Latest / Inspiring Human Potential / Inspiring Human Potential Inner Growth 5D SEE Channeled Guidance Relationships Leo Season Special
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- 0:00Welcome, welcome to my lovely I, HP community.
- 0:04Some Leo season channeling for my 5D peeps as we've been
- 0:10discussing those of you who easily turn those frowns into
- 0:18smiles. So you have a very good
- 0:21relationship with all of the emotions.
- 0:24That's the 5D that pure consciousness, the unconsciously
- 0:28loving with flaws and imperfections is why we have a
- 0:31lovely playground with our lovely family and likes and
- 0:36dislikes. So relationships while the fear
- 0:41cycle, which is also a shame effectiveness.
- 0:47The part about remembering that it's a defense mechanism
- 0:52strategy from an infant and that equates heartbreak, gut wrench
- 0:56torn apart to keep that one in mind.
- 0:58Because as long as people are still in the Maya land, doesn't
- 1:02matter how much yoga they do, if they're still talking about
- 1:06humanity, without knowing that we evolved, we expand.
- 1:11So there's not bringing together human, spiritual and
- 1:13spirituality elements. If they don't bring all of the
- 1:15subject matters together, move into the optimized version
- 1:20common sense brain and that's again, we're all people, we're
- 1:24so we're all spiritual and spirituality processes.
- 1:27It's because we all are thinking and breathing individuals.
- 1:31Achieving integration of the mind is the equation that
- 1:34separates people from the Maya land and in those mindsets that
- 1:40would be of the adaptive child. And so the people who try to
- 1:44prove they're right and they make it about them, but really
- 1:47you'll notice the charge. So here's the perfect example.
- 1:51If you're an emotional, mature and secure person, that you have
- 1:55integration of the mind means that you also have
- 1:58differentiated self. So you think and feel however it
- 2:01is. And whether again the Lions can
- 2:03see here or not, it's indifferent no matter how old
- 2:08you are tuning in, this is something that that
- 2:12enlightenment. So it's accessible achievable,
- 2:15snap and done. Because it's about you and how
- 2:18you handle the emotional spectrum within your body which
- 2:23equates the energy body which equates though your nervous
- 2:26system. Because the first spot that your
- 2:29body will begin unconsciously to be active in a maladaptive slash
- 2:36safety behavior response to unresolved trauma to trauma
- 2:40memory. So charge States and or other
- 2:42aspects that were too much, too soon, too quick, so that we're
- 2:47sensations that overwhelmed your infant brain and body you.
- 2:53This can also take effect within the womb.
- 2:56The last trimester. Emotions are very important and
- 2:59it is connected to the chemistry.
- 3:02So when people ruminate that monkey brain they're in a
- 3:04biochemistry of fear. Our lovely psychoeducators give
- 3:08us many examples that I've shared with you over and over
- 3:10and over again. So we won't review that for my
- 3:12lovely regular community. If there's anybody new write me,
- 3:16I'll pinpoint an episode or do one for free and reiterate.
- 3:20And we always reiterate certain data points anyways.
- 3:23These are not data points that stay linear.
- 3:26They go round and round and then they also update based on what
- 3:29the trauma experts uncover. And anyways, everybody has
- 3:32different ways of connecting the dots.
- 3:34So the one important notice is if you have a window of
- 3:37tolerance when your body gets uncomfortable to the point where
- 3:40you're not able to live day-to-day happy.
- 3:45So you're not actually able to process emotions.
- 3:48And say, I want to go out, I want to meet people, I want to
- 3:50work with whatever. If there's social anxiety, it's
- 3:54you having the playground peeps to support you and you get to
- 3:59also process when they're addressing those aspects that
- 4:04would be considered flaws and imperfections.
- 4:06For those who don't have this type of situation, they don't
- 4:09know hypersensitivity to energy. They don't know being around
- 4:16energy in the same way. So this is where two different
- 4:19body types, at the very least, if not more, is definitely here.
- 4:24The functional adults knows how to welcome input from loved ones
- 4:29even when it's not liked, because a functional adult is an
- 4:32emotional, mature, differentiated self person.
- 4:35So they're not going to try and prove why somebody should
- 4:38understand them or think like they do or feel like they do,
- 4:41and they're not going to try to disprove they're not going to be
- 4:44in a competition with their loved ones because the loved
- 4:46ones are non differentiated, meaning they don't necessarily
- 4:50understand we're two separate people with two different
- 4:53bodies, two different brains. We process information
- 4:56differently, meaning our thoughts regarding our emotions
- 5:01because even though they're one and in the same, you're not
- 5:03going to notice it until you're the one who's able to be in that
- 5:08integrated mind and say, OK, here's my left mode, I'm
- 5:11speaking while I'm my right mode, the sensations that arise
- 5:15are taking this energetic spectrum sensation.
- 5:18So when that's a Vander Kok, when you can handle the
- 5:20sensations in your body, it's all good.
- 5:23If you can't, meaning it's overwhelming, that's when you
- 5:25want to seek a good psycho educator, neuroscience sensor,
- 5:30motor, I'd say somatic experiencing the people who help
- 5:33you to work with the body. Because once you're able to be
- 5:36comfortable with your container, these sensations, that's when
- 5:40you're going to be able to begin to use effectively.
- 5:43If you do any yoga, or if you do any whatever, it is meditation,
- 5:47because you're not going to just sit there in silence.
- 5:49You're going to understand that you sitting in silence is
- 5:51because you're getting to be familiar with your actual
- 5:54Physiology. And then when you're thinking,
- 5:57you're using your cortex and the breathing keeps your nervous
- 6:00system, that lovely spine, the embodied brain.
- 6:03So the spine all the way up to the brain at ease in your actual
- 6:07state of ease. But this is where the
- 6:10unconscious ways we will hold on to areas, the energy workers,
- 6:17some of them will call it blocks people who understand
- 6:21personality. And then the fact that it's
- 6:23related to a person and that they can look into it as a
- 6:26feeling, as a sensation. I don't call it a block.
- 6:30It's part of your journey. It's why you're a human being
- 6:33and the whole I'm a spiritual process.
- 6:35Living a human experience doesn't make any sense to help
- 6:38you get to the wholeness of you. It's better to say and
- 6:41understand this spiritual stuff. Your unresolved trauma is what
- 6:45gets to surface. And in fact, during Ascension
- 6:47peak moments, this is what happens.
- 6:50People who grow up emotionally are able to learn how to harness
- 6:54their emotions, handle them, and to find people in their
- 6:58playground doesn't mean they're all experiencing life the same
- 7:03way. Not.
- 7:03This is the point. My 5D Mystics No.
- 7:07Those of us were intuitives in a way that has us perceiving
- 7:13energy. Not all people have this, which
- 7:17is why they are not as understanding, but they also
- 7:24assume that it means you need additional support, which is an
- 7:28assumption based on I care that you're well and we discussed
- 7:32this. So right now we're moving closer
- 7:34and closer to that lovely 8A portal.
