That sounds adorable that they just
• 48:18
  Speaker 3: lay out food for elephants to come hang out. I
• 48:20
  Speaker 3: would fucking do that me. Elephants.
• 48:24
  Speaker 2: Yet, I definitely just know this one. Peacocks or dogs, monkeys.
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: Monkey, That's okay. That's the thing I was second hoping
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: it was.
• 48:36
  Speaker 5: You still don't get a point though, I'm winning, you
• 48:39
  Speaker 5: are winning.
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: You were having a day.
• 48:41
  Speaker 4: I'm doing it all right.
• 48:42
  Speaker 3: So we have a semi serious question about scoop Fest
• 48:47
  Speaker 3: and depression. So the writer who is anonymous says, first
• 48:51
  Speaker 3: and foremost, it was great to meet Nick and Whitney
• 48:54
  Speaker 3: for the first time at scoop Fest, and Jacob for
• 48:56
  Speaker 3: the second time. Hell I even chatted with Peter for
• 48:59
  Speaker 3: a few minutes, and it was great.
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: Moving on. Nobody else said that, yeah, you're alone there.
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: Moving on. All was going well.
• 49:07
  Speaker 3: Night three of Scoopfest, SJ and the Ruckus were rocking out.
• 49:11
  Speaker 3: We were all having fun. Then I looked towards the
• 49:14
  Speaker 3: front and I reached for my phone and I think, oh, no,
• 49:17
  Speaker 3: Jim's having a seizure. I should call for help. Then
• 49:20
  Speaker 3: I realize, actually, Jim is trying to dance.
• 49:22
  Speaker 4: Ah.
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: That's when it hit. My mood shifted from fun to
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: maybe nobody likes me. I tried to stick it out
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: for a while, but I eventually needed to step out.
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: By the time midnight hit, I didn't want to be
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: around people anymore. I excused myself back to my room.
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: I tried to snap myself out of it, but I couldn't.
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: By the time I woke up the next morning, everything
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: was fine. It was all gone.
• 49:42
  Speaker 3: But now I had missed out on a fun night
• 49:44
  Speaker 3: at McMullen's all because my dirty depression kicked in. I'm
• 49:48
  Speaker 3: mostly managed with medication, but I'm looking for tips to
• 49:51
  Speaker 3: help drag me out of this, even just a little,
• 49:54
  Speaker 3: so I don't miss the good times. And then there's
• 49:57
  Speaker 3: a side note that I don't have to read on air.
• 49:59
  Speaker 3: Fuck it I will Jim's dancing did not actually cause this,
• 50:02
  Speaker 3: but it was got awful.
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: Thanks Anonymous.
• 50:07
  Speaker 4: I loved it.
• 50:08
  Speaker 3: It didn't help, you know, Okay, I want to defend
• 50:11
  Speaker 3: my dance if I may.
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: First off, well, I also went into a funk.
• 50:16
  Speaker 4: Okay, okay, this is okay.
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: I understand the assignment.
• 50:24
  Speaker 3: So like when artists get going, it's like, hey, somebody's
• 50:28
  Speaker 3: got to lead the charge.
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: The guy who starts to dance at Yeah, so I
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: feel like you're one of the podcasters here. This is
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: your friend's wife. They're here to have good time.
• 50:39
  Speaker 3: Everybody's in the beginning, they're always like really bricky and
• 50:42
  Speaker 3: like nobody wants to come over there in the dance floor.
• 50:45
  Speaker 3: So I'll get out there and just have a great time,
• 50:47
  Speaker 3: and then people start to kind of hang out with me,
• 50:49
  Speaker 3: and then eventually you've got this critical mass of like
• 50:51
  Speaker 3: there's five or six people.
• 50:54
  Speaker 4: Dance.
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 50:55
  Speaker 3: Actually that was Thirsty Scoop. Thirsty Scooping started that train,
• 50:58
  Speaker 3: but I joined the train. I was the very first
• 51:00
  Speaker 3: that I was an early investor.
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: And floor Gym is in yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, two
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: people became a train. Yeah that's right. Yeah, Thirsty was
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: an engine. I think.
• 51:13
  Speaker 3: I think that's but it goes nowhere. If people aren't
• 51:16
  Speaker 3: somebody's gonna pull that train. Somebody's got to be there.
• 51:19
  Speaker 3: So we ran a train on Thirsty Scoop. It was
• 51:21
  Speaker 3: a good time. But yeah, definitely I want to defend
• 51:24
  Speaker 3: my dancing here. Thank you for also pointing out in
• 51:26
  Speaker 3: your letter that technically my dancing wasn't the cause of
• 51:28
  Speaker 3: your depression.
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: That's good to know. Again, didn't think about that first. Yeah,
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: but this is a relatable question I did. On that
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: note before we moved back to the letter. I texted
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: Gym last night. Actually, I was like, good job, you
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: did good. Everything was great. It truly was. He gets
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: up and dances.
• 51:46
  Speaker 6: He is a he is an energy machine up there
• 51:48
  Speaker 6: on the floor, and that is always good to have.
• 51:51
  Speaker 4: Thanks.
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, until he overfills the bucket away, Yeah, until on
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: the floor opened again. Last night, fucking Whitney. All of
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: a sudden, Jim comes bursting in. You fucking invite me
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: to your wedding. I swallowed that hook so fast.
• 52:16
  Speaker 5: Joe comes up to go, oh my god, Whitny, you're
• 52:18
  Speaker 5: invited to next wedding, and I was like, yeah, you aren't.
• 52:21
  Speaker 5: And then I look behind him. I'm like I'm not
• 52:23
  Speaker 5: to all the scooms behind him and Jim did not.
• 52:25
  Speaker 3: See me gotten me going on this, because they were like, oh,
• 52:29
  Speaker 3: when's uh, when's nixt wedding?
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: Blab blah blah.
• 52:30
  Speaker 3: It's like, oh, I don't think it's planned yet, and
• 52:32
  Speaker 3: they were like, that's so weird. Whitney's saying that she's
• 52:33
  Speaker 3: invited and like it.
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: And so they just handed me up to her, and
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: so I like stomp across the fucking patio to Whitney
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: and like, are you invited in next wedding?
• 52:42
  Speaker 3: Which I wouldn't have this kind of fucking trauma reaction
• 52:44
  Speaker 3: except that the ship happened with the proposal that she
• 52:47
  Speaker 3: was involved and I wasn't involved, and I haven't recovered
• 52:50
  Speaker 3: from that.
• 52:50
  Speaker 4: I basically picked out Laura's wedding.
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: I'm just.
• 52:54
  Speaker 3: So like when he's like, didn't miss a beat, She's like, yeah,
• 52:57
  Speaker 3: of course, sorry, you know you're not.
• 53:00
  Speaker 4: And I was like, you didn't get the invite?
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: Are you?
• 53:03
  Speaker 2: Are you still set to uh to stand in for
• 53:05
  Speaker 2: Laura at the rehearsal?
• 53:06
  Speaker 5: Yeah, that's right, go, I don't want to know.
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: Don't make me officiated. No.
• 53:15
  Speaker 6: By the way, I do love officiating weddings, So you
• 53:18
  Speaker 6: just said them all.
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: I will, honestly, I have a good time with Hi'm done. No,
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: But Whitney knew exactly what was happening, and then I
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: had to explain to.
• 53:25
  Speaker 4: Like I was going to try text Nick.
• 53:26
  Speaker 5: I was like, hurry, you don't play along with this,
• 53:28
  Speaker 5: and he goes, I'm not playing a lot.
• 53:31
  Speaker 2: I was like, this is this is not Jim's problem.
• 53:34
  Speaker 5: You're not You're not creating, Like, this's not it's my problem,
• 53:38
  Speaker 5: Like that, you're right.
• 53:40
  Speaker 4: I hate that you're right.
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: This is why people like why is Nick never supporting
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: the bits where we deceived him and whip him up
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: into a frenzy?
