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Episode 4-"The Culture Deserves It" Feat. Kenny Burns w/ Ferrari Simmons & Su Solo Prod: iHandlebars · The Baller Alert Show

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Speaker 1: Hold up, Hold on, ladies and gentlemen. This is baller
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Speaker 1: Alert Radio, the home of Comae, creeping baller Mail, Mail,
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Speaker 1: Ruby Jails, this morning, wood and baller Wars. This is
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Speaker 1: baller Alert Radio featuring your lifestyle specialist Kenny Burns with
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Speaker 1: Sue Solo and Ferrari seven in the tree. It's real,
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Speaker 1: It was all a dream. It's about to go down.
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Speaker 1: Whose flat wa wa? Wake up your pivot, turn it down.
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Speaker 1: You know, if you've got to shoot, you better shoot straight.
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Speaker 1: Because of who did? I haven't to listen. The worst
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Speaker 1: thing you can deal with fact. This is buller Alert
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Speaker 1: Radio featuring your lifestyle specialist Hitty Burns, s Solo and
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Speaker 1: Ferrari Simmons. The Tree is Radio Ye baller Nation. It's
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Speaker 1: your lifestyle specialist Kenny Burns, your favorite Ethiopian Su Solo
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Speaker 1: and r Simmons. Where are you bro? Where is he?
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Speaker 1: Where are you? Bro? I heard you had like a
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Speaker 1: baller Alert addition party or something Alert Radio party party
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Speaker 1: and he didn't write where it was in the Orlando.
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Speaker 1: But we ain't gonna shout out the promoters because they
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Speaker 1: ain't paying us to. We went down. We get a
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Speaker 1: check by his damn so we salute the young King Simmons.
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Speaker 1: He had to go get that large bag down in
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Speaker 1: the Orlando. How was your weekend, my love? The weekend
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Speaker 1: was really good. Long obviously, Labor Day weekend to day weekend.
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Speaker 1: We survived. Yeah, Get Brunch was crazy Saturday. It's been
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Speaker 1: a long weekend, you see. I gotta come through there.
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Speaker 1: I was watching you on social media, young Sue Solo,
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Speaker 1: and I noticed that you did mislow jam sat and
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Speaker 1: I'm like, I might say, baby, y'all did that? You'd
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Speaker 1: can we talk your little Puerto Rico for you Puerto
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Speaker 1: rican Like, okay, great, But she was singing, you know,
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Speaker 1: at the top of her lungs along with your crew.
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Speaker 1: She looked like it was problem. I would love for
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Speaker 1: you to come and get bunched. Like. We definitely do
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Speaker 1: a blend of things. We play a lot of things. Okay,
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Speaker 1: we're gonna do a special Baller Alert radio edition of
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Speaker 1: Get Brunch coming soon, and stay too. Now it's time
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Speaker 1: for in case you missed it, Just in case, Just
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Speaker 1: in case you miss it. First and foremost, I get
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Speaker 1: slightly emotional thinking about no more power for a little while.
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Speaker 1: So let's have a moment in silence for power. Please
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Speaker 1: rest in power, please this moment of science. Please. I'm
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Speaker 1: the Parson care She doesn't want to hear this because
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Speaker 1: she hasn't seen it yet, but Power has come to
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Speaker 1: an annoying rap. I am emotionally unbalanced. I think that
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Speaker 1: there needs to be more episodes one and two to
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Speaker 1: kill Ray Ray Baby, to read the Ray for killing
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Speaker 1: his sister. He's in the game. Where to start with
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Speaker 1: this situation? I feel so bad, Like Terrek just got
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Speaker 1: drug into the ghost culture. Yeah, like that kid wasn't
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Speaker 1: about that life. It just but he shot his system
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Speaker 1: in front of him. You have to know reparations. Yeah, yeah,
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Speaker 1: I just I just didn't expect for Terrek to be
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Speaker 1: the one to try to handle that. I didn't even
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Speaker 1: like I mean for me, I mean having a young son.
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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't want to create this to real
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Speaker 1: life because we all know it's not real life. This
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Speaker 1: is not real life. Power is not real life. I
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Speaker 1: don't want nobody going out there trying to kill the lawyer.
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Speaker 1: I've been seeing stuff on the end of that. They're
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Speaker 1: trying to kill the Lloyd. The Lloyd real life. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: I mean not literally, but they're gonna wo his ask.
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Speaker 1: But anyway, I just can't I can't fathom. You know
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Speaker 1: what I'm saying, you know, well, to do life. He's
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Speaker 1: trying to do, trying to think, and your son gets
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Speaker 1: caught up in the game. I mean that's what happens, right, Yeah,
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Speaker 1: you set the trail and they follow crazy. And then
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Speaker 1: speaking of Tasha, the next thing to do? What to
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Speaker 1: do with the lawyer? The lawyer? Dude? What is that
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Speaker 1: with the lawyer? I don't like the way he looks.
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Speaker 1: He looked like his face thinking not in real life.
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Speaker 1: I'm just saying like stink, like messing, nasty, shitty breath.
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Speaker 1: You just causing problems to everybody involved. Your mother. I
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Speaker 1: think Tasha is looking at the situation like, oh my god,
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Speaker 1: this is a good, clean guy. He's clean. You know,
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Speaker 1: you'all got to stop saying balance rightfully sobbly she's at them,
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Speaker 1: That's what I'm trying to say. So she needs a square, Oh,
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Speaker 1: let me tell you. Sometimes and you need someone that
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Speaker 1: is regular offset. You're saying, so I think she's not
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Speaker 1: the but that's not for me. Don't come fight for me, girl,
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Speaker 1: But so you you think so you think like I
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Speaker 1: just it was annoying how quickly they got into a relationship.
