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The Casey Clarke Show September 23rd, 2025 · The Casey Clarke Show

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  Speaker 1: How much money have you ever won?
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  Speaker 2: Dan?
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  Speaker 1: For you won like almost ten thousand bucks.
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  Speaker 3: You even have one of those big checks hanging in.
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  Speaker 4: My no way, you have a novelty check?
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  Speaker 5: Have it hanging in my grass?
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  Speaker 4: Because you can't. This might be the world's dumbest question.
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  Speaker 4: And I'm sorry, do it. You can't cash those, right, Dan,
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  Speaker 4: you want to take this one?
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  Speaker 6: Nope, Casey Clark Show.
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  Speaker 7: This is the Casey Clerk Show.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, man, that's the good stuff.
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  Speaker 2: This is where we celebrate amazing things people are doing
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  Speaker 2: at any age.
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  Speaker 1: Call it the good stuff.
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  Speaker 2: An unforgettable birthday gift just happened at a ballpark in Philadelphia,
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  Speaker 2: and it came from the heart of a nine year
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  Speaker 2: old So Donna Maury. She's there celebrating her eightieth birthday
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  Speaker 2: party with her family. She seated at the third line
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  Speaker 2: base line, right there, the third base line, right there, hoping.
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  Speaker 1: To snag a foul ball.
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  Speaker 2: Right when one finally came, the ball didn't land in
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  Speaker 2: her glove.
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  Speaker 1: It actually landed in Jamison Penning's glove. He's nine.
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  Speaker 2: Jamison just caught his first foul ball ever in his life.
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  Speaker 1: Oh wow, he's nine years.
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  Speaker 2: Old, So exciting nine, but he was like, hey, wait
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  Speaker 2: a second. He looked over and he heard these ladies
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  Speaker 2: talking about wanting their mom to get a foul ball
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  Speaker 2: to celebrate her birthday. So this is what happened, according
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  Speaker 2: to According to Dawn of the birthday.
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  Speaker 8: Girl, all of a sudden, this little boy says, he said,
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  Speaker 8: I want to give that lady my ball. And father says,
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  Speaker 8: are you sure about this? And little boy looked at
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  Speaker 8: the ball in his cub and he says yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And they got up.
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  Speaker 8: From their seats and came right over to me and
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  Speaker 8: handed me the ball.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. And that's the gist.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah he did.
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  Speaker 2: That's what Jamison did. He's nine years old, without hesitation,
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  Speaker 2: just went over there. Donna said, it was such a
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  Speaker 2: wonderful moment. Here's the kicker to all of this. The
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  Speaker 2: end of the ninth inning. Guess what happened Another foul ball.
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  Speaker 2: Guess who caught it? Jamison?
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  Speaker 4: Oh no way, So he's fine.
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  Speaker 1: He still got his ball.
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  Speaker 2: In the in the end.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, that's so crazy.
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  Speaker 2: Such a just such a sweet and warm moment. And
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  Speaker 2: Jamison's mom, she's so exciting.
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  Speaker 7: His mom makes me kind of emotional because, oh my god,
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  Speaker 7: we're doing something right. And everybody see you know, everybody
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  Speaker 7: saw it.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, we're doing something really good and everybody did see it. Mom.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, that must be such an awesome experience as a
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  Speaker 4: parent to be like, oh, good, yes we are raising
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  Speaker 4: We're doing an okay job raising this right right.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, finally somebody seeing that we're really good parents. Oh
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  Speaker 2: that is super good. James are just amazing. So are you,
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  Speaker 2: mom and dad. And happy birthday Donna.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, happy eighty spend your birthday too.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, that's such a great story.
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  Speaker 9: The Casey Clark Show.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know if you remember the dude Joey Chestnut.
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  Speaker 2: He's the guy that has the world record for eating
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  Speaker 2: the most hot dogs inside of a manner or something ridiculous.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, he always does that, like Fourth of July hot
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  Speaker 4: dog eating.
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  Speaker 1: That's that dude. That's his cling to fame.
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  Speaker 2: He was at a baseball game over the weekend and
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  Speaker 2: he ate two hundred and seventy five impossible nuggets ew
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  Speaker 2: during the game. He polished off ninety nine before the
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  Speaker 2: second inning and two hundred and seventy five by it
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  Speaker 2: was all over. Wow.
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  Speaker 4: Do you know if he was just doing that on
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  Speaker 4: his own volition or was he in some sort of competition.
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  Speaker 2: He's I guess he's a competitive eater. Yeah, and that's
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  Speaker 2: his deal, right. I guess you know, ballparks or whatever
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  Speaker 2: else hires this guy to come in and.
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  Speaker 4: He's a yeah, and you do have to stretch out
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  Speaker 4: your stomach if you want to do.
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  Speaker 1: That thing, right.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So instead of you know, I guess bringing in halftime talent,
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  Speaker 2: they bringing Joey chestnuts.
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  Speaker 4: This guy eat a bunch of impossible nuggets.
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  Speaker 2: You know what I mean?
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  Speaker 10: Cool?
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  Speaker 2: Like I would watch them, as dumb as it sounds,
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  Speaker 2: I would be. I would be watching them.
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  Speaker 4: Oh totally. And if I showed up at the ballparkingsau
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  Speaker 4: sign like watch Joey, you know, I'd be like cool.
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  Speaker 2: And then I came today the innings, that would be
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  Speaker 2: I'm sure some sort of counter going on with the
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  Speaker 2: camera on and yeah, okay, kind of makes sense.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm all in.
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  Speaker 2: I love it. Yeah, I know we're so dumb and
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  Speaker 2: stuff like that, right got us to thinking, though, is
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  Speaker 2: there anything, one one item of food that somebody literally
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  Speaker 2: has to take away from you or are you're just
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  Speaker 2: gonna polish it all? Oh?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you'll eat them, eat whatever it is
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  Speaker 4: until you pop. Well, I have a bag of almonds
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  Speaker 4: in the studio right now. Almonds make my tummy hurt,
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  Speaker 4: but I love.
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  Speaker 2: Them, so is houghing them down?
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  Speaker 4: I know, Well it's all I have right now. But yeah,
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  Speaker 4: so that's definitely one of them. Also, Okay, I got
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  Speaker 4: to get my health and check here, because the other
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  Speaker 4: thing that I will eat until I literally explode is
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  Speaker 4: like cured meats. I love pepperoni sticks. I love beef
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  Speaker 4: jerky so much. My cholesterol, oh, it's.
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  Speaker 2: Got to be up there. It's got to be like
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  Speaker 2: a big fat plato.
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  Speaker 4: But it's always been bad. And honestly, for the most part,
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  Speaker 4: I eat quite healthy, and I don't go out and
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  Speaker 4: buy these things because I know I will eat too
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  Speaker 4: much of them and it's bad for my health. But
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  Speaker 4: if I happen to go to a party there's usually
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  Speaker 4: a meat and cheese flatter, right, I will find the
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  Speaker 4: pepperoni sticks and I will just sit there totally. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: whatever it takes, whatever it takes. But I know, I
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  Speaker 4: know I shouldn't be eating them, but I just when
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  Speaker 4: they're there, I'm all in.
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  Speaker 1: That stuff gives me too much gas.
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  Speaker 4: So this is cute, This is all great.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so I mean, like, you know, maybe I should
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  Speaker 2: stay away. What is something that you cannot stop eating?
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  Speaker 11: You were listening to the Casey Clark Show.
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  Speaker 2: Now, Joey Chestnut, he's the dude that has all the
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  Speaker 2: hot dog eating contests. He was at a ball game
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  Speaker 2: over the weekend two and seventy five chicken nuggets or
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  Speaker 2: impossible nuggets. He was like down to like he polished
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  Speaker 2: ninety nine off inside the first two innings.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I really want to know what makes up an
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  Speaker 4: impossible nugget. I'm thinking because a lot of like meat
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  Speaker 4: substitution products have a ton of like fiber and legumes
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  Speaker 4: in them. Oh really, Okay, so I'm thinking you look
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  Speaker 4: like a mess. I would not want to be sitting
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  Speaker 4: next to him for the next couple of days.
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  Speaker 1: No kidding, Like, how long is he sitting on the can.
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  Speaker 2: After that? You know?
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  Speaker 1: You know you know what I mean?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, like you.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, and listen, we're asking you not how long.
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  Speaker 4: He's going on the cat, but we should.
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  Speaker 2: What is the one thing that maybe it's a couple
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  Speaker 2: that you somebody literally has to take away from me
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  Speaker 2: to eat. Yeah, you're you don't you love almonds? Almonds?
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  Speaker 2: Don't love you.
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  Speaker 4: No, they don't.
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  Speaker 2: I live.
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  Speaker 4: So I have this bag of almonds right beside me,
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  Speaker 4: and uh, while we were not on air, I kept
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  Speaker 4: reaching for them. I'm like, no, Sash, you know this
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  Speaker 4: is going to hurt your tummy. It hurts my tummy
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  Speaker 4: so much. But they're just sitting there and they're so good.
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  Speaker 4: I just want them so bad.
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  Speaker 2: Potato chips. That's some of my guilty pleasures. Oh my bad,
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  Speaker 2: that's yeah, yeah, absolutely, Roger. What about you?
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  Speaker 12: Oh well, recently my kids have taken up baseball and
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  Speaker 12: I haven't had a sunflower seed in about twenty five
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  Speaker 12: years now.
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  Speaker 3: I just can't stop.
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  Speaker 4: Well, and those you will eat those until your mouth
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  Speaker 4: is raw.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, Oh yeah for sure.
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  Speaker 3: Black black pepper ones, Oh those.
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  Speaker 4: Are so good.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Roch the same, same, same I have been, And
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  Speaker 2: I go through these phases of some flower seeds. If
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  Speaker 2: you asked my kids, I do the same thing. And
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  Speaker 2: I'll go through the all dressed ones.
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  Speaker 9: Oh yeah, he knows.
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  Speaker 2: Flavor, Yeah, he knows.
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  Speaker 4: I gotta get in.
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  Speaker 12: All the cool flavors these days, cool ranch, and I know.
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  Speaker 1: It is so dumb.
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  Speaker 2: And remember we did this bit about am I littering
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  Speaker 2: if I'm driving eating some flower seeds and flicking.
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  Speaker 12: The seeds out, that's one I know, right, what's the
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  Speaker 12: call on that?
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  Speaker 1: Well, that's what If I was a bird, I'd be fine.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, no one would be upset.
