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Carolina Sotomayor · Postcards to the Universe

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Welcome to Postcards to the Universe with Melissa Capria. Do you believe in magic?
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What if you were told that all you had to do was get a
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little creative and work a magic spell to bring anything you can imagine into your
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life. Here on Postcards to the Universe, we will share manifesting tips,
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postcards, creativity, abundance, and prosperity. Here is your host, Melissa
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Capria. Hey everybody, and welcome to Postcards to the Universe with Melissa creating
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the life you crave. How are you guys doing today. I hope everybody
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who's listening is doing well. It's Wednesday. It's my favorite day I loved.
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I love Wednesdays because I love doing my show because I always have the
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most interesting people. And I don't know how I find these people or they
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find me. I just think it's the magic of the universe because I love
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talking to my guests. And I have a really interesting guest today, Carolina
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Soto Mayor, and she is a fertility reiky womb healer, so this is
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going to be really interesting. I can't wait to talk to her, and
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she is going to join me in just a few minutes. I want to
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say thank you to my regular to listen to me every week. It means
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the world to me. And if you're tuning in for the first time,
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I want to give you a big, warm welcome and I hope you keep
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of the show is. So I really do hope that you keep coming back
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or messages on social media. Oh, I really like your show. Where
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did you find that guest? I love that guest, so it makes me
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really really happy. Also, if you are hearing me for the first time,
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a little bit about me. I am an artist, photographer, I'm
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an author. I have a book. It's titled Postcards to the Universe,
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Harness the Universe's Power and manifest your Dreams. And I talk all about manifesting
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in the Law of Attraction in my book. And there are thirty manifesting stories
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of the postcards that I took in the book, and a manifesting postcards kind
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of like a mini vision board. People created something that they want to bring
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into their life. It showed up in their life and I shared their story
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along with the photo that I took. And what I started doing is I
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rephotographed all the postcards that are in the book because the book came out in
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twenty nineteen the end of twenty nineteen, and my style of photographing them is
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very different than it was when I first started in the ones that are in
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the book, so I thought it would be fun to rephotograph them. And
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I've also been doing live readings on all my social media Instagram, TikTok.
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It's on LinkedIn and also YouTube of me doing live readings from the book.
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So they're about five minute videos. I show the postcard, I talk about
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the story of the person who was the contributor. So it's been a lot
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of fun. And like I said, I've changed a lot in five years.
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You know, we're always transforming, which is kind of cool. And
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I've been working on my second book, going through the edits, and also
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I'm making oracle cards that's going to go along with the second book using my
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photos, so I've been working on those too, So it's been a lot
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of fun. I have a couple of workshops going on each week. I
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always talk about the workshops. One is titled Manifesting through Gratitude. I'm not
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going to get into it because I really want to talk to my guests,
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but if you go to Postcards at the universe dot com you could see the
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workshop. It's five weeks Thursday evenings. We use gratitude and our camera phones
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to manifests. So check it out. And if you are one of those
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people that is still on Facebook and have and completely left it, I do
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have a Facebook public group called Postcards a Love and you can check that out.
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We just share uplifting stuff, you know, just want to add more
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goodness to the world. You know, there's no news, there's no negativity
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on that page. It's public and it's fun, all right. So let
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me get to my guest, because this is really interesting. I've never met
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somebody who does this specific kind of work at Carolina Soto Mayor. She is
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a fertility Wreeki womb healer serving women who are trying to conceive, and she
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is the founder of Make a Baby Membership, a monthly membership providing monthly live
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Wreaki healing zoom calls, Wreaki guided meditations, pre recorded healing modules, and
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masterclasses. Carolina has personally coached and helped women all over the world with over
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ninety five reiki babies. She brought over ninety five helped bring ninety five reiki
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babies into the world. I've never thought I would say that sentence that's kind
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of cool. Is a tune to four different lineages of reiki and as a
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proven medium connecting mom to their spirit babies. After conceiving her own son with
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reiki, Carolina has been on a mission to help women conceive with energy healing
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and heal through pregnancy and postpartum. And this is what she says. Becoming
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a certified Reiki practitioner transformed my life. Real time healing made my anxiety manageable,
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and I couldn't keep this discovery to myself. I wanted other women to
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escape unnecessary suffering, so I began offering reiki, sharing the same healing that
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helped me conceive. It works. Now we celebrate over ninety five Reiki babies
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and counting. And if you want to know more about her, I'm going
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to spell out her website for you since we're on the radio, and you
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can check her out. So it's carolinasotomayor dot com and it's c R LNA
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S T O M A y O R dot com. Welcome Carolina, thanks
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so much for being here with me. Thank you for allowing me to share
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space with you. Oh, I'm excited to talk to you. Okay.
