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Courtney just wants a lady friend! · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: Good morning, Courtney.
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  Speaker 2: What's up? You're on the air. Hi, John Jay. I
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  Speaker 2: don't know if you remember me. I called in a
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  Speaker 2: few months ago, but I'm living in Brussels right now,
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  Speaker 2: so it's like nighttime for me. But I have a
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  Speaker 2: question that I wanted to ask for the audience and
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  Speaker 2: just like a general question just because my husband got
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  Speaker 2: upset about something recently and I wanted an opinion, mostly
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  Speaker 2: from Kyle and Peyton.
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  Speaker 1: They're right here.
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  Speaker 2: Okay. Okay, perfect. So, I don't have many friends here.
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  Speaker 2: I'm obviously from the States. My friend connected me with
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  Speaker 2: this girl here. We hit it off right away last weekend.
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  Speaker 2: We hung out.
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  Speaker 3: She....
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  Speaker 2: That's about an hour train right away. So, we hung
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  Speaker 2: out for... like the whole night and it was kind
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  Speaker 2: of too late for her to go home. So I said, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: stay the night with me because she was super cool.
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  Speaker 2: And my husband's a pilot, so he's gone a lot.
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  Speaker 2: So he was not here and she stayed the night.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't, I don't have another place for her to sleep.
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  Speaker 2: Like other than like in the bed next to me,
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  Speaker 2: we had girl talk. We were gossiping, giggling. It felt
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  Speaker 2: like so natural. It was completely platonic kind of thing. Um,
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  Speaker 2: And my husband got super upset. And he said, she
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  Speaker 2: should have slept on the couch, blah, blah, blah. Like,
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  Speaker 2: that's not okay with me that her sleeping in the
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  Speaker 2: bed with you. And one thing he said, you're a
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  Speaker 2: 40 year old woman, and you should not be having
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  Speaker 2: sleepovers like this. And I got super offended. And I said, Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
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  Speaker 4: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Well, first of all, this girl is Way cool. It's
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  Speaker 2: hard to make girlfriends at my age. And we hit
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  Speaker 2: it off, and I don't think I should be in
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  Speaker 2: trouble for this. And then he went on to say that, like,
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  Speaker 2: he was just mad that he doesn't know this girl,
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  Speaker 2: and she slept in his bed. And then I said, okay, okay,
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  Speaker 2: I understand that part of it. But she's super cool.
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  Speaker 2: But to bring my age into it, I think any woman, like,
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  Speaker 2: you have a sleepover with your girl, like, it's fun. It's,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, I just want Kyle and Peyton's. opinion
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  Speaker 2: on this.
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  Speaker 3: I think I'll have sleepovers when I'm 85 I think
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  Speaker 3: there's really there's really something special about women friendships and
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  Speaker 3: I think like guys don't the guys don't really work
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  Speaker 3: the same way like I know my husband he like
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  Speaker 3: could have no friends forever and he doesn't care like
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  Speaker 3: it's not but I feel like women we need girlfriends
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  Speaker 3: like it actually helps give us life and So it's
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  Speaker 3: something maybe he doesn't understand, but I think you're totally
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  Speaker 3: in the right. And if it makes him feel better, like,
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  Speaker 3: do you want to meet her? Do you want to
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  Speaker 3: interview her? Like nothing weird was going on. If it
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  Speaker 3: makes him feel better, you like introduce them, I guess.
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  Speaker 3: But I say you can have sleepovers whenever you want.
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  Speaker 2: And as girls, like we have this girl bond and
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  Speaker 2: we gossip and we giggle. And my daughter, my daughter's 19.
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  Speaker 2: And she, even the next morning, she's like, I'm so
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  Speaker 2: happy for you, mom. You finally made a girlfriend.
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  Speaker 4: I know, right?
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  Speaker 2: We were gossiping. We were giggling in the morning. We
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  Speaker 2: woke up and we're just chatting and like talking about
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  Speaker 2: each other's like boyfriend. Like, well, my husband and her
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  Speaker 2: boyfriend and like just laughing and like giggling. And it
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  Speaker 2: was so fun. And my husband was just.
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  Speaker 1: Like, I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: He said, that's not appropriate. And I said, yes.
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  Speaker 4: It is.
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  Speaker 2: You just don't understand girl friendships. He also doesn't have
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  Speaker 2: a sister. He never grew up with girls. He only
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  Speaker 2: has a brother. He doesn't understand the girl thing.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, he doesn't understand girlhood.
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  Speaker 2: And I think it's totally okay.
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  Speaker 4: My mom, literally, I was on the phone with her
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  Speaker 4: last night. I was like, where are you at? Why
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  Speaker 4: are you not at home?
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  Speaker 2: Oh, I'm having a sleepover with Kathleen. We're at a
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  Speaker 2: nice little spa and we're just having a girl's night. Literally,
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  Speaker 2: my mom.
