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- 0:08SPEAKER_00: I guess I guess the candle company didn't re-up my boy over here.
- 0:12SPEAKER_02: Nah, he was he was faking the funk.
- 0:13SPEAKER_02: He was never a real candle nigga.
- 0:15SPEAKER_02: I'm the real candle nigga in the room.
- 0:17SPEAKER_02: There you go.
- 0:19SPEAKER_02: The flame is here.
- 0:20SPEAKER_02: Hey, gentlemen.
- 0:21SPEAKER_02: You want to stand on that?
- 0:22SPEAKER_02: The flame is here?
- 0:23SPEAKER_02: The flame is here.
- 0:24SPEAKER_02: Yeah, that's too easy, bro.
- 0:24SPEAKER_02: I'm not even about to do that.
- 0:25SPEAKER_02: Welcome to another installment of Gas Money Podcast.
- 0:28SPEAKER_02: We have the greatest in the world with us.
- 0:30SPEAKER_02: We have Charlie Wade.
- 0:32SPEAKER_02: What's going on, bro?
- 0:33SPEAKER_02: What's going on, gentlemen?
- 0:34SPEAKER_02: How you doing?
- 0:34SPEAKER_02: Introduce the actual greatest of the world.
- 0:36SPEAKER_02: Well, first I said.
- 0:42SPEAKER_02: I appreciate that.
- 0:43SPEAKER_02: No, that's that's that's for you to.
- 0:45SPEAKER_02: And now we introduce Mike.
- 0:47SPEAKER_02: What is it?
- 0:47SPEAKER_02: Mike says.
- 0:48SPEAKER_02: Is that his name?
- 0:49SPEAKER_02: Wow.
- 0:50SPEAKER_00: Why are you playing with you, Mike?
- 0:51SPEAKER_00: Is it one word?
- 0:51SPEAKER_00: Is it a I got a I got uh one of the best and one of the worst co-hosts in history.
- 0:57SPEAKER_00: What's up, guys?
- 0:58SPEAKER_00: Mike says in the building.
- 0:59SPEAKER_00: What's going on, Mike?
- 1:00SPEAKER_00: What's going on?
- 1:00SPEAKER_00: A little under the weather.
- 1:02SPEAKER_00: I got a cup of tea.
- 1:03SPEAKER_00: They hated Steve Jobs, but it's alright.
- 1:06SPEAKER_02: They hated Steve Jobs.
- 1:07SPEAKER_02: Who hated Steve Jobs?
- 1:08SPEAKER_02: Everybody.
- 1:08SPEAKER_02: They kicked him by his own company.
- 1:10SPEAKER_02: That doesn't mean they hate him.
- 1:11SPEAKER_02: I mean, he's banned his jobs.
- 1:12SPEAKER_02: No, it does not.
- 1:13SPEAKER_02: You can't get kicked out of a company.
- 1:15SPEAKER_02: No, you could be you could be rebellious.
- 1:17SPEAKER_02: You could be going against the board.
- 1:19SPEAKER_02: There's a lot of reasons why you could get kicked out of a position.
- 1:21SPEAKER_02: Can I talk to the casting crew?
- 1:23SPEAKER_02: Sure.
- 1:23SPEAKER_02: Is that allowed?
- 1:24SPEAKER_02: He started, he started it.
- 1:26SPEAKER_02: Fellas.
- 1:27SPEAKER_02: Anyways.
- 1:28SPEAKER_02: Um gas attendants.
- 1:30SPEAKER_02: Thank you guys.
- 1:31SPEAKER_02: You guys are running up the clips.
- 1:32SPEAKER_02: You guys are doing the liking.
- 1:33SPEAKER_02: You guys are doing the sharing.
- 1:34SPEAKER_02: You guys are doing the subscribing.
- 1:36SPEAKER_02: It's been uh, you know, it's summer.
- 1:38SPEAKER_02: I know you guys are on vacation.
- 1:39SPEAKER_02: Y'all are in DR and Mexico and Tulum and all those nice places.
- 1:43SPEAKER_02: Um Indonesia, I heard, is is is is on the rise.
- 1:46SPEAKER_02: Indonesia.
- 1:46SPEAKER_02: You ever been there?
- 1:47SPEAKER_02: I know you're a well-traveled dude.
- 1:48SPEAKER_02: I've been around there, but not there.
- 1:50SPEAKER_02: Then you just say no.
- 1:52SPEAKER_02: Just say no, Albert.
- 1:53SPEAKER_00: He just had to shout out.
- 1:55SPEAKER_02: Yeah, he even give us a country.
- 1:56SPEAKER_02: He just said, I've been around there.
- 1:58SPEAKER_02: No, I have not been to Indonesia.
- 1:59SPEAKER_02: But yeah, please keep running it up.
- 2:01SPEAKER_02: When you guys get back from vacation, you know we'll be here because we don't take vacations unless your name is Mike Cesar with the Charlie Way.
- 2:06SPEAKER_02: AG's always here, though.
- 2:07SPEAKER_02: Don't worry about it.
- 2:08SPEAKER_02: But I appreciate y'all.
- 2:09SPEAKER_02: Keep doing what y'all are doing.
- 2:11SPEAKER_02: And I swear we're about to start the show, but I have some questions for my illustrious co-host.
- 2:17SPEAKER_02: Sure.
- 2:17SPEAKER_02: What's up?
- 2:18SPEAKER_02: A little birdie told me that uh Charley has been experiencing an invasion of privacy.
- 2:25SPEAKER_02: Is this true?
- 2:27SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 2:28SPEAKER_00: Chris Brown's in the building?
- 2:29SPEAKER_00: What's his good bird?
- 2:34SPEAKER_01: This is an eagle that you got.
- 2:36SPEAKER_01: I would almost say that.
- 2:40SPEAKER_01: That lands on his finger.
- 2:41SPEAKER_01: Right?
- 2:41SPEAKER_01: Oh, yeah, yeah.
- 2:42SPEAKER_02: It's a falcon.
- 2:44SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 2:44SPEAKER_02: But I have an owl.
- 2:46SPEAKER_02: But yeah, the owl.
- 2:48SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 2:48SPEAKER_01: Now, um, the the the falcon is me.
- 2:53SPEAKER_01: I didn't know we were bringing this to the pod, but uh hey, I'm all about the content.
- 2:57SPEAKER_02: Hopefully you guys follow suit.
- 2:59SPEAKER_02: Yeah, no, I was having a discussion with a rather special young lady, and um how do I preface this without we're speaking about spending the night, right?
- 3:12SPEAKER_02: Boundaries boundaries is a perfect word.
- 3:15SPEAKER_01: We're speaking about boundaries.
- 3:16SPEAKER_02: So I expressed that, hey, if you were to spend the night in my house without me, just please don't go through my stuff.
- 3:28SPEAKER_02: I think that's fair.
- 3:29SPEAKER_02: I think that's fair.
- 3:30SPEAKER_02: I thought it was fair.
- 3:31SPEAKER_02: I think it was one of those man-brain things where it was fair and man brain.
- 3:36SPEAKER_02: In her brain, that was like the most suspicious, like what off-the-wall thing to say.
- 3:42SPEAKER_02: Logic and reasoning versus feelings.
- 3:44SPEAKER_02: Yes.
- 3:45SPEAKER_02: There we go.
- 3:46SPEAKER_02: So I was like, so it became, well, why would you say that?
- 3:49SPEAKER_02: I that wasn't even a thought in my mind.
- 3:51SPEAKER_02: And now it was the only thought in my mind.
- 3:52SPEAKER_02: She called you sus?
- 3:55SPEAKER_02: She, yeah, she said it's suspicious.
- 3:56SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 3:57SPEAKER_02: I hate that phrase.
- 3:57SPEAKER_02: She said it's suspicious.
- 3:59SPEAKER_02: Like, now it makes me want to look to see what you don't want me to find.
- 4:03SPEAKER_02: How'd you play it?
- 4:04SPEAKER_02: I'm like, it's not about that, it's just about privacy.
- 4:06SPEAKER_02: And it and uh early on in this situation, there may be things you may not be ready to see, or memories that I still keep, or things that just aren't your business yet.
- 4:17SPEAKER_02: Oh, you one of those?
- 4:18SPEAKER_02: You keep like keeping it.
- 4:19SPEAKER_02: Memorabilia?
- 4:20SPEAKER_02: I'm I yeah, I'm one of those who don't really delete anything.
- 4:22SPEAKER_02: Uh you know, I I'm that too digitally.
- 4:25unknown: Yeah.
- 4:25SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 4:26SPEAKER_02: That got introduced to the conversation also.
- 4:28SPEAKER_02: For sure.
- 4:28SPEAKER_02: Because I now I started to say, well, what's the difference?
- 4:31SPEAKER_02: If I keep a digital picture and a physical picture, what what if I keep a digital text and a physical letter?
- 4:37SPEAKER_02: What's Nah nah nah?
- 4:38SPEAKER_02: That's different.
- 4:39SPEAKER_02: Why is it different, AG?
- 4:40SPEAKER_02: It's tactile.
- 4:42SPEAKER_02: It's tactile that I can feel it.
- 4:43SPEAKER_00: Okay.
- 4:44SPEAKER_00: It's tangible.
- 4:45SPEAKER_02: It's tangible.
- 4:46SPEAKER_02: It exists.
- 4:46SPEAKER_02: You can't just delete it.
- 4:48SPEAKER_02: Of course.
- 4:49SPEAKER_02: You ever took a lighter to a paper?
- 4:51SPEAKER_02: I mean, but that's that's deleting the meaning.
- 4:53SPEAKER_02: Even that is too much.
- 4:55SPEAKER_02: Like put yourself in a woman's perspective is like, that bitch left us alive on the page.
- 5:01SPEAKER_02: Like, you know, it's just a little icky.
- 5:04SPEAKER_02: I get it from a woman's perspective, but um, Mr.
- 5:07SPEAKER_02: Keepsake, I uh go ahead.
- 5:08SPEAKER_02: I'm not sure.
- 5:08SPEAKER_02: So the reason why I said it though, I wouldn't have said it 10 years ago.
- 5:12SPEAKER_02: Oh the reason why I said it, and she was right on this, she said I'm projecting.
- 5:16SPEAKER_02: And I'm like, no, I'm not, but I was because I've experienced both, all right?
- 5:21SPEAKER_02: I've experienced being my shit ran through, but I've also Oh, come on.
- 5:26SPEAKER_02: Oh my god.
- 5:26SPEAKER_02: You know what?
- 5:27SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 5:27SPEAKER_02: What is happening?
- 5:28SPEAKER_02: That was crazy.
- 5:28SPEAKER_02: Yeah, that was crazy.
- 5:31SPEAKER_02: That was crazy.
- 5:31SPEAKER_02: I experienced my shit getting ran through.
- 5:34SPEAKER_02: That was through.
- 5:36SPEAKER_02: Yo.
- 5:36SPEAKER_02: Wild.
- 5:37SPEAKER_02: Go ahead, gang.
- 5:38SPEAKER_02: Can we can we just can we just all in unison forget that ever happened?
- 5:41SPEAKER_02: Yeah, but the gas attendants will not.
- 5:43SPEAKER_02: Clip that up, guys.
- 5:44SPEAKER_02: So, but I also had an experience where I ran, I I rummaged through some belongings, right?
- 5:50SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 5:51SPEAKER_02: And I had a, you know, everybody has done things at a younger age, right?
- 5:54SPEAKER_02: And I brought up certain things I didn't like to her.
- 5:59SPEAKER_02: She addressed them, and we had a discussion about it, whatever this kid, whatever the case is.
- 6:04SPEAKER_02: And at the end of that, she said, Oh, and by the way, you are never allowed to go in that room ever again.
- 6:09SPEAKER_02: That's what the girl told you.
- 6:10SPEAKER_02: Yes.
- 6:11SPEAKER_02: And how'd you how'd that make you feel?
- 6:12SPEAKER_02: And I it made me feel like it made me like almost be like, what?
- 6:15SPEAKER_02: And I said, She's right.
- 6:18SPEAKER_02: I violated her privacy.
- 6:20SPEAKER_02: I went in her, I went in, because she had two rooms.
- 6:22SPEAKER_02: What'd you find?
- 6:23SPEAKER_02: If you don't mind.
- 6:24SPEAKER_02: Sharing.
- 6:25SPEAKER_02: Uh pictures.
- 6:28SPEAKER_02: Um like Alyssa?
- 6:29SPEAKER_02: Huh?
- 6:30SPEAKER_02: Like nasty?
- 6:32SPEAKER_02: Both, yeah.
- 6:33SPEAKER_02: Nasty and cute.
- 6:34SPEAKER_02: Physical?
- 6:35SPEAKER_02: Really?
- 6:36SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 6:36SPEAKER_02: With with Duke?
- 6:37SPEAKER_02: Remember, this is all about with Duke, though.
- 6:40SPEAKER_02: Yeah, not like intercourse, but maybe like in the bed.
- 6:44SPEAKER_02: Like, you know, look.
- 6:45SPEAKER_02: But you can tell they're naked, you know, stuff like that.
- 6:47SPEAKER_02: Okay, okay.
- 6:49SPEAKER_02: Um, and I was like, you know what, that's fair.
- 6:52SPEAKER_02: You know what I'm saying?
- 6:53SPEAKER_02: Same way I would feel if if I went to somebody's phone and they put that same disclaimer.
- 6:57SPEAKER_02: Let's say I had their code.
- 6:58SPEAKER_02: Cool, you have my code, we address that, cool.
- 7:00SPEAKER_02: It's a clip for you.
- 7:01SPEAKER_02: I think that works in the getting to know each other's phase, but I think once you're together, you're not telling your your boyfriend or your girlfriend you're not allowed to go in this room.
- 7:11SPEAKER_02: Or not if you if you don't live together, yes, you can.
- 7:14SPEAKER_02: I don't know if you can get that off.
- 7:16SPEAKER_02: I listen, I'm not dating today, so I don't know I don't know.
- 7:19SPEAKER_02: Because again, it was a situation where it was a room and a closet.
- 7:22SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 7:22SPEAKER_02: I don't have no reason to go into the closet.
- 7:25SPEAKER_02: I mean, the reason is I'm your man.
- 7:27SPEAKER_02: Yeah, but I I had of the I had the the access when I was trustworthy.
- 7:32SPEAKER_02: Now you went through my shit.
- 7:33SPEAKER_02: You saw because uh you could have sold things that did pertain to you and you could have sold things that I never wanted everyone anyone to know.
- 7:38SPEAKER_02: Could have had a diary, diary in there or journal, or journalists.
- 7:42SPEAKER_02: I got on me for saying diary.
- 7:43SPEAKER_02: You already said diary, we'll let you rock game.
- 7:45SPEAKER_02: Uh is there no statute of limitations on this?
- 7:47SPEAKER_02: Like what if this is a person you've been with for five years?
- 7:50SPEAKER_02: Eventually it it phased out.
- 7:51SPEAKER_02: Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
- 7:52SPEAKER_02: Like, you can't how do you but get go ahead?
- 7:54SPEAKER_02: Um so how did how did your uh so um she understood, but she still felt like that was sus to say.
- 8:02SPEAKER_02: But I was like, you know what, you're right.
- 8:04SPEAKER_02: I'm I'm maybe I'm speaking from a jaded place.
- 8:06SPEAKER_02: Okay but it made me think like what is what how do y'all feel about leaving people in your room when y'all not there or when y'all did it?
- 8:16SPEAKER_02: Okay, um I'll take this mic first.
- 8:19SPEAKER_00: Go ahead.
- 8:20SPEAKER_02: I'll let Mike build up because you know Mike's about to knock it out the park pause.
- 8:24SPEAKER_02: Um again, as an illustrious away game player, I didn't have a lot of these situations.
- 8:32SPEAKER_02: Did you ever go through that?
- 8:33SPEAKER_02: In my life.
- 8:33SPEAKER_02: Um, no.
- 8:34SPEAKER_02: I so for me personally, you're gonna find what you're looking for.
- 8:40SPEAKER_02: So if I'm at a girl's crib and I want a reason not to fuck with her, the first cabinet I open is gonna give me that reason.
- 8:48SPEAKER_02: So so why, why, why complain on easy streets type shit?
- 8:52SPEAKER_02: So I'm just I'm you know, the mission is about to be accomplished.
- 8:56SPEAKER_02: Yeah, be bald.
- 8:58SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 8:58SPEAKER_02: So I really don't have an experience like that.
- 9:00SPEAKER_02: Um, unless you were talking about like devices.
- 9:03SPEAKER_02: Are you mad if you found condoms in her room?
- 9:06SPEAKER_02: Um, how long like what's my relationship to this girl?
- 9:09SPEAKER_02: Y'all been fucking for four months and y'all don't use condoms.
- 9:12SPEAKER_02: Oh, yeah.
- 9:13SPEAKER_02: Because I'm a territorial person.
- 9:15SPEAKER_02: I'm gonna I'm just gonna but you see, I'm very reasonable.
- 9:17SPEAKER_02: I'm gonna ask why.
- 9:18SPEAKER_02: Why is my favorite question?
- 9:19SPEAKER_02: But is you're saying for being together for four months.
- 9:22SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I've been smashing for four months.
- 9:23SPEAKER_02: Yeah, why do you?
- 9:25SPEAKER_02: Yeah, that's it.
- 9:25SPEAKER_02: Yeah, just smashing.
- 9:26SPEAKER_02: Why do you have condoms if we don't use them?
- 9:28SPEAKER_02: Oh, like if we don't use them.
- 9:29SPEAKER_02: This is my question to her, and then depending on that response, will let me know whether or not this is gonna continue.
- 9:35SPEAKER_02: But isn't isn't territorial and possessive two different things?
- 9:37SPEAKER_02: Because territory, she's not territory will be more like if that was your girl.
- 9:41SPEAKER_02: Nah, but you see, to me, and this is the the flaw.
- 9:43SPEAKER_02: Oh, you future.
- 9:44SPEAKER_02: They all you all get AP.
- 9:48SPEAKER_02: Yeah, everybody got chips in their macing.
- 9:50SPEAKER_02: That is the flaw in my macing.
- 9:51SPEAKER_02: I'm not one of these cold-hearted pimp niggas that's on some like, nah, bro, uh, this bitches don't mean shit to me.
- 9:58SPEAKER_02: I'm I'm not tender.
- 9:59SPEAKER_02: I love all of y'all.
- 10:00SPEAKER_02: I but I love all of y'all.
- 10:02SPEAKER_02: And and and you know, once I have you.
- 10:04SPEAKER_02: Just go y'all get along.
- 10:05SPEAKER_00: I was having a conversation and you know, uh, I I don't know.
- 10:09SPEAKER_00: I I thought it was mainly like a Dominican thing, but I see, I see it's not.
- 10:15SPEAKER_00: But yeah, you know, I'm very territorial, man.
- 10:17SPEAKER_00: I don't I don't want another dog pissing around my gun.
- 10:19SPEAKER_02: Yeah, that's how I feel.
- 10:20SPEAKER_02: And then and then and for me, and this is gonna sound very, you know, fucked up, but there's no statute of limitations on that either.
- 10:26SPEAKER_02: Yeah, it's forever.
- 10:27SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah.
- 10:29SPEAKER_02: Once we lock it in, like, I feel like, you know, that you got an AP.
- 10:33SPEAKER_02: It's just spiritual.
- 10:34SPEAKER_02: Like, I'm not I'm not rich enough.
- 10:36SPEAKER_02: Yeah, but it's a spiritual AP.
- 10:38SPEAKER_02: Yeah, the AP is there.
- 10:39SPEAKER_02: Like, you can feel it on your wrist after I've done do my thing.
- 10:41SPEAKER_02: You ever went through the phone?
- 10:43SPEAKER_02: Um, not with a girl, like a casual girl.
- 10:45SPEAKER_02: I went to the I went through a phone with my I only have one girl.
- 10:48SPEAKER_02: One time ever, and again, don't want to do that.
- 10:52SPEAKER_02: Mm-hmm.
- 10:53SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 10:53SPEAKER_00: Mike?
- 10:54SPEAKER_00: Yeah, um going through the phone is not really my thing, which is uh it's funny, because I do request a password.
- 11:03SPEAKER_02: But why do you do that?
- 11:05SPEAKER_02: I do that too, though.
- 11:06SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I think um, I don't know.
- 11:08SPEAKER_00: I think it's uh we were speaking about it the other day in the party, and I didn't I couldn't really have my answer.
- 11:14SPEAKER_00: But I think I think part of it is like a trusting.
- 11:17SPEAKER_00: Like I need I need to know, like it kind of tells me how committed are you.
- 11:20SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I like the submit.
- 11:21SPEAKER_00: You feel me?
- 11:21SPEAKER_00: Now, yeah, it's the it's like the submit.
- 11:23SPEAKER_00: Now I understand people got second two phones, and you know, cool.
- 11:26SPEAKER_00: If you want, you know, if you trick me, you trick me.
- 11:29SPEAKER_00: Hey, you got it.
- 11:30SPEAKER_00: I'm not gonna where's the second phone?
- 11:31SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 11:32SPEAKER_00: I haven't seen no second phone.
- 11:33SPEAKER_00: Like, if you got me, you got me.
- 11:34SPEAKER_00: You go through the cap now.
- 11:37SPEAKER_00: But yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 11:38SPEAKER_00: I'm I'm territorial.
- 11:40SPEAKER_02: So I know I I'm not even gonna ask my next question because I know y'all are gonna throw the double standard card on me.
- 11:45SPEAKER_02: But you get the password.
- 11:48SPEAKER_02: She submits.
- 11:49SPEAKER_02: Hey, passwords one, two, three, four.
- 11:51SPEAKER_02: Cool.
- 11:52SPEAKER_02: You check it on Friday.
- 11:53SPEAKER_02: Oh shit.
- 11:53SPEAKER_02: Okay, that was the password.
- 11:55SPEAKER_02: Next Friday it changed.
- 11:56SPEAKER_02: Oh, we have a bottle.
- 11:58SPEAKER_02: That's bad work.
- 11:58SPEAKER_02: What's the problem?
- 11:59SPEAKER_02: You're not submitting.
- 12:01SPEAKER_02: As well, uh the moment you asked for it, she gave it to you.
- 12:04SPEAKER_02: It stayed current for a week, and she changed it.
- 12:07SPEAKER_02: I'm gonna ask why.
- 12:08SPEAKER_02: And what answer could she give me that's gonna make me play case?
- 12:11SPEAKER_02: I don't, I don't, I don't see it.
- 12:12SPEAKER_00: Oh, I'll let him answer the now.
- 12:14SPEAKER_00: I mean, I'll give you a chance.
- 12:15SPEAKER_00: In my mind, I I know it kinda it kind of sounds stupid, but it's like if you're gonna change it, then you know you gotta let me know.
- 12:19SPEAKER_00: Alright, baby, we gotta we gotta you gotta like send me an email.
- 12:22SPEAKER_00: All right, we we got a new password.
- 12:24SPEAKER_00: Yeah, we go.
- 12:25SPEAKER_00: But the reason you now it's now it's 546.
- 12:27SPEAKER_02: You know, we gotta But the reason you asked, I'm I'm assuming the reason you asked for the password is to see that she would give it to you with no hesitation and it be correct, not for you to gain the passage.
- 12:36SPEAKER_00: 100% but why didn't you gain access to the phone?
- 12:38SPEAKER_00: 100%.
- 12:38SPEAKER_00: But why did it change though?
- 12:39SPEAKER_00: The why?
- 12:40SPEAKER_00: When did that change?
- 12:41SPEAKER_02: You never told her you needed access to the phone.
- 12:44SPEAKER_02: It's in play.
- 12:46SPEAKER_02: Okay, so then my question would be why do you need access to the phone?
- 12:48SPEAKER_02: Because I can and I want it.
- 12:50SPEAKER_02: And what is mine?
- 12:51SPEAKER_02: Why don't you want to not ask for the access?
- 12:53SPEAKER_02: What do you mean?
- 12:53SPEAKER_02: I I that's me asking you for your password is essentially asking for the access.
- 12:56SPEAKER_00: I think he's saying, like, why like you don't want to ask it in the sense of like, yo, I want to like I want it because I want to check your phone?
- 13:02SPEAKER_00: Because that's weak.
- 13:03SPEAKER_00: Oh, okay.
- 13:04SPEAKER_00: You're saying like ask for the nah.
- 13:06SPEAKER_00: Then I feel like I'm her bitch.
- 13:08SPEAKER_00: I need to I need to, you know, always be able to get in there.
- 13:12SPEAKER_02: What are ways that women test our loyalty and trust that you accept?
- 13:17SPEAKER_02: Oh, that I accept is that's what are what's what's a what's a thing, because you're not I'm assuming y'all not given the code.
- 13:24unknown: Nah.
- 13:24SPEAKER_02: Nah, my girl got my code.
- 13:25SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 13:26SPEAKER_02: Are you given the code?
- 13:26SPEAKER_02: No.
- 13:27SPEAKER_02: Okay, so that's a girl?
- 13:28SPEAKER_01: Yeah, no.
- 13:29SPEAKER_02: Gangster.
- 13:30SPEAKER_02: It's level, it's levels.
- 13:32SPEAKER_01: I guess.
- 13:32SPEAKER_01: And that's where I'd be like, how do you because cool, you got your tests and your loyalty and your submission thing, but how does she test that you would accept a what's what what test would you say, hey, you can test me with this and and I'll I'll oblige.
- 13:44SPEAKER_00: Well, if you're my girl, girl, like, you know, the way I move with you, you know, like uh how affectionate I am with you, how um much I pay for you, uh, how how how I take care of you, how I make you feel safe, you know, how I open doors.
- 14:00SPEAKER_00: Um I think I think I think the way that men cheat is different than the way women cheat.
- 14:05SPEAKER_00: You know, I think the way that we would cheat is like like what I'm supposed to give you, like I'm supposed to provide, protect, all of that.
- 14:11SPEAKER_00: Those are the things that is like, I'm not about to, and and you know what's funny?
- 14:15SPEAKER_00: I just had a thought the other day, and I I felt a little conflicted because as a man, you kind of, you know, you want to be brave, you you kind of have that, right?
- 14:22SPEAKER_00: Like you're on a bus, and you know, uh a nice masculine traditional man would like see a woman and give her the seat and stuff like that.
- 14:30SPEAKER_00: Or like there's a scene in the bank, right?
- 14:32SPEAKER_00: And you kind of have that urge to like be a hero, not for her, but just like for just in general, like you feel like you want to serve.
- 14:38SPEAKER_00: But then I was thinking, I'm like, damn, like it's a little contradicting with what I'm saying as far as like protection, because like I'm here I am.
- 14:45SPEAKER_00: Like, I got let's say a wife and kid and three kids.
- 14:48SPEAKER_00: It's like I'm I'm about to die.
- 14:50SPEAKER_00: I'm about to possibly die for like these 40 people in this.
- 14:53SPEAKER_00: Like, I don't so it's like I I I would have to see where the level is.
- 14:57SPEAKER_00: But yeah, those are the qualities that you know, uh specifically for like a side piece, you know, if I'm paying her rent, if I'm doing things like that, then that would be cheating.
- 15:06SPEAKER_00: You feel me?
- 15:07SPEAKER_00: So there's no Because I'm I'm giving our I'm giving the resources that pertain to you and me and our children.
- 15:12SPEAKER_02: So there's no million ways that she could prove submission besides giving the code that you would accept?
- 15:18SPEAKER_02: Like, why let's say she proved submission in all the ways, but and when it comes to the code, she says no.
- 15:22SPEAKER_02: Are you holding that against her, even though she's submissive everywhere else?
- 15:27SPEAKER_01: Because it's like now I I guess this is double standard.
- 15:32SPEAKER_01: Again, does she have a list of things that she won't accept in terms of trust tests?
- 15:36SPEAKER_01: Yeah, you know what I'm saying?
- 15:37SPEAKER_02: Like, can she say that's not a trust test?
- 15:39SPEAKER_02: I'm gonna, I'm not taking that test.
- 15:41SPEAKER_02: That's fair.
- 15:42SPEAKER_02: And again, logic and reasoning is always gonna win out for me specifically, but that's why my favorite question when I'm dealing with women is why.
- 15:49SPEAKER_02: Like, if you can explain to me why and it works, then you got it.
- 15:52SPEAKER_02: But it's gonna be really hard to do that in certain circumstances.
- 15:55SPEAKER_02: But it's not impossible.