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So I've had reiki before. It's very powerful. So yes, it makes
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perfect sense that it would be that you have are using it specifically to help
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women conceive. But what made you, like, how did it happen for
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you? Were you having a problem conceiving yourself? If you don't mind sharing.
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Yes, No, I'm a total open book. We were newly wed
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and we weren't conceiving, and there was metically nothing wrong with me. And
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it was at the suggestion of the specialists that I get into Greece therapy because
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I was just really dad, because I was really sad because my father had
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passed. The same year that my dad passed. We also got engaged and
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married, and then we just weren't conceiving, and so then I'm in Greef
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therapy for a while, and then I'm put on medically because I fall off
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by horse, I get a concussion, and it's kind of like the universe
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saying, okay, you need you're going too fast. It was kind of
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like a hurricane on wheels and just going, going and going. And even
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though I was doing the work in Greef therapy, I was just kind of
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being busy all the time instead of sitting in my emotions. And after I
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lost my dad, it just I started to ask why why, because death
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was very bizarre to me, and I felt very unsafe in the world,
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and it was very a lot of questions as to what is true and what
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is not. And with that it came to a point where the grief therapist
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recommended that I get reiki, and also that same week, I had gone
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to a local psychic and wanted to buy some crystals to help heal my percussion
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because my memory wasn't coming back the way it was supposed to. So I
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was like, okay, I was already in my spiritual journey after my dad
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had passed. That was like the big spark of it all. So two
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people in one week suggested I get reiki, and I took that as a
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sign. The lady in the crystal shop told me she was the first person
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to ever talk about my chakras and which are your energy centers in your body?
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And she's like, your sacral plexus chakra and your throat chakra are blocked.
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You need reiki. And I had a grief therapy session that same week,
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and you also recommended reiki because I was still very much sad. The
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energy wasn't moving. I was so tired of being sad because at this point
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it's almost almost a two year university of my dad's passing, and I just
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want to start living again. So I get reiki the next week, and
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one month later we're testing positive with our son, and that was my first
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experience with reiki. If it weren't for the recommendation of both of those women,
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I would have I had never heard of it before, and that one
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Sason I it was trauma massage with reiki, and that woman changed my life.
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It was amazing because it was the first time I could like fully expand
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and take a full breath since my dad had died. I felt really relaxed
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for the first time. I felt like almost like I was floating, and
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she was able to like sense all of my emotion and my body and move
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it out and I physically felt transformed when I left that session. And then
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I continued to get reiki through my pregnancy, my birth, and I really
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truly I credit it to me coming out of my postpartum anxiety and depression.
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In my postpartum that's when everything kind of unhealed, kind of erupted, and
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when I got regular reiki, it made me function. It made me feel
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normal and just not so paralyzed with a lot of the anxiety that I was
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feeling as a new mom and working and breastfeeding, I struggled to really just
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have full function the way that I had before, but reiki made me feel
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like I could be normal, that I could function, and it really allowed
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me to start to progress feel more like the new version of myself, not
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like the old version, but like who I had become after all of the
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birth trauma and all of the pregnancy things that I had endured. So then
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afterwards I got it tuned to Ricky when my son was six months old,
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and then I sat with the energy and about a year later I decided that
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women in post they started with postpartums like women need to know that they don't
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have to suffer and postpartum like there's things that can really help them function and
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connect to their baby and help with the stress or the fears in postpartum so
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that you can, you know, get up and go and you can get
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up and enjoy life and not have this dark, glooming cloud over you.
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And then it just kind of evolved from there, and then I started to
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specialize in Right before COVID, I switched online and I started to specialize infertility
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reiki all the way through postpartum. So we hope you can see, but
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we carry you through and support you through your whole experience until baby is earthside.
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Because healing doesn't stop once you get pregnant. Sure's still so many,
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so many things that need to be supported while you're going through all of these
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phases of motherhood. Well, it's interesting, not surprise, because a lot
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of it happened with me and a lot of the people that I talked to.
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There's always a catalyst sort of, and it's usually something that's very painful
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that gets us on our spiritual path, right, And then there's always a
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U. And then there's always the universe giving us little messages. Like it's
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not a surprise that two people told you in one week that maybe you should
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look to get reiki, right, Like, I like, that doesn't surprise
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me at all. Like that's like the universe guiding you, saying, okay,
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let's take you in this direction. Because I really believe that you know,
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the universe, God, whatever you want to call it, your angels,
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you're higher self, it doesn't matter, always has your back and is
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always trying to give us messages to lead us in a direction. I think
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a lot of us are just too stubbor to always to always like listen.