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  Speaker 9: Nobody's saying nothing.
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  Speaker 2: But because I'm doing it while I'm driving down the road,
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  Speaker 2: now I'm the enemy. Yeah, I got that one.
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  Speaker 1: All right, Okay, buddy, we appreciate you.
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  Speaker 9: Okay, it's the Casey Clark Show.
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  Speaker 2: All right, let's play another round of finish the lyric.
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  Speaker 2: We're gonna kick it off with Stacy. Stacey finished the lyric.
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  Speaker 2: Here's what's gonna happen. You gotta get three. Sorry, you
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  Speaker 2: got to get two out of the three. We'll start
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  Speaker 2: with number one to go on to number two. You
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  Speaker 2: got to get it right. If you don't, we'll just
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  Speaker 2: move on. Okay, okay, all right, simple as that. Really,
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  Speaker 2: all right, let's play finish the lyric. Here is lyric
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  Speaker 2: number one.
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  Speaker 4: You can't tell.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, oh I know this song.
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  Speaker 2: I'll play it. I'll play it for you one more time.
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  Speaker 2: You can't till.
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  Speaker 3: Break off with him some only break up.
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  Speaker 2: Something something something. That's my mom. Linda, Linda Linda A
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  Speaker 2: single mom of six, saying that's naughty, it's sorry, dang it,
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  Speaker 2: dang it. Okay, let's move over to dawn, dawn, same thing.
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  Speaker 2: To move on, you got to get two out of
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  Speaker 2: the three to move on. You got to get it right. Okay, Okay,
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  Speaker 2: let's go.
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  Speaker 6: You're looking at me, or you can chaim.
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  Speaker 5: I don't know what.
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  Speaker 2: You're just gonna say. You're just gonna say, I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: All right, Okay, fair enough, fair enough, Okay. Now to
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  Speaker 2: our buddy, Jeff, Jeff, you're ready, okay, all right, here
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  Speaker 2: we go. You can't taim, I know you wit in
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  Speaker 2: love with him?
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  Speaker 12: Break up with him?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, yes, okay, that's so good, exactly it, in love
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  Speaker 2: with him?
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  Speaker 6: Bring up with it?
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  Speaker 2: All right?
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  Speaker 4: Nicely done?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Now, Jeff, you can win if you can finish
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  Speaker 2: the lyric Here and down under. You never knew how
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  Speaker 2: much of nutty water me into me.
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  Speaker 6: But I learn how to swim, and I learned who.
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  Speaker 13: It was.
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  Speaker 12: A lot about living and a little about love, a
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  Speaker 12: lot of bottle.
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  Speaker 2: Living and a little bout of.
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  Speaker 6: The shot.
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  Speaker 2: Not only did you know the lyric, you knew the melody.
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  Speaker 2: Uh you need to do?
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  Speaker 1: You sing karaoke.
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  Speaker 12: I'll only after a few.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's most of it.
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  Speaker 2: So yes, yes, the answer is yet only after a few,
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  Speaker 2: which is okay.
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  Speaker 4: I that was so good, Jess.
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  Speaker 9: It's the Casey Clark Show.
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  Speaker 2: Kind of a touchy subject with me when you asked
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  Speaker 2: me earlier today, Hey, do you know your parents love story?
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  Speaker 13: Like?
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  Speaker 4: Wow, I didn't mean you specifically.
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  Speaker 1: Well, my parents love stories. Let's say a little broken.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, but how did they meet? Like,
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  Speaker 4: do you know?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know how they met, but I know how
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  Speaker 2: they left.
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  Speaker 4: Is it directly affected?
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  Speaker 10: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I did, left when I was five, never to
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  Speaker 2: be seen again. So that yeah, it's okay.
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  Speaker 4: You're all better for it.
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  Speaker 2: Oh no, I don't carry that around with me at all.
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  Speaker 2: You know, Mark, you don't bring it up. Super clean
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  Speaker 2: every single day, super clean. That's no marks whatsoever. I'm healthy.
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  Speaker 4: I laughed because I love to and I'm allowed to
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  Speaker 4: laugh at it, and you established that.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, but I'm sorry. Yeah, but why did you bring
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  Speaker 2: it up?
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  Speaker 5: So?
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  Speaker 4: I was actually chatting with your friend Brad the Fuzz
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  Speaker 4: this weekend, and Brad went to high school when my
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  Speaker 4: parents were teaching at the high school that he went
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  Speaker 4: to so that's how my parents met. I don't think
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  Speaker 4: it was like this big, beautiful, intense love story by
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  Speaker 4: any means. Actually, I think my parents probably met in
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  Speaker 4: the same way a lot of people meet, and it's
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  Speaker 4: just at work. They were working together and all the
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  Speaker 4: stars aligned and the rest is history.
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  Speaker 2: It's like guys said to Jane, Hey, Jane, do you
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  Speaker 2: do you want to grab a drink after work when
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  Speaker 2: the whistle blows and we bring our lunch pails together
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  Speaker 2: as we're walking through the parking lot.
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  Speaker 4: Oh and when you say whistle blows, I thought you
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  Speaker 4: met my mother's teachers.
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  Speaker 2: That teacher you mean, like this guy?
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  Speaker 4: Beautiful? That was their love like this guy?
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that would have been special. Hey yeah, and
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  Speaker 2: they're divorced as well.
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  Speaker 1: So there you go, Melissa, what is your parents love story?
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  Speaker 1: Do you remember?
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  Speaker 5: Well, they're both from a really small town, and you
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  Speaker 5: know that line and the Dixie Chick song where you
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  Speaker 5: look all around and also saw was earl. I think
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  Speaker 5: that was it. Okay, that is awesome, terrible, I know,
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  Speaker 5: but I really think that.
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  Speaker 14: That's what it was.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, E Is it is the full song like your
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  Speaker 4: parents love story?
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  Speaker 2: Oh?
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  Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, they are divorced, but not to
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  Speaker 3: that extreme.
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  Speaker 4: We got ya, gotcha?
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  Speaker 2: That is funny the Casey Clark Show.
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  Speaker 7: This is the Casey Clerk Show.
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  Speaker 2: If you just popped in, great to have you here.
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  Speaker 2: We're talking about if you know your parents love story,
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  Speaker 2: how they met? And I guess with a lot of
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  Speaker 2: couples they do meet through work.
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  Speaker 4: For the most party, I would think, so. I mean,
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  Speaker 4: it's just it's easier that you don't have to go.
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  Speaker 2: Too far right And this is an unscientific poll right now.
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  Speaker 2: But what we are noticing, and maybe it's just because
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  Speaker 2: our age, but so far, everybody we've been speaking with,
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  Speaker 2: including ourselves, everybody's been divorced.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, our parents all have all broken up.
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  Speaker 14: I know.
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  Speaker 4: But you know, beautiful love stories to begin with, but
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  Speaker 4: sometimes things just don't don't last.
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  Speaker 2: Wild Is this is not normal? I don't think. No.
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  Speaker 2: Now I'm trying to think about my buddies and all
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  Speaker 2: their parents actually are still and yeah they're still together.
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  Speaker 4: Oh well that's nice. That's nice for everybody in.
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  Speaker 1: The crowds here.
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  Speaker 2: Gess uh, Travis, love stories of your parents? How do
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  Speaker 2: they meet?
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  Speaker 3: How my parents met? They they met her a roller rink.
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  Speaker 3: I think it was back in the eighties.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, that's cute.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, they my dad was at the roller rinks. He
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  Speaker 3: saw the love of his life.
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  Speaker 2: And married her.
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  Speaker 4: Wow were they working there.
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  Speaker 3: No, they were just having fun.
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  Speaker 1: They were getting down, they're wrexing and.
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  Speaker 7: They caught each other's eyes all they did.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, Travis, how old were they?
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  Speaker 2: Do you know?
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  Speaker 14: The couple in their early twenties?
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  Speaker 2: Oh?
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  Speaker 1: Roller rink in their early twenties.
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  Speaker 4: It's so cute.
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  Speaker 14: That's I don't even know what a roller rink is
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  Speaker 14: before my time, I sure do.
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  Speaker 4: I love that story. That's adorable.
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  Speaker 2: That is really nice. And I'm thinking they're still together
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  Speaker 2: to this day.
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  Speaker 4: Unfortunately, No, they separated when I was five years old,
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  Speaker 4: and that story, but they're still best friends.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, and we're back up.
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  Speaker 4: That's great, all.
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  Speaker 2: Right, that's right, dang it.
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  Speaker 4: All right, buddy, have a great day.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, you guys have a fantastic day right by Casey
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  Speaker 2: Clerk's show.
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  Speaker 7: This is the Casey Clerk Show.
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  Speaker 1: Well, good to have you along. And he just popped in.
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  Speaker 2: Our friend Summer, who listens to the show, contacted us
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  Speaker 2: having a real rough time trying to break up with
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  Speaker 2: her boyfriend.
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  Speaker 4: Because he keeps avoiding it. Yeah, they've been dating for
• 17:21
  Speaker 4: about seven months, so like kind of serious but not
• 17:24
  Speaker 4: super duper serious. And yeah, she just feels like he
• 17:27
  Speaker 4: must see this breakup coming. That's why he's been canceling
• 17:30
  Speaker 4: all their days. He's just not really trying to get
• 17:33
  Speaker 4: together with her in person. So at this point, she's like,
• 17:37
  Speaker 4: especially before he goes away for work for a few weeks,
• 17:40
  Speaker 4: she wants to get this over with. She's like, can
• 17:42
  Speaker 4: I just do the breakup over text because he's not
• 17:46
  Speaker 4: meeting up with her in person.
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: One thing that you got to keep in mind as well,
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: if you have mutual friends, man, so because you're going
• 17:55
  Speaker 2: to have to do some pr work on that.
• 17:57
  Speaker 4: You're so right, you know what I mean? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,
• 18:00
  Speaker 4: Or you could maybe do a fun little game of
• 18:02
  Speaker 4: telephone and Summer can tell one friend and they can
• 18:05
  Speaker 4: tell two friends.
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: And so get ahead of it.
• 18:08
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, get ahead of it. But also just you know,
• 18:10
  Speaker 4: tell tell them, hey, I want to break up with
• 18:13
  Speaker 4: this guy, and hopefully it'll eventually get back to him.
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: I don't say anything.
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, let somebody else do it for it.
• 18:18
  Speaker 4: Let mother nature work itself up.
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: Sure, wait for the high and low tide.
