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Sabotaging Mother-in-Law, Absolutely Knot, Wedding You Rather, The VIP Table, & ABC Venue · Absolutely KNOT Another Podcast

0:00
SPEAKER_02: Welcome everybody to the Absolutely Not, another podcast, the podcast where weddings, events, and real life come together.
0:10
SPEAKER_02: I'm one of your hosts, Garrett, or Game Show Garrett, if you find me on social media, and I'm excited that you're here with us for our first episode.
0:18
SPEAKER_02: But obviously, I am not the main attraction of this podcast.
0:23
SPEAKER_02: So let me introduce you to my co-host.
0:25
SPEAKER_02: You may know her as Wedding Procast, but I know her as my wife.
0:31
SPEAKER_02: That's Gassy.
0:33
SPEAKER_02: Gassy, uh, if you don't know, she's been in the events and wedding industry for over 12 years.
0:39
SPEAKER_02: And I've been thankful enough to see all 12 years of this working anywhere from private clubs to resorts to historical venues.
0:48
SPEAKER_02: She's seen just about everything that can happen at a wedding.
0:51
SPEAKER_01: Everything.
0:52
SPEAKER_01: Everything.
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SPEAKER_02: The good, chaotic, yes, and the absolutely knots.
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SPEAKER_01: Correct.
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SPEAKER_02: She's also built an incredible online community through her wedding situations, her wedding tips and advice.
1:05
SPEAKER_02: And a lot of you are probably listening in from all of that.
1:08
SPEAKER_02: So welcome in.
1:09
SPEAKER_02: Thank you very much.
1:11
SPEAKER_02: Cassie.
1:12
SPEAKER_01: Yes.
1:13
SPEAKER_02: Welcome aboard.
1:14
SPEAKER_01: I'm excited that we're here.
1:15
SPEAKER_01: This has been a huge bucket list, I think, for the both of us.
1:18
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
1:19
SPEAKER_02: It's taken a lot to get everything kind of like lined up, fine-tuned, collaborating together.
1:26
SPEAKER_02: Yes.
1:26
SPEAKER_02: Whenever we're running around with the kids and being like, hey, we got to get in studio.
1:31
SPEAKER_02: We need to do this.
1:32
SPEAKER_02: So they're at home.
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SPEAKER_02: They're not here.
1:34
SPEAKER_02: So no one's gonna, you're not gonna hear any kids around like a wedding situation.
1:38
SPEAKER_02: There's no toys that she's calling from ABC Venue.
1:41
SPEAKER_02: Or maybe ABC Venue is gonna be online.
1:44
SPEAKER_01: Maybe we'll have to see.
1:46
SPEAKER_01: We'll have to see.
1:46
SPEAKER_02: But to finish off with Cassie too, uh, she's taken her own business through uh her experiences, through her online social medias, and created her own business as well.
1:58
SPEAKER_02: You want to talk a little bit about that?
2:00
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
2:01
SPEAKER_01: So I've grown wedding crocasts basically from the ground up.
2:04
SPEAKER_01: Garrett's got to see all of that, me and my wigs, me recording in random spots and and around the house.
2:09
SPEAKER_01: Um, but it's been really exciting to get to know so many different people and all the cool experiences that have come our way.
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SPEAKER_01: Um, and then recently this past year, I launched my own wedding planning business, which is called Forever More and Planning by Wedding Procast, um, which is amazing.
2:26
SPEAKER_01: We have nine incredible couples this ma this year getting married, which has been super fun.
2:30
SPEAKER_01: And we're kind of riding the wave wherever this social media journey takes us.
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SPEAKER_01: So it's been fun.
2:35
SPEAKER_02: Beyond all of that, she is an incredible mother.
2:39
SPEAKER_01: Thank you.
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SPEAKER_02: She's my better half and also now my podcast host.
2:44
SPEAKER_02: So welcome to it.
2:45
SPEAKER_01: Add it to the list.
2:45
SPEAKER_01: Add it to the list.
2:47
SPEAKER_02: I know a lot of you are probably wanting to know about moi.
2:50
SPEAKER_01: A lot of people ask about you.
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SPEAKER_01: I'll kick it off.
2:53
SPEAKER_01: They like they like to see the little snippets of you on my TikTok and other things.
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SPEAKER_02: So I'll sneak in from time to time for it.
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SPEAKER_02: I'll I'll introduce myself by saying something that no bridesmaid or best man should say as they kick off their speech at a wedding.
3:07
SPEAKER_01: Here we go.
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SPEAKER_02: For those of you that don't know me, I'm Garrett, game show Garrett has mentioned.
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SPEAKER_02: I have also been in the event industry for over 12 years.
3:18
SPEAKER_02: Not weddings.
3:19
SPEAKER_02: I don't know really a lick of a wedding besides where's the closest bar, where's the closest restroom, and where's the dance floor?
3:26
SPEAKER_01: Correct.
3:26
SPEAKER_01: Those are those, those are the most important questions, anyway.
3:28
SPEAKER_02: Those are what I need to know about when I'm there.
3:30
SPEAKER_02: But I really haven't been in weddings.
3:32
SPEAKER_02: My event background is more so team building and recreation and game shows.
3:36
SPEAKER_02: So I travel around, I've worked at clubs and resorts, some of which you worked at as well.
3:41
SPEAKER_01: Yes.
3:41
SPEAKER_02: And uh team building companies and our alma mater, Slippery Rock University.
3:46
SPEAKER_02: So go rock.
3:47
SPEAKER_02: Go rock.
3:48
SPEAKER_02: They're legitimately mascotted as the rock.
3:50
SPEAKER_02: They're the best.
3:51
SPEAKER_02: They are the best.
3:52
SPEAKER_02: They are the best.
3:52
SPEAKER_02: But I've created unique experiences, events all across the country, having fun with individuals.
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SPEAKER_02: They compete against each other, they give back to local communities, and it's a fun job.
4:03
SPEAKER_02: I get to be behind a microphone like I am today and get to have fun.
4:08
SPEAKER_01: So and don't let him fool you.
4:09
SPEAKER_01: He just launched his own very cool team building business called Serious Fun.
4:15
SPEAKER_02: Serious Fun.
4:15
SPEAKER_02: We have some serious fun with serious fun.
4:18
SPEAKER_02: Um, but no, so we figured why not bring the two worlds together and collaborate and bring some fun experiences that we've had that you might have that you want to submit and share those with you and have some fun along the way too.
4:31
SPEAKER_02: Not just discuss stories, but maybe some little skits.
4:35
SPEAKER_01: Yes, so some trivia.
4:37
SPEAKER_01: You guys might be wondering like, what is the podcast actually gonna be like?
4:41
SPEAKER_01: Where are you going with this?
4:42
SPEAKER_01: Well, we're always gonna have a juicy story.
4:44
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, everybody loves a juicy story.
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SPEAKER_01: Now, a lot of them will be wedding based because I have so much, so many stories that come in that are wedding based.
4:52
SPEAKER_01: But we're gonna expand a little bit.
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SPEAKER_01: So we might be telling stories about your family vacation, about that crazy Christmas at Aunt Jan's house, the holiday party, the work office drama, whatever it is.
5:03
SPEAKER_01: If you have a good story, we want you to send it in and you can send it to info at weddingprocast.com and make sure that the title and the email submission is story submission so that we know to categorize it and then read through it and make sure it's the right fit either for here or TikTok or Instagram or Facebook.
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SPEAKER_01: We'll we'll find a good spot for it.
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SPEAKER_01: Um, but the the podcast itself is gonna flow, always starting with a story.
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SPEAKER_01: Then we're gonna move into absolutely not category of the day.
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SPEAKER_01: So if we're doing a wedding story, then it's gonna be something wedding related with absolutely not, which is one of my favorite series that I do on my pages.
5:37
SPEAKER_01: And then we're gonna do two or three, you know, fun, engaging segments, and we'll always wrap up with a segment called ABC Venue.
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SPEAKER_01: So for those of you to tuning in that love ABC Venue and the crazy characters that come out on my page, you'll hear them here, and it will be a bit educational, but also humorous, per usual.
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SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
5:54
SPEAKER_01: Um, and Garrett has been helping a ton on the back end, helping sift through messages because we get so much every single day, comments, story submissions.
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SPEAKER_01: Love them.
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SPEAKER_01: And he actually pulled out the story for today's podcast.
6:08
SPEAKER_01: So it's from the archives.
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SPEAKER_01: It's a great one.
6:12
SPEAKER_01: All right.
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SPEAKER_01: All right, we're diving into the story.
6:49
SPEAKER_01: Are you ready, Garrett?
6:50
SPEAKER_01: Buckle up.
6:50
SPEAKER_02: I am ready.
6:51
SPEAKER_02: I perused it.
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SPEAKER_02: I thought there was a lot of different sequences that happen throughout this story.
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SPEAKER_02: I want to see your take on it.
7:00
SPEAKER_02: It's good.
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SPEAKER_02: It's a good one.
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SPEAKER_02: And something, yeah, it's it gets better and better as it goes on.
7:04
SPEAKER_01: All right, here we go.
7:06
SPEAKER_01: I have to share this story with you because it hits on all of the craziest things.
7:10
SPEAKER_01: A bad caterer, a sneaky mother-in-law who tried to sabotage the wedding, and a bridesmaid who bailed the last minute.
7:16
SPEAKER_01: I've changed the names and a cute a few key details to protect everyone's privacy, but ten years later I laugh thinking about my one-year engagement and how I should have never allowed my mother-in-law into the planning process.
7:29
SPEAKER_01: Let's see where this goes.
7:31
SPEAKER_01: The week before I got proposed to, I received a text to my phone.
