Latest / Romeo In The Morning / Romeo In The Morning 5-6-26
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- 0:00Speaker 1: That was going on. It's Romeo, and what do we
- 0:01get into today.
- 0:02Speaker 2: We talked a little bit about one night stands, We
- 0:05talked about splitting stuff when you break up, and of
- 0:07course hangover cures. It was a single to Mayo yesterday.
- 0:11So let's get going. Good morning everybody. What what did
- 0:15you send me here?
- 0:17Speaker 3: Andy?
- 0:18Speaker 2: Romeos? Issue here? Okay, you got an issue? I met
- 0:23this girl. We talked for a few days. Well, she
- 0:25came over. We had some good fun. It's been going
- 0:28on two weeks. She doesn't want to leave and go home.
- 0:32I mean, she makes me breakfast and all, but doesn't
- 0:36want to leave. She's killing my game from bringing over
- 0:41other females.
- 0:43Speaker 1: How does that even happen?
- 0:44Speaker 2: You're joking, right, This can't be a real conversation, right.
- 0:48Is this something you saw on TikTok or something and
- 0:50you trying to get me to talk about it?
- 0:53Speaker 1: How does that happen?
- 0:55Speaker 2: You brought a girl over, you got busy and two
- 1:01she hasn't left in two weeks, hasn't left the house
- 1:03in two weeks. I don't know if I believe that.
- 1:07Anybody else believe that? And if you really want to
- 1:10get rid of her, just bring another girl home. It's
- 1:12not that complicated. It's your place, right, this guy says?
- 1:16This is what this guy says. He says, says he
- 1:21has an issue. He goes, some girl came over. They
- 1:23had some fun. It's been going on two weeks. She
- 1:25doesn't want to leave and go home. She's making me
- 1:28breakfast at all, but doesn't want to leave. He says
- 1:31it's messing up his game with other girls. I don't
- 1:33know if I believe him, but okay, then he sent
- 1:37me some more text messages.
- 1:39Speaker 1: I don't know what to do.
- 1:40Speaker 2: Yes, I already told her if she's going back to
- 1:44her place, and she tells me my place is her place,
- 1:47and then just smiles and laughs. It might it was
- 1:51meant to be a one night stand, not a stay
- 1:53here from now on every night stand. Well, how does
- 1:57that even happen? This got to be a joke, right.
- 2:00She doesn't make good money, matter of fact, way more
- 2:03money than me. But that's not the point. It ain't
- 2:06about the money. Well then why did you bring up
- 2:08the money factor? Why why did you bring that up?
- 2:10If I don't understand what's going on here? I mean,
- 2:14here's what you do? You want me?
- 2:15Speaker 1: You want me to tell you exactly what to do.
- 2:17Speaker 2: If this is a real story, you need to uh, oh, wait, what.
- 2:21Speaker 1: Do you say?
- 2:22Speaker 2: She leaves when I go to work, then is waiting
- 2:25when I get back.
- 2:26Speaker 1: Then she comes in. She's waiting, how well, don't let
- 2:28her in.
- 2:30Speaker 2: If she's if she's at well, she's at your front
- 2:32door when you get back from work, then don't let
- 2:35her in.
- 2:35Speaker 1: Just walk through, leave her on the front porch.
- 2:38Speaker 2: But I was gonna say, is come back with another girl?
- 2:41You know, come back with somebody else. That's all you
- 2:43gotta do. Get rid of her, or she might want
- 2:47to join.
- 2:48Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know if I believe this.
- 2:52Do you nobody believe this guy's story.
- 2:53Speaker 2: I don't know how that's possible already four two five,
- 2:56four or seven to seven. So this guy sent me
- 2:59a text message, and he sent me a.
- 3:01Speaker 1: Bunch of them.
- 3:02Speaker 2: Apparently he met some girls supposed to be a one
- 3:03night stand. It's been two weeks now, and she won't leave.
- 3:07She's killing his game, he says. But he does say
- 3:10that she he goes to work. What did he say?
- 3:14He goes to work? Let me see what he said here.
- 3:16Speaker 1: He said.
- 3:18Speaker 2: She leaves when I go to work, then is waiting
- 3:20when I get back, then she just comes in. Well, okay,
- 3:25it's I don't I don't understand. I don't understand how
- 3:31you get there. She actually leaves your leaves your house
- 3:35or apartment whatever you live in, and when you go
- 3:37to work, and then waits for you till you come
- 3:39home with you don't let her in.
- 3:41Speaker 1: I don't get what you're talking about. It makes no sense.
- 3:44Speaker 2: Man, makes no sense already four to seven seven Rome,
- 3:53tell the man to man up and just kick her
- 3:55ass out. Why are some of these men not their
- 4:01ground to their own home?
- 4:03Speaker 1: Sounds like, my brother, Oh, that's kind of I don't
- 4:09I don't even know how how that's even. If she
- 4:13leaves the.
- 4:13Speaker 2: House, then when you go to work, then does she
- 4:19go to work? I mean, all you gotta do is
- 4:22just not let her back in. It's that simple, you know.
- 4:27My gosh, Yeah, I don't know.
- 4:29Speaker 1: That's why. I don't know what.
- 4:30Speaker 2: I don't know what to believe about your story. Why
- 4:33do you keep letting her back in? If she actually
- 4:37leaves the house and you leave, why are you letting
- 4:40her back in? I mean, I don't get it. I
- 4:43don't get what's going on here? Alrighty four seven to
- 4:47seven plus? I never had a woman want to stay,
- 4:50so I don't understand that either. Let's sell this guy.
- 4:54This guy texted and he said he met some girl.
- 4:56They went back to the house. Supposed to be a
- 4:58one night standing. Apparently she hasn't left in two weeks.
- 5:01I don't even know how that's possible, since he actually
- 5:04said that he goes to work and she leaves out
- 5:08the house or whatever they live in when he goes
- 5:10to work, and she's back when he comes home from work.
- 5:16So why do you keep letting her in? That's what
- 5:19I'm curious about. He's worried it's messing up his game
- 5:21with females, But well, why are you letting her back in?
- 5:25Speaker 1: Then?
- 5:25Speaker 2: That's what If you walk right by her, shut the door,
- 5:29and leave her out on the front porch, I'm sure
- 5:31she'll leave at a certain point.
- 5:33Speaker 1: Okay, stop feeding her and she'll leave.
- 5:36Speaker 2: Okay, already four two five, four seven to seven, yo, Rome,
- 5:41he probably showed up. He probably showed her his Pokemon collection.
- 5:49I don't even know what that means. But okay, my
- 5:54question is, seriously, if she leaves while you go to work,
- 5:58and she's at your doorstep when you back.
- 6:00Speaker 1: Why do you keep letting her in?
- 6:04Speaker 2: Yo?
- 6:04Speaker 3: Rome?
- 6:05Speaker 2: If she cooks and looks good, tell him to send
- 6:07her to my house.
- 6:08Speaker 1: I'll take her. Okay, what is looking good? By the way,
- 6:14Hey Rome, is this.
- 6:16Speaker 2: The same guy that sent me this whole scenario? No,
- 6:20it says, Hey, rome that also happened to me. I
- 6:23called up one of the one of the girls that
- 6:25I chill and watch movies with. I haven't seen her
- 6:29in a few months, so we finally kicked it. We
- 6:31had a good night. After that, she came over five
- 6:34days in a row. She was buying me food and everything.
- 6:37After the five days, I just didn't answer my phone.
- 6:41Hey Romeo, tell him to send.
- 6:43Speaker 1: Her my way.
- 6:44Speaker 2: I'll be her uncle Berry. I can use an independent woman. Well,
- 6:52I don't know how that works. I really don't. I guess,
- 6:57you know, once she's out, Guess what I thought was
- 7:00she was never leaving your house.
- 7:02Speaker 1: I guess at first.
- 7:03Speaker 2: But if she's out the front door, once you get
- 7:05her out, as long as she don't get mail there,
- 7:07you can leave her out.
- 7:09Speaker 1: You don't have to let her back in, all right?
- 7:11Speaker 3: Already?
- 7:12Speaker 2: Four two five four or seven to seven. It's Romeo,
- 7:15and I'm trying to figure out here what this guy
- 7:19is saying is true or not. He says he looked
- 7:21up with some girls supposed to be a one night
- 7:23stand and went back to his place. Was in two
- 7:25weeks now, and apparently she hasn't laughed now. He does
- 7:28go to work, he says, and she leaves when he
- 7:31goes to work, and then when he comes back, she's
- 7:33there again. So why does he keep letting her back
- 7:35in the place in his house? I have no idea,
- 7:38you know, Roam. The question is how many times has
- 7:40he slept with her in the past two weeks since
- 7:43she's been there?
- 7:44Speaker 1: Well, every night, every day.
- 7:48Speaker 2: I'm assuming that if you meet a girl for a
- 7:51one night stand and she doesn't leave, you're having sex
- 7:55every moment every time you want, probably right.
- 8:00Speaker 1: Or a two week period. I mean, if some woman's.