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Speaker 1: It was really uncomfortable for me because I'm like, holding,
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Speaker 1: First of all, you're pregnant in real life and your
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Speaker 1: actress I get it. How do I equate real life
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Speaker 1: and fake life? Okay, well, anyway, you just got out
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Speaker 1: the situation you know what I'm saying, that you were
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Speaker 1: in prior to that, and you're jumping right in with
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Speaker 1: the lawyer that's defending your husband on trial for a
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Speaker 1: capital murder that can send him away for the rest
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Speaker 1: of his life. And then we all saw what happened
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Speaker 1: in the episode. Telling what happens in the episode, if
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Speaker 1: in case you missed it, Lord have mercy, where do
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Speaker 1: we start? I hand the bars is holding her. She
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Speaker 1: didn't say, okay, well listen, didn't give him a check.
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Speaker 1: A lot of stuff happened, Okay, So what happened at
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Speaker 1: that point was Tasha and the Jude met for met
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Speaker 1: for dinner or drinks or whatever, and she tried to
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Speaker 1: give him a hypothetical situation, what if I had a
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Speaker 1: friend that exactly you know? And he was like, well
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Speaker 1: if it was ghost, he like, you know, he's gonna
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Speaker 1: get sucked up, and she says it was me, I
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Speaker 1: need a lawyer, and he says to her, he gives
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Speaker 1: an ultimatum, I can either be your lover or I
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Speaker 1: can be a lawyer. And y'all know Tosha's a cold
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Speaker 1: like what she did. She offened up that pocketbook, took
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Speaker 1: out a check and was like, will you represent me?
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Speaker 1: That's right, that's right because she knows he still has
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Speaker 1: those feelings for her, so no matter what happens, she
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Speaker 1: thinks that he's going to do his best to crucial
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Speaker 1: make sure she's always such such a part of our being.
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Speaker 1: At this point, it's too short. We need more episodes.
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Speaker 1: Whoever is responsible, But you know what I knew. I
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Speaker 1: knew Dre was gonna get he gonna get his head
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Speaker 1: knocked off. But more importantly, I knew Kane and Ghosts
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Speaker 1: in time he was finding click back up. When he
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Speaker 1: didn't kill ghost Yeah, when he didn't kill because he
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Speaker 1: had him both. He can't kill them both, you know
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Speaker 1: I'm talking about he was in Cahousi with the with
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Speaker 1: the girl, with the lady whatever. But when he didn't
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Speaker 1: kill him, I knew the day was going And when
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Speaker 1: that thing ended and you saw them three in the car.
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Speaker 1: You know it's going to be held to pay next
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Speaker 1: made me happy. I wonder if that made anyone else
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Speaker 1: happy made me happy? I was happy because I think
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Speaker 1: that like if you think about what has transpired, you
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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying the season three, I mean, we
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Speaker 1: went from season two into like, you know, literally can't
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Speaker 1: even wanting to kill ghosts, and there was no coming
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Speaker 1: back from it. Tommy was still kind of out of
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Speaker 1: wits as far as like what actually has happened? And
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Speaker 1: now it's kind of like, you know what, we're brothers, man,
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Speaker 1: you know what I'm talking about. But I don't know
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Speaker 1: if they get drunk. But I mean now, but I'm saying,
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Speaker 1: I don't know if I could really be cool with
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Speaker 1: somebody put me in jail for ten years. But at
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Speaker 1: the same time, it was circumstantial and we don't know
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Speaker 1: their life and what they did because we only started
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Speaker 1: the season. Clearly they had four season because this is
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Speaker 1: real life. Power is real life. God damn it. So
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Speaker 1: I hand the bars. You're gonna unlock your ears now
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Speaker 1: you heard everything. Anyway, you're gonna be producing this dress.
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Speaker 1: So I have a new show alert, New show alert.
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Speaker 1: with Jason Bateman. I promise you, my friend Justin Anthony
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Speaker 1: put me onto ozark um at the top of the weekend,
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Speaker 1: almost like Thursday or Friday night. And when I tell you,
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Speaker 1: on Saturday, I binged all day, watched eight episodes. The
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Speaker 1: big shout to Netflix. The most jeous thing about Netflix
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Speaker 1: we clearly survived to day weekend, clearly survived at the
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Speaker 1: world famous compound on Saturday night. It was so many people.
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Speaker 1: But the biggest moment of it all drumroll please, then
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Speaker 1: Diesel came in the club. That might not mean nothing
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Speaker 1: to you you think about you know I'm talking about
9:21
Speaker 1: but if you think about it, not his combat boots
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Speaker 1: that he wears in the movies and actually wears in
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Speaker 1: real life because he had him on last but in
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Speaker 1: a billionaire for one franchise, and he took the time
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Speaker 1: to fly to Atlanta, Georgia to come to Ludacris's birthday party,
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Speaker 1: which is birthday is actually see but it was his birthday.
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Speaker 1: Slut to Day weekend a big charity of it. And
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Speaker 1: when I tell you, the club really reacted in the
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Speaker 1: way that I went, I did not expect. It's not
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Speaker 1: like you book Vin Diesel would come, because not even
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Speaker 1: he would take a booking at a club because he's
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Speaker 1: literally one of the biggest off the stars in the world.
