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(VIDEO) A FAN, A SUB AND A NEW YORK NEWBIE · CALL ME MISTRESS

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Mistress Mia controls the narrative, so obey.
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Come listen to Call me Mistress. Hi, welcome to the latest
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episode of Call Me Mistress. I'm your Hostess, Mistress Mia,
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and today I've got with me a special guest from Fetlife.
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He's been a fan. He's new to the lifestyle, but
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you know we're not going to hold that against him.
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This is shiny 99. Hey, Scott, how are you?
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Very good. Thank you so much for having me,
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Mr. Smea. You're so welcome.
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You're so welcome. You know, you reached out
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several months ago and you found the podcast and you've been
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listening to it ever since. I mean, you're a champ to
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endorse some of those long conversation.
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Oh, they're, they're all entertainment.
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All entertainment. I love them all.
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They're so funny. You know, I, I will agree with
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you when it comes to Barbie. I mean she is fucking hilarious.
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When you're just scrubbing her like walking into that that with
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the rib in her hand. I, I, I couldn't stop laughing.
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It was the fun. I can.
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I can just imagine seeing her coming in, just walking on and.
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Well, I told you, I, I've been telling her I was like, you
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know, she comes from a very religious conservative family.
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But here locally, I mean, she walks downtown, people know her.
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They're like, oh, Barbie, Barbie, you know, and I tell
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you, she has such a presence about her that we're all, you
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know, it's like me and my 5 friends were sitting by the
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pool. We're just like, yeah, we're
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kind of bored, you know? There wasn't a lot going on.
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And it was, OK, here comes Barbie.
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I'm going to imagine this big blonde in six inch platform
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heels and she's got this big fucking beef rib.
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And she's like, hey, you know, And I was like, Oh my.
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That's how she makes her interest.
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She's she's awesome. I love, I love all your whenever
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you're she's on with you. It's the non the banter you guys
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have. It's like I can't help but laugh
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too because I feel like I'm right there with you guys.
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She just goes, I mean, just nodding to nothing, you know,
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and she was talking about Waffle House.
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And, you know, a lot of people don't know Waffle House.
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I I've never been the one up in up in New York, we don't have
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the Waffle Houses. See, you don't.
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And do you have Huddle House, Do you or do you just have diners?
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We got diners, we got some. We have a lot of garbage up here
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in New York, okay? We're holding against the New
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Yorkers, but yeah, but you know, down here you get your waffle.
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They're known for their obvious waffles or pecan waffles, and
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they're great. And, you know, they just, it's
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typical diner food, you know, good cheeseburgers AT Bone
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Steak, you know, and it's reasonably priced and all that.
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Well, she told me the other day she's like, yeah, I got food
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poisoning. I said, where'd you go?
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It's just like Waffle House. I'm like, no.
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Well, that's great. It is great.
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But I always hear that Waffle House is for like late night
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meals, like after you go out drinking, have a good time, then
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you go to the Waffle House. That's it.
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I mean, they're open 24 hours. They're open on Christmas.
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I mean, you go to Waffle House, it's great.
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Their waffles are. They're really there's, yeah.
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You just can't get them anywhere else like that.
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They're just good. They really.
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I think I, I think I wrote a message you, I think you and I
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wrote one of the Barbies said I'll go to the Waffle House with
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you guys anytime. Exactly, exactly.
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So let's go back to this. Let's go back.
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When did you start getting in the lifestyle?
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Well, I just officially I got into the lifestyle this the last
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year, probably back like almost almost a year ago, probably like
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maybe the 10-11 months ago. But I was always not kinky.
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I always like when I when I was a younger kid, I kind of like I
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did weird things and I kind of like.
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Didn't we all? I'm like, but I'm like, I didn't
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really like start dabbing my toes into the into the water
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until like this the past year and I got a little more gutsy.
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I was like, as me, I got a little older and I'm like, the
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life is kind of boring. So I'm like, OK, let me try
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something new. But I didn't really meet in
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person Dom until this past October and I've and I've only
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and I've only been the one Dom face to face and I've been to
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her like 15 Times Now. Oh wow.
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OK, and I've had I've had and she's actually, and she's kind
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of newer to being like a Dom, but I've learned so much from
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her and she's taught me a lot about myself.
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It's almost like a going, it's almost like a like go into a
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psychological session. Every every time you go and see
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her, you you learn something about yourself and you kind of
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when you leave, you leave on a high.
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Yeah, yeah. It's an amazing feeling.
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And people don't realize that, you know, they automatically
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associate A dominatrix to sex, you know, putting them in a
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category of sex work. And it's like, that's not why we
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do what we do, you know? Yeah, I'm, I'm my Dom is never,
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she's always fully dressed. She's never and I've only been
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allowed one time ever to reach release at all.
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I've always only one time she's allowed it so.
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Isn't that cool? And like, no problems with it.
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That's the best part. I'm like, I'd be all upset when
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I'm walking up. I'm like I'm on a high.
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Yeah, so. So what weird things were you
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doing that you thought I'm going to go see a Dom?
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Well, I always like watch the typical porns I was always and I
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always went to like the more femdom porn.
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I was always, I was always in the, I always said, like I
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always said, anything shiny, like a girl in latex.
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I, I melt. I like, I'll, I'll do like
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anything's like, it could be leather, it could be PVC,
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anything. I'm like, you know, they, they
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wear that I'm, I'm like puttying their hand.
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They'll, they, they can give me to do anything, almost almost
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anything. Not going to say everything, but
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almost anything. Yeah.
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But like when I was younger, I used to do like little like no,
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the adult babies and everything I used to thought I thought it
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was kind of kinky. The one I'll wear a diaper, but
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not that I have no desire name right now, But I'm I'm just more
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into like the the latex, the PVC.