• 18:22
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: That's funny. Jeff, what do you think? What do you
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: what would you do?
• 18:29
  Speaker 12: I would say that I would try to make whatever efforts,
• 18:33
  Speaker 12: even if it's coffee or whatever.
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: And if after like two or three attempts, it's just.
• 18:38
  Speaker 12: Clear that you know he's avoiding it, and I don't
• 18:40
  Speaker 12: know what else she's.
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: Supposed to do.
• 18:42
  Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, so two to three attempts, if he keeps
• 18:44
  Speaker 4: bailing on her to have the talk, then she's allowed
• 18:48
  Speaker 4: to just shoot him a text, I mean.
• 18:52
  Speaker 10: Or have a phone call.
• 18:54
  Speaker 12: Like I think it's better to have an.
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: Actual phone call.
• 18:56
  Speaker 12: Yeah, do it in person, but at text would be
• 18:59
  Speaker 12: like a low flash resort.
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  Speaker 14: And if he's not your calls.
• 19:02
  Speaker 4: Like yeah, put the writings on the wall at that.
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: Point, Yeah, yeah, what if you just ghosted him, Like listen,
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: if you're not getting back to me, I'm not going
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: to get back to you. And then by the time
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: he does get back to you, like, it's kind of
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: gonna be over anyway, right then you know.
• 19:18
  Speaker 12: Well, yeah, why make why make her out to be
• 19:20
  Speaker 12: the bad person in it?
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: He's gonna tease you to spin that story.
• 19:24
  Speaker 4: So I say, get him on the phone and she
• 19:29
  Speaker 4: becomes the bad guy. Oh yours, Oh my gosh, you
• 19:32
  Speaker 4: are so wise.
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: That is true.
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: Beauty. Do you have your beauty?
• 19:38
  Speaker 14: Thank you?
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: All right, have a great day, you too.
• 19:42
  Speaker 6: Casey Clerk's show.
• 19:44
  Speaker 7: This is the Casey Clerk Show.
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: If you just popped in. We're trying to help out
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: our friend Summer, who listens to the show, who contacted us?
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: And she just is trying to do something simple.
• 19:54
  Speaker 4: Yeah, she's trying to break up with her boyfriend, but
• 19:56
  Speaker 4: he keeps avoiding her, canceling on days she wants to
• 19:59
  Speaker 4: do it in person. She does want to take the
• 20:02
  Speaker 4: high road on that and do it in person, but
• 20:04
  Speaker 4: because he's avoiding her, she's like, can I just do
• 20:07
  Speaker 4: it over text?
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: At this point it's getting exhausting. Hey, it's like a
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: part of a suddenly.
• 20:12
  Speaker 4: Just trying to find out where he is and trying
• 20:14
  Speaker 4: to coordinate that at this point. Oh, and he's leaving
• 20:18
  Speaker 4: to go on a work trip for a.
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: Couple of weeks. This guy does not want to be single, no.
• 20:22
  Speaker 4: No, no, and Summer wants to get this.
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: And Summer wants to be single.
• 20:27
  Speaker 4: Yes, Oh, maybe she has something waiting in the wings.
• 20:29
  Speaker 4: Probably not that there's anything wrong with that.
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: No, they're not married.
• 20:32
  Speaker 4: They're not married, no exactly, and she can do whatever
• 20:35
  Speaker 4: she wants. She just really needs to break up with
• 20:36
  Speaker 4: this guy first.
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: Yeah, man, Ricky, what do you think if you've.
• 20:41
  Speaker 10: Given the guy enough, you know, notice that you really
• 20:45
  Speaker 10: need to get together, text him and say hey, we
• 20:48
  Speaker 10: need to talk.
• 20:49
  Speaker 3: And if he doesn't take that, h then it's totally acceptable.
• 20:52
  Speaker 4: I think he's really going to fall off the map
• 20:55
  Speaker 4: if she texts, hey, we need to talk.
• 20:57
  Speaker 9: Well he might and at that point and the ghost
• 21:00
  Speaker 9: totally acceptable.
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: Where's this coming from?
• 21:05
  Speaker 3: Well, you can't just ghost data guy.
• 21:07
  Speaker 10: That doesn't work.
• 21:08
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you can't do that.
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: I think everything was going, okay, what happened right out
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: of the clouds on this one.
• 21:15
  Speaker 3: Yeah, still still I stand by it.
• 21:19
  Speaker 4: If she has a ghost boyfriend, that's very true.
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: That's it.
• 21:22
  Speaker 4: It's tough dating ghosts, yeah it is.
• 21:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 21:26
  Speaker 12: Yeah, they're not emotionally available.
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: They're not or sometimes visually yeah yeah yeah, yeah, kind
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: of like a real boyfriend. Hell Time.
• 21:44
  Speaker 6: Clark Show.
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: Is a romantic The most popular spots in Canada to
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: propose the list is out usual suspects, baf Whistler, Niagara Falls,
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: Niagara on the Lake City.
• 22:01
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, those are all great places.
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: Mud Valley, Manitoba never made it.
• 22:06
  Speaker 4: That's really too bad. They had a good.
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: Run they did, I don't know, run.
• 22:13
  Speaker 9: Gross.
• 22:14
  Speaker 4: They ran a good campaign they did to try and
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  Speaker 4: get on that list.
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, they didn't make the list. I would have tweaked
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: a little bit on my proposal to Susie Cusy instead
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: of falling.
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  Speaker 6: In the sand.
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  Speaker 1: I was very excited just lit the record.
• 22:29
  Speaker 8: Shock.
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  Speaker 4: I can only imagine.
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: I was very excited.
• 22:32
  Speaker 4: Yeah, your heart must have been racing, and you were
• 22:34
  Speaker 4: trying to track down cameraman James.
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, camand get over here and take a picture.
• 22:40
  Speaker 4: And running in the sand is really hard. It's so hard,
• 22:43
  Speaker 4: you know what.
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: It's super tough. You're right, thank you. And then jumping
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: in the sand is even harder.
• 22:47
  Speaker 4: Did you like cut your knee up?
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: No, I got just a lot of sand everywhere.
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: The sand was everywhere.
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: I love that. Yeah, and you think you're running.
• 22:56
  Speaker 4: Fast, but oh you never are in sand. It doesn't
• 22:58
  Speaker 4: matter you think you are.
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: You're not running at least not fast enough to jump
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: up a divot a washed out river.
• 23:10
  Speaker 4: That's so cute.
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, okay, Kelsey, same question, would you change your
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: proposal or keep it the same?
• 23:17
  Speaker 9: I would one keep it?
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: Okay? Why?
• 23:22
  Speaker 5: He planned a birthday weekend up in Josper and had
• 23:26
  Speaker 5: a couple's massage.
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: And a gondola ride and proposed at the top.
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: Of the gondola get out of.
• 23:33
  Speaker 4: Wow, it's perfect.
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: What a what a flex?
• 23:38
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 23:38
  Speaker 5: And then all I had won it for my birthday
• 23:41
  Speaker 5: was a rock.
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: Oh what do you mean, like a like a rock
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: like you find on the road.
• 23:46
  Speaker 10: Like an amethyst, or like you know, just.
• 23:48
  Speaker 5: Like a raw rock.
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: Oh, I get it, I get it.
• 23:51
  Speaker 3: But instead she got me a dimond that kind of rock.
• 23:53
  Speaker 4: Okay. Did he say all the right things in his
• 23:57
  Speaker 4: proposal as well? Oh yes, yeah, yeah, yeah that's cute.
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: What a show no kidding, what a show.
• 24:04
  Speaker 12: Off he's allowed to plan on the holidays?
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: I'm no kidding.
• 24:09
  Speaker 4: Yes, that's all him.
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: Now what's his first name?
• 24:12
  Speaker 12: Michael?
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: Michael?
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: I have a new king. His name is Michael. I
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: will follow him everywhere, no kidding. Kelsey, that was awesome.
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: Thanks for sharing that one, No worry, Okay, have yourself
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: an amazing day you too, Thanks Kelsey.
• 24:32
  Speaker 11: You were listening to the Casey Clark Show Okay, the
• 24:37
  Speaker 11: top destinations for proposals if you're thinking of it, if
• 24:41
  Speaker 11: that's in your world.
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: Came out those destinations. No big surprises here, Whistler, bamf,
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: Niagara on the Lake, which is beautiful, Niagara Falls stunning,
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: Quebec City also stunning. Yes, been to all of those places.
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: I love it. In fact, the first trip that my
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: wife and I talk together was Whistler. Oh cute. We're
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: living in Toronto, and her sister my future sister in law.
• 25:09
  Speaker 4: Oh good.
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we stayed with Yes, it was pretty awesome. Nice.
• 25:12
  Speaker 4: Yeah, those are all beautiful places for an engagement.
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: So I would. I would not change anything about the
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: actual proposal happened shortly after that, I would. I fell
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: in the sand. We got proposed in Barbados. Yeah, in fact,
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: we still have the picture, none of you falling. No, no, no.
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: Shortly after that, cameraman Dave then said, yes, I will.
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: I was trying to get a because I didn't have
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: a camera and I wanted to capture them moment.
• 25:38
  Speaker 4: Sure of course you did.
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, so it all worked out. Listen, we're still
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: here together today, so right, whether she likes it or not, no,
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: exactly what I always say to her, sorry, sweets, only
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: one of us can marry up. Sorry about your luck. Yeah,
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: so that's what we always say, Kirsty, What about you?
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: Would you change anything about your proposal?
• 25:59
  Speaker 12: Yeah?
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: Okay?
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: Why why?
• 26:02
  Speaker 3: Because he just sent me, I saything, do you want
• 26:06
  Speaker 3: to get married?
• 26:07
  Speaker 12: Like a text message?
• 26:09
  Speaker 4: He proposed to you over text?
• 26:11
  Speaker 15: Yes?
• 26:13
  Speaker 4: Okay? And you said yes over text?
• 26:16
  Speaker 5: I did?
• 26:17
  Speaker 3: I did well?
• 26:18
  Speaker 5: Actually I said sure, I.
• 26:21
  Speaker 4: Mean yeah, I sent a thumbs up emoji, said an
• 26:26
  Speaker 4: angry face, but okay with a period obviously.
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: Okay, you know what. Listen, it worked. That one takes
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: the cake though.
• 26:41
  Speaker 4: Hey it's pretty good.
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: Bravo, bravo.