- 15:56SPEAKER_02: But because I want to see if you're submissive is not, I think, a strong answer when she asks why you want her code.
- 16:00SPEAKER_02: Well, I wouldn't say that to her.
- 16:02SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 16:02SPEAKER_02: That's my reasoning.
- 16:03SPEAKER_02: Well, we're not gonna be able to.
- 16:04SPEAKER_02: But she's gonna say why.
- 16:05SPEAKER_02: And I'm here because I want it.
- 16:08SPEAKER_00: But you see, but that's that's that's especially if you say you're submissive, you know, you kind of she might be more inclined to not give it.
- 16:14SPEAKER_00: Like, ah, it's a test.
- 16:15SPEAKER_00: Let me be submissive.
- 16:16SPEAKER_00: But I want it.
- 16:17SPEAKER_00: But if you don't, you know, it's kind of like yo, I'm asking.
- 16:20SPEAKER_02: Because it would because if and if deep down she don't want to give it, but she's gonna give it because you're asking.
- 16:24SPEAKER_02: So I'm gonna do what you said in this moment.
- 16:26SPEAKER_02: That makes me feel special, right?
- 16:28SPEAKER_02: But then later she's like, yo, it strokes my ego.
- 16:31SPEAKER_02: I really want my privacy.
- 16:32SPEAKER_02: Like, my girl sent me dick pics.
- 16:33SPEAKER_02: My we she sends me pictures of her titties with her new outfit, my mom be talking crazy.
- 16:37SPEAKER_02: That's our titties now.
- 16:40SPEAKER_02: But you know, that's what I always tell people.
- 16:41SPEAKER_02: The phone is not the next toe no more.
- 16:43SPEAKER_02: The phone is uh No, this is like uh your computer.
- 16:45SPEAKER_02: You made the argument before.
- 16:46SPEAKER_02: Yeah, it's so even with all that being said, it's mine and I want it.
- 16:52SPEAKER_02: And that's it.
- 16:53SPEAKER_02: It's very simple.
- 16:54SPEAKER_02: I'll tell you.
- 16:54SPEAKER_02: It's very simple.
- 16:55SPEAKER_00: But uh, what ended up happening with the chick?
- 16:57SPEAKER_00: Oh, I mean, I guess I don't know.
- 16:58SPEAKER_00: Don't call her a chick.
- 16:59SPEAKER_00: That's sorry.
- 17:01SPEAKER_02: Sorry, sorry, young lady.
- 17:02SPEAKER_02: She's still around if he's if he's responding like that.
- 17:04SPEAKER_00: Yeah, he's cool, cool.
- 17:05SPEAKER_02: Tell you what happened.
- 17:06SPEAKER_02: Kudos to you with this lovely young lady that you're possibly gonna spend the rest of the day.
- 17:09SPEAKER_02: I let her spend the night, and I mean, I I wouldn't know if she looked through it.
- 17:13SPEAKER_02: You know what I'm saying?
- 17:14SPEAKER_02: I we had the conversation.
- 17:15SPEAKER_02: She said, All right, that was weird for you to say, but okay, I explained my point.
- 17:18SPEAKER_02: I agree with her that maybe I'm projecting, but also that I've been through it on the other side too.
- 17:22SPEAKER_02: And she's very uh What's the word?
- 17:26SPEAKER_02: It's a C word.
- 17:28SPEAKER_02: Um not compreh uh damn, I can't remember the word, but um she's a good listener, right?
- 17:34SPEAKER_02: And and like she could say, like, okay, we could just agree, like, okay, that was a little weird, but I get it and move on.
- 17:40SPEAKER_02: You know what I'm saying?
- 17:41SPEAKER_02: Okay, okay.
- 17:41SPEAKER_02: I like that.
- 17:42SPEAKER_00: Like, she's good at not making it a thing and staying stuck there.
- 17:45SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah, she sounds like a keeper to me, Charlie.
- 17:48SPEAKER_00: Hey, uh uh, you know, beautiful girl, keep it up.
- 17:52SPEAKER_02: Yeah, all right.
- 17:53SPEAKER_02: Um speaking of keepers, the one and only LeBron Jane, he finally selected his team.
- 18:05SPEAKER_02: Now, I don't want to bury the lead here.
- 18:07SPEAKER_02: King James, by the way.
- 18:09SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 18:10SPEAKER_02: I don't I don't want to bury the lead here, but um, he didn't pick Miami.
- 18:15SPEAKER_02: He didn't pick the Knicks.
- 18:16SPEAKER_02: Low Nick.
- 18:17SPEAKER_02: Um, he didn't pick the Warriors, thank God.
- 18:20SPEAKER_02: Because that was my only hang-up.
- 18:21SPEAKER_02: If he went to the Warriors, I had LeBron and the Warriors, yeah.
- 18:24SPEAKER_02: That would have been the nastiest shit I've ever seen in my life.
- 18:26SPEAKER_02: Um, I did hear like a little like Calve.
- 18:30SPEAKER_02: The Cavs.
- 18:30SPEAKER_02: I did hear he could have potentially like played Okie doke in the Lakers.
- 18:34SPEAKER_02: Like, hey, they built up a roster, and he's like, I'm back.
- 18:36SPEAKER_02: Because that was his beef with the Lakers.
- 18:38SPEAKER_02: I didn't hear that, but okay.
- 18:39SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I heard some of that.
- 18:40SPEAKER_02: Um, because Bronny is still a Lakers.
- 18:42SPEAKER_02: Like, they signed his contract.
- 18:43SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 18:43SPEAKER_02: He's a Lakers.
- 18:44SPEAKER_02: For how long?
- 18:44SPEAKER_02: Like two years?
- 18:45SPEAKER_02: I think he got a two-year deal.
- 18:46SPEAKER_02: So he's a Lakers.
- 18:47SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 18:47SPEAKER_02: Um But no, he went to is are the are the Knicks and uh the Philadelphia 76ers rivals today?
- 18:56SPEAKER_02: It's it's uh becoming one.
- 18:58SPEAKER_02: Historically, they're rivals.
- 18:59SPEAKER_02: Yeah, but are they rivals today?
- 19:01SPEAKER_02: Philly and New York.
- 19:03SPEAKER_02: In general, in general, a rivalry in hip hop are brothers and sisters, though.
- 19:07SPEAKER_02: Yeah, sure.
- 19:08SPEAKER_02: Which is funny.
- 19:08SPEAKER_02: But in sports, the Eagles, the Giants.
- 19:11SPEAKER_02: How's it in baseball?
- 19:12SPEAKER_02: It's yeah, fuck the Phillies.
- 19:14SPEAKER_02: Fuck the Phillies.
- 19:14SPEAKER_02: Okay, so I think the last three years in basketball has become a little rivalry.
- 19:18SPEAKER_02: A little rivalry.
- 19:19SPEAKER_02: Okay, all right, especially the last two.
- 19:21SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 19:21SPEAKER_02: And then now at last year, which was a sweep, and y'all won and got the chip.
- 19:25SPEAKER_02: Got it.
- 19:25SPEAKER_02: So he technically went to a New York rival.
- 19:28SPEAKER_02: Gotcha.
- 19:29SPEAKER_02: And I think um they're the favorite.
- 19:32SPEAKER_02: And they got Jalen Brown.
- 19:33SPEAKER_02: They have Jalen Brown.
- 19:34SPEAKER_02: Um, the the optics is funny because the Lakers got mad white, and Philly is a black ass city, and the team is black as fuck.
- 19:42SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 19:42SPEAKER_02: So it's just gonna be funny on that Chris, because you know they're gonna play on Christmas.
- 19:45SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 19:46SPEAKER_02: You know they're gonna play on Christmas.
- 19:48SPEAKER_02: You know what to do, Adam Silver.
- 19:49SPEAKER_02: That's the Christmas.
- 19:50SPEAKER_02: You saw he was waiting.
- 19:51SPEAKER_02: Yeah, he was he said it.
- 19:51SPEAKER_02: LeBron didn't like that, by the way.
- 19:52SPEAKER_02: He did not?
- 19:53SPEAKER_02: LeBron did not like that.
- 19:54SPEAKER_02: Oh, you know.
- 19:54SPEAKER_02: He said it.
- 19:55SPEAKER_02: Well, you know, I don't know.
- 19:56SPEAKER_02: With this new media, according to what I saw.
- 19:58SPEAKER_02: I wonder why he wouldn't.
- 20:00SPEAKER_02: Because he's like, don't rush me, nigga.
- 20:02SPEAKER_02: I could decide what I want to decide.
- 20:04SPEAKER_02: I'm LeBron James.
- 20:05SPEAKER_02: I thought he would be funny.
- 20:06SPEAKER_02: Understood, respectfully, I am Adam Silver.
- 20:10SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 20:10SPEAKER_02: You know, like Adam Silver is a commission of him.
- 20:13SPEAKER_02: Yeah, but you see, the problem with that is, and this is what happens when you pick.
- 20:16SPEAKER_02: Why was he rushing, though?
- 20:17SPEAKER_02: Because he the schedule.
- 20:18SPEAKER_02: He was taking a long time.
- 20:19SPEAKER_02: Because nigga, this is LeBron James.
- 20:20SPEAKER_02: You're LeBron.
- 20:21SPEAKER_02: So we gotta, wherever you play is the team playing on Christmas.
- 20:23SPEAKER_02: Yeah, like we need you.
- 20:24SPEAKER_02: There's certain marquee matchups that we need to, you know, these are months in events, you know.
- 20:28SPEAKER_02: Yeah, and uh, but the problem is when you get so big sometimes, pause, um, you kind of pigeonholed yourself.
- 20:37SPEAKER_02: Like, I can't, like LeBron always was like, I can't take less money because I have to push the game forward.
- 20:45SPEAKER_02: Set a standard.
- 20:46SPEAKER_02: I set a standard.
- 20:47SPEAKER_02: So when you see guys like Brunson taking that sweetheart deal to keep his team together, that's cool because Brunson could do that.
- 20:54SPEAKER_02: But if Brunson was Steph Curry, I gotta make sure that point guards coming after me get bigger money.
- 21:00SPEAKER_02: So I gotta always push the envelope.
- 21:01SPEAKER_02: It's the same thing with quarterbacks in the NFL.
- 21:03SPEAKER_02: It's like, oh, I want to do what Tom Brady did and take pay cuts, but there's a kid in college that if I don't take the maximum amount of money, he's gonna be stuck at last year's money and the running backs and all of that.
- 21:14SPEAKER_02: So it's it's a little weird, like LeBron.
- 21:16SPEAKER_02: That could be a cop-out, though.
- 21:17SPEAKER_02: Oh, everything is political.
- 21:19SPEAKER_02: Oh, yeah, I'm doing it for the kid in college.
- 21:20SPEAKER_02: Yeah, everything is political.
- 21:22SPEAKER_02: I want the bad thing.
- 21:23SPEAKER_02: I want the bad.
- 21:24SPEAKER_02: Yeah, but it's like as LeBron, the elder statesman of the league, it's like I'm player empowerment.
- 21:29SPEAKER_02: I'm all about the players.
- 21:30SPEAKER_02: Like the league shouldn't be rushing me to make a decision that I'm already said to everybody it's a big decision because my my daughter, I think she's about to be in high school.
- 21:38SPEAKER_02: Like, this is her formative view.
- 21:40SPEAKER_02: I'm pretty sure.
- 21:40SPEAKER_02: I'm pretty sure.
- 21:40SPEAKER_02: Damn.
- 21:41SPEAKER_02: Um, like I I gotta figure out my family.
- 21:44SPEAKER_02: Like, we we lived in LA.
- 21:47SPEAKER_02: Like, wherever I go next, it has to matter.
- 21:49SPEAKER_02: Like the weather has to matter.
- 21:50SPEAKER_02: Things like so, but he ended up in Philly.
- 21:52SPEAKER_02: Yeah, what is it with the opposite of all of that?
- 21:54SPEAKER_02: Yeah, it was one of the nastiest cities in the world.
- 21:56SPEAKER_02: Let's be honest.
- 21:56SPEAKER_02: Like, not even no bullshit.
- 21:58SPEAKER_02: Uh, uh, shout out Philly, shout out to Beans, man.
- 22:01SPEAKER_02: Now circle back to him talking about Memphis.
- 22:03SPEAKER_02: We knew he wasn't going there.
- 22:04SPEAKER_02: I know, but I'm saying, like, the way you talk about Memphis, now you're in Philly.
- 22:07SPEAKER_02: What were you saying about Memphis?
- 22:09SPEAKER_02: Oh man, he shitted on that old time.
- 22:11SPEAKER_02: And there's a lot of stuff you're saying was true, though.
- 22:12SPEAKER_02: I can't lie.
- 22:13SPEAKER_02: I have a relative that lives in Tennessee, and like nine o'clock, everything's closed.
- 22:18SPEAKER_02: And it's because of crime.
- 22:19SPEAKER_02: Like they literally legitimately cannot stay open after nine, or else it's like go home.
- 22:23SPEAKER_02: It's like, yeah, everybody just needs to be in the house.
- 22:25SPEAKER_02: Or else we're all gonna just be killing each other, which is sad.
- 22:27SPEAKER_02: Um rumor has it that he's gonna live in his place in New York.
- 22:30SPEAKER_02: I was just about to say the same thing.
- 22:31SPEAKER_02: And helicopter every day to the house.
- 22:33SPEAKER_00: I was just about to say, I feel like he's gonna come to New York, though.
- 22:35SPEAKER_02: Now, helicopter, basketball player, I'm an aspect.
- 22:40SPEAKER_02: Ex-Laker.
- 22:41SPEAKER_02: I'm ex-Laker.
- 22:43SPEAKER_02: You don't you can't do that.
- 22:44SPEAKER_02: R RP of COVID.
- 22:45SPEAKER_02: Yeah, like the helicopter shit is a dub.
- 22:48SPEAKER_02: And I'm not even a superstitious person, but it's like let's just not play gamble.
- 22:52SPEAKER_02: You know what I'm saying?
- 22:53SPEAKER_02: Nah, I'm not doing the helicopter thing.
- 22:55SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I mean, I I mean realistically, we get it.
- 22:58SPEAKER_00: Like, it's it's it's he's he should be good, but it's just like we don't want to see that replay.
- 23:02SPEAKER_02: Yeah, no, hell no.
- 23:03SPEAKER_02: Yeah, because it's one of those things about people like, oh, I'm not flying because there's been a lot of plane accidents.
- 23:06SPEAKER_02: That's true.
- 23:07SPEAKER_02: There's maybe been five in the last year alone, which is a high number, but there's also been literally 20,000 flights as well.
- 23:12SPEAKER_02: Yeah, you know what I'm saying?
- 23:13SPEAKER_02: So it's like but it's like you're almost tempting fate at that point.
- 23:15SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 23:16SPEAKER_02: Maybe if he wasn't a Laker, it's only because of the Kobe thing.
- 23:18SPEAKER_02: It's the Lakers thing, too.
- 23:20SPEAKER_00: Like if he wasn't if he wasn't a Laker.
- 23:21SPEAKER_00: Did you see did you see a video of um something about him and Kobe?
- 23:26SPEAKER_00: Uh I don't know if you saw that.
- 23:27SPEAKER_00: Like Oh, the numbers?
- 23:28SPEAKER_00: Yeah, the numbers.
- 23:29SPEAKER_02: You know, the hocus pocus is all the conspiracy.
- 23:31SPEAKER_02: First off, he wears 23.
- 23:33SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 23:33SPEAKER_00: Kobe's dad played for the Sixers in the war 23.
- 23:35SPEAKER_00: 23.
- 23:36SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 23:36SPEAKER_00: He signed on the 24th.
- 23:38SPEAKER_00: Yeah, which is 8 million.
- 23:40SPEAKER_00: You know, two years.
- 23:41SPEAKER_00: Like, it's just why they reaching.
- 23:43SPEAKER_00: They reach the hook.
- 23:44SPEAKER_02: I know, I know they I don't even think they reach enough.
- 23:46SPEAKER_00: Uh Kobe was 41 when this.
- 23:48SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 23:49SPEAKER_00: LeBron is 41 now.
- 23:51SPEAKER_02: After the messy Yameen thing in the World Cup, all of this shit is true.
- 23:56SPEAKER_02: Because that it's over now.
- 23:58SPEAKER_02: The cats out the bag.
- 23:59SPEAKER_02: The Illuminati, whoever's pulling the strings, y'all did it.
- 24:02SPEAKER_02: That was y'all big one.
- 24:03SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 24:03SPEAKER_02: That nigga was washing the kid that he ended up playing in.
- 24:07SPEAKER_02: Nah, come on.
- 24:08SPEAKER_02: But yeah.
- 24:08SPEAKER_02: I'm found LeBron.
- 24:10SPEAKER_02: Um, no, no helicopter.
- 24:11SPEAKER_02: But um, how do y'all think uh Philly does?
- 24:14SPEAKER_02: I think they'll do great.
- 24:15SPEAKER_02: Um, definitely a I think a playoff contender for sure.
- 24:18SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 24:18SPEAKER_02: You got Jalen Brown and Bede if he's healthy, which is a tall.
- 24:21SPEAKER_02: Just a just them two alone.
- 24:22SPEAKER_02: Right.
- 24:23SPEAKER_02: And now add LeBron.
- 24:24SPEAKER_02: Yeah, the who still could average 20.
- 24:27SPEAKER_02: Yeah, you know, the coach is also Nick Nurse, which is the guy that beat the Warriors.
- 24:31SPEAKER_02: Even though KD got hurt and the clay ended up getting hurt in that series, but he ain't no slouch.
- 24:35SPEAKER_02: Yeah, he's a championship coach.
- 24:36SPEAKER_02: And then you have LeBron on the on the court, who's also a coach.
- 24:40SPEAKER_00: The way LeBron is about to impact that team is gonna be crazy.
- 24:43SPEAKER_02: And then you got the young guns.
- 24:44SPEAKER_02: You got Maxi, you got Vijay.
- 24:45SPEAKER_02: Maxie, I forgot about Maxi.
- 24:46SPEAKER_02: Yeah, like if I'm the Knicks, I can I don't know if it's legal in the NBA, can players negotiate equity?
- 24:56SPEAKER_02: I don't think so.
- 24:58SPEAKER_02: I don't think so in the collective bargaining agreement.
- 25:01SPEAKER_02: I could be because I never read the CBA, but I don't think so.
- 25:03SPEAKER_02: I don't think we've seen a player or I mean there's a there's a couple, I mean Kirby because no, not even Kirby because he's already like kind of his decline, but I don't think we've seen a player as powerful as LeBron where I could be like, yo, give me 8 million and 10% of the team.
- 25:17SPEAKER_02: They said MJ did that with the Wizards.
- 25:19SPEAKER_02: That's why he chose to go to the Wizards.
- 25:21SPEAKER_02: He was supposed to be working out, not uh above board, obviously.
- 25:24SPEAKER_02: It's all in the back end.
- 25:25SPEAKER_02: He was supposed to be getting into ownership and then playing.
- 25:28SPEAKER_02: They played him, though.
- 25:28SPEAKER_02: That was the whole Wizard.
- 25:30SPEAKER_02: No pun, no pun.
- 25:30SPEAKER_02: Yeah, and then he ended up getting the team anyways.
- 25:32SPEAKER_02: But uh LeBron definitely has been very vocal about wanting to uh open up that team in Vegas because the NBA is gonna expand.
- 25:38SPEAKER_02: And so the whole thing was gonna be Kevin Durant uh and the Supersonics, LeBron and the Vegas team, and then they might have played for the you know to build up the revenue, and that was like the whole talking.
- 25:48SPEAKER_02: That's still possible because he only signed two years of Philly.
- 25:51SPEAKER_02: He could just do his farewell tour with the new Vegas team, the Vegas Aces or whatever they're gonna call the team.
- 25:55SPEAKER_02: Vegas.
- 25:57SPEAKER_02: Oh, okay.
- 25:57SPEAKER_02: I see it.
- 25:58SPEAKER_02: I think the girls team is already called that, no?
- 26:00SPEAKER_02: Oh, I don't know about, but I can see the gambling thing.
- 26:02SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah.
- 26:02SPEAKER_02: So that's that's gonna be the whole thing, and then gambling is very popular now in sports.
- 26:07SPEAKER_02: I only say that because of the revenue that LeBron's gonna bring to jersey sales, the team, the city.
- 26:12SPEAKER_02: Yeah, they already had figures out like 24 million or something like that already.
- 26:15SPEAKER_02: That's crazy.
- 26:16SPEAKER_02: And it's LeBron, bro, like, and this is like I I don't think you should use these in these things in the GOAT debate because we're talking about basketball.
- 26:23SPEAKER_02: But you know, you kind of look at it like, damn, bro, like, and then what's gonna be crazy is when they do his documentary, all the players, coaches, GMs that were begging him to come to their teams, they have so much good footage of that.
- 26:35SPEAKER_02: Because you had Steve Kerr, like a bunch of kids found Steve Kerr in the street, and they were like, yo, Steve, like get LeBron.
- 26:40SPEAKER_02: He's like, we got him already.
- 26:41SPEAKER_02: Like all of all of that stuff, Curry, Draymond, it's gonna be so dope when like he pieces together his documentary.
- 26:47SPEAKER_02: And I remember what uh MJ did with the last dance, how he conveniently released that when LeBron won his championship with the Lakers and came out around the same time, kind of stepped on his little thing.
- 26:56SPEAKER_02: It's gonna be it's gonna be interesting.
- 26:59SPEAKER_02: The chess game that these two dudes are gonna be playing in the after basketball's over about the GOAT thing is gonna be definitely.
- 27:04SPEAKER_02: Not to make it, not to make it a thing, but I the uh uh MJ and and and LeBron is almost looking like Drake and Jay.
- 27:14SPEAKER_02: This guy just can't stop himself.
- 27:16SPEAKER_02: It is, bro, because LeBron came in, you know, admiring Jordan, this and that.
- 27:20SPEAKER_02: Jordan was Jordan gave him the fake admiration, like, yeah, you cool, but you're not really me.
- 27:24SPEAKER_02: You know what I'm saying?
- 27:25SPEAKER_02: Like, you know, like kind of similar to Jay.
- 27:27SPEAKER_02: Yeah, and now stepping on my shit, you know, this and that.
- 27:31SPEAKER_02: And LeBron still keeps it um professional, professional and cordial.
- 27:35SPEAKER_02: He still says good thing about about Jay.
- 27:37SPEAKER_02: I mean, about uh Mike.
- 27:39SPEAKER_02: Still a Jay.
- 27:39SPEAKER_02: Still a Jay.
- 27:41SPEAKER_02: As opposed to Drake now.
- 27:42SPEAKER_02: Drake is more on some like we the gloves is off type of shit, but but it's rap, so it's different.
- 27:46SPEAKER_02: Yeah, it's different.
- 27:47SPEAKER_02: Like, um, I like that analogy.
- 27:49SPEAKER_02: It's not perfect, obviously, because again, we can never see LeBron and um MJ actually play.
- 27:55SPEAKER_02: We do we have seen Drake and uh Jay on the same songs, we've seen them, we've seen them trade shots, so we can actually see them play, you can say, but I don't think MJ, like Drake and Um Jay at least have slash had a relationship.
- 28:10SPEAKER_02: MJ and LeBron have never had a relationship.
- 28:12SPEAKER_02: Like LeBron has said it recently, like, oh, like uh uh speaking of Jay, he was like, yo, no, Jay has always been my like my idol.
- 28:18SPEAKER_02: Like, you know, MJ is my basketball idol, but I never spoke to him.
- 28:22SPEAKER_02: Like I get to speak to Jay like he's a big brother.
- 28:24SPEAKER_02: So I don't, you know, I don't I don't know what that's about.
- 28:26SPEAKER_02: I have my reasons, but do you think that I I I I feel like this is a reach, but do you think that LeBron gave the he so he said Jay is the one that taught him how to move with money and business, whatever.
- 28:35SPEAKER_02: Do you think that that was him validating Memphis Bleak's comment when he said y'all wouldn't even know what to do with money if it wasn't for Jay?
- 28:44SPEAKER_02: Yes.
- 28:44SPEAKER_02: I think it's the two things could be true.
- 28:46SPEAKER_02: I think he was he would have said it regardless, but it also was there to kind of put some like you know Yeah, put some light on it.
- 28:52SPEAKER_02: Yeah, like you know, he is right.
- 28:54SPEAKER_02: Yeah, the target thing is like you're overblown, blah, blah, blah.
- 28:56SPEAKER_02: He showed us what to do with money, yeah.
- 28:57SPEAKER_02: Yeah, absolutely.
- 28:58SPEAKER_02: I think all of this stuff is like, these people, even if it's not them personally, they they pay these agencies millions of dollars a year to kind of like curate their lives when they actually go out and speak and things like that.
- 29:08SPEAKER_02: So I wouldn't put it past none of these people.
- 29:11SPEAKER_02: I think uh when we do make it, I think that's where we would save money.
- 29:14SPEAKER_02: I don't know about y'all, but I'm not paying a PR team.
- 29:15SPEAKER_02: Yeah, you're not paying what?
- 29:16SPEAKER_02: A PR team to do that stuff for me.
- 29:18SPEAKER_02: I just want to be myself.
- 29:20SPEAKER_02: I don't want to sound like a robot.
- 29:21SPEAKER_02: I want to hear Mike say the things he says.
- 29:23SPEAKER_02: I want Mike to get deals with uh um, you know, red pill content company.
- 29:29SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I guess I'm more I'm more Drake where I want the bag.
- 29:32SPEAKER_02: No, but there's a bag on both sides, though.
- 29:34SPEAKER_02: That's the thing.
- 29:35SPEAKER_02: Yeah, but yeah.
- 29:36SPEAKER_02: Republicans buy shoes too.
- 29:38SPEAKER_02: That's what um MJ said.
- 29:40SPEAKER_02: I'm thinking he's about the bag.
- 29:42SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 29:43SPEAKER_02: Yeah, absolutely.
- 29:44SPEAKER_02: That's funny.
- 29:45SPEAKER_02: Yes.
- 29:45SPEAKER_02: Shout out MJ, shout out LeBron.
- 29:46SPEAKER_02: One more time for the king, man.
- 29:48SPEAKER_02: Well, uh what's up?
- 29:52SPEAKER_02: Will I, and I'm this is a question I'm asking myself and y'all.
- 29:55SPEAKER_02: Will I try to make it to a 50s game?
- 29:58SPEAKER_02: I think you it's this is the closest LeBron has been to us.
- 30:02SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 30:03SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 30:04SPEAKER_02: We can lit 45, just like it's 45.
- 30:06SPEAKER_02: I've never had a reason to go to that arena, but exactly.
- 30:08SPEAKER_02: Why not?
- 30:10SPEAKER_00: I can see that.
- 30:11SPEAKER_02: Sean and it'll be his home game.
- 30:13SPEAKER_02: So like we never and we get to watch LeBron at 7 o'clock now.
- 30:17SPEAKER_02: For the last like, what is it, seven years?
- 30:19SPEAKER_02: No, his game's on at 10:30.
- 30:21SPEAKER_02: We get to see LeBron at a reasonable time.
- 30:23SPEAKER_02: Shout out uh Jack.
- 30:25SPEAKER_02: And like I said, we've never got to see LeBron at home.
- 30:27SPEAKER_02: Exactly.
- 30:27SPEAKER_02: You know, so shout out Jack, he's the only Philly fan I know.
- 30:30SPEAKER_02: We give him a lot of shit about uh, you know, being a Philly fan.
- 30:33SPEAKER_02: He's from New York, he's from Queensbridge, Queens of all places.
- 30:36SPEAKER_02: And he's still a big Philly guy.
- 30:37SPEAKER_02: He like supports all their teams, so we shit on him a lot.
- 30:39SPEAKER_02: But you got LeBron.
- 30:39SPEAKER_02: This is your time, homie.
- 30:40SPEAKER_02: Enjoy it.
- 30:41SPEAKER_02: You got LeBron.
- 30:42SPEAKER_02: Enjoy it, enjoy it.
- 30:44SPEAKER_02: Shout out Jack, shout out Jack.
- 30:45SPEAKER_02: Um, all right.
- 30:46SPEAKER_02: There was a versus and uh this is one of the I'm gonna give you guys a space to just say AZ was right because I called it.
- 30:54SPEAKER_02: Yeah, and I told y'all it was gonna be a dog walking.
- 30:56SPEAKER_02: I told y'all I wasn't, it wasn't gonna be close.
