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Everyone Is You Pushed Out: The Truth That Changes Everything · Neville Goddard Mindset

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  You have been blaming the wrong person.
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  Every difficult relationship, every rejection, every cold
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  shoulder, every argument that spiraled into silence, every
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  person who looked at you and saw someone less than who you know
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  yourself to be. You blame them.
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  You blame their mood, their history, their inability to see
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  you clearly. And every time you did, you gave
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  your power to someone who never had it in the first place.
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  I'm going to tell you something tonight that will disturb you
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  before it frees you. It disturbed me when I first saw
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  it, and then it became the most liberating truth I have ever
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  encountered in all my years of teaching.
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  Everyone in your world, every single person you interact with,
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  is you pushed out. Not metaphorically, not
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  poetically, literally. And when you understand what
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  that means, you will never again waste a single night blaming
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  another human being for the state of your world.
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  My name is Neville and what I am about to share with you is not a
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  theory. It is not a philosophy I
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  borrowed from another teacher and repackaged.
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  It is the operating principle of consciousness itself and I
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  discovered it through decades of testing it against every
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  relationship, every circumstance and every so-called impossible
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  situation I ever faced. The concept is this.
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  Everyone is. You pushed out every person in
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  your world, your partner, your employer, your mother, the
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  stranger who was rude to you this morning morning is
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  reflecting back to you the assumptions you hold about them
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  in your own consciousness. This is the law of assumption
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  applied to human relationships, and it works with mathematical
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  precision. In this teaching, I will show
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  you exactly what this principle means, why it operates the way
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  it does, and how to use it to transform any relationship in
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  your life, not by changing the other person, but by changing
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  the assumption you hold about them within yourself.
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  Let me begin where all truth begins with consciousness
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  itself. Consciousness is the only
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  reality. I have said this many times and
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  most people nod along without truly hearing it.
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  So let me say it differently. There is nothing outside of your
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  consciousness. The room you sit in, the device
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  you are listening through, the person sleeping in the next
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  room, or the person you wish was sleeping in the next room.
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  All of it exists within your awareness, not as a
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  philosophical abstraction as literal fact.
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  Your consciousness is not inside your body.
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  Your body is inside your consciousness.
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  The world is inside your consciousness, and every person
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  you have ever met exists, as far as your experience is concerned,
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  as a projection of the assumptions you hold within that
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  consciousness. This is not cruelty.
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  This is not victim blaming. This is the recognition that you
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  are the operant power in your world.
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  The state you occupy determines the world you see.
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  When you walk through your day assuming that people are
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  hostile, you will encounter hostility.
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  Not because hostile people found you, because your assumption
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  selected them, filtered for them, brought them forward from
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  the infinite possibilities of the world, and made them your
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  experience. When you assume that a specific
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  person is cold, distant, uninterested, you will
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  experience that person as cold, distant, uninterested.
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  Not because they chose to be, because you gave them no other
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  role to play in the drama of your consciousness.
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  I tell you from my own experience, the moment I
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  understood this, every grievance I had ever held against another
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  person dissolved. Not because I forgave them,
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  because there was nothing to forgive.
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  They had only ever played the part I had written for them.
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  You are imagination, and imagination creates reality, and
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  every person in your world is a character in the reality your
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  imagination has constructed. The question is not whether this
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  is true. It is operating right now in
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  every relationship you have, whether you are aware of it or
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  not. The question is whether you will
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  become conscious enough to choose what you project.
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  So we have established that consciousness is the only
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  reality, and that every person in your experience is reflecting
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  back to you the assumptions you hold about them.
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  You understand that you are the operant power, the one writing
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  the script that others perform. But here is where most people
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  stumble, because understanding this principle intellectually is
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  not the same as applying it, and application requires you to
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  confront something deeply uncomfortable.
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  The realization that every painful interaction you have
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  ever had was authored by you, not by the other person, by you.
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  In a moment I am going to show you exactly how to use this
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  principle to rewrite any relationship.
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  And the method is so simple, so direct, that your rational mind
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  will resist it. But the law does not require
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  your rational mind's approval. It requires only your
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  assumption. The method is this.
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  If you want someone to change, change your assumption about
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  them, not your behavior toward them, not your words, not your
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  strategy, your assumption. Let me give you an example.
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  A woman came to one of my lectures in New York many years
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  ago. She told me that her husband had
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  become cold, distant, but he no longer spoke to her with warmth,
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  that he came home late and left early, and that she feared she
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  was losing him entirely. I asked her one question.
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  What do you say to yourself about him when he is not in the
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  room? She was quiet for a moment.
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  Then she said, I tell myself He does not love me anymore.
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  I tell myself he is looking for someone else.
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  I tell myself it is over. I said to her, there is your
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  husband. The man you see in your living
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  room is the man you have constructed in your imagination.
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  You have assumed him into coldness.
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  Now assume him into warmth. She asked me how I said, Tonight
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  before you fall asleep, imagine him as you wish him to be.
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  Not as he was last Tuesday, not as he was when he forgot your
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  anniversary. Imagine him looking at you the
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  way he did when he first told you he loved you.
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  Hear him saying words of tenderness.
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  Feel his hand on yours. And do not do this as a
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  technique. Do it because in the state akin
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  to sleep, you are impressing a new assumption upon your
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  subconscious mind, and your subconscious mind will
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  externalize that assumption into your world.
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  She came back three weeks later. Her husband, she said, had
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  changed. He brought flowers.