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But I really really believe that, and I, like I said, I've
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been I've been in reiki's circles. I've had private sessions before, so I
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know what it is. But for those most of my audience probably knows what
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reiki is. But there may be somebody listening who doesn't understand what we're saying
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and what really what is reiki? Like? Yeah, maybe you can give
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us the simple version, Go ahead, sure, So. Reiki is a
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form of energy healing originated in Japan over one hundred years ago. You have
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something within you that's called life force energy, and that is essentially the essence
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of what makes something alive versus not. That's for energy that makes your lungs,
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your lungs expand, the grass grow, all of the things. So
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with that, riky takes that same energy that already exists within you. The
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practitioner will then harness that energy from the palms of their hands and give it
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to the client as long as they're consenting. Not With reiki could be done
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in person or via distance. And with reiki it works with the chakra system,
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which are your energy systems or energy centers within your entire body. Six
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of those energy centers set on your spine and the seventh at the top of
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your head. And we want those chakras to be open and spinning. Now,
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for fertility, we focus on the sacral plexus chakra, which is the
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second chakra which is in your palace. Each of these energy centers are responsible
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for that regional area of the body and also different characteristics within your being.
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Now, with those chakras, if you are not conceiving, then most likely
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that chakra is imbalanced or blocked, And with reiki it can feel like there's
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heat moving through your body and feel like tingles. When you're getting a session.
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Some people fall asleep, or they yawn, and sometimes people cry.
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So what happens is the reki is a high frequency and it goes into all
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layers of your being. So your ore is made up of five different bodies,
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so reiki is going to penetrate all of those layers very gently, and
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it's going to go into your cells. Anything that's a lower frequency, it's
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going to come to the surface, and that is when people will maybe if
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they can, it can be a spiritual experience. So if they are arresting
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with their eyes closed, which is what most practitioners will request you to do,
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you might see color of the chakras. You might be a loved one
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or future vision or thing that you're wanting to bring into your life can come
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through during the session. But sometimes people may feel things from the past that
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they had not realized we're bothering them. And that's what the reiki does,
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is it brings whatever it needs to be healed, which is the lower frequency
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that's stuck in your tissues, that's stuck in your muscles, to the surface.
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And sometimes it's just very gentle or sometimes people might struggle and they might
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cry and we release it and then you are left feeling much lighter and much
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more grounded because your energy is collected and put back in your body. Yeah.
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Yeah, it's pretty powerful. Like I said, I've had I've had
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it done. And if you're especially if you relax, then you can really
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get into it. You can feel the energy as much. And if you're
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sensitive like I'm sensitive, So for me, I found it very powerful.
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And there's things that you talk about and I want to talk about this,
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and you talk about how our womb holds emotions, and then you also talk
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about this which I've never heard before. So I'll let you all you know,
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elaborate on this. How you there's something that you say why your dad
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might be blocking your fertility, and I thought, oh, I got to
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ask about that. So let's talk about first how our womb holds emotions.
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Can you share a little bit from your experience what that means? Sure,
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So our particular the womb is the sacred like the chakra, and that or
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that chakra is in charge of emotion, emotional safety, emotional wellness, emotional
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expression, and so all of our emotions are actually stored there, and that
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could be good or bad. So if we and we're taught as a society
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that we are supposed to not feel things, or to shush or to shut
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up or you know, don't get too emotional, so we don't even feel.
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The tendency is that we don't even feel our emotionsful way through we like,
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we start to feel emotional and then we shut it off. So the
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first thing is creating emotional safety so you can feel your emotions. And then
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the next layer is identifying one where in your life is there no emotional safety
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and where is there emotional safety in your relationships and with yourself? Are you
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emotionally safe with yourself? And that can be internal dialogue. How do you
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speak of yourself, How are people receiving what you have to say? How
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are you are? How good of a listener are you for others? So
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emotional safety or is that in your life? Where is the meter for that?
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And if I can help a person feel emotionally safe, they're going to
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make different decisions. They're going to show up differently, they're going to speak
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differently, they're going to express themselves differently. They're also going to feel differently
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about themselves, and they'll start to connect and have that mind body connection.
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And it's super important for advocating for yourself. And when a person is conceiving,
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or for a person is working through an emotional crisis, they first have
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to feel it before they can ask for help. They have to or they
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have to figure out what they're feeling to get really clear on what help they
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will need from others and how to move forward, so then they can ask
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for the things that they do want more of. So emotions are not necessarily
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bad. We want to feel them so we can get through it, so
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we can start to invite into things that we do want. But a lot
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of clients that come to me, there's a disconnect from their bodies because they
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have a dysregulated nervous system, and they're not connected to themselves, are not
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connected to their bodies, they're not connected to their wombs or their souls,
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and that chakra is really the key to opening that up. And the first
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thing is how can we create emotional facety in your life? And then we
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move on to the wounds like the father wounds and dive deep into the trauma.
