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Keltie Knight Brings The Scheana Shay Energy, The Bronwyn Love & The TikTok Trends · Untraditionally Lala

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  Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous, Welcome back to the Give Them Lala Podcast.
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  Speaker 1: It is Lala Kent herself and for the first time ever,
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  Speaker 1: I'm going.
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  Speaker 2: To read my co host biod. I'm so shook by this.
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  Speaker 3: You're gonna have to read for a while.
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  Speaker 2: No, No, I have Kelty Knight. Welcome.
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  Speaker 4: I'm so happy to be here, are you. I I'm
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  Speaker 4: a big fan. You've been on Lady Gang podcast before.
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  Speaker 4: I interviewed you for E News and so I was
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  Speaker 4: really stoked when you asked me. I think you're doing
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  Speaker 4: a great job, sweetie. And I'm just really excited, and
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  Speaker 4: I'm gonna try to convince you to be real life
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  Speaker 4: friends with me and get your phone number after.
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  Speaker 5: But we'll see, we'll see how this is an audition.
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  Speaker 2: I would die and love it.
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  Speaker 1: So you are a three time Emmy Award winning television personality,
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  Speaker 1: a New York Times best selling author, and a People's Choice.
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  Speaker 2: Awards podcast hosts.
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  Speaker 1: What does that mean? When I read this, I was like,
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  Speaker 1: that's what we're losing.
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  Speaker 4: So we were nominated for the People's Choice Awards for
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  Speaker 4: Top Podcast for Lady Gang.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, and we lost.
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  Speaker 5: So that's what it means. It means I wanted to be.
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  Speaker 4: You know, people are like, I'm Grammy nominated, are Oscar
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  Speaker 4: Academy Award nominated? I was like, well, I wanted in
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  Speaker 4: the bio, but I can't.
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  Speaker 5: Sound I'm too successful. I don't want to alienate the kids,
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  Speaker 5: you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 4: Like, we got to keep her grounded, you know, I mean. So, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: we lost. And what was crazy about losing that People's
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  Speaker 4: Choice Award was that we at the People's Choice Awards
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  Speaker 4: were on E Network and Lady Gang had a television
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  Speaker 4: show on E at that time, so we were nominated
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  Speaker 4: and it was like chicks in the office.
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  Speaker 5: Uh oh my god, scrubbing in.
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  Speaker 4: It was all these people and we were like, they
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  Speaker 4: definitely are going to fix this right because you know,
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  Speaker 4: the only reason j Lo goes to the People's Choice
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  Speaker 4: Awards because someone told her publicist she's gonna win.
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  Speaker 2: Totally.
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  Speaker 5: You don't come to.
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  Speaker 4: People's Choice Awards unless Chloe Kardashian is like winning top
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  Speaker 4: reality Star. She's getting dressed up, you know. So we
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  Speaker 4: were like, oh, great, this is so great. They made
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  Speaker 4: this new category and we're gonna win because we have
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  Speaker 4: a TV show on EAT and we couldn't even win.
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  Speaker 4: We lost to scrubbing in.
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  Speaker 3: We couldn't because I didn't even.
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  Speaker 5: Set it up.
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  Speaker 4: And that was the year they didn't announce it live
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  Speaker 4: on the show because podcasts weren't big enough yet, so
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  Speaker 4: like they didn't show that category. So we were all
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  Speaker 4: sitting at the table and then the show ended. I
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  Speaker 4: was like, so, why are we here? And then we
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  Speaker 4: walked down and we're like, so, who won? And then
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  Speaker 4: someone got like scirping and got a sneaky email that
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  Speaker 4: they won and that it was just so crazy.
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  Speaker 3: They didn't even get a walk up and like have
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  Speaker 3: a There.
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  Speaker 4: Was no even acceptance award on the show, not enough
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  Speaker 4: time for the podcast.
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  Speaker 3: I rather have lost.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I love that you put it in your bio,
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  Speaker 1: and to be honest, I think I'm going to start
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  Speaker 1: putting in that I'm a two time I'm a part.
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  Speaker 2: Of a show.
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  Speaker 1: Of course, I always think I'm the star of everything, right, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: everything's mine. I run the world in my mind. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I buy into my own fiction.
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  Speaker 2: You have to. It's called survival in the real world.
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  Speaker 5: Make it alla simulation exactly.
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  Speaker 1: So I am a two time Emmy losing, Yeah, superstar.
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  Speaker 5: I would take that.
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  Speaker 4: I would just be like La La Kent, two time
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  Speaker 4: Emmy losing mother of two beautiful, you know, because it's
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  Speaker 4: like a nice rings as a journalist, that's where my life,
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  Speaker 4: my opening line would be. And you know what, you
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  Speaker 4: deserve that And you can say because when if you
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  Speaker 4: had won, you would get an Emmy, so you actually
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  Speaker 4: are an Emmy nominated Like you should just say Emmy
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  Speaker 4: nominated podcast host because you are Emmy nominated.
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  Speaker 2: Like I'm totally doing.
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  Speaker 5: No one should be able to take that away from you.
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  Speaker 4: And I just want to say when you said my
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  Speaker 4: bio three time Emmy Award winning, it was for a show.
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  Speaker 4: It was for entertainment Tonight as part of a cast,
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  Speaker 4: So I didn't win the Like the girls on the
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  Speaker 4: Lady Gang will make fun of me because they're like,
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  Speaker 4: you're not actually an Emmy winner, but like I I
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  Speaker 4: the show that I was on one and the hosts
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  Speaker 4: that show are legally in the Emmy ballad. And when
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  Speaker 4: you win, they give you a special link to a
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  Speaker 4: website to order your Emmy.
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  Speaker 2: You have to pay for it.
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  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I'm twenty one hundred dollars into my Emmy career.
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  Speaker 4: Because they're about seeing seven hunderd dollars each so worth it.
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  Speaker 4: Photo shoots with it, make your money back with it. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: because every time I have to zoom with like a
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  Speaker 4: brand or like I'm in auditioning for a new job,
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  Speaker 4: I do it in my my normal offices downstairs. It's
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  Speaker 4: very ugly behind it. For like, you know, if we
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  Speaker 4: were just having a zoom, just books and some.
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  Speaker 5: Bad fan art.
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  Speaker 4: You know, if I'm going in with a brand trying
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  Speaker 4: to get that bag, I'm doing it in my library
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  Speaker 4: living room with the Emmys directly off the shoulder, so
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  Speaker 4: you know, don't mess around with her.
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  Speaker 3: You're about your fucking business. When the Emmy's exactly I.
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  Speaker 5: Dress them up for Christmas. They have Christmas hats.
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  Speaker 2: They're like your dogs. Do you have a dog?
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  Speaker 5: I have a dog. I have no children, but there
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  Speaker 5: are the children.
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  Speaker 2: I love it.
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  Speaker 4: It changes your whole life, Like once you win a
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  Speaker 4: group daytime Emmy, it's like Hollywood.
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  Speaker 5: That's why I.
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  Speaker 2: Get so mad.
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  Speaker 5: I'm just gonna think I'm gonna give them the laala here.
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  Speaker 4: That's why I get so mad when I watch all
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  Speaker 4: the like TikTokers who get better red carpet jobs than me.
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  Speaker 4: Because I was like, I have three Emmys for interviewing people.
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  Speaker 4: Why is Ronald McDonald doing doing these interviews? They're not
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  Speaker 4: even holding the microphone in the right hand. They're kind
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  Speaker 4: of a crossbody. Only nobody would.
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  Speaker 5: Do a cross You got totally open the window and
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  Speaker 5: the window what.
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  Speaker 3: About this as well?
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  Speaker 6: I've always noticed they don't bring the mic back to
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  Speaker 6: themselves when they ask you a question.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't even know what fucking question.
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  Speaker 2: You're a Wow, you know about this Eastern.
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  Speaker 6: Yes, I've been seeing it everywhere, and all of them
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  Speaker 6: they just talked to them with the mic there, so
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  Speaker 6: when they're asking their question, Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: You can't even hear it.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, do you haven't?
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  Speaker 2: Really? Do you have a TikTok obsession?
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  Speaker 1: Like do you know all the trends and all the
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  Speaker 1: things I have?
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  Speaker 5: I'm really ready to unpack this with you, Lala.
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  Speaker 4: I have an obsession of attention, okay, in any way
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  Speaker 4: I can get it, love it, And so I'm a
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  Speaker 4: little Lalla in that way. And I mean that with love,
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  Speaker 4: like it's something to look up to.
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  Speaker 2: So don't take it, friends so much.
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  Speaker 4: If there is a trend like I'm going to try it,
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  Speaker 4: it probably will bomb the things that like go viral
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  Speaker 4: for me, are so weird on TikTok. I actually have
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  Speaker 4: more followers on TikTok than on Instagram, and I think
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  Speaker 4: that's because the people who know me are like, God,
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  Speaker 4: I can't watch Kelty again, and TikTok is mostly strangers
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  Speaker 4: the way that like the you know. So Like the
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  Speaker 4: other day, I was in the dressing room at E
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  Speaker 4: News and I have a pair of beautiful secondhand because
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  Speaker 4: I'm a thrifty bitch lu batons that so Kate, the
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  Speaker 4: ones in day A wear okay, yep, the super high
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  Speaker 4: four inch heel patent leather.
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  Speaker 5: They're gorgeous.
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  Speaker 4: And I have hundreds of shoes that I can wear
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  Speaker 4: every night on You News, and no matter what, Roberto
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  Speaker 4: and Boring my stylus on Your News will come in
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  Speaker 4: and say it's the black, so Kate is what goes
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  Speaker 4: with this outfit?
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  Speaker 5: I can barely walk in these things.
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  Speaker 1: I totally relate because I have a pair of Jean
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  Speaker 1: Vito Rossi's that I literally wear every single red carpet
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  Speaker 1: any interview, and I'm like, this is mortifying.
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  Speaker 2: I have to get another pair of shoes, so keep going.
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  Speaker 4: They're so painful, and so I just was on TikTok.
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  Speaker 4: I'm already in glam looking cute. I was like, let
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  Speaker 4: me make it TikTok. I hold the shoe up and
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  Speaker 4: I was like, this message is from mister Lubaton. If
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  Speaker 4: you're not mister Lubaton, like keep scrolling. And I was like,
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  Speaker 4: your shoes fucking suck, Like this sucks.
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  Speaker 5: My feet hurt.
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  Speaker 4: Why are they so uncomfortable? They're so expensive? It went
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  Speaker 4: so viral, like twelve million views. People have so many.
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  Speaker 4: They're like, he's dead, you said Lubaton wrong. They're meant
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  Speaker 4: for the bedroom, you're meant to swim in.
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  Speaker 1: And I was like, anyway, so then all you see
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  Speaker 1: is twelve million views, yeah, and.
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  Speaker 2: I was like all that matters.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, And I was like people love me, they really
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  Speaker 4: love me. So then I tried again with the Saint
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  Speaker 4: Laurent shoe, one hundred views.
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  Speaker 5: Nobody cared to talk about it. So anyway, I just
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  Speaker 5: I hate all of it.
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  Speaker 4: I wish that we lived in a world where the
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  Speaker 4: thing that you're good at, like the talent, was enough,
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  Speaker 4: you know what I mean, Like, wouldn't it be great
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  Speaker 4: if just being a TV was like enough money, enough life,
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  Speaker 4: enough notoriety, but no, you have to do TikTok, you
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  Speaker 4: have to do Instagram, you got to do your blog,
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  Speaker 4: you gotta do your scent, you gotta do your clothing line,
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  Speaker 4: you have to do your podcast.
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  Speaker 5: Like it's exhausting.
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  Speaker 2: It's very exhausting.
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  Speaker 1: And I remember I had just and I haven't even
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  Speaker 1: I conquered the art to Instagram to the best of
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  Speaker 1: my ability, right job. I then here like Instagram is
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  Speaker 1: so over, it's about TikTok, And I'm like, are you
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  Speaker 1: fucking kidding me? Another social media thing that.
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  Speaker 2: I've now got to be on and connect to.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm like, can I just take my videos that
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  Speaker 1: I do on my Instagram and put them there? And
• 8:40
  Speaker 1: they're like, no, you cannot. I'm like, make it make sense.
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  Speaker 1: If you can make something make sense to me and
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  Speaker 1: give me the why, then I can get down with it.
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  Speaker 1: But no one can give me a real valid reason
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  Speaker 1: on why I just can't do it. And then my
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  Speaker 1: I'm only thirty four, Like I realize, like I'm not
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  Speaker 1: some old broad, but I do feel seventy nine and
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  Speaker 1: it just becomes too much to where I want to
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  Speaker 1: take a nap. And the reason why the Lubaton video.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe I'm saying it wrong, don't care because it.