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SPEAKER_01: It said, I'm so happy you stopped by yesterday to show us the ring.
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SPEAKER_01: But you know, you don't have to do this.
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SPEAKER_01: I know you think she is the one, but your sisters and I do not see it.
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SPEAKER_01: I'm sure she's a nice girl, but she just doesn't compare to Elise.
7:49
SPEAKER_01: You seemed more like yourself with her.
7:51
SPEAKER_01: I could not believe what I was reading.
7:54
SPEAKER_01: It was a text message about me from my mother-in-law that I was not supposed to see.
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SPEAKER_01: This would make me so mad.
8:01
SPEAKER_01: Like if I saw a message like that on my phone about me, I'd be like, Excuse me?
8:06
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
8:07
SPEAKER_01: Except for my mother-in-law would never do that.
8:09
SPEAKER_01: Never, never.
8:09
SPEAKER_01: My mom sinked.
8:11
SPEAKER_01: For several reasons, he has bought a ring.
8:13
SPEAKER_01: So exciting for me.
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SPEAKER_01: And two, based on this conversation, his family doesn't like me and prefers his old girlfriend from high school, Elise.
8:21
SPEAKER_03: Okay.
8:21
SPEAKER_01: This shocked me because his family has always seemed so friendly and warm to me, but now they are texting about me.
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SPEAKER_01: I wasn't sure if I should show Ryan, the fiance, or respond to my mother-in-law.
8:31
SPEAKER_01: So I just texted back a simple, I think you sent this to the wrong person, and I called it a day.
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SPEAKER_01: I would not have I would have said something meaner.
8:38
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
8:39
SPEAKER_01: What the hell?
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SPEAKER_01: I screenshot the message and I figured I would show Ryan when he got home from work.
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SPEAKER_01: But before he got home, his mom responded saying, Those words weren't meant for your eyes.
8:50
SPEAKER_01: As a mother, I have every right to let my son know how I'm feeling.
8:54
SPEAKER_01: I hope you can move past this.
8:55
SPEAKER_02: So wait, so instead of her even trying to like backtrack on it, she's doubled down.
9:01
SPEAKER_01: She doubled down.
9:03
SPEAKER_01: Yes.
9:04
SPEAKER_01: She says, What the hell?
9:05
SPEAKER_01: I was so hurt to learn she doesn't like me, but to double down and not apologize at all, I was pissed.
9:11
SPEAKER_01: Pissed is pissed is like a normal reaction, I think, in the situation.
9:14
SPEAKER_01: Yes, absolutely.
9:15
SPEAKER_01: But for the mom to yes, for the mom to just be like, you know what?
9:20
SPEAKER_01: I can feel that way about you.
9:21
SPEAKER_01: I mean, terrible.
9:24
SPEAKER_01: Not great.
9:25
SPEAKER_01: Of course, Ryan is a wonderful person.
9:27
SPEAKER_01: So when I showed him everything, he was very upset.
9:30
SPEAKER_01: Upset that his mom would say such a thing about me.
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SPEAKER_01: Apparently, she had texted him as well after she had sent it to me by accident.
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SPEAKER_01: So she like realized she sent it to the future daughter-in-law and just copy and pasted it to her son, I'm sure.
9:45
SPEAKER_01: And upset that she basically gave away the fact that he was planning to propose.
9:49
SPEAKER_01: They got in a pretty big fight, and we distanced ourselves from his family for a bit, but eventually we caved and let them back in about a month after the proposal.
9:57
SPEAKER_01: She made a big grand gesture and through a huge engagement party invited all of my family to town to celebrate us.
10:03
SPEAKER_01: Okay, that's kind of nice.
10:04
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, no, no, not bad, mother-in-law.
10:06
SPEAKER_01: She even came over and apologized to me in person person, saying she misjudged.
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SPEAKER_01: That's a big thing.
10:11
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
10:12
SPEAKER_02: Starting off doubling down to apologize.
10:16
SPEAKER_01: However, I don't think it's gonna stay that way.
10:18
SPEAKER_01: Honestly, I wish we'd never let her back in.
10:22
SPEAKER_03: The night of the engagement party, she wore a white sparkly dress.
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SPEAKER_01: And almost immediately after the party, she started hounding me about not asking Ryan's sisters to be in the wedding party.
10:35
SPEAKER_01: Not great.
10:36
SPEAKER_01: Also, why are why is she wearing white?
10:38
SPEAKER_01: She's not the bride.
10:39
SPEAKER_01: No.
10:39
SPEAKER_01: Even for like showers and engagement parties, anything that's like wedding related, white should always be like the bride's color, you know.
10:47
SPEAKER_01: She did not understand why I wouldn't ask Ryan's sisters to be in the wedding.
10:51
SPEAKER_01: Why would I ask them?
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SPEAKER_01: They obviously prefer an old girlfriend named Elise.
10:57
SPEAKER_01: I didn't cave there and I continued on without them in the wedding party.
11:01
SPEAKER_01: Good for her.
11:01
SPEAKER_01: Good for her standing up for herself.
11:04
SPEAKER_01: She doesn't have to.
11:05
SPEAKER_01: She doesn't have to say I always say a lot of people will be like, oh, you have to ask your partner's siblings to be in the wedding.
11:11
SPEAKER_01: I think if you have a relationship with them and it's like a positive relationship, yeah.
11:15
SPEAKER_01: But it's not like a given.
11:16
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, if you don't associate not necessarily associate with them, but even if you're getting together and they're not even like having conversation with you at a family gathering holiday, there's no reason that it's like mandatory.
11:28
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, it doesn't have to be forced.
11:30
SPEAKER_02: Right.
11:30
unknown: Okay.
11:32
SPEAKER_01: Planning wasn't terrible at first.
11:33
SPEAKER_01: I'm go with the flow, type B personality.
11:35
SPEAKER_01: That's me.
11:36
SPEAKER_01: And my mother and mother-in-law are both type A.
11:39
SPEAKER_01: They had graciously offered to pay for the majority of the wedding as long as we had a say in the guest list, the food, and the music, we were fine with it.
11:48
SPEAKER_02: I like that.
11:49
SPEAKER_02: That's all that I guess.
11:50
SPEAKER_02: I had said that already.
11:51
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
11:52
SPEAKER_02: Food, music.
11:54
SPEAKER_02: Well, I did say the restroom, but you said the bar.
11:56
SPEAKER_01: Bar.
11:56
SPEAKER_01: Bar, also.
11:58
unknown: Yeah.
11:58
SPEAKER_01: So they were letting the parents plan it, which I think is great, and they had their say in it.
12:03
SPEAKER_01: But one thing my mother-in-law was very stern on was the catering.
12:06
SPEAKER_01: She had to be in charge.
12:08
SPEAKER_01: She presented me with two caters, and we went with the one that could do family style.
12:12
SPEAKER_01: I love family style.
12:14
SPEAKER_01: What's exactly family style?
12:15
SPEAKER_01: That's when they bring the platters of food to the table and they pass it around.
12:19
SPEAKER_01: So you might have like a platter of chicken, you might have pasta, veg, whatever.
12:23
SPEAKER_01: You serve it like you're at a family dinner.
12:24
SPEAKER_01: Okay.
12:25
SPEAKER_02: So if I go to Boca de Bepo, similar to it.
12:27
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, Boca de Pepo.
12:29
SPEAKER_02: Same, same, but different.
12:30
SPEAKER_00: This segment is brought by Booka de Bepo.
12:32
SPEAKER_00: Just kidding.
12:33
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
12:33
SPEAKER_02: No freed.
12:35
SPEAKER_00: Okay.
12:37
SPEAKER_01: Okay.
12:38
SPEAKER_01: So they went with the one that could do family style with great choice.
12:41
SPEAKER_01: About two months after this, my father-in-law la lost his job, and we told them we could take over the payments for catering, or my parents could pick up the charges.
12:49
SPEAKER_01: And for them not to worry about anything.
12:50
SPEAKER_01: Seriously, it was not a big deal, which that's very kind.
12:53
SPEAKER_01: That sucks to lose your job.
12:55
SPEAKER_01: So they were being understanding.
12:57
SPEAKER_01: But my mother-in-law would not have it.
12:58
SPEAKER_01: She said they were totally fine and wanted to continue to pay for the wedding.
13:02
SPEAKER_01: But what played out the week of the wedding told a very, very different story.
13:06
SPEAKER_01: During my bridal shower, which my mother hosted, I stood up to give a small speech thanking my mom and everyone who contributed.
13:13
SPEAKER_01: This included my bridesmaid, who had come early and decorated.
13:17
SPEAKER_01: And I also gave a shout-out to my mother-in-law.
13:20
SPEAKER_01: But she was so upset that my mom got the spotlight in the speech that she literally walked out before I finished talking.
13:28
SPEAKER_00: It was so awkward.
13:29
SPEAKER_00: You could hear her heels stomping out, and everyone was quietly staring.
13:35
SPEAKER_00: I just imagine like a movie scene, just it's like you could hear a pin drop, but you just hear like out the door.
13:44
SPEAKER_01: Okay.
13:45
SPEAKER_01: My bridal shower was tainted by this, and during cleanup, everyone was asking me what was going on or why would she leave the bridal shower?
13:52
SPEAKER_01: And his sisters didn't stay or help or give any explanation why she stomped out.
13:57
SPEAKER_01: After the shower, my husband reached out to try to figure out why she would do that, and she responded with, She had the audacity to barely mention me, and she doesn't have your sisters as the bridesmaids.
14:09
SPEAKER_01: Well, there it is.
14:11
SPEAKER_01: She's mad.
14:12
SPEAKER_01: She's mad.
