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Kanye's Wild Claims, Tyrese Wins Custody, 90's R&B Mount Rushmore & More! · What More Can I Say?

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  Speaker 1: All right, welcome to or one more? Can I say? Podcast?
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  Speaker 1: This episode righter two thirteen two one three?
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  Speaker 2: We are flying through these numbers. Let's get to it.
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  Speaker 2: I wanted your whole song, capon, what's happening? What's having?
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  Speaker 2: What's up with y'all? To be woo? All right? She
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  Speaker 2: is a queen. That's right, you fuffy and fine.
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  Speaker 1: The first lady of the part at Marion's secret boot
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  Speaker 1: is wet.
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  Speaker 2: It ain't a secret. Yeah, every morning and what boy?
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  Speaker 2: Can I say? Group chats been popper it's his key
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  Speaker 2: kid o Maria.
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  Speaker 3: I'm trying to heal, and Zach won't let me leave
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  Speaker 3: the moment I need to heal.
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  Speaker 2: I'm mad. I'm mad too. I'm mad too. Damn it.
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  Speaker 4: The way that man was looking at you. He looked
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  Speaker 4: at you like a buttter biscuit on us on.
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  Speaker 2: A Saturday with God, Zach, that picture you put in chat,
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  Speaker 2: it's hilarious, hilarious. I believe that man is on it. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: It's a body language, you know, when you're up on them,
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  Speaker 4: you're looking at Yeah, the body language shows it all.
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  Speaker 4: That's I'm taking you down, That's what it was.
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  Speaker 3: And I got this thing on my head job because
• 1:10
  Speaker 3: I got a photo shoot after this. I'm not I
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  Speaker 3: don't just come outside looking crazy.
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  Speaker 2: I thought that was a new style. You see a
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  Speaker 2: lot of girls.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you're laying your wig down, so you're going to
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  Speaker 3: melt it when you get in your pictures. Yeah, a
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  Speaker 3: lot of makeup on today. High help blended, Yeah, it
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  Speaker 3: helped blended.
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  Speaker 2: Zach.
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  Speaker 1: Zach is going to open up a beauty salon. I
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  Speaker 1: see that he loves. He loves women's beauty. Bro, you
• 1:39
  Speaker 1: know a lot about women's beauty.
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  Speaker 2: That's weird. I do. I like I like her. I
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  Speaker 2: just I just want to know about it because I
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  Speaker 2: want to know what I'm dealing with.
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  Speaker 4: And I like it when it looks nice, you know
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  Speaker 4: what I'm saying, Like when it's all come together, like,
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  Speaker 4: oh you look.
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  Speaker 1: Good s crazy, funny at the future owner of Zach
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  Speaker 1: of Fun.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, how doing what you getting? Get a bundle bust
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  Speaker 2: down middle Park. I want you getting.
• 2:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you gotta get what she was like my gay friend?
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  Speaker 1: What you.
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  Speaker 2: Have so much more together? But we would have so
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  Speaker 2: much more fun if you was gay. Why does that
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  Speaker 2: have to like?
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  Speaker 1: Man game?
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  Speaker 2: I don't have to like Cenis to be your free.
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  Speaker 5: Or what, because like we would just have so much
• 2:33
  Speaker 5: more to talk about together.
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  Speaker 2: It's okay. I don't know, y'all.
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  Speaker 3: Don't ever think like y'all, don't ever feel like sometimes
• 2:39
  Speaker 3: I wish Kiki was a man.
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  Speaker 1: Little brother, to be honest, to be honest, the stuff
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  Speaker 1: that you say, you're like our.
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  Speaker 2: Little brother, like you like I can't believe my little
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  Speaker 2: father brother.
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  Speaker 1: He's gonna say he's not wrong.
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  Speaker 2: What he's talking about. I wish she was gayest wild.
• 3:00
  Speaker 2: You never told me that is that is wild? You know,
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  Speaker 2: I wish you was gay.
• 3:05
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no.
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  Speaker 2: No.
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  Speaker 1: Zach was in his single. He was at his single
• 3:14
  Speaker 1: like I'm healing phase. Oh that was the best. I
• 3:18
  Speaker 1: got to hear stories every day, every day. God bless you, zach.
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  Speaker 6: Am.
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  Speaker 2: It's over. It happened way back. There's a lot of
• 3:30
  Speaker 2: years ago. Thank you trying to clean it up. I
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  Speaker 2: appreciate it. That was so long ago. Last week, tell
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  Speaker 2: him another story? All right, all right, man, all right.
• 3:44
  Speaker 1: Speaking of stories, the Shannon Sharp case, there's been so
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  Speaker 1: many updates on this, and then Shannon Sharp actually released
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  Speaker 1: a statement about it where he was he basically let
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  Speaker 1: everybody know about the explicit messages that the lady was
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  Speaker 1: sitting him.
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  Speaker 2: Did you guys check any this?
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  Speaker 3: Yes, what's the statement? I haven't heard Shannon's response. I
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  Speaker 3: kind of hate that he even.
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  Speaker 4: Responded, Okay, well I'm gonna show you. Let me pull
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  Speaker 4: it up real quick.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, because it got I heard he was dropping receipts.
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  Speaker 2: He dropped her receipts.
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  Speaker 4: Not only did he dropped receipts, he dropped it all
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  Speaker 4: all right, I don't know, but basically said he knew it.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, I got all that. I ain't got all that.
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  Speaker 5: I'm about to do.
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  Speaker 2: But you need to see the Zach didn't study. He's
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  Speaker 2: so funny. I'm trying to you should have seen this.
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  Speaker 4: What you really need to see here, m I can't
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  Speaker 4: find it fast.
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  Speaker 2: Tell us what happened?
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  Speaker 1: Well anyway, she she was basically saying stuff like, hey,
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  Speaker 1: put a dog collar on me and high sex with me,
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  Speaker 1: choked me out, Uh come get this fat. Yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: mean it's twenty five thousand the cheek. It's a lot.
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  Speaker 2: It was. It was a lot.
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  Speaker 4: I want him to put a dog collar around my
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  Speaker 4: neck and tie me up and do bad things to me.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, she was. She was freaky and uncle. She was
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  Speaker 1: cashing out. This is what it looks like to me.
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  Speaker 2: So he was paying for it. It looked like he was.
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  Speaker 2: She was super freaky, probably bad. She said, I know
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  Speaker 2: you missed this juicy ass.
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  Speaker 4: Twenty five thousand for each cheek oh said she sent him.
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  Speaker 4: He sent him fifty grand. She said, tie me up
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  Speaker 4: like this and f me.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's that's how I do. And then
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  Speaker 2: that's how they get them.
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  Speaker 1: And then the funny thing is sound this one actually
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  Speaker 1: has his response.
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  Speaker 2: He said, like old man.
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  Speaker 1: He said, if I knew how to, I would, And then.
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  Speaker 4: She said, m that just got my pee wet. Tie
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  Speaker 4: me up and do bad things to me. And then
• 5:51
  Speaker 4: he responded, couugh up. I want to release this because
• 5:57
  Speaker 4: because I have to show you that it's consensual.
• 5:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I got to. He had to. She was.
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  Speaker 1: She was basically saying that he raped her, that abused her.
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  Speaker 2: It was.
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  Speaker 1: It was a lot of it was a lot of
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  Speaker 1: accusations in there. So he had to show, like y'all know,
• 6:12
  Speaker 1: we was rocking with each other. And what it looks
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  Speaker 1: like is once he stopped paying, he didn't want to
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  Speaker 1: give her any more money.
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  Speaker 2: That's when things went left.
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  Speaker 4: March fourteenth, she allegedly wrote, I want to be abused, daddy,
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  Speaker 4: and I want you to put a dog collar around
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  Speaker 4: my neck and choke me while you me whoa she
• 6:31
  Speaker 4: was lying?
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  Speaker 2: She was she nasty. I like her. Uncle got to
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  Speaker 2: stay away. I like her. I ain't got no money
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  Speaker 2: for you, baby, You ain't get.
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  Speaker 1: Nothing, uncle shay. She got to stay away from from
• 6:48
  Speaker 1: from women. He just got to stay away. But he
• 6:51
  Speaker 1: was already that his chicks out do not. But this,
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  Speaker 1: this is what it reads like when you see it.
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  Speaker 2: It's nasty.
• 6:59
  Speaker 1: And because one thing we gonna has been, we're gonna
• 7:02
  Speaker 1: always respond to nasty.
• 7:03
  Speaker 2: You can't like a lot of like you think, like
• 7:06
  Speaker 2: the flesh is weak.
• 7:07
  Speaker 1: If a woman talks nasty to a man and she fine,
• 7:11
  Speaker 1: that's probably that's every man's kryptoit. We gotta run from it.
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  Speaker 1: If you're trying to be faithful. If she find and
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  Speaker 1: talk nasty.
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  Speaker 2: Oh you gotta run. What to do to you?
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  Speaker 1: You got to get up out of there, bro, because
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna take it. You're like what you saying, like
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  Speaker 1: what what you want? And that's how the money get exchanged.
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  Speaker 1: Twenty five thousand cheek fifty thousand.
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  Speaker 2: It's crazy hit to have sex. That's what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 2: Fifty bucks, that's crazy. I'm not doing that.
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  Speaker 1: She had to be bad, she was probably bad, and
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  Speaker 1: Shae Shay got it, he got it, got it.
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  Speaker 2: Man.
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  Speaker 4: It's just crazy that all his sex capaides are coming out.
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  Speaker 4: Remember he had Michelle, he had the Instagram live. Now
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  Speaker 4: he's telling me what the uncle looking real freaky out.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to know him like this. You don't
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  Speaker 2: know what. I don't want to know him like this.
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  Speaker 2: It's like that's Kiki single man have sex.
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  Speaker 3: I understand, but it's like it's like really finding your
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  Speaker 3: uncle's nasty text.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to read this.
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  Speaker 3: That's why I'm like, I'm so mad he had to
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  Speaker 3: release this. I don't want to know him like that.