- 30:59SPEAKER_02: I told you guys that listen, I have my issues with the West Coast, and I make it very obvious.
- 31:06SPEAKER_02: Um, but I love the game.
- 31:08SPEAKER_02: I'm not even a big fan of YG, but I do understand YG's place in the hip hop ecosystem, specifically on the West Coast.
- 31:16SPEAKER_02: So I knew that the game was gonna get smoked.
- 31:19SPEAKER_02: Where's his place?
- 31:19SPEAKER_02: Like top five, top ten?
- 31:21SPEAKER_02: In the club, he's number one.
- 31:23SPEAKER_02: I don't think they have a club rapper bigger than YG.
- 31:27SPEAKER_02: They play they play YG's club songs here.
- 31:31SPEAKER_02: They don't play the game in the club.
- 31:33SPEAKER_02: What other West Coast artists do you hear in the club in New York?
- 31:36SPEAKER_02: I guess you know who YG is to me on the West Coast?
- 31:40SPEAKER_02: To me, YG is two chains to Atlanta.
- 31:42SPEAKER_02: I think that's a fair comparison.
- 31:44SPEAKER_02: If two chains um didn't have the competition that he has.
- 31:47SPEAKER_02: Because the thing about Atlanta, there's a lot of club niggas in Atlanta.
- 31:50SPEAKER_02: True, true, true.
- 31:51SPEAKER_02: Yeah, like YG's comp YG is not competing with future for club space.
- 31:56SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah.
- 31:57SPEAKER_02: YG is the guy.
- 31:58SPEAKER_02: Like, he is you can make I think future would be a better analogy.
- 32:01SPEAKER_02: Because he's the club guy.
- 32:03SPEAKER_02: When you think about West Coast club music, yeah.
- 32:05SPEAKER_02: But Future's just a way bigger artist.
- 32:07SPEAKER_02: Yeah, that's not a comparison.
- 32:09SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I got you.
- 32:09SPEAKER_02: But yeah, I uh Charlie, you want to go through the list?
- 32:12SPEAKER_02: So, I mean, I won't go through the whole thing.
- 32:14SPEAKER_02: He spanked them, dude.
- 32:15SPEAKER_02: It was 19 to 3.
- 32:16SPEAKER_02: Who votes on these things?
- 32:18SPEAKER_02: That was my question for y'all.
- 32:19SPEAKER_02: I don't watch Versus anymore.
- 32:20SPEAKER_02: Even when Versus was at its peak, which was like a little bit post-COVID, but like middle of COVID, I never tuned into many of them.
- 32:28SPEAKER_02: I I like it.
- 32:29SPEAKER_02: It's it's smart, it's a dope concept, but I don't the problem with Versus to me, don't let the artist pick their music.
- 32:37SPEAKER_02: Okay, or maybe that's the music.
- 32:38SPEAKER_02: Because they don't know.
- 32:39SPEAKER_02: They don't know.
- 32:39SPEAKER_02: Or maybe that's the skill.
- 32:41SPEAKER_02: Maybe the skill of an artist in this generation is knowing your crowd.
- 32:45SPEAKER_00: Right, right.
- 32:45SPEAKER_02: Because people say all the time, oh look, nobody's beating Lil Wayne or nobody's being Kanye.
- 32:49SPEAKER_02: But then when them niggas get on these stages, they start picking songs that people don't give a fuck about.
- 32:53SPEAKER_02: It might mean a lot to the artist, but like your fans don't care about this song, don't they?
- 32:57SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah.
- 32:57SPEAKER_02: So it says there's no official judge of formal scoring that declares the battle.
- 33:02SPEAKER_02: But um, it's by viewers and fans.
- 33:04SPEAKER_02: The outcome is left entirely to the audience who debate and decide preference in real time.
- 33:08SPEAKER_02: Also, uh Complex sometimes hosts a companion fan voting polls leading up and during the event.
- 33:14SPEAKER_02: So, yeah, that's I guess that's where that that list is.
- 33:16SPEAKER_02: But I always see that now that same uh thing now.
- 33:19SPEAKER_02: What I will say is AG was right.
- 33:22SPEAKER_02: Thank you.
- 33:22SPEAKER_02: Sonny.
- 33:23SPEAKER_02: He was flip it because the game was wrong.
- 33:28SPEAKER_00: What do you mean by that?
- 33:29SPEAKER_02: What do you mean by that?
- 33:30SPEAKER_02: The game, I'm looking at some of these many challenges.
- 33:33SPEAKER_02: The songs he chose?
- 33:34SPEAKER_02: Come on.
- 33:34SPEAKER_02: Yeah, no, that's that's a problem.
- 33:35SPEAKER_02: And this is and so many people have caught have caught L's on verses because of this.
- 33:39SPEAKER_02: Bro, when the locks was going up against um Dipset, everybody thought Dipset was gonna smoke them.
- 33:45SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 33:46SPEAKER_02: And then he started picking the worst songs, and on top of that, the performance.
- 33:51SPEAKER_02: Now that was a legendary versus because Jadak has left the planet with his performance.
- 33:57SPEAKER_02: But I did catch some clips, and to me, the game was there to big up obviously the the Pyro's and the bloods, but YG was there to win.
- 34:08SPEAKER_02: It was very obvious.
- 34:09SPEAKER_02: Like the game is getting drunk, he's dry humping women.
- 34:12SPEAKER_02: He's he's partying to YG's records.
- 34:15SPEAKER_02: God bless his liver.
- 34:16SPEAKER_02: Yeah, and and can I ask y'all a question?
- 34:18SPEAKER_02: Don't shoot me.
- 34:19SPEAKER_02: And this is not my anti-West Coast bias, because again, I love Chuck.
- 34:22SPEAKER_02: I love the game.
- 34:23SPEAKER_02: He did shout out to Icicle Man.
- 34:24SPEAKER_02: He definitely did.
- 34:25SPEAKER_02: He's and fuck how y'all feel.
- 34:26SPEAKER_02: He lost that song, right?
- 34:27SPEAKER_00: Nah, he needs a feature.
- 34:28SPEAKER_02: Yes, which which so now there's some where game was wrong, and there's some where he was wronged.
- 34:34SPEAKER_02: And that I think some of these songs, like, for example, um Bompton versus versus Wouldn't Get Far.
- 34:41SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 34:42SPEAKER_02: He lost, he's supposed he lost.
- 34:43SPEAKER_02: But in the club, in the in the environment.
- 34:46SPEAKER_02: But uh, this is not a club.
- 34:47SPEAKER_02: It's it's a versus on like that's it's the the crowd.
- 34:51SPEAKER_02: We're probably hearing it.
- 34:53SPEAKER_00: They're experiencing a club.
- 34:54SPEAKER_00: Yeah, wouldn't get far is a slow ass record.
- 34:56SPEAKER_00: I love that song, by the way.
- 34:57SPEAKER_00: And I was gonna say, a lot of times, like I I feel like maybe like, for example, if YG was winning, like if he just won six in a row in kind of momentum, like you know.
- 35:07SPEAKER_00: So if it's closed, it's already leaning towards YG, you know.
- 35:09SPEAKER_02: Um no, before you before you go into that list, real fast, I just want to ask y'all question.
- 35:12SPEAKER_02: I'm not hating.
- 35:13SPEAKER_02: I'm trying not to hate at least.
- 35:16SPEAKER_02: Do y'all believe that when these guys do this this liquor trick, because I think it's a trick, that they're actually drinking the whole bottle and that's not just water in it?
- 35:24SPEAKER_00: Bro, I ain't gonna lie, bro.
- 35:25SPEAKER_00: Bro, I ain't gonna lie, bro.
- 35:26SPEAKER_00: The way he chugged that bottle.
- 35:28SPEAKER_00: Who was it, Claser Sul?
- 35:29SPEAKER_00: No, no, no.
- 35:30SPEAKER_00: He did that too.
- 35:31SPEAKER_00: It was the Don Julio.
- 35:31SPEAKER_02: It was the Don Julio's the one that like the super crazy.
- 35:34SPEAKER_02: I saw him, he did it on Dream Champs.
- 35:36SPEAKER_02: He was he he did the thing, he d he chugged the Claser Sul on Drink Champs.
- 35:39SPEAKER_02: I think this is like I wanna believe it because is the game.
- 35:42SPEAKER_02: I just wanna say, I think it's fake.
- 35:44SPEAKER_01: Damn.
- 35:45SPEAKER_02: The reason why it I don't know if it's all the way fake is because he was really drunk.
- 35:49SPEAKER_02: Yeah, but he was really drunk.
- 35:52SPEAKER_02: He lives a rapper lifestyle for 20 years.
- 35:54SPEAKER_02: His liver may not be the healthiest, but that doesn't mean he's it can stop him from drinking.
- 35:58SPEAKER_02: Like I'm I'm gonna give it to him.
- 36:00SPEAKER_02: I believe it.
- 36:00SPEAKER_02: But at some point, he's a minority.
- 36:02SPEAKER_02: At some point, super pause, and y'all still gonna pause me for this.
- 36:05SPEAKER_02: Your throat gets numb.
- 36:07SPEAKER_02: That's tough.
- 36:08SPEAKER_02: That's tough.
- 36:08SPEAKER_02: So that's tough to get off.
- 36:10SPEAKER_02: So sometimes the drinking don't even bother you no more, you know what I'm saying?
- 36:14SPEAKER_02: I'm a drinking ass nigga.
- 36:15SPEAKER_02: Oh, by the way, when Mike's ready, I got a crazy drinking story about Mike.
- 36:18SPEAKER_02: I'm a he's not ready, you know.
- 36:19SPEAKER_02: I'm a drinking ass nigga.
- 36:21SPEAKER_02: Like, you know how there's people that are weed people?
- 36:24SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I'm a drinking ass nigga.
- 36:26SPEAKER_02: It's not just I drink a lot, because I really don't.
- 36:28SPEAKER_02: Yeah, it's that I can drink a lot.
- 36:30SPEAKER_02: I was just about to.
- 36:31SPEAKER_02: You're a perfect example because you prove that there's levels.
- 36:35SPEAKER_02: He's a shotter.
- 36:36SPEAKER_02: He drinks drink shots or an ice, right?
- 36:37SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I don't I don't mix my shit at all.
- 36:38SPEAKER_02: Yeah, he don't mix it.
- 36:39SPEAKER_02: I just have to mix it.
- 36:41SPEAKER_02: Yeah, okay, okay.
- 36:42SPEAKER_02: So for me to watch another person drink, pause, it just didn't like he didn't like it.
- 36:49SPEAKER_02: There was no because I don't care, nobody likes to taste alcohol.
- 36:53SPEAKER_02: Nobody does.
- 36:54SPEAKER_02: Nobody does.
- 36:56SPEAKER_02: And number two, I don't care how like like how much you drink, that shit always burns.
- 37:02SPEAKER_02: Even the most the quality liquor still hit it hits a little bit.
- 37:07SPEAKER_02: So that hits a little bit.
- 37:09SPEAKER_02: Hold on, moment of silence.
- 37:10SPEAKER_02: Let's pray.
- 37:11SPEAKER_02: Let's pray, hold on.
- 37:12SPEAKER_02: All right, amen.
- 37:14SPEAKER_02: Amen.
- 37:14SPEAKER_02: But yeah, that's the only reason I'm calling shenanigans.
- 37:16SPEAKER_02: But I could be wrong.
- 37:17SPEAKER_02: Shout out Chuck.
- 37:19SPEAKER_02: Tell us the songs that you think he got, you know.
- 37:20SPEAKER_02: I mean, some of these songs I have to, because it's so that that's the thing, also the age gap.
- 37:24SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 37:25SPEAKER_02: YG is very current.
- 37:26SPEAKER_02: Some of these songs I can't remember what it sounds like.
- 37:28SPEAKER_02: But 100 versus Left Right, is Left Right when it goes left?
- 37:31SPEAKER_02: Right.
- 37:32SPEAKER_02: That's on like I gotta I gotta find it.
- 37:34SPEAKER_02: It's um Yeah, it's at the bottom?
- 37:36SPEAKER_02: Yeah, it's like 10 up from the bottom.
- 37:38SPEAKER_02: But um, it went versus 100, which is featuring Drake.
- 37:41SPEAKER_02: Yeah, okay.
- 37:42SPEAKER_02: When that dropped, like keep it not eight more than 92 versus 100.
- 37:46SPEAKER_02: You know what I'm saying?
- 37:47SPEAKER_02: Like that was a strong single.
- 37:48SPEAKER_02: I don't know what left right is doing today or what it did.
- 37:51SPEAKER_02: I can't remember how it goes.
- 37:52SPEAKER_02: I think it's that left right song.
- 37:53SPEAKER_02: Yeah, but um, this it's called left right, I think it's that left right song.
- 37:56SPEAKER_02: I would believe I would believe so.
- 37:58SPEAKER_02: But um, but I I don't know if that should have been either a loss or such so lopsided.
- 38:04SPEAKER_02: 68 to 32 percent.
- 38:06SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah.
- 38:07SPEAKER_00: You know, yeah, but I think it's what um um Mike said It's the momentum, man.
- 38:11SPEAKER_00: It's the momentum, yeah.
- 38:12SPEAKER_00: And it's the room and the wrong picking, you know, the songs.
- 38:16SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I think um wait, wait, wait, no, no.
- 38:20SPEAKER_02: What you don't like?
- 38:21SPEAKER_02: Picking back being bull beats one blood.
- 38:24SPEAKER_02: Come on, AG.
- 38:26SPEAKER_02: It was close though.
- 38:30SPEAKER_01: But it's not though.
- 38:31SPEAKER_01: It's not close.
- 38:32SPEAKER_01: It's not close, man.
- 38:33SPEAKER_01: And this is this is one blood, not the remix.
- 38:35SPEAKER_02: It's not the remix, though.
- 38:36SPEAKER_01: But the the hook still goes blue.
- 38:38SPEAKER_01: Yeah, but the.
- 38:39SPEAKER_02: But the remix is where he really Yeah, everybody's on the remix.
- 38:43SPEAKER_02: That's why everybody loves one blood because the remix is like 40 minutes long.
- 38:46SPEAKER_02: If the remix sounds that much different.
- 38:49SPEAKER_02: No, it's just the remix is the fun of the song.
- 38:51SPEAKER_02: The original One Blood song is kind of like, okay, it's the game rapping.
- 38:56SPEAKER_02: I'm just letting you know why it lost.
- 38:58SPEAKER_02: I don't know.
- 38:59SPEAKER_02: But um, yeah, I mean, again, the game was wrong, though.
- 39:01SPEAKER_02: I f I feel like there's some songs here that I didn't see.
- 39:03SPEAKER_02: I feel like he has more than two 50 Cent features.
- 39:05SPEAKER_02: That's what I'm saying.
- 39:06SPEAKER_02: He definitely does.
- 39:06SPEAKER_02: I don't know why.
- 39:07SPEAKER_02: He can't pick his record.
- 39:08SPEAKER_02: Uh, none of these niggas can.
- 39:09SPEAKER_02: I don't know what happened there.
- 39:10SPEAKER_02: Do you think Drake would be good at picking his records?
- 39:13SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I think I think Drake, he he's very good at knowing.
- 39:16SPEAKER_00: You think so?
- 39:17SPEAKER_00: Honestly.
- 39:18SPEAKER_00: I think so.
- 39:18SPEAKER_02: In your heart of hearts.
- 39:19SPEAKER_02: Because I'm thinking about it, it has to be a West Coast thing.
- 39:21SPEAKER_02: You know what I'm saying?
- 39:22SPEAKER_02: Like, I don't know how how versed he is in I don't know how versed he is in the games catalog or in West Coast.
- 39:27SPEAKER_02: Talk about Drake.
- 39:28SPEAKER_02: Like, if Drake was doing a versus versus phone, you know what?
- 39:31SPEAKER_02: I thought about that the other day.
- 39:33SPEAKER_02: I've seen a few interviews and excerpts of Drake saying like his favorite songs or the like, oh, what's your most slept-on song?
- 39:40SPEAKER_02: And this and what's the what's the song that you feel like people don't really care about?
- 39:42SPEAKER_01: And a lot of those answers, I'd be like, nah, we love that.
- 39:45SPEAKER_01: Uh no, we're not like so.
- 39:47SPEAKER_02: It is a thing about your yeah, you looking at your own art, yep, that you look at it much different than everybody else.
- 39:54SPEAKER_00: That is definitely the thing.
- 39:55SPEAKER_02: But like when I pod, I'm like, okay, that was cool, but then the fans are yo, you're amazing.
- 40:00SPEAKER_02: Like, you you you you're the guy.
- 40:02SPEAKER_02: I don't think our fans.
- 40:05SPEAKER_02: Like they tell you, yeah.
- 40:06SPEAKER_02: I'm telling you.
- 40:07SPEAKER_02: Why you why you never told us that?
- 40:08SPEAKER_02: I don't I don't want to demoralize you guys and make you guys feel less than.
- 40:12SPEAKER_02: Right.
- 40:12SPEAKER_02: You know what I'm saying?
- 40:13SPEAKER_02: God speed.
- 40:13SPEAKER_02: Let's go.
- 40:14SPEAKER_02: So they say you kill it, you on fire.
- 40:15SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I tried to do that all part, but I said, let's watch and tape, and y'all said, oh.
- 40:19SPEAKER_02: And then you woke up, huh?
- 40:21SPEAKER_02: Like that you woke up and you realized, oh, this is a dream.
- 40:24SPEAKER_02: Let me see.
- 40:24SPEAKER_02: Let me try a button all that.
- 40:25SPEAKER_02: Or maybe a nightmare for you.
- 40:29SPEAKER_02: I wanted to reasons why I'm the best is because you've been saying you're gonna label these buttons for seven weeks now.
- 40:37SPEAKER_02: You haven't.
- 40:38SPEAKER_02: So I got it.
- 40:40SPEAKER_00: Hey, I ain't gonna lie to you.
- 40:41SPEAKER_00: You say you're gonna figure this thing out.
- 40:43SPEAKER_00: I will.
- 40:43SPEAKER_00: You see how they on me.
- 40:45SPEAKER_00: Guys, I need we need help.
- 40:47SPEAKER_00: Okay.
- 40:49SPEAKER_02: Yeah, they don't listen.
- 40:50SPEAKER_02: You need a fucking intern.
- 40:50SPEAKER_01: Yeah, real quick, somebody just text me and asked me if I'm at the parade.
- 40:53SPEAKER_01: Mike, why are we not at the parade?
- 40:56SPEAKER_01: I don't know.
- 40:57SPEAKER_00: I mean, I guess we gotta, you know, be loyal to the fans.
- 41:00SPEAKER_02: That's the reason.
- 41:02SPEAKER_02: We're outside.
- 41:02SPEAKER_02: That's the reason.
- 41:03SPEAKER_02: You sound like the African playing for the soccer for America.
- 41:06SPEAKER_01: Like, yeah, we got to do it.
- 41:08SPEAKER_02: Nah, but um, I'm gonna tell y'all my reason.
- 41:11SPEAKER_02: Yeah, if the verses was cool.
- 41:12SPEAKER_02: Now hold on.
- 41:13SPEAKER_02: Don't do that.
- 41:15SPEAKER_02: Gotcha.
- 41:15SPEAKER_02: I think the reason why y'all are not there, and I'm gonna get shot at and I'm gonna get killed for this, is because I don't think the Dominican Day Parade is popping like that.
- 41:23SPEAKER_02: Puerto Ricans got y'all there.
- 41:25SPEAKER_02: I will say that there has been a swing in the tide.
- 41:29SPEAKER_02: I would agree.
- 41:30SPEAKER_02: Um, they obviously started it.
- 41:32SPEAKER_02: We took it over for a strong maybe decade.
- 41:34SPEAKER_02: Nah, we took it over and further than they.
- 41:36SPEAKER_02: Yeah, we we took it higher.
- 41:38SPEAKER_02: Um, I think we have become too cool for school and they're still like ratchet.
- 41:42SPEAKER_02: Gotcha.
- 41:42SPEAKER_02: We're still ratchet, but we want to be like ratchet and you want to be what we call popywa.
- 41:47SPEAKER_02: You know what I'm saying?
- 41:48SPEAKER_02: Like, you want to be ghetto, but like not.
- 41:51SPEAKER_02: You know what I'm saying?
- 41:52SPEAKER_02: Ghetto fabulous.
- 41:53SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah.
- 41:54SPEAKER_02: We've become like Beyonce and Puerto Rico's still Rihanna.
- 41:57SPEAKER_02: Gotcha.
- 41:58SPEAKER_02: They still smoke blunts and like gotcha, but I think I need to we need to get on the float next year, bro.
- 42:03SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 42:03SPEAKER_02: This is this is a Dominican podcast at this point.
- 42:05SPEAKER_02: We gotta get up.
- 42:07SPEAKER_02: See, it was because Phantom, like, there was a lot of streamers that was there last year that weren't there this year.
- 42:11SPEAKER_02: Oh, that's right.
- 42:11SPEAKER_02: I just Phantom was there last year.
- 42:13SPEAKER_02: He made it go viral, he got arrested, whatever the case is in his Lambo.
- 42:16SPEAKER_02: Um, you know, people were there, and you know, we should have got actual speed to come out with Alo Foca.
- 42:21SPEAKER_02: Alo Foka wasn't there.
- 42:22SPEAKER_02: Where's Alright?
- 42:22SPEAKER_02: Alo Foca wasn't there.
- 42:23SPEAKER_02: Hey, that is can he fly here?
- 42:25SPEAKER_00: He's busy running for president.
- 42:26SPEAKER_02: He's running for president, bro.
- 42:27SPEAKER_02: He's busy running.
- 42:28SPEAKER_02: 2028.
- 42:29SPEAKER_02: Alofoka, get okay.
- 42:31SPEAKER_02: All right.
- 42:32SPEAKER_02: Um, are we gonna um I mean we kind of like jumped a whole topic?
- 42:36SPEAKER_02: My bad.
- 42:37SPEAKER_02: No, I was that on the list of great.
- 42:39SPEAKER_02: Oh shit.
- 42:40SPEAKER_02: I forgot.
- 42:41SPEAKER_02: I saw it.
- 42:42SPEAKER_02: All right, well, we said we could we settled that.
- 42:43SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 42:43SPEAKER_02: Um let's let's double back.
- 42:45SPEAKER_02: Uh, let's keep it music.
- 42:46SPEAKER_02: I do want to highlight um pre-Tory, man.
- 42:50SPEAKER_02: Talk to me.
- 42:50SPEAKER_02: This is your podcast.
- 42:51SPEAKER_02: I'll give it one quick.
- 42:52SPEAKER_02: Yeah, no, do you think?
- 42:53SPEAKER_02: Is it your podcast?
- 42:54SPEAKER_02: Do you think?
- 42:55SPEAKER_02: I don't, I'm not here to talk about the case, right?
- 42:58SPEAKER_02: But pre-Tory will tell you how I feel about it.
- 43:00SPEAKER_02: Yes, please.
- 43:01SPEAKER_02: Um that's the name of the album?
- 43:02SPEAKER_02: No, no, no.
- 43:03SPEAKER_02: But that statement tells you how I feel about it.
- 43:05SPEAKER_02: But um Tory lanes, man.
- 43:09SPEAKER_02: From the from the shooting, from before, obviously he had fire mixtapes and fire albums.
- 43:13SPEAKER_02: But from the shooting incident, when I tell you he has not missed, I forgot all the names, but he dropped the album with his with his baby picture on it.
- 43:21SPEAKER_02: Like he dropped, he just I think he dropped four albums while in while in jail.
- 43:25SPEAKER_02: And they sound better, they sound like he's been out of the outside of jail.
- 43:28SPEAKER_02: He just dropped an album called Bad Potting, because I don't have it.
- 43:32SPEAKER_02: Uh it's called Made You Think I Was Gone Butt.
- 43:37SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 43:38SPEAKER_02: I know.
- 43:38SPEAKER_02: And it's uh it's a double it's a double disc.
- 43:41SPEAKER_02: 12 songs of rapping, 12 songs of R and B.
- 43:44SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 43:44SPEAKER_02: Who did that first?
- 43:45SPEAKER_02: Tim or Drake?
- 43:46SPEAKER_02: Tim or Drake, of course.
- 43:47SPEAKER_02: You sure?
- 43:49SPEAKER_02: Well, I mean, I don't think Drake called it a double disc.
- 43:52SPEAKER_02: I mean, I guess Scorpion was his first double disc, which is 2018.
- 43:56SPEAKER_02: Safe to say, I think Tori wasn't really popping like that.
- 43:59SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 44:00SPEAKER_02: Tory fans gonna let you know.
- 44:01SPEAKER_02: Um but if any but if anybody Tory would tell you he's doing it maybe cause of Drake though.
- 44:07SPEAKER_02: Sure.
- 44:08SPEAKER_02: Come on.
- 44:08SPEAKER_02: Come on now.
- 44:09SPEAKER_02: I don't I don't I wouldn't know.
- 44:10SPEAKER_02: Um he dropped Playboy, he brought she dropped Playboy, he dropped uh uh uh the slutty the slutty bass, which I didn't like the name, but the album was great.
- 44:18SPEAKER_02: Um Theystar, that's the one he dropped in 2020 after the shooting.
- 44:22SPEAKER_02: He he hasn't missed, man.
- 44:23SPEAKER_02: He's recording from jail.
- 44:24SPEAKER_02: I don't know how.
- 44:25SPEAKER_02: If you hear this, if you hear these songs, it's like he's in the studio.
- 44:29SPEAKER_02: Oh, he got a studio.
- 44:31SPEAKER_02: You feel me?
- 44:32SPEAKER_02: He outsold Rick Ross.
- 44:35SPEAKER_02: That is interesting.
- 44:36SPEAKER_02: That is crazy.
- 44:37SPEAKER_02: He outsold Rick Ross first week the bouse by 3,000 records.
- 44:41SPEAKER_02: If it was by one record, it's still crazy.
- 44:43SPEAKER_02: It's still crazy.
- 44:43SPEAKER_02: He he's dropping videos, he's not in them.
- 44:46SPEAKER_01: You know what I love about that?
- 44:47SPEAKER_01: With with with sorry, Mike, with with like little clips of like footage where he's like there, but not really rapping the words, but like it's just his team taping it together.
- 44:58SPEAKER_02: Yes, yes, taping it together, like, yeah.
- 45:01SPEAKER_02: So I'll give him a round of applause.
- 45:04SPEAKER_02: I want you I want you to give the album a listen, like especially the first half, because you know, you I don't know how you feel about RB.
- 45:09SPEAKER_02: I love RB.
- 45:10SPEAKER_02: But it's very like I don't like modern RB.
- 45:12SPEAKER_02: Yeah, it's like auto-tune-y, it's it's not what you like.
- 45:14SPEAKER_02: If you don't like Drake, this is even more.
- 45:16SPEAKER_02: I'm saying, if you don't like Drake's RB.
- 45:18SPEAKER_02: All these hoes.
- 45:20SPEAKER_02: I do like it.
- 45:21SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 45:21SPEAKER_00: You know what I like about him um doing that?
- 45:25SPEAKER_00: Um, that a lot of people, I love seeing a good story.
- 45:29SPEAKER_00: And a lot of people thought his career was buried.
- 45:31SPEAKER_00: How long he got left?
- 45:32SPEAKER_00: 10 years.
- 45:33SPEAKER_02: Well, left.
- 45:34SPEAKER_02: Then they give him time to serve.
- 45:36SPEAKER_02: Let's say he went in at 21.
- 45:38SPEAKER_02: In 21, um I got half a decade left.
- 45:42SPEAKER_02: He got half a decade left, but he might get out in a year or two.
- 45:44SPEAKER_02: Yeah, he might.
- 45:45SPEAKER_02: I was gonna say he might get out.
- 45:46SPEAKER_02: I think in Cali, you gotta do 75, 75%.
- 45:48SPEAKER_02: Yeah, something like that.
- 45:49SPEAKER_02: I think it's like that.
- 45:50SPEAKER_00: Um I I love that.
- 45:52SPEAKER_00: I love that, you know, because a lot of people was like, let's say he's cooked.
- 45:56SPEAKER_00: I was wondering, you know, he's in the drawer, like that's it.
- 45:58SPEAKER_00: I think he would have been if he didn't drop.
- 46:01SPEAKER_00: No, that's what, and this is why, hence why I love that he's doing this and also killing it.
- 46:07SPEAKER_00: Like, you know, I love it.