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So things like inner child trauma or neglect, all of those things are
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stored in the womb and they block the full function of that chakra, which
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is the fertility that we're after. So if she doesn't feel emotionally safe to
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express herself, then we can even get to the emotional wounds that are really
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blocking her infertility and also probably causing other things like a lack of a period
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or prolonged bleeding, or imbalanced hormones or also this affects how we choose partners
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or how we communicate with our partners, our libido, our creativity, also
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like what we allow ourselves to feel for joy and pleasure, not just sexual
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pleasure, but also how much joy are we allowing ourselves into our lives.
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If we feel emotionally safe to feel then we're also blocking our happiness and all
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of that's tied up in our womb. So but when you say your father,
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why is it your father? More like why was is that a point
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that you mentioned your father? And not like a mother like why the father
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would be blacked your mother? But the most common thread is a modern I've
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seen in treating all of these clients I have worked with, is that the
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father provides, like the daughter, safety, It's the first thing they make
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them feel safe, Yeah, make them feel respected has the direct impact on
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their worth and how much effort is put in. So if a parent,
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especially the father, is not present or how much effort that they put in
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or lack their up can deeply influence a person's particularly the mother, how much
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work that she has and how she shows up consequently will be deeply impacted.
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So if she doesn't feel safe, or she's told to be quiet, or
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she then accepts that Okay, it's safer for me to be quiet, it
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creates less conflict, then she's going to start to diminish herself and that's going
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to be a belief that she adopts, a limiting belief. So then that
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can affect her emotional safety within herself, like she's her limiting belief is or
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her core belief is it's better for me, it's safer for me if I
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say quiet, So then she might be more timid, or she might be
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self spoken or not speak at all about what her needs are. She puts
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herself flash and that can have a cascading effect on things and behaviors later in
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life and continue and be harder to break. So father relationships, that's where
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it stems from. Like that is one hundred percent of the first wounds that
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we talk about. For me, my dad was absent for most of my
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life until age fifteen, and that's when I went to live with him.
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So for me, it was actually my lived experience as well, was when
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I noticed the first pattern and then I noticed that across other people where there
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was maybe the father was present but not emotionally available, or maybe he was
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a provider but only monetary, or he wasn't there at all, or maybe
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he died early, because then there's abandoned wounds or a neglect because he was
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not emotionally present, there was no affection, or there was multiple children,
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then perhaps the person had to try they'd over and compensate in order to get
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praised. So there's so much this wrapped up in that father room. For
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men and their fertility, it's the mother wound. So that's that. Quite,
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It's so important with my father. When he died, I correlated my
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safety in the world with him. So when he died, and since he
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was the one person who never physically abused me and my family, I correlated
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safety to him. And when he died I lost that and that's why my
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wound was completely blocked by death and my grief. Oh wow, that makes
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so much I mean, it makes so much sense, you know, right,
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we know we know that our child we're always you know, everything,
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every especially relationships are always brought to the forefront. Whatever our childhood wound is,
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it comes out in our relationships and our closest relationships, especially our romantic
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relationships. We know now that if we have, if we're holding on to
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a certain emotions, painful emotions in our bodies, that they will manifest as
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a disease which could turn into a disease that we manifest later in life.
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So we're seeing all these things. So it makes perfect sense listening to you
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talking about when you're talking about the sacral chakra, our sexuality, our organs
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have for women, the womb, the safety with the father. If you
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don't feel safe as a child by your father, you know, there could
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be issues that manifest later. And for men with the mother, that makes
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it really really makes a lot of sense. But okay, so we're gonna
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pause here because I just looked at the time, and we're going to take
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our first commercial break, and then I have tons more questions for you.
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Hey, everybody, and welcome back. And if you're just joining me,
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I have so interesting our discussion today Krolina Soto mayor and she is a fertility
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reiki woomb Haler say that ten times fast, right, so it's started to
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say that so fast. So I want to know, since now that you're
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doing this and you're doing this kind of work, what are you finding as
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you're talking to women and seeing these women as clients that is a lot.
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What's a common emotional blockage that women who are coming to you are having.
30:41
One is not having the mind body connection, Like they're disconnected from their bodies,
30:45
so they're not able to truly understand what they're feeling and where, like
30:52
where are they feeling that in their body. The next thing is that they
30:56
are stuck in your flight or freeze, which is a symptom of a disregulated
31:03
nervous system. And when we regulate the nervous system, then that's when you
31:10
can start to feel the emotional safety. So we use reiki to go ahead
31:15
and allow their nervous system to come, but that's really just also checking in
31:21
and rebalancing their chakras. That's the first step that we'll do. But I
31:26
noticed that the most common thing beyond that is that women lead with masculine action
31:34
because they get a firm for that, they get appraise for that. So
31:37
that would be overgiving to people who don't reciprocate or appreciate or say thank you
31:45
or show up for them in the same way. So there's people that are
31:51
you know, energy vampires or people who take advantage of others. So a
31:56
lot of my clients don't have an issue with boundaries, but there's like if
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I give gift gift, then I get that gives me validation of my worth.