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  Speaker 3: His voice and then mixed with the text.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I think my favorite part is if I knew how,
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  Speaker 4: I would, Yeah, tie.
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  Speaker 2: Me up, daddy, If I knew how, I would Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: But I mean it's just but it's also messed up
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  Speaker 1: on a bunch of levels.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, nasty, but then you just.
• 8:36
  Speaker 1: Look at it like like damn, but you gotta think,
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  Speaker 1: how do you even how do you even date anymore. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: you got a dated woman that got something to lose,
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  Speaker 1: like Kiki, right, like, why.
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  Speaker 2: Are you date? Why are we paying? Like you couldn't
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  Speaker 2: find nobody that wanted to just do this anyway.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, So here's what I think it was. I think
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  Speaker 4: this was he was being sugar daddy to this shit.
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  Speaker 2: He wasn't.
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  Speaker 4: I don't think he was directly paying for each sexual accounter,
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  Speaker 4: but I think he was taking care of her. So
• 9:06
  Speaker 4: when she said twenty five k's, she was just getting
• 9:08
  Speaker 4: some more money he was gonna send into it anyway.
• 9:10
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, probably had been sent into her.
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  Speaker 4: I think this was the This was not just one
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  Speaker 4: year if now, they had years of equity built in.
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  Speaker 4: So this was just his little young freak that he
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  Speaker 4: was taking care of that went off the dp N.
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  Speaker 2: This is this is the LA way.
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  Speaker 3: You always lying on LA. So everybody in LA just
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  Speaker 3: paid for everything.
• 9:31
  Speaker 2: No, I'm not gonna say that.
• 9:33
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying it happens a lot in LA place
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  Speaker 1: like New York and Miami, even here in good old
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  Speaker 1: Chicago in the Midwest.
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  Speaker 2: If you if you rich, and you an older dude.
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  Speaker 1: And you messing with a woman that's twenty some thirty something,
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  Speaker 1: you paying, you gonna take care of her, because now
• 9:53
  Speaker 1: you know that's how you're gonna cut You can cut
• 9:55
  Speaker 1: through all of the other mess because a lot of
• 9:57
  Speaker 1: dudes ain't gonna do it.
• 9:58
  Speaker 2: So you go like, all right, I'm rich. What's your rent? Okay? Cool?
• 10:02
  Speaker 2: What's your car payment? I got that.
• 10:04
  Speaker 1: But you're gonna have access to her anytime you want.
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  Speaker 1: That's what they're doing. That's just what they're doing. What
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  Speaker 1: they're doing that a lot of places.
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  Speaker 5: Nobody asked me how much my rent is?
• 10:15
  Speaker 2: Come? Boys, she said, shot, tie me up, daddy.
• 10:18
  Speaker 1: Youse, you ain't talking freaking you gotta talk wowd no whatever.
• 10:23
  Speaker 1: Keiky said, Man, they wipe it up, saying.
• 10:29
  Speaker 4: He's saying stuff to get off married. She says, these
• 10:34
  Speaker 4: biscuits rends, come get your plate. I'm cooking catfish tonight.
• 10:44
  Speaker 2: He's like, marry her.
• 10:47
  Speaker 1: I washed your clothes left over here?
• 10:51
  Speaker 2: What you washed my clothes? He told me? My food
• 10:54
  Speaker 2: red live. I ain't going nowhere.
• 10:56
  Speaker 5: I got I gotta go through these texts and learn it's.
• 11:00
  Speaker 2: On paper your whole time. Yeah, okay, who time you
• 11:05
  Speaker 2: gonna pay these bills? I don't love them. Oh col Man,
• 11:10
  Speaker 2: that's so funny.
• 11:11
  Speaker 1: Oh what's going on with yay Man? What's going on
• 11:14
  Speaker 1: with ya? That's all I'm gonna say. What's going on
• 11:17
  Speaker 1: with ya?
• 11:17
  Speaker 2: Bro? That's your friend? How do we don't even know
• 11:20
  Speaker 2: how to talk about this no more?
• 11:22
  Speaker 4: All I know is he said he was sucking somebody
• 11:24
  Speaker 4: d till they was fourteen, and it was his cousin
• 11:27
  Speaker 4: and they used to act out pouring together.
• 11:30
  Speaker 2: That he saw freaky magazines and stuff. Very odd.
• 11:34
  Speaker 4: That's that's sick, man. I don't know what you got
• 11:37
  Speaker 4: going on.
• 11:38
  Speaker 1: I know the cousins like damn, because everybody the family, like,
• 11:44
  Speaker 1: can you imagine because this dude, the cousin was at
• 11:47
  Speaker 1: one point trying to prove to everybody in the hood
• 11:49
  Speaker 1: that he was his cousin, but nobody believed.
• 11:51
  Speaker 2: It's like ky ain my good, they know it ain't man, God,
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  Speaker 2: he my cousin.
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  Speaker 4: He was telling everybody Kanye was his cousin because he
• 11:59
  Speaker 4: was turned up.
• 12:00
  Speaker 2: Now you come out with this, that's your cousin. Oh
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  Speaker 2: you the cousin. Now he don't want to be Kanye
• 12:08
  Speaker 2: cut I wasn't that cuz, bro.
• 12:12
  Speaker 1: But then is another thing like Kanye kids is somewhere
• 12:16
  Speaker 1: minding their business.
• 12:17
  Speaker 2: I'm not going to school after my dad.
• 12:19
  Speaker 1: I can't you gonna get ridiculed, you know what I mean,
• 12:22
  Speaker 1: It's gonna be a lot. Kim kardash was somewhere, uh, chilling, relaxing,
• 12:28
  Speaker 1: doing what rich women do, and she got to read
• 12:31
  Speaker 1: this about her ex husband, Like for what, bro, Like,
• 12:35
  Speaker 1: at some point this is the thing.
• 12:36
  Speaker 2: I'm not mad that you want to say. O.
• 12:38
  Speaker 1: If you want to come out and do all of that,
• 12:40
  Speaker 1: I had no nothing, go ahead, bro, But at some point, man,
• 12:45
  Speaker 1: the stuff that he's doing, you gotta think about your family.
• 12:48
  Speaker 2: This is super selfish. Yep.
• 12:50
  Speaker 1: This is more like it's so crazy to me that,
• 12:56
  Speaker 1: like the people from me Yay camp will be like, man,
• 12:59
  Speaker 1: you we here what you be saying something about Kanye?
• 13:01
  Speaker 1: You was damn man, you from the crib, you this,
• 13:03
  Speaker 1: that and the other. And I ain't gonna lie.
• 13:06
  Speaker 2: Man. I don't say this often.
• 13:08
  Speaker 1: I don't really get into it often about it, but man,
• 13:11
  Speaker 1: I'm tired of for real, I'm tired of Chicago artists
• 13:15
  Speaker 1: coming up to me, the big the big ones that's
• 13:18
  Speaker 1: talking about what I'm saying on the podcast.
• 13:21
  Speaker 2: Bro.
• 13:21
  Speaker 1: When y'all go to New York, y'all go to y'all
• 13:25
  Speaker 1: talk to everybody, but anybody from the crib. So why you,
• 13:30
  Speaker 1: I mean, like, why you even care what I'm saying
• 13:32
  Speaker 1: because you obviously don't care about the platform I'm talking about.
• 13:35
  Speaker 1: I'm on you don't you don't you you invited you
• 13:39
  Speaker 1: invited academics to do a shout out to academics. She's
• 13:41
  Speaker 1: a big brand. But dag, you ain't turning nobody up
• 13:44
  Speaker 1: from the crib. You talking to a dude from New
• 13:46
  Speaker 1: York or Jersey?
• 13:48
  Speaker 2: Where are you from?
• 13:50
  Speaker 1: You go everybody go, you gonna run to you, go
• 13:52
  Speaker 1: run in New York and go talk to people. You
• 13:54
  Speaker 1: run to LA and talk to people. And you from
• 13:56
  Speaker 1: the goddamn South Side of Chicago, and you won't even
• 14:00
  Speaker 1: if you want to give the bigger platforms love, you
• 14:02
  Speaker 1: will forget about us and never do nothing. So don't
• 14:06
  Speaker 1: talk to me about what I'm saying because you don't
• 14:07
  Speaker 1: care about it anyway.
• 14:08
  Speaker 2: Yep, damn.
• 14:09
  Speaker 4: And then to come over here and say to question
• 14:12
  Speaker 4: you like on what you're saying about artists, but you not.
• 14:15
  Speaker 4: And I noticed probably people in his entourage or whatever,
• 14:18
  Speaker 4: but you're not gonna question him on what he's saying.
• 14:21
  Speaker 4: You talking to the wrong person. I'm the responder to
• 14:24
  Speaker 4: the BS. You need all of your energy needs to
• 14:26
  Speaker 4: be directed on him saying all this crazy stuff, not
• 14:29
  Speaker 4: how I respond to it.
• 14:31
  Speaker 2: Like he don't want saying wild stuff about other people's children.
• 14:34
  Speaker 4: He don't want talking about his cousin doing all types
• 14:37
  Speaker 4: of wild stuff.
• 14:38
  Speaker 2: This is on. You know what I'm saying. You're gonna
• 14:39
  Speaker 2: talk to talking about it? You shouldn't. You shouldn't reply
• 14:42
  Speaker 2: like that. Talk to ya why? I mean, why you
• 14:45
  Speaker 2: care about a platform that you don't care about? Period?
• 14:49
  Speaker 1: That's all? Like I like, why y'all care about what
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: I'm saying? Y'all obviously what my voice don't mean nothing
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  Speaker 1: to you.
• 14:55
  Speaker 3: You're not gonna keep treating me like a first baby mama, period. Okay,
• 14:59
  Speaker 3: you want to run back over here when it gets
• 15:01
  Speaker 3: hot and want me to hold you down and hang
• 15:02
  Speaker 3: you back. No, I'm going back over there with your
• 15:04
  Speaker 3: second baby mama, who you was all out public with
• 15:07
  Speaker 3: and posting on Instagram and say spending money on or
• 15:10
  Speaker 3: be with her.