- 46:08SPEAKER_00: Yeah, it's not that he's just putting out music, it's that the music is doing it.
- 46:10SPEAKER_00: I'm here for the past.
- 46:11SPEAKER_00: It's not like he's like, you could tell it's not just like obligation.
- 46:16SPEAKER_00: You could tell it's not just like, like, nah, I'm gonna I'm gonna put out just because I don't, I don't, I want to keep up the, you know, nah, it's like I'm gonna do that, but it's like, nah, I'm gonna, I'm gonna, I'm gonna show these niggas.
- 46:27SPEAKER_00: Nah, he's he's he's motivated, he's passionate, he's intentional about it.
- 46:32SPEAKER_02: He's super talented.
- 46:32SPEAKER_02: Remember when they used to call uh Eric Bledsoe Baby LeBron?
- 46:36SPEAKER_02: I feel like Tory Lane's is like a baby Drake.
- 46:38SPEAKER_02: He's very talented.
- 46:39SPEAKER_02: They do the same things, just not at the same level.
- 46:42SPEAKER_02: And um he got his own little swag.
- 46:44SPEAKER_02: I don't like the fact that little swag is funny because he's short.
- 46:49SPEAKER_02: He's what?
- 46:49SPEAKER_02: He's what?
- 46:50SPEAKER_02: Thought they were both kind of the same stature.
- 46:52SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 46:52SPEAKER_02: He's what Drake was short.
- 46:54SPEAKER_02: Is he not?
- 46:54SPEAKER_02: Isn't everybody short to you?
- 46:55SPEAKER_02: Oh, besides Drake, right?
- 46:56SPEAKER_02: Drake is like 6'1, 6'2.
- 46:58SPEAKER_02: Drake is okay, whatever.
- 46:59SPEAKER_02: Um he's taller than you.
- 47:01SPEAKER_02: I'm six feet.
- 47:04SPEAKER_02: But he magically is taller than me, though.
- 47:06SPEAKER_02: It's fine.
- 47:07SPEAKER_02: No problem.
- 47:07SPEAKER_02: Um, but yeah, um, I I I always respected uh Tori's craft.
- 47:11SPEAKER_02: The only knock I had on him is um, and I understand why niggas do this.
- 47:15SPEAKER_02: Um when they like he kind of tried to make New York like his city, like he's from here, like how Drake did with Houston.
- 47:21SPEAKER_02: It didn't it didn't really stick the same way with Drake.
- 47:23SPEAKER_02: Uh I don't know if Tory has enough I don't know if he had enough time, or maybe he didn't do enough for the city, because I don't know, you know, when when I go outside in the strip clubs, I don't really hear um strippers saying his name.
- 47:33SPEAKER_02: Like Drake, Drake probably changed lives.
- 47:34SPEAKER_02: Yeah, and I don't think he did it cool enough.
- 47:36SPEAKER_02: Again, Drake is touching, he's touching the strippers, he's touching the Bumbies, yeah, the raps and the and the and the um Steven Jackson's and like so he's he's shaking hands with like Yeah, the people he needs to.
- 47:45SPEAKER_02: And then he has the mob ties thing, so he was already like written for it.
- 47:48SPEAKER_02: But yeah, like he did try to give Tori the try, but New York is a little bit, you know, we we we not dick riders, so it's really hard to like to become like a second son of New York.
- 47:57SPEAKER_02: Yeah, he should have got closer to like the A-Boggies.
- 48:00SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 48:01SPEAKER_02: He did the song with Favi.
- 48:03SPEAKER_02: Yeah, but yeah.
- 48:04SPEAKER_02: What you about to say about Fabi?
- 48:05SPEAKER_02: Yeah, look in the camera.
- 48:06SPEAKER_02: Where's Favi?
- 48:08SPEAKER_02: Is he in jail?
- 48:09SPEAKER_02: Or NYCHA?
- 48:10SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah.
- 48:12SPEAKER_02: Shout out to Fabi.
- 48:13SPEAKER_02: But um, yeah, that's my only knock on him, and it's it's a bullshit knock.
- 48:16SPEAKER_02: It's just something I'm pulling out.
- 48:17SPEAKER_02: Outside of my obvious beef for him, I'm a Megatron, so I can't really, you know.
- 48:21SPEAKER_02: Now, what I hear from a lot of Canadians is that New York is like their like second home.
- 48:26SPEAKER_02: Like they treat New York like they really love New York.
- 48:29SPEAKER_02: So this is the rule that I have.
- 48:33SPEAKER_02: As New York, as the mayor, mayor AG is as a rule.
- 48:36SPEAKER_02: A jigger.
- 48:38SPEAKER_02: We can we can claim anybody.
- 48:40SPEAKER_02: Like we can if you're from if you're from Jersey and you good enough, we can claim you say, nah, he's from New York.
- 48:45SPEAKER_02: Like, Kyrie is from Jersey, Carl Anthony Towns is from Jersey, but because they're cool enough, y'all could be from New York.
- 48:51SPEAKER_02: Bring them over.
- 48:52SPEAKER_02: Davies is like from Baltimore, but you know, he has enough ties in New York.
- 48:57SPEAKER_02: Carlo, yeah.
- 48:57SPEAKER_02: We could we we could claim him.
- 48:58SPEAKER_02: I mean J.
- 48:59SPEAKER_02: Cole.
- 48:59SPEAKER_02: But it J.
- 49:00SPEAKER_02: Cole, absolutely, we can claim you.
- 49:02SPEAKER_02: But the opposite doesn't work.
- 49:04SPEAKER_02: You can't be from Canada and say that New York is your second home.
- 49:07SPEAKER_02: It don't work like that.
- 49:08SPEAKER_02: You're from Canada.
- 49:09SPEAKER_02: That's fair.
- 49:10SPEAKER_02: That's fair.
- 49:10SPEAKER_02: If we want to claim you, which is hard to get that, we're the gatekeeper.
- 49:14SPEAKER_02: We are the gatekeepers.
- 49:15SPEAKER_02: Gatekeeping, people hate on gatekeeping.
- 49:16SPEAKER_02: I think gatekeeping is important.
- 49:18SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 49:18SPEAKER_02: Because how would you feel if some guy just popped up in DR tomorrow?
- 49:22SPEAKER_02: He's not from DR, but he's like, nah, DR is my second home.
- 49:25SPEAKER_02: And it's like, nigga, who the fuck are you?
- 49:27SPEAKER_02: You're not doing nothing for the people.
- 49:28SPEAKER_02: You don't touch the people.
- 49:29SPEAKER_02: Yeah, so that's how I look at it.
- 49:31SPEAKER_02: New York, we could claim whoever we want, but y'all can't just claim us like that.
- 49:33SPEAKER_02: I think we've earned that as a city.
- 49:35SPEAKER_02: I respect that.
- 49:36SPEAKER_02: Shout out to the capital of the world.
- 49:37SPEAKER_02: Shout out to your language.
- 49:38SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 49:39SPEAKER_02: Well, do you have a standout track?
- 49:41SPEAKER_02: Uh, I do.
- 49:42SPEAKER_02: I have a nigga.
- 49:44SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I can.
- 49:44SPEAKER_02: Copyright shit.
- 49:45SPEAKER_02: I have the intro, it's a standout track.
- 49:47SPEAKER_02: I like Jalen Brunson.
- 49:48SPEAKER_02: It's a song called Jalen Brunson.
- 49:50SPEAKER_02: Standout track.
- 49:50SPEAKER_02: You see what I'm saying?
- 49:52SPEAKER_02: You see what I'm saying?
- 49:54SPEAKER_02: I like.
- 49:55SPEAKER_02: I guess I'll give you one more.
- 49:58SPEAKER_02: There's a song called Dean and A B.
- 50:00SPEAKER_02: I guess it's a two-song.
- 50:02SPEAKER_02: It's Dean and A B slash S G A.
- 50:04SPEAKER_02: Um, I know some of the stuff I know some of the titles are a little, but can we talk about him real fast?
- 50:09SPEAKER_02: We don't have it on the docket, but I want to talk about him.
- 50:11SPEAKER_02: Dean?
- 50:11SPEAKER_02: Oh no, A B.
- 50:12SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 50:13SPEAKER_02: Um, two things.
- 50:16SPEAKER_02: People don't understand that Adrian Brono wasn't just a boxer.
- 50:20SPEAKER_02: Oh yeah, now this episode is stricken.
- 50:23SPEAKER_02: We praying again?
- 50:25SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 50:25SPEAKER_02: Um, he wasn't just a boxer.
- 50:28SPEAKER_02: Right?
- 50:28SPEAKER_02: Number one.
- 50:29SPEAKER_02: He was a world champion boxer.
- 50:32SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 50:33SPEAKER_02: So when people are shocked because he's out of shape and they see him do these things, they're like, oh wow, that's amazing.
- 50:39SPEAKER_02: I don't think people understand like how good at boxing boxing boxers are, and then how good you have to be as a boxer to be a world champion.
- 50:47SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 50:48SPEAKER_02: This nigga is not a normal boxer.
- 50:49SPEAKER_02: No, no, no.
- 50:50SPEAKER_02: He's not a guy that's at your local gym boxing that can teach you a few things.
- 50:53SPEAKER_02: He is a genius level boxer.
- 50:55SPEAKER_02: He had Floyd Mayweather aspirations, but of course he didn't have the discipline.
- 50:59SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 50:59SPEAKER_02: That's number one.
- 51:00SPEAKER_02: Maybe weather doesn't take you that serious.
- 51:02SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 51:03SPEAKER_00: Yeah, no, yeah, exactly.
- 51:04SPEAKER_00: He wouldn't even have you around the street.
- 51:05SPEAKER_00: Nah, he was there.
- 51:06SPEAKER_00: I think he just, I think it all got to him.
- 51:07SPEAKER_00: Yeah, no.
- 51:08SPEAKER_02: And I don't even think that makes him a stupid, a lame, or bad person.
- 51:12SPEAKER_02: I think that makes him a human.
- 51:13SPEAKER_02: I think 90% of humans, you put them in that position, they're gonna lose their mind.
- 51:18SPEAKER_02: Like, you know, this is like a little bit of cult, but like me and my friend group, we talk about all the time.
- 51:21SPEAKER_02: It's like, yo, the reason why we're not rich is because God is like, y'all niggas are not ready.
- 51:24SPEAKER_02: Because if we if I gave y'all money and influence, you guys would be dead the next day because of how turnt and you know, you guys need to mature first.
- 51:31SPEAKER_02: But that you know, that could just be coke.
- 51:32SPEAKER_02: Can you disagree with God though?
- 51:35SPEAKER_02: Of course you can.
- 51:36SPEAKER_02: You can you can disagree with your dad.
- 51:37SPEAKER_02: God, I disagree.
- 51:37SPEAKER_02: But he's your dad.
- 51:38SPEAKER_02: I disagree, dad.
- 51:39SPEAKER_02: He just knows better.
- 51:40SPEAKER_02: He knows you better than you know yourself.
- 51:41SPEAKER_02: But um, the second thing though, A B obviously has a new lawsuit.
- 51:48SPEAKER_02: Um, and it was just a matter of time.
- 51:50SPEAKER_02: I don't even watch his content, I just see the clips.
- 51:53SPEAKER_02: And you have in this day and age specifically, but in general, after the Me Too era, you cannot treat women openly because what you do is you build up a persona that anybody can say anything.
- 52:09SPEAKER_02: Because I've watched 10 videos of you disrespecting women while you're being recorded.
- 52:14SPEAKER_02: So now, as a jury, as a judge, as a lawyer, I can only imagine what you do when the cameras aren't rolling.
- 52:21SPEAKER_02: Is that fair?
- 52:22SPEAKER_02: Yeah, absolutely not.
- 52:23SPEAKER_02: It's not fair because we live in a system where you're innocent until proven guilty, but we are human beings.
- 52:28SPEAKER_02: So if I just watch 10 videos of you on camera, you you know you're on camera, the girl knows she's on camera, and you're throwing ice in her face because she doesn't want to sleep with you, or you're you're kicking her out the crib because she doesn't want to sleep with you.
- 52:42SPEAKER_02: All it takes is one young lady to say, Oh yeah, he tried to have sex with me, and I I said no and he beat me.
- 52:47SPEAKER_02: Like, it's not that far of a leap for me to be like, nigga, you are capable of this.
- 52:51SPEAKER_02: So it just it was just a bad.
- 52:54SPEAKER_02: I get it, content is king, and I'm I'm sitting here trying to make it out through content, so I understand it.
- 52:58SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah.
- 52:59SPEAKER_02: But it's like all money's not good, money number one.
- 53:02SPEAKER_02: And it's like, bro, you're just getting the fame and the fortune back.
- 53:06SPEAKER_02: You have a ton of kids that you're out of his own mouth.
- 53:09SPEAKER_02: He's saying that, you know, he did a really dope episode.
- 53:11SPEAKER_02: I don't I don't know if it was for Father's Day, but he had all his kids come out and you know, he took care of them and stuff like that.
- 53:16SPEAKER_02: But it's like you're about to jeopardize all of this again.
- 53:18SPEAKER_02: Like you got a second chance in life, which most people don't even get a first.
- 53:22SPEAKER_02: Yeah, and shout out Dean.
- 53:23SPEAKER_02: I know obviously Dean is doing this because it's also helping his profile, but still shout him out because you don't have to share, niggas don't have to share.
- 53:29SPEAKER_02: He shared the spotlight with you, and the again, the the women are gonna be the destruction of him.
- 53:34SPEAKER_02: And I can't even blame the young ladies because it's like I'm seeing it, I'm seeing you treat women like they're garbage, perception is reality, and perception is reality.
- 53:43SPEAKER_02: Thank you, Mike.
- 53:43SPEAKER_02: And it's just it's just sad.
- 53:44SPEAKER_02: I don't want to see him lose everything, but how many times are you gonna learn the same lesson, bro?
- 53:48SPEAKER_02: So I just hope everything works out for him and he can continue to provide for his family.
- 53:52SPEAKER_02: But brother, lock in.
- 53:54SPEAKER_02: Yeah, that's what I really want to say about that.
- 53:56SPEAKER_02: I mean, shout out to him at least weight losing weight and trying to get it back in shape.
- 53:59SPEAKER_02: Yeah, that's true.
- 54:00SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah.
- 54:00SPEAKER_02: I saw him getting that ice iced ice bath.
- 54:02SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah.
- 54:04SPEAKER_02: And that speaks to what AG said.
- 54:05SPEAKER_02: Yeah, this guy's all shocked.
- 54:06SPEAKER_02: Like, how did he do that?
- 54:07SPEAKER_02: So he's not a normal person.
- 54:08SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 54:09SPEAKER_02: First try, too.
- 54:10SPEAKER_02: It's a world champion boxer, bro.
- 54:12SPEAKER_02: Like, this nigga, bro.
- 54:13SPEAKER_02: Now, uh the Dean situation, like he has his own?
- 54:18unknown: What?
- 54:19SPEAKER_02: No, no, no.
- 54:19SPEAKER_02: I'm just saying, like, one credit to him for seeing if he even saw the vision in bringing A B on.
- 54:25SPEAKER_02: Because I I don't think anybody would have been like, oh, Corey B.
- 54:28SPEAKER_02: And no, you know, that'd be perfect.
- 54:29SPEAKER_02: Nope.
- 54:30SPEAKER_02: Um, I know y'all how y'all feel about it, but I love like they're unapologetic about their content.
- 54:36SPEAKER_02: I like the matching outfits.
- 54:38SPEAKER_02: I I'm a New York nigga, so that shit is gay and corny, but it works.
- 54:43SPEAKER_02: It works.
- 54:43SPEAKER_02: Like it's work, it works, it works on them because they they almost give me like uh not appearance-wise, but a vibe of like Will and Martin, Will Smith from the Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 54:52SPEAKER_02: You know what I'm saying?
- 54:53SPEAKER_01: Like it's it's just that it works.
- 54:54SPEAKER_01: The chemistry is just like.
- 54:55SPEAKER_01: Yeah, Dean is like Will, where he's like also funny and crazy, but like more hinged, and A B is just Mark Lawrence just bugging, you know, just always bugging.
- 55:03SPEAKER_01: No, no turn down.
- 55:05SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 55:05SPEAKER_02: And um, so I I like it.
- 55:07SPEAKER_02: I like it.
- 55:07SPEAKER_02: Yeah, it's it's it's and he owes a lot to Dean.
- 55:10SPEAKER_02: Dean.
- 55:10SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 55:11SPEAKER_02: That was that was some that's a good like that's a quality look.
- 55:14SPEAKER_02: And again, I said it earlier, but like, oh yeah, it's not like Dean's doing this, like, oh I I don't I don't need AB2.
- 55:21SPEAKER_02: Like they both meet each other.
- 55:22SPEAKER_02: But Dean was already on his upward trajectory, and he just got this nigga out the gutter.
- 55:27SPEAKER_02: Like, hey, let's let's get this bread.
- 55:28SPEAKER_02: Like, that's that's a stand-up dude.
- 55:30SPEAKER_02: Most dudes would not do that.
- 55:31SPEAKER_02: What's scary though is that the first time I saw Dean, he was getting slapped or punched by the Oh yeah, that was his whole content.
- 55:38SPEAKER_02: That was his biggest look, right?
- 55:39SPEAKER_02: By who?
- 55:39SPEAKER_02: By who?
- 55:40SPEAKER_02: By Dean, Dean the Great.
- 55:41SPEAKER_02: Yeah, his whole thing was getting beat on.
- 55:43SPEAKER_02: He got beat up, he got, but it was like one video with this big brawley guy, I think, punched him.
- 55:48SPEAKER_02: He has a bunch of he was he Dean did something inappropriate with his girl, like said something.
- 55:51SPEAKER_02: And I think he punched him or slapped him.
- 55:53SPEAKER_02: Dean was trying to fight him.
- 55:54SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 55:55SPEAKER_02: And it's just like crazy how that's how you blow up.
- 55:57SPEAKER_02: You know what I'm saying?
- 55:58SPEAKER_02: Like that was the one thing that is consistent across the board, all content.
- 56:03SPEAKER_02: And that girl left that guy, by the way.
- 56:05SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 56:05SPEAKER_02: Um, there's a lesson in there too.
- 56:07SPEAKER_02: But um, one thing I would say that's uh that about content that I will say, and this is advice, you know, you've taken advice from a nigga that hasn't made it yet.
- 56:14SPEAKER_02: But anybody out there that's either starting to do content or have been doing it for a while, you have to be in it to win it.
- 56:19SPEAKER_02: That's just it.
- 56:20SPEAKER_02: It's just like you saying with Dean, like he could have just quit after the first because he got slapped or punched multiple times.
- 56:25SPEAKER_02: Yes, yes.
- 56:25SPEAKER_02: He could have quit after the first one.
- 56:26SPEAKER_02: It was like a week of slaps.
- 56:27SPEAKER_02: Yeah, it was, and that's what niggas knew him for.
- 56:29SPEAKER_02: I didn't know that he was actually a boxer, like he was like an actual boxer.
- 56:33SPEAKER_02: Which is why he feels like he could beat them, but he's also smoking.
- 56:35SPEAKER_02: Yeah, he's also a fucking tiny nigga on top of everything else.
- 56:37SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah.
- 56:38SPEAKER_02: But yeah, you just have to be in it, bro.
- 56:40SPEAKER_02: You just have to be in it.
- 56:41SPEAKER_02: It's the consistent grind, and something pops.
- 56:43SPEAKER_02: It might not be what you want it to pop for, but that nigga's paying his bills.
- 56:47SPEAKER_02: So it don't matter at this point.
- 56:48SPEAKER_02: But shout out shout out uh shout out Dean, shout out AB, help you guys uh get your shit together.
- 56:53SPEAKER_02: Speaking of content, though.
- 56:54SPEAKER_02: Speaking of content, um, I was talking to um Charlie, I was talking to um a bunch of my uh my boys about this, right?
- 57:02SPEAKER_02: So are you guys familiar with uh pickup artists?
- 57:05SPEAKER_02: Mike uh I don't know if Michael knows it by that though.
- 57:08SPEAKER_02: I've I've heard it's a lot of people.
- 57:09SPEAKER_02: So it's it'd be these videos of these guys walking up to girls and basically bagging them.
- 57:15SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 57:15SPEAKER_02: That's the content.
- 57:16SPEAKER_02: Okay, okay.
- 57:17SPEAKER_02: But the two things that make the content dope is one, it's POV.
- 57:24SPEAKER_02: So you as the viewer can pretend like you're the guy.
- 57:28SPEAKER_02: And number two, the women don't know they're being recorded.
- 57:32SPEAKER_02: Now, that's like the camera's hitting.
- 57:34SPEAKER_02: Yeah, so the meta glasses has been a revolution for content.
- 57:39SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 57:39SPEAKER_02: Because normally when somebody's shooting content, it's very obvious.
- 57:41SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 57:42SPEAKER_02: They have a tripod, there's a nigga with a book bag on that has all the Wi-Fi shit in it.
- 57:45SPEAKER_02: So you can spot him from down the block.
- 57:47SPEAKER_02: He has like another guy holding a light, or sometimes he's holding the light.
- 57:50SPEAKER_02: It's very easy to spot a content creator.
- 57:52SPEAKER_02: So if I'm like a lot of these dudes that do these videos, you can sell, you can see people are acting.
- 57:56SPEAKER_02: Like there's there's it, there's like this short Mexican nigga that that be interviewing girls all the time.
- 58:00SPEAKER_02: But you can see he's doing a production because it's a whole production.
- 58:03SPEAKER_02: So sometimes the girls are just acting it up, like, oh yeah, I'll go home and sleep with you.
- 58:06SPEAKER_02: Yeah, because it's funny to say on a camera when you're drunk and at that at like whatever popular cross street.
- 58:11SPEAKER_02: Senor frogs.
- 58:12SPEAKER_02: Yeah, exactly.
- 58:13SPEAKER_02: That's normally how you catch them.
- 58:14SPEAKER_02: But with the meta thing, though, the women just think you're a guy just trying to pick them up.
- 58:19SPEAKER_02: So there's there's like there's a skill in that, there's an art in that.
- 58:22SPEAKER_02: And I was talking to Charlie about it because I was talking to uh to one of my man about it.
- 58:26SPEAKER_02: Like, in my early 20s, my group, my group of friends, we could have been like the greatest content creators of all time because we did this for like 10 years straight for a living.
- 58:36SPEAKER_02: That's what we did.
- 58:37SPEAKER_02: And we didn't have all the the gizmos and all of that to like get the content out there.
- 58:41SPEAKER_02: But like it's just so funny to watch these dudes like yo, it's dope because I didn't realize and I've seen some good ones, yeah.
- 58:47SPEAKER_02: Like, and the to me, what makes the best videos is when the girls don't know that they're being recorded.
- 58:53SPEAKER_02: Yeah, so they're just being their natural selves.
- 58:55SPEAKER_02: You see the game of uh push and pull, you see, you gotta see the guy, like what he's gonna say when she says, Oh, I'm not gonna give you my number.
- 59:02SPEAKER_02: Like, it's it's a it's a dance, and you know, and like as a young dude, I didn't realize that there's a big market of men that have never done this.
- 59:12SPEAKER_02: Yeah, like they're terrified to speak to women.
- 59:16SPEAKER_02: I did not know that.
- 59:17SPEAKER_02: So Meta recently came out because I guess this is now ruining people's lives because these girls don't know they're being recorded.
- 59:24SPEAKER_02: Yeah, they pretend like they out single, and these videos go viral.
- 59:28SPEAKER_02: They gotta explain to their man, like you said you would go sleep with that dude.
- 59:31SPEAKER_02: And some of them go as as far as like you see them making out, like, so it's like it gets bad.
- 59:35SPEAKER_02: You're gonna give the number.
- 59:36SPEAKER_02: Yeah, like it gets bad.
- 59:37SPEAKER_02: So Meta is like pro uh like proposing a ban to like like anybody using their glasses, they're gonna ban that content from being even recorded.
- 59:46SPEAKER_02: I don't know how they're gonna do it, but Meta is a very cutting-edge company.
- 59:49SPEAKER_02: They have a lot of AI, so I guess there's certain phrases that if the camera picks up, it'll just like automatically cut the video or whatever the case may be.
- 59:56SPEAKER_02: But yeah, it's gonna be a tough one.
- 59:59SPEAKER_02: Um, but yeah, there are there is a big, uh, a large majority of guys who have who struggle with um that type of execution.
- 1:00:07SPEAKER_02: I did not know that, bro.
- 1:00:08SPEAKER_02: Um, I was one of them.
- 1:00:10SPEAKER_02: Oh, yeah, 6'9.
- 1:00:11SPEAKER_02: Yeah, but again, it's like Drake looking at his music.
- 1:00:14SPEAKER_02: Like, you don't see what everybody sees.
- 1:00:16SPEAKER_02: What is this nigga talking about?
- 1:00:19SPEAKER_02: I guess like a little bit of a confidence and stuff like that.
- 1:00:22SPEAKER_02: I don't know that, but I don't know what that means to you.
- 1:00:24SPEAKER_02: I just see it's normal to me.
- 1:00:25SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah.
- 1:00:26SPEAKER_02: Tall, dark, and handsome is like you learned that in fucking middle school.
- 1:00:30SPEAKER_02: You describing me?
- 1:00:30SPEAKER_02: I would never describe you like that.
- 1:00:32SPEAKER_02: Oh, so why are we talking about that?
- 1:00:33SPEAKER_02: No, but you got the tall part.
- 1:00:35SPEAKER_02: Yeah, that's the first thing.
- 1:00:37SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah, that's all you need.
- 1:00:38SPEAKER_02: You're a slippery guy.
- 1:00:39SPEAKER_02: Hey, yo, what's going on?
- 1:00:40SPEAKER_02: Oh my god.
- 1:00:42SPEAKER_02: But anyway, um, but please enlighten us.
- 1:00:45SPEAKER_02: So that that is a thing.
- 1:00:47SPEAKER_02: Um, one, it's it's bad.
- 1:00:51SPEAKER_02: Like, girls are taught to be tough, right?
- 1:00:53SPEAKER_02: Like, uh, you know, don't don't be too small, don't be smiling in people's faces, don't be too nice.
- 1:00:58SPEAKER_02: You know, they're gonna think you're sweet, they're gonna take advantage of you.
- 1:01:00SPEAKER_02: And guys are also taught, like, like you said in the last part, you told you're ugly from young, you get rejection.
- 1:01:08SPEAKER_01: You know what I'm saying?
- 1:01:09SPEAKER_01: Go through it.
- 1:01:10SPEAKER_01: Huh?
- 1:01:10SPEAKER_01: Yeah, so that can either roll off your sh roll off your back or seep into your pores because you and you identify with that and be like, damn, like maybe I don't got it like I think.
- 1:01:20SPEAKER_02: So you know what I'm saying?
- 1:01:21SPEAKER_02: So you you see a 10 and you're a 10, but you don't everybody is like, yo, you could Duffy bagger, but you don't.
- 1:01:26SPEAKER_02: You're not a 10.
- 1:01:28SPEAKER_02: What am I?
- 1:01:28SPEAKER_02: You're doing a little much.
- 1:01:29SPEAKER_02: What am I?
- 1:01:30SPEAKER_02: I you're not a 10.
- 1:01:30SPEAKER_02: I don't know.
- 1:01:31SPEAKER_02: How can you identify that I'm not a 10?
- 1:01:33SPEAKER_02: Because it's pretty easy.
- 1:01:34SPEAKER_02: How?
- 1:01:34SPEAKER_02: Because you told me it's hard.
- 1:01:35SPEAKER_02: I don't want to hurt you.
- 1:01:36SPEAKER_02: You told me I can't call a guy cute, so how I don't want to hurt your channel.
- 1:01:38SPEAKER_01: How do you know I'm not a 10?
- 1:01:39SPEAKER_01: I don't want to hurt you.
- 1:01:40SPEAKER_01: What do you see in me that decreases?
- 1:01:42SPEAKER_02: It's actually what I don't see.
- 1:01:43SPEAKER_01: What don't you see?
- 1:01:44SPEAKER_01: And we talk about all the things.
- 1:01:46SPEAKER_01: What do you need to see in a man to verify call him a 10?
- 1:01:49SPEAKER_01: I'm fucking I'm fucking with you.
- 1:01:50SPEAKER_01: Yeah, yeah.
- 1:01:53SPEAKER_02: But um, but yeah, like uh it's it's tough.