32:07
Having to prove your worth, which is all very masculine, instead of
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sitting more in the feminine and just understanding that your worth exists because you exist,
32:16
and your worth is something you were born with. You're worthy of having
32:21
a baby, no matter how much money you make, no matter how many
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goods did you do, or you know, how good of a human you
32:30
are, like you like, your worth was already there, so you don't
32:35
have to do all the extra things and take all of you know, whatever
32:37
your recommend is, but you don't have to do these giant things to compensate
32:45
that your body might have to need a little bit help to conceive. So
32:51
also finding like, okay, why why are we you know, why are
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we saving everyone around you instead of like aren't we focusing on you? Why
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is there so much giving away of your power and energy and really calling that
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back in It's a huge pattern. Yeah yeah that makes sense. Yeah,
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yeah, that well. I mean women, I mean everybody is really I
33:16
don't want to just say women, but we all have worthiness issues, right
33:22
but women have to we have you know, so so many things are put
33:30
on us on how to be and how to behave and how to look and
33:32
how to act and you know, so, yeah, I can see that
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worthiness is a big issue with with blockages in the womb. And I imagine
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maybe I don't know if it's common your clients or not, but any woman
33:47
who has had sexual trauma must have some deep blockages and yeah in that area
33:54
and when they want to conceive, So do you do do you do reiki
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and help? Does women also? Yes? Unfortunately a lot of my clients
34:06
have experienced a lot of either unpleasant or unwanted sexual experiences. Yeah, so
34:16
with that, we we usually do those on one on one sessions and not
34:22
in a group setting. But with that, we are always looking for how
34:27
can we de trigger the situation for them so when they are talking about it
34:34
or they do, remember it's not it's about de triggering it. It's not
34:38
erasing the event, but it's also allowing you to have your power back with
34:45
the detriggering aspect that you can live life going forward in the way that you
34:51
want to. And I think that that is super important to understand it,
34:54
like it's the event is about power, but also giving power backed client.
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Well, it sounds like this would even be amazing healing, even if you
35:08
didn't necessarily want to get pregnant or have children. But let's say you have
35:15
endometriosis, or you have any kind of uterine issue or cancer. Yes,
35:20
exactly, that just having a healing in that creativity area of your body where
35:27
we birth ideas we birth everything right, that's right, that that would be
35:31
so helpful. I recommend every woman or every any person with a uterus,
35:38
like if you if you want to have the best form yourself or sent into
35:46
your your best form, to get rickylue healing. And it helps with so
35:52
many physical things but also emotional and spiritual things. So if you are struggling
35:58
with endometriosis, or if you're struggling PTOs and you may to races a pcos
36:01
are the two main things that I see. There's so much that needs to
36:07
be unpacked there. But it is very beneficial with restoring period and this kind
36:13
of work like restoring a period. Most of the time, the earliest ELSIE
36:17
is after regular freaky sessions after three months. So this is not I always
36:24
say, healing is not a one time event. It's a relationship that you
36:29
need to have, just like a lot of people, like if you do
36:31
you money, mindset work. You need to have a relationship with money,
36:35
You need to have a relationship with healing and king may be what you need
36:40
or may not be, but it's definitely beneficial for all those same reasons that
36:46
it would be for fertility, balanced hormones, less stress, less anxiety,
36:52
removal of fear, and as inside my Make a Baby membership, we teach
36:58
you how to do SELFIK so in real time, how can you manage your
37:02
anxiety emotions last ninety seconds? And life is going to happen no matter if
37:08
you healed a month ago or you had a session today. You might go
37:13
to Walmart in the cashier, or somebody might bump into your part and like
37:19
look at you or glare or steal your parking spot. Life is going to
37:22
happen. So you need a way to manage or cleanse your energy good energetic
37:29
hygiene, which you can do with like cutting your cords or some people call
37:32
it dry bathing, so your energy is yours and you're not carrying the load
37:40
of other people. And that's why I added that to the membership recently.