• 26:46
  Speaker 4: So if you could change it, would you prefer if
• 26:47
  Speaker 4: it was I don't know, at least a phone call
• 26:49
  Speaker 4: maybe maybe okay, something.
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: A voicemail.
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: Voice memo at least.
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah. You are wonderful. We appreciate you so much. You're
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: a lot of fun. We hope you have an awesome
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: day to day. All right, see you later. Bye.
• 27:10
  Speaker 9: It's the Casey Clark Show.
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: Let's play another round of finish the lyric. We're gonna
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: kick it off with our friend Serena. So, Serena, you
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: got to finish the lyric. We'll play the first part
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: of it and then we'll stop. You got to finish
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: the lyric after that. Listen. If you don't finish the
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: first one, we will dump and move on. You gotta
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: get two out of the three. Does that all make sense?
• 27:33
  Speaker 7: Yeah?
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: Okay, excellent?
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: Okay, So here comes finish the lyric lyric number one.
• 27:41
  Speaker 6: MOBOs and I'm good to go.
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm shutting this tracks down.
• 27:45
  Speaker 11: Give me a half an a half shave and a shower,
• 27:48
  Speaker 11: and to be outside.
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: Your half.
• 27:52
  Speaker 14: Might have a little dirt on the boot, keep going,
• 28:00
  Speaker 14: I have a little mud, have a little turn.
• 28:04
  Speaker 13: You got it up?
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: Nice? Okay, all right, So finish the lyric lyric number two.
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: You get this? You got to get two out of
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: the three. You don't get this, we got to move on.
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: You got it?
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, finish the lyric wagon wheel.
• 28:29
  Speaker 14: Rock me mom anyway you bitch?
• 28:32
  Speaker 15: Hey, hey hey mom?
• 28:35
  Speaker 9: Rock me.
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: Sing that again?
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: Sing that again?
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: Sing again?
• 28:41
  Speaker 3: Can you sorry? I had to continue the lyric where
• 28:44
  Speaker 3: it ended from wagon.
• 28:51
  Speaker 4: Rock me MoMA anyway you feel hey.
• 28:56
  Speaker 12: MoMA, rock me rock.
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: That's pretty good.
• 29:07
  Speaker 6: That's pretty good.
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: That's pretty good, no matter what.
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: Fu on money everybody.
• 29:19
  Speaker 9: It's the Casey Clark Show.
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: Kenny Chestney is going back on tour, but not a
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: performance tour, stadium tour. It's a book tour.
• 29:29
  Speaker 4: Oh, very cool.
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: He has his new book out called Heart Life Music. Basically,
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: I don't know if it's an autobiography, but it's pretty
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: close to him going through the music industry and then
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: his ups and downs through relationship and love and well.
• 29:45
  Speaker 4: And I just recently saw something online about his whirlwind
• 29:50
  Speaker 4: rene Es Elwiger marriage. I would love to know more
• 29:53
  Speaker 4: about that.
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm wondering if he's going to touch on that
• 29:57
  Speaker 2: in in the book because he was married for what
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: sixteen minutes something?
• 30:03
  Speaker 4: I think it was four months.
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: It was it was quick, quick, right, And they do
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: say opposite it's a tract, but that was two opposites.
• 30:13
  Speaker 4: I think so too.
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: So now I just discovered today that you used to
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: have a publishing deal. I did.
• 30:20
  Speaker 4: Yeah, to be fair, I think it's very easy to
• 30:25
  Speaker 4: get a publishing deal. Oh it's it's difficult to you know,
• 30:30
  Speaker 4: actually like make money and get money down on it.
• 30:34
  Speaker 4: But but yeah, no, my friend and I we were
• 30:36
  Speaker 4: writing a book for a little bit and we had
• 30:39
  Speaker 4: a contract written up, but we got bored and do
• 30:44
  Speaker 4: it fish? That was it?
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: That's fair.
• 30:48
  Speaker 3: Rick.
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: If you were writing a book, what would the book
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: be about? And if you can, what would the title be?
• 30:54
  Speaker 12: Listen to your parents? Okay, okay, they know more than
• 31:02
  Speaker 12: you give.
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: Them credit for it to the title listen to your parents.
• 31:06
  Speaker 4: Love it it works?
• 31:09
  Speaker 12: Yeah, well it would have worked for me if I
• 31:13
  Speaker 12: had done it.
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: What did you do that was so wrong that your
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: parents didn't want you to do?
• 31:18
  Speaker 12: No, it's not wrong with just all the little snippets
• 31:21
  Speaker 12: of life advice. Thinks that they made that you know,
• 31:24
  Speaker 12: they're trying to help you not make, but you know,
• 31:26
  Speaker 12: you figure they're not as smart as you are.
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you know.
• 31:30
  Speaker 12: Now at this point in life, I'm like son of
• 31:32
  Speaker 12: a b These guys do their stuff.
• 31:34
  Speaker 4: So it's a bit of a survival guide, is what
• 31:37
  Speaker 4: the listening to your parents?
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: I love that time.
• 31:41
  Speaker 12: The second the sequel book could be you Don't Know what.
• 31:45
  Speaker 3: You thought you did?
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: Life and Dummies. Oh, that's awesome.
• 31:54
  Speaker 9: The Casey Clerk.
• 31:55
  Speaker 7: Show is the Casey Clerk Show.
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: If you just popped in. We're talking about Kenny Chesney
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: releasing his first book called Heart Life Music he's going
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: on a book tour. He's pretty excited about this. He's
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: actually going to also narrate the audio edition of the book.
• 32:13
  Speaker 4: As he should.
• 32:13
  Speaker 2: Absolutely, But can I just say that when authors do that,
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: I feel unless they do it well, I feel, let's.
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: Get Matthew McConaughey to do it. Oh yeah, you know
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: what I mean?
• 32:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I want to listen to I don't want
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: to listen to you stumbling and bumbling.
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: I know it's your own words.
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: I get it, But then I just might not be
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: as interested in it because maybe the inflections and maybe
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: it's just not animated enough.
• 32:41
  Speaker 7: Right.
• 32:41
  Speaker 4: I think he's pretty well spoken. I think it'll be
• 32:43
  Speaker 4: just fun.
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: So, okay, we're asking you if you could or would
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: write a book, what would that be? The title to
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: my book was how do we get out of here?
• 32:55
  Speaker 4: What do you mean the book? Do you have a book?
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: No? No? If I would write one, it would be
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: how how how to get out of here?
• 33:02
  Speaker 9: Out?
• 33:03
  Speaker 4: Aware?
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: Everything?
• 33:04
  Speaker 4: I need more.
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: Everything exactly right.
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: You would be seeing that on the bookshelf and you're like,
• 33:08
  Speaker 2: how do you get out of what? Everything?
• 33:10
  Speaker 9: Oh?
• 33:10
  Speaker 13: Wow?
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: How to get out of social awkward situations? How do
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: you get of socially awkward conversations? How to get out
• 33:17
  Speaker 2: of work, how to leave things early?
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: How do you get out of a party?
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: Oh? Man, how to get out of here?
• 33:22
  Speaker 4: That would be a long book.
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it'd be Oh, it'd be like thick. Yeah.
• 33:25
  Speaker 4: How many pages do you think?
• 33:27
  Speaker 2: Thousands?
• 33:27
  Speaker 4: Thousands? Okay, great, can't wait.
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not going to write it.
• 33:32
  Speaker 4: No, I know you're trying to get out of it.
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: How do I get out of it? Oh? The irony?
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: Oh okay? So angela same question. If you're going to
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: write a book, what's the title and what it's What
• 33:45
  Speaker 2: is it all about? Like this one?
• 33:51
  Speaker 11: Oh?
• 33:53
  Speaker 10: Well, there's I just think it's about learning from past
• 33:56
  Speaker 10: experience sad ugly, how to take a bad situation and
• 34:02
  Speaker 10: turn it into a good one once you get past it.
• 34:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah. What's the title of your book?
• 34:08
  Speaker 10: My crazy ex husband?
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: I can't wait to read it.
• 34:15
  Speaker 4: So it's a bit of an autobiography, you might say.
• 34:18
  Speaker 10: Yeah, okay, that my crazy ex husband. I went back
• 34:21
  Speaker 10: to school to better myself to give him a finger.
• 34:24
  Speaker 2: Oh wow, there you go.
• 34:26
  Speaker 4: That's the spirit written on the back. Yeah okay, yeah,
• 34:31
  Speaker 4: I love it.
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: It's going to be the giving my ex the Finger Tour.
• 34:37
  Speaker 6: You Casey Clark's show.
• 34:40
  Speaker 7: This is the Casey Clerk Show.
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: Are you a Cuddler? This is from our friend Joanne
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: who listens to the show. She actually chimes in on
• 34:50
  Speaker 2: other things, but now it's tables have turn between her
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: and her husband.
• 34:54
  Speaker 4: Yeah. So they've been together for a while, married for
• 34:56
  Speaker 4: over twenty years. They're in their fifties. Joanne brought up
• 34:59
  Speaker 4: to her and you know, I really missed the days
• 35:01
  Speaker 4: and we used to cuddle more. And he said, that's
• 35:05
  Speaker 4: just not realistic. You know, we've been together for a
• 35:07
  Speaker 4: long time. People, real couples don't really cuddle. That's like
• 35:10
  Speaker 4: a thing in the movies. So she's like, oh my gosh,
• 35:13
  Speaker 4: it's cuddling actually some sort of a weird myth Am
• 35:16
  Speaker 4: I maybe being too needy for asking this of my husband.
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: Well, I mean it depends, like when when do you
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: want the cuddling to happen? When does it start? Yeah?
• 35:25
  Speaker 4: I think that's a good point too. There's definitely a
• 35:28
  Speaker 4: time and a place to cudd all.
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: Like, you know, Susie and I were cuddling looking over
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: our RSPs. That's kind of so.
• 35:36
  Speaker 4: I guess you can cuddle anything.
• 35:38
  Speaker 2: I mean that's that's a little different. What do you mean, well,
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: because it's kind of weird.
• 35:42
  Speaker 4: Oh, it's just that's what you meant by different. It's
• 35:44
  Speaker 4: just kind of weird.
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: Stay it out loud. Yeah, yeah, it kind of hits differently.
• 35:50
  Speaker 4: Yeah, No, that's weird.
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: By the way, it wasn't with our account either.
• 35:55
  Speaker 4: You just had a massage train. Get in here, man.
• 35:58
  Speaker 2: Simon, let's go through these Where are we are? We up?