• 53:46
  Speaker 3: Right, I have to chase the dog down when you
• 53:49
  Speaker 3: guys let him out the door, because nobody.
• 53:52
  Speaker 5: Sees the behind the scenes that truly are just Jim
• 53:55
  Speaker 5: And next text nobody knows.
• 53:56
  Speaker 4: I don't even know. We're not that good.
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: It's just me. It's walls of thoughts.
• 54:04
  Speaker 3: And then he writes back with like, yes, that's fine.
• 54:07
  Speaker 3: Also you did this. I support you. But yes to
• 54:12
  Speaker 3: the writer, Yeah, I've only been around for about twenty
• 54:14
  Speaker 3: percent of those I'm not around for most.
• 54:17
  Speaker 2: Of them, you know what I mean?
• 54:18
  Speaker 4: Okay, that was the question.
• 54:20
  Speaker 3: It's a relatable question though, like, yes, it is suddenly
• 54:23
  Speaker 3: going into a funk.
• 54:23
  Speaker 6: I want to say it is like, don't feel bad
• 54:26
  Speaker 6: about it, right, but now it's now it's happened.
• 54:29
  Speaker 2: Don't sweat it now.
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: Right, Let's let's work on the issue that you wanted
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: to work on, but also let's not confuse the issue
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: even more so by like getting into a funk about
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: being regretful about about missing stuff. But I can relate
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: to this one hundred percent because it was the this
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: was me the first scoop fest I ever went to.
• 54:51
  Speaker 2: Oh really before we've even had a podcast.
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: Oh, the very first scoop fest you've attended. It is
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: just a yeah scoop Okay, yeah, because I Jacob wouldn't
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: even know I was there. This is probably news to
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: Jacob that I was in this because I was definitely
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: anybody else that was there.
• 55:08
  Speaker 4: Either, what was your costume?
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: I didn't.
• 55:12
  Speaker 2: I wasn't even there for that. Like I was definitely
• 55:15
  Speaker 2: a wallflower.
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: Okay. I stayed in the back, I didn't, you know,
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: And I was very quiet. And then I kind of
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: felt like I was frustrated with myself, like I wish
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: I had push myself. I wish I'd gone out there
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: a little bit further and really.
• 55:27
  Speaker 4: Garrel so receptive.
• 55:29
  Speaker 5: If you do if you just walk up into a
• 55:30
  Speaker 5: circle like, oh yeah, get make the circle bigger and clear,
• 55:33
  Speaker 5: like it's it's amazing.
• 55:34
  Speaker 4: But you don't know this the most.
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: You don't know. You don't know it, and it's hard.
• 55:38
  Speaker 6: It's hard to do it that first time. It's stepping
• 55:41
  Speaker 6: off the cliff, Yeah, onto the what was it? I
• 55:44
  Speaker 6: was Indiana Jones, one of the Indian Jones movies. You'd like,
• 55:47
  Speaker 6: step off the cliff and then there was a bridge
• 55:49
  Speaker 6: that was colored.
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: For the holy Grail. Yeah, that's the only grail he
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: had to take the Yeah, that's right.
• 55:56
  Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean it is like that, like once you're
• 55:57
  Speaker 6: on it, you're go, oh great, I'm on a bridge.
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: And it's fine. My feedback to the writer is, I
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: think that now you've got something to look forward to
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: for the next one, right, because then the next one
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: you feel a little bit more comfortable and you know
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: more people there, right, and then you can just kind
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: of like it feels it just to me at this point,
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: it feels like just going to a family reunion, right, Yeah,
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: you know, it's just like, oh, I get to see
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: all my cousins and everything I don't get to see
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: very often, and so it just feels more and more
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: comfortable every time, right, And so yeah, I agree with Jacob.
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: You know, do your best not to it's kind of uncontrollable,
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: but you know, don't beat yourself up.
• 56:35
  Speaker 3: It's a very relatable experience, I know for me because
• 56:38
  Speaker 3: we joke about it. But like the cup thing is
• 56:40
  Speaker 3: absolutely true, or the bucket thing that you've come up with,
• 56:42
  Speaker 3: which is fuck you for saying it.
• 56:44
  Speaker 2: Not to smackurate.
• 56:45
  Speaker 3: It's called yeah exactly, it's not exactly a bucket Dixie cup.
• 56:49
  Speaker 3: But like you no, like my anxiety will kick in,
• 56:52
  Speaker 3: and it's tough because like there's like performance Jim who
• 56:55
  Speaker 3: can be running around doing his thing and kind of
• 56:57
  Speaker 3: like entertain or put out good energy, but like that
• 57:00
  Speaker 3: comes at a cost, and like at some point that
• 57:02
  Speaker 3: battery hits zero, and when that happens, I become very vulnerable.
• 57:07
  Speaker 3: And like, this is something I said in the confessional
• 57:09
  Speaker 3: booth for the documentary, which I don't know if they'll
• 57:12
  Speaker 3: end up showing you guys all the things, but one
• 57:13
  Speaker 3: of the things that I had said.
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: I would hope.
• 57:15
  Speaker 3: So I hope so because I hope that at a minimum,
• 57:17
  Speaker 3: you get to hear all the nice things people.
• 57:19
  Speaker 2: I mean, I kind of assume that they'll just se price.
• 57:22
  Speaker 3: But no, one of the things that I thought about
• 57:24
  Speaker 3: and I wanted to say that I did say in
• 57:26
  Speaker 3: the recording was I think ICs is very special in
• 57:29
  Speaker 3: the world because I think that they are brave, and
• 57:32
  Speaker 3: I kind of conflate that with comedy. I think comedy
• 57:34
  Speaker 3: is brave. It's hard to do. True, it is hard
• 57:37
  Speaker 3: to do. And like even whenever I teach at U
• 57:39
  Speaker 3: and LV, like I tell my students, like I'm going
• 57:41
  Speaker 3: to try sometimes in this class to be silly and
• 57:43
  Speaker 3: to make jokes. Not just because I want this class
• 57:46
  Speaker 3: to be fun for you, I want to show you
• 57:48
  Speaker 3: that you can be a therapist. Then you can be
• 57:50
  Speaker 3: brave and be comedic and you'll kind of fuck up,
• 57:52
  Speaker 3: but like it actually humor is a really important human
• 57:55
  Speaker 3: trait and like it really does help with therapy. And
• 57:58
  Speaker 3: like I said that in the confessional too, is just
• 57:59
  Speaker 3: like that's one of the things I think I say
• 58:01
  Speaker 3: it so special about. It's not just that they are
• 58:02
  Speaker 3: funny peoples, that they're funny in this brave and inclusive way.
• 58:06
  Speaker 3: Like if you're sitting alone at the lunch table of life,
• 58:08
  Speaker 3: you've got these group of guys that are in their
• 58:10
  Speaker 3: own little world having a great time, and there's open
• 58:12
  Speaker 3: seats at their table, and they're welcoming you to it,
• 58:14
  Speaker 3: and they don't give a fuck who's popular, who's cool
• 58:15
  Speaker 3: in this this high school. You can just come join
• 58:17
  Speaker 3: them and all of a sudden you're included and you
• 58:19
  Speaker 3: found your people. And like that's a special thing that
• 58:21
  Speaker 3: I think that ice Cream Social does. But like to
• 58:24
  Speaker 3: bring that full circle to what this writer is saying
• 58:26
  Speaker 3: for me doing that, bringing energy, being funny, trying to
• 58:30
  Speaker 3: be playful, and then you get your balls kicked in
• 58:32
  Speaker 3: by one of your co hosts or like you know,
• 58:33
  Speaker 3: there's a bit or somebody you know steps on your toe,
• 58:35
  Speaker 3: or they don't realize you're actually your batteries at very
• 58:37
  Speaker 3: low right there, Like your shields are pretty low. I'll
• 58:40
  Speaker 3: have these anxiety moments, and that happens every scoop fest
• 58:43
  Speaker 3: for me, Yeah, where I will have those moments.