- 1:01:57SPEAKER_02: It's like music.
- 1:01:57SPEAKER_02: They always say the first bar is the hardest bar to write.
- 1:02:00SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 1:02:00SPEAKER_02: So I don't think having a conversation with a woman is hard.
- 1:02:04SPEAKER_02: But the first bar is tough.
- 1:02:05SPEAKER_02: And that's where these guys uh capitalize because if you you if you notice the girls are all ready to curve as soon as they leave.
- 1:02:13SPEAKER_02: That's the fun.
- 1:02:14SPEAKER_02: Because the first bar be so hard.
- 1:02:16SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 1:02:17SPEAKER_02: What's the second bar?
- 1:02:18SPEAKER_02: Yeah, what's the right thing?
- 1:02:18SPEAKER_02: You know what I'm saying?
- 1:02:19SPEAKER_02: Like, uh, you can you can kind of rap.
- 1:02:20SPEAKER_01: Let me listen to what you got going on.
- 1:02:22SPEAKER_01: But that whole, like, hey ladies, where y'all from?
- 1:02:24SPEAKER_01: Or like, oh, uh, I just want to say y'all look real nice today, like, that's that's getting curved, you know what I'm saying?
- 1:02:30SPEAKER_02: But what do a lot of people don't know like what to say?
- 1:02:32SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah.
- 1:02:33SPEAKER_02: You know?
- 1:02:33SPEAKER_02: So uh Mike, how was your like uh your life with the early 20s?
- 1:02:38SPEAKER_00: Like what you was the quiet guy, you was uh who what was you?
- 1:02:41SPEAKER_00: First of all, before I get into that, did you guys know that one third um of every man?
- 1:02:48SPEAKER_00: I think we think we spoke about this.
- 1:02:50SPEAKER_00: What?
- 1:02:50SPEAKER_00: So you're about to call body count?
- 1:02:52SPEAKER_00: No, no, no.
- 1:02:53SPEAKER_00: I mean, maybe what uh a third a third of men between I think I think 18 and 30 are celibate.
- 1:03:01SPEAKER_00: Celibate.
- 1:03:02SPEAKER_00: Yeah, like like either this in this era.
- 1:03:05SPEAKER_00: Yes, in this era, but it's it's not completely, it's more like well, incels.
- 1:03:11SPEAKER_02: Because celibate is by choice, right?
- 1:03:13SPEAKER_02: No, incel is by choice.
- 1:03:15SPEAKER_02: No, incel is by choice.
- 1:03:16SPEAKER_02: Intentional.
- 1:03:17SPEAKER_02: Oh, right, right.
- 1:03:19SPEAKER_02: So it's by choice, though.
- 1:03:20SPEAKER_02: Gotcha.
- 1:03:21SPEAKER_02: That's that's the thing though.
- 1:03:22SPEAKER_02: They I'm an incel.
- 1:03:23SPEAKER_02: I I don't want a pussy.
- 1:03:26SPEAKER_00: So so sorry.
- 1:03:27SPEAKER_00: So the thing is, so one third is either a virgin from 18 to 30 is a virgin or haven't had sex for a year.
- 1:03:33SPEAKER_00: That's really what it is.
- 1:03:34SPEAKER_00: That's that's you know, so that's having had sex for a year.
- 1:03:37SPEAKER_00: I feel like is a large part of that gap.
- 1:03:39SPEAKER_00: That's what I'm saying.
- 1:03:40SPEAKER_00: And that's that's uh that's you know But it's common, bro.
- 1:03:44SPEAKER_02: Think about it, it's not easy.
- 1:03:46SPEAKER_02: We're spoiled.
- 1:03:47SPEAKER_02: I don't think getting laid is easy.
- 1:03:50SPEAKER_02: But speaking to women is a lot easier than niggas think it is.
- 1:03:55SPEAKER_00: Yeah, isn't it?
- 1:03:56SPEAKER_00: It's it's easier than you think.
- 1:03:58SPEAKER_00: It's just the pressure.
- 1:03:59SPEAKER_00: Like you yourself kind of like, you know, I think I think that breaking the ice, not everybody, you know, the worst is this is not true.
- 1:04:06SPEAKER_02: It's not true, but I'm gonna say it like it is true.
- 1:04:08SPEAKER_02: The worst thing she can say is no.
- 1:04:09SPEAKER_02: That's the worst thing.
- 1:04:10SPEAKER_02: I was just about to say it.
- 1:04:11SPEAKER_02: That's the best man.
- 1:04:12SPEAKER_02: It's not true, though.
- 1:04:12SPEAKER_02: I was just about to say that.
- 1:04:13SPEAKER_02: It's worse things than no.
- 1:04:14SPEAKER_02: But I don't think you're I don't think your fear is the no.
- 1:04:16SPEAKER_01: I think your fear is in is in the in the embarrassing of like stuttering or just like the awkwardness in this in the conversation or whatever case is.
- 1:04:24SPEAKER_00: It's not the no, it's what the no represents, which is kind of what you're saying.
- 1:04:27SPEAKER_00: It's what the no represents.
- 1:04:28SPEAKER_00: Because it's not just the no, it's just like what it represents.
- 1:04:31SPEAKER_00: Like, damn, I it represents, I tried it.
- 1:04:34SPEAKER_00: I went in front of this person, I said this, like, and it didn't work.
- 1:04:38SPEAKER_00: And it's like I'm I have to deal with this live.
- 1:04:40SPEAKER_00: I presented my best self and it was no.
- 1:04:42SPEAKER_02: And it was a no.
- 1:04:43SPEAKER_02: Girls are like buses.
- 1:04:44SPEAKER_02: Gucci man said it, bro.
- 1:04:45SPEAKER_02: Just move on.
- 1:04:47SPEAKER_02: Like it's to answer your question.
- 1:04:49SPEAKER_01: Sometimes the bus passes by and it splashes the puddle of water on you, and now you got shh.
- 1:04:54SPEAKER_02: You dust yourself off.
- 1:04:55SPEAKER_02: And now you gotta go home and get a towel.
- 1:04:57SPEAKER_02: You can't go home.
- 1:04:57SPEAKER_02: You gotta tell your mom.
- 1:04:58SPEAKER_02: Nah, nah, no.
- 1:04:59SPEAKER_02: That's the last thing.
- 1:05:00SPEAKER_02: Your dad gotta be like, it'll be all right, man.
- 1:05:02SPEAKER_02: It'll be another bus.
- 1:05:03SPEAKER_02: Don't worry about it.
- 1:05:03SPEAKER_02: I already told him that before he went out the house.
- 1:05:05SPEAKER_02: Why are you back?
- 1:05:06SPEAKER_02: Why are you back?
- 1:05:06SPEAKER_02: Right.
- 1:05:07SPEAKER_02: Go get the other bus, nigga.
- 1:05:08SPEAKER_00: To answer your question about how was I in my 20s, um, do you mean like with ladies?
- 1:05:12SPEAKER_02: Like, because you said, Yeah, like the just the poor part.
- 1:05:14SPEAKER_02: Like, you're a person.
- 1:05:15SPEAKER_02: Because everybody has a different game.
- 1:05:17SPEAKER_02: Yeah, some dudes are the yo, my my man, like this is Charlie.
- 1:05:20SPEAKER_02: Yo, my man want to talk to you.
- 1:05:21SPEAKER_02: Charlie's like, hey, yeah.
- 1:05:22SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 1:05:23SPEAKER_02: I'm a great, I'm a great one, man.
- 1:05:24SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah.
- 1:05:25SPEAKER_02: That's that's his.
- 1:05:26SPEAKER_00: I um, I I I I gotta say, I don't think I ever struggled with that.
- 1:05:31SPEAKER_00: Like, you know, I think for me.
- 1:05:32SPEAKER_00: What is it, a poppy shampoo?
- 1:05:33SPEAKER_00: That's what you're saying.
- 1:05:34SPEAKER_00: Nah, nah, nah, nah.
- 1:05:35SPEAKER_00: No, because I also did fear the no, and I also did fear the, you know, like the breaking the ice.
- 1:05:40SPEAKER_00: But I had that, but I also noticed with time that I was actually good at it.
- 1:05:47SPEAKER_00: Like, I feared it just because like I had that pressure, but it's like, you know, it was it wasn't I I wouldn't do bad when I would test myself.
- 1:05:54SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 1:05:54SPEAKER_00: But um, and and also in my 20s, you know, I would say somewhere maybe.
- 1:06:00SPEAKER_00: Maybe around the mid-20s, you know, early, early to mid-20s.
- 1:06:04SPEAKER_00: I started hearing that.
- 1:06:05SPEAKER_00: Like, yo, like, the worst that she could say is no.
- 1:06:08SPEAKER_00: The worst that she could, and that was stuck stay stuck with me.
- 1:06:11SPEAKER_00: And it's like, eventually, I kind of I feel like I beat that at the time.
- 1:06:16SPEAKER_00: You know, I was like, That's true.
- 1:06:18SPEAKER_00: Like, the worst, like, all right, no, it's it's you know, no, here, try it again.
- 1:06:23SPEAKER_00: Try it again.
- 1:06:24SPEAKER_02: You know, wake up, try it again another day.
- 1:06:25SPEAKER_02: In my travels, one of the most interesting things I learned, right, is that the baddest girls are the most awkward because they don't get a lot of face-to-face interaction.
- 1:06:37SPEAKER_02: A lot, a lot of times.
- 1:06:38SPEAKER_02: They fall the fastest.
- 1:06:39SPEAKER_02: Yeah, because they don't get pulled up on a lot.
- 1:06:41SPEAKER_02: Because they they present so oh, I'm not gonna talk to this girl.
- 1:06:43SPEAKER_00: So when you do smoke, it requires more uh uh self-esteem from the man.
- 1:06:48SPEAKER_02: She's kind of shaking a little bit.
- 1:06:49SPEAKER_02: You actually have the upper hand because you've done this 50 times and she's like, yo, this this guy's coming over.
- 1:06:54SPEAKER_02: This guy's coming over.
- 1:06:58SPEAKER_02: Oh, you like that video, huh?
- 1:07:00SPEAKER_02: It just it just represented like look at the one of the baddies shaking in her boots.
- 1:07:04SPEAKER_02: Yeah, she was definitely that nigga had a fucking headlock.
- 1:07:07SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah.
- 1:07:07SPEAKER_02: And they was they went out.
- 1:07:08SPEAKER_02: Oh, they did?
- 1:07:09SPEAKER_02: They went out.
- 1:07:09SPEAKER_02: They went there was at dinner.
- 1:07:10SPEAKER_02: Wait, she's not uh but betrothed, she's not with somebody?
- 1:07:13SPEAKER_02: Oh, they they different rules for that.
- 1:07:15SPEAKER_02: Hey, hey, I I all I know is that there was a balcony video, and then I saw a dinner video.
- 1:07:20SPEAKER_02: That's a lot of videos for a woman that is uh in a relationship.
- 1:07:24SPEAKER_02: And then and and and and it's three different settings because there was one where she was at the fashion show where he helped her sit down.
- 1:07:28SPEAKER_02: In all those settings, there's no man which Yeah, he hit her with the fan too.
- 1:07:32SPEAKER_02: You hit it with the fan?
- 1:07:33SPEAKER_02: No, he gave it to her.
- 1:07:34SPEAKER_02: She was like, it was hot in here.
- 1:07:35SPEAKER_02: He was like, I got you.
- 1:07:37SPEAKER_01: He probably spaced something as cologne.
- 1:07:39SPEAKER_01: I'm gonna spray my cologne on the fan and then give it to you.
- 1:07:41SPEAKER_01: Like, this was yours.
- 1:07:42SPEAKER_02: They can know all the tricks.
- 1:07:43SPEAKER_02: Don't want to talk to a girl.
- 1:07:44SPEAKER_02: I'll give it a call next year.
- 1:07:45SPEAKER_02: I no, I learned the tricks.
- 1:07:47SPEAKER_02: It was tough.
- 1:07:47SPEAKER_02: It was tough.
- 1:07:48SPEAKER_01: We had to learn, man.
- 1:07:49SPEAKER_02: It was so hard being 6'9.
- 1:07:51SPEAKER_01: And there's also like, yeah, there's a there's a downside to everything.
- 1:07:55SPEAKER_01: Of course.
- 1:07:55SPEAKER_01: Because now you also, there's also the doofy thing.
- 1:07:57SPEAKER_01: Like, oh, this and that.
- 1:07:58SPEAKER_01: Where's it?
- 1:07:58SPEAKER_00: So you know, huh?
- 1:08:00SPEAKER_00: I was gonna say, where's your favorite place to put to to spray cologne for the uh end goal of like attracting the women or like like basically like I want her to smell this what place behind the ear?
- 1:08:13SPEAKER_00: Okay, behind the ear.
- 1:08:14SPEAKER_00: What about you?
- 1:08:14SPEAKER_00: You know, the nape, all of that.
- 1:08:16SPEAKER_00: What about you?
- 1:08:17SPEAKER_00: Like that you feel like all right.
- 1:08:19SPEAKER_00: You gotta spray his belly button.
- 1:08:20SPEAKER_00: Like, obviously, there's like a few places, but I don't know.
- 1:08:24SPEAKER_00: That was funny.
- 1:08:25SPEAKER_01: Honestly.
- 1:08:28SPEAKER_01: It was at least clever.
- 1:08:29SPEAKER_01: Let's really pause the show.
- 1:08:30SPEAKER_01: It was at least clever.
- 1:08:31SPEAKER_01: Let's break it down.
- 1:08:32SPEAKER_01: He has to spray his belly button.
- 1:08:33SPEAKER_01: That was funny.
- 1:08:34SPEAKER_01: That was at least clever.
- 1:08:35SPEAKER_01: That was I'm talking to Mike.
- 1:08:36SPEAKER_01: That was funny.
- 1:08:37SPEAKER_00: That was funny, you know, because we got a belly.
- 1:08:39SPEAKER_00: I think we that was even joking.
- 1:08:40SPEAKER_00: I think it was about nine ha ha's in that shit.
- 1:08:43SPEAKER_01: It was like, come on, you guys are laying it thick, man.
- 1:08:46SPEAKER_02: There you go.
- 1:08:48SPEAKER_01: Hey, yo.
- 1:08:50SPEAKER_02: We're not laying anything.
- 1:08:51SPEAKER_02: To be honest, I'll be honest, I got in the I got into the cologne game later.
- 1:08:55SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 1:08:56SPEAKER_02: I didn't respect what the impact it has.
- 1:08:59SPEAKER_02: I don't think I I don't even think I still do.
- 1:09:01SPEAKER_02: You know what I'm saying?
- 1:09:02SPEAKER_02: Um, I wear it when I remember.
- 1:09:04SPEAKER_02: It's not as missing out.
- 1:09:07SPEAKER_02: That's just part of my outfit.
- 1:09:08SPEAKER_02: You see, that's why the tall thing don't work.
- 1:09:10SPEAKER_02: He he don't he didn't need all the skills.
- 1:09:12SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah, you know.
- 1:09:13SPEAKER_02: So, you know, so I mean, but now to be honest, it's more so like on the arm than my neck.
- 1:09:20SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 1:09:21SPEAKER_02: You know what I'm saying?
- 1:09:22SPEAKER_02: Um, I usually, if I really gotta give one place, if I really gotta give the game, it's gonna be more on my right side of my body because I'm driving.
- 1:09:30SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 1:09:30SPEAKER_02: Car naked.
- 1:09:31SPEAKER_02: Alright.
- 1:09:32SPEAKER_02: So it's like changing the music.
- 1:09:35SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 1:09:35SPEAKER_02: Smell that?
- 1:09:37SPEAKER_02: Okay, okay.
- 1:09:37SPEAKER_02: If that's the case, then that's whack.
- 1:09:39SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 1:09:39SPEAKER_02: Give me our game.
- 1:09:40SPEAKER_02: But I like that.
- 1:09:41SPEAKER_02: Thank you for that.
- 1:09:41SPEAKER_02: I wrote that down.
- 1:09:43SPEAKER_02: So that's one.
- 1:09:44SPEAKER_02: I got a fiance.
- 1:09:44SPEAKER_02: I'm chilling.
- 1:09:45SPEAKER_02: Oh, yeah, go ahead.
- 1:09:46SPEAKER_02: So that's one too.
- 1:09:47SPEAKER_02: I learned not to put on the clothes, especially white, because it turns yellow, it stains it.
- 1:09:51SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 1:09:51SPEAKER_02: I used to put it on my clothes, like thinking like that was that's oil.
- 1:09:54SPEAKER_02: Those are chemicals.
- 1:09:55SPEAKER_02: Like, that shit is I put it on the beater, the wife beater?
- 1:09:58SPEAKER_02: That's how I put it on.
- 1:09:59SPEAKER_02: Strong.
- 1:10:00SPEAKER_02: Yeah, that's good.
- 1:10:00SPEAKER_02: Yeah, you know, we all sharing some beater that we that we don't need anymore.
- 1:10:04SPEAKER_02: Yeah, because we are spoken for.
- 1:10:06SPEAKER_01: Now, can we be honest?
- 1:10:07SPEAKER_01: I need y'all to be honest.
- 1:10:09SPEAKER_01: Have y'all ever sprayed below the waist?
- 1:10:12SPEAKER_02: Um.
- 1:10:14unknown: Okay.
- 1:10:14SPEAKER_02: Ever?
- 1:10:14SPEAKER_02: Yes.
- 1:10:15SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I respect that.
- 1:10:16SPEAKER_02: That's when I didn't know what the fuck I was doing.
- 1:10:18SPEAKER_02: I was putting that shit everywhere.
- 1:10:20SPEAKER_00: Um, yes, yes, definitely.
- 1:10:22SPEAKER_00: Uh, but what I was gonna say, my surprisingly, I never have.
- 1:10:25SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 1:10:26SPEAKER_00: I mean, I've done it.
- 1:10:28SPEAKER_00: That that it wasn't like my thing.
- 1:10:29SPEAKER_00: It wasn't like my, but you know, I've done it three, four times, you know.
- 1:10:33SPEAKER_00: And uh, yeah, it's not it.
- 1:10:35SPEAKER_00: Why not?
- 1:10:36SPEAKER_00: Shit burns, right?
- 1:10:38SPEAKER_02: No, well, I mean, even on the it don't have to be on the underwear, maybe the inner thigh.
- 1:10:42SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah.
- 1:10:42SPEAKER_02: You know what I'm saying?
- 1:10:43SPEAKER_02: I sound like I did it, huh?
- 1:10:44SPEAKER_02: Yeah, no, well, you already told us you did it.
- 1:10:46SPEAKER_02: No, I said I didn't do it.
- 1:10:47SPEAKER_02: You're telling the truth now.
- 1:10:48SPEAKER_00: Um my place uh growing up, like in my 20s, like I was like you asked me earlier, um, I I would put it here.
- 1:10:57SPEAKER_00: Okay.
- 1:10:58SPEAKER_00: And my reason for this is because a lot of times it's like you're not like the neck or behind the ear, you know.
- 1:11:07SPEAKER_00: Obviously, if it's a good cologne, it's gonna smell, right?
- 1:11:10SPEAKER_00: Let's l this is in general if it's good cologne or not.
- 1:11:14SPEAKER_00: But you ever like let's say you've been in a car and like you get a whiff or like a a smack or some shit, I feel like that provoking that would happen more from the hand since it's like you're moving.
- 1:11:25SPEAKER_00: Okay.
- 1:11:25SPEAKER_00: Radio, this, driving.
- 1:11:27SPEAKER_00: You know, another reason is like when I hug a chick, ah, my my arm is like right here.
- 1:11:34SPEAKER_00: You feel me?
- 1:11:35SPEAKER_00: And depending on your height, you might be closer to this than to my my neck area.
- 1:11:39SPEAKER_00: So this is again, I would put it here too, but I'm saying uh where I would deliberately place it was like, I I can't miss here like because I want her to smell it from here, is like mine or here.
- 1:11:52SPEAKER_02: You know what I mean?
- 1:11:52SPEAKER_02: Oh, another spot also, if if it's somebody you're familiar with, yeah, the chest for the cuddle.
- 1:11:58SPEAKER_02: Yeah, that's a little bit of a common area.
- 1:12:00SPEAKER_02: But I don't I don't think people think about it for the cuddle.
- 1:12:03SPEAKER_02: They just like Yeah, yeah, they just like put it.
- 1:12:04SPEAKER_02: The cuddle.
- 1:12:05SPEAKER_00: Do you guys do the Vaseline trick and all that?
- 1:12:07SPEAKER_02: Nah, that I haven't really, uh, you know, in my community, Vaseline is used for more important things.
- 1:12:12SPEAKER_02: But uh I haven't caught Edgie.
- 1:12:14SPEAKER_02: Moisturizer.
- 1:12:15SPEAKER_02: Moisturizing what?
- 1:12:16SPEAKER_02: Your body.
- 1:12:17SPEAKER_02: So that's what he's talking about.
- 1:12:18SPEAKER_02: Nah, he's talking about like putting the cologne in the Vaseline.
- 1:12:21SPEAKER_02: No, no, no.
- 1:12:21SPEAKER_02: Is that what you're talking about?
- 1:12:23SPEAKER_00: You haven't heard it?
- 1:12:24SPEAKER_02: I heard you apply the Vaseline first and then spray the cologne.
- 1:12:27SPEAKER_01: Niggas like make a coction.
- 1:12:28SPEAKER_01: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 1:12:29SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I've even seen I've even seen niggas boil the body.
- 1:12:33SPEAKER_00: So it gets like infused.
- 1:12:34SPEAKER_00: Yeah, let's stiffen it up.
- 1:12:37SPEAKER_02: Yeah, it's a whole dog.
- 1:12:40SPEAKER_02: Let it sit dry.
- 1:12:41SPEAKER_02: One thing about the internet, there's levels 10.
- 1:12:43SPEAKER_02: Bro, it's crazy.
- 1:12:45SPEAKER_02: Boil I like color.
- 1:12:46SPEAKER_02: They do that with lotion too.
- 1:12:47SPEAKER_02: Yeah, they they they go crazy, bro.
- 1:12:48SPEAKER_02: They they become chemists.
- 1:12:50SPEAKER_02: They become chemists.
- 1:12:51SPEAKER_02: That's fire, though.
- 1:12:51SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I'm mad at that.
- 1:12:53SPEAKER_02: That's a nigga that's probably like 4'8, though.
- 1:12:55SPEAKER_02: And when you 4'8, you gotta get it done.
- 1:12:58SPEAKER_02: No disrespect, but you gotta get it done.
- 1:13:00SPEAKER_02: That's how you get it done.
- 1:13:01SPEAKER_02: All right.
- 1:13:01SPEAKER_02: Um we got some hypotheticals we gotta get into before we get up out of here.
- 1:13:05SPEAKER_02: Is that what is that what we're up to?
- 1:13:06SPEAKER_02: Nigga, it's been a slow news week.
- 1:13:08SPEAKER_02: LeBron was the was the news.
- 1:13:10SPEAKER_02: All right, so talk to me.
- 1:13:11SPEAKER_02: Let me see.
- 1:13:12SPEAKER_02: I got a couple here.
- 1:13:13SPEAKER_02: I've been thinking about you guys, man.
- 1:13:16SPEAKER_02: Um, you're not gonna be honest, man.
- 1:13:22SPEAKER_02: I need potters.
- 1:13:23SPEAKER_02: Yo, guys, we need potters that are gonna be honest.
- 1:13:25SPEAKER_02: I'm always honest.
- 1:13:26SPEAKER_02: Yo, I'm the truth.
- 1:13:28SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 1:13:29SPEAKER_02: If y'all say no to these questions, then the then the hypothetical's over.
- 1:13:33SPEAKER_02: Oh this is crazy.
- 1:13:34SPEAKER_02: Uh, Mike, I want you to go first.
- 1:13:37SPEAKER_02: Has a girl ever eaten your groceries?
- 1:13:41SPEAKER_02: Um, have a Wait, before you answer that, whoa, whoa.
- 1:13:44SPEAKER_02: We can't say no to something that's if it's if it's a no, then the hypothetical's over.
- 1:13:49SPEAKER_02: Because I can't continue if it's a no.
- 1:13:51SPEAKER_02: You'll see why.
- 1:13:53SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 1:13:53SPEAKER_02: Um, no.
- 1:13:54SPEAKER_02: Then got here and start with me.
- 1:13:55SPEAKER_02: Well, it's gonna be the same answer.
- 1:13:57SPEAKER_02: No, okay.
- 1:13:57SPEAKER_02: I've I just don't I don't like ass play, period.
- 1:14:00SPEAKER_02: I mean either, but I'm just saying, have you ever tried it?
- 1:14:03SPEAKER_02: Had a girl done it to me?
- 1:14:04SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 1:14:04SPEAKER_02: I don't think I don't think I'll be able to look at that woman again.
- 1:14:07SPEAKER_02: Really?
- 1:14:08SPEAKER_02: Yeah, come on now.
- 1:14:08SPEAKER_02: Get out of here.
- 1:14:09SPEAKER_02: What are we doing, bro?
- 1:14:10SPEAKER_02: What?
- 1:14:10SPEAKER_02: That's what suffers.
- 1:14:11SPEAKER_02: You can never That's a man's ass.
- 1:14:13SPEAKER_02: Get the boot.
- 1:14:14SPEAKER_02: I guess.
- 1:14:15SPEAKER_02: That means she's done it to another man's ass.
- 1:14:18SPEAKER_02: She's done a lot to another man's ass.
- 1:14:19SPEAKER_02: That's you've kissed.
- 1:14:20SPEAKER_02: No, but that's a man's ass.
- 1:14:22SPEAKER_02: I don't know.
- 1:14:22SPEAKER_02: That's just me.
- 1:14:23SPEAKER_02: Again, there's levels to the freak shit.
- 1:14:25SPEAKER_02: Is Gucci ass?
- 1:14:27SPEAKER_02: It's close enough, bro.
- 1:14:28SPEAKER_02: So that's that's very funny.
- 1:14:30SPEAKER_02: I just don't even want to hear about that.
- 1:14:31SPEAKER_02: But like a man's ass, a man's ass is almost up there with the with the train thing.
- 1:14:36SPEAKER_02: But it's not there yet.
- 1:14:37SPEAKER_02: Really?
- 1:14:38SPEAKER_02: Yeah, almost there.
- 1:14:39SPEAKER_02: Wow.
- 1:14:40SPEAKER_02: Yeah, but again, okay.
- 1:14:41SPEAKER_02: I I can't have some like Mike said eight bodies is too much.
- 1:14:46SPEAKER_02: What if she wants to try it with you for the first time?
- 1:14:48SPEAKER_02: I would tell her, yeah, I respect that, but respectfully, I'm cool.
- 1:14:51SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 1:14:52SPEAKER_02: Can you still look at her the same?
- 1:14:53SPEAKER_02: Yeah, of course.
- 1:14:54SPEAKER_02: Because she just wants to do it with me.
- 1:14:55SPEAKER_02: Never done it.
- 1:14:56SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 1:14:56SPEAKER_02: Like she asked, but Yeah, that's yeah, we're cool.
- 1:14:58SPEAKER_02: Alright, I was gonna ask how y'all go about asking for it, but if y'all don't do it, then I mean I I I can play a hypothetical game.
- 1:15:05SPEAKER_02: Okay, so how would you go about what's the most masculine way to ask a woman to eat your ass?
- 1:15:09SPEAKER_00: Wow.
- 1:15:10SPEAKER_00: I first of all, let's let's address that.
- 1:15:12SPEAKER_00: Well, I guess you're saying you didn't say what's a masculine, you said what's the most.
- 1:15:16SPEAKER_00: Because I was about to say, I don't think there's a masculine way.
- 1:15:19SPEAKER_02: There's definitely a masculine way.
- 1:15:21SPEAKER_02: Baby, my ass.
- 1:15:23SPEAKER_02: Like well, the masculine way is really not asking.
- 1:15:26SPEAKER_02: That's like you point to it.
- 1:15:29SPEAKER_02: So what sexual position leads into that?
- 1:15:32SPEAKER_02: Um I'm assuming this has to be an oral thing.
- 1:15:34SPEAKER_02: Yeah, of course.
- 1:15:34SPEAKER_02: So she's giving you head, and where's your body position?
- 1:15:37SPEAKER_02: Where you're gonna raise your legs?
- 1:15:38SPEAKER_02: I think the easiest access for her is yeah, while you're laying down.