- 7:36Things are coming up for all of you now.
- 7:40The part about letting go, canceling people, this cancel
- 7:43culture is of adaptive children, part of you.
- 7:46Eliminating any human being from the face of your life means you
- 7:50have not moved into complete healing, which means awareness
- 7:54of the trauma of the overwhelming sensations.
- 7:57Some people, they actually sit and say, well, I'm not over it
- 8:03yet. Some people, they keep talking
- 8:06about how during a spirituality awakening, you're going to lose
- 8:09people. I mean, I saw this video of it
- 8:11explaining let's go look at it, why you lose people.
- 8:15It's a bullshit statement. You don't lose anyone unless
- 8:17you're the one who's letting them go because you don't care
- 8:19to have them in your life. It's a conscious choice to
- 8:22delete, quote, UN quote people from your life.
- 8:25The unconditionally loving with flaws and imperfections person.
- 8:29The functional adults. The integrated mind.
- 8:33The pure consciousness person. This is why until somebody talks
- 8:36to me only about the yoga, they did and they can't.
- 8:38Unconscious love, Compulsive individuals, Thieves, all of
- 8:41them. Alcoholics, every single one of
- 8:43the people On the face of this planet who needs compassion
- 8:46beyond reason and good psychoeducators because the
- 8:48compulsive is anybody who needs somebody that helps them to
- 8:51understand being a human. We got all these emotions.
- 8:54They begin within your again, reptilian nervous system, fight,
- 8:58flight, freeze. We still have those responses
- 9:01and we've moved into being with each other.
- 9:03And people use the yellow and red with each other versus the
- 9:06green because they don't actually recognize how to handle
- 9:10what comes up from the right brain stuff.
- 9:12So from your unresolved trauma as an infant moving into the
- 9:16adulthood, there's charge states.
- 9:18They call them parts. You don't have to call them We
- 9:19not we, it's you like said, Guru says.
- 9:22But it is different, as you can notice when you're teenagers
- 9:25around versus your one year old. If you just hone in a second on
- 9:29your personality because you'll know what you like, what you
- 9:32don't like, how you worry, how you don't worry, you'll know
- 9:35everything that you've been using to describe yourself.
- 9:37Now some people say I can't know myself.
- 9:39Well then if you cannot know yourself, a good psychoeducator,
- 9:43a good one with neuroscience. Again, since you motor somatics,
- 9:47let them help you, says the somatic experiencing that Peter
- 9:50Levine does, for example, That actually works with your body.
- 9:55And I'd say if there's one format that I find would support
- 9:59a person to quote UN quote, speed up, you can't speed up the
- 10:02process. But that will give you the human
- 10:04element, which then you can accompany the yoga, which is why
- 10:07that practitioner that does the 12 steps, she has a great combo.
- 10:11She's a somatic experiencing practitioner and yoga.
- 10:15I don't know if she does Ayurveda or something like that,
- 10:17but she brought together two of the most amazing tools and she
- 10:22can help people who want to move out of those maladaptive
- 10:25responses slash safety behaviors, the addictive
- 10:28behaviors with malad that which are maladaptive responses to the
- 10:31unresolved trauma. So the way people will sue
- 10:33themselves as they move into teenage and then adulthood,
- 10:37because they're not aware that the movies are bullshit and
- 10:40really the movies didn't know either.
- 10:41And they're probably going to still continue to make these
- 10:44movies. By the way, it's up to you to
- 10:46understand that self transformation is a KA
- 10:49spirituality process, that you, the person you are, is the
- 10:53emotion, and the emotion is that nervous system.
- 10:55So if you stay in yellow or red, your energy body is not in your
- 11:00peripheral view. The biochemistry of fear happens
- 11:03when you're ruminating, which is you in your temporal junction,
- 11:06not your prefrontal cortex thinking about things as that
- 11:09aid of swords. But it's not just an aid of
- 11:11swords. It's like an 8 with a nine and
- 11:14it's a 10. But there's no, oh, wait a
- 11:16minute, let me stop sitting here and ruminate.
- 11:18Let me actively do something that brings me to move out of.
- 11:24Now again, let me specify, this is if it brings you suffering.
- 11:28And people who ruminate, they actually have human suffering.
- 11:31That's why there's a difference between people who are in a fear
- 11:35cycle versus a love cycle. Let's be compassionate and
- 11:38remember the ones who fear their defectiveness.
- 11:43They will mirror it upon other people.
- 11:48So their feeling of unworthiness, their feeling of
- 11:50shame, they will say you should be ashamed of yourself, You
- 11:53should be blaming it. So they this is the part of
- 11:55where this person, I don't even know who they are.
- 11:58But awakening 101? Why You lose friends on a
- 12:01spiritual path? Not true.
- 12:02Again, you don't lose shit unless you're the one who's
- 12:05leaving somebody behind. And they write this list of
- 12:09blame, control, pleasure, growth, existence, and they have
- 12:13this air balloon. So you're a person if you don't
- 12:16know what it means to use your words, make friends, and then to
- 12:20work with the person you are. Honestly, I wouldn't consider
- 12:24myself intellectually anything. This is personal opinion right
- 12:27now because the reality is people love to talk a big talk
- 12:31and then they don't actually know how to implement it because
- 12:36they don't acknowledge that their emotions are driving them.
- 12:39Because this is the part. They don't feel the emotions as
- 12:41it's the energy. It's a charge.
- 12:43So let's use all these different beautiful words to let you in on
- 12:46a fun fact. Again, if you're not in green,
- 12:49meaning you don't want to be around people, it's because
- 12:51you're in a yellow or red, which means you're already in fight,
- 12:54flight or freeze, essentially. Attached.
- 12:56Cry, collapse, admit, please appease.
- 12:57Essentially, you're in a safety, behavior, adaptive child
- 13:00response in your Physiology. So you're going to be charged
- 13:03and ready for battle, quote UN quote, when you're conversing,
- 13:06which is why it's not an easygoing, pleasant, expansive
- 13:09conversation. So people who blame control,
- 13:11pleasure, growth, it's they're all beneath the neutrality belt.
- 13:15There's no 5D, it's barely 3D, and it doesn't mean that you're
- 13:19doing a 3D life. It means you're in emotions that
- 13:22are of blind lions and deaf ones too.
- 13:24So the part that is to be taken into consideration is that if
- 13:31people move away from you, that's because they don't want
- 13:34to be around you. We choose how we handle
- 13:40ourselves. We also choose to understand if
- 13:44some people are upset. That's the part of likes and
- 13:47mislikes. None of us are perfect.
- 13:48So friends, loved ones will be upset at different types of ways
- 13:55of meeting or not meeting those expectations, dealing with the
- 13:59unknown uncertainty unwanted from within while going with the
- 14:03flow. It's basic inner growth mindset
- 14:07and it's basic human 101 in the opinion of an enlightenment.