• 15:10
  Speaker 2: You know how I feel about it.
• 15:12
  Speaker 3: I have an allegiance to my audience. I'm the only
• 15:14
  Speaker 3: people that pay my bills. Everybody else. I don't have
• 15:17
  Speaker 3: no allegiance to you. I'm just speaking what's already out there.
• 15:19
  Speaker 3: I'm not digging in nobody's personal life. I'm not in
• 15:22
  Speaker 3: Sometimes I do investigate, but like you know what I'm saying,
• 15:25
  Speaker 3: I don't come with ill intentions. You put it out there,
• 15:27
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna speak on it just like every other platform.
• 15:29
  Speaker 3: So to think that I owe you something is insane.
• 15:32
  Speaker 3: And when it comes to Kanye, I hate this for him.
• 15:34
  Speaker 3: But now it's to the point where we don't even care,
• 15:38
  Speaker 3: which is what he wants.
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: He wants the attention.
• 15:40
  Speaker 3: Back in the day, if ten years ago if he
• 15:43
  Speaker 3: said this, the whole city of Chicago would have been
• 15:45
  Speaker 3: shut down.
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: Yep.
• 15:45
  Speaker 3: We would have had the mayor given a speech about
• 15:48
  Speaker 3: you know, and we need to bring brother Yay home
• 15:50
  Speaker 3: and everybody needs to lay hands on them. John hannahp
• 15:53
  Speaker 3: be out there print. It would be a whole thing.
• 15:55
  Speaker 3: If Kanye would have said this ten years ago. Now
• 15:58
  Speaker 3: in twenty twenty five, we don't give But I read
• 16:00
  Speaker 3: that headline and went scrolled on up my time. I
• 16:03
  Speaker 3: don't give a damn what Kanye doing, And I hate
• 16:05
  Speaker 3: that for him, because now you're losing your impact.
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: Now we don't even care.
• 16:09
  Speaker 3: That's crazy, and that's a that's a nasty feeling when
• 16:11
  Speaker 3: you're doing attention seeking stuff and they don't even get
• 16:13
  Speaker 3: nobody's attention. So that's that's where it's gonna get weird.
• 16:17
  Speaker 3: Played in too long, Yeah, became a clown ty Reese.
• 16:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: Ty Reese's daughter, who's now eighteen, has chosen to live
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: with him, ending the ten thousand monthly child support payments.
• 16:28
  Speaker 2: I'm happy for that. His shailor my shailor. We're so
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: happy that He's kids ain't loyal. What you mean the kids?
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: Kids ain't loyal.
• 16:39
  Speaker 3: That's just you know, your mama was setting up the
• 16:41
  Speaker 3: play to get the ten grand of money.
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: Why would you go over there and live with him?
• 16:45
  Speaker 4: Because you're messing with me. The mama probably messed with.
• 16:47
  Speaker 4: Ain't giving her, ain't sharing, Yep, she ain't sharing that.
• 16:52
  Speaker 4: I ain't even eighteen years.
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: Ain't goinda die?
• 16:55
  Speaker 4: And I know you getting I'm old enough now you
• 16:57
  Speaker 4: know you're getting these ten grand new car in here.
• 17:00
  Speaker 4: Mama got new Amazons coming to the door. I ain't
• 17:03
  Speaker 4: got a damn thing, And I'm reason I'll tell you what.
• 17:05
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna go live with daddy. Mama gave too many nose, Yeah,
• 17:10
  Speaker 4: too many nose. But I know I'm the reason you're
• 17:13
  Speaker 4: getting this money.
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: Kids are not yer. You know that is a loyal thing.
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: And plus your d Like I say, I think I
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: think sons should be what they definitely be with the
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: their fathers right when they start in high school from
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: that thirteen fourteen on out on out for sure, because
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: I mean, your mom teaches you how to nurture a
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: lot of stuff, but that man time, I think that's
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: a big time. I do think your daughter needs to
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: be around her father. Those you don't need need from
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: eighteen to too, because I mean, my daughter spent a
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: lot of time with me when she's eighteen.
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: That's what I was.
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: Really pouring game into it, afe and those are the
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: ones that stuck, you know what I mean. I just
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: you know, it's just you know, I'm gonna go into it.
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: People do dash bad, bro, they do.
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: Moms get done bad too. Get the kids in the money.
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: What are you talking? I don't understand.
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and all the responsibilityfe yeah, yeah, you talk about
• 18:11
  Speaker 3: getting a kid in high school, I didn't done all
• 18:13
  Speaker 3: the what.
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no. I will tell you this.
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: I will tell you this, every man, any man that
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: wants to be a father, ain't tripping on that. They're
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: not tripping on having a responsibility because you know what
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: we could pay for it if we already. The money
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: that I'm giving you could go towards a sitter, It
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: could go towards.
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: Not her mother.
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: You y'all be so mad about giving them the money.
• 18:39
  Speaker 3: Y'all would rather pay a babysitter than have your child
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: with their mother.
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no. I know that's a different, that's different.
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do nothing, goofy and keep my kid
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: away from the mom. But what I'm saying is a
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: lot of times women y'all get the money and the kid.
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: That's a lot.
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: Dudes want to see their fathers, want to see their
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: kids broad when they walk through the door. They want
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: to hear like yo. They want to see their baby
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: running up to them and walk through the door. Those
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: are these men want.
• 19:08
  Speaker 4: I know plenty of fathers who have dealt with men
• 19:12
  Speaker 4: who are of age. I mean of sons who are
• 19:15
  Speaker 4: of age who are like, hey, it's time for my
• 19:18
  Speaker 4: son to stay with me and the mother due to
• 19:22
  Speaker 4: the not doing what's best interest of the son, even
• 19:24
  Speaker 4: though you know, you know your father, you should be
• 19:26
  Speaker 4: raised by your father around that age, but they don't
• 19:29
  Speaker 4: want to let go up the control and they don't
• 19:30
  Speaker 4: want to let go of the paper, so they will
• 19:32
  Speaker 4: rather go to their inside the way that they feel
• 19:35
  Speaker 4: and like their feelings, and that's they baby and all
• 19:38
  Speaker 4: of that instead of doing what's best, and that happens
• 19:41
  Speaker 4: countless time. Think about it, as guys, if it's time
• 19:46
  Speaker 4: for him to be with his dad and they want the.
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: Money to be with his dad from the day he
• 19:50
  Speaker 3: was born, it's not. You don't get to a certain
• 19:52
  Speaker 3: age and all of a sudden needs your daddy. You
• 19:54
  Speaker 3: need your daddy your whole life. A lot of times
• 19:56
  Speaker 3: it's more complicated when you try to wait and enter
• 19:58
  Speaker 3: a kid's life after they are a certain age.
• 20:00
  Speaker 4: She ain't been in there, loud no no, kei no, no, no, no, no,
• 20:06
  Speaker 4: you're missing the point. The son has been there, no,
• 20:10
  Speaker 4: the dad has been there. It just wasn't the primary.
• 20:12
  Speaker 4: He wasn't living in the house they separated. It was
• 20:15
  Speaker 4: raised with they mama, Dad been there through the weekends
• 20:18
  Speaker 4: since time spent summers.
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: Has a great relationship.
• 20:22
  Speaker 4: But now now that you're getting older, it's time for
• 20:24
  Speaker 4: him to stay with me full time. And women get
• 20:28
  Speaker 4: they don't they don't want to relinquish that ain't No,
• 20:30
  Speaker 4: I'm not talking about a dad that ain't been there
• 20:32
  Speaker 4: then and pull up at fourteen stay with me.
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: No, No, I'm only talking about dad.
• 20:39
  Speaker 4: What you say, The dance I'm talking about are the
• 20:41
  Speaker 4: dads who's been there, Yes, co parents and this whole
• 20:44
  Speaker 4: entire time. Then when they get fourteen and it's time
• 20:47
  Speaker 4: for them to stay with them, they don't want to
• 20:48
  Speaker 4: let go.
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: The women don't want to let go their pride. They
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: won't let go of that check, and.
• 20:52
  Speaker 4: They don't want to let go of the baby when
• 20:54
  Speaker 4: it's not best for the son. And you gotta do that.
• 20:57
  Speaker 4: And that's why dads get the short end of the stick.
• 20:59
  Speaker 4: And you can't can go to court and just be like,
• 21:01
  Speaker 4: I just want my child. NI can happy, you're not hardy.
• 21:03
  Speaker 4: It's for a dad to get custody of a child.
• 21:06
  Speaker 4: You then they gotta be your mama, got them to
• 21:08
  Speaker 4: be on crack, missing, got to be at the bottom.
• 21:14
  Speaker 4: You even get considered break a law that's trying to
• 21:17
  Speaker 4: be something, and that's it's tough on dad.
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: So I'm happy that ty Reese got his shaler, but.
• 21:23
  Speaker 3: I don't know because I love ty Reese's no disrespect
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: to Tyreese. We're just using this as an example. But
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: it's like you wouldn't have this passion to raise your
• 21:31
  Speaker 3: child until the money was involved. That that has been
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: the biggest when it.
• 21:36
  Speaker 5: Comes to money.
• 21:36
  Speaker 3: So if a mother was saying, don't even pay me
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: child support, a lot of fathers wouldn't even would be
• 21:41
  Speaker 3: just out here. It would be totally fine. We're just
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: seeing their kid on the weekends if it want no money.
• 21:46
  Speaker 3: But when it comes to money exchange, all of a sudden,
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: everybody want to.
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: Step up a Do you know how that feels.
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: I have to disagree with you on that because you
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: know how crazy that feels for you to have to
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: see your kid on the weekend and paid this exorbitant
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: amount of money. That's a lot of stress on one person.
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: So the money, the money ain't really the thing, because
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: we all know Tyree got it. It ain't the money.
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: And I remember when I got put on child support.
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: I remember DJ Ferris told me shout out to him,
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: was like yo. He was like, hey, man, just don't
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: look at the check, bro, no more. Just gonna make
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: more money.