- 1:15:44SPEAKER_02: So you as a man is gonna raise your legs.
- 1:15:48SPEAKER_02: That's how it gets done?
- 1:15:49SPEAKER_02: Well, okay.
- 1:15:50SPEAKER_02: You're gonna look like a chicken.
- 1:15:52SPEAKER_02: Yeah, like well, uh I don't know how sometimes sometimes I've put my leg like not raised but like sideways.
- 1:16:00SPEAKER_02: No, like let's say I'm like this on the bed, like like with my knees up and I'm like, you know what I'm saying?
- 1:16:05SPEAKER_02: I'm so following it gains access.
- 1:16:07SPEAKER_02: Again, this is not my thing.
- 1:16:08SPEAKER_02: I'm not into that, but I'm just saying I've tried it, right?
- 1:16:11SPEAKER_02: Or which I don't like, I don't like getting that, getting fallacious while standing up.
- 1:16:16SPEAKER_02: It's because you're 6'9, bro.
- 1:16:18SPEAKER_02: But I No, I don't mind that.
- 1:16:19SPEAKER_02: I just don't like standing.
- 1:16:20SPEAKER_02: And my my legs, I need my legs, I don't need my next, my legs are not working right now.
- 1:16:23SPEAKER_02: He said my knees is weak.
- 1:16:24SPEAKER_02: Yeah, like okay, a position of dominance, then I have to turn around.
- 1:16:28SPEAKER_02: No, no, no.
- 1:16:28SPEAKER_02: When you when you are standing, now you can open your legs.
- 1:16:33SPEAKER_02: And she could get under.
- 1:16:34SPEAKER_02: She's on her knees.
- 1:16:35SPEAKER_02: Yes.
- 1:16:35SPEAKER_02: I'm standing.
- 1:16:36SPEAKER_02: Yes.
- 1:16:37SPEAKER_02: Then she's going underneath.
- 1:16:39SPEAKER_02: She can lift.
- 1:16:40SPEAKER_02: I'd rather just turn around, if I'm gonna be real.
- 1:16:42SPEAKER_02: No, because it's it's uh it's uh it's a dance.
- 1:16:45SPEAKER_02: She's not gonna just staying back there.
- 1:16:47SPEAKER_02: Okay, it's actually me, right?
- 1:16:49SPEAKER_02: It's a back end.
- 1:16:50SPEAKER_02: I would rather talk about it.
- 1:16:52SPEAKER_02: Straight ass.
- 1:16:53SPEAKER_02: It's a similar dance as the gooch, right?
- 1:16:54SPEAKER_02: She goes to the gooch, but then she comes back up and then she goes to the gooch.
- 1:16:57SPEAKER_02: You know what I'm saying?
- 1:16:57SPEAKER_02: Like it's a bit.
- 1:16:58SPEAKER_02: Your ass is like really like a little bit past the curve.
- 1:17:01SPEAKER_02: For me, I'll stand and I'll turn around.
- 1:17:04SPEAKER_02: But what makes sense?
- 1:17:05SPEAKER_02: What stops you from trying it with a woman?
- 1:17:07SPEAKER_02: I just I don't there's no pleasure in that for me.
- 1:17:10SPEAKER_02: So I don't know what I would need.
- 1:17:11SPEAKER_02: There's no pleasure in it for me either, but I I I'm just like, I'd be a weird, like I'd be, I don't understand, like when a woman wants to do something sexual, like just try it.
- 1:17:19SPEAKER_02: Like I'm not rolling, but that's that's fine.
- 1:17:22SPEAKER_00: That's fine.
- 1:17:23SPEAKER_00: If if I was if I if I I'm trying to think, if I was to do it like the most masculine, let's say position, because we ain't doing no doggy.
- 1:17:32SPEAKER_00: We ain't doing the chicken leg.
- 1:17:33SPEAKER_03: You're a man.
- 1:17:36SPEAKER_01: Like was the chicken leg?
- 1:17:38SPEAKER_01: Like the what I mentioned.
- 1:17:41SPEAKER_01: Honestly, though, honestly.
- 1:17:45SPEAKER_01: If the lights are off, okay.
- 1:17:48SPEAKER_01: Talk about it.
- 1:17:49SPEAKER_01: Then the raised legs don't look that bad.
- 1:17:52SPEAKER_01: Because the lights are off.
- 1:17:53SPEAKER_01: You know, you know.
- 1:17:54SPEAKER_01: Who was holding the leg?
- 1:17:55SPEAKER_01: You was holding your own legs.
- 1:17:56SPEAKER_01: No, it's a it's a it's an optics thing.
- 1:18:00SPEAKER_01: Is you seeing yourself and her seeing you hold your thighs up.
- 1:18:03SPEAKER_01: Nah, that's that's not overplayed.
- 1:18:10SPEAKER_01: If that's not what the imagery is, because it's dark, yeah.
- 1:18:13SPEAKER_00: She don't know where your legs are.
- 1:18:14SPEAKER_00: I just remember.
- 1:18:15SPEAKER_00: I understand.
- 1:18:16SPEAKER_00: That's my funny thing.
- 1:18:16SPEAKER_00: For me, I'll it would probably have to be like if I was to try something, like I'm standing and I probably like put my one of my legs on top of something.
- 1:18:24SPEAKER_02: You know, that would probably be.
- 1:18:26SPEAKER_02: Oh.
- 1:18:27SPEAKER_02: See, that those are standing.
- 1:18:28SPEAKER_02: Yeah, that's that's a good one.
- 1:18:29SPEAKER_02: That's a good one.
- 1:18:30SPEAKER_02: You you sound like you got some experience.
- 1:18:31SPEAKER_02: I mean, if I was to try it, I mean, I just So you never tried it.
- 1:18:34SPEAKER_01: I got a good, I got a good imagination.
- 1:18:35SPEAKER_01: You never tried it?
- 1:18:36SPEAKER_01: Nope.
- 1:18:37SPEAKER_02: How do we install like when when the mic, when we speak to these mics, how do we install like a lie detector to go on?
- 1:18:43SPEAKER_02: Like you gotta look a nigga in his eye.
- 1:18:45SPEAKER_02: How do you saw he's wearing it?
- 1:18:46SPEAKER_00: Right now, my right now my veins, right?
- 1:18:48SPEAKER_00: Right now, my veins is ice cold.
- 1:18:50SPEAKER_00: Oh yeah.
- 1:18:52SPEAKER_02: Oh yeah.
- 1:18:53SPEAKER_02: Ice, ice, ice.
- 1:18:54SPEAKER_02: So that that was um that was one hypothetical.
- 1:18:56SPEAKER_02: You got you got another one?
- 1:18:57SPEAKER_02: I have a few.
- 1:18:58SPEAKER_00: Comment, share, subscribe, love ya.
- 1:19:01SPEAKER_02: Go ahead.
- 1:19:02SPEAKER_02: So I was having a conversation.
- 1:19:07SPEAKER_02: I have a lot of conversations.
- 1:19:10SPEAKER_02: Somebody told me that one, they wouldn't date a woman.
- 1:19:15SPEAKER_02: All right, let's start with this one.
- 1:19:16SPEAKER_02: Would you date a woman or marry a woman who has already been proposed to?
- 1:19:19SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
- 1:19:20SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 1:19:20SPEAKER_02: There's guys out there who don't who want to be like the first guy.
- 1:19:25SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 1:19:25SPEAKER_02: Hold on.
- 1:19:26SPEAKER_02: Now, I was also having a debate with someone, and they said that marriage is really important to them.
- 1:19:32SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 1:19:32SPEAKER_02: It's really important to me too.
- 1:19:34SPEAKER_02: Great.
- 1:19:34SPEAKER_02: Okay, so tell me why.
- 1:19:36SPEAKER_02: And I'm talking about um literally being married, like actually signing paperwork.
- 1:19:41SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 1:19:41SPEAKER_02: Um well the paperwork part doesn't matter to me, but I uh that's like a stability thing for you know my kids.
- 1:19:50SPEAKER_02: If anything were to happen to me, like my girl doesn't have to worry about fighting courts or anything for like stuff like that.
- 1:19:55SPEAKER_02: If I was in the hospital, like it actually happened to me.
- 1:19:57SPEAKER_02: Um I was in the hospital, I was like, I I was I could have died.
- 1:20:01SPEAKER_02: Um had I had the scars to show it.
- 1:20:02SPEAKER_02: And my girl my girl never lets me live this down because um her and my mom came and they were like, Well, the mom gets to go.
- 1:20:13SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 1:20:13SPEAKER_02: And my girl was like offended.
- 1:20:14SPEAKER_02: She was like, what the fuck?
- 1:20:15SPEAKER_02: She was like, the the the doctor's like, no, that's his mom.
- 1:20:19SPEAKER_02: And you're not his wife.
- 1:20:20SPEAKER_02: Yeah, not his wife.
- 1:20:21SPEAKER_02: But if she she was my wife, forget about your mom.
- 1:20:24SPEAKER_02: Your your wife gets that.
- 1:20:25SPEAKER_02: Your mom, the the the wife trumps that.
- 1:20:27SPEAKER_02: So it's like things like that.
- 1:20:28SPEAKER_02: The stability, the you know, making her like the the person that she's supposed to be in my life.
- 1:20:34SPEAKER_02: I think that stuff is really important.
- 1:20:35SPEAKER_02: And that's just the paperwork side.
- 1:20:36SPEAKER_02: For me, it's more of a spiritual thing.
- 1:20:38SPEAKER_02: It's I'm standing in front of God and telling God, like, this is like your dad, like, hey, yeah, this is the woman that I'm presenting to you that I'm gonna cleave myself onto and be with for the rest of my life for you know all the bullshit.
- 1:20:49SPEAKER_02: Like, this is my person.
- 1:20:50SPEAKER_02: So that's what it is for me.
- 1:20:52SPEAKER_00: Yeah, so I would agree.
- 1:20:53SPEAKER_00: For me, it's like uh, you know, a spiritual thing, and you know so the person I was talking to, they presented the spiritual side, right?
- 1:21:00SPEAKER_02: They were like, yo, like this and that.
- 1:21:01SPEAKER_02: And I'm like, great.
- 1:21:02SPEAKER_02: But then that could just it could just be that.
- 1:21:04SPEAKER_02: It doesn't have to be the paperwork part.
- 1:21:06SPEAKER_02: In a perfect world, yeah.
- 1:21:07SPEAKER_02: But you can get married without the paperwork in the church.
- 1:21:10SPEAKER_02: Yeah, but absolutely but I I just gave you the reasons.
- 1:21:13SPEAKER_02: And I believe so.
- 1:21:14SPEAKER_02: When she addressed that, I was like, okay, cool, we could just do the church.
- 1:21:17SPEAKER_02: That's crazy, right?
- 1:21:19SPEAKER_02: It could just be the church thing, right?
- 1:21:21SPEAKER_02: But then I said the paperwork part, for example, fighting for the cause, this and that.
- 1:21:26SPEAKER_02: Let's say if you have a uh a government job or a job with pension, whatever, you can add better beneficiaries to your policy.
- 1:21:33SPEAKER_02: Yeah, but it's like that.
- 1:21:34SPEAKER_02: Not to make it not to step on what you're saying, that is true, 100% true.
- 1:21:38SPEAKER_02: You can do the paperwork, but the marriage certificate kind of supersedes everything, bro.
- 1:21:44SPEAKER_02: It's like it just makes the process so much smoother.
- 1:21:48SPEAKER_02: And it because I've seen it play out, and it gets really messy.
- 1:21:52SPEAKER_02: So if I if I put uh my the beneficiaries for my uh money, whatever.
- 1:21:58SPEAKER_02: Life insurance, whatever.
- 1:21:59SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah.
- 1:22:00SPEAKER_02: Um 50 mom, 50 wife.
- 1:22:02SPEAKER_02: Yeah, there's gonna be a battle in that, you know what I'm saying?
- 1:22:05SPEAKER_02: Like it's just I made this decision prior to the five years.
- 1:22:08SPEAKER_02: It's true, but if you get a lawyer that is good enough, like let's say your mom had like bad intentions and she wanted, like, she's like, he didn't marry this girl.
- 1:22:17SPEAKER_02: Like this girl was just always hanging around Charlie because she's trying to make like you can you can draw it out.
- 1:22:23SPEAKER_02: Like she could be waiting on that money for 10 years when she needs it tomorrow because you were paying the bills.
- 1:22:29SPEAKER_02: Now the bills are due, and because y'all not married, the mom could kind of like muddy the water a little bit.
- 1:22:34SPEAKER_02: Oh, at the end of the day, she might end up with the money, but it's like, damn, that shit took like a couple of years, and the house got sold, and this guy had like it just the marriage isn't really, really beneficial for women in that aspect that they don't have to worry, they can kind of breathe easy.
- 1:22:47SPEAKER_02: Like, I was his wife.
- 1:22:48SPEAKER_02: That that shit mean it has cachet.
- 1:22:50SPEAKER_02: Yeah, what about in a situation where she has her own pension?
- 1:22:53SPEAKER_02: Who the the woman?
- 1:22:54SPEAKER_02: Like her own that that that's cool too.
- 1:22:56SPEAKER_02: But I'm just I'm just speaking from she could wait out the 10.
- 1:22:59SPEAKER_02: If it's yeah, no, if if all things are equal, there's not a a big difference.
- 1:23:06SPEAKER_02: Like what you're saying.
- 1:23:06SPEAKER_02: I already got you in my my will, essentially.
- 1:23:08SPEAKER_02: Yeah, it's not a big difference, but it's just the wife title in the court system, it just means a lot when it comes to decision making and getting things like faster.
- 1:23:17SPEAKER_02: It's the same thing with the kids' thing, like the last name.
- 1:23:19SPEAKER_02: Like, you know, once once the kids don't have the same last name, that's just another layer of security that they gotta kinda gotta go through.
- 1:23:25SPEAKER_02: Like, you know, it's it's weird like that.
- 1:23:27SPEAKER_02: Well, I mean the kids should have my last name.
- 1:23:29SPEAKER_02: That's not always the case though.
- 1:23:31SPEAKER_02: But it's that's uh that's what it's gonna be.
- 1:23:34SPEAKER_02: I I've heard I've heard better men than you say that, and their kids be having hyphen.
- 1:23:38SPEAKER_02: How do you feel about the hyphen?
- 1:23:39SPEAKER_02: Nah, not happening.
- 1:23:40SPEAKER_02: I I don't even like middle names really.
- 1:23:42SPEAKER_02: I love you.
- 1:23:42SPEAKER_02: I I wanna I I rather just prefer first and last.
- 1:23:45SPEAKER_02: All these all these middle names and all these hyphens, like, bro, it's not that deep.
- 1:23:49SPEAKER_02: I love middle names.
- 1:23:49SPEAKER_02: I'm anti-hyphen though, because um I thought you would be pro-hyphing because you a little bit uh little sugar tank.
- 1:23:55SPEAKER_02: Well, one, I don't like my middle name.
- 1:23:56SPEAKER_02: That's why.
- 1:23:57SPEAKER_02: That's your middle name.
- 1:23:58SPEAKER_02: I don't like it.
- 1:23:58SPEAKER_02: Two, it's too long.
- 1:24:01SPEAKER_02: I don't like how it looks on the ID.
- 1:24:02SPEAKER_02: I don't like how it looks on my passport.
- 1:24:03SPEAKER_02: It's just like I like just the regular, like just Charlie, you know, such and such.
- 1:24:08SPEAKER_02: So I'd rather that.
- 1:24:09SPEAKER_02: Um so yeah, my debate was just like, yo, I don't under I don't need to get married.
- 1:24:14SPEAKER_02: I've seen a lot of divorces get ugly, and I just they were like, yo, you just looking, you just want it to be a clean cut.
- 1:24:20SPEAKER_02: You want to clean out.
- 1:24:21SPEAKER_02: You don't want to.
- 1:24:22SPEAKER_02: I'm like, what's wrong with that?
- 1:24:23SPEAKER_02: I'm like, that was my thing.
- 1:24:24SPEAKER_02: I'm like, and I and hopefully it works out.
- 1:24:26SPEAKER_02: But if it doesn't, who wouldn't want just a clean cut?
- 1:24:29SPEAKER_02: A clean out.
- 1:24:29SPEAKER_02: You know what I'm saying?
- 1:24:30SPEAKER_02: So that was my thing with the why do I need I could I could make you a domestic partner, for example, I could make you a beneficiary, I could put you on my will.
- 1:24:37SPEAKER_02: I could there's a I could we could sign prenups.
- 1:24:39SPEAKER_02: There's so many things we could do.
- 1:24:40SPEAKER_02: Well, prenups is for marriage, but there's so many paperwork we could do that could secure you without me having to marry you.
- 1:24:45SPEAKER_02: That in the case, in the event that we, you, I both don't want to have this anymore, I could just grab my little iPhone charger and be out.
- 1:24:54SPEAKER_02: And be out.
- 1:24:54SPEAKER_02: You know what I'm saying?
- 1:24:55SPEAKER_02: I'm not mad at that.
- 1:24:56SPEAKER_02: So the men out there that have that POV, I don't think they're wrong either.
- 1:24:59SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 1:25:00SPEAKER_02: Because that why am I not allowed to have a clean break?
- 1:25:03SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 1:25:03SPEAKER_02: But the problem with that is And I was like, and I'm like, yo, like, and I'll be saying, like, yo, marriage is really beneficial for y'all.
- 1:25:11SPEAKER_02: Like, 80% of the benefits is on you.
- 1:25:13SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 1:25:13SPEAKER_01: So the reason why y'all be like, well, when are you gonna put a ring on it?
- 1:25:17SPEAKER_01: And it's been 10 years.
- 1:25:18SPEAKER_01: And it's like, yo, we have to one, you have to foresee all this.
- 1:25:22SPEAKER_01: One you have to prove yourself, obviously.
- 1:25:24SPEAKER_01: And two, we have to be willing to accept, yo, we're taking a 80% like risk, like a L risk for this situation because of her.
- 1:25:33SPEAKER_02: You know what I'm saying?
- 1:25:33SPEAKER_02: The only stat that helps women with the marriage argument is that married men live longer.
- 1:25:38SPEAKER_02: That's the only stat.
- 1:25:39SPEAKER_02: But every other stat is negative for men.
- 1:25:41SPEAKER_02: It's negative for men.
- 1:25:42SPEAKER_02: Marriage is negative for men.
- 1:25:43SPEAKER_02: And I'm sure that number is dropping because now more women are, and it's not a bad thing, but more women are working and they're cooking less for their men.
- 1:25:50SPEAKER_02: Their men is eating out more, eating worse.
- 1:25:53SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 1:25:54SPEAKER_02: No, I'm sorry.
- 1:25:55SPEAKER_02: There's another stat.
- 1:25:56SPEAKER_02: I think married men achieve more too.
- 1:25:58SPEAKER_02: Like in terms of like if a single guy and a married guy have the same job, the married guy makes more money.
- 1:26:04SPEAKER_00: The thing is it provides uh stability.
- 1:26:07SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 1:26:07SPEAKER_02: He has more incentive, like he's not gonna go on vacation like randomly, like with his boys and shit like that.
- 1:26:12SPEAKER_02: He's gonna be clocked in, make more money.
- 1:26:14SPEAKER_02: He keeps more money.
- 1:26:14SPEAKER_02: He doesn't make more money.
- 1:26:15SPEAKER_02: No, because like look at it as a and I'm saying he does better.
- 1:26:20SPEAKER_02: He's gonna get the promotions, he's gonna be keeping it.
- 1:26:22SPEAKER_00: He's less distracted.
- 1:26:23SPEAKER_00: Less distracted.
- 1:26:23SPEAKER_00: He's more locked in.
- 1:26:24SPEAKER_02: He has a instead of you know, whole A, B, and C and all over, you know, because this girl can keep my car, and then I got this girl in Jamaica, and fuck, I gotta go take a nigga that got a family.
- 1:26:35SPEAKER_02: He's like, that's cool, Tom.
- 1:26:38SPEAKER_02: I'm gonna get the promotion.
- 1:26:39SPEAKER_02: Because the boss is gonna be like, Tom is here.
- 1:26:41SPEAKER_02: Yeah, there's a lot of I feel that, but I also hear a lot of guys talking about how their marriage and family is draining their money too.
- 1:26:48SPEAKER_02: No, that's still the money still goes there.
- 1:26:50SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah.
- 1:26:51SPEAKER_02: That's what I'm saying.
- 1:26:51SPEAKER_02: Maybe the single guy doesn't keep as much, but he's making probably more than the married guy.
- 1:26:56SPEAKER_02: Look at it like the married guy gotta go to recitals and parrot teacher conferences.
- 1:26:59SPEAKER_02: I'm gonna break it, I'm gonna break it down to you.
- 1:27:01SPEAKER_02: You're running a podcast, right?
- 1:27:03SPEAKER_02: I am, right?
- 1:27:04SPEAKER_02: No, that's what I'm saying.
- 1:27:05SPEAKER_02: Yeah, you're running a podcast.
- 1:27:06SPEAKER_02: Two candidates come to you.
- 1:27:07SPEAKER_02: Right.
- 1:27:08SPEAKER_02: One guy, Mike, is a single guy.
- 1:27:10SPEAKER_02: He's like, yo, I got mad bitches, and you need this guy to do a very Yeah, why that has to be me.
- 1:27:17SPEAKER_02: This guy, you need him to do a very important job that he needs to be there on time, every day, or else the podcast don't work.
- 1:27:22SPEAKER_02: Oh, that's definitely Mike.
- 1:27:23SPEAKER_02: Then there's another guy who's like, yeah, man, um I I'm just like the other dude, but I have a family and I need this, I need this job.
- 1:27:31SPEAKER_02: Nice to meet you, AG.
- 1:27:32SPEAKER_02: So which which guy would you go with as a as a as a CEO, as a as a as a business owner?
- 1:27:38SPEAKER_02: I'm going with AG.
- 1:27:40SPEAKER_02: Exactly.
- 1:27:40SPEAKER_02: And that's the part of the stability is like I know I can count on Greg because Greg is not gonna text me on some like, nah, bro.
- 1:27:47SPEAKER_02: I got drunk glass, I'm not coming in.
- 1:27:49SPEAKER_02: I'm not coming in.
- 1:27:50SPEAKER_02: But Greg also has three kids, and that's three excuses he can't.
- 1:27:53SPEAKER_02: No, but that's also three reasons why he gotta go get it, though.
- 1:27:56SPEAKER_02: Because these three kids I gotta feed.
- 1:27:58SPEAKER_02: So I can't be bullshit.
- 1:28:00SPEAKER_02: Aspect that's true.
- 1:28:00SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah.
- 1:28:01SPEAKER_02: It's just always been a thing, like with these like high-level companies, they like they don't like bachelors.
- 1:28:05SPEAKER_02: Like bachelors care of them.
- 1:28:06SPEAKER_00: What y'all think about this, and and this kind of goes back to how like we take L's.
- 1:28:10SPEAKER_00: Um in the Binning Republic, they just changed the um the law of like not marriage, but like like the whole splitting after separation, right?
- 1:28:20SPEAKER_00: So before, if you lived with someone, even if you weren't married to this person, if you just lived with this person for five years, even if you guys didn't get married, you guys gotta Oh that's that's regular California shit.
- 1:28:33SPEAKER_00: Break bread.
- 1:28:34SPEAKER_00: It's called here.
- 1:28:35SPEAKER_00: Wait, I mean, sorry, they just changed it now to I don't know if they changed it to six months, or just like if you move, like, period, like like, you know, so now it's like let's go with that.
- 1:28:51SPEAKER_00: Like, if you just move in together, it's over.
- 1:28:56SPEAKER_00: Like, that's it.
- 1:28:56SPEAKER_00: Like, like you're like you're married.
- 1:28:58SPEAKER_00: Like the next day, if y'all break up, she gets half.
- 1:29:01SPEAKER_00: Yeah, she can.
- 1:29:02SPEAKER_02: Yeah, it's called it might be hard to, you know, whatever, but it's common law wife.
- 1:29:06SPEAKER_02: That's what it's called.
- 1:29:07SPEAKER_02: It's like it basically, again, protects women.
- 1:29:09SPEAKER_02: So you get married anyway.
- 1:29:11SPEAKER_02: Yeah, so you get married whether you do it or not.
- 1:29:13SPEAKER_02: No, no, it's it's certain states as well.
- 1:29:15SPEAKER_02: But California's really bad.
- 1:29:17SPEAKER_02: Like, yeah, don't they I don't know why they all these people go there and live, like these rich people go.
- 1:29:21SPEAKER_02: No, it's the worst for for like getting divorces, prenup, all that stuff.
- 1:29:25SPEAKER_02: California's the worst, it's very pro-woman.
- 1:29:27SPEAKER_02: But the reason they do it again is to protect women.
- 1:29:29SPEAKER_02: Because imagine you're a woman and you're living with this dude for 10 years, and he's like, you know, you're my girlfriend, you're my girlfriend, you're my girlfriend.
- 1:29:34SPEAKER_02: Now you're past the age of, you know, uh having kids, and you know, you want to start a life, you're like 55, and this nigga finds a 25-year-old girl, he's like, you know what?
- 1:29:43SPEAKER_02: I'm out about to start a life with Susie.
- 1:29:45SPEAKER_02: What does that woman get for the 10 years she put in with you?
- 1:29:48SPEAKER_02: So I get it, but you know, it's a little much.
- 1:29:50SPEAKER_02: I think there should be a balance.
- 1:29:51SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 1:29:51SPEAKER_02: But half is nuts.
- 1:29:53SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I guess.
- 1:29:54SPEAKER_02: I think the general rule of thumb should be whatever I had.
- 1:29:57SPEAKER_00: I guess it's not I don't I don't get I don't get, you know, two two or three years back of life.
- 1:30:04SPEAKER_00: No.
- 1:30:04SPEAKER_00: Uh from the 10 that I lost, let's say, yeah, uh uh taking care of you, for example, providing for you, right?
- 1:30:12SPEAKER_00: I I don't get two more years of life.
- 1:30:14SPEAKER_00: All right, you know, you get the you know, you get that taken care of, but and then we're gonna the the time that you lost doing all this, like you, you know.
- 1:30:20SPEAKER_02: Well, no, well, his point is that he's the woman is not trying to get back time lost.
- 1:30:24SPEAKER_02: She's trying to make sure the future's okay.
- 1:30:26SPEAKER_02: No, your future's gonna be fine because you got the bread.
- 1:30:28SPEAKER_00: But her future is.
- 1:30:29SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I understand.
- 1:30:29SPEAKER_00: But I'm what I'm saying is what I lost in that exchange.
- 1:30:32SPEAKER_00: She lost, she she's getting that because of like she was in a relationship, she probably, you know, didn't finish uh uh, you know, college or couldn't, you know, whatever, quit her job, cool.
- 1:30:41SPEAKER_00: And but I'm saying the other side of that, to do that, I was busting my ass.
- 1:30:44SPEAKER_00: Busting my ass, yeah.
- 1:30:45SPEAKER_00: So I'm saying I don't get my health back.
- 1:30:47SPEAKER_00: Like, I obviously I'm being you know, but it's just like money buys time, right?
- 1:30:51SPEAKER_02: Yeah, it's the closest thing to it.
- 1:30:52SPEAKER_02: So because she was busting her ass, not working, making sure everything was alright, she wasn't getting paid for that.
- 1:30:57SPEAKER_02: While you were busting your ass, you were getting paid for at least you're getting paid.
- 1:30:59SPEAKER_02: Yeah, no, yeah.
- 1:31:00SPEAKER_02: So that so now you can go moving with Susie and give her the same mansion, same car, so the cases and she's gonna fuck all my susie like that, nigga.
- 1:31:06SPEAKER_02: My fool.
- 1:31:07SPEAKER_02: Susie's my bitch, remember?
- 1:31:08SPEAKER_02: Well, yeah, yeah, I'm not going too.
- 1:31:10SPEAKER_02: But how about this?
- 1:31:11SPEAKER_02: How do y'all feel about this, right?
- 1:31:12SPEAKER_02: And this is how I always thought it should be.
- 1:31:14SPEAKER_02: Whatever I came into this relationship with, I leave with 100%.
- 1:31:18SPEAKER_02: So I came, I met you, I was a basketball player, multimillionaire, I signed my second contract.
- 1:31:23SPEAKER_02: Uh, the the woman comes in, she had a book deal, she's uh uh hundred thousand there.