- 8:04Speaker 2: Actually waiting at your door when you go to work,
- 8:09or leaving when you go to work, and then waiting
- 8:10at your door when you get back, I'm assuming she's
- 8:12having sex with you every time.
- 8:14Speaker 1: Every time you want sex, she's doing it.
- 8:16Speaker 2: So probably every day. Hey, Romeo, let's see here, what
- 8:21do you got Hey.
- 8:23Speaker 1: He's leaving something out.
- 8:25Speaker 2: Yeah, there is something kind of strange about the story, right,
- 8:29how does that even possible? So one nice he even
- 8:32said she makes more money than him, So why he
- 8:34brought that up?
- 8:36Speaker 1: But yeah, it makes no sense. Why why is uh?
- 8:42Speaker 2: The the issue is getting him out the front door,
- 8:46is getting them actually out of your house. You got
- 8:49her out every day for two weeks. You said you
- 8:51got her out while you go to work. So and
- 8:53she's waiting there. You don't have to let her back in,
- 8:56you know already four two five, four seven seven And Rome,
- 9:02that's what happens when you feed a stray cat, tell
- 9:08him to quit playing he.
- 9:11Speaker 1: Likes it. Well, I mean, let's be honest. Let's be
- 9:16honest as a guy, right if you guys so and
- 9:20I don't know.
- 9:22Speaker 2: Obviously she's attractive to him, right.
- 9:26Speaker 1: So what are you gonna do? How many of you
- 9:28guys would kick her out?
- 9:34Speaker 2: If every morning when you got up to go to work,
- 9:37your girl or whoever you're sleeping with, leaves and then
- 9:41every night she comes right back and is waiting for
- 9:44you at your front door while you when you come
- 9:47home from work, Like you're gonna turn that down because
- 9:51that's just guaranteed sex and whatever you want. Apparently she
- 9:54even cooks I heard, is what he said.
- 9:57Speaker 1: So imagine if your wife did that.
- 9:59Speaker 2: Mad for your wife every morning you guys left together,
- 10:03and every morning she was just sitting at the door
- 10:05waiting for you to come home, right, you wouldn't want
- 10:09to get rid of her. That's guaranteed sex. What guy
- 10:13doesn't want guaranteed sex? So maybe you're right, maybe he
- 10:16does like it. Four two, five, four, seven and seven.
- 10:21But I'm with the last person. He's leaving something out.
- 10:25Don't know what it is, but something yo. Room. That
- 10:28is why I always get a motel room so I
- 10:30don't find them at my doorstep when I come home
- 10:33from work. It's happened to me before. Really, wow, I
- 10:38have no idea room. He's leaving out the part that
- 10:42he massages her at lunchtime and at the end of
- 10:45the day, asking her what time she's going to arrive
- 10:48at his house. Maybe he's there's got to be something
- 10:52he's leaving out, right, There's gotta be something, all right,
- 10:55So we got out. I need your guys' help explaining
- 10:59something to one of my friends who is made is
- 11:02just out of touch. So I'm gonna I'm gonna.
- 11:05Speaker 1: Be nice about it. Out of touch. Okay, So Saturday or.
- 11:09Speaker 2: This weekend, this weekend, I was off, you know, playing
- 11:11golf for a couple of days with a bunch of friends,
- 11:14and Saturday night running to them sitting in the parking
- 11:18lot over at the coast and Pistmum. I'm sitting in
- 11:21a parking lot at a restaurant. We're all hanging out talking,
- 11:24waiting for you know, the rest, waiting for our table.
- 11:27And obviously everybody from Bakersfield goes to Pismo.
- 11:31Speaker 1: Okay, it's nothing new, that's just where we go, all right.
- 11:35Speaker 2: So I run into a girl who knows me, and
- 11:41to say the least, she's she's really just a bunch
- 11:43of she's with a bunch of her friends having a
- 11:45good time. Okay, I don't know how many were there were,
- 11:47but there was a bunch of them having a good time.
- 11:49Speaker 1: Guys were hitting on her, you know, she was. They
- 11:52were all a little lit up.
- 11:53Speaker 2: So they looked like they were they were ready to
- 11:56you know, go go do.
- 11:59Speaker 1: The so to speak.
- 12:00Speaker 2: They looked like they were ready to just you know,
- 12:05and my buddy, who is actually sixty years old, He
- 12:11has never been in the dating scene as an adult.
- 12:14He met his wife in high school, maybe sixteen out
- 12:20of high school, got married, been together ever since. So
- 12:24this guy has never been in the dating scene as
- 12:27an adult. Hell, he's hardly ever been to the had
- 12:31never been in the dating scene at all. Really, but
- 12:34has the audacity when I say, man, I walk over
- 12:38and said, man, those girls are ready to go. Man,
- 12:40they're lit up there. The guys are hitting on them.
- 12:42They're hitting on the guys. They're ready to go. He
- 12:44has the audacity to say that women don't act like that.
- 12:47He said, Oh, no, you're You're totally wrong. You're totally wrong.
- 12:50They're not. I said, what are you what are you
- 12:52talking about? He goes, no, they're totally wrong. I said,
- 12:55these women are in their thirties. Do you think that
- 12:57they're not? Do you what do you think they're doing
- 13:00right now? And he goes, oh, no, women are so classy.
- 13:03Speaker 1: They don't. They would never act like that.
- 13:05Speaker 2: They would never just meet somebody at a restaurant or
- 13:07a bar or a guy and go right straight to
- 13:09their bedroom.
- 13:10Speaker 1: And I'm like, are you.
- 13:11Speaker 2: Really that stupid? But he's not really that stupid. He's
- 13:17just never been in the dating scene as an adult.
- 13:23Thirty year old women hanging out on a weekend, just
- 13:27looking to have a good time for the weekend, are
- 13:31gonna hook up with thirty year old guys doing the
- 13:34same thing or you know whatever age range.
- 13:38Speaker 1: This idiot had.
- 13:40Speaker 2: No clue what we were sitting there watching, and it
- 13:44was all playing out in front of.
- 13:45Speaker 1: Us, you know, And I'm trying to explain to him.
- 13:49Speaker 2: And he would not. He just kept saying, Nope, you're wrong, Nope,
- 13:52you're wrong. And I just thought, man, you can't be
- 13:55that stupid. But for a guy, I guess who's never
- 13:58been in a date, in the dating scene ever in
- 14:00his life, I guess he can be that stupid right already?
- 14:04Four two, five, four, seven to seven. I was telling
- 14:07you about a friend of mine. I was having an
- 14:08argument with them Saturday. Now, Remember this guy was telling
- 14:11this guy's never been in the dating scene. He met
- 14:13his wife in high school. They've been together ever since.
- 14:16Never been in the dating scene whatsoever. Okay, but we
- 14:20ran into some girls from Bakersfield who were just out
- 14:22having a good time, drinking, partying. Look like they were
- 14:26having a good hitting on guys. Guys were hitting on them,
- 14:28No big deal. Just what single women do you know
- 14:32in their thirties having fun? This guy could not My
- 14:36buddy could not believe that they were doing that, because
- 14:41I was telling them, go watch, these girls are over,
- 14:43they're good, they're gonna go back to this guy's hotel rooms.
- 14:45They're about to hook up right now. And she's like, no,
- 14:47girls are far too classy for that. They don't do that.
- 14:50What are you talking about? You're completely wrong? And I said, no,
- 14:52I'm not. I said, guess what, single women and men
- 14:56go out and have one night stands.
- 14:58Speaker 1: They have a good time. You have never been in
- 15:01the dating scene.
- 15:02Speaker 2: But you have the audacity to sit here and argue
- 15:04with me that I don't know what I'm talking about
- 15:07already four two, five, four or seven to seven. Hey,
- 15:10come on to Rome, Hey, you and your buddy were
- 15:12talking about one night stands. Did he not believe that
- 15:17women go out and have one night stands? What did
- 15:20he not understand?
- 15:21Speaker 3: Rome?
- 15:23Speaker 1: He didn't understand that.
- 15:25Speaker 2: He didn't believe that these women were just out there
- 15:28hitting on men, getting drunk, having a good time, partying
- 15:31or whatever, and we're gonna go hook up with these guys.
- 15:35He said, no, women don't do that. That's what he believed.
- 15:38Women don't do that. And this is coming from a
- 15:41guy who has never been in the dating scene ever.
- 15:45I think he met his wife at like fifteen or
- 15:48something like that, so he's never been in the dating
- 15:51scene already four two four or seven to seven. A
- 15:56friend of mine who's by the way, just the preference.
- 15:59He's never been in the dating scene. Never been in
- 16:01the dating scene. Men's chick in high school, like fourteen,
- 16:05fifteen six, something like that, been together ever since.
- 16:07Speaker 1: Never been in the dating scene.
