Latest / QUESTION EVERYTHING / War: How We Buy + Sell It and The Impact on Women + Children: with Dr. Samantha Nutt, Founder of War Child
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- 0:04Speaker 1: Big things happen when you're pretty, pretty bold, pretty clever,
- 0:08Speaker 1: pretty strong. I'm Danielle Robe, and each week my guests
- 0:12Speaker 1: and I have conversations that put a new spin on
- 0:15Speaker 1: pretty This is pretty smart. As we watch a war
- 0:20Speaker 1: in Ukraine unfold before our eyes, there's one woman who
- 0:23Speaker 1: believes that while humans are responsible for all war, we
- 0:27Speaker 1: are also the only ones with the power to stop it.
- 0:34Speaker 1: Doctor Samantha Nutt is the founder of Warchild USA. It's
- 0:37Speaker 1: an organization that aims to help children in war torn communities,
- 0:41Speaker 1: taking a long term approach to breaking the cycle of
- 0:44Speaker 1: poverty and violence. Doctor Nutt has worked in dozens of
- 0:48Speaker 1: conflict zones and is a leading voice on current affairs,
- 0:52Speaker 1: international aid and foreign policy.
- 0:55Speaker 2: She traveled first.
- 0:55Speaker 1: To one of the most dangerous conflict zones on Earth
- 0:58Speaker 1: when she was just twenty five, and she's been traveling
- 1:01Speaker 1: back to conflict zones ever since. Today we talk about
- 1:05Speaker 1: how we are complicit in war, how we can stop it,
- 1:09Speaker 1: and the implication of war, particularly on women and children.
- 1:14Speaker 1: Just a quick note, we taped this interview about a
- 1:16Speaker 1: week and a half ago, so I know that you
- 1:22Speaker 1: were fresh out of medical school at twenty five years
- 1:25Speaker 1: old and you traveled to a war zone in Somalia
- 1:28Speaker 1: to work with UNICEF. You say, journalists called it the
- 1:31Speaker 1: city of Death. Most people completely shy away from war zones,
- 1:37Speaker 1: but you ran right towards one. What motivated you to
- 1:40Speaker 1: do that back then?
- 1:42Speaker 3: That's always a tough question to answer, to be honest
- 1:45Speaker 3: with you, because I think part of it was that
- 1:49Speaker 3: youthful idealism and that sense of in a way immunity
- 1:53Speaker 3: from danger. And I don't know if I had fully
- 1:57Speaker 3: appreciated the level of risk that I was taking at
- 2:00Speaker 3: that moment in my life, that maybe I would have
- 2:02Speaker 3: made a different decision regardless though you know, for me
- 2:05Speaker 3: it was really about all the way through medical school.
- 2:08Speaker 3: One of the reasons why I even went to medical
- 2:09Speaker 3: school was because I was always very interested in to
- 2:13Speaker 3: that intersection between women's health and the violence the women
- 2:17Speaker 3: experience and the lack of realization of women's rights, not
- 2:21Speaker 3: just here in North America but throughout the world. And
- 2:24Speaker 3: you know, considered myself to be a feminist from a
- 2:26Speaker 3: very young age and really invested in the advancement of
- 2:29Speaker 3: women globally. And so for me, getting on that plane
- 2:32Speaker 3: to go to Somalia, which was one of the worst
- 2:34Speaker 3: places in the world to be a woman or a girl,
- 2:37Speaker 3: where they have had extremely high rates of maternal mortality,
- 2:41Speaker 3: and then on top of that the conflict and the
- 2:43Speaker 3: ensuing famine. You know, to me, as a doctor, somebody
- 2:47Speaker 3: interested in public health, as a woman who was deeply
- 2:49Speaker 3: committed to these issues, it seemed like the logical and
- 2:53Speaker 3: sort of natural thing to do, and to be honest
- 2:55Speaker 3: as a doctor too, I felt that I could be
- 2:57Speaker 3: extremely helpful there. It was the second wave of a famine.
- 3:01Speaker 3: More than three hundred thousand people had died in Bidoa,
- 3:03Speaker 3: which is the town that I was landing in, and
- 3:06Speaker 3: I felt that I had tangible skills that I would
- 3:08Speaker 3: be able to contribute to help keep people alive and
- 3:11Speaker 3: put in particular women and children. We can talk afterwards
- 3:14Speaker 3: about whether that proved to be true or not, or
- 3:18Speaker 3: even whether that's the best way to help looking back,
- 3:20Speaker 3: but at the time, that's what motivated me.
- 3:22Speaker 1: If you can take me back to day one, you
- 3:24Speaker 1: get off the plane and what was that experience.
- 3:27Speaker 3: Even like it was intense, you know, Somolia is still
- 3:31Speaker 3: one of the most challenging humanitarian environments in the world.
- 3:34Speaker 3: And it didn't take very long. You know, I got
- 3:37Speaker 3: off of this tiny six seater World Food Program plane
- 3:40Speaker 3: in the middle of a landing strip in the desert,
- 3:43Speaker 3: and we jumped into the back of a UN vehicle
- 3:47Speaker 3: that actually was no longer a UN vehicle because it
- 3:49Speaker 3: had been looted several months prior and now is being
- 3:53Speaker 3: rented back by the United Nations. There were armed technicals
- 3:57Speaker 3: on the roof of the car, in the back of
- 4:00Speaker 3: the car who were you know, young men with semi
- 4:04Speaker 3: automatic rifles who were there to protect aid workers, which
- 4:08Speaker 3: was something that I was not either comfortable with or
- 4:11Speaker 3: even familiar with at that moment in time. But there
- 4:13Speaker 3: had been a number of after Operation Restore Hope, there
- 4:16Speaker 3: had been a number of attacks on aid workers and
- 4:19Speaker 3: AID convoys. And as we're driving into town, there were
- 4:23Speaker 3: you know, grenades still with the pins in them, that
- 4:25Speaker 3: rolled out from under the back of the car when
- 4:28Speaker 3: the darmon put the brakes on and under my feet.
- 4:30Speaker 3: So it you know, really to say that it was
- 4:33Speaker 3: a rapid fire into what it means to be in
- 4:37Speaker 3: war and to be a humanitarian in war, that would
- 4:40Speaker 3: certainly be a profound understatement. And also just everything had
- 4:43Speaker 3: been destroyed. We everywhere we went, schools were deserted, hospitals
- 4:48Speaker 3: were full of bullet holes. There were you know, bodies
- 4:50Speaker 3: in the street. I mean, it was. It was a
- 4:52Speaker 3: very very heartbreaking, challenging and horrific time in that country's history.
- 4:59Speaker 2: What was your p of war before going there.
- 5:03Speaker 3: My perception of war before going there, honestly, Danielle, was
- 5:07Speaker 3: that it was an isolated problem. You know, that war
- 5:12Speaker 3: was something that most of the world had gone through,
- 5:16Speaker 3: that now we had the United Nations, we had ways
- 5:19Speaker 3: of resolving these disputes. As a kid in the eighties,
- 5:22Speaker 3: you know, I certainly remember and now I'm dating myself,
- 5:25Speaker 3: but the Cold War and the tensions around the Cold War,
- 5:28Speaker 3: and so for me, I suppose war was a very
- 5:33Speaker 3: geopolitical issue on the one hand, but at the same
- 5:37Speaker 3: time it was a very local issue. And what I
- 5:40Speaker 3: didn't fully appreciate was the extent to which, in many
- 5:44Speaker 3: instances that violence is courted, it is sustained, it is
- 5:49Speaker 3: enabled by a broader environment that is historical, that is colonial,
- 5:56Speaker 3: that is economic, that is political, that in fact feeds
- 6:00Speaker 3: and fuels and exacerbates many of these conflicts throughout the world.
- 6:03Speaker 3: Even ones that you would presume are a problem of
- 6:07Speaker 3: that particular that particular country and their particular history. It's
- 6:12Speaker 3: simply not true. There are many many tentacles to war,
- 6:15Speaker 3: and there are many ways in which all of us,
- 6:18Speaker 3: as civilians occupying this shared space, are are implicated in
- 6:22Speaker 3: the suffering and abuse that civilians living in war experience
- 6:25Speaker 3: every day.
- 6:26Speaker 1: I don't think I can even begin to imagine what
- 6:29Speaker 1: changed in you after being there. Do you have any
- 6:32Speaker 1: memories of perceptible changes?