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: We down? So it's a lot.
• 36:03
  Speaker 4: You don't have to answer that now, Sarah, No.
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: Get over for a cut.
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: That's what we do.
• 36:08
  Speaker 4: Come on, fam, that's so cute.
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah. So yeah, it was just her and I just
• 36:12
  Speaker 2: wanted to clarify that make it less weird. Time in
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: great Okay, Hayley, do you think the non cuddling thing,
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: what do you think is it's weird or not or what?
• 36:22
  Speaker 12: No?
• 36:22
  Speaker 3: I think you can always make time to cuddle.
• 36:25
  Speaker 4: Okay, So it's not like this big myth that we
• 36:28
  Speaker 4: only get from movies and TV shows.
• 36:31
  Speaker 5: No, I think like it definitely happens more in the beginning. Yes,
• 36:36
  Speaker 5: but I think in a relationship.
• 36:38
  Speaker 3: You should still always make time to cuddle.
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: And uh yeah, when is the best time to cuddle.
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: Is it during Netflix time or is it at bed?
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: Like bed time's probably not the time you want to cuddle.
• 36:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah, no, no, what's the time everyone to sleep gets
• 36:55
  Speaker 3: to the.
• 36:55
  Speaker 10: Other side of your bed.
• 36:56
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, exactly and face opposite directions.
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: That's fair, Haley, that's it's fairy. There's a border there, bub.
• 37:05
  Speaker 4: All right, and the pillows there on purpose.
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: Let's just say I revoked your passport. Yeah yeah, your
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: passport needs renewing. It's expired. Oh, Haley, you are the best.
• 37:20
  Speaker 3: Well you guys, have a good day you.
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: Haley, appreciate you.
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: The Casey Clark Show, Oh boy, I had no idea
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: this was going to be such a popular.
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: Little topic here.
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: Our friend Joanne, who listens to the show, uh, and
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: she's the one who usually chimes in on everything else.
• 37:39
  Speaker 2: She has a dilemma now with her and her husband.
• 37:41
  Speaker 4: So they've been married for over twenty years, they're in
• 37:43
  Speaker 4: their early fifties, and she brought up to him recently like,
• 37:47
  Speaker 4: can you cuddle me more? Can we go back to
• 37:49
  Speaker 4: the way things were when we first started dating, And
• 37:52
  Speaker 4: the hobby was just like, hey, that's not realistic for
• 37:55
  Speaker 4: couples like us. We've been together too long? Why are
• 37:57
  Speaker 4: we cuddling so much? And it made her even think
• 38:01
  Speaker 4: And I totally get this because I've had this conversation
• 38:03
  Speaker 4: with my partner before too, that movies and TV shows, Yeah,
• 38:08
  Speaker 4: I think they kind of make cuddling seem a lot
• 38:11
  Speaker 4: more comfortable and done a lot more than what is
• 38:15
  Speaker 4: realistic for couples.
• 38:16
  Speaker 2: Yeahyarticularly if one's gasier than the other, cuddling is kind
• 38:22
  Speaker 2: of hard.
• 38:22
  Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, And then I find most couples, one run's
• 38:27
  Speaker 4: really hot and one run's really cold when they sleep, right,
• 38:30
  Speaker 4: So I also understand why cuddling just doesn't work at
• 38:34
  Speaker 4: all times.
• 38:37
  Speaker 2: I've also noticed through the messages we've been receiving there's
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: not one guy. And this is smart probably on ther
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: Park who's chimed up. They're like, I'm not I'm not
• 38:48
  Speaker 2: saying anything.
• 38:48
  Speaker 4: No, you're so right. It's all women saying you know what,
• 38:51
  Speaker 4: you gotta goddle you love language.
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you gotta see the love language. Guys. I don't
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: care what language it is. I am not saying anything.
• 39:01
  Speaker 4: Silence is the language I'm speaking. Mouse shut, which is smart.
• 39:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, no kidding, no kidding, Emily, where is you say,
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: you cuddle all the time. Where's your cuddle zone? Where
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: do you got to do that? And what time and
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: stuff like that.
• 39:17
  Speaker 3: After if it's been a rough day at work, we'll
• 39:20
  Speaker 3: have like a ten minute cuddle on the on the
• 39:23
  Speaker 3: coach just to like recharge.
• 39:25
  Speaker 4: Oh that is.
• 39:27
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, when we fall asleep percent if he's washing
• 39:31
  Speaker 3: the dishes, I'll come up behind him and like wrap
• 39:33
  Speaker 3: my arms around him. Like I can't believe people don't cuddle.
• 39:37
  Speaker 4: So when you fall asleep cuddling, do you wake up
• 39:40
  Speaker 4: that way?
• 39:41
  Speaker 9: No?
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: Do you wake up in the laundry room? You move
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: around so much?
• 39:47
  Speaker 3: Yeah, some people do do nocturnal gymnastics.
• 39:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah no, I don't know. It's a thing. Yeah no, Okay,
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: so you know.
• 39:55
  Speaker 3: What, keep cuddling, but don't wake up that why.
• 39:57
  Speaker 4: That's fair.
• 39:58
  Speaker 2: We're marking you down as the cuddle Okay, Emily, you're
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: the best.
• 40:03
  Speaker 3: I should do it.
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: We will. You're amazing. Okay, some great day.
• 40:11
  Speaker 11: You were listening to the Casey Clark Show.
• 40:16
  Speaker 2: If you just jumped in, we're doing a cute or
• 40:19
  Speaker 2: cringey story. Chris and Tasha White finally got married after
• 40:22
  Speaker 2: fourteen years. They got a couple of kids. They told
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: everybody don't worry about any gifts. So when you got
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: to the reception, there was a card reader there where
• 40:30
  Speaker 2: you could tap yuck. There was a little sign there
• 40:34
  Speaker 2: that's that said don't be tight, pay for our flight.
• 40:38
  Speaker 4: Guests there loved it, oh my goodness.
• 40:41
  Speaker 2: Absolutely loved it.
• 40:43
  Speaker 4: I get the convenience factor, but I think it's a
• 40:45
  Speaker 4: little tacky.
• 40:46
  Speaker 9: Again.
• 40:47
  Speaker 4: You're trying to be so cutesy with the wedding, but
• 40:49
  Speaker 4: then you have this tacky, fantastic card.
• 40:53
  Speaker 2: We'll dress it up like it'll look real, look really good.
• 40:56
  Speaker 2: It could have probably been part of the wedding part.
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: Do you look so good?
• 41:01
  Speaker 4: Okay, you're gonna throw some twine and glitter.
• 41:05
  Speaker 2: On and all of a sudden get a little spotlight
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: on it, a little stage right.
• 41:11
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't like it. I still you're not going
• 41:13
  Speaker 4: to convince the otherwise.
• 41:14
  Speaker 2: This is such a great idea. Well listen, this is
• 41:17
  Speaker 2: so good? Right?
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: Is this cute or is it cringey?
• 41:22
  Speaker 2: Really?
• 41:23
  Speaker 4: Okay, why do you think that?
• 41:25
  Speaker 3: I just they've been together. I don't know.
• 41:29
  Speaker 5: I feel like for something like that, it should be
• 41:32
  Speaker 5: just thank you for the card, not really expecting anything.
• 41:35
  Speaker 5: It feels like that's expecting something and you're telling everybody
• 41:38
  Speaker 5: no gifts, and I just flipped like that. It seems
• 41:41
  Speaker 5: kind of weird.
• 41:41
  Speaker 2: Well, I'm going to give them money anyway, and it
• 41:43
  Speaker 2: saves me from writing a check, which I don't even
• 41:45
  Speaker 2: know where my checkbook is quite honestly.
• 41:47
  Speaker 5: Right, Yeah, I don't know.
• 41:49
  Speaker 10: I don't like that one.
• 41:50
  Speaker 12: Yeah.
• 41:51
  Speaker 4: Yeah, and I even feel the don't be tight pay
• 41:54
  Speaker 4: for our flight.
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: I thought that was kind of fun.
• 41:56
  Speaker 4: That kind of rubs me the wrong way. It's a
• 41:57
  Speaker 4: little demanding to me.
• 41:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I could do another sign, yeah, or at least
• 42:04
  Speaker 2: add a please or something. Give me money because I'm
• 42:09
  Speaker 2: your honey.
• 42:10
  Speaker 4: Honestly, that's better. It's a little better.
• 42:13
  Speaker 5: It's a little softer, you know, give me money so
• 42:16
  Speaker 5: I can run away with my honey.
• 42:17
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, there you go. Yeah that's even better.
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, okay, along to my wallet.
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, you're the best. You're the best. Molesta.
• 42:27
  Speaker 9: It's the Casey Clark Show.
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: If you just rolled in, we're asking you if this
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: is cute or is it cringey. A couple recently got
• 42:35
  Speaker 2: married after being together for fourteen years. I have a
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: couple of kids, so they told everybody on their wedding invite. Listen,
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: forget about the gifts. We got everything we ever wanted, including.
• 42:44
  Speaker 4: Love oh so sweet.
• 42:46
  Speaker 2: But at the reception table when you went there, there
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: was a tap machine. So you just tap, you tap
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: your little gift. No to the couple.
• 42:57
  Speaker 4: I think that because you work so hard when you
• 43:00
  Speaker 4: plan a wedding to make things look aesthetically pleasing. Yeah,
• 43:03
  Speaker 4: and I'm just picturing the registry table where there's beautiful
• 43:06
  Speaker 4: decorations and a guest book that someone put a lot
• 43:09
  Speaker 4: of work into, and then you just ruin it by
• 43:12
  Speaker 4: putting on this card reader.
• 43:14
  Speaker 2: Like Exuly, they had a little sign that said, don't
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: be tight, pay for our flight, basically raising money for
• 43:21
  Speaker 2: their honeymoon, which I think is brilliant.
• 43:23
  Speaker 4: I also think that's rude. No, don't be tight, pay
• 43:27
  Speaker 4: for our flight. There's nicer ways of putting that. Come on,
• 43:30
  Speaker 4: say please, say please, and thank you.
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: Give us money for our honeymoon.
• 43:38
  Speaker 4: Honey Okay, if you ever put that sign up, I
• 43:42
  Speaker 4: would give you absolutely money.
• 43:44
  Speaker 2: I think this is awesome. I could see rolling this
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: out for like baby showers, maybe engagement party. Sure, write
• 43:55
  Speaker 2: a tap there. What's the difference?