- 16:09Speaker 2: But we were watching I was watching some people, you know,
- 16:13watching some guys who go up on some girls. The
- 16:15girls were drunk, they were they were, you know, ready
- 16:19to go. So does you know you know what I'm
- 16:21talking about. They were down and my buddy was just like, no,
- 16:25I'm telling them what's happened. He's just like, nah, the
- 16:27girls aren't like that. Women are like that. They don't
- 16:28do that. They're not They're far classier than to meet
- 16:32some guys at a bar, at a restaurant or whatever.
- 16:35You know, we're in Pizmo, so you know how that goes.
- 16:38And they were gonna hook up, and we knew what
- 16:40was happening, and I knew what was happening because I
- 16:42was watching it all play out.
- 16:43Speaker 1: But this guy was saying that doesn't happen.
- 16:46Speaker 2: Now, this are the arguments I have with my friends
- 16:50of arguing with a guy who has no idea what
- 16:53it's like to be single, a single person, a single
- 16:56man or woman in the dating scene. So one, he's
- 17:00never been in the dating scene in his life. Two
- 17:03he's never been a woman, so he has no idea
- 17:06how women feel and what women think about when they
- 17:08go out and get together and you know, want to
- 17:11have a good time out of town for the weekend.
- 17:14Speaker 1: Already four two, five, four.
- 17:15Speaker 2: Seven to seven eight, Rome, Hey, it wasn't me you're
- 17:19talking about, are you. I was in Pismo with my
- 17:22boys over the weekend. We were having a good time.
- 17:24We hooked up with some girls. What do you know
- 17:27it wasn't you. If it was you, you would have known
- 17:30it was me because she knew it was me.
- 17:32Speaker 3: So all right?
- 17:33Speaker 2: Hey, Rome, Oh, why is your boy so naive? Here
- 17:36in Bakersfield, even married women have one night stands. Yeah
- 17:39we found that out on the cruise.
- 17:40Speaker 1: Huh.
- 17:41Speaker 2: Yeah, already four two, five, four, seven to seven. Hey, Romeoh,
- 17:46I think all. I think more women nowadays are just
- 17:50looking for a one night stand than they are looking
- 17:53for a relationship.
- 17:55Speaker 1: So maybe your.
- 17:56Speaker 2: Buddy might be right in the past, but not today.
- 18:00Speaker 1: No, he's always been wrong.
- 18:02Speaker 2: You can't you can't listen to a guy who has
- 18:05never dated, literally never dated. What does he know what's
- 18:10happening in a single life? What does he know what's
- 18:13happening He's never dated already four two, five, four or
- 18:17seven to seven. So we ran into some we were
- 18:22at I was over at the coast over the weekend
- 18:24and ran into some people from Bakersfield, and these women were.
- 18:30Speaker 1: Just a bunch of women having a good time.
- 18:32Speaker 2: Probably I think they're in the thirties whatever, single women
- 18:35having fun met single guys. I'm standing in a parking lot,
- 18:38waiting for the table, waiting for a table, and I'm
- 18:41just watching them all play out, just watching what's going on.
- 18:43I'm trying to explain to my buddy, this is what's
- 18:45happening in front of us right now, this is the
- 18:47show we're watching. And he told me I was one
- 18:49hundred percent wrong. Women are way too classy. There's no
- 18:53way they would be hooking up right now, No way,
- 18:58but not.
- 19:00Speaker 3: That right already?
- 19:01Speaker 2: Four two five, four seven seven A Romeo. Didn't you
- 19:04talk about on a cruise women cheating?
- 19:10Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 19:11Speaker 2: That was it was one night it was women on
- 19:13a cruise. I was on, Oh my cruise that we
- 19:16did whenever we did it back May that there were
- 19:20married women out there looking for one night stance, and
- 19:22they were actually having competitions, competing for one night stance
- 19:26who can get the most right. So if married women
- 19:29are doing it, what makes you think single women aren't
- 19:32doing it? But, like I said, my buddy's a stubborn idiot.
- 19:38So this is this is what I'm dealing with. Luckily
- 19:42I was sober dealing with this and not drunk already
- 19:45four two five four seven to seven. But for all
- 19:48of you out there, women have one night stance and
- 19:50there's nothing wrong with it. They can just go out
- 19:53and have a good time, just like you guys. So
- 19:55one night stands, right, it happens, you know, our weekends. Weekends.
- 19:59I do want to say this though, So what let
- 20:01me tell you what happened. Me and a friend of mine. Now,
- 20:02a friend of mine has been with his wife since
- 20:04he was They were in high school, which means and
- 20:08he's there, he's in this, he's gonna be sixty.
- 20:10Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 20:11Speaker 2: So he has never been in the dating scene ever
- 20:14in his life, never been in the dating scene, but
- 20:18yet had the audacity. We were watching some girls, uh,
- 20:21some drunk girls in in Pismel hook up with some
- 20:23guys who were they were all drinking, having a good time,
- 20:25just partying, just met and they were ready to hook up.
- 20:29Speaker 1: You could tell. And I'm telling him, He's like, no, no,
- 20:32women don't do that. There's no way women do that.
- 20:35Speaker 2: And so I had to have this argument for about
- 20:38thirty minutes of why he's wrong, which he still thinks
- 20:42he's right, by.
- 20:42Speaker 1: The way, but it, uh, it's real. There's nothing wrong
- 20:47with it.
- 20:47Speaker 2: Single women, single women go out and try to hook
- 20:50up with single guys.
- 20:51Speaker 1: It is what it is, all right, that's the world
- 20:53we live in.
- 20:54Speaker 2: But one of the other weird things I thought when
- 20:57I was watching this all play out in front of
- 20:59me was these guys were just getting their phone numbers. Like,
- 21:05if you weren't into a girl who's who's really feeling
- 21:08you and ready to hook up with you and ready
- 21:10to go, why would you just get her phone number,
- 21:13and what call her later? I mean, like, what do
- 21:16you think is gonna happen between now and later?
- 21:21Speaker 1: There's so many things.
- 21:21Speaker 2: That could happen. You could call, she could be passed out.
- 21:23You could call she could be some other guy could
- 21:26have hooked up with her. I mean, why wouldn't you
- 21:28take the opportunity at the moment it's happening. Why would
- 21:32you wait? That is a that would be my question?
- 21:35Why would you wait? Why wouldn't you just you know whether?
- 21:40I think it was around six thirty seven o'clock when
- 21:42I saw this all play out, and these guys are, oh,
- 21:44let me get your number, I'll call you later, and
- 21:46I'm like, bro, later, she might meet a better guy later,
- 21:50she might pass out later. There's one hundred things that
- 21:52could happen later, and you're gonna be going, wow, man,
- 21:55I missed out. I just I didn't understand that part
- 21:59of what I saw. Why didn't you just go hook
- 22:02up right then?
- 22:03Speaker 1: Already? Four two, five, four, seven to seven? Did you
- 22:06send me here about this? My buddy?
- 22:09Speaker 2: My buddy's an idiot. Hey, Roam, your friend has been
- 22:12sheltered too long. He probably doesn't realize there's dating TV
- 22:16shows like The Bachelor and The Bachelor.
- 22:21Speaker 1: You ain't lying.
- 22:22Speaker 2: He probably doesn't know anything about those shows. He's just
- 22:27the problem is he's just he's never he's never been
- 22:31in the dating scene. And as an adult, this guy's
- 22:35never been in the dating scene. There's nothing wrong with
- 22:37one night stance, Absolutely nothing wrong. And sometimes you just
- 22:42want to go out and you know, get some and
- 22:45never see that person again.
- 22:46Speaker 1: They're just it's just the world we live in.
- 22:49Speaker 2: He's just he's just never been, uh in the dating
- 22:52scene as an adult.
- 22:54Speaker 1: That's his problem. What's going on? What's going on?
- 23:00Speaker 4: Hey?
- 23:00Speaker 5: Can I just do a real quick birthday time? Because
- 23:02I'm on my way to work.
- 23:02Speaker 1: Oh my god, no, hurry up, go Okay.
- 23:06Speaker 6: I wanted to have a birthday to my happy birthday.
- 23:08Hoday have big eighteen today, Happy birthday?
- 23:12Speaker 2: Lets you?
- 23:20Speaker 3: Oh?
- 23:21Speaker 1: She is something else?
- 23:22Speaker 3: All right?
- 23:23Speaker 1: What do I got here?
- 23:24Speaker 2: All right?
- 23:25Speaker 1: Eighty four two seven to seven?
- 23:28Speaker 2: Uh?
- 23:28Speaker 1: What'd you send me?
- 23:30Speaker 2: Here?
- 23:30Speaker 1: A couple of things?
- 23:34Speaker 2: Yo, Rome guys today, I gotta understand that females today
- 23:37are too easy, uh to.
- 23:39Speaker 1: Get into bed for anybody.
- 23:41Speaker 2: Nothing wrong with it, nothing wrong with that, but still
- 23:43brings the attractiveness down and you said it was only
- 23:47six or seven pm. Could have could have had a
- 23:50lot more fun out and about than just sleeping with
- 23:55uh than just sleeping with missus daddy issues. What are
- 23:59you talking about about? So women are easier today than
- 24:03they were? Women aren't easier today, I don't think. I
- 24:05think women are always have always been the same, just
- 24:09they hide it or uh, you know, they just hide it.
