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- 0:00Speaker 1: Morning, everybody in stee j Envy Cholamagne to God.
- 0:04Speaker 2: We are the Breakfast Club.
- 0:05Speaker 1: Of course, Jess Hilarius is here yesterday, and we got
- 0:08Speaker 1: a special guest in the building, dn.
- 0:09Speaker 2: Co Hello, Hello, Hello, how's everybody doing? Everybody's black and
- 0:16Speaker 2: Holly Favor. Yes, yes, yes, I'm happy to see you.
- 0:18Speaker 3: I can't I'm just I'm so happy.
- 0:22Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, yeah, definitely, man, thanks for having me. Yeah,
- 0:30Speaker 2: absolutely a lot to talk about. You got average Joe,
- 0:34Speaker 2: aren't you.
- 0:34Speaker 4: You're in a new color purple too?
- 0:36Speaker 2: Yeah? Okay, absolutely, yeah yeah, new color purple, Average Joe.
- 0:40Speaker 1: We just talked about that yesterday. We were talking about
- 0:42Speaker 1: they just released the trailer and what's your thoughts on
- 0:44Speaker 1: the movie, because we were like, color Purple? Is that
- 0:45Speaker 1: a movie that.
- 0:46Speaker 2: You do over hard to remake? Classics? Man? So the
- 0:49Speaker 2: director Blizz I don't know he did. Beyonces. Remember when
- 0:54Speaker 2: she was doing like the Lion King where she was
- 0:58Speaker 2: Liken Jay. They was like.
- 1:01Speaker 4: Live action line King.
- 1:02Speaker 2: Yeah, but remember this video she had. It was like
- 1:05Speaker 2: a twenty minute video where she was like and cars
- 1:08Speaker 2: and on the beach running and Jay had these like
- 1:12Speaker 2: suits and stuff whatever. It was like very beautifully. Yeah, yeah,
- 1:17Speaker 2: all of that. Yeah, yeah, he directed all of that,
- 1:21Speaker 2: and so for him to take that vision then apply
- 1:23Speaker 2: it to this movie, it's like bananas. Plus it's a
- 1:27Speaker 2: different spin on it. It's a whole different spin on
- 1:31Speaker 2: a color purple. So it's gonna be way different than
- 1:35Speaker 2: than the other one. But still in it's on, right,
- 1:37Speaker 2: you know, holding up to what it is. But I
- 1:40Speaker 2: ain't really big on remakes neither like that. But but
- 1:43Speaker 2: this one, y'all, it's crazy because it's a different perspective now.
- 1:47Speaker 4: That I was saying the twenty twenty three you can't
- 1:48Speaker 4: do color purple.
- 1:49Speaker 2: You have to have to be woken. Yeah, yeah, so much. Yeah. Yeah,
- 1:53Speaker 2: it's a whole different, whole different look on it, a
- 1:55Speaker 2: whole different spin on it.
- 1:56Speaker 1: But you know, some of the remakes, like I didn't
- 1:59Speaker 1: like Coming to America too, right, I just the first
- 2:01Speaker 1: one was is classic.
- 2:01Speaker 2: I don't think you touched that. Yeah, I didn't like.
- 2:04Speaker 1: There was another remake that they did, but people told
- 2:06Speaker 1: me white Man can't Jump. I didn't want to go
- 2:07Speaker 1: see that, but people telling me it's really really good,
- 2:09Speaker 1: so I guess it can if they come from a
- 2:11Speaker 1: different perspective. A New way House Party was another one
- 2:13Speaker 1: I didn't like.
- 2:14Speaker 2: I thought I didn't. I don't really like that one.
- 2:15Speaker 1: But when they do it from a different perspective or shot, well,
- 2:18Speaker 1: I don't think there's a problem.
- 2:20Speaker 2: Yeah, I play a Fonso, so I play Seely's father.
- 2:28Speaker 4: That's when I take you can't have you can't have
- 2:31Speaker 4: I can't remember the girl, you can't have her, but
- 2:33Speaker 4: you can have.
- 2:39Speaker 2: Exactly. Yeah, yeah, I played him. They kept that line
- 2:43Speaker 2: in there. No, no, it's it's different. Yeah, but you
- 2:47Speaker 2: know you still you still get it, you know, it's
- 2:50Speaker 2: just still he's still that dude got yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 2:53Speaker 2: I still call it ugly and woke away just because
- 3:02Speaker 2: of this new era. I mean, yo, yeah I do.
- 3:07Speaker 2: I do hate it definitely. That's why I don't understand
- 3:10Speaker 2: why people who don't like that kind of stuff, Like
- 3:13Speaker 2: why do you even come to the shows? You're messing
- 3:15Speaker 2: it up for the people that really pay to come
- 3:18Speaker 2: see and hear bullshit, you know what I mean? Like,
- 3:21Speaker 2: why would you come in there with your beliefs and
- 3:23Speaker 2: feelings about something that I thought of And you ain't
- 3:27Speaker 2: in my world, You ain't in my tax bracket, you
- 3:30Speaker 2: ain't around the people I'm around. You ain't not about
- 3:32Speaker 2: my culture, but you come over here and try to
- 3:35Speaker 2: tell me what I need to be saying and doing.
- 3:36Speaker 2: It don't even make sense. So yeah, I hate that
- 3:40Speaker 2: that we have to kind of conform to that. And
- 3:43Speaker 2: I heard somebody say that in the interview that we
- 3:45Speaker 2: don't if and it's not a problem, And it is
- 3:48Speaker 2: a problem, I think honestly. You got Lenny, Bruce and
- 3:51Speaker 2: Richard and all these people stood up for us to
- 3:53Speaker 2: be able to say whatever we want to say, and
- 3:56Speaker 2: now we can't. It's like it's crazy to take away
- 3:59Speaker 2: from the whole thing. It's like, now you go to
- 4:01Speaker 2: comedy shows and they tell you what they think you
- 4:03Speaker 2: want to hear in order to be safe, you know
- 4:06Speaker 2: what I mean. But there's certain comics that are still
- 4:08Speaker 2: out on the front line that get loose, you know,
- 4:11Speaker 2: like Dave just just don't give a fuck about nothing,
- 4:15Speaker 2: you know. So you've got great comics that's still out
- 4:18Speaker 2: here fighting for that that that voice that we all
- 4:21Speaker 2: have and that people want to hear, except for certain
- 4:24Speaker 2: people that don't.
- 4:25Speaker 4: So, and your circumstance is unique because you you definitely
- 4:27Speaker 4: edgy on stage, but then you got all the corporate
- 4:29Speaker 4: shit going on. Yeah, yeah, exactly, Yeah yeah I can't Yeah,
- 4:35Speaker 4: I can't say exactly what I want to say.
- 4:42Speaker 2: I mean, that's what that that's my whole life, sitting
- 4:44Speaker 2: back trying to figure out another way. That's what. That's
- 4:46Speaker 2: all I do. I'd be like, how can I say
- 4:48Speaker 2: this another way and still be able to say it?