14:13
SPEAKER_01: And he said, Well, did you help decorate or plan the shower at all?
14:16
SPEAKER_01: And she responded, No.
14:18
SPEAKER_01: But she should be honoring me and mentioning me at these events.
14:21
SPEAKER_01: It's part of her job as the future daughter-in-law.
14:26
SPEAKER_02: My job.
14:28
SPEAKER_01: No.
14:29
SPEAKER_01: Like I can understand you assuming someone's gonna act a certain way, but like just because you're thinking they're gonna act that way, they don't have to act that way.
14:36
SPEAKER_01: Right.
14:37
SPEAKER_01: They're their own person.
14:39
SPEAKER_01: She's crazy.
14:40
SPEAKER_01: And Ryan thought the same.
14:42
SPEAKER_01: Okay.
14:42
SPEAKER_01: This groom is this groom is good.
14:44
SPEAKER_01: I never apologized, but neither did she.
14:47
SPEAKER_01: This mother-in-law sucks.
14:50
SPEAKER_01: Here is where things get weird.
14:52
SPEAKER_01: I don't know if it could get weird.
14:53
SPEAKER_01: It's already weird.
14:54
SPEAKER_01: It's already weird.
14:55
SPEAKER_01: One of my bridesmaids, we're gonna call her Jordan, started acting off.
14:59
SPEAKER_01: It started at my bachelorette party.
15:01
SPEAKER_01: I did one night out and I invited Ryan's sisters to be nice.
15:04
SPEAKER_01: Mistake.
15:06
SPEAKER_01: I regret that choice.
15:07
SPEAKER_01: All night Jordan hung out with his sisters and barely talked to me.
15:10
SPEAKER_01: I have no idea why.
15:12
SPEAKER_01: After the bachelorette party, she stopped responding in the group chat and got a new boyfriend, and she was always with him.
15:18
SPEAKER_01: Great.
15:19
SPEAKER_01: Fallen in love, but Okay, but also like respond in the group chat.
15:23
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
15:23
SPEAKER_01: Every wedding has a group chat with the bridesmaids, with the groomsman.
15:27
SPEAKER_02: For better or worse.
15:27
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
15:28
SPEAKER_01: Respond in the group chat.
15:29
SPEAKER_01: I'm sorry.
15:29
SPEAKER_02: I'm on one right now that's for like a bachelor party, and I over time you just go silent mode.
15:37
SPEAKER_02: Like I'll I'll get to it when I get to it.
15:39
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, but also like if somebody messages and you don't want to respond back, like just like the message.
15:43
SPEAKER_02: That too.
15:43
SPEAKER_02: I mean I do that.
15:45
SPEAKER_01: They know you read it, and then you're like, okay.
15:47
SPEAKER_02: Well, they're discussing right now of like what's what are you guys discussing?
15:51
SPEAKER_01: Like nothing.
15:51
SPEAKER_02: It's three months ago.
15:52
SPEAKER_01: How much beer to get?
15:53
SPEAKER_01: What are we doing?
15:54
SPEAKER_01: What are we doing for her?
15:57
SPEAKER_01: There you go.
15:58
SPEAKER_01: So she stops responding in the group chat, which I think is rude.
16:02
SPEAKER_01: I finally reached out and said, Hey, is everything okay between us?
16:05
SPEAKER_01: And she responded, No.
16:07
SPEAKER_01: She said that Ryan's sister told her all of the bad things I say about her and encouraged her to stop being my friend.
16:13
SPEAKER_01: I never say anything mean about Jordan, and I had no clue what she was even talking about.
16:18
SPEAKER_01: She wouldn't believe me.
16:19
SPEAKER_01: I was confused and hurt.
16:20
SPEAKER_01: Why would they do this?
16:21
SPEAKER_01: I confronted his sisters and they denied the whole thing, saying they never told her anything.
16:26
SPEAKER_02: That's suspicious.
16:28
SPEAKER_01: That is very suspicious.
16:30
SPEAKER_01: These sisters are as bad as their mom.
16:33
SPEAKER_01: I tried to rekindle the friendship with her and get together, but she was very distant and said she can't get past the things I said about her.
16:39
SPEAKER_01: But I never said anything rude about her.
16:41
SPEAKER_01: It was so dramatic.
16:42
SPEAKER_01: She was my friend since freshman year of college, but was believing Ryan's sisters, who she barely knows.
16:48
SPEAKER_02: Just from that weekend.
16:49
SPEAKER_01: Just from one weekend.
16:50
SPEAKER_01: Fast forward to the week of the wedding.
16:51
SPEAKER_01: We're almost there.
16:53
SPEAKER_01: Jordan backs out of the wedding.
16:57
SPEAKER_01: Claiming her new boyfriend planned a surprise trip for them.
17:01
SPEAKER_01: I'm sorry, but like a surprise trip versus your best friend's wedding?
17:05
unknown: Come on.
17:06
SPEAKER_02: Not good.
17:06
SPEAKER_02: No.
17:07
SPEAKER_02: Good on the boyfriend to plan a surprise trip.
17:09
SPEAKER_02: Bad timing.
17:10
SPEAKER_01: Terrible timing.
17:11
SPEAKER_02: I don't think that that's like a uh suspicious.
17:16
SPEAKER_01: Very suspicious.
17:17
SPEAKER_01: Okay.
17:17
SPEAKER_01: Who knows if she actually has the boyfriend?
17:19
SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
17:20
SPEAKER_01: I was shocked.
17:21
SPEAKER_01: Now I'm out a bridesmaid and I am stressing.
17:23
SPEAKER_01: But don't worry.
17:24
SPEAKER_01: Ryan's mother suggested that her daughters step in.
17:28
SPEAKER_01: Of course she did.
17:29
SPEAKER_01: Of course she did.
17:31
SPEAKER_01: I'm so over it at this point that I let them.
17:34
SPEAKER_01: It's kind of sad.
17:35
SPEAKER_01: Conveniently, they had already bought the same exact dresses as the bridesmaid.
17:40
SPEAKER_01: I just know they were planning this all along.
17:42
SPEAKER_02: Back to the weekend that they were all together.
17:46
SPEAKER_02: They knew what they were doing.
17:48
SPEAKER_02: They knew exactly what they were doing.
17:49
SPEAKER_02: They're like, let's get Jordan out.
17:51
SPEAKER_02: And then a little swoop swap.
17:54
SPEAKER_00: Swip swap.
17:55
SPEAKER_02: Snip snap snip.
17:56
SPEAKER_01: It happened.
17:57
SPEAKER_01: Now comes the wedding day.
17:59
SPEAKER_01: My mother-in-law hired her own professional hair and makeup artist.
18:03
SPEAKER_01: Excuse me?
18:05
SPEAKER_01: We were all doing our own together in the suite, blasting music and having fun.
18:09
SPEAKER_01: And this professional hair and makeup artist walks in only to do my mother-in-law and my sister-in-law's hair.
18:15
SPEAKER_01: Why?
18:16
SPEAKER_01: I'm sorry, like as a as a woman that has been in the bridal suite and you have to get your hair and makeup done, like that's a little disruptive if the vibes were let's just do our own hair and makeup.
18:28
SPEAKER_01: And then if anyone gets their hair and makeup professionally done, it's who?
18:32
SPEAKER_02: The bride.
18:33
SPEAKER_01: The bride should be getting their hair and makeup done if they want that.
18:37
SPEAKER_01: I let it slide, but my mom was visibly annoyed.
18:40
SPEAKER_01: Also, like that stepping on the turf of like mother of the bride a little bit.
18:44
SPEAKER_01: Like so the mother-in-law is getting all dolled up, but everyone else do your own.
18:49
SPEAKER_01: Rude.
18:50
SPEAKER_01: Rude.
18:50
SPEAKER_01: Next up, the catering fiasco.
18:54
SPEAKER_01: Our ceremony was outside, and right before I walked down the aisle, two large box trucks are backing down the drive with the beepers going off.
19:03
SPEAKER_00: We have to wait 10 minutes until they get down the drive.
19:06
SPEAKER_00: I didn't even notice that the catering company is not the one we picked with my mother-in-law.
19:12
SPEAKER_01: Can you picture that?
19:13
SPEAKER_01: Like being up waiting for your bride to walk down the aisle, and then it's just like beep, beep, beep, beep.
19:20
SPEAKER_01: The ceremony happens, and we are getting pictures, and I see people rushing around in the reception hall, dragging tables and scrambling.
19:27
SPEAKER_01: I'm very confused because my mother-in-law was in charge of the catering and the room was all set up and decorated.
19:32
SPEAKER_01: I then see my mother-in-law screaming at the venue manager.
19:35
SPEAKER_01: So I go down to de-escalate and I find out three things.
19:39
SPEAKER_01: Number one, she changed the caterer because she couldn't afford the other one.
19:43
SPEAKER_01: This caterer is now serving buffet dinner instead of family style.
19:47
SPEAKER_01: Not as big of a deal, but it impacts the reception timeline.
19:51
SPEAKER_01: To me, as the planner, this would be a big deal.
19:53
SPEAKER_01: Like it's a big change.
19:55
SPEAKER_01: And they had no linens for the buffet tables.
19:57
SPEAKER_01: And wait, the caterer did not come with proper flatware.
20:01
SPEAKER_01: Which means like bad silverware, bad plates, apparently.
20:04
SPEAKER_01: It's like a little backyard barbecue.
20:06
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, this ain't good.
20:07
SPEAKER_01: The venue manager had scrambled and found black linens that were too short for the tables.
20:13
SPEAKER_02: Also, pet fee.
20:14
SPEAKER_01: I mean, my biggest when the linens don't touch the floor.