- 24:13Speaker 1: They just don't hide it like they used to. You know,
- 24:16I don't think.
- 24:17Speaker 3: I don't think that.
- 24:18Speaker 1: Shames very much anyway, all right, if we're two or
- 24:22seven seven.
- 24:27Speaker 2: I was watching, by the way, speaking of you saying
- 24:30women are easier today, Summer House, Love Island, these shows
- 24:37that are on these streaming sites, and I just hose
- 24:42will never you know how you know who's going to
- 24:45run the world when it all comes hose.
- 24:48Speaker 1: Hose are going to run the world.
- 24:49Speaker 2: Hose and whoes are going to run the world when
- 24:51it all comes down to it because they always win.
- 24:54Speaker 1: Sex always win. It always sells.
- 24:57Speaker 2: Even we've gone through all of this, you know, what
- 25:00was the what was the the me too movement over
- 25:04the years, and the and the woke stuff and everything
- 25:07that this progressed over the last ten or twelve years,
- 25:10and hose are still winning.
- 25:11Speaker 1: Only fans are still winning.
- 25:13Speaker 2: Women on social media are still showing their boobs and
- 25:16showing their asses, and it's just there that will never
- 25:20die and never change it. Just from the beginning of time,
- 25:25hoan Is seems to always come and rise to the
- 25:28top for some reason. Look at all the shows that
- 25:31are on right now. Look at what's going on. Look
- 25:33at what some of the most popular shows are on.
- 25:36Let's see here.
- 25:37Speaker 1: Hey, roam, I just woke up.
- 25:39Speaker 2: I got a hangover. I went out for Cinco de Mayo,
- 25:42stayed out a little late. I gotta go to work
- 25:44here pretty soon. What's your cure? You got to here
- 25:47for a hangover? Yeah, don't go to work, don't. The
- 25:54best here that I know for a hangover is you
- 26:00gotta go get you a tall bud light and some
- 26:03V eight tomato juice. It's got to be V eight, though,
- 26:08Go get you a tall boy and some V eight.
- 26:10But it's got to be a bud light and a
- 26:11V eight. That's that's the only here I know for
- 26:14a hangover. So all right, alrighty four two four or
- 26:17seven to seven.
- 26:19Speaker 1: I don't know how you guys get to get over
- 26:20a hangover.
- 26:21Speaker 2: I mean there's probably a lot of you guys going
- 26:22to going to work hungover today, right, are already started. Yeah.
- 26:26I don't know how you guys get through it, but yeah,
- 26:29we just always drink a tall boy in a V
- 26:31eight mix it together and you're good to go.
- 26:34Speaker 6: Hi, the best thing for a hangovers to not drink.
- 26:39Speaker 7: You won't have a hangover.
- 26:40Speaker 4: Oh my god, I'm an alcoholics anonymous.
- 26:44Speaker 8: I go to AA meeting.
- 26:45Speaker 4: That's the best thing.
- 26:46Speaker 3: Don't don't matter what. All right, you have a nice day.
- 26:52Speaker 2: You have a nice day too, thanks, well, the best
- 26:59there you go.
- 26:59Speaker 1: The best thing.
- 27:00Speaker 2: We're a little late for that. I mean obviously if
- 27:03you went out drinking, you did that. So we're a
- 27:05little late for AA right now. Now, we got to
- 27:08deal with the issue at hand, which is how do
- 27:11we get through the hangover today to get us to work?
- 27:14Speaker 7: Right?
- 27:15Speaker 2: So there you go, Yeah, a tall boy, go, get
- 27:22you a bud light talking and and and a thing
- 27:24of V eight.
- 27:25Speaker 1: Mix it together.
- 27:27Speaker 2: It's about an eighty twenty, you know, eighty twenty mix
- 27:31and you're good to go. You should be good to go,
- 27:34or you can go to AA I mean that's that's
- 27:37another option.
- 27:38Speaker 3: What's up, Lou.
- 27:41Speaker 9: I'm here to drop some knowledge for that person that
- 27:43has ngue over.
- 27:45Speaker 4: Okay, Lou, They what they need is not a V eight.
- 27:50Speaker 9: It's a shrimp cocktail.
- 27:53Speaker 4: With octopus and everything in it.
- 27:55Speaker 1: Man, Shrimp cocktails the same thing as V eight.
- 27:58Speaker 2: It's it's tomato juice and and and and and and
- 28:01and fish.
- 28:04Speaker 8: Yeah.
- 28:05Speaker 1: What's the difference the basses tomato juice.
- 28:09Speaker 9: Yeah, but the shrimp cocktail tastes a lot better, bro.
- 28:13Speaker 4: And they need like a cord light on the side
- 28:15or a b buck on the side.
- 28:17Speaker 3: Man, it just wakes you right up.
- 28:19Speaker 1: Bro, Oh you're an idiot. But okay, I'll.
- 28:23Speaker 2: Let them know.
- 28:24Speaker 1: I let them know.
- 28:25Speaker 4: Yeah, let it let them know.
- 28:26Speaker 3: I let them know that specialty from.
- 28:34Speaker 2: Seelues said basically the same thing I did. He added
- 28:37shrimp like seahawk. Lu can afford shrimp.
- 28:41Speaker 5: What's going on, man, brother?
- 28:43Speaker 9: He In order to have a day without a hangover
- 28:46after drinking, yetta, you gotta finish all night with some
- 28:49pickled juice.
- 28:51Speaker 1: So you drink pickle juice before you go to bed.
- 28:54Speaker 9: Yeah, after you get done drinking and take a lot
- 28:56of like a little shot up to pickle juice h
- 28:59for somebody, and it's.
- 29:00Speaker 1: Like, really, I never heard of that before.
- 29:04Speaker 3: All right, it's work.
- 29:12Speaker 4: Before, it's my homework.
- 29:15Speaker 1: Okay, all right, pickle juice before you go to bed.
- 29:20Speaker 3: A man later.
- 29:23Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, you guys, everybody's got some sort of
- 29:26witch's brew that's gonna get them through a hangover. Right,
- 29:29pickled juice before you go to bed. I never heard
- 29:31that before. What do you do for a hangover? I
- 29:34have a I have a cousin. I had a cousin
- 29:37used to make a milkshake with an.
- 29:38Speaker 3: Egg for a hangover.
- 29:40Speaker 6: What's going on?
- 29:41Speaker 5: MOREO, good morning.
- 29:45Speaker 6: You're talking about the hangover cure?
- 29:46Speaker 1: Yeah, what do you do?
- 29:49Speaker 3: Ice cold?
- 29:49Speaker 9: Coca cola?
- 29:50Speaker 6: Like ice cold and it will just it was just
- 29:54like literally like wake you up.
- 29:55Speaker 9: You're like, oh my god, that's what I needed, and
- 29:57then be like okay, I don't know.
- 30:00Speaker 5: It just helps with me.
- 30:02Speaker 1: Well yeah, because it just burns, It burns the alcohol
- 30:05out of you. That is so crazy.
- 30:07Speaker 7: Oh gosh, I cold Coca pula.
- 30:09Speaker 1: My mom like, get a coke a coca PEPSI.
- 30:14Speaker 5: Oh well yeah, either one, either one or My mom
- 30:18just says coke.
- 30:19Speaker 6: Just I say coke, Okay, I never tried pepsi, but
- 30:23just just nice cold though.
- 30:25Speaker 9: Yes, I come from the bridge right there.
- 30:28Speaker 2: Yeah I get I can feel that burn right now
- 30:31as you just said that too. Oh that's great, all right,
- 30:37let me fourteen five four seven to seven year old
- 30:40roam only think that'll a The only thing that will
- 30:45absolutely care hangover is another beer.
- 30:47Speaker 1: Well, I would say, with some.
- 30:51Speaker 6: With a uh.
- 30:54Speaker 3: With a V eight in it.
- 30:57Speaker 2: Might all is my hangover here for four meds in one. Okay,
- 31:04I hear that, though what you would call it is
- 31:05a good cure. Uh, the ivy, those vitamins whatever those
- 31:11are here, those are good. But I don't I don't
- 31:13know I've ever had one, uh your real Romeo. I
- 31:16heard eating cactus is good for a hangover. Also, I
- 31:21haven't heard that one. Well, everybody's got something for a hangover.
- 31:25Everybody is a cure that helps.
- 31:26Speaker 3: Them, right.
- 31:27Speaker 5: Yeah. I want to know what kind of chunk weather
- 31:29need to be practicing with.
- 31:35Speaker 4: Ones.
- 31:35Speaker 3: I need to know.
- 31:36Speaker 1: No, they got a little weight, They got a little
- 31:38weight to them.
- 31:40Speaker 2: They're not the super heavy ones, but they're not the
- 31:42little flimsy ones you buy at the Pigley Wiggley, you know,
- 31:45the white trash ones. They're not those, so they're they
- 31:50got a little weight for I was throwing them yesterday,
- 31:52so they got yeah, they I would say it's about
- 31:56maybe as heavy as a tennis ball.