- 4:51Speaker 1: But you know, you to face an old Spice bro
- 4:54Speaker 1: crazy Like that's why if you really think about it,
- 4:57Speaker 1: it's really wild.
- 4:58Speaker 2: It's likely the.
- 5:00Speaker 4: Two people Dan Cole, the dude who used to ride
- 5:01Speaker 4: the horseback.
- 5:05Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah yeah, it's crazy right yeah.
- 5:11Speaker 2: I couldn't even even when they came to me about it, and.
- 5:14Speaker 1: I was just like, wow, they can't even say, hey,
- 5:16Speaker 1: we want you to do this old Spice commercially, the
- 5:18Speaker 1: fake what was your thought?
- 5:19Speaker 2: So at first they came to me and they was like,
- 5:23Speaker 2: I guess they'd seen me do all these different kind
- 5:25Speaker 2: of like quirky like characters like on Anti Tribeca and
- 5:29Speaker 2: Conan and Blackish, and I was doing all these like
- 5:33Speaker 2: trippy characters, and I guess they was like, yo, it
- 5:36Speaker 2: made sense where it was like yo, you come in
- 5:39Speaker 2: and Yo we can all we can rock and I
- 5:41Speaker 2: was like yeah, I was like, yeah, I can do that.
- 5:43Speaker 2: So they flew me to Portugal, man, and I shot
- 5:46Speaker 2: all of this basically how old spikes get down, you
- 5:50Speaker 2: know what I mean, like really wild in the woods
- 5:53Speaker 2: and beard grow and throwing trees and you know, I
- 5:57Speaker 2: did all of that, and then I came back to
- 5:59Speaker 2: the US and there's like didn't want to use none
- 6:03Speaker 2: all of that and then use none of it. And
- 6:06Speaker 2: then they came to me about something else. And then
- 6:09Speaker 2: me and I, me and this other guy were just
- 6:13Speaker 2: sitting I mean this other guy he was que he
- 6:16Speaker 2: was writing this whole new premise. And then when they
- 6:20Speaker 2: came to me about it, and I was like, man,
- 6:22Speaker 2: that's cool, and so we did it, and man it
- 6:25Speaker 2: took off, you know, just me and my girl Gap. Yeah, yeah,
- 6:29Speaker 2: we just we just got it.
- 6:31Speaker 5: Then.
- 6:31Speaker 2: Yeah, we just I went and grabbed Gab and I
- 6:34Speaker 2: was like, yeah, they're thinking about this, this thing where
- 6:36Speaker 2: relationships a couple and trying to take your old spice,
- 6:40Speaker 2: and you know, they was like, yeah, let's do it
- 6:42Speaker 2: this man, we did it.
- 6:44Speaker 3: And because it's a storyline commercial, I was supposed to
- 6:50Speaker 3: be in one of them. Yeah, yeah, man, yeah, I
- 7:02Speaker 3: don't know. They picked like.
- 7:10Speaker 2: You thought about like family, and it was the person
- 7:16Speaker 2: that know you're.
- 7:17Speaker 3: Here, supposed to tell me get your black ass hands
- 7:19Speaker 3: on something. And again because somebody else.
- 7:24Speaker 2: Never would have said that podcast.
- 7:27Speaker 3: I cut the TV every time I see that that's
- 7:30Speaker 3: supposed to be me.
- 7:31Speaker 2: I'm serious.
- 7:32Speaker 3: I was supposed to be as.
- 7:36Speaker 4: I was supposed to almost be something.
- 7:42Speaker 3: I don't.
- 7:43Speaker 2: I didn't even know.
- 7:44Speaker 6: That really ain't gonna tell you.
- 7:46Speaker 3: You know you were at the top. I want to know,
- 7:50Speaker 3: are you doctor because I saw you just you know, yeah.
- 7:54Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely, Like if somebody on the plane high out
- 7:58Speaker 2: they need a doctor, they ass out, but it ain't
- 8:01Speaker 2: Jack the doctor. But yeah, yeah, I just got that,
- 8:04Speaker 2: just got yeah. Yeah, that's crazy. Calander Smith College, which
- 8:10Speaker 2: is now about university. Yeah, thanks man. How did you
- 8:13Speaker 2: for all the work that you did and everything? Yeah
- 8:15Speaker 2: yeah absolutely, and uh paid for his Yeah.
- 8:20Speaker 4: I got an endowment at South Carolina State University, Okay,
- 8:23Speaker 4: made an honorary doctor, yeah it is. And I get
- 8:26Speaker 4: a commitment speech.
- 8:27Speaker 2: Yeah yeah I did too. It was wild. I gave mine.
- 8:29Speaker 2: They really didn't give two funks. And what I was saying,
- 8:34Speaker 2: I thought I was dropping some gyms. They was sitting
- 8:37Speaker 2: down there on their phone and ship. I was like, yeah,
- 8:42Speaker 2: was out there like this. You might have been taken.
- 8:47Speaker 2: I don't think so do you keep going when you
- 8:49Speaker 2: see that? Man? It was I was bombing, like for real,
- 8:52Speaker 2: like I was. I was giving it and then it'd
- 8:55Speaker 2: be like a couple of chuckles, a couple of coughs,
- 8:58Speaker 2: and then I just keep going, like just going on
- 9:00Speaker 2: to the next topic or whatever. But yeah, yeah, it wasn't.
- 9:04Speaker 2: I was thinking. I was doing like stand up. You
- 9:07Speaker 2: thinking in front of an audience like that, you're about
- 9:09Speaker 2: to be ripping.
- 9:10Speaker 3: Nah.
- 9:10Speaker 2: They was out there like, nah, I want to see
- 9:12Speaker 2: my baby cross and get her degree. And that's what
- 9:15Speaker 2: I'm here for. That's standing up, muscled on kicking.
- 9:18Speaker 4: When you see people like ignoring you because you know
- 9:20Speaker 4: you you get at somebody for that.
- 9:22Speaker 2: Nah, Like nah, I'm I'm quick to leave. I leave, leave,
- 9:29Speaker 2: I leave like a motherfucker. I leave. Man. I done
- 9:32Speaker 2: left some shows. Yeah, I try it and I keep going.
- 9:37Speaker 2: If it ain't working, I just know that I ain't
- 9:40Speaker 2: for them, and I go, I'm Trevor good Night. I
- 9:47Speaker 2: leave a whole nother name. I'm Shun piece out Nashville Sunky.
- 9:57Speaker 4: You know, you gotta be one of the most jack
- 9:59Speaker 4: comedian is too, because sometimes I'll come across a funny meme.
- 10:02Speaker 2: I can just be words and I'll.
- 10:04Speaker 4: Repost it and then everybody be like that's on.