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Yeah, I don't, I, I don't really wear that stuff, but I love what
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the Dom does. Right.
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It's there's something about it. It's just that, I don't know,
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it's almost euphoric, you know, it's just something that you
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don't see. And, you know, I know when I go
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out, even wear street clothes, I will wear PVC pants in public.
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And you know, I'm the only one that's around that's wearing it,
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but I just don't care. I'll even do it in summertime.
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I'm like, I'm wearing my Dom clothes in public, you know I
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don't. Think there's anything wrong
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there? If I saw it, I'd be like, oh
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boy. I mean like following you around
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like a lost puppy. Right, I went and I had gotten
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these these new workout pants and they have like APVC line
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down the front, but then the sides are all laced.
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But they have the fabric that is very like workout pants like
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because it's very stretchy and it they're just really
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comfortable. And I had them on the other
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morning when we went to the gym and I'm leaving, leaving my
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house about 3:30 in the morning to get to the gym by 4.
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And so we get in the car and with my husband, we're sitting
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there, we're talking right before we go in the gym.
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And as soon as the the Dome light comes on in the car, he's
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like, what the fuck you got on? I was like nothing.
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And I'm like, sorry, I'm like, these are workout pants.
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He's like the fuck they are. He should have enjoyed it.
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Come on. Thank you.
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I'm like, look, there's not that many people there.
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You know, He's like bullshit. I'm like, look, I'm going to be
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sitting down on most of these machines.
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They're not going to pay any attention.
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Well, of course I got looks, but who cares?
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You know there's nothing wrong with that.
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Thank you. They need something to look at.
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I mean, damn. I wish people in my gym would
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dress like that come. On.
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Thank you. Thank you, Scott.
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I agree. So you so you started seeing the
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stomp. So what was that first session
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like? Oh, that was like, I was so
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nervous. I'm like, I kept thinking like,
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OK, am I going to walk in? Someone's going to club me over
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the back of the head Because it was like pretty much you
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weren't. I didn't go to it.
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It wasn't a dungeon. I she did.
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I talked to her previously and she had me meet her at a hotel
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room and I'm like, oh great, I'm not going to.
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I brought barely anything in into the room with me.
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I didn't even want to bring my car keys even in with me.
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But I'm like I have no idea. I was like I walked in and she
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she greeted me and I'm like and I was shaking.
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She just she knew I was nervous. I was, I was shaking and I and
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she and she was very good. She put me at ease and she had
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me pretty much stripped down, which is my favorite part of the
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all every session and they had to be stripped down and got me
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on my knees and then she went to work.
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But there's like took took me a while to actually it took me
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like I don't know how many sessions to finally not be
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nervous walking in. I was I was.
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I still get a little nervous walking into an A session, but
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but I'm now I can more laugh walk in for laughing and joking.
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So we know a little bit more about each other, but I know a
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lot more about her. I know about a lot of people, my
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friends so. That's awesome.
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That's awesome. So she's learning this as she's
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going along with you. Yep.
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And what have you really discovered about yourself at
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this point? I'm discovering like I I do a
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lot. I'm well, in the beginning I had
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a lot of hard limits. Like I said, no marking, no
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whips, no sounding. I didn't want anything like
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that. And I I'm learning that I I put
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all the trust I have in her. I'm now I let her do pretty much
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anything like I've taken the whip, I've taken that she's
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sounded me. I was her.
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I was her first client that she's ever sounded.
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I'm like because she practices someone else.
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But but that was the person who was teaching her, but I was the
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first official person. That's awesome because I always
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ask her what what do you want to try that you haven't tried with
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someone? And I always think you can use I
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can be your test dummy. Go right ahead and test.
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Test out anything on me. Yeah.
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I'm learning I can take a lot more pain than I thought I
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could, but I still don't like the pain.
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I I know that she does. She's more into it and I'm like,
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OK, I'll I get she gets enjoyment.
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So it makes me happy because I, I have more of a, like a
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submissive heart. I'm like I'm more.
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I am definitely a submissive. I will let As long as she's
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happy, I'm happy. That's awesome.
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That's awesome. Yeah.
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I think that when you when you open yourself to more and
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there's that build up, you know, do you find that there's like
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this point of like self reflection?
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I I, I think so. I'm all like I actually keep a
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journal. Perfect.
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Yeah, that's perfect. Because I learned that from I've
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I've, because I've listened to other podcasts and they and
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people say you should journal, journal, journal, journal.
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And I'm like, I'm like, OK, I'm sorry.
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I have like a journal. I'm from like a list every,
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every single session. And I've, I'm like, I went back
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and looked at them recently. I'm like, wow, what, what a
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difference. Everything.
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I've like just everything. I'm just totally feel like I'm a
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totally different person since since I started this little
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journey. Yeah.
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I'd like to get more because we round us, so like there's not a
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big local scene for it. There's like places I can drive,
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like there's like an hour and a half drive away from here.
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I can go some some things, but I still I'm still in the closet
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about like my my kicks, like my my family doesn't know like my
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like I have AI have a girlfriend who lives in my house with me.
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She knows nothing about this. I, I'm like, I, I keep saying
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I'm going to tell her, you know, I'm like, but I still haven't
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done it yet. Don't get married.
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I've been married once, so I'm not, I'm not sure I want to get
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married. I I didn't decide I want to get
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married again, but I want with her.
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I don't think I'm going to get married.
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Yeah, but, but I'm like I I've told her about my kinks and
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she's not into that. She's more vanilla.
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She's not into this. But she knows I do have that
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side of me, though. Yeah, but.