37:45
We just started that this month, and that's really a key component of a
37:50
lot of success stories. Is that a lot of women learn how to do
37:54
reiki on themselves, on their wombs so they can manage their stress and anxiety
38:00
in real time. And then consequently they can also heal their own wombs,
38:05
so if they do get cramps, they can put their hands on their wombs
38:08
and they can give themselves healing energy. It's life changing because there's something's not
38:16
an interfere with anything you're already doing. It's aff an interview with a tail
38:22
or any other medication you can do it. I used to have tank attacks
38:27
when I went back to work right after postpartum, and I would go to
38:30
the restroom and I would give myself. I would go into a stall and
38:34
I would give Ricky to my chest and I would move the energy out of
38:37
my chest. And so it can be done or I would do it at
38:42
my desk. It can be done very discreetly, and and it allows you
38:46
to like you always have your hands, so you can always have key with
38:52
you. You can always have it with you. And I imagine it's probably
38:57
helpful for women who are perimenopausal and going from menopause right and dealing with those
39:01
issues too. Yeah, all right, well, I'm glad you brought up
39:05
the membership because I wanted to talk about it anyway. So tell us a
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little bit about what what is the membership and is it a Facebook group?
39:12
Like how do you do it? No? So the Make It Baby Membership
39:15
is on. You have a portal that has a vault of meditations for fertility,
39:20
pregnancy, birth and postpartum, and they have specific Reiky healing videos like
39:24
you would find on YouTube or TikTok and Reiky original meditations that you can listen
39:30
to, and they're on specific topics like the week ways after you know you
39:37
do a transfer the night before at IUI listen to this one, or if
39:43
you are usually pregnant, I call it the Spiritual Pregnant, the Spiritual Pregnancy
39:47
Reset. It's a whole series on how to be patched from your infertility trauma
39:52
and step in and accept your pregnancy because it's a huge problem. So we
39:59
have the vault. We also have a live healing call every single month,
40:02
and this past month we just launched a private podcast inside the membership. It's
40:08
exclusive to members only. So what happens is they submit questions and then I
40:14
answer them on frequent episodes. So that's been a lot of fun implements.
40:20
And we also have a community on telegram where they can connect to me and
40:23
to others inside the membership, so they can ask all the questions to the
40:29
podcast and in the telegram group, and they learn how to do reiki for
40:34
themselves. That's delivered on a live healing every single month in addition to the
40:39
live healing calls, so they'll get intunement every single month if they wish to
40:45
join, that's always available, and then they have a live healing topic and
40:49
the topic is different for every month. So we did a vision for motherhood
40:53
and then in January, and then we did a chakra rebalancing, and then
40:59
in March we did a quantum leap for our vision that we casted in January,
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like how can we be that version and embody it in quantum leap.
41:07
So every live master class has a different topic that builds upon each other.
41:13
HM. I love that. So people can find out about the membership on
41:15
your website, right, they can go there and then if they want to
41:20
join and okay, okay, great, I want to talk before we because
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this is something that's really interesting. You talk about connecting to the little spirit
41:31
that's on the other side that once that's picked you to be its mother right
41:38
and is going to come through and that you can connect right you like almost
41:44
like a you've developed some mediumship about connecting with these babies, the spirit babies.
41:50
So can you share a little bit about that? That's really fascinating.
41:52
I love that. Sure. It started when my dad died and my spiritual
41:59
awakening happened, and I wanted to speak with him because we spoke every single
42:02
day, and I wanted to speak to him specifically. So I started studying
42:07
mediumship and taking as many classes as I could in understanding like what does the
42:13
other side look like? And how do you open yourself up to that?
42:15
And understanding what does your intuition versus ego mean? So that skill started like
42:22
that. That ascension into discovering what that looks like started shortly after he died
42:30
in twenty fourteen. So this has been something I have been honing for ten
42:36
years. When I got attuned to reiki and I became a Reiki master,
42:40
my mediumship became very clear. Before I was get like random symbols, I
42:45
could see colors and I could see shapes of things. But then I started
42:51
hearing and I started feeling, and then as I practiced with private clients,
42:58
it was evidential, like what was happening. And then when I started working
43:01
with pregnant clients that conceive me, then when I would get messages when I
43:07
put my hands on their wombs, and this really developed, particularly when I
43:12
was practicing in person, and it's just gotten sharper over time. So I'm
43:15
like, wait a minute. They just I could feel that the baby has
43:20
moved to a particular side. And then there as I really focus on the
43:25
belly and I really focused during the raiking session, I would hear things and
43:30
then I would relate into them. And then over time it is like as
43:32
they I would describe them as they were in the womb, that's how they
43:37
were on Earth's side. So we just had gears of evidence over and over.
43:42
I was like, is this really happening? Is it really this today?
43:45
Right? And that's crazing. With dozens and dozens of clients at this
43:52
point, like local and virtual, I was like, Okay, this is
43:55
how it goes. And then since then, I've had a couple of years
44:00
ago, I had a client her her son, and we were doing a
44:06
reiki session. He was like, look at my chakras, and never before
44:08
it ever occurred to me or did any baby ever say you can like scan
44:15
my chakras. And it was that when I was like, wait a minute,
44:17
I can scan their chakras in utero, and why wouldn't they have chakras
44:22
inside? Right? Of course of course they so, but nobody has ever
44:25
talked about that. So then I have the gifts with my medium ship.
