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Dirty Little Secret: I Protect My Ex At All Cost! · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: Here we go.
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  Speaker 2: It's Dirty Little Secret with Billy the Kid in the
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  Speaker 2: morning on Mix 102.9. Brought to you by Mint Dentistry.
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  Speaker 2: It's Billy the Kid, Candace Lopez, Producer Poof. You got
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  Speaker 2: a secret, 833-787-1029. Bring it anytime you want. Oh, today's
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  Speaker 2: Dirty Little Secret. There was so much involved. If you
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  Speaker 2: missed it, basically, well, this guy gets on, and we're
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  Speaker 2: talking to him about a secret.
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  Speaker 3: No, no, I hear you.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, right here. There he goes. Now, he was talking
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  Speaker 4: about a secret, and this is how it all started.
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  Speaker 3: I have a secret about my ex-girlfriend.
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  Speaker 4: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: But before you judge me, I swear I'm doing it
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  Speaker 1: for the right reasons.
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  Speaker 4: That makes me nervous. What's going on?
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  Speaker 1: So we broke up almost a year ago. Well, it'll
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  Speaker 1: be a year in February, actually. And we were together
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  Speaker 1: for a long time. And honestly, I still love her.
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  Speaker 1: We just had some issues we couldn't work through. But
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  Speaker 1: that doesn't mean that I quit caring about her, you know?
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  Speaker 3: Right. I still love her very much. And I always will.
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  Speaker 4: So.
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  Speaker 3: Anyway, she started dating this new guy.
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  Speaker 1: And when I mentioned his name to a buddy of mine,
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  Speaker 1: he immediately told.
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  Speaker 3: Me this dude was bad news.
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  Speaker 1: Apparently he's got a history of abusing his ex-wife and
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  Speaker 1: getting in trouble with the law.
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  Speaker 3: So naturally, I started doing some digging myself.
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  Speaker 1: And sure enough, I found multiple arrests online for drug
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  Speaker 1: and domestic violence.
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  Speaker 4: On this guy that she's dating now. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Which, you know, for obviously freaked me out because I
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  Speaker 1: still care about this girl, you know?
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  Speaker 3: And the last thing I want is for something bad
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  Speaker 3: to happen to her.
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  Speaker 2: No, of course not. Even if you're not together, you
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  Speaker 2: don't want that. So that's, is that your secret that you,
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  Speaker 2: you were creeping on him or what's, what's the secret?
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  Speaker 3: Well, no, no.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, like I went ahead and I, I texted
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  Speaker 1: her about him and she got super defensive and basically
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  Speaker 1: stopped me.
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  Speaker 3: Uh, like she quit.
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  Speaker 1: Responding and, to me and but here's my secret okay
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  Speaker 1: i still keep tabs on her without her knowing what.
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  Speaker 4: You keep tabs on her without what do you mean
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  Speaker 4: without her knowing.
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  Speaker 1: Well yeah well i mean i got a new job
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  Speaker 1: after we broke up that she doesn't know about and
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  Speaker 1: i drive a new company truck she won't recognize so
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  Speaker 1: she has no idea what i'm what i'm driving in
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  Speaker 1: and so it makes it pretty easy so i can
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  Speaker 1: check on her without her recognizing me And sometimes on
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  Speaker 1: my lunch break, like, I'll drive by her house just
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  Speaker 1: to make sure everything's okay, you know?
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  Speaker 3: Because especially if.
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  Speaker 1: His car's there, I'll occasionally drive by her work to, like,
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  Speaker 1: just to make.
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  Speaker 3: Sure she works at the first coast.
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  Speaker 1: So I make sure that her car is there when
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  Speaker 1: it's supposed to.
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  Speaker 3: Be so I know she's safe. And, like, don't get
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  Speaker 3: me wrong.
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  Speaker 1: Like, it's not like I'm, like, sitting out there for
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  Speaker 1: hours on a stakeout or anything.
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  Speaker 3: I just make my rounds. And make sure that... It's
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  Speaker 3: like you're patrolling.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I know. Like you're a cop or something.
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  Speaker 2: Let's just call it what it is. You're basically spying
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  Speaker 2: on your ex.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. All I do is just make it a regular
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  Speaker 1: part of what I do to just check on her
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  Speaker 1: and make sure she's okay. And then I go about
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  Speaker 1: my day and I mind my own business.
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  Speaker 3: But I worry about her. That's it.
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  Speaker 4: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: So we talk to him, right? That's what he says. Which,
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  Speaker 2: by the way, because I've got a lot of Instagrammers
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  Speaker 2: about this.
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  Speaker 3: Mm-hmm.
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  Speaker 4: Which he kind of changed the story on us.
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  Speaker 5: Right.
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  Speaker 2: So he said something a little bit different to get on.
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  Speaker 2: It didn't sound as, you know, I don't know, invasive.
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  Speaker 2: So I go back and forth because I just didn't.
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  Speaker 4: Feel right about it.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, you know, it sounds like this is more.
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  Speaker 2: First of all, you shouldn't be keeping tabs on someone
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  Speaker 2: you're not with.
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  Speaker 4: No, no.
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  Speaker 2: And I told him that. And I was honest with him.
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  Speaker 2: I put him on hold. And I said, I got
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  Speaker 2: to be honest. It sounds like you're spying on her.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, no.
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  Speaker 2: You got to understand where I'm coming from. I'm worried
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  Speaker 2: about her.
