Latest / Crime Night / The Phantom Lover: A 2004 Egyptian True Crime of Deception and Obsession
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Picture this El Sharook City, Egypt, back in two thousand
- 0:03Speaker 1: and four. The desert wind is blowing through all these
- 0:07Speaker 1: half finished bowldings. It's kind of desolate, you know, quiet,
- 0:10Speaker 1: dusty under this huge.
- 0:12Speaker 2: Sky, a place full of potential, but still very much
- 0:15Speaker 2: under construction exactly.
- 0:16Speaker 1: And there's this lone construction worker, long shift. He's tired,
- 0:21Speaker 1: just trudging home through the gravel.
- 0:23Speaker 2: Just wants to get home, probably right.
- 0:24Speaker 1: Then he sees something odd, just this dark shape against
- 0:28Speaker 1: the sand. A travel suitcase.
- 0:31Speaker 2: Okay, abandoned luggage. Maybe not that unusual out there.
- 0:34Speaker 1: Well, that's what you might think, but this one it
- 0:37Speaker 1: looked wrong. It was charred, melted in places like it
- 0:40Speaker 1: had been set on fire.
- 0:41Speaker 2: Oh okay, that's different, definitely suspicious.
- 0:44Speaker 1: And then there's the smell. It wasn't just burnt plastic.
- 0:46Speaker 1: It was something else, something organic, acrid, sickening.
- 0:51Speaker 2: Really, Oh, that's chilling. You'd get that cold dread feeling,
- 0:53Speaker 2: wouldn't you.
- 0:54Speaker 1: Totally He hesitates, like should he leave it? But he's
- 0:57Speaker 1: also curious, morbidly curious. I guess what could possibly be inside?
- 1:02Speaker 2: I can imagine the not knowing.
- 1:04Speaker 1: So his hands are shaking, but he fiddles with the latches.
- 1:07Speaker 1: They click open and the lid creaks up. It wasn't close,
- 1:11Speaker 1: it wasn't trash, it was a body. Parsley burned, twisted
- 1:16Speaker 1: up inside.
- 1:17Speaker 2: Oh my god.
- 1:18Speaker 1: Yeah, the site just froze him. The smell hits him
- 1:21Speaker 1: full force. He gasps, cries out for help, but it's
- 1:23Speaker 1: just this vast empty night, pure panic. He stumbles back,
- 1:27Speaker 1: grabs for his phone, just reeling from the horror.
- 1:30Speaker 2: Unimaginable, just stumbling upon.
- 1:32Speaker 1: Something like that, it really is, And this discovery, this
- 1:35Speaker 1: horrific find, it's the start of our deep dive today.
- 1:38Speaker 1: We're going into a true crime story from Giza two
- 1:41Speaker 1: thousand and four. It's this incredible tangle of deception, obsession,
- 1:45Speaker 1: and ultimately just brutal violence.
- 1:47Speaker 2: And what's really striking looking at the materials is how
- 1:50Speaker 2: meticulously this whole facade was built, how easily trust was exploited,
- 1:55Speaker 2: you know, especially back then. It turns into this awful
- 1:57Speaker 2: story where a phantom love affair becomes this yes, horrific reality.
- 2:01Speaker 2: Really makes you think about dangers, hiding and plain sight.
- 2:04Speaker 1: And that context. Two thousand and four, Egypt. It's so
- 2:06Speaker 1: important we need to keep that in mind. Mobile phones
- 2:08Speaker 1: weren't everywhere like today.
- 2:09Speaker 2: They were a luxury exactly. No constant internet, no easy
- 2:13Speaker 2: social media checks, no video calls to verify anything.
- 2:15Speaker 1: So making remote connections was harder and verifying them even harder,
- 2:20Speaker 1: which makes the deception we're about to unpack just audacious,
- 2:24Speaker 1: almost unbelievable when on so.
- 2:26Speaker 2: Long, it really does.
- 2:27Speaker 1: So let's talk about Yasmin. She is at the heart
- 2:29Speaker 1: of this. Nineteen years old a student at the Faculty
- 2:31Speaker 1: of Arts, Cairo University, sounds vibrant, confident.
- 2:35Speaker 2: The life yeah yeah, comes from pretty well off family,
- 2:38Speaker 2: had her own car, which was something back then.
- 2:40Speaker 1: And crucially she had that mobile phone, a symbol of
- 2:44Speaker 1: her independence her modern life.
- 2:46Speaker 2: Her routine was just normal classes, friends, life seemed full
- 2:52Speaker 2: of promise, no hint of.