- 10:13Speaker 2: Yeah, man, I you know you try to be different
- 10:17Speaker 2: and just think outside the box all the time and
- 10:19Speaker 2: just try to make a career out of that, and
- 10:21Speaker 2: just try to always go left and you know, think
- 10:25Speaker 2: outside the box, and you know, just keep it as
- 10:28Speaker 2: as as real as possible. You know, like when I'm
- 10:32Speaker 2: on stage and I read off my paper, like a
- 10:36Speaker 2: lot of those jokes I written and used, but I
- 10:39Speaker 2: always do one joke that that isn't that I've never
- 10:43Speaker 2: done before because I wanted not to work because it's funny,
- 10:49Speaker 2: not being funny in a sense. I think I made
- 10:53Speaker 2: a craft out of that. Just you ever watch somebody bomb?
- 10:57Speaker 2: I love it? Yeah, you love it? Don't you tell
- 11:00Speaker 2: me the time?
- 11:02Speaker 4: Have you see me laughing hard somebody bombing somebody?
- 11:05Speaker 2: I'm really engaged? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm.
- 11:09Speaker 3: Like that too, like hilarious with that. I want to
- 11:11Speaker 3: go see him one time. I know. This is his
- 11:13Speaker 3: interview in not Mine but I want to go see
- 11:15Speaker 3: him in LA and that's his first time I seen
- 11:18Speaker 3: him in person. And he does that like he will
- 11:21Speaker 3: tell the joke and if and it's so funny because
- 11:24Speaker 3: he wants it not to work, but it does. And
- 11:27Speaker 3: it's like, yo, stop trying to not be funny, like
- 11:30Speaker 3: you're just funny. Like and then he said, he said,
- 11:34Speaker 3: when you really throw one work and it was like
- 11:36Speaker 3: a couple of chuckles and he was like, no, if
- 11:38Speaker 3: it don't work, don't don't force to laugh, Like, no,
- 11:40Speaker 3: you don't have to force to laugh. That was so
- 11:42Speaker 3: funny just seeing him doing that and then seeing it
- 11:46Speaker 3: done so long ago when I first started watching comedy.
- 11:48Speaker 3: It's crazy he still does it and it's still like
- 11:50Speaker 3: the first time.
- 11:51Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I appreciate it. This is you know, it's
- 11:54Speaker 2: it's because people tend to forget it's about laughing. You
- 11:58Speaker 2: think how you laugh, it's about you laughing, you know
- 12:01Speaker 2: what I mean. I'm not here to have you laugh
- 12:04Speaker 2: a particular way. It's like you're laughing if you laugh
- 12:09Speaker 2: at anything I do, it's funny, but I think it's
- 12:11Speaker 2: funny not being funny. So I make sure I do
- 12:13Speaker 2: a joke that does not work, and so people would
- 12:17Speaker 2: laugh at it. And it's funny to me to hear
- 12:19Speaker 2: people laugh at it, and then when they do laugh
- 12:21Speaker 2: at it, it's just like, I really know that I
- 12:24Speaker 2: got that audience. But when they don't laugh, what did you.
- 12:28Speaker 4: First realize you was funny? Like I'm talking about forget comedy.
- 12:31Speaker 4: I'm talking about back in the.
- 12:32Speaker 2: Day I never did. It was a friend of mine's,
- 12:35Speaker 2: dude named Gwill Like. We was on some ill shit
- 12:37Speaker 2: in Chicago, and you know, I never even thought comedy,
- 12:42Speaker 2: but he used to always listen to me just have
- 12:45Speaker 2: different outtakes on things and different views, and he would
- 12:49Speaker 2: just always be like, you should do comedy. You should
- 12:51Speaker 2: do comedy. I used to be like goddamny. And one
- 12:55Speaker 2: day he bet me to go on stage, and I
- 12:56Speaker 2: went on and never look back because I start really
- 13:00Speaker 2: because I always thought comics was like, you know, slipping
- 13:03Speaker 2: on bananas and pied to the face that motherfuckers. And
- 13:07Speaker 2: you know, then I realized that there's comedians. Then after
- 13:10Speaker 2: I did it, I started doing research and I started
- 13:12Speaker 2: seeing like George Garland and then Degenerous and all these
- 13:17Speaker 2: other great comics that were like, you know, like I
- 13:21Speaker 2: mean obviously I knew about Red Fox and you know,
- 13:25Speaker 2: moms maybe and all them or whatever. But I started
- 13:27Speaker 2: seeing comedians that wasn't throwing piles in their faces, who
- 13:32Speaker 2: was just standing there talking, And I was like, oh,
- 13:35Speaker 2: you could be funny like that and not move. I
- 13:38Speaker 2: was like yeah, because that was my whole demeanor anyway.
- 13:42Speaker 2: Like I wasn't like no people people come up to
- 13:45Speaker 2: me this day I went to high school with.
- 13:46Speaker 5: They was like, boy, he was silly as hell in
- 13:48Speaker 5: high school. I'd be like, I ain't even speak to
- 13:50Speaker 5: you in high school, Like I wasn't. I wasn't even
- 13:54Speaker 5: silly in school. I used to just be quiet. I
- 13:57Speaker 5: was always a thinker of being the only child.
- 13:59Speaker 2: You know.
- 13:59Speaker 1: So you're a writer as well. How was the writing
- 14:04Speaker 1: strike affecting you? Especially with you being on all these
- 14:06Speaker 1: shows as well?
- 14:07Speaker 2: And just you can't do nothing. I'm shooting this uh.
- 14:11Speaker 2: I was doing this thing up in Toronto and the
- 14:14Speaker 2: script was already in so we're working on it now,
- 14:18Speaker 2: shooting this drama. And I had a question and there
- 14:23Speaker 2: was nobody what.
- 14:25Speaker 1: Happened in that case?
- 14:26Speaker 2: Could you change yourself?
- 14:27Speaker 4: No?
- 14:28Speaker 2: You just just go however you need to go about it.
- 14:33Speaker 2: You know, but hopefully you do it right, you know,
- 14:36Speaker 2: but it ain't nobody talk to all. The writer's gone.
- 14:38Speaker 2: Everybody's gone, and I can't even shows that I had
- 14:42Speaker 2: on deck to uh, you know, like about to sail
- 14:45Speaker 2: and about to do like they all been halted and
- 14:49Speaker 2: I can't do nothing. Just chill and stand up, you know,
- 14:53Speaker 2: that's it. Just go out, hit the road or whatever.
- 14:55Speaker 2: Because everybody chilling in LA right now. If you come
- 14:58Speaker 2: to LA right now is mad traffic, yo, Like you
- 15:03Speaker 2: can't go nowhere because everybody's off work and everybody just
- 15:08Speaker 2: kicking it now, like all the writers and ship they
- 15:11Speaker 2: everybody just partying, traveling, and but yeah, the traffic is
- 15:15Speaker 2: terrible right now because everybody ain't nobody at work.
- 15:18Speaker 4: How do you feel like AI is going to impact
- 15:19Speaker 4: the future of Hollywood?