- 1:31:29SPEAKER_02: Once we're married, everything that we both accumulate together, we split that.
- 1:31:33SPEAKER_02: That's how it goes, though.
- 1:31:35SPEAKER_02: No, what are you talking about?
- 1:31:36SPEAKER_02: Yeah, how it goes, actually.
- 1:31:38SPEAKER_02: When Dr.
- 1:31:38SPEAKER_02: Dre gets sued, she she can get the money that he made in 1990.
- 1:31:42SPEAKER_02: It's not just the the beat.
- 1:31:43SPEAKER_02: I thought it was the money made during the marriage.
- 1:31:45SPEAKER_02: No, which is why a lot of times they want to get married quick.
- 1:31:47SPEAKER_02: No, I thought so too.
- 1:31:48SPEAKER_02: It's the money that you have, period.
- 1:31:49SPEAKER_02: Because what if what if I okay?
- 1:31:50SPEAKER_02: So the the what's the lady with the big ass titties, a white lady who married that old ass dude?
- 1:31:55SPEAKER_02: He didn't make any new money.
- 1:31:56SPEAKER_02: She got married with this old ass dude who made all his money.
- 1:31:59SPEAKER_02: That's funny.
- 1:32:00SPEAKER_02: Uh it's like Anna Nicole Smith or something.
- 1:32:02SPEAKER_02: She marries some old ass dude who's not working anymore.
- 1:32:05SPEAKER_02: All his millions he made already in Hollywood or whatever, he's not making new money.
- 1:32:08SPEAKER_02: And then they she he died, and then he got she got majority of his money.
- 1:32:12SPEAKER_02: It don't work like that.
- 1:32:13SPEAKER_02: I thought it was okay.
- 1:32:14SPEAKER_02: Nah, that's how it should work, though.
- 1:32:15SPEAKER_02: And I agree with that.
- 1:32:16SPEAKER_02: If because there's no tangible way to decide, damn, this woman, because of this woman, like that was the whole thing, she wasn't with me shooting in the gym.
- 1:32:24SPEAKER_02: And Kobe actually didn't like that bar.
- 1:32:25SPEAKER_02: He was like, nah, she she's making the She's held it down.
- 1:32:28SPEAKER_02: Yeah, she's holding it down.
- 1:32:29SPEAKER_02: Well, let's be clear.
- 1:32:31SPEAKER_02: He couldn't like it.
- 1:32:32SPEAKER_02: No, he could have.
- 1:32:33SPEAKER_02: You can't go home and like that bar.
- 1:32:34SPEAKER_02: No, but he didn't have to have to publicly say that.
- 1:32:36SPEAKER_02: It's a long day.
- 1:32:37SPEAKER_02: No, no, no, he did not.
- 1:32:38SPEAKER_02: Well, maybe not publicly, but he publicly did it because he probably felt that that's fucked up because she's out here making sure the girls are safe, so I can go to the gym at three in the morning.
- 1:32:48SPEAKER_02: She's out here making sure that the the food is cooked properly and stuff like that.
- 1:32:52SPEAKER_02: I think he gave Jake a low-key dad, but I don't think so.
- 1:32:54SPEAKER_02: I know knowing Kobe, knowing how Kobe's persona is, I think that that really bothered him.
- 1:33:00SPEAKER_02: Because the the woman in his life, he he, you know, he chose her over his parents, right?
- 1:33:04SPEAKER_02: In what case?
- 1:33:05SPEAKER_02: Like in what situation?
- 1:33:06SPEAKER_02: His parents did not fuck with her.
- 1:33:08SPEAKER_02: Oh, well, we always gonna do that.
- 1:33:09SPEAKER_02: No, no, no.
- 1:33:10SPEAKER_02: That's you can't you heard this name?
- 1:33:12SPEAKER_02: Niggas always do that.
- 1:33:13SPEAKER_02: Hold up.
- 1:33:13SPEAKER_02: You are crazy, bro.
- 1:33:14SPEAKER_02: Hold up.
- 1:33:15SPEAKER_02: Again, it goes back to this.
- 1:33:16SPEAKER_02: His parents had to sue him.
- 1:33:17SPEAKER_02: Is it Fah?
- 1:33:19SPEAKER_02: His parents had to sue him.
- 1:33:20SPEAKER_02: I don't care if it's fire or not.
- 1:33:22SPEAKER_02: Fah.
- 1:33:22SPEAKER_02: I don't care if it's fire or not.
- 1:33:23SPEAKER_02: His parents had to sue his estate to get bread because he stopped giving his parents money.
- 1:33:28SPEAKER_02: Okay, that's a little drastic.
- 1:33:29SPEAKER_02: That's a little drastic.
- 1:33:29SPEAKER_02: No, but it's because, like, he I'm telling you, he chose this girl over his face.
- 1:33:33SPEAKER_02: But choosing her, choosing to stay with her is different.
- 1:33:35SPEAKER_02: It's not just choosing staying with her.
- 1:33:37SPEAKER_02: No, no, but he was like, I'm not, I'm not doing this.
- 1:33:40SPEAKER_02: Like, is you either with me or you're against me.
- 1:33:42SPEAKER_02: But, anyways, the point, the point I'm trying to prove is I think Kobe was really on some like, yeah, like she's the reason why I can be the black mama.
- 1:33:49SPEAKER_02: And I think that's dope.
- 1:33:50SPEAKER_02: I think that's why whatever we make together, there's no tangible way to decide what percentage.
- 1:33:55SPEAKER_02: I think it should be a 50-50 play.
- 1:33:56SPEAKER_02: And it's and it goes in the reverse.
- 1:33:57SPEAKER_02: There was the the famous Tyler Perry movie where uh the the girl wrote a book.
- 1:34:02SPEAKER_02: No.
- 1:34:02SPEAKER_02: The girl wrote a book, right?
- 1:34:04SPEAKER_02: The girl wrote a book while they were together, and he said in court, like, I want 50% of the book earnings.
- 1:34:10SPEAKER_02: And she looked at him like he was crazy.
- 1:34:11SPEAKER_02: And he was like, No, I'm in that book too.
- 1:34:13SPEAKER_02: You you had the ability to write this book.
- 1:34:15SPEAKER_02: You use some of my stories, my lingo, my jokes, even if it's one bar.
- 1:34:19SPEAKER_02: I want that money, and I think that's fair because we were we were a unit at that point.
- 1:34:22SPEAKER_02: But I think you owe me that too.
- 1:34:24SPEAKER_02: That's how it should be a cap, though.
- 1:34:26SPEAKER_02: Because how do you deter?
- 1:34:27SPEAKER_02: What's the cap?
- 1:34:28SPEAKER_02: Let's say let's say LeBron is worth two billion.
- 1:34:30SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 1:34:30SPEAKER_02: Let's say.
- 1:34:31SPEAKER_02: How much do you think he makes without her?
- 1:34:33SPEAKER_02: I don't know.
- 1:34:34SPEAKER_02: That's the point.
- 1:34:35SPEAKER_02: I don't know if LeBron is as career-driven his family.
- 1:34:38SPEAKER_02: I don't know.
- 1:34:38SPEAKER_02: I'm gonna take it, I'm gonna take it further.
- 1:34:40SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna take it further.
- 1:34:40SPEAKER_00: Go ahead.
- 1:34:41SPEAKER_00: Let's say he gets divorced right now, right?
- 1:34:44SPEAKER_00: LeBron.
- 1:34:44SPEAKER_00: LeBron, right?
- 1:34:46SPEAKER_00: Uh at this point, he's already LeBron.
- 1:34:48SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 1:34:48SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 1:34:48SPEAKER_00: He's already LeBron.
- 1:34:49SPEAKER_00: Um, the next person he marries, you know, like, she didn't have nothing to do with like the growth or, you know, him becoming this person.
- 1:34:59SPEAKER_00: Right?
- 1:34:59SPEAKER_00: So the next person he marries.
- 1:35:01SPEAKER_00: Yeah, let's say the next person he's married.
- 1:35:02SPEAKER_00: I agree with you so far.
- 1:35:02SPEAKER_00: Go ahead.
- 1:35:03SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 1:35:03SPEAKER_00: So it's like if he makes if LeBron makes a billion dollars.
- 1:35:06SPEAKER_02: Yeah, but how did he make that billion dollars that with the next girl?
- 1:35:09SPEAKER_02: I see what you're saying.
- 1:35:09SPEAKER_02: He's because he's making it off his equity already.
- 1:35:11SPEAKER_02: I'm LeBron.
- 1:35:12SPEAKER_02: Yeah, like I'm like, I just signed a deal with Nike for a billion.
- 1:35:14SPEAKER_00: So I'm saying, so and what I'm saying is at that point, let's say if LeBron marries this other chick.
- 1:35:19SPEAKER_02: But that's not how that works, though.
- 1:35:20SPEAKER_02: Let's be honest.
- 1:35:21SPEAKER_02: No, I'm saying he's saying, he's saying since I'm LeBron already, I could go sign a$500 million deal to just do nothing.
- 1:35:26SPEAKER_02: I just do commercials or whatever the kids.
- 1:35:28SPEAKER_02: No, no, no.
- 1:35:28SPEAKER_02: But you have to go get the money though.
- 1:35:30SPEAKER_02: True, but he's saying like that while he's going to do the commercials, what is she doing?
- 1:35:34SPEAKER_02: I already have my kids.
- 1:35:35SPEAKER_02: Savannah got the kids.
- 1:35:36SPEAKER_02: No, but there's it's not just.
- 1:35:37SPEAKER_00: Even if she's taking my point is, even if she's taking care of the kid, I'm just saying I'm already at this level.
- 1:35:43SPEAKER_00: Like, I can understand it more with the with like Vanessa, you know, Savannah, like the ones that cool, you know, like we like ground up.
- 1:35:49SPEAKER_00: But once I'm here, right, like Daddy Yankee, right?
- 1:35:52SPEAKER_00: He's divorced, right?
- 1:35:53SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 1:35:53SPEAKER_00: So now if he gets married again, he's daddy Yankee.
- 1:35:55SPEAKER_00: So if he makes a hundred million dollars, why why get married again then?
- 1:35:58SPEAKER_00: Um put it an example.
- 1:35:59SPEAKER_02: No, because my risk you take to get married.
- 1:36:02SPEAKER_02: No, you're right, you're right.
- 1:36:03SPEAKER_02: It has to be some kind of balance, is what I'm saying but he's he's saying, why is that law even in place?
- 1:36:07SPEAKER_00: I'm not saying hypothetical.
- 1:36:08SPEAKER_02: I'm just saying at that point, I'm just saying that that's how I would make the law.
- 1:36:11SPEAKER_00: I'm just saying at that point, in that scenario, I think there should be a cap.
- 1:36:14SPEAKER_02: No, but the reason why I don't like there being a cap is A, it shits on the savannahs of the world, and it lets you just live your life.
- 1:36:22SPEAKER_00: No, because the next like Daddy Yankee's next wife wouldn't be savanna.
- 1:36:26SPEAKER_02: Like, no, but this is my this this is why I I don't like that.
- 1:36:30SPEAKER_02: Because then it also shits on the idea of marriage.
- 1:36:33SPEAKER_02: That I just get to just do these marriages and I don't lose like I'm gonna stand in front of God and my the like rich.
- 1:36:39SPEAKER_02: Is it like a moral thing?
- 1:36:40SPEAKER_02: It's like a moral, it's like okay, I can just get married again and now I don't have to give any money.
- 1:36:44SPEAKER_02: Why am I getting into this for divorce, anyways, in mind, anyways?
- 1:36:46SPEAKER_02: I understand.
- 1:36:47SPEAKER_02: Before I speak for you, what percentage do you think the new wife should get from that billion that LeBron made?
- 1:36:52SPEAKER_02: Zero.
- 1:36:52SPEAKER_02: Let's say they were let's say the new wife they were married 10 years and he made a billion within that in that 10 years.
- 1:36:56SPEAKER_02: So you made a hundred million a year.
- 1:36:58SPEAKER_02: How much of that bill do you think she should get?
- 1:37:00SPEAKER_00: Why does she deserve it?
- 1:37:01SPEAKER_00: Honestly, again, because of the type of like it depends on the type of.
- 1:37:04SPEAKER_00: I do think she deserves the same thing.
- 1:37:06SPEAKER_00: No, definitely, definitely.
- 1:37:07SPEAKER_00: But why, why?
- 1:37:08SPEAKER_00: Definitely.
- 1:37:08SPEAKER_00: But what I what because my my point also is like it's different if I made 10 million and if I made like 100 million.
- 1:37:14SPEAKER_00: You made two billion.
- 1:37:15SPEAKER_00: No, I know, but I'm I'm putting an example.
- 1:37:16SPEAKER_00: So out of 10 million, uh, maybe you could get, I don't know, three.
- 1:37:20SPEAKER_00: Why?
- 1:37:21SPEAKER_00: For what?
- 1:37:22SPEAKER_00: No, let's say for Yeah, why?
- 1:37:24SPEAKER_00: Why is she for being for being my wife?
- 1:37:26SPEAKER_00: Okay, so just for being your wife, there's a there's a And everything, no, and everything that comes, right?
- 1:37:29SPEAKER_00: Yeah, you still took care of me.
- 1:37:30SPEAKER_00: Yeah, but that that's my argument for why I think she deserves half.
- 1:37:34SPEAKER_00: Yeah, but it's different.
- 1:37:35SPEAKER_00: I came with a name.
- 1:37:36SPEAKER_00: I hear you.
- 1:37:37SPEAKER_00: I hear you.
- 1:37:37SPEAKER_00: You know, that's that's my thing.
- 1:37:39SPEAKER_00: So from the billion that LeBron.
- 1:37:40SPEAKER_00: Not from the billion, like, you go with a hundred mil, a hundred mil.
- 1:37:44SPEAKER_00: Oh, come on.
- 1:37:44SPEAKER_00: That's no, but you see, this is fair enough.
- 1:37:47SPEAKER_00: No, no, hold on.
- 1:37:48SPEAKER_02: 100 mil?
- 1:37:48SPEAKER_02: Hold on, hold on.
- 1:37:50SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 1:37:50SPEAKER_02: I'm not disagreeing with y'all in that sense, but to me, what why that number?
- 1:37:55SPEAKER_02: Where'd you get the number from?
- 1:37:56SPEAKER_02: We're just pulling it in the middle of the case.
- 1:37:56SPEAKER_02: Is this the same way you're just pulling it in the middle of the case?
- 1:37:58SPEAKER_02: No, no, no.
- 1:37:59SPEAKER_02: I'm not pulling, I'm not pulling a number.
- 1:38:01SPEAKER_02: No, it's not.
- 1:38:01SPEAKER_02: But I I gave you my reasoning.
- 1:38:02SPEAKER_02: Right.
- 1:38:03SPEAKER_02: 50% is half.
- 1:38:04SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 1:38:04SPEAKER_00: For me, for me, why is because I don't think you're bad.
- 1:38:07SPEAKER_00: For who you are.
- 1:38:08SPEAKER_00: Give me a second.
- 1:38:08SPEAKER_00: For who you are, like you, you were just my wife.
- 1:38:10SPEAKER_00: Like, let's say you were, you know, you you were author.
- 1:38:13SPEAKER_00: Cool.
- 1:38:14SPEAKER_00: Whatever, you know, you were you were the wife is?
- 1:38:16SPEAKER_00: Yeah, the the new one, right?
- 1:38:17SPEAKER_00: Let's say when we met, your net worth was five million dollars.
- 1:38:20SPEAKER_00: Yes.
- 1:38:20SPEAKER_00: Right?
- 1:38:21SPEAKER_00: Now we just met, we married, we did 10 years, in that 10 years I made a billion dollars.
- 1:38:25SPEAKER_00: Yes.
- 1:38:26SPEAKER_00: Like, you don't need half a B.
- 1:38:29SPEAKER_00: Who according to who?
- 1:38:31SPEAKER_00: I'm saying, it's my opinion that I feel like I don't think I don't think she does.
- 1:38:36SPEAKER_00: I don't think that person, I mean, if he feels she deserves it, that's different.
- 1:38:39SPEAKER_02: She does.
- 1:38:40SPEAKER_02: Like, dog, I feel like I deserve half a B, whatever, like whatever number.
- 1:38:44SPEAKER_02: Like, that's why I Well, what if he's like, I feel like you deserve nothing.
- 1:38:47SPEAKER_00: We can't just go based on feeling.
- 1:38:48SPEAKER_02: That's why I think that no, but my thing is not based on feeling.
- 1:38:50SPEAKER_02: He said he should make it a it'll be 50% across the board.
- 1:38:53SPEAKER_02: 50% across the board.
- 1:38:54SPEAKER_02: There's no debating.
- 1:38:55SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 1:38:55SPEAKER_02: So when you sit, when you sit down, you're like, I'm gonna marry this girl, you already have in the back of your head, there's no argument.
- 1:39:02SPEAKER_00: If I decide to fuck up this.
- 1:39:04SPEAKER_00: If I'm gonna have that, if I'm gonna have that in mind, then I'm with what you're saying, where it's like Why even do that?
- 1:39:08SPEAKER_00: Oh no, I'm not, I'm not doing this again.
- 1:39:10SPEAKER_00: Exactly.
- 1:39:11SPEAKER_02: To me, it plays with the in it plays with the institution of marriage.
- 1:39:14SPEAKER_02: I don't like that to begin with.
- 1:39:15SPEAKER_02: I understand.
- 1:39:16SPEAKER_02: So if if niggas is going into marriage knowing that, yo, I'm LeBron James, I'm up to I I left my wife's Savannah, it's party time.
- 1:39:22SPEAKER_02: Damn it, this fine.
- 1:39:23SPEAKER_02: Think she got the fire.
- 1:39:24SPEAKER_02: Why marry her?
- 1:39:25SPEAKER_02: For what?
- 1:39:25SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 1:39:26SPEAKER_02: Because you want to walk, because you want to walk around the place.
- 1:39:28SPEAKER_00: I'm not even moving, I'm not even moving with you.
- 1:39:30SPEAKER_02: Like you won't have an apartment.
- 1:39:31SPEAKER_02: Yeah, you have your own shit because now I'm gonna protect myself.
- 1:39:34SPEAKER_02: And also And now we don't play with the institution of marriage.
- 1:39:36SPEAKER_02: Because that's my whole thing.
- 1:39:37SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I think that like marriage for me.
- 1:39:39SPEAKER_02: Again, I started off giving you the reasons for the paper, but for me, I'm standing in front of the creator of the universe.
- 1:39:45SPEAKER_02: Yeah, and I'm gonna say that this person is who I present to you.
- 1:39:48SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah.
- 1:39:49SPEAKER_02: We're one thing.
- 1:39:50SPEAKER_02: Now, with whatever reason we split, which there should not even be a splitting.
- 1:39:55SPEAKER_02: We came in together, we got whatever we got.
- 1:39:57SPEAKER_02: She takes half, I take half.
- 1:39:58SPEAKER_02: Morally, I think that's fair.
- 1:39:59SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 1:40:00SPEAKER_00: My answers is like taking God out of it.
- 1:40:02SPEAKER_00: Putting God, you know, I uh um obviously I I completely agree with that.
- 1:40:06SPEAKER_02: Yeah, but I just can't remove it.
- 1:40:07SPEAKER_02: Now, if I want to defend Mike, even though he's an op on these mics turn on, that's crazy.
- 1:40:12SPEAKER_02: For example, Jeff Bezos, when he divorced his wife, he's worth 200, maybe more now.
- 1:40:16SPEAKER_02: I think now she's like the richest woman in the world.
- 1:40:18SPEAKER_02: He gave he's she's I think the second richest.
- 1:40:20SPEAKER_02: He gave her the 40 billion out of his 200.
- 1:40:22SPEAKER_02: Cool.
- 1:40:23SPEAKER_02: What I my thing also is that moving forward, yeah.
- 1:40:27SPEAKER_02: Let's say in the marriage, you didn't have like I didn't, I don't know you'd have aspirations, you'd have a business, whatever the case is.
- 1:40:33SPEAKER_02: I'm still responsible for child support.
- 1:40:35SPEAKER_02: A lot of other things, I so I kind of need more of the money more than you, because I still gotta make more money run.
- 1:40:41SPEAKER_02: I don't know if Elon Musk was married and and gave half of half of trillion away that he'll be a trillionaire today.
- 1:40:47SPEAKER_02: Now, do we need a trillion dollars?
- 1:40:48SPEAKER_02: No, but I'm just saying, like, who cares what we need in the in the aspect of like I still gotta provide for y'all even though we're not together.
- 1:40:54SPEAKER_02: In my thing, the alimony thing is not even uh I don't alimony, I think, is bullshit.
- 1:40:59SPEAKER_02: Personally, got you.
- 1:41:00SPEAKER_02: Like, half the you can take half the money, but why do I have to give you this lifestyle?
- 1:41:03SPEAKER_02: Like Well, I think that is the alimony in this example.
- 1:41:05SPEAKER_02: Half the money would be the alimony.
- 1:41:06SPEAKER_02: No, no, no.
- 1:41:07SPEAKER_02: What you're saying is I lose half, like Jeff Bezos lost 40, and he still has to support the kids.
- 1:41:12SPEAKER_02: Right.
- 1:41:12SPEAKER_02: I think that's nuts.
- 1:41:13SPEAKER_02: Ah, I got you.
- 1:41:14SPEAKER_02: Yeah, like what is she doing with that money I gave her?
- 1:41:16SPEAKER_02: Gotcha, gotcha.
- 1:41:16SPEAKER_02: Yeah, like like if you can't support our children with 40 billion dollars, because the money's supposed to be to keep up the lifestyle for the kids.
- 1:41:22SPEAKER_02: Yeah, okay.
- 1:41:23SPEAKER_02: So then But is that how it works, though?
- 1:41:25SPEAKER_00: That like in that case, like she's not getting nothing else?
- 1:41:28SPEAKER_00: I I really don't know.
- 1:41:29SPEAKER_02: She probably is getting something else.
- 1:41:30SPEAKER_02: Right, I don't know though.
- 1:41:31SPEAKER_02: These rich people, they pay alimony to keep up the lifestyle and then child support to support the kids.
- 1:41:36SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I think that's nuts.
- 1:41:37SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 1:41:38SPEAKER_02: When we're talking about the big dog levels, I think child support is nasty because um I do think it should be, it should change according to brackets.
- 1:41:45SPEAKER_02: Yeah, of course.
- 1:41:46SPEAKER_02: It does.
- 1:41:46SPEAKER_02: I think I don't like seeing dudes in jail for child support because they couldn't afford to pay it.
- 1:41:51SPEAKER_02: Like there's some dudes that I they would put their checkup online and after the child support them they owe money.
- 1:41:56SPEAKER_02: Like it's negative money.
- 1:41:58SPEAKER_02: I think that's fucking crazy.
- 1:41:59SPEAKER_02: I don't think you can can you go to jail if you can't make if you don't make the money.
- 1:42:03SPEAKER_02: I I don't know too much about it, but I there's dudes in jail.
- 1:42:06SPEAKER_00: I think I think I think after a certain time, I think like after like six months.
- 1:42:09SPEAKER_02: I think you have to prove that you made the money on me.
- 1:42:11SPEAKER_02: You can't go to jail if you're not making the money.
- 1:42:12SPEAKER_02: Bro, I seen niggas post it in their checks, and it's like negative$27 of the old chase because the child support came out.
- 1:42:20SPEAKER_02: And it's like, yeah, look, I don't even I don't make enough money to support myself.
- 1:42:23SPEAKER_02: Like that that's nuts.
- 1:42:25SPEAKER_02: But it's like we're talking about the big dogs, but at the end of the day, this is all of this is to deter people from just having kids at a wedlock and getting married for the for the idea of yeah, I'm I'm I have an exit strategy.
- 1:42:37SPEAKER_02: Like you're you're you're this is you and this person are becoming one thing.
- 1:42:41SPEAKER_02: Like don't take it.
- 1:42:42SPEAKER_02: Which is well, I'm not so mad at the at the at the I don't know if she's a bartender, but the girl who was saying I need, I think she said 600,000 a month or something like that.
- 1:42:49SPEAKER_02: Remember?
- 1:42:50SPEAKER_02: No, I'm mad at that because that's not about marriage.
- 1:42:52SPEAKER_02: No, but uh again, I think I don't know about where what state she was in or the laws, but she might be saying, oh, like if I give up this lifestyle and we together for 15 years, I don't look the same.
- 1:43:02SPEAKER_02: Okay, but who told you to give up the lifestyle?
- 1:43:05SPEAKER_02: She said, no, she said if it because she's in the club.
- 1:43:07SPEAKER_02: She said if he wants me to stop working, okay, he needs to pay me.
- 1:43:11SPEAKER_02: It was a crazy number.
- 1:43:12SPEAKER_02: I mean, we spoke about it.
- 1:43:13SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 1:43:13SPEAKER_02: And I don't remember that being the notion, though.
- 1:43:15SPEAKER_02: I thought it was just like for a nigga to fuck with me.
- 1:43:17SPEAKER_02: I don't even think she took a leader.
- 1:43:19SPEAKER_02: She said because she's like 50,000 is my bills, and I need a hundred another hundred on top.
- 1:43:23SPEAKER_02: I don't remember her mentioning anything about marriage or relationship.
- 1:43:26SPEAKER_02: I think that was part of the thing that was shot.
- 1:43:29SPEAKER_02: I think it was uh I don't know about marriage, but I don't know.
- 1:43:31SPEAKER_02: I think it was just a function.
- 1:43:32SPEAKER_02: I mean, she didn't say to retire her.
- 1:43:33SPEAKER_02: She didn't say marriage.
- 1:43:34SPEAKER_02: She's she this is what she's saying.
- 1:43:35SPEAKER_02: If you don't want me to work, if he doesn't want me to work, I don't remember that being about D.
- 1:43:39SPEAKER_00: If he doesn't want me to work, that was the thing, right?
- 1:43:41SPEAKER_02: Like if he wants to take me out, yeah.
- 1:43:43SPEAKER_02: If he wants to be with me and me not work, I don't remember that part of the conversation.
- 1:43:47SPEAKER_02: But we can we can we can use it as the pre the preface.
- 1:43:50SPEAKER_02: Um yeah, I don't I just think putting a number on your love or your box for you know whatever way you want to take the conversation is nasty.
- 1:43:59SPEAKER_02: Like I think that's nasty.
- 1:44:00SPEAKER_02: Gotcha.
- 1:44:01SPEAKER_02: Because happiness trumps money.
- 1:44:03SPEAKER_02: Now, one last question.
- 1:44:05SPEAKER_02: That's true.
- 1:44:06SPEAKER_02: One last question on the marriage thing.
- 1:44:09SPEAKER_02: Let's say marriage is important to you, right?
- 1:44:11SPEAKER_02: Absolutely.
- 1:44:12SPEAKER_02: And you're gonna probably make try to make it important to your kids.
- 1:44:16SPEAKER_02: Oh, absolutely.
- 1:44:17SPEAKER_02: Right.
- 1:44:17SPEAKER_02: Our son is already doing it right now.
- 1:44:18SPEAKER_02: Be shitting on me every day.
- 1:44:19SPEAKER_02: Like, yo, bro, like why are you and mom not married?
- 1:44:22SPEAKER_02: I was like, nigga, I'm halfway there.
- 1:44:23SPEAKER_02: Relax.
- 1:44:24SPEAKER_02: Like, relax, nigga.
- 1:44:25SPEAKER_02: How long have you ever been uh engaged?
- 1:44:26SPEAKER_02: Uh not even it's I think it's about to be two years.
- 1:44:29SPEAKER_02: Okay would you do a destination wedding?
- 1:44:31SPEAKER_02: I would love to do a destination wedding because I don't want a lot of people at my wedding.
- 1:44:34SPEAKER_02: Yo, and I was like, I don't want a lot of people at my wedding.
- 1:44:36SPEAKER_02: Somebody today uh invited me to a destination wedding.
- 1:44:39SPEAKER_02: I'm like, that's a lot of people do that to lower the bridge.
- 1:44:42SPEAKER_02: Deter people.
- 1:44:42SPEAKER_02: No, it's not even a cost thing for me.
- 1:44:43SPEAKER_02: I just want niggas in my business.
- 1:44:45SPEAKER_02: I have like seven people I give a fuck.
- 1:44:48SPEAKER_02: No, but then that's that that looks bad.
- 1:44:49SPEAKER_02: It looks tacky.