- 14:11So age of person who seriously it's like OK Purusha Prakriti,
- 14:15you've known it your entire life.
- 14:16If you're a love cycle person because you have fun with
- 14:18people, you don't actually feel upset because you understand
- 14:24humanity is evolving. So the ones who hone in on
- 14:29different stories, they are in a land of Maya and they might stay
- 14:35there. It's not a big deal, their state
- 14:37of consciousness that has a focus, their focus is going to
- 14:41bring to light certain things. The people who live the
- 14:43biochemistry of fear are the people who ignore their own
- 14:46spiritual process, AKA their own body, and to bring their body to
- 14:50restorative embodied self experience.
- 14:52That would be the people who think that it's OK to stay in
- 14:55sympathetic because if you go to restorative then you must not be
- 14:59doing anything. This was presented to my
- 15:01somatics professor who looked at this person like Oh my shit no
- 15:05no no. As soon as this person was like,
- 15:06well we can't move into restorative.
- 15:08We have to stay in sympathetic and the person's like, wait a
- 15:12minute, wait a minute, you don't know what you're saying.
- 15:14Modulated person. And this is where they went on
- 15:18to explain how quote, UN quote, angry Buddhist and quote UN
- 15:21quote. Because none of us have to be
- 15:23Buddhist in order to learn how to master our energy charge
- 15:27nervous system. I raised my hand.
- 15:28I ain't a Buddhist. I know about Buddhist lifestyle.
- 15:30I know about yoga. I did yoga things to sad guru.
- 15:33They need yoga to learn how to use my ventral legal state.
- 15:36I Simply put, chose left in my head when people would be quite
- 15:41unpleasantly unpleasant and I didn't be like, oh, they all
- 15:46hate me. No, the the that might have
- 15:48happened like as a teenager, maybe once that I was like a
- 15:51whiner. And then I'm like, what am I
- 15:53saying? This doesn't make sense.
- 15:54Obviously we're not meant to be around each other.
- 15:57That's all. It's okay.
- 15:58There's a lot of different people out there.
- 16:00So grown-ups don't have something called If you don't
- 16:04like me, you have to like me, it's called They don't Like You.
- 16:09So here's the difference between those who have fear, cycle,
- 16:14unworthiness, defectiveness, shame.
- 16:16They don't like me, so they begin with the crying, inner
- 16:20critic and the blaming of themselves.
- 16:22They're not going to be able to stay there very long because
- 16:24your body and your brain aren't going to be against you.
- 16:26You're it's like you are the person.
- 16:28This is the part that always makes me laugh.
- 16:30People don't realize that they are human experience first and
- 16:34foremost because you won't understand shit about your
- 16:36spiritual stuff if you don't know your person has an ego.
- 16:39Your ego is not going to go against you.
- 16:41You can only crap on yourself so much before your body's going to
- 16:44say fuck this shit. And it is natural and I've
- 16:47always seen it as normal. Why would your Why would you go
- 16:50against yourself? This is ridiculous, why you
- 16:53can't. Even people who have tried This
- 16:55is why they isolate this defectiveness shame when it
- 16:58doesn't dissolve. A person isolates because they
- 17:01crap on themselves. That greatest mistake becomes
- 17:03their identity. People who say I will live with
- 17:06regret for the rest of my life don't want to move into.
- 17:10I'm going to take my big boy, big girl, big day pants, and I'm
- 17:14going to face these big, big emotions.
- 17:16They're called emotions for reason.
- 17:18I'm a person and I have a heart and it wants to love.
- 17:23And if only people would realize it's that simple.
- 17:25But then there is this attachment system and that
- 17:28system when it's not in a secure space.
- 17:32So person who's not their own safe haven, secure base is not
- 17:35going to be nurturing. They're in a world in a healthy
- 17:39way. And here we have those addictive
- 17:41behaviors. Maladaptive responses, slash
- 17:44safety responses. It's self soothing.
- 17:46Excuse me. Responses to unresolved trauma.
- 17:49Let me go drink, let me go eat food.
- 17:51Let me go have sex. Let me go distract myself.
- 17:53Let me go to the monkey, the doll, the butterfly brain.
- 17:56The one siphoned only one thing. Work, work, work, work, work.
- 18:00That's it. And there is so much only that.
- 18:04Plus the enamored with your own light.
- 18:06OK, so we have all these different groups of people I
- 18:09channel for my lovely 5D, my 5D are people who want to become
- 18:14yourself, the human self that you are.
- 18:17Your personality traits? Awesome.
- 18:19They're going to stay awesome. Going to still have flaws and
- 18:21imperfections for your loved ones.
- 18:23This is the playground that we play in.
- 18:25People who want to focus on humanity and crap on humanity.
- 18:30They will consistently be limited in how much they will
- 18:33achieve. It's not good or bad.
- 18:37It's their choice to disregard their rigid body because they
- 18:41think that being in sympathetic, that's self righteousness.
- 18:44They're going to twist it. And that is one of those reasons
- 18:48why people like us. We don't have a emotion of oh
- 18:55wow, I want to be in that group. They think that when you're
- 18:59saying all of us as a life are valued and matter, they think it
- 19:04means how dare you say somebody's special?
- 19:08No, they need to be a piece of shit.
- 19:10And I'm not. And literally there's a bunch of
- 19:13other things that I'm not even going to bother going into
- 19:16because they want to also talk about how much they are anointed
- 19:20and love people. And you know, if you're talking
- 19:23about Energy Vampire still and Dark Yoga's excuse me?
- 19:27And Dark Auras, even though I'm sure that there is the people
- 19:30who also believe in those areas of dark magic.
- 19:35Because one, there's a lot of different types of videos out
- 19:38there. I just recently saw one from
- 19:40said guru, and I'm wondering, how many years ago did you do
- 19:43this? And then I'm wondering, of
- 19:46course people are going to continue to believe that things
- 19:49can harm them. If, you know, we got gurus
- 19:52talking about how somebody can look at your picture and then
- 19:57change your energy by intent now.
- 20:02I mean, if you believe in it, yes.
- 20:03And that's why the 4D plane keeps themselves in a bandwidth
- 20:07where they believe in this type of stuff. 5D person sees
- 20:11something like that understands the what the guru's talking
- 20:13about and says, OK, that's interesting.
- 20:15I'm pretty sure any person can take hold of their energy body,
- 20:18meaning nobody can actually with intent do anything to me.
- 20:22It's my nervous system and my brain.
- 20:23You need to come near me to physically affect me.
- 20:26The minute you understand what the sphere of energy is, which
- 20:30is in the imagination and is the minute that you either say yes,
- 20:34walking underneath the ladder is going to bring me bad luck or
- 20:36not. The way your mind thinks.
- 20:38Everybody loves to say karma, or they love to do the whole.
- 20:43If you think it, it'll come, the spell work, whatever they call
- 20:46it. So every thought you think,
- 20:48there you go. And lo and behold, when people
- 20:51are in rumination, they're not really thinking about that.