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: I watched you across the table. You can when justin
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: clotheslined you.
• 58:48
  Speaker 6: Yeah, And that's why, like I was quick to jump
• 58:53
  Speaker 6: on just at that, Yeah, because I knew I could.
• 58:55
  Speaker 6: I knew I could just stop that right there, right
• 59:00
  Speaker 6: and to keep the bit going and keep it funny.
• 59:02
  Speaker 6: And then the guys jump in because they're because it's
• 59:05
  Speaker 6: the timing of it and that's also what you're supposed
• 59:07
  Speaker 6: to do anyway, and.
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: So like, but yeah, I definitely saw it.
• 59:12
  Speaker 2: Like that, Jim's out of this table right now and
• 59:18
  Speaker 2: go to the bathroom and hide.
• 59:19
  Speaker 6: Yeah that Justin, like, you know, if it if it's
• 59:22
  Speaker 6: a boxing analogy, it's not that Justin threw this you know, big,
• 59:26
  Speaker 6: you know, sweeping white right hand punch.
• 59:29
  Speaker 2: It's that he didn't realize that Jim had.
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: A last jaw. Yeah, he a little jab and Jim went,
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: oh no, Yeah.
• 59:38
  Speaker 3: So I relate to the writer and I feel like
• 59:39
  Speaker 3: I'm teasing Justin too much. I took it and stride
• 59:41
  Speaker 3: but everything was fine.
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: No, it's all fun. We're all fun, all perfectly good.
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: But no, like yeah, yeah, good, thank you, thank you
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: for that.
• 59:48
  Speaker 4: Does here we go?
• 59:52
  Speaker 3: No, But like I totally relate to the writer because
• 59:55
  Speaker 3: like I've I had tons of little moments at Scoop
• 59:57
  Speaker 3: Fast and this always happens to me where I'm I
• 59:59
  Speaker 3: get so pumped up, I'm so excited to go.
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: It's golden Truver energy. And then I get there and
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: I start spending that energy and the shields kind of
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 1: go down. And then I'll have a small interaction with
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 1: somebody where just the slightest thing, like what happened to
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: the writer suddenly triggers me and I'm like, oh, oh, no,
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: I did I do something wrong? If I if I
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: upset somebody? Is there are people saying something about me
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: right now that did I overstep? Was that not funny? Like?
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 3: And then I'll suddenly like want to run away, and
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 3: so like I really relate to what the writer's talking
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 3: about because I have one hundred percent done that that
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 3: fucking happened. At the third day, you guys were trying
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 3: to get me to go to lunch, and you guys
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 3: were like, hey, man, come with us, and I was
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 3: like no, and you're like are you okay?
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: Like yep, just sulking in my car for a while,
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 1: Like you guys, really you should come with us. But
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: I was like no, I need to just fucking rehab
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: for a while.
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 3: But like this, I get it, and like I missed
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 3: out on lunch and so like I can or I
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 3: missed out on other activities because I have to go
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 3: hide for a while and like recharge the battery and
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 3: just kind of get right sized again. So I really
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 3: relate to the writer, and I guess, writer.
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 4: What I would tell you is what do you do
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 4: to write? So, like what did you do in your car?
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: It's about, Yeah, I furiously masturbate, which really helps. Yeah,
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: I know, I know. Well I'm also in the valet also,
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: and so feel free to tempt the windshield.
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 6: I know it's illy, I know, but if valet you
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 6: just explain to that, you know, and.
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 3: Then I don't want to tip him because I'm gonna
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 3: give it right back, you know. It is like I'm
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 3: just It's like you can drive away, sir. I'm like,
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 3: I just need a few minutes, you know much, just
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 3: you know, turn on Metallica, crank it to the loudest
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 3: setting and fucking go. No for me like that, I
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 3: think my goal in life is never going to be
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 3: to completely eliminate the experience of anxiety from my brain.
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 3: And when you live with a chronic condition, it's really
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 3: about how much victory can you have? And like for me,
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 3: that I attend the majority of the thing that I
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 3: I keep, I'll run away, I'll retreat, I'll recharge and
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 3: I'll pop back in.
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 2: That's a victory for me. Also, that's help. So many
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 2: people do that, right, Like this is a just us.
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 2: I mean I talked to a lot of scoops and there,
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 2: you know, they'll take like I don't. I gotta get
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 2: back up to my room for a little bit, right,
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 2: rest for a little bit. I'm just gonna kind of.
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: Very normally. I do this at scoop Fest. We do.
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: We definitely do well. Yeah, and you guys have to.
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 2: We have to duck out for for just moments here
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 2: and there.
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, even if it's like I got to
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: deal with something else or like deal with a or whatever.
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: But like, yeah, yeah, I mean at the bucket show,
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: I didn't watch the Bucket Show. I was either on
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: stage or out in the lobby doing other stuff.
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 6: Yeah, that's that's that. Those were my two places on stage,
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 6: furiously masturbating in the lobby.
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Jim's car that was not there was some blueberry
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: but that was not shot.
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you should get checked. No, I put it there.
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: I'm concerned. I'm doing a game that I call Cookie
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: blue Bear, and you know what, I'm winning, winning this
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: game of life.
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 4: No, I did think that the first bucket showed Jacob.
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 5: When I showed up downtown, I was like kind of
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 5: peeking in just to see because I didn't it was
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 5: a little bit over the hours. I wasn't sure what
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 5: was going on, so I peaked him, but I recognized
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 5: your hair, and so I kind of opened the doors, like, oh,
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 5: we're Jacob, just like chills at the back. But I
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 5: also thought, this seems right, like just to step away,
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 5: collect your.
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: Thoughts, emails, the sand.
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 4: That's kicking off scoop fast.
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I was dealing with with other issues that were.
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 4: Also popping up multitask.
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 6: Yeah, there were a lot of things this year that
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 6: I we'll cover ot on ice cream, social and stuff too,
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 6: I'm sure, but there were a lot of things this
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 6: year that just like almost blew up at the last second.
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah, to listen, missus, But no, on this person's point,
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 3: we're all relating. I think that we're all relating in
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 3: our own ways. And for me at least right or
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 3: my saying my piece on it is just I get
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 3: that discouragement. There's been so many times where like I've
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 3: left scoop Fest, then I'll come back and Nick will
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 3: be like in tears laughing, from a bit like a
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 3: variety show bit or something, and I'll have to ask, like,
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 3: oh fuck, what did I miss right? And then I
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 3: have to like look it up online if it's available
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 3: and stuff like that. I have to recap it, and
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 3: I'll be frustrated with myself, so like, damn it, Like
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 3: I really wish I didn't need to run away, But
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 3: then I kind of have forgiven myself for that, and
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 3: I try to reframe it now, and I say, no,
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 3: running away and taking twenty minutes bought you the other
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 3: four hours. You know, it bought you these other things.
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 3: And writer, maybe that's kind of how you should look
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 3: at this. Is like you were enjoying us Jay and
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 3: the Ruckus, you were enjoying the show. You were tolerating
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 3: my dancing. After you were convinced I wasn't having a
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 3: medical emergency, and you suddenly had a flash of depression,
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 3: and you know what, you had to respond to that,
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 3: and it just it kind of is what it is,
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 3: kind of like you just got a bloody nose. It's
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 3: always inconvenient. It may take you out of this for
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 3: a while. It's shitty, it's frustrating, but just I think
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 3: my encouragement to you is reframe that as you know what.
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 3: I got so much out of this and I had
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 3: to pay for it with like this, you know, burst
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 3: of depression. Overall, my life's better, like I'm in good balance.
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 3: What about talking to someone in the moment? What about
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 3: talking to a friend I don't know how talking to Nick,
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 3: That's what I usually do.
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 5: I was wondering that too, because that's a little bit.
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 5: I was like, Jim, just come to lunch with us,
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 5: like you can debrief for a minute. Might feel better
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 5: getting it out of our heads, because I feel like
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 5: when I'm in those moments, if I'm too much in
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 5: my head, it doesn't always help. It might help eventually,
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 5: but it's like we can spiral as humans.