44:30
And then once that happened, I started to see blockages inside the womb,
44:34
like where is the stuck energy behind the ovaries? Is it behind the tubes
44:37
or the the twobes clear? Do they have both ovaries? So like when
44:42
I do a chakra scan and I'm seeing or what chakras are open? Closed?
44:45
But now I see inside the womb. And that started with like being
44:50
more open. But I always lead with reiki because you can't as a practitioner
44:54
or tap, you can't mess it up as long as you're pleer channel and
44:59
you're focused in your grounded and you led to reki flow. And the more
45:04
I focus on the reiki, the better and clearer the messages were. Mmm,
45:09
so is it like you get impressions? Like you get pictures in your
45:13
mind's side get pictures, and then I'll hear things, and it's always through
45:16
my right ear or my right side that it comes through. So for me,
45:22
sometimes I get symbols or I'll hear a word, Like today on my
45:27
podcast, I just released an episode I did with a client and the baby.
45:31
When we were doing that session, she was thirty eight weeks pregnant.
45:36
The baby had showed me a baseball and a baseball bat, and I was
45:39
like, okay, so the baby's showing me a baseball and a baseball bat,
45:43
what does this need for you? But they're like showing me like this
45:46
is really important, and she's like, well, it's like a symbol of
45:51
our relationship. And we just got gun decorating his room. So like sometimes
45:54
it's a really obvious thing for like validating for the mom, and sometimes they'll
45:59
be like okay. So then the baby showed me I was like, and
46:05
she had not she had not like communicated a lot about her dad. But
46:08
I was like, the baby showing me that your dad has not touched your
46:12
belly and that he really really wants to connect with your dad because and just
46:17
giving like I was like, well, the baby says, your dad's stained,
46:21
but it's almost like he's not awake. Is everything okay with your dad?
46:25
And then it just turns out like her dad just retired and just finding
46:29
himself in retirement all of the things. So it could be that, or
46:35
it could be, Hey, this is how I want to communicate, how
46:37
I'm going to be brought into the world. This is how I want my
46:39
breath to go. So you never know really what they're going to say.
46:43
And sometimes we don't get answers for the things that want and sometimes in a
46:47
secsion, babies don't show up like yeah only as a like as an integral
46:54
medium, you can only give delivered and sometimes right and we always my answer
47:00
is that if they don't show up or if they're not really answer question,
47:06
then we're not meant to have the answers at this time. So but what
47:08
will come through is definitely what you need to know this moment. That's so
47:14
interesting. So I have to ask this question. And maybe you have had
47:17
this experience. I don't know, maybe you haven't. The women who you
47:23
know go through the whole pregnancy and then the baby decides not to be born
47:30
at the last minute, you know, and the yeah, the babies is
47:35
still born or that the baby died in uter row. Since now that you're
47:38
connecting with the spirits of the babies, do you have you ever had that
47:44
experience and have you ever gotten any answers to why that would happen to somebody?
47:52
Okay, yeah, so fortunately enough, all of the babies that I
47:59
have that I have helped to be conceived, there has been no office.
48:05
That's good, but thankfully they're women do come to me. And those babies
48:12
that are passed, whether they're boarded or miscarried, or born sleeping or stillborn,
48:20
we called that kind of section called a spirit baby's messages, but they're
48:23
really the technical term in the industry is called an angel baby. Angel babies
48:28
are the we that are that were conceived and did not make it. Serve
48:32
babies are the ones they're supposed to come in and usually what we do is
48:37
we're able, we are able to connect with them. I there's a general
48:40
rule in mediumship when you are connecting with souls that have passed, need to
48:45
wait about ninety days for and that's just for the full the soul to fully
48:52
transition over. After that ninety days, you can ask what was your life's
48:58
purpose for coming here what is like Usually there could be when you can use
49:02
oracle cards or taro and a lot of people do this kind of medium ship,
49:08
but for me, I use oracle cards and I'll also just create space
49:14
in for them to make their presence known to mom so she can start to
49:17
know, like when they're around. She can then start to trust, like
49:22
what sensation is she feeling inside that session? Is a coldness behind her left
49:28
arm? Is it warmth in her belly? Is it does her chest warm
49:32
up? Or you know, does she see a flash of light like things
49:37
could be different, or do they show me symbol to tell her like if
49:42
she sees an owl or a goose that they're around, And then start to
49:47
associate, okay, this thing, do you see this icon or a goose
49:52
or an owl? And then what are you feeling in your body? Like
49:55
there has there's usually a physical connection with this, and then we ask like
50:02
what what do you want mom to know now? Or what do you want
50:06
mom to know for her next baby? Is there anything in the womb that
50:08
we need to heal further? Things like that, and that usually provides a
50:15
lot of I don't know if closure is the right word, but a lot
50:22
of validation and a lot of support for the mom because I don't think there's
50:25
ever closure on that kind of thing. But it does provide them a lot
50:31
of comfort. It's the word I'm looking for, Yeah, a lot of
50:36
peace, so that there that they can function. M interesting, So does
50:43
some souls just choose change their mind, like change their they just decide that
50:49
they're not going to come, and that's why it didn't just happen. You
50:52
know, Well, they're being called there's something called soul contracts. You can
50:59
never believe system if they decide before they come at it, they decide who's
51:07
going to be their mother father? How are they going to come? This
51:08
also goes for like it's an interesting conversation for people who do embryo donation or
51:16
or embryo adoption. There's like so contracts that happened in the fertility world that
51:22
are like that cross a lot. Think about that until you just said that,
51:28
But that's true, right, It's so true, Like if you there's
51:31
a lot of like choices that sold me and there's lessons he learned from all
51:38
of it but me. But it's like, so if we adopt an embryo,
51:44
there are the two parents that the two people that took to it took
51:49
to create the embryo, but then also the person or persons that are embryo.