- 20:54So the reality is, if somebody were to take a picture, here's
- 20:58what my thought immediately was, that's going to come back and do
- 21:02to them, not to another person. The other person depends.
- 21:05If they believe, then that's a different story.
- 21:08So when you perceive people that are your loved ones, let's talk
- 21:12about it as a person who is a Mystic.
- 21:15Let me read a minute Sad Guru Yoga is about aligning oneself
- 21:19with the cosmic geometry through this alignment, boundless
- 21:22energy, intelligence, and well-being arise.
- 21:25Let's also remember how our lovely Sad Guru mentions love.
- 21:32It means being willing to nurture another life beyond
- 21:35opinions and prejudice, and also the one about whether you call
- 21:42it a stone, a tree, an animal, a man, a demon or the divine,
- 21:48everything is the same energy manifesting itself in a million
- 21:50different ways. OK, as long as people actually
- 21:56don't understand that. If you believe somebody has ill
- 22:01intentions towards you, then you even fuel it.
- 22:05Your entire focus is in an area not only of dislike.
- 22:10You are creating a scenario which is unfortunate because
- 22:15that scenario plays out versus what an adult person will be
- 22:22able to do, and here's why. Dealing with the unknown,
- 22:25uncertainty and unwanted is always going to equate human 101
- 22:28existentialism. Once you're beyond this idea
- 22:32that mysticism means you're supernatural and you relate it
- 22:35to energy. That's why again, when I see
- 22:37said gurus videos, one I know people are taking it taken out
- 22:41of context, whatever he's saying.
- 22:42And I also understand that he sheds light on different things,
- 22:46so he's going to bring in this and that.
- 22:48We do the same. the Enlightenment.
- 22:49So age group, it's any person who's accessed their complete
- 22:53oneness because the integrated mind is not sitting only with
- 22:56the left mode on. We're using both.
- 22:59We understand conversations with the being able to sit with A and
- 23:04B. That's why, again, the listeners
- 23:06of I, HP Content will not be people who need to hear only
- 23:10logic. This why we're pseudoscience,
- 23:12food for thought. The channel guidance is for
- 23:14those of you who have a playground, not a training
- 23:16ground. The training ground people, they
- 23:18don't like playground people. They're the ones who stay away
- 23:21because when they see us, they can't actively have us get into
- 23:26an upset state with humanity. So they'll bring to us whatever
- 23:30it is that upsets them. As you move into maturity, you
- 23:34learn how to speak more and more with softness.
- 23:38People that don't want compassion, you know what they
- 23:41say to people like me when they are actually down and in the
- 23:44shithole? Don't give me compassion.
- 23:48I don't need compassion. I don't need tenderness.
- 23:52I want a fix. I want an action.
- 23:56They are helpless and hopeless. This is the unworthiness shame
- 24:00cycle that people do not really realize.
- 24:02So addictive behavior to what? I'm a poor person who nobody
- 24:06loves and nobody helps. And I'm always alone and I'm
- 24:08always facing my horrible da da da da da.
- 24:11Because here's where their family is Not only not a
- 24:13training ground, their family are their enemies.
- 24:17So the part about you only hurt the ones you love.
- 24:19You've heard me share with you this song that I had in my hat
- 24:22as a teenager from Elvis. But the way that I looked at it
- 24:25was, well, who better than your loved ones to teach you how to
- 24:29handle the unknown, unexpected, and unwanted of life?
- 24:32They will always have your best interests, even if it doesn't
- 24:36look like they do. And so pure consciousness is
- 24:39never tricked into separation consciousness because you
- 24:42maintain Purusha Prakriti with your loved ones.
- 24:46The human elements help you, the psychoeducators, if you're
- 24:50listening to when they talk to you about unresolved trauma.
- 24:54And that means not with the adaptive child modulated body,
- 24:57which is instead with people when they're learning about
- 24:59trauma. Do ah, I am a person who is
- 25:02someone who suffers from this, this, this and this.
- 25:05You must leave me alone. And if you speak any word
- 25:08against it, you are an insensitive asshole or wow, how
- 25:13could you take sides? So all these conversations, all
- 25:17adaptive children, you can put them all in my land.
- 25:19No matter how much yoga they're doing, they have no clue what
- 25:23they're speaking. They don't hear what the words
- 25:25of wisdom are because they're twisting it in a battlefield
- 25:29where they're the good anointed. And even if they were to say I'm
- 25:33not, it doesn't matter because they're not going to be around
- 25:36the people out in the open. They're going to be somewhere
- 25:39with unfortunate fanatics, because only fanatics lock
- 25:43themselves up and start to use, you know, again, culture in
- 25:47certain places hasn't moved places, but others it has.
- 25:51Only see any individual who's sitting doing specific things,
- 25:56which I have not seen because I don't partake.
- 25:59And when people have talked to me about these aspects of this
- 26:04dark or black magic, I don't know which one.
- 26:07There's many to voodoo and this doll and stuff like that.
- 26:11I'm like OK, the only person who can allow this to actually
- 26:14affect them is the person itself.
- 26:17So when I for example have been told by people that there is
- 26:23potential for aspects taking place within my loved ones
- 26:28sphere, it made me very sad. And here's what a wise person
- 26:33will know, though, because this is, again, a choice, how you
- 26:37look at things. We will know that energy is
- 26:39energy. We will know that intents are
- 26:42intense. We will know that people do what
- 26:44they do because they think they're doing something that is
- 26:46beneficial to them. We will also know that if people
- 26:49want to be upset at someone else and take actual hypothetical
- 26:55action. Because, see, as long as you're
- 26:56not in my face with a gun, that's the part of life that
- 27:01knows what life is, Is not going to be concerned with somebody
- 27:03with a picture, somebody with a little magic wand, somebody with
- 27:07a little spellification. They mean and they cannot do
- 27:10anything to you. You need to believe that
- 27:12somebody could have control over your mind and your body, which a
- 27:175D person will not, because there's no way in hell that
- 27:20somebody with their little imagination can do something.
- 27:24The point is this. You take ownership of your life
- 27:27as a person, the ones who believe that supernatural is
- 27:30what this energy sphere is. That's why they believe that
- 27:33people can have certain things. It's their choice to believe it.
- 27:37So they don't work to transmute and move beyond this fear and
- 27:41this illusion, this idea that other people can actually do you
- 27:44harm. People in the 40 plane, they
- 27:49actually have the opportunity to move into restorative embodied
- 27:52cells when they begin to have their clears activated, because
- 27:57there's an entire community of 4D Mystics and whatnot.
- 28:01There is an entire community who believes that karmics and people
- 28:04can do, again, spell work and whatnot.
- 28:07This is where it's at and why there are leaders for those
- 28:11groups of people. But for the basic human 101
- 28:16enlightenment, so aged person, you will know, Mystic or not,
- 28:19that this is BS because your body will say so.
