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Valentine's Day Gift Ideas · Let's Ask the Mamas!

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  Speaker 1: We got a question for American mama's. Dear mamas, for
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  Speaker 1: the love of God, please tell me what women actually
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  Speaker 1: want for Valentine's Day.
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  Speaker 2: Well, let's ask our American mamas Alma Mama.
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  Speaker 1: And joining us now our American mama's Terryetteville and Kimberly Burlison.
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  Speaker 1: I promise I am not the one who wrote this question.
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  Speaker 1: This was not coming from me, but it's a decent question.
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  Speaker 3: Waity, wait before we answered, then, I want to know
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  Speaker 3: what are you going to do for Wendy.
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  Speaker 1: Going on a double date for Valentine's Day. We're going
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  Speaker 1: out to Mexican food place, which is her favorite thing
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  Speaker 1: to do, spending all that time. It's good quality time together,
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  Speaker 1: which she that's her love language is time together. So
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  Speaker 1: that's what we're doing.
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  Speaker 4: Do you do the flowers? Do you do candy? None
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  Speaker 4: of that.
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  Speaker 1: I don't do flowers, and I'll tell you why. I
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  Speaker 1: learned very early on. So Wendy's growing up, Wendy's stepdad
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  Speaker 1: was abusive to her mom and he would always bring
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  Speaker 1: flowers to apologize for having been abusive. So for Windy flowers,
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  Speaker 1: it represents it represents the wrong thing. I never apologize
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  Speaker 1: with flowers. I might, on a random basis do a flower.
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  Speaker 1: If I give her flowers, it's a completely random basis.
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  Speaker 1: I used to do it more when my daughter was
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  Speaker 1: young because I wanted to see I wanted her to
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  Speaker 1: see her dad bringing your mom flowers. She's gotten a
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  Speaker 1: little bit older, so that you know that that indoctrination
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  Speaker 1: has already gone on. But I only do that for
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  Speaker 1: random occasions. I don't do it for holidays, and I
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  Speaker 1: don't do it ever to apologize because it brings back
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  Speaker 1: bad memories for Windy.
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  Speaker 4: Oh that's interesting.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and I can totally see why. What about what
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  Speaker 3: are your what's your advice?
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  Speaker 4: I well, for me, I don't care anymore. I used
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  Speaker 4: to care early in our marriage, you know, I cared
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  Speaker 4: about what he had for me, waiting and that kind
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  Speaker 4: of thing. And then the older I've gotten, the more
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, let's just go get something to eat, you know, chips.
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  Speaker 4: If he has something that's awesome, flowers, If he were
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  Speaker 4: to bring flowers to me on a day other than
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  Speaker 4: Valentine's Day, it would mean more to me, exactly than
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  Speaker 4: an obligatory flower giving. I don't care. So, yeah, Millionaire's
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  Speaker 4: candy that's our thing. I love Millionaire's candy's expensive.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's not cheap. Yeah, I'm with you, Kevin
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  Speaker 3: Will He'll bring flowers on random days, very very sweet.
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  Speaker 4: Uh, I'm with you.
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  Speaker 3: I don't really care. I'm not a big Valentine's if
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  Speaker 3: he doesn't do something for me. To me, this sounds
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  Speaker 3: like a great date night is get on the couch,
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  Speaker 3: having some you know, take in or takeout, watching something
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  Speaker 3: on Prime or Netflix. Him rubbing my feet.
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  Speaker 4: That's what ever? Are you serious? That's yes, he rubbed
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  Speaker 4: your feet.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, but you don't like anybody.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, I love my feet rubbed. He's never rubbed Mike's
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  Speaker 4: never once, not one time, ever, never, even when I
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  Speaker 4: was giant, pregnant and miserable and Fecause you like your feet,
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  Speaker 4: I would love my feet to be touched, but he
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  Speaker 4: has never touched. He gets grossed out. He said, no,
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  Speaker 4: I'm not loving your feet. I'm not kidding.
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  Speaker 3: That's what he needs to do for you.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, we need, we need some because because that those
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  Speaker 1: are really good. Those are really good brownie points. Just
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  Speaker 1: just a good foot rub, especially like a you know,
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  Speaker 1: a random foot rub that she doesn't actually have to
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  Speaker 1: ask for that I get big brownie points.
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  Speaker 4: I can't even imagine what would happen if Mike did that, Kimber,
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  Speaker 4: I can't even imagine.
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  Speaker 1: We like to talk to my.
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  Speaker 3: He's the greatest guy in the world.
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  Speaker 4: I get that.
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  Speaker 1: But this is just too easy, guys, this is just
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  Speaker 1: too easy. A foot rub, it doesn't really cost you much,
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  Speaker 1: and you know, rub the ards, rub the ankles, and
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  Speaker 1: you're done, and and you've gotten something.
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  Speaker 3: She's like, without expectations, right, yeah, right, this isn't there.
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  Speaker 3: You can't you know, like when he says you rub
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  Speaker 3: your back, I'm like, now, good, okay, We're good, you know,
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  Speaker 3: because you've got to do it without expecting something else.
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  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 3: But I asked her that, I said, what do we
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  Speaker 3: do it for Valentine's That? He said, we'll be at
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  Speaker 3: the Love Shack. We'll be at the Louisiana Tech Baseball Stage.
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  Speaker 3: The opening night is on Valentine's Day. So I really
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  Speaker 3: cannot wait to see how many men bring their wives
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  Speaker 3: to the baseball Well.
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  Speaker 1: It's called the love Shack.
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  Speaker 3: That's that's what BA Valentine's.
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  Speaker 1: Statement is called. Is the love Shack. That's a great
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  Speaker 1: place to be on.
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  Speaker 4: That is your kind of Valentine's Actually it is your Valanie.
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  Speaker 3: Have you ever.
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  Speaker 4: Offered your husband would you do something for him on Valentine's? Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: Did you give him a rub down?
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  Speaker 3: What kind of road to.
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  Speaker 1: Keep it clean? Keep it clean?
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  Speaker 4: Uh?
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  Speaker 2: Yes?
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  Speaker 1: Do you give him a foot rob and.
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  Speaker 4: It doesn't last very long? The foot ruby, the foot rub.
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  Speaker 3: No, he'll say that, like he'll come in from working
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  Speaker 3: twelve hours and I'll you know, watch TV, and I'll
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  Speaker 3: stick my feet in his lap. I say, well, you
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  Speaker 3: ut my Feet's like I'm the one that's been on
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  Speaker 3: my feet for twelve hours, like io of yours. And
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  Speaker 3: he never takes me up on it.
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  Speaker 1: He just does it on a foot right Yeah. Yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So so you guys are going to be doing the
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  Speaker 1: baseball thing. You're like, it doesn't I'm.
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  Speaker 4: A chips and salsa. I'm like, you is chips and salsa. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: that makes me happy. So we'll probably go do that.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's like Wendy's love language is chips and
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  Speaker 1: salta all the time.
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  Speaker 3: But the problem is there's so many the weight, the
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  Speaker 3: weight to get into the restaurant, is that even I mean,
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  Speaker 3: do you look forward together?
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  Speaker 4: I mean I live in a Dallas Fort Worth area,
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  Speaker 4: if there's a million restaurants to choose.
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  Speaker 1: From, and like our Mexican food places and the rest
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  Speaker 1: are barbecue.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Kimberly Burlson, thank you so much.
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  Speaker 4: Thank you,