- 2:53Speaker 1: Trouble until that one day she leaves for university like
- 2:57Speaker 1: always and just vanishes and come home.
- 3:00Speaker 2: The hours must have dragged for her family, initial worry
- 3:03Speaker 2: turning into real panic.
- 3:04Speaker 1: They kept calling her mobile, but it went straight to
- 3:06Speaker 1: voicemail every single time.
- 3:08Speaker 2: That's sinking feeling.
- 3:09Speaker 1: Then they call her friends, yeah, and the news is bad.
- 3:11Speaker 1: Yasmin never even made it to class that day, didn't
- 3:13Speaker 1: show up at all.
- 3:14Speaker 2: So immediately they know something's wrong. This isn't like her,
- 3:18Speaker 2: not at all.
- 3:19Speaker 1: They file a missing person's report straight away. Police get
- 3:22Speaker 1: all the details Yasmin's description, her car, that mobile number.
- 3:25Speaker 2: Standard procedure, but vital information. The police start digging.
- 3:30Speaker 1: They talk to everyone, family, friends, classmates, asking the usual questions,
- 3:35Speaker 1: any enemies, any problems, any reason she might disappear, And
- 3:39Speaker 1: the answer nothing. Everyone liked her, no known conflicts, no
- 3:44Speaker 1: obvious reason for her to just vanish. It's a complete blank,
- 3:47Speaker 1: just this chilling mystery, avoid.
- 3:49Speaker 2: No leads at all for the investigators. That's tough.
- 3:52Speaker 1: But then the investigation takes a sharp turn. Yasmin's mother,
- 3:56Speaker 1: in the middle of all this anguish, shares something really important.
- 3:59Speaker 2: Okay, what was it?
- 4:00Speaker 1: Yasmin had apparently been seeing someone for about two months,
- 4:03Speaker 1: a young man named Amer Okay, a boyfriend sort of.
- 4:07Speaker 1: But here's the weird part. According to her mom, this
- 4:10Speaker 1: Emmer had supposedly broken his leg badly, ah, so he
- 4:15Speaker 1: couldn't visit exactly. He couldn't come see her, couldn't meet
- 4:18Speaker 1: the family. All their communication, the entire relationship was apparently
- 4:22Speaker 1: just over the.
- 4:23Speaker 2: Phone, just phone calls for two months. That seems a
- 4:27Speaker 2: little unusual, maybe.
- 4:28Speaker 1: Very But get this, this Amor guy had actually called
- 4:32Speaker 1: Yasmin's mother, proposed marriage, promised he'd bring his family over
- 4:36Speaker 1: to meet them as soon as his leg healed.
- 4:38Speaker 2: Wow. Okay, so he's talking marriage, calling the mother, but
- 4:42Speaker 2: has never physically met Yasmin or the family.
- 4:45Speaker 1: Never a complete phantom.
- 4:46Speaker 2: Like you said, that's more than unusual. That's a major
- 4:48Speaker 2: red flag shirley for the police.
- 4:50Speaker 1: I mean absolutely. They check with Yasmin's university friends and yeah,
- 4:54Speaker 1: they'd heard about Amer knew she was dating him. He
- 4:57Speaker 1: was supposedly a film student from Nazar.
- 4:59Speaker 2: City, supposedly, but had any of them.
- 5:01Speaker 1: Met him, Not a single one. Nobody had ever laid
- 5:04Speaker 1: eyes on this Amor.
- 5:05Speaker 2: Right, so the investigators must be thinking, Okay, if this
- 5:08Speaker 2: guy is her fiance or even just serious boyfriend, where
- 5:12Speaker 2: is he now?
- 5:13Speaker 1: Exactly? Why isn't he frantically calling her family helping with
- 5:16Speaker 1: the search. Why the silence during this huge crisis, It
- 5:20Speaker 1: just didn't add up.
- 5:21Speaker 2: His absence was deafening.
- 5:22Speaker 1: So the police focus on this. They find out where
- 5:25Speaker 1: this film institute in Nostri City is and they track
- 5:28Speaker 1: down a student named Ahmor there.
- 5:31Speaker 2: The real Amor Well and Emma and error.
- 5:33Speaker 1: They bring him in, but then comes this massive twist.
- 5:36Speaker 2: Don't tell me this Ammor.
- 5:38Speaker 1: He's completely baffled, says he's never heard of Yasmin, never
- 5:41Speaker 1: met her, never spoken to her, definitely never been to
- 5:44Speaker 1: Kyrie University. He has no idea what they're talking about.
- 5:46Speaker 2: Wow. So the guy Yasmin's friends thought she was dating
- 5:50Speaker 2: wasn't him at all.