- 32:00Speaker 3: Okay, that's probably that, all right, all right.
- 32:06Speaker 2: Yeah, for those of you that don't know, the Chocolate
- 32:09Challenge is happening on Friday for Mother's Day, We're gonna
- 32:13give you Chris Brown tickets and us are Chris Brown
- 32:15and USh are performing together so far on the twenty
- 32:18six I think it's September twenty sixth, So.
- 32:20Speaker 1: The winner's gonna win the tickets to that. Now, it's
- 32:25a real simple contest.
- 32:26Speaker 2: We're gonna be over here at the McDonald's on Stockdale
- 32:30in California at seven thirty am.
- 32:32Speaker 1: You gotta come on down, sign up. You have to
- 32:34be a mom, just so you know, And we set
- 32:38up these cups. I was actually.
- 32:41Speaker 2: I was actually doing it yesterday. I'm sure there's a
- 32:44video of it somewhere. I think Jay was recording it,
- 32:49so there might be somewhere where you can check it out.
- 32:51Speaker 1: But yeah, so you got to just h.
- 32:55Speaker 2: We set up cups in you know, not in a pyramid,
- 32:59but kind of on this table, and you got to
- 33:01try to knock them all down.
- 33:03Speaker 1: It's kind of weird setup.
- 33:04Speaker 2: You got to throw a little if you want to
- 33:06get them all, you got to throw a little English
- 33:08and have a spinner.
- 33:08Speaker 1: So it knocks.
- 33:09Speaker 2: So it's gonna be interesting to see what happens. But
- 33:11whoever knocks down the most of the most the most
- 33:14cups is going to win tickets to Chris Brown and
- 33:18to Usher Chris Brown or Usher. Okay, like I said,
- 33:21it's all going on Fridays seven thirty am. Be down
- 33:24at the McDonald's on Stockdale and California.
- 33:27Speaker 1: Okay, it is just for moms though, just for moms.
- 33:31Speaker 2: Hey, Romeo, are they the old Navy chan claus or
- 33:36Mexican chan claus from the swap meet?
- 33:38Speaker 1: I need to know so I can practice.
- 33:40Speaker 2: Do we have to take our kids to prove we
- 33:42are moms or show our stretch marks and C section scarks?
- 33:46Speaker 1: Oh my god, I don't know.
- 33:53Speaker 4: How do you?
- 33:53Speaker 1: I guess that is a very good question. How do
- 33:55you prove your mom?
- 33:57Speaker 3: Right?
- 33:58Speaker 1: That's pretty good.
- 33:59Speaker 2: I guess we're going to take your word for it.
- 34:01I just we're hoping that you're not gonna lie. Okay,
- 34:04And I don't know what navy chunklas are.
- 34:07Speaker 1: I never heard of that. What's going on?
- 34:11Speaker 7: Hey Romeo? I keep hearing you say that to do
- 34:15this Mother's Day Challenge, you have to be a mother, right, Yeah,
- 34:19I think that you need to be a little more
- 34:21specific and say that they need to be a mother
- 34:24to human children. We're going to get these women that
- 34:28are like, I'm a mom, I'm a mom to this
- 34:30plan can't need my love.
- 34:33Speaker 2: I can participate.
- 34:34Speaker 7: I'm a mom because of dogs. So I think you
- 34:38specify that they be moms to human and children.
- 34:42Speaker 1: Okay that I guess you're right.
- 34:45Speaker 3: You're right about that.
- 34:46Speaker 1: Yes, you have to have a human child to be
- 34:49a mom.
- 34:51Speaker 4: Absolutely.
- 34:52Speaker 2: I'm like, get some thirty year old chick with a
- 34:54Rottweiler talking about, Yeah.
- 34:56Speaker 1: I'm a mom.
- 34:57Speaker 4: I'm telling you it's my it's my rock child.
- 35:03Speaker 1: Oh that's good, that's great, that's great. Banks for calling.
- 35:11Speaker 2: You have to be the mom of a human child. Okay,
- 35:13already four two, pop four, seven and seven. We got
- 35:16the chocolate challenge. It's going on Friday, seven thirty am.
- 35:21You gotta come on down to Stockdale in California. We're
- 35:23gonna beat that McDonald's throwing chunklas at cups. Whoever drops
- 35:29the most wins Chris Brown and Usher tickets.
- 35:32Speaker 3: What's the man?
- 35:34Speaker 2: What up?
- 35:35Speaker 9: Hey?
- 35:36Speaker 4: Roland, Chocolate's gonna be off the man? That didn't sound
- 35:40like fun. I want to just go watch it.
- 35:44Speaker 1: Well, gas is six dollars a gallon. I don't know
- 35:47how you're gonna get there, but.
- 35:48Speaker 4: Okay, we got the b roll of the transversation.
- 35:53Speaker 2: There's not a bus between Wasco and our Wassco and Bakersfield,
- 35:58is there?
- 35:59Speaker 9: Yeah?
- 36:00Speaker 4: The one that teachs you to them at g Latino
- 36:01that you just gotta walk.
- 36:04Speaker 1: Okay, we'll see you there seven thirty in the morning.
- 36:07Speaker 2: All right.
- 36:07Speaker 9: Hey, I hope for the Father's Day they have like
- 36:11a belt swinging contest.
- 36:12Speaker 2: I could be part of it, man, a belt swinging contest,
- 36:16yeah or something.
- 36:17Speaker 1: Okay, I'll figure something out, all right, all right? Oh yeah, yeah,
- 36:24So let me get this straight.
- 36:25Speaker 2: SIAWK Lou is gonna take public transportation from Wasco the
- 36:30mcatta Latino and then walk to Stockdale in California. Okay,
- 36:36you better leave early, Lou, because the show does start
- 36:39the contest does start seven thirty. Okay, so the Chocolate
- 36:43Challenge that's going on Friday. We got tickets to Usher,
- 36:45we got tickets to Chris Brown. I think it's the
- 36:49twenty sixth if I remember September twenty sixth.
- 36:51Speaker 1: Is so fine.
- 36:52Speaker 2: I know you guys got some questions about it. Hey, Roam,
- 36:56these are old Navy chancolates. Oh, somebody told me, no,
- 37:02it's old Navy.
- 37:04Speaker 1: No it's not those. It's not the oh I thought,
- 37:07Oh okay, yeah, no, they're heavier than that. They're heavier
- 37:10than that.
- 37:11Speaker 2: So if you guys know what she's talking about, room,
- 37:13do we get only one? Try to knock them down?
- 37:17Speaker 1: Or three? Why do you get three? You only have two?
- 37:19Speaker 2: Chunk liss two feet right. It's just like the bowling
- 37:22It's just like the bowling contest we do.
- 37:24Speaker 1: Where you get where you get up there where you.
- 37:30Speaker 2: Uh knocked down as many as you can, but you
- 37:33only get two shots, and then whoever knocks down the
- 37:35most moves on to the next round. And that's how
- 37:37that works. Okay already four, two, five, four, seven, seven
- 37:41eight row. Moms don't have good aim with the chunk
- 37:44unless they're mad at you. Oh, that's kind of funny.
- 37:49Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll see what happens.
- 37:52Speaker 2: Do you want to play seven thirty stockdown in California?
- 37:55Right there on the corner at the McDonald's. We got
- 37:57your chance to win. Chris Brown, USh your tickets. Okay,
- 38:00it's a chocolate challenge.
- 38:02Speaker 1: Yeah, Coach twenty nine got way? Yeah what today?
- 38:07Speaker 3: Man?
- 38:09Speaker 2: All right, Shane, you got tickets to the Mac and
- 38:11Cheese Fest this Saturday over at the Kurrent County Fairgrounds.
- 38:14Speaker 1: From two to six pm. Okay, appreciate it, all right,
- 38:18So the Mac and Cheese Fest is going on.
- 38:19Speaker 2: If you don't have your tickets, go to Bakersfield Macincheese
- 38:22Fest dot com. That's Bakersfield Macacheese Fest dot com to
- 38:26get your tickets if you don't win them.
- 38:28Speaker 1: Also, don't forget we're doing the dunk tank you guys.
- 38:31Bring a little extra cash for the Ronald McDonald house.
- 38:33See if you guys can dunk me. Right, And it
- 38:36is that time of year once again.
- 38:38Speaker 2: The Current County Hispanic Chamber of Commerce is having the
- 38:41twenty six annual Latin Food Festival.
- 38:44Speaker 1: Mada Manodle, Manodle, slowly cook. Coff Jay is my guy.
- 38:50He's been running this thing forever? What's going on?
- 38:52Speaker 4: Jay?
- 38:53Speaker 3: Not much to keep it together here? Twenty six years now?
- 38:58Speaker 1: What do you mean keep it together? You look you
- 39:00look better twenty six years ago. You know what, You're
- 39:04not aging at all.
- 39:05Speaker 3: You look amazing by the Filipino side of me. Yes, yea.