- 28:22Because your brain will say so. So if you see a person who cut
- 28:26their arm off because they gave it to the gods of whatever,
- 28:29you're going to think of stories from the history geographic
- 28:33channel, whatever and what we learned about our ancestors and
- 28:36you're going to be like wow, OKI didn't realize that in our globe
- 28:40we still have people that believe in certain things and
- 28:44I'm a Mystic. Go figure.
- 28:46OK. The part of knowing the
- 28:49neuroscience explains how our brain works optimized and that
- 28:53it equates these beautiful experiences that we can have,
- 28:58but that also the part of our charge and when there's more
- 29:01energies around. So again some of you are
- 29:04learning to work with that and that can integrate and or
- 29:08include one's own unresolved trauma because again trauma too
- 29:11much, too soon, too fast. It is about the fear, and it is
- 29:15natural for our bodies to fear the unknown.
- 29:18So there is a natural predisposition for the ones of
- 29:22you who have the relationship with the sphere of energy to
- 29:25feel agitated, and that's where the sensation is hyper for
- 29:30reason. You can learn to harness it and
- 29:33release it, but it's by using different methodologies that
- 29:38work for you. It's not based on what other
- 29:40people think or not think you should do.
- 29:41The window of tolerance is your cue.
- 29:44So when people again have refused compassion, it's an
- 29:46indication that they are not ready to meet their one year old
- 29:50with compassion, so they feel shame.
- 29:53Unworthiness, defectiveness, and whether it's inner critic or
- 29:55outer critic doesn't matter. They twist the whole thing on
- 29:59life, people, the system, everything.
- 30:02It's fucking shit. And even if they don't say it
- 30:04that way, their body is in a rigid mode because their brains
- 30:07in a rigid mode and they're not aware of being in my land.
- 30:10You can't speak to blind enough mind and they can roar all they
- 30:15want. You'll notice they're roar
- 30:17because they usually will run away and repeat the same cycles
- 30:23because the fear based ones will repeat this cycle of the
- 30:29biochemistry of again rumination and rumination is what keeps
- 30:36them locked in this systematic feeling and the systematic
- 30:41thinking. It is very unfortunate for a 5D
- 30:48Mystic to and and just a person who understands the unresolved
- 30:54trauma component and that's because the people who work
- 30:58within the realm of the psychoeducators.
- 31:01They actually try very much to share with practitioners updated
- 31:06information and with the individuals who use your
- 31:11diagnosis and or just people who keep on referring to life in
- 31:16certain ways. So they they do their best.
- 31:18All people that are aware of how we are a life that can expand
- 31:23will do their best to support each other to move into that
- 31:29version of life that we all can have.
- 31:32So realizing when people are in a lower toroidal field, they're
- 31:36clinging on to the rumination, to the running away and to the
- 31:41disengaging from life and isolating.
- 31:44It's something that really is sad because it's not necessary
- 31:49and you have this life. I mean, for as much as people
- 31:52want to keep on talking about, there's no time.
- 31:54This is the point. If you're a person who
- 31:56understands there is no time you got 24 hours, are you going to
- 32:00spend it, you know, trying to run away from people you love
- 32:07because you don't know how to work with the emotional plane
- 32:11because you don't know how to talk to someone but also you
- 32:16don't know how to be compassionate towards yourself.
- 32:18Here's where the adaptive child with the ability to be able and
- 32:24sit in resentment and then to twist everything in this way.
- 32:28It's sad too. 4D3D The blind lines, the blind and deaf, the
- 32:34non disciples. These are the yoga people or the
- 32:37psychoeducators who speak of people like that and say oh
- 32:41that's evil. No, it's a person who's locked
- 32:44in a neurobiology of resentment for reasons.
- 32:47It's not an evil person, it's a human being and you're
- 32:50forgetting everything for the psychoeducators that you
- 32:52apparently learned if you did for the yoga.
- 32:54No, they don't learn anything. They just learn how to ignore
- 32:57the psychology stuff. And they use mindsets.
- 33:00Monkey Doll Butterfly 1 siphoned and then enamored with yourself.
- 33:04But if you can't recognize that, that's a human being's way of
- 33:07protecting. So here's why Maladapt the
- 33:10responses to unresolved trauma. It's a safety behavior response
- 33:13for the infant. The words are important.
- 33:16The people who don't want to have them, they don't have
- 33:18compassion towards their one year old.
- 33:20They're still pissed off because they still feel helpless in
- 33:22their body. And so the minute that you
- 33:25remotely give them a way to be able to move out of it, their
- 33:27one year old is remembering the longing to feel safe, to feel
- 33:31seen, to feel secure, to feel that everything's going to be
- 33:36all right. And this is the part.
- 33:39This is the moment that there's a person there who could take
- 33:43note of that and instead of twisting and saying it's people,
- 33:48it's life. Wow, Wait a minute.
- 33:51I'm a social being. So here's why the 5D educators
- 33:54are the most awesome because they're presenting.
- 33:56We are mammals. We want to be together.
- 33:59Here's how your brain works. So now you know how the brain
- 34:01works. The yoga stuff, it's great, but
- 34:04it's not enough to get people within a spectrum of wanting to
- 34:09move into their infinite higher human consciousness.
- 34:12Potential experience. Not everybody wants this again.
- 34:15Not everybody will move into that enlightenment.
- 34:17So age group and everybody is interested in cultivating all of
- 34:20their relationships. That's why they're okay with
- 34:22saying I'm going to let this person go.
- 34:24I'm going to cancel that person. I'm going to eliminate you
- 34:26because you're fucking shitty. All these words make a person
- 34:30who is in Purusha Prakriti sad from our heart.
- 34:35Like, really sad. Not a little sad.
- 34:37Like really sad. Because you know what we're
- 34:39thinking? That one year old.
- 34:40That's connected to this pureness, which has no name, no
- 34:44entity, even though for me it began with the name God, but
- 34:47it's the essence of life. And then I see said Guru.
- 34:51He's doing a great job, but I see all these people with these
- 34:54mantles like he says, But he, you know, everybody has their
- 34:58journey, their purpose. For me, I've always been
- 35:00passionate about being a person, so it only makes sense that I'm
- 35:04able to integrate everything and say here, here's the
- 35:08psychoeducation and the neuroscience You're special,
- 35:11just like anybody else. You just need to see it.
- 35:13If you twist your nose for those who want to hear, it's because
- 35:16you got a defectiveness shame button.
- 35:18You're not dissolving. It doesn't have to be hard.
- 35:21Looking yourself in the face shouldn't be hard, which it is.
- 35:24Instead, for those who have insecure attachment because they
- 35:27have attachment wounds, they have trauma means they didn't
- 35:30get held in a safe environment. Their nervous system only knows
- 35:34this regulations. Of course.
- 35:35When it meets a ventral vagal nervous system, it's going to
- 35:38freak the fuck out in one way, shape, or form.
- 35:41It does not have the knowingness of consistent contingent
- 35:46communication. It only knows how to run away.