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  Speaker 1: He's older than you. I'm going to give you a
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  Speaker 1: different perspective, but I also want you to, there's something
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  Speaker 1: I think you can show your husband. If you watch
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  Speaker 1: the most recent season of Ted Lasso, there's a lot
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  Speaker 1: of that in Ted Lasso with Rebecca and Keely. They're like,
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  Speaker 1: they're both friends and there's a couple times where they
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  Speaker 1: have a sleepover and they're literally watching TV and she's
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  Speaker 1: resting on her stomach and one of her friends is
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  Speaker 1: watching TV. So that can explain the girlhood. But let
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  Speaker 1: me give you another perspective.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, I just started Ted Lasso. I'm only on season two. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: so don't run it first. No, no, no.
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  Speaker 1: Listen, listen, listen. Keep watching it because you're going to
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  Speaker 1: see their friendship blossom. You said something your husband said,
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  Speaker 1: which makes me look into his perspective, is that a
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  Speaker 1: stranger spent the night at his house. That's where he's like, hey, man,
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  Speaker 1: there's somebody that we don't know that spent the night
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  Speaker 1: in our house and stayed in my room, in my bed.
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  Speaker 1: I'm worried for my daughter. I'm worried for you. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: there's safety. So he could have that. I'm the protector
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  Speaker 1: of my house and you let a stranger. stay there,
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  Speaker 1: especially after watching Furious.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I would argue a trust factor, though, like, you
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  Speaker 4: think I'm going to spend time with somebody or allow
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  Speaker 4: someone to stay in my home?
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  Speaker 1: When I was a kid growing up, we weren't allowed
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  Speaker 1: to let our friends come in our parents' bedroom. So
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  Speaker 1: it's kind of like, I'm just asking you to look
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  Speaker 1: at it through his perspective.
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  Speaker 3: I like that perspective, and that makes me respect it more,
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  Speaker 3: but also, like, Stop being such a buzzkill.
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  Speaker 4: Like girly time.
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  Speaker 2: I know, but I think more so, he's more of
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  Speaker 2: a germaphobe. So I think it wasn't about the protecting.
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  Speaker 2: It's like, he's like, ooh, is she staying on my cushion?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know her.
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  Speaker 4: Does she use my toothbrush?
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to wash everything. I wash all the linens. Like, whatever.
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  Speaker 2: Don't worry. He's like, thank you. And I said, I apologize.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm sorry. You're right. Like, I wouldn't want someone,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, sleeping on my pillow.
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  Speaker 4: I bet you he wouldn't have a problem if the
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  Speaker 4: sleepover was at her place. Like, hey, I'm going to
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  Speaker 4: be over at the new friend's house over the weekend.
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  Speaker 4: He'd probably be like, okay, cool. I'll see you when
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  Speaker 4: you get home. But because there's a stranger on his pillow.
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  Speaker 2: Nope, I think he would. You do?
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  Speaker 1: That's what I'm telling you.
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  Speaker 2: Keep watching. There's a little bit of... There's a little
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  Speaker 2: bit of attract. He thinks there's a little bit of something.
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  Speaker 2: He's a little jealous too, along with that. And I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: we can have friendships and we're close. It's a girl thing. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: So I agree with everything you're saying, but I just
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  Speaker 1: want you to think about this for a second. Again,
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  Speaker 1: my point of view about from the protective husband, the
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  Speaker 1: point of view and dad, there's that, but then also
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  Speaker 1: continue watching Ted Lasso because the friendship is, even for
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  Speaker 1: me I grew up with a sister my mom and
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  Speaker 1: my mom I'm a Mexican Mexican people spend the night
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  Speaker 1: at my house all the time everybody's in beds everything
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  Speaker 1: but when you see the friendship of Keely and Rebecca
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  Speaker 1: it's exactly what you described and it's I remember I
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  Speaker 1: was watching it a couple nights ago I was like
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  Speaker 1: man that is really how girls do it if guys
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  Speaker 1: did it that'd be so weird not that guys shouldn't
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  Speaker 1: do it but it'd be weird if I've known Rich
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  Speaker 1: for 25 years I don't think I'll sleep in the
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  Speaker 1: same bed with him rest my head on his chest
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  Speaker 1: and watch TV we.
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  Speaker 4: Could try it we've shared rooms before that was a
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  Speaker 4: disaster John Jay would booby trap the room because he
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  Speaker 4: was afraid somebody was going to come in and murder him.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly.
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  Speaker 4: And I don't want to go to bed at 8.30 p.m.
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  Speaker 1: Courtney, I'm glad you called. We're going to get tons
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  Speaker 1: of calls on this.
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  Speaker 4: All right?
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  Speaker 2: Oh, my gosh. And, too, his friend is visiting from
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  Speaker 2: Doha right now, but he's not arriving until midnight tonight.
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  Speaker 2: And I joked. I said, we should switch places, and
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  Speaker 2: you should go lay in the bed and cover yourself
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  Speaker 2: up and pretend to be me. So when he arrives,
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  Speaker 2: you're like, hello.
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  Speaker 1: Well, that's something totally different.
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  Speaker 4: He's pretending to be you.
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  Speaker 1: That might not go the.
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  Speaker 4: Way you think it's going to go.
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  Speaker 2: Courtney, I know you're in another country.
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  Speaker 1: I want you to listen to everyone's response on the
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  Speaker 1: podcast or later, okay? I can't wait. Thanks, Courtney.
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  Speaker 2: I can't wait.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you so much.
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  Speaker 4: Bye, guys. Bye.
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