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  Speaker 5: Goes viral, put it on TikTok.
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  Speaker 1: But it was like organic, right, and then you try
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  Speaker 1: to recreate it was like when I did this, send
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  Speaker 1: it to Darryl Video, right, we create merch and my
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  Speaker 1: merch team is looking for the next They're like, let's
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  Speaker 1: do another, let's do it again. I'm like, you have
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  Speaker 1: to understand, this will never happen a guy, probably never.
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  Speaker 2: So we all need to like let that go.
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  Speaker 1: It was a great moment in time, but you just
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  Speaker 1: don't know what's gonna hit and what's not. And the
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  Speaker 1: people who do have these platforms where every single video hits.
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  Speaker 6: But no, no, no, no, you think that if you
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  Speaker 6: go through their TikTok and their page, say that you're
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  Speaker 6: on your for you page and you see one and
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  Speaker 6: it's her and or him and they have a million views,
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  Speaker 6: a million likes, whatever it is. Go into their page,
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  Speaker 6: they have posted ten to fifteen of the same thing. Yeah,
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  Speaker 6: and it's just fully one of them goes big.
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  Speaker 1: So this goes back to if they were interviewing for
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  Speaker 1: a job, they would only use that video.
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  Speaker 2: You will only use the room with the Emmys for Summer.
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  Speaker 1: It all makes sense because I will say, even at
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  Speaker 1: thirty four, when I scroll too much, I have an
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  Speaker 1: internal battle. It's like Mike Tyson in his prime with
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  Speaker 1: my mind, and he is winning and chaoing the fuck
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  Speaker 1: out of me to the point where I'm like, I'm exhausted,
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  Speaker 1: I'm giving up. I'm moving to a ranch in Montana
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  Speaker 1: and I'll do my Amazon lives there.
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  Speaker 6: No, I know what old people feel like they finally
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  Speaker 6: know how to work the remote and then you give
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  Speaker 6: them another one and you're like, I just fucking learned
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  Speaker 6: this one.
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  Speaker 2: No, it is definitely a lot for me.
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  Speaker 4: I actually just we had a woman on Lady Gang
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  Speaker 4: actually just this morning before I came here, and it
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  Speaker 4: was just a very interesting conversation. She has an app
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  Speaker 4: called Activations, which is like it's not meditations, it's like
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  Speaker 4: three to twenty seven minute like activations where it's like
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  Speaker 4: I am like, you know, you're saying like I am rich,
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  Speaker 4: I am whatever, Like even if you're not right, it's
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  Speaker 4: like you're manifesting like that next girl or whatever. Anyway,
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  Speaker 4: long story short, she said something very interesting that I'll
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  Speaker 4: say to you. She said, my life changed dramatically when
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  Speaker 4: I stopped looking at my life in the two X
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  Speaker 4: category like how can I double this, and only started
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  Speaker 4: saying yes to opportunities.
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  Speaker 5: That make me ten x.
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  Speaker 3: Wow.
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  Speaker 4: So it's like I agree with you, Like, think about
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  Speaker 4: that for a second. It's like instead of being like, Okay,
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  Speaker 4: I'm gonna do some tiktoks, like is that going to
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  Speaker 4: really increase your bag or your life, or your meaning
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  Speaker 4: or your happiness ten x. No, it might double the
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  Speaker 4: money you make this year if you can get like
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  Speaker 4: a cute little deal, But it's like invest time in
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  Speaker 4: those things that'll change your life ten x, like that
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  Speaker 4: next movie role or that next TV show or whatever
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  Speaker 4: that thing is, rather than spend the little time trying
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  Speaker 4: to go viral on an app that like doesn't never
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  Speaker 4: make you money.
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  Speaker 5: So I like that.
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  Speaker 1: I love this as well, and I feel like twenty
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  Speaker 1: twenty four was a very strange year you.
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  Speaker 5: For me, it was just sitting here watching you. It was.
• 12:09
  Speaker 1: It was set A lot of people did It's okay,
• 12:13
  Speaker 1: we all survived.
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  Speaker 2: It was disorienting, it was humbling.
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  Speaker 1: I got knocked off my horse more than one time,
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  Speaker 1: and I getting back onto it. Well.
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  Speaker 2: Then I was like you know what this horse, Let's
• 12:26
  Speaker 2: just like let it rest and we get on a
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  Speaker 2: new horse.
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  Speaker 1: But then I had I got pregnant and had a
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  Speaker 1: beautiful baby. And so these two, these two types of
• 12:34
  Speaker 1: things were existing. The happiest moment of my life and
• 12:38
  Speaker 1: being so peaceful in my personal life, but then my
• 12:42
  Speaker 1: career and the outside world it was like they were
• 12:47
  Speaker 1: out for blood. They wanted my head on a steak.
• 12:55
  Speaker 1: When you started Lady Gang, was reality television as big
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  Speaker 1: as it is today, Because I remember watching Bravo back
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  Speaker 1: when I was living in Utah, but it was just
• 13:05
  Speaker 1: like it was almost on a network that like no
• 13:08
  Speaker 1: one really knew about, and it was like, oh, this
• 13:09
  Speaker 1: is like a really fun show. Now I feel like
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  Speaker 1: it's gotten huge and Housewives have really taken the forefront
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  Speaker 1: of reality TV.
• 13:17
  Speaker 2: Was it like that when Lady Gang came out?
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  Speaker 4: So I think we were at different reality We were
• 13:21
  Speaker 4: in Survivor, we were in Bachelor and Bachelorette, like one girl,
• 13:26
  Speaker 4: everyone fighting for the thing. These like conglomerate ensemble cast
• 13:30
  Speaker 4: shows I think have really heated up in the past
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  Speaker 4: five or six years. I mean there were Housewives, yes,
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  Speaker 4: but it wasn't like, you know, there's entire people who
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  Speaker 4: make all of their money off just doing Bravo, like
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  Speaker 4: it's its own entity of popularity. And what's crazy is
• 13:49
  Speaker 4: that with the Lady Gang podcast, I mean, we run
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  Speaker 4: this very interesting. You know, it's at the end of
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  Speaker 4: the day, it's a business, and we have a download
• 13:57
  Speaker 4: quota to hit for our advertisers. You could get one
• 14:00
  Speaker 4: of the biggest We've had the biggest actresses in Hollywood.
• 14:04
  Speaker 4: We just we had Sharon Stone on for two episodes,
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  Speaker 4: who's like iconic, iconic what she was telling us and
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  Speaker 4: the way she is and she's a friend of mine
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  Speaker 4: and I love her and she's like an incredible girls girl.
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  Speaker 4: But like she's one of the biggest, most recognizable names.
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  Speaker 4: You know, you're at the met Galley or at whatever.
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  Speaker 4: You could have a housewife, you could have you, you
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  Speaker 4: could have you know, Kristin Dowdy. You could have any
• 14:24
  Speaker 4: of these people from Bravo, and the numbers would be similar.
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  Speaker 4: The interest level is very similar. It's the highest reward,
• 14:31
  Speaker 4: highest risk network of shows that I think exists in Hollywood.
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  Speaker 4: So it's like the risk of you being canceled, your
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  Speaker 4: life being ruined. You have to hide from people who
• 14:42
  Speaker 4: are coming for you to be publicly beheaded on multiple occasions,
• 14:47
  Speaker 4: and then the next season be publicly loved like the
• 14:51
  Speaker 4: high risk the high reward, because the fan base is
• 14:54
  Speaker 4: so intense that if you go on an Amazon, if
• 14:57
  Speaker 4: you have a book, the fan base wild shows up
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  Speaker 4: and so, yeah, is your life ruined one season?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 15:05
  Speaker 4: Are you are your parents? Like hey, people keep sending
• 15:08
  Speaker 4: me articles about you being before like you know what
• 15:11
  Speaker 4: I mean, or getting murdered and you're getting death threats.
• 15:13
  Speaker 4: Sure is your book going to the top of the
• 15:15
  Speaker 4: New York Times? Yeah, so high risk, high.
• 15:18
  Speaker 1: Reward, you know what, I'll take it any day. And
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: going back to the people who you have interviewed, because
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: the list is insane. I want to know because you
• 15:27
  Speaker 1: do host shows like E News where you're talking about
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: things that people have done. Yeah, and you have an opinion.
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: Has there ever been someone you've interviewed?
• 15:37
  Speaker 2: Number one?
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: I want to know the most in your mind, like,
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: oh my god, that interview just sticks out in my
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: mind every time, and you get nervous like, oh shit,
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: I've talked shit about them before and now they're coming in.
• 15:48
  Speaker 2: I hope they didn't hear.
• 15:49
  Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, so yeah, I mean, I feel this so deeply,
• 15:54
  Speaker 4: so they're in the Kelty vault, deep down in my soul.
• 15:58
  Speaker 4: Is the list of people I fucking hate. Okay, it
• 16:01
  Speaker 4: has never been.
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: Public because I'm not trying, because this is a safe space.
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to make you share it, but I
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: am dying to know.
• 16:10
  Speaker 5: I'll tell you.
• 16:11
  Speaker 4: I'll tell you I because one of that lit there's
• 16:14
  Speaker 4: a long list because people are mostly assholes. That's very true.
• 16:19
  Speaker 4: There's a very long list. And I wrote about it
• 16:22
  Speaker 4: in Lady Secrets or Act Like a Lady.
• 16:24
  Speaker 5: We have two Lady Gang books. I can't remember. I
• 16:26
  Speaker 5: think it was. I think it was Lady's Secrets. It
• 16:28
  Speaker 5: was a book about all of our secrets.
• 16:30
  Speaker 4: I wrote about one A list actress, probably most famous
• 16:34
  Speaker 4: actress in the world, who was an absolute dick to
• 16:37
  Speaker 4: me live on the red carpet called me out the
• 16:42
  Speaker 4: story and then I'll name a name. So I can't
• 16:44
  Speaker 4: name this name because I will literally get sued.
• 16:47
  Speaker 5: But I was on a.
• 16:48
  Speaker 4: Red carpet for a project and I had interviewed this person.
• 16:51
  Speaker 4: They do a lot of rom comms, and I had said, Hey,
• 16:54
  Speaker 4: would you like in the junk kit or whatever. I
• 16:56
  Speaker 4: was like, oh, you did this like murder mystery thing.
• 16:57
  Speaker 4: Would you ever go back to rom comms? And around
• 17:00
  Speaker 4: was amazing. She was like, at a certain age, it
• 17:02
  Speaker 4: doesn't really make sense to be in a roalm comm
• 17:03
  Speaker 4: unless you're like a widow, you know what I mean. Like,
• 17:05
  Speaker 4: it's like, at a certain age, how how can you
• 17:08
  Speaker 4: still be that stupid in love?
• 17:09
  Speaker 5: You know what I mean?
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: Like?
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: And I was like, have you met us?
• 17:14
  Speaker 5: It's ageless, babe.
• 17:15
  Speaker 4: But anyway, so we ran that article and Vogue picked
• 17:19
  Speaker 4: up that article and this is where clickbait. I am
• 17:22
  Speaker 4: more scared of clipbait than you, and I swear to
• 17:24
  Speaker 4: God because what happens is the art. The interview that
• 17:28
  Speaker 4: I did went out and then Vogue picked it up
• 17:29
  Speaker 4: and they changed the headline to blah blah blah blah
• 17:32
  Speaker 4: says she's done with rom comms. If you're a rom
• 17:35
  Speaker 4: com queen, this is detrimental to your career.
• 17:37
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 17:38
  Speaker 4: So then I saw this person a couple weeks later
• 17:41
  Speaker 4: and they came up to me and they're like, you
• 17:42
  Speaker 4: put words in my mouth.
• 17:43
  Speaker 5: This is live, live television. You put words in my mouth.
• 17:46
  Speaker 4: And I was like, I had no idea because I
• 17:49
  Speaker 4: don't read every headline that gets you know, once I
• 17:52
  Speaker 4: do an interview, it goes all around the world like
• 17:54
  Speaker 4: that's and I'm so lucky that's the level that I'm at.
• 17:57
  Speaker 4: But like, if you're one of the five girls do
• 18:00
  Speaker 4: Hollywood interviews, the rest of the world picks that up.
• 18:03
  Speaker 4: And so that story went everywhere. I have no idea
• 18:05
  Speaker 4: what happens to my stories after, like I can't track
• 18:07
  Speaker 4: it im onto the next and she was like, you
• 18:10
  Speaker 4: put words in my mouth.
• 18:10
  Speaker 5: I was like, I have no idea.