- 6:36Speaker 3: I do. Actually, you know, when you're in medical school,
- 6:39Speaker 3: you you become pretty cocky, right, You become confident in
- 6:45Speaker 3: that you think that you are I mean, there's no
- 6:49Speaker 3: way to put this. I mean you think that you're
- 6:51Speaker 3: you have skills, and you think that you're you're special
- 6:53Speaker 3: and that you can save people, and and and the
- 6:56Speaker 3: whole process of medical school that is sort of instill
- 7:00Speaker 3: that philosophy into you. Right, And then landing in Somalia
- 7:05Speaker 3: as I did, I was there just a couple of days,
- 7:08Speaker 3: and you know, and again so confident not just about
- 7:11Speaker 3: my skills but my usefulness in this situation. And I
- 7:15Speaker 3: was standing there at a feeding clinics that was a
- 7:18Speaker 3: unise of supported feeding clinic where women had been waiting
- 7:21Speaker 3: all day holding their infants to be seen to be
- 7:23Speaker 3: treated at this malnutrition clinic. And it's called supplemental feeding clinic.
- 7:27Speaker 3: And about twenty minutes into this conversation I was having
- 7:30Speaker 3: with this one young woman, and you know, there I am,
- 7:33Speaker 3: and I have my stethoscope draped around my neck, you know,
- 7:35Speaker 3: in the usual doctor way, and and I'm taking her
- 7:39Speaker 3: history and taking notes. And I did something fairly innocuous.
- 7:42Speaker 3: I just leaned forward to try to put my finger
- 7:44Speaker 3: in the palm of her baby's hand. And when I
- 7:47Speaker 3: did that, I discovered that her baby was was already
- 7:51Speaker 3: in rigor. So this her baby had already succumbed to
- 7:54Speaker 3: malnutrition and dehydration, you know, many many hours before. But
- 7:59Speaker 3: yet here she was still standing in this line, waiting
- 8:02Speaker 3: to be treated, and I had been, you know, standing
- 8:05Speaker 3: there asking her these inane questions about her health. And
- 8:09Speaker 3: you know, that moment really was both profoundly heartbreaking, but
- 8:14Speaker 3: it also all of my assumptions and prescriptions and that
- 8:20Speaker 3: sense of confidence, it all just immediately came crashing down.
- 8:26Speaker 3: I mean, I was just I was crushed by what
- 8:28Speaker 3: I was witnessing. And then to hear her story and
- 8:31Speaker 3: to understand that she knew that her baby was dying,
- 8:34Speaker 3: and that she had been detained by these young boys
- 8:37Speaker 3: who had managed to get their hands on some collision
- 8:39Speaker 3: of cough rifles and who had been shaking her down
- 8:41Speaker 3: for two days at their own randomly established checkpoint while
- 8:45Speaker 3: her baby was dying, trying to get money out of her,
- 8:47Speaker 3: you know, sexually abusing her. It was just this scale
- 8:51Speaker 3: of trauma and suffering, you know, and the implication there too,
- 8:56Speaker 3: in terms of how these young men were able to
- 8:58Speaker 3: get these weapons and carry out these kinds of atrocities,
- 9:01Speaker 3: and following those weapons back to where they originated from
- 9:05Speaker 3: and the arms trained and who's profiting from that. It
- 9:07Speaker 3: seemed to me in that moment that this was a
- 9:11Speaker 3: problem that was so catastrophic and so large and yet
- 9:15Speaker 3: so poorly understood at the same time that we often
- 9:19Speaker 3: characterize it as a simple situation where you know, there's
- 9:22Speaker 3: conflict over there, you know, you've got some humanitarian aid
- 9:25Speaker 3: that goes in, But it's way bigger than that, and
- 9:29Speaker 3: it's a suffering that tragically we're all implicated in. At
- 9:32Speaker 3: the same time, that means that we can make different
- 9:35Speaker 3: choices So I would say that was the moment in
- 9:39Speaker 3: my life where all of my smug prescriptions around aid
- 9:44Speaker 3: and development and war, all of my naive convictions around
- 9:50Speaker 3: my own usefulness and intelligence in those situations as a doctor,
- 9:56Speaker 3: they were all just a fiction. And that realization was
- 10:00Speaker 3: really important one and it has profoundly changed my life.
- 10:03Speaker 1: It's interesting that you say we can all make different choices,
- 10:06Speaker 1: because at least for me, war seems so far away, Like,
- 10:12Speaker 1: how could any of the choices I make have any
- 10:15Speaker 1: implication on war in Somalia or other places in Ukraine?
- 10:20Speaker 1: So I'm so excited or eager to talk to you
- 10:23Speaker 1: about how our choices do matter. And before we get
- 10:27Speaker 1: into that, I just want to ask you about Ukraine,
- 10:29Speaker 1: if that's okay. Supporting it's top of mind for everybody.
- 10:34Speaker 1: So as we're talking, this situation I think keeps getting
- 10:38Speaker 1: more horrific, and also we're simultaneously somewhat desensitized to it.
- 10:44Speaker 1: I see that on social media for sure. What's your
- 10:47Speaker 1: biggest fear in regards to the conflict in Ukraine?
- 10:51Speaker 3: My biggest fear is that this will become yet another
- 10:55Speaker 3: intractable conflict that goes on for years. It has already
- 11:00Speaker 3: displaced more you know, ten million people, more than three
- 11:04Speaker 3: and a half million who've become refugees across borders, who
- 11:07Speaker 3: currently are waiting, hoping to be able to return to
- 11:11Speaker 3: the life that they used to know, children who've experienced
- 11:14Speaker 3: tremendous trauma, women and children who are at extreme risk
- 11:18Speaker 3: of exploitation and abuse in human trafficking, and you know,
- 11:22Speaker 3: so my fear is that the longer this will drag on,
- 11:25Speaker 3: the more refugees we will see from this conflict, the
- 11:29Speaker 3: more devastating it will be, the higher the level of trauma,
- 11:32Speaker 3: the higher the scale of need, and the greater the
- 11:35Speaker 3: ongoing risk. At the same time, my other fear, and
- 11:38Speaker 3: these go hand in hand, is that really the conflict
- 11:42Speaker 3: in Ukraine has overtaken and overshadowed every other conversation about
- 11:49Speaker 3: every other war zone that is taking place in the
- 11:52Speaker 3: world right now. It wasn't that long ago, just last summer,
- 11:56Speaker 3: six months ago, that we were all very much concerned
- 11:59Speaker 3: about talking about this situation in Afghanistan, which has been
- 12:03Speaker 3: particularly devastating for women and children. Even right now as
- 12:08Speaker 3: we're having this conversation to Taliban are refusing to allow
- 12:11Speaker 3: girls to attend secondary school. So my fear is twofold
- 12:16Speaker 3: one is that this conflict in ukrent Crane will drag on,
- 12:20Speaker 3: that the impact will be absolutely devastating. It already has
- 12:22Speaker 3: been devastating, but it could even deepen. The longer it
- 12:26Speaker 3: drags on, the less interested people will be, the less
- 12:30Speaker 3: support there will be, even as the needs continue to escalate.
- 12:33Speaker 3: And at the same time, it has completely hijacked the
- 12:37Speaker 3: conversation and frankly the human and financial resources that are
- 12:42Speaker 3: needed for other conflicts taking place throughout.
- 12:45Speaker 2: The world as well.
- 12:47Speaker 1: You've talked about trauma in both places thus far. If
- 12:51Speaker 1: we were to zoom out, how do you see trauma
- 12:55Speaker 1: like that impact generations to come?
- 12:57Speaker 3: It does, and it does so in in many ways.