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It makes it so difficult. It really does, you know, when
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your partner just doesn't really understand this, the full
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spectrum of it and then they they try to open up to it, but
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then they still don't get it. She makes jokes about some of
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the things like like like the strap on you want a strap like
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in a kind of in a joking way. Like I know she's not just not,
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she's not into that. So I'm like, I just kind of like
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laugh it off and like, walk away.
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Yeah, that might not be the best option for you, Scott.
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No, I don't think so because I in the in the long, long run, I
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keep saying like, man, I'm I'm going to be like more in a
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female led relationship. That's why I like to be in at
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some point. Yeah, but I know with her it's
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not going to that's probably not going to be the way it is.
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I know she she's not going to be listening to this podcast, so
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I'm not worried. Use this bitch.
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Might be I might I might have to leave the podcast on so she can
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hear this. You know, and the thing of it is
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it's like there's something about a strap on that just so
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many women don't get, but but it's like there's power behind
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it, Man. I wish I had a fucking penis,
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you know? But I love my vagina and it's
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like, give me a penis for a week out of the year, man.
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I would be fucking everything. You know, It's crazy, You know,
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I was fucking one of my partners and of course he was just like,
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man, there's that look in your eye when you're fucking me and
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it that's what turns me on when you're doing it, when I look at
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you and look at your eyes doing it.
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And I was like, because I love it.
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I just feel like that that is an extension of me and it's like
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that appendage is me. It's like my fucking cock.
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I'm gonna fuck you and pound you until I can't take it anymore,
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you know? Cuz cuz my dad, like I think
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she, I think she gets enjoyment out of it and and I'm like, and
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I and I, I get some enjoyment, but I get more enjoyment out of
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like kind of more of the humiliation side of it.
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I don't know why, but I have no problem with if she wants to do
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it. Like I think I told you my
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message like it was, it was her, it was dessert time and she kind
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of I. Love that, that was great.
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She won't, she said, come to the room for dessert.
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And I came to the room and she says turn around.
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And then she's because she put it on and she's OK and she went
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to town. Yeah, for the listeners who
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maybe may not have heard that episode, you just said that you
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had had this session with the Dom.
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You invited her over. You told her you're going to
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make dinner for her. Yes.
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And you said you had made dessert.
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And she says Oh no no no, dessert is me fucking you with
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the strap on. Yep, exactly.
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Because I, I thought we were going to have a session.
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We were going to have. I was going to, I was going to
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cook dinner. And she says, uh, uh, she's, if
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I had a dress, you'd be, I'd put you in a dress too.
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Fuck. Yeah.
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She I was cooking and she was flogging me as I was cooking.
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Thank God I wasn't. I know what I'm doing in the
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kitchen. Thank God.
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But then she and I was eating because I said I cooked, had two
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plates set up. She says you're not eating right
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now. I I was made to stay on my knees
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as she ate. That is.
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Awesome. I had a hole or a glass of water
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and I wasn't allowed to. I wasn't allowed to eat.
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Wow, how'd that make you feel? I loved it.
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I don't know why I I didn't didn't make me feel bad at all.
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And later on she let me eat and she was how's your meal?
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I'm like a little cold. She that's when she ate.
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That's when she ate her desserts and she allowed me to eat my
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dinner, but I because she was she was asking me all these
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questions while I was cooking. Like do I know like about like,
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like the fancy meals they have. I don't know what the heck they
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they have a formal meals for DOMS and all that.
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And then she said, I've ever done any serving.
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I'm like never, never served in a restaurant, never done
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anything like that. She she said.
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Well, you'll be doing it tonight.
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Yeah, they do that high protocol.
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That's it. High protocol, that's.
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It Yeah, yeah. You know, I really don't get
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into the high protocol. And for those who really don't
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know what it's about, it's basically it's a formal dinner
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where you have to have each Dom has to have their own slave and
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their own slave or servant or sub has to cater to them and
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every whim. But I don't know, I to me it's,
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it's just so, it's so formidable, you know, and they
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have to stand a certain way and, you know, courtesy and, and do
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all those necessary things. Yeah, I, I don't mind doing a
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little bit, a little a little thing one-on-one, but I'm like,
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I don't want to do it in a big formal setting because I know
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I'm no server. I'm like, it'd be interesting,
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like the watch one time, but I'm like, I'm not, that's not me
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either. You know, some people enjoy it,
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so each their own, you know? Yep.
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So where do you see yourself at this point?
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You're gonna keep doing sessions.
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Yes, I am. And I think and that that
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session I had had recently, that was the first time she ever came
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to my home. And she's just started like AI
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was like one of her first people and she's went to their homes
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because she has, she says, well, I know you well enough by now.
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After 15 sessions over six months of knowing someone, she
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trusts me. And I and actually, when she
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told me she trusted me, that made me, I felt I was on cloud
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9. I'm like, I felt felt like she
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accepted me. She's trusting me.
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I can because I has to be scary for them too.
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You never know who's going to walk to that door.
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No, no you don't. It's another world.
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I'm like there. I mean, guarantee there's,
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there's lots of disturbed people out there.
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Yeah. But like, I bet you have the
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same issue who you never know who's going to be coming in your
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doors though too. Yeah, I've had people just walk
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in. I'm like, what the fuck are you
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doing? You know, it's like, well, it
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was unlocked. I'm like, oh, I'm going to go
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over to your house tomorrow and I'm just going to walk in and
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we'll see what happens. You know, it's just, there's
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just sometimes people just don't fucking get it, You know, it's
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just simple boundaries. There's nice, there's rude, so
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many rude people out there. You know, you just and you open
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yourself on so many levels. And I know you have to open
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yourself because you have to trust your Dom, you're and
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trusting a woman to put you in this position or predicament
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that you you don't know anything about her.
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Yeah. You know, so I think it's I
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value people's trust when they entrust me like that.