- 39:12Speaker 1: So what do we got going on, Jay?
- 39:13Speaker 3: Well, it's our twenty sixth annual Latino Food Festival, Manula
- 39:16and Pasola Cookoff, of course, hosted by the current County
- 39:19and Spanet Chamber of Commerce. This will be on Sunday,
- 39:22May twenty fourth at the Kurrent County Fairgrounds from eleven
- 39:26am to six pm. So come on out with your
- 39:28entire family. If you want to be a contestant, you
- 39:31still have time to sign up. You can call our
- 39:33office at six three three five four nine five. You
- 39:36could become a contestant vendor. And we're not accepting food
- 39:41vendors anymore.
- 39:41Speaker 1: We have about twenty oh you're out of food vendors.
- 39:43Speaker 3: Food vendors, okay, yeah, Health department, you know, yeah, we
- 39:46had a cummit that a long time ago. I don't
- 39:48disagree with.
- 39:48Speaker 1: You, all right.
- 39:49Speaker 2: Yeah, So you got Lisa Lisa coming, You got Molo
- 39:52featuring Richard Dean and you got Baby Bash coming to perform.
- 39:55Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, So you know, we wanted to bring
- 39:59Lisa Lisa year because she did come last year for
- 40:02her fortieth anniversary, Tam, we felt that, you know, our
- 40:05twenty sixth anniversary, we wanted to bring her a jump
- 40:08being the first Latina to crossover to R and B
- 40:13and and so we're gonna honor her as the Queen
- 40:16of hip, sorry, the Queen of a freestyle. Let's not
- 40:20go there yet. Yeah, we're gonna honor her that day.
- 40:23You know, it's important that we have representation out there,
- 40:26and being the first Latina to be the queen of freestyle,
- 40:30it's important for us to commemorate that in salary school.
- 40:33Also Marlow yes beaturen Richard being the original singer of
- 40:38Voice OFO. So get ready for that. You know, I
- 40:42think he could probably pay that for thirty minutes. So
- 40:45get get out there, on your on your down, have
- 40:50fun with the congas and everything else. Yeah. Obviously bakers,
- 40:54well bakers will love Baby Lash. Uh yeah, so he'll
- 40:58be here at the minute of the cookup as well.
- 41:00We'll have Mariacchi San Marcos DJ Noyg but Codko Watstakali
- 41:04and others that are going to be performing that day.
- 41:07So it's twenty five dollars online or eighty dollars for
- 41:12four packs, so you're saving you money.
- 41:14Speaker 1: They have a little bit of money if you get
- 41:15it online.
- 41:16Speaker 3: So those are online ticket sales at KCCHCC dot org.
- 41:21You can go to KHCC dot org, click on the
- 41:24link it's right at the very top in English and
- 41:27in Spanish and purchase your tickets for twenty five bucks
- 41:30or eighty dollars for a four packed and children under
- 41:33five are free. You can purchase that day of them
- 41:38into the cookup on May twenty fourth for thirty dollars
- 41:40at the gate. Okay, so you're going to say some
- 41:42money if you go online. We also have a QR
- 41:45code on there that you can scan or on any
- 41:48of our social media outlets KHDC eighty five.
- 41:51Speaker 1: And it's all going on.
- 41:52Speaker 2: It's going on from eleven am to six pm and
- 41:54it is an all day event. It is a great
- 41:56time Sunday May twenty fourth over the current County Fairgrounds.
- 41:59Speaker 1: You don't want to miss out on it. Uh, It's
- 42:01always been a great time.
- 42:02Speaker 2: It's always just a family friendly go out, enjoy some
- 42:05time with your family, relax out in the sun and
- 42:08fun and listen to some good music and have some
- 42:10good food.
- 42:11Speaker 3: And it's Tomorrow's day weekend. And so the good thing
- 42:13about it is that there's five Saturdays and five Sundays
- 42:16in May, so you actually have that following weekend. Do
- 42:19what you got to do?
- 42:20Speaker 1: Do I have to work that day?
- 42:22Speaker 3: I don't know.
- 42:22Speaker 1: If I got to work, I'll get some moral day weekend.
- 42:27Speaker 3: So everyone should be able to beat crudo and then
- 42:30get you know, the next day to recover. But yeah,
- 42:33so we're excited to have all of this entertainment. We
- 42:37have the kids camp area again, and we have the
- 42:40food vendor area, the health and wellness area, and so
- 42:44just come on out and have a good time. This
- 42:46is always a really good time to bring the whole
- 42:48family out.
- 42:48Speaker 1: Yes, really.
- 42:51Speaker 3: The mom and the dad that you know, the kids
- 42:53and everything like that. So come on out and enjoy
- 42:55our twenty sixth Annual Latino Food Festival. Man new them
- 42:58Pasoly cook up. I don't think we can have a
- 42:59long title.
- 43:00Speaker 1: All right, Yeah, you keep trying though. All right, Jay's here,
- 43:03hold lot of seconds from all right.
- 43:04Speaker 2: So the twenty sixth Annual Latin Food Festival and Manudo
- 43:09and Pasole cook Off brought to you about the Current
- 43:11County Hispanic Chamber of Commerce is going on Sunday, May
- 43:14twenty fourth over the current County Fairgrounds. Jay is here
- 43:17because he's the guy that runs it all ahead of
- 43:19the Hispanic Chamber of Commerce here in Current County. And Jay,
- 43:24you know, we've talked a little bit about some of
- 43:25the artists that are coming down. You got Lisa Lisa,
- 43:27you got Molo feature in Richard Bean, you got Baby Bash,
- 43:31Mariachi Sa Marcos, noh g is gonna be there.
- 43:34Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna try to say that.
- 43:37Speaker 3: I'll stand for you.
- 43:38Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 43:39Speaker 3: And they just got an award recently, an award for
- 43:42wid for Arts and Culture, oh yeah, from Makersolt. So
- 43:47it's a you know, shout out to them.
- 43:49Speaker 2: Man.
- 43:49Speaker 3: They all work hard and even they have they have
- 43:51the youth division and they have the adult division. So
- 43:55they've been around for a long time. We're quitos to
- 43:57Jerry for that.
- 43:58Speaker 2: Now. We know we got the food, you know, we've
- 44:00got the drinks. We know we got the entertainment. Now
- 44:02for the kids, you have a couple of things for
- 44:03the kids, right, Yeah, we have kids camp. So we
- 44:06have a kids camp, so you know, we allow twelve
- 44:09and under. No adults are allowed in that area. We
- 44:12do have a pick event so that the parents can
- 44:14watch him. It is in a babysitting area, just to
- 44:18let everybody know that. Don't chump the kids off and
- 44:20then go out there and hang out. But yeah, we
- 44:23have arts and craft of.
- 44:25Speaker 3: Painting, lots of lots of games, and then there's gonna
- 44:29be some prizes and some bikes and raffles and all
- 44:32that stuff for the kids to give them away. So
- 44:34we going bikes fun area. We have some bikes.
- 44:37Speaker 1: And I think you always do it so good. You
- 44:40put on one of the best events in Bakersfield.
- 44:42Speaker 2: Ever.
- 44:43Speaker 3: Appreciate that you really do. I appreciate that we work hard.
- 44:46And it's not only me, it's it's the entire committee.
- 44:48We have three hundred volunteers, so shout out to all
- 44:51of them too, because we couldn't do it without. It
- 44:53takes a village.
- 44:54Speaker 1: I remember the first event years ago.
- 44:58Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you're talking about our friendship now last years.
- 45:03Don't don't eat both of us, Okay, yeah, I did
- 45:06take you down to delay the harvest holidays.
- 45:09Speaker 1: But yeah, all right, so you got some sponsors here.
- 45:11I see you want to shout out to.
- 45:13Speaker 3: Our presenting sponsor. We have a Jim Burke Ford and
- 45:16Avanta Ottos and michaelob Ultra California Resources and hard Rock
- 45:21Casino Tajone. So we brought them on this this year.
- 45:24And we're happy to have hard Rock there and all
- 45:26of our presenting sponsors and all of the sponsors, including
- 45:29ninety four point one for being together with us for
- 45:32twenty six years. So we're out there to celebrate our culture,
- 45:36have fun with your family on what can they bring
- 45:39up their chairs so they can bring their lawn chairs
- 45:42and handheld umbrellas, no pop up chance.
- 45:46Speaker 1: And what about the big Tommy bahamas.
- 45:48Speaker 3: No no timing bahama, no patio umbrellas. It's just because
- 45:54you're going to block everyone. Oh yeah, sure, su and
- 45:56the tents as well, and I understand that. And we're
- 45:59going to have you know, some like patio ceding out there,
- 46:03stuff like that and benches for folks to sit on.
- 46:06But it's a first come, first serve. You can bring
- 46:08a blanket out there too if you want and hang
- 46:11out on that with the family, but and then we
- 46:15don't allow drinks to being brought in and purchase drinks
- 46:18on there. The good thing is also Romeo. I think
- 46:21while I've been here and I've talked about our small
- 46:23Business Academy before, and I also talked about our scholarship
- 46:26program we do and we haven't on September sixteenth at Grito,
- 46:31we give out scholarships. So the proceeds of this event everyone,
- 46:36this goes towards our small business small business technical training
- 46:40and also scholarships for our high school students that are
- 46:42going to be going to college. So it's a good cost.