20:17
SPEAKER_01: And called to get plates and silverware delivered in time for dinner service, but she would have to pay for the rentals.
20:22
SPEAKER_01: And my mother-in-law wasn't doing that because it's unfair.
20:26
SPEAKER_01: How is that unfair?
20:29
SPEAKER_01: The venue manager said, That's what happens when you go with the cheapest option.
20:33
SPEAKER_01: These people are on our do not book list.
20:35
SPEAKER_01: I was so embarrassed and felt bad for the venue manager and assured her we would cover whatever the charge was.
20:41
SPEAKER_01: Ryan asked his mom, why would you do this?
20:44
SPEAKER_01: And she said, Your wife demanded we pay for the catering even though we were struggling.
20:49
SPEAKER_01: And he cut her off and defended me, saying, She never did that.
20:53
SPEAKER_01: In fact, she did the opposite and said to never speak about me in a negative way ever again.
20:58
SPEAKER_01: I had never been more attracted to my husband.
21:01
SPEAKER_01: I'm kind of attracted to.
21:21
SPEAKER_01: Yay.
21:22
SPEAKER_01: And we keep his family at arm's length away and see them only once or twice a year.
21:27
SPEAKER_01: The end.
21:28
unknown: The end.
21:29
SPEAKER_02: That was good.
21:30
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, good story.
21:30
SPEAKER_02: Good story there.
21:31
SPEAKER_02: Glad it ends on a happy ending.
21:33
SPEAKER_02: You get married.
21:34
SPEAKER_01: And Double Down Debbie was like not even there for the good part of the wedding, like the dancing.
21:38
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, that's my favorite part.
21:39
SPEAKER_02: Favorite part by far.
21:40
SPEAKER_02: Barnon.
21:41
SPEAKER_02: That was the best part.
21:43
SPEAKER_02: Double Down Debbie got out.
21:44
SPEAKER_02: Double down Debbie.
21:46
SPEAKER_02: Only seeing them two times.
21:47
SPEAKER_01: I wish there was more follow-up with the bridesmaid sisters.
21:51
SPEAKER_01: Like, did they cause drama or did they just want to be bridesmaids?
21:54
SPEAKER_01: Because it seems like they kind of just went with the flow after that.
21:56
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, and seeing any rekindling with uh Jordan.
22:00
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
22:00
SPEAKER_02: Did they just completely cut themselves off now from this point on?
22:04
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22:07
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22:09
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22:11
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22:20
SPEAKER_02: All right.
22:21
SPEAKER_02: Good first story there.
22:22
SPEAKER_02: I love that one.
22:22
SPEAKER_02: More to come.
22:23
SPEAKER_02: And again, they might not be always wedding, but that one's good to open our one for that one for it, too.
22:28
SPEAKER_02: So let's move on to our other segments.
22:31
SPEAKER_00: Okay.
22:31
SPEAKER_02: First one being title of our podcast here.
22:35
SPEAKER_02: Absolutely not.
22:37
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23:24
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23:25
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23:27
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23:30
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23:31
SPEAKER_02: All right.
23:31
SPEAKER_02: So absolutely not.
23:32
SPEAKER_02: If you uh follow Cassie's segment, she has these throughout her weekly skits.
23:39
SPEAKER_02: Things that are absolutely yes or absolutely not is kind of what we're looking at here.
23:45
SPEAKER_02: So with the titling being with weddings, we're gonna have it be wedding related.
23:50
SPEAKER_02: So things you should absolutely not be doing as a wedding guest.
23:53
SPEAKER_02: So if you're attending a wedding, you're not the bride, you're not Ryan in our last story.
23:59
SPEAKER_02: If you're guest, you're a guest, anyone else.
24:01
SPEAKER_02: Got it.
24:01
SPEAKER_02: If you're double down Debbie, even if you're listening, I'm gonna read, you're gonna let me know.
24:06
SPEAKER_02: Okay.
24:06
SPEAKER_03: Absolutely not, or absolutely yes.
24:10
SPEAKER_00: Okay.
24:10
SPEAKER_00: I'll make sure to say it like that.
24:12
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, don't do it that way.
24:14
SPEAKER_02: All right.
24:14
SPEAKER_02: So uh answer this one with our story, but wearing white to someone else's wedding.
24:20
SPEAKER_01: Absolutely not.
24:21
SPEAKER_01: That's an easy one.
24:22
SPEAKER_02: Very easy.
24:23
SPEAKER_02: I kept it easy to start.
24:24
SPEAKER_01: I feel like we talked about it earlier, but like the only time you should be wearing white to a wedding is if it's been requested of you.
24:32
SPEAKER_01: Like, hey, we're gonna be wearing a different color, please wear white.
24:35
SPEAKER_01: And if you have an outfit that you are questioning, is this too white?
24:39
SPEAKER_01: And you send it in a group chat, hey, what do you think?
24:44
SPEAKER_01: Is is is this too white?
24:45
SPEAKER_01: Yes.
24:46
SPEAKER_01: The answer is yes.
24:47
SPEAKER_01: Put it back on the hanger, hang it up.
24:48
SPEAKER_01: We're not wearing it.
24:49
SPEAKER_02: Only time I see like the a group of people wearing white, most of the time it's more like a tan or a beige.
24:55
SPEAKER_02: It's like a beach wedding, destination beach wedding.
24:58
SPEAKER_01: Sometimes they'll give a color palette, which I'm like, okay.
25:00
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
25:01
SPEAKER_02: All right.
25:01
SPEAKER_02: Uh, second one bringing a plus one that was not invited.
25:06
SPEAKER_01: Absolutely not.
25:07
SPEAKER_01: Again.
25:08
SPEAKER_01: I feel like as someone that understands how much a wedding costs.
25:13
SPEAKER_01: Yes.
25:14
SPEAKER_01: And you are planning so many logistics for a day, like how people are sitting, the cost of each plate, that means more rentals, another chair.
25:24
SPEAKER_01: There's all these things that factor in.
25:25
SPEAKER_01: But if you just show up with someone that is not supposed to be there, yeah, they're not included in the crowd.
25:30
SPEAKER_01: Right.
25:31
SPEAKER_01: They're not included any of the counts.
25:32
SPEAKER_02: Follow-up.
25:33
SPEAKER_02: What if it's somebody?
25:34
SPEAKER_02: Okay, you have a plus one, you're intending on bringing somebody, and then that person has the flu.
25:42
SPEAKER_02: They're sitting on the toilet too long and they can't attend the wedding anymore.
25:46
SPEAKER_02: But it's a local wedding and you have someone that was close with the bride or groom, like, hey, would you want to be my plus one?
25:52
SPEAKER_02: The plate's already the already RSVP'd, yes.
25:54
SPEAKER_02: Is that an absolutely not or an absolutely?
25:56
SPEAKER_01: I I don't think that's an absolutely not.
25:58
SPEAKER_01: I think in that situation, if they have a relationship with the couple or somebody that's getting married, um, as long as the couple's cool with it, like fill the seat because most of the time they've already paid for everything seven, 14 days out.
26:09
SPEAKER_01: So if it happens like the day of the wedding, yeah, there's gonna be an empty seat.
26:13
SPEAKER_01: So a lot of people prefer to have it filled.
26:15
SPEAKER_02: Makes sense.
26:16
SPEAKER_02: Makes sense.
26:17
SPEAKER_02: Otherwise, yeah, it's just going waste waste, going to waste.
26:20
SPEAKER_02: All right.
26:20
SPEAKER_02: Uh, absolutely not or absolutely yes, bringing a non-cash gift.
26:26
SPEAKER_01: Absolutely yes, I think.
26:28
SPEAKER_01: Because you don't even have to bring a gift.
26:31
SPEAKER_01: I always say a gift is not mandatory.
26:34
SPEAKER_01: You are the gift.
26:34
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
26:35
SPEAKER_01: Your presence is the gift.
26:36
SPEAKER_01: Now, a lot of people in America, particularly like our area, it's normal to bring a gift.
26:42
SPEAKER_01: A cash gift is like preferred.
26:44
SPEAKER_03: Right.
26:44
SPEAKER_01: If you're bringing something crazy, like they had a chair on their registry, don't bring the chair to the wedding.
26:51
SPEAKER_01: Like that is an absolutely not.
26:53
SPEAKER_01: Anything that's like heavy, crazy, absolutely not, do not bring it.
26:56
SPEAKER_01: Just ship it to their house.
26:58
SPEAKER_01: Right.
26:58
SPEAKER_02: But like you miss the bridal shower.
27:00
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
27:00
SPEAKER_02: Just yeah.
27:01
SPEAKER_02: There's probably something on the their wedding website.
27:04
SPEAKER_02: And if they don't have one, I'm sure you have their number to contact them.
27:07
SPEAKER_01: But like a non-cash gift is totally fine.
27:09
SPEAKER_01: A lot of people will do like something sentimental, or they'll do something small off the registry and a sweet note.
27:15
SPEAKER_01: So like it doesn't have to be a cash gift.
27:18
SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
27:18
SPEAKER_01: I guess.
27:19
SPEAKER_01: What if it's a cash bar?
27:22
SPEAKER_02: All right, next one.
27:23
SPEAKER_00: On next episode.
27:24
SPEAKER_02: Changing your meal because the other plate looks better.
27:28
SPEAKER_02: Absolutely not.
27:29
SPEAKER_01: Absolutely not.
27:31
SPEAKER_01: I worked in catering and like most catering, you're gonna have like three percent ordered food extra from what you ordered.
27:39
SPEAKER_01: So, like there is room for a little bit of air or somebody changes the plates.
27:43
SPEAKER_01: But if every single person sees the steak and is like, oh, I want the steak, then the people that actually RSVP'd for the steak.