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But at the same time, there's that that moral code that I
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would expect the same trust, you know?
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You you would hope. You would hope it's not always
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that way. Oh, goodness.
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Yeah. It's it's crazy.
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It really is. You know, when you tell me you
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live in New York, one of my dear old friends, he was an, it was
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an old client. We always, he would always tell
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me some cool story. But he at the time lived in
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Birmingham. So he would drive to Atlanta,
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which was about two hour drive for him.
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And from Atlanta he would fly into New York.
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And this was in the like the early 80s to early 90s, so about
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a decade before he got married or anything.
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He got married much later, but he ended up meeting this Dom.
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And back in the day, you actually had to find an ad, go
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to a certain phone booth, call from that certain phone booth.
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I mean, it was an ordeal. I bet it had to be.
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Yeah, it. Really.
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You never click a few buttons on a computer and you hope the
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person's real. Exactly.
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Exactly. And then he's like, yeah.
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And then you get to go up to a loft where you'd meet somebody
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and you just, you just never know, you know, because you'd
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basically be picking her out from an ad in the back, the back
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of a porn mag or something. Because we used to have a
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newspaper like a like a free newspaper up here called the
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Metroland. And they had a little section in
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the back of it. It was like, like there's a
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Savage store, Savage stories or something like that.
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And then they always had all the classifieds and there's like all
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these different things. And I'm like, I honestly, I was
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looking at that section when every time that was the first
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section I went to. But but of course, I mean, back
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then I'm like, I don't have the guts to call any of these
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numbers. But one day, you finally did.
21:51
Right, I finally did. I'm so happy I did though.
21:53
You know, I was talking about this when I was in college and
21:56
it was a matter of finding those people who wanted to see a Dom
22:01
or, you know, a male sub. And it was like, it was the
22:05
classifieds. And ultimately, once we got the
22:07
Internet, it was like, Oh my God, Craigslist.
22:09
And you know, I used to love like the the little chat rooms,
22:14
you know, an AOL that was amazing you.
22:17
Know AOL, We're aging ourselves. Oh, yeah, we are.
22:20
We are totally. But you know what?
22:22
I would always go in like the New York City chat rooms.
22:25
Yeah. Because I was like, I love a
22:26
fucking New Yorker. It's the Italian accents.
22:32
That's what I always go for. But so ultimately now.
22:38
So you're in a vanilla relationship, Yes.
22:41
And obviously you see some conflict about how it's just not
22:45
going to pan out and she's not going to agree to the lifestyle.
22:49
No, definitely not. I I wish she was, she was
22:55
interested, but she's not. She's definitely not going to.
22:57
Yeah. And I and I keep like this past
23:00
week and I'm like, I got I'm going to tell her.
23:01
I'm going to tell her, I'm going to tell her.
23:03
But I still haven't done it. Yeah.
23:06
So yeah, I, I don't, it just, I see people like this and they
23:12
have to deal with it all the time.
23:14
And it's like, what do you think her reaction would finally be,
23:17
you know? Because I don't think she would
23:20
be upset upset, but she'd be like more excited.
23:23
I was. I'm sneaking around.
23:25
Yeah. Because I'm, I'm like, I, I
23:27
don't like to sneak around to go see something, go see a Dom.
23:30
But that's why I feel like I have to.
23:33
Yeah, because she because she was away on vacation.
23:36
That's why my Dom came to my house.
23:37
I figured that was, that was really the ticket right there.
23:41
Like, so she's not coming over. She's not going to be home.
23:45
She was down in Florida and I was.
23:47
I had to stay home with the I had to stay home with the dog.
23:50
I had no problem staying home with the dog.
23:55
It was in my neck of the woods. Yup, you down there?
23:59
Oh, that's too funny. That's too funny.
24:02
So. So now, is there anything in the
24:05
future you're going to be doing with your Dom?
24:08
The one thing that she she really want to do and I I got
24:10
she got me curious was the sounding which I've done that.
24:13
I'm trying to think because she I'm just trying to learn, learn
24:18
more because, because she's getting me over my
24:20
claustrophobia issues because because I couldn't wear she like
24:24
she bought a hood and she had me put the hood on and now there
24:28
was like 1 little opening and I started panicking and I said
24:31
Nope, I can't do this. I can't do this.
24:32
I can't breathe through my nose. That's my biggest that's why I
24:35
could never do I don't think I could ever do a vac bed because
24:37
I if I can't breathe through my nose, I'm going to have a little
24:40
panic attack. But she but we had a session
24:44
recently where she said because she prepped the little things
24:47
like put like a pillowcase over my head to get me over that
24:49
claustrophobic feeling. Gotcha.
24:52
And she did. She did put the hood on.
24:54
She strapped it on but she didn't make it as tight as she
24:56
could she but she did it tight enough for and put me through
25:02
the session and after once once she started hitting me I totally
25:05
forgot how to do so. That's awesome.
25:08
I wasn't. I wasn't really thinking.
25:10
I was thinking about where am I? Where is she going to hit me
25:12
next? Right.
25:15
But like she's getting me over the, the claustrophobic
25:18
feelings, which I'm like, I'm, I'm kind of like, because I
25:21
like, I did enjoy wearing the mask and everything.
25:23
Yeah. And I'm like, I don't know what
25:27
she has in store next for me because we've done almost so
25:30
many different things. I like, I do like the, the
25:33
humiliation side a little bit. And I think she, she and she's
25:37
tried to done a little bit of like the sisification, kind of
25:41
like the, the dress, the wig, the makeup.
25:44
I'm not into the makeup. I'm not that I don't like the
25:48
wig. I said she convinced me to wear
25:50
the wig, But like I, I don't mind like the, the panties and
25:56
the stuff like that. I'm more, I like that kind.