- 46:44So come on out enjoy twenty five dollars online for
- 46:49individual ticket, eighty dollars for a family four pack. That's online.
- 46:53Visit our website at KCC dot org. And also the
- 46:56children under five are free if you don't have time
- 46:59to go to the site, and you could purchase them
- 47:02at the event September, I mean Sunday, May twenty fourth,
- 47:07for thirty bucks.
- 47:08Speaker 8: All right, all right, so give them a call or
- 47:10go to the website KSEH what is it, g G
- 47:14k C h CC, KSECHCC dot org, or you can
- 47:18call them at sixty six one, six, three, three, five,
- 47:21four nine five.
- 47:22Speaker 1: In case you still want to be contestant.
- 47:24Speaker 3: I can be at contestants still. We're still accepting contestants
- 47:27and vendors like exhibitors, okay, not food not want to
- 47:32go out there. We're a chamber. So you want to
- 47:34promote your products and services, this is the way to
- 47:37do it. That's awesome, color office and just care sign up.
- 47:40Speaker 1: Yep, all right, Jay, thanks for stopping by. I'm sure
- 47:43we'll see you more times as this gets closer and closer.
- 47:46You guys go check it out. It's happening in Sunday,
- 47:48May twenty four.
- 47:49Speaker 2: It's a twenty sixth Annual Latin Food Festival Noodle for
- 47:52Solei Cookoffs.
- 47:53Speaker 1: All right, so this is kind of funny to me.
- 47:55Speaker 2: I got this, uh the other day, and I held
- 47:57on to it. So I'm going to talk about breaking up. Right,
- 48:00when it comes to breaking up, who gets what?
- 48:04Speaker 4: Now?
- 48:04Speaker 2: We know when you get divorced, you uh you know,
- 48:08you can have a mediator. Things get divided through the
- 48:11courts or through the legal system.
- 48:13Speaker 1: What happens when you just break up?
- 48:16Speaker 2: Hey, Romeo, I just broke up with my boyfriend of
- 48:18two years of two years now, he's hanging out at
- 48:22this bar slash restaurant where me and my friend, we
- 48:26and my friends hung out before I met him. I
- 48:29introduced him to the place, so now I can't go there.
- 48:34I think he needs to find a new hangout, since
- 48:37I'm the one that was there first.
- 48:39Speaker 3: See what I mean?
- 48:41Speaker 1: When you break up, who gets the friends? Who gets
- 48:44the who gets what?
- 48:46Speaker 2: I mean? A two year relationship is a legitimate relationship,
- 48:50and if that was her place before you, shouldn't that
- 48:55be her place after you? If the relationship is I mean,
- 49:02I don't know already four two five, four seven to seven.
- 49:08Speaker 1: Uh, what do you guys think? Who should get?
- 49:10Speaker 3: What? You know?
- 49:13Speaker 2: Things that you accumulate during a relationship? Do you split
- 49:18him fifty to fifty? I mean, obviously, if you've been
- 49:22with somebody for she says two years, you become friends?
- 49:27Speaker 5: Do you do?
- 49:27Speaker 1: You become friends with their friends, they become friends with
- 49:31your friends. I mean, how do you split that stuff up?
- 49:35Speaker 3: Already?
- 49:35Speaker 1: Four two five, four seven to seven.
- 49:38Speaker 2: I think she should get the bar, though, I think
- 49:40the restaurant and bar where her and her friends hung
- 49:42out before him, he needs to stop going there. She
- 49:45should get the bar, Hey, rom I want to ask
- 49:47you a question. I just broke up with my boyfriend
- 49:49two years now. He's hanging out of this bar restaurant
- 49:52where me and my friends hung out before I met him.
- 49:55I introduced him to the place, So now I can't
- 49:58go there. I think he needs to find a new place.
- 50:00Speaker 1: I agree with you.
- 50:01Speaker 2: I think he needs to find it that wasn't his
- 50:02hangout before. He has no reason to be there now.
- 50:05I agree with you. But when you break up, how
- 50:09do you split up? How do you split up the
- 50:12things that you did together? I mean, can you still
- 50:16let well?
- 50:17Speaker 1: Let me put you like this.
- 50:19Speaker 2: What if there's a family member of your exes that
- 50:21you guys got along real well? Can you still see
- 50:24them already? Four two five four seven to seven, good morning?
- 50:28To know what's going on.
- 50:29Speaker 6: She needs to just let him go there. She needs
- 50:32to hold her hair and up hie and take a
- 50:34new guy there.
- 50:35Speaker 5: She'll stop going.
- 50:41Speaker 1: Wow, that's uh, it's a bold move. It's a bold move.
- 50:47Speaker 4: Got to do it all right?
- 50:50Speaker 5: All right?
- 50:50Speaker 1: Thanks for calling.
- 50:54Speaker 2: I mean, that's a bold move already, four two five
- 50:58four seven to seven. So when it comes to breaking up,
- 51:02people accumulate things not just married couples accumulate things or
- 51:06have things when they're together, but when the relationships over,
- 51:11how do you split that stuff up?
- 51:14Speaker 3: You know?
- 51:15Speaker 1: I'll tell you a story.
- 51:16Speaker 2: I was I was at Where was I was? Avela
- 51:21Beach last year I think was last year. Was at
- 51:24Avela Beach at the hotel, and the guy and the
- 51:28girl next to me were uh we were talking right,
- 51:34and he goes, oh, yeah, my ex her and her
- 51:36new man are staying over there at another hotel. It
- 51:40was just coincidence that this husband and wife would split up.
- 51:45Both were with new people, but that was their spot.
- 51:50This Avela Lighthouse is where we were at when they
- 51:53were married. That was their place to go as a
- 51:56married couple. So when they split up, they each went
- 52:00there with their new person. I want to say they
- 52:03were both remarried, I think, but they were both. They
- 52:06just happened to be there at the same time. It
- 52:08was pure coincidence. They didn't plan it, but that was
- 52:12so don't you got to give up the spot? I mean,
- 52:15at what point when you split up do you have
- 52:19to let some stuff go and let your let your
- 52:22ex have that that restaurant, that that hotel that city,
- 52:29like in this woman's case, her old bar before she
- 52:32met him already four two.
- 52:34Speaker 1: Five, four seven to seven.
- 52:35Speaker 2: Alrighty uh So this woman texted me she said she
- 52:38just broke up with her boyfriend two years. Right now
- 52:41he's hanging out at the bar where her and her
- 52:43friends hung out that she introduced him to.
- 52:46Speaker 1: She thinks he needs to stop going there because that's
- 52:48her spot. And I agree with you. I agree with her.
- 52:52That guy, why does that guy want to go there?
- 52:55Speaker 3: Already?
- 52:55Speaker 2: Four two five four seven to seven. But how do
- 52:58you handle a situation like that when you got break up?
- 53:01You know, when you have spots like that? Good morning out?
- 53:03Speaker 1: What's going on?
- 53:04Speaker 3: Hey?
- 53:04Speaker 4: What's up?
- 53:06Speaker 2: Hey?
- 53:07Speaker 3: Room?
- 53:07Speaker 4: Some people are weird like that, dude, Because I have
- 53:09a friend that they go to the they make plans,
- 53:12the two couples that separated to go out and have
- 53:14dinner at the same place with their new with their
- 53:16new partner.
- 53:17Speaker 1: They sit at the same table, are they?
- 53:19Speaker 4: I think they just go to the they hang out
- 53:21at the bar together. And I'm like, that's just kind
- 53:23of weird, dude, Like you know what I mean to me,
- 53:25that's weird?
- 53:25Speaker 2: Well, I don't I don't understand what you're saying. They make,
- 53:27they make plans as for people to hang out together, and.
- 53:30Speaker 4: They make they make and they make plans. And then
- 53:33also another thing is they every Friday. They went to
- 53:35this place all the time every Friday afternoon. So they
- 53:39now they both take their new partner with them and
- 53:41hang out. They're injury get the same bar.
- 53:43Speaker 1: Yeah that's weird, and they're.
- 53:44Speaker 4: Okay with it. I'm like, dude, that's weird, Like you
- 53:47know what I mean, because me personally, I don't want
- 53:49to hang out with my girl where she kicked it
- 53:51with her eggs, you know what I mean. And I
- 53:52don't want to take my girl where I kicked it
- 53:54with my ex either like I kind of want to
- 53:55start something fresh, you know, or if it's been my spot.
- 53:58Speaker 1: Yeah, people that's weird. Yeah that's stranger.
- 54:01Speaker 4: But you know, but people are weird because like even
- 54:02when I got with my wife at birthroom, my ex lady,
- 54:05you know, we had a lot of like you know,
- 54:07just household stuff that I had. You know, I was
- 54:09just giving it away, throwing stuff away, and she's like,
- 54:11you don't got to get rid of all that, babe.