27:49
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, they won't get it because you don't do it in order of RSVP, you do it by table.
27:54
SPEAKER_01: So it throws off the flow of dinner service a lot and can cause a little timeline delay.
28:00
SPEAKER_01: It also can make people not get the food they requested.
28:03
SPEAKER_01: So just go with what you RSVP'd.
28:05
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
28:06
SPEAKER_02: And if I had the RSP, RSVP, what, three months early, month out, and I chose the chicken, and I'm realizing like, oh, I just kind of like click the click.
28:15
SPEAKER_02: I still eat it.
28:16
SPEAKER_02: It doesn't matter.
28:17
SPEAKER_01: Or a lot of people will forget, but there is like a master list.
28:21
SPEAKER_01: The caterer has it, the planner has it, the couple has it.
28:23
SPEAKER_01: It shows what you ordered.
28:24
SPEAKER_01: Right.
28:25
SPEAKER_02: You can't you can't lie.
28:26
SPEAKER_02: You come with the plus one.
28:27
SPEAKER_02: A lot of the times we do it too, is like, hey, I got the chicken, you get the beef.
28:30
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, split.
28:31
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28:35
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28:36
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28:38
SPEAKER_02: All right.
28:39
SPEAKER_02: Uh, next one, absolutely not.
28:40
SPEAKER_02: Moving place cards because you don't like your table.
28:43
SPEAKER_00: No, absolutely not.
28:45
SPEAKER_00: Absolutely not.
28:46
SPEAKER_02: Even if you get put in the corner and there's like a pillar in between it, you can't move.
28:50
SPEAKER_01: No.
28:50
SPEAKER_01: Like the couple takes a lot of time, even if you're not in like the most ideal spot.
28:54
SPEAKER_01: The couple takes a lot of time delegating what table you're going to so that it's like a smooth transition into the room.
29:00
SPEAKER_01: And you're only sitting there for an hour.
29:02
SPEAKER_01: Hour, hour and a half tops.
29:04
SPEAKER_01: If you are that uncomfortable or like can't sit with a certain people or in a certain spot for an hour and a half, like you shouldn't have come to the wedding.
29:12
SPEAKER_01: I'm sorry.
29:13
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
29:13
SPEAKER_01: Just like bite the bullet, sit at the table you're assigned to.
29:16
SPEAKER_01: It doesn't really matter.
29:17
unknown: Yeah.
29:17
SPEAKER_02: Once you move after dinner time, um you rarely go back to your table unless you leave your jacket there, your purse there, whatever you might have of like personal belonging that you're comfortable leaving there.
29:30
SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
29:31
SPEAKER_02: Other than that, you're either cruising in and out of the dance floor to the bar, to the dance floor, to other tables, interacting with people.
29:39
SPEAKER_02: Two vacuums.
29:40
SPEAKER_01: Move to a different table like after dinner service is over.
29:43
SPEAKER_02: Right.
29:44
SPEAKER_02: There are a few more.
29:46
SPEAKER_01: Okay.
29:46
SPEAKER_02: Dressing for comfortability instead of following the dress code.
29:51
SPEAKER_02: Absolutely not or absolutely yes.
29:53
SPEAKER_01: The only time I'm gonna say it could be a yes is if you have like recently had surgery or you have like something going on where like you can't wear a suit or you couldn't wear like a floor-length gown or something if that's what the dress code calls for.
30:07
SPEAKER_02: I think the bride and groom would understand that.
30:09
SPEAKER_02: And they would know that, like, oh yeah.
30:11
SPEAKER_01: But if you are a person that's like, you know, I actually prefer to wear cargo shorts and a t-shirt, so I'm gonna wear that to a black tie wedding, like you're an a-hole.
30:18
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, you're wearing jeans and a flannel.
30:20
SPEAKER_02: Like, what?
30:21
SPEAKER_02: I wear this every time Content I Joe comes on and I know you're gonna play it.
30:24
SPEAKER_01: I and so it's absolutely not for me for like that statement.
30:29
SPEAKER_01: Like, just follow the dress code, it's not hard.
30:32
SPEAKER_02: About leaving a wedding early.
30:36
SPEAKER_02: Absolutely reception.
30:37
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, absolutely.
30:38
SPEAKER_01: Yes, I think.
30:39
unknown: Yeah.
30:39
SPEAKER_02: What about ceremony?
30:41
SPEAKER_01: I mean, if there's an emergency or something, yes.
30:43
SPEAKER_01: But like if you're at the reception and you gotta get home to the kids, dinner's done, you you don't like to dance, you have other things going on, like you don't have to stay the whole time.
30:54
SPEAKER_02: No, not mandatory for now.
30:56
SPEAKER_01: No, no, leave early if you need.
30:57
SPEAKER_02: Uh, you mentioned kids, so what about bringing your kids when it's a child-free wedding?
31:02
SPEAKER_01: Absolutely not.
31:04
SPEAKER_01: No.
31:05
SPEAKER_01: Sometimes venues have like age limits, like if there's ponds or like water features, they'll be like, Oh, you can't have kids here, or you have to have a babysitter on site.
31:12
SPEAKER_01: Like, you could get the couple in trouble.
31:14
SPEAKER_01: One.
31:15
unknown: Yeah.
31:15
SPEAKER_01: And a lot of people just don't want kids at their wedding because the parents are enjoying themselves, they're not parenting, and the kids are being kids, and the kids can cause a little bit of chaos.
31:25
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
31:26
SPEAKER_01: Sometimes, not always, but like our kids would if we weren't watching them.
31:29
SPEAKER_01: Right.
31:29
SPEAKER_01: So, no, don't bring your kids.
31:31
SPEAKER_02: We had our it was a it kids were allowed.
31:33
SPEAKER_02: Our son just I was a uh groomsman, I was his best man, and it was at a Catholic Mass, actually.
31:41
SPEAKER_02: And he's sitting with grandma because you were also a bridesmaid.
31:44
SPEAKER_02: Yes.
31:44
SPEAKER_02: And while the uh father or pastor, whatever they call him in Catholic masses, apologies, he just got up and walked straight towards me.
31:54
SPEAKER_02: So I just had you know grabbed his hand, and there was a quiet room in the back where babies were at that he went back to and he wasn't having it.
32:02
SPEAKER_01: Cried some more and I had some more.
32:04
SPEAKER_02: That he had a good time after that.
32:05
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
32:06
SPEAKER_02: All right.
32:06
SPEAKER_02: Last one for absolutely not.
32:08
SPEAKER_02: Okay, requesting songs from the DJ or to the DJ.
32:14
SPEAKER_01: I think if you're just requesting a song, sure.
32:19
SPEAKER_01: But if you request it multiple times, the same song, and it's not being played, like stop.
32:23
SPEAKER_01: Absolutely not.
32:24
SPEAKER_01: Because clearly it's on the do not play list.
32:28
SPEAKER_01: And if you have like a general rule of thumb, like, should I request this song?
32:31
SPEAKER_01: I would say don't.
32:33
SPEAKER_01: Most of the time the couple has like curated a list with their DJ of like what type of music they want played, and if it's not being played, they probably don't want to hear it.
32:42
SPEAKER_02: Makes sense.
32:43
SPEAKER_02: Makes sense.
32:45
SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
32:45
SPEAKER_02: I mean, I would if I wanted to listen to a certain song, say it's the electric slide.
32:52
SPEAKER_02: No, not the electric slide.
32:54
SPEAKER_02: Sorry.
32:54
SPEAKER_02: Like no, you hear a lot of line dances.
32:56
SPEAKER_02: Most of the time it is like a line dance if they don't like a particular artist, but other than that, most of it is fair fair play.
33:04
SPEAKER_01: Fair game.
33:05
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
33:05
SPEAKER_02: And I'm not sure.
33:05
SPEAKER_01: But if the DJ says no, don't ask for it again.
33:08
SPEAKER_02: Imagine like going to a wedding and someone just like keeps requesting slow songs.
33:12
SPEAKER_02: Like I just want to listen to slow songs all the time.
33:15
SPEAKER_01: Boo.
33:16
SPEAKER_01: He's boring.
33:17
SPEAKER_02: All right.
33:18
SPEAKER_02: Good segment there.
33:19
SPEAKER_02: Absolutely not.
33:19
SPEAKER_02: That's going to be a recurring one throughout our time.
33:22
SPEAKER_02: And hopefully when we get some guests on, maybe they'll be a part of the fun in that one too.
33:25
SPEAKER_02: So should we do Wedding You Rather?
33:28
SPEAKER_00: We could.
33:28
SPEAKER_02: Wedding You Rather.
33:29
SPEAKER_02: Okay.
33:29
SPEAKER_02: Wedding You Rather.
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34:16
SPEAKER_02: Wedding you rather.
34:18
SPEAKER_02: Let's get into it.
34:19
SPEAKER_02: All right, I'm gonna ask you a question of uh either or you tell me which one you would prefer.
34:25
SPEAKER_00: Okay.
34:26
SPEAKER_02: Or wedding you rather.
34:28
SPEAKER_00: Got it.
34:29
SPEAKER_02: Would you rather have your first dance have your first dance song skip the entire time or the DJ play the wrong song?
34:39
SPEAKER_01: Those are both terrible.
34:41
SPEAKER_01: It's like absolutely not to both.
34:43
SPEAKER_01: Um if I had to pick one, I feel like I would pick it skip the whole time because like your first dance song has like special meaning.
34:54
SPEAKER_01: And if they would pick another song, it could be so meaningless for the two of you.
34:59
SPEAKER_01: I mean, both suck though.
35:00
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, it would suck both ways.
35:01
SPEAKER_02: Maybe you can make some like fun and like it's skipping.