- 15:22Speaker 2: Yo? I went to AI and I said, hey, just
- 15:25Speaker 2: to like mess around, I said, write a script about
- 15:28Speaker 2: lady bugs. And that shit started off like in the
- 15:31Speaker 2: backyard of this one house over on the corner in Maryland,
- 15:35Speaker 2: the trees are going. They wrote it. It was writing
- 15:38Speaker 2: an entire script about ladybugs. And that's all you say,
- 15:43Speaker 2: That's all I said to it. Wrote the entire script.
- 15:46Speaker 2: I wrote the breakdown first thing in the morning exit
- 15:50Speaker 2: inserts like just wrote that, myfucking dude. I was like, Yo,
- 15:56Speaker 2: that's crazy, but yeah, that's gonna, that's gonna that's gonna
- 16:00Speaker 2: really mess up everything right now. I heard that they're
- 16:03Speaker 2: doing this now. But they're calling people and if you
- 16:05Speaker 2: pick up the phone, you go hello kids, No, they
- 16:09Speaker 2: get your voice, take your voice, and then reduplicate it, yeah,
- 16:14Speaker 2: and then use it to call other people and say
- 16:18Speaker 2: like they you need money and all that other stuff.
- 16:21Speaker 4: So oh yeah, they was doing that with kids too,
- 16:23Speaker 4: Like they'll call your phone and I guess they get
- 16:25Speaker 4: your kids voice from social media and you can be
- 16:27Speaker 4: like help help.
- 16:27Speaker 2: Mommy, help help. They ask you for ransom. Yeah, yeah, exactly.
- 16:31Speaker 2: That's what they doing with that ship.
- 16:33Speaker 6: Now.
- 16:33Speaker 2: It's crazy as fuck right now, right so it's like
- 16:36Speaker 2: it's like, yeah, that a is going it's gonna tear
- 16:39Speaker 2: everything up on top of everybody being like kind of
- 16:42Speaker 2: dumb as hell. Right now. You see that, you see
- 16:45Speaker 2: that I posted this video about these kids they cannot
- 16:49Speaker 2: read clocks. Did you see that? Like a round clock number?
- 16:55Speaker 2: They do not know how to read clocks. But then
- 16:58Speaker 2: you start thinking about it. Am I older? They like dumb,
- 17:02Speaker 2: like a little bit, but it's a little but they
- 17:07Speaker 2: are so they don't have clocks. How old were they?
- 17:10Speaker 2: They was like teenagers. Oh that's stupid, but they man,
- 17:14Speaker 2: one man, they honestly was on that like this. I
- 17:16Speaker 2: ain't never even seen one of those around clock. Think
- 17:20Speaker 2: about it.
- 17:20Speaker 1: We don't really see him see digital clocks round clock even.
- 17:23Speaker 1: I take this step further. I was talking to somebody
- 17:26Speaker 1: that was late the other day and he was like,
- 17:27Speaker 1: my phone died, and what you don't think about? You know,
- 17:29Speaker 1: everything is connected to electricity back in the day. I
- 17:31Speaker 1: don't know, but my dad used to have a wind
- 17:33Speaker 1: up clock so no matter what.
- 17:35Speaker 2: It would always go off.
- 17:36Speaker 1: He never would have to worry about being late electricity
- 17:38Speaker 1: went out or forget to save it. So he was like,
- 17:40Speaker 1: these kids know nothing about that. So if the phone
- 17:42Speaker 1: does they they don't.
- 17:44Speaker 2: They have no idea. They was asking them like they
- 17:48Speaker 2: was asking them. They was on that. They was on
- 17:50Speaker 2: there like yeah, it's nine seventy six, Like dude, they
- 17:57Speaker 2: was trying to figure out the time. The dude was
- 17:59Speaker 2: like holding the clock and he was like, what time
- 18:01Speaker 2: is this? There's like nine seventy six.
- 18:03Speaker 3: This is in America.
- 18:04Speaker 2: In America, y'all. But it had me thinking, like, man,
- 18:08Speaker 2: we owe as hell where nobody knows a lot of reason.
- 18:11Speaker 3: Just things get out of you know, you just get
- 18:13Speaker 3: out of touch with things. I mean because honestly, just
- 18:16Speaker 3: clocks half clocks all over my house. But I don't tell.
- 18:19Speaker 4: Time on them. They risk to the time when they
- 18:23Speaker 4: were flood them.
- 18:24Speaker 3: Out because it's nice. I'm gonna be like, I'm never
- 18:33Speaker 3: it's my watch face not playing three o'clock. We just
- 18:54Speaker 3: got away from you think about it.
- 18:55Speaker 1: People don't necessarily buy watches for time now as an accessory.
- 18:59Speaker 2: What time is the first thing you do?
- 19:00Speaker 1: You can pull out your phone, Dude, I got a
- 19:03Speaker 1: nice watch on.
- 19:05Speaker 2: It's so wow. You gotta be attention to that ship,
- 19:09Speaker 2: like straight up, like it be little ship like that
- 19:11Speaker 2: that you be like whoa the world? Change it? Like
- 19:15Speaker 2: right now I'm looking at your face you over there
- 19:17Speaker 2: like damn na face changed. Didn't get some problems. Didn't
- 19:27Speaker 2: touch my nose.
- 19:28Speaker 1: But even navigation thinks about navigation. Right now I'm driving around,
- 19:32Speaker 1: I can know, I can know where my house is.
- 19:34Speaker 1: I still put in a navigation. Now, let's say that
- 19:36Speaker 1: the Ways app don't work, a Google Maps don't work,
- 19:38Speaker 1: be lost.
- 19:38Speaker 2: I'll be like, where am I gonna?
- 19:39Speaker 1: Right?
- 19:40Speaker 2: Gone, it ain't no way to get that unless you, like,
- 19:44Speaker 2: like a lot of old people, they still be carrying.
- 19:48Speaker 3: Maps, map quest and stuff like that. I know people
- 19:50Speaker 3: that still well they're older obviously, but people that still
- 19:52Speaker 3: print off directions. But I think you were a lot
- 19:56Speaker 3: on it because I do the same thing. We just
- 19:58Speaker 3: rely on it because we know we got it. If
- 19:59Speaker 3: you ever just try to get home, you would get there.
- 20:01Speaker 1: No, no, I'm not talking about home, but like one
- 20:03Speaker 1: places like let's say you gotta go from Baltimore here, right,
- 20:06Speaker 1: and you know you you got to take ninety five
- 20:08Speaker 1: to the turnpike through the tunnel. Now you ain't got
- 20:10Speaker 1: no navigation. You're gonna be like, damn, which where am
- 20:12Speaker 1: I going?
- 20:13Speaker 2: In?
- 20:13Speaker 3: Right? I'm gonna I'm gonna eventually get home because I
- 20:15Speaker 3: know what I got to take to get here to
- 20:17Speaker 3: get there, and freed signs and all of that. But
- 20:20Speaker 3: I would, yeah, I would literally lose my mind just
- 20:22Speaker 3: because this is easier so that sometimes we use it.