- 5:51Speaker 1: Nope, the real Amor was innocent, confused, had a solid alibi.
- 5:55Speaker 2: Okay, so connect that back. The police now have a
- 5:58Speaker 2: huge problem. If the real Amor is innocent, who on
- 6:02Speaker 2: earth was Yasmin talking to on the phone all that time?
- 6:04Speaker 1: Decisely? Who was this phantom lover? No physical presence, no
- 6:08Speaker 1: real identity they could pin down just a voice and.
- 6:12Speaker 2: Back in two thousand and four tracking phone calls, Especially
- 6:15Speaker 2: if it wasn't her mobile calling his, it was much harder.
- 6:18Speaker 2: They were chasing a ghost.
- 6:20Speaker 1: They had to detain the real Amor for a bit,
- 6:22Speaker 1: just while they figured this mess out, even though he'd
- 6:24Speaker 1: seemed totally uninvolved. For Yasmin's family, that name Ammer must
- 6:28Speaker 1: have just felt like a.
- 6:29Speaker 2: Cruel mirage, a dead end Seewhile.
- 6:32Speaker 1: Remember that burnt suitcase found out in El Scharup.
- 6:34Speaker 2: Yeah, the construction worker horrifying.
- 6:37Speaker 1: The pieces started to connect in the worst possible way.
- 6:41Speaker 1: Forensics gets to work. The body is female, roughly eighteen
- 6:45Speaker 1: to twenty two years.
- 6:46Speaker 2: Old, matching Yasmin's age group.
- 6:48Speaker 1: Cause of death, strangulation, and there were signs of assault,
- 6:52Speaker 1: plus the flammable liquid poured over her, clearly trying to
- 6:56Speaker 1: destroy evidence hide her identity.
- 6:58Speaker 2: A calculated brutal act. Any idea in.
- 7:01Speaker 1: The suitcase not at all, just anonymity that the police
- 7:05Speaker 1: start cross referencing missing persons reports near and far.
- 7:09Speaker 2: And Yasmin's report.
- 7:10Speaker 1: The description her family gave it matched. Tragically, Oh no,
- 7:14Speaker 1: they had to bring the family in and they confirmed it.
- 7:17Speaker 1: The clothes, what was left of them.
- 7:18Speaker 2: It was Yasmin devastating, just absolutely devastating for them. So
- 7:23Speaker 2: the missing person case is now officially a homicide, very
- 7:25Speaker 2: brutal one. And you have to ask the method strangulation, assault,
- 7:30Speaker 2: burning the body. It suggest something deeply personal, doesn't it?
- 7:34Speaker 2: Intense hatred, maybe just desperation to conceal everything.
- 7:38Speaker 1: It definitely didn't look like a simple robbery, even though
- 7:40Speaker 1: her car and belongings were still gone.
- 7:43Speaker 2: Right, the level of violence points to something more intimate,
- 7:46Speaker 2: more targeted. Even seasoned investigators were shocked by the brutality.
- 7:51Speaker 1: So the police are stuck. The real Amar is cleared,
- 7:54Speaker 1: the phantom Amar is well, a phantom who killed Yasmin.
- 7:59Speaker 2: They needed a newly urgently.
- 8:00Speaker 1: They got one from Yasmin's closest friend, Sarah. She was
- 8:04Speaker 1: really troubled by the real Amar denying everything because she
- 8:07Speaker 1: knew Yasmin had been talking to someone called Ahmar.
- 8:10Speaker 2: Okay, so Sarah believed Yasmin, yes.
- 8:12Speaker 1: But Sarah also revealed something else. She had her own
- 8:15Speaker 1: long standing friend, a guy named Mohammed el Masri.
- 8:19Speaker 2: Mohammed el Masri a new name. Where was he from.
- 8:22Speaker 1: Sixth of October City? He was twenty two and Sarah
- 8:25Speaker 1: knew him well, yeah, she described him, and this becomes
- 8:28Speaker 1: really important as someone kind of struggling still in high
- 8:30Speaker 1: school at twenty two, kept failing. His family had hit
- 8:34Speaker 1: hard times financially, moved out to sixth of October, which
- 8:37Speaker 1: was less developed than Okay.
- 8:38Speaker 2: So maybe some background issues there, resentmentah insecurity.
- 8:43Speaker 1: It seems so because Mohammed used to visit Sarah at
- 8:46Speaker 1: Kyri University, and that's where he first saw Yasmin Ah.
- 8:50Speaker 2: He saw her on campus.
- 8:51Speaker 1: And apparently became totally infatuated, obsessed even but he felt inadequate, inferior.