- 13:01Speaker 3: I mean, even if you just look at children, for example,
- 13:04Speaker 3: who are experiencing conflict, whether they're displaced or not, inevitably
- 13:10Speaker 3: it becomes unsafe for them to access education. We know
- 13:14Speaker 3: that education directly connects to economic opportunities in life. So
- 13:19Speaker 3: kids who miss out on months, in some cases years
- 13:23Speaker 3: of schooling struggle to get back into school, will struggle
- 13:27Speaker 3: to finish their education, which can really sanction them to
- 13:31Speaker 3: a lifetime of poverty. And then you see the generational
- 13:36Speaker 3: impacts of that. For example, in addition, you have kids
- 13:40Speaker 3: who are not in school, who are in many cases unaccompanied,
- 13:43Speaker 3: who have experienced trauma, who are at higher risk of
- 13:47Speaker 3: recruitment by various armed groups throughout the world, So then
- 13:50Speaker 3: they're also at higher risk of engaging in armed warfare
- 13:55Speaker 3: both now and in the future. You have a lot
- 13:58Speaker 3: of young girls and women who are are at extreme
- 14:01Speaker 3: risk of sexual exploitation and abuse because again there are
- 14:05Speaker 3: very few means at their disposal to be able to
- 14:08Speaker 3: not only earn an income, but also to be able
- 14:10Speaker 3: to protect themselves. Some of them are arriving, they're unaccompanied,
- 14:14Speaker 3: you know, they don't have access to their identity papers,
- 14:16Speaker 3: so they're very vulnerable to all of these external actors
- 14:20Speaker 3: who prey upon you know, their desperation, and so these
- 14:25Speaker 3: generational effects, I mean, it doesn't take very long, a
- 14:31Speaker 3: couple of years for them to begin to come into play.
- 14:35Speaker 3: And that's why really when we're talking about how to
- 14:37Speaker 3: address these issues, we have to have a long term view.
- 14:40Speaker 3: And why education and economic opportunity, which are two areas
- 14:44Speaker 3: that Workshell focuses on very specifically, are so critical to
- 14:48Speaker 3: the approaches that we take because otherwise, you know, desperate
- 14:51Speaker 3: people are driven to make desperate choices, and those desperate
- 14:54Speaker 3: choices are often very dangerous ones.
- 14:57Speaker 1: My grandmother and her entire family in the Holocaust, and
- 15:02Speaker 1: most of them survived and came to America thankfully. But
- 15:08Speaker 1: I've seen the impact and felt the impact two generations later,
- 15:13Speaker 1: and they had, in many ways very fortunate circumstances compared
- 15:18Speaker 1: to others. So it just it sets us back so far.
- 15:25Speaker 2: It does.
- 15:26Speaker 3: And that's I mean, you've you've really hit the nail
- 15:29Speaker 3: on the head there. That's a that's you know, a
- 15:30Speaker 3: really important example. And it manifests down the line in
- 15:35Speaker 3: different ways as well, in terms of mental health impacts, dragging, alcohol, addiction, violence, uh, divorce.
- 15:42Speaker 3: You know, it's like all of these kinds of things
- 15:44Speaker 3: that that people harbor because war fundamentally erodes are our
- 15:51Speaker 3: sense of self, our sense of security. It introduces a
- 15:56Speaker 3: level of perpetual fear and anxiety of the impermanence of
- 16:01Speaker 3: everything that we have. That is that is really difficult
- 16:05Speaker 3: to manage for anyone, and that that is something that
- 16:09Speaker 3: gets passed down. There's no question about that.
- 16:12Speaker 1: I've never thought about the impermanence notion and you're right,
- 16:15Speaker 1: I definitely feel that within my lineage personally, what do
- 16:20Speaker 1: you wish more people understood about geopolitical advantage?
- 16:23Speaker 3: What I wish more people understood was that we do.
- 16:27Speaker 3: There is obviously geopolitical advantage, but that that really should
- 16:32Speaker 3: reinforce or at least underscore, the need for us, for
- 16:37Speaker 3: all of us, no matter where we live in the world,
- 16:39Speaker 3: to pay attention to what's happening not just within our borders,
- 16:43Speaker 3: but beyond our borders as well, to wrestle with some
- 16:46Speaker 3: of these complicated, complex issues that tie into you know,
- 16:50Speaker 3: economic inequality, geopolitical advantage, colonialism, history, you know, power dynamics,
- 16:55Speaker 3: all of these things, and that also that really is
- 16:59Speaker 3: a to action to us to give you know, I
- 17:03Speaker 3: hear so often, well, why should I give to what's
- 17:05Speaker 3: happening in other parts of the world. We have our
- 17:07Speaker 3: own problems here at home, and that's true, but we
- 17:10Speaker 3: can walk into gum here, right Like, just because you
- 17:12Speaker 3: get care about breast cancer and homelessness and animal rights
- 17:17Speaker 3: and all of these kinds of things, does not mean
- 17:19Speaker 3: that you can't also care about those who are caught
- 17:23Speaker 3: in the worst human tragedy, which is war.
- 17:27Speaker 1: I'd like to think that the people I know are
- 17:29Speaker 1: thoughtful and compassionate people. It seems like resources are really
- 17:35Speaker 1: the only thing stopping most people from wanting to help,
- 17:39Speaker 1: that there's only so much to go around. Do you
- 17:41Speaker 1: have any suggestions in terms of how people can help
- 17:44Speaker 1: that maybe doesn't include money.
- 17:46Speaker 3: Yeah, And I'll just to sort of dispel the idea
- 17:49Speaker 3: that you need a lot of money to give to
- 17:52Speaker 3: you know, the most effective way of giving is even
- 17:54Speaker 3: a smaller regular contribution, so a monthly contribution, because it
- 17:58Speaker 3: allows organizations you are doing doing the long term work
- 18:01Speaker 3: like ours, to really make consistent investments in our programs,
- 18:06Speaker 3: and it takes away the burden of having to constantly
- 18:09Speaker 3: fundraise and do donor appeals and sit around and wonder,
- 18:12Speaker 3: you know, are you going to have the resources by
- 18:13Speaker 3: the end of the year to be able to run
- 18:15Speaker 3: this program in for example, Afghanistan or Eastern Congos. So
- 18:18Speaker 3: you don't have to write big checks. And I think
- 18:20Speaker 3: that that's a myth. The most precious and important donors
- 18:24Speaker 3: that are out there are the ones who give five
- 18:26Speaker 3: dollars or ten dollars a month, because those are the
- 18:28Speaker 3: ones that we rely on, that we can depend on
- 18:31Speaker 3: and that really enable us to make long term plans,
- 18:34Speaker 3: which I think provides security to our program. So that's
- 18:37Speaker 3: the first thing I would say. The second thing I
- 18:39Speaker 3: would say is that a lot of people have terrific talents,
- 18:41Speaker 3: you know, whether it is participating through social media, sharing information,
- 18:47Speaker 3: whether it is volunteering in some capacity. You know, we
- 18:49Speaker 3: get contacted all the time by people. Sometimes we can
- 18:52Speaker 3: use the skills, sometimes we can't. We'll say things like,
- 18:55Speaker 3: you know, I don't know if you need somebody who's
- 18:57Speaker 3: really good at you know, at digital media, or really
- 19:00Speaker 3: good at brand management, or you know, I don't know
- 19:03Speaker 3: if you need somebody who's a translator, or or somebody
- 19:06Speaker 3: who's really good at events, like I'll show up at
- 19:08Speaker 3: one of your events and help out. Those kinds of
- 19:09Speaker 3: things are really terrific, and so a lot we see
- 19:12Speaker 3: a lot of people who just are good at different things,
- 19:15Speaker 3: who bring their energy and their excitement and spread awareness
- 19:18Speaker 3: and raise some funds in some cases, or just do
- 19:22Speaker 3: some of the work that we, you know, don't have
- 19:24Speaker 3: the time or the ability to be able to resource ourselves.
- 19:29Speaker 1: So in your now famous Ted talk, you say war
- 19:32Speaker 1: is ours, We buy it, sell it, spread it, and
- 19:36Speaker 1: wage it. We are therefore not powerless to solve it.
- 19:40Speaker 1: What do you mean by we buy it and sell it?
- 19:42Speaker 3: Well, I mean what I was referring to specifically there
- 19:46Speaker 3: is that we are not only deeply invested in war,
- 19:49Speaker 3: but we on a daily basis, those of us who live,
- 19:52Speaker 3: particularly in what we consider to be you know, small
- 19:55Speaker 3: l liberal democracies or with that geoclitical privilege that you
- 19:58Speaker 3: talked about earlier, we are deeply in in war, and
- 20:01Speaker 3: we profit from war, and it is in everything that
- 20:03Speaker 3: we do every single day. There is a mineral called coltan,
- 20:07Speaker 3: also called tantalum, which is a conducting element which can
- 20:10Speaker 3: be found in most of our cell phones and our
- 20:12Speaker 3: computers and our video game consoles, that is actively mined
- 20:16Speaker 3: from the Eastern Congo, which contains the world's largest cold
- 20:19Speaker 3: tan deposits smuggled across the border with Rwanda, sold in
- 20:23Speaker 3: exchange for cash and an exchange for weapons, and has
- 20:26Speaker 3: been actively contributing to the violence and atrocities that are
- 20:30Speaker 3: taking place in the Eastern Congo. So there's one example
- 20:33Speaker 3: that we carry a little many of us carry around
- 20:36Speaker 3: a little piece of the Congolese conflict in our pockets.