25:59
I like the, that kind of the humiliation side.
26:02
But who know? Who knows what she has in store
26:03
for me next? Because I always say I'll leave
26:06
it up to you because she goes to classes herself and so she
26:08
always learns stuff in these classes and she, I'm one of the
26:11
first people she tries things out on.
26:13
That's awesome. That is awesome.
26:15
You know, there's so many people that have come to the dungeon
26:18
that have never experienced sounds.
26:20
And when we're like, well, have you, have you ever tried
26:23
sounding? Oh, no, I don't want anything in
26:24
my Dick, you know, And it's like immediately cut it off.
26:27
And I'm like, you know, you never really know.
26:30
So there's one of my Dom's. She don't even ask anymore.
26:33
She's like, fuck it. Because ultimately they have
26:37
their safe words. Well, she'll blindfold them.
26:41
She'll put them in a compromising position where they
26:43
can't, you know, they're immobile.
26:46
And then she'll proceed to do the sounding rod and they'll say
26:50
something like, oh, that feels weird.
26:53
Oh, it does. Yeah, feels really weird.
26:55
And then some of them are just like, oh, wow.
26:58
Rarely do they ever say they don't like it.
27:02
And so she'll start doing it and she'll get the big rod like and
27:06
we'll use female rods. We had the male rods, but female
27:10
rods are different. I don't know if you've got to
27:12
experience them. I've only had the male ones.
27:15
OK, so the female rods, you might want to try those, but
27:18
they're they're thicker and they have one bend in them.
27:23
We gravitate to it probably maybe like 1/2 inch in diameter,
27:28
you know, that's what we try to gravitate.
27:30
Maybe 1/4, you know, we'll start off.
27:32
But so many of them are just like, Oh my God, that that feels
27:35
incredible. But it has just one slight bend
27:38
in it, OK. And to me, they're just so much
27:41
more pleasurable, you know, than just the one sounding rod with
27:45
the 1, you know, the, the fatter cylindrical part at the very
27:49
end. Yeah.
27:50
And yeah, we always use the female rods.
27:53
And there's so many of them now. We'll get it to where they're
27:57
like all the way down. And we've had men.
28:01
We'll we'll take their blindfold off so they can see what's going
28:04
on. They're like, holy shit, you
28:05
know, I totally shock him. It's great.
28:10
But when she the first time I experienced it, she started off
28:12
with the smallest one and she slowly worked it up and she
28:15
says, man, your cock is gobbling this thing right up.
28:18
I'm like I said, take a picture because I was blindfolded.
28:22
I said take a picture I got to see later on.
28:25
Right. You heard my episode.
28:28
I was seeing this, this one first gentleman for the first
28:32
time ever. And he starts humping it and
28:34
it's in my hand and I'm holding it right there and he's humping
28:37
it, humping it. And I was just like, OK, I said
28:41
you need to stop doing that, but do what?
28:43
I'm like, you're humping it. Stop it.
28:46
He's like, but oh, it feels so good.
28:48
It feels so good. And I was like, oh, yeah, about
28:54
that. And I didn't want him to freak
28:56
out, but he's like, are we going to be able to get this out?
29:00
And I'm like, yeah, what you're going to do?
29:01
We're going to untie this real quick.
29:04
And since you can feel it better than I can, you hold that base
29:07
right there. And then you kind of like ease
29:10
it towards the front, just kind of coerce it.
29:12
And then afterwards, he's just like, man, would we have gotten
29:16
that stuck? I'm like, yes, you dumb
29:18
motherfucker. I was like, I wasn't doing it.
29:22
I'm like, the fuck you weren't. Yeah, yeah.
29:27
Yeah, because I'm always blindfolded for it.
29:29
So I've, I have, I have no idea how far she's gone.
29:32
I'm like I said, I'm like, wow, people always say what does it
29:35
feel like? I'm like, I can't even describe
29:37
it. So this is a weird sensation.
29:39
Yeah, but. It doesn't hurt though.
29:41
Just last time I said to her, you went up in size, didn't you?
29:46
And she and she showed me the size.
29:48
I'm like, oh, I think that is a lot bigger.
29:52
Yeah, tell her to get the female rods.
29:54
I'm telling you, you'll actually like them more.
29:57
OK. Yeah, that's too cool.
29:59
That's too funny. Yeah.
30:01
And so do you like, do you use plugs a lot?
30:04
Yes Yep because I have my own set of plugs at home but I like
30:09
but she sometimes on her plugs don't even fit so like they fall
30:13
right out because they're not big enough.
30:14
But I can't take I can't go that big but I can.
30:18
I can take a decent sized plug though.
30:21
Wink, wink. Yeah, but I, I, I like the plugs
30:27
though, because it has that you get that full feeling.
30:29
Yeah, that's what I think. That's what I enjoy about the
30:31
plugs. Yeah.
30:33
Have you gotten the expandable ones yet?
30:35
Yes, I have one of myself, the one, the one's like the pump up
30:38
kind of. Oh yeah.
30:40
Yes, I got 1. Love it.
30:43
I have the plug that you have to look at the remote controls too.
30:46
Someone else can even control it.
30:47
Oh yeah, I've got one right here next to me.
30:49
I'm like, yeah, I'm gonna be using that later.
30:53
Brand new, fresh from the package.
30:58
That's great, That's so great. The.
31:01
The the the sounding though, like the female rods.
31:03
It does sound interesting. I remember you mentioned it
31:05
before and I'm like. They're awesome.
31:08
Yeah, I'll send. I'll send you a picture.
31:10
I'll show you a picture of our set that we have and you'll see
31:14
the difference. I mean, it's it's very evident,
31:17
but she. Was my Dom was gifted this this
31:19
set from someone else? They said this is a good starter
31:23
set for you. She's just learning how to use
31:25
it so. Good.