- 20:24Speaker 3: We don't even need it.
- 20:26Speaker 4: That's crazy to hear y'all. I've seen you justin I
- 20:28Speaker 4: know you did.
- 20:29Speaker 2: Y'all.
- 20:29Speaker 4: Comedians have like photographic memori because you'll have to remember
- 20:33Speaker 4: jokes and stuff like that.
- 20:34Speaker 2: Yeah, that, but I don't know where the hell I'm
- 20:37Speaker 2: going GV. I got this old chick cosh Yeah on
- 20:46Speaker 2: Star God.
- 20:49Speaker 3: The button at the top is like make I love No.
- 20:55Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, you got average joke coming out to it. Yeah, yeah,
- 21:00Speaker 2: I as Joe. Man. It's this was thank you so much.
- 21:03Speaker 2: It was, man, this is a labor of love. It's
- 21:08Speaker 2: like a darkly comedic drama takes place in Pittsburgh. Dude,
- 21:14Speaker 2: he his father dies and these mob dudes is looking
- 21:19Speaker 2: for him and the Joe. He don't know what's going on,
- 21:22Speaker 2: but his father left some money trying to figure out
- 21:25Speaker 2: what's going on, and he had to make these decisions
- 21:28Speaker 2: between like, you know, family and money. But yeah, it's
- 21:32Speaker 2: a it's a it's a super like it's funny, but
- 21:35Speaker 2: it's it's dark as darkest hair. Like we was leaving
- 21:39Speaker 2: set miserable just from being like a comic. You gotta
- 21:44Speaker 2: you know you you can be good to do comedy,
- 21:47Speaker 2: but every day just to leave murdering motherfuckers and Lyon
- 21:52Speaker 2: and seaful and heartache and losing people and every day
- 21:57Speaker 2: you leave.
- 21:58Speaker 4: You know.
- 21:59Speaker 2: That was the first time time I started realizing I
- 22:01Speaker 2: understand how like people kind of break when they when
- 22:04Speaker 2: they do movies and stuff. That was the very first
- 22:06Speaker 2: time I used to be like, he ain't that deep
- 22:09Speaker 2: into characters. But nah, Like if you keep doing that
- 22:13Speaker 2: and you have to constantly be that person, do that
- 22:16Speaker 2: like to like that's that ship wear on you. I
- 22:19Speaker 2: used to always think, like, like with Park, they always
- 22:21Speaker 2: say Park became like, yeah, he became Bishop from Juice
- 22:27Speaker 2: or whatever. But at first I never really kind of
- 22:30Speaker 2: like believe that ship. But yeah, And I saw Michael B.
- 22:32Speaker 2: Jordan's talk about how he had to go to rehab
- 22:35Speaker 2: after Noah. He said, I think it was Fruitville or
- 22:40Speaker 2: it was no I think it was Wakanda. Yeah, I
- 22:45Speaker 2: don't know, but I remember him saying that he had
- 22:47Speaker 2: to go to like rehab, thought it was Wakanda. It
- 22:50Speaker 2: might but a lot of a lot of a lot
- 22:52Speaker 2: of a lot of actors got to do that anyway.
- 22:55Speaker 2: That's how that show was. Man, we was down there,
- 22:57Speaker 2: we were shooting in the lineup. Boy, it was like
- 22:59Speaker 2: we was doing like sixteen hours sometimes twenty hours shooting
- 23:03Speaker 2: that shipping. But but we got a nice piece of work,
- 23:08Speaker 2: and man, it's gonna be something if y'all like Murder
- 23:10Speaker 2: and Mayhem. Absolutely, yeah, yeah, you're gonna you're gonna love.
- 23:14Speaker 2: This is your lead.
- 23:16Speaker 6: Crazy the first time Crazy she's looking at you talk
- 23:23Speaker 6: about this amazing because even as comics, we we can
- 23:27Speaker 6: still we can play any part, we can do anything.
- 23:29Speaker 3: You always think of Robin Williams, you know, the comics.
- 23:33Speaker 2: Especially going from comedy to Drive and Jim.
- 23:35Speaker 3: Carrey and you know, even like what you just say,
- 23:38Speaker 3: like how you sixteen hours? You got a status person
- 23:42Speaker 3: and you got it. It's like you used to being,
- 23:45Speaker 3: you know, but no, it's different. But the fact that you.
- 23:47Speaker 2: Can do it. Yeah, but it's like I remember when
- 23:50Speaker 2: I when they when when they when I took the job,
- 23:53Speaker 2: because usually I'm I'm a type of cat. I go
- 23:55Speaker 2: play my part and I go get my drop top
- 23:57Speaker 2: and we rolling, you know what I mean, Like that's
- 24:00Speaker 2: I did on Blackets for eight years. I did my
- 24:02Speaker 2: part and that was out. I was gone. Why when
- 24:05Speaker 2: I I signed on to do this and seeing like
- 24:09Speaker 2: sixty paid scripts and I'm in like ninety percent of it.
- 24:14Speaker 2: I'm looking like, like I got a real job. I'm like,
- 24:19Speaker 2: I can't leave. They like, man, the first one here,
- 24:23Speaker 2: last to leave. You like what it was an adjustment
- 24:27Speaker 2: because I still had other things going on and other
- 24:30Speaker 2: businesses and other projects and trying to write that and
- 24:33Speaker 2: do that and trying to do this. I had to
- 24:36Speaker 2: learn to I had to cut all that out, just
- 24:39Speaker 2: focus dead on this and get it done. But yeah,
- 24:43Speaker 2: being you gotta watch what you pray for. You gotta
- 24:46Speaker 2: know how to pray. You know, a lot of people
- 24:49Speaker 2: don't know how to pray. And you know, that was
- 24:51Speaker 2: one of the things that I learned. You know, a
- 24:54Speaker 2: person to ask, man, Lord, can I have a man?
- 24:56Speaker 2: Can I have a woman? And they'll get you one
- 24:59Speaker 2: and they don't have a job, I won't have. I
- 25:05Speaker 2: forgot to ask for a job with that person. Yeah,
- 25:09Speaker 2: so you just got you gotta now pray man. But no,
- 25:11Speaker 2: it was it was an amazing, amazing thing that shifted
- 25:15Speaker 2: my whole mind and mind frame as far as acting
- 25:18Speaker 2: and uh, you know, just uh you know, taking on
- 25:22Speaker 2: those those responsibilities when it.
- 25:23Speaker 4: Comes to comedy and drama, right, they always say it's
- 25:25Speaker 4: a thin line, that's where the whole tears of a
- 25:27Speaker 4: clown thing come from a comic.