- 20:39Speaker 3: Every day. Now there are programs that have been introduced
- 20:42Speaker 3: in terms of recycling and smelting programs, and we can
- 20:45Speaker 3: get into all of those kinds of things that you know,
- 20:48Speaker 3: are are beginning to have an impact. And I'm not
- 20:50Speaker 3: suggesting that the solution is we boycott cell phones, because
- 20:53Speaker 3: in fact, you know, those local jobs are very much needed.
- 20:57Speaker 3: But there are ways in which we can, i think
- 21:00Speaker 3: all contribute to a more ethical sort of approach to
- 21:04Speaker 3: to harvesting some of those conflict resources. So that's number one,
- 21:07Speaker 3: you know. Number two is many of our public pension
- 21:09Speaker 3: funds who have holdings in the world's top one hundred
- 21:13Speaker 3: arms manufacturers, and you know, whether that's teachers pension funds
- 21:16Speaker 3: or other public sector workers, you know, and that again
- 21:20Speaker 3: implicates us. We're betting on the growth of war to
- 21:24Speaker 3: see us through our goal so called golden years. And frankly,
- 21:29Speaker 3: how sad is that? Right? And and so for us
- 21:32Speaker 3: to then turn around and say, well, you know, it's
- 21:35Speaker 3: really a problem of of what's going on over there,
- 21:38Speaker 3: and you know these places have always been at war,
- 21:41Speaker 3: I mean, that's not true. Even if you look at
- 21:43Speaker 3: who manufactures arms on a global level and who sells
- 21:47Speaker 3: those arms and who profits from those transactions. I mean,
- 21:50Speaker 3: it's you know, it's the P five plus Germany, It's
- 21:53Speaker 3: it's United States, it's Russia, it's China, it's France, it's Germany.
- 21:57Speaker 3: You know, it's the UK. You know, And if you
- 22:00Speaker 3: look at who's acquiring those arms, it's principally countries in Asia,
- 22:04Speaker 3: Africa and Middle East. So there's definitely a not only
- 22:07Speaker 3: a north south divide, but a rich, rich country, lower
- 22:10Speaker 3: income country divide around you know, who's profiting from the
- 22:14Speaker 3: sale of those arms and where are civilians dying as
- 22:17Speaker 3: a result of those transactions. Annual will and I won't
- 22:20Speaker 3: go on about this, but you know, annual worldwide military
- 22:22Speaker 3: spending right now is at its highest point. It's two
- 22:26Speaker 3: trillion dollars. It's about two hundred and fifty nine dollars
- 22:29Speaker 3: per person on Earth, and it's still twelve times what
- 22:32Speaker 3: we spend on international humanitarian assistance, on ensuring that children
- 22:36Speaker 3: in low income and unstable environments can go to school
- 22:40Speaker 3: and have access to food and clean drinking water and healthcare.
- 22:43Speaker 3: I mean, why is that? You know, these are the
- 22:45Speaker 3: kinds of questions that we really need to be asking ourselves.
- 22:48Speaker 3: If we are invested in more peaceful, sustainable societies.
- 22:54Speaker 1: Total arms sales among the world's one hundred largest defense
- 22:57Speaker 1: contractors tops for hundred billion yearly. The US is home
- 23:02Speaker 1: to five of the world's ten largest defense contractors, and
- 23:06Speaker 1: American companies account for fifty seven percent of total arm
- 23:09Speaker 1: sales by the world's one hundredth largest defense contractors.
- 23:13Speaker 2: So we are really invested in war, really.
- 23:16Speaker 3: Invested in war. Canadians, Americans, you know, Western European countries
- 23:20Speaker 3: are heavily invested in war. One of the main recipients,
- 23:24Speaker 3: for example, of our arms right now is Saudi Arabia.
- 23:27Speaker 3: Saudi Arabia is actively involved in the conflict in eastern
- 23:31Speaker 3: Yemen that's killed more than three hundred and fifty thousand
- 23:34Speaker 3: people since twenty fourteen, eighty five thousand of them children,
- 23:38Speaker 3: you know, And so so yes, it's not a mystery
- 23:42Speaker 3: in terms of who's profiting for war and who's paying
- 23:45Speaker 3: the price in war. And that's why, you know, I
- 23:47Speaker 3: made the point that war is distinctly ours as human beings.
- 23:50Speaker 3: We do. We buy it, we sell it, we spread it,
- 23:53Speaker 3: we wage it. And the flip side of that is
- 23:56Speaker 3: it means that we're not powerless to stop it. You know,
- 23:58Speaker 3: it means that it is, as a wholly human construct,
- 24:02Speaker 3: within our purview to do something about it, to hold
- 24:08Speaker 3: our arms manufacturers and countries that are profiting from those
- 24:12Speaker 3: transactions to account, but also to increase the transparency. Part
- 24:16Speaker 3: of the challenge here is that a lot of this
- 24:19Speaker 3: is clouded in mystery. You know, we don't really know
- 24:24Speaker 3: all as much as we should about the arms deals
- 24:28Speaker 3: that our governments and our arms manufacturers are engaged in
- 24:31Speaker 3: and where they're going and if not where they're going,
- 24:34Speaker 3: where they're ultimately ending up because their first stop is
- 24:37Speaker 3: rarely their last. And the fact that there is so
- 24:40Speaker 3: little transparency means that this is an industry that can
- 24:44Speaker 3: continue to operate without accountability, and that's a huge problem.
- 24:49Speaker 1: What are the ways in which we're unknowingly complying with war, Well.
- 24:53Speaker 3: You mentioned some of them in terms of our governments
- 24:55Speaker 3: center our arms transactions, our arms deals, our arms manufacturers,
- 25:00Speaker 3: our investment holdings, conflict resources that, as I've mentioned, have
- 25:04Speaker 3: often end up in our electronics for example. You know
- 25:07Speaker 3: these are and then in terms of legacy, right in
- 25:11Speaker 3: terms of if you look at even the monuments that
- 25:14Speaker 3: you'll see spread around, whether it's it's Belgium or England
- 25:19Speaker 3: or France or elsewhere. I mean in the United States
- 25:22Speaker 3: right now, there has been there's been a massive reckoning
- 25:26Speaker 3: around the legacy of slavery and how it has led
- 25:30Speaker 3: to both generational privilege but also generational risks and incarceration
- 25:36Speaker 3: and human rights abuses. And it's the same thing when
- 25:40Speaker 3: we're talking about war. You know, there is a reckoning
- 25:43Speaker 3: that we that still needs to take place around the
- 25:46Speaker 3: history of colonialism and wealthy countries and their contributions, their
- 25:51Speaker 3: ongoing contributions to conflict throughout the world. And I think
- 25:55Speaker 3: that when that happens, it will be both profound, but
- 25:59Speaker 3: it will also I think deep in our understanding around
- 26:01Speaker 3: our connections to war and the importance of investing in sustainable,
- 26:06Speaker 3: peaceful solutions.
- 26:08Speaker 1: So your organization aims to fix some humanitarian efforts that
- 26:13Speaker 1: can go really pretty sideways. Can you explain the approach
- 26:17Speaker 1: that you took in the main problems that you're working
- 26:19Speaker 1: on to fix with war Child?
- 26:22Speaker 3: Absolutely? I mean, really, when you look at aids throughout
- 26:25Speaker 3: the world, there is a time for short term intervention.
- 26:28Speaker 3: Usually what happens when there is a conflict the overwhelming
- 26:30Speaker 3: focus is on short term needs, so food, water, shelter, blankets, healthcare,
- 26:35Speaker 3: and that's critically important, but wars are rarely short term.