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: That's it. Just gonna make more money.
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: I've seen the child sports check before from somebody. I
• 22:26
  Speaker 3: cried for that.
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: Man.
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you just been like absolutely, don't even.
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: He's like, he's like, well, he said, he told me, bro,
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: he gave me all the game. He was like, it's
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: gonna piss you off when she say give me my money.
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: You're gonna get upset about it because you were like, Nigga,
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: that's my money that I'm.
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: Giving you for our for our kid.
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: That ain't that ain't your money. That's my money I'm giving.
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: It's a lot. He gave me all the game. But
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying with the stresses, what you were seeing,
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: tyresee was I don't got my damn kid. God knows
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: who you got her in front of or him in
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: front of. And I'm and I'm paying bread. And that's
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: just a lot of stress on one person. I don't
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: know why that that.
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: The thing.
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: The thing of it is is when women one second,
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: you're just say that y'all think that women think guys
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: when they don't have their kids. We just over at
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: the crib, like, yeah, all right, I ain't got them.
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: I ain't got them. I'm outside.
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: A lot of times dudes are going outside, bro, because
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: the pain of being in that house by yourself without
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: your shorty is nasty.
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: Talk about it. That's nasty, and.
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: That ain't nothing nasty than a dude in the house
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: raising your kid because you can't be there and you
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: like you, like you, you sick.
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: It's a it's a lot.
• 23:50
  Speaker 5: I definitely agree that it. I'm sure it's a lot.
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: I'm sure it is.
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: But you guys just cannot place all the blame on
• 23:57
  Speaker 3: mothers because it's to It takes to to make a baby,
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: it take too to raise a baby, and it take
• 24:02
  Speaker 3: two for relationships to break up. And sometimes that's just
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: a part of a relationship breaking up. It's not comfortable
• 24:07
  Speaker 3: to her to watch another man raise her child and
• 24:09
  Speaker 3: she feel like the father is not being there or
• 24:11
  Speaker 3: loving the child that they created together and don't want to.
• 24:14
  Speaker 3: I'm talking about in instances where fathers are not in
• 24:16
  Speaker 3: the household, you keep bringing up people her having somebody
• 24:19
  Speaker 3: else raise their child. If if there's room for somebody
• 24:21
  Speaker 3: else to raise your child, you're not active enough.
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: No no, no, no, no, that's not a fair statement. Okay,
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: that's not a fair statement for it because because so
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: if no, it's not, it's just logical. It's a logical thing.
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: If I let's just say my situation, I lead a crib,
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: I lead a crib. All of a sudden, there is
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: I lead a crib. We don't get along, we broke up.
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: Now you put another man in there on a daily basis.
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: That's not me, not being a father, that's me. Me
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: and your mama don't like each other no more. We
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: can't be around each other no more. So now we
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: gotta leave. And then you put somebody in place of
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: me to be around my kid every single day. He
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: ain't helped maker.
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: He ain't.
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: He ain't hold your hand when you was having her.
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: He ain't done nothing. He's just in here because you
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: like him. Yes, you like him. That ain't That ain't right.
• 25:11
  Speaker 3: So the step parents is are not supposed to exist.
• 25:15
  Speaker 3: Broke up with somebody. They're never allowed to have any
• 25:18
  Speaker 3: other adult in your child's life.
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, they A responsible adult is not going to
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: put a new adult in a child's life. It's not
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: it's not early. It's just not four three, four, five.
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna I have seen it.
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: I seen it.
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: How long you're supposed to wait at least at least
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: to the baby, like five or six. Okay, I agree
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: with that, five or six, but you gotta you a
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: lot of times we're talking infants. People break up when
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: the kids like six seven months and they got a
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: new dude in the crib. That's wild. That would be
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: like me, let's say we got the baby. We a
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: man has a baby. You are all right, cool, got
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: my girlfriend take care of my three month old one
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: year old.
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: That's a lot, man, that's a lot. Do it all
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: the time. I don't think.
• 26:12
  Speaker 3: You gotta take your I'm not talking about you personally.
• 26:15
  Speaker 3: I know you're a damn good father, But I'm talking
• 26:17
  Speaker 3: about there are men out here that play this bullshit
• 26:19
  Speaker 3: ass game as if they're a victim, and they are
• 26:21
  Speaker 3: simply not. You chose to leave your family, You chose
• 26:24
  Speaker 3: to leave out of the house. Now, how dare you
• 26:26
  Speaker 3: get upset that I have another partner that come in
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: here and want to be a positive influence in your
• 26:30
  Speaker 3: child's life. That's saying all stepparents are not allowed to
• 26:32
  Speaker 3: be stepparents are not worthy to be around your child.
• 26:35
  Speaker 3: And I just don't agree with that. Women women, A
• 26:37
  Speaker 3: lot of women play games, yes they do. A lot
• 26:39
  Speaker 3: of women play games, but a lot of men play
• 26:41
  Speaker 3: games as well, and a lot of that don't give
• 26:44
  Speaker 3: a damn about raising a kid until they come down
• 26:46
  Speaker 3: to a child support check. They don't give a damn
• 26:49
  Speaker 3: all of a sudden when it comes down to what
• 26:50
  Speaker 3: you got to pay at court. Now you want to
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: be a daddy. Now you want custody because you don't
• 26:54
  Speaker 3: want to pay me. That's because of your man. You're
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: paying me instead of your instead of thinking about you're
• 26:58
  Speaker 3: paying it to the household that's raising your child, instead
• 27:01
  Speaker 3: of you thinking about your health, insurance in the school
• 27:03
  Speaker 3: and all the constant chad rights. In a child is
• 27:06
  Speaker 3: a twenty four hour job. There's no time off. You're
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: not the parent in the household. You have time off,
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: you have time to do other things.
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: All right now, I gotta do it, and I hate
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: putting my business. I hate putting my business.
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: I cain't get to you. It's not about you, No,
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: I have.
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: To because it's more people like me than it is.
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: What you're talking about I believe, I believe, I believe
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: you in the room with two dudes are a lot
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: of percentages on my side.
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: In this room, it's a thousand people in the court
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: that are people that fatherless children.
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: I know that it's also kids in their motherless children.
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm saying there are more men, there are
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: more men like me that have experienced this than then.
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: And I just believe it, and we can put the
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: poll up on it on the clip. I believe my situation.
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: All I know is this, I cheated on my on
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: my first baby, Mama. I did, okay, cool, breaks up,
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: goes and gets in the relationship.
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: Four months later, four months that later, Now she marries
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: the dude. She marries him.
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: Fine, they married within that first month of the marriage,
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: the first month of the man, She's like, he got
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: a she got a new daddy. Now she got two daddies.
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: That's wrong.
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: That ain't that ain't that ain't how you have But
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: still she hurt. I'm gonna go with it. You hurt,
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: you mad, you mad? The dude goes and says, the
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: dude goes and tells me to my face, to my face,
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: she got two daddies, tells me that it tells me
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: that I'm gonna adopt her. Know you're not, that's crazy,
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: know you not. You don't even know it what you're
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: talking about. Then you go and then you go throughout
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: my daughter, she'll tell you. She's twenty five now, she'll
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: tell you. She like throughout her life, you're gonna tell
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: because she don't know how me and her mama broke up.
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: She was like, your daddy was a sperm, do on it?
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: He didn't. He didn't, he didn't, He wasn't even never.
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: He was never really with your mama anyway, because the
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: house with the every day so.
• 29:01
  Speaker 2: Who she who?
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: She gonna believe When me and her dated for three
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: and a half years, that was I was engaged to her.
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: So the thing, the thing of this and where I
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: go with this, the point of it is my daughter
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: has set it to me clearly, like it was hard
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: for me to separate. I knew you were my dad,
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: but then it was also him too, and I couldn't
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: really bounce out who is my real dad. That's where
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: the mix up comes, That's where the trauma comes from.
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: That's and it's more dudes living that way. That's that's
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: just what I'm that's all I'm saying.
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: Oh lord, okay, I'm just tell y'all this. Y'all don't
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: want me out.
• 29:45
  Speaker 3: He can't see and I understand that when you've been
• 29:47
  Speaker 3: through something you cannot see the other side. I get
• 29:51
  Speaker 3: it because you've lived it, so you're like, no, no, no,
• 29:54
  Speaker 3: this is how it's I'm just like, it's.
• 29:57
  Speaker 2: Not about done dirty.
• 30:01
  Speaker 3: I couldn't imagine I would kill somebody. I would literally
• 30:03
  Speaker 3: go to jail and spoke cigarettes if if somebody's playing
• 30:05
  Speaker 3: with my kid like that.
• 30:06
  Speaker 2: I get that.
• 30:06
  Speaker 5: But I'm just saying, there are a lot of men
• 30:08
  Speaker 5: that are not like you.
• 30:10
  Speaker 3: And I know it's hard for you to understand that,
• 30:12
  Speaker 3: but there's a lot of men not like you and
• 30:14
  Speaker 3: Zach Wood.
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: Okay, there's a lot of guys.
• 30:17
  Speaker 4: And then there's a lot of guys who there's a
• 30:19
  Speaker 4: lot of guys who are quit on their responsibility. It's
• 30:22
  Speaker 4: a lot of men who said I'm gone. Now, what
• 30:28
  Speaker 4: I will say is I used to hate these men.
• 30:33
  Speaker 4: Prior to having children. I used to say, how could
• 30:37
  Speaker 4: you leave? How could you say effort and start a
• 30:40
  Speaker 4: new family? How could you pull O'Brian McKnight and be
• 30:42
  Speaker 4: like the hell with all of y'all, how could you
• 30:45
  Speaker 4: do that? Until I went through a situation, I said,
• 30:48
  Speaker 4: I see how this happened. So all I ask before
• 30:52
  Speaker 4: we cast judgment on the dads, before we cast judgment
• 30:56
  Speaker 4: on moms. It's not there you, let's ask some questions.