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Speaker 1: But then Tyrade came up, and then you had you know,
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Speaker 1: you had Terence Jay, you had La La, you had
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Speaker 1: Joseph Taylor, Jadakiss, Jadakiss. Big shout to Cardi peak O
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Speaker 1: can't I can't get enough Cardiv right, I just love her.
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Speaker 1: I love her and I can't get enough of the
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Speaker 1: black love in the club to We'll talk about that show,
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Speaker 1: I'm sure you guys. But Kevin Hard had his heartbeat
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Speaker 1: weekend in Vegas. A big shout to Kevin Hard. Definitely
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Speaker 1: a ball alert supporter. Is that always lad Weekend? And
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Speaker 1: you know it's just I think it's his third year.
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Speaker 1: Young sus sol. I mean we've been seeing social obviously
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Speaker 1: We also sent Gilbert Arenas and some of the some
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Speaker 1: chat the rapper babe, like Chance to Rapper, I love
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Speaker 1: old enough to be that socially, Yeah, he is amazing.
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Speaker 1: He's so advanced and mature, and I mean to call
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Speaker 1: him a humanitarian is is probably minimizing. Actually, you know
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Speaker 1: what he's capable of. This guy is amazing. He's using
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Speaker 1: You know, it was a real player Chicago, you know
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Speaker 1: I'm talking about. But if we can do anything with
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Speaker 1: the ball Alert Foundation, please reach out. We would love
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Speaker 1: to support UM and yes, baby comment creeping. It's your
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Speaker 1: turns so low creepy thing right there. Okay, so this
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Speaker 1: is going to be a little different. This was common
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Speaker 1: creeping and gonna a little different. So we were going
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Speaker 1: back to compound party that compound and it was so fun.
13:15
Speaker 1: Kenny Burns does his thing every time. If you haven't
13:18
Speaker 1: been to a Kap party, get your ass off and
13:21
Speaker 1: go to a Kaby party. So, I mean, there were
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Speaker 1: just so many people in there, like we said earlier,
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Speaker 1: and for me, you know, coming out of a relationship,
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Speaker 1: you single, you're back on the market. But I just
13:33
Speaker 1: wanna put that in perspective. We're gonna follow the ready
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Speaker 1: got for being following. Okay, anyways we talk about I
13:44
Speaker 1: was just so wrapped up in their love. Did you
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Speaker 1: see them, Tiana Taylor, Anyma Shompert were's extra affectionate and
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Speaker 1: not extra and bad. I'm just talking about they every
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Speaker 1: chance they got, they snuggled up. Yeah, that was dope.
13:59
Speaker 1: Black certain songs came on and they were dancing together
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Speaker 1: and kissing each other, and I just I love I
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Speaker 1: love it. I was saying, I was sad, I was happy.
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Speaker 1: I was sad for myself, right, Yeah, I was happy.
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Speaker 1: For them. You know, I just want to say one thing.
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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, this is an unforgiving business. We
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Speaker 1: always talk about this and this is actually setting myself
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Speaker 1: a baller mail next. Um, but it's an unforgiving business
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Speaker 1: for relationships. At times. You know, people you know think
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Speaker 1: that they can't have because the industry won't allow. I
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Speaker 1: have to know this many girls and guys to you know, um,
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Speaker 1: you know, actually have a business or be in this
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Speaker 1: business the way I want to, and it's not true.
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Speaker 1: You can have a better have for a significant other. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: it hasn't been easy, I think, especially as a woman. Um,
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Speaker 1: the guy has to be really secure in himself and
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Speaker 1: in the relationship. I mean, like you can't expect me
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Speaker 1: to be home at one o'clock. I might not leave
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Speaker 1: the house until one o'clock, you know, on most nights.
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Speaker 1: So it's it's not a it's not a easy thing.
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Speaker 1: But you know, I'll you got a candle, baby, because
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Speaker 1: you want to dive deeper. You know, we can have
15:07
Speaker 1: a little bit of time for me showing my holtation
15:10
Speaker 1: right now and it's just going, wait did you get
15:16
Speaker 1: there from Easter? I thought you just made it up.
15:19
Speaker 1: We shouldn't have a whole another category on Ballertations very real.
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Speaker 1: What I'm saying, I'm not Sometimes you just got to
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Speaker 1: be grown, You just got to be But you want
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Speaker 1: to be married or not? Yeah? Of course I want
15:33
Speaker 1: to be married kids for real? Yeah? What are you
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Speaker 1: willing to do? I'm just curious. We're gonna say, let's
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Speaker 1: set a baller mail? Can we set a baller mail? Please?
15:42
Speaker 1: It's a perfect segue. So you really so you do
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Speaker 1: you want to? Yeah? Okay, Now I have a question
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Speaker 1: for We had a segment and I want you to
15:54
Speaker 1: read the entire segment to bring um, you know, bring
15:58
Speaker 1: it to the to the front of the conversation. Can
16:01
Speaker 1: you Can you just read in and I'm gonna ask
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Speaker 1: you a question I want you to This is something
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Speaker 1: we've posted on ball Alert. Rory the Love Doctor supposed
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Speaker 1: to be here. He supposed we miss you, but Sue
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Speaker 1: Solo got you. This was such a good one, Okay,
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Speaker 1: ball horrific relationships. Do you require your significant other to
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Speaker 1: be on the same financial level as you? And this
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Speaker 1: was blogged by peach Kiss Crucial because we notice gets
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Speaker 1: interesting relationship. Everyone seems to have their mind made up
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Speaker 1: on what type of person they want to spend the
16:36
Speaker 1: rest of their lives with. Knowing the type of person
16:39
Speaker 1: you want gives you the opportunity to set standards. What
16:43
Speaker 1: you don't want to do is lower your standards for anyone.