• 18:11
  Speaker 4: You look really beautiful tonight, Like I don't know, I
• 18:14
  Speaker 4: flubbed it so bad, and that footage exists somewhere, and
• 18:17
  Speaker 4: I'm dying because there was this whole thing with the
• 18:19
  Speaker 4: Blake Lively Interview series where like there was interviews where
• 18:22
  Speaker 4: she maybe wasn't her best that came out and now
• 18:24
  Speaker 4: people reporters are like, here's my worst in review and
• 18:26
  Speaker 4: I was like, God, I wish I could post this.
• 18:28
  Speaker 5: I don't have the footage.
• 18:29
  Speaker 4: I know what vaulted exists in it exists, and I
• 18:32
  Speaker 4: wish someone woud find it and posted because it was crazy.
• 18:34
  Speaker 4: But it was a misunderstanding as I never said that
• 18:38
  Speaker 4: you were done with rom comms, so on the other
• 18:40
  Speaker 4: list of people, and we've since made up. But I
• 18:43
  Speaker 4: had a run in with Jake Jillenhall oh years ago,
• 18:45
  Speaker 4: and I talked about it publicly and we've we've never
• 18:49
  Speaker 4: talked about it, but I've forgiven him and since then
• 18:51
  Speaker 4: have like given him praise about all a lot of things.
• 18:53
  Speaker 4: But we were in a red carpet and it was
• 18:56
  Speaker 4: one hundred years ago. I was a baby baby reporter,
• 18:59
  Speaker 4: and so I was very, very hungry, and I lived
• 19:01
  Speaker 4: in this very high pressure world where if you didn't
• 19:04
  Speaker 4: come back with the goods, Like people don't understand, there
• 19:10
  Speaker 4: was a time in Hollywood where it was so cutthroat
• 19:12
  Speaker 4: that it was like, if there's five correspondents on a show,
• 19:15
  Speaker 4: you're so excited that you got to go to the Jake,
• 19:17
  Speaker 4: Jill and Hawk premiere. If you don't come back with
• 19:20
  Speaker 4: something so newsworthy from Jake, you're fired because the next
• 19:24
  Speaker 4: time it's going to be person number two. That gets
• 19:27
  Speaker 4: very ass If you want to do Oscars, if you
• 19:29
  Speaker 4: want to do met Gala, if you want to do
• 19:32
  Speaker 4: Beyonce interviews, you better show that you have the goods
• 19:36
  Speaker 4: that you can interview the house down boots up to
• 19:40
  Speaker 4: the badge. That's not a saing, but you know it
• 19:43
  Speaker 4: is like you have got to be full on and
• 19:48
  Speaker 4: doing it. And so I did this interview with Jake.
• 19:50
  Speaker 4: I was so nervous, and there's a moment for an interviewer.
• 19:55
  Speaker 4: You don't see it as much anymore because everything is live,
• 19:58
  Speaker 4: but when you were when we were making tapes and
• 20:00
  Speaker 4: it wasn't live where you know, the camera guy needs
• 20:03
  Speaker 4: a second to get us framed, to get the light
• 20:07
  Speaker 4: hitting where you need to hit because you're scunched up
• 20:09
  Speaker 4: on the red carpet like this. And then when it's
• 20:10
  Speaker 4: your time, the person who's at this show and the
• 20:13
  Speaker 4: person who's at this show sort of like exit the
• 20:15
  Speaker 4: scene so that you can have your moment with this star.
• 20:18
  Speaker 5: Right.
• 20:18
  Speaker 4: There is an art to this, yes, and so I'm
• 20:22
  Speaker 4: taking the moment to like give my camera guy a
• 20:24
  Speaker 4: second to get his shot in. And I said to
• 20:28
  Speaker 4: Jake Jillenhall, if you don't win an Oscar for this role,
• 20:32
  Speaker 4: you should definitely win an Oscar for that neck tattoo
• 20:34
  Speaker 4: because it is so dead sexy. Because in the movie
• 20:37
  Speaker 4: he has this, it was Prisoners. He has a huge
• 20:39
  Speaker 4: spiderweb neck tattoo.
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: And I love it too, That's what I'm saying, La La.
• 20:44
  Speaker 4: And I was like, oh my god, like he's so hot,
• 20:47
  Speaker 4: and what man doesn't want to hear that they are
• 20:50
  Speaker 4: the sexiest man. But I think it was looking back
• 20:53
  Speaker 4: on it, and he actually just was like, I'm good
• 20:56
  Speaker 4: on this interview and kind of like went to the.
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: Next shut up.
• 20:59
  Speaker 5: He dipped, Yeah, he dipped. He didn't like that.
• 21:01
  Speaker 4: And I understand now he was in this era where
• 21:04
  Speaker 4: he was just like a pretty boy and he's a
• 21:07
  Speaker 4: fabulous actor, yes, you know, but he was just sexiest man,
• 21:11
  Speaker 4: like hot Jake Dyllanhall, you know, and so he wanted
• 21:14
  Speaker 4: to be really taken seriously. And so I think that
• 21:17
  Speaker 4: like my playfulness came off as like this is going
• 21:20
  Speaker 4: to be one of those stupid interviews where this girl
• 21:22
  Speaker 4: flirts with me and she makes it all about me
• 21:24
  Speaker 4: being sexy, and like I it was a pretty serious
• 21:27
  Speaker 4: movie in a pretty serious role.
• 21:28
  Speaker 5: So my bad. But then for a while that.
• 21:31
  Speaker 4: Was my dinner party story when people are like, what's
• 21:33
  Speaker 4: the worst thing that's ever happened to you?
• 21:34
  Speaker 5: On the Red Creases ever?
• 21:35
  Speaker 4: Always asked, right, So that was my dinner party story.
• 21:38
  Speaker 4: But since then I've seen Jake. I've interviewed Jake. I
• 21:40
  Speaker 4: think he's lovely, he's very Does.
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: He remember that?
• 21:42
  Speaker 5: Probably not? Okay, I'm so in like I'm not important.
• 21:46
  Speaker 4: Do you remember every interviewer that when you do twenty
• 21:49
  Speaker 4: interviews at Bravo Khan no.
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: No act, it actually makes me nervous when they're like,
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: it's so great to see you again, and I'm like no,
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: But I'm also like, I.
• 21:59
  Speaker 5: Don't know this man.
• 22:00
  Speaker 3: Man.
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: No, I don't know this man.
• 22:01
  Speaker 5: I'm sorry to this man. I don't know who this
• 22:03
  Speaker 5: man is.
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: I don't And that's just I'm bad. I'm bad with
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: names and I'm bad with faces. But in that moment,
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: like if something like that happened to me, like you
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: immediately feel embarrassed and want to cry. Did you have
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: to conduct more interviews after he dipped out on you?
• 22:22
  Speaker 3: Well?
• 22:22
  Speaker 5: He I was just there to get him because he's
• 22:24
  Speaker 5: the big star.
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: Right, did and come back and tell and tell your boss?
• 22:28
  Speaker 5: That was pretty bad?
• 22:29
  Speaker 4: I mean I had to call and be like, we
• 22:30
  Speaker 4: have nothing from Jake, literally nothing.
• 22:33
  Speaker 5: It was pretty bad.
• 22:34
  Speaker 4: I mean, being an entertainment journalist is the most I mean,
• 22:38
  Speaker 4: people see us at the oscars, at the met Gala
• 22:41
  Speaker 4: on the red carpet with the biggest stars, and you're like,
• 22:43
  Speaker 4: oh my god, I want to be here. Like people
• 22:45
  Speaker 4: stop me all the time and they're like, oh my god,
• 22:47
  Speaker 4: I went to school for journalism.
• 22:48
  Speaker 5: I'm trying to be you.
• 22:49
  Speaker 4: And I was like, okay, just get ready for some
• 22:51
  Speaker 4: heartburn and some like gut punches, like probably the similar
• 22:54
  Speaker 4: way you feel after a reunion or after you film
• 22:58
  Speaker 4: something and you feel like kind of weird about it
• 22:59
  Speaker 4: and then you see it air and you're like, that's
• 23:01
  Speaker 4: not how I meant that. I am trying to be
• 23:03
  Speaker 4: a good person and this was taken like all of
• 23:06
  Speaker 4: that is a daily beast inside my gut.
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: That Okay.
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: As much as I hate that for you because I
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: know the feeling, it makes me really happy to hear that.
• 23:13
  Speaker 3: That's where people already.
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: Quote this is where misery loves company, or I'm a
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: stomach ulcer loves someone else with a stomach ulcer from stress.
• 23:23
  Speaker 4: But what I love is that in the past few years,
• 23:25
  Speaker 4: there has been a massive change in entertainment news from
• 23:28
  Speaker 4: I would say, like the Big five Ey News. I've
• 23:31
  Speaker 4: been there for two years. I've been the host to
• 23:33
  Speaker 4: B News for a year. It's the most positive work
• 23:35
  Speaker 4: environment ever and we are there to just champion Hollywood.
• 23:40
  Speaker 4: My two executive producers are both named John's, call them
• 23:42
  Speaker 4: the Johns. They are like, we're not here to ruin
• 23:45
  Speaker 4: anyone's life, Like even if we don't get as many
• 23:48
  Speaker 4: website clicks or if we don't get the ratings, Like,
• 23:51
  Speaker 4: let's not have you go out in the world and
• 23:53
  Speaker 4: be worried about where we're having dinner because someone might
• 23:55
  Speaker 4: hate you. You know, there's enough people doing that sort
• 23:58
  Speaker 4: of like sassy, you know, tearing people down Hollywood.
• 24:04
  Speaker 5: We're not that, and it's been the best.
• 24:06
  Speaker 4: Like I haven't had that gut feeling because I don't
• 24:09
  Speaker 4: say anything on the show or have to like grab
• 24:12
  Speaker 4: anything in an interview that I'm not comfortable with. Like
• 24:14
  Speaker 4: for a long time, La La people would always make
• 24:17
  Speaker 4: me ask women when they're having another baby, or if
• 24:19
  Speaker 4: they're having a baby, or is a baby next are you?
• 24:23
  Speaker 5: You know?
• 24:23
  Speaker 4: And I hated that because I had infertility. I just
• 24:27
  Speaker 4: had a hysterectomy. I have no uterus, so it was like,
• 24:30
  Speaker 4: oh my god, every time someone asked me that, it's
• 24:32
  Speaker 4: like the worst feeling on the world.
• 24:33
  Speaker 5: And here I am on the red carpet.
• 24:34
  Speaker 4: You're all dressed up, and you're like, so, now that
• 24:36
  Speaker 4: you're married, you're having a baby. I don't know what's
• 24:37
  Speaker 4: going on with this Woman's totally us, you know, And
• 24:40
  Speaker 4: he is like, don't we don't ask that anymore.
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: I am so thrilled to hear that. I obviously am
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: a mother of two babies. My biggest annoyance is when
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: people ask me I had broken up with my fiance,
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: and immediately everyone was down my throat about dating. And
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: although the two are not the same, because you know,
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: there are women, many women who have fertility issues or
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: they just cannot have a baby, and I think that
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: both of those things are super offensive. I take it
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: also when people say, are you planning on breastfeeding? It's like,
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: you don't even know if your baby's gonna take to
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: your boob and you're going to produce milk. So let
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: me ask you. You had a hysterect to me, how
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: long ago?
• 25:28
  Speaker 5: In March?
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: In March, so almost a year ago recently, Yeah, and
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: that was due to a condition you have.
• 25:36
  Speaker 4: And I have like a blood disorder where I was
• 25:38
  Speaker 4: living with like no good blood cells.
• 25:40
  Speaker 5: My blood cells are.
• 25:41
  Speaker 4: Small and having we got to a point where the
• 25:44
  Speaker 4: blood transfusions were not working and I was losing so
• 25:48
  Speaker 4: much blood in perimenopause menopause like that. They were like,
• 25:51
  Speaker 4: we just have to stop your period, and all the
• 25:53
  Speaker 4: other options for stopping your period it didn't work, id
• 25:56
  Speaker 4: or whatever. It's like, I couldn't do them because my
• 25:58
  Speaker 4: uterus was shaped weird, and so.
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: So did you before that. And I'm going to literally
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: do exactly what they tell.
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: You not to do anymore. Did you want children?
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: So?
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: Do you want children?
• 26:10
  Speaker 3: No?
• 26:11
  Speaker 4: I had made a decision pretty early in life that
• 26:14
  Speaker 4: I was not the mother. I was not meant to
• 26:18
  Speaker 4: be a mother. Okay, I grew up in a really
• 26:19
  Speaker 4: traumatic household. My brother is bipolar, and that is something
• 26:25
  Speaker 4: that is passed down genetically and to me, I love
• 26:30
  Speaker 4: him and he is my best friend.