51:58
Yeah, so fascinating. Oh my god. You work one on one
52:02
with client? You do? Do you take private clients? Anybody who's listening
52:07
who really needs you and what you do, How is the best way for
52:12
them to connect with you? I would say, send me a voice on
52:17
Instagram and let's chat with the conversation. I think that's the most important thing
52:22
for any rights in the fertility space. No matter who you work with.
52:25
Make sure that you can talk openly to whoever you are looking to heal with
52:30
or be coached by. Have a conversation. And it's not willing to talk
52:35
to with you find someone else. Yeah, and what's your Instagram for it?
52:38
For those listening? Uh, Carolina, so to my your Carolina,
52:44
so to my r Okay, awesome. Yeah. I believe in all that
52:47
stuff and the contracts and soul soul things. I have a belief And I
52:54
was always on the fence about having kids because I have a special needs to
53:00
her. While she passed away it'll be two years in June, but we
53:02
grew up together and I was always I don't think I really want kids,
53:08
but I just kind of thought I would want kids as I became an adult,
53:12
and it never really happened, you know, so I had to deal
53:15
with the feeling like, well, I was supposed to be aren't you.
53:19
You're a woman, you're supposed to be a mom. You know, I
53:21
don't have that anymore. But so I always felt like, Okay, it
53:27
was going to come. And then I realized when I became an adult that
53:30
I didn't want to have my own children. But I really believe that I
53:35
was supposed to be my niece's mother and my other sister. And when I
53:40
made the decision finally not to have children, that soul came through her.
53:46
And because we're I'm almost like her mom, Like I'm like second mom.
53:51
You know, we're so connected like that. It was like, okay,
53:53
you decided no, but we still have a contract for the family. So
53:58
I'm coming through my youngest sister no, you know also, and it's just
54:01
my belief. You know, this is where people are like they give away
54:07
their power to mediums to heal it and they have this feeling like what you're
54:13
describing, understand that that's your truth. Yeah, like, yeah, I
54:16
believe that's strongly about something than that one hundred percent is what is true for
54:21
you because you're always more powerful and more knowing in your own life than anyone
54:25
else. Because the Meeden's just going to get fragments. But you feel that
54:30
strongly about it than it is true. Understand that. And a lot of
54:34
people dismiss those kind of feelings in their bodies or in their hearts, and
54:38
understand you shouldn't. Those are really direct psychic downloads from your higher self from
54:45
God, that that's the soul download. You should definitely pay attention to those
54:49
kind of feelings. Yeah, I do now, especially now with the work
54:52
I do. We have like thirty seconds. Is there anything that you want
54:57
to say or share before we say goodbye? It was really interesting our conversation.
55:04
Just make sure that you know that you are powerful, don't give away
55:08
your power as easily as you are, and know that there's someone rooting for
55:12
you. If you want to have a baby, you deserve to have a
55:14
baby, let's connect. Yeah, Yeah, it's true, it's true,
55:20
right. I mean so many people would be just just just just have such
55:24
a need to be mothers because they know that they you know they would be
55:29
such good mom. So yeah, so reach out to her. Carolina Carol,
55:32
Carolina, Carol, I'm gonna say your website okay, so I'm gonna
55:37
spell it again. C A O L I N A S O t O
55:42
M A y O R dot com. Check her out. Thank you so
55:45
much for being here with me today. It was such a pleasure. And
55:51
I'm wishing everyone you guys, you know, thanks for listening to Postcards to
55:54
the Universe with Melissa creating the life you crave. And I'm wishing everyone a
55:59
wonderful week filled with joy, abundance, and love. Peace,