16:47
Speaker 1: They can either get with the program or get left behind.
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Speaker 1: One standard that should be on everyone's list is financial stability.
16:55
Speaker 1: Many go into relationships and do not have a clear
16:58
Speaker 1: understanding of their partner's goals. You have to ask questions.
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Speaker 1: If you don't ask about their plans, how do you
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Speaker 1: know that you are going to be a part of it?
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Speaker 1: How do you know if that's the path you want
17:09
Speaker 1: to partake in? Don't continue to Don't continue in a
17:13
Speaker 1: relationship and get blindsided by something you failed to do.
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Speaker 1: When relationships are on the ship, when the relationships are
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Speaker 1: on the serious level, you have to know what kind
17:28
Speaker 1: of money your partner is making. Not in a sense
17:31
Speaker 1: of I have to know what he is making so
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Speaker 1: he can splurs on me, but know their finances so
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Speaker 1: that you can build together. If they are not goal
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Speaker 1: oriented like you, it is time to hang it up.
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Speaker 1: Sith now, I am not saying that one sex has
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Speaker 1: to make more than the other, but you both have
17:48
Speaker 1: to bring something to the table. If you're a significant
17:51
Speaker 1: other is in school to better themselves and you are
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Speaker 1: the only one working, there is nothing wrong with that.
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Speaker 1: To an extent. You have to be careful with those
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Speaker 1: with those people who are major who major in permanent
18:04
Speaker 1: student life, they have no clue what they want to do,
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Speaker 1: keep changing their majors and have been in the same
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Speaker 1: position since they were eighteen years old. You know what, Um,
18:13
Speaker 1: that was great, great jobs to solo and resurrecting that
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Speaker 1: the Beach kids did. But you know it's crazy, and
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Speaker 1: you guys know this. Um, we just left lunch. I
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Speaker 1: never let women pay. That's just not you know, it's
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Speaker 1: just not who I am. That's how I was raised. Um.
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Speaker 1: I just I believe because I grew up in a
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Speaker 1: single parent household. UM So I believe that you're supposed
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Speaker 1: to take care of your woman. I think that men
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Speaker 1: are the providers. We clearly are, you know, in a
18:46
Speaker 1: in a generation now where women are super independent make
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Speaker 1: as much money as men in some cases. And that's
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Speaker 1: all good that I come from the thinking of I'm
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Speaker 1: gonna take care of my woman, not that she can't work,
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Speaker 1: not that she can't do what she wants to do.
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Speaker 1: But you know, so in my mind, having been in
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Speaker 1: a relationship as long as I've been in a relationship,
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Speaker 1: it's a fact that there's things that women bring to
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Speaker 1: the table as well as men that are equal to money.
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Speaker 1: It is a fact. There's no way that in my
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Speaker 1: personal relationship, I could do what my wife does and
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Speaker 1: do what I do and be a functioning human being
19:29
Speaker 1: like it would probably drive me, you know what I'm saying.
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Speaker 1: If you don't think about all the intangibles, right, you
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Speaker 1: think about, Okay, well they need to be having this
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Speaker 1: money because if if I'm gonna be doing this and
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Speaker 1: I need to afford this type of lifestyle, and if
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Speaker 1: I can't afford it and only but no, it's it's
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Speaker 1: almost like you have to enter the relationship knowing what
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Speaker 1: the other brings to the table, not just monetarily, but
19:50
Speaker 1: brings to the table because you have to complete me
19:52
Speaker 1: as my partner, right would you agree? And I think
19:55
Speaker 1: that if if you can come into it like that money,
19:58
Speaker 1: if you get into a relationship with money or because
20:01
Speaker 1: of money, then that's not a way to kind of
20:04
Speaker 1: you know, go in. Yeah, And obviously I would love
20:06
Speaker 1: to tell people build your empire, what your mate, you know,
20:10
Speaker 1: build your you know, build your thing together. But obviously
20:13
Speaker 1: that's not always Poppies might meet a rich person and
20:16
Speaker 1: you connect in this the next level. But I don't
20:19
Speaker 1: think you should really judge someone you know on the
20:23
Speaker 1: monetary value they bring to the relationship rather than how
20:27
Speaker 1: can we build something together and what does that look like?
20:30
Speaker 1: I think it just depends. Obviously everyone's situation is different.
20:34
Speaker 1: Um something I was I was having a conversation with
20:37
Speaker 1: my girlfriend Reese, and HI, reed, over there in the court,
20:42
Speaker 1: your little as foot, thanks for visiting me, fran so
20:47
Speaker 1: you know, she said something and I was like, you know,
20:50
Speaker 1: I used to think like that. I used to think
20:52
Speaker 1: that I would be okay dating a man who wasn't
20:57
Speaker 1: financially stable, wasn't who was not financially stable. I used
21:02
Speaker 1: to be like, oh no, it's good. Like I do
21:04
Speaker 1: my own thing, you know, I'm fine. I don't really
21:06
Speaker 1: need a guy to do stuff for me, but you know,
21:09
Speaker 1: fulfill other areas. And I just realized that I don't
21:18
Speaker 1: think that right now in my life. It makes sense
21:22
Speaker 1: that some of the guys I meet have so much
21:25
Speaker 1: potential but are not working as aggressively as they should
21:30
Speaker 1: to be financially stable, so that that's what bothers me, Like,
21:33
Speaker 1: I don't mind if you are working towards it, that's cool.