• 26:31
  Speaker 5: But it is a full time job.
• 26:33
  Speaker 4: If anyone has anyone in their family that struggles for
• 26:36
  Speaker 4: mental illness, it's a full time job to keep that
• 26:37
  Speaker 4: person alive. And I love them so much, and I
• 26:40
  Speaker 4: just felt like my energy was going to be better
• 26:43
  Speaker 4: spent keeping him safe and happy and then being the
• 26:47
  Speaker 4: cool aunt to everybody else.
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: I love it, and I'm so amazing.
• 26:51
  Speaker 4: Yeah, and I'm the friend, and so I knew, And
• 26:53
  Speaker 4: I've lived far away my my family's in Canada. I
• 26:56
  Speaker 4: live far away from everyone. I had a pregnancy in
• 26:58
  Speaker 4: twenty fifty or sixteen that I miscarried, and so when
• 27:02
  Speaker 4: that happened, I was kind of like, oh, I guess
• 27:05
  Speaker 4: maybe I you know, like it was, oh, I love
• 27:07
  Speaker 4: my husband. So it was always like, if it happens,
• 27:09
  Speaker 4: that would be great. But then when the hysterectomy came up,
• 27:12
  Speaker 4: I was like, I'm good with, like what's happening, you know.
• 27:16
  Speaker 4: But also I do think that all moms need that
• 27:19
  Speaker 4: friend that is still living a non momed life that
• 27:22
  Speaker 4: they can like come into like come into my world
• 27:25
  Speaker 4: for a day and hour and just remember what.
• 27:28
  Speaker 5: It's like to be in a house without toys and dirt.
• 27:30
  Speaker 4: I you know, just remember that like crate and barrel,
• 27:34
  Speaker 4: white like vase that you really love that like we
• 27:37
  Speaker 4: don't have anymore because there's crayon on it.
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: Your beautiful walls are going to be ruined, your beautiful.
• 27:44
  Speaker 5: Cloud couch is no more la la chery.
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: And I also look to my friends who are not
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: they're not moms, and I love if they're not a
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: mom and also not in a relationship, because I'm like,
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: fuck yeah it is.
• 27:58
  Speaker 2: On twenty yeah, like I'm so proud of her. Fucking joke.
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: Next year, like one night stand, no.
• 28:06
  Speaker 3: One becomes that we're not doing.
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: You said your family's been Canada, and I read that
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: you're from Edmonton, and.
• 28:15
  Speaker 5: I have to tell you, no, you've been.
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: I've been to Edmonton.
• 28:18
  Speaker 5: She went to Cowboys, she went to step In with
• 28:20
  Speaker 5: a hot man.
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: That No, is that a bar? Is it kind of
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: nightclubsh it's a nightclub? Okay. So I did an appearance here, yes,
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: with James Kennedy.
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: Okay, And if you remember season seven when everything there
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: was a reunion that took place, I was finally sober
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: and James were.
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: Everyone was going back and.
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: Forth about James cheating on Raquel, and I said, I
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: saw you with a boob in your mouth in Canada.
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: That's where we were, Edmonton.
• 28:52
  Speaker 4: And you know what, Edmonton has some good boobies because
• 28:54
  Speaker 4: it's like a full it's a very like Edmund Alberta
• 28:58
  Speaker 4: get killed for saying this, but Alberta is like the
• 29:00
  Speaker 4: Texas of Canada a little bit, like it's oil and
• 29:05
  Speaker 4: like they.
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: Got some well you know what, like corn fed boys.
• 29:09
  Speaker 5: It's very like.
• 29:11
  Speaker 4: The everyone plays growing up, everyone plays hockey, so like everyone,
• 29:16
  Speaker 4: all the men have like big juicy butts and big thighs.
• 29:19
  Speaker 5: It's just like a different kind of man that exists
• 29:21
  Speaker 5: in La.
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: I'm like, these men, it's just called the man.
• 29:24
  Speaker 3: Where are those are men?
• 29:27
  Speaker 5: Those are men?
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: No, that's like the type of guy that I'm looking for.
• 29:31
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you need like just you need like a Montana
• 29:33
  Speaker 4: boy without the douchery.
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: Yes, or what I mean.
• 29:36
  Speaker 3: I didn't even know that it was hand in hand.
• 29:38
  Speaker 4: The Montana boys they are no, oh.
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: It's she's dated cavalry.
• 29:44
  Speaker 4: They're like these really hot home bread wrangler wearing big
• 29:49
  Speaker 4: thighed like hot men that love trucks, beers and women,
• 29:53
  Speaker 4: and they like do lip syncing. But like it's kind
• 29:55
  Speaker 4: of douchey. But you the version of that that like
• 29:58
  Speaker 4: owns an app and a private jet. I know you're
• 30:02
  Speaker 4: probably over your private jet life. You're like, never again,
• 30:05
  Speaker 4: I'm not looking for that.
• 30:06
  Speaker 2: But they exist, they do exist.
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: But I look at my life and I'm like, Okay,
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: I've lived a really really cool life. I've experienced things
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: that not many people experience. And even though those experiences
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: are different. Now I have a level of independence that
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: I never thought I would have. You have that level
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: of independence. And I'm watching Brounwin. Are you watching Sally
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: of course get the four million dollar necklace? And I'm
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: watching it all happen, and I'm like, still not worth it,
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: Still not worth it.
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: You don't have to say anything.
• 30:41
  Speaker 4: I will say heavy is the head that wears the crown?
• 30:45
  Speaker 3: Wait?
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: Is that what ad Lisa vander Pump saying her?
• 30:48
  Speaker 5: Is that what she did she say that?
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: No? Oh no, she said the crown is heavy.
• 30:52
  Speaker 5: Dolly, Yeah, the Crown's heavy. Leave it it belongs listen.
• 30:55
  Speaker 5: I think I think.
• 30:58
  Speaker 4: Bronwyn, by the Way, is fantastic addition to some Lake
• 31:02
  Speaker 4: City obsessed so ridiculous, the house, the dog poop on
• 31:06
  Speaker 4: the floor, the outfits, the like everything about it.
• 31:10
  Speaker 5: I'm you know, I'm Alisa Barlow Stan.
• 31:13
  Speaker 4: So it's a little hard because they're at war, but
• 31:15
  Speaker 4: next year they'll be best for you.
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: Are you a Sheena Shee Stan?
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: Because I feel like Lisa Barlow and Sheena she are
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: very similar.
• 31:23
  Speaker 5: They are.
• 31:25
  Speaker 4: I mean, I have a soft spot in my heart
• 31:28
  Speaker 4: for the pick me energy of Sheena, And I mean
• 31:31
  Speaker 4: that with love because I have the same energy. Like
• 31:34
  Speaker 4: I I like someone that's not afraid to be like
• 31:38
  Speaker 4: I really wanted this for myself, Like I know people
• 31:40
  Speaker 4: always draggon on her, like she wanted Dancing with the Stars.
• 31:42
  Speaker 3: She's everything that everybody else wants to see.
• 31:45
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I like, I'm the same way where I'm like, no, no,
• 31:48
  Speaker 4: I want to be on the Best Dress List like
• 31:51
  Speaker 4: I want like I want to be. I keep saying
• 31:53
  Speaker 4: I want to be on Dancing with the Stars. Now
• 31:55
  Speaker 4: I'm over that, and now I want to be on
• 31:56
  Speaker 4: the Traders, which would be amazing. I'm not no one's
• 31:58
  Speaker 4: gonna ask me, but like I like someone that's like
• 32:01
  Speaker 4: I want these things for myself. I'm I'm mad at
• 32:03
  Speaker 4: you trade. It would be an amazing Trader one. Oh
• 32:08
  Speaker 4: my god, I would be incredible. But you need, you
• 32:10
  Speaker 4: need what, you need time off to go do it.
• 32:12
  Speaker 4: You go film for like a month or something.
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: They take your phones and and and I've talked about
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: this before. I was asked to be part of season
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: two and they're now on to season three, but I
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: was still in my custody situation, which I'm I'm still
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: in now.
• 32:27
  Speaker 2: But it was like very in fresh.
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: It was fresh, and I'm like, so you're this is
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: a show that you're gonna send me to Scotland I
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: believe is where they filmed and take my phone and I.
• 32:38
  Speaker 5: Was like, I just what's the right thing?
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: The timing is so off?
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: And then that show does win an Emmy and I'm like,
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: are you fucking kidding?
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: You could have put that in my bio.
• 32:47
  Speaker 5: I know, but you wouldn't have gotten that one?
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: Why because that's.
• 32:50
  Speaker 5: Not like that's a best show.
• 32:51
  Speaker 3: Yea.
• 32:52
  Speaker 4: I don't think the cast gets it. I think it's
• 32:54
  Speaker 4: like exec for that kind of show, reality competition.
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: We wouldn't have gotten one for vander pump Roles either,
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: they told us, And so I was going to go
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: to a trophy shop and just how they.
• 33:02
  Speaker 5: Didn't put you guys on the list.
• 33:04
  Speaker 3: It was for production, wasn't it.
• 33:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like only the like producer would get one.
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: But I truly would have gone and had one made
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: and spent four million dollars one hundred percent not four million,
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: but yet a few thousand.
• 33:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure.
• 33:17
  Speaker 4: I listen, I think I am in a very I
• 33:22
  Speaker 4: love my husband so much. We just celebrated, like fifteen
• 33:24
  Speaker 4: years together, more marriage. He's it and we came. When
• 33:30
  Speaker 4: I met him, he was an assistant for music manager
• 33:32
  Speaker 4: here in Hollywood, and I was like a bait. I
• 33:34
  Speaker 4: had a little baby, Live Nation Digital show. And so
• 33:36
  Speaker 4: we've grown together in our lives. We both had nothing.
• 33:39
  Speaker 4: We got married in our friend's backyard, like we had
• 33:41
  Speaker 4: no money for a wedding, and and we've grown.
• 33:43
  Speaker 5: Together to be you know, very successful.
• 33:47
  Speaker 4: Not four million dollar diamond necklace brown when successful, but
• 33:50
  Speaker 4: like we're successful, we're happy. We don't like we don't
• 33:53
  Speaker 4: want for anything. We're healthy, Like we're happy. We have
• 33:56
  Speaker 4: a beautiful house. Like, so we're we're very very happy
• 34:00
  Speaker 4: be And I think that that is something to aspire to.
• 34:05
  Speaker 4: I think that Hollywood and media in general, they give
• 34:09
  Speaker 4: you this like, oh, it's your anniversary, you should be
• 34:11
  Speaker 4: getting a four million dollar thing or these big things
• 34:14
  Speaker 4: are Yeah, the only thing that money really gives you
• 34:17
  Speaker 4: is ease. It's easier, it's easier to fly in first class,
• 34:21
  Speaker 4: you get to board the plane first Like it's essentially
• 34:23
  Speaker 4: that it's easier to be rich. It's easier to go
• 34:26
  Speaker 4: on vacation, it's easier to provide for your family. There's
• 34:28
  Speaker 4: you know, less worries, but it doesn't feed your soul
• 34:31
  Speaker 4: and it doesn't make your life all of a sudden
• 34:34
  Speaker 4: like not have problems.
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: In my opinion, well yes, I mean I think if
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: you're an unhappy person, uh like, obviously, if you have money,
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: you don't worry about the bills being paid and keeping
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: the lights on. And before I knew that my person
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: didn't have money, I lived, like I said, of a
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: really beautiful life. And you know, my ring was gorgeous
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: and it was said to be Spencer, although it wasn't
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: that at the time. And I'm like, Okay, this is
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: not making me happy. And I always thought that all
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: of these things I wanted to have when I would
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: sit on the couch in Utah and watch like the
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: Fabulous and Rich Lives and it was like, uh, that
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: guy with the accent, he was like.
• 35:17
  Speaker 2: They would bold their private.
• 35:19
  Speaker 5: Yet and famous yes.
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: And he would say, how's that for sweet?
• 35:24
  Speaker 5: Yeah?
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: So I thought, I'm going to have all of these
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: things and that is going to make me happy.
• 35:30
  Speaker 2: And let me tell you something, I'm like, I'm.
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: The most miserable I have ever been. I can barely
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: get out of bed once I moved into this like
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: little apartment.
• 35:42
  Speaker 2: Although I had stress because of the custody battle.
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: I was like, I feel so All I want to
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: do is feel safe with my pod people that I
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: can trust. And I hope one day I find a
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: situation like you have with us.