• 43:57
  Speaker 4: I don't know. It's just supposed to.
• 44:00
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 44:00
  Speaker 4: Weddings are supposed to look nice and clean and just
• 44:03
  Speaker 4: not you just yeah, I totally agree with you that
• 44:08
  Speaker 4: there's just this one little issue and it is just
• 44:10
  Speaker 4: the card reader. I just think it's aesthetically. They do
• 44:13
  Speaker 4: not like it aesthetically. I think it's yucky, cute or cringey. Becky,
• 44:18
  Speaker 4: what do you think about all this?
• 44:20
  Speaker 15: I've always felt it was a little bit tacky to
• 44:23
  Speaker 15: ask specifically for that. If you're saying no gifts, you
• 44:25
  Speaker 15: mean no gift, maybe in advance if you want that gift,
• 44:30
  Speaker 15: so for it, like say something about it ahead of time,
• 44:32
  Speaker 15: but you're kind of bringing it on people.
• 44:34
  Speaker 4: Yeah, if you set up a what are those called
• 44:37
  Speaker 4: a tap machine?
• 44:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah machine. I thought that was cool. I mean like
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: super convenient.
• 44:44
  Speaker 15: Yeah, yeah, it's convenient, it's fast. Yeah, you're in the
• 44:47
  Speaker 15: mood for sure.
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: I don't think i'd have an issue with it, really,
• 44:50
  Speaker 2: I don't think I would.
• 44:52
  Speaker 10: I'd like to know about it in advance, Yeah, okay.
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: If it's in advance, I'm okay with it.
• 44:57
  Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, okay, it's the Casey Clarks.
• 45:01
  Speaker 2: Another round of finish the lyric let's bring up our
• 45:06
  Speaker 2: friend Laura. Laura, you're of first here, finish the lyric.
• 45:09
  Speaker 2: What we're gonna do is we're gonna play a portion
• 45:12
  Speaker 2: of a very popular song. We're gonna stop it. You're
• 45:14
  Speaker 2: gonna have to finish the lyric. You have to get
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: two out of the three. If you can't get past
• 45:20
  Speaker 2: number one, we cut and we go. Okay, okay, all right,
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: you got this, You got this, all right, Laura, finish
• 45:30
  Speaker 2: this lyric.
• 45:33
  Speaker 16: Jump Shower in the Blood starts pumping and on the streets.
• 45:36
  Speaker 16: The traffic starts chopping books like me on the job
• 45:40
  Speaker 16: number at the.
• 45:40
  Speaker 3: Time, singing nine two.
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: Five, keep going, no, no, Laura, sorry, okay, dang it?
• 45:57
  Speaker 2: Uh over Tom pam you ready, I'm ready. All right,
• 46:04
  Speaker 2: same rules. You got to get two out of the three. Okay.
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: If you get the first one wrong, we gotta move on.
• 46:09
  Speaker 2: Here we go, jumping.
• 46:11
  Speaker 16: Shower in the Blood starts pumping out on the streets.
• 46:14
  Speaker 16: The traffic starts chopping books like me on the job
• 46:17
  Speaker 16: from nine to five.
• 46:25
  Speaker 8: Five?
• 46:26
  Speaker 5: What a way to make a living?
• 46:30
  Speaker 16: What little way live?
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: I think we'll do that as a pass.
• 46:37
  Speaker 2: Okay, we'll do that as a pass. Sure, Okay, finish
• 46:40
  Speaker 2: the lyric number two, the best about.
• 46:45
  Speaker 4: Money of the bog into.
• 46:52
  Speaker 2: Well, oh, keep going. You gotta go on on that one.
• 47:00
  Speaker 5: It's always so hard when you're on the spot.
• 47:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I know.
• 47:05
  Speaker 14: I got this.
• 47:10
  Speaker 2: Danging. Okay, back over to Judy, Judy, same rules. You
• 47:15
  Speaker 2: got to get now, two out of two? Okay, all right,
• 47:20
  Speaker 2: you ready finish the lyrics?
• 47:32
  Speaker 13: Oh lady? Oh dang oh no, dang it, Judy, I'm
• 47:45
  Speaker 13: so sorry.
• 47:46
  Speaker 2: Nice try though.
• 47:47
  Speaker 4: Yeah, nice try?
• 47:49
  Speaker 2: All right? Oh well, do we have enough time? Okay?
• 47:53
  Speaker 2: You know what, maybe we'll we'll play it one more time. Okay,
• 47:57
  Speaker 2: play it one more time.
• 47:58
  Speaker 9: Coming up Casey Clerk's show.
• 48:01
  Speaker 7: This is the Casey Clerk Show.
• 48:05
  Speaker 2: Today is First Love Day, meaning we celebrate our first
• 48:08
  Speaker 2: loves that we've ever had in our lives. And we're
• 48:11
  Speaker 2: not talking about your parents, We're not talking right, We're
• 48:14
  Speaker 2: talking about the romantic first love you've ever had.
• 48:17
  Speaker 4: And it's interesting to think about, like what your definition
• 48:20
  Speaker 4: of love was back then, you know, like my my
• 48:25
  Speaker 4: first my high school boyfriend, I would say was my
• 48:28
  Speaker 4: first love really, but like looking back on it, I'm like,
• 48:32
  Speaker 4: that wasn't love exactly exactly, but for what I thought
• 48:37
  Speaker 4: love was at the time, I was very much in
• 48:41
  Speaker 4: love with him.
• 48:42
  Speaker 2: Well, that's like saying, you know, my first love was
• 48:44
  Speaker 2: when I was six. His name was, you know, Deacon,
• 48:50
  Speaker 2: because that was love at the time.
• 48:52
  Speaker 4: Yah, yeah, no exactly, but for what I felt then,
• 48:55
  Speaker 4: that was my first love. Really. Yeah, sorry, I think.
• 49:00
  Speaker 2: It just like you don't know what love is at
• 49:01
  Speaker 2: that age. No, exactly, you know what I mean? Yeah,
• 49:04
  Speaker 2: So did you now let me push this question to you.
• 49:08
  Speaker 2: Did you say I love you to anybody else other
• 49:11
  Speaker 2: than Tyler, your partner.
• 49:12
  Speaker 4: In my life?
• 49:13
  Speaker 2: Yes?
• 49:13
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, okay, so let's go. Oh yeah, okay, I
• 49:17
  Speaker 4: just handed out.
• 49:18
  Speaker 2: We just skipped to that part because I'm more interested
• 49:22
  Speaker 2: and that sounds a lot more fun.
• 49:24
  Speaker 4: How many times I've said I a new people?
• 49:28
  Speaker 14: One?
• 49:30
  Speaker 4: Maybe, two, three, three for sure?
• 49:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, let's throw in a four.
• 49:37
  Speaker 4: Let's go with four.
• 49:39
  Speaker 2: Let's go with four.
• 49:40
  Speaker 4: Go with four.
• 49:40
  Speaker 2: Wow, but let me think about it. Okay, Well that's
• 49:43
  Speaker 2: not bad, thank you.
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: That's not four before Tyler.
• 49:47
  Speaker 4: No, three before Tyler.
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: Okay, well that's even better.
• 49:49
  Speaker 4: I'm still waiting on Tyler. I'm just kidding. We've been
• 49:52
  Speaker 4: together almost twelve years.
• 49:54
  Speaker 2: Still waiting no stop to stop stop, Larry, do you
• 49:59
  Speaker 2: remember your first life?
• 50:01
  Speaker 9: I'll say her first name?
• 50:02
  Speaker 2: Well, Emera camera camera. I don't think with a name
• 50:05
  Speaker 2: like that you have to say a lot.
• 50:08
  Speaker 4: She knows who she is.
• 50:11
  Speaker 2: She lives on the coast. Okay, how old were you?
• 50:14
  Speaker 9: Oh, nineteen June?
• 50:17
  Speaker 4: So were you dating or did you just say? Okay, wonder.
• 50:27
  Speaker 2: I love you, Amra. You make my world go round?
• 50:33
  Speaker 9: Amera?
• 50:33
  Speaker 4: Who is this?
• 50:36
  Speaker 14: My name is.
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: Larry, and we're going to be great together.
• 50:40
  Speaker 2: You call me big Hair.
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: You can call me big Hair for short.
• 50:46
  Speaker 2: Larry. You're awesome.
• 50:48
  Speaker 5: Let me go.
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: You're awesome, all right, buddy out.
• 50:51
  Speaker 6: Okay, see Casey Clark Show.
• 50:53
  Speaker 7: This is the Casey Clark Show.
• 50:57
  Speaker 2: We're celebrating First Love Day, and this is when we
• 51:00
  Speaker 2: celebrate the first love you've ever had. This is a
• 51:02
  Speaker 2: romantic love. This is the first person in your life
• 51:05
  Speaker 2: outside of your family. Hopefully you've said I fell in
• 51:08
  Speaker 2: love with you and I love you.
• 51:10
  Speaker 4: Ooh okay, So who was your first love?
• 51:12
  Speaker 2: Holy bly uh boy, I cannot remember that. I must
• 51:17
  Speaker 2: have said that to my first wife. Pretty there's yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure I did. So let's skip before her.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 51:26
  Speaker 2: Then it gets a little sketchy. Okay, Like I was
• 51:29
  Speaker 2: saying to you, like from high school to like twenty
• 51:35
  Speaker 2: three twenty four, I don't remember a whole lot of relationships.
• 51:41
  Speaker 4: Going on in that, right, Well, you were sewing your
• 51:43
  Speaker 4: wild thoughts, which people can do when they're in their
• 51:46
  Speaker 4: early twenties.
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: What what always doing?
• 51:50
  Speaker 13: What?
• 51:51
  Speaker 4: You've never heard that expression?
• 51:52
  Speaker 2: I know, but I just it just seems so like
• 51:55
  Speaker 2: I was, you know, my best buddy wash you know,
• 51:59
  Speaker 2: mister angles.
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  Speaker 4: You know, I know it's it's an old but but yeah,
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  Speaker 4: I mean I think that makes perfect sense that you
• 52:07
  Speaker 4: weren't tied down.
• 52:09
  Speaker 2: I was sawing my wild oafs before I shipped off
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  Speaker 2: to war. Yes, it's good for you know, I'm not
• 52:18
  Speaker 2: that old. Wow, But that was like traditionally when everybody
• 52:23
  Speaker 2: was in you know, university.
• 52:25
  Speaker 4: Right right? So how many times have then you said
• 52:28
  Speaker 4: I love you before?