21:36
Speaker 1: We can work all that together. But I think a
21:38
Speaker 1: lot of guys that I'm running into these days are comfortable,
21:42
Speaker 1: and that's very scary. Is it because of the men
21:44
Speaker 1: you're surrounded by? I think, um, partially yes, And sometimes
21:54
Speaker 1: they just are attracted to me. I don't know why
21:56
Speaker 1: they come up to me all the time. The ones
21:59
Speaker 1: that don't, I don't know what the hell they're doing. Well,
22:02
Speaker 1: I can take because you can get him in the club.
22:05
Speaker 1: It's because you know Kenny Burns and all your you know,
22:07
Speaker 1: big brothers that are running things. And yes, you know
22:14
Speaker 1: what it is too. I think that, Like, you know,
22:17
Speaker 1: we were just actually talking about this and I had
22:19
Speaker 1: had one of my seminars with Rob Hill. Seen your
22:22
Speaker 1: big shout to Rob Hill, seen you, And the girl
22:24
Speaker 1: asked me, you know, she literally was asking me, like,
22:26
Speaker 1: you know, why do I attract these type of guys?
22:29
Speaker 1: And I think it's because you allow it to happen.
22:33
Speaker 1: And I think it's because it's so nice. It might
22:35
Speaker 1: think it might it's you know, first of all, big
22:37
Speaker 1: shout to all women, you guys have a motherly quality,
22:40
Speaker 1: a take care of man quality. That is just but
22:44
Speaker 1: it was just it's innate in you guys and we
22:46
Speaker 1: and we don't salute that enough, so that that is why, right.
22:49
Speaker 1: But then I think, you know, and it's all specific
22:53
Speaker 1: to the person, specific to you know, the woman, but
22:57
Speaker 1: you know, maybe you think sometimes you gotta put up
23:00
Speaker 1: with a little less than you want or might deserve
23:03
Speaker 1: to get to the point of having it all or
23:06
Speaker 1: having you know, the thing is, you should know if
23:09
Speaker 1: the mother got tattoos on his face and smoke weed
23:11
Speaker 1: every day. And I'm not saying that all with tattoos
23:14
Speaker 1: on the face again when we talked about this in
23:16
Speaker 1: the first episode, but I just think that you it's
23:19
Speaker 1: certain things you should be able to see, you know
23:22
Speaker 1: what I mean that can be telltale signs on what's
23:24
Speaker 1: to come. But we're also not having those conversations anymore.
23:27
Speaker 1: Like people are kind of jumping into relationships pretty quickly
23:29
Speaker 1: without having those real right off to the n d M,
23:32
Speaker 1: without having real conversations. You know, they're jumping into it
23:36
Speaker 1: based off of facade or or they felt how they felt,
23:40
Speaker 1: but feeling one way and knowing it is completely different.
23:43
Speaker 1: You actually told me what you want. You know what
23:46
Speaker 1: that I I could blame it on the drugs on
23:50
Speaker 1: one side, yeah, you know what I'm saying, because you know,
23:53
Speaker 1: you have these addictive relationships that exist now, right, I
23:56
Speaker 1: know a lot of celebrities that are in relationships and
23:58
Speaker 1: they they they're drugs, but is with their you know
24:01
Speaker 1: what I mean, even their friends. But then on the
24:03
Speaker 1: other side, if you have common sense, right, if your
24:07
Speaker 1: common sense, like there's a a three week to three
24:11
Speaker 1: month window that I think you should give a person.
24:15
Speaker 1: In those three weeks, you you know, you're setting the
24:17
Speaker 1: groundwork of how you want to be treated, right, You're
24:20
Speaker 1: going on dates. Okay. I like my door open, Okay,
24:23
Speaker 1: I like you know what I'm saying. I like the
24:24
Speaker 1: bed made up. I like, okay, this is mother, put
24:27
Speaker 1: the toilet seat down. Like, it's just certain things that
24:29
Speaker 1: you're in. It's two preferences to specifics, you know, to
24:33
Speaker 1: the person. But I think there's things you've seen in
24:34
Speaker 1: the first three weeks, the first month, second month, Okay, boom,
24:38
Speaker 1: I kind of like this. You know what I'm saying.
24:40
Speaker 1: You're probably sucking a boy. Then you know what I'm saying,
24:41
Speaker 1: just to keep it one hunted because if you're like
24:43
Speaker 1: the person, you know what I'm saying that you don't
24:45
Speaker 1: have enough mental you know, saying gymnastics in your own
24:48
Speaker 1: brains to know if you want to go to so
24:49
Speaker 1: you go there. Okay, cool, that's cool. I like that. Okay,
24:51
Speaker 1: we can get that sexually. I'm in there three months.
24:54
Speaker 1: You have to be knowing if you could be with somebody.
24:57
Speaker 1: And it's not saying that you lived with them, it's not,
24:59
Speaker 1: but I didn't you know their family history? Are you
25:02
Speaker 1: cool with your mom? Do you love if you don't?