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 6: Yeah, sometimes you just need somebody to go out now,
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 6: like ground up, shut up, come on, We're doing it.
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 4: It's fine, and maybe you still need some time.
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 3: Brand of anxiety, and I have many in my cabinet.
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 3: I have many types of anxieties, but one brand I
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 3: have is a fear of like upsetting others or like
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 3: doing something awkward, which I know is hilarious because I
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 3: do it on purpose, but like like this thing of
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 3: like I have burdened somebody or I've been off putting,
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 3: and like I am haunted. I'm haunted by every conversation
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 3: I've had. Like remember weeks ago, we had one where
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 3: somebody said, you know, do you ever shout something?
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: And I said, I shout fuck the police. And I
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 1: do that quite a bit.
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 3: Yeah, And part of that is like the symbolism of
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 3: like the police care about what you did right or wrong,
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 3: and like you didn't do anything wrong, Jim fucked the police.
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 3: You didn't bother this person, you didn't do anything off.
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 3: But then I'll think, oh, fuck I said something awkward
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 3: or something word and then whenever you have friends that
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 3: reach out to you'd be like, bro, we'll talk to you.
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: Man.
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 3: I don't want to tell you guys either, because I'm like, no,
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 3: then I'm gonna be off putting in weird like because
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell you like oh, in my head.
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: About this, we're like, fuck, I gotta do with this
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: over lunch. Like I don't want that for you either,
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 1: So I just want to sell you obtain my little bullshit.
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 6: But that's exactly right, because you have to be in
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 6: a mental place to be able to accept the help
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 6: as well.
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: That's a good point.
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 6: Yeah, Yeah, Sometimes you have to be in a place
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 6: you either have to I mean one of the two parties,
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 6: he either has one of the two parties has to
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 6: have the energy.
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 1: Like it's right there.
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 6: It is going to cost you're in you're in a funk,
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 6: you're in a in a depression spiral. It is going
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 6: to cost some energy to get you out of that
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 6: depression spiral. And either you have to supply that energy
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 6: or your friend has to supply that energy, right, and
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 6: so like if you have a close friend there that
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 6: that understands kind of what's going on and can supply
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 6: that energy for you, they can sometimes just grab you
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 6: and say like no, no, you're not leaving. You're gonna be
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 6: mad later if you leave right, go to the bathroom,
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 6: throw some cold water in your face, take a ship, come.
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 2: Back in here. I'm gonna get you a drink. I'm
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 2: gonna wait for you at the door.
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: Don't try to fucking leave. Yeah, sit, it's gonna.
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 4: Be fun and the like.
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 6: And then ten minutes later, if you have that friend
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 6: who is who's doing that work for you, then like
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 6: that can sometimes pop you out of it. Sometimes you
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 6: have to do it yourself, like it is all those
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 6: different things. But you're right, you have to do you
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 6: have to be accepting of it.
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: That's a good point. And sometimes I know that it's
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 1: okay to run away, and I think in the writer's
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: you know.
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 4: Nothing you're doing down there, they don't have that sport.
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: Right, yeah, exactly.
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 3: And sometimes you just don't want to burn anybody else
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 3: because like my car needs a jump start, I don't
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 3: want to make you have to do that, right, Like I'd.
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 1: Rather call exactly. I feel better if I can handle
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: this on my own.
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 4: So yeah, it's really not handling and calling for everything.
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: And I do want to let you know it's it's
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: not a big burden for me. It's at this point
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: that it's like it's like asking Elton John to play
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: chop sticks, Like it's not I got this down. Yeah,
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: it's I know what to do. Yeah, when goes running
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 1: down the street, I just go get some bacon.
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 6: Yes, one of my super Bowl predictions is officially crashed.
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: Down, officially wrong. The super Bowl halftime show has been announced.
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: Oh that's right. They were going to announce that it
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 1: is not t Swift, Oh.
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 2: It is mister bad Bunny.
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 1: Oh okay. Interesting that's very interesting.
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 3: He canceled all his American UH travel and tours because
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 3: of ice raids.
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 1: He didn't he didn't want to.
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 6: I believe, I believe all of that's been smoothed over now.
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 6: Yeah he's back. It seems like all of those types
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 6: of issues. Yeah, they have just all been fixed. And
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 6: everybody's happy. Everything's happy.
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 1: Last I saw them, they were all singing, right, Oh, wonderful, Yeah, wonderful.
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: It sounded kind of like a dirge and yeah something,
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: but either way, they were singing.
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 3: Yeah, singing's good, wonderful. Well, anyway, writer, this is it's
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 3: a very relatable question. I'm really glad you wrote in
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 3: with it. And you know what, if you take that time,
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 3: I know it's a bummer. And look, I missed out
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 3: on a ton of things and that happens, and I'm like, ah, fuck,
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 3: I wish I hadn't done that. But we live with
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 3: chronic mental illnesses, and so it's about finding the winds
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 3: where we can find the winds and learning how to,
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 3: you know, take care of ourselves. And for you, that
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 3: meant you needed to go just sleep it off and
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 3: have a full reboot. And sometimes that's the thing. And
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 3: if you had decided, you know what, I'm just gonna
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna white knuckle through this thing, and I'm gonna
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 3: talk to a friend and try another method, see if
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 3: I can salvage the night. That would have been an
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 3: option to Yeah, And there's been times when I've done that,
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 3: when I thought I'm gonna run away, and then I'm like, Nope,
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna lean in and just hang out and have
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 3: a good time and just shrug it off. And sometimes
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 3: you get lucky. So you know, it kind of goes
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 3: both ways. But I agree with Jacob's very first point though.
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 3: We don't want you to absorb any shame or guilty, No,
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 3: that would be shitty. Like we just live with these conditions, brother,
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 3: And now it's now, it's in the past, right, and
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 3: now we learn from it. Now we and now we
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 3: work on it.
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 6: And and I'm gonna say this, and I mean only
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 6: from your point of view, We're gonna do better next time, right,
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 6: because you're not doing you're not doing.
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 1: Bad by anybody else, So you're gonna you're gonna get
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 1: better at it yourself.
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 6: Yes, you know, like I'm I'm sorry that I didn't
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 6: get to hang out with you. More if you were,
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 6: if you were going upstairs.
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 1: And I don't know who you are, obviously you're anonymous,
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 1: but uh, you know, I'm sorry that I didn't didn't
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: get to hang out with you more because you were
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 1: you were feeling those feelings, and uh, you know that
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: that sucks. I'm sorry, but I'm not upset with you
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: about it, right, you know, I want you to be
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 1: happy and healthy and cool, and if that, if that
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 1: means taking a little break, cool, I'm good with that.
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 2: Whatever you need to do, man, do your thing.
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 1: I wrote this letter, and I accept your apologies. Okay, good,
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 1: thank you. Yeah, talking about that.
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 3: We are going to take a quick break and when
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 3: we come back, we're going to talk about autism.
• 1:11:02
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• 1:11:06
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  Speaker 3: So I saw this quote the other day after you know,
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 3: Trump came out and said that it's tail and all
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 3: that's causing all the autism and somebody it was a
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 3: great tweet, but it was something to the effect of,
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 3: are we really going to accept and believe that there
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 3: was a pattern between taking this medicine and developing autism
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 3: and the autistic people never caught it?
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: Like, right, what they catch fucking patterns? There's zero present?
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 1: Did you catch Were you guys there for Penn Sunday School? Yes?
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 6: Yeah, yes, he Ready Richard and the director of Pence
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 6: Sunday School. Yes, is autistic. Yeah, he is on the
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 6: spectrum and uh. Penn brought up the tilt all thing
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 6: to Ready. Ready's comment was, yeah, yeah, my mom just
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 6: quit something like that.
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 2: So it knocked me out a bunch of That was
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 2: a really good episode.