31:27
Because she got all of her training from another a place
31:30
around here. That's where she got, she got
31:32
training for like I don't know how many months and they taught
31:34
and they're the ones who taught her.
31:35
I'll use the sounding rods and everything.
31:37
Awesome. That's so cool.
31:41
That is so cool. I should really do more training
31:43
classes myself because I know so much after all these years of
31:48
doing it. And I love doing it.
31:50
But it's like when I've held classes before, people are just
31:53
like question, question, question.
31:55
And then the room is packed and I was just like, I need to do
31:59
this shit online so I don't have to answer all these questions.
32:04
Because up here they do, they do have like these like dungeons
32:07
that are like over an hour away. They do classes like like
32:11
probably like once a week they have a like one or two classes
32:14
and they sometimes they bring in someone from another area which
32:17
teaches the class, which I'm like, yeah, I would love to go
32:20
just to go to some of these, but still just kind of hard to get
32:24
down to these, these things. So, you know, I'm working and
32:27
I'm like, I work strange hours. So I'm like, I'm, I'm like my
32:31
weekends, I'm exhausted. I so I'm like, do I want to
32:34
drive an hour and a half? No, I don't want to drive.
32:37
I'll stay at home. I get it, I do, I do.
32:41
I tell you, you know, it's not like we live in Europe.
32:45
You know, the kink scene just isn't what it should be.
32:47
But you know, it keeps getting better.
32:50
I would say, you know, maybe another 20-30 years, people
32:53
might start to realize. It's amazing how many little
32:57
kinky like podcasts there are out there.
33:00
But I remember I found you because I went I I think I
33:04
googled pop BDSM podcast and you're the first name that
33:09
popped up. Boom.
33:10
I'm like. Yeah.
33:11
Like who's this person? I'm like, I'm like it's.
33:14
Me bitch and. When I listened to it, I think
33:17
the first episode I heard was, I think it was like, I think it
33:20
was Liv and you were talking. Liv had me in tears.
33:24
My God, she is such a fucking nut.
33:27
I love her. I love her.
33:29
She because. She had that Southern little
33:32
Southern accent. Little.
33:33
Southern. Accent.
33:34
I'm not sure I could take her seriously with her southern
33:36
accent. You know, what's funny is when
33:41
she's doing the podcast, she is goofy as fuck.
33:44
And I'll have to say, don't talk about that.
33:46
You know? No, no, no, let's not be goofy.
33:49
Let's be a little more serious. And she's like, yeah, I remember
33:52
fucking that kool-aid pillow when I was a kid, and I shoved
33:56
the water balloons up inside of me.
33:58
I was like, please shut up. But in the dungeon, she is a
34:04
bitch. You don't know.
34:06
You don't want to fuck with her, really.
34:08
She is a force to be reckoned with it.
34:11
She is fierce. She is a fierce, mean bitch.
34:16
Over the years I've softened a lot, you know?
34:20
But with her, no. Get on your knees.
34:23
No ain't ain't going to fly. She she takes zero bullshit.
34:30
That's why people come back to her.
34:32
That's it. Right now she's looking for a
34:35
regular sub that she wants to own.
34:40
She's had two in the past and you know, they like everything
34:45
kind of move on. She calls them her her little
34:48
birds that fly away. I heard that when you were on
34:52
the last podcast, you mentioned that I'm like, I lived in
34:55
Florida. I know if I.
34:57
Lived in Florida, it's that'd be perfect.
35:01
Now listen, I come up to Connecticut, so I said I got to
35:04
meet Tony. I got to meet Scott.
35:07
I know there's somebody else there in New York I got to meet.
35:10
Oh, and then there's this hot Latina who wants to fuck me.
35:12
Her name's Juicy on on that life and I want to fuck her.
35:17
Let me tell you now. Do you drive?
35:21
Do you drive up? You drive up, right?
35:23
I do. I do because I I bring my dogs.
35:26
OK. Then yeah.
35:27
And I don't want to fly with them, you know, And so when I
35:32
bring them, I go and see family and that kind of stuff in
35:35
Connecticut. So yeah, when I come up, yeah,
35:38
I'm going to let you know, I'll be like.
35:40
Scott, I'm not far from the the Connecticut, Massachusetts
35:44
borders. I'm right, I'm right.
35:46
I'm right over there. Perfect.
35:48
So I'm not I'm not too far. OK, well I told Tony I'm going
35:53
to meet him. I'll meet him at a coffee shop
35:55
and I'm a piss in his coffee. I'll just bring you a plug or
36:02
something. Make sure it's like really big.
36:08
Make me sit there and talk to you with it in.
36:10
Exactly. Vibrate it.
36:12
You know remote control too fun but good I you know, it's always
36:19
been a pleasure and it's it's always a pleasure that we I I
36:22
get to reach out and actually talk to one of my long time
36:25
listeners. It's always fun I'm.
36:27
I'm just amazed. I'm on a talking to you face to
36:31
face. I I can't believe it.
36:34
No, it's so cool. It really is so cool.
36:37
Like I said, I wouldn't have a show if it weren't for people
36:39
like you, you know? It's just, it's true.
36:41
If people didn't enjoy it, you know, then who would listen to
36:45
it? Every time you've, every time
36:47
you've ever read one of my messages, I'm like, all of a
36:49
sudden I, I stop what I'm doing. I all of a sudden she sees a
36:52
smile on my face. I'm like, I'm like, oh, that
36:55
makes you feel so good somewhere.
36:57
The first one. I loved your last e-mail.
37:00
You're like, is does Kylie? Has she been living under a
37:02
rock? And I was like, yes.
37:05
'Cause everything you mentioned is never watch that movie, never
37:08
watch that. I'm like, what?