- 26:39Speaker 3: They are almost always long term, on average at least
- 26:42Speaker 3: seven years summer spanning decades. Now, even if you look
- 26:46Speaker 3: at the war in Afghanistan, it's been more than twenty years,
- 26:48Speaker 3: and that's just been since two thousand and one. Even
- 26:51Speaker 3: prior to that, it was a country that was really
- 26:53Speaker 3: locked in in a lot of conflict. So in that context,
- 26:57Speaker 3: kids fall further and further behind, human rights erose even more,
- 27:00Speaker 3: poverty and violence become much more pronounced. And so if
- 27:06Speaker 3: you want to stop that cycle of poverty and violence
- 27:09Speaker 3: and despair, you need to transition beyond those short term
- 27:13Speaker 3: needs and look at how do you rebuild communities, how
- 27:16Speaker 3: do you create and foster transformational change, generational change. And
- 27:21Speaker 3: that's when warchild comes in, and so that's why we
- 27:23Speaker 3: focus on things like education, catch up learning, getting kids
- 27:27Speaker 3: back into school, kids wh've been out of school, teenagers
- 27:29Speaker 3: who've been out of school for seven eight years. You've
- 27:31Speaker 3: been fighting with militia groups getting them back into the
- 27:33Speaker 3: appropriate grade level so that they can graduate, so that
- 27:36Speaker 3: they can begin to make plans and have hope for
- 27:39Speaker 3: the future that they can go on to additional education
- 27:42Speaker 3: if they should desire it. Economic development, especially for women
- 27:46Speaker 3: female headed households, so that they have the means and
- 27:49Speaker 3: the resources to be able to provide for themselves and
- 27:51Speaker 3: provide for their children. Access to justice. You know, that
- 27:54Speaker 3: sounds extremely technical, but we have to create protection mechanisms
- 27:58Speaker 3: to uphold and enforce the rule of law. And where
- 28:01Speaker 3: the rule of law is in question or where there isn't,
- 28:04Speaker 3: you know, the opportunity to enforce it. There are other
- 28:07Speaker 3: ways through community reconciliation, mediation, that kind of thing, where
- 28:12Speaker 3: you can be extremely active and promote a more peaceful
- 28:16Speaker 3: and inclusive environment. So those are some of the ways
- 28:18Speaker 3: in which Warchild takes a long term view of the
- 28:21Speaker 3: problem of war and implements long term strategies that ultimately
- 28:26Speaker 3: enable people to realize the kinds of opportunities that they
- 28:31Speaker 3: that they hope for in life and that ultimately promote
- 28:34Speaker 3: peace and stability.
- 28:35Speaker 2: What's Warchild's biggest hurdle or difficulty.
- 28:39Speaker 3: It's twofold one is financial. Always there are you know,
- 28:44Speaker 3: dozens of conflicts throughout the world that we should be
- 28:46Speaker 3: actively involved in but because of resources, we're not able
- 28:49Speaker 3: to or places where where we have those three tiers education,
- 28:54Speaker 3: access to justice, and economic development where we might only
- 28:56Speaker 3: have the resources for one as opposed to some of
- 28:59Speaker 3: the other programming area. But we know that the most
- 29:01Speaker 3: holistic programs are the most effective. So money is always
- 29:04Speaker 3: a challenge for us, especially as this scale of need
- 29:08Speaker 3: continues to swell throughout the world. Again, there are many
- 29:11Speaker 3: places where we should be operating, we just don't have
- 29:13Speaker 3: the resources to do so. And then the second is
- 29:15Speaker 3: always security. Security. Security security is a huge impediment for
- 29:19Speaker 3: any organization doing this kind of work. We have to
- 29:22Speaker 3: ensure the safety and security of our staff and also
- 29:25Speaker 3: those who are benefiting from our programs. And when there
- 29:28Speaker 3: is active conflict going on and when people are not
- 29:31Speaker 3: able to get to places that where you can run
- 29:34Speaker 3: those kinds of programs or get access to them, that
- 29:36Speaker 3: that is a huge threat to our work, and it's
- 29:40Speaker 3: when we're constantly monitoring.
- 29:42Speaker 1: One of the things I learned and thought was so
- 29:45Speaker 1: interesting when I was researching for this interview was that
- 29:48Speaker 1: early on, I think a lot of times that people
- 29:52Speaker 1: go into these situations and feel like they want to
- 29:55Speaker 1: help and they can get in there and do good work.
- 29:57Speaker 1: And you were saying that you have to take a
- 30:00Speaker 1: really holistic approach, like it has to also come from
- 30:04Speaker 1: the environment of the country or the city that you're in,
- 30:08Speaker 1: and you need boots on the ground and people from
- 30:11Speaker 1: those communities that are also championing you.
- 30:15Speaker 3: That is exactly right and the most important thing. Really,
- 30:18Speaker 3: the best and most effective strategies, the most effective humanitarian
- 30:22Speaker 3: aid programs are driven by the experience, the competencies, the
- 30:27Speaker 3: deep knowledge, the community connections of local people, which is
- 30:30Speaker 3: why you know, throughout the world ninety nine percent of
- 30:33Speaker 3: our staff are local. They are the ones leading a charge,
- 30:37Speaker 3: designing the programs, doing the work, and you know they're
- 30:39Speaker 3: being paid for those for those services, which is really important.
- 30:42Speaker 3: Also creates local economic opportunities for them. You know, too
- 30:45Speaker 3: often we think that we have the answers and we don't.
- 30:49Speaker 3: And having a deep experience and knowledge of the local context.
- 30:54Speaker 3: You know, a lot of people rushed in with really
- 30:56Speaker 3: good intentions, but you know, frankly, parts of the world,
- 30:59Speaker 3: Africa in particular, it can be plagued by our misspent altruism.
- 31:04Speaker 3: I'll give you a good example. You know, we often
- 31:06Speaker 3: people will put their used T shirts into donation bins
- 31:09Speaker 3: and then you know, they get sent overseas. You know,
- 31:12Speaker 3: you can draw a direct line between the sort of
- 31:14Speaker 3: surplus goods that originated on our side of the world
- 31:19Speaker 3: to the loss of hundreds of thousands of textile jobs
- 31:22Speaker 3: on the content of Africa because their markets get flooded
- 31:25Speaker 3: with you know, cheap used band T shirts and you know,
- 31:29Speaker 3: all kinds of stuff for pennies on the dollar. And
- 31:32Speaker 3: then those those local tailors and local trades, they get
- 31:36Speaker 3: undercut and they don't have the opportunity to sell their
- 31:38Speaker 3: goods and make a living. And so it's not enough
- 31:40Speaker 3: to want to do the right thing. You have to
- 31:42Speaker 3: know what you're doing. And if you don't know what
- 31:43Speaker 3: you're doing, then it's better that you find and invest
- 31:46Speaker 3: in those who do.
- 31:48Speaker 1: Yeah, those are I mean, that's something I would have
- 31:50Speaker 1: never thought of. So thank you for.
- 31:53Speaker 2: Sharing a great point.
- 31:54Speaker 3: Thank you for asking me.
- 31:55Speaker 1: Yeah, you've seen more death and tragedy than most people
- 31:59Speaker 1: ever see in their entire lives.
- 32:01Speaker 2: This is a tough question.
- 32:02Speaker 1: But who were you before you saw all of this
- 32:06Speaker 1: versus who you are now?