• 35:57
  Speaker 4: When I find a situation, when I find situation in
• 36:00
  Speaker 4: a great really but I.
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: Say if, yeah, okay, when I find that, and I
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: don't need to get married and I don't need to
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: have babies with this person, like I just want forever companionship.
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: We don't need to sign a document like you said,
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: you've been with your man for fifteen years. That's a
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: very very long time and that should be celebrated. But
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: I'm the type that wants quality time like I want
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: to celebrate. We don't give gifts anymore for the holidays.
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: We spoil Ocean and we'll spoil Sosa. But our big
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: thing is like, let's go on a trip and just
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: spend time together since we since we don't do that
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: on a regular basis, right we all live together. But
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: that resonates with me. You saying that all the things
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: you think are going to bring you happiness. We see
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: with braun Win this season she's got this four million
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: dollar necklace, and as we see the preview for what's
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: to come.
• 36:47
  Speaker 4: It's kind of like, uh, like you kind of just
• 36:50
  Speaker 4: you know, you kind of want that John Barlow that's
• 36:53
  Speaker 4: gonna look at you and be like you're absolutely insane.
• 36:57
  Speaker 5: But like, okay, let me look.
• 36:58
  Speaker 4: If there's a first class upgrade for this ninety minute flake,
• 37:01
  Speaker 4: because that's what makes Lisa happy. And I know that
• 37:03
  Speaker 4: what made her tick.
• 37:03
  Speaker 3: Like close, you're being so you're being.
• 37:06
  Speaker 4: So dumb, Lisa. This is the stupid like, but he's
• 37:08
  Speaker 4: not yelling at her. He knows who she is and
• 37:11
  Speaker 4: he loves her in spite of her flaws.
• 37:13
  Speaker 5: What a beautiful thing.
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: That is exactly what I want.
• 37:17
  Speaker 3: Very true. I didn't even pick up on that.
• 37:18
  Speaker 4: Like he's like ride or die. I am so stupid.
• 37:21
  Speaker 4: I cry you guys, let me tell you something. Okay,
• 37:24
  Speaker 4: this is a good Hollywood story for the Hollywood fans.
• 37:27
  Speaker 4: So a few years ago I created a show called
• 37:29
  Speaker 4: super Fan. It was a competition show that got bought
• 37:32
  Speaker 4: by CBS.
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: No big deal, No, that's insane.
• 37:35
  Speaker 5: It was the biggest it came.
• 37:38
  Speaker 4: It came from my brain into a PowerPoint, into a
• 37:41
  Speaker 4: pitch it took five years to get on the air.
• 37:44
  Speaker 4: And in the middle of that five years, there was
• 37:46
  Speaker 4: a time where I got a call from the big
• 37:48
  Speaker 4: Boss at CBS and they're like, we're not we're not
• 37:50
  Speaker 4: going to green light this. Like we love it, but
• 37:52
  Speaker 4: like it's just not the right time.
• 37:54
  Speaker 5: What did I do. I sat in my basement.
• 37:57
  Speaker 4: Drank two bottles of Pino grigio and yelled at my
• 38:00
  Speaker 4: He's like, Babe, you have so much to be thankful for.
• 38:03
  Speaker 5: Look at us, You're the host of this show, you
• 38:05
  Speaker 5: have this, you have this. And I just went but
• 38:07
  Speaker 5: I wanted to be a stop, just.
• 38:12
  Speaker 4: Drunk, yelling that for six hours, wasted at my husband.
• 38:16
  Speaker 4: And you know what he did. He sat beside me,
• 38:18
  Speaker 4: sweet Chris night and was like, I.
• 38:21
  Speaker 5: Know, babe, I know this hurts. You're gonna be okay.
• 38:23
  Speaker 2: We love you. I get it.
• 38:24
  Speaker 5: No, I understand. This was your big break, this was
• 38:26
  Speaker 5: your Like he didn't. He wasn't like you're so stupid,
• 38:29
  Speaker 5: Like shut up, baby baby me. I just want to
• 38:32
  Speaker 5: be a baby bird sometime too.
• 38:34
  Speaker 2: What are you going to say?
• 38:35
  Speaker 6: Well, I was just gonna say, but that's the thing
• 38:37
  Speaker 6: is like, if I was with somebody, I didn't love
• 38:39
  Speaker 6: I'd be like this, but it's just crazy. What if she,
• 38:41
  Speaker 6: if I'm absolutely in love with her, I would just say,
• 38:44
  Speaker 6: just keep it coming, bab, just keep crying out.
• 38:46
  Speaker 5: No you need another bottle? Just throwing out. Do we
• 38:49
  Speaker 5: need to post ba car? Do you need a McDonald's
• 38:51
  Speaker 5: French trying to die coke?
• 38:52
  Speaker 4: Now?
• 38:52
  Speaker 5: Okay, let me get that out the house.
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 38:54
  Speaker 4: When I'm sad, Chris brings me home an ice cream cake,
• 38:56
  Speaker 4: like he just knows, and it's like it's not a burkin.
• 38:59
  Speaker 4: It's just that support of like being undying and knowing
• 39:03
  Speaker 4: that we're stupid. We're gonna say stupid things and we're
• 39:05
  Speaker 4: get emotional and we make no sense. But like, I'm
• 39:08
  Speaker 4: gonna love you in spite of them.
• 39:11
  Speaker 5: I can I tell you we're probably gonna break up
• 39:13
  Speaker 5: right after this?
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, you will absolutely not break up. Where's
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: Chris from.
• 39:18
  Speaker 5: He's from LA born and bred, which is why.
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: People who are born and raised in La there are
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: so different than people who are transplants.
• 39:29
  Speaker 4: Yeah, he has he is the he's impossible. So there's
• 39:34
  Speaker 4: a there's two other Chris Knights. There's one who's a
• 39:36
  Speaker 4: country singer. Okay, and then there's the one who was
• 39:39
  Speaker 4: on The Brady Bunch, Christopher Knight, and now sells out
• 39:42
  Speaker 4: to friend Sure, which I own the Christopher Knight collection
• 39:44
  Speaker 4: on Amazon.
• 39:45
  Speaker 5: Use that on your next Amazon Live blah blah. So
• 39:49
  Speaker 5: there's there's other Chris Knights.
• 39:50
  Speaker 4: And for a long time people would google like who
• 39:53
  Speaker 4: is Chris Knight? And then the country singer would come
• 39:55
  Speaker 4: up and people would be like, this is not what
• 39:56
  Speaker 4: I expected from you. This like five to four little
• 39:59
  Speaker 4: man to make it in music, And I was like, no, No,
• 40:01
  Speaker 4: Chris Night is almost impossible.
• 40:03
  Speaker 5: He is so private.
• 40:04
  Speaker 4: He had one of his artists on the cover of
• 40:07
  Speaker 4: Billboard magazine just a few months ago and refused to
• 40:10
  Speaker 4: be like it was a celebration of his career. He
• 40:13
  Speaker 4: will not and he would not let them interview him.
• 40:15
  Speaker 4: There's other people you want to know he wants.
• 40:17
  Speaker 3: He is no social media.
• 40:19
  Speaker 5: He will not allow I can post him like three
• 40:22
  Speaker 5: times a year with his full like he has to
• 40:24
  Speaker 5: be approved.
• 40:25
  Speaker 4: I could make so much more money if he would
• 40:27
  Speaker 4: be willing to do an Instagram ad with me, but
• 40:28
  Speaker 4: he won't. Like one time for Fabletics, I was like,
• 40:30
  Speaker 4: can you just be in the holiday campaign with me?
• 40:32
  Speaker 4: I'll just jump up and I'll say that we're both
• 40:33
  Speaker 4: wearing matching onesies.
• 40:34
  Speaker 2: He's like, fuck no, that's why it works.
• 40:37
  Speaker 4: But we are not public, like he does not want
• 40:40
  Speaker 4: to be a part of that at.
• 40:42
  Speaker 3: All, but that's why it works.
• 40:43
  Speaker 4: I feel I do feel like sometimes people are like
• 40:45
  Speaker 4: keeping up with the Joneses, being like, oh my god,
• 40:48
  Speaker 4: it's two point seven weeks with my best friend on
• 40:53
  Speaker 4: social media?
• 40:53
  Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean?
• 40:54
  Speaker 4: Like so much, honey bunny my best friend. And I
• 40:58
  Speaker 4: was like, I don't This feels like it's part of
• 41:01
  Speaker 4: the act. And I'm like, you need one thing in
• 41:03
  Speaker 4: your life that is so real children for you, Like right,
• 41:06
  Speaker 4: it's like you need something that is grounding you, where
• 41:10
  Speaker 4: especially people in LA and Hollywood, like you need something
• 41:12
  Speaker 4: that is just.
• 41:13
  Speaker 2: It's just yours. It's just yours that you go home to.
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: And I've had people ask me, would you ever pitch
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: a show about your family?
• 41:21
  Speaker 2: Number one? I don't even know.
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: I prefer to be a part of an ensemble cast
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: where the stakes are high, but they're not as high
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: as when you throw your family on there. And it's like,
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: my family is It's the one place where I can
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: come home, and I get to be just that's it.
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: I just get to be and Ocean doesn't get to film.
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: And it's almost a blessing because that it's the one
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: part of my life that no one gets to judge.
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: You don't get to have an opinion. I get to
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: be the mom that I want to be, and no
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: one's coming in from the sides. Kathy from Kentucky doesn't
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: get to tell me what I'm doing wrong, to make
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: me fucking second guess my parenting.
• 42:00
  Speaker 2: Like it is what it is. We'll fix it if
• 42:03
  Speaker 2: we have to.
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: I don't have to relive it or say, oh my god,
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: I should have never done that. You know, there's so
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: much of that that I really love that you have
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: your husband to go home to and just be.
• 42:14
  Speaker 4: He has no idea. He's like because Kelty Night, host
• 42:17
  Speaker 4: of B News, she's like glamour. She has her clip
• 42:19
  Speaker 4: and hair extensions, she has glam she has really fabulous
• 42:22
  Speaker 4: expensive clothes, and she's on the red carpet and she's
• 42:24
  Speaker 4: like going to dinner at Bird Street and like being
• 42:26
  Speaker 4: fancy and calling the paparazzi in herself like that kind
• 42:29
  Speaker 4: of thing. And then like Kelty, the real keilty is like,
• 42:32
  Speaker 4: I wear sweatpants, I love to read books. I like
• 42:34
  Speaker 4: to play canasta with my two best gay friends.
• 42:36
  Speaker 2: That's a hard fucking game.
• 42:38
  Speaker 5: It's so hard.
• 42:39
  Speaker 4: But like and I like to, like, you know, organize
• 42:41
  Speaker 4: closets on the weekend as like a stress relief.
• 42:43
  Speaker 5: Like I'm such a nerd.
• 42:44
  Speaker 2: You know, we look forward to you coming over and
• 42:46
  Speaker 2: doing that for us.
• 42:46
  Speaker 5: Yes, is the house a mess with the babies.
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: It's a lot.
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: I'm having my whole Okay, you're gonna love this. I'm
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: having my whole room redone. So I just moved into
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: this house.
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: And by the way, you saying that that, you know
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: people see you in your fabulous When when we got
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: you to say yes to this podcast, I was tripping balls.
• 43:05
  Speaker 2: I'm like, she's so fabulous. Her fashion sense is insane.
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: Oh my god.
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: She posted something on her socials with the Lady Gang
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: about shiplap walls.
• 43:14
  Speaker 2: I have shiplap walls. How do I get rid of
• 43:16
  Speaker 2: this by.
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: Tomorrow so that I can say that I also hate
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: shiplap walls.
• 43:23
  Speaker 5: Well, I love a shiplap wall. So we're good, La La.
• 43:26
  Speaker 4: Because this happened on Lady Gang TV Becatobe and my
• 43:28
  Speaker 4: co host this is our calling card of life I had.
• 43:32
  Speaker 4: We filmed that show in my house, which is like
• 43:35
  Speaker 4: the way you guys do that is like nightmare like.
• 43:36
  Speaker 4: It was just like having the almost people in your space.
• 43:40
  Speaker 4: So we filmed in the house and we were like
• 43:43
  Speaker 4: talking about Jennifer Lopez and what's the girl from Magnolia
• 43:50
  Speaker 4: Joanna Gaines. Okay, were filming a show together and they'd
• 43:52
  Speaker 4: been paparazzi and Joanna Gaines was on the beach in
• 43:54
  Speaker 4: like overalls and like a theory crew neck sweater being
• 43:57
  Speaker 4: like Joanna Gaines, and Jaylo was like in her jacket
• 43:59
  Speaker 4: for the wedding planner, being like looking at house like
• 44:02
  Speaker 4: it was such a stage thing. But anyway, so we
• 44:04
  Speaker 4: talk about that and then that's when Becca was like,
• 44:06
  Speaker 4: if I see another Joanna Gains shiplap wall, like I'm
• 44:09
  Speaker 4: gonna lose my life. And I literally had just that
• 44:13
  Speaker 4: week before finished my bathroom. So I stood up and
• 44:16
  Speaker 4: I walked and the camera follows me and I was like,
• 44:18
  Speaker 4: this is ship lap and She's like, I know, I
• 44:19
  Speaker 4: hate it.