- 25:28Speaker 2: You don't lean into trauma. Yeah, absolutely, that's that's exactly
- 25:32Speaker 2: what I did, you know what I mean. But it
- 25:35Speaker 2: wasn't like that at first, like like, uh, another another
- 25:39Speaker 2: turning point. When we was doing the Hearder They Fall,
- 25:43Speaker 2: I was like I walked on set and was like, Yeah,
- 25:46Speaker 2: what's going on, Hey, what's going on on? Funny and comedian? Comedian?
- 25:50Speaker 2: I remember Jonathan Age's and all them, they was just
- 25:52Speaker 2: all sitting back and del Roy Lindo, they was all
- 25:55Speaker 2: just quiet, just chilling. I was like, Hey, what's going on?
- 25:57Speaker 2: And beyond Hey, so we're gonna knock this out and
- 25:59Speaker 2: we're gonna They was just like And then when we werehearsed,
- 26:03Speaker 2: they was just like so like and like it was
- 26:06Speaker 2: so real, and so it just was like, man, I
- 26:10Speaker 2: remember Jonathan told me, he was like, man, you shouldn't
- 26:13Speaker 2: acting is the worst title for this job. This is
- 26:17Speaker 2: what you should not be doing. You should not be acting.
- 26:21Speaker 2: You should become you should become that person instead of acting.
- 26:25Speaker 2: And so it made me be like, oh really, So
- 26:28Speaker 2: then I went back changed my whole demean up. Man
- 26:31Speaker 2: just from that conversation and came back and was like,
- 26:34Speaker 2: all right, we gotta we gotta just become this person.
- 26:38Speaker 2: And I remember that all the time, just becoming you know,
- 26:43Speaker 2: So isn't that dangerous thoughing?
- 26:45Speaker 4: You gotta unpack that personally disconnect?
- 26:48Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you gotta. You gotta go home by yourself.
- 26:53Speaker 2: Don't go hang out and kick it and all that,
- 26:55Speaker 2: you know, cause you you you don't know when you
- 26:57Speaker 2: turn in that off. That's if you get deep enough.
- 27:00Speaker 2: A lot of people don't really get like that because
- 27:02Speaker 2: they don't go deep enough. But if you go deep enough,
- 27:05Speaker 2: you really gotta go home by yourself, and you got
- 27:07Speaker 2: to like just chill and like just just just have
- 27:11Speaker 2: a moment to like just bring it down or whatever,
- 27:14Speaker 2: you know. So you know, I had I had to.
- 27:16Speaker 2: I had to kind of learn that, you know, because
- 27:17Speaker 2: I still was trying to kick it and go do
- 27:20Speaker 2: stand up. I'll go set and then go do stand up.
- 27:22Speaker 2: And I can see it in my stand up. I
- 27:24Speaker 2: was up there gloomy as fuck, dude, Like, yeah, so
- 27:30Speaker 2: if you ever see a lady and she it'd be
- 27:33Speaker 2: like this just staring at me and ship I just
- 27:35Speaker 2: be like sad, as hell. I'm saying good night everybody,
- 27:43Speaker 2: but yeah, yeah, yeah, you gotta gotta cut it off.
- 27:46Speaker 4: What about when you're not in the mind state to
- 27:48Speaker 4: joke all work, like like like like did you give
- 27:51Speaker 4: yourself time to grieve after your mother passed?
- 27:55Speaker 2: So I am like still dealing with that, Like that's
- 28:00Speaker 2: like that's like really fucking with me still, And I'm
- 28:05Speaker 2: trying because I was the only child, you know, no brother,
- 28:10Speaker 2: no father. Yeah no, thank you man. And I'm still
- 28:12Speaker 2: like That's why I try to stay as busy as
- 28:16Speaker 2: possible because anytime I like have downtime or anything good
- 28:21Speaker 2: happened like that, shit fuck with me because I'd be
- 28:24Speaker 2: wishing she was here, that she can like that she
- 28:27Speaker 2: could be here and be a part of that. And
- 28:29Speaker 2: people out there that that's going through the state, they
- 28:32Speaker 2: know what I'm talking about, Like anything good happen to you.
- 28:35Speaker 2: You just it's like a bitter sweet moment, you know,
- 28:39Speaker 2: like even with the color purple coming out, I'm not
- 28:43Speaker 2: like like it in it like that, but I just
- 28:47Speaker 2: wish my mama would have been there to see that.
- 28:50Speaker 2: And you know, it's things like that, even average Joe
- 28:54Speaker 2: being the lead, it's like I wish my mama was
- 28:57Speaker 2: here so she could like like see that and feel that,
- 29:01Speaker 2: because there's stuff we talked about, even getting my doctorate
- 29:07Speaker 2: for her to know that her son was now like
- 29:11Speaker 2: like like doctor, like having a degree like that. It's
- 29:17Speaker 2: just that would have like center, you know what I mean.
- 29:20Speaker 2: So anytime these situations happen, it's like it's nice, but
- 29:24Speaker 2: I also just get in too, like like and people
- 29:29Speaker 2: don't and people always be like you need to go
- 29:31Speaker 2: talk to somebody and something, and it's like, yeah, you
- 29:33Speaker 2: can do that, but this just happened to me. Yeah,
- 29:37Speaker 2: you know what I mean. It's like, I don't know
- 29:39Speaker 2: nobody who has something like this can just happen to
- 29:42Speaker 2: you and you go talk to somebody and you all good.
- 29:44Speaker 2: If anybody's like that, they weird to me, Like you
- 29:48Speaker 2: should be able to agree, like you said, and you
- 29:51Speaker 2: should be able to have these moments and you don't
- 29:55Speaker 2: rush people in these situations, you know, just just be
- 29:58Speaker 2: there for them, you know. And I had a lot
- 30:00Speaker 2: of people leave me, Like a lot of people leave
- 30:03Speaker 2: me because I wasn't who they wanted me to be
- 30:09Speaker 2: when I was good, I know, but everybody left and
- 30:16Speaker 2: it was weird. And people out there that's dealing with death,
- 30:21Speaker 2: they know what I'm talking about. Like, people leave you
- 30:25Speaker 2: because you change. And now I'm not the person out
- 30:28Speaker 2: out that that I was when they met me. And
- 30:30Speaker 2: I understand that. But if you're a good friend and
- 30:33Speaker 2: you really there, you're gonna you're gonna understand the severity
- 30:37Speaker 2: of this, and you're gonna understand that, you know, being
- 30:40Speaker 2: the only child and not having nobody else and no mother,
- 30:45Speaker 2: no father, nothing like that, and that that's gonna wail
- 30:50Speaker 2: on you. You you basically in the world alone, you
- 30:54Speaker 2: know what I mean. You really don't have nobody else,
- 30:55Speaker 2: Like I mean, I got family, cousins and stuff like that.
- 30:58Speaker 2: But me, it's it's hard. Man. I go through it
- 31:04Speaker 2: every day and I try to try to be better.