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: They also kind of talked, you know, Penn talked a
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: lot about the decrease in tourism. Yeah, yeah, that was well.
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 1: It was such a good.
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 6: Because Matt and I laughed about it about that Penn
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 6: Sunday School coming up a couple of weeks ago, because
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 6: we were like, Matt was like, it's gonna be Penn's
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 6: first episode back in the country because they've been out
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 6: of the country touring Pen Teller.
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 1: He's like that. That's gonna be his first episode back
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 1: in the country in like a month. Wow.
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 6: So they haven't been doing episodes this last three weeks,
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 6: maybe three weeks, but however long it is, and all
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 6: this ship's been happening.
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and so like nothing.
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 1: This it's it's probably good that it's gonna be.
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 2: At Scoop fast because I will keep this from going too.
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 6: Far down the hellscape.
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 1: Well, speaking of healthscapes, Seria trivia, here we.
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 2: Go, Whitney during el call it cool colacho c O
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 2: L A c h okay.
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 1: In Spain, men.
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 2: Dressed as devils leap over what to symbolize cleansing of
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 2: sins butter? Oh yeah, it's always butter. Colato, gelato over gelato.
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 5: They're dressed as devils and they jump over something symbolized
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 5: the sins.
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 1: Cool fire thing.
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 4: That's volcanoes, but that's really going to do.
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: Spaghetti open fires.
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 2: Oh, sleeping babies also stiles of flowers or buckets of water.
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 4: I mean it's got to be.
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 2: Baby, please, baby, please be sleeping babies.
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 1: Come on, it is.
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 4: Not open Yeah, babies, babies.
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: Sleeping babies is the answer. Yes, Sometimes life gives you dream.
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 2: Of you can finally be happy.
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 1: Yes, everything, and they knock.
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 2: Those babies out.
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 1: Those babies are going sleep. Wow, Jacob.
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 2: The town of Olo, Finland, oh U l U hosts
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 2: a world championship for which instrument?
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: Oh instrument?
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 4: There's no hints in that.
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 1: I feel like you're gonna want options.
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 2: Is it one of those? Is one of those huge
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 2: horns there?
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 1: It is? It is huge horn an option.
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 2: I believe you're thinking, uh, Switzerland.
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 1: I believe I am. Yes, Uh. Here are your options
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 1: invisible drums, air guitar, lip trumpets there it is, or kazoo.
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 3: Now, lip trumpets is definitely just blow jops. That's all
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 3: you're doing. You're just here's gaming, fellatio.
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 1: Give me, give me the th give me the fondles
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 1: the bottom of the trumpets.
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 2: Drums, air guitar, lip trumpets, or kazoo.
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: Sounds. I mean, the bad thing is the question. Trumpet
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: is definitely my name.
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 6: The bad thing is ever get away from Dixie switched?
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 6: The either good or bad thing about this my answer
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 6: is going to be air guitar. And the good or
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  Speaker 6: bad thing about this is I went to high school
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  Speaker 6: with a guy who was the world air guitar champion
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 6: for several years. I don't know if he ever went
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 6: to Finland to do it. This is my problem. But
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 6: he was like touring around the world doing air guitar.
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  Speaker 4: What are we living?
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 1: I have not follow up questions.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, first of all, right, did he play guitar for real?
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 2: I have no idea.
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  Speaker 1: I think he.
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 2: I think he does because I kind of wonder if
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 2: that's a benefit. I don't think there's any I don't.
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 2: I don't think there's any benefit to a better guitar
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 2: player if you don't play.
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  Speaker 1: No.
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  Speaker 6: I think if you just watch Montley Crewe videos and
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 6: learn how to play air guitar by watching Motley Crew videos,
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 6: I think that's where you want to base.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that makes sense. My buddy's name is Adam Wilson.
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: We went to high school together, and he would often
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 1: dress up similarly to Randy the Macho Man Savage to
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 1: play guitar. Or he would just go out like pants less,
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 1: just in a pair of briefs's and play air guitar overalls.
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 1: All kinds of things. The man understands. It's about the present.
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 1: We're from the same small town in Louisiana. Yes, and yeah,
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 1: a certain sentiments, that's right. He got out. He made
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 1: it all right, right, Jim held annually and I'm gonna
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 1: guess sunken jar JARV sunken Jarvi Finland. Yeah, the winners
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 1: prize traditionally equals the wife's weight in what so okay,
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 1: I don't know what the It sounds like there's a contest.
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 1: It's the wife.
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 2: Carrying world championship.
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 3: Oh that's great, okay, So if you can carry your wife,
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 3: the prize is the wife's.
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 1: Weight weight what Okay? So this incentivizes.
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 3: Because there's going to be a reward, so it's worth
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 3: whateveration she's going.
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 1: To go through.
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  Speaker 2: This is where butter comes in.
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, if you won, you get the wife's weight.
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 3: I mean it can't be gold because that's insane. Precious
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 3: metals give me options.
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to get it silver coins, cheese, beer,
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 1: or cr So the question is this has to be
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 1: good for the wife or she's not going to fucking
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 1: do this. So we're not going to be beer. Okay.
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 1: I know they've got cheese for days. I'll bet you
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 1: they can do chocolate. I could see chicks being like, fuck,
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 1: I really want that chocolate, and chocolate has staying power.
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 1: Whereas the cheese I think doesn't. Let's go chocolate. No,
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 1: God damn it, cheese. No, oh, sleeping babies. I think beer.
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 2: It is beer, right, yeah, person.
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 1: My assumption is there is just a large scale somewhere
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 1: in the town square, and the woman sits on one
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 1: side and similar to Monty Python and the Holy Grail. Okay, yeah,
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 1: the woman sits on one side of.
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 6: It and there's just a tub and they just come
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 6: over there and fill that thing with beer until the
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 6: scale balances out.
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's got to be.
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 2: If that's not how they do it, I'm gonna be
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 2: upset and the challenging party. You have to drink it
• 1:18:50
  Speaker 2: all there, yees, just one person.
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 1: Nobody leaves until she drinks that contained. It's just the
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 1: giant wooden barrel of beer.
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 6: I'm picturing more of like one of those core Gate
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 6: did steel dog tubs.
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 1: Oh yes, yes, and this is you just belly up right. Okay,
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 1: So I'm winning.
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 3: I think is as sure autism news and self worth.
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 3: Hey guys, the family watched a bunch of embarrassing autism
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 3: press conference from the dipshit in chief and the environmental
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 3: lawyer with no medical expertise and we turned it off
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 3: when RFK Junior talked about reversal of autism looking good.
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 3: The moment really hurt my sense of self worth and
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 3: made me feel dehumanized. I'm an adult with autism. I've
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 3: held a job at the same company for eighteen plus years,
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 3: with the eight most recent years of that career as
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 3: a manager. I'm also a father of four. Three of
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 3: those children have autism, each at various degrees of independence.
• 1:19:46
  Speaker 3: The oldest of them works a job at an assisted
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 3: living facility and manages her own finances. She struggles socially
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 3: and doubts her own abilities, but she's doing very well
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 3: for herself. The next one graduated from high school with honors.
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 3: She's attending college the dean's list two consecutive semesters joined
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 3: a coven AKAA sorority and served as a chair in
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 3: the organization.
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 1: See you built up my hope there.
• 1:20:09
  Speaker 4: I thought this like a coven that I was like.
• 1:20:13
  Speaker 1: I was very.
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 3: Excited, and she's going to graduate a semester early. The
• 1:20:17
  Speaker 3: youngest is barely verbal, very dependent, and may never hold
• 1:20:20
  Speaker 3: a job or live on his own. All three of
• 1:20:23
  Speaker 3: them are loved and valued equally. Yet there are people
• 1:20:26
  Speaker 3: in power who don't see that value. They treat autism
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 3: like a disease that's killing millions and fail to see
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 3: the importance of the neurodiversity in the wild. My two
• 1:20:36
  Speaker 3: older kids with autism are part of their own communities
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 3: and they are thriving. My youngest may not have much
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 3: in the way of a community, but he thrives in
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 3: his own way, and he's a bundle of joy and love.