• 44:20
  Speaker 5: I love a textured wall.
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: Okay, Well, it was.
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: BuzzFeed who had posted something this was like a month
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: ago about all the celebrity It was. No, it was homes,
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: things in homes that they never want to see again,
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: one of them being the bouclet fabriacd couches.
• 44:41
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 44:41
  Speaker 2: Another was the ship lap wall.
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: I have two in my house, yeah, one of which, no,
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: they're both in my fucking bedroom.
• 44:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: And I didn't realize. I was like, oh, what a
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: cute little accent wall. I didn't know it was ship lap.
• 44:53
  Speaker 2: I've got like Venetian plaster. Yeah, it's pretty to like
• 44:58
  Speaker 2: break up, just the white walls, just like a little
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: accent something. Are you thinking about removing it?
• 45:04
  Speaker 3: Wow?
• 45:04
  Speaker 5: I sold that house. Okay, Yeah, I.
• 45:07
  Speaker 4: Got a new, non ship lab house. But now I've
• 45:09
  Speaker 4: made a new mistake, which is I got duped by
• 45:12
  Speaker 4: anthropology into thinking I needed a funny wallpaper. Yeah, so
• 45:19
  Speaker 4: I got I got a little bathroom and I got
• 45:21
  Speaker 4: a wallpaper where it's like a slop smoking a.
• 45:23
  Speaker 5: Hookah, and it was I love it.
• 45:25
  Speaker 4: Six dollars a roll, another thousand dollars for the dude
• 45:28
  Speaker 4: to come in and put it in because I don't
• 45:30
  Speaker 4: trust myself with a wallpaper. And I'm just like, oh god,
• 45:34
  Speaker 4: I really got to do. I will do any trend
• 45:36
  Speaker 4: like I am. So anyway, I think you should leave
• 45:39
  Speaker 4: the ship lab. I think if you need to, you
• 45:41
  Speaker 4: could paint it like a really pretty like deep green
• 45:44
  Speaker 4: or something. So it's just like an accent wall with
• 45:47
  Speaker 4: wood instead.
• 45:47
  Speaker 5: Of the white. But I personally like it.
• 45:50
  Speaker 4: And I think you should wait to do anything to
• 45:53
  Speaker 4: your house until your children are older, because they are
• 45:55
  Speaker 4: going to ruin every everything.
• 45:57
  Speaker 2: I love that thank you children.
• 46:00
  Speaker 4: Wait just wait until like they discover, you know, a
• 46:03
  Speaker 4: sharpie on the mom's wall or whatever.
• 46:05
  Speaker 5: You know what I mean.
• 46:06
  Speaker 4: I would just wait, like the fact that you Venetian
• 46:09
  Speaker 4: plaster this expensive.
• 46:10
  Speaker 2: And like wow, I just know.
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: I just came into the house, loved it and was
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: wait it was done. It was done, Okay. I didn't
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: like I didn't pick the the any any of the stuff.
• 46:20
  Speaker 2: It came as is.
• 46:21
  Speaker 3: Ok.
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: But it'll be my first holiday in this house.
• 46:26
  Speaker 4: Are you're gonna go full balsam hill like trees in
• 46:29
  Speaker 4: every room.
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: So we spend we spent usually we spend Thanksgiving in
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: Palm Springs and we do Christmas there as well. But
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: we're leaving for Hawaii the day after Thanksgiving.
• 46:41
  Speaker 2: So the house in the valley is not deck to
• 46:44
  Speaker 2: the nines.
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: But I want to know, like, if your family's in Edmonton,
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: what do you do, Like, what is your celebration going
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: to be?
• 46:52
  Speaker 2: Like tomorrow? Are you cooking?
• 46:53
  Speaker 4: Okay, So this is the first year Highs and Lows
• 46:56
  Speaker 4: of Hollywood. I hosted the Thanksgiving Day Parade on CBS
• 47:01
  Speaker 4: for the last decade.
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: I wanted to ask you about it, and they got canceled.
• 47:05
  Speaker 4: The show is canceled. The show is canceled. Now there's
• 47:08
  Speaker 4: still a Thanksgiving Day parade. NBC does the Thanksgiving Day
• 47:11
  Speaker 4: Parade every year from Macy's where they do the store
• 47:14
  Speaker 4: fund and all the performances we did. I worked at
• 47:17
  Speaker 4: CBS for a long time, so we did like a
• 47:19
  Speaker 4: version of it Oprah on Fifth Avenue where we just
• 47:21
  Speaker 4: did the parade and then we went inside a lot
• 47:22
  Speaker 4: of the Broadway shows to see performances. That was like
• 47:25
  Speaker 4: a different version, but still millions of people watch it.
• 47:27
  Speaker 4: NBC was like the main one.
• 47:29
  Speaker 2: But yeah, and you said, that's the Macy's.
• 47:31
  Speaker 4: Macy's Day Parade on NBC is still happening. You can
• 47:33
  Speaker 4: still watch it. It's amazing, love NBC. What the much
• 47:38
  Speaker 4: effecta But the CBS one that I hosted for a
• 47:41
  Speaker 4: decade was canceled earlier this year, so I knew that
• 47:44
  Speaker 4: this Thanksgiving. For the first decade, I always did the
• 47:47
  Speaker 4: exact same thing. I went, I hosted the parade, I went,
• 47:49
  Speaker 4: had a nap, had a pasta, and then went saw
• 47:52
  Speaker 4: the rockets because I was a rocket in New York
• 47:55
  Speaker 4: in my twenties, a dancer, and so i'd see my
• 47:57
  Speaker 4: friends that are still in the rockets, which I don't
• 47:58
  Speaker 4: know how they're doing that, but anyway, and then I
• 48:00
  Speaker 4: would drink and then I would go home, like the
• 48:02
  Speaker 4: next day. So I never saw family, never did Thanksgiving.
• 48:05
  Speaker 4: This is the first year in ten years that I'm
• 48:07
  Speaker 4: going to my.
• 48:07
  Speaker 5: In laws tomorrow.
• 48:09
  Speaker 2: Is it?
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: Is it bittersweet because I'm I don't like change. I'm
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: a real freak about change. And once I get into
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: this routine of like every year, this is my plan, Yeah,
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: you throw me off, and I'm like tweaking out, right.
• 48:21
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't. I'm not happy about change. I'm mostly
• 48:24
  Speaker 4: not happy about like losing a job, right, you know
• 48:27
  Speaker 4: what I mean, Like this is what I do, and I'm.
• 48:30
  Speaker 5: Very passionate about live television.
• 48:32
  Speaker 4: I know this sounds very nervy, nerdy, but like I
• 48:36
  Speaker 4: there's nothing I love more than being live on television.
• 48:39
  Speaker 5: It is so fun. News is not taped live a lot.
• 48:42
  Speaker 2: I kind of like never know what's gonna happen.
• 48:44
  Speaker 4: Well, in the one year I saw the al Flack
• 48:47
  Speaker 4: duck or whatever and I accidentally said al fuck on
• 48:50
  Speaker 4: national television and then Howard Stern clipped it the next
• 48:53
  Speaker 4: morning and I was all over start. I never have
• 48:55
  Speaker 4: more calls in my life. They're like, I think they're
• 48:57
  Speaker 4: making fun of you because the parade, You're like, oh,
• 48:59
  Speaker 4: look the wind.
• 49:01
  Speaker 5: Look at the balloons, Like I don't know.
• 49:02
  Speaker 4: It's just so fabulous and campy and amazing. And I
• 49:05
  Speaker 4: just love being live on TV. Like I could just
• 49:07
  Speaker 4: talk for hours and hours and hours. You never know
• 49:09
  Speaker 4: what's gonna happen. All of a sudden, like the balloon
• 49:11
  Speaker 4: is crashing into the building, and it's like it's so fun.
• 49:14
  Speaker 5: It's like an adventure. It's so fun.
• 49:17
  Speaker 4: It reminds me of like back when I was a
• 49:18
  Speaker 4: dancer and doing shows, totally like that high of like.
• 49:22
  Speaker 5: Or it's happened. My tap shoe just flew off into
• 49:24
  Speaker 5: the audience.
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: But I'm still kicking, like you can embrace that. That
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: sends like so much stress upon.
• 49:32
  Speaker 3: My body because I love doing the live podcast.
• 49:34
  Speaker 2: I don't know what you're the main podcast.
• 49:37
  Speaker 3: I love it.
• 49:38
  Speaker 5: I love it.
• 49:39
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 49:39
  Speaker 5: It's just over well.
• 49:40
  Speaker 4: And I'm also like a nutbag for like timing. So
• 49:44
  Speaker 4: it's like it's such a good use of my time.
• 49:46
  Speaker 4: I'm making TV, it's going out live. When I finish,
• 49:48
  Speaker 4: I'm done, I'm paid. Like there's no you know what
• 49:51
  Speaker 4: I mean done, Like it's a good use of time.
• 49:53
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna start looking at it like that, it's it's done.
• 49:56
  Speaker 2: It's done, it's out.
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: I don't have to die here and worry about what
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: I said and then relive it.
• 50:01
  Speaker 5: It's done.
• 50:01
  Speaker 3: Did you like working Thanksgiving?
• 50:03
  Speaker 5: I loved working.
• 50:04
  Speaker 4: Things the same, but it's I'm Canadian, so it wasn't
• 50:06
  Speaker 4: Canadian Thanksgiving.
• 50:07
  Speaker 5: And also like I'm.
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: What is Canadian Thanksgiving?
• 50:10
  Speaker 4: It's like in October we break it up so we
• 50:12
  Speaker 4: have like more time for the holidays.
• 50:14
  Speaker 2: You guys got to figure it out.
• 50:15
  Speaker 3: Yeah, some time off.
• 50:16
  Speaker 4: But then for Christmas. I think the secret to our
• 50:20
  Speaker 4: marriage is we work so hard. I never see Chris.
• 50:24
  Speaker 4: I mean, he's always around the world. He just got
• 50:25
  Speaker 4: back from Switzerland. He goes to Vegas, like he's in Columbia,
• 50:29
  Speaker 4: he's in Vietnam, like he's all over the place with
• 50:32
  Speaker 4: his clients. But every Christmas we go on an insane,
• 50:35
  Speaker 4: life altering trip. So we did Jordan and Petra one
• 50:38
  Speaker 4: year and we hired a tour guide and hiked through
• 50:41
  Speaker 4: the hills of Petra. And like Jordan, We've done Seychelles,
• 50:46
  Speaker 4: we did Africa, We've done Prague, and.
• 50:49
  Speaker 2: And it'll always over Christmas.
• 50:50
  Speaker 4: Yeah, because that's the only time his clients go, like
• 50:54
  Speaker 4: do something as well.
• 50:54
  Speaker 5: Yeah, they want a vacation.
• 50:56
  Speaker 3: We have anything planned for this.
• 50:58
  Speaker 4: Yes, So this holiday season, I'm going on a dream trip.
• 51:00
  Speaker 4: I'm going to the Galopagos Silent. Yes, we got a
• 51:04
  Speaker 4: boat and so for seven days, Chris and I will
• 51:07
  Speaker 4: be on the water and we'll be finding the baby
• 51:09
  Speaker 4: sea lions, We'll be swimming with the dolphins, We'll be
• 51:12
  Speaker 4: seeing the penguins.
• 51:13
  Speaker 5: I will be deeply engaged in.
• 51:16
  Speaker 4: Charles Darwin Darwinism and so we're doing that and then
• 51:20
  Speaker 4: we're gonna go fly to Columbia. And we got a
• 51:23
  Speaker 4: little basket hut on the water.
• 51:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah, this is my dream jell this are you just
• 51:32
  Speaker 2: have a dog?
• 51:33
  Speaker 3: You I'm the cool uncle.
• 51:35
  Speaker 2: Do you tend to get off your phone when you
• 51:38
  Speaker 2: do things like that?
• 51:39
  Speaker 5: Bye? You will not see me. I don't exist.
• 51:42
  Speaker 3: You don't need to do any of that. I will.
• 51:45
  Speaker 5: I have if if.