- 35:49It only knows how to be afraid or angry.
- 35:52Or it only knows one spectrum of life.
- 35:56And that's why we have each other.
- 36:01So for us the love cycle people again we can have in the
- 36:05hypersensitive we have the opposite.
- 36:07That's our dislike. When somebody might be making a
- 36:10big deal out of something that is fear based.
- 36:13Cuz we'll roar with fear. We're not ashamed of it.
- 36:17People don't accept that easily. Again, the whole social anxiety
- 36:21thing, even though I don't use words, for example, for me it's
- 36:24not that it's really the atmosphere, but I don't have to
- 36:27specify. So using me as an example, when
- 36:30I'm my IBS in the peak of it, people wanted to try to tell me
- 36:34how to handle it. Leave me the fuck alone and go
- 36:36away. I will handle it, how I will
- 36:39feel at my most comfortable. And you don't need to agree with
- 36:41me. Nobody asks you to agree with
- 36:43me, but there's a difference within the knowledge Bank of a
- 36:48love cycle person is that those people are saying this because
- 36:51it creates a unhappiness in them for you not to go with them.
- 36:56Now this is where people who are adaptive children twisted.
- 36:59That's selfish. A functional adult will say
- 37:03we're all selfish. This is why selflessness,
- 37:05timelessness, effortlessness, and richness is all that
- 37:09accompanies a pure consciousness person.
- 37:12So when you know that life is brief, you want to spend every
- 37:14second with your loved ones. This is why it makes you sad to
- 37:16see that people actually run away from love.
- 37:20You don't chase people down if they're afraid of love, but
- 37:23you're not going to say, oh, let me give up on love because
- 37:25somebody doesn't actually want to be loved.
- 37:28The saddest part for any person who is awakened to the truth of
- 37:34being pure consciousness. And so again, it's not
- 37:37supernatural, these players channeling the ability to be
- 37:40connected this way. It's us as a person who's in an
- 37:44optimized brain of a human being.
- 37:47It's an embodied brain, and that means you learned how to
- 37:49navigate your ventral legal nervous system and to disengage
- 37:53from yellow or red. You learned how to become a
- 37:55mature, emotionally speaking and mentally speaking adults.
- 37:58Who doesn't use the mouth to say let me shame, blame, fault, or
- 38:01avenge you or ignore. Wow, why am I feeling this way
- 38:05despite this thing? What am I doing now is am I
- 38:07still a teenager? Why would I twist my nose at
- 38:10being myself? Why would I not be curious?
- 38:13So for the love cycle people, I'm going to say in my opinion
- 38:16it's way easier to be over here because when I have fear and I
- 38:19get uncomfortable, I don't feel shame.
- 38:21I just understand that I'm afraid and uncomfortable and
- 38:26that it's okay. And I reassure my own body all
- 38:30by myself because this is the part where it's considered to be
- 38:34hypersensitive, which it is. This is the other part, being
- 38:38able to be objective, which doesn't change anything, because
- 38:42who's the master of your body and brain?
- 38:44Who's the one who works with your energetic body?
- 38:47The energetic body and plane is your emotional body and plane.
- 38:50As long as you've not mastered how to be in equanimity and in
- 38:53your playground with likes and dislikes and always shapes or
- 38:56forms, you will run away from the greatest opportunity that
- 39:01life presents you with your loved ones.
- 39:03This is why it's sad for us to see people who stay in modulated
- 39:07bodies, They call their family narcissists toxic.
- 39:10They use these cancel culture words, the people who use the
- 39:14words advocates, and then they're not actually advocating
- 39:17for humanity, they're advocating for one side or another.
- 39:20But this is where they all are doing a journey.
- 39:23So when people start to speak up, what is the adaptive child
- 39:25doing? You're starting to gain power
- 39:28and control, which is why, as the Yoga lady mentions the Big
- 39:31P, the Big C because they know about my land being your mind
- 39:37and it isn't though something you want to or should hand over.
- 39:41Meaning. Understand that we will
- 39:43consistently, your body and brain will consistently want you
- 39:47to handle the unknown uncertainty and unwanted as long
- 39:50as you're passing the the baton and it means you're not
- 39:54accepting. It's normal and OK to be afraid
- 39:58because see, sadness is a big emotion, but beyond sadness will
- 40:02consistently be the fact that we know that we live and we know
- 40:06that we die. And you knowing this as a human
- 40:08being makes the difference. So when people are just doing
- 40:12the spirituality stuff, they're not considering the farthest
- 40:16spectrum that they can move into.
- 40:19That is the selflessness, timelessness, effortlessness and
- 40:23richness from within their own body.
- 40:26And on that note, let me read to you something from Sad Guru.
- 40:30So here's this is something I'm not sure what they're
- 40:33supporting, but time, The word kala means time, darkness or
- 40:38emptiness. This physical existence is
- 40:40happening in the lap of a larger non existence, which you could
- 40:44call space in English. In India we call this dimension
- 40:47kala darkness. We use the same word to describe
- 40:50darkness, time and space because they are one the aspects of this
- 40:57time, the aspect of darkness. When you see people who move
- 41:03away from being with their loved ones, you understand that they
- 41:07didn't really understand the concept.
- 41:09But this is where to human mind, I understand why nobody's put it
- 41:13into context for them. So if you are not able to see
- 41:21the beauty within your own flaws and imperfections and those of
- 41:24your loved ones, you will not be able to see the beauty in your
- 41:28unique personalities with an emotional maturity.
- 41:33People who get pissy because we don't understand each other are
- 41:36people who continue to not move out of the adaptive child and
- 41:42they stay within that Carmel view and they do the same every
- 41:45year. And so right now again, it's a
- 41:48very important time and some people, they will repeat their
- 41:53same story. This doesn't mean they go
- 41:56backwards, they don't go forward.
- 41:58They've consistently and if they consistently choose to remain
- 42:01within that story, they will remain as such.
- 42:04So when you're refusing compassion, you're accepting
- 42:07rigidity of the mind and you're accepting the chaos, which means
- 42:10the unresolved trauma. So it means you'll play out that
- 42:13one year old, 3 year old, five year old without knowing it.
- 42:16Because your energetic body is nowhere in your peripheral view,
- 42:19nor is your mental, your mentals on a little wheel, whether it be
- 42:24the monkey, the butterfly, the doll, the siphon one, or
- 42:27enamored with yourself. The part about not speaking
- 42:31one's truth. There's no expansion of your
- 42:33throat chakra. There's no expansion of your
- 42:36Gurusha Prakriti because you've not actually said I'm not going
- 42:39to run away this time. I'm not going to disregard
- 42:42resentment, spite, fear. I'm not going to, you know, sit
- 42:46and say I'm going to regret forever or I'm not going to just
- 42:48allow this to be it. And I'm using different examples
- 42:54to say you choose this is my life, this is my 24 hours.
- 42:58I understand and you understand physiologically.
