How to Get Your Partner More Involved in Wedding Planning

The Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast · Jul 21, 2026 · 34m

REBROADCAST: Is your partner dragging their feet when it comes to wedding planning? Has your spouse-to-be barely lifted a finger while you've been drowning under a mountain of wedding tasks? Are you starting to grow resentful of having to do it all yourself?

I believe both partners should be 100% responsible for planning their own wedding. After all, it's a day for both of you, so both of you should put in the work. But that looks different in every relationship. What kind of involvement are you looking for from your fiance(e)? How do you have that conversation with them? What do you do if…