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 3: Hearing twenty years of people treating autism almost the same
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 3: as cancer has had a terrible effect on us, and
• 1:20:53
  Speaker 3: we do our best to treat it like the bullshit
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 3: it is, But goddamn is it exhausting At times. We
• 1:20:59
  Speaker 3: know that the strongest info we have on autism is
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 3: the genetic angle, and yet we keep seeing people try
• 1:21:05
  Speaker 3: to pin so many environmental factors on it instead of
• 1:21:08
  Speaker 3: researching how we can accommodate people on the spectrum to
• 1:21:12
  Speaker 3: make their lives easier. It's all ridiculous anyway.
• 1:21:16
  Speaker 1: These things are.
• 1:21:16
  Speaker 3: Supposed to have questions, So I want to know how
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 3: can we on the autism spectrum effectively combat feeling dehumanized
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 3: by the assault on autism? How can we cling to
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 3: our validity and value in a world with a vocal
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 3: minority who think otherwise of us. With love to all
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 3: of you, even Jim, your impal Justin aka frou jog.
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, good job.
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 1: Off, Yeah, just do it.
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 4: Jim doesn't say fuck the.
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 1: Police, right girl? Do it? Well, don't do it, though
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 1: you should say it. Yeah, but I mean you get
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 1: out a ticket. I mean you shouldn't do what you
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 1: gotta do, you got to do.
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 5: I hate this so much. I was just sitting here thinking,
• 1:21:56
  Speaker 5: what's an analogy? Because I'm not a good analogy person
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 5: like Nick, but what's an analogy for this? And it
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 5: kind of I went back to thinking like, oh, I'm
• 1:22:05
  Speaker 5: gonna get all so many terms wrong. But like if
• 1:22:07
  Speaker 5: humans like way back when we're not upright walkers, and.
• 1:22:11
  Speaker 4: That was like the best, the best thing.
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 5: You can run faster because you're using all four of
• 1:22:16
  Speaker 5: your limbs, like all this stuff. And then eventually one
• 1:22:19
  Speaker 5: person like walks up right and like, ooh, that's weird.
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 5: Kill him right, So like they kill him and then
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 5: it's like oh, then all of a sudden, another one
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 5: like pops up and is walking up right, and it's
• 1:22:27
  Speaker 5: like it looks like this weird thing, and and really
• 1:22:30
  Speaker 5: it's just neutral, like if you walk up right or
• 1:22:33
  Speaker 5: you walk on all fours, like who fucking.
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 1: Care advance or or it could be an advanced well.
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 5: You don't know yet, but like let's let's keep it neutral.
• 1:22:40
  Speaker 5: Let's say it doesn't fucking matter. Yeah, we don't see that.
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 5: We just see different and that's not what is quote normal,
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 5: that's not what we're used to, and so we think
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 5: it's bad. And it's like, really, we don't know. It
• 1:22:53
  Speaker 5: could be something something amazing, Like we aren't giving people
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 5: with autism a chance to like show their potential a
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 5: lot of times because they're getting shut down so quickly
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 5: or like shunned out of things. And God, this administration
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 5: is really fucking just so much bigger too.
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 3: Than right administration because, like I mean, going back, I
• 1:23:14
  Speaker 3: think over a decade now, so much concern about vaccines
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 3: and whether they quote unquote cause autism. But I think
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 3: what Justin's pointing out here is when autism is the
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 3: punchline of every scary statement, you are pathologizing and dehumanizing
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 3: us in a sense.
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 1: Yes, And I think this.
• 1:23:31
  Speaker 3: Is a tricky thing because the word autism and autism
• 1:23:34
  Speaker 3: spectrum disorder are considered mental health things, right, and we
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 3: talk about like ADHD in the same way, like it's
• 1:23:41
  Speaker 3: in our book of kind of quote unquote illnesses, and
• 1:23:44
  Speaker 3: so that's an interesting conversation to have about like and clearly,
• 1:23:49
  Speaker 3: like any trait or any kind of unique neuro reality,
• 1:23:52
  Speaker 3: it can be problematic. But we usually measure autism and
• 1:23:58
  Speaker 3: any other mental health thing on the amount of difficulty
• 1:24:01
  Speaker 3: it causes to the person, right, Like all humans have
• 1:24:04
  Speaker 3: some amount of anxiety. Sure, some of us have a
• 1:24:06
  Speaker 3: disordered amount. And the way we know the difference is
• 1:24:09
  Speaker 3: that it causes significant clinical distress in a lot of
• 1:24:12
  Speaker 3: areas of our lives. And so now we can measure
• 1:24:14
  Speaker 3: this disruption, and I think autism it probably could be
• 1:24:17
  Speaker 3: viewed on the same kind of scale, where it's like
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 3: just having it is not inherently bad, and talking about
• 1:24:23
  Speaker 3: this that way is kind of stupid. And talking about
• 1:24:25
  Speaker 3: ADHD that way in neurodivergence that way, as if the
• 1:24:28
  Speaker 3: entire group is invalid or dehumanized or less than that
• 1:24:31
  Speaker 3: is way too fucking much. Talking about humans who have
• 1:24:35
  Speaker 3: too much of any quality that causes distress in their
• 1:24:37
  Speaker 3: life and helping them with that particular part of it fine.
• 1:24:41
  Speaker 3: I think there's a way to humanize it too. But yeah,
• 1:24:44
  Speaker 3: I mean this kind of talk has been going on
• 1:24:45
  Speaker 3: for a long time and it's really getting serious right
• 1:24:47
  Speaker 3: now too.
• 1:24:47
  Speaker 4: That's going to be so wearing.
• 1:24:49
  Speaker 5: Yeah, just like Froyo described that, I can't imagine the
• 1:24:54
  Speaker 5: world constantly telling you that.
• 1:24:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't know what the answer is. I think
• 1:25:00
  Speaker 1: what's nice is more and more people coming out and
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 1: talking about being on the spectrum like ready, rich, being able.
• 1:25:09
  Speaker 1: I'm just being open about it and just saying like, hey, yeah,
• 1:25:12
  Speaker 1: and I've got a solid job and I'm taking care
• 1:25:14
  Speaker 1: of myself and all this. And I think what that
• 1:25:16
  Speaker 1: does is it kind of doesn't It doesn't take away
• 1:25:20
  Speaker 1: from the fact that we need to pour some money
• 1:25:25
  Speaker 1: into research, and we need to find ways to support
• 1:25:27
  Speaker 1: people and help people and help families deal with this,
• 1:25:32
  Speaker 1: but not from the perspective of fear of it, you know,
• 1:25:37
  Speaker 1: because I think that's one of the things. I remember
• 1:25:40
  Speaker 1: Penn and Teller's bullshit when they did their episode on vaccines,
• 1:25:45
  Speaker 1: and the point that they made is that, like, hypothetically,
• 1:25:49
  Speaker 1: and maybe this isn't their point, this is what I
• 1:25:51
  Speaker 1: took from it. Hypothetically, let's just say that's the case
• 1:25:56
  Speaker 1: vaccines cause autism. If that is the case, if you
• 1:26:01
  Speaker 1: vaccinate your child, there's a potential that could have autism.
• 1:26:06
  Speaker 1: If you don't, there's a potential that they will die.
• 1:26:09
  Speaker 1: So you're basically saying, I would rather my child be
• 1:26:12
  Speaker 1: dead than have autism. Right.
• 1:26:15
  Speaker 2: How ridiculous is that?
• 1:26:16
  Speaker 1: Right? You know? And so I mean, and that's the
• 1:26:18
  Speaker 1: best case scenario that that's what's actually happening, and it's not,
• 1:26:23
  Speaker 1: and so there's no research behind it, so I think,
• 1:26:26
  Speaker 1: and I think that's kind of the point that you
• 1:26:28
  Speaker 1: get it when it's all fear based and fear and ignorance. Yeah,
• 1:26:33
  Speaker 1: I'm afraid of it, and I don't know enough about it,
• 1:26:35
  Speaker 1: and therefore I'm willing to believe some shit that has
• 1:26:39
  Speaker 1: no scientific support.