- 43:01It's your nervous system that's in the embodied brain that you
- 43:05use. Your left mode is the speaking,
- 43:08the right has the feelings. Structural dissociation is where
- 43:11you are going to be in a space where if you don't feel, I could
- 43:16talk all day long here, OK, If you don't have that all day
- 43:20long, I can do this all day long.
- 43:21You're not at ease and it's about not ignoring, obviously,
- 43:27if you don't feel at ease, if you don't feel what what's the
- 43:29deal? What's the what's the unease.
- 43:30So this is where people The reason it becomes challenging is
- 43:35because of ignoring the one year old that wanted to be seen to be
- 43:40safe to be sued. The seen sued safe secure.
- 43:44The expecting expectancy of contingent communication has a
- 43:48timely manner, so there has to be a certain amount of time.
- 43:51If it's inconsistent, and if it's like a long, long time,
- 43:54that's not going to make you feel safe or suit.
- 43:56And this is the equation that when people get into this
- 43:58modality, I'm always alone. I'm my best friend.
- 44:01Nobody else is there for me. Ever.
- 44:04This is rumination, and you see people consistently as grownups
- 44:09do this type of dialogue. I've heard plenty of them.
- 44:12Some do yoga, some don't, some do Reiki, some don't.
- 44:15It doesn't really matter. They all sound like teenagers to
- 44:17me and any person who doesn't recognize they're actually
- 44:22refusing to embrace life. That's why I bring in the
- 44:26psychoeducation. They're choosing to stay in a
- 44:29non differentiated self. So their thoughts and feelings
- 44:32depend on their loved ones and people around them, which is why
- 44:35it's a training ground. It ain't a training ground when
- 44:37they're carrying their own weights like the non disciples,
- 44:39No, whether it's the Zen master or two other non disciples or
- 44:42two other compulsive, they're arguing they're in a
- 44:44battlefield. So people who don't understand
- 44:48human beings, we evolve, and that means we learn how to be
- 44:51better as a species and that we were born ignorant.
- 44:55That we moved into thinking, we moved into all these spaces, and
- 44:58we still will keep doing it. Our brain keeps on evolving.
- 45:01Now people want to live with stories.
- 45:02Go for it. People want to live
- 45:04realistically. It's the human, spiritual and
- 45:07spirituality elements. So on our lovely 2023, finally
- 45:11there's enough of those who are in the middle.
- 45:14And right now I'm channeling and talking for my lovely Mystics.
- 45:17The intuitives we know. It's not supernatural,
- 45:21supernatural. It's an optimized human being's
- 45:24brain. Interpersonal neurobiology.
- 45:26If there's one course you could take, it's a long one.
- 45:28I'm still needing to finish it, but that one explains to you and
- 45:31Daniel Siegel even gives a compassion wheel to integrate
- 45:35the mind. Integration of the mind is the
- 45:37optimized version of a human being's brain.
- 45:39Does not mean fear goes away. Fear is part of our body
- 45:43structure, and we will still have it.
- 45:45You get to learn how to work with those charge states.
- 45:48So whether it's because you are in tune with energy around you
- 45:52or not, you are the one who works with yourself now.
- 45:55There's different people you can work with and that's where
- 45:57integrating the psycho educators.
- 46:00So good neuroscience, good somatic experiencing again is
- 46:04actually what I am rooting more for.
- 46:07Because they have your body and mind in the forefront that when
- 46:11you learn about semantic experiencing and semantics, they
- 46:14understand that there's a process for the dysregulated and
- 46:17modulated embodied self before they can potentially, you know,
- 46:20regain that restoring embodied self.
- 46:22Because the shame defectiveness is your zero to 1 year old.
- 46:25It's a very big overwhelming it's it's something that
- 46:30requires it's time, but the person needs to want to become
- 46:34their social human version. If they keep wanting to run away
- 46:38and hideaway, they're not choosing to become their social
- 46:422 year old. That can be fun, having fun in
- 46:45the playground. And that's because they say no
- 46:49to compassion. Oh, I don't want to be.
- 46:51I'm kind of shoe up because I don't want that.
- 46:54I want someone to fix this rigid mind and body feeling.
- 46:59The part they don't understand is that it's their embodied
- 47:02brain and that rigidity equates chaos.
- 47:05And that's equal to the addictive behaviors, which can
- 47:08be sex, drugs, alcohol, food, gambling, anything.
- 47:11But it can also be just ruminating over and over and
- 47:13over again, sitting in resentment, sitting in how
- 47:16life's unfair and that addictive behavior isn't a maladaptive
- 47:20response as in adults. Because when you bring it into
- 47:22the table, using somebody to get into that whole resentment stuff
- 47:26that I read to you the other day, that's really not fun.
- 47:30But something people choose. That's why 4D3D plane continues
- 47:34to exist, because they actually will.
- 47:36Consider each other. Energy vampires, Darkoras, Use
- 47:39names for each other. Let me get rid of these people.
- 47:41Oh, I'm awakening. So obviously I'm going to leave
- 47:44all these people. It's a bullshit story.
- 47:46It's egoic to say the least. And it's half of half of half of
- 47:51that. You have not learned anything
- 47:53from spirituality. If you're considering leaving
- 47:56people behind, you're just a trending topic, which is what 4D
- 48:00is because that's what teenagers do.
- 48:03So if you're smart, stable, mature, adaptive, rational,
- 48:06teachable, it means you recognize weight.
- 48:08My body's rigid, The rigidity isn't actually the softness, and
- 48:12this is only because we have updated psychoeducation that is
- 48:16free and everywhere online. Obviously I know some people
- 48:18don't come across this information.
- 48:21Reach out. I'm happy to share with you
- 48:22links so you can go and get learned, teach and meaning
- 48:26educated and I say BM, great source, great place, great
- 48:30YouTube channel with all information that you could use
- 48:33to understand your own human body and brain.
- 48:36So the somatic experiencing is definitely high on the list
- 48:40because Peter Levine created it and it works to get that
- 48:43unresolved trauma moving. And as he points out, it's
- 48:46important to continue to have somebody with you.
- 48:49Like a sad guru will have point out and excuse you.
- 48:51Not a sad, like sad guru, he says.
- 48:54You know, people have been doing the whole Kundalini awakening.
- 48:57Try Anama. I forget the name.
- 48:59And he advises to have somebody who's a master.
- 49:02And I understand why. Because like Peter Levine says,
- 49:06once one little thing moves out of the picture, it starts to
- 49:09unfold, then a lot of other things.
- 49:11So the Kundalini awakening, my energy teacher too, she
- 49:15mentioned some people have an awful time with it.
- 49:18That's where people who don't know the psychoeducation don't
- 49:21understand. It's not because of supernatural
- 49:25entities. It's because you're unlocking
- 49:28from this lifetime of. Now, of course you can also look
- 49:31to past lifetimes, but even if you just look to this lifetime
- 49:34of you now, however old you are, your first years of life.