35:04
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, like you could be laughing.
35:05
SPEAKER_02: There's really nothing you can go.
35:06
SPEAKER_00: Yeah, it's not like, hey, I guess you could stop and say, like, you're playing the wrong song, man.
35:10
SPEAKER_00: Please.
35:12
SPEAKER_00: But yeah.
35:13
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, either way.
35:14
SPEAKER_02: Uh I wouldn't do either.
35:16
SPEAKER_02: All right.
35:16
SPEAKER_02: Would you rather trip walking down down the aisle or trip during the your grand entrance?
35:24
SPEAKER_01: I would trip during the grand entrance.
35:26
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
35:26
SPEAKER_02: And you can play it off a little bit, maybe.
35:28
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
35:29
SPEAKER_01: I mean, this the ceremony's so serious and like it's a very emotional moment when you see your partner.
35:35
unknown: Yeah.
35:36
SPEAKER_02: And even like when you do the entrances, and most couples with their bridesmaids and groomsmen, they come out in like pairs, and I see it every time.
35:45
SPEAKER_02: Someone like fake trip.
35:47
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
35:47
SPEAKER_02: And they're like, oh, is everything okay?
35:48
SPEAKER_02: And then they like start twerking or something like it.
35:51
SPEAKER_02: It happens every single wedding I go to anymore.
35:54
SPEAKER_02: Uh yeah.
35:55
SPEAKER_02: Would would you rather have an unplug ceremony or phones everywhere?
36:00
SPEAKER_01: I pick phones everywhere, but I like to record I like to record the moments.
36:06
SPEAKER_01: Now, I don't mind cameras being up and around, but I think that the people that are sitting in the aisle seats need to be respectful of the aisle and like not leaning out that sort of thing.
36:18
SPEAKER_01: But like sometimes you can get some really beautiful moments from like your guest perspective.
36:24
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
36:24
SPEAKER_01: And so I don't see a problem with phones out, but I understand why other people just make sure it's silent.
36:30
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, on silence.
36:31
SPEAKER_02: 2026.
36:32
SPEAKER_02: Phones are gonna be everywhere.
36:35
SPEAKER_02: Right.
36:35
SPEAKER_02: It's just a matter of the exposure of the phones during a ceremony.
36:39
SPEAKER_02: Correct.
36:39
SPEAKER_01: Just don't be respectful of the professional photographer and videographer that are there.
36:43
SPEAKER_01: Otherwise, like I wouldn't care phones being out.
36:46
SPEAKER_01: Cool.
36:46
SPEAKER_02: All right.
36:47
SPEAKER_02: Would you rather have an awkward silent dance floor or an overly wild one where things get chaotic?
36:54
SPEAKER_01: Overly wild.
36:55
SPEAKER_01: Like we want the good stories.
36:56
unknown: Yeah.
36:57
SPEAKER_02: I feel like that's what happened to ours.
36:58
SPEAKER_01: Oh yeah.
36:59
SPEAKER_02: I was on our buddy that was over six foot five on his shoulders.
37:05
SPEAKER_01: Just having a good time.
37:06
SPEAKER_01: Having a good time.
37:07
SPEAKER_01: I feel like awkwardly silent is a little like sad.
37:12
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
37:14
SPEAKER_01: Unless you unless the couple doesn't dance, then it then like plan your wedding not around dancing and like do other things.
37:20
SPEAKER_01: But don't try to do a dance floor and then it'd be like sad.
37:24
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
37:26
SPEAKER_02: All right.
37:26
SPEAKER_02: Would you rather your would you rather your dress rip before the ceremony or bustle break before dancing?
37:34
SPEAKER_01: Bustle break before dancing.
37:36
SPEAKER_01: Okay.
37:37
SPEAKER_01: Bustles break like every a lot of bustles break.
37:40
SPEAKER_01: So it's like really normal.
37:41
SPEAKER_01: You can fix it with like a couple safety pins, a stapler.
37:45
SPEAKER_02: Got it.
37:45
SPEAKER_01: I'm gonna uh ripping of the dress like that'd be very traumatic if you're an emotional person right before you walk down the aisle.
37:51
SPEAKER_01: That's stressful.
37:52
SPEAKER_02: I'm gonna sound like I know it.
37:55
SPEAKER_02: Like I know what a bustle is.
37:56
SPEAKER_01: Okay, what is it?
37:57
SPEAKER_02: I know.
37:58
SPEAKER_01: A bustle is like when you take your train of your dress and you pin it up.
38:02
SPEAKER_02: Exactly.
38:03
SPEAKER_02: He knew he knew the whole time.
38:06
SPEAKER_02: Okay.
38:06
SPEAKER_02: All right.
38:07
SPEAKER_02: Would you rather run out of alcohol or run out of food?
38:11
SPEAKER_01: I would rather run out of alcohol.
38:15
SPEAKER_01: I feel like it's easier to obtain alcohol.
38:17
SPEAKER_01: Like somebody can run to the gas station or run to the warehouse.
38:21
SPEAKER_02: If you run out and you have like a certain limit, like that's probably best that ran out as well.
38:25
SPEAKER_01: But like if you run out of food, food is served in like a smaller time frame and it's prepared a certain way.
38:31
SPEAKER_01: It has to be cooked for a certain amount of time.
38:33
SPEAKER_01: Like if you run out of food, you're like SOL.
38:35
SPEAKER_01: It's kind of like, oh, half the tables don't get to eat.
38:38
SPEAKER_01: Where it's like with drinks, somebody could probably go grab something very easily and like bring it back.
38:42
SPEAKER_01: Makes sense.
38:44
SPEAKER_02: I'll do two more.
38:45
SPEAKER_02: Two more for wedding rather.
38:47
SPEAKER_02: Would you rather your partner cry during the vows or not react at all?
38:54
SPEAKER_01: I guess it depends on the partner, but like cry during the vows 100%.
38:58
SPEAKER_01: I feel like that is showing being a little vulnerable, being a little emotional.
39:02
SPEAKER_01: But I get it.
39:03
SPEAKER_01: Some people like aren't criers.
39:04
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
39:05
SPEAKER_01: We were both crying the whole time.
39:06
SPEAKER_01: I mean, uh whoa, whoa, whoa.
39:08
SPEAKER_02: I I stumbled a little bit.
39:09
SPEAKER_02: I was, you know, getting a little teary-eyed.
39:11
SPEAKER_02: I I had my composure.
39:13
SPEAKER_02: Oh, I'm absolutely a crier.
39:14
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
39:15
SPEAKER_02: Would you rather someone propose at your wedding or announce a pregnancy?
39:21
SPEAKER_01: I feel like I would prefer someone announce a pregnancy because it's like non-wedding related.
39:26
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
39:26
SPEAKER_01: Which, like, to me, that wouldn't matter.
39:28
SPEAKER_01: Like, that's exciting news.
39:29
SPEAKER_01: Even though the proposal is also exciting news, it's geared around a wedding, and I feel like the wedding day should be reserved for the two people getting married.
39:36
SPEAKER_02: Unless maybe it's like communicated in advance, like, hey, I'm looking at doing this.
39:41
SPEAKER_02: But it has to be like something, even maybe like the bride or the I still hate it.
39:45
SPEAKER_02: It's yeah, it's a little tacky, I'm not gonna lie.
39:47
SPEAKER_01: But I there's situations where I'm like, oh, that's so fun for them.
39:50
SPEAKER_01: But like in the back of my mind, I'm like, Yank stripes.
39:53
SPEAKER_01: No, no, yeah, yank stripes.
39:55
SPEAKER_02: So announce a pregnancy.
39:56
SPEAKER_02: I wouldn't say do it for your like, I feel like whenever you propose to somebody, it's like your one-on-one time.
40:03
SPEAKER_02: Like how it's I mean, I did it in front of like our whole friend.
40:06
SPEAKER_01: You had both sets of your family though.
40:07
SPEAKER_02: I didn't do it at a wedding, though.
40:09
SPEAKER_01: I wasn't at a wedding.
40:10
SPEAKER_02: So I don't know if I've ever actually been at a wedding that has a proposal at it.
40:14
SPEAKER_02: I know.
40:15
SPEAKER_02: Nor a pregnancy.
40:16
SPEAKER_02: I hope I'm never.
40:17
SPEAKER_02: If you're expecting a child, I am we are going to a wedding in the next few weeks.
40:22
SPEAKER_00: Maybe it might happen.
40:23
SPEAKER_02: If you're looking to propose in the next few weeks when you're at that same said wedding, don't do it.
40:29
SPEAKER_00: Don't do it.
40:30
SPEAKER_02: Our next segment, this one is called the VIP Table.
40:34
SPEAKER_02: We are going to have different themes every single week.
40:37
SPEAKER_02: Um, it could be pop kind of pop culture, could be more of like a more serious space.
40:43
SPEAKER_02: We went with a little more fun and more wedding-centric pop culture movies that revolve around a wedding.
40:55
SPEAKER_02: Not a movie that has wedding in the name, not a movie that like has a it's at some point in the movie or the plot line of it in some facet deals with the movie or it deals with the wedding.
41:08
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
41:10
SPEAKER_01: Okay, I'm on it.
41:11
SPEAKER_01: So our best.
41:12
SPEAKER_01: We got that one.
41:12
SPEAKER_01: And we're gonna do eight because at a table at a wedding, there's typically eight seats at a table.
41:17
SPEAKER_01: Okay.
41:17
SPEAKER_01: So we'll fill eight seats.
41:18
SPEAKER_02: You have four, I get four.
41:20
SPEAKER_01: Yes.
41:21
SPEAKER_02: All right.
41:22
SPEAKER_02: I I I've been uh juicing this up last night.