- 32:08Speaker 3: That's interesting because I think you know age also changes
- 32:12Speaker 3: you in certain respects, and so I'm a lot older
- 32:15Speaker 3: than I was when I first started. I've been doing
- 32:16Speaker 3: this work for almost a quarter century now, and so
- 32:19Speaker 3: that's changed me as well. I think that before I
- 32:24Speaker 3: was probably you know, somewhat naive and yet and yet scrappy,
- 32:31Speaker 3: really had a strong conviction and belief in justice, in
- 32:36Speaker 3: women's rights, in human rights and human dignity. But I
- 32:39Speaker 3: think that what has changed for me now is that
- 32:42Speaker 3: a lot of that at the time was certainly more theoretical,
- 32:46Speaker 3: it was more academic, It was maybe more more personal
- 32:49Speaker 3: in nature. And then you go through what I have
- 32:54Speaker 3: been through, and then that that quest, that drive it
- 32:58Speaker 3: comes from a place of personal experience, and so it
- 33:03Speaker 3: feels even bigger. The weight of it feels bigger. And
- 33:07Speaker 3: sometimes that can feel kind of breathless, you know, it
- 33:10Speaker 3: can feel in a way, sort of suffocating, because the
- 33:13Speaker 3: frustrations are there, the scale of need is there. You
- 33:17Speaker 3: just feel like you're never doing enough, or that it
- 33:20Speaker 3: will never be enough. But at the same time, it
- 33:24Speaker 3: motivates you through those periods where you think, Okay, I
- 33:29Speaker 3: don't know if I have the energy for this anymore,
- 33:31Speaker 3: right that I still I've lived with war. I have
- 33:35Speaker 3: lost friends to war. I understand because I have confronted it,
- 33:39Speaker 3: the horror of war throughout the world. And the only
- 33:43Speaker 3: thing that those who are participating in our programs and
- 33:46Speaker 3: leading our programs, our local staff ask of people like
- 33:49Speaker 3: me every day to do is to just haul my
- 33:52Speaker 3: ass out of bed and do everything I can do
- 33:55Speaker 3: to make that work possible. And so in a way,
- 33:59Speaker 3: the problem feels bigger to me, but I feel smaller
- 34:03Speaker 3: in that equation, and it's that recognition of my own
- 34:08Speaker 3: sort of smallness and that equation that motivates me to
- 34:12Speaker 3: push through even in those times when I feel like
- 34:14Speaker 3: I don't have the energy for it. I don't know
- 34:15Speaker 3: if I've explained that properly, but it's what you're saying.
- 34:20Speaker 3: You know, living with war is, or having lived with
- 34:22Speaker 3: war is it teaches you both about the fragility of
- 34:25Speaker 3: life but also the sanctity of it. And it also
- 34:29Speaker 3: very quickly teaches you what's important. And it's not you know,
- 34:33Speaker 3: the size of your TV or the car that you drive,
- 34:36Speaker 3: or you know, I'm not trying to sound self righteous here,
- 34:38Speaker 3: it's it's just it's it's about who you love and
- 34:41Speaker 3: who loves you, and that's it. If you've got that,
- 34:45Speaker 3: your life is so rich.
- 34:48Speaker 1: You've escaped death numerous amounts of times. Is there a
- 34:53Speaker 1: story that you can share with us? I only ask
- 34:57Speaker 1: because I think war feels, like I said earlier, far
- 35:01Speaker 1: away for people, and you feel close, you know. So
- 35:04Speaker 1: I'm wondering if you feel comfortable sharing a story with us.
- 35:08Speaker 3: Yeah. I mean, look, I have been, you know, I've
- 35:11Speaker 3: been in a few close calls. I've been in car
- 35:13Speaker 3: ambushes that I was lucky to survive. I have been,
- 35:17Speaker 3: you know more. I mean one of the sort of
- 35:20Speaker 3: more difficult situations I was in was when I was
- 35:22Speaker 3: trapped on the front line, effectively bunkered down in a
- 35:27Speaker 3: locally run hotel in eastern Congo in two thousand and four.
- 35:30Speaker 3: And we were there for a couple of days and there.
- 35:34Speaker 3: What had happened, what had transparted, and I wrote about
- 35:35Speaker 3: this in my book, was that the Rwanan government had
- 35:39Speaker 3: the Congo's government had arrested some Rwandan generals who were
- 35:42Speaker 3: attempting to cross back over the border. There were one
- 35:44Speaker 3: in government had been actively funding the rebels operating in
- 35:48Speaker 3: eastern Congo. All hell broke loose. Various opposition groups were
- 35:52Speaker 3: fighting each other and shooting at each other, a lot
- 35:55Speaker 3: of child soldiers, and we were essentially trapped, and there
- 36:00Speaker 3: were mortars going off, and you know, the ceiling was
- 36:04Speaker 3: crumbling in the building that we were in, and you know,
- 36:06Speaker 3: spending nights like that listening to that feeling, that bombardment
- 36:11Speaker 3: which shakes you to the core, hearing the rounds go off,
- 36:15Speaker 3: and wondering how many minutes you have left until they
- 36:18Speaker 3: will be at your door, or until one of these
- 36:21Speaker 3: rounds that you know, one of these grenades lands on you.
- 36:24Speaker 3: It's it's terrifying, you know, it's absolutely terrifying. And that's
- 36:29Speaker 3: what I think about when I see, for example, coverage
- 36:32Speaker 3: of the war in the in Ukraine. It's it's one
- 36:34Speaker 3: thing to watch the analysis of this stuff and to
- 36:40Speaker 3: listen to the rhetoric on all sides and the geopolitical
- 36:44Speaker 3: positioning and everything else. But when I watch that coverage,
- 36:47Speaker 3: I really do feel what it's like to be one
- 36:49Speaker 3: of those people stuck, not knowing what road you can
- 36:55Speaker 3: take out and being with in the case of Eastern Congo,
- 36:59Speaker 3: is with my husband, you know, being with the person
- 37:01Speaker 3: that you love and and not knowing whether this is
- 37:04Speaker 3: your last day on earth, and and the reckoning that
- 37:07Speaker 3: goes on with that. So it's you know, war is worst, worst, worse,
- 37:15Speaker 3: It's it's horrible, it's tough, it's really tough. And so
- 37:18Speaker 3: that's that's what I like. Again, That's what I that's
- 37:20Speaker 3: what I think about even now when I watch coverage
- 37:23Speaker 3: of these wars. It shakes me because it's it's a
- 37:26Speaker 3: part of me. It feels very personal, and you don't
- 37:28Speaker 3: leave that behind. I mean, you know, it manifests itself
- 37:31Speaker 3: in different ways all the time, sometimes in ways that
- 37:35Speaker 3: you learn to live with that. Even your friends and
- 37:37Speaker 3: family members kind of you know, like raise their eyebrows up.
- 37:41Speaker 3: But I mean even still, for me, I can't I
- 37:43Speaker 3: can't listen. I can't sit through a firework show. I
- 37:46Speaker 3: avoid them at all costs, right, I can't listen to
- 37:49Speaker 3: if there there's an air show and planes are flying overhead.
- 37:52Speaker 3: I uh, you know, if I even even still, I'll
- 37:55Speaker 3: think that I'm fine, and then I'll walk down the
- 37:56Speaker 3: street having had a lovely dinner with somebody in a
- 37:58Speaker 3: car will backfire, and then you'll see me like tuck
- 38:01Speaker 3: and roll and hide behind the nearest brick structure, you know,
- 38:04Speaker 3: and the first and I went, We'll go are you
- 38:06Speaker 3: Are you okay this? I hope you know. I I
- 38:13Speaker 3: scan every room I'm in in public all the time.
- 38:16Speaker 3: It just is how you learn to adapt when you've
- 38:20Speaker 3: lived with insecurity. And again, I don't mean for this
- 38:23Speaker 3: to sound about me. What I have experienced is a
- 38:26Speaker 3: fraction of what people experience, and so I know what
- 38:31Speaker 3: they're confronting when they come out and what they're confronting
- 38:34Speaker 3: for the rest of their lives.
- 38:36Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you for sharing that.
- 38:38Speaker 1: You've said that in some places it's easier to get
- 38:41Speaker 1: access to an automatic rifle than it is to get
- 38:43Speaker 1: access to clean drinking water. And I was shocked by
- 38:48Speaker 1: this that the cost of an AK forty seven can
- 38:50Speaker 1: be just ten dollars. Can you explain how that's possible?
- 38:55Speaker 3: Yeah, and so those are those were for a few
- 38:57Speaker 3: years ago in their US State Department figures. I mean,
- 38:59Speaker 3: it varies, but you can certainly pick one up for
- 39:02Speaker 3: you know, a few hundred dollars in different parts of
- 39:03Speaker 3: the world. If you're in an act of war zone
- 39:06Speaker 3: because people are trying to scramble to get weapons, then
- 39:08Speaker 3: the cost of those weapons will sometimes go up. But
- 39:10Speaker 3: what happens with a lot of these weapons, in particular
- 39:12Speaker 3: the AK forty seven, is that it is virtually indestructible,
- 39:16Speaker 3: and so many of the ones that you will see
- 39:18Speaker 3: in circulation, once it enters into a global market, it
- 39:21Speaker 3: stays in that market. It is it's rare that it
- 39:24Speaker 3: gets removed from that marketplace. Some of the ones you
- 39:26Speaker 3: see child soldiers in different parts of the world carrying
- 39:28Speaker 3: on their backs will be We're manufactured in the fifties
- 39:31Speaker 3: and sixties, and so you know, those kinds of old
- 39:33Speaker 3: school are really easy to no pun intended to get
- 39:37Speaker 3: your hands on, and fairly cheap. And in some parts
- 39:40Speaker 3: of the world, yes, it's easier to go out and
- 39:42Speaker 3: buy a weapon like this which you can then use
- 39:45Speaker 3: to threaten and intimidate, extort, you know, perpetuate sexual violence
- 39:49Speaker 3: than it is to get access to clean drinking water.