- 49:38The zero to 1 attached Panicky. The one or two to three,
- 49:42Whatever Shame Submissive. The freeze of all ages.
- 49:44The flight 1112. The Fight 141516.
- 49:48Those are charge states we all will have learned from my lovely
- 49:51teacher Sue Martin. She's a psychologist and this
- 49:53was in my Trauma educational certificate program.
- 49:56Look up the parts work. I like the charge states better,
- 49:59though, because if you are a Mystic, you will have a
- 50:01relationship with your energy body already.
- 50:04So you'll be like, Oh yeah, there, there she is or there he
- 50:07is or there they are. You'll notice it.
- 50:09So the part about understanding that when something arises,
- 50:14here's why 5D mistake won't say it has to be somebody else doing
- 50:17something. We take ownership and process
- 50:20with our Purusha, Prakriti, Safe haven, secure base.
- 50:24And anyone of you who is making a choice right now, you're being
- 50:28asked to be compassionate, to be loving, to choose love, Don't
- 50:32run away. Running away allows rigidity to
- 50:36stay. You don't do anything different.
- 50:38Facing the fear is the facing that you are lovable and
- 50:44everything can be alright. But you have to transform your
- 50:50training ground or battleground to playground and it involves
- 50:53likes and dislikes with our relationships and our loved
- 50:55ones. Of course you want people who
- 50:57are your safe haven, secure base, that they unconditionally
- 50:59love you with falls and imperfections and that they
- 51:01support your dreams. Secure base that they have
- 51:04excitement for you and if you meet the ones who don't, you at
- 51:07a certain point can be the bigger person because you can
- 51:10become that functional adult, the one who knows unconditional
- 51:13love, pure consciousness, pollution, pure energy, Prakruti
- 51:18and do all the yoga or meditation or whatever.
- 51:20But being a person who knows if that neighbor throws shit in our
- 51:22face, it's because some shit happened to them.
- 51:25We don't know what yet. As long as they don't represent
- 51:28a physical threat, there's no need to get that law involved
- 51:31yet. And even here, you know there
- 51:33are people that get law involved with poor animals and animal
- 51:36lovers will be like, why'd you call the cops now?
- 51:39They're going to put down the poor bear, the poor, these
- 51:41things, they shouldn't happen. We are growing and evolving as a
- 51:44species to be compassionate people who refuse it.
- 51:48It's because they are refusing to acknowledge their own shame,
- 51:51defectiveness, unworthiness, unlovable, and it comes from
- 51:54their zero yield. It doesn't come from some evil
- 51:56demon or something like that. Not it comes from the life of
- 51:59now. It's explainable, it's
- 52:01teachable, and it's even surmount.
- 52:04You can move beyond it with compassion therapy focused stuff
- 52:08with the somatic Experiencing with people who talk to you can
- 52:12explain to your brain and not the ones who say emotions are
- 52:14stupid. Not that person's an ignorant
- 52:16idiot who doesn't know anything about emotions.
- 52:18If he did or she did or they did then they wouldn't say emotions
- 52:22are stupid. The minute you call stupid
- 52:23something that is what is a part of your experience.
- 52:28You are ignoring a very important part of your of your
- 52:32life. The reason, energy, body.
- 52:34See it's emotional body, emotional body.
- 52:36Your nervous system just equate sensations.
- 52:39The brain stem is what activates.
- 52:42Now it's only once you're able to get that lid closed you stay
- 52:45in your integrated mind. Frontal cortex down.
- 52:49Hey body, it's OK. We're in a physical safe moment.
- 52:52We're having emotional stuff go down.
- 52:53What's up? It's called inner growth for
- 52:56reason and it is handling your emotions from immature, insecure
- 53:00to emotion secure, emotionally mature.
- 53:04You the functional adult. The lines you can see in here or
- 53:07the loving, compassionate roars. Be kind to each other.
- 53:10Be kind yourself. Don't run away.
- 53:11If there are any of you who are in a moment of you know there's
- 53:15important decisions to make, it means this time you want to
- 53:18choose love. You want to choose compassion.
- 53:21And it's not just for you. This is for your playground,
- 53:24which is potentially not a playground right now.
- 53:27There's plenty of experts that can support to create beautiful
- 53:30relationships. You can talk about these things
- 53:32again. Take note, Obviously again, some
- 53:35people they don't want this and when they say I don't want it,
- 53:37you respect it because it means their body is not comfortable
- 53:43and that's because their zero year old is being reminded of
- 53:46what they did not receive. And then unfortunately they
- 53:48don't know about how insecure attachment styles don't have an
- 53:51inner nurture. That includes to taking a
- 53:55lookout for your own safe haven, secure base, so people who don't
- 53:58move out of their attachment wounds and unresolved trauma,
- 54:01they say with those addictive behaviors, those maladaptive
- 54:04responses. So the fleeing away or the human
- 54:08suffering the rumination because they're used to doing hero,
- 54:11villain, journey in their brain. Inner critic, outer critic,
- 54:14denying drugs, alcohol, sex, food withdrawal, The withdrawing
- 54:17means I leave this area, move to another group, do it all over
- 54:20again. They won't notice any different
- 54:22because that's the part. But for all of you tuning in
- 54:26one, if you meet people who are running away, they're running
- 54:30because they're scared. You being able to share
- 54:34compassion is the only thing you can do.
- 54:36Sometimes it is a firm word, sometimes it is not.
- 54:39Sometimes it's just, you know, straight talk.
- 54:42And at the end of the day, that doesn't mean they will see.
- 54:46They're the ones who need to choose.
- 54:47Do I want to live life with loved ones or do I want to live
- 54:50life alone? And as one of my lovely friends
- 54:53has said, nobody really dies a lone wolf unless they choose to
- 54:57be all on their own. The only people who move away
- 55:00all on their own are the people who don't dissolve that shame,
- 55:03the effectiveness, heartbreak, gut wrench.
- 55:05And it's an insecure attachment style and more.
- 55:08But it's a person who continues to cling on to their story and
- 55:11say I suffer because whether it's I'm a piece of shit or
- 55:16they're a piece of shit doesn't matter.
- 55:17It breaks the heart of pure, unfinishly loving consciousness.
- 55:21That's not necessary. It's not necessary.
- 55:24The shame Teflon bag brain is not necessary.
- 55:28There's enough psychoeducators out there though that I know
- 55:31people will get the good information.
- 55:32So if they're in 4D land they got a bunch of people to play
- 55:36that with and 3D saying goes so they won't be alone.
- 55:39But I'm talking right now people who consistently you know leave.
- 55:44They get scared, run away and they skip out on something that
- 55:48is most amazing life. Don't skip out on life and allow
- 55:52yourself to be those then masters for people who are right
- 55:56now choosing to be in compassion and love.
- 55:59They will be around. They're going to be looking to
- 56:02embark on beautiful journeys together.
- 56:04So support each other, love each other.
- 56:06We'll be back with more. Have a great day.