• 1:26:40
  Speaker 5: Well, in my opinion, out times selfishness, because I think
• 1:26:43
  Speaker 5: of like one family in particular that didn't vaccinate their kids,
• 1:26:49
  Speaker 5: and their perspective was that, well, we're not at risk
• 1:26:54
  Speaker 5: because everyone else is vaccinated. And there is like an
• 1:26:58
  Speaker 5: anger within me from that perspective, only, yeah, because everyone
• 1:27:01
  Speaker 5: else is doing it. And now if they're not all
• 1:27:03
  Speaker 5: doing a feel in the state of Florida, now, for example,
• 1:27:05
  Speaker 5: like this is going to be a sad experiment on
• 1:27:08
  Speaker 5: all those children.
• 1:27:09
  Speaker 2: I don't have to pay my club dues because everyone else.
• 1:27:12
  Speaker 5: Is exactly so they aren't thinking, yeah, they aren't thinking
• 1:27:18
  Speaker 5: my kid's going to die. They're thinking, oh no, my
• 1:27:19
  Speaker 5: kid's still protected, and I don't have to like risk autism.
• 1:27:22
  Speaker 4: It's just anyway, that was my side.
• 1:27:24
  Speaker 5: Tan.
• 1:27:25
  Speaker 1: Sorry, No, it's bullshit on every angle. Uh.
• 1:27:28
  Speaker 2: And it's idiotic.
• 1:27:30
  Speaker 1: It would be like if somebody gave me a platform
• 1:27:34
  Speaker 1: to talk about mental health care. Uh, and I have
• 1:27:38
  Speaker 1: no qualifications to talk.
• 1:27:40
  Speaker 6: About mental health caage in such a world, Yeah, if
• 1:27:43
  Speaker 6: it would just be ridiculous, as if you hadn't earned
• 1:27:47
  Speaker 6: those qualifications, right.
• 1:27:49
  Speaker 1: I mean qualified I have. I have a PhD. But
• 1:27:54
  Speaker 1: if I didn't have those qualifications, it would be silly.
• 1:27:59
  Speaker 3: No, But this is something that I get where Justin's
• 1:28:03
  Speaker 3: at and I agree with what you were just saying
• 1:28:05
  Speaker 3: it because I think one thing you've also had in
• 1:28:07
  Speaker 3: there is there does need to be nuanced conversations, right
• 1:28:10
  Speaker 3: because there's a lot of families, like you know, Justin
• 1:28:13
  Speaker 3: talks about their youngest. Yeah, we would consider that person
• 1:28:16
  Speaker 3: somebody that is experiencing some of the distresses that come
• 1:28:19
  Speaker 3: with this and is going to require support, and it's
• 1:28:22
  Speaker 3: going to require extra help, and and so there's there's
• 1:28:24
  Speaker 3: a fine line between therefore dehumanizing them and making them
• 1:28:28
  Speaker 3: less than versus treating them like a dignified member of
• 1:28:31
  Speaker 3: the human families and saying like, hey, that's that's one
• 1:28:34
  Speaker 3: of our people, and we're going to take care of them.
• 1:28:36
  Speaker 1: Right. There's also people that have fucking.
• 1:28:38
  Speaker 3: Ibs, you know, they're just like, yep, they just have
• 1:28:41
  Speaker 3: a gastro intestinal problem and like they can't eat the
• 1:28:44
  Speaker 3: things you eat, and like their life is going to
• 1:28:46
  Speaker 3: look differ. They're going to need specal accommodations or whatever
• 1:28:48
  Speaker 3: the fuck. Like, okay, great, Like we don't we don't
• 1:28:50
  Speaker 3: need to constantly be like, you know, escapegoating them and
• 1:28:52
  Speaker 3: be like, oh, that's the worst possibility can happen, is like,
• 1:28:54
  Speaker 3: or we could just all chill out and just give
• 1:28:56
  Speaker 3: them breaks, you know, like let them go take a
• 1:28:58
  Speaker 3: shit when they take it.
• 1:29:00
  Speaker 2: Said, everyone should be tolerant of lactose, Okay, yeah, yeah,
• 1:29:05
  Speaker 2: everyone on board.
• 1:29:09
  Speaker 1: With lactose. Yeah yeah, we will not we will not
• 1:29:12
  Speaker 1: condone this intolerance any farther.
• 1:29:14
  Speaker 3: That's right, you know what I'm I'm that's the helbal.
• 1:29:17
  Speaker 2: Dian this podcast has needed lactose intolerance.
• 1:29:28
  Speaker 1: Toller la Post. You know what you were doing when
• 1:29:35
  Speaker 1: you wrote into the show just you did that. You
• 1:29:39
  Speaker 1: literally wrote his life coach jingle. This is your fault.
• 1:29:44
  Speaker 3: No, But I love this letter because, you know, and
• 1:29:46
  Speaker 3: Justin kind of says it like, look, I realized I'm
• 1:29:49
  Speaker 3: kind of just sharing more than I'm asking any questions.
• 1:29:51
  Speaker 3: But like, you know, how do we you know, try
• 1:29:53
  Speaker 3: to get through that? And I think I love this
• 1:29:56
  Speaker 3: point that you made, Nick, like it takes people getting
• 1:29:58
  Speaker 3: out there and being visible with allism and you know autism,
• 1:30:02
  Speaker 3: those who live with autism. It doesn't lend itself to
• 1:30:05
  Speaker 3: people that would go into performance roles that you'd see
• 1:30:08
  Speaker 3: in popular media. But you will find plenty of them
• 1:30:11
  Speaker 3: at fucking NASA, you know, absolutely, you know you'll see
• 1:30:14
  Speaker 3: them like curing goddamn diseases and like, you know, putting
• 1:30:17
  Speaker 3: things together.
• 1:30:18
  Speaker 1: And you know, even even with me, they have huge dicks. Yeah,
• 1:30:21
  Speaker 1: That's what I've heard. Even with me giving that advice.
• 1:30:26
  Speaker 1: I don't like that advice because you know, to be
• 1:30:31
  Speaker 1: you know, to be representative and to be out there
• 1:30:33
  Speaker 1: and to just you know, own it The thing I
• 1:30:37
  Speaker 1: don't like about is that you shouldn't have to do
• 1:30:39
  Speaker 1: that exactly. You know, Like, if if I've got something
• 1:30:42
  Speaker 1: that I'm dealing with internally, I shouldn't have to be
• 1:30:45
  Speaker 1: a spokesperson for it. I shouldn't have to put myself
• 1:30:47
  Speaker 1: out there. I shouldn't have to open myself up to
• 1:30:50
  Speaker 1: shit that's going on in my life if you want to,
• 1:30:53
  Speaker 1: perfectly fine, absolutely, if I decide, if I decide that
• 1:30:56
  Speaker 1: this is the thing that I want to promote and
• 1:30:58
  Speaker 1: I want to use my energy towards this car, you
• 1:31:00
  Speaker 1: don't have to be a spokesperson for autism if you're
• 1:31:03
  Speaker 1: on the spectrum. Exactly. You shouldn't be forced. You shouldn't
• 1:31:06
  Speaker 1: be expected to do that. Yeah, exactly.
• 1:31:08
  Speaker 4: No, but that's just in history, that's how change has
• 1:31:11
  Speaker 4: been made.
• 1:31:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and you're right, people get forced into you have
• 1:31:16
  Speaker 2: to people.
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  Speaker 6: People must be allowed to, must be allowed to represent
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  Speaker 6: themselves if they if they so choose to.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but they shouldn't be forced into it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, it's interesting. I was there was a
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  Speaker 3: point where this group had asked me to do a
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  Speaker 3: talk on personality disorders, and I was really intimidated by
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  Speaker 3: it because it's like, oh boy, you know, I just
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  Speaker 3: I don't love doing personality disorder treatment.