- 39:52Speaker 3: And this is part of the problem we have. One
- 39:54Speaker 3: there's more than one billion of these arms in circulation
- 39:57Speaker 3: in the world right now. Eighty five percent of them
- 39:59Speaker 3: are in the h of civilians. And by civilians I
- 40:02Speaker 3: mean not just people who have them locked in a
- 40:04Speaker 3: cabinet downstairs in their basement. I mean people who also
- 40:07Speaker 3: just you know, are working for different rebel groups and
- 40:09Speaker 3: opposition groups or criminal groups throughout the world, you know,
- 40:12Speaker 3: and using them to their advantage, with civilians paying the
- 40:16Speaker 3: price for that.
- 40:17Speaker 1: You know, I just realized that I asked you about
- 40:19Speaker 1: some of your most difficult days in more and I
- 40:23Speaker 1: haven't asked you about sort of the profound human spirit
- 40:27Speaker 1: that you've witnessed. Also, is there anything that you've experienced
- 40:32Speaker 1: that you feel like gives you hope?
- 40:34Speaker 3: All of it?
- 40:36Speaker 2: All of it.
- 40:36Speaker 3: I mean, I wouldn't continue to do this work if
- 40:38Speaker 3: I didn't have hope. You know, every day that our
- 40:42Speaker 3: offices running programs and I hear about the results of
- 40:45Speaker 3: those programs makes me incredibly hopeful. You know. For example,
- 40:49Speaker 3: in eastern Congo, we have what's called a distance based
- 40:53Speaker 3: learning program where kids who are being held back, girls
- 40:56Speaker 3: especially held back from school because of the high risk
- 40:59Speaker 3: of sexual violence or you know, injury as a result
- 41:02Speaker 3: of the conflict. They were being kept home. Some of
- 41:04Speaker 3: them were being forced into early what are called early
- 41:06Speaker 3: child marriages because you know, there was something else for
- 41:09Speaker 3: them and their families. You know, we're becoming increasingly desperate
- 41:12Speaker 3: and so using the very basic technology of radio. We
- 41:16Speaker 3: developed curriculum that's tied to the national curriculum in Eastern
- 41:19Speaker 3: Congo that then gets piped into those communities. The kids
- 41:22Speaker 3: come together, they learn, We have in some cases teaching
- 41:25Speaker 3: assistants who go out to those communities who work with
- 41:27Speaker 3: the kids. And then we've studied these kids and they
- 41:29Speaker 3: have taken their exams and they have a higher matriculation,
- 41:33Speaker 3: way a higher pass rate even than the national average.
- 41:35Speaker 3: And so during COVID we rolled that out from you know,
- 41:38Speaker 3: several thousand kids that we were working with to hopefully
- 41:41Speaker 3: by the end of next year, it'll be up to
- 41:42Speaker 3: half a million Congolese children who didn't have access to education.
- 41:46Speaker 3: And you know, whether it's in Eastern Congo or in
- 41:49Speaker 3: Uganda where we're working having similar kinds of catch up
- 41:52Speaker 3: learning programs and bustance based learning programs with Southern Sudanese refugees.
- 41:57Speaker 3: You ask these kids, you know what how it's how
- 42:00Speaker 3: it's worked for them, and they'll say, you know, two
- 42:02Speaker 3: years ago I was I was fighting in the bush,
- 42:04Speaker 3: and now I'm getting ready to graduate and I tell
- 42:08Speaker 3: my friends to come because this is this is going
- 42:11Speaker 3: to change their lives. And now I have, you know,
- 42:13Speaker 3: I want to be a doctor, or I want to
- 42:14Speaker 3: be a lawyer or a teacher, or you know, go
- 42:17Speaker 3: into business. And that realization that they have that there
- 42:20Speaker 3: are alternatives in life to violence and to warfare is
- 42:24Speaker 3: it's a huge part of their recovery, but it's also
- 42:26Speaker 3: a huge part of the promotion of peace within their communities.
- 42:29Speaker 3: And that that is amazing. You know, that's the stuff
- 42:32Speaker 3: that just inspires me every single day. And I have
- 42:36Speaker 3: so so many stories like this, and our staff, our
- 42:40Speaker 3: staff are hugely inspiring, you know, the fact that they
- 42:43Speaker 3: get up and they do what they do, and you know,
- 42:46Speaker 3: even during the pandemic, they're just they're just they're amazing.
- 42:50Speaker 3: You know, they're amazing.
- 42:52Speaker 2: I have such a weird question.
- 42:53Speaker 3: You I love weird questions.
- 42:56Speaker 1: Do you find it hard to relate to the average
- 43:00Speaker 1: American because you've just seen and done so much?
- 43:03Speaker 2: I think I used to.
- 43:05Speaker 3: And here here's where I think getting older really helps
- 43:07Speaker 3: in this respect. I remember coming back from Somalia, and
- 43:10Speaker 3: I was also in Liberia, and I was in you know,
- 43:12Speaker 3: Burundi and Iraq and elsewhere, and I was in my
- 43:15Speaker 3: late twenties at this point in time, and you know,
- 43:17Speaker 3: I'd be standing in line at the bank and somebody'd
- 43:19Speaker 3: be having a meltdown in front of me, and I'd be,
- 43:21Speaker 3: you know, I'd be there, be going, don't you know
- 43:23Speaker 3: there are children that are starving? And then you know,
- 43:26Speaker 3: and I was just this self righteous pain in the ass, right,
- 43:29Speaker 3: you know, And then you realize that people you're not
- 43:32Speaker 3: going to engage people that way. You know, first of all,
- 43:34Speaker 3: you realize that you're rapidly losing friends because they can
- 43:36Speaker 3: no longer relate to you on any level. But but
- 43:38Speaker 3: also that you know, you're just all you're doing is
- 43:42Speaker 3: is is shaming people and making them feel helpless and hopeless, right,
- 43:45Speaker 3: and that defeats the purpose. And so now you know,
- 43:48Speaker 3: more than anything else, I I what I try to
- 43:51Speaker 3: do is engage people in conversation in different ways, whether
- 43:55Speaker 3: it's through public speaking, whether it's through writing, whether it's
- 43:58Speaker 3: through you know, events like this, and thank you for
- 44:00Speaker 3: inviting me to do this. It's just that you have
- 44:02Speaker 3: to reach people where they are, and sometimes that kind
- 44:06Speaker 3: of change is incremental, and no good comes from being
- 44:09Speaker 3: angry or self righteous or polarizing the conversation or shaming them.
- 44:14Speaker 3: It really is about deepening our understanding and recognizing that
- 44:19Speaker 3: everybody has issues that they're passionate about, and you know,
- 44:22Speaker 3: maybe they'll learn something or maybe you can support what
- 44:25Speaker 3: they're passionate about. Right It's where we live in these
- 44:28Speaker 3: sort of this world of very false choices and very
- 44:31Speaker 3: binary thinking, and I always try to push push through
- 44:35Speaker 3: that now and now too. I just I really appreciate
- 44:38Speaker 3: what I have here. I'm grateful that I get to
- 44:41Speaker 3: do the work that I do, but I'm also really
- 44:43Speaker 3: grateful when I'm home, and I try not to rail
- 44:45Speaker 3: against it because I recognize how lucky we are.
- 44:49Speaker 2: Do you make different choices post motherhood?
- 44:52Speaker 3: Yes, yes, in the sense that I mean I still
- 44:55Speaker 3: I've always taken my security very very seriously, So that's
- 44:59Speaker 3: not so much the issue. The issue for me is
- 45:01Speaker 3: that I also want to be present and available to
- 45:04Speaker 3: my son, especially because he's a teenager now, which you know,
- 45:07Speaker 3: believe it or not, you can ignore them a lot
- 45:09Speaker 3: more when they're younger than you can when they're older.