• 52:30
  Speaker 2: One?
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  Speaker 13: Uh?
• 52:33
  Speaker 2: Two? And kind of my wife would be three? Two?
• 52:38
  Speaker 15: Two?
• 52:39
  Speaker 10: Way?
• 52:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think two before my wife.
• 52:41
  Speaker 4: Are you missing your high school girlfriend on that? I
• 52:43
  Speaker 4: don't think I ever said that, No way, Why would
• 52:46
  Speaker 4: I Because she was your high school sweetheart, you didn't
• 52:50
  Speaker 4: love her?
• 52:51
  Speaker 2: Why are you giving me? Heck? Now?
• 52:55
  Speaker 14: Wow?
• 52:56
  Speaker 4: Decades removed.
• 52:57
  Speaker 2: You didn't love her decades.
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: Gosh, Laura, let's go with your first love.
• 53:06
  Speaker 9: Do you remember, I'm Blake?
• 53:09
  Speaker 4: Blake cute and what happened?
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: What happened to Blake was jerk.
• 53:17
  Speaker 10: Yeah, he was a little bit of a jerk.
• 53:18
  Speaker 3: My parents did not like him.
• 53:20
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 53:20
  Speaker 2: I don't like Jake.
• 53:21
  Speaker 4: He doesn't sound good Blake.
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: I don't like Blake or Jake Now.
• 53:27
  Speaker 4: I like either of them.
• 53:28
  Speaker 2: Or a guy named Snake.
• 53:30
  Speaker 4: Yeah he's trouble.
• 53:31
  Speaker 7: We all know that.
• 53:32
  Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah, any guy named Blake.
• 53:37
  Speaker 6: Casey Clark Show.
• 53:42
  Speaker 2: Okay, if you just popped in, how would you handle
• 53:44
  Speaker 2: this socially awkward situation?
• 53:46
  Speaker 4: So Brandy usually hosts Thanksgiving for her husband's family. I
• 53:50
  Speaker 4: guess every year, like the mother in law picks apart
• 53:52
  Speaker 4: her cooking. The sister in law is like, there's not
• 53:55
  Speaker 4: enough stuff for me to eat around here. So in
• 53:57
  Speaker 4: the family group chat, Brandy was like, why don't we
• 54:00
  Speaker 4: you just change who hosts Thanksgiving. Let's make it a
• 54:03
  Speaker 4: yearly thing, go to somebody else's house. And then all
• 54:06
  Speaker 4: of a sudden, out of the woodwork, everyone's like, no,
• 54:08
  Speaker 4: you're ruining Thanksgiving. The only place to have it is
• 54:12
  Speaker 4: at your house. Why are you making it less special
• 54:15
  Speaker 4: than it normally is? So Brandy just doesn't know.
• 54:17
  Speaker 2: Well, maybe maybe Brandy is taking it too seriously, maybe
• 54:21
  Speaker 2: you know what, maybe Like, so you don't like my turkey,
• 54:24
  Speaker 2: what are you going to do? It's my turkey?
• 54:26
  Speaker 4: Yeah, smother it and gravy like everybody.
• 54:28
  Speaker 2: Like everybody else, Like, it's not that hard, and who
• 54:31
  Speaker 2: doesn't love Who doesn't love a turkey sandwich?
• 54:34
  Speaker 13: Yeah?
• 54:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I mean.
• 54:35
  Speaker 4: So really we're all waiting for leftovers anyway.
• 54:37
  Speaker 2: Who thinks about I mean it's too dry? Yeah, I've
• 54:42
  Speaker 2: never heard of the turkey being too dry.
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: No, when there's.
• 54:46
  Speaker 4: Exactly when there's gravy, like that's impossible or crimeberry sauce. Yeah, like,
• 54:50
  Speaker 4: we can all make it work. It's not a big deal.
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: So maybe your sister in law and or mother in
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: law and are crazy.
• 54:57
  Speaker 4: I'm getting that Vie a little bit.
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: Monica. You just said, why don't you just all do
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: a pot luck?
• 55:03
  Speaker 12: Well, yeah, everybody just bring a dish. And that's what
• 55:07
  Speaker 12: we do with our family reunions now because it's too
• 55:09
  Speaker 12: much for mom to do everything, So everybody just something.
• 55:13
  Speaker 4: Yeah, regardless of who's a good cook who's not a
• 55:15
  Speaker 4: good cook. I think what's that saying, especially about Thanksgiving dinner?
• 55:20
  Speaker 4: Like more hands make less work?
• 55:21
  Speaker 10: Right?
• 55:21
  Speaker 4: Like why not?
• 55:22
  Speaker 16: Yeah?
• 55:23
  Speaker 10: And everybody does way too much anyway.
• 55:26
  Speaker 12: It's like have a little something and then just have
• 55:29
  Speaker 12: some fun.
• 55:30
  Speaker 2: Who's doing the turkey though? That's the that's the one
• 55:33
  Speaker 2: that everybody's going to focus on.
• 55:35
  Speaker 12: Turkeys are easy.
• 55:36
  Speaker 4: Just meet thermometer in there and then as soon as
• 55:40
  Speaker 4: it says the right temperature, you take it out.
• 55:43
  Speaker 2: No joke.
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: I gotta do the turkey this year, and I am.
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: I am so worried about it.
• 55:47
  Speaker 10: Really.
• 55:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so I use the meat. I'm gonna stick it
• 55:50
  Speaker 2: with a meat thermometer and letter roll. It's like, let's whatever.
• 55:54
  Speaker 2: It's gonna come out. Look, it's gonna look like a
• 55:56
  Speaker 2: purse that perfect.
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  Speaker 8: Whatever.
• 56:03
  Speaker 2: Monica, listen, you're the best.
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: We appreciate you.
• 56:05
  Speaker 2: Well, good luck Kacey with your Thanksgiving.
• 56:07
  Speaker 4: I want to hear about it.
• 56:08
  Speaker 2: No, you will, Oh you will, Monica, you will?
• 56:11
  Speaker 11: Right, you were listening to the Casey Clark shows.
• 56:17
  Speaker 2: No hand of this. Well, listen, if you just rolled in,
• 56:23
  Speaker 2: we're doing another edition of how would you handle this
• 56:25
  Speaker 2: socially awkward situation?
• 56:27
  Speaker 4: So Brandy's hosting Thanksgiving dinner for her husband's family, and
• 56:31
  Speaker 4: I think we all have these people in our family
• 56:34
  Speaker 4: or extended family, right. Mother in law always complains about
• 56:37
  Speaker 4: the cooking. Sister in law's like, mah, there's not enough
• 56:39
  Speaker 4: healthy stuff for me. And so Brandy subtly suggested, like, hey,
• 56:44
  Speaker 4: let's just maybe rotate hosting duties. But now she's being
• 56:48
  Speaker 4: accused of ruining Thanksgiving, so she just doesn't really know
• 56:51
  Speaker 4: what to do well.
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: Tough trying to make everybody happy.
• 56:54
  Speaker 4: I don't think you ever know.
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: I mean I try that every every single day.
• 56:58
  Speaker 4: To day time. You really can't make it.
• 57:00
  Speaker 2: I try it, yeah, but I try it, you know what.
• 57:02
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to do it every single day. You know
• 57:04
  Speaker 2: I'm unsuccessful. My wife says, hey, what are you doing today?
• 57:08
  Speaker 2: And I always say, I'm on the hustle on you.
• 57:10
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to make a down payment on the moon
• 57:12
  Speaker 2: for you. So I'm just exhausted, Okay, I believe it
• 57:18
  Speaker 2: or not, so she I get in different ways.
• 57:24
  Speaker 4: Exhaustage is here, Yeah, right, I mean I.
• 57:26
  Speaker 2: Know too much for is it?
• 57:30
  Speaker 8: Or is it?
• 57:31
  Speaker 5: Man?
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: Angela? You're saying, rotate doing the turkey or something?
• 57:38
  Speaker 10: Someone else makes the turkey, brings it and they switch
• 57:41
  Speaker 10: the other side around.
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: Hard though, when you have to bring the turkey.
• 57:45
  Speaker 10: Over, you know what I mean, maybe they won't complain
• 57:48
  Speaker 10: about it.
• 57:49
  Speaker 2: Just a big.
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: Hassle it is.
• 57:53
  Speaker 2: You know, you got to put the turkey like a
• 57:55
  Speaker 2: child seat or something, you know, so it doesn't move around.
• 57:59
  Speaker 2: You gotta make sure it's still warm, so you got
• 58:02
  Speaker 2: to dress it up in some sort of sked do suit.
• 58:04
  Speaker 10: Right, I agree, But they might appreciate it more.
• 58:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, maybe maybe maybe sounds like and then it's
• 58:12
  Speaker 2: gonna get there and it's still probably gonna be a
• 58:14
  Speaker 2: little cold. Then you're gonna heat it up, and then
• 58:15
  Speaker 2: it's gonna taste like rubber.
• 58:17
  Speaker 3: Oh well, then maybe they still host it next time.
• 58:23
  Speaker 2: That's true. But then then I'm gonna have to go
• 58:26
  Speaker 2: over there at place and it's gonna be cramped. Their
• 58:29
  Speaker 2: table's cramped there smells like dirty carpet.
• 58:35
  Speaker 3: Yep, No matter what, the husband loses it.
• 58:37
  Speaker 2: Oh no, he's done.
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: He's dead, he's gone.
• 58:40
  Speaker 4: And I think being uncomfortable with family is what Thanksgiving
• 58:44
  Speaker 4: is all about, isn't it.
• 58:45
  Speaker 9: It's the Casey Clark Show, all right, This is round two.
• 58:49
  Speaker 2: Finish the lyric. We're going to give you one simple,
• 58:53
  Speaker 2: simple song. We stop the song breezy, and then you
• 58:56
  Speaker 2: have to finish the lyric. Now you got to get
• 58:58
  Speaker 2: two for two on this one. Okay, all right, finish
• 59:04
  Speaker 2: the lyric.
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  Speaker 7: The best thing.
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: On moneys the bugget to have a.
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  Speaker 5: Ham Oh go, totally crazy.
• 59:18
  Speaker 12: Forget him a lady.
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, totally crazy.
• 59:24
  Speaker 6: Forget him a lady shout.
• 59:30
  Speaker 13: Yeah.
• 59:30
  Speaker 2: Alright, okay, so you got to get this one to win.
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: All right, Okay, finish the lyric.