41:25
SPEAKER_02: I think that I'm gonna crush it.
41:27
SPEAKER_02: We'll post this online too for you to vote which one you think is the winner of the two bunches.
41:32
SPEAKER_02: Ours are probably gonna be completely different.
41:34
SPEAKER_02: So I'm interested to see what you're doing.
41:36
SPEAKER_02: If you do follow wedding pro cast, I'm sure that you might lean more of her.
41:40
SPEAKER_02: Maybe I feel like my choices are pretty good.
41:42
SPEAKER_01: You're a good movie watchers.
41:43
SPEAKER_02: And you might veto a couple of them, but okay.
41:45
SPEAKER_01: Who's going first?
41:46
SPEAKER_01: Me or you?
41:47
SPEAKER_02: I will let you go first.
41:49
SPEAKER_02: Okay.
41:50
SPEAKER_02: I already know what your like first one is because I know maybe you okay.
41:54
SPEAKER_01: Well, we'll see.
41:55
SPEAKER_02: We'll see.
41:56
SPEAKER_01: Number one for me for top wedding movies, like scenes around weddings, crazy rich Asians.
42:01
SPEAKER_02: Oh my gosh.
42:02
SPEAKER_02: I did not think that was gonna be one-one.
42:04
SPEAKER_01: It's so good.
42:05
SPEAKER_01: It's good.
42:05
SPEAKER_01: That was in my A tier.
42:07
SPEAKER_01: I remember watching Crazy Rich Asians for the first time in that wedding scene where like they all get the butterflies out, and it's just like so emotional.
42:14
SPEAKER_01: It's so good.
42:15
SPEAKER_02: I did not think you were gonna pick that first, but I I thought that was.
42:18
SPEAKER_02: Did you have that on your list?
42:19
SPEAKER_02: I had it on my list.
42:20
SPEAKER_02: I thought I was gonna sneak that in like the fourth round.
42:23
SPEAKER_01: That was like that easy, easy.
42:24
SPEAKER_00: That's such a good one.
42:25
SPEAKER_00: Oh my goodness.
42:26
SPEAKER_00: Okay, now you got it.
42:27
SPEAKER_02: That was like a late one.
42:30
SPEAKER_02: I feel like one is gonna be there.
42:33
SPEAKER_02: Go for it.
42:34
SPEAKER_02: I'm gonna go.
42:35
SPEAKER_02: I'm I'm gonna go with Wedding Crashers.
42:38
SPEAKER_02: That's a good movie.
42:39
SPEAKER_02: Owen Wilson, Vince Vaughn, Bradley Cooper.
42:43
SPEAKER_00: Yes.
42:44
SPEAKER_02: Kitty Cat.
42:45
SPEAKER_00: That's a good movie.
42:46
SPEAKER_02: It's uh it does have wedding in the name, so I was like, maybe I'll save it for another time.
42:51
SPEAKER_02: But that was one of like it there's that area of like 20, 2005 to 2010 that there were rom-com galore of absolute hit after hit, and that's one of them.
43:03
SPEAKER_02: And that was almost like obviously Step Brothers wasn't a wedding, but that was like near the top two in terms of like uh or like comedies during that stretch.
43:14
SPEAKER_02: Yes.
43:14
SPEAKER_02: Wedding crashers.
43:15
SPEAKER_02: Okay.
43:16
SPEAKER_01: I don't think I didn't even put that one on my list.
43:18
SPEAKER_02: So we're good.
43:19
SPEAKER_02: We're not even probably the last round on that one then.
43:22
SPEAKER_02: I think that was gonna be gone.
43:24
SPEAKER_02: If you take any of the ones that I was gonna take, all right.
43:27
SPEAKER_02: I get two picks of the case.
43:27
SPEAKER_02: Yes, you get two picks.
43:29
SPEAKER_02: Alright, so I'll just go back to back with it.
43:31
SPEAKER_02: I am gonna do.
43:34
SPEAKER_02: I'm gonna lose.
43:36
SPEAKER_02: Oh, read yours.
43:37
SPEAKER_02: I'm gonna do I Love You Man.
43:40
SPEAKER_00: Okay.
43:41
SPEAKER_02: Paul Rudd.
43:42
SPEAKER_02: That was on my list, but it was it was on there.
43:43
SPEAKER_00: That's a good movie.
43:44
SPEAKER_02: Jason Siegel.
43:46
SPEAKER_02: I went that was right when I turned like 18.
43:50
SPEAKER_02: Able to go see an R rated movie.
43:52
SPEAKER_02: I went back to back to back weeks with my buddies to go see that movie.
43:55
SPEAKER_01: That also is just like a stellar cast, and the scene of the wedding is hilarious because like.
44:00
SPEAKER_01: Like his groomsmen are like a hodgepodge of like all these areas.
44:05
SPEAKER_02: Even Hank Mardukas was there?
44:07
SPEAKER_01: Yes.
44:09
SPEAKER_01: Okay.
44:10
SPEAKER_01: I'm up, right?
44:11
SPEAKER_02: Uh you got two.
44:12
SPEAKER_01: Okay.
44:13
SPEAKER_01: I'm gonna pick for my next one.
44:18
SPEAKER_01: The proposal.
44:19
SPEAKER_01: Oh, that was that's on my list.
44:21
SPEAKER_01: It's on my list.
44:22
SPEAKER_01: It's a good movie.
44:23
SPEAKER_01: So good.
44:24
SPEAKER_01: And the scene in the barn where it's like kind of heartfelt, but it's like not their real wedding, but they actually are falling in love.
44:32
SPEAKER_01: I'm like, it's good.
44:33
SPEAKER_01: It's a great movie.
44:34
SPEAKER_01: Is it what is her name?
44:35
SPEAKER_01: Gamgam?
44:35
SPEAKER_01: Gamgam.
44:36
SPEAKER_01: Gamgam.
44:37
SPEAKER_02: Betty White.
44:38
SPEAKER_01: To the windows.
44:39
SPEAKER_01: To the wall.
44:40
SPEAKER_00: It's so funny.
44:40
SPEAKER_00: The movies, the movie's great.
44:42
SPEAKER_00: And the other one, which you probably do not have this on your list, but I do because it's it is one of my favorite movies of all time.
44:48
SPEAKER_01: Princess Diaries 2, The Royal Engagement.
44:52
SPEAKER_01: Because the wedding scene itself is so good because Clarice, the queen, is the one that ends up getting married and she marries her um bodyguard, Joey.
45:03
SPEAKER_01: Joe.
45:03
SPEAKER_01: I've always watched it all the time.
45:06
SPEAKER_01: I love Princess Diaries and I love Princess Diaries 2.
45:09
SPEAKER_01: That was on my personal top wedding movie list.
45:12
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, that was not on my list, but I I knew you wouldn't have that one.
45:16
SPEAKER_02: All right.
45:16
SPEAKER_02: I'm I like don't want to do all comedies, but I have I still have two of my eights here.
45:21
SPEAKER_02: Let's see.
45:22
SPEAKER_02: I'm gonna steal.
45:23
SPEAKER_02: I know that you're gonna save one.
45:25
SPEAKER_02: You were saving it.
45:27
SPEAKER_02: I this I thought you were gonna pick this one one one.
45:31
SPEAKER_02: I'm going with the wedding singer, Adam Sandler, Drew Barrymore.
45:36
SPEAKER_01: Amazing.
45:36
SPEAKER_01: That is that is my favorite one.
45:39
SPEAKER_01: It's in my personal top favorite movies of all time.
45:41
SPEAKER_01: So it was it was next on my list.
45:42
SPEAKER_02: So I knew I had to swipe it up.
45:45
SPEAKER_02: I had to swipe her and swipe it.
45:46
SPEAKER_01: So many good weddings, and like the band scenes are hilarious.
45:50
SPEAKER_02: Love stinks.
45:51
SPEAKER_02: Love stinks so uh what is the actor's name when he's like he's losing his mind.
45:57
SPEAKER_02: And I'm gonna reap all the benefits.
45:59
SPEAKER_01: Like it's a it's such a happy-go looking.
46:03
SPEAKER_02: The first one's by himself, like Adam Sandler movies, or was I feel like it came before Happy Gilmore.
46:09
SPEAKER_02: I think it came out.
46:10
SPEAKER_02: I don't know the order, but there was just like a stretch of out.
46:12
SPEAKER_02: Adam Sandler and Jim Carrey were just like rocking the rocking the 90s for it.
46:16
SPEAKER_02: All right.
46:16
SPEAKER_02: This last one.
46:18
SPEAKER_02: Interested to see we're gonna choose.
46:19
SPEAKER_02: I wasn't gonna pick like I still have it's my only one left on A tier.
46:24
SPEAKER_02: The only one you took from my A tier was actually crazy rich Asians, and I thought I was gonna get that at this pick.
46:31
SPEAKER_00: Wrong.
46:31
SPEAKER_02: Rongo.
46:32
SPEAKER_02: I'm going with the hangover because it ends up.
46:36
SPEAKER_01: Oh, the whole thing is around it.
46:39
SPEAKER_02: They they go on their bachelor party, they're going to Vegas.
46:42
SPEAKER_02: He's missing his two.
46:44
SPEAKER_02: The groom is missing, he's on the roof, and they have to find Doug.
46:48
SPEAKER_02: And it's maybe when I one of the most laugh-out loud movies the first time.
46:54
SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
46:55
SPEAKER_02: Now I will one thing I'll say.
46:57
SPEAKER_02: I hate when movies end up going and adding more to it.
47:02
SPEAKER_02: Not saying the other hangover, or was there three hangovers?
47:05
SPEAKER_00: I think there might be four.