37:09
Where has she been like Roadhouse?
37:12
There's been two different versions.
37:14
There's a new one and an old one.
37:16
Yeah, the new one was kind of, I mean, I love Jake Gyllenhaal,
37:19
but it was just kind of violent for me.
37:22
Were you a fan of that? I I couldn't.
37:24
Do you even watch the whole thing?
37:25
Yeah. I like the old school one, the
37:28
Patrick Swayze. That's better.
37:29
That's more entertaining. Patrick Swayze.
37:32
God, he was just the fucking bomb diggity he really was.
37:36
He was so awesome. I used to go to Houston a lot to
37:40
see my niece and I was like, I'm going to go by his old dance
37:43
studio. I want to see where he grew up,
37:45
You know, IA huge Patrick Swayze fan.
37:49
But yeah, I just, when I talk to Kylie, I keep having to remind
37:54
myself she's only 24 years old. Oh wow, she's young.
37:58
She's young, she's just a baby and it's just like Roadhouse is
38:01
coming out. When she was born, she didn't I,
38:05
you know, I didn't even ask her if she watched Dirty Dancing.
38:11
When she she didn't even know what Jenny Craig was.
38:14
It was. It she didn't know Jenny Craig.
38:17
And I was like, that's like Weight Watchers.
38:19
What she's like Lauren and Ellie, really.
38:21
I was like, yes. I can understand maybe not
38:24
knowing Animal House. Animal.
38:26
That was like the the top comedy.
38:28
That was like when comedies really started kicking.
38:31
That was what, 1977? Yeah.
38:36
Boy, I was just shaking my head the whole time.
38:39
I'm listening to that one. I'm like, man, where has she
38:42
been? I know.
38:44
It's one of my favorite movies. I love that movie.
38:47
I love that movie. Tim Mathis is still acting.
38:51
Yeah. I was like, Oh my God, he looks
38:52
so good. Otter.
38:54
What happened, man? You know, he looks so good for
38:56
his age, but damn, he's gotten old.
39:00
He's an old man now. They're all old.
39:03
They're all my but Kevin Bacon. My God, Kevin Bacon still looks
39:07
fucking phenomenal. He.
39:07
Was a baby. He was such a baby.
39:09
Though Oh, he was, he was such a hot baby.
39:16
I mean, I know that was the whole point.
39:18
I got to send that little clip to to Kylie because it was.
39:23
Yes, thank you, Sir. My I have another.
39:25
And I'm like the caddling. I, I remember that scene.
39:28
I'm like, man, I don't want a guy doing that to me, but if a
39:32
woman did it to me. I know I I certainly didn't want
39:36
that asshole doing it to me, but it was just the fact that I was
39:39
watching Kevin Bacon get it. It was like, yeah, I was hot.
39:44
Wearing his tighty whities. Oh my God, yes, you know, and
39:50
you've heard on the episode the last I've had two guys come in
39:55
wearing their fucking Whitey tighties and they love wet
39:58
cheese. It's hilarious to me.
40:01
Hilarious. And I've had now three in the
40:04
last 30 plus years of Whitey, tighty wedgies.
40:10
Yeah. But you, you guys always
40:11
mentioned about guys not coming in the, the cleaning themselves
40:15
up and doing oh. My God, no.
40:17
I thought that was common sense because I'm always trimmed,
40:21
cleaned up everything. I shower like a like a like.
40:25
It's like I've never shower before, before every session.
40:27
I always want to smell good. I don't brush my teeth, do
40:30
everything. Yeah.
40:32
I'm like, what kind of person goes to a session?
40:34
Not not bathe. You know, there's so many guys
40:39
that have to be in the closet with it, and I get it.
40:42
But you know, I would be OK if they wanted to take a shower
40:45
here if I knew them now, if I just met them and I'd be like,
40:49
no, you're not going to come to the house and bathe.
40:51
But you know, I know I hate to be mean and picky and ugly about
40:56
it, but just some of them, I'm, I'm like you.
41:00
Even if they just brush their teeth.
41:01
It was like the guy who was humping the sounding rod the
41:04
other day, He was humping it and blowing right in my face and all
41:09
I smelt was onion and stomach. And it was just like that on top
41:14
of, you know, humping the rod. I'm like, I want to punch you
41:17
right now. No.
41:20
Stop breathing on my face and I'm like doing like this.
41:29
What do you do you? Just want to blow it back into
41:31
their face. Yeah, I yeah, I brush my teeth
41:36
before a session, you know. I don't want, I don't want them.
41:41
I want to smell as bad as good as possible.
41:43
I know, trust me, you know, and there's honestly, there's so few
41:48
that think like that, you know, and they're usually men that I
41:53
don't know that just kind of have it together on some level.
41:56
I mean, a lot of the younger guys, you know, they're young,
41:59
they're cute. They they don't have to work
42:01
that hard in their mind. So maybe they don't, you know,
42:04
it's just like, I had this really cute Sissy and he came in
42:06
with greasy hair and I was like, honey, before you come in to see
42:10
Mistress Mia, you got to wash your hair and look good.
42:13
You know, if I'm going to make you pretty, you know, you got to
42:17
take a bath. I'm sorry, Mistress Mia, you
42:19
know. Like cute.
42:23
I feel bad today I I'm due for a haircut.
42:26
I'm like, oh grandma, talk to mistress me and I'm not going to
42:28
have a nice clean haircut. You look good.
42:32
You don't worry about it. You're good.
42:34
You're good. But anyway, yeah, I, you know,
42:39
some of these kids, they weren't taught proper hygiene because
42:42
they usually they had shitty parents.
42:43
But you know, just saying, what do you do?
42:49
You know, that's right. That's it.