- 54:13I'm like, I don't want nothing from my past. We
- 54:14could start.
- 54:16Speaker 1: That's that's more understand. Yeah, that's just weird to me.
- 54:19You're right, Ruben, I don't know, man. If people are weird,
- 54:22people are.
- 54:23Speaker 4: Weird, people are really weird. I'm just like I couldn't kick.
- 54:25Speaker 1: It with my stuck on, you know what I mean?
- 54:28Speaker 3: All right?
- 54:28Speaker 1: Rub thanks brother? All right, Yeah that is weird. I mean,
- 54:34how do you do that?
- 54:35Speaker 3: How?
- 54:35Speaker 1: What don't you want to get rid of the stuff?
- 54:38I mean, why would you? I mean that's weird. That's
- 54:43just weird.
- 54:44Speaker 3: What do you do? Wait?
- 54:44Speaker 1: Four two, five, four or seven and seven?
- 54:46Speaker 2: Like you and your ex have a spot, right, And
- 54:50that never occurred to me till Ruben just said it.
- 54:52Why would you want to go back to that spot
- 54:54that you and your ex?
- 54:55Speaker 1: That was your spot? Wouldn't you want someplace new with
- 54:59your new per.
- 55:02Speaker 3: Already?
- 55:02Speaker 1: Four two, five, four, seven and seven?
- 55:04Speaker 3: That's just weird.
- 55:05Speaker 2: Interesting conversation about when you break up with somebody and
- 55:10you have places where you hung out together, bars, restaurants,
- 55:14maybe you went to hotels over at the coast.
- 55:17Speaker 1: Maybe. I mean, what do you do when you get
- 55:19a new person? I think guys do it more than women.
- 55:23Speaker 2: I think I think men take women to the same places,
- 55:29the same hotels, the same you know, restaurants, the same
- 55:32place as they went with their acts.
- 55:34Speaker 1: I think men do it more.
- 55:35Speaker 2: Why have no idea, But why would you hang out
- 55:39at the same places with your new woman or your
- 55:43new partner that you hung out with your ex partner?
- 55:47Or maybe that's just the way life works and you
- 55:49should split it. Maybe you get it because you were
- 55:51there first eight four, two, five four or seven and seven?
- 55:54Speaker 1: Good Bard? Now what's going on?
- 55:57Speaker 4: Hey?
- 55:57Speaker 1: What's up?
- 55:58Speaker 2: Hey?
- 55:58Speaker 5: I'm timing in on your conversation this morning about exus
- 56:02and places?
- 56:03Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, what do you do.
- 56:04Speaker 2: You do when it's over?
- 56:06Speaker 5: You know, if it's over, it's over. And I think,
- 56:10if I'm going to start new, I wouldn't want to
- 56:12go to places that I shared stuff or at.
- 56:16Speaker 6: Moments with somebody that I don't want to be with anymore.
- 56:18Speaker 5: If you don't want to be with them, then why
- 56:19would you go back to those places?
- 56:21Speaker 9: And I agree with that that was somebody else.
- 56:24Speaker 1: Oh, I totally agree with you. I don't understand that either.
- 56:27Speaker 2: But in this woman's case, though she said it's the
- 56:29place she introduced him to do you think that's the difference.
- 56:35Speaker 6: I get that, but I think she's hung up on
- 56:37what's hers and what's his. Yeah, that was her hangout,
- 56:41that's where girlfriends go. But if she's really.
- 56:44Speaker 5: Over it, then it shouldn't matter to her.
- 56:46Speaker 6: She can go and if he wants to be there,
- 56:48then I mean, it's over, isn't it, or still hanging
- 56:52on to stuff.
- 56:53Speaker 2: I don't know who's hanging on to what. The weirdest
- 56:55thing I saw was, I'll tell you before.
- 56:57Speaker 1: The weirdest thing was.
- 56:57Speaker 2: I was standing at avalo Beeach Lighthouse and this ex
- 57:00couple was there with their new boys, with their new
- 57:03husbands and wives. It was just the weirdest thing ever.
- 57:05And they were still mad at each other, didn't even.
- 57:08Speaker 1: Talk to each other.
- 57:10Speaker 3: But that was there.
- 57:11Speaker 5: It was about territory. It was about territory. They weren't
- 57:13over each other, one of them wasn't over each other. Okay,
- 57:16I don't just anything at each other.
- 57:19Speaker 2: Well, yeah, you're probably right because the fairness. I think
- 57:22the guy had cheated on the wife with the new woman.
- 57:26Speaker 5: So but anyway, also maturity issues.
- 57:32Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I just I don't know. I get you,
- 57:35I'm with you.
- 57:36Speaker 2: I don't understand why if you're starting with a new person,
- 57:39why would you go to the old spots where you
- 57:41and the old old person went to.
- 57:44Speaker 1: Yeah, that makes no sense.
- 57:46Speaker 7: Where you're drinking.
- 57:47Speaker 6: Come on, when you start drinking, you start remembering things,
- 57:49and that's just that's just weird.
- 57:51Speaker 1: Yeah, thanks for part of that.
- 57:53Speaker 5: I wouldn't want to be taken to a place where
- 57:55somebody says, you know, this is where I used.
- 57:57Speaker 6: To hang out with my ex?
- 58:00Speaker 5: What am I doing here?
- 58:02Speaker 1: Guys? All right, well, thanks for calling. I appreciate it.
- 58:06Speaker 2: I mean, she's right already four two five, four seven seven?
- 58:11All right, let's talk about that breaking up, right When
- 58:15you break up, how do you split everything up? And
- 58:18one of the funny things is how do you split
- 58:20up the restaurants you went to, the hotels you went to.
- 58:23I mean, you guys, do make some memories as a couple.
- 58:26And what do you do when you break up and
- 58:28you get a new partner? Do you, guys a lot
- 58:32of you go to the same places.
- 58:34Speaker 1: Why would you go.
- 58:35Speaker 2: Somewhere that you hung out with your ex if you're
- 58:37trying to start a new relationship already? Four two five,
- 58:39four or seven is seven? Hey, roam what if her
- 58:42parents still invite me to their house. So I go
- 58:45to hang out see my kids, but I don't go
- 58:48to the I don't go to possibly her to see her. No,
- 58:54you shouldn't be going to her parents' house if you
- 58:56break up and the parents invite you, Nah, you shouldn't
- 58:59be going. But I mean, if you'd run into somebody,
- 59:02you know, you run into x exes, family members out
- 59:06in public, you might say, h, I be cordial, but.
- 59:08Speaker 1: Now I shouldn't be going to their house. Good morning, Now,
- 59:10what's going on?
- 59:13Speaker 7: Whatever?
- 59:14Speaker 2: Whatever?
- 59:15Speaker 3: Bro?
- 59:15Speaker 9: Hey, there's places that I've been going to for years,
- 59:18you know, from a girl, and I still run into
- 59:20the actions every now and then they show up there.
- 59:22Speaker 4: But the thing is the only reason why I keep
- 59:24going there.
- 59:25Speaker 9: Is because I've always paid when I went to these places,
- 59:27and so I still get the same book up discounts.
- 59:30Sometimes they can get a free bro. So that's why
- 59:32I'm there.
- 59:33Speaker 6: You know.
- 59:33Speaker 7: Well, but.
- 59:35Speaker 1: Okay, and your new lady. But the new lady doesn't
- 59:38care though no, we've been together forever.
- 59:41Speaker 9: She she don't care because I mean a figure out
- 59:43of hand, she'll up that ass.
- 59:44Speaker 1: You know, But you're running into axes. Old axes from
- 59:47a long time ago, Like what's the gap? Like, what's
- 59:50the gap?
- 59:51Speaker 2: Rob?
- 59:51Speaker 9: How long ago we're talking about? Let me see?
- 59:57Speaker 1: No, maybe let them see a decade. Over a decade,
- 1:00:03I could see that. Okay, okay, but.
- 1:00:07Speaker 2: The recent stuff. I'm just saying the recent stuff. But
- 1:00:11I guess, I mean, okay, I get.
- 1:00:13Speaker 1: Where you're going with that.
- 1:00:13Speaker 3: I just I don't know.
- 1:00:15Speaker 1: I don't know which means, but means you had.
- 1:00:18Speaker 2: To have gone there, Rob, when you and your old
- 1:00:20lady got together twelve years ago, you were still going there.
- 1:00:25Speaker 4: Yeah, I was going there and keep going there.
- 1:00:28Speaker 9: And I even, Hey, it's crazy because sometimes i'll see
- 1:00:30them and my girl point, so let's go, oh, look
- 1:00:33a happy couple. I said, you know what, let's just
- 1:00:35lift people like, listend them around and we'll take off. Dude,
- 1:00:37I think it's so funny.
- 1:00:39Speaker 1: Now you're just being a jackass.
- 1:00:41Speaker 3: All right, get out of here.
- 1:00:45Speaker 9: The morning, every morning, morning,