- 8:58Speaker 2: Because of his situation, the money, the school failures.
- 9:01Speaker 1: Exactly. He looked at Yasmin, comfortable family, her own car,
- 9:05Speaker 1: mobile phone, university student, and thought she'd never give him
- 9:08Speaker 1: the time of day. So that insecurity, Fester festered into
- 9:11Speaker 1: this incredibly elaborate, deceitful plan. What did he decide to do?
- 9:16Speaker 1: He decided to impersonate someone else entirely. Let me guess
- 9:19Speaker 1: his own cousin, the wealthy, successful one, the film institute
- 9:23Speaker 1: student from Naser City, the real emmer Bingo. He didn't
- 9:27Speaker 1: just tell a lie. He literally stole his cousin's identity
- 9:30Speaker 1: to create this whole new persona for himself that.
- 9:33Speaker 2: Is incredibly audacious and manipulative.
- 9:36Speaker 1: He played on everything, social expectations, the communication limits of
- 9:39Speaker 1: two thousand and four. He got Sarah, his friend, to
- 9:42Speaker 1: give him Yasmin's number, lied to Sarah saying Amorosa Yasmin
- 9:46Speaker 1: was smitten, wanted to propose.
- 9:48Speaker 2: Using the promise of marriage to get Yasmin interested calculated totally.
- 9:53Speaker 1: So Yasmin expects a call from our Mamad calls but
- 9:57Speaker 1: as a Morgan and immediately launches the broken leg story.
- 10:01Speaker 1: Says he's stuck in his apartment in six of October city.
- 10:04Speaker 2: Wait, he used his own location.
- 10:07Speaker 1: Yes, and here's the clever, deceitful part. He gave Yasmin
- 10:11Speaker 1: his own home phone number in six of October. Said
- 10:14Speaker 1: it was Amber's place and poor Ahmer didn't have a
- 10:17Speaker 1: mobile phone unlike.
- 10:18Speaker 2: Yasmin, so she's calling his house thinking it's Ambers, and
- 10:20Speaker 2: Amber conveniently doesn't have a mobile to receive calls elsewhere
- 10:24Speaker 2: or be tracked easily.
- 10:25Speaker 1: Exactly. It explains why all contact was through this one
- 10:29Speaker 1: landline controlled entirely by Mohammed.
- 10:31Speaker 2: For two whole months. He kept this up, posing his
- 10:34Speaker 2: amor on.
- 10:34Speaker 1: The phone two months, charming her, building this whole fake relationship,
- 10:38Speaker 1: even talking to her mother about marriage plans, all while
- 10:40Speaker 1: pretending his leg was slowly healing.
- 10:42Speaker 2: The dedication to the lie is staggering. He's essentially living
- 10:45Speaker 2: a double life purely through phone calls, exploiting that tech
- 10:48Speaker 2: gap perfectly.
- 10:49Speaker 1: But eventually Yasmin started getting impatient. Right this broken leg
- 10:53Speaker 1: was taking forever to heal. She wanted to meet amer Us.
- 10:56Speaker 2: Understandably, so the pressure's building on Mohammed right, so.
- 11:00Speaker 1: He shifts gears. He switches back to being Mohammed Sarah's friend,
- 11:04Speaker 1: and he acts like a helpful go between.
- 11:06Speaker 2: Oh clever, playing both sides.
- 11:08Speaker 1: He tells Yasmin, Hey, good news. Armer's finally ready to meet,
- 11:12Speaker 1: but his leg's still bad. He can't travel easily. You'll
- 11:14Speaker 1: have to come out to six of.
- 11:15Speaker 2: October, and Yasmin, trusting Sarah's friend Mohammed and eager to
- 11:20Speaker 2: finally meet Ahmer, she agrees.
- 11:23Speaker 1: She agrees, kind hearted, trusting, she drives out to six
- 11:26Speaker 1: the October. The meeting point is October University. Mohammed meets
- 11:30Speaker 1: her there, still playing the helpful friend.
- 11:33Speaker 2: The trap is closing.
- 11:34Speaker 1: He then spends another yarn Amer's just up in my
- 11:36Speaker 1: apartment nearby. He says he can't really manage the stairs alone.
- 11:40Speaker 1: Could you maybe come up and help me bring him
- 11:42Speaker 1: down to.
- 11:42Speaker 2: Your car, Using her kindness against her leading her right
- 11:45Speaker 2: to the apartment.
- 11:46Speaker 1: She follows him into the building, maybe feels a little
- 11:48Speaker 1: hesitant at the apartment door itself a flicker.