42:51
But it has been a pleasure, Scott, it really has.
42:54
I love it. We'll have to chit chat again
42:56
and you have to tell me how things, you know, move forward
42:59
for you honestly. I will.
43:01
I definitely. I'll, I'll be in touch.
43:02
You know I will. Be Oh, I know you will.
43:05
And you keep the emails coming because I think it's great.
43:07
It's awesome. I miss Tony because I haven't
43:10
heard from Tony. Yeah, I.
43:11
Haven't heard of Tony in that that message in a while.
43:13
That's. Why?
43:14
I know. It's like, come on, Tony, he's
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so fun. I listen to all your, I, I, I
43:21
have the ear earbuds in at work and I'm listening to Mistress.
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Call me Mistress. It's I'm listening to and
43:27
people, people always say what are you listening to?
43:29
I'm like, I'm listening to podcasts.
43:30
I'm like, you don't need to know what I'm listening to.
43:33
Yeah, I can't listen. I can't listen to you guys when
43:36
I'm at the gym anymore 'cause I laugh too much and people think
43:38
if something's wrong with. Me, that's awesome.
43:40
That's awesome. You know, and sometimes I
43:43
really, I take for granted how silly we can be.
43:47
And I'll go back and I'll listen to something like you said with
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Barbie and myself for me and Liv or something.
43:53
And it's like, man, I'm laughing.
43:54
I'm at the gym, it's I'm laughing.
43:56
It's funny, you know? And then I'm like, I don't want
43:59
to be like a narcissist, but man, that was really funny, you
44:03
know, but I'm glad, I'm glad people enjoy it.
44:07
I really do. The numbers, my numbers keep
44:10
going up. And like I said, 193 countries,
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there's 195 countries in the world.
44:15
That's, that's crazy. That's really crazy right there,
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yes. That's nuts.
44:20
I love it. I mean, I'm like, I'm and The
44:23
funny thing of it is at the end of the year, Spotify will give
44:26
you like this little video and it'll tell you, you know, your
44:30
primary listeners and all that. No, I noticed that we've had
44:34
we've had more female listeners pop up here lately.
44:37
So now we're like 70% men and 20% women.
44:42
And then we have like 10% non binary.
44:45
But yeah, all of our all of our listeners primarily listen to
44:49
Joe Rogan. I'm like Joe Rogan is the number
44:51
one podcast, you know, and for them to like Joe Rogan and then
44:55
our show, it's like that's such a compliment.
44:58
You know I love Joe Rogan. He's he is really good though.
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He is really. Good.
45:03
He is, he is, you know, it's just the fact that he's so nice
45:07
and he's so authentic, you know, and then you could just talk to
45:11
anybody just so fluidly and just, I don't know, he just
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seems like a very just genuine nice person.
45:18
So I remember when he was beyond, he was on ATV show going
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way back in the day. I'm like I I said, yeah, he was
45:24
on ATV show, but he was that small little role.
45:26
And I'm like, look at that now. He said USC fighting and this is
45:29
all yes. When I saw him years ago on Fear
45:32
Factor, I'm like, God, this guy's got charisma, he's going
45:35
to make it big. I knew when I saw him, I'm like,
45:38
yeah, he's going to be something.
45:40
And boom, like you said #1 podcast in the world, Fucking
45:44
Joe Rogan. It's amazing.
45:46
That's great. It is.
45:47
You're right up there too, though.
45:49
Oh yeah, yeah yeah Scott, stop. If BDSM were more popular I
45:55
would agree with you but God so many people want to be anti
45:58
BDSM. I don't understand, I don't
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understand, don't understand. I don't get, you know, I had my
46:04
sister-in-law. She said to me the other day,
46:07
she's like, she said something to me like she implied that she
46:13
thought when I first started as a Dom that I was having sex with
46:17
my clients. I said, whoa, whoa, whoa.
46:19
What? I said, what do you, what do you
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think I do? And she's like, well, you have
46:25
sex with some of them, right? But I thought you didn't do that
46:28
after you got married. I said, no, no, no, no.
46:30
I haven't had sex with anybody for money because I don't do
46:35
that. I said, no, I said, you know,
46:39
this is what I do. And I try to explain to her.
46:42
And I said, do you remember that time?
46:45
And then I, I kind of went back on a story because years before,
46:49
this has been like two or three years before all this, she had
46:52
gone with me and we had gone, I dropped her off at a casino with
46:57
my mother and I had gone down the street to a hotel to meet a
47:01
client who was one of my foot fetish guys.
47:04
And she was sitting in the back seat.
47:06
She's going through my bag and she's like, oh, I love these
47:08
shoes, let me try them on. She's like, why are they so
47:10
greasy? I was like, I had lotion on my
47:13
feet. What what you making a deal out
47:15
of it? But I told her, I said I lied to
47:18
you. It wasn't lotion from my feet.
47:20
It was baby oil from his Dick that he put in my shoe.
47:24
And she's like, oh fuck. I said he was clean and I said
47:32
that's what I do. And she's like, I had no idea.
47:36
I said, so you rather just thought I was a hooker.
47:39
So I mean, my point of it is so many people just don't get it.
47:43
Even that's the closest people to me.
47:46
Yeah, it's part of this. Hey, it's lappy.
47:50
Will never, will never understand.
47:52
Never understand. No so crazy anyway, not to
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monopolize, but I know you have to go.
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You have other things going on this afternoon.
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But again, thank you for taking the time to talk to me.
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It's. A pleasure I love this is fun
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it's a lot of fun it's. Been fun Scott.
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Thank you so much. You're more than welcome.
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Thank you. All right, so I'll do a lovely
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closing. So until then, thank you for
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listening. And this has been the latest
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episode of Call Me Mistress. Call me Mistress.
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