25:03
Speaker 1: If someone doesn't love their mama, it has to be
25:06
Speaker 1: some unforeseen circumstances. That's so drastic. And you know I'm
25:09
Speaker 1: talking about and then like how do they deal with
25:11
Speaker 1: their siblings if they have brothers and sisters. So I
25:13
Speaker 1: just want to put in perspective. And you know, I'm
25:15
Speaker 1: glad we started talking about that because it opened the
25:17
Speaker 1: door for more and and every time we have these conversations,
25:20
Speaker 1: ball the nation loves it. But I just think that people, man,
25:23
Speaker 1: you gotta, you know, gotta notice the signs. You know,
25:28
Speaker 1: we gotta pay attention to the sign where we're selfish
25:30
Speaker 1: being you know, we just want to be with whatever
25:32
Speaker 1: situation makes us feel happy at that moment. A lot
25:36
Speaker 1: of us don't think about longevity, which is the unfortunate part.
25:38
Speaker 1: I mean, we should be asking these questions in the
25:40
Speaker 1: first like you said, three weeks, and it's even asking questions,
25:43
Speaker 1: it's paying attention, paying attention, you know, but also having
25:47
Speaker 1: in depth converts, like detailed conversations. Don't just talk about
25:51
Speaker 1: the club, don't talk about how good the food was, Like,
25:55
Speaker 1: have real conversations about family and finance. What does the
25:59
Speaker 1: normal conversation shouldn't when you meet somebody that I mean,
26:01
Speaker 1: I want to know in the dating process and the
26:04
Speaker 1: talking to someone and getting to know them, like so
26:08
Speaker 1: you don't talk about life and career. I have hated
26:11
Speaker 1: dating in the past, which is why I didn't have
26:14
Speaker 1: a boyfriend for a decade. But coming out of that, yeah,
26:17
Speaker 1: it was real, it was so bad. Like you've got
26:25
Speaker 1: to I love y'all you have, I mean, yeah, you okay.
26:32
Speaker 1: So the simple conversation that I've witnessed is how are
26:37
Speaker 1: you from? Okay? How are you? I wish you like
26:40
Speaker 1: to do I'll have to do that too, alright, Bet,
26:42
Speaker 1: Like and that's it. It's like, legit, it's okay. Bet,
26:48
Speaker 1: I don't what's okay? Bet? It's not cute, man, it's
26:51
Speaker 1: not attractive. It's it's a horrible time. Excuse me as
26:55
Speaker 1: a woman in this industry dating Like it's horrible. Like,
27:00
Speaker 1: I don't know what these guys are doing. I don't
27:01
Speaker 1: know what their goal is. I don't know if they
27:04
Speaker 1: understand how life works. I just I don't know the
27:07
Speaker 1: type of Like they're empty conversations empty. Does does it
27:13
Speaker 1: matter to you if the man has money? Truthfully, um,
27:18
Speaker 1: he doesn't have to be rich, but you also can't
27:24
Speaker 1: be comfortable. So what if he has a plan. I'm
27:27
Speaker 1: cool with the plan, but I have to see action
27:29
Speaker 1: with that too, Like you can't just yeah, you can't
27:32
Speaker 1: just be you know, on the couch for two years
27:35
Speaker 1: working on your business. But I'm working about to kill
27:37
Speaker 1: Pizza se to kill Pizza spot like that, right, Like
27:42
Speaker 1: that can't happen, you know, and there needs to be
27:43
Speaker 1: real action. Like if there's not something that I can
27:46
Speaker 1: physically help you do to achieve that, then I feel
27:48
Speaker 1: like you're not working on it. I should be able
27:51
Speaker 1: to help you do something, set up event bright or
27:54
Speaker 1: you know, take towards the venues for you, like there
27:57
Speaker 1: there should be something that I can assist you with.
27:59
Speaker 1: And if you don't have anything for me, then you
28:01
Speaker 1: don't have anything going on for yourself. Yeah. And I again,
28:04
Speaker 1: I just think that if you are dating someone for money,
28:08
Speaker 1: you know it's gonna come out right, you know what
28:10
Speaker 1: I'm saying. If you're if your thing is to find
28:12
Speaker 1: someone that you know, to find someone that you want
28:16
Speaker 1: to take care of you too, you know, and there's
28:18
Speaker 1: something that are willing to do it, you know what
28:20
Speaker 1: I'm saying. But I think that it only lasts so
28:23
Speaker 1: long if you don't want to help set up a vent, right,
28:25
Speaker 1: if you don't want to go find a venus. That's
28:26
Speaker 1: why I really with your real life, because all that
28:28
Speaker 1: was like trying to do events. Well I do events.
28:33
Speaker 1: You know what the event bright is? Oh? You know, okay,
28:35
Speaker 1: well a g owns. Yeah, I'm there, like, I'll support you.