• 31:00
  Speaker 4: Don't just listen to the parent who there, because that
• 31:03
  Speaker 4: mug may be jaded. Okay, and there's some other things
• 31:07
  Speaker 4: that has happened within this.
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: Situation that has caused this.
• 31:11
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, a lot of times when
• 31:13
  Speaker 4: a dad isn't there, we automatically go to dead beat.
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: He don't want to be there.
• 31:16
  Speaker 4: You should have did this, but you don't know the
• 31:18
  Speaker 4: hell he went through trying to fight.
• 31:21
  Speaker 2: And then it just was like, you know what, I
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: give up. I give up.
• 31:25
  Speaker 4: I can't I can't do this no more. I'm gonna
• 31:27
  Speaker 4: go crazy, I'm gonna kill somebody, and I want to
• 31:28
  Speaker 4: stay out of jail. I want to stay alive. So
• 31:31
  Speaker 4: you know, it goes to that, I've been there.
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: You don't know the mother struggle.
• 31:35
  Speaker 3: You know, have children, and the man leaves ups and
• 31:38
  Speaker 3: leaves and then think he can come back and go
• 31:40
  Speaker 3: out and come back and come back when he please,
• 31:42
  Speaker 3: pay when he pleased, come when he please. A lot
• 31:45
  Speaker 3: of women deal with that as well, and a lot
• 31:46
  Speaker 3: of women tolerated so that their kids just have some
• 31:49
  Speaker 3: type of relationship with a father and they don't get
• 31:51
  Speaker 3: credit for that.
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: No, that's true.
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: That's you and I want to get and not that
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: put none no more because my first baby mama is
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: a beautiful woman.
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: Man, she's super cool. She's becose.
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: I heard her, and you know what I mean, and
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: that and I mean, it took me a long time,
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: and I think a lot of times guys gotta look
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: at the fact. You gotta look at hey, especially when
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: it was your fault. There is there is a there
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: is relationships that just fall apart. I've been a part
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: of those, but I mean, this one was my fault,
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: like one hundred percent of my fault.
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: So you I used to be like, man, I can't believe.
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: This is happening, and this like, but if I was
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: the domino that started everything, and if I had a
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: been me and her had a you know, I had
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: an amicable split. It wasn't like that. She wouldn't have
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: been hurt that way. This is you know what I mean.
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: She wouldn't have been mad. She wouldn't have and she
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: was angry. She's angry.
• 32:41
  Speaker 2: She was, and that was than a mad woman. Women
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: woman's I ain't gonna go too far.
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: I want to move over to beautiful. But you started it, no,
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: y'all that used to be out here. Well you said no,
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: you are reacting. There's a lot of women to start shit,
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: innocent reactors. Right right, Let's go ahead and get to this. Well,
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: we can talk about this real quick. Whis Kalie for urgents?
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: Co parents not to have sex? And I am totally
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: in agreeance with that. Let me go ahead, Yeah it is,
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: we got it. We ready. You and Amber have been
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: co parenting for a long time and I think it's amazing.
• 33:29
  Speaker 4: But what's the one thing for someone who's going through
• 33:31
  Speaker 4: a co parenting situation that they should not do?
• 33:34
  Speaker 2: No sex? Great advice, Please don't do it.
• 33:39
  Speaker 6: And not from experience I'm saying please don't do it,
• 33:42
  Speaker 6: but from experience of not doing it.
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: Do not have sex. Don't do it? What does it do?
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: Complicates everything?
• 33:50
  Speaker 6: And women are rightfully going to think that you still
• 33:54
  Speaker 6: want them if you keep doing that.
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: That's a fact. You're not wrong. I didn't know argument here,
• 34:01
  Speaker 2: no argument? What's this a rabbits a rap rap?
• 34:05
  Speaker 3: You gotta you gotta shut it down. It gets too complicated.
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that that that we we all agree on that
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: when we keep it moving.
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: We keep moving.
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: Okay, Mount Rushmore, this has fun. Mount Rushmore post a
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: trending right now? Who's your Mount Rushmore? And nineties r B.
• 34:24
  Speaker 2: Think about it?
• 34:26
  Speaker 3: The King of R and B h Mary J. Blish
• 34:29
  Speaker 3: for sure, Babyface got one more spot.
• 34:35
  Speaker 4: The whispers that's not nineties, it's fifties are my fault.
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: The whispers. I'm like, wait, what hmmm? I mean I'm
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: gonna run them off. I was alive during the nineties
• 34:50
  Speaker 2: at the height. We know you was alive.
• 34:53
  Speaker 5: It wasn't nobody didn't then what I just named?
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: What are you talking about?
• 34:58
  Speaker 5: R Kelly, Mary J. Blash and Babyface?
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: You missing one more?
• 35:03
  Speaker 5: That's what I'm saying.
• 35:03
  Speaker 2: I need one more. I can't think of one. Mary J. Blige.
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: Mary J.
• 35:09
  Speaker 5: Blige had the nineties on Lock for R and B.
• 35:13
  Speaker 5: Did come on?
• 35:14
  Speaker 3: I was sliding down and one the no crying to
• 35:17
  Speaker 3: not gonna cry no more? I was six, So yeah,
• 35:20
  Speaker 3: she had that on Lock.
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: I'm trying, and all.
• 35:23
  Speaker 5: These girls that came after Mary tried to be Mary.
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna put it.
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: I gotta say, oh, I want to It's it's a
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: lot of audible.
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: Mentions because I love Tony Tony Tony, but I'm gonna
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: leave baby group. But are we doing groups or everything?
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: It could be any period. So you gotta say I'm
• 35:43
  Speaker 2: with you with babyface.
• 35:44
  Speaker 5: Absolutely, that's half the That's half the genre in itself.
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: Everybody kills I'm with you. You got to give it
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: to him. I gotta get kills there. I can't.
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: I can't leave out because was that it was the
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: early two thousands. Was ushered early two thousand.
• 36:01
  Speaker 5: He's early two thousand, very early.
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: He was late late nineties, nineties. Damn god it Maybe
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: I have to be married. It has to give it up.
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: I don't want to not give it up.
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: I mess with it. I messed with but I like
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: to be honest with you. I'm gonna keep it up.
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: Buck.
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: I like Mary at the time, and faith faith.
• 36:20
  Speaker 2: Faith was strong in the nineties. Strung why are you
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: making it? Faith?
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: No?
• 36:25
  Speaker 5: Faith was strong in the nineties, But I just feel
• 36:27
  Speaker 5: like Mary was the recipe.
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: She was and then oh you said.
• 36:32
  Speaker 3: Their byproducts of the recipe, the original recipe. Now, I
• 36:36
  Speaker 3: could be wrong, because everybody know Faith wrote a lot
• 36:38
  Speaker 3: of records for people. And what was going on in
• 36:40
  Speaker 3: Bad Boy that he could have been stealing from Faith
• 36:42
  Speaker 3: to make marry Pop.
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 36:44
  Speaker 5: But from the outside looking man, you had Mary and
• 36:47
  Speaker 5: then you had a lot of.
• 36:48
  Speaker 3: Little Mary's, a lot of little Mary's, and Faith is
• 36:52
  Speaker 3: a byproduct of a Mary.
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: In my opinion, I gotta think. I gotta think who
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: that last one is.
• 36:59
  Speaker 5: That's tough. Last spot is tough, because.
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: No, okay, m hmm, here's mine.
• 37:07
  Speaker 4: I'm going to King of R and B gotta go Rob.
• 37:12
  Speaker 4: This is just my favorites. I don't give a damn.
• 37:13
  Speaker 4: Y'all can argue with it all you I'm not here
• 37:16
  Speaker 4: give it what you'll think. Boys to me, okay, boys
• 37:19
  Speaker 4: to men is in mine. I'm gonna take Mary off
• 37:24
  Speaker 4: and go Riah Carey. Oh yeah, I'm gonna go Mariah Carey.
• 37:32
  Speaker 4: This my like that you can say whatever you say,
• 37:35
  Speaker 4: whatever the hell you want to say, and I don't.
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: I don't know how you go nineties.
• 37:39
  Speaker 4: I don't know how you go ninety, especially if you're
• 37:41
  Speaker 4: talking a woman without Whitney or Janet Whitney.
• 37:46
  Speaker 2: Janet wasn't R and B. She's more pop. Why Whitney
• 37:50
  Speaker 2: had to go with Whitney. It's just okay.
• 37:52
  Speaker 4: So here's here's my thing with Whitney, Whitney, Michael Jackson, Prince,
• 37:57
  Speaker 4: I those are I don't put them in the genre.
• 38:00
  Speaker 4: Those are genre lists artists to me, because it's hard
• 38:03
  Speaker 4: for me to put them in R.
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: And B like they just musical. Yeah, like Chris R.
• 38:10
  Speaker 4: Really, I don't really put them in no category. So
• 38:13
  Speaker 4: I can't put Whitney on there.
• 38:15
  Speaker 2: I get what you said.
• 38:15
  Speaker 3: She was just but in the nineties though, Whitney was
• 38:20
  Speaker 3: heavy R and B, like you had the soundtracks for Bodyguard,
• 38:24
  Speaker 3: the soundtrack for Wait Next Hell, you had you know,
• 38:28
  Speaker 3: her albums, like she was that girl.
• 38:30
  Speaker 5: As far as R and B, it was her and
• 38:32
  Speaker 5: Tony Braxton.
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: At the time. Yeah, and Monica Brandy.
• 38:36
  Speaker 5: Nobody want to get Brandy and yeah, for.
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: Sure Brandy should be in the conversation for sure. Brandy
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: Alia yep.
• 38:47
  Speaker 4: Aliah, I hate I hate my y'all ain't gonna like my.
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: Alia.
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: Take Tony Braxon. I'm going with it. I'm going Tony
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: Braxy got.
• 38:54
  Speaker 5: That's what I said.
• 38:55
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but what's take y'all ain't gonna like it. Y'all
• 38:59
  Speaker 4: gonna fight me, So I'm be quiet. What careful John
• 39:03
  Speaker 4: don't get cast Aliyah has.
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: Beautiful records, beautiful records, I don't.