- 31:08Speaker 2: And you know, I remember this lady said this to
- 31:12Speaker 2: me one day and I was this guy. I was
- 31:13Speaker 2: at this car lot and I was sitting in the
- 31:15Speaker 2: car and I was crying, like looking at cars and
- 31:18Speaker 2: shit like because it's just come whenever, you know, And
- 31:21Speaker 2: I'm sitting there looking at the car like, man, it's beautiful.
- 31:25Speaker 2: I'm crying, and sales guy came over. He was like,
- 31:28Speaker 2: you all right, and I'm like yeah, and I told
- 31:30Speaker 2: him I lost my mom. He just started crying, crying
- 31:34Speaker 2: and he was hugging me, and I'm just like, man like.
- 31:38Speaker 2: He was like he lost his mom like ten years
- 31:40Speaker 2: ago and it still affect him.
- 31:42Speaker 3: Man.
- 31:42Speaker 2: He was like he's a whole. He said, you were
- 31:44Speaker 2: around fifty years old, and I'm like yeah, and he
- 31:47Speaker 2: was like, welcome to the club. And I was like,
- 31:51Speaker 2: wonder what he was saying. He was like, yeah, anybody
- 31:53Speaker 2: around fifty, it's a club of people who lose their parents.
- 31:58Speaker 2: Because our parents is like seventy at eighties years old.
- 32:01Speaker 2: And he was like, and when you hit about fifty,
- 32:04Speaker 2: that's around the age that everybody's mother's fathers, everybody started
- 32:11Speaker 2: going away. And he was like and so it's that club.
- 32:14Speaker 2: And he was like, welcome to fifty. And I was
- 32:16Speaker 2: just like he was like, welcome to the club. And
- 32:18Speaker 2: I was just like damn. And I started thinking about it,
- 32:21Speaker 2: and it's like that, and so I try to advocate.
- 32:24Speaker 2: Tell everybody, man, if you got your mother, your father,
- 32:27Speaker 2: any of that, man, take pictures of them, video of them,
- 32:33Speaker 2: talk to them. Even if you don't get along with them,
- 32:35Speaker 2: just be around them, man, because you just never know
- 32:38Speaker 2: because my mom dies suddenly was nothing wrong with just
- 32:45Speaker 2: I came from audition calling her and they was like,
- 32:48Speaker 2: she didn't make it, and thinking that she was going
- 32:50Speaker 2: to an appointment. I was like an appointment. I was like, Nah,
- 32:53Speaker 2: she ain't make it, and I'm like make what? You
- 32:56Speaker 2: could not understand that shit? Like, what do you mean
- 32:58Speaker 2: she make it? He told me that shit? I just
- 33:00Speaker 2: like what. I was like, I just talked to her.
- 33:03Speaker 2: What are you talking about?
- 33:06Speaker 3: Yoh?
- 33:06Speaker 2: That's it was like wow. I didn't even want to,
- 33:10Speaker 2: Like even with my Netflix special, I didn't even want
- 33:13Speaker 2: to do that. That wasn't even something I was planning
- 33:16Speaker 2: to do. But I got cornered into shooting that special
- 33:20Speaker 2: on that day, you know, like the day that my
- 33:22Speaker 2: mom died, September tenth, and I was looking for a spot.
- 33:26Speaker 2: Usually when you tour, if you're about to shoot a special,
- 33:29Speaker 2: you won't perform in that city. So I was gonna
- 33:33Speaker 2: do Philly. Philly was the city I was gonna shoot
- 33:35Speaker 2: my special win, but we were taking too long with
- 33:38Speaker 2: the deal and I ended up doing Philly. Right now,
- 33:40Speaker 2: I had nowhere else to go and I wanted to shoot.
- 33:43Speaker 2: I thought about New York. But I just was like,
- 33:46Speaker 2: you got to be from New York in order to
- 33:48Speaker 2: do New York, you know what I mean, Like it's
- 33:51Speaker 2: New York is just different, you know, It's like you
- 33:53Speaker 2: got to be from there. But when it came around
- 33:56Speaker 2: to me shooting special Netflix is like, you got shooting September,
- 33:59Speaker 2: and I was like, make sure it's at the inner
- 34:00Speaker 2: September because I know I couldn't shoot around A year
- 34:03Speaker 2: later from the day my mom passed. They came back
- 34:06Speaker 2: not even knowing they was like this, yeah, we got
- 34:09Speaker 2: the venue. I'm like, man, let's do it. I was
- 34:10Speaker 2: like what day They was like September tenth, and I
- 34:13Speaker 2: was like, I said nah. I was like, I was like,
- 34:15Speaker 2: I ain't gonna do it. Then about days later, my
- 34:18Speaker 2: mom was like, you know what, don't even mourn like that,
- 34:21Speaker 2: like celebrate her. Shoot on that day. Dedicate this to
- 34:26Speaker 2: her and celebrate her. Because when people passed, man, you
- 34:31Speaker 2: have to like make them live through you. Of course,
- 34:34Speaker 2: even if it's a password, you know what I mean,
- 34:36Speaker 2: if you get it, if you set a password and
- 34:39Speaker 2: you put their name in every day, you that's that's
- 34:42Speaker 2: every day, stay with you every day, you know what
- 34:45Speaker 2: I mean, and so I was like, didn't word no,
- 34:47Speaker 2: I did not no, but y'all and I just was like, man,
- 34:55Speaker 2: I'm gonna shoot it, and I shot it like on
- 34:57Speaker 2: that day. But I also was trying to show people
- 35:00Speaker 2: and teach people that with comedians and entertain us, even y'all,
- 35:05Speaker 2: people don't understand we got problems and when we perform
- 35:10Speaker 2: and you never know what that comic is going through.
- 35:13Speaker 2: So that was a whole deal with my Netflix special.
- 35:15Speaker 2: It was that I wanted to perform without telling nobody
- 35:19Speaker 2: what was going on, and then at the end of
- 35:22Speaker 2: the special let them know I was up here rocking
- 35:24Speaker 2: with y'all. You're not even knowing what I was going through.
- 35:27Speaker 2: I just cried right before I walked out on stage.
- 35:31Speaker 2: I was backstage wiping my eyes, took a deep breath,
- 35:34Speaker 2: and walked out there, performed the whole special with them
- 35:38Speaker 2: not even knowing that this was like the one year
- 35:41Speaker 2: anniversary of my mom's death, and I wanted tend to
- 35:45Speaker 2: see that us performers, we had to put aside whatever
- 35:49Speaker 2: we're going through, even with y'all. Y'all, man, y'all got
- 35:54Speaker 2: to come here and work every day every day, and
- 35:58Speaker 2: you and the more family got more problems you've got
- 36:01Speaker 2: and so if you got six kids, you got six
- 36:04Speaker 2: sets of goddamn problems, then you still got to come
- 36:07Speaker 2: here work. And so I wanted that special to show that, Hey,
- 36:10Speaker 2: while y'all see me up here performing whatever and without
- 36:12Speaker 2: even saying nothing at the end of it, I want
- 36:15Speaker 2: you to know this is what I was going through
- 36:17Speaker 2: this entire time that I was filming this shooting and
- 36:21Speaker 2: doing it in Brooklyn. Was like, they showed so much love,
- 36:24Speaker 2: but I was so scared. I ain't gonna lie because
- 36:26Speaker 2: I ain't know what Brooklyn I was gonna get. I
- 36:28Speaker 2: ain't know if it's gonna be biggie Brooklyn, Uh, gentrified
- 36:32Speaker 2: Brooklyn or righteous Brooklyn. Righteous Brooklyn. If I said bitch,
- 36:38Speaker 2: they was.