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  He initiated conversation. He looked at her differently.
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  He had not changed. Her assumption about him had
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  changed. And because everyone is you
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  pushed out when she revised the inner man, the outer man
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  conformed there to assume the feeling of the wish fulfilled.
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  This is not manipulation. Manipulation is trying to force
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  another person to behave differently through pressure,
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  guilt, or strategy. This is creation.
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  You are not changing them. You are changing the only thing
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  that has ever determined their behavior in your experience,
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  your consciousness of them. Now, how do you do this
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  practically? First, identify the person you
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  wish to experience differently. It can be anyone, a partner, a
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  parent, a colleague, a friend, someone you have never met.
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  Second, ask yourself honestly, what do I habitually assume
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  about this person? What is the inner conversation I
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  hold about them when they are not present?
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  Do I assume they are difficult, unloving, dishonest,
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  unavailable? Be ruthless in your honesty.
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  The inner conversation is the blueprint.
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  Whatever you are saying to yourself about them is the
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  instruction your subconscious receives and externalizes.
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  Third, revise. Construct a new in a
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  conversation, not a wish, not a hope, a conversation that
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  implies the relationship as you want it to be.
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  Hear them saying words that would only be said if the
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  relationship had already transformed.
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  Feel the naturalness of it, the ease.
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  The most important conversation you will ever have is the one
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  you hold with yourself, and the most.
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  The important version of that conversation is the one you hold
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  about other people. 4th Take this revised conversation into
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  the state akin to sleep. As you lie down at night, replay
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  it, feel it, let it become real, and then let sleep carry it to
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  the subconscious, which will accept it as literal fact and
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  begin restructuring your world to match.
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  Persist in your assumption and the world must rearrange itself
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  to conform. This includes every person in
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  that world. Now a common objection.
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  People ask me, Neville, are you saying that other people have no
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  free will? That they are puppets?
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  I am saying something far more radical than that.
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  I am saying there is only one consciousness and it is yours.
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  The people you see are individualized expressions of
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  the one infinite awareness that you are.
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  When you change the assumption within, the expression without
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  must change because they were never separate from you.
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  This does not mean other people do not exist, it means they
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  exist within in the same consciousness that you do, and
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  the version of them that you experience is always, always
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  determined by the state you occupy.
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  A man who assumes his boss is unreasonable will have an
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  unreasonable boss. A woman who assumes her children
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  are difficult will have difficult children.
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  A person who assumes the world is hostile will live in a
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  hostile world. Change the assumption.
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  The world changes. Man's imagination is the only
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  redemptive power in the world. Not negotiation, not
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  confrontation, not therapy designed to fix the other
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  person. Your imagination, the image you
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  hold of another in the privacy of your own mind, is the only
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  force that determines how they show up in your life.
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  Let me bring you into this. Now. close your eyes if you are
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  able. Think of one person in your life
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  whose behavior you wish were different.
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  See their face. Not with judgement.
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  Simply see them in your mind. Hear them say something they
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  have never said to you, something that would only be
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  true if the relationship were exactly as you desire it to be.
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  It might be a word of love, a word of respect, an apology, a
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  congratulation, an invitation. Hear their voice.
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  Feel the warmth of the exchange. Let yourself feel the
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  naturalness of this moment, as though it is simply how things
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  are between you. Isn't it wonderful?
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  Hold this feeling. This is not fantasy.
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  This is an impression being made upon the subconscious mind, and
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  the subconscious does not distinguish between what is
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  physically experienced and what is vividly imagined in the state
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  akin to sleep. You may release the scene now
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  the impression has been made. I want to return to the woman I
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  told you about, the one whose husband had grown cold three
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  weeks after she revised her inner image of him.
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  He was a different man. But here is the part of the
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  story most people miss. He did not know anything had
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  changed. He did not feel manipulated, he
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  did not feel controlled. He simply felt different.
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  He felt drawn to her, he felt warmth where before there had
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  been distance, and he could not explain why.
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  That is how the law works. It does not announce itself, it
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  does not leave fingerprints. The world simply rearranges to
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  match the new assumption, and the people within it behave as
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  though they have always been this way.
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  This is the truth that sets you free, not from other people,
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  from the belief that other people are the cause of your
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  experience. Experience they are not.
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  You are. You have always been, and
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  tonight you can begin to assume a new world by assuming new
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  things about the people in it. What you desire, you already are
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  in eternity. The relationship you want is not
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  something to be earned or negotiated.
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  It is something to be assumed. Assumed with feeling, assumed in
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  the state akin to sleep, assumed with the calm persistence of
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  someone who knows the law and trusts it completely.
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  Sleep as though the wish were fulfilled.
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  Wake as though it is already so. The person you most want to
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  change is not the problem. The assumption you hold about
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  them is. Change the assumption tonight,
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  and then watch them become the person you always knew they
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  could be, because they were never anyone else.
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  They were always you, pushed out.
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  If this teaching has opened something within you, I invite
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  you to test it. Choose one person.
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  Revise your inner conversation about them tonight.
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  Do not tell them. Do not announce your experiment,
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  change the image you hold of them in the silence of your own
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  mind and observe what happens. If these teachings speak to
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  something within you, you will find more of them here.
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  Return when you are ready. There is always a deeper layer
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  to uncover, and I will be here to take you further.
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  Consciousness is the only reality, and tonight you can use
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  it to reshape every relationship in your world.