• 39:09
  Speaker 4: I think that careful Alile to me was a product
• 39:13
  Speaker 4: of Missy and Timberland.
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: So what I get that.
• 39:17
  Speaker 4: But they did the same thing with the Escape records.
• 39:20
  Speaker 4: They did the same thing with the uh the what's
• 39:24
  Speaker 4: the other records that Timberland and Missy did? That sound
• 39:27
  Speaker 4: it's got that same Aliah sound, And I realized that
• 39:29
  Speaker 4: the sound really is from Missy and Tim and her
• 39:32
  Speaker 4: voice isn't that strong where it's like anybody couldn't like
• 39:36
  Speaker 4: nobody else could sing that record and it would work.
• 39:39
  Speaker 5: Now, you're not wrong when it comes to that. He
• 39:42
  Speaker 5: not wrong when it comes to that.
• 39:43
  Speaker 3: Aliyah had she had r Kelly groomed her sadly, it
• 39:48
  Speaker 3: was kind of like her so the music was his
• 39:50
  Speaker 3: at first, and then she got with Missy and similar,
• 39:53
  Speaker 3: but she still had the star factor, did I She was.
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: Not like people to have any teams, any teams the
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: way if Zach or y'all somebody had a team, y'all
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: are y'all were like, you know what, No, I mean,
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: she had a everybody had a team. Janet Jackson is
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: a product of Jimmy jam and Terry Lewis, who's a
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: product of Prince Samy Face wrote everything in the nineties
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: for everybody. Tony Braxton wouldn't even have a career if
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: it wasn't.
• 40:22
  Speaker 4: For I get that, you can't do I get that,
• 40:25
  Speaker 4: but I'm saying voice wise, vocally, it wasn't. Her voice
• 40:29
  Speaker 4: didn't stand out where I was like, yeah, he wrote
• 40:32
  Speaker 4: that song, but but she sang that mug you know,
• 40:36
  Speaker 4: baby like it was very average. The vocal level was now,
• 40:41
  Speaker 4: the star power, the cool factor, the swag that was Aliah,
• 40:45
  Speaker 4: that was all her.
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: You can't buy that.
• 40:47
  Speaker 4: But the songs, the voice average as a hell. You
• 40:51
  Speaker 4: can find that in every city. You can find it
• 40:54
  Speaker 4: in every sing I can't.
• 40:55
  Speaker 2: I can't go. Donelle Jones to get the hell out
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: of here, lout of here, Mount rushore three songs. He
• 41:04
  Speaker 2: ain't No Mounts had three songs Jones on the way
• 41:12
  Speaker 2: to work.
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: Records bro a lot of them, you tweaking name Records
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: didn't a lot of them a lot of them, a
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: lot of what I put on the Shape room comments.
• 41:24
  Speaker 3: I said, please, don't put me on the list that
• 41:26
  Speaker 3: I don't belong on, you know, don't put me on
• 41:29
  Speaker 3: no mountains that I don't belong on, because when people
• 41:32
  Speaker 3: start revealing how much you don't belong now, it gets
• 41:34
  Speaker 3: so crazy.
• 41:35
  Speaker 2: Like Zach going to go in on Daniel Jones. He
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: can't even I like Donell's Hugh, but.
• 41:39
  Speaker 3: He got records, So yeah, that's.
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, okay, y'all wasn't around, y'all was kids
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: school me. Please listen to Daniel Jones, y'all in the
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: kindergarden where I want to be, you know, what's up?
• 41:55
  Speaker 4: The the the what's the name? The remix that he
• 41:58
  Speaker 4: did of Stevie Wonder song I Ain't gonna lie. He
• 41:59
  Speaker 4: sang this love, this love, just.
• 42:05
  Speaker 2: This love.
• 42:06
  Speaker 3: That's for a I know, I wouldn't see, I wouldn't position.
• 42:11
  Speaker 3: I would have never put down in this position, you know.
• 42:15
  Speaker 2: And this is what ton up. Yes he does.
• 42:16
  Speaker 4: We talking about Rushmore and then he just goes to
• 42:19
  Speaker 4: people that he like, like yes, And I'm like, it's
• 42:21
  Speaker 4: a difference between people that you like and a real
• 42:24
  Speaker 4: amount Rushmore artist.
• 42:26
  Speaker 3: Because if you talk down Joe, you gotta talk case. Yes,
• 42:29
  Speaker 3: there's so many, so many conversations. If Joe, you gotta
• 42:35
  Speaker 3: be in there. You can't talk down without talking Joe
• 42:38
  Speaker 3: talk Joe Maxwell, Bobby Brown. Yeah, you you're just saying stuff.
• 42:43
  Speaker 2: No, I'm not. I did not ask to be here.
• 42:48
  Speaker 2: Love he got mention him.
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: All right, Let's get to this women guy and be
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: happy if he makes significantly less money than them.
• 43:02
  Speaker 2: One more time.
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: A woman did a guy and be happy if he
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: makes significantly less money than her, if she wants to Yeah.
• 43:12
  Speaker 2: What he doing.
• 43:13
  Speaker 5: It's all about what he's doing with the money.
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: That he's making.
• 43:16
  Speaker 4: He can't be happy, but she can't. What you mean
• 43:21
  Speaker 4: that she can't be happy. I mean she can be
• 43:23
  Speaker 4: happy because that's what she She got the money. All
• 43:26
  Speaker 4: she needs is the protection, the partner aspect of it,
• 43:31
  Speaker 4: the loyalty of it. She can be perfectly fine. That
• 43:34
  Speaker 4: man gonna be told up. You can't handle it. It's
• 43:37
  Speaker 4: not it's not designed like that.
• 43:39
  Speaker 2: It takes it takes a strong, strong, strong.
• 43:42
  Speaker 4: Man to sit up here. And how y old woman
• 43:44
  Speaker 4: pull out her card every time y'all go to dinner.
• 43:46
  Speaker 2: We see that's the thing. That's the thing. You don't
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: do that. You don't do that. You know you broke.
• 43:52
  Speaker 3: So you pay for the stuff you can't afford. You
• 43:54
  Speaker 3: pay for the dinners. You let her handle the mortgage.
• 43:57
  Speaker 3: You never see how the mortgage. You're the man. You
• 44:03
  Speaker 3: know what I'm saying.
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: You take your whole check.
• 44:05
  Speaker 4: And you gotta put your whole check on the line
• 44:08
  Speaker 4: every time, and you know it's gone like and then
• 44:11
  Speaker 4: it's that vacation. She's like, you want to go hear
• 44:13
  Speaker 4: and you yeah, And it's cool in the beginning. When
• 44:17
  Speaker 4: you can't, When you can't do nothing for vacation, you
• 44:19
  Speaker 4: just feel less.
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: Then, you know what I'm saying, You can feel less.
• 44:23
  Speaker 2: Then you could pay. You let her book the vacation.
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: You pay for everything.
• 44:27
  Speaker 5: When y'all there, Yes, at the all inclusive resort.
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: What it drinks is free already. Yes, you you got Zach.
• 44:32
  Speaker 2: You know you talk the world how to be a
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: broke friend.
• 44:35
  Speaker 4: I know exactly how to be a broke friend. But
• 44:37
  Speaker 4: a broke partner is tough. You need to find somebody
• 44:40
  Speaker 4: that's close to you where y'all can kind of be.
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: It doesn't need to be a big age gap.
• 44:45
  Speaker 4: She can't be making five hundred thousand dollars a year
• 44:48
  Speaker 4: and then you be making sixty. You're in trouble and
• 44:51
  Speaker 4: you're gonna feel like it because guess what, she has
• 44:53
  Speaker 4: a five hundred thousand dollars lifestyle that you just can't
• 44:55
  Speaker 4: compete with. She she takes uber blacks without thinking about it.
• 44:59
  Speaker 4: All her bills are on auto pay. She pays for
• 45:02
  Speaker 4: certain stuff. It's certain luxuries that she has that you
• 45:05
  Speaker 4: just can't do. Okay, she's gonna be in rooms with
• 45:08
  Speaker 4: other women who make that type of money, whose husbands
• 45:10
  Speaker 4: make more.
• 45:11
  Speaker 2: And then when you.
• 45:12
  Speaker 4: Got to sit up there with your little fifty thousands,
• 45:13
  Speaker 4: she bought your suit. You can go to the thing
• 45:15
  Speaker 4: now you feel away. It can't last forever. It can
• 45:19
  Speaker 4: be for a moment.
• 45:20
  Speaker 2: No, it could last. So I don't want to be
• 45:23
  Speaker 2: taken care of.
• 45:26
  Speaker 4: You have you not broke? You're not that low. You're
• 45:32
  Speaker 4: at a point where it's nothing. You make enough money
• 45:35
  Speaker 4: that in this world you can move around in any
• 45:38
  Speaker 4: room without having the axe. Okay, that's fair. So that's
• 45:42
  Speaker 4: a different level than when you send here. But you
• 45:47
  Speaker 4: make forty thousand dollars a year. They done took they
• 45:50
  Speaker 4: done took twenty. They done took twenty for taxes. You
• 45:53
  Speaker 4: see thirty. Mind you you make three thousand, six hundred
• 45:57
  Speaker 4: and fifty four dollars a month. You can't do nothing
• 46:00
  Speaker 4: with that woman that make five hundred. You just can't do.
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: I don't care how secure you think you is. You can't.
• 46:06
  Speaker 2: You can't. You gotta ask me.
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: You in trouble, Now that true. Now you gotta be
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: able to I can tell you how to you. I
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: don't know what the number is. I don't want to
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: tell people my number. The number is. I can tell
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: you gotta be able to take care of the dinners.
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: You got an uber black. You gotta be able to
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: uber black everywhere. You gotta uh and then take care
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: of the vacation stuff like little stuff like hey out groceries.
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: All right, look, I'm about to go keego grab blah
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: blah blah. And it's usually from a store. I'll never forget.
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: I went to a grocery store that humbled the ship
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: out of me. Somebody asked me to go to the
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: grocery store. I went in that grocery store. I was like,
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: it's like, I was like, we gotta go to this
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: grocery store.