• 59:39
  Speaker 6: Your stars need to be whistone.
• 59:41
  Speaker 2: Your skin needs to be kissedone s basbag of fix stone,
• 59:48
  Speaker 2: slap back.
• 59:54
  Speaker 6: Say your favorite rock band checking your makeup from my
• 59:58
  Speaker 6: band it Yeah, I know.
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 4: That was so cute.
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: And then we had some help in the background there.
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: How old is your daughter?
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 12: Just so we know, she just turned three yesterday?
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 4: Gosh, precious hay birthday.
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 14: Oh my god.
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 2: Oh that's that's incredible. One of the youngest snapback er
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 2: old Dominion snapback fans out there.
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, there's you go.
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 9: It's the Casey Clark Show.
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 2: Well, if you just popped in, we're asking you what
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 2: is the toughest age to be According to science. It's
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 2: forty four, okay.
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 4: And that's just like responsibilities, plus your body is starting.
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 2: To yes, okay, social issues, family work. You said around
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 2: thirty five thirty six.
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I had just heard that, and I mean I'm
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 4: around thirty five thirty six, and I mean I wouldn't
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 4: necessarily say my life is super difficult, but so, I.
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 2: Mean, just outsider looking in, I think you have a
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 2: great life. I think you have a great balance.
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 4: And that's the thing too, And it's so funny that
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 4: we have that mentality. I want to prove you wrong, like, no,
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 4: my life actually is hard, but no, you know, some
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 4: of the decisions I made made my life a lot easier,
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 4: and that's wonderful. I do have stressors, for sure, like
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 4: any normal thirty six year old would have. I worry
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 4: about money all the time. I'm thinking, oh, gosh, I
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 4: want to retire yesterday, but I don't have the money
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 4: to do that. But yeah, I think a big factor
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 4: too is when you don't have kids, there's a lot
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 4: less responsibility.
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 2: That opens up a few other things, opens up a
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 2: few others. And that's yeah, no, absolutely, it's not that
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 2: I'm envious of your life, but I can understand that
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 2: and recognize you have a great balanced life. Thank you,
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 2: really do. And I think you've done it extremely well.
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 4: Oh I appreciate if not textbook. Yeah, I always look
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 4: for the easy way out. So here we are, So,
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 4: here we are.
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 2: Okay. So again, according to science, forty four, that is
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 2: the toughest age to be April. What do you think.
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 10: Well, I am forty four right now, so and I
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 10: love forty four.
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 4: Okay, so you wouldn't say it's.
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 10: Tough though, No, not at all easy.
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: So see, how did your kids are?
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 10: My kids are twenty four and twenty one this week,
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 10: so I got it all done early.
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 2: Oh okay about me?
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 4: That's why you're just skating, that's it, that's right exactly.
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 5: I learned how to swim two years ago.
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 4: I'm swimming across the lake.
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 5: Doing all those fun.
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 12: Things for me.
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 4: I love that.
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 8: Wow.
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: So this newfound freedom.
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 2: So when your kids were let's say, I guess let's
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 2: go back ten years ago even and maybe even more
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 2: than that. Twelve years ago, you were in the thick
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 2: of it.
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 5: I was, Yeah, but a lot younger, a lot easier
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 5: to deal with it.
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 10: Yeah.
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 2: I mean, there's that too, right, there's that balance of
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 2: having kids earlier because you have the energy for it,
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 2: versus having kids a little later when you have more
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 2: patience and you're more established. I mean, it's like, I
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 2: don't know which is better to tell you the truth,
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 2: I really don't.
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 5: I don't think there's any right way or wrong way.
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 3: To do it. I agree this life's great and you
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 3: got to enjoy every age.
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 2: Look at you.
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 9: Hey, the Casey Clerk Show.
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 7: This is the Casey Clerk Show.
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 2: If you just jumped in, we're talking about the oldest
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 2: age to be According to science, that age.
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 4: Is forty four, the hardest age, right, yeah.
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's again social issues, your body, all sorts
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 2: of things kind of roll into that equation.
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 4: Can I ask you a question? Yeah, you've been forty four,
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 4: I sure have a couple of times. So would you
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 4: agree or disagree with that statement?
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 8: You know what?
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 2: Forty four?
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 9: Yeah, that's a tough age.
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 4: Okay, Why was it so hard for you?
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 2: I think there's a lot of pre shre at forty four,
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 2: and I think you touched on it because at that point,
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 2: for me at least, it was you know, Okay, you're
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 2: getting closer to retirement. Yeah, right, your kids. You're thinking, well,
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 2: maybe they're going to go to post secondary, so there's
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 2: that you.
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 4: Have to start thinking about that.
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 2: Cars, like just life stuff. Yeah, that's the biggest. And
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 2: then you throw in like my back is killing yeah
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 2: right right, like I can't run as fast, I can't
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 2: mountain bike as well, I can't you know, fill in
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 2: the blank.
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: And then you're like, wow, okay, I get.
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 4: It, and it just kind of comes out almost overnight,
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 4: no right, no joke, like all of a sudden, it's
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 4: like responsibility wrong and your back hurts.
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 2: Well that's what it means that one. So I think
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 2: forty four that makes a lot of sense to me. Yeah,
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 2: because it's a boy. That's uh. That was that was
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 2: a tough one, no kidd Yeah yeah yeah.
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 4: And then it got better though, Oh sure did sure
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 4: did it?
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 15: Yeah?
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah. Here, you just you learn how to deal
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 2: with the pain. It's not new anymore, right, Kaylee? What
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 2: about you? What age?
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 10: Oh my god, I am thirty four right now, and
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 10: I have two toddlers, I have twins, And I'm going
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 10: to say, right now.
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 2: Tough is age thirty's tough as age thirty four? Thirty four,
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 2: thirty four?
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 4: Yes, man, I would say, if you have toddler's running, well,
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 4: what are.
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: The what are your ages?
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 2: Kaylee?
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: Of your kids?
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 10: So they are going to be two in October.
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: Oh they're twins.
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 5: Yes, yeah, they're twins.
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 4: Yeah, terrible twos.
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 8: Oh, terrible.
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 14: It's tough. It's tough.
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 3: It's tough, but it's really it's really fun.
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 8: I love it.
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 10: But it's exhausting, for sure.
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 2: I can only every single day is exhausting.
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 10: Every single day there's no break, there.
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 2: Is no breaks.
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: You don't even get weekends, Like, there's no breaks.
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 10: Oh no, I work Monday to Friday and then daycares
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 10: clothed on the weekends.
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 2: So you probably dread those days like you're like, at
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 2: least I go to work and I can get a
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 2: little downtime.
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 10: I'm actually driving them to daycare right now, and I
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 10: have about fifteen minutes before I start work.
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 3: Where they're not in the car. And it's lovely.
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 4: Oh that is just bliss, isn't it?
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: Okayley, Oh that's awesome.
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 11: You were listening to the Casey Clark show, Sasha's info.
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  Speaker 4: There's this concept of many little relationships, these tiny interactions
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  Speaker 4: throughout the day that do wonders for our mental health.
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  Speaker 4: I'll tell you more about all that coming up. The
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  Speaker 4: top office distractions that take us away from doing actual work.
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  Speaker 4: Social media as you can imagine for sure, for sure,
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  Speaker 4: personal notifications and major news events as they come out.
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  Speaker 4: If you're little on the older side of things, you
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  Speaker 4: are actually most distracted at work by general fatigue.
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  Speaker 2: Oh did this show make the list because we're a
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  Speaker 2: huge distraction in the reaction.
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  Speaker 4: That's what we've heard. Yeah, but I do like that, Like,
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  Speaker 4: as you've been working more and more, you're just tired.
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  Speaker 2: You're so tired, so.
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  Speaker 4: Tired, and you're more distracted by you have to get
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  Speaker 4: up and replenish your coffee because.
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  Speaker 1: You're just I'm just so tired.
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  Speaker 2: Can somebody do that for me?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly. So these are called micro relationships. Those are
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  Speaker 4: the relationships you have with people that you see a lot,
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  Speaker 4: Like say on your morning commute, you might just walk
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  Speaker 4: by the same person in the parking lot every day,
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  Speaker 4: or see the same barista at the coffee shop that
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  Speaker 4: you go to, even if you're not catching up and
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  Speaker 4: swapping stories, like you you don't know anything about these
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  Speaker 4: people's lives, but you're saying hi once in a while.
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  Speaker 4: It's those nods. It's just like acknowledging that the other
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  Speaker 4: person exists. Those are so so good for your mental health.
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  Speaker 4: So it's important to not just you know, walk the
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  Speaker 4: other way, just continue to have those little interactions throughout
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  Speaker 4: the day because what it does for our mental health
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  Speaker 4: is it gives us a sense of belonging and a
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  Speaker 4: sense of community. And it's very little work, right because again,
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  Speaker 4: it's not like you have to get down to the
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  Speaker 4: nitty gritty and learn anything about these people. But just
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  Speaker 4: continue to have those little nods and those little smiles
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  Speaker 4: and those little heights.
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  Speaker 2: I used to go to this seven eleven every morning
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  Speaker 2: and I used to see Roger, who worked there every
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  Speaker 2: single morning, right yeah, And I would have this interaction
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  Speaker 2: with Roger. And then one day I got there and
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  Speaker 2: then Rogers is no longer there.
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  Speaker 13: I know.
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  Speaker 4: And you're a little sad, right because he became such
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  Speaker 4: a fat.
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  Speaker 2: That's Roger of your community. I had this little thing
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  Speaker 2: with Roger and I every day, and then that day
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  Speaker 2: was ended. I never asked where he went. One of
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  Speaker 2: my business he's got going on. I'm sure, Yeah, that's
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  Speaker 2: poor Roger.
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  Speaker 4: Fine, that's you're infodown.
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  Speaker 1: Sure, missing them.
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  Speaker 9: The Casey Clark Show.
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  Speaker 4: This has been another episode of The Casey Clark Shows
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  Speaker 4: weekly podcast, giving you company on demand. So whenever you
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  Speaker 4: need us, we're here, but not like in a prep
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  Speaker 4: desperate weird way, I promise. This episode is hosted and
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  Speaker 4: produced by Casey Clark and me Sasha. You can follow
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  Speaker 4: along with our show on Instagram at the Casey Clark Show.
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  Speaker 4: Give us each a follow too. Casey can be found
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  Speaker 4: at Casey Clark. I'm Sasha B. Spencer. If you have
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