28:39
Speaker 1: But I think the lack of ambition. It's not so
28:43
Speaker 1: much the money, to be honest with you, it's if
28:45
Speaker 1: you're not ambitious enough to go towards a higher level
28:49
Speaker 1: of where you are then you know, okay, all right,
28:52
Speaker 1: so I want to involve you. Um, and my Confucius says, um,
29:00
Speaker 1: but but you know what suit like I was, Um,
29:03
Speaker 1: I was telling you and lights getting over there at lunch,
29:06
Speaker 1: I had a like a moment with my thirteen year
29:10
Speaker 1: old like I had like so so I don't know
29:12
Speaker 1: if you've seen on my social I think he even
29:16
Speaker 1: made baller babies. I don't know, but anyway, so we
29:18
Speaker 1: my son is thirteen. He's amazing, creative, he's stylish. He
29:23
Speaker 1: has a clothing line called Beers Lifestyle. And I was,
29:27
Speaker 1: you know, sharing with you guys, um over lunch. You know,
29:31
Speaker 1: my older son he got his ass what a you know,
29:34
Speaker 1: just just your new parents, you know what I'm saying.
29:36
Speaker 1: What's the hell you say? I'm sorry, I didn't mean
29:38
Speaker 1: to do that. I love you. The dream is real.
29:41
Speaker 1: And then you know, as you become a parent and
29:43
Speaker 1: your parents, you learn certain things are better not done
29:47
Speaker 1: or better done this way or and I, um, you know,
29:52
Speaker 1: I just I don't be whoop them as much, you
29:54
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, so exactly like I think that, um,
29:59
Speaker 1: they don't the younger ones, right, So he has that
30:02
Speaker 1: fortunate state in my house. So so anyway, long story short,
30:04
Speaker 1: I was telling you that, uh, you know, we're coming
30:06
Speaker 1: off the red carpet the other days with the Meek Goes.
30:09
Speaker 1: You know he's with Ao and Talo. You know, I'll
30:12
Speaker 1: surely don't tell you. By the way, I hosted the
30:14
Speaker 1: b m I Awards this past week and they were phenomenal.
30:17
Speaker 1: I mean the dance routines. I'm not saying they were
30:19
Speaker 1: phenomenal rappers. I think the phenomenal entertainers. Um, so you
30:23
Speaker 1: don't need to be a hell of a rapper all
30:24
Speaker 1: the time. With that, with their dope kids, um young stars,
30:29
Speaker 1: it looked like circus so late, that's what it looks.
30:31
Speaker 1: I mean they were doing handstands and so no k
30:34
Speaker 1: be approved a on tail go um so yeah, but
30:37
Speaker 1: I was, um, I took him his first red carpet.
30:39
Speaker 1: He was having an amazing time. And so during the process,
30:42
Speaker 1: I'm telling them like, y'all, don't trip. This is your life.
30:45
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. These people are your peers.
30:47
Speaker 1: You know they're gonna be around you. You don't have to.
30:49
Speaker 1: It's all good. Don't get called, don't right. So I'm like,
30:55
Speaker 1: you know, super happy, super happy for him, and and
30:58
Speaker 1: you know, obviously we're having lessons throughout. So then the
31:00
Speaker 1: other day he wants to go meet this for it right,
31:03
Speaker 1: So I am you know, and this is for all
31:05
Speaker 1: your parents out there, because I know you go through it.
31:07
Speaker 1: But like I'm like, yo, you can go out with
31:10
Speaker 1: your friends. You know what I'm saying, but be ready
31:11
Speaker 1: by X y Z. So the time I told him
31:14
Speaker 1: that he had to come home was passing. So but
31:16
Speaker 1: he's like, yo, but it was ten o'clock and we
31:18
Speaker 1: told such a sex moms and my just two hours after,
31:20
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know what, ten o'clock that fun? I
31:24
Speaker 1: know you out there. I heard the whole ramns of
31:26
Speaker 1: the girls gonna be there. I'm talking, I want you
31:28
Speaker 1: to go, I got fresh, got you ready to go?
31:32
Speaker 1: I can't. And then his mom goes to pick him
31:35
Speaker 1: up at ten o'clock and guess what, he's not there.
31:38
Speaker 1: It's not where he's supposed to be. And for me,
31:42
Speaker 1: I was like, you know, when I'm hearing the story,
31:44
Speaker 1: I'm trying to process it because you know, he needs
31:46
Speaker 1: I felt like he was good as what was coming.
31:48
Speaker 1: I just felt like he was coming. It was it
31:50
Speaker 1: was coming. It was coming, but I just want to
31:52
Speaker 1: get more information for I locked all the way in
31:54
Speaker 1: so I'm getting the story and yeah, yeah he's supposed
31:57
Speaker 1: to be an X y Z. But then he was
31:59
Speaker 1: across the highway. This man don't drive, you know, yeah, exactly,
32:06
Speaker 1: He's across the highway with a bunch of people. In mind,
32:09
Speaker 1: you only got a bunch of people. I didn't get specifically,
32:13
Speaker 1: I got a bunch of people. So into my mind,
32:14
Speaker 1: I'm like this and he's over across damn highway and
32:19
Speaker 1: so that's all I hear. So the last piece was
32:22
Speaker 1: giving him an opportunity to say the one thing he
32:26
Speaker 1: could get him out, that could get him out of
32:28
Speaker 1: the ship. You know what I'm talking about. I'm just
32:30
Speaker 1: in my brain, you know, I want to choke the
32:32
Speaker 1: ship out of and I'm just like, please say what
32:35
Speaker 1: you gotta say so so we can have a conversation.
32:38
Speaker 1: Save yourself. Guess what he says to me, Dad, I
32:42
Speaker 1: got caught up at night. It was like a trigger word.