• 46:50
  Speaker 2: I called.
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: I was like, we gotta go to this grocery store.
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: I know I saw one around. Oh that's the one
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: that got everything cool, out of control, prices to control.
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: I don't trying to go to the jewels.
• 47:02
  Speaker 2: No jewels, you're looking for the pizza.
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: It's just like you gotta the only thing. Like you said,
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: if you can't take care of the little, the little stuff.
• 47:14
  Speaker 4: You have to make enough to take care of the minimum,
• 47:17
  Speaker 4: the minimum of her minimal life. You don't make enough
• 47:19
  Speaker 4: to afford her minimal life, you're gonna be in trouble.
• 47:22
  Speaker 4: You cannot afford the mortgage.
• 47:25
  Speaker 3: How do y'all feel as a man, because this I
• 47:27
  Speaker 3: can't speak to. How do you feel? Have you ever
• 47:30
  Speaker 3: been you've been in a situation where she made more?
• 47:32
  Speaker 3: Did you have some low key did you have some
• 47:34
  Speaker 3: low key resentment or insecurity that that you know, like
• 47:39
  Speaker 3: looking back, like damn, I was stripping it really want her?
• 47:42
  Speaker 2: It was me?
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: No, I mean for me, I was like I always
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: get inspired with me, I'm different than most people. I
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: get inspired by people to make a lot of money.
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: You do get I get really inspired, Like when people.
• 47:55
  Speaker 2: Gonna inspire everybody else.
• 47:56
  Speaker 5: You know, everybody get somebody.
• 48:02
  Speaker 2: You know, with people.
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: I do what I'm just saying, Well, I get around
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: successful people. I like it, you know what I mean.
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I had never been in
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: the house. I had an elevator and let you off
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: in the goddamn house. And I saw it. I was like, oh,
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: it's I got some more levels to get to. But
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: I never thought like, but you also, I dated a
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: person that threw their money in your face kind of
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: in a in a way, and he kind of it,
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: kind of ignore.
• 48:29
  Speaker 2: I ignored it because I wasn't broke. I wasn't broke.
• 48:31
  Speaker 2: I could move like exactly, I could move.
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: But then I dated somebody that was way richer than
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: that person, way into it and acted.
• 48:40
  Speaker 2: Normal, just completely normal, chill. They just did rich people ship, right,
• 48:47
  Speaker 2: you know what I mean.
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: So I think it's a difference how the person that
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: makes the money, even if you on a lower level
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: make the money. You can't make people feel bad for
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: their situation. They standard in life. Right now, you're trying.
• 48:59
  Speaker 5: To help get high school. I see, I was a
• 49:01
  Speaker 5: manager at KFC, so.
• 49:06
  Speaker 3: Right, I would say that guy and we went to
• 49:10
  Speaker 3: eat at beggar's piece. There was me, him, his homie,
• 49:13
  Speaker 3: and one of my friends and the bill. Okay, and
• 49:16
  Speaker 3: I'm thinking, like, I'm the manager at KFCC. I'm not
• 49:18
  Speaker 3: even working a real job around here. So let me
• 49:22
  Speaker 3: He was pissed, like pissed from that day emasculated him.
• 49:27
  Speaker 3: How I thought I was doing a good thing. We
• 49:30
  Speaker 3: in high school, nobody's expected to have money, but like
• 49:33
  Speaker 3: he was.
• 49:34
  Speaker 4: Because he got to allow him have the He wanted
• 49:37
  Speaker 4: to be the man in the situation. How would y'all
• 49:39
  Speaker 4: feel like when women say that, How would y'all feel
• 49:41
  Speaker 4: if we were in a situation and we decided to
• 49:43
  Speaker 4: be the woman in the situation, if we were if.
• 49:47
  Speaker 2: We were out, if we were out disrespected.
• 49:59
  Speaker 4: I'm just saying, no, I'm trying when you when mans
• 50:04
  Speaker 4: to prove when you didn't masculate a man, how is
• 50:08
  Speaker 4: that emasculating?
• 50:09
  Speaker 3: And when you took care of the bill, I'm thinking
• 50:10
  Speaker 3: I'm doing a good deed. His homie was grateful like thanks, like.
• 50:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but that was not he feel away. Let me
• 50:18
  Speaker 2: let me be me. You know what I'm saying.
• 50:20
  Speaker 3: If you just split that bill he was about to
• 50:23
  Speaker 3: pay for me and him and then let his homie
• 50:25
  Speaker 3: pay for him.
• 50:26
  Speaker 2: Hey, but guess what he lost.
• 50:27
  Speaker 4: He would have walked out with his pride and you
• 50:30
  Speaker 4: stole his pride.
• 50:32
  Speaker 2: Okay, cry my girl, my girl, I got it. I
• 50:37
  Speaker 2: got it. Now you got me. Look the other week
• 50:40
  Speaker 2: you got me looking weak.
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: Don't help looking girl can like with women now, have
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: been in situations like well, that bill been nasty, nasty, nasty,
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: and I have got the card under the table.
• 50:55
  Speaker 2: That's a real one, but solid because nobody could see
• 50:59
  Speaker 2: the but you just pulled the card out stick of it.
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: But she saved you. She saved me that bill. I
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: could have handed that bill, but I would have been sick, sick.
• 51:07
  Speaker 4: I've had women do that where they were just taking
• 51:10
  Speaker 4: me to dinner because it was my birthday or something.
• 51:12
  Speaker 2: Like they was.
• 51:13
  Speaker 4: They was like, i'll pay, but they still gave me
• 51:15
  Speaker 4: the card to pay the waiter. And that's how you
• 51:16
  Speaker 4: know a woman got some good home training. She understands, Kiki,
• 51:24
  Speaker 4: she understands the rolls. We have to stop getting away
• 51:28
  Speaker 4: from rolls. We want to play this positionless basketball, and
• 51:31
  Speaker 4: that's not how playing.
• 51:38
  Speaker 2: Everybody can do anything.
• 51:40
  Speaker 4: Some five just shooting threes, No, no getting the post
• 51:42
  Speaker 4: like everybody got a reason that they do things, and
• 51:45
  Speaker 4: even in front of anybody, you don't want to make
• 51:48
  Speaker 4: your man look weak. And a lot of times women
• 51:52
  Speaker 4: with money will make their man look weak and be like,
• 51:54
  Speaker 4: I'm doing it because I got it.
• 51:55
  Speaker 2: It ain't nothing. I ain't worry about it. But still
• 51:58
  Speaker 2: you don't.
• 51:58
  Speaker 4: I don't like the way you're not thinking about the
• 52:00
  Speaker 4: way it makes him feel in a way it makes
• 52:02
  Speaker 4: him look. I said all the time, though, I think
• 52:05
  Speaker 4: and I've been in I think we all been in
• 52:07
  Speaker 4: these type of relationships. You gotta be a team bro,
• 52:11
  Speaker 4: like y'all got to come out of the house with
• 52:13
  Speaker 4: the same jersey on.
• 52:15
  Speaker 2: I like that, you just gotta you just got.
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: I just feel like your girls should have your back.
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: It should be no, and it's been time. I've been
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: in relationships where.
• 52:28
  Speaker 2: I'm like, yo, like you shouldn't have said that, or
• 52:31
  Speaker 2: we moving together? Why we?
• 52:33
  Speaker 4: You know?
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: It's just sometimes have you ever dated somebody where you
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: feel like I think you may have said this before,
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: like you love me, but you don't like me? Yes,
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: Like it's like you feel like you we always in
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: competition with each other, And I don't think those are
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: the good lesson.
• 52:48
  Speaker 2: You should be moving as a team, like when you
• 52:50
  Speaker 2: go out of town.
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: Hey man, look, I know I'm doing this because she
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: liked this, and she know you doing. We're gonna do
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: this because you like this and all of the different
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: she sees with money when it comes in a good couple,
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: you ain't gonna never be able to tell what their
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: financial status is A good A good couple, I believe
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: like you just not gonna be able to tell.
• 53:11
  Speaker 2: And fellas you should do the same thing. Be nicer
• 53:13
  Speaker 2: to your.
• 53:13
  Speaker 4: Woman when you' all out in front of her friends,
• 53:16
  Speaker 4: you should be nicer. This ain't the time to be
• 53:18
  Speaker 4: like I told you to pick up the damn you
• 53:20
  Speaker 4: know what I'm saying. This ain't the time to cut
• 53:21
  Speaker 4: out because you made bad. This is the time where
• 53:23
  Speaker 4: you have more patience. This is the time you might
• 53:25
  Speaker 4: not pull out a chair every time when y'all by y'allself,
• 53:28
  Speaker 4: but when you're in front of her friends and stuff
• 53:29
  Speaker 4: like that, treat her like a queen so she can
• 53:32
  Speaker 4: be feminine in that role. You know what I'm saying.
• 53:34
  Speaker 4: You you be extra masculine. She be extra feminine in
• 53:36
  Speaker 4: that role in public too. It's not just her uh,
• 53:40
  Speaker 4: not emasculating you. You have to do the same thing
• 53:43
  Speaker 4: and not make it safe for me to make feminine. Yes,
• 53:46
  Speaker 4: she needs to feel that. She needs to see you
• 53:48
  Speaker 4: open and do it all that. She needs to feel
• 53:50
  Speaker 4: all that in front of her people. Bring her flowers
• 53:52
  Speaker 4: in front of her friends and stuff like that. Do those,
• 53:55
  Speaker 4: do those little things, and you'll see.
• 53:57
  Speaker 2: How far it gets you. You can.
• 53:59
  Speaker 4: You can be meaness here in the house, but if
• 54:01
  Speaker 4: you're nice in front of her friends and you bring it,
• 54:03
  Speaker 4: I don't recommend see you. I recommend Look, don't come
• 54:07
  Speaker 4: out here way.
• 54:08
  Speaker 2: No role. I'm not saying yeah, I ain't gonna come
• 54:12
  Speaker 2: out either way. It ain't no, it's not playing a role.