- 45:11Speaker 3: So at least that's what I've discovered. And you know,
- 45:15Speaker 3: your your sense of how to keep them safe changes,
- 45:18Speaker 3: that's for sure. But so you know, I used to
- 45:20Speaker 3: be overseas for months at a time. That is not
- 45:22Speaker 3: that is physically not possible for me anymore. When I
- 45:24Speaker 3: when I do travel, I'm usually away for a few
- 45:27Speaker 3: weeks at a time, constantly in touch.
- 45:30Speaker 1: Okay, I do a little rapid fire before let's do
- 45:33Speaker 1: them do that?
- 45:35Speaker 2: Okay, So yeah, you deserve some fun.
- 45:39Speaker 1: What is a.
- 45:40Speaker 2: Place you would love to travel that you've not been to?
- 45:43Speaker 3: Anywhere that has one of those buildings on sticks on
- 45:47Speaker 3: turquoise colored water. And I know there are a few
- 45:49Speaker 3: of them, but I'll go to any one of them.
- 45:51Speaker 3: That would be one of the places I would absolutely
- 45:53Speaker 3: love to go to.
- 45:55Speaker 2: That me too, I'm with you. What's something big and
- 45:58Speaker 2: something small that you'd like to change about the world.
- 46:02Speaker 3: Well, I think I've already working on the big one,
- 46:04Speaker 3: which is world peace.
- 46:07Speaker 2: You are truly a beauty queen.
- 46:10Speaker 3: And then something small. I don't know, I just think that,
- 46:14Speaker 3: And maybe this isn't small, Maybe this.
- 46:15Speaker 2: Is also big.
- 46:16Speaker 3: But the tenor of life these days is just so
- 46:19Speaker 3: intense and competitive and full of division and rage, And
- 46:24Speaker 3: if I could just turn the dial down on some
- 46:26Speaker 3: of that, that would make me very happy.
- 46:29Speaker 1: What's a historical event or a figure that you think
- 46:32Speaker 1: more people need to be made aware of.
- 46:34Speaker 3: I think the historical event we need to be made
- 46:36Speaker 3: more aware of is that war is an ongoing tragedy.
- 46:41Speaker 3: And right now we have eighty more than eighty million
- 46:43Speaker 3: people displaced by large and big conflict throughout the world,
- 46:48Speaker 3: which is the highest million. Yeah, it's more than eighty
- 46:51Speaker 3: million people, the highest number that we have seen since
- 46:53Speaker 3: World War Two. And yet when we think about war,
- 46:56Speaker 3: we think about it in the abstract. We think about
- 46:59Speaker 3: it as one thing or one thing there, and then
- 47:01Speaker 3: we kind of tune it out. But it is. It
- 47:04Speaker 3: is a massive problem that has only been growing in scale,
- 47:09Speaker 3: and I would encourage everyone to be to be more
- 47:12Speaker 3: aware of that and understand what's driving them.
- 47:15Speaker 1: Is there a book that changed your life that you
- 47:17Speaker 1: think everyone should read.
- 47:19Speaker 3: I'm a book nerd and always have been, so picking
- 47:23Speaker 3: one would be extremely difficult, you know. I've always been
- 47:27Speaker 3: a huge fan of Orwell. I think I first read
- 47:30Speaker 3: Animal Farm when I was about eleven years of age,
- 47:32Speaker 3: and it really profoundly impacted on how I think about
- 47:36Speaker 3: the world and the hypocrisies that are within it, you know,
- 47:39Speaker 3: And then I went on to read all the dystopias.
- 47:41Speaker 3: I've always had a thing about the dystopias, which was
- 47:44Speaker 3: probably a hint.
- 47:45Speaker 1: Actually wait, yeah, you know it's funny when I interview
- 47:48Speaker 1: people on this podcast. I always find that it's given
- 47:53Speaker 1: me like a great mirror to look at myself. But
- 47:55Speaker 1: I find that everybody knows exactly who they are as
- 47:58Speaker 1: a kid, and then they move away from it and
- 48:02Speaker 1: somehow come back to that same thing, like whatever you
- 48:04Speaker 1: did your book report on in sixth grade is who
- 48:06Speaker 1: you are? I do a pretty smart question, so we
- 48:08Speaker 1: have a card deck because we're not in the same room.
- 48:11Speaker 1: Just let me know when I should stop. Okay, right there, Okay, oh,
- 48:17Speaker 1: this is a perfect one. What is the coolest, most
- 48:21Speaker 1: unique or important skill you've learned from your job?
- 48:23Speaker 3: Coolest most important unique skill I've learnedrom my job probably was,
- 48:29Speaker 3: oh speaking, you know, I used to be because I
- 48:34Speaker 3: tend to really be a giant nerd and because when
- 48:36Speaker 3: I was younger, I you know, you can't tell right now,
- 48:39Speaker 3: but I'm super small. I've always been really small, and
- 48:42Speaker 3: you know, most of my life I'm like not even
- 48:44Speaker 3: five four, and most of my life have been out
- 48:46Speaker 3: you know, going one hundred pounds barely soaking wet, and
- 48:49Speaker 3: I had a fairly high voice, and so I was
- 48:51Speaker 3: always whenever I would answer questions in class, you know,
- 48:54Speaker 3: inevitably there'd be people too, the boys making fun of me,
- 48:57Speaker 3: you know, squeak speak squeak, and so I, you know,
- 49:01Speaker 3: wasn't somebody who would automatically put myself out there or
- 49:05Speaker 3: put my opinions out there for scrutiny and for judgment.
- 49:09Speaker 3: And I always was worried that my voice would sound high,
- 49:11Speaker 3: or that I would sound dumb, or you know, that
- 49:14Speaker 3: that kind of abiding insecurity that you develop in adolescence.
- 49:18Speaker 3: And then suddenly here you are at thirty, going why
- 49:20Speaker 3: am I still afraid of this? And then you know,
- 49:22Speaker 3: being and running war child all of a sudden. You know,
- 49:25Speaker 3: when you create this organization, people look to you for leadership,
- 49:28Speaker 3: and people look for my expertise, not just on paper,
- 49:32Speaker 3: but in person. And you know, so that has really
- 49:35Speaker 3: forced me to confront a lot of my fears. I
- 49:39Speaker 3: you know the fact that I even did a ted talk.
- 49:41Speaker 3: I mean, to be fair, most of the time that
- 49:43Speaker 3: I was up there, I felt like I was just
- 49:44Speaker 3: going to vomit all over myself. You know, it's it's
- 49:49Speaker 3: a skill that I've acquired that. You know, if I
- 49:52Speaker 3: was to ask my twenty one year old self, if
- 49:54Speaker 3: I ever thought that I would be speaking to large
- 49:56Speaker 3: audiences like that, I would have said, are you out
- 49:58Speaker 3: of your mind? No way, no way would I do that.
- 50:04Speaker 1: This is the last question that I ask everybody. What
- 50:06Speaker 1: is the smartest decision you've ever made?
- 50:09Speaker 3: Meeting and marrying my husband?
- 50:10Speaker 1: Wow?
- 50:12Speaker 2: Did you meet through work?
- 50:14Speaker 3: We met through medical schoo well, through a McMaster the university,
- 50:17Speaker 3: went to through medical school and then yeah, and then
- 50:19Speaker 3: we were both we both moved to the UK together
- 50:22Speaker 3: while I was doing my postgrad work and yeah, no,
- 50:26Speaker 3: he we met and I had the scholarship opportunity to
- 50:29Speaker 3: go to the UK as I was graduating from medical
- 50:31Speaker 3: school and he I said to him, look, I you know,
- 50:35Speaker 3: I love you. I don't want to leave if this
- 50:38Speaker 3: means our relationship is going to be over. And he said,
- 50:41Speaker 3: I love you, I'm coming with you. Take it, let's go,
- 50:44Speaker 3: and you know, and that was it. We've been together
- 50:47Speaker 3: for twenty seven.
- 50:49Speaker 2: Years, so that's awesome.
- 50:52Speaker 3: He's a great human. Thank you, Thank you so much.
- 51:23Speaker 1: All Right, today is a good day. To have a
- 51:25Speaker 1: good day. I'll see you next week,