• 51:46
  Speaker 4: I I try to schedule and I work my ass
• 51:49
  Speaker 4: off in the fall so that like December twentieth comes
• 51:51
  Speaker 4: and like I'm out. My husband has to have his
• 51:54
  Speaker 4: phone on for emergencies and stuff. But I know I
• 51:58
  Speaker 4: just am like no, I'm gone, Like you don't get me.
• 52:01
  Speaker 4: I turn my phone off. I bring journals. I we
• 52:03
  Speaker 4: do plot like Matt Plate's every day. I have a
• 52:07
  Speaker 4: like a we started this thing when we started doing
• 52:09
  Speaker 4: these trips, like a s.
• 52:11
  Speaker 5: We have a journal. You're here for Vanda Pump rules.
• 52:14
  Speaker 4: You've gotten Kelty's journal tips. So I have a journal
• 52:19
  Speaker 4: that's like our trip journal, and every time we go
• 52:21
  Speaker 4: on a trip, we take it and then we each
• 52:23
  Speaker 4: write every day about like what we experienced, and so
• 52:26
  Speaker 4: it's now, you know, fifteen years later, we have our
• 52:28
  Speaker 4: first trip we ever tip to blize. We have all
• 52:30
  Speaker 4: these trips we've gone in and like every day is recorded.
• 52:32
  Speaker 4: We each trade and write fun to go. Look, we
• 52:35
  Speaker 4: look back at it. He did Mount Everest base camp
• 52:37
  Speaker 4: without me, Thank god.
• 52:38
  Speaker 3: I don't want to.
• 52:39
  Speaker 5: He took the journal on that because it was such
• 52:40
  Speaker 5: a big trip.
• 52:41
  Speaker 4: So looking back to him, be like, I'm Monday sixteen.
• 52:43
  Speaker 4: I think I'm gonna dash. He was there a little bit,
• 52:46
  Speaker 4: but I was really happy for him, as like.
• 52:47
  Speaker 3: I'm happy for him too, But yeah, fuck that I would.
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: I would have been nervous to have my man go
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: and but at least if something happened, you'd have his journal.
• 52:56
  Speaker 5: I had the journal.
• 52:57
  Speaker 3: He didn't.
• 52:57
  Speaker 5: He had the journal. To you, They're like, we don't
• 53:01
  Speaker 5: take bodies off Everest. But I'd be like, but can
• 53:03
  Speaker 5: you go up and grab that journal.
• 53:04
  Speaker 3: I just need the journal.
• 53:05
  Speaker 2: But I love that you do the journals. That's actually
• 53:07
  Speaker 2: a genius.
• 53:08
  Speaker 4: I'm a big journal I had a journal I started
• 53:10
  Speaker 4: when I was eighteen years old.
• 53:12
  Speaker 5: I left home. I was a dancer, showgirl on cruise ships.
• 53:14
  Speaker 5: What's upsequent thongs?
• 53:17
  Speaker 4: And my best friend Jeff and I started journaling and
• 53:19
  Speaker 4: we have four editions now. It's my most pride possession.
• 53:22
  Speaker 4: It's like if the house is on fire, you grab
• 53:23
  Speaker 4: your children. I grab my journals.
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: Are they like beautiful journals that are like, uh no,
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: just anything.
• 53:29
  Speaker 4: I mean we now were like when we need a
• 53:30
  Speaker 4: new one, we think about, like what do we want
• 53:32
  Speaker 4: to spend the next four years writing in?
• 53:33
  Speaker 5: But it's just whatever.
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: I had a journal during my pregnancy with Ocean, and
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: you kept it up so I would write in it,
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: like I said, during my entire pregnancy and throughout the
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: first seven months of her life. Cut to my life
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: falling apart ends up very different. And I, unless I
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: go on to the internet, I have nothing of my
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: ex and I nothing nothing in my phone. I went
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: through this journal and any mention of him I just
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: redactateely scribbled out. So this journal is just like a
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: beauty lunch of Like you should pick it back.
• 54:10
  Speaker 4: Up, though, because it's going to be really important for
• 54:12
  Speaker 4: Ocean in fifteen years when she wants to know about it,
• 54:16
  Speaker 4: for her for you to be like, Okay, now I'm
• 54:19
  Speaker 4: a year or whatever later, here's where I'm at.
• 54:21
  Speaker 5: Here's the update.
• 54:23
  Speaker 4: We are thriving, you know what I mean, Like you
• 54:25
  Speaker 4: gotta like you gotta write the next chapter.
• 54:27
  Speaker 2: I do need to write the next chapter.
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: There are so many things that I want to do
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: in twenty twenty five where I look back and.
• 54:33
  Speaker 2: Go, okay, things took a shift. So twenty twenty five.
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: And I know you're all going to think I'm insane
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: because I've been reclaiming my life for three years now,
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: but it is I have had a hard time kind
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: of getting myself back up on my feet. Even though
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: the outside world may see me as a certain way.
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: When I go home it can become a little bit intense.
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: So for twenty twenty five, what is your what would
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: you like to change or take on?
• 54:59
  Speaker 4: Ooh, okay, this is really good. I also think just
• 55:03
  Speaker 4: in I just want to say this to you. It's
• 55:06
  Speaker 4: so important that you give yourself grace. Think you, because
• 55:11
  Speaker 4: grief is not a oh we give someone three weeks
• 55:14
  Speaker 4: to grieve the life they thought they had. Grief is
• 55:17
  Speaker 4: never ending. You will grieve this portion of your life
• 55:20
  Speaker 4: and what you went through for the rest of your life.
• 55:21
  Speaker 5: And that's you have to be.
• 55:23
  Speaker 4: I think open to the fact that it never goes away,
• 55:27
  Speaker 4: the heartbreak and the destruction of waking up and being like, oh,
• 55:31
  Speaker 4: nothing in my life is what I thought it was.
• 55:33
  Speaker 4: I got gas lip by my own life. I let
• 55:35
  Speaker 4: myself be gas lip by like that all of those
• 55:37
  Speaker 4: emotions they never go away. It just gets easier and
• 55:41
  Speaker 4: less like detrimental to your daily life, right, Like days
• 55:45
  Speaker 4: get easier, you're more together, you're you know, able to
• 55:47
  Speaker 4: get up without being like the dread of it all.
• 55:50
  Speaker 4: But like you're going to be thinking about this when
• 55:52
  Speaker 4: you're sixty five, Like there's no way it there's no
• 55:55
  Speaker 4: eraser for life unfortunately, So I'm sorry for that, but
• 55:58
  Speaker 4: like I'm excited for you for twenty twenty five because
• 56:00
  Speaker 4: you can reset totally. You can never erase, like it's
• 56:03
  Speaker 4: not the journal. You can't go in and redact life,
• 56:05
  Speaker 4: which is so hard.
• 56:07
  Speaker 2: I know.
• 56:07
  Speaker 4: I wish you could just be like I'm out bye,
• 56:09
  Speaker 4: you didn't exist, like.
• 56:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's nice, a little like men in black things yep.
• 56:13
  Speaker 4: Eraser, that would be great. It's not happening like that.
• 56:16
  Speaker 4: So you have to set your expectation that like it's
• 56:18
  Speaker 4: okay to want to scribble out someone's name, or it's
• 56:20
  Speaker 4: okay to have those days where you're like, oh, I'm
• 56:22
  Speaker 4: still putting it together three years later, Like that's just life,
• 56:25
  Speaker 4: you know, don't you think? I think so too, Like
• 56:27
  Speaker 4: it's like give yourself the expectation that like, I still
• 56:30
  Speaker 4: Jack and I own Lady Gang.
• 56:31
  Speaker 5: We have a Mutrux boyfriend. That's how we met. One
• 56:33
  Speaker 5: of my co hosts. I love this.
• 56:35
  Speaker 4: We still talk about him at our live shows to
• 56:38
  Speaker 4: this day. I dated him in two thousand and six, okay,
• 56:41
  Speaker 4: and she dated him in two thousand and five.
• 56:43
  Speaker 3: Get me, I.
• 56:44
  Speaker 4: Haven't talked to him in twenty years. We put up
• 56:46
  Speaker 4: photos at our live shows and we're like, where is he?
• 56:48
  Speaker 2: Now?
• 56:49
  Speaker 5: Here's the text message he was sending me. Here's the
• 56:51
  Speaker 5: text message he was sending you, Like, where is this man? Well,
• 56:54
  Speaker 5: he was.
• 56:55
  Speaker 4: He's a musician. He's off the internet. I think because
• 56:57
  Speaker 4: of us, I would be too, you know, but like yeah, so,
• 57:00
  Speaker 4: but like it never goes away, Like I still feel
• 57:02
  Speaker 4: so stupid. I let that man cheat on me for
• 57:04
  Speaker 4: so long, and I knew better, and I knew I
• 57:06
  Speaker 4: saw the red flag was red flagging, and I was
• 57:08
  Speaker 4: just like, no.
• 57:09
  Speaker 5: I love him. My little rock star is so fun. No,
• 57:11
  Speaker 5: it was not fun.
• 57:15
  Speaker 4: Okay, So for twenty twenty five, I haven't quite listed
• 57:19
  Speaker 4: down my manifestations yet, but I do believe in this wholeheartedly.
• 57:23
  Speaker 4: And I know this because I before I met Chris,
• 57:28
  Speaker 4: I was in this bad relationship for a long time
• 57:30
  Speaker 4: with my little rock star, and I got out of it,
• 57:32
  Speaker 4: and I was a very broken person. And my girlfriend
• 57:34
  Speaker 4: Emily made me put up a sign on my back,
• 57:37
  Speaker 4: like a huge poster board in my bathroom mirror, so
• 57:39
  Speaker 4: I had to like do my makeup over here, and
• 57:41
  Speaker 4: the sign was taking up the whole mirror and it
• 57:42
  Speaker 4: said it will take an exceptional man to be with me,
• 57:45
  Speaker 4: because I'm beyond extraordinary. And I looked at that every
• 57:49
  Speaker 4: day for two years. I literally looked at it every
• 57:52
  Speaker 4: day when I brush my teeth. And then I met
• 57:53
  Speaker 4: Chris Knight. I have been making manifestless. When I got
• 57:58
  Speaker 4: signed to my agency, I met William Morris. I went
• 58:01
  Speaker 4: into that meeting like a fucking loser with a poster
• 58:04
  Speaker 4: board and it literally had in color coded sharpie marker
• 58:08
  Speaker 4: all the things I was going to accomplish.
• 58:09
  Speaker 5: I have a photo of this.
• 58:11
  Speaker 4: It's literally like host national television show, brand deal with
• 58:14
  Speaker 4: TJ Max, New York Times bestseller, like it was the
• 58:18
  Speaker 4: most At this time. I was like a newbie. First agency.
• 58:22
  Speaker 4: Did none of this stuff could have been like people
• 58:24
  Speaker 4: have been like.
• 58:25
  Speaker 5: That's nice to meet you, so nice.
• 58:27
  Speaker 4: Yeah, they're like uh huh, inspiration to girls, Like it
• 58:30
  Speaker 4: was all clothing line. I look back at that board.
• 58:33
  Speaker 4: Every single thing on that board. We had a clothing
• 58:37
  Speaker 4: line with Express. We have a New York Times bestselling book.
• 58:39
  Speaker 4: I'm the host of E News, I do motivational speaking
• 58:42
  Speaker 4: for women. I'm doing a huge thing with Marshalls right
• 58:45
  Speaker 4: now where we have forty women and I'm being their
• 58:47
  Speaker 4: guru for a year. Like every single thing on that list.
• 58:50
  Speaker 4: So what you and I now every year do a
• 58:53
  Speaker 4: manifest list. We do a really good episode for Lady
• 58:56
  Speaker 4: Gang where I make everyone do it, and then I
• 58:58
  Speaker 4: put it up in three places in my life. In
• 59:00
  Speaker 4: my bathroom, it's in my office, and it's in my
• 59:01
  Speaker 4: work closet, and I look at it.
• 59:03
  Speaker 2: Every single day I'm doing it.
• 59:06
  Speaker 4: And some of those things don't come true and you've
• 59:08
  Speaker 4: got to move them over to the next year. Yeah,
• 59:10
  Speaker 4: but your mind, like pretending to be the person that
• 59:15
  Speaker 4: you want to become is the best way to become
• 59:18
  Speaker 4: that person. Like you just I put on that feeling
• 59:21
  Speaker 4: of like what will I feel like when I'm a
• 59:23
  Speaker 4: New York Times bestseller.
• 59:25
  Speaker 5: I'll hold my head higher.