- 36:38Speaker 7: Like brother on like the material ain't working, Like man,
- 36:45Speaker 7: I ain't mean it like that, brother, Like you know,
- 36:49Speaker 7: explain what you meant.
- 36:51Speaker 2: Make the word b I TC means something else. Yeah, yeah,
- 36:54Speaker 2: it was too much to whatever. But collectively everybody came
- 36:57Speaker 2: out and rocked. But uh, yeah, that whole experience or
- 37:02Speaker 2: something else. And like I said, I'm still dealing with
- 37:04Speaker 2: anybody out there dealing with grief. Man, don't be afraid.
- 37:07Speaker 2: I know you're a man, or you're a woman, you're
- 37:10Speaker 2: a boss, and all this other shit. Man, let that
- 37:12Speaker 2: shit out. Grieve. Learn how to grieve because it ain't
- 37:18Speaker 2: gonna stop. Just learn how to do it, control it
- 37:21Speaker 2: and keep it moving and make sure that they live
- 37:23Speaker 2: through you.
- 37:23Speaker 4: You said something powerful that I would like for you
- 37:26Speaker 4: to talk about, just because that's something.
- 37:28Speaker 2: I struggle with.
- 37:29Speaker 4: How do you show up as a friend when somebody
- 37:32Speaker 4: has somebody that they lose that's close to them, like
- 37:35Speaker 4: a parent or significant other, Like what would you have
- 37:38Speaker 4: wanted your friends to do in that moment.
- 37:40Speaker 2: So if I'm now different and we ain't buying bottles
- 37:48Speaker 2: and kicking it, and I ain't in the club, and
- 37:50Speaker 2: I'm now I'm in the club with you, but but
- 37:52Speaker 2: I'm daydreaming and I'm zoned out and I ain't helping
- 37:57Speaker 2: you pull all the women in the club and all
- 37:59Speaker 2: that shit or whatever. If I'm now I'm boring to you,
- 38:05Speaker 2: I'm not what you was. If you're a friend, you're
- 38:08Speaker 2: gonna be like, man, let's get out this club, Let's
- 38:11Speaker 2: go ahead, let's go chill, let's go get you together,
- 38:14Speaker 2: Let's go chill. If you're any way different. Even if
- 38:17Speaker 2: I'm snappy, even if I'm not understanding, if I don't
- 38:20Speaker 2: hear you correctly at any of that, understand that I
- 38:24Speaker 2: wasn't normally like this. So therefore you have to know
- 38:28Speaker 2: that there's some kind of issue going on with me, right,
- 38:30Speaker 2: So therefore you have to channel that and understand that
- 38:34Speaker 2: and get to know who I am now or who
- 38:37Speaker 2: I'm about to be, because now I'm embarking on a
- 38:41Speaker 2: new normal. And that's what everybody has to do. It
- 38:43Speaker 2: out the embark on a new normal. Truthfid absolutely, And
- 38:48Speaker 2: once a true friend understand that, yo, he's he's embarking
- 38:51Speaker 2: on the new normal. And I have to be here
- 38:53Speaker 2: to learn that new normal in order to be there,
- 38:56Speaker 2: to be there for this, you know what I mean.
- 38:58Speaker 2: So once a person the stands that, and they'll be there,
- 39:02Speaker 2: they won't leave you, and they gonna be there and
- 39:05Speaker 2: they gonna and they're gonna help you out and they
- 39:07Speaker 2: not gonna leave because all of a sudden you don't
- 39:09Speaker 2: understand them and all of that, and it's like it's
- 39:12Speaker 2: it's it's so whack or whatever. And I lost not
- 39:16Speaker 2: only I and not only I lose my mother I
- 39:19Speaker 2: lost like other family members and friends, and so it
- 39:24Speaker 2: was very and I'm still in that kind of lonely
- 39:26Speaker 2: spot right now, you know, but it's a lot better
- 39:29Speaker 2: because I'm working and I got all these other projects
- 39:32Speaker 2: coming out and about the popping bubble and all that,
- 39:35Speaker 2: and so it's taking up my mind framing, you know,
- 39:38Speaker 2: me working on a whole new hour, the tour with
- 39:41Speaker 2: and all of that. So you know, I'm not feeling
- 39:45Speaker 2: as left out and lonely no more, because you know,
- 39:49Speaker 2: I got a lot going on. But as a friend,
- 39:52Speaker 2: that's what a friend does. A friend understands that you changed,
- 39:56Speaker 2: and they gonna change with you, and they're gonna be
- 39:58Speaker 2: there for you, and they gonna find out how are
- 40:00Speaker 2: you now, find out what makes you happy? Now? What
- 40:03Speaker 2: makes you sad? Now, you know, and they're gonna be
- 40:05Speaker 2: that for you, you know what I mean. But falling
- 40:09Speaker 2: back and it's a selfish move, a lot of people
- 40:13Speaker 2: go because they go, oh, you're not making me feel
- 40:16Speaker 2: comfortable around you or and now it's about them, yeah
- 40:20Speaker 2: and not you, you know what I mean. So yeah,
- 40:23Speaker 2: it's it's a it's a trip that situation. And I'm
- 40:26Speaker 2: still learning, you know what I mean and uh and
- 40:30Speaker 2: the friends that I do have. Man, we've been rocking
- 40:33Speaker 2: and you know, we having a ball and we're gonna
- 40:36Speaker 2: keep it moving. We appreciate you, brother, and we love
- 40:38Speaker 2: you brother. I love y'all man, and I thank y'all
- 40:41Speaker 2: man for this platform. I hate that it got serious.
- 40:43Speaker 4: Like always give the best conversations, funny and it's serious.
- 40:49Speaker 2: I love it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I appreciate y'all man,
- 40:53Speaker 2: and y'all keep doing. Y'all doing y'all very I just
- 40:57Speaker 2: want to say, y'all, y'all very powerful, more powerful than
- 41:01Speaker 2: what y'all even probably thinking though, and I want you
- 41:04Speaker 2: all to understand that and keep doing good with the positions.
- 41:11Speaker 1: Average Joe promised June twenty fifth on B E T Plus,
- 41:14Speaker 1: and thank.
- 41:14Speaker 2: You brother for joining us. Thank you so much man.
- 41:16Speaker 2: Y'all check it out. Dion Cole, It's the Breakfast Club.
- 41:19Speaker 2: Good morning,