- 11:51Speaker 2: Of doubt, but he smooths it over.
- 11:53Speaker 1: Yeah, he coaxes her. Armer's just in the bedroom. He
- 11:55Speaker 1: really needs help. She steps inside, The door clicks shut
- 11:58Speaker 1: behind her, mohammed locked. Oh god, and then he tells
- 12:01Speaker 1: her drops the elect there is no Amra.
- 12:05Speaker 2: It was me.
- 12:05Speaker 1: I'm the one you've been talking to. I'm the one
- 12:07Speaker 1: who loves you.
- 12:08Speaker 2: I want you to be mine, just shattering her reality
- 12:11Speaker 2: in an instant. The betrayal, the fear must have been overwhelming.
- 12:15Speaker 1: She was terrified, tried desperately to leave, to get away
- 12:18Speaker 1: from him in the suffocating lie he'd built.
- 12:20Speaker 2: But he'd planned for this, hadn't he. Yeah, he knew
- 12:23Speaker 2: she might reject.
- 12:23Speaker 1: Him, it seems, so he attacked her, dragged her into
- 12:26Speaker 1: the bedroom, tied her up, assaulted her horrific. She fought back,
- 12:31Speaker 1: cried out, but he overpowered her, and then he strangled her,
- 12:37Speaker 1: silenced her forever.
- 12:38Speaker 2: All because she wouldn't accept his twisted fantasy.
- 12:40Speaker 1: What he did next was just cold, methodical. He put
- 12:44Speaker 1: her body in that travel suitcase, poured gasoline.
- 12:47Speaker 2: Over it, the same suitcase, the worker.
- 12:49Speaker 1: The same one. He loaded it into the trunk of
- 12:51Speaker 1: her car, drove out to that desolate spot in el
- 12:54Speaker 1: cheruk dumped it and set it on.
- 12:56Speaker 2: Fire, trying to erase every trace of her at his crime.
- 13:00Speaker 1: When he took her car back to sixth of October,
- 13:02Speaker 1: took the plates off, repainted it, used money he stole
- 13:05Speaker 1: from her bag, smashed her phone, got rid of her things.
- 13:08Speaker 1: He thought he'd gotten away.
- 13:09Speaker 2: Clean, believed he'd committed the perfect crime, but he made mistakes.
- 13:13Speaker 1: The car, the car was key. The investigations starting from
- 13:17Speaker 1: that burnt suitcase moved fast. They identified Mohammed el Maastri
- 13:22Speaker 1: and they caught him driving Yasmin's car, just crudely repainted.
- 13:27Speaker 2: Red handed.
- 13:27Speaker 1: Essentially confronted with it all, he confessed the whole, elaborate impersonation,
- 13:31Speaker 1: the manipulation, the assault, the murder, the disposal, everything, and.
- 13:34Speaker 2: The real emissary.
- 13:35Speaker 1: His cousin reportedly just stunned, couldn't believe his own relative
- 13:39Speaker 1: was capable of such profound deception and violence. Mohammed al
- 13:43Speaker 1: Mazari was sentenced to death. So wrapping this up, this
- 13:46Speaker 1: deep dive, it's more than just a crime story. It's
- 13:48Speaker 1: really a chilling look at manipulation, especially for that time
- 13:51Speaker 1: two thousand and four. No deep fakes, no sophisticated tech
- 13:54Speaker 1: needed just cunning and lies.
- 13:56Speaker 2: Absolutely, he built a believable phantom identity from scratch, which
- 14:00Speaker 2: using the era's limitations to his advantage. It really highlights
- 14:04Speaker 2: the psychological depth, the insecurity, driving the obsession, the calculated
- 14:08Speaker 2: risk of that false persona.
- 14:10Speaker 1: It makes you ask, doesn't it, How well do we
- 14:12Speaker 1: ever know someone, especially when the connection is purely remote.
- 14:16Speaker 2: That's the crucial question that leaves us with how do
- 14:18Speaker 2: you spot authenticity when interaction can be so easily faked.
- 14:23Speaker 2: It forces you to think about trust, about vulnerability, especially
- 14:27Speaker 2: when charm is involved but physical presence is missing.
- 14:30Speaker 1: So as you think about Yasmin's story, maybe reflect on that.
- 14:34Speaker 1: In our world today, even with more ways to connect,
- 14:36Speaker 1: how much do we really see what could be hidden
- 14:39Speaker 1: behind a friendly message, a charming voice on the phone,
- 14:41Speaker 1: when you can't look someone in the eye. It's definitely
- 14:43Speaker 1: something to consider.