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  Speaker 1: I just don't know.
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  Speaker 3: There's a lot of weird stuff that goes along with
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  Speaker 3: the diagnosis of it. Just don't feel good about it.
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  Speaker 3: But I told them, like, alternatively consider it. And I
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  Speaker 3: bought this really good deep dive book into the history
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  Speaker 3: of personality disorders, and one of the things that really
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  Speaker 3: fascinated me about the book is it was talking about
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  Speaker 3: how in many ways, personality disorders are just fucking make
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  Speaker 3: believe because they essentially only matter if the culture doesn't
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  Speaker 3: like the behavior of the human. But it was talking
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  Speaker 3: about and it even it mentioned also neurodiversity in the book,
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  Speaker 3: and it said, like autism, if you could, you could
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  Speaker 3: go back in history and you could diagnose all of
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  Speaker 3: like eighteenth century Prussia with autism because like, yeah, so
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  Speaker 3: like what are the mannerisms like right's dude, like you know,
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  Speaker 3: emotionally disconnected, like not thinking about social cues. That that
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  Speaker 3: was an entire culture, Like that was an entire group
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  Speaker 3: of people.
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  Speaker 6: That if you want to get if you wanted to
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  Speaker 6: get even into even tougher situations, you could say you
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  Speaker 6: talked about things like Joseph Smith, right, repeating the same
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  Speaker 6: Mormon story in slightly different words in different ways. I've
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  Speaker 6: had several Mormon friends talk to me about how like, oh,
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  Speaker 6: like language experts have studied Joseph Smith's speakings that were
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  Speaker 6: that were written down for him and said, oh, this
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  Speaker 6: can't be something that he was making up. This is
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  Speaker 6: this is as it looks like something that he was
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  Speaker 6: reading and not just making up as he was saying.
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  Speaker 6: And if you know the Mormon story, you know what
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  Speaker 6: I'm talking about. And the first thing that I watched
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  Speaker 6: somebody having that conversationise was or he could have been
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  Speaker 6: on the autistic spectrum, right, because that also explains this completely.
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  Speaker 3: Right, And that's what's so fascinating about it, is like
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  Speaker 3: when we come up with these words to describe characteristics,
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  Speaker 3: personality traits, it's a dangerous game to play because this
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  Speaker 3: goes back to like when is something a quote unquote disorder?
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  Speaker 3: And this goes to Whitney's point about apparently do we
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  Speaker 3: just fine? Yeah, like when when do we die in religion?
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  Speaker 3: Like red hair is a genetic deviation that can only
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  Speaker 3: happen in certain genetic codes, right, but like we don't
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  Speaker 3: look at it as an abomination necessarily though the gingers are.
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  Speaker 1: You know, an people.
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, like you look at like that quality and
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  Speaker 3: you say, okay, this is a genetic variation. But we say,
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  Speaker 3: look it's it's an outlier, but it's within the normal,
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  Speaker 3: wild realm of how humans will appear. And like that,
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  Speaker 3: it doesn't need to be diagnosed, it doesn't need to
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  Speaker 3: be pathologized. And I think on the show for years,
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  Speaker 3: it's one of the things that we've often said is
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  Speaker 3: like we don't like the weaponization of mental health. We
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  Speaker 3: don't like pathologizing typical human behavior. In the past, we've
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  Speaker 3: talked about not everybody has to be a narciss he
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  Speaker 3: could just say he's an asshole, Like that's just somebody
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  Speaker 3: humans can be. Yeah, And it's interesting because like there's
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  Speaker 3: a I think a good argument to be made of
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  Speaker 3: is autism even something that deserves a word that sounds
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  Speaker 3: mental healthy. Can't it just be a personality type? Can't
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  Speaker 3: it just be a way the brain works? And I
• 1:34:28
  Speaker 3: think that's what neurodivergence is trying to do, is try
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  Speaker 3: to like enter a space where we say, what if
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  Speaker 3: we could talk about like atypical neurological ways as a
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  Speaker 3: personality trait instead of like pathologizing this as a disease.
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  Speaker 3: What if we save disease talk for impairment, like the
• 1:34:44
  Speaker 3: person who is actually impaired their nonverbal like that, Yes, okay,
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  Speaker 3: this is causing clinical significant distress in their life. Great,
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  Speaker 3: now let's treat those symptoms and that reality. But maybe
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  Speaker 3: we don't need to pathologize everything about the person. Maybe
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  Speaker 3: that's part of the solution to I don't know, yep.
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  Speaker 3: Or we just put worms in everybody's heads. I think
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  Speaker 3: that's like if you fight, you know, the only thing
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  Speaker 3: could stop a bad guy with a worm in his.
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  Speaker 1: Head that is a good guy.
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  Speaker 3: That's right, That's that's how we solve this problem.
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  Speaker 1: Or a good worm with a bad guy in its head.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, ship's okay, playing some air drunk about it, putting
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  Speaker 2: the man in the worm a.
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  Speaker 1: Little trumpet.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and I can't do it throat. My throat literally
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  Speaker 1: I could usually do that.
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  Speaker 3: Fun, fun random scoop Fest story. So, uh, you guys,
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  Speaker 3: were all tea Liberty University bit showed up a lot.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, And so one of the scoops comes out and
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  Speaker 3: he goes, hey, bro, I've never listened to your show.
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  Speaker 1: I went to Liberty University too. I was like, shut
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  Speaker 1: the fuck up, like I worked there, man, and so
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  Speaker 1: like we were just sitting there trading war stories. He
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  Speaker 1: has the same bachelors as me. It was in studies
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  Speaker 1: in religion. They don't offer a different one. That's right.
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  Speaker 4: I thought they all.
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  Speaker 1: That one. Those are those are two degrees they had.
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  Speaker 1: That's right.
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  Speaker 2: That's the only the only university of the world where
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  Speaker 2: they still have home that class.
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  Speaker 1: That's right. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: But it was really funny Bacon.
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  Speaker 2: Asking questions about it. You have my attention.
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  Speaker 1: He's like, is this.
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  Speaker 3: Something you don't talk about like in that in the podcast.
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  Speaker 3: World's like no, I did a whole deep dive on it,
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  Speaker 3: like because you know, like all my friends are atheists,
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  Speaker 3: and like I don't know what the fuck I am
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  Speaker 3: and this comes up a lot, and so like I've
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  Speaker 3: recorded a whole thing where I try to figure that out.
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  Speaker 1: And he was like, is this on your Patreon? And
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  Speaker 5: When when Liberty was mentioned, they were like, oh, wait,
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  Speaker 5: Jim did go there. I was like, yes, somebody, Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: He hadn't actually gone there, it wouldn't be nearly as
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  Speaker 1: funny a joke.
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  Speaker 4: Like they were shocked, like, oh, I did not know.
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  Speaker 4: I thought that was a joke. No, he went there
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  Speaker 4: and people actually went there.
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  Speaker 1: Again. I came to your defense. I did the Lord's
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  Speaker 1: work this.
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  Speaker 4: You just weren't there to see it, Jim, because you
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  Speaker 4: were in your car.
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  Speaker 1: Because we were there only one set of footprints in
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  Speaker 2: But when I had the master, Jacob's pH D is legit.
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  Speaker 5: I don't think you need his masters. It's from Liberty.
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna get yours, but.
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  Speaker 4: Having to mine's legit.
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  Speaker 1: So here's from like a Texas Baptist School or something
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  Speaker 1: like that.
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  Speaker 5: My undergrad, my bachelor's, my masters is UT Arlington.
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  Speaker 6: It doesn't matter because the Texas Bible School or whatever
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  Speaker 4: I had to take like one, like two Bibles.
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  Speaker 2: I'm Nick, I'm Jim. It's time for bed. It is
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  Speaker 4: They're gonna shut the fuck up.
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  Speaker 1: Goodbye, everybody,