• 59:26
  Speaker 4: I'll know that no one can fuck with me, like,
• 59:29
  Speaker 4: and I just become that person until it becomes true.
• 59:31
  Speaker 4: It's delusion, you know, But why not?
• 59:34
  Speaker 2: But why not?
• 59:35
  Speaker 5: But why not?
• 59:36
  Speaker 2: Why you just have to.
• 59:37
  Speaker 4: Get really real and really focus on like we're talking
• 59:41
  Speaker 4: Burke and Bigs, what do I want for wanting it?
• 59:43
  Speaker 5: And what do I really want?
• 59:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 59:45
  Speaker 4: So, like what do I want just because everyone says
• 59:48
  Speaker 4: I should want it? A big has, a fast car,
• 59:50
  Speaker 4: this career whatever, What do I really want in my
• 59:54
  Speaker 4: sole person deepest, Like what will professionally and personally, like
• 59:59
  Speaker 4: what do I really want? Like and you know, I
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 4: think one of the best pieces of advice that I
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 4: ever got when I look online and you're saying, like
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 4: you go in this deep seat of jealousy or not jealousy,
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 4: but like this scroll of like you were scrolling and.
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 5: We're seeing what everyone else has.
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 4: In order to have what Laala has, you have to
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 4: trade places with every aspect of her life.
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 5: So it's yeah, it.
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 4: Would be so fun to go to Bravocon and have
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 4: people chase me down the hallway because I'm so famous
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 4: and like, it would be so fun to be a
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 4: real guest. Don't watch What Happens Live and not the
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 4: bartender all of those things, Like I would love to
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 4: have those things that you have, but in order to
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 4: be Lalla, I would have to trade my life. I
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 4: want to be married to Chris. I would have gone
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 4: through through your trauma. I would be not having my
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 4: cloud couch anymore because I'd have messy kids. Like you know,
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 4: so when you look at someone and you see what.
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 2: They have, you have to take it off to take
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 2: it all.
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 4: So like Bronwyn, I would love to have a four
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 4: million dollar anniversary gift, but then I have to be
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 4: married to Todd.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: Right, you wanted to come from Chris. You just want
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: the net clift. I totally get it.
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 4: It's like you have to decide, like to want, just
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 4: to want, but like what do you want your whole
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 4: life to look like?
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean?
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 4: It's very important when you're manifesting to really think about, Okay,
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 4: what do I want? Just to want it like I
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 4: want to make this amount of money or whatever, but
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 4: like I want to make this amount of money because
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 4: I want.
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 2: To be able to to Because yeah, you just have.
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 4: To think, like I want to be in a place
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 4: for me. I want to be in a place where
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 4: I can buy a second home. For my family in
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 4: Mexico or somewhere warm because they my parents are elder,
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 4: my brother has his situation and they are fighting and
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 4: struggling through the winters in Canada. I would love to
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 4: have something for them to be in six months and Snowbird.
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 4: You know, that's a big goal for me. So I
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 4: want to make this amount of money because this is
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 4: what I want my life to be like, not because
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 4: I want to go buy four hundred Berkins.
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and I love this. At the end, I had
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: the best time with you. This was so much fun.
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: At the end of each episode, you do an ache
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: and relief.
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 5: Yep.
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 2: Would you like to start us off?
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 5: No, you go first?
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 2: Okay, Easton, all right, and go first.
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 6: I will start us off. So my ache, I'm taking
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 6: it back. I'm taking it back to the animals.
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: Take it back to the animals. Esen's is always an animal.
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: So I'll start us off while you find it all start.
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: My ache is that my daughter is just shy of
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: three months old, and I have a night nurse.
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 2: I have the luxury of having a night nurse. Do
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 2: you know what a night nurse is?
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: Okay, So she comes up to me and she says,
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: we need to get some stuff for your baby.
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 2: For Sosa.
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: She's teething and I said, come again, and she said
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 1: she's teething. I said, does that mean she's gonna have
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: full on teeth as like a baby bent newborn looking child,
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: And she said no, but she could get teeth much sooner.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: And I was like, she's been biting my nipples while
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 1: nurse saying the whole nine yards. And she's also starting
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: to roll over. That does not happen. She's a bionic baby.
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: And I'm sitting here and going this is going too fast.
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: I do not like this. Again, I don't like change.
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: So that is my ache. My relief is the fact
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: that I am taking my family to Hawaii and I
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 1: cannot wait to shut down and just live my best life.
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 2: We stay on the north Shore where it's like.
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: No one in sight, it's little bungalows. We stay in
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: a house that literally I feel like I'm in the
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: movie Blue Crush.
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 5: And I do like outfits and stuff or do you
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 5: just like.
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 2: I learned my lesson last year, I packed a giant suitcase.
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 2: It's two weeks.
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: We have a washer and dryer. I'm packing in a backpack.
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: I'm not a fashion girtly. I like comfort. I want
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: to be with my family and I want no one
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: and I also don't like social media. So it's like
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: I'll get a few things for content just to let
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: people know that I guess I'm alive. If they even care,
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: they may unfollow me once they figure out that I'm
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 1: still alive.
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 3: All good.
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 2: I just want to be So that is my relief,
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 2: all right? Do you have a relief?
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 3: Yes? Hawaii?
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 2: Amen?
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 3: Amen love that know nothing, a whole lot of spam
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 3: and rice?
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 2: Have you had spam and rice?
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 5: Why don't eat need?
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 6: Okay, you're definitely not sewed for you?
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 5: Yes, but it sounds good, sounds fine. I'm excited about that. Okay,
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 5: So what is ache? What is it?
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 2: Ache?
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: It could be anything. It could be you don't like
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: your nail color. No, not saying that you're now colors nails.
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 4: I'll tell you my ache. Wala is that I'm here today?
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 4: Well that hurts no, no, no, no no, I'm so happy
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 4: to be here. But on the way here, I got
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 4: a confirmation. Zerh's laughing. My assistant is here and normally
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 4: he does all my scheduling because I cannot schedule anything
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 4: I will mess it up. So on the way here,
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 4: I got a de era text from Kate Somerville's Skincare
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 4: and they were like, we are so excited to welcome
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 4: you for your BBL moxy laser treatment in thirty minutes.
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 5: And I was like, no, I thought it was tomorrow.
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 4: And I was already on the way to La La,
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 4: and I was like, God, damn it, Derek, I think
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 4: I'm sick.
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 5: We need to call Lala. I need to I really
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 5: needed this laser.
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 4: I needed this laser because the Thanksgiving break is happening.
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 5: It's the only time I have off TV to heal.
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 4: I had four and a half days to get this
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 4: face back together before the holidays.
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 5: Thank you, I'm gonna go tomorrow. They thank you, Kate Summerville.
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 5: They rescheduled by That's what we needed for you.
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 2: I love that we're your ape, is your a I would.
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 4: But I'm so happy to be here and thank you
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 4: for asking me, and so it's it's kind of my
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 4: relief too. But I'll tell you my relief is that
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 4: I I just want to be included at all times.
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 4: And so I was so excited because I got an
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 4: email yesterday that E live asked me to host their
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 4: Golden Globes red carpet covered incredible and so I've done
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 4: a bunch of E lives, but you never know, just
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 4: being the host to B News is not your shoe in.
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 4: It's a totally different company. So I wasn't sure if
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 4: they're gonna ask me. But I already had the dress
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 4: picked out in my mind.
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 5: I manifested.
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 4: And so to get the call to be like, you're
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 4: going to be at the Globes and I was like,
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 4: this is amazing, and so I'm gonna have the dress fitting.
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 4: I like to have the dress fitting before the holidays
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 4: and then I can just have my holidays. Come back,
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 4: get a spray tand get a manny petty on the carpet, boom,
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 4: a little water pill, get that extra suction in the
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 4: arm muscle.
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 5: Who I'll do it.
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 2: I love your ache and relief. That was so good
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 2: and congratulations. Yeah, you're all very happy for you. I
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 2: had the best time with you. You're like I could
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 2: talk to you for hours.
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 4: I know, I really feel like we had a kindred
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 4: moment you two. I'm actually coming to Hawaii with you guys,
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 4: so that'll be so fun.
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 2: Excellent. We have an extra room Frome one. Come all,
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 2: let's be a.
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 5: Cool ant room. Yeah exactly, Let's come to my room
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 5: and swear.
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you can hit his vapor there. Yeah. What do
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 2: you have going on?
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 4: Okay, so I'm so excited. I want to invite all
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 4: your listeners because I know they're vander Pump girlies. But
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 4: we have Lady Gang is embarking on something new. It's
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 4: called Lady World. It's a festival. It's like Coachella for ladies.
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 2: Amazing.
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 4: It's in Destin, Florida, September twenty six to twenty eight,
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 4: which I know is a year from now. But the
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 4: reason we did that is there's a payment plan. It's
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 4: very affordable. Starts at three hundred dollars for the weekend,
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 4: but there's a payment plan where you can sign up
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 4: now and then pay all year. But basically, it's three
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 4: days of fun on the beach. In the mornings, we
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 4: do like pilates on the beach, yogon the bleach, like
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 4: you know, hang out, pickleball, laser tag beads with Becca Crafts,
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 4: line painting, manifestation classes, like everything during the day and
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 4: then at night we have some of your favorite podcasts
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 4: comedians and music, so like on Friday Night you might
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 4: see Caitlin Bristow Stacy and then we have pop t
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 4: K which is like Chris Kirkpatrick from Ensinct, Mark McGrath LFO,
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 4: like doing a whole thing. And so Lady Gang is
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 4: performing and so justin Sylvester's coming Ariana will be there.
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 4: We have Laurence Speed and Cameron Hamilton from Love Is Blind.
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 4: I mean it's just going to be this like pop
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 4: culture weekend. But what's really super cool is there's a
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 4: gifting suite, Like you get to go in the gifting suite.
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 4: There's these little coves, food beverage on delivery. Like it's
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 4: just gonna be the ultimate girls weekend. It's fun friendships,
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 4: no pressure, no getting better, no detoks. It's just like
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 4: day drinking, beach pop culture. And so tickets are available
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 4: at Ladyworld dot co. And I would love to see
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 4: everyone there.
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 2: Yes, I literally made it.
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 5: You need a girl, We need to add you to
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 5: the lineup.
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 4: We need to sell maybe five hundred more tickets and
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 4: then we can open that budget up get some more Gurly.
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: No, I love this for you. Is there going to
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: be a space for the husbands? If someone wants to
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: bring a husband.
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 5: This is a great question.
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 4: So we have a husband hangout that is hosted by
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 4: my husband, Chris, Jack's husband, Jared, and Becka's husband, and
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 4: it's going to be like couches and sports and beers
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 4: and whiskey and like activities for them to do where
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 4: you can literally drop your husband off at daycare and
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 4: then do all your gurly things. Because here's the thing,
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 4: and this is what's crazy, same thing with your podcast.
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 4: The gurlies listen, but the men's are listening to they're
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 4: in the car driving around like we do lady ging
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 4: shows and people are like, I love you, I love you,
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 4: I know everything about you, and I'm like, but you're
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 4: the husband and boyfriends my wife. It's gonna be really
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 4: fun and then they'll come and watch the shows too,
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 4: because it's really going to be for everybody. We also
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 4: have a lot of solo ladies. We have a lot
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 4: of listeners coming by themselves. We just signed up our
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 4: one hundred and twenty fifth solo lady. So, like, if
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 4: you are in a city where you you know, or
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 4: you want to make new friends, I think making new friends.
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 5: As adults is so hard.
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 4: Sign up as a sol lady, We're gonna we're to
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 4: match you for your accommodations. We're gonna match you into
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 4: like your little seating coves. So we're gonna make you
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 4: new friends, like so the Chicago girlies would be together,
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 4: the Philly girls would be together, and you can walk
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 4: away with new best friends.
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 5: So yeah, it's really cool.
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 2: This is really amazing. I'm very very happy for you.
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 4: Everything I've ever wanted in like a girly summer summer camp.
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 4: Because as you know, when we get super busy and
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 4: overwhelmed in our lives, our girls' trips are less and less.
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 4: You know, it's like the bachelorettes and like the weddings
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 4: and like the birthday trips and stuff. They don't happen
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 4: the way they used to, like in our twenties and
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 4: early thirties. So I really just want to give everyone
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 4: an excuse to like have an organized, chaotic weekend.
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 2: So ladyworld dot Co amazing. We can't to come and
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 2: play with you.
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 5: Yes, let's go out gifting sweet.
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 3: I'll be with you, Chris.
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys, thank you so much for listening to
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: another episode of the Give That Lala Podcast.
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 2: I love you so much and I will catch you
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 2: next week. Bye.