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  Speaker 4: You just can't.
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  Speaker 2: Just because you break up with somebody doesn't mean that
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  Speaker 2: you stop loving them.
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  Speaker 4: And I'm like, I get it. I totally get it.
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  Speaker 2: And I told him off the air, I feel like
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to call her, and I'm going to see
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  Speaker 2: if she wants to tell her side of whatever this
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  Speaker 2: story is. He's like, yeah, I mean, I have nothing
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  Speaker 2: to hide. So we call her, which she doesn't even.
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  Speaker 4: Know what's going on. She agrees to go on the air,
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  Speaker 4: and she was working.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, let me get somewhere where I can talk.
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  Speaker 4: Right.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm sorry to hit you up like this because
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  Speaker 2: I don't know the situation, but he did text you.
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  Speaker 2: He said and warned you about this particular man that
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  Speaker 2: you're dating now. And I don't know if he's said
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  Speaker 2: he had some issues, a criminal record, and he's worried
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  Speaker 2: about you. But I feel like I wouldn't be doing
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  Speaker 2: the right thing if I didn't tell you that this
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  Speaker 2: guy's your ex is driving around your workplace. It doesn't
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  Speaker 2: feel right if I don't say something.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Whatever he's saying, do not listen to.
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  Speaker 4: Okay.
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  Speaker 5: My ex is a pathological liar.
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  Speaker 1: Really?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. No, like a narcissist, hardcore.
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  Speaker 5: Like he was the one who had the drug problem.
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  Speaker 5: He's been the one that's been abusive. It's really none
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  Speaker 5: of his, his, his damn business who I'm dating. And like,
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  Speaker 5: I had to block him and I'm blocking him for
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  Speaker 5: a reason. Like also I'm not even dating that guy anymore,
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  Speaker 5: but like, that's not even the problem.
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  Speaker 2: Like is the problem.
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  Speaker 4: OK, so I talked to her completely different side.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Of the story.
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  Speaker 2: By the way, the whole time he's on hold and
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, OK, I put her on hold trying to
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  Speaker 2: figure out what's going on. And then I tell her, hey,
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  Speaker 2: I'm sorry. I just wanted to let you know. And
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  Speaker 2: I told him, you need to back off.
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  Speaker 3: Right.
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  Speaker 4: You need to back off.
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  Speaker 2: And I know you might love her and she might
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  Speaker 2: be making the biggest mistake of her life.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: But I do know what she just told me. And
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  Speaker 2: that she's not happy with you, right? So then we
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  Speaker 2: get him back on because he's like, well, I want
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  Speaker 2: to say something.
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  Speaker 4: One last thing.
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  Speaker 3: No, no, I hear you. No, and see, that is
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  Speaker 3: her problem.
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  Speaker 1: She always just pushes away people that she loves. And
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  Speaker 1: she wants to be extra dramatic about every single situation.
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  Speaker 3: But trust me, I know that guy is no good.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, okay.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not the problem. I'm not the problem here, but okay.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, so then... So that's how it all wrapped up.
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  Speaker 2: Well, in the meantime, she's called me now a couple
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  Speaker 2: times and DM me because now she wants the recordings
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  Speaker 2: of what he said because.
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  Speaker 3: I would too.
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  Speaker 4: And I get it. And I'm respecting that.
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  Speaker 2: And now she wants to contact the Frisco police because
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  Speaker 2: that's where I guess she works or whatever, lives.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. And now I'm like, great. Hopefully we don't get
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  Speaker 4: in trouble. I know.
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  Speaker 5: I know.
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  Speaker 4: But listen, I mean.
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  Speaker 3: They'll know what to do with it.
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  Speaker 4: They do.
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  Speaker 2: And like I told him, you might be the nicest
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  Speaker 2: guy ever and you might... And I don't know your intentions.
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  Speaker 2: You might have good intentions. We've all been in love
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  Speaker 2: and we feel helpless at times if it doesn't work out.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: A lot of people have been there, men and women.
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  Speaker 2: But you got to know when to draw the line
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  Speaker 2: and go, okay. Right.
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  Speaker 4: That's enough.
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  Speaker 3: Move on.
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  Speaker 4: You got to move on.
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  Speaker 2: And I feel like I was trying to talk to
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  Speaker 2: him about it, whether it got through or not.
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  Speaker 4: Because I'm not saying he's an awful guy.
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  Speaker 3: No.
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  Speaker 2: But I know this is something that I'll question probably
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  Speaker 2: all night. Now for the next week, I'll go, man,
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  Speaker 2: should I have called her? Should I have not called it?
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  Speaker 2: But I know if I had a daughter, which I don't,
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  Speaker 2: would I want someone to tell my daughter what was
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  Speaker 2: going on?
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  Speaker 4: Absolutely.
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  Speaker 2: The answer is yes. If I found out a guy
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  Speaker 2: was doing this to you, Candace, I'd be like, I'm
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  Speaker 2: telling her.
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  Speaker 5: Oh, yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Absolutely. I don't care what he says. So there you go.
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  Speaker 4: Dirty little secret.
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  Speaker 2: But thank you for all your comments, your DMs. And
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  Speaker 2: I'll try to get to all of them. But I
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  Speaker 2: love that we have such a supportive group of people
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  Speaker 2: who listen, who also want to help her. And also
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  Speaker 2: have opinions because your voice matters too.