- 1:44:50SPEAKER_02: Like, damn, they got married, they didn't invite me, but Joe is there.
- 1:44:54SPEAKER_02: Oh, so Joe's better than I am.
- 1:44:56SPEAKER_02: I've known you for 10 years.
- 1:44:57SPEAKER_02: You've known Joe.
- 1:44:57SPEAKER_02: But outside, like, oh, you you weren't willing to go to Dubai?
- 1:45:00SPEAKER_02: Yeah, exactly.
- 1:45:01SPEAKER_00: Joe was, so Joe could afford it.
- 1:45:04SPEAKER_02: It was a free trip.
- 1:45:04SPEAKER_02: All right, we're out to Dubai.
- 1:45:06SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 1:45:06SPEAKER_02: There's a lot of things in that destination wedding that fucking shit.
- 1:45:09SPEAKER_02: Nah, but I've seen um the opposite happen, that because it was a destination wedding, more people showed up because they wanted to go to that destination.
- 1:45:16SPEAKER_00: Yeah, especially if you go to the yard, there's a playbook.
- 1:45:18SPEAKER_00: Pleybo, way!
- 1:45:19SPEAKER_02: Yeah, so I guess you have to gauge if you're if your if your invitees have money or not.
- 1:45:22SPEAKER_02: No, you gotta just do it in a place that is not popping.
- 1:45:25SPEAKER_02: But yeah, we out to Indonesia.
- 1:45:26SPEAKER_02: But if they got money, oh shit.
- 1:45:28SPEAKER_02: There's a callback.
- 1:45:31SPEAKER_02: So you're gonna still in your kids, right?
- 1:45:33SPEAKER_02: Yes.
- 1:45:33SPEAKER_02: You say your daughter's with a guy for a decade.
- 1:45:36SPEAKER_02: Yes.
- 1:45:36SPEAKER_02: All boxes checked, right?
- 1:45:38SPEAKER_02: Yes.
- 1:45:39SPEAKER_02: Like, she has no complaints, zero complaints.
- 1:45:41SPEAKER_02: But he doesn't pop the question yet.
- 1:45:43SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 1:45:43SPEAKER_02: Cool.
- 1:45:44SPEAKER_02: Let's say they've been together 10 years.
- 1:45:45SPEAKER_02: You love the guy.
- 1:45:46SPEAKER_02: Everything's great.
- 1:45:47SPEAKER_02: And she says, but dad, you know, he told me he doesn't really want to actually get married.
- 1:45:52SPEAKER_02: Now he's down to like give me a ring and we can have a reception and have the party, whatever.
- 1:45:58SPEAKER_02: I'm pulling out the big joke.
- 1:45:59SPEAKER_02: But but she's like, he doesn't want to get married.
- 1:46:03SPEAKER_02: I think I'm gonna leave him.
- 1:46:06SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 1:46:06SPEAKER_02: Would you say that's a good decision, or or or would you be like, honey, like what would you say?
- 1:46:13SPEAKER_02: What would you say?
- 1:46:13SPEAKER_02: I don't want to buy.
- 1:46:14SPEAKER_02: The first question is, why?
- 1:46:16SPEAKER_02: To both then.
- 1:46:17SPEAKER_02: Why he doesn't want to get married?
- 1:46:18SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 1:46:19SPEAKER_02: Okay, I mean, that'll be a I'm I don't know.
- 1:46:22SPEAKER_02: I he has to he has a reason.
- 1:46:24SPEAKER_02: Whatever.
- 1:46:24SPEAKER_02: If it's not if the reason is not logical to me, and I well, how old is my daughter at this point?
- 1:46:30SPEAKER_02: 30.
- 1:46:31SPEAKER_02: 30?
- 1:46:32SPEAKER_02: They're both 30, let's say.
- 1:46:33SPEAKER_02: I would tell her, yo, listen, you have about five more years, bro.
- 1:46:37SPEAKER_02: So if you leave this dude that you put 10 years in with, you bet you better be on your P's and Q's about finding a next one.
- 1:46:43SPEAKER_02: Oh, I'm sorry.
- 1:46:43SPEAKER_02: Let's say let's say at 35 she's having this dilemma.
- 1:46:47SPEAKER_02: Yeah, so she's at 35.
- 1:46:48SPEAKER_02: She's 35.
- 1:46:49SPEAKER_02: My advice to her would be like, yo, try your best to convince him if marriage if this is on your spirit that you have to get married, there's no there's nothing in the Bible that says you have to get married.
- 1:46:59SPEAKER_02: You don't have to get married.
- 1:47:00SPEAKER_02: It's just uh one of the things that it would be good to do.
- 1:47:03SPEAKER_02: Um I would I mean technically I was about to say it would be a sin to Yeah, it's like uh you don't have to get married, but then you dogs, yeah, yeah, you probably didn't really clip it much.
- 1:47:14SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I get that.
- 1:47:14SPEAKER_02: Um, but yeah, I would I would try my best to convince I would sit down with the both of them and just try to work it out.
- 1:47:20SPEAKER_02: If if that's what she asked me to do, I would never intervene.
- 1:47:23SPEAKER_02: But I would just advise them, yo, bro, y'all should just do it.
- 1:47:26SPEAKER_02: And I look at this nigga like, you don't want a happy woman in your life?
- 1:47:28SPEAKER_02: Like, what's what's going on?
- 1:47:29SPEAKER_02: Um, but if if her spirit is telling her to leave, she then leave.
- 1:47:34SPEAKER_00: Gotcha.
- 1:47:34SPEAKER_00: Okay.
- 1:47:35SPEAKER_00: I mean, for me, um, yeah, if she's 35 and she's, you know, I I wouldn't advise her to leave.
- 1:47:42SPEAKER_00: You would not?
- 1:47:43SPEAKER_00: No, I I wouldn't.
- 1:47:44SPEAKER_00: You know, I mean, it's tough because marriage kind of gives you that, you know, securement, the security.
- 1:47:51SPEAKER_02: And I and I and I want to stop you right there because that's what they say.
- 1:47:56SPEAKER_02: Marriage, I I think, in my opinion, marriage was necessary for women back then.
- 1:48:05SPEAKER_02: Two things can be true.
- 1:48:06SPEAKER_02: They needed two married.
- 1:48:08SPEAKER_02: I need to be married because if I'm not married, I I can die.
- 1:48:11SPEAKER_02: Like, I'll go hungry, I can't work, I can't go to school.
- 1:48:13SPEAKER_02: Like, I need to be married.
- 1:48:15SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 1:48:15SPEAKER_02: All great.
- 1:48:16SPEAKER_02: Today, that'd be my argument.
- 1:48:18SPEAKER_02: Honey, we don't need to get married.
- 1:48:21SPEAKER_02: We don't need to involve the state in our business.
- 1:48:22SPEAKER_02: We don't need to involve the country in our business.
- 1:48:24SPEAKER_02: We don't need to do these things.
- 1:48:25SPEAKER_00: That's what the reasonings matter to it.
- 1:48:27SPEAKER_02: We could put things in place where we can still get married kind of stuff when we if one of us passes or whatever, where without actually doing it.
- 1:48:34SPEAKER_02: Yeah, but my spirit is telling me I need this, James.
- 1:48:37SPEAKER_02: I guess, I guess that depends how much you believe in like spirits and stuff.
- 1:48:40SPEAKER_02: No, the spirit I'm talking about is the Holy Spirit.
- 1:48:44SPEAKER_02: But the guy could be like, don't give a fuck about that.
- 1:48:46SPEAKER_02: Like, you know what I'm saying?
- 1:48:47SPEAKER_02: I don't think my my daughter would be with a man that doesn't believe in God.
- 1:48:50SPEAKER_02: So well, he could believe in God, but there's levels to it.
- 1:48:52SPEAKER_02: Like he might be like, I believe in God.
- 1:48:54SPEAKER_02: What's the level what's the level of, hey, God is telling me I need to be married.
- 1:48:57SPEAKER_02: And God is telling me I don't.
- 1:48:58SPEAKER_02: Well, I don't think God would tell you that because you had premarital sex.
- 1:49:01SPEAKER_02: That doesn't make any sense.
- 1:49:01SPEAKER_02: God would be a liar.
- 1:49:03SPEAKER_02: Okay, I hear you.
- 1:49:04SPEAKER_02: That's why the levels think don't work.
- 1:49:05SPEAKER_02: There's there's people who believe, I I'm not gonna say that everybody who believes in God are just following the word just as God wrote it.
- 1:49:11SPEAKER_02: You know what I'm saying?
- 1:49:12SPEAKER_02: But the the argument I'm trying to make is if you are with a person, y'all both agree that I we worship the same God, right?
- 1:49:19SPEAKER_02: That's like uh a Muslim girl telling a dude that yo, I want to eat pork, and he's like, Well, the book says we don't do that.
- 1:49:27SPEAKER_02: And she's like, Yeah, but you know, he would he would not be with that woman.
- 1:49:31SPEAKER_02: Like, it's just such a big thing that if somebody's coming to you as your y'all, this is not just some people.
- 1:49:36SPEAKER_02: That's the real that's the thing.
- 1:49:37SPEAKER_02: Like, we're in the real world also, like, where people weaponize religion.
- 1:49:41SPEAKER_02: No, but that's the God told me I need this.
- 1:49:43SPEAKER_02: That's not what that's not weaponizing if I'm telling you I'm getting a calling from the creator of the universe.
- 1:49:48SPEAKER_02: You don't think people will weaponize?
- 1:49:50SPEAKER_02: No, people can, but I'm I'm I'm talking about a good faith discussion.
- 1:49:53SPEAKER_02: This is not some girl you met off the street and you're a billionaire, and she's like, nah, well, I gotta get feminism and try to rob you.
- 1:49:58SPEAKER_02: I think a good faith girl would go to the life of.
- 1:50:00SPEAKER_02: Like, all right, but he I tried all the convincing.
- 1:50:02SPEAKER_02: I'm gonna just tell him it was I had a dream and God told me.
- 1:50:04SPEAKER_02: No, but that's not the argument I'm making, though.
- 1:50:05SPEAKER_02: That's not I'm talking about, hey, this is in my spirit.
- 1:50:07SPEAKER_02: Like, I will leave.
- 1:50:08SPEAKER_02: Like if it's if it's literal.
- 1:50:09SPEAKER_02: Yeah, like I will leave.
- 1:50:10SPEAKER_02: Like, I there's a there's a yearning, a feeling that I'm getting a calling that I need to do this.
- 1:50:14SPEAKER_02: And if you're not the guy that's gonna do that, I'm out.
- 1:50:17SPEAKER_02: As a man, how do you look at that woman if you say you're a believer and be like, oh no, she's bullshit?
- 1:50:22SPEAKER_02: Like then why, why, why even do the song and dance?
- 1:50:24SPEAKER_02: I just think you don't want to be married, and that's okay.
- 1:50:27SPEAKER_02: No, no, no, that's fine.
- 1:50:27SPEAKER_02: But I'm just when it comes to that, I'll go into the thing where it's like, all right, like, and this is where I could I have my views on certain religions and stuff like that, but it's like, if that's the case, why didn't God just instill that in both of us?
- 1:50:39SPEAKER_02: And we'll both have that feeling.
- 1:50:40SPEAKER_02: I thought that's what this was.
- 1:50:42SPEAKER_02: We because when she thought that but I'm saying he should God should do the same for him.
- 1:50:47SPEAKER_02: How did he tell me the same thing?
- 1:50:48SPEAKER_02: But how do we get 10 years together?
- 1:50:50SPEAKER_02: And that was not within the first year of the of our discussion.
- 1:50:54SPEAKER_02: That's the problem with this with this scenario that you gave me.
- 1:50:56SPEAKER_02: Oh, oh, like, are we getting married to the discussion?
- 1:50:58SPEAKER_02: Yeah, like the because niggas lie.
- 1:51:00SPEAKER_02: No, but then that that then of course leave that guy.
- 1:51:02SPEAKER_02: He's gonna lie about that.
- 1:51:03SPEAKER_02: And a lot of times, like people like don't they don't actually they'll say, like, you're gonna be yo, you might you're gonna be my wife when they this and that, but it'd be like in tongue-in-cheek.
- 1:51:11SPEAKER_02: It don't really be like a real like if you're talking about the person that I'm raising, it's not a tongue-in-cheek thing for me today as a 30-year-old.
- 1:51:19SPEAKER_02: It wasn't a tongue in cheeking thing for me as a 20-year-old.
- 1:51:22SPEAKER_02: So it wouldn't be that for her.
- 1:51:23SPEAKER_02: Like, that would be something they ironed out before she wasted 10 years.
- 1:51:26SPEAKER_02: Because in society today, not everybody's wifey and hubby, and that's my husband.
- 1:51:29SPEAKER_02: Like, people are it's a pet word.
- 1:51:31SPEAKER_02: People are throwing these words around already.
- 1:51:33SPEAKER_02: And and and I would say it's a culture, cultural thing too.
- 1:51:36SPEAKER_02: Like, absolutely in Dominican, well, I'll see, I'll speak for my culture.
- 1:51:40SPEAKER_02: When you once you move in with somebody, that's your husband.
- 1:51:43SPEAKER_02: Like, that there's so many people that I realized later that weren't married that I thought they were married.
- 1:51:47SPEAKER_02: Oh, but you said that was your wife, yeah.
- 1:51:48SPEAKER_02: Yeah, we live together.
- 1:51:49SPEAKER_02: We live together.
- 1:51:50SPEAKER_02: All of that is fly.
- 1:51:50SPEAKER_02: And I'm like, that makes sense.
- 1:51:52SPEAKER_02: Like, why why that all of that is fly?
- 1:51:55SPEAKER_02: But you asking me about a person that I'm raised with, she would not have spent 10 years with a nigga where if marriage was just a tongue-in-cheek conversation.
- 1:52:03SPEAKER_02: That would have been within the first couple of years.
- 1:52:04SPEAKER_02: Now that's the one.
- 1:52:05SPEAKER_00: You definitely gotta kind of as a five year old.
- 1:52:07SPEAKER_02: You wouldn't waste 10 years.
- 1:52:08SPEAKER_02: You could you waste three, possibly.
- 1:52:10SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 1:52:10SPEAKER_02: I'd even give you up to five because maybe she's like But now we met at 25, and now we're 35.
- 1:52:16SPEAKER_02: Mine's changed.
- 1:52:17SPEAKER_02: 25 to 35 is a big, there's a lot that changes in there.
- 1:52:20SPEAKER_02: Absolutely.
- 1:52:20SPEAKER_02: But marriage is like, okay, you're with her, you want kids, right?
- 1:52:23SPEAKER_02: Oh no, you don't.
- 1:52:24SPEAKER_02: You don't perfect, right?
- 1:52:25SPEAKER_02: You get with a girl today, and she tells you, and one of the one of the selling points on your relationship is that, yo, yo, uh, Charlie, I don't want kids.
- 1:52:32SPEAKER_02: And you're like jackpot.
- 1:52:34SPEAKER_02: And then you guys are 35 and she's telling you, like, yo, I will leave you if we don't have kids.
- 1:52:39SPEAKER_02: Wouldn't you look at her like she like played you?
- 1:52:42SPEAKER_02: Yeah, but he's not saying I'm gonna leave you, like, if you force me to marry.
- 1:52:45SPEAKER_02: Like, he's just saying, like.
- 1:52:46SPEAKER_02: Well, her thing is you marry me or I'm out.
- 1:52:49SPEAKER_02: Right.
- 1:52:49SPEAKER_02: And I think So what does he do in that situation?
- 1:52:51SPEAKER_02: He's he's you're telling me that her only option is to leave.
- 1:52:54SPEAKER_02: I'm telling I'm saying she shouldn't leave.
- 1:52:56SPEAKER_02: I'm saying she has all her.
- 1:52:57SPEAKER_02: I'm telling you, my advice to her would be if this is your calling that you feel in your spirit, then to leave.
- 1:53:03SPEAKER_02: And the reason for that is because I would never raise a child to think that marriage is a tongue-in-cheek thing.
- 1:53:08SPEAKER_02: I would raise them just like how when when you were in um middle school, did you think that you could live in your parents' house and not uh graduate high school?
- 1:53:16SPEAKER_02: Live in my parents' house and not graduate high school.
- 1:53:18SPEAKER_02: Like you'd be able to just drop out?
- 1:53:20SPEAKER_02: Like middle high school started, you could tell your mom like, hey, I'm not going, and that's fine.
- 1:53:24SPEAKER_02: Like you would be able to live there.
- 1:53:25SPEAKER_02: It won't be fine.
- 1:53:26SPEAKER_02: Yeah, so the the way I would raise my children is the same way.
- 1:53:29SPEAKER_02: It's like there's prerequisites in life.
- 1:53:32SPEAKER_02: And if you want to have children, you should you can you need to get married.
- 1:53:36SPEAKER_02: Do you think there should be I keep saying last question, but do you think that would you tell her you need to be married by No.
- 1:53:43SPEAKER_02: So if you propose in 20 years, cool.
- 1:53:46SPEAKER_02: Cool.
- 1:53:46SPEAKER_02: Gotcha.
- 1:53:47SPEAKER_02: Do it.
- 1:53:47SPEAKER_02: Because a lot of times that's that's the thing.
- 1:53:48SPEAKER_02: Like Oh, because niggas don't be ready.
- 1:53:50SPEAKER_02: Niggas need time to mature, niggas need time to get the situation.
- 1:53:53SPEAKER_02: I don't want to be married because I'm broke.
- 1:53:54SPEAKER_02: I'm I gotta get it.
- 1:53:55SPEAKER_02: Like I wanna his argument could be, and he could be being sincere, is that I want to have a gigantic wedding that your parents don't have to pay us nothing.
- 1:54:04SPEAKER_02: I want everybody to come and they don't nobody have to pay him nothing.
- 1:54:07SPEAKER_02: And that might take him until he's 50.
- 1:54:08SPEAKER_02: You know what I'm saying?
- 1:54:09SPEAKER_02: And if that is his earnest reasoning, by all means.
- 1:54:12SPEAKER_02: Because if I were to have kids, like I'd rather I I always said I would like my kids at my wedding.
- 1:54:18SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 1:54:18SPEAKER_02: And I know that's like unbibl non-biblical, whatever the case is.
- 1:54:22SPEAKER_02: But I was and people would be like, well, like you rather have kids with somebody but not get married to them.
- 1:54:28SPEAKER_02: I'm like, well, I to me, like, I think marriage should be the final, I guess, reward or test.
- 1:54:35SPEAKER_02: Like, I want to go through everything with you before I like marry you.
- 1:54:38SPEAKER_02: I don't think that's again.
- 1:54:39SPEAKER_02: Because I'm a marriage.
- 1:54:40SPEAKER_02: It's not biblical, but the logic makes sense.
- 1:54:42SPEAKER_02: But if I'm not if I marry you, but your intention though is to marry this person.
- 1:54:46SPEAKER_02: That's my that's where me and you are having a disagreement in the scenario that you gave me.
- 1:54:51SPEAKER_02: Because I don't think you can go through 10 years.
- 1:54:53SPEAKER_02: Like the scenario I gave you, that girl tricked you.
- 1:54:55SPEAKER_02: Like when y'all met, it was I don't want no kids.
- 1:54:57SPEAKER_02: Everything is is is fly, and out of nowhere at 35, she's like, yo, it I can't have kids.
- 1:55:02SPEAKER_02: Charlie, I need a kid or else I'm out.
- 1:55:04SPEAKER_02: Like, I think that's fucked up to do with somebody.
- 1:55:06SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 1:55:06SPEAKER_02: So if my daughter was with a dude and they from year three were like, oh no, the end game here is marriage, and then at 35, she's like, Well, what's going on, uh Mike?
- 1:55:15SPEAKER_02: Um, I don't want to get married.
- 1:55:18SPEAKER_02: What?
- 1:55:18SPEAKER_02: Like, we already established this in year three.
- 1:55:20SPEAKER_02: That's fucked up.
- 1:55:21SPEAKER_02: What do you think?
- 1:55:21SPEAKER_02: What do you think about the kids being first theory?
- 1:55:23SPEAKER_02: Like making her a mom first, seeing how that goes.
- 1:55:26SPEAKER_02: I mean, go going from the Bible, we're not supposed to be.
- 1:55:30SPEAKER_02: I think I think that's a good logic because you can see the type of mom she is.
- 1:55:33SPEAKER_02: Yeah, for me, you can see what it what she's like when she only got three hours of sleep, and then she's still she still gotta wake up and make breakfast for you and the kid.
- 1:55:40SPEAKER_02: And can she attend to you still while being a mom?
- 1:55:42SPEAKER_02: While being a mom, I think that's a good it's logical, but the strategy's bad.
- 1:55:45SPEAKER_02: Because what happens if she sucks?
- 1:55:47SPEAKER_02: You can't put the kid back.
- 1:55:49SPEAKER_02: Yeah, but I think that because I I also said like you only as let's say you have a kid, she sucks, by the time you realize she sucks and actually can leave, the kid is five.
- 1:56:00SPEAKER_02: Yeah, but for example, having uh like the statistics on having a a complete family versus a broken one is like it's not even close.
- 1:56:09SPEAKER_02: Like the the detriment to your child that you do, that's why I respect those parents that they're not together, but they stay together.
- 1:56:16SPEAKER_02: Like they they got their little ya-yas on the side, but they still live together, they raise the kids, and once the kids like are out of the house, then they officially break up.
- 1:56:22SPEAKER_02: I respect those parents because the the numbers on on children that are in home.
- 1:56:28SPEAKER_02: This is what is it's not it's uh you're literally putting your kid at a disadvantage to leave that woman.
- 1:56:33SPEAKER_02: Like it's it's crazy.
- 1:56:34SPEAKER_02: And this is what deters me a lot about sometimes the kissing, is because like all those factors, all those risks is a lot, bro.
- 1:56:42SPEAKER_02: Now I'm less of a person because I didn't stay for 18 years.
- 1:56:45SPEAKER_02: Yes, because you know what I'm saying?
- 1:56:47SPEAKER_02: Like, I I I feel like I'm maybe a little too selfish for that sacrifice.
- 1:56:50SPEAKER_02: And I think that's fine.
- 1:56:50SPEAKER_02: I I don't think I think everybody should be parents, especially the people that I care about in my life, and you're making your way there to let you know.
- 1:56:59SPEAKER_02: But I don't think everybody should be parents.
- 1:57:02SPEAKER_02: Some parents, some people are just too selfish.
- 1:57:04SPEAKER_02: And bro, you're like, well, how old are you?
- 1:57:06SPEAKER_02: Like 39?
- 1:57:06SPEAKER_02: Maybe maybe when you're 50, you'll be more mature.
- 1:57:10SPEAKER_02: But no, but it's true though.
- 1:57:11SPEAKER_02: Like, some people are just not wired for that.
- 1:57:13SPEAKER_02: Like, I want to be selfish and for the rest of my life, and that's cool.
- 1:57:16SPEAKER_02: And the the beauty about being a man, though, is that you can be 70 and get it done.
- 1:57:21SPEAKER_02: You can have a kid at 70, yeah.
- 1:57:23SPEAKER_02: Like legitimately.
- 1:57:24SPEAKER_02: Like Al Pacino just had a kid with like a I thought about that too.
- 1:57:27SPEAKER_01: I'm like, you know what?
- 1:57:28SPEAKER_01: A kid at 60 may not be the worst, maybe swag.
- 1:57:31SPEAKER_02: Who knows?
- 1:57:31SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 1:57:32SPEAKER_02: So that that's one of the benefits of being a man, though, is that you can kind of bide your time.
- 1:57:35SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 1:57:35SPEAKER_02: And you know, as a men, older women.
- 1:57:37SPEAKER_02: Because to have it at 60, she gotta be 35.
- 1:57:39SPEAKER_02: Hey, do what you gotta do.
- 1:57:41SPEAKER_02: She can't be she can't be 60.
- 1:57:43SPEAKER_02: Don't work like that.
- 1:57:44SPEAKER_02: But now you can buy a little update.
- 1:57:46SPEAKER_02: Yeah, but it's just the the thing about doing the broken home thing.
- 1:57:50SPEAKER_02: You put your kid as such a he could be the smartest kid in the world.
- 1:57:53SPEAKER_02: He could have, you can have all the money, but it's just something about.
- 1:57:57SPEAKER_02: But I will this who parent thing boosts your kids' chances of success in life.
- 1:58:01SPEAKER_02: I disagree though.
- 1:58:02SPEAKER_02: I'm not disagreeing with the statistics, but from personal experience, um, my parents got divorced at when I was five.
- 1:58:10SPEAKER_02: But my dad, what happens a lot of times with men is that when they divorce the mom, they divorced the kids too.
- 1:58:16SPEAKER_02: Yes.
- 1:58:16SPEAKER_02: He didn't do that.
- 1:58:17SPEAKER_02: That wasn't your circumstance.
- 1:58:18SPEAKER_02: So I didn't even, I don't even think I really knew they were divorced for a long time.
- 1:58:22SPEAKER_02: Like I just thought, like, you know, oh, dad's got a new house, whatever the case is, you know.
- 1:58:27SPEAKER_02: So he was very present, like taking me to baseball, uh, basketball games and all types of stuff.
- 1:58:31SPEAKER_02: So like he I never missed him.
- 1:58:33SPEAKER_02: Yes.
- 1:58:33SPEAKER_02: You know, so I think if you move like that, you know what I'm saying?
- 1:58:37SPEAKER_02: He had aspirations to move to Florida.
- 1:58:39SPEAKER_02: He bought a house in Florida.
- 1:58:40SPEAKER_02: He gave that up to be around.
- 1:58:41SPEAKER_02: So gave it up to not.
- 1:58:43SPEAKER_02: Now, let me ask you a question.
- 1:58:44SPEAKER_02: Do you think majority of niggas are gonna do things like that, though?
- 1:58:49SPEAKER_02: I think when you don't do things like that, that's the detriment.
- 1:58:51SPEAKER_02: That's the detriment.
- 1:58:52SPEAKER_02: And on top of that, no, but even if you wanted to do all of that, let's say your dad was the greatest woman has so much power in that situation.
- 1:59:00SPEAKER_02: Because my mom is not having like yeah.
- 1:59:02SPEAKER_02: All it took was, you know, her uh him to just, I got a new girlfriend.
- 1:59:06SPEAKER_02: Yeah, you would never see a kid again.
- 1:59:07SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah.
- 1:59:08SPEAKER_02: Like that there's women out there like that.
- 1:59:09SPEAKER_02: So that's why it's just better to stay together, stay together, stay together.
- 1:59:12SPEAKER_02: They're 18 out of the house.
- 1:59:13SPEAKER_02: By a dog.
- 1:59:14SPEAKER_02: Peace.
- 1:59:14SPEAKER_02: What do you mean by a dog?
- 1:59:16SPEAKER_02: By a dog.
- 1:59:17SPEAKER_02: You comparing a dog to children?
- 1:59:19unknown: It's comparable.
- 1:59:22SPEAKER_02: I think we end the pod right there.
- 1:59:26SPEAKER_01: I'll I'll save some for the for another time.
- 1:59:28SPEAKER_01: We had two hours.
- 1:59:30SPEAKER_02: We made it, we made it to two hours.
- 1:59:31SPEAKER_02: Make sure like you speak into the mic.
- 1:59:32SPEAKER_02: Like, you don't know what it is.
- 1:59:33SPEAKER_02: The mic is right here.
- 1:59:34SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 1:59:35SPEAKER_02: You heard him, right?
- 1:59:36SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I heard him.
- 1:59:36SPEAKER_02: I heard.
- 1:59:37SPEAKER_02: Well, because I was looking at the time.
- 1:59:38SPEAKER_02: Stop doing that.
- 1:59:39SPEAKER_02: That's bad podding.
- 1:59:40SPEAKER_02: Oh my gosh.
- 1:59:41SPEAKER_02: But um, yeah, man.
- 1:59:42SPEAKER_02: I think we did it.
- 1:59:43SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 1:59:45SPEAKER_02: Can I get a um perfecto?
- 1:59:48SPEAKER_02: Perfect.
- 1:59:48SPEAKER_02: Perfect.
- 1:59:49SPEAKER_02: I like that.
- 1:59:50SPEAKER_02: Oh, perfecto.
- 1:59:50SPEAKER_02: Dominican day perfect.
- 1:59:52SPEAKER_02: Perfect.
- 1:59:52SPEAKER_02: That's why I said it.
- 1:59:53SPEAKER_02: That's why I