• 54:14
  Speaker 2: Here's what I'm trying to tell you about women.
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah, be nice in front of her friends, but.
• 54:22
  Speaker 4: No women women enjoyed. Let me tell you something. Women
• 54:26
  Speaker 4: like sweet and savory. You have to you you can't
• 54:31
  Speaker 4: be all sweet. You can't be all sweet and think
• 54:35
  Speaker 4: it's gonna last. And you can't be all savory. You
• 54:38
  Speaker 4: have to It's a balance. It's a balance women, whether
• 54:42
  Speaker 4: they admit it or not, they enjoy a little chase
• 54:46
  Speaker 4: within their own relationship. I got on my man nerves girl,
• 54:50
  Speaker 4: y'all be happy about stuff.
• 54:54
  Speaker 2: Y'all like a little bit of three.
• 54:56
  Speaker 3: Don't be mean to me at home and the nice
• 55:00
  Speaker 3: me in the streets.
• 55:00
  Speaker 2: But I'm not saying just shut up, not that type
• 55:02
  Speaker 2: of man.
• 55:03
  Speaker 4: I'm just saying, but you need to have a little
• 55:04
  Speaker 4: conflict there, and it just to taint. Just to keep it,
• 55:08
  Speaker 4: keep it good. If you nice guy all the time,
• 55:10
  Speaker 4: pull your cheer out, love you every day you're gonna
• 55:12
  Speaker 4: get cheated on. You're gonna get cheated on it. And said,
• 55:15
  Speaker 4: I just don't. I'm at the point of my life.
• 55:18
  Speaker 4: I just want peace. The unnecessary argument.
• 55:21
  Speaker 2: I'm not saying.
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: Unnecessary. I just like a good time short. I don't
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: want you do, not want to see you. I don't
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: want conflict. I was really good at conflict. I'm not
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: in those no more.
• 55:40
  Speaker 2: I want to laugh with you. I want to all
• 55:42
  Speaker 2: that it should be in there.
• 55:43
  Speaker 4: But I'm trying to tell you, if you're too sweet,
• 55:46
  Speaker 4: you're gonna end up with a cavity.
• 55:49
  Speaker 2: If you're too sweet, you're gonna end up with it.
• 55:51
  Speaker 2: Can't be too sweet all your time, not all that like.
• 55:55
  Speaker 2: It's a balance. It's a balance. I'm not saying it.
• 55:57
  Speaker 4: Go start something with your girl, because y'all ain't argued.
• 55:59
  Speaker 2: That don't make sense either.
• 56:00
  Speaker 4: But when there is conflict, don't shy away from it
• 56:04
  Speaker 4: because you're worried about pissing her off. You still got
• 56:07
  Speaker 4: to stand up, Like, if there's something that happens, address
• 56:09
  Speaker 4: it like a man. Even if y'all do have to
• 56:11
  Speaker 4: go against each other a little bit, you gotta stand
• 56:13
  Speaker 4: up in it. You can't be like baby, I think
• 56:16
  Speaker 4: that that's that you can be soft and what I
• 56:18
  Speaker 4: want you to do, that's fair. That's fair.
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: Kiki gotta go somewhere. So man, we got to hold out.
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: She got a heart out.
• 56:26
  Speaker 2: Man.
• 56:26
  Speaker 5: I want to take my proposal pictures with a Maria.
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: I think if I was like when I look at
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: that picture, I was like, what would I have done?
• 56:35
  Speaker 2: Like I think about who is my childhood sweetheart? Like?
• 56:38
  Speaker 2: Did I like like that? What you said?
• 56:41
  Speaker 3: I think about it every day? You should like what
• 56:43
  Speaker 3: should I have done? What should I do?
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: I can tell y'all this destiny child story.
• 56:49
  Speaker 2: I have a destiny.
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to allow you. I'm gonna say the
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: absolute troop. I swear to God on everything. I love
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: every kid I have. You can ask Shag, you can
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: ask Sony from Jerome Kemp, you can ask the whole thing.
• 57:03
  Speaker 2: It's not that type of story, but it is that
• 57:06
  Speaker 2: type of story.
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: It's quick. I heard yeah, you heard it before. It's
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: we're river Oaks. We're interviewing Desty Child, Me and Shag.
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: We got the little dak retorder.
• 57:18
  Speaker 2: You know you have it. It was the electric recorder. Whatever.
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: We interviewing them. We interviewing them. Everything is going great,
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: Everything is going great. Beyonce is right next to me,
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: Kelly is next to Shag, and we are having laughs.
• 57:34
  Speaker 2: We got him cracking up. That's what we did.
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: We would always great interviews, have a the interview gets
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: cut short. Matthew Knowles says hey. He says, hey, look
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: y'all can ride with us in the in the van
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: and go down to you not to Sin and finish
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: interviewing and then watch the show. And I was like,
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: because he's like, he was like, y'all, just y'all jump
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: in the van, come on. I was like, nah, we're cool.
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: We got enough, We got enough stuff. Thanks, and he
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: looked at me like okay. Shag looked at me like
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: he was like why Because I was driving a I
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: had a car that was it was my car from college, y'all.
• 58:17
  Speaker 2: It was. It was a nine eight. It was raggedy.
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: It had no rims on it, It had no hub
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: caps and on nothing. It was dirty at that time.
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: And I was gonna have to follow that. My boy
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: was gonna follow us, follow us in my car. But
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: know what my car had on the front of them,
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: on the front of that had capper plates on the
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: front of it. I would have been it was. I
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: would have had to explain that car to duty child.
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: I was embarrassed. I was like, no, we're straight.
• 58:47
  Speaker 4: You fumbled Beyonce over a car and you didn't even
• 58:50
  Speaker 4: think this.
• 58:51
  Speaker 2: You didn't think it hurt me for Shag was mad
• 58:56
  Speaker 2: at me for like real mad like that.
• 59:00
  Speaker 4: You you know what, I would have said, that's not
• 59:02
  Speaker 4: my card and been done with it.
• 59:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't think about that because you were so
• 59:07
  Speaker 2: thinking about that car. You were so nervous.
• 59:09
  Speaker 4: You should have just said, hey, if they would have
• 59:11
  Speaker 4: asked about it, first of all, you gotta find out
• 59:13
  Speaker 4: that is following us, because you wouldn't even have known.
• 59:16
  Speaker 4: I would have hopped in the car with Beyonce. Nev
• 59:18
  Speaker 4: did my thing, and if they if it came up
• 59:21
  Speaker 4: like I don't know who.
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: First case scenario, I would have been cool with Beyonce
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: saying Kelly like the saying way, I'm cool with a
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: lot of the rappers and stuff. For being known them
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: for years and interviewed them. We would have been We
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: would have been cool. Because it was two.
• 59:33
  Speaker 2: That I thought about it. It was like it was
• 59:35
  Speaker 2: one of them moments like and I've.
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: You everybody's had these bolls in radio where you interview
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: somebody and you like yo, just like we this is
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: gonna be one of them interviews that were gonna make
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: us cool forever. We're gonna always be able to interview
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: I'd always been able to interview Beyonce if that had
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: happened always, it wasn't. If we ain't gonna say nothing
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: sexual or nothing not, we'd have been cool with them,
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: That's for sure.
• 59:58
  Speaker 2: That's said.
• 59:58
  Speaker 3: Fumbling on Marianna one thing, fumbling beyond you are to
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 3: be ashamed.
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 2: Of bumbling on Mario on the fourth Millennium Tour. Not
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 2: too much, but.
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: Fumbling Beyonce Prime Child. It's crazy, that's crazy. It's the worst.
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: It's so I don't know.
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 2: Who I'm mad at right now, Please now be mad
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 2: at because that was like mine was. We was cool.
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: Everybody laughing. It was like, you don't know what was that.
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: Kiki's is a lot different.
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he was on that. He was on that with Kiki.
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 2: That's a lot different he was on. It's a lot
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 2: this crazy. That man looked at you like I didn't.
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 2: I fumbleed Beyonce friendship. That's the story.
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 4: I'm going to tell now which Destiny child was it?
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 4: Which version of it it was with with Michelle?
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 2: Mhmm, this was with Michelle. You fumbled ship.
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: You fumbled the real Beyonce that beyond that. Yeah, it
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: was bro like. It was crazy. It was crazy that
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: we he was even interviewing, but God bless him. Shout
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: out to one of my boys. This just show shot
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: in South Suburbs. We got a lot of stars and people,
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: a lot of people that came to South Suburbs. Jerome
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: Kemp was like he's younger than me, but always been cool.
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: We hooped together, just our families know each other. He
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: became the national Sony rep. So he was around. He
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: was cool, like he was cool with Beyonce and Beyonce
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: they saw Jerome. She would be like, what about Jerome,
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: like they were cool and he like with nas like
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: it was Sony was like its thing.
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 2: Sony music was his thing. He was the national rep.
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: And he hit me like and we didn't we didn't
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: really have a let me see the I guess experience it.
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: That's time to be interviewing a desty child. But because
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: this is my boy, he threw me a lot and
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: and you.
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 3: To forever the guy that didn't get on the bust.
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 4: That No, that's crazy, crazy everything at that I would
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 4: left my friend.
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 2: It was crazy. I left my friend.
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 4: You gotta understand, I'm going to you ain't my friend
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 4: if you don't want me to have this opport.
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 2: You really malfunction. That was another. That was the first
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 2: malfunction in my life. But I don't feel so bad anymore. Yeah,
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 2: all right, final thoughts, get out, love y'all, potfam and
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 2: we will talk tomorrow. Yeah, you see all to mind.
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: Final thoughts is about the end so much and they
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: have nothing to say to y'all.
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 2: My final thoughts. I love every one of y'all.
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 3: Man, please, And if you didn't do your taxes yet,
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 3: can you let me know In the comments, I just
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 3: want to feel.
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 2: Like I'm not alone.
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 4: They didn't get an extension, did you.
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah? It is that being said for Boy. Can we
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 2: say