47:07
SPEAKER_02: There might be four.
47:08
SPEAKER_02: However, many hangovers are the first one, it was the classic.
47:11
SPEAKER_02: Don't do another one.
47:13
SPEAKER_02: Don't do another movie to ruin the first one.
47:16
SPEAKER_02: Because when I first saw the hangover, it was maybe the best piece of comedy I've seen.
47:21
SPEAKER_01: And now when you look back on it, like I'm like, I got one more, which isn't so hard because I have two that I would like say would get the same.
47:29
SPEAKER_01: But um, I'm going with Father of the Bride.
47:32
SPEAKER_01: Okay.
47:33
SPEAKER_01: Father of the Bride for like my closing.
47:35
SPEAKER_01: It's like a classic.
47:37
SPEAKER_01: It really highlights like how hard it is to get like give your daughter away, and like that next step.
47:44
SPEAKER_01: And as a little girl growing up watching that movie, it's like I think what shapes what people are like.
47:51
SPEAKER_01: Oh, my wedding should look like this.
47:52
SPEAKER_01: I want to do a backyard wedding.
47:53
SPEAKER_01: Yes.
47:54
SPEAKER_01: Steve Martin's.
47:54
SPEAKER_01: And like they just deck the house is beautiful, like it's in the house at like their home.
47:59
SPEAKER_02: Yes.
47:59
SPEAKER_01: I think it gives people unrealistic expectations of weddings nowadays.
48:03
SPEAKER_01: However, like I love that movie growing up.
48:05
SPEAKER_02: That one would always be on like ABC family or like freeform now.
48:10
SPEAKER_02: Good choices.
48:11
SPEAKER_02: We'll see.
48:11
SPEAKER_02: Again, we'll put it on there, see who wins.
48:13
SPEAKER_02: I you probably will end up taking it.
48:15
SPEAKER_01: Are we gonna do a plus one?
48:16
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I I have I have a bunch still on my list.
48:20
SPEAKER_02: I'll give you a few.
48:20
SPEAKER_02: Read three.
48:22
SPEAKER_02: I have uh Meet the Falkers.
48:24
SPEAKER_01: Oh, I didn't even think that one.
48:25
SPEAKER_01: I have that's a great one.
48:26
SPEAKER_02: I'm I'm sure we'll get flack for uh Bridesmaids.
48:29
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, that's another one's was on my list.
48:31
SPEAKER_02: I just uh it's it came after some of the other comedies, and I like those ones more.
48:37
SPEAKER_02: No, uh think still a funny movie.
48:39
SPEAKER_02: Um The Princess Bride.
48:43
SPEAKER_01: Great movie.
48:44
SPEAKER_02: You're lying, you hate that movie.
48:46
SPEAKER_01: No, you made me watch it.
48:47
SPEAKER_01: I liked it.
48:48
SPEAKER_02: Those are three.
48:49
SPEAKER_02: Those are three that I have.
48:50
SPEAKER_02: I have many more, too, but you can go and give me some of the ones you might have.
48:53
SPEAKER_01: The ones that I didn't choose but were close was 27 dresses.
48:57
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, it's a classic one.
48:58
SPEAKER_01: I love that one.
48:59
SPEAKER_01: Like our friend.
49:01
SPEAKER_01: She's gonna be like 27 dresses when she gets married.
49:03
SPEAKER_01: I'm not naming her name on here, but she'll know if she's listening.
49:08
SPEAKER_02: This is cut out now.
49:10
SPEAKER_01: About time.
49:11
SPEAKER_02: Okay, who's that one?
49:12
SPEAKER_02: I don't think I've heard of that one.
49:13
SPEAKER_01: Um Rachel McAdams, I believe.
49:15
SPEAKER_01: What's her is that her name?
49:17
SPEAKER_01: It's they're like time traveling, and they get married in the rain.
49:20
SPEAKER_01: She has like the pretty red dress on.
49:23
SPEAKER_02: Yes, yes, yes.
49:24
SPEAKER_01: I don't know if you've ever seen it.
49:25
SPEAKER_01: So good.
49:26
SPEAKER_02: I was thinking of it.
49:27
SPEAKER_01: Um and then I had the wedding planner, Jennifer Lopez.
49:30
SPEAKER_01: Like kind of classic.
49:31
SPEAKER_01: J Lo.
49:32
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
49:32
SPEAKER_01: It's never like not great if he falls in love with the wedding planner, but like Oh, really?
49:35
SPEAKER_01: Oh, they were they're getting married and then Yeah, she's the wedding planner, but like she falls in love with the groom because he saves her life.
49:42
SPEAKER_01: It's a good, it's a good movie.
49:43
SPEAKER_02: But like we'll put that on like our watch list.
49:46
SPEAKER_02: We'll put it a little down down at the bottom.
49:48
SPEAKER_02: I had a couple, I mean, I had Big Fat Greek Wedding.
49:52
SPEAKER_02: I know.
49:52
SPEAKER_02: That's a good one.
49:53
SPEAKER_02: American Wedding, American Pie series.
49:55
SPEAKER_02: I thought you might pick that one.
49:57
SPEAKER_02: Mike and Dave Need Wedding Dates.
49:59
SPEAKER_02: Uh Maid of Honor.
50:01
SPEAKER_01: Oh, yeah.
50:02
SPEAKER_01: Patrick Dempsey.
50:04
SPEAKER_01: That's a good one.
50:04
SPEAKER_02: Uh Runaway Bride.
50:06
SPEAKER_01: Another good one.
50:07
SPEAKER_01: Julia Roberts, right?
50:08
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, Julia Rob hurts.
50:10
SPEAKER_02: The Great Gatsby.
50:12
SPEAKER_02: It kind of but it's not really like a wedding.
50:14
SPEAKER_01: No.
50:14
SPEAKER_02: So that's why I was like, I'm not gonna put that on the list.
50:16
SPEAKER_02: Good ones, though.
50:17
SPEAKER_02: Hitch is well.
50:18
SPEAKER_02: That was on my hand for it too.
50:20
SPEAKER_01: But Mamma Mia was another one that I was like, oh, that's a good one.
50:23
SPEAKER_02: I was gonna put Mamma Mia, but I would have been like I couldn't necessarily bring myself to put that on my list.
50:31
SPEAKER_02: It's not one of my favorite musicals.
50:33
SPEAKER_01: Fair.
50:35
SPEAKER_01: Do each his own.
50:36
SPEAKER_01: Welcome to our segment, ABC Venue, where I have the nice wig, so I'm gonna be a nice character.
50:42
SPEAKER_02: And I have a not so nice wig.
50:44
SPEAKER_02: This is actually I took my hat off and my hair just this is what it looks like over there.
50:49
SPEAKER_01: Okay.
50:50
SPEAKER_01: So Garrett is going to be a character calling into ABC Venue.
50:53
SPEAKER_01: I'm going to be giving some reaction advice.
50:56
SPEAKER_01: So let's get into it.
50:57
SPEAKER_01: Thank you for calling ABC Venue.
50:59
SPEAKER_01: This is Jessica.
51:00
SPEAKER_01: How may I assist you?
51:01
SPEAKER_02: Hi, uh Jessica.
51:03
SPEAKER_02: My daughter just showed me the floor plan, and I need to change it.
51:07
SPEAKER_02: All of my family and I are pushed into the back corner.
51:11
SPEAKER_01: Oh.
51:12
SPEAKER_01: Are you the mother of the bride?
51:14
SPEAKER_02: Uh yes, that is my daughter that was the one that showed me the floor plan.
51:18
SPEAKER_02: Do you know her?
51:19
SPEAKER_02: Her name is Rebecca.
51:21
SPEAKER_01: Oh, I know Rebecca.
51:23
SPEAKER_01: I would be happy to send over the floor plans and review them with you.
51:27
SPEAKER_01: Can you provide me the wedding password?
51:29
SPEAKER_02: Oh, yes.
51:30
SPEAKER_02: It's um uh Rebecca my sunshine123.
51:37
SPEAKER_02: I'm sorry, that's not the password.
51:38
SPEAKER_02: Oh, sorry, that's my home password.
51:41
SPEAKER_02: It is probably she, I think she told me it's her dog.
51:44
SPEAKER_02: It's Rocco123.
51:46
SPEAKER_01: Oh, I'm sorry, that's not the wedding password.
51:48
SPEAKER_01: I'm I'm not gonna be able to help you if you can't provide the password.
51:52
SPEAKER_02: Okay, well, I'm gonna just let me give my daughter a call back and I will uh forget it.
52:00
SPEAKER_01: Okay, so if you take anything from that call, is that if you have an overbearing parent, anybody, it could be a parent, it could be a family member that you think is gonna call in and try to change things for your wedding, which you would think is crazy, but we get this all the time.
52:13
SPEAKER_01: Put a password on your wedding.
52:14
SPEAKER_01: And only you and your partner or people that are approved to make changes get the password.
52:18
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, and don't do uh your dog's name, your favorite like sports team.
52:22
SPEAKER_02: Because they might figure it out.
52:23
SPEAKER_02: They might be able to just like, or if you have kids, which like it is kind of crazy.
52:27
SPEAKER_01: I've had several weddings with passwords, and people do try to change things, and it's no good.
52:32
SPEAKER_02: No good.
52:33
SPEAKER_02: So no, no password.
52:34
SPEAKER_02: No, no tickie, no laundry.
52:37
SPEAKER_02: Okay, okay.
52:38
SPEAKER_02: Well, that's it for our first episode of Absolutely Not, but I am game show Garrett.
52:43
SPEAKER_01: And I'm Wedding Procast.
52:44
SPEAKER_01: Thank you for listening.
52:45
SPEAKER_01: See you next time.
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