32:45
Speaker 1: I saw red. I grabbed him soon across the island
32:48
Speaker 1: board you knowing about just get the real defacts ship
32:51
Speaker 1: to come get you from defect. Don't that exactly. But
32:56
Speaker 1: we just had the conversation out. I'm not getting caught
33:02
Speaker 1: up in nigh You put him on the red carpet
33:05
Speaker 1: to understand. He does not need to get caught up
33:08
Speaker 1: in the hype when you're when you're speaking, you're speaking
33:11
Speaker 1: to these people. You're selling your clothing brand. You're selling
33:14
Speaker 1: your clothing brand, right, You're selling your clothes. You're here
33:18
Speaker 1: to sell your cloth. You know what I'm saying. You're
33:21
Speaker 1: here to meet people making like oh, when my line comes, hey,
33:23
Speaker 1: don't tell you I got your man, ludle, because you
33:25
Speaker 1: know what I'm setting up the thing. Don't worry about
33:27
Speaker 1: my daddy. I got That's what you're here to lost
33:29
Speaker 1: story shout. I go in and today he comes down
33:35
Speaker 1: and he says, Dad, I know you trust me. I
33:39
Speaker 1: know you trust me, And I was not being trustworthy
33:44
Speaker 1: last night at first. Mine, I'm thinking, you fucking politicians.
33:48
Speaker 1: You just hit me because I was like you, right,
33:52
Speaker 1: I know you trust me? Yeah? I know that was beautiful.
33:55
Speaker 1: He's a politician. So I'm like, okay, but let me
33:58
Speaker 1: tell you something. A matter of fact, who was you with?
34:01
Speaker 1: Because I hadn't asked that. He's like, Dad, you knows
34:04
Speaker 1: me like six girls and my partner we was over
34:06
Speaker 1: where he was. I said us me six girls, two
34:08
Speaker 1: guys and six girls. Two guys and six girls. So
34:11
Speaker 1: in my mind, Daddy's like, oh he was a girl.
34:15
Speaker 1: So I see, if you said that, you wouldn't have
34:17
Speaker 1: got your ass well, and of course what you mean,
34:20
Speaker 1: he wouldn't have got it said he needed his ass. Well,
34:22
Speaker 1: he was with six girls six guys. That don't make
34:24
Speaker 1: no difference. He should have told you that because I
34:26
Speaker 1: would have I think coming from you, it would have
34:28
Speaker 1: been a completely different conversation. He would have had a
34:30
Speaker 1: totally different expense, and it would have been went to
34:32
Speaker 1: my wife's point, in which I have to also stand by.
34:36
Speaker 1: He was wrong for leaving, so he deserved his ask.
34:38
Speaker 1: But at the same time, you cannot blame someone who
34:46
Speaker 1: hasn't experienced what they're doing as a child, And I can't.
34:52
Speaker 1: You know this is for all their parents, you know,
34:54
Speaker 1: on that line, I should I want my kid or
34:56
Speaker 1: should not? And a lot of times no, But sometimes
35:00
Speaker 1: I'm just because they need to be scared of something.
35:03
Speaker 1: You hear me, But I can't. Confucius says, I can't
35:06
Speaker 1: blame him all the way, he's curious, he's young, he
35:10
Speaker 1: sees his father as an entrepreneur, and that he's out
35:13
Speaker 1: here in these streets, you know, creating for a living.
35:17
Speaker 1: So I can't go and just be super mad. I mean,
35:20
Speaker 1: he deserved that, he needed that. That was one out
35:23
Speaker 1: of maybe twice he gets to the year at the
35:25
Speaker 1: same time. In retrospect, I think that, you know, he
35:29
Speaker 1: has to be conscious of his decisions. He has to
35:34
Speaker 1: be more in the moment. And we all do because
35:36
Speaker 1: in life, a lot of times we jump out there
35:38
Speaker 1: because we get caught up in the night. We get
35:41
Speaker 1: caught up in doing what we think, you know, we
35:43
Speaker 1: should be doing, what other people doing, or what other
35:46
Speaker 1: people think we should be doing, you know what I'm
35:48
Speaker 1: talking about, And we cannot do that. We gotta focus.
35:52
Speaker 1: As I handle bars, who usually doesn't say, Ship said,
35:57
Speaker 1: because she's specially get on camera, Please get on cameras
36:00
Speaker 1: I handle about her hands one color. But anyway, you
36:07
Speaker 1: gotta stay focused. Don't let these people get you off
36:10
Speaker 1: your square. I told my son, I said, if you
36:13
Speaker 1: did all the sneaky Ship, you didn't was back at
36:16
Speaker 1: the place you was supposed to be at, when you
36:18
Speaker 1: were supposed to get picked up. You would have been
36:21
Speaker 1: straight winning. But you have to be on some hole.
36:24
Speaker 1: I'm not asking the phone, and you're missing the facetimes.
36:27
Speaker 1: And you know we faith time because we want to
36:29
Speaker 1: know where you at. Step to the side, excuse me,
36:33
Speaker 1: I'll be right back. My mom dad called, or don't
36:35
Speaker 1: even tell me your mom and dad called. Hold on back.
36:37
Speaker 1: I gotta take this call important because I know you
36:39
Speaker 1: are here front for the ladies. Your daddy did it.
36:43
Speaker 1: Here was a player. You come for player lineage. But don't,
36:47
Speaker 1: don't balling Nation get caught up in the height. Confucius says,
36:55
Speaker 1: don't get caught up in the hype until then, bailer
36:58
Speaker 1: alert radio, Where out of here? Peace my body because